WEBVTT - Jennifer Aydin

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? How's everybody, dude? It's got back from

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<v Speaker 1>a run and I run with Caral my bloodhound. We

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<v Speaker 1>got back and our other dog, or Sarah's dog, Boo

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<v Speaker 1>kind of princess out from the kitchen, and that little

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<v Speaker 1>stinker got in the trash. I'll tell you that story

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<v Speaker 1>and tell you a different story because maybe like a

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<v Speaker 1>week ago, you might have seen it on my Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>or on my TikTok. Was about a week ago. I

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<v Speaker 1>come home and I go into the kitchen and Carl

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<v Speaker 1>is nose deep in the trash. It's everywhere in the kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so much trash strewn about. So Carl gets

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<v Speaker 1>into a lot of trouble. Okay, he gets yelled at,

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<v Speaker 1>he gets sent to his little kennel, gets reprimanded. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there thinking, oh my god, Boo is such a

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<v Speaker 1>good girl. She knew that what he was doing was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>She has gone upstairs and she stayed out of the trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was the night before that, I had been

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<v Speaker 1>cooking fish and so I had floured the fish and

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<v Speaker 1>pants here and everything. So there's a bunch of flour

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<v Speaker 1>in the trash. So I get a treat to go

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<v Speaker 1>upstairs to give the boot because she was such a

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<v Speaker 1>good girl. And I go upstairs and what do I see?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, her snout is completely white, like she's been

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with Charlie Sheen all night long. Little stinker,

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<v Speaker 1>she got in the trash. So when I got back

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<v Speaker 1>from run the day, which, by the way, I've now

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<v Speaker 1>been diligent about closing the trash drawer so the dogs

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<v Speaker 1>don't get in it. When I come back today, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>near thinking I think that Coral was a Patsy. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a fall guy because boost somehow figured out how

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<v Speaker 1>to open up the drawer and get the trash owl.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called and do it this time, And we were

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<v Speaker 1>prancing down Ventura Boulevard. I don't know I'm telling that

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<v Speaker 1>story other than can't trust these dogs, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. All Right, let's uh, let's do the show.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the Wells Cast with Wells Adams and I

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<v Speaker 1>Heart Radio podcast. Yeah, welcome to the Wells Cast. Excited

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<v Speaker 1>for today's episode. I feel like Andy Cohen, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>anytime I get to do a housewife, I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Andy Cohen, now taking your job, and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey. That's right. Today's episode stars one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite housewife, Jennifer Aiden, and she's going to dish out everything,

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<v Speaker 1>all the tea on her parents, having to bribe her

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<v Speaker 1>kids to do the show, how she met her husband.

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<v Speaker 1>She got dating tips for us. Oh yeah. Also, she's

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<v Speaker 1>got a new beauty pillow but she's slinging. She's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the realists of all the real housewives. This is

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<v Speaker 1>an episode you do not want to miss. Stick around

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<v Speaker 1>Jennifer Aiden right here on the Wells cast. Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>can you hear me? I can hear you? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>hear me? I can? They did it right? You did

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<v Speaker 1>it right? And you are I like this set up.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a badass set up. You look like a

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<v Speaker 1>queen on the throne right there. I am the Queen

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<v Speaker 1>of thrones. Well Adams, if you didn't know, then you

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<v Speaker 1>better ask somebody. The new Calisi now it resides in

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey, apparently, you know what. I have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of thrones in the house. And I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you watched my first season, but I went to China

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<v Speaker 1>to get furniture and my husband loves ornate regal furniture,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had a container to fill and they were

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<v Speaker 1>so great and the price going through so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>affordable compared to what we have here. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>just give me a ton of throne. And then it

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<v Speaker 1>became like a joke. Everybody was like, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my house was famous for having sixteen bathrooms, so I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about those being my thrones, so I'd laugh about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I just like somebody had tweeted me that

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<v Speaker 1>I was the queen of thrones, and I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I love that. I'm gonna take that and

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<v Speaker 1>run with it. So here I am. You're the Oprah

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<v Speaker 1>of thrones. That's right, that's exactly what. Everybody gets a

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<v Speaker 1>throne in my house. We don't discriminate now, Jennifer Braden,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing. I'm doing great, Thank you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited to be here. I've had a busy day. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a very busy day. Well that's okay. I made

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<v Speaker 1>time for you. Thank you. I won't keep you too long.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess, yes, you are the Queen of thrones,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess you're also the queen of beauty pillows.

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<v Speaker 1>I am, I am this. My beauty pillow is a

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<v Speaker 1>non choking hazard. Which is a must in a beauty

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<v Speaker 1>pillow because there's others on the market that just have

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<v Speaker 1>a contraption against your neck. No, we don't want any

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<v Speaker 1>asshixiation happening. We want a nice, comfortable, cozy, snuggly beauty pillow.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have run right here. Pleasure asphyxiation has to

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<v Speaker 1>be consensual in the bed, I suppose. So you sent

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<v Speaker 1>me one of these ultimate beauty pillows and I absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>do appreciate it. But guess what, my fiance has already

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<v Speaker 1>stolen it, so that's hers. Now tell everyone how this

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<v Speaker 1>all came about. Well, I don't know if you know.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband is a plastic surgeon. One part of this

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<v Speaker 1>practice is also a medspot, so they do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of facials. We do a lot of laser treatments, injectables

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<v Speaker 1>such as lip fillers, face fillers, and botox, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>after care protocol one oh one is not to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>on your face when you get injectibles. It can move

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<v Speaker 1>the filler around. It could really leave you lopsided and

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<v Speaker 1>mangle looking. So you need to sleep off your face.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's very difficult for people who are not used

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<v Speaker 1>to sleeping on their backs. So I came up with

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<v Speaker 1>this concept to create a beauty pillow that you sleep

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<v Speaker 1>on top of your existing pillow. And what it does

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<v Speaker 1>is it's really so simple. It just cradles your neck

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<v Speaker 1>and it keeps your head and face elevated so that

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<v Speaker 1>your face is not touching the pillows. So even if

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<v Speaker 1>you were to sleep on your side, you still have

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<v Speaker 1>a great ample space so that your face is not

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<v Speaker 1>going to get all mushy throughout the night. And let's

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<v Speaker 1>say you get your lashes done, right. I'm sure you're

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<v Speaker 1>Beynestly gets her lashes done once in a while, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say her eye makeup looks so great one day

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<v Speaker 1>and she kind of wants to keep it for the

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<v Speaker 1>next day. You sleep on this beauty pillow and those

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<v Speaker 1>lashes are going to stay in place all night. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's a must for your beauty regiment. I've been told

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<v Speaker 1>many a time by Sarah that she has to have

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<v Speaker 1>special pillows on the bed because of her eyelash extensions,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she saw this thing, so it's a match

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<v Speaker 1>made in heaven. That's why I came up with the

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<v Speaker 1>acronym l l B because it's lips, slashes, brows and

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<v Speaker 1>you can't see it with the glare, lip slashes, brows

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<v Speaker 1>and listen. This is like my first batch of ordered.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the next time, I'm definitely gonna put my

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<v Speaker 1>signature on it so that people can have a little

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<v Speaker 1>piece of me, which I know is their main goal

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<v Speaker 1>of course. So where do people grab the Ultimate Beauty

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<v Speaker 1>Pillow right now? The only place to get it is

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<v Speaker 1>through my husband's practice, Aidan Plastic Surgery. You can either

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<v Speaker 1>get it on their website or just call them up

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<v Speaker 1>and they'll ship one out to you. I'm working on

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<v Speaker 1>my website and we're going to relaunch it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully by the summer. You could definitely go to my

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram which is jennifer Aiden. Just no um, underscores or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that. Jennifer Aiden. Type it as it is

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's a link in my bio and you

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<v Speaker 1>could go to Shop jennifer Aiden. Also follow them and

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as it's available, the updates will be presented.

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<v Speaker 1>So follow Shop jennifer Aiden and you'll get to see

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<v Speaker 1>all the updates on when the pillow will be available.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got a sneak peek, well, I love it, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a sneak peak for about seventeen seconds until

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<v Speaker 1>I under stend you another one because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to get wrinkles. I know, and it's I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong side of thirty, Jennifer. I need to go

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<v Speaker 1>see your husband at ink. There you go. I mean, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>everything looks pretty good to me, but ask your fiance

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<v Speaker 1>whatever she wants. She's in a botox that out of

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<v Speaker 1>my face at some point. I know it's it's coming soon.

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<v Speaker 1>You grow together. You evolved together as a couple, so

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Yes, we we grow together. We do

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<v Speaker 1>not age together. We stay the same age forever. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and make sure you get better with age instead of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, from, you don't want from. I know that

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<v Speaker 1>there's a limited number of them out there, but did

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<v Speaker 1>you send them to your cast mates? I gave it.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave it all to them off camera. Yes. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually gave it to them on camera this season as well,

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<v Speaker 1>but that clip got cut out. Yeah, you know, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we got forty two minutes, and we got six women

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<v Speaker 1>that talk a lot and are very opinionated, so me

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<v Speaker 1>giving them my pillow may not have been at the

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<v Speaker 1>top of their list. That's okay, that's what you're for.

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<v Speaker 1>Are well. I'm a huge fan of all the Real Housewives,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you, but you know the iteration

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<v Speaker 1>that you were on the New Jersey one, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like gets the best one of all the Real Housewives.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that too? I mean, of course I'm biased.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to always say Jerseys number one in my eyes. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but I I enjoy all of the franchises. Really. I

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<v Speaker 1>love Beverly Hills, I love Salt Lake City. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>new one that just came on the scene. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>love that very entertaining. Atlanta girls seem like they're bringing

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<v Speaker 1>it this year. So I really loved the whole franchise

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<v Speaker 1>as a whole. I've always been a fan like I was.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I had five children, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you know that, and all my children are two years apart.

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<v Speaker 1>So literally I was home, barefoot and pregnant watching the show, thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I could do that. People get paid

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. I do that every day. I've often wondered,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as someone who is a part of one franchise,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ever like if I didn't live in New Jersey,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to do I don't know the Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>one or the Beverly Hills, Like have you ever thought

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<v Speaker 1>about that? Like, could you fit yourself in into like

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<v Speaker 1>another one of the shows. I would do Beverly Hills. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was My in laws live in California, so my

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<v Speaker 1>in laws have always since day one, wanted us to

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<v Speaker 1>move out to l A. So if we ever did

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<v Speaker 1>the l A thing, it would be Beverly Hills. The

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<v Speaker 1>show has been going since what two thousand nine, I believe,

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<v Speaker 1>so I only got on three years ago. This is

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<v Speaker 1>my third season, but we are in our season eleven

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<v Speaker 1>right now, so you know, come back eleven years and

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<v Speaker 1>if it's two thousand and nine, I trust you. You

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<v Speaker 1>jumped in in two thousand and eighteen. I imagine that's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty daunting thing to do, to join a show

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<v Speaker 1>that's already successful with a lot of really big personalities.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you apprehensive to join in? I wasn't apprehensive to

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<v Speaker 1>join in, but it definitely was an interesting transition from

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<v Speaker 1>going as a viewer because aside from me having my favorites,

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<v Speaker 1>I all looked I looked up to all of these

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<v Speaker 1>women as characters on a show. So now I'm no

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<v Speaker 1>longer a viewer. I have to go in and I

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<v Speaker 1>am one of these women, so I have to have

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<v Speaker 1>enough guts to say my opinion rather than be super

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<v Speaker 1>nice just so that they like me. I'm not here

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<v Speaker 1>for them to like me. Hopefully we get along, of

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<v Speaker 1>course that's always the goal. But I'm also here to

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<v Speaker 1>say what comes uh, you know, what pops into my head,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do that very well, sometimes to my detriment.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an interesting transition, to say the least. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a little rocky at first, and then Teresa

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a lot of good tips and then it

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<v Speaker 1>was smooth sailing. And here I am season number three.

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<v Speaker 1>So I must be doing something right. You know. I've

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<v Speaker 1>done I think seven or eight reality TV shows, but

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<v Speaker 1>I live in a different space. It's just me that

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<v Speaker 1>has to kind of be on screen and be on

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to involve my family or my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that that's something that would be tough

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<v Speaker 1>for me to come to terms with. One is like,

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<v Speaker 1>do I want to involve I don't have kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>if I did, do I want to involve my kids

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<v Speaker 1>or my spouse, or my parents or my siblings. What

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<v Speaker 1>is that conversation like for you? Before the show starts

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<v Speaker 1>because inevitably you being on also includes them being on. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband wasn't a big fan, so if you watch

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<v Speaker 1>him my first season, you can actually tell his energy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, even though he doesn't say it, I know

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<v Speaker 1>his mannerisms and I know when he's uncomfortable. So he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a big fan. Only because there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>hate that comes with this platform as much as all

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<v Speaker 1>of the pros. You have to sit there and think

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<v Speaker 1>of the con So. But the thing is with me,

0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:53.839
<v Speaker 1>I've always lived my life pretty forthright, pretty candid. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the type where if someone compliments my dress, I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>them where I got it, how much I spent on it,

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<v Speaker 1>who to ask for? Tell them I sent you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>always been me. So if I'm always very truthful with

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<v Speaker 1>my life off camera, then why would it bother me

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<v Speaker 1>if I did it on camera? Um So, for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it was easy. M my husband, it took him a

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<v Speaker 1>while to get his feet with I think my children,

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<v Speaker 1>all of them were really too young to understand, um

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<v Speaker 1>the future about it because for them, you know, these kids,

0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:30.640
<v Speaker 1>they think it's cool to be on TV. And my

0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:34.720
<v Speaker 1>first season, they loved it. They loved filming of course,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, now that it's my third season, now

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit more of a nuisance to them

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<v Speaker 1>also because they see how sometimes things could get spun

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<v Speaker 1>or um, you know, just maybe not shown in the

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<v Speaker 1>best light. So they're not liking it as much as

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<v Speaker 1>day one. My family, as far as my siblings, for

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<v Speaker 1>the most part, they're all very supportive. My parents were supportive,

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<v Speaker 1>um up until the season, because I did share, um,

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<v Speaker 1>something that's going on in my life that it's difficult

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<v Speaker 1>for my parents and they feel extremely embarrassed that this

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<v Speaker 1>is now on a TV show for everybody to say.

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<v Speaker 1>But see, I think that there's something that we can

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<v Speaker 1>learn from this. You know, it's not the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the world knowing that the person that you've been married

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<v Speaker 1>to for fifty years now you can't stand them. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>they make sitcoms over this stuff. They don't sit here

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<v Speaker 1>and have panic attacks. You know. I think this is

0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:35.080
<v Speaker 1>normal growing pains. When you're in a relationship, you grow

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<v Speaker 1>together and sometimes you end up pickering all the time. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>For my parents, it got a little extreme, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought the best thing for them was to just separate.

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<v Speaker 1>And the only way for me to do that was

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<v Speaker 1>to have my father come live with me, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the camera started rolling. I am on a show that

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<v Speaker 1>is about my reality, and I never knew that they

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<v Speaker 1>were going to even showcase that story. It's just that

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<v Speaker 1>the producers were filming my everyday life and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your dad do in here every day? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, he lives with me now, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't hide him. That's not my style. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like to hide anything because I'm not embarrassed about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We showcased it and my mom got pissed off. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not a unique story in our country. I think our

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<v Speaker 1>last president slept in a different room than his wife.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like it's it's a pretty but but I

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<v Speaker 1>understand your parents didn't sign up to do a reality

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<v Speaker 1>television show. You did, so I can see how your

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<v Speaker 1>mother could be like, wait, hold on a second, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about this. Does your dad enjoy it? Because

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<v Speaker 1>he's much more in the focal point because well, he's

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<v Speaker 1>with you. My dad has been molded to become the

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<v Speaker 1>type of person that just doesn't complain. He doesn't complain,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want confrontation. He's afraid that anything he says

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be rebutted or looked down upon or

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<v Speaker 1>found upon, because when him and my mother were always

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<v Speaker 1>in the same environment, every time my father would stay something,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom would say, oh, be quiet, John, or you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what you're talking about, or shut up, and

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<v Speaker 1>these type of behaviors actually embarrassed my father. So because

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<v Speaker 1>my father is so used to it, he doesn't talk

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<v Speaker 1>at all. So I honestly don't even know what he thinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea, but he never complains, but yet

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<v Speaker 1>he never says anything that's really for it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So with my dad, I really don't know how he thinks,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think he's happy about it, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm watching it on the screen and the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>come on where it's my parents, I noticed that he

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<v Speaker 1>walks out. So for him, it's tough. You know, they're

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<v Speaker 1>very old school. They're off the boat, they're from the

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<v Speaker 1>villages of Turkey on first generation here. They get it

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<v Speaker 1>that this is normal in America, but for them, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not normal. But it's almost like, what are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not here to hide my life. I told my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>you should have been nicer to my dad, so I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have to separate you, and then none of this

0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.560
<v Speaker 1>would have ever happened. They probably would have followed like

0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:01.960
<v Speaker 1>something going on with my children or something, because there's

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<v Speaker 1>always something going on with them. I mean, I have

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<v Speaker 1>five kids on a stay at home mom. I got

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<v Speaker 1>content that will keep you running all day every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't have to be my dad. Listen, I'm the youngest

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<v Speaker 1>of five, and we used to make a joke that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>our family would be the funniest reality TV show. So

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<v Speaker 1>I totally get it. Yeah, if you you would be

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<v Speaker 1>the funniest if you would be willing to do it

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<v Speaker 1>all on camera. And that's the key, very very true. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because my kids will sometimes start doing something and I

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<v Speaker 1>whip out the phone and then they stop. No, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it on your Instagram. We don't want I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you kidding? In the TV? Gold Okay, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>do this on camera. Don't be reserved. Just be yourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when my husband was asking me, like, what do

0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:50.000
<v Speaker 1>you want me to say, I'm like, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to say what you would say exactly you as you

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<v Speaker 1>would had the camera's not been there. So however you

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<v Speaker 1>do it, just just go it it, I trust you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's when they think of like what they think the

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<v Speaker 1>cameras want to see is I think when they get

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<v Speaker 1>in trouble. I've done enough reality where when people start

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<v Speaker 1>doing that, it seems so inauthentic. It seems like they're

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<v Speaker 1>acting or something. Immediately when that happens, the audience either

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<v Speaker 1>is like I don't like you because you're not being real,

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<v Speaker 1>or in the edit bay they'll cut it because they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't real at all. Like my first season, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually got a lot of criticism over the way that

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<v Speaker 1>my kids looked. They're like, you don't brush their hair.

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<v Speaker 1>They always look like they rolled out of bed. Listen,

0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:40.199
<v Speaker 1>my kids like elastic waste. They like T shirts and

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<v Speaker 1>elastic waste. The only time I dressed them up like

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<v Speaker 1>all fancy what they call it, is when we go

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<v Speaker 1>to church. When they wear something with a button or

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<v Speaker 1>button down or something poplin. That's when they complain. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to sit here and dress my kids

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<v Speaker 1>up for the camera because that's not my every day.

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<v Speaker 1>My every day my kids are in athletic shorts, tank tops,

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<v Speaker 1>t shirts, usually something that's Disney or some kind of anime,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing, you know, like, my kids are kids.

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<v Speaker 1>How they are every day is how you see them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't sit here put bows in their hair anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to when they were younger, but once they

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<v Speaker 1>got old enough and they had their own voice, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, let them be kids. Whatever

0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:28.119
<v Speaker 1>I look great. That's a lot of matters. Very true. Listen,

0:19:28.200 --> 0:19:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you're super candid about your life. You've talked about your parents,

0:19:32.640 --> 0:19:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Your brother's storyline was a big one. Getting work done

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<v Speaker 1>has been a big kind of storyline for you on

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<v Speaker 1>camera and on your social media. What has been the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest to kind of show the world? And two is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything that you wouldn't show the world? The thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I would say was the hardest showing the world

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<v Speaker 1>was probably my parents situation what's been going on right now,

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<v Speaker 1>only because I've gotten the most like heat from my parents,

0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:08.000
<v Speaker 1>really my mother from that. The repercussions of me showcasing

0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:12.760
<v Speaker 1>that on the show now has now caused a big

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<v Speaker 1>gap in my mother and I his relationships. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>not speaking right now and we haven't spoken since January.

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<v Speaker 1>And it actually wasn't It was funny because like once

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<v Speaker 1>the show wrapped, she had a lot of loose ends

0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:27.800
<v Speaker 1>in her house that she needed me. She needed my

0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:29.679
<v Speaker 1>help to tie up. And when I say help, I

0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:33.119
<v Speaker 1>don't mean financially, I mean just the logistics of connecting

0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:35.920
<v Speaker 1>her with people, making people go there, finishing the jobs

0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:39.520
<v Speaker 1>of her house, like putting up light fixtures, all these things.

0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:41.280
<v Speaker 1>So we had tied up a lot of those loose

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<v Speaker 1>ends once we had wrapped filming, which was great. My

0:20:45.000 --> 0:20:47.600
<v Speaker 1>mom had forgot about what she was mad at. We

0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:50.479
<v Speaker 1>were back to normal, hanging out all the time. And

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<v Speaker 1>then in January, the trailer had come out and she

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<v Speaker 1>was at my house where my dad lives, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was having one of her bickering fights with my dad,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and she kind of she kind of goes

0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:04.920
<v Speaker 1>at him a lot, and like I said, he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like confrontation. He walks away, and she just kept going

0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:11.000
<v Speaker 1>at him, and of course, me that I can't keep

0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:13.879
<v Speaker 1>my mouth shut, walk in and I go, well, you

0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:17.399
<v Speaker 1>know what's going on? And she started complaining about something

0:21:17.440 --> 0:21:19.520
<v Speaker 1>that he did, and I said, you know what, well,

0:21:19.560 --> 0:21:22.159
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't live with you anymore, so you know, a

0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:24.760
<v Speaker 1>good thing. You don't have to worry about it. And

0:21:24.840 --> 0:21:26.359
<v Speaker 1>she just turned around and she was just like, well,

0:21:26.400 --> 0:21:28.200
<v Speaker 1>of course he doesn't live with me. This is all

0:21:28.240 --> 0:21:31.239
<v Speaker 1>your faults anyway, This is all you're doing. Like, if

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<v Speaker 1>he was with me, none of this would happen. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if he was with you, you would be

0:21:35.440 --> 0:21:37.639
<v Speaker 1>doing all of this to him there in that house,

0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:40.280
<v Speaker 1>and he would have nobody to protect him. So we

0:21:40.320 --> 0:21:43.399
<v Speaker 1>had a big, all out role. She's thinking that I

0:21:43.440 --> 0:21:46.720
<v Speaker 1>always side with him, but she doesn't see that I'm

0:21:46.760 --> 0:21:51.399
<v Speaker 1>just protecting whoever happens to be weaker in the confrontation.

0:21:52.040 --> 0:21:56.239
<v Speaker 1>And just coincidentally, lately, it's always been my dad on

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<v Speaker 1>the other end of the beating stick. And it's like,

0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:00.439
<v Speaker 1>I tell my mom, I would never or let you

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<v Speaker 1>stay with somebody who treated you that way, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>So why does it matter that it's a woman doing

0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:08.359
<v Speaker 1>it to a man. She's trying to tell me that

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<v Speaker 1>this is her marriage and this is how all married

0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:14.359
<v Speaker 1>couples are, and I get it, But there comes a

0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:16.679
<v Speaker 1>certain point where you just have to be like enough, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>my father is ten years older than my mom. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how much longer he's got to live. Can't

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<v Speaker 1>we just leave the rest of his years in peace

0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:28.000
<v Speaker 1>and harmony? Like, is it really that deep that you

0:22:28.000 --> 0:22:30.320
<v Speaker 1>you have to sit here and punish him and crucify him.

0:22:30.720 --> 0:22:33.040
<v Speaker 1>They didn't. He didn't buy you flowers twenty years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. It's terrible. You know, he sucks. I'm

0:22:36.600 --> 0:22:39.800
<v Speaker 1>not saying he's great, but right now, as a human being,

0:22:39.880 --> 0:22:44.160
<v Speaker 1>he is an elderly old man and he needs love

0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:47.280
<v Speaker 1>and affection, not somebody throwing in his face all the

0:22:47.320 --> 0:22:49.159
<v Speaker 1>things that he did wrong in all his life. I'm

0:22:49.200 --> 0:22:52.080
<v Speaker 1>sure he thinks about that every single night. We don't

0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:55.280
<v Speaker 1>need to rub salt into the wound, you know. So

0:22:55.359 --> 0:22:58.919
<v Speaker 1>like that's my thing. I'm always trying to protect the

0:22:58.960 --> 0:23:02.320
<v Speaker 1>weaker person always, and I'm always trying to stand up

0:23:02.320 --> 0:23:05.040
<v Speaker 1>for what I believe is right. I don't want to

0:23:05.480 --> 0:23:08.240
<v Speaker 1>diminish what my mom feels, because at the end of

0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:11.880
<v Speaker 1>the day, she does feel that my father emotionally abused

0:23:11.880 --> 0:23:14.920
<v Speaker 1>her throughout their marriage. And regardless if I believe it's

0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:17.800
<v Speaker 1>if it's true or not, which I don't, I can't

0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:21.320
<v Speaker 1>tell my mother that her feelings are not valid. See,

0:23:21.359 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>my husband's a doctor, and the one thing that he

0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:27.280
<v Speaker 1>always tells me that you can't argue with is people's feelings.

0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:31.760
<v Speaker 1>All I feel that you were mean to me. You

0:23:31.800 --> 0:23:34.080
<v Speaker 1>may not have been mean, but if that person says

0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:37.040
<v Speaker 1>that they feel that you were, you've got to acknowledge that,

0:23:37.080 --> 0:23:39.440
<v Speaker 1>and you've got to be like, Okay, I I may

0:23:39.480 --> 0:23:43.199
<v Speaker 1>not agree with it, but I understand now why you

0:23:43.240 --> 0:23:46.360
<v Speaker 1>are behaving this way. So I have to validate her

0:23:46.520 --> 0:23:50.080
<v Speaker 1>feelings because we all have feelings. Well, so make sure

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:52.080
<v Speaker 1>you listen to your fiance when she tells you about

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<v Speaker 1>her feelings, because if she says that she feels a

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<v Speaker 1>certain way, no matter what you say, your point is moot.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel that you're doing the right thing, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you why. One. I think that time heals all wounds.

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<v Speaker 1>Um and too. I come from a very big family

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:14.880
<v Speaker 1>that has a lot of big personalities, and I think

0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:17.560
<v Speaker 1>one of the flaws in my family is is that

0:24:17.600 --> 0:24:21.320
<v Speaker 1>we generally will sweep things under the rug or pretend

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<v Speaker 1>like that nothing's wrong, and that doesn't help anything. That

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<v Speaker 1>actually perpetuates and has lets the wound fester even longer.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that what you're doing is the right thing,

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<v Speaker 1>even if people can't see that or appreciate it. So

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<v Speaker 1>just know that I think you're doing the right thing,

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:44.119
<v Speaker 1>and that's really Jennifer, that's all that matters. If the

0:24:46.800 --> 0:24:48.840
<v Speaker 1>rest of you who don't agree with me, you can

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<v Speaker 1>go scratch um. I also listen, it's not easy to

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<v Speaker 1>show my life. It's not it's a gift. It's a gift.

0:24:59.720 --> 0:25:02.040
<v Speaker 1>Not a everybody can handle it. Not everybody can handle

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<v Speaker 1>the backlash, not everybody can handle the criticism. But I

0:25:05.480 --> 0:25:07.880
<v Speaker 1>do it. I do it because it's part of who

0:25:07.880 --> 0:25:11.520
<v Speaker 1>I am and I've always been that way. So I

0:25:11.560 --> 0:25:14.359
<v Speaker 1>don't turn it on for the cameras. The cameras get

0:25:14.440 --> 0:25:17.720
<v Speaker 1>me because I'm just always turned on. I don't know

0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:20.080
<v Speaker 1>what that means, but I like it. That means that

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm always like, like, this is me, Like when you

0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:26.320
<v Speaker 1>see me off camera, you're gonna see me always on.

0:25:26.440 --> 0:25:28.679
<v Speaker 1>People are like, oh, like when they meet me, they'll

0:25:28.760 --> 0:25:31.879
<v Speaker 1>they'll say, you're just like you are on TV. And

0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, the TV catches me just as I am.

0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:37.639
<v Speaker 1>So that's the difference. I don't amp it up for

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:41.560
<v Speaker 1>the cameras. I'm always kikiing up, I'm always high five

0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:44.760
<v Speaker 1>and with someone I'm always saying hey, it's not just

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<v Speaker 1>for the cameras, Like what you see is my everyday reality.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your thoughts on Jackie's husband. I think they're solid.

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I think they have a solid relationship. I did not

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:59.520
<v Speaker 1>believe that rumor one bit um, But I do believe

0:25:59.520 --> 0:26:02.399
<v Speaker 1>that if a rumor is out, I personally would like

0:26:02.480 --> 0:26:06.480
<v Speaker 1>to know. I agree he's a solid guy. They have

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:10.560
<v Speaker 1>a solid relationship. Yeah, do you pay your kids for

0:26:10.640 --> 0:26:14.480
<v Speaker 1>being on screen? I don't pay them. I bribe them

0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:19.720
<v Speaker 1>with trips to target. They love trips to target. Like

0:26:19.760 --> 0:26:23.080
<v Speaker 1>when we were at Jackie's birthday party. Okay, so like, okay,

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:25.240
<v Speaker 1>we'll bring Jackie's birthday party, and it was last season,

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:28.320
<v Speaker 1>and everybody thought that I was like mad about the food, which,

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:30.159
<v Speaker 1>of course, like I was, you know, I was just

0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:34.120
<v Speaker 1>surprised about the food. But really there was no activity.

0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 1>The activity was playing basketball on a driveway. And my

0:26:38.920 --> 0:26:41.439
<v Speaker 1>boys are not athletic, their video game boys. So and

0:26:41.520 --> 0:26:43.119
<v Speaker 1>I take them to a birthday. Not to mention, I

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:45.240
<v Speaker 1>brought my six year old who was wearing high heels,

0:26:45.280 --> 0:26:50.120
<v Speaker 1>so she was not expecting to play basketball. And we're

0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:53.520
<v Speaker 1>like filming, and my kids, obviously they were out within

0:26:53.600 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 1>two seconds because they're not athletic, and they're both on

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:58.879
<v Speaker 1>the sidelines and they're coming to me and we're mikes

0:26:58.880 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and they're mics and their life. This party is so boring,

0:27:01.920 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing to do. We want to leave and I

0:27:04.400 --> 0:27:06.520
<v Speaker 1>have to film, right, So like we gotta stay here

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 1>for three more hours. And I'm just like, please, are

0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:11.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna embarrass me. They're already gonna say I spoil my children,

0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:16.159
<v Speaker 1>So play, just play the goddamn game. And they're like

0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:18.240
<v Speaker 1>in the corner and they're like, you better take us

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:20.919
<v Speaker 1>to Target. I'm like, I promise, I promised after this,

0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 1>if you just if you just stay and don't complain

0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>and don't make me look like this person who constantly

0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:30.239
<v Speaker 1>spoils their children, I will take you to Target and

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:32.919
<v Speaker 1>spoil you, guys. But when you're a parent, you'll see

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:36.120
<v Speaker 1>you'll bribe them to You'll bribe them to eat veggies.

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 1>You'll bribe them to try something, You'll bribe them to

0:27:40.400 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 1>wear something. I mean, listen, a parents gotta do what

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:47.160
<v Speaker 1>a parents gotta do. Don't talk a good game until

0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:50.240
<v Speaker 1>you have kids of your own. No, I applaud you. Actually,

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I think it's uh, that's a thrifty bribe. I feel

0:27:53.880 --> 0:27:55.480
<v Speaker 1>like if my kids would be like, we're going to

0:27:55.600 --> 0:28:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Rodeo drive and I'm like, and you know what, I'll

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>also do or sometimes I'll tell them I'll do this

0:28:03.160 --> 0:28:05.840
<v Speaker 1>to them. I tricked them with this before. I'll be like,

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what, if you just do what I want,

0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:09.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take you to the store and you can

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:13.520
<v Speaker 1>each buy five things. And they look at us like

0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:15.200
<v Speaker 1>why do they look at me? And they're like, Mommy,

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 1>really we can buy five pinky promise. And now I

0:28:18.080 --> 0:28:20.600
<v Speaker 1>always stick with my word because if I don't, then

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:22.240
<v Speaker 1>they're not going to trust me the next time I

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.480
<v Speaker 1>say it. So what do I do? Pack them in

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:27.560
<v Speaker 1>and we go to the dollar store and then they're like, mommy,

0:28:27.640 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>you tricked us, Like no, I did it five things.

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pivot over to my portion of the show. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if anyone told you, but I like origin stories.

0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I like finding out how where people came from. And

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<v Speaker 1>how the hell they got to where they are and

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<v Speaker 1>became so successful. So when we come back, are you

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<v Speaker 1>down to shine a little light as to what the

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<v Speaker 1>hell you were doing before you joined Real Housewives of

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey? Sure can. I don't know how interesting it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be, but I'll try to dig around. We're right

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<v Speaker 1>back with Jennifer Aiden of Real Housewives of New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Wells Cast. Very excited to have

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<v Speaker 1>Jennifer Aiden from Real Housewives of New Jersey on this show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fascinated to find out your origin story, because you

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 1>know we touched on it leading up to this portion

0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 1>of the show that you are effectively a first generation

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:26.640
<v Speaker 1>uh Turkish woman. Um So let's go back to the beginning.

0:30:26.760 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Where did you come from? Where were you born? So

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<v Speaker 1>I was born in Queens, New York, and when I

0:30:33.920 --> 0:30:37.520
<v Speaker 1>was two years old is when we moved to Long Island,

0:30:37.640 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 1>which is where I grew up, and I have I'm

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 1>one of four were two boys, two girls. My dad

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 1>came here from Turkey with nothing but a craft. He

0:30:48.840 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 1>was a jeweler and he was easily sponsored because he

0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:56.000
<v Speaker 1>made jewelry so well. And the only thing, probably the

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:57.880
<v Speaker 1>only problem with that is that he worked a lot.

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:01.840
<v Speaker 1>So sometime when I was growing up, my mom found

0:31:01.920 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>a cute little um jewelry exchange on Long Island and

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 1>we got a jewelry store. And that was our first

0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>retail space ever that my mom actually opened for our family.

0:31:11.880 --> 0:31:13.720
<v Speaker 1>It was only opened four days a week, and we

0:31:13.760 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 1>grew up having to work at the jewelry store. That's

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 1>what we had to do. And it's funny because once

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like thirteen fourteen, I wanted to start getting paid,

0:31:24.320 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>but my father would always be like, I don't charge

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:28.520
<v Speaker 1>you to live in my house, why are you going

0:31:28.560 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 1>to charge me to work in my store? So he

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:34.320
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't pay me, So I still had no money. And

0:31:34.360 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 1>then all my friends were like, oh, you have an

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 1>in ground pool, you have a nice colonial house, your

0:31:38.800 --> 0:31:41.640
<v Speaker 1>father has in Mercedes, but you never have any money.

0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, my parents have money, it's me

0:31:44.760 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 1>that's broke, like my dad us see. And then once

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I got to high school, he gave me twenty dollars

0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:51.720
<v Speaker 1>a week for lunch. And that should be okay because

0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 1>that's usually like two bucks a day. But you know,

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 1>if we went out to lunch with some seniors on

0:31:56.240 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Monday Tuesday, by Wednesday, I didn't have any money, and

0:31:59.200 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I would go to my dad and I'd be like, Daddy,

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:02.360
<v Speaker 1>I spent all my twenty dollars and he'd be like,

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>that's not my problem. So I would like go to

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<v Speaker 1>school and and and be hungry. And so I was

0:32:07.280 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 1>a grub. I was a school grub. Yes, if you

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:12.560
<v Speaker 1>remember me getting off the line, thank you have any change?

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Do you have any change? Do any change? That was me, Yes,

0:32:16.480 --> 0:32:19.240
<v Speaker 1>that was me, do you have any change? And until

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I grubbed enough money for a lunch, i'd get that

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:25.120
<v Speaker 1>school lunch. So I've always had somewhat of a hustle

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 1>in me. Um. You know, my first Halloween that I

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:34.120
<v Speaker 1>ever experienced in America. Was very traumatizing because my mom

0:32:34.200 --> 0:32:37.240
<v Speaker 1>spent me, sent me to school with no costume, and

0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:40.320
<v Speaker 1>nobody everyone had to walk in the parade parade with

0:32:40.360 --> 0:32:43.400
<v Speaker 1>a buddy, but nobody wanted to be my buddy because

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a costume. And I was crying because

0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a costume. And even though I didn't

0:32:47.920 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 1>understand what this holiday was. And then my teacher made

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:54.480
<v Speaker 1>me a pumpkin with with two pieces of orange oak

0:32:54.560 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 1>tag paper and she made me a green little hat,

0:32:57.640 --> 0:33:00.720
<v Speaker 1>and I was a pumpkin, folks. I was very proud

0:33:00.760 --> 0:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>of that pumpkin. Yes, I was happy that I finally

0:33:04.040 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 1>had a costume in the end, even though it was handmade.

0:33:07.080 --> 0:33:08.720
<v Speaker 1>And then I, you know, when I got married to

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:12.000
<v Speaker 1>my husband, he's also from the same community, so we're

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 1>from Turkey, but I'm actually Syrian Orthodox. It's confusing because

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 1>it's the culture as well as a religion, and um,

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 1>he's from the same church. Technically, my mom was trying

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>to marry me off. She was trying to like get

0:33:25.720 --> 0:33:27.840
<v Speaker 1>guys to ask me to marry them, and they would

0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>come to the house. I would sit there prim and proper.

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:34.960
<v Speaker 1>I would serve coffee, smile, and then they would leave

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:36.840
<v Speaker 1>and my mom would be like, so, what do you

0:33:36.880 --> 0:33:40.640
<v Speaker 1>think And I'd be like, oh, no, I can't. I

0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:42.640
<v Speaker 1>can't even do that for the rest of my life.

0:33:42.680 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's a long time. And my mom would

0:33:45.280 --> 0:33:46.880
<v Speaker 1>sit there and she'd be like, what do you want?

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 1>You want the club guy, club guy? No, I didn't

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:51.040
<v Speaker 1>want a club guy because the club guy was not

0:33:51.080 --> 0:33:53.200
<v Speaker 1>going to treat me the way that I needed to

0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:55.680
<v Speaker 1>be treated. And when I met my husband, you know,

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>he was going to school for medicine, so he was

0:33:58.160 --> 0:34:01.840
<v Speaker 1>not by any means anything that he is now. But gosh,

0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:04.200
<v Speaker 1>he was so hot. He was so hot when I

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 1>met him, Like at that point, after I found out

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:08.440
<v Speaker 1>it was adopted, the doctor was just like an added

0:34:08.520 --> 0:34:11.640
<v Speaker 1>luxury because he had all the key finds that my

0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:14.760
<v Speaker 1>mom always wanted. My mom always wanted somebody that was tall.

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:17.760
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter how attractive you are in my culture.

0:34:17.800 --> 0:34:21.560
<v Speaker 1>But if you're tall, if you're so tall, did you

0:34:21.640 --> 0:34:24.360
<v Speaker 1>see Yeah, he looks like killer clowns from out of space,

0:34:24.440 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 1>but he's tall. Yeah, that's a no. That's a hard

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:29.799
<v Speaker 1>note for me. So when I met my husband at

0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 1>a wedding and I saw him. I was just so

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 1>happy that there was actually a good looking one that

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:37.480
<v Speaker 1>I was attracted to that I was like, oh my god,

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 1>he's the one that I want. And then when I

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>found out he was a doctor training to be like

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 1>that just made it all better. But that wasn't even

0:34:45.200 --> 0:34:48.960
<v Speaker 1>the initial concept. It was really just pure physical attraction.

0:34:49.400 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 1>No shame in my game. Yeah, I had to be

0:34:51.600 --> 0:34:53.840
<v Speaker 1>attracted to the person if I'm going to be married

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:57.839
<v Speaker 1>to him, don't you think ye. My husband and I met,

0:34:58.200 --> 0:35:01.520
<v Speaker 1>we got engaged right away. I met him Sunday before

0:35:01.600 --> 0:35:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Labor Day. I got married Sunday before Labor Day one

0:35:04.480 --> 0:35:07.239
<v Speaker 1>year to the day, I had six hundred people at

0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 1>my wedding, and my wedding in our culture, the man

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.319
<v Speaker 1>pays for the wedding, just so you know, girls, so

0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:17.279
<v Speaker 1>get your Syrian Orthodox men ladies here me we're are

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:21.319
<v Speaker 1>the man case for the wedding. Six hundred people I

0:35:21.400 --> 0:35:24.920
<v Speaker 1>had um at the West Mountain Country Club. It was

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:28.879
<v Speaker 1>like a fairytale wedding. I got everything I wanted. And

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm always about manifesting. I'm always about positive energy. And

0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:35.719
<v Speaker 1>even when my husband was finished with his residency, we

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 1>lived in Michigan. I lived in Michigan when it's where

0:35:38.239 --> 0:35:41.319
<v Speaker 1>he did his fellowship for two years. And when we

0:35:41.320 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 1>were done, it was like, where are we going to go?

0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:46.080
<v Speaker 1>East coast? West coast because his family's West coast and

0:35:46.120 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 1>my parents were East coast, and I just thought that

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 1>my Syrian Orthodox community is very strong in New Jersey.

0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 1>So I really wanted my kids to grow up in

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:58.399
<v Speaker 1>the culture. So I was like, I want to move

0:35:58.440 --> 0:36:01.080
<v Speaker 1>to Jersey. And you know, Bill would always look at me.

0:36:01.120 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 1>He'd be like, listen, just so you know, we're not

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:06.719
<v Speaker 1>going to be like that rich you know, because at

0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:09.719
<v Speaker 1>the time he was doing general surgery and he's like,

0:36:09.760 --> 0:36:12.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, And I said, I was like, listen, anything

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 1>that you tell me, it's going to go in this

0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:16.200
<v Speaker 1>year and out the other. I said, because I believe

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 1>in you. I told my husband, and all the things

0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:20.799
<v Speaker 1>that you think you're not going to accomplish, I know

0:36:20.880 --> 0:36:23.799
<v Speaker 1>you're already there. So it's okay. You could tell me

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:25.399
<v Speaker 1>that we're not going to get it like that, We're

0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 1>not going to have it like that. That's okay. You

0:36:27.200 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 1>believe that, and I'll believe what I believe. And hence

0:36:30.080 --> 0:36:34.320
<v Speaker 1>here we are now in the taj Mahala Paramus Queen

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:38.279
<v Speaker 1>of Thrones and five children. Not too savvy? Was it

0:36:38.440 --> 0:36:41.080
<v Speaker 1>love at first sight? How did that meeting at that

0:36:41.160 --> 0:36:44.000
<v Speaker 1>wedding go? It's funny because like that wedding, it was

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 1>his brother's wedding and he was the best man at

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:50.720
<v Speaker 1>that wedding and it was in California, and my parents

0:36:51.480 --> 0:36:53.760
<v Speaker 1>trecked me all the way to California for this wedding

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:57.360
<v Speaker 1>because there was another guy who was asking for my

0:36:57.480 --> 0:37:00.560
<v Speaker 1>hand and he was calling me all the time, and

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:03.839
<v Speaker 1>my mother said that he owned like five gas stations

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.799
<v Speaker 1>and was like this big jeweler. And I didn't even

0:37:06.880 --> 0:37:09.080
<v Speaker 1>care because I wasn't attracted to him at all. It's

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:13.640
<v Speaker 1>very very sweet, Um, just not my type. And I

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:16.120
<v Speaker 1>went to this wedding anyway because I had a girlfriend

0:37:16.120 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 1>who lived out in l a. And my girlfriend was like,

0:37:18.360 --> 0:37:21.080
<v Speaker 1>remember I'm broke at this point. My my girlfriend was like,

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>if your parents are willing to pay for your trips

0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>to come to Cali, just come and we'll hang out.

0:37:26.360 --> 0:37:27.680
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, but they want me to

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:30.560
<v Speaker 1>marry this guy and there's just no way I can

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:33.480
<v Speaker 1>even kiss him, Like no, whay? I don't care all

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:35.320
<v Speaker 1>the money in the world. I can't. I just can't.

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:37.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not one of those girls. I went to this

0:37:38.000 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 1>wedding and when I saw my husband, I was like,

0:37:40.760 --> 0:37:43.600
<v Speaker 1>oh my god. My aunt was next to me, and

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:47.360
<v Speaker 1>my aunt like shrugged me. She's like shrugging my shoulders, like,

0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:50.879
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you want handsome. He's handsome. And my

0:37:50.920 --> 0:37:53.480
<v Speaker 1>mother turned around. I remember my mother turned around and

0:37:53.480 --> 0:37:57.440
<v Speaker 1>she goes, forget it. That village they only married cousins.

0:37:57.680 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>And I turned around. I was like, did I stay

0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 1>one gonna mary him? I didn't even stay wanted to

0:38:01.480 --> 0:38:03.279
<v Speaker 1>marry him. I mean, he has to want to marry me.

0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:05.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't go to anybody because, like I was like,

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 1>all up in my head back then, we've seen nothing

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:14.719
<v Speaker 1>has change. Um. And then he asked my brother. He

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>welcomed my brother right because they knew each other from

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:19.799
<v Speaker 1>the jewelry business. He said, welcome, thank you for coming

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 1>to l A. He said hello to me. I was

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.800
<v Speaker 1>trying to be charming, but like nonchalant, because you know,

0:38:25.840 --> 0:38:28.280
<v Speaker 1>you can't seem too thirsty. Well, if that's a huge

0:38:28.320 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 1>turn off to a good looking guy when a pretty

0:38:31.120 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 1>girl looks thirsty. Now, he's got to come to me,

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:36.200
<v Speaker 1>so you gotta like hang the bait just a little

0:38:36.320 --> 0:38:38.880
<v Speaker 1>enough for him to come. And then I pulled away.

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:40.879
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I did. I played this little cat

0:38:40.960 --> 0:38:43.680
<v Speaker 1>and mouse game with him all night. And then the

0:38:43.840 --> 0:38:46.759
<v Speaker 1>very next day, the guy who wanted to marry me,

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 1>he was calling my brother wanting to take us out

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:51.919
<v Speaker 1>to dinner that night, and my brother's like, he keeps

0:38:51.920 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>blowing up my phone. What should I do? I was like,

0:38:53.680 --> 0:38:56.680
<v Speaker 1>don't answer, tell him, tell him I I had to leave,

0:38:57.200 --> 0:39:00.080
<v Speaker 1>tell him no, like make up some excuse. And and

0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:03.040
<v Speaker 1>he was like, oh, well, that guy Bill called and

0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 1>they're going to the cheesecake factory in Glendale. Would you

0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 1>want to do that? I was like, I'll do that's

0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:11.359
<v Speaker 1>just I just need some time to get ready. Give

0:39:11.400 --> 0:39:17.400
<v Speaker 1>me like two hours. So I guess gold decked out

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:19.560
<v Speaker 1>old deck Dad. And I'm like thinking in my head

0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:24.440
<v Speaker 1>as we're driving to the cheesecake factory in Glendale, I'm thinking, no, Pasadena, sorry,

0:39:24.440 --> 0:39:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Pasadena Atlas And I'm thinking like, can I live in

0:39:28.160 --> 0:39:30.120
<v Speaker 1>l A? Because you know, when you met you have

0:39:30.239 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 1>to move to where the guy is in our culture?

0:39:33.360 --> 0:39:35.279
<v Speaker 1>Can I live in l A? Could I really live here.

0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I could live here. What's wrong with living here?

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:39.400
<v Speaker 1>And it's so funny because the guy who wanted to

0:39:39.440 --> 0:39:41.799
<v Speaker 1>marry me, who lived in l A. I told my

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 1>mom up and down, there's no way I'm moving to

0:39:44.080 --> 0:39:46.160
<v Speaker 1>l A. There's no way I'm going to live there.

0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:49.120
<v Speaker 1>And meanwhile, all of a sudden, it's the hot doctor

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:52.279
<v Speaker 1>from the wedding and maybe I can live here. So

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:55.000
<v Speaker 1>when we got there, you know again I didn't know.

0:39:55.160 --> 0:39:57.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know is he interested? Is he not interested?

0:39:57.239 --> 0:39:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I gotta play it cool. And then as we were leaving,

0:40:00.560 --> 0:40:02.880
<v Speaker 1>he whispered in my ear, oh no, wait. Before when

0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:05.000
<v Speaker 1>we were on our way, when our way we got

0:40:05.000 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 1>lost and my husband my brother was like, can you

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:10.319
<v Speaker 1>call his number from my phone? And I saw that

0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:12.480
<v Speaker 1>his number was nine one seven, which is a New

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:15.000
<v Speaker 1>York City area code. So I said, why is his

0:40:15.080 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 1>number nine one seven? And he's like, Jim, you didn't

0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:25.280
<v Speaker 1>know he's a doctor at St. Vincent's. I was like, yes, yes, honey,

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:29.839
<v Speaker 1>this is the one. I cannot let this one go.

0:40:30.040 --> 0:40:31.920
<v Speaker 1>So at the end of the night, he whispered in

0:40:31.960 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 1>my ear, call me when you get back to New

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:38.160
<v Speaker 1>York and we can go out, and I was like,

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of just nodded yes, and then I'm like,

0:40:41.840 --> 0:40:44.800
<v Speaker 1>now I have to call him. I don't call guys.

0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:47.040
<v Speaker 1>Guys have to call me. What am I gonna do?

0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:49.520
<v Speaker 1>So as soon as we got to New York, I

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 1>start six seven my number, which, for those of you

0:40:52.080 --> 0:40:55.080
<v Speaker 1>who don't know, that will block your number. So I

0:40:55.160 --> 0:40:57.640
<v Speaker 1>blocked my number so you couldn't see because I knew

0:40:57.680 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't answer. I left a message with my number

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 1>and then the rest there you know how it goes rove.

0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Once he had my number, he had to come to me,

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:13.359
<v Speaker 1>and you know what, it worked. It worked. We were

0:41:13.360 --> 0:41:16.239
<v Speaker 1>on the phone for seven weeks before he asked me

0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:18.200
<v Speaker 1>out on a date. There was at one point that

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:19.840
<v Speaker 1>I even thought he was gay, because I was like,

0:41:19.920 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 1>what the has taken him so long to ask me out? Like,

0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:26.480
<v Speaker 1>but I knew that he couldn't ask me out without

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:30.800
<v Speaker 1>serious intentions, because in my culture, when you date without

0:41:30.840 --> 0:41:35.799
<v Speaker 1>serious intentions, I risk shaming my family name because let's

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:37.799
<v Speaker 1>say he doesn't put a ring on it, and then

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:40.160
<v Speaker 1>let's say the next guy here's that I went out

0:41:40.200 --> 0:41:44.279
<v Speaker 1>with him without serious intentions. That new guy's mother is

0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:47.000
<v Speaker 1>going to d me a slot and she's gonna be like,

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:50.320
<v Speaker 1>oh no, she's tainted. She's gone out with this that

0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:53.640
<v Speaker 1>the other without serious intentions. Oh no, you must stay

0:41:53.640 --> 0:41:57.319
<v Speaker 1>away from her. And that's how it was in my time.

0:41:57.440 --> 0:42:00.360
<v Speaker 1>And we have evolved since then, but it still a

0:42:00.400 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 1>lot of like just so you know, a lot of

0:42:02.800 --> 0:42:05.480
<v Speaker 1>the people from our community, the young Inns that are

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 1>not married yet, they're not on social media that much.

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:10.880
<v Speaker 1>They don't let people know what they're doing. No, it

0:42:10.920 --> 0:42:13.480
<v Speaker 1>wasn't until after I got married that I didn't give

0:42:13.520 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 1>a what people knew about me because at that point

0:42:15.680 --> 0:42:19.239
<v Speaker 1>there's no refunds. That's an amazing story. Story. It's a

0:42:19.320 --> 0:42:22.440
<v Speaker 1>quite of story, yep, I guess. Then the last piece

0:42:22.520 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 1>the puzzle is, you get married to Bill, you have

0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:30.960
<v Speaker 1>five kids, how do you get looped into real housewives?

0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:33.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, they really do do it like a casting call.

0:42:33.320 --> 0:42:36.720
<v Speaker 1>You really do get an email and everybody just it'll say,

0:42:36.719 --> 0:42:40.359
<v Speaker 1>like email there to whoever. You know. We also give

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:45.359
<v Speaker 1>recommendations as housewives. And when I had applied, I realized

0:42:45.440 --> 0:42:49.000
<v Speaker 1>that my husband knew Dolores. Since Dolores knew me or

0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:52.239
<v Speaker 1>knew me through my husband, they asked her about me.

0:42:52.719 --> 0:42:55.279
<v Speaker 1>They did like a test shooting to see how I

0:42:55.440 --> 0:42:58.400
<v Speaker 1>vibed with her. I mean, listen, uh, you know I

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:01.400
<v Speaker 1>could pull a conversation out of it. Really, you can

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:03.719
<v Speaker 1>give me anybody. I mean, there are some meetings that

0:43:03.800 --> 0:43:07.479
<v Speaker 1>my husband purposely takes me to because if he can't

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>start up a conversation with somebody, he knows I'm going

0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:12.719
<v Speaker 1>to find something to talk about or make them laugh

0:43:12.880 --> 0:43:17.040
<v Speaker 1>or crack some silly joke or whatever. Um. So obviously

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:20.120
<v Speaker 1>we vibed really well, and Dolores brought me in as

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:22.799
<v Speaker 1>her girlfriend on the show, and three years, I'm still

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:24.880
<v Speaker 1>here to talk about it. Listen, I get it. It

0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:30.080
<v Speaker 1>makes total sense. The positive energy that just exudes from

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you is so contagious, so always like that. I have

0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:38.480
<v Speaker 1>found it's really really hard to convey on reality TV,

0:43:38.800 --> 0:43:41.640
<v Speaker 1>just because there's just so much editing going on. And

0:43:42.320 --> 0:43:44.759
<v Speaker 1>that's why I love these podcasts. I really love an

0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:47.600
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to talk to people one on one. I love

0:43:47.719 --> 0:43:50.360
<v Speaker 1>meeting the fans. Like even when I'm out and someone

0:43:50.400 --> 0:43:53.080
<v Speaker 1>comes to me and they're tiptoeing by me, I always

0:43:53.120 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 1>want to make sure that I make them feel valid, right,

0:43:57.600 --> 0:43:59.320
<v Speaker 1>because I'm sure it's for them. They're like, oh, I

0:43:59.320 --> 0:44:00.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want to bob her. What if she's going to

0:44:01.040 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 1>be mean. I'm not going to be mean. If you

0:44:03.760 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 1>ask me for a picture, I will never say no

0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>to a picture. I will ask you your name, I

0:44:08.120 --> 0:44:11.320
<v Speaker 1>will make eye contact. You know, I'm not that bougie.

0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:14.080
<v Speaker 1>As as much as they may edit me to be

0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:19.919
<v Speaker 1>some kind of snob, I'm not. I love everybody. I love, love,

0:44:20.160 --> 0:44:23.720
<v Speaker 1>love everybody, And if they don't like me, that's that's okay,

0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:27.759
<v Speaker 1>because you know what I like me, that's okay. If

0:44:27.760 --> 0:44:29.160
<v Speaker 1>you don't like me. You know what I say to that.

0:44:29.239 --> 0:44:31.799
<v Speaker 1>You can't win them all. You can't. You just gotta

0:44:31.880 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 1>keep it moving. You're such a positive force. You know

0:44:34.719 --> 0:44:37.359
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people listen to this podcast as and

0:44:37.480 --> 0:44:39.800
<v Speaker 1>use it as kind of like a blueprint for success.

0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you have a credo or is there something that

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you live by to create such positive energy and success

0:44:46.120 --> 0:44:48.839
<v Speaker 1>in your life. I always tell myself that the lie

0:44:49.000 --> 0:44:52.000
<v Speaker 1>is hard to remember. If you stick with the truth,

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:55.480
<v Speaker 1>then your story will always be the same. And I

0:44:55.640 --> 0:44:58.800
<v Speaker 1>rather my story be the same than me make myself

0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:01.720
<v Speaker 1>look like an asshole, because as I had to lie

0:45:02.000 --> 0:45:05.239
<v Speaker 1>or I felt like I had to fidge on something like,

0:45:05.440 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not my vibe. You know, if I tell somebody

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:11.839
<v Speaker 1>my age and I keep lying about it, then they

0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:13.480
<v Speaker 1>may talk to each other's sad. But she told me

0:45:13.520 --> 0:45:15.920
<v Speaker 1>forty one, Well she told me thirty nine. And the

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:21.359
<v Speaker 1>lie is really, you know, easy to forget. So I

0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:25.319
<v Speaker 1>feel like the truth is the best um source of

0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:29.400
<v Speaker 1>my positivity. Just be honest, you know, be honest. Tell

0:45:29.480 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 1>people how you feel. I feel like there's a way

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:33.920
<v Speaker 1>that you can deliver the way that you want to

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:37.759
<v Speaker 1>say something without hurting somebody's feelings. And and if I

0:45:37.760 --> 0:45:40.960
<v Speaker 1>do hurt your feelings, that of course that wasn't my intention.

0:45:41.000 --> 0:45:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Tell me about it, and if I care enough, I'll apologize,

0:45:43.680 --> 0:45:46.360
<v Speaker 1>and if I don't, then I'll just say sorry, not sorry.

0:45:46.640 --> 0:45:49.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I feel my parents an anniversary party

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I think was like thirty five years thirty five years

0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:57.360
<v Speaker 1>married or something, and it was a surprise anniversary party,

0:45:57.400 --> 0:46:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and my mom looked so pissed when she walked in,

0:46:01.600 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 1>and it was it was that Leonards of Great Neck, Okay,

0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 1>a long island, and I just didn't understand why she

0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:10.000
<v Speaker 1>was so piste off. And she's doing that first dance

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:11.759
<v Speaker 1>with my dad. And then finally I get her into

0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:14.759
<v Speaker 1>the bridal. Sweet, I'm like, what's the matter, You're not surprised,

0:46:14.800 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, everybody's going to know your brother's age

0:46:18.000 --> 0:46:22.400
<v Speaker 1>and you're still not married. She's like, everyone's gonna know

0:46:22.960 --> 0:46:26.320
<v Speaker 1>that he's like thirty four and not married. I was like,

0:46:26.360 --> 0:46:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I think everybody kind of knows that already, Like we

0:46:28.880 --> 0:46:31.760
<v Speaker 1>all know that, you know, but she's been telling everybody's

0:46:31.800 --> 0:46:36.440
<v Speaker 1>twenty nine for the past five years. Now. It's like, oop,

0:46:36.960 --> 0:46:40.200
<v Speaker 1>my bad. The lie is hard to remember. Stick with

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:42.480
<v Speaker 1>the truth. I'm running out of time with you before

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:44.359
<v Speaker 1>I let you go. Do you have some time for

0:46:44.560 --> 0:46:48.200
<v Speaker 1>some rapid fire questions? Let's go, all right, rapid fire

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<v Speaker 1>questions with Jennifer Aiden of Real Housewives of New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>First one, would you rather be rich and sad or

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<v Speaker 1>poor and happy and sad? Night in or night out?

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<v Speaker 1>Night out? What job would you be terrible at? Something

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<v Speaker 1>that has to do with me being in an office?

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<v Speaker 1>Favorite pizza topic, just plain cheese. Who was your first kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Thomas? Usually people don't remember, and so I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>proud of you. Remember it was It was It was

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. I waited. I waited. I'm not gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>but I waited more than my friends. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. I mean it wasn't that great. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Thomas doesn't listen to this show. What was the

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<v Speaker 1>first conci every went to Motley Crewe? Nice? First car

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<v Speaker 1>you ever owned? Pantiac's Sunfire. Who is your childhood hero?

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<v Speaker 1>Fred Savage? I had Winnie Cooper on last week. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I was obsessed with Fred Savage. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like the good old boy next door

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, just love me one day. Fred Savage. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a long time ago. Would your mother have

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<v Speaker 1>approved Fred Savage to court you? No, No, because he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't Syrian Orthodox. No, no one's per picked. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>Fred had to be Syrian Orthodox from my church, from

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<v Speaker 1>my mother to approve you. That was the first record

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<v Speaker 1>CD you owned? Definitely something freestyle, which is a form

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<v Speaker 1>of music that is not popular in l A like

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<v Speaker 1>Cynthia Johnny. Oh, it's more of a New York, New

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<v Speaker 1>Jersey thing. But it's freestyle because my brother was a DJ.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother used to dj like all the high school dances,

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<v Speaker 1>and freestyle was my favorite. So definitely one of his freestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the weirdest superstition that you have? Um, don't sleep

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<v Speaker 1>with your closet door open, because then it leaves people

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<v Speaker 1>talking about you. Really Yeah. And lastly, what's one beauty

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<v Speaker 1>product that everyone absolutely needs? My beauty flag, Flag Plug,

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<v Speaker 1>L L D Shop Jennifer Aiden. And where can people

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<v Speaker 1>People want to follow you on social media, where do

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<v Speaker 1>they need to go? Jennifer Aiden, No Space, no Underscore,

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<v Speaker 1>A Y d I N Real Houseblaves of New Jersey's

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<v Speaker 1>on Wednesday's on Bravo. Jennifer Absolutely wonderful talking with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You are such a bright light. You've brightened my day,

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<v Speaker 1>which is not easy to do. So thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>being on the show. Go on The Queen of Jennifer Aiden.

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