1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey guys, welcome to the almost same 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: As podcast. We love you all, thanks for coming back 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: and listening to us. Um it's Ashley here and I 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: am joined by Ben. It's a special headlines only podcast today. 6 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: A ton of them and a couple of good juicy 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: ones like why, um, Tyler Cameron never became the Bachelor? 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: We have the answer to that. I'm pretty excited about that. 9 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: But first little host chat for you, Ben, how have 10 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: you been? What's up? It's snowing. It's May. It's May 11 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: second in Denver, Colorado. Um, it's snowing outside. We got 12 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: about an inch and a half of snow last evening, 13 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 1: woke up to that today. It hasn't melted yet. It's 14 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: actually still snowing as we speak. Okay, so fury here. 15 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: I feel like summer now doesn't start mentally until June. 16 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: But like back in the day, I felt like summer 17 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 1: kind of started in May. Well because in high school, yeah, 18 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: don't you get out at some point in May? Typically 19 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: in high school we would get out in mid June. 20 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: Did you really get out in May? I don't know, 21 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: I can't remember. And then we would go back the 22 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: after Labor Day. Okay, well I think we had like 23 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: ten weeks off. Yeah, I don't. I don't know. I 24 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: just know this time of year, right, you're after spring break. Uh, 25 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: families have kind of taking their trip and you start 26 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: to wind down the school year. And so in my 27 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: like adult life, I still think of summer on the 28 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: same time like frame as when we got let out 29 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: of high school. That's why it's college, because you get 30 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: out of college like your finals week is like this week. 31 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: College is a big mystery to me. Yeah, I don't. 32 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: I don't remember a lot of it. Um not even 33 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: that's not even like a reference to like over consumption. 34 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: It's just like it felt like it flew by. It's 35 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: like a big blur in my world. Like you, I 36 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: have way more memories from high school than I do 37 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: of college. Also not because of consumption, but for me, 38 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: it was grad school. I have most vivid memories of 39 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: grad school, one of my favorite years of life. And 40 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: I cannot believe I'm going on ten years since I 41 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: started grad school. That freaks me out. It also makes 42 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: you really sad that some people that were like very 43 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: impactful in my life, like I haven't seen in ten years. Yeah, 44 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: if I mean it flies by you an a young 45 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: pup no more. Ash, You know we ain't kids. Do 46 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: you know how often I talk about not being a 47 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: young pup by our new assistant Slash babysitter is upstairs 48 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: and she's twenty two, she's graduating mid May, and I 49 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: sound like such an old fart with her all the time. 50 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: Like today, I was doing an Amazon i've and one 51 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: of those products that I had was these heels, and 52 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: the heels are really cute, square toe, like a thick heel, 53 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, Maddie, these are like what's in today, 54 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: But wait, do you guys even wear heels anymore? And 55 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, we don't really wear heels, like where heels. 56 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: Those are cute, but like for us millennials, that's all 57 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: we would go out in only go to the bar 58 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: and heels. Like now we're chuggee or something for wearing 59 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: heels means means I don't know, that means. It's like 60 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: um a gen Z's way of saying like, oh, that's 61 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: so millennial, that's so old of them, Like apparently blonde 62 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: hair now is chuge. This is ridiculous. I don't get anymore. 63 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: So like skinny jeans. They think skinny jeans are juggy. 64 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: But guess what, I am down for that. I'm down 65 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: for that theory because I hate skinnies and I love 66 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: their wide like nine Days style even for guys. Um, 67 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't have an opinion on guys jeans. Yeah, 68 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: I like my skinny I like my jeans that are 69 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: like a little tight, you know. I put yeah, put 70 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: them on. I look at myself in the mirror. I'm like, 71 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: all right, dude, you still have you still got something together? 72 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: You still look Yeah. I think thinner legged jeans probably 73 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 1: still look best on guys. And I'm sure that you 74 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: guys think that skinnies look best on girls like you 75 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: probably don't want Jess and these baggy asked jeans. She 76 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: just did it to her date night. Well, she just 77 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: did to her date night. She looked, she looked great. 78 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: But it was like she like came down the stairs 79 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: and she had like a top on that you know, 80 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: was I don't yeah, crop top, and then uh, she 81 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,799 Speaker 1: had these jeans on that were like really wide legged, 82 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: and I did I took it. I was like WHOA. 83 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: I was like, I think I asked her. I was 84 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: like those in style or you just setting a friend 85 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: and no, they're in style. Is like cool and I 86 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: love them so much. Um, that's awesome. That is that 87 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 1: that's uh, that's big for you. It's more comfortable to 88 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 1: love a pair of jeans. I don't know if I 89 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: could ever say that I have. We're going back to 90 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: the old times. I need to get back out my 91 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: like reebok um or starter like windbreaker jacket that I've 92 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: held on too. I'm gonna be philosophy. It's gonna be great. Um, 93 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: the term philosophy. I don't even know what they think 94 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 1: about that. But yes, then you answer your question, we 95 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: are no longer young pups. How you have a young pups? 96 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: So I bet they look at me and they're like, yeah, 97 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: he's he's like a dad. That's weird. Um, you know, 98 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm Maddie. You told me about coogie kogi choogy means 99 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: because I think somebody has commented on my picture um 100 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: on Instagram at some point and said that I thought 101 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: it was a compliment. Um, so it's a little upsetting. Hey, 102 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: I do know something I did that was cool and 103 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: I didn't even know as cool as a joke, but 104 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: I found out that I'm really up on the trends. 105 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: You hear, this is what. So I took Waylon for 106 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: a walk in Golden, Colorado, which is closer at home, 107 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: and I was walking downtown and we have a belly 108 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: bag that's full of like treats that we walk around. 109 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: Is a belly bag? Is that that the right word? 110 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 1: Like this thing that you strap around your belly kind 111 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: of like, uh, it's a bit like is it like 112 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: a Fannie pack thing? Yeah? No, it's a fan I'm 113 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: sure that that's probably like a Midwest thing. I'm saying 114 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: it like that. Okay, So I have a Fannie pack 115 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: and I'm walking around downtown and I take a picture 116 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: because I felt like I was really like being a nerd, 117 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: like I thought if anybody saw me, they'd be like, 118 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: oh my goodness. And so I took a video put 119 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: on Instagram, and I got a ridiculous amount of comments 120 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: back being like, no, that's like a cool thing. Now, 121 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: like wearing a fanny pack or like a shoulder bag 122 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: is really awesome. It's like, well, son of a gun, Yeah, 123 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: you're supposed to put your Fannie pack across your chest now, 124 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: I remember Brief Springs did that during Matt's season, and 125 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: I was like, what in the heck is she wearing? 126 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: And then everybody was like, that's cool. How about you 127 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: get some fashion sense? And now I see it everywhere. Jeez, 128 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: I you know what. I just think that the weirder 129 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: things or the more nerdy things that I wear, the 130 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: cooler I'm gonna be. Um. And so that's kind of 131 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: my new outlook on life. I'm just gonna go I'm 132 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: either going to go full like Dad mode um like 133 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: tucking my everything, um wear a bell like always wear 134 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: like dress shoes or penny loafers, or I'm just gonna 135 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: try to always stay cool by wearing the stuff that 136 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: was cool like fifteen years ago. There you go, that's 137 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: what's that's your best theory, that's your best way of 138 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: doing it. Now. My sister, she's really annoyed that Jared 139 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: where was jeans with the rips in them. She says, 140 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: that's very outdated and not cool. Outdated. How do you 141 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: feel about that? Do you wear jeans with rips? I've 142 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: never done that. I've really hairy legs, and so if 143 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: I where jeans with rips in them, it's it's like 144 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: disgusting when I sit down for me to look at 145 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: Like if you just see me in shorts, you're like, 146 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: all right, Like that's fine, that's fair, right, he's he's 147 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: he's got hairy legs. Um, but it's not that weird. 148 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: But then like you have jeans on and there's just 149 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: like hair sticking out, You're like, all right, I go 150 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: without that. Um. Yeah, so I've never I've always been 151 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: insecure about ripped jeans. Do you have a hairy back? No, 152 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: I have no hair on my back? And which is 153 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: you want to hear something that I don't think I've 154 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: ever admitted publicly. Yeah, I love that. So you know, 155 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: in high school, I still remember this time. Um, I 156 00:08:56,720 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: was like, um, maturing at a younger age fast through 157 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: the most, so I was like getting hair in places 158 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: before anybody else was. And it's always awkward, especially like 159 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: in the middle school locker room when you're trying to 160 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: cover your body with clothes and be like, no, I'm 161 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: not more advanced in that way or this is not amal, 162 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: it's like something like that you're ashamed of back man, Well, 163 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: I remember this, and like I hope that I'm I'm 164 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 1: forgiven I believe I am. I prayed Ashley in middle 165 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: school that I would not have a hairy back because 166 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: I was just like, that's the one thing. I don't 167 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: know how how I treat it now nowadays, I'm like, ah, 168 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: I think just would be fine, Like I don't have 169 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: like I don't think it's that big a deal. But 170 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: I just remember being so insecure that my full body 171 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: was going to be covered in hair. I have a 172 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: buddy out here in Denver. He's married, but he is 173 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: so hairy, like everywhere. This is like crazy how much? 174 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: And there's some people in this world that like love it, 175 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: like they find it the like we go to the 176 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: beach on vacation whatever, people are like, oh my goodness, 177 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: that's the coolest thing ever. And I'm like, well, I didn't, 178 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: you know, I shouldn't have like prayed that maybe maybe 179 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: I could have had a hairy back, and people would 180 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: have like, you definitely don't want a harry back. You've 181 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: got you know Nieves Shulman catfish and how his his 182 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: chest hair like comes up to his like classical right here. Yeah. Yeah, 183 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: My sister used to think that was hot. She wanted 184 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: a couple of days with him. Yeah. See, there you go. 185 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: It's it's a thing. Well, um, right before we go on, 186 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: I have to ask, now, currently, what is your biggest 187 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: insecurity about your body? That's a great isn't your hairy legs? New? No? 188 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: I mean honestly, I'm I don't have a lot anymore 189 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: because I still try to work out. I'm still trying 190 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 1: to stay in shape. Um, you know, I I know 191 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: exactly what it is. It's my hairline. It's not that bad. Um, 192 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,079 Speaker 1: I've told you this many times. It's like it's not bad, 193 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: it's just not great. And so I can't grow my 194 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: hair out. Um, I've got to do like the little 195 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: messy part over here because I've got I've got the 196 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: power outes what I what we call him here? Yeah, 197 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 1: we're like I did not know that that was like 198 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: what the receipted bit was called. Well, that's what we 199 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: call out here in dinner. That's what my friend group 200 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: calls him. It's like, hey, you're you know your power? 201 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: You have power alleys. So like it gives a little 202 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: to that and I think it's a sign of wisdom. 203 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,599 Speaker 1: But I would love like that straight across hairline that 204 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: Ryan Reynolds ability to flip it around and you know, 205 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: shake my head and like everything looks good, but I 206 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: don't have anymore. I don't and I wish I had it. 207 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 1: I do. Would you ever do anything about it? Would 208 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: you get plugs? Because you would? So then have you 209 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: looked into it? Yes, yes I have, And are you 210 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 1: going to I went to a consultation. They said I 211 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: wasn't bad enough yet that really, yeah, you kind of 212 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: got to get to the point where like it's stopped. 213 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: And I've kind of been this way for a while, 214 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: so it could have stopped. I think you've been like 215 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: I think your hair has looked like this for a 216 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: long time, and I don't think it's gotten any like different. Yeah, 217 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: so I could do it now. I bet if I 218 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: went back and this is probably this was like maybe 219 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 1: four years ago that I went in, and it was 220 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: probably the same. Back then, I was like, I don't 221 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: want to be um balding and like I don't want 222 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: those kinds like I was. I do have a little 223 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: insecurity about it. So I went in and they're like, yeah, 224 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 1: you don't want to get them done, and then like 225 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: you start receding back past that and then you're like 226 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: a random like bald spot on top of your head. 227 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: So it makes sense and it doesn't at the same time, 228 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: because it's like, all right, but my dad now is 229 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: like pretty much completely bald and has been for a 230 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: long time in every area except for like the Homer 231 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: Simpson you know, like it goes like around his ears 232 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: and around the back. Um. But like you think that 233 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: you need to get ahead of it because at that 234 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 1: point it seems like you're too far gone. Yeah, I 235 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: don't know, that's what they told me. I mean I 236 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: just was with Joel McHale a couple of weeks ago 237 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: and he got it done right. I mean you can. 238 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: It's like not a secret. You could look up past 239 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: picture the same with like Ben Affleck and Tom Brady 240 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: and stuff, and those are the guys that Jared is like, well, 241 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: of course I had to it because they've done it. Oh. 242 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: I mean that you could look up like I've used 243 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 1: to do that. Back in the day when I was researching, 244 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 1: I was like, who else has done this? And I 245 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: googled like hair transplants or whatever, and there's like all Hollywood, Yeah, 246 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: all of Hollywood. Did you. It makes you feel very 247 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: much a part of the community. I don't know if 248 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: I ever would it will I'm not against it. And 249 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: if at some point, like I feel like I want to, 250 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: I I there's a good chance I would. But yeah, 251 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: Joel got it done. If you look up before and 252 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: after pictures, like, it's pretty incredible, um what it looks like, 253 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: and I just like, havn't here. I guess I don't know. 254 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: Of course, no shame of that, No one should hide it. 255 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: I mean, of course, of course. It's like I think 256 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: I would rock it. I think I would tell everybody bad. 257 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: I'd be Yeah, I got some transplants done. I probably 258 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: try to do an ad like Brian R. Lacker did 259 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: the old linebacker from the Bears. I try to be 260 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:50,559 Speaker 1: like spokesperson, do it, get it, get it for free, 261 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: and let's right about yourself. All right, well let's get 262 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: into headlines. But first we have to take a quick 263 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: it's time for Bachelor headlines, and yes, Ashley is right, 264 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: we've got some juicy ones for you today. The reason 265 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: that we're doing a whole episode on headlines is because 266 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: we have some amazing content coming out next few weeks. 267 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: We're gonna be recording a bunch of episodes and so today, um, 268 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: we want to go through headlines because there's a lot 269 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: of good ones in the next couple of weeks. We 270 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: won't have the time in the episodes to go through 271 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: all of them, so let's start with this one. This 272 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: is one about one of bachel Nation's favorites, obviously, Hannah Brown. 273 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: She says to US Weekly that she used alcohol as 274 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: a coping mechanism to deal with sudden fame. She says, 275 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: and I quote, I was not in the best place. 276 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: So she said that she had never really been a 277 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: drinker before, and when she was on TV for basically 278 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: every once a week, like every Monday, for an entire 279 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,479 Speaker 1: she didn't know how to handle her life, um so publicly, 280 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: like on display um. She said that she always lived 281 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: life with a smile on her face, but she tried 282 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: to pretend like she was always trying to pretend like 283 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: everything was okay. But when she would go home by herself, 284 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: the only thing that was really giving her comfort was 285 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: a glass of wine. And then she said that soon 286 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: enough it was two glasses of wine and three glasses 287 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: of wine and then tequila. She just was not knowing 288 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: how to deal with all the exposure. She says, I 289 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: have no excuses for the mistakes that I've made, but 290 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: also I was just not in the best place in 291 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: my life and I didn't know what resources I had 292 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: available to me. She also says that she started drinking 293 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 1: at times at around like eleven AM and just would 294 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: never stop, and she just kept drinking more and more 295 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: and it was a way for her to avoid the 296 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: big problems in her life, UM, namely the fact that 297 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: she picked someone who had a girlfriend Jed and she 298 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: kind of tried things out with Tyler and Peter and 299 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: that didn't that didn't really work out. And she said 300 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: as those things were happening in her personal life or 301 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: drinking got worse. And she just said that she's glad 302 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: that now she's gotten the help that she needed, the therapy, 303 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: the emotional support that I needed, um from you know, 304 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: mental health experts and from her boyfriend, and alcohol is 305 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: now not something that she goes to for any type 306 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: of solace. I I mean, good on her for being 307 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: honest about this. Uh we you know you get it. 308 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: I guess like I understand it. Um. You just it's 309 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: how many times have we talked about ash like this 310 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: thing's chaos when you get off of it and then 311 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: you have all the judgment, all the criticism. You also 312 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 1: have that like kind of unspoken desire everybody does because 313 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 1: you don't want to waste an opportunity to um stay 314 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: up and stay relevant and stay in the headlines. And 315 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: then there's that there's that point in time that we've 316 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: always talked about here, and it happens in everybody's life 317 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: when that no longer feels as um one needed to 318 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: as much of an option, and then three as as 319 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: maybe like fulfilling as it once did. Stuff happens in life, 320 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: and it sounds like Hannah kind of took that step too, 321 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: but yeah, it becomes a very I just think it 322 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: like for most people, even if you're never on the show, 323 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: like there's that period of time in life where stuff 324 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: is not going your way, or maybe it's going your 325 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: way more than you ever thought and it and it 326 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: kind of like it pushes you in a really hard 327 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: emotional place. M and not to mention wherever she would 328 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: go during that year or so, there's probably always alcohol available. 329 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: It's always probably being offered to her, and it's so 330 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 1: easy and fun just to be like when people are 331 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,199 Speaker 1: do you want a glass of champagne? Yeah? You know, 332 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: it's just hard to you know, when you're like living 333 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: life and you're on that high of you know, gaining 334 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:12,120 Speaker 1: fame and stuff, and it's just always there. It's kind 335 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 1: of hard to just not like let the good times 336 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: a role and roll and roll and rolling. Yeah. Um, 337 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: I I told Justice the other night. It's like, you know, 338 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: there's a period of my life where I think I 339 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 1: was out to dinner, especially when I was going to 340 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: Los Angeles more with somebody, right, um, six nights a week. 341 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: And then I'd be traveling the country for different things. 342 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,199 Speaker 1: And every time you travel the country, there's usually a 343 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: friend that you haven't seen in a while that you're like, hey, 344 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm traveling for free, I'm at this event. I'm going 345 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: to take that opportunity to see an old, long lost friend. 346 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: And then that friend is like excited and you're excited, 347 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: and so you go out for drinks and it's like 348 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: before you know what you look back like for the 349 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: last thirty days, all I've done is stay up till 350 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: one in the morning and drink and go out and 351 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: have big dinners and no matter what, like it just 352 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 1: it just doesn't make you feel your best do so well. 353 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: There's another person, ba Nation on our next headline, is 354 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: not feeling her best. Yeah. Tammy Lee gets emotional explaining 355 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: videos about being done with and this was her quote. 356 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: She was done. She said she was done with the 357 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise. She also quotes and says, I felt and 358 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: I was so alienated. This accoined to US Weekly, So 359 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: she was on US Weekly is here for the Wrong 360 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: re the Right Reasons podcast, and this is what she said. 361 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: People think that I had this vendetta against the franchise, 362 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: Now I really don't. I'm grateful for the opportunity. I'm 363 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: grateful to have been part of it. I wouldn't have 364 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: traded anything in the world for it. But it's frustration. 365 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: It's the frustrations that I was having with a lot 366 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: of people. UM. Like a lot of people do UM 367 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 1: and they just don't vocalize it because they're afraid. I 368 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: just had it with them, and I'm very vocal and 369 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: opinionated about it. I'm gonna let viewers know, UM, what's 370 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: going on instead of saying quiet. I'm not the kind 371 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,360 Speaker 1: of person who stay as quiet as they clearly know. 372 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: And when I you know, and I just get really upset. 373 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 1: What I've done it different all over again. Absolutely, I 374 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: think I should have worked through my emotions and then 375 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: said something, but I was so hurt and upset at 376 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: that time. Um. She says on her insto stories back 377 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 1: in February that if you're not like the favorite of 378 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: the audience, it's very clear it's not the audience, not 379 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: just the audience, but of like the producer. She's saying, 380 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 1: it's clear and you're treated like this. This is harsh. 381 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: She said, you're treated like secondhand dog crap, and they 382 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 1: don't care about you um or your value or your worth. 383 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 1: So she said she I just wanted to put a 384 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: foot down and stop being used. So that's what she's 385 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: kind of explaining. Now. She's just like saying, Okay, when 386 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 1: I said that I was, I was fresh shure, I 387 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 1: did um, I was not the favorite. I was like 388 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: kind of like blah. You know. She's the kind of 389 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: person that just like put it all out there, but 390 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,719 Speaker 1: like a lot of her castmates probably wouldn't. So she's 391 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 1: just saying now that, um, maybe it's the consequences of 392 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: being like too real and open on this show. And 393 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,360 Speaker 1: I understand that, I know, I totally understand when she's 394 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,919 Speaker 1: talking about it's like you're the person who has you 395 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: just feel compelled to say certain things when everybody else 396 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: is like, it's not worth it. Yeah, it makes that, 397 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:41,639 Speaker 1: you know, And that's I mean, I don't know if 398 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 1: you call a personality type or if you called it 399 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: like a life decision or whatever. I don't know, Like 400 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: it didn't feel like a decision for me who just 401 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: felt like what was natural? And she's like, this is 402 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 1: how I am black Well, and and that makes for 403 00:21:55,000 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: entertaining television. Yeah, it just doesn't always um for entertainment 404 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:05,719 Speaker 1: that's not then scrutinized and criticized. And also, you know, 405 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: the it's really good clip art when it comes to 406 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: what the show shows and the trailers and the teasers. 407 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 1: So for weeks you lead up to you know, Tammy 408 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: or you making a comment or saying something that like 409 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: for weeks, we go, whoa, that seems aggressive and then 410 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: maybe it was. Maybe it wasn't in the time, but 411 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: it does. It does get tough because that is then 412 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 1: the things that are criticized the most. Yeah, so Tammy, 413 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 1: I know that it's not always easy, but if it 414 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 1: weren't for people like us, then the show would have 415 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: no teasers. There you go. Uh well, uh, speaking of 416 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: emotional um experiences, Clayton Eckerd the Past Bachelor, opens up 417 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: about Rocky Bachelor journey an emotional post. He says, and 418 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 1: I quote, I've learned my lesson this according to people, 419 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: he said, then he eventually hit rock bottom, and this 420 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 1: I believe is like, you know, when the show is airing, 421 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 1: he says in the caption, Susie took this picture of 422 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: me one day before after the final rows. In this moment, 423 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: I was at rock bottom. Okay, yeah, so that makes sense. 424 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: He's talking about his rock bottom. Ben was when we 425 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: basically interviewed him. That's that. Uh, it was probably like 426 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:29,719 Speaker 1: right after our interview. Okay. Well, actually somebody came up 427 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: to me the other day and said that they loved 428 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 1: our interview with him and that we actually asked things 429 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 1: that people wanted to know. We weren't easy, whereas there 430 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: was some other interviews that he did where it was 431 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: like they were like almost two understanding. Well, I hope, 432 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: I mean I hope it didn't cause I mean even 433 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: after the interviews, I hope we didn't actually make it 434 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: into rock bottom. No, not at all, not at all well, 435 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 1: after the interview was done, we got to talk to him, 436 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: and you know, we had questions on how this plays out. 437 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: Were like, hey, this too shall pass, and just you know, 438 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: stay moving forward and stay who you are, and I mean, 439 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 1: you know, I I felt like even afterwards, he was 440 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: in a tough spot, like he wasn't great. But we 441 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: got to talk to him and uh, yeah, I hope 442 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:20,640 Speaker 1: the head you know, that didn't cause any more pain. Um, 443 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 1: and I did a little bit to two people that 444 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 1: had been there before. Yeah, he's had a horrible couple 445 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: of days having to do interviews and then when we 446 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,919 Speaker 1: saw him, you weren't there. But we saw him a 447 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,719 Speaker 1: week later and he felt much better. But anyway, so 448 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 1: he continues to say, I knew what was coming. I 449 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 1: realized my reality was much further from what I expected. 450 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: As I looked out the window. In the picture, he's 451 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: looking at the window. He questioned, who, who? Who am I? Um? 452 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: What had I become? Where did everything go wrong? Why? Me? 453 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: Six months prior, I was standing outside as the first 454 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: limo pulled up, kept thinking to myself how lucky I 455 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 1: was to be in this position as the bachelor. Six 456 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: months later, I'm staring out this window, wondering how much 457 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 1: worse things could get. But as I reflected back on 458 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: it all, now, since being out of the spotlight, I've 459 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: had the ability to see what I couldn't see before. 460 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: I was too busy trying to defend my actions and 461 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: my character instead of accepting full responsibility for not only 462 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: what I had done, but all those who I had hurt. Um, 463 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: that's like, I actually love this. I love that this. 464 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: We're getting this from him, he said. Um. He said 465 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 1: that people are often concerned with explaining themselves and that 466 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: prevents them from realizing the explanations sometimes hurt more than 467 00:25:54,880 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: the actions themselves. And he indicates that that when they 468 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,199 Speaker 1: when you, when you say stuff like that, it indicates 469 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: that their excuses and nothing more than that. And he goes, 470 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,879 Speaker 1: That's where I went wrong. I feel like I finally 471 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,919 Speaker 1: learned my lesson. I hurt people. Sure, I didn't have 472 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: any intention in doing so. Um, I thought I was 473 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 1: doing what was best by following my heart. But I 474 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 1: still hurt people. So there's a lot more to this 475 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: caption if you guys are interested in going and reading 476 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 1: his post. But I actually think that this is really 477 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: awesome to hear from him it is. And I think 478 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: a lot of it too has to do with how 479 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 1: this played out, you know. I mean he's happy, and 480 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: it's very obvious that he's happy, and so if this 481 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 1: would have gone opposite direction, you know, maybe he isn't 482 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,119 Speaker 1: as thankful for these lessons learned. But now he can 483 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,239 Speaker 1: look back and be like this maybe was all worth it, 484 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:56,959 Speaker 1: Like even the pain of this could have been worth it. Yeah. 485 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not ideal and it's not fun to 486 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 1: go through. Most people that agree to be the lead 487 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: does go through a season that's not ideal. Uh, But 488 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: you just hope in the end that it was worth 489 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: the time spent. And I would look at this from 490 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:19,959 Speaker 1: an outsider outsider's perspective, a fan perspective and say, hey, Clayton, like, 491 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 1: we remember when things weren't awesome with you and Susie. 492 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: Maybe that argument wasn't handled the best, but now you're 493 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,679 Speaker 1: together and those things are kind of a distant memory 494 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: in my thought, and it's like, I'm just happy to 495 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 1: celebrate two of you now. I think that's how most 496 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 1: people feel. I don't think many people are probably like 497 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: just harping on him for a really poor communication that 498 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: he did without the girl that loves him and that 499 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,920 Speaker 1: he loves like I you know, I just don't think 500 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: many people are. I'm sure there are some would there are, 501 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 1: but we think they're crazy. Yeah, it's like, hey, well 502 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,719 Speaker 1: they've made it work over it. It's like if they 503 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: could get over it, you should probably get over it. 504 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: That would be a good way to say it. Well, um, 505 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: onto uh kind of different topics. We'll take a little 506 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 1: turn here. Jojo Fletcher and Jordan Rogers um have an 507 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 1: idea for a bachelor inspired wedding idea and he is 508 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 1: saying that it deserves a rose. Ashley, do you agree 509 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 1: that it deserves a rose? It does? And now I'm 510 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:24,160 Speaker 1: jealous that we didn't do it at our wedding. Um, 511 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: she was. I think she's kind of joking, but she 512 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 1: said that there should be like an I T. M 513 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 1: Room and in the moment interview room where people can 514 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: go and just talk to the camera about like how 515 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 1: the wedding's going and just like their best wishes and 516 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: stuff for Jojo and Jordan's. But they would have like 517 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: a little room set up so that instead of people, 518 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: you know, writing their best wishes in a wedding book 519 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: that you sign. They'd have a little message room, and 520 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: I think that's so cool. Yeah, that's a great idea. 521 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: I know how amazing would that be to go back 522 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: and watch that. Yeah, and then you have the wedding 523 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: like you know, the video from it, and the wedding 524 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: video is so fun the way it is, I know, 525 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: and then people could go in there like a little 526 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 1: tipsy during the cocktail hour the reception and just narrate 527 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: what's going on and being like, I love you guys black. 528 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,719 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like a photo booth, but you know, 529 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 1: video style. I love it so much. You guys should 530 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 1: totally do it, Jojo and Jordan. Don't just joke about it. 531 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: Definitely do it. She also talked about how the menu 532 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: for their wedding is going to be Italian inspired that 533 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 1: she's blown away during the tasting. Um also kind of 534 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: jealous that like it's like it, you know, an Italian menu, 535 00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: because while our food was absolutely delightful and so so good, 536 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: it was still traditional, you know, like be fish. I 537 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: would have loved to have like a pasta. Maybe we 538 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 1: did have pasta for vegetarian. Well, Ben, you had a 539 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 1: whole damn buffet. Yeah, we didn't do a sit down dinner. 540 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: We did like grab and go sandwiches and pasta's and 541 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: chips and stuff like. We just kind of nobody ever 542 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 1: sat down for dinner unless they wanted to sit down 543 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: on one of the tables. So you know, those little 544 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: twists and different I would have done it. I would 545 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: have never done it differently. I loved that we just 546 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: kind of went right into the party. Uh. It made 547 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: the night more fun for Jess and I. But yeah, 548 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: um oh. Another thing that they're doing is kind of 549 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: like what we did. They have a string quartet that 550 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: will be playing classic, timeless and romantic music. Oh and 551 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: Jordan has an on site cigar roller that will be 552 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: having solid move love that move, good move by Jordan's 553 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: sounds good. Guys, have a great time. I know it's 554 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: coming up. You know they're gonna be Uh, they're gonna 555 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: have a blast. I know they both have done their 556 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: bachelor and bachelor parties. Sounds like they're on the home 557 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: stretch and we wish them the best well. Also wishing 558 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 1: the best to Vanessa Grimaldi, who is pregnant. She's expecting 559 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: baby number one with husband Joshua Wolfe Disaccording to US Weekly, 560 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: she went m I A from Instagram for like eight weeks. 561 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: I didn't notice, but then I was like, oh, you 562 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: have to go m I A because you were sick. 563 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: Let's talk about the woes of pregnancy together. I have 564 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: not asked her, but you know, there's been lots of 565 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,959 Speaker 1: congratulations from Bachelor Alam including of course me and Jared 566 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: were so happy for her. I'm sure Ben that you 567 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: said something, and he is going to be the best mom. 568 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: You know, she just has like those motherly nurturing vibes. 569 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: So so excited for them. It's, uh, it's really exciting 570 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 1: to see this kind of stuff play out, right. You know, 571 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: we've been a part of Vanessa's story since her time 572 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 1: on Nick season, and now we see it kind of 573 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: come full circle with Nick being happy and her being 574 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: happy and her being married and having a child. So 575 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: we're wishing them the best as they enter into this 576 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,479 Speaker 1: season of life. Well, also something that's a really good news. 577 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: If you remember a few years ago we talked about 578 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: JP Rosenbaum had a illness that was causing him to 579 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: his body to not function well. It was similar to 580 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: kind of how a l S would function. You were 581 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: losing muscle function, You're having cramps and um. Well you know, 582 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: we've then found out that it was Julie Julian Barr syndrome. UM. 583 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 1: He is now saying he's back to normal, but he 584 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 1: says it was a life changing event. This according to 585 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 1: US Weekly as well. Was this that far far you know, 586 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 1: far back, were like recording in the studio in l A. 587 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,080 Speaker 1: I remember like hearing this news and we're recording in 588 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: l A. But maybe I'm wrong. That was a long 589 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: time ago. Well, anyway, he's saying that was a very 590 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: traumatic experience. He said, it was life changing. I opening 591 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,240 Speaker 1: and put things into perspective that life can take a 592 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: turn just like that. But after a couple of months 593 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: he went back to normal. Um. The illness causes the 594 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 1: immune system to react against the nervous system, which can 595 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 1: lead to paralysis and weakness, like Ben said, throughout the body. Uh, 596 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: it can become a chronic condition, he said, but fortunately 597 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: I'm not one of those cases. The odds of me 598 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: getting it again are the same as me getting it 599 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: in the first place, so I guess the odds are 600 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: not necessarily high that he'll be getting it again. He 601 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: also says that he's been doing. You know, well since 602 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 1: it it's crazy. It came on within less than twenty 603 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 1: four hours, so it's just like a sudden here and 604 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: then you know, he recovered from it and hopefully won't 605 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 1: be getting it back. Um. He says. It was really, 606 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:11,320 Speaker 1: really challenging. It took probably about two months to regain mobility. 607 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 1: That's wild. And you know him and actually are probably 608 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 1: having like marriage problems in the midst of all this too. Um. 609 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: He said. It was just a really humbling experience. He's 610 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: very fortunate to be making a full recovery, and it 611 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 1: has a lot to do with the fact that he 612 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: was diagnosed quickly and treated quickly, um, so that the 613 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,399 Speaker 1: damage to his nerves were able to heal. He said. 614 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 1: A lot of people aren't that lucky. Yeah, yeah, Well, 615 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: I'm glad he's back and uh, I'm glad that he's 616 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: fully functioning and feeling healthy and uh and ready for 617 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: this next season in life for him because he's got 618 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,360 Speaker 1: a lot, a lot of new things on his horizon. Well, 619 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,400 Speaker 1: let's take a break here, we come back. We have 620 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 1: some huge headlines to talk about. We're gonna talk about, uh, 621 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 1: the Senior Citizen Bachelor. Uh is it gonna happen or not? 622 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: Who's gonna be hosting it? I wish it was me? 623 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: Maybe it is. I've been wanting that job for a 624 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 1: long time. Yeah, it's not me. Um, but that was 625 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 1: a good teaser. I thought it was a good teaser. 626 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 1: I totally blew it. I'm so sorry. It's okay, Ash, sure, 627 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 1: you know what if people are tuning in for to 628 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 1: find out I'm gonna be hosting that shure or not, 629 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: but I'm still not giving up. Here's okay. I thought 630 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: that it was done, like because there's been no movement 631 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 1: on it. So this is a good teaser in itself. 632 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: Is it actually happening? I think somebody asked me the 633 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: other day, They're like, I need this in my life, 634 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,080 Speaker 1: like it will fulfill me. Yeah, is it actually happening? 635 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: Who could be? Also we'll talk about who could be 636 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 1: the lead of that senior show? Also why was Tyler 637 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 1: Cameron not the Bachelor? And then finally, Stage Coach happened 638 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 1: this weekend and it was full of well, um Bachelor 639 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 1: Nation people, I mean full of it. We're gonna talk 640 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 1: about who was there, what was happening? Uh? Right, when 641 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:57,920 Speaker 1: we come back from this break on the almost famous 642 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: podcast m alright, Ashley, we talked about it, We handed 643 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:16,320 Speaker 1: at it, the Bachelor who's hosting Paradise? Is Senior Citizens happening? 644 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: And could Bachelor Pad return this? According to Variety, it 645 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 1: was an article written, so let's start here, Ashley, Who's 646 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: hosting Paradise? That's the question to answer? First? Oh, well, 647 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 1: we don't know who's hosting Paradise, perfect, We have no clue. 648 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: Question was asked to the executives. Has not been announced you? Okay? 649 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:44,760 Speaker 1: Onto the second question, is the Senior Citizens show happening? Okay? 650 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 1: So it says it's been teased for years. Obviously, the 651 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:53,280 Speaker 1: pandemic slowed down development, but the Bachelor executives are still 652 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,800 Speaker 1: hot on the idea. That doesn't sound like there's a 653 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 1: lot of movement going on. Still, the Senior Citizens show 654 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: is definitely going to happen at some point. Robert Mills, 655 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: who's you know, in charge of development at ABC, says 656 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: some point. The response to that show is so massive 657 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,839 Speaker 1: that every time we put up a casting call, um, 658 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 1: it's just like like people are really wanting to apply 659 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: for it to happen. He says, for us, we really 660 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: feel a responsibility to find the right person to be 661 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:33,399 Speaker 1: the senior Bachelor. So we're looking COVID put a major 662 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 1: wrinkle in everything. So now, um, we're back at looking 663 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:43,280 Speaker 1: for it. The other question, the big question, Yeah, finally, 664 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 1: what's the big question? I guess the big question, Well, 665 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 1: I guess that was actually the biggest question, the bigest questions. 666 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: It's gonna happen. I guess the answer to that is 667 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,440 Speaker 1: eventually maybe. See, I don't know. I still don't believe 668 00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 1: them based on that response. Do you believe Robert Mills 669 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:01,839 Speaker 1: On the response, it doesn't sound like at the top 670 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:05,800 Speaker 1: of the agenda they're putting so much into a Bachelor 671 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,839 Speaker 1: that I think it's kind of an excuse to say 672 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: that COVID put a wrinkle into it, because COVID didn't 673 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 1: put that much of a wrinkle into the main franchise. 674 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 1: We had like fifteen Bachelorette seasons. Yeah, but the older 675 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:23,400 Speaker 1: demographic is a little bit more at risk for COVID, 676 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 1: and so I could imagine them staying away from it. 677 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna happen because I think it's such 678 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 1: a good idea. Um, again, that's part of my sales pitch. 679 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: I think it's such a good idea ABC that that, uh, 680 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 1: it's gonna go really well. I think it's gonna be 681 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,439 Speaker 1: really fun to watch, and so, um, I'm glad they're 682 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: early in development still on it, because that means I'm 683 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 1: still holding out hope that maybe I'll get the random 684 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 1: call from Los Angeles at ASER and they'll say, hey, Ben, 685 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,760 Speaker 1: you know what, we looked around and there's just nobody 686 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 1: else that we want hosting the show other than you, 687 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,080 Speaker 1: And I would say, I'm glad you finally came to 688 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 1: your senses, But that doesn't it's going to happen. Well, Ben, 689 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 1: it certainly doesn't sound like they have locked down the host, 690 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 1: so I'd say it's you gotta yeah, I gotta there 691 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 1: we go, Ash. I like your style, Okay. The only 692 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 1: thing is, like Ben, they probably would be like, this 693 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 1: guy is way too young to be hosting this show. 694 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: He's twenty something years younger than like the youngest person 695 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: on it. Yeah. Well, but I uh, I could teach 696 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 1: them how not to be choogy, and that would be 697 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 1: tight way to make the podcast full circle. Thank you 698 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 1: as well. The second question to the Senior Show is 699 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,879 Speaker 1: could Gabby who is the current bachelorette or co bachelorette. 700 00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,879 Speaker 1: Could her grandfather be the senior bachelor? That was asked 701 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: as well to Mills, mm hmm, Well, he says, I 702 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,480 Speaker 1: would be crazy to say that we didn't notice all 703 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:59,359 Speaker 1: the affection and interest in Gabby's grandfathers, so you never know. 704 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: This is Rob Mills continuing to talk about the show. 705 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 1: He says, everyone wants to see him, see him find love. 706 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: Gabby's grandfather really gave the thesis of what the show 707 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:15,480 Speaker 1: would be, which is that he found that great love 708 00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: and we saw that he still wears his ring. Um, 709 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,399 Speaker 1: so maybe he wouldn't be ready for something like this. 710 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 1: And then there's the question of if you have one 711 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 1: great love in your lifetime, can you have another. That's 712 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: really interesting. It's not something that we get to explore 713 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, He's also said. He also says, um 714 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:41,839 Speaker 1: finding someone who has never been in love at an 715 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 1: older age could be interesting too. If we can find 716 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,280 Speaker 1: the person and the story that allows us to answer 717 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:54,240 Speaker 1: those that's one will do it. Okay. Again, still sounds 718 00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,919 Speaker 1: like it's so far in the future and we can 719 00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:02,240 Speaker 1: find the person who allows us to explore those storylines. 720 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 1: Every every person that is in their fifties, sixties, shoot, 721 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 1: even forties have those storylines. Every person, like life brings 722 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 1: about story. Some of it's beautiful, some of it's really hard, 723 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,399 Speaker 1: but everybody has Like when you live long enough, you're 724 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: gonna have stories of triumph and pain and suffering and 725 00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 1: joy all those things and so like, that's why I 726 00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:31,240 Speaker 1: think this show is so intriguing, because you get people 727 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,920 Speaker 1: that are older onto a show where we get to 728 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,879 Speaker 1: learn about them and hear about their stories. It's gonna 729 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: have a mixed bag, Like it's gonna be incredible to 730 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 1: hear of people who thought they could never love again 731 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 1: who are out there finding love. We're gonna hear about 732 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 1: the people who have never had love and they're in 733 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 1: their fifties, sixties, seventies and they're looking for love, hoping 734 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: for love. Like how how just incredible would it be 735 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,439 Speaker 1: to be able to have an up close personal look 736 00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: at these people's story. I mean, it would be so fun. 737 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,920 Speaker 1: I'm fun. And you know, Kebby's Crammit doesn't have to 738 00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 1: be the lead. I would say, like I don't want 739 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: to be ages here, But Ben, what do you see 740 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: the age of the lead being? Because he might be 741 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,960 Speaker 1: a little old to be the lead of that. I 742 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 1: was thinking that this show would be more for somebody 743 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 1: who was like fifty five sixty. I mean, that's just 744 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,640 Speaker 1: my image, what about yours. I was thinking, like, I 745 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 1: thought they could do seasons with like wide range. I 746 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 1: really did. I thought like, no, I don't think he's 747 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,640 Speaker 1: I don't think he's too old. I thought it would 748 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 1: be like really fun to have people in their eighties. Um, 749 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: you know, trying to figure it out. I did, really, 750 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: I was thinking was gonna be like all fifties and sixties. 751 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 1: But I guess when you use the term, which is 752 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: senior citizens, senior citizen is what sixty five and older? 753 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,760 Speaker 1: I think it's actually now you get your ar cardlet 754 00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 1: like fifty um yeah, yeah, when you were not that 755 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,640 Speaker 1: far away. As we get our part soon, which means 756 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:10,200 Speaker 1: which means cheaper coffee at McDonald's. Let's go well, Ashley, Uh, 757 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,000 Speaker 1: before we talk about who was at stage Coach this 758 00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: last weekend and what happened at Stagecoach and if we 759 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,920 Speaker 1: know of any drama that existed at stage Coach, we're 760 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 1: gonna talk about Tyler Cameron. He mentions and talks sits 761 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: down and talks to She's all batch about why he 762 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: wasn't the Bachelor, discording to Cosmo, Actually, why wasn't Tyler 763 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,799 Speaker 1: Cameron the Bachelor? Okay, actually Tyler is not the one 764 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:41,240 Speaker 1: talking here. It's Michael Johnson. Oh jeez, why is he talking? 765 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:45,799 Speaker 1: Spoke on his behalf. Well, there you go. I don't 766 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 1: know how much Tyler is going to appreciate this, but 767 00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 1: this is what he said to Cosmo on their podcast. 768 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 1: He goes, Tyler didn't want it. He was like, I'm good, bra, 769 00:43:56,280 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: I got more followers than Eddie Bachelor will get. I 770 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,000 Speaker 1: don't need the money that you give to me to 771 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,319 Speaker 1: be the Bachelor. I don't want my life to look 772 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,359 Speaker 1: like that. He go and then Mike says, I don't 773 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:13,399 Speaker 1: blame him. He says, they're pros and cons to being 774 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 1: the show's lead. You know, you want to find love. 775 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: The negative is everyone and the mama says, are gonna 776 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:27,160 Speaker 1: say something about you and and this is this is 777 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: what this is. He was kind of quoting Tyler there, 778 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: and he goes, he's not wrong. Um, the Bachelor cycle 779 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 1: is usually like, you know, like they love you when 780 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 1: you become the bachelor coming off of the other season, 781 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 1: and then they kind of destroy you once you become 782 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:51,400 Speaker 1: the lead. Uh So that's that's that Ben. Um. When 783 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: Tyler was on our podcast when I was on my 784 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:57,879 Speaker 1: mini maternity leave, did you ask him this question? Did 785 00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 1: he have a similar response. I remember asking something along 786 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,240 Speaker 1: the lines of would you ever be interested in doing 787 00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 1: something again on the show? I mean, I don't want 788 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:12,440 Speaker 1: to speak for him. I don't think that's yeah. I 789 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: don't I don't think that's I just got this sense that, yeah, 790 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,839 Speaker 1: he's pretty good. I mean, because I think his follow 791 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:21,839 Speaker 1: up was, you know, he has his construction company, and um, 792 00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 1: he has the the like USA E bowls and smoothie plays. 793 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,840 Speaker 1: I think he's like busy and he's kind of settling down. 794 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: And so I mean, I'm sure if the right opportunities 795 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 1: presents itself, Tyler Cameron would probably say yes. But I 796 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 1: don't know if The Bachelor or the Bachelor franchises those 797 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,439 Speaker 1: right opportunities. Maybe, I just don't know. It doesn't feel 798 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 1: like it fits now. It feels like if he if 799 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,920 Speaker 1: he did it, um, it would just kind of be 800 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,799 Speaker 1: a weird twist to his life, kind of on how 801 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 1: the progression is gone. But well, um, you know, so 802 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 1: it sounds like Tyler Cameron, according to Mike, said not 803 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 1: to be in the actually because he just didn't need it. 804 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 1: Well that's fair. Uh, that's good. I'm glad I did 805 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,799 Speaker 1: it and the only reason Mom on this podcast so 806 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:13,760 Speaker 1: helped me out a little bit. Last headline of today 807 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:18,920 Speaker 1: Stage Coach two. It's been mentioned on well Bachelor in 808 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 1: Paradise many times UM talked about everything that happens at 809 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 1: Stage Coach back in the day. Well, their celebrity sightings 810 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 1: include several people from The Bachelor Ashley who was it there? 811 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,800 Speaker 1: I will add in here that my friend Blake Hortsman, 812 00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,080 Speaker 1: who is a DJ and has been working really hard 813 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,760 Speaker 1: on that, did get the opportunity to go to Stage 814 00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,160 Speaker 1: Coach and be a and and have a set this year, 815 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,080 Speaker 1: which is a big deal. Look like it went really 816 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 1: really well. Um, But who all attended? And then tell 817 00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 1: us more about DJ Blake Hortsman's DJ set on Saturday. Well, 818 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 1: let's just you know, punchline here is Blake returns to 819 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:03,360 Speaker 1: Stage Coach. Of course time since it is, isn't it? Um? 820 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 1: It might be because of COVID and cancelations, but I 821 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:09,839 Speaker 1: can't confirm that. I don't know that for sure. Okay, So, 822 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:14,480 Speaker 1: Abigail was there, Amanda Stanton was there with her fiance 823 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,280 Speaker 1: Michael and Kins, her daughter Kins went. So that's cute. 824 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 1: Um Joe, Joe and Becca were there, Hannah Brown was there. Uh, 825 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:36,640 Speaker 1: Katie Thurston was there, and so was Um Thomas. Becca's 826 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: Becca's this boy soon to be fiance as we talked 827 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 1: about in headlines last week, was also there. And then 828 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 1: what did you ask me about about his set? I 829 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 1: mean there's more there too. Alisa's there, Jojo was there, 830 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: Becca was there, Hannah Brown was there. Okay, good, Well, 831 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,840 Speaker 1: there's a huge group that was there, Amanda standing obviously, 832 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,520 Speaker 1: like just ridiculous how many people were there but his 833 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: set on Saturday, I know a lot of people went 834 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,680 Speaker 1: out not only go to Stage Coach, but you know 835 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 1: it gave them a good excuse to go because their 836 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 1: friend Blake was djaying at the Honky Tonk. So tell 837 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 1: us about it. Okay. So when Blake was djaying, he 838 00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 1: was wearing a shirt that said we met at Stage Coach. Obviously, 839 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 1: it was poking fun at the fact that he met 840 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:28,160 Speaker 1: multiple ladies from Paradise at Stage Coach before Paradise. It's 841 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 1: kind of funny. At least he can laugh at himself. 842 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:35,240 Speaker 1: His rumored girlfriend Gia from Love Is Blind was also 843 00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,799 Speaker 1: there with a whole bunch of his bachelor friends at 844 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 1: the house that they rented. I think they're not like 845 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,359 Speaker 1: formally out about their relationship because they're supposed to be 846 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,800 Speaker 1: on an upcoming reality show, so it needs to be 847 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:50,399 Speaker 1: a little bit hush hush. Jojo and Becca posted lots 848 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 1: of pictures and Instagram reels. They joked a lot about 849 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,880 Speaker 1: the fact that the cowboy boots were really going to 850 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: hurt their feet. They even went to ds w to 851 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,000 Speaker 1: to search for a shoe that was going to be 852 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 1: easier on their feet. And then Hannah Brown posted a 853 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:10,920 Speaker 1: picture of her very close up during Thomas Rett set, 854 00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: and she zoomed in on Ashton Kutcher's surprise appearance during 855 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: the cover of Friends in Low Places. That's awesome, very cool. 856 00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 1: Nothing to get a live audience going like that song 857 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,600 Speaker 1: No come on, I mean one of the best, one 858 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,560 Speaker 1: of the best. In fact, I think Jess and I 859 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 1: are gonna try to see Thomas Uh yeah, I know, yeah, 860 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: We're We're gonna see a good old country show at 861 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:44,239 Speaker 1: Red Rocks this year. Um so pretty cool, absolutely incredible. Well, hey, 862 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,719 Speaker 1: that is all the headlines we have. That's a lot 863 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,799 Speaker 1: of headlines. I know you just uh were bombarded with 864 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,359 Speaker 1: information on Batchel nations, some really good um, some very 865 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 1: vulnerable UM, but all of it. Um. Where do you 866 00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:59,720 Speaker 1: for us talked about here on the Almost Famous podcast 867 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,640 Speaker 1: And with that I've been Been, I've been Ashley bad guys, 868 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:06,560 Speaker 1: thanks for listening. 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