WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Roofer Madness

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date.

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<v Speaker 2>When we go through all the second date email requests

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<v Speaker 2>and we're trying to decide who to call, we should

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<v Speaker 2>probably base that decision on who has the most compelling

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<v Speaker 2>or romantic date story.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, that's what we've been doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have a realistic chance of actually reaching their

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<v Speaker 2>person and making this whole call worthwhile?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we should be doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because it's a good goal.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what a good radio host would do. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna call the guy for one reason, and one

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<v Speaker 2>reason only because of his name.

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<v Speaker 3>We've gotten this before. It's turned out well, I support it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because this person signed his email to us Rufer. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if that's his profession and he got confused

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<v Speaker 2>if it's a typo or what.

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<v Speaker 1>But it caught my attention.

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<v Speaker 3>It's spelled like a roof or like spelled like a rufer.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just want to find out. Welcome Rufer to

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<v Speaker 2>the show. Okay, So is that your real name or what.

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<v Speaker 5>Real name is Rufus? But uh my bros called me

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<v Speaker 5>Ruffer and that's pretty much what I go.

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<v Speaker 3>By, Okay? Is that is that what you go by

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<v Speaker 3>to your dates?

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<v Speaker 5>Too. Yep, all right, okay, well.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally know nothing about what happened on your date

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<v Speaker 2>or who you were with, because all I saw was rufers.

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<v Speaker 2>So why don't you start us off? Tell us who

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<v Speaker 2>you want us to call today?

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<v Speaker 5>If you guys call it Diana. Kay, we went to coffee,

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<v Speaker 5>all right?

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<v Speaker 3>Well for real, I mean coffee is almost like a pre.

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<v Speaker 1>Date, right, yeah, simple way to downplay his coffee date

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<v Speaker 1>Rufer Okay, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think that's plenty romantic. That counts as a date for

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<v Speaker 2>most people, but not for Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently you say.

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<v Speaker 4>It it's like it could be fifteen to thirty minute experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it's not anyway, Sometimes that's all that people have, Brook.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you guys can just like step just kind

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<v Speaker 5>of killing my right Brook.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, I'm guessing that's not a caffeine buzz Fro.

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<v Speaker 1>Tells about what happened at the coffee shop how to go?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't start well, oh what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>I kinda forgot?

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<v Speaker 3>Well you forgot about the see I told you it was.

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<v Speaker 5>The date jump.

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<v Speaker 1>You better give you so much trap, How did you forget?

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<v Speaker 5>I was maybe a little high at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>There we go, so at what point did you remember

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<v Speaker 4>when she text me, okay, you can just go drive

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<v Speaker 4>now and go like, well, i'll plan it's close.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, it was about four blocks from my place. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>So I text your back like yeah, I'm close, like

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<v Speaker 5>I'll be on my way.

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<v Speaker 3>Well good, Yeah, yeah, it's good. Except for you showed

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<v Speaker 3>up high as a kite.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know if he even showed up to the date.

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<v Speaker 6>Ye, I mean, did you.

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<v Speaker 5>Did make it there? I did make okay, okay, showered

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<v Speaker 5>and a little disheveled. All I really remember is that

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<v Speaker 5>I got into like a fight with my pants, like.

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<v Speaker 1>A verbal fight or a physical fight.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just remember. At some point I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>come on, pants, like they just it wasn't happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you sitting down at the coffee shop at this point?

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<v Speaker 5>This is still home. I haven't left yet.

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<v Speaker 1>We're still getting dressed. What happened after that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I get the pants on. I win that fight.

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<v Speaker 5>I start booking it down the street. There's only four blocks.

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<v Speaker 4>Running high show up because you feel like you're running

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<v Speaker 4>so fast, like I've been there before. You have no

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<v Speaker 4>concept of time. Time has literally left you.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like his arms are just flailing all over

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<v Speaker 1>the place. His legs are wobbling. But did you make

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<v Speaker 1>it to the coffee shop, Roofer?

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<v Speaker 5>I thought I did. I went to a coffee shop

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<v Speaker 5>that I believed was the coffee shop, and then text

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<v Speaker 5>you again are you here? And I said, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>think so.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're like, oh wait, this isn't a coffee shop,

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<v Speaker 2>this is an empty cardboard box.

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<v Speaker 1>Fight with the box.

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<v Speaker 4>And then did you find Diana?

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<v Speaker 5>I texted her name and she said it was It

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<v Speaker 5>was the wrong coffee shop.

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<v Speaker 1>There's one every dude.

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<v Speaker 4>How is she even still waiting around for you at

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<v Speaker 4>this point?

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<v Speaker 5>You got to cancel for some reason. She did. But

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<v Speaker 5>I finally find it and I find her all right?

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<v Speaker 5>But uh, I mean it is not a good situation. No,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm very high.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like tickets.

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<v Speaker 4>What did she even say to you?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I don't entirely remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Shot.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I ordered a lot of pastries.

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<v Speaker 3>You ate a lot of pastries.

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<v Speaker 5>The higher credit card bill and if okay, do you

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<v Speaker 5>remember anything from your interaction with her? I mean I

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<v Speaker 5>stared at her face a lot. No, that's to be

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<v Speaker 5>pretty complimentary. But at one point her friend showed up.

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<v Speaker 3>She called in backup is what she did that could.

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<v Speaker 5>Be I guess so yeah, I tried to introduce myself,

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<v Speaker 5>but she had to get out of there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll tell you that's not when they asked for

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<v Speaker 2>a threesome.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a good that's an exit strategy.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, why do you even want to.

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<v Speaker 4>Make this call?

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<v Speaker 5>Can I say that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Count it as a lot?

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<v Speaker 5>Why do not move on? I mean, she was super cute,

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<v Speaker 5>and I feel like an idiot for messing it up.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I would have messed up, you know

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<v Speaker 5>if I didn't get so high.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you were, if you were sober, maybe this

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<v Speaker 2>date would have gone really well and this could have

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<v Speaker 2>been the girl for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you could be stoned.

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<v Speaker 3>We got a big green mountain to climb to overcome this.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I bet he smoked a big green mountain

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<v Speaker 2>right before he got on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>But I will not confir.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll come back, we'll call Diana for you, and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>try and get you your second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, rufe, all right, thanks?

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<v Speaker 1>Guess all right, hold on, forget the dare programs.

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<v Speaker 2>School should just play this segment to teach kids about

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<v Speaker 2>the dangers of recreational drugs because one of our listeners, Rufer,

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<v Speaker 2>admits he was high and forgot he even had a date,

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<v Speaker 2>but once he remembered, in his rush to make it there,

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<v Speaker 2>he ended up getting into a fight with his own pants.

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<v Speaker 1>He went to the wrong coffee shop, ate.

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<v Speaker 2>A dozen pastries in one sitting, and just stared a

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<v Speaker 2>lot at Diana's face, he thinks, not sure about that,

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<v Speaker 2>imagining it like stone looking at her, like just down

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<v Speaker 2>in Croissan.

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<v Speaker 4>I could see his little bloodshot eyes too in my head.

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<v Speaker 2>Ruffer, I really appreciate you coming on and just being

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<v Speaker 2>so honest and vulnerable with us on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes a lot of bravery. So good on you. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and your.

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<v Speaker 2>Email says that this date happened about a week ago.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do have a question. At any time, did

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<v Speaker 2>you ever admit to Diana that you were elevated?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't remember, but I don't think that I would have.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I think, I'm just saying if you didn't, then

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<v Speaker 2>maybe we shouldn't bring that.

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<v Speaker 1>Up to her. Probably knows.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, man, I feel like I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 4>she didn't know she can't be the person that dates Rufer.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know what I'm saying. If you're that naive

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<v Speaker 3>like you just can't be in a relationship with him.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm totally with you on that, But I just I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think we should lead with it.

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<v Speaker 1>We should get.

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<v Speaker 2>Her perspective about how it went first and see if

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<v Speaker 2>she offers that.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you okay with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Ruffer?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>That works. I mean the profile does say I'm for

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<v Speaker 5>twenty friendly, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I always smell it on you, but it doesn't say

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<v Speaker 3>four twenty forgetful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'll see if she even knows what that means

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<v Speaker 2>or noticed it at all. But we're gonna dial her

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<v Speaker 2>number right now and try and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, let's do.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello of the Day.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Diana?

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<v Speaker 6>Is she? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Jeff from a morning radio show called

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Who are you ask myself?

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<v Speaker 1>That it's a deep question.

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<v Speaker 2>We're a morning radio show and we're doing a segment

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<v Speaker 2>called a second Date Update where we help some of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners out with their dating lives.

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<v Speaker 6>So then, why are you calling me? I never signed

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<v Speaker 6>up for help? With my dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, good question.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, you did not reach out to us, but we

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<v Speaker 2>did get a call from a guy who says he

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<v Speaker 2>would love to hang out with you again because your

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<v Speaker 2>first date together didn't go the way that he planned.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes by the name Rufer.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh lord, yeah, he knows.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a little bit of a rough first date.

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<v Speaker 6>It was definitely the weirdest date I'd ever been on.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but I mean he told us that he was

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<v Speaker 4>super late and that you hung around, so there must

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<v Speaker 4>have been some good reason while you hung around, like.

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<v Speaker 3>You liked him a lot.

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<v Speaker 7>He looked very cute online, okay, but there was definitely

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<v Speaker 7>something wrong or wrong with him or just wrong altogether.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what would give you that impression?

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<v Speaker 6>Let's talk. In the beginning, he kept texting me that

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<v Speaker 6>he was three minutes away. Yeah, he texted that same

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<v Speaker 6>text seven.

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<v Speaker 8>Times, seven times across the period of how much time,

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<v Speaker 8>every ten every ten minutes, Like I was really waiting

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<v Speaker 8>for him to show up and give me like a

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<v Speaker 8>really amazing excuse.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, something happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's kind that's good day.

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<v Speaker 6>But when he showed up, it seemed as if he

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<v Speaker 6>had just run a marathon, like in.

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<v Speaker 4>A hot, sexy, listening on your muscles type of way.

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<v Speaker 6>No, like you're the last one coming in in the

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<v Speaker 6>last place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea, What he did tell us that he was running behind,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was rushing and literally running to make it there,

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<v Speaker 2>So he may not have been quite in his right mind.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he's a little bit flustered from having rushed.

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<v Speaker 1>To get to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it wait, so wait were you able to make it?

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<v Speaker 4>Connection?

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<v Speaker 3>Were able to get over that?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>I know that he connected very well to the brick

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<v Speaker 6>wall that we were sitting next to, because he kept

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<v Speaker 6>complimenting me and saying that I was as beautiful as

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<v Speaker 6>this brick wall.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what did you say to beautiful?

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, strong.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, maybe comparisons aren't quite his forte.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, I can tell you that, because next

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<v Speaker 6>he told me that my skin looks so soft it

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<v Speaker 6>could be made into a nice room.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but.

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<v Speaker 4>He said it in a nice voice, not in like

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<v Speaker 4>an actual he was going to make a skin.

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<v Speaker 6>Roll, he said, in a voice that could put a

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<v Speaker 6>baby to sleep. It was so nice and lovely.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, sounds like he's trying to be sweet to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But the words that are coming.

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<v Speaker 4>Out, don't you I did, from her perspective, couple red

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<v Speaker 4>flags already.

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<v Speaker 2>So is that kind of the whole thing for you?

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<v Speaker 2>That he you know, he was a little bit out

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<v Speaker 2>of it seeming, and compliments weren't coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>The right way.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, that I could have actually looked past because I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, maybe he was tired, had a long day.

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<v Speaker 6>But then a friend of mine showed up, like totally

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<v Speaker 6>randomly at the coffee shop, and you know, I just

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<v Speaker 6>went over to talk to her really quickly, and Ruper

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<v Speaker 6>came over and he whispered in my air. He was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>this person bothering you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she's about your friend exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>I said no. I said no, no, that's my friend,

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<v Speaker 6>and he was for back. I would like to fight them.

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<v Speaker 3>Fight was tire a girl?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess it was a girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, okay, I would like to fight.

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<v Speaker 2>He's trying to be shak I'm sure Rufer has a

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<v Speaker 2>very logical, reasonable explanation for his behavior that day, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it would sound best actually coming from him him

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<v Speaker 2>because Diana Ruffer is on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 2>wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>We have Ruffer on the other line.

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<v Speaker 5>Ruffer you there, Yeah, how's it going?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty chill.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm sorry you had to hear that, but

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<v Speaker 6>I mean they asked me, and I told him the

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<v Speaker 6>truth that that's what happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh listen, I mean that that skin robe thing is creepy.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why I would say something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do you remember saying that, Rufer.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't remember saying that. It doesn't sound like something

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<v Speaker 5>I would say.

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<v Speaker 1>Our buddy, Rufer's got a really bad memory.

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<v Speaker 6>You didn't mention that before you left. You kept yelling like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>I want to show you my ferbie.

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<v Speaker 3>Ferbie, like one of those stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you own a Ferbie Ruffer?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I do that one. That one's plausible.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it makes more sense of the skin robe.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we've kind of danced around this for long enough.

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<v Speaker 2>She's been very understanding throughout this whole call, So maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you should just come clean. I think you owe her

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<v Speaker 2>the honest answer of what was going on that day.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, full disclosure. I was I was a little high.

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<v Speaker 5>I was very high.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that was full that was the full disclosure at

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<v Speaker 3>the end.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, don't say.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get that feeling?

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<v Speaker 5>Diana?

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<v Speaker 6>How often do you get high?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, occasionally.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't give him questions about concepts of time goodness, not

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<v Speaker 2>in his wheelhouse.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, to Rufer's credit, he did say that he

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<v Speaker 4>was four twenty friendly on his dating profile, So I

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<v Speaker 4>mean you knew that going in, right, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Did, But I have never seen four twenty effects someone

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<v Speaker 6>in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good question. Was it was it just four

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<v Speaker 2>twenty Rufer? Or was that something else?

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<v Speaker 5>It might have also been like two twenty and then

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<v Speaker 5>three twenty that.

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<v Speaker 6>My head.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you high right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I shouldn't. I should have rescheduled. That was on me.

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<v Speaker 5>Not a proud moment, and and I'm truly shut.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's good. That was I mean, that was good, right, Diana.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, he is cute, and if you can agree

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<v Speaker 6>to not be high when we meet up, and he

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<v Speaker 6>can bring some of that two twenty three sixty whatever

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<v Speaker 6>he was on, and maybe we could try it together and.

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<v Speaker 1>We can learn some stuff together. Really, he's getting really romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we can condone that.

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<v Speaker 2>But what we can condone is the two of you

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<v Speaker 2>meeting up again.

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<v Speaker 6>Sure sober at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, you know what that You guys are adults.

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<v Speaker 2>What you want to do on your own time, that's

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<v Speaker 2>your business. But our business is to offer to send

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<v Speaker 2>you out on a second date and we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Diana sounds happier now knowing what.

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<v Speaker 5>The whole deal was.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like she's already I know you should have

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<v Speaker 2>sound like you should.

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<v Speaker 1>Have just let off with that ruffer.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I should have.

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<v Speaker 6>This whole time. I thought you were like an escape

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<v Speaker 6>mental patience. Is really.

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<v Speaker 5>No, not not to keep bringing up the skin roll thing,

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<v Speaker 5>but that is I am scared of myself that that

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<v Speaker 5>was even in there.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't see that broken Jeffrey in the morning.