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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Sanny and Samantha and welcome to Stephane.

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Speaker 1: Never told your prediction of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: And welcome to me trying to make you feel sad

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Speaker 2: again because apparently that's what the role I'm on with

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Speaker 2: the pot with my episodes here. But yeah, go ahead

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Speaker 2: and give this content warning for this lovely Monday mini.

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Speaker 2: Also date this today is April twenty eighth, twenty three.

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Speaker 2: This is a current affairs thing, so things change swiftly,

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Speaker 2: especially when we know when it comes to media and

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Speaker 2: cancel culture. And I'm not saying this is a bad

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Speaker 2: cancel culture thing. I'm just saying that that's kind of

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Speaker 2: along the lines as well as we are talking about

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Speaker 2: sexual assault, rape, mental health ablesm and suicidal ideation. So

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Speaker 2: let's get into it. Well, I was really really excited

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Speaker 2: Annie about the new Netflix series Beef because I am

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Speaker 2: so excited to see more and more Asian representation that

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Speaker 2: is something that I love. And the fact that Stephen

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Speaker 2: Yam is actually Korean, I'm like, yes, let's go. And

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Speaker 2: he's seen as like good looking sexy dude, which has

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Speaker 2: been such a rare thing honestly up until recently. Thank

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Speaker 2: you K pop kids to truly understand, like the appreciation

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Speaker 2: and the talent of different people and diversity in itself.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, for so long, when I was a kid,

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Speaker 2: I did not have so many influences. So seeing this

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Speaker 2: is lovely. And with all the amazing reviews, I think

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Speaker 2: it's a twenty four which I've done stellar, stellar shows

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Speaker 2: were planning on watching this gay. Unfortunately, this has been

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Speaker 2: marred by the ugliness and denial of a problematic actor

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Speaker 2: slash artist. I guess is it now? Happy Asian American

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Speaker 2: Heritage Month. Let's go into the dark stay first. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: When it comes out, it's May first.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And this is how I'm gonna start it. Okay, Right, So,

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Speaker 2: David Cho, if you have not heard, is in the

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Speaker 2: show playing a jerk artist apparently who often goes to

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Speaker 2: for the last seven to eight years. Every time he

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Speaker 2: don't hate that. So if you don't know David Joe's

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Speaker 2: old podcast episode has resurfaced where he talks about raping

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Speaker 2: a black woman and described how the prospect of going

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Speaker 2: to jail turns them on for this and the episode

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Speaker 2: first put him in hot water when it was released

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Speaker 2: around twenty fourteen, and then it came back again in

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Speaker 2: twenty seventeen. But he also says some other things that

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Speaker 2: his statement after the initial backlash. He said, I never

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Speaker 2: thought I'd wake up one late afternoon and hear myself

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Speaker 2: called a rapist after joking about loving to rape somebody.

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Speaker 2: That's a surprise to him. Surprise. It sucks, especially because

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Speaker 2: I'm not one. I'm not a rapist. I hate rapist.

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Speaker 2: I think rapists should be raped and murdered, he said

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Speaker 2: at the time. Yes, I am an artist, a storyteller,

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Speaker 2: and I view my show Dvdasa does the initials for

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Speaker 2: his show as a complete extension of my art. If

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Speaker 2: I am guilty of anything, it's bad storytelling in the

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Speaker 2: style of Douche. Just like many of my paintings are

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Speaker 2: often misinterpreted, the same goes with my show. The main

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Speaker 2: objective of all my podcasts is to challenge and provoke

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Speaker 2: my friends and the co stars on the show, we

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Speaker 2: with each other, entertain ourselves and laugh at each other.

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Speaker 2: It's dark, tasteless, completely irreverent show where we with everyone listening,

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Speaker 2: but mostly ourselves, we create stories and tell tells. It's

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Speaker 2: not a news show. It's not a representation of my reality.

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Speaker 2: It's not the place to come for reliable information about

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Speaker 2: a world full of horrible people. Thank God for us.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Can we talk about how that response is. I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: you took it this way when I said I like

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Speaker 2: raping people, Yeah, especially black women.

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Speaker 3: Right right, that's that's a problem.

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Speaker 2: Right. Not only did I say this on Mike as myself,

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Speaker 2: So many problems, the excuses, the candied gaslighting, and just

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Speaker 2: the only time on the podcast he made offensive statements.

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Speaker 2: In fact, star of the show Beef Steven Jung was

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Speaker 2: this has been so upsetting and triggering, they said. We're

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Speaker 2: aware David has apologized in the past for making up

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Speaker 2: this horrific story, and we've seen him put in the

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Speaker 2: So there's so many wrong things in this. I cannot

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Speaker 2: I think people can fundamentally change. I definitely have changed,

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Speaker 2: but using addiction and mental health as an excuse is

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Speaker 2: never a way to go. This is to me such

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Speaker 2: who go through these things that do not think rape

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Speaker 2: Never have I ever heard them think that this was funny.

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Speaker 2: There's so much pain and so much Bessige Noir in

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Speaker 2: this conversation, that is being completely ignored and bypassed and

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Speaker 2: When I see things like David Choe, when I see

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Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong, David jo did lose a lot

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Speaker 2: Apparently, there was talk he said that he went through

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Speaker 2: I know people need need this, but we have seen

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Speaker 2: many people who have done really really harmful things and

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Speaker 2: I think he literally said into another interview, I've said

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Speaker 2: I'm so tired of that. Mm hmmm. And I will

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Speaker 2: He had gone through some severe, severe abuse as a kid.

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Speaker 2: going through these things. Rape jokes has never been a

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Speaker 2: I'm very disappointed to see this outcome. I'm very disappointed

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Speaker 1: also kind of reminds me of what we've talked about

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Speaker 3: He's an artist, right, exactly exactly, But no, it's not

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Speaker 3: funny at all. It's terrible an upsetting.

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Speaker 2: it is, and it's the very reason while I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: read his exact words, because it has posted many many

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Speaker 2: different places. It's disturbing. I don't like. None of this

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I would like to hope, you know, something will come

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Speaker 1: you know what, we're really gonna have to we have

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Speaker 1: to stop just excusing this at like three years past,

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Speaker 2: Now I'm thinking about it, I don't know about it.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that maybe it is. Well, I think

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Speaker 1: I don't think it means it could so body could

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Speaker 2: He was featured by uh Anthony Bourdain.

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Speaker 3: But here we are again, Here we are again.

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Speaker 2: I don't know there again. I mean I guess there's

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Speaker 2: That's a great question. Maybe maybe he really has and

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Speaker 2: those awful, awful apologies that he did has changed. But

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Speaker 2: because his response is just to take everything down, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That doesn't seem like a self reflection.

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Speaker 3: No, it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like somebody try to protect himself exactly things exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, happy Monday. I suppose may first, happy May happy?

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Speaker 3: That's better? Yeah, that's better than what I try to do.

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