WEBVTT - Wed Post Show (6-5-24) 0:00:01.240 --> 0:00:05.520 It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host, 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:11.960 Bobby Bone. 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:15.680 Here is a voicemail that we got last night. 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:16.000 Go ahead. 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:17.560 Hey, I got a question for you guys. 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:19.080 So, Rachel and Adam I got a friend. 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:22.639 They went on this one trip to Croatia, and I 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:27.840 swear to God, within a week they made fifteen posts 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:30.480 about this trip and it's still continuing up to a 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:33.000 week afterward. They're probably at least up to eighteen posts 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:36.000 on their Instagram about this trip. So my question for 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:38.720 you guys is what is too many posts about a trip? 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:40.559 What is the maximum amount of posts you can make 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:42.520 about a trip without it actually getting annoying. 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:44.839 I don't think there's a number. They've exceeded it, though 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:46.160 it's their. 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:47.479 Account what they want. 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:49.960 Yeah, and you can put slides up right, I mean 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:52.400 you could put like a ten picture post. Yeah. 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:52.880 I like that. 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:54.920 I'm not going to do more than three, and I'm 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:58.800 going to space out one to two big time, and 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:02.200 even then I'm probably not get it, probably max two. 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:04.200 But the first one's gonna be a ten picture slide. 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:07.080 But I don't do the just thinking about like two 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:08.560 years later, when you want to brag about something you 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:11.200 do just thinking about the time I won Dancing with 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.640 the Stars, and then you put up a poster that's 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:16.520 just a brag, that's just a time machine brag. So 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:19.000 I don't know they had a good time. It's their account. 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:21.080 I don't hate them. I do see where that could 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:23.200 be annoying. But maybe it's it sounds like he's a 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.760 bit trigger because he didn't get to go, or like 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.320 he's a little too annoyed, because you can fix that. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:30.120 It's not like it's being shoved in your face. You 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:33.760 can mute them, swipe back and block them, you can 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:35.759 follow them, you can do or you can, like he said, 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:40.839 move your finger exactly and scan it up. But yes, 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:44.440 I guess I'm not annoyed by the overposting of things 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:46.679 because the algorithm doesn't really send you all them at once. 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:49.640 I think what I kind of roll my eyes at, 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:52.400 not in an angry way, is when people do the 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:55.840 brag posts just thinking about when I and it's always 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:57.640 something they want to bring back up and brag about. 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:57.880 Again. 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:59.600 You just called the time machine brag. 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:01.200 I don't know what I said. 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:03.200 That's a good name for it, I mean, but sometimes 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.440 you you know, like how your phone pops up memories 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:08.160 and like something pops up from us, like I don't know, 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:09.679 ten years ago, and you're like, that's so cool, I 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.480 should post that. Not bragging, but the picture is kind 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:12.760 of cool. 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:13.400 That's funny though. 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:17.040 Yeah, a one memory stuff that's fine. Yeah, different than 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:18.239 but there's definitely. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.600 A difference in that. And like a time machine brag, 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.480 like the time I got to go to and then 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.840 it's you're just posting somebody can remember, you know. Yeah, 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:27.880 but even then who cares, Like it doesn't matter how 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:30.240 affects me. It's your account. Do whatever you want. And 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:31.960 if people get so annoyed, they won't follow you anymore. 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:35.560 Would you involove someone if they get annoying. I actually 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:38.520 really don't unfollow people. I just mute them. That way, 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:39.800 they never know they've been unfollowed. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:42.400 And I'm not trying to prove a point, like I 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.120 just unfollowed you, But I've probably muted like fifteen people 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.160 and I never see their stuff. 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:51.919 So why not just unfollow the drama that comes with it. 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.240 Because people get their feelings hurt man follow. 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:55.280 Yeah, and the next thing you know, if people are 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:59.040 on Twitter, Bobby unfollowed Daddy, I wonder what's happening there? 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.959 You should do that too, will say, yeah, un following 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:03.720 it's not worth it. Oh you know, I muted Ray. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:05.679 I think I still need to unmute him. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:06.840 Why I don't. 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.800 Because, oh yeah, he was going crazy and everybody's comment. 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.280 Every everything I post, he would comment something stupid. So 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:14.760 I muted him. And now whenever there's like a group 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:18.880 d M to all of us, it says restricted conversation. 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:19.760 And then you have to do it approve? 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:22.919 Yeah, yeah, yeah, how does that make you feel? Ray? 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.760 Five years ago it made me feel weird? But yeah, 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.679 it's crazy. You've had me blocked for that long. 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:29.320 I need to unblock you. I forgot about it. 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:31.160 I just used to do those comments when I drink, 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:33.880 and then I do and then you post them. I 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.120 do like mature ones, good ones that are funny. Back then, 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:37.720 I just said I'm naked, and I thought that was 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:38.480 funny because I was. 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:40.520 I hate tell you it's funny. It made me laugh. 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:43.560 Right now, that's funny. 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:46.200 That voicemail from Sarah in North Carolina. 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:48.440 I just had a question for the show. I just 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:52.440 realized that a person off a reality TV show that 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:56.000 I loved growing up is now a member at our 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:59.680 church kind of have been his if I shoot say 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:02.360 something to her? Should I not? But have kind of 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:06.040 made the decision that I would mention it or just 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:08.800 say hello. If I did see her outside of the 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:11.960 sanctuary long story shore, I did say hello. I saw 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:14.080 her in the children's link. I do feel like she 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:16.480 thought it was a bit awkward. Was that bad timing? 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.360 Should I not have said anything? Since we are at church? 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:20.400 Just wondering. 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:23.560 I don't hate it that it's at church. I think 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:27.480 it's got to be the absolute right situation. I don't 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:30.480 think while you're in the middle of the preacher doing 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:32.080 a little sermon, you send up you know. 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:33.120 Hey, a big fan. 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:38.200 But I think if like church is over and people 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:40.480 are on the lobby, you know, hey, I used to 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:42.080 watch I show you, I don't think that's a bad deal. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:44.680 Because people have a lot of conversations at church. I 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:47.320 think you just have to gauge it. And if you 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:48.800 probably read on the internet of it, whoever this is, 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:50.560 if they like to be talked to in public too, 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:52.480 I wish we'd have known who it was. 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.560 Yeah, what reality show? Like how big? 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:56.600 There's so many Yeah, we don't know. 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:57.279 It's okay. 0:04:57.279 --> 0:04:57.680 At church. 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:00.600 I think it's okay in the right part at church, 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:05.719 and if you're not with the kids, there are situations 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:08.400 that would or scenarios that would make it no. But 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:10.920 I'm gonna go that's okay. And you sound pretty normal, 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.080 meaning she's thought about it. I think, what don't worry 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:15.640 about people who don't even it doesn't factor in their head, 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:16.359 they shouldn't say it. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:18.680 The fact that you wondered. 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:20.919 Should I say it? I don't know, probably means you 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:25.280 made a decent decision based on the environment cause you're 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.279 not going to see it out of church, or you 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:29.480 could have just done the spark up a spy friendship? 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.320 What you act like you don't know who they are, 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:34.080 starting to become friends with them. All of a sudden, 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.240 you're like you're in and but the whole time you're 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.320 just like, I can't believe it. I spy. What do 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.040 you call that spy of friendship? 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:41.240 I don't like that. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:42.600 It's funny. And I thought you were going to say 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.120 you could follow them after church, see if they go 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:47.400 eat somewhere and then go to the same restaurant. That's 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.520 where I thought you were about that relationship. Literally, I 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:51.880 thought that's where you're going. You're like, oh, you're not 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:53.479 going to see them outside of church and less, and 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:53.800 I was like. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:59.679 Yeah, you're Your creepiness is like more to the point. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.080 And when I think about that. 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:05.440 It was like deeply strategizing. Had to become great friends 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:10.440 with them. A toddler who had been suffering sinus pain 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:13.640 for three months. They finally found the raisin in the nose. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:15.919 They didn't know that's what it was. 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:18.440 I think you said the reason the I know the 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:19.360 reason was the raisin. 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:22.719 Peyton Hanley told her parents that she had a pain 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.040 and then she would just rub and scratch, rub and scratch. 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.600 But doctor appointments, they couldn't find anything. And they had 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:30.280 done tests and they went into the hospital and they 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:33.000 had a anti your nose and throat, right, yeah, yeah, 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:34.120 they managed to. 0:06:35.640 --> 0:06:36.320 Find it. 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.159 It was kind of behind that cartilage too that you 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:40.520 can't just see it if you look up. I mean, 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:42.320 they pushed her nose up done the pig nose thing, 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:42.960 couldn't find it. 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:44.840 And then he went in and found it. 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:48.719 And they're like, they didn't know what it was at 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:50.040 first because it kind of looks like a little piece 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:51.600 of poop too. It's been in there for a while, 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:55.360 but he was like, this is a raisin and then 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:56.520 they didn't know how the raisin got in there. She 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:57.440 doesn't eat raisins. 0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:59.240 What that's a mystery. 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.040 She didn't stored it obviously. 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:02.240 Yeah, she suck it up there. 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:02.960 The kids do that. 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:05.560 Yeah, that's the parent was like, we don't eat raisins. 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:07.560 So she must have been somewhere. Were there eating raisins. 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.040 I'll know about Yeah. 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.880 AI has picked the NBA Champ MVP in twenty twenty 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:19.440 five finals matchup the a I bought on Twitter. The 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:22.040 Boston Celtics will defeat the Dallas Mavericks in six games. 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:25.840 Jason Tatum will be the MVP. I feel like even 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:28.800 DraftKings have told you that. Yeah, it's both the favorites. 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:32.800 Probably In twenty twenty five, the AI said that the 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:36.840 Lakers will be playing in the championship from the Sporting News. 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:41.920 Go bet your money there, all right? I know B 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:44.360 Dub is here. Want to bring him and Ray? Yeah, 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:45.440 we're on yep. 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.560 B dub Do you know b W Yeah? I met 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:53.240 Beata before you guys. Yeah. I met B dub at 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:56.360 Frontier Days. Probably the first time I met Veda when 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:59.160 he was in Denver. He drove, he drove over. 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:02.440 Yeah, forgot And then and then some of these like yeah, 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:05.440 come on in you have headphones? Have you Have you 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.920 not been here? I've been in here. It just smells 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:12.120 Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah. We're doing the guacamolea del tomorrow. 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:15.600 So this is beat beat up. I forgot you run 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:16.360 in Denver. 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:18.680 Or Colorado? 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:20.320 We are you in Colorado? Or are we in Colorado? When 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:20.680 he was there? 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:21.880 Yeah? 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.560 I think I think he was in Denver. There we go, 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:25.400 can I hear? 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:25.600 Now? 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:30.280 Yeah? I was in Denver. We worked together Denver. Here's 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:31.000 a weird That's. 0:08:30.840 --> 0:08:32.480 What it was. If we're on Wyoming EDDI and he 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:36.840 drove over from Denver to it the Shy in Frontier Days, 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:37.680 the Toby Keith Show. 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:38.520 Yeah what? 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:43.000 And now you live based out of Portland. Outside of Portland, Oregon. 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:47.640 We first met in Houston. No, Alabama. You're you're working 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.560 for Ted Striker and a small mark in Alabama. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:50.880 Yeah. 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:53.800 And you would you guys call like every month and 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.600 and you would talk about the book every month, and 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:57.200 I'd be in the passage to see the car. And 0:08:57.200 --> 0:09:00.679 then he was explaining your story from him hiring you 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:02.760 a little rock to you. I think you had just 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.760 started in mornings on Kiss back in the day in Austin. 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:07.959 I think around that time, about two thousand and three, right. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:09.160 Yeah, he was doing n It's like a small station 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:09.640 in Alabama. 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:13.320 You've known him for that long ish, Yeah, Wow radio known, 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.280 Like I don't think we met in person till like 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:16.920 twenty thirteen or something's like ten years. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.880 Later probably, But it's like watching somebody on social media 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:20.599 do all the stuff. You're like, we have seen it 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:22.240 in three years. Like, No, I've watched you every day. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:24.839 I've seen every social post you posted, so it feels 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:26.320 like you see them. What are you doing in town? 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:29.800 Just here for CMA Fest, you know, covering some events, 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:32.440 just going and kind of experiencing it from a fan perspective, 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.160 Like I don't have any special backstage credentials or anything 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:37.360 or press pass. I just wanted to come and kind 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:40.240 of bring it to the people that listen to the 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:43.120 show and follow me just the perspective of of how 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:44.680 it would be as a fan. So I'm excited to 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.360 look at it from that angle. So you don't want 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:47.880 backstage passes? I got like eight of them. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:48.880 You're good, No, I'm good. 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:53.160 I don't have any I was gonna see. 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:55.880 What Wait, so you're gonna say, here are fans. I don't. 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.719 I could get backstage, but I'm not going to just 0:09:58.840 --> 0:10:01.480 see what you should show them backstage? Like this is 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:02.200 what you're missing? 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.880 Well, why don't you? Okay, beat Up by the way, 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:09.719 beat Ups a nationally syndicated show and knows kind of 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:10.320 what he's doing. 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.240 But I'm no, I understand he does. I'm just like, 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.320 I'm confused why he wants to be like the normal 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.679 people and not be like a what we are? 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.920 I think he said he what are we celebs? I 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:22.480 think he wants to experience it. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.440 Yeah, just a different like I think I think I 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:27.760 could have more fun at two o'clock in the morning 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:30.320 going into red door with a microphone and talking to 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:34.199 people and get, you know, more interesting conversations than a 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:35.599 random backstage conversation. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:37.400 You know, at four o'clock in the afternoon. 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:40.240 Backstage conversations are exactly the same. There's nothing back there 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:43.440 that's true. Everybody's how you been Wow lunch. 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:44.840 Mark's just agreed with something. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:45.880 So are you saying you were wrong? 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:47.440 He just said that's true. 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.680 No, I'm saying that people are probably more fun at 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:53.079 the bar than they are backstage. A lot of backstage 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.040 people are kind of up at y. 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:54.600 We'll take it. 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:56.720 Tell everybody about your show, what you're doing, how they 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:57.120 can follow you. 0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.680 I'm at beat Up Radio on Instagram. You know, we 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.280 basically the same setup. You know, here's the crazy part 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:06.280 man with with syndication is that there are some cities 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:08.360 where we're on the same station. We're on the same team. 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:10.640 There's some cities like Denver, for example, we're on different stations. 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:12.760 But at the end of the day, I mean, we're 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:14.839 all one big radio family. So we all root for 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.480 each other's success, and uh, you know, want to make 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.000 sure we all win because I think everybody wins when 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:21.960 when our listeners get a get a great experience, no 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:23.120 matter what radio station we're on. 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.120 Wait, we're competitors, like some. 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:27.680 Only like parts of his body, certain parts of body. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.320 Some are right. 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:33.640 Yeah, and you know that in my mind, we don't 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.880 even we're not even competing as other radio shows. We're 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:39.480 competing for people's time in general. So it's like Katie, 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:43.679 who is Katie and Company. H We're on a lot 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.320 of stations that she's on the opposite but we're also 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:48.439 on like some affiliate's the same exact. 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.520 Deal, So that whole deal of I now hate people 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:51.880 for who they are, not what face they're on. 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:53.920 Good call, Man's a great approach for it. 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:54.920 Yeah, I still hate a lot of people. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:56.480 Yeah, Like I don't. 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.800 I don't care anymore, like what company you are form, 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:00.360 I just don't like you. It's because of who you are. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:02.760 I even don't like people in my own company. Now see, 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:03.560 I've grown a lot. 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:04.439 Yeah, good for you, man. 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:06.120 I was in my therapist office and we were talking 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:10.640 about competition and how sometimes I just look for it. 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:16.320 I need it in anything. And we started boiling down 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:19.079 as to why that is. And it's a whole insecurity issue. 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:22.360 And I don't really like winning. I hate losing. 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:24.240 Is that childhood rooted? 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:27.240 Well, it's if I lose, it's I feel less than 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.800 right if I win. You know how my mind is, well, 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:31.320 if I gotta win the next one or people are 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:32.960 gonna think this. Seven wins in a row is not 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:40.440 a real indicative you know, winning whatever. So we're talking 0:12:40.440 --> 0:12:42.559 about that and he's like, what about people you compete with? 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:43.400 I'm like, I hate him. 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:45.280 He's like, but I didn't mention it is specifically, I said, 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:47.960 it doesn't matter if like somebody's trying to get what 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:51.480 I'm trying to get, I hate them, but I don't, 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:53.960 and radio doesn't matter anymore like that, like, I don't 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:55.760 hate to make radio unless I hate them as a person, 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:58.559 because I don't feel like we were competing, because you know, 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.239 a lot of our stuff too, is just on demand. 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.040 So when we played pickleball, you hate me at that moment, 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:06.839 we're like, really if no, okay, because I know that's 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:07.440 a bit different. 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:11.200 But if like we're like, we've had some pretty ugly 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:15.760 softball run ins. Like playing other teams is my driving force. 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:18.319 My whole life was to kill the person I was 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:21.520 competing against, and I would make them in my head 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.280 the absolute worst, most vile person. 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.160 Like do you remember being that way when you played 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:27.359 sports in high school? 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:28.080 Oh? 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:28.960 Yeah, okay. 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:30.959 Some of other times I wouldn't get to know them 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:33.520 as much, especially in high school. Right we were playing teams, 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:35.600 we had other players, but I hated the schools. But 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.920 I was also on a team. But it was really 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:41.560 whenever it became just me and it did not matter 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:45.719 who it was, I hated, and I sometimes I have 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.800 to remember I don't actually hate the person even now 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:50.840 because I had competed against them and in my head 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:52.080 they were just the worst. 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:53.640 But you still hate some of them. 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:56.800 Yeah, yeah, well some of them probably don't even deserve it. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.040 It's just been in my mind. It's just so like 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.520 dug into who I I am, and it's got years 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:02.960 and years just. 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:06.520 Using that as motivation. 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:09.240 It's been good for me. I mean, it's been good 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:09.440 for me. 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:11.600 So right, But what are some other ways you can 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:12.319 get motivated? 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:13.880 Oh? 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:14.199 I don't know. 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:15.560 Did your therapist say that's okay? 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:17.440 Because I mean some things we do if it's if 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:18.960 it's giving us a result. 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:19.480 It mean. 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:24.080 To have a healthy amount of something. 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.400 But you mean, like the trophy or the award? Does 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:27.520 that drive you. 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:28.600 Like no, getting it? 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:31.320 No, I give no craps about winning any trophy or 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:31.800 any award. 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:32.560 Losing it. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.560 I want to bite my fingers off because that means 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:39.160 somebody wanted over me. I wo'd rather there be no award. 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:44.400 The competition is your highest form of motivation. 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:51.280 Yes, I'm I am fear based motivation because if I lose, 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.000 I fear people are gonna look at me as a loser. 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:55.360 That I feel like I kind of am. 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.400 Your worth is attached to yes. 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.680 And so that's what we talked about. How but it 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:01.800 just relates to this. I just hate anybody. I was 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:03.200 up against the radio, even if I was doing a 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:07.880 single station. If somebody did knights against me, I hated them. 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:10.560 But I've done that pretty much my whole life. 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:14.000 Does your therapist like respond with like dang or like yep? 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:14.720 I understand that. 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:18.440 My therapist once told me when we left a session. Man, 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.440 he was like, it's just nobody else like you or something, 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:23.480 and I was like, you're a therapist. You shouldn't say that, 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:24.720 you know. 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:27.160 Because sometimes when I'm in therapy, I feel like, well, 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:30.800 there's like I can feel comfortable say anything because there's 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:31.960 surely somebody worse than me. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:33.000 It's almost like are. 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:35.280 You the are you the worst? Are you the ceiling 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:35.600 or floor? 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:37.840 Are you the worst? 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.560 But probably not. That was definitely a joke. But I 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.680 would think that the therapist because you do. I think 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:45.160 you've been with them long enough now to where you 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:48.560 enjoy him. I feel like he probably has a lot 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:51.080 of if you do his job, compassion for you, and. 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:53.320 Yeah, yeah, when he starts to have that till I'm like, 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:54.120 don't feel sorry for me? 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:55.840