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Speaker 1: A grocery store. Karen called the cops because I took

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Speaker 2: Wow? How dare you have your service dog probably.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, servicing you and assisting you?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: The auDA to dare you traumatize my child more than me?

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be the person who introduces the most

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Speaker 2: Come on, I can't be number two.

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Speaker 1: I have an invisible disability and a service dog wasn't It's.

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Speaker 2: Like something that you can't see.

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Speaker 1: I turned invisible. No one can see me.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She's a cardiac alert dog. I bring her everywhere and

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Speaker 1: it has been such a big quality of life difference

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Speaker 1: for me. So I imagine something to do with a heart.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday I was in bulk Foods buying some supplies and

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Speaker 2: The mother walked over.

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Speaker 1: And started demanding that I leave the store immediately. I

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Speaker 1: Bro, have you heard of tiny Tim? Have you heard

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Speaker 2: He's the smallest and youngest.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard of Stevie? Wonder? He's old now, but

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Speaker 2: And oh, bro that like these, these the logical leaps

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Speaker 2: that Karen's are having to take, it's just getting more

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Speaker 1: Wait, children can't be disabled.

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Speaker 2: They're so young and healthy. Look at my kid. My

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Speaker 1: God, bro, I mean, have you ever heard of like, oh,

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Speaker 1: She said that, regardless of whether or not my dog

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Speaker 1: because you know, Karen is the gatekeeper of bulk food.

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Speaker 1: Karen I refused and continued shopping. I simply went to

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Speaker 1: And there is an update. But John gut check, what

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Speaker 2: No, you're frazy. She set me up for failion there, buddy.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, that all dogs should be used to

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Speaker 2: Sam's getting me back from the last story. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 2: unfortunately they are competing with each other. Unfortunately. It just

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Speaker 1: But on the other side of the store, Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: So I saw the Karen with their child again, by

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Speaker 1: What is the dog doing deep pressure therapy here? Let's

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Speaker 2: I mean that would be giving like the CPR pressure therapy.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like it's like, oh, this is just a

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Speaker 2: It's a dog. It's a dog, which is great.

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Speaker 1: I must have been on the floor for about ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: Water, give her like medical attention. No, this is Walmart.

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Speaker 2: For your lights. You can't spare any electron lights.

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Speaker 1: I'm Asian, yi oh, she said. The least I could

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Speaker 1: Cops only gave her a warning for wasting their time

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Speaker 2: Again with the set, Opie is not the a hole

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Speaker 2: at all. The shocking audacity of this, Karen, this lady

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Speaker 1: Out, removed the daughter from the situation, the situation, take

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Speaker 1: like what can you do?

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Speaker 1: It's also like if this person is so who fully

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Speaker 1: like you to educate yourself, you really really do? What

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 1: Like if you're if you imagine for a second you

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Speaker 1: Your child starts crying. What do you do?

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Speaker 2: Train the dog to kill my enemies? Not just kidding

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Speaker 2: you go around like Walmart? Walmart is huge, Go to

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Speaker 2: it's literally so easy. It was so easy to avoid.

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Speaker 1: Give your kid an iPad, dude, vision pro no dogs.

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Speaker 2: Honestly I had is not a bad idea at all?

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Speaker 2: Like that could that could work? Why not a blindfold?

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Speaker 2: Something about removing vision from my child doesn't seem like

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Speaker 1: Rather have them have a beltown it probably barely has

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Speaker 1: object permanence. Is delete it from vial?

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Speaker 2: Walmart is literally a warehouse. You can so easily find

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Speaker 2: go blindfold. They have so many options.

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Speaker 2: This comment comes from CCPW seven tw I have two children,

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Speaker 2: and should be charged And good on OP for calling

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Speaker 1: All right, hey, hey, get that, get that money, clack cash.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, look at this this money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't even don't even need it, don't even care.

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Speaker 1: Wow, shit, got hit me, dine, shit, that's right. Years later,

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Speaker 2: Ay he us go.

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Speaker 1: We decided that my husband would handle all the money

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I played with the numbers, and while figuring out if

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Speaker 1: When my husband got home, I showed him the accounts,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I mean, oh my god, that is

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Speaker 2: absolutely terrible. Like you really need to understand bitcoin and

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Speaker 1: She says he put money into something stupid without talking

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Speaker 1: I think, the worst part. Like I mean, I like,

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Speaker 1: I get it, like you lose two hundred k and

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Speaker 2: Make it back, but I mean, it's it sounds like

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Speaker 2: I want to invest our stuff in it, and I'm

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Speaker 2: The little two hundred thousand make much money? No big deal,

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Speaker 2: Wow, just going straight to divorce.

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Speaker 1: Dang. If he is capable of doing this, how can

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she's the ahole, But that's so hard.

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Speaker 2: I mean, not no, not at all of the ahole

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Speaker 2: But you're not You're not really that.

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Speaker 1: Far in the wrong now, I don't think. I mean

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Speaker 1: I don't think that was a clear above. So we're

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Speaker 1: Like some suggested, if he had doubled our money or

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think the only problem was he

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Speaker 2: I'm going to do this and she agreed, then that's

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