WEBVTT - Chaos with Teresa Giudice (Part 1)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of Casual Chaos.

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<v Speaker 1>This week, I have my most requested guest, Mom. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to Casual Chaos.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Ji, thanks for having me, and I'm your

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<v Speaker 2>most requested guest.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone wants to hear what you have to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited. All right, So we're kind of going

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to the beginning a little bit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you decide to join the housewives? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever question putting your life, marriage and us on TV?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean I think you know. I remember these

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<v Speaker 2>producers went to the salon in Franklin Lakes called Chateau,

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<v Speaker 2>and they requested for like, you know, beautiful women with

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful houses, like over the top lifestyles, and the owner

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<v Speaker 2>of the salon request The owner of the salon said,

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<v Speaker 2>I recommend Dina and Jacqueline. So they started out with them.

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<v Speaker 2>Then Dina recommended me, so they interviewed them. They loved them.

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<v Speaker 2>Dina recommended me. Jacqueline recommended another friend of hers that

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<v Speaker 2>was beautiful and was really wealthy, and but her husband

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<v Speaker 2>said no, So her husband said now, and then then

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<v Speaker 2>Jacqueline said, oh my god, you know, maybe that girl

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle that comes to the salon, she'll be good and

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<v Speaker 2>she ended up being great TV. So she got on

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<v Speaker 2>and then Jackson also recommended her sister in law Caroline,

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<v Speaker 2>so she got on. And then with me, they you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they came over the house while we were redoing the

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<v Speaker 2>house and they interviewed me right there as all three

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<v Speaker 2>of you got you know, it was it was you,

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<v Speaker 2>Gabriella and Milani all walking around the house while the

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<v Speaker 2>house was you know, being real. I mean I would

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<v Speaker 2>say re renovated. Yeah, So they interviewed us. It was

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<v Speaker 2>very like easy, like right outside our.

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<v Speaker 1>House, like your normal everyday life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like it was wasn't done like in the studio

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<v Speaker 2>or they didn't come to the house bring you know,

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<v Speaker 2>all these camera crews, none of that, because I know

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<v Speaker 2>that's how they do it now. So it was just,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they just talk to us and then I

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<v Speaker 2>guess they're like, oh my god, she's definitely TV gold,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and then they chased us like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the whole family like us because everybody else signed their

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<v Speaker 2>contract right away and I didn't sign the contract. It

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<v Speaker 2>was took us. It took me almost a year, and

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<v Speaker 2>all my friends were so over me because I would ask.

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<v Speaker 2>I would call Dina and say, well, do you think

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<v Speaker 2>I really should do this? Or like what is this?

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<v Speaker 2>And Jacqueline and they're oh, like, oh my god, we're

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<v Speaker 2>so over you. Because like I didn't know when I

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<v Speaker 2>was getting you know, I didn't understand this.

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<v Speaker 1>But why did you have so much hesitation?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't I just didn't know what

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<v Speaker 2>it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what, Like I thought it was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a joke because like never thought that, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>that I was going to become this huge reality I

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like or whatever you want to call it

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<v Speaker 2>at that at that time, like a movie star or

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<v Speaker 2>a big TV star.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like never thought that big TV star. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not in the movies yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but I'm saying, like that's something I would say,

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, when you're on TV, you say a

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<v Speaker 2>movie star, you know, like that's something I say, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's my language. So I never I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 2>I was getting myself into it really, But then finally

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<v Speaker 2>I was like it wouldn't go away, and they kept

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<v Speaker 2>calling me and calling me and calling me, so I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know what, I guess it's maybe something

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<v Speaker 2>I should try out. So and I was kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>you were already at think seven or eight, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was doing the same thing every day, so, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to do the same thing every day, you get bored.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just like I would love you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, they're just going to follow us around doing

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<v Speaker 2>what we normally do, and now we'll get paid for it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like going shopping, you know, hanging out with

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<v Speaker 2>my friends. I mean, you know, of course they don't.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it wasn't that much, but you know, obviously

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<v Speaker 2>now you know, throughout the years, it built up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So then I said, yeah, so then, and how I

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<v Speaker 2>signed the contract was so easy that I didn't even

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<v Speaker 2>have a lawyer look at it. Jacqueline was so over me.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like Teresa, She's like, just sign it ready. So

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<v Speaker 2>I signed it. I handed it to her and like

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<v Speaker 2>we were together, and she stuck it in the fedexbox

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<v Speaker 2>and that was it. So that's how I signed my

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<v Speaker 2>contracts Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually a very cute story.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it took you a while.

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<v Speaker 2>It took me a while to sign the contract. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, would I do it again? I guess I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it wasn't hiding anything. And Daddy was like, see,

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<v Speaker 2>if if Daddy thought he was doing something wrong, he

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<v Speaker 2>would have told me no. So he didn't think he

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<v Speaker 2>was doing anything wrong, like really, and.

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<v Speaker 1>But so and those early years of the Real Housewives

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<v Speaker 1>and now having those memories of our family when we

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<v Speaker 1>were younger and you and Dad, it's really nice to

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<v Speaker 1>look back on. It's almost like we have home videos.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what to me is the best part, especially because

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<v Speaker 2>my parents are not you know, no no, no, no, we're

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<v Speaker 2>not here anymore. Like I love seeing that. I do too,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I just wish it would have been just

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<v Speaker 2>better with them, you know, meaning like you know the

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<v Speaker 2>part you know, of course, you know, with my brother

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<v Speaker 2>and not you know, of course I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about him, but obviously like better times, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wish you wish you know, there were better moments of

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<v Speaker 1>your parents shown and not dealing with so much heartache.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like you know, I wish there was like, you know, just.

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<v Speaker 1>More more positives, basically showing the true meaning of an

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<v Speaker 1>Italian family.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like Season one and two were like that, because

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<v Speaker 2>like they were in my cook books and we video

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<v Speaker 2>that and they're part of my you know. Yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you and Nona are on my second cookbook,

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<v Speaker 2>Like we have three generations on my second you know, fabulicious,

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<v Speaker 2>my fabulicious cookbooks. So to me, that's like something that

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<v Speaker 2>I'll always cherish and I'm so happy I got to

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<v Speaker 2>do that, especially because my mom's not here anymore. So

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a nice memory.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was like the I would have to say

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<v Speaker 2>doing the show, that was the best part of it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like the good memories with my parents because

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<v Speaker 2>they're not here anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And listen, we do have good representation of what

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<v Speaker 1>an Italian family is supposed to be like. I know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people don't see it all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>but you do say it. You know, Dad's family has shown,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my sisters and I at least, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they've shown you to, you know, what family

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<v Speaker 1>really is supposed to be like and how you're really

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to always have each other's backs and be there

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what, no matter what goes on. And Dad's

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<v Speaker 1>family really does show how you know, the Italian family

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<v Speaker 1>could be so close.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they do, and that's one of the things

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<v Speaker 2>why I wanted to be with your dad because I

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<v Speaker 2>came from a small family and he had such a

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<v Speaker 2>big family. Do you know what I did when I

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<v Speaker 2>first started day and your dad, like his height bothered me.

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<v Speaker 2>He really did. So my dad was a shoemaker, so

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, my dad cut all my heels, so I

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<v Speaker 2>so he wouldn't be taller than me. Did you ever

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<v Speaker 2>know that? I feel like you don't have cut all

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<v Speaker 2>my heels so we would be the same height.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I feel like I would do the same thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I did not want to be No, that's also

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird. No, But then after we got married, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't give it anywhere. Yeah, because you were married. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I wouldn't want to be taller than my man.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean I mean, so now I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have that problem anymore. Now you don't, Loisa, Now you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>What were your first impressions of the original cast members

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<v Speaker 1>of Season one?

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<v Speaker 2>Diana I loved she reminded me always of Pamela Anderson. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this blonde, bombshell sexy, she's so gorgeous, like hot, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's I used always tell it. I'm with the big

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<v Speaker 2>boobs like hot, smoky, hot, sexy. And then Jacqueline same thing,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'll never forget the first time I met Jacqueline,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Wow, she was hot, like sexy boobs,

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<v Speaker 2>small waists, smoking body, sexy legs, her legs were like

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<v Speaker 2>so hot.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you always used to say that when

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<v Speaker 1>when we were younger, that Jacqueline had the best legs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she does have sexy legs. Yeah, so yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what you know. This is how I'm describing everyone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's Danielle. Danielle was let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle was made back like she was TV gold. She

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<v Speaker 2>really was, like she like she was awesome. Just she

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<v Speaker 2>put it all out there, literally put it all out

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<v Speaker 2>on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean I thought she was great and she

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<v Speaker 2>was fun to be around.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she was.

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<v Speaker 2>She was fun and like very easy going, just so

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<v Speaker 2>much fun, you know. You know, even though in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 2>like she was like insulting me a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 2>that's what made me flip the table on her, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because she would just like throw these little jabs at me,

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<v Speaker 2>like don't talk to me, like you know, or she

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<v Speaker 2>said to Joe like don't speak to like, don't speak

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<v Speaker 2>to me like you speak to your wife. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and stuff like that. And then and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>the type I take it. I take it. I take it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then when I don't take it anywhere, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I explode. And that's she saw that. Yeah, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>I have to say, but Danielle was so much fun

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<v Speaker 2>like and like, you know, getting to know her, and

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<v Speaker 2>then look, we ended up making up later on anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>And Caroline. I did never hung out with Caroline. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>Caroline was Dina's older sister, so I just kind of

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<v Speaker 2>just respected her because she was Dina's older sister. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so and that was it. So that's how you know

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<v Speaker 2>it was with Caroline. And then with Caroline it was

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<v Speaker 2>like we were building a friendship because I really didn't

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<v Speaker 2>hang out with Caroline. I hung out with her sister, Dina,

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<v Speaker 2>And that was it. That was the cast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who did you immediately know you wouldn't get along with.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, if I had to pick someone, Caroline,

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<v Speaker 2>But you flipped the table on Danielle. I know. But

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<v Speaker 2>I liked her in the beginning. I did because she

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<v Speaker 2>was just fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But you didn't know if you were gonna like Caroline.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because she was she was just older. She seemed

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<v Speaker 2>like a little like not my speed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that's fun, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like yeah at the time, like she wasn't like I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't hang out with Caroline, you didn't know. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 2>if I had to pick someone, if you're asking me,

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<v Speaker 2>if I had to, like, if I had to back then,

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<v Speaker 2>if I had to pick if someone asked.

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<v Speaker 1>Me before going into it, if you had to pick someone,

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<v Speaker 1>it would probably be Caroline.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, got it, because Danielle was fun, like she really was,

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<v Speaker 2>and I like fun people like I like having a

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<v Speaker 2>good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you do. What was it like having cameras

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<v Speaker 1>around us for the first time? Did you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't able to fully be yourself or I actually

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<v Speaker 1>think you were more more yourself? Yeah, totally fine, not

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<v Speaker 1>even more, but you just and I always say this,

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<v Speaker 1>you and Dad were TV gold just because in the

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<v Speaker 1>early years you were so funny and you still are.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just funny to watch yourself fifteen years ago

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, we were all little. Our family was

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<v Speaker 1>obviously younger, and it was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Cute little you were little, like it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just yeah, it was fifteen years ago. You

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<v Speaker 1>looked younger. We were all little.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I feel like I look I look at pictures

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<v Speaker 2>of how my ice to do my hair and makeup

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<v Speaker 2>back then. I feel like I look so much better now,

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<v Speaker 2>even though I'm older. I feel like I like my

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<v Speaker 2>hair makes different.

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<v Speaker 1>You barely war makeup first of all in season one

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<v Speaker 1>or two, literally nothing, and you just embraced your natural

0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Italian beauty. You wore your hair curly, and I love

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<v Speaker 1>your hair curly like you, it was it was just natural.

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<v Speaker 1>You really didn't do much. That was the thing. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do anything. I just that's why it's so cute too.

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<v Speaker 2>I would always make sure you and your sisters look perfect,

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<v Speaker 2>but you and then with me, I would just get

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<v Speaker 2>very quick.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. No, I listen when I look back at

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<v Speaker 1>old photos. I love you and Dad's engagement photos. I

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<v Speaker 1>love the photos of you guys riding your bike in

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<v Speaker 1>the park. Who takes photos like that anymore? No one.

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<v Speaker 1>I want a vintage camera and to take photos like

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<v Speaker 1>my mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad was me. That was my doing your dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but those photos and just the way you guys looked,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just perfect. But I don't know you have

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<v Speaker 1>a camera. You could do the same thing. Talus shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have bike me around the park. No, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just Dad was so unfiltered. Actually he said

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<v Speaker 1>whatever came to his mind, and he still does. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's why people loved him because he didn't think before

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<v Speaker 1>he He didn't think before he spoke. He just said

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<v Speaker 1>it and it was so real. And I feel as

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<v Speaker 1>though you and Dad changed nothing going into the show.

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<v Speaker 1>It was how we were every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it like in New Jersey when Housewives first aired?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you handle it? Did anything change around town?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I mean you know what changed? The only thing

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<v Speaker 2>that changed when it aired that everybody was like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god. They were like loving me, and they wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to take a picture with me. I'm like a picture.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like okay. I was like all right, So

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<v Speaker 2>that's what changed, Like people noticing me and wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>take a picure. Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>And did you like that or was that a little overwhelming?

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<v Speaker 1>At first?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't mind it. It was just when I had

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<v Speaker 2>when I was with you girls, like when I had

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<v Speaker 2>when you girls are with me Milania, Like Milani would

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<v Speaker 2>if I took a picture, she would take off on

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<v Speaker 2>me and then I'm like, oh my god, I have

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<v Speaker 2>to have real quick. I'm I have to you have

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<v Speaker 2>to get my kid, you know. Yeah, because Milani would

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<v Speaker 2>just take off on me. She would not stay next

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<v Speaker 2>to me. And that's the only time I got overwhelmed,

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<v Speaker 2>like I got nervous because I didn't want Milania to, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, go for ba, you know, somebody take her

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<v Speaker 2>or something.

0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.720
<v Speaker 1>Or a fan actually brought Malania back to our family

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<v Speaker 1>in Disney.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and Disney. She ran away.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. She wanted this doll and she wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>stop until she got this doll.

0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:50.960
<v Speaker 2>I would lost her for two minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>It was two minutes, no scarious, two minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we were taking pictures with the princesses. She wanted

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<v Speaker 1>this doll, so she ran.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know she went that, she just left us

0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:05.080
<v Speaker 2>and then she went and she was like outside, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and she grabbed the doll.

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<v Speaker 1>She ran out of the store with the doll. And

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<v Speaker 1>thank god a fan recognized us, because we were we

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<v Speaker 1>were going crazy looking for her, going crazy looking for her,

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<v Speaker 1>and the fan brings Melania back. We were like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did we have to give you? We owe you.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything, I was so scared.

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<v Speaker 1>That was I don't think we've not we haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>back to Disney since. When did you find out about

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<v Speaker 1>the charges against you and dad? And what were the

0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.040
<v Speaker 1>talks with Bravo when all that was happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's I think that's been so long ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It was ten years ago you got out of.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, listen when it all happened. I was, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like I didn't know. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>all a joke, like for me anyway, like with your

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<v Speaker 2>father there, I mean, you know, with your father, I

0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:08.920
<v Speaker 2>was like I didn't. I'm like, obviously I knew, you know,

0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:12.280
<v Speaker 2>for the government to come knocking on your door, there

0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:15.200
<v Speaker 2>was something going on, you know. And I remember them

0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:16.960
<v Speaker 2>come knocking on the door and I'm like all right.

0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:18.480
<v Speaker 2>They're like, it is your husband home. I said no,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, all right, we're gonna wait for him.

0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:21.440
<v Speaker 2>I said, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then where were we?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know. I think you were maybe at school.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even remember if you guys were there. I

0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:33.240
<v Speaker 2>was like okay, Like I was like, okay, no, Prama.

0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:37.440
<v Speaker 2>I called him, like, Joe, these guys are here wait

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<v Speaker 2>for you. I was like a right, And then I said,

0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.120
<v Speaker 2>they said they're gonna wait for you said okay, and

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<v Speaker 2>that was it and he came home and I think

0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:47.200
<v Speaker 2>you talked to him. Yeah, I mean I was never

0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:54.760
<v Speaker 2>I was never arrested, never handcuffed, never shackled.

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<v Speaker 1>See, thank you guy.

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<v Speaker 2>At least you know that was one good, good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I have to say, like, yeah, your father

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<v Speaker 2>and I, that never happened. I don't know what happened

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<v Speaker 2>to your father when he went to prison, but with me,

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<v Speaker 2>none of that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>You would have to ask your father, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>they you know, if they shackled him because he was

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<v Speaker 2>I think maybe in a higher security I.

0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Think they might have, especially because he was he was

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<v Speaker 1>transported a lot of times.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that never happened with me. So and thank

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<v Speaker 2>god for that because I know I'm not a criminal,

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<v Speaker 2>and that would have like I wouldn't have been happy

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<v Speaker 2>with that. And yeah, so I was just like what

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<v Speaker 2>And I recently found out now that I thought I

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<v Speaker 2>bought a house, I bought it. I thought I bought

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<v Speaker 2>two houses. Because I really wasn't really paying attention to

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing. I guess stupid of me but not

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<v Speaker 2>really because I really didn't wasn't involved in your father's business.

0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:56.720
<v Speaker 2>So I thought it was all a joke, and I

0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:59.320
<v Speaker 2>was like, what what's going I didn't, like, I never

0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:01.240
<v Speaker 2>was involved in so I didn't know what the hell

0:18:01.720 --> 0:18:04.320
<v Speaker 2>was going on. And I was like, all right, So

0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:05.760
<v Speaker 2>they're like, you have to get a lawyer. So I

0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:07.720
<v Speaker 2>was like, all right, I couldn't use his lawyer. I'm like,

0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:09.920
<v Speaker 2>all right, Joe, get me a lawyer. Then, I mean,

0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:12.959
<v Speaker 2>and so I had to get my own lawyer. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I thought my lawyer, I mean, my lawyer was

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<v Speaker 2>so expensive, and I thought my lawyer of course, was

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<v Speaker 2>going to have my back. Me and my lawyer did

0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:23.679
<v Speaker 2>not get along because yeah, I mean, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>with all that, I feel like they're already they already

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<v Speaker 2>know what's going to happen, and especially if you're in

0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:34.439
<v Speaker 2>the public eye, they make an example out of you.

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<v Speaker 2>And now now I know it all Like back then,

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<v Speaker 2>like I never thought I was going to go to

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<v Speaker 2>jail ever, like in a million years. Like if you

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<v Speaker 2>would have said I'm going to shoot you right now,

0:18:44.520 --> 0:18:45.920
<v Speaker 2>do you think you're going to go to jail? Yes

0:18:46.000 --> 0:18:48.120
<v Speaker 2>or no? I'd be like, no, shoot me because I'm

0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:51.119
<v Speaker 2>not going to go to jail. Like never in a

0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:55.359
<v Speaker 2>million zillions, I would have like never thought that because

0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:57.240
<v Speaker 2>I didn't do anything. So I was like, all right,

0:18:57.720 --> 0:19:00.960
<v Speaker 2>like I'm not involved in my husband's business. I didn't

0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:04.080
<v Speaker 2>do anything wrong. So I was really cocky about it.

0:19:04.160 --> 0:19:04.679
<v Speaker 1>I really was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I didn't do anything wrong. So I mean,

0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:08.320
<v Speaker 2>I guess we have to like I don't know what,

0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:11.320
<v Speaker 2>they just have to do their investigation and find out

0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:14.080
<v Speaker 2>what happened. And I was fine with it, and so

0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:16.280
<v Speaker 2>I cooperated. I did whatever they told me to do,

0:19:17.640 --> 0:19:20.119
<v Speaker 2>and you know, obviously whatever your faus. And then I

0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:22.280
<v Speaker 2>just found out recently, I thought I because I just

0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:24.800
<v Speaker 2>went to a closing. I went to a lawyer's office.

0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I went to a closing, and I put my John

0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:32.960
<v Speaker 2>Hancock on papers. That was it. So that's what I did.

0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:36.320
<v Speaker 2>And then I thought I bought. I thought he used

0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:38.320
<v Speaker 2>my credit to because he was at the time he

0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:41.960
<v Speaker 2>was flipping homes, so I thought I bought a house

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<v Speaker 2>or two houses or whatever. And I just asked him recently,

0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:47.040
<v Speaker 2>and you know, I don't know if you heard me

0:19:47.119 --> 0:19:50.800
<v Speaker 2>asking them the other day, and I was like, he said,

0:19:50.880 --> 0:19:53.560
<v Speaker 2>he said tree heed to call me Tree. He's like,

0:19:54.000 --> 0:19:55.959
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what did I do buy? How many houses?

0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:57.720
<v Speaker 2>Did I buy? One or two? He's like, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>even buy a house.

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<v Speaker 1>Tree.

0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:04.399
<v Speaker 2>He's like, we refinanced a property I had, And I

0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:06.919
<v Speaker 2>was like what. I'm like, I went to jail for

0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:12.040
<v Speaker 2>refinancing a house. I'm like, are you kidding me? I'm like,

0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:14.000
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I'm like, why did you make me

0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:16.720
<v Speaker 2>sign those papers? That day? I'm like, OK, gonna, I'm like,

0:20:17.440 --> 0:20:19.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, are you serious? So that's what I went

0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:22.200
<v Speaker 2>to jail for because I rEFInd And the reason why

0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:24.720
<v Speaker 2>I went to jail is because I put my johnt

0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:30.159
<v Speaker 2>my signature on papers that were like not like whatever

0:20:30.280 --> 0:20:35.720
<v Speaker 2>numbers were on those papers were incorrect. Like that's that's

0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:39.600
<v Speaker 2>that's considered fraud. From now on, never signed papers unless

0:20:39.720 --> 0:20:44.440
<v Speaker 2>you know you know what you're signing. You know, also learned, Yeah,

0:20:44.480 --> 0:20:48.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean like you know, and it's great. It's better

0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:50.520
<v Speaker 2>like when you get paid by a check, like or

0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:52.359
<v Speaker 2>if you work for a company, you get paid by

0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:56.320
<v Speaker 2>check because everything is like on the books exactly. So

0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:58.919
<v Speaker 2>like with Daddy, he was doing construction, it was different,

0:20:59.400 --> 0:21:02.679
<v Speaker 2>you know, so and then you know what upsets me

0:21:02.720 --> 0:21:09.399
<v Speaker 2>the most is that Daddy had a partner and and

0:21:09.440 --> 0:21:10.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I went to jail and his

0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:15.640
<v Speaker 2>partner didn't, so read between the lines. Yeah, yeah, So

0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:18.560
<v Speaker 2>that's what upsets me because I would have been kind

0:21:18.600 --> 0:21:21.920
<v Speaker 2>of fine if both, if all three of us would

0:21:21.920 --> 0:21:24.359
<v Speaker 2>have went to jail. That would have made me feel

0:21:24.440 --> 0:21:28.280
<v Speaker 2>better because he had a partner and a lot of properties,

0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:32.520
<v Speaker 2>a lot of them. And I know that, I know

0:21:32.680 --> 0:21:35.280
<v Speaker 2>because you know. And then for me to go to

0:21:35.400 --> 0:21:41.080
<v Speaker 2>jail signing, you know, like a refinanced property is so

0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:45.119
<v Speaker 2>sad and you know, and then leaving you, And what

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<v Speaker 2>hurt me the most is leaving the four of you

0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:50.680
<v Speaker 2>like for almost a year.

0:21:51.119 --> 0:21:53.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was definitely like that, you know.

0:21:53.320 --> 0:21:57.320
<v Speaker 2>And what kept me saying was that I was I

0:21:57.400 --> 0:21:59.119
<v Speaker 2>knew my parents were going to be with you guys,

0:21:59.119 --> 0:22:00.840
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, oh, I was like, that was

0:22:00.880 --> 0:22:02.479
<v Speaker 2>the only thing that kept me good. I was like,

0:22:02.520 --> 0:22:04.280
<v Speaker 2>my parents are going to be with them, and I

0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:06.199
<v Speaker 2>want and I told my parents to speak Italian to

0:22:06.240 --> 0:22:08.760
<v Speaker 2>them every day so I want them to learn Italian.

0:22:08.920 --> 0:22:10.320
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I knew you guys would never

0:22:10.400 --> 0:22:12.720
<v Speaker 2>forget them because they were with you that whole year

0:22:13.480 --> 0:22:15.920
<v Speaker 2>and then look, I come home and then eight months later,

0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I lose my mom and that's when I was like,

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:22.680
<v Speaker 2>so over your father. I was like, that's when I

0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:24.280
<v Speaker 2>after I lost my mom, was like, I'm never going

0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:27.720
<v Speaker 2>to be with this guy ever again. Like I kept

0:22:27.720 --> 0:22:30.040
<v Speaker 2>fighting for him, but I knew I was not going

0:22:30.119 --> 0:22:31.920
<v Speaker 2>to be with him anymore because I was just so

0:22:32.000 --> 0:22:35.560
<v Speaker 2>mad because I felt like I missed out with my

0:22:35.680 --> 0:22:37.880
<v Speaker 2>mom going away, and I'm like, if I was home

0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.480
<v Speaker 2>that year, I could have been with my mom. So

0:22:40.560 --> 0:22:42.960
<v Speaker 2>I felt like I missed out time with her, which

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that I mean Also, that whole process for

0:22:47.720 --> 0:22:55.160
<v Speaker 1>sure just made non No suffer. She was so upset and.

0:22:54.040 --> 0:22:57.159
<v Speaker 2>They were so distraught over the whole thing. And then

0:22:57.160 --> 0:23:00.040
<v Speaker 2>I just kept reassuring them and I kept telling and

0:23:00.200 --> 0:23:02.840
<v Speaker 2>I was okay. And I really was okay because I'm very,

0:23:02.960 --> 0:23:05.959
<v Speaker 2>very strong, and I knew in my heart, like I

0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 2>was like, really, God, I really would talk to God

0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:09.880
<v Speaker 2>every single day. I'd be like, why am I here?

0:23:10.200 --> 0:23:12.479
<v Speaker 2>Tell me why I am here? I'm like, why am

0:23:12.520 --> 0:23:15.160
<v Speaker 2>I here? I mean, and I have to say being

0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:18.159
<v Speaker 2>at I was in Danbury, Connecticut, you remember, because I

0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:22.560
<v Speaker 2>mean the grounds were beautiful because I saw all four

0:23:22.600 --> 0:23:25.359
<v Speaker 2>seasons while I was there, and I worked.

0:23:25.160 --> 0:23:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Out you see the four seasons here?

0:23:27.600 --> 0:23:29.800
<v Speaker 2>No I know, but I'm saying. When I was there,

0:23:30.119 --> 0:23:32.640
<v Speaker 2>I was outside a lot, so I used to walk

0:23:32.680 --> 0:23:34.879
<v Speaker 2>the track a lot. And then then you know what

0:23:35.040 --> 0:23:38.960
<v Speaker 2>happened to then because everyone knew I was there, so

0:23:39.119 --> 0:23:42.960
<v Speaker 2>sometimes we would have to get there would be helicopters

0:23:42.960 --> 0:23:45.280
<v Speaker 2>outside trying to take my picture, so then we would

0:23:45.320 --> 0:23:48.040
<v Speaker 2>get stuck, and then everybody would not be able to

0:23:48.080 --> 0:23:50.280
<v Speaker 2>go outside, and then all the some of the girls

0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:53.280
<v Speaker 2>and they would be pissed at me. I'm like, not

0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:56.920
<v Speaker 2>my fault. You know that. You know there's helicopters trying

0:23:56.920 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 2>to take my picture, and I'm like, I want to

0:23:58.560 --> 0:24:01.480
<v Speaker 2>be outside too. Anyway, that was the best part. It

0:24:01.560 --> 0:24:04.680
<v Speaker 2>was like seeing how the season's changed. It looked really

0:24:04.720 --> 0:24:08.359
<v Speaker 2>pretty outside because I because that's how who I am.

0:24:08.440 --> 0:24:11.440
<v Speaker 2>I always try to make something a bad situation into

0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:14.520
<v Speaker 2>a good situation. I don't know, yes you do. So

0:24:14.640 --> 0:24:17.280
<v Speaker 2>I was to make a light out of everything. So

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:18.879
<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know what, there's a reason why

0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:21.080
<v Speaker 2>I have to be here. I don't know it right now.

0:24:21.160 --> 0:24:23.360
<v Speaker 2>I guess I'm like, really got to just tell me why.

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't need to know the answers eventually. Sometimes you

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:28.360
<v Speaker 2>doesn't give you an answer right away, you find out

0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:34.320
<v Speaker 2>years later. So anyway, but yeah, I ended up that

0:24:34.359 --> 0:24:36.159
<v Speaker 2>was the best part of seeing the four seasons. But

0:24:36.240 --> 0:24:38.119
<v Speaker 2>I just worked out every single day. I got in

0:24:38.160 --> 0:24:40.000
<v Speaker 2>the sickest shape you hold.

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>You won the contest for a plank? She held a

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:45.399
<v Speaker 1>ten minute plank in camp.

0:24:45.600 --> 0:24:48.680
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I did a ten minute and I won out

0:24:48.720 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 2>of like.

0:24:49.359 --> 0:24:52.639
<v Speaker 1>They had like a plank contest in their fitness class and.

0:24:53.119 --> 0:24:56.960
<v Speaker 2>Outside like the whole the whole camp was you know.

0:24:57.320 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 1>The whole camp did this competition.

0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:01.920
<v Speaker 2>Whoever wanted to participate, whoever wanted to do so.

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:03.359
<v Speaker 1>How many people were you competing against?

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:07.520
<v Speaker 2>There was a lot, there was a lot, and I, yeah,

0:25:07.520 --> 0:25:08.879
<v Speaker 2>I won ten minutes.

0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Can you imagine holding a ten minute blank murder? Yeah,

0:25:12.920 --> 0:25:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I can't do God scrimin all.

0:25:16.960 --> 0:25:18.600
<v Speaker 2>I can't do a ten minute plank anymore.

0:25:19.080 --> 0:25:21.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we did one today when we were working out,

0:25:21.520 --> 0:25:23.920
<v Speaker 1>and then as we're holding our plank today, she looks

0:25:24.000 --> 0:25:25.959
<v Speaker 1>up and goes, I held I held one for ten

0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:26.880
<v Speaker 1>minutes in present.

0:25:27.000 --> 0:25:28.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I can't do that anymore.

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you and did you blame Dad for all of this?

0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:37.640
<v Speaker 2>Of course, yes, I'm like, I just I still blame

0:25:38.080 --> 0:25:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Like the other day, I was Jehann and I'm like,

0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:41.400
<v Speaker 2>why do you even make me sign those papers?

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:46.520
<v Speaker 1>You know? Do you think you've really worked through the resentment? No,

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 1>just because No, she's always going to help my dad.

0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:52.119
<v Speaker 1>I was like, actually, yes, I was always going to

0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:54.200
<v Speaker 1>help my dad. I was, so, I don't think there'll

0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:57.400
<v Speaker 1>ever be a phone call where my mom doesn't yelp

0:25:57.480 --> 0:26:02.000
<v Speaker 1>my dad. Yeah, it'll be so normal. You know. Sometimes

0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:04.680
<v Speaker 1>if my mom's in rare form and I walk into

0:26:04.720 --> 0:26:06.960
<v Speaker 1>the house and my dad's on the phone, I literally

0:26:07.119 --> 0:26:10.919
<v Speaker 1>could just tell by like her demeanor, and I'll be like, okay, Dad,

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll call you back because she's just gonna start yelling

0:26:12.720 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 1>at you. And then I the phone.

0:26:15.640 --> 0:26:16.639
<v Speaker 2>He just irks me.

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:19.080
<v Speaker 1>He just irks me.

0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he does.

0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:24.879
<v Speaker 1>They'll be like they're and the thing they're almost like

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>as weird as it sounds.

0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:31.159
<v Speaker 2>Like, No, this is the thing. No, it's that weird. No,

0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:33.640
<v Speaker 2>And like I hate to say this, Well it's the truth.

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:37.879
<v Speaker 2>I enough people know this, but like I hate, not

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:41.399
<v Speaker 2>that I hate. I mean, obviously there's no he has

0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 2>no control over it. I don't like I wish things were

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:48.760
<v Speaker 2>different that, you know, I wish he was helping me more,

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:51.040
<v Speaker 2>you know. So it's like everything's on me.

0:26:52.080 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 1>And well even just him being in a different country,

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 1>that his presence not being in the States and not

0:26:59.359 --> 0:27:02.480
<v Speaker 1>being around just puts all the parenting on you.

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:06.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that and financially, yeah, you know. So it's it's

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 2>a double whammy. Yeah, yeah, just like Teresa all the

0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 2>way around, you know. You know, so it's like that's

0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:16.360
<v Speaker 2>what that's why it irks me, just because yeah, everything's

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:19.159
<v Speaker 2>on me parenting wise. You're right, I didn't even think

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 2>about the parenting, because the parenting I have no problem

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:23.080
<v Speaker 2>doing because I love you girls.

0:27:23.480 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 1>You girls are and he he tries his best. Again,

0:27:26.480 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 1>it's hard. There's only so much you could do over

0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:32.760
<v Speaker 1>a phone, and he knows that. That's why he gets frustrated.

0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:39.879
<v Speaker 1>It's all very frustrating. Stop, it's all very frustrating. But

0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:43.959
<v Speaker 1>obviously if he was able to be back in the States,

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:46.080
<v Speaker 1>things would be a lot different and it would help

0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:47.080
<v Speaker 1>you out a lot more.

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:51.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's why it's like everything's on me. So yeah,

0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:52.840
<v Speaker 2>so that's why.

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:56.800
<v Speaker 1>It's why you should have just major citizenship right and

0:27:56.840 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 1>that's why he Oh no, this is how he should

0:27:58.640 --> 0:27:59.520
<v Speaker 1>have gotten.

0:28:01.440 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely become a citizen if.

0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:07.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you're not, you're doing some construction work and

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 1>you're not us, go get your citizenship right now.

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:13.840
<v Speaker 2>Definitely do that and make sure you do everything right.

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 1>Cross every tea, not every eye, like who wants not

0:28:17.440 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 1>worth it?

0:28:17.920 --> 0:28:21.159
<v Speaker 2>Who wants to take shortcuts? It's yeah, definitely not worth it.

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.000
<v Speaker 2>And definitely don't make your you.

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Know, someone you love sign something, Yes, definitely not because

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean it is true. You know you love someone

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:32.439
<v Speaker 1>so much they tell you to sign a paperwork. You

0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:34.639
<v Speaker 1>never think that your partner's going to steer you wrong,

0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:37.760
<v Speaker 1>especially when you're you know, in love, you have kids,

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:40.880
<v Speaker 1>you're building a family. You really don't think that. And

0:28:41.200 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that was my dad AND's my dad's intentions.

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 1>My dad never wanted to hurt my mother, and he

0:28:48.080 --> 0:28:50.760
<v Speaker 1>even said it in court. Please don't do anything to

0:28:51.080 --> 0:28:54.480
<v Speaker 1>my wife, like I will take full responsibility for this,

0:28:54.600 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I will do double time for her everything.

0:28:58.400 --> 0:29:02.200
<v Speaker 2>But no, he didn't do that at first, like he didn't.

0:29:02.320 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 2>He really didn't like because because he didn't never thought

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:07.280
<v Speaker 2>that I would get in trouble. He's like, you didn't

0:29:07.280 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 2>even do anything. And then afterwards he's like, he's like,

0:29:10.120 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 2>they want you more than they want me. That's what

0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:15.479
<v Speaker 2>he said. He's like, because we were on TV and

0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 2>I was like, what the fuck? And I was like,

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even do anything. It was so like that.

0:29:21.040 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I think everyone was processing things in this moment. Yeah,

0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:27.720
<v Speaker 1>So then I mean, at that point, you know, kind

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.880
<v Speaker 1>of what my mom said before, you know, they really

0:29:31.320 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>they were really targeting our family, and you know as

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 1>well as you know, we were being targeted. But my

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:42.200
<v Speaker 1>family did learn many lessons from this, Like my mom

0:29:42.360 --> 0:29:45.760
<v Speaker 1>just said, my father has learned so many lessons from

0:29:45.760 --> 0:29:49.120
<v Speaker 1>all of this, and you know, not for nothing, my

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:51.440
<v Speaker 1>dad has to deal with that remorse and guilt for

0:29:51.480 --> 0:29:54.040
<v Speaker 1>the rest of his life that he isn't with his kids.

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:59.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, his marriage fell apart, there were multiple things

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>that went wrong. Know, he missed the death of my

0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:07.600
<v Speaker 1>no no, no no, he which he was extremely close to

0:30:07.640 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>my mom's parents. So there were many things that my

0:30:11.960 --> 0:30:19.640
<v Speaker 1>father has missed, endless holidays, birthdays, graduations, yeah, just high school, college,

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:22.800
<v Speaker 1>just a lot. So he deals with that remorse and

0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:25.520
<v Speaker 1>Gil every day. And you know, my mom deals with

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>the brunt of you know, being with my sisters and

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:33.360
<v Speaker 1>I and raising my sisters, and she does such an

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:38.959
<v Speaker 1>amazing job and supporting us. So it really is a

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:41.479
<v Speaker 1>lot on all ends. And I think you know, you

0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:44.680
<v Speaker 1>both you both deal with a lot from it, and

0:30:44.760 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 1>you both have definitely learned a lot from the whole thing.

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>You know, you go through things in life for a reason,

0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:54.120
<v Speaker 1>and this situation definitely taught us a lot of lessons.

0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I don't want you to ever sign any unless.

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 1>She always says to me, don't sign. Don't sign anything

0:31:01.120 --> 0:31:03.880
<v Speaker 1>she goes. You know, you know everything Christian does, right,

0:31:04.000 --> 0:31:06.760
<v Speaker 1>everything's good. Right, I'm like, no, my thing is you know,

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:08.080
<v Speaker 1>but my mom always if.

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Your partner gets paid by check, then you're safe because

0:31:10.880 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 2>there's like you can't fuck that up. You really can't.

0:31:13.600 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and hire a good account and.

0:31:15.360 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and hire a good account and yes, that's the

0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 2>best thing.

0:31:18.800 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 1>But financial advisor, anything you need. I got all my

0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I got all my duck now is the thing.

0:31:24.600 --> 0:31:27.280
<v Speaker 2>I had the best credit, Like, my credit was over

0:31:27.320 --> 0:31:30.040
<v Speaker 2>eight hundred and I remember my mother.

0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I paid my credit card all on time. Every single

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:32.720
<v Speaker 1>Mom micro.

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:35.240
<v Speaker 2>Is on I had the best and my mother and

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.840
<v Speaker 2>then I remember I told my mother, I'm like, I

0:31:37.920 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 2>just you know, I went to a closing because I

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 2>think my mom had to watch you guys. And then

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 2>she's like, well, and then she said, to make sure

0:31:45.800 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 2>he pay it, and I said, of course he's going

0:31:50.000 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 2>to pay it. You know, I think I told her

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:54.240
<v Speaker 2>I bought a house. I didn't even know what freaking

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:57.440
<v Speaker 2>refinance was back then. I didn't. That's the thing. I

0:31:57.480 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 2>was really a housewife. I really wasn't. In he took

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 2>care of everything. I never took care. I didn't pay

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 2>any I mean, if anything, maybe once in a while

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:07.280
<v Speaker 2>if he told me to pay a bill, but he

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 2>had you know, he had a secretary, so you know,

0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:15.000
<v Speaker 2>he he handled everything. Yeah, back when I had the kids.

0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I think when I first like got married to him,

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 2>and maybe like in the beginning, but when we moved

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 2>to our house and you know, our house in an

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Indian lane, like he had a secretary and his secretary

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 2>would take care of everything. So I remember my mother saying,

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 2>making sure he pay every month, and I said, of course,

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:43.080
<v Speaker 2>because my mom's like, you have your credits amazing, and

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:45.960
<v Speaker 2>like even like my mom said that to me. Like, see,

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.960
<v Speaker 2>moms always now, I always say that whatever anything that

0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:52.560
<v Speaker 2>your mom always says, your mom's always right. So anything

0:32:52.600 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 2>I ever tell you, I'm always right, I know it's true.

0:33:04.480 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 1>So then obviously Dad got deported, and at that point

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 1>you knew, I mean even before then, you knew that

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.600
<v Speaker 1>the marriage was kind of over. But do you think

0:33:12.600 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>if he didn't get deported, you guys would work You

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:16.400
<v Speaker 1>guys would have worked it out.

0:33:17.120 --> 0:33:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Probably not, because I lost my mom and I was

0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 2>just so like it, you know, still bothers me till

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 2>today that, like I had to go through that. Yeah,

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:29.000
<v Speaker 2>and it was his fall.

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 1>And then how did he react when you told him

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>that you were getting remarried?

0:33:37.160 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 2>He was, he was fine with it. What's he gonna do?

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:43.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think the all of it was on

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 2>TV when I actually saw him for the first time.

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you didn't tell him none, you're getting remarried.

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:50.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh no.

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:52.479
<v Speaker 2>But when I actually everyone could tell that I was

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:55.240
<v Speaker 2>just not in love with him anywhere. Yeah, because it

0:33:55.280 --> 0:33:58.080
<v Speaker 2>happened on TV. It really actually happened on TEA. And

0:33:58.120 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't know if anybody even knows it

0:34:01.120 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 2>at the time, Adriana like, he stayed in my room

0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:10.879
<v Speaker 2>like you you girls were supposed to have your own room.

0:34:11.360 --> 0:34:13.640
<v Speaker 2>So you know, all four used to sleep in one

0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:15.200
<v Speaker 2>bed and to sleep in another bed. And we were

0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:17.720
<v Speaker 2>in Italy because that's the first time we saw him.

0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 2>And do you know, Adriana would not leave my side,

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:26.160
<v Speaker 2>so Adriana slept with me. She wouldn't leave me. And

0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:28.400
<v Speaker 2>Adriana at the time we figured this out the other

0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:30.720
<v Speaker 2>like we were talking about this, she was like nine,

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:34.239
<v Speaker 2>I think nine right when daddy because when Daddy left

0:34:34.239 --> 0:34:36.440
<v Speaker 2>she was six, so she was almost ten. She was

0:34:36.520 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 2>between nine and ten. And Audrina didn't leave me, so

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 2>she slept with me and Daddy slept on the couch.

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:49.160
<v Speaker 2>And then that morning, like the first night he comes in,

0:34:49.280 --> 0:34:52.160
<v Speaker 2>lays on top of me. I'm just telling you this.

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:54.839
<v Speaker 2>He comes to Lane's on top of me and he's

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 2>trying to kiss me, but Audrina is right next to

0:34:57.040 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 2>me sleeping, and I'm like, I'm like, and he's trying

0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:02.799
<v Speaker 2>to kiss me, and I won't open my lips, I

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:05.399
<v Speaker 2>won't open my mouth, like I'm just I'm like, can

0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:07.000
<v Speaker 2>you get off of me? Like I want to right

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 2>next to us, And then he got off of me,

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.480
<v Speaker 2>but like we had, you know, have pajamas on here.

0:35:11.560 --> 0:35:11.719
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.319
<v Speaker 2>He was just trying to like give me, try to

0:35:14.360 --> 0:35:16.759
<v Speaker 2>like see if my juices were going to start like

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 2>getting like I don't know, like he was he like,

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 2>I guess you wanted to see if like I was

0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:27.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna be like I was like like get heavy for him,

0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:30.719
<v Speaker 2>but not I was like, get off me. And that

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:33.920
<v Speaker 2>was it. But that's when I knew, Like I'm just

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 2>saying like that even for myself to see if it

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 2>was going to happen and did it was my juices

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:48.360
<v Speaker 2>were gonna start. Yeah, I'm just telling you. I'm telling

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:53.080
<v Speaker 2>you everything. You know, we're shooting the breeze, shooting the shooting.

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:56.200
<v Speaker 1>The shooting the breeze. Now you're shooting.

0:35:57.800 --> 0:35:59.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you know what I'm telling you. These are

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 2>lessons that I'm just telling you, like from when you

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 2>get older.

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So if my juices aren't flowing anymore, I'll not

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:07.200
<v Speaker 1>to leave them.

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:11.799
<v Speaker 2>Yes exactly, Yeah, and you should and I would hope.

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:16.400
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, and life's too short to for your juices

0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 2>not to be flowing. Okay.

0:36:19.160 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So how's Dad's relationship with Lily?

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:27.239
<v Speaker 2>What we all know. It's it's they get along great.

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my dad calls him loom.

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:32.920
<v Speaker 2>They talk, they chat, they talk more.

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Than like, well, they talk more than my Well, please

0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:36.759
<v Speaker 1>you yell at him.

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't want to. I don't want to talk to

0:36:38.200 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 2>him either.

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:38.959
<v Speaker 1>Good.

0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Louis and him talk all the time. We don't.

0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:44.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to talk to him.

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:47.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like he just she just yells at him. The

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:50.120
<v Speaker 1>guy doesn't want to yell dot well, because the thing

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:53.520
<v Speaker 1>is it'll be starting good and then it'll just take

0:36:53.520 --> 0:36:58.200
<v Speaker 1>a tart. And he's like, oh, yeah, I guess because

0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:01.359
<v Speaker 1>like I said, I have a of resentment towards him.

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 2>And that's fine, going to jail, parenting by myself, financially

0:37:07.480 --> 0:37:10.279
<v Speaker 2>doing everything by myself. Like if I had help with

0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:12.600
<v Speaker 2>one of those, maybe I would be a little bit nicer.

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:15.839
<v Speaker 2>So if i'm I have a reason to.

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:19.640
<v Speaker 1>Be he takes there's a reason, like he doesn't take it.

0:37:20.000 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a reason why I'm.

0:37:21.920 --> 0:37:24.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's fine, but.

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:28.520
<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm grateful to God that I'm able to

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 2>do it all.

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Thank you God.

0:37:30.920 --> 0:37:33.680
<v Speaker 2>No, really, because now I'm really That's why I pray

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 2>to God a lot and God, you know, it's good

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:37.279
<v Speaker 2>to have faith, and it's good to have God in

0:37:37.320 --> 0:37:39.840
<v Speaker 2>your life because I don't have. I feel like I

0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:42.960
<v Speaker 2>don't have my parents anymore, and I feel like, besides,

0:37:43.480 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm grateful for my four daughters.

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't say you're an orphan. I do feel like

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:48.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm an orphan.

0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:50.920
<v Speaker 2>So at least I have God and I feel like

0:37:51.120 --> 0:37:52.759
<v Speaker 2>he could help and protect me.

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:54.720
<v Speaker 1>You know you're not an orphan.

0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 2>I do, but it's okay. You know, but my parents

0:37:57.239 --> 0:37:59.320
<v Speaker 2>and I anywhere, so it's like I really have no

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:00.040
<v Speaker 2>one to turn to.

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:02.120
<v Speaker 1>You, I really have us. Thank you.

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:04.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, I would never ask. I don't want to help

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:07.520
<v Speaker 2>ask you guys for help. And Louie he's amazing. But

0:38:07.800 --> 0:38:11.400
<v Speaker 2>it's good to pray to whatever guy you're into. Missy,

0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:15.040
<v Speaker 2>start coming to church with me. I know, yes, I will.

0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:21.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay. How do you think dad feels about us living

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:23.920
<v Speaker 1>with Louis and being so involved in our life. I

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:25.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like he's very grateful.

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I think at first, well you would know that

0:38:30.120 --> 0:38:32.600
<v Speaker 2>more than because you're really close to your dad, So

0:38:32.640 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 2>I think at first he might have maybe he was

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:36.120
<v Speaker 2>like a little jealous.

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>How did you know Louis was the one? And did

0:38:38.160 --> 0:38:40.480
<v Speaker 1>he know who you were before you met.

0:38:40.480 --> 0:38:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, when I first met him on Babylod walking, everyone

0:38:45.920 --> 0:38:48.399
<v Speaker 2>knows the story. We could, okay, get so I would

0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:51.320
<v Speaker 2>say when I met him walking, he was with his son.

0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:54.680
<v Speaker 2>So when I met him, he was with his son.

0:38:55.800 --> 0:38:57.920
<v Speaker 2>Louis said he didn't know who I was at first.

0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 2>His son told him so the same day I met him,

0:39:02.160 --> 0:39:04.719
<v Speaker 2>like afterwards, like after he you know, when I first

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 2>went up to him, he didn't know who I was.

0:39:06.480 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 2>And then afterwards his son said, Dad, do you know

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 2>who that was? That was Teresa? I guess was new.

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:16.319
<v Speaker 2>And then then afterwards they were talking whatever. Then he

0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:19.719
<v Speaker 2>came up to me and my two girlfriends and then

0:39:19.760 --> 0:39:22.400
<v Speaker 2>he said, well can I can I have your number? Teresa?

0:39:22.520 --> 0:39:26.000
<v Speaker 2>And he drove up to us and he said, my

0:39:26.120 --> 0:39:29.000
<v Speaker 2>son wanted to know why and asked for your number, Teresa.

0:39:29.680 --> 0:39:31.279
<v Speaker 2>And then that's how I knew he liked me because

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:33.400
<v Speaker 2>there were three of us, so I didn't know. And

0:39:33.440 --> 0:39:35.719
<v Speaker 2>then I was so embarrassed. I turned up probably a

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:39.040
<v Speaker 2>few few colors now I turned red now because I

0:39:39.080 --> 0:39:43.279
<v Speaker 2>was embarrassed. And then it was Louis was driving, and

0:39:43.320 --> 0:39:45.880
<v Speaker 2>then little Louis with his girlfriend were in the back

0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I little Louis with his ex girlf ohe you with

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:50.120
<v Speaker 2>this little Louis with his ex girl. We're in the

0:39:50.160 --> 0:39:51.919
<v Speaker 2>back seat. And then I was embarrassed, so I said

0:39:51.920 --> 0:39:54.080
<v Speaker 2>to him, well, I have your business card. I'll text you.

0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:56.480
<v Speaker 2>I love that, And that was it. Yeah, because I

0:39:56.480 --> 0:39:58.799
<v Speaker 2>didn't I felt weird giving him him my number because

0:39:58.840 --> 0:40:01.480
<v Speaker 2>the son was there. So I was embarrassed, you know.

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 1>So I said, you gave me no, but that's nice.

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:07.400
<v Speaker 1>That's hard to get. Yeah, and I like that line.

0:40:07.800 --> 0:40:10.799
<v Speaker 1>And then he and then he said that his thumb

0:40:10.920 --> 0:40:11.839
<v Speaker 1>was making fun of him.

0:40:11.880 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 2>He's like, ah, she didn't give you her number, you know,

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 2>because make it fun because I didn't give my number.

0:40:16.640 --> 0:40:20.759
<v Speaker 2>And then afterwards, as we're walking, Dana takes my phone

0:40:21.280 --> 0:40:23.359
<v Speaker 2>and she's like, I'm texting him right now, and then

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 2>she texted him my phone number. And then that night

0:40:26.680 --> 0:40:29.960
<v Speaker 2>we talked all night on the phone and Adele was

0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:34.360
<v Speaker 2>with me, so she made me ask him fifty questions.

0:40:34.680 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god, he's never gonna call

0:40:37.120 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 2>me again, like she made me. She literally wrote down

0:40:40.320 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 2>fifty questions and made me ask I was like, oh

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:44.879
<v Speaker 2>my god, this guy's never gonna call me again. He's

0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:47.279
<v Speaker 2>gonna think I'm like, a what job, you know, and

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:50.319
<v Speaker 2>she's like, no, it's good you We'll get to know him.

0:40:50.840 --> 0:40:52.839
<v Speaker 2>I was like all right, so and so I did.

0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:55.080
<v Speaker 2>An Adel was there listening to the conversa. Oh yeah,

0:40:55.120 --> 0:40:57.960
<v Speaker 2>she was. Yeah, she stepped over and we asked him

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 2>fifty questions and then guess what happened was the next

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:03.680
<v Speaker 2>night he asked you fifty yeah, and then he said, well,

0:41:03.719 --> 0:41:06.080
<v Speaker 2>I wrote down questions and then he asked me, and

0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 2>you know what I have to say. It was kind

0:41:07.640 --> 0:41:09.919
<v Speaker 2>of cute because we kind of got to know each

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:13.480
<v Speaker 2>other better, you know, and we were on the phone hours. Yeah,

0:41:14.000 --> 0:41:19.120
<v Speaker 2>and then that was Saturday. Then wait, Saturday, then Sunday night.

0:41:20.080 --> 0:41:22.439
<v Speaker 2>Then Sunday night, I went to the white party with you.

0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:28.719
<v Speaker 2>So that was that. And then Monday morning he came down.

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:30.480
<v Speaker 1>We went for a walk and her other boyfriend got

0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 1>kicked out of the house.

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:35.720
<v Speaker 2>No, don't say that, I don't say that.

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:39.880
<v Speaker 1>Don't say that said that or any you tried to

0:41:39.880 --> 0:41:40.680
<v Speaker 1>make it a secret.

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:44.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean what I talked about this, Yeah.

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:46.160
<v Speaker 1>And it was very obvious. So then he left that

0:41:46.280 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 1>night and never returned.

0:41:48.040 --> 0:41:51.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, that was the first time you have ever saw

0:41:51.680 --> 0:41:52.840
<v Speaker 2>those was wading the second.

0:41:52.560 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>Time he saw him, Yeah, and he never came back.

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:54.960
<v Speaker 2>He was a friend.

0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:59.879
<v Speaker 1>He never came back. The friend was exiled from the group.

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:03.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was a friend.

0:42:04.360 --> 0:42:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I see.

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:06.920
<v Speaker 2>Time was up.

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, right ahead, it for a long enough.

0:42:11.800 --> 0:42:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you know a nice person.

0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Great, So how did you know Louis was the one?

0:42:19.239 --> 0:42:21.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? And then Monday morning Louis came.

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:24.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, this isn't how you knew Louis was the one?

0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, I'm saying that Monday morning lou came.

0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:29.920
<v Speaker 2>That sure, we went for our first walk and then

0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:32.560
<v Speaker 2>he set me flowers. And then that's when you guys

0:42:32.600 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 2>knew that I was seeing someone.

0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because the flowers were like as big as the table.

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:38.720
<v Speaker 1>The bouquet was bigger than the table.

0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Right, So that's when you guys knew I was seeing someone?

0:42:41.600 --> 0:42:46.440
<v Speaker 1>Really? That was yeah, so we the fling she tried.

0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:49.040
<v Speaker 1>Then this is when we knew things were getting serious.

0:42:49.200 --> 0:42:52.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, the fling was just a friend.

0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:58.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that's fine. Yeah, yeah, and very nice person.

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:01.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying yeah, and that was it. It was

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:02.399
<v Speaker 2>just it was not right.

0:43:03.000 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just like we know, make sure to listen to

0:43:07.960 --> 0:43:12.400
<v Speaker 1>part two of this episode with my momm