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Speaker 2: We're here for education.

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Speaker 1: Those are the good days. But there's also some not

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Speaker 1: so great memories from college. And that's why one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners emailed the show for help because it involves her,

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Speaker 1: her best friend, and one giant question that's haunted her

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Speaker 1: for the last six years. How could you? You're gonna

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Speaker 1: hear what happened when we do a closure call. That's

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Speaker 1: coming up next. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: and is it healthy to confront people who have wronged

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Speaker 1: you in your past? Cousin, I have to say earlier

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Speaker 1: this morning, Alexis's hair wronged me and I have not

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Speaker 1: been able to get over it ever since, with wet hair.

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Speaker 2: Issues in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Is that the excuse? Because you guys say it right, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking over there right now.

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Speaker 2: I bought pillowcases.

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Speaker 3: It didn't Apparently, we'll consider confronting Alexis's follicles a little

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Speaker 3: bit later.

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Speaker 1: Because we're gonna put our focus on the listeners.

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Speaker 2: First, distract me from that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like Sophia who asked for our help with a

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Speaker 1: closure call, oh love, And if you aren't familiar with these,

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Speaker 1: they're a little bit more serious than what we normally

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Speaker 1: do on the show. But we try to help people

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Speaker 1: who've been stuck on something that happened in their past,

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Speaker 1: maybe it was months ago or even years ago, bring

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Speaker 1: them a little peace of mind so they could finally

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Speaker 1: put it behind them and move on. Let's get to

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Speaker 1: it with Sophia. Sophia, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you sound down? Are you okay?

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Speaker 4: I'm a bit stressed. There's a situation. I guess that

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Speaker 4: it's been a long time, but it's been bothering me

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Speaker 4: you know, hoping you guys could help me out go.

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Speaker 3: Your insurance doesn't cover therapy either, and I'm sure it

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Speaker 3: couldn't possibly be more stressful than what's going on in

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Speaker 1: So whenever you reach what happened, just tell us about

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Speaker 1: why you reached out to us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, here's what happened. So back in college. It was

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Speaker 4: my freshman year and I went to a really big

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Speaker 4: It's time and I had a hard time for starting out.

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Speaker 4: But one night I was, you know, sitting in the

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Speaker 1: Aubrey.

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Speaker 3: That's awesome. It's always so nice when somebody reaches out

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some people like me, I'm a little bit introverted

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was like friendly and warm and we hit

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Speaker 4: it off immediately, which was really cool and everything. And

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we got really close and then we started like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and we were like talking about suture plans to

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Speaker 3: Did it hurt your relationship with Aubrey? I mean sometimes

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Speaker 4: Well, no, that wasn't the problem. So what happened was

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Speaker 4: Anyway, sorry, and I got tired and I decided to

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Speaker 3: My heartbroke, girl.

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Speaker 2: We har now she doing? I mean it's like you

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Speaker 1: That's awful.

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Speaker 4: It was so bad. It was like the most gut

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Speaker 1: Through about being a horrible friend.

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Speaker 4: So I went in the bathroom and like locked myself

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Speaker 2: So it ended your friendship properly, what happened?

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Speaker 4: And it like ruined the last two weeks of my

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Speaker 1: I mean, the last two weeks of my college were

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Speaker 2: I mean, that is heartbreaking.

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Speaker 3: So how long, I mean, it's been years and I'm

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Speaker 3: guessing you just haven't talked to Audrey since Aubrey, sorry

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Speaker 1: She deserves to have her names.

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Speaker 2: I how does that make you feel?

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Speaker 4: You know, it's been so long, Like I wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: Mean, we have no shortage of words that we can

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Speaker 3: I think like I lost one of my best friends

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Speaker 3: after I graduated college, and it was her boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: No, she lied to me about a bunch of stuff.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, and it hurt more than any breakup I

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Speaker 1: It's like betrayal, actual.

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Speaker 2: Like you put so much trust in love in.

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Speaker 1: That person, and it sounds a little bit more like

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Speaker 1: you deserved it, though, Brooke with So it's a different story,

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Speaker 1: and you know how these things go. Sophia has been

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Speaker 1: working with our producer to come up with four questions

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm curious if you're going to get any answers

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Speaker 1: Well, we got Aubrey's email, sent those out a few

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Speaker 1: days ago, and Aubrey replied to all four questions, and

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Speaker 1: we're going to read what she said. We give you

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, we're in the middle of doing a closure

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Speaker 1: call and I know everyone probably just wants me to

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Speaker 1: get right into reading the answers from the emails, So resolution.

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Speaker 2: Here, So you're gonna give us what we want.

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Speaker 1: Well, first, before we do that, we just have to

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Speaker 1: fill other people in on what's going on, because if

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Speaker 2: We're doing here to the party.

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Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a closure call, hoping to

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Speaker 2: Her literally basically, Yeah, she found.

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Speaker 1: our producer came up with four questions that we've sent

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Speaker 1: what why? We'll find out in just a second us that.

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Speaker 1: But Sophia, I mean, how are you feeling right before

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Speaker 4: I'm stressed and nervous about what I'm getting here, but

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Speaker 4: I'm also really looking forward to hopefully getting answers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I.

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Speaker 3: Think this is definitely going to close the book on

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Speaker 1: Well, now's the time that everybody's been waiting for and

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Speaker 1: pressuring me to get to. Finally, let's get to these

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Speaker 1: questions and answers. Good part. Yeah, question one that we sent. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've spent years being confused and angry at you, and

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Speaker 1: I've never even heard the full story of what happened

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Speaker 2: Do you want the whole story? I mean, these are

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Speaker 1: This is this is the question that she has worked

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Speaker 1: with our producer to come up with. It's just what

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Speaker 2: As long as the next question is it how was it?

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Speaker 1: She didn't ask that we asked, don't know. I just

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Speaker 1: you ready for this?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's wrong, We'll let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Aubrey wrote back. She said, well, I'll be one hundred

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Speaker 1: percent honest with you. That was not the first time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh, come on, what was not shocking news? I mean,

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Speaker 3: did you see that coming, Sophia?

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Speaker 1: Not really?

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Speaker 4: That really sucks because now I want to know, like

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Speaker 4: when and how long?

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Speaker 1: It's like, sorry, there is more to what she wrote back.

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Speaker 1: She said we had been meeting up secretly for a

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Speaker 1: few months before it all started. God, it all started

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Speaker 2: Oh god, now we just put the blame on Sophia.

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Speaker 4: Yike.

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Speaker 1: So she continued to show I stood up for you,

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Speaker 1: and somehow my shirt came off. Oh she did not

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Speaker 1: say that. That's what she said. I'm reading it verbatim

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Speaker 2: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: She says, I'm sorry that happened, but we were young

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Speaker 1: Our friends would talk to.

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Speaker 2: Me like that, are you? Are you okay, Sophia?

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Speaker 4: I'm half shocked, like disgusted, like ew, like, how fake

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Speaker 4: of a friend are you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels it must feel so much worse knowing

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Speaker 1: now that they were going back behind your back for

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's awful.

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Speaker 2: It's like a full blown affair.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, maybe we'll feel a little bit better after

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Speaker 1: we do question two, because the second one we sent

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Speaker 1: was out of one hundred percent. How much is Danny

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Speaker 1: to blame for what happened? Danny her ex boyfriend, and

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Speaker 1: Aubrey wrote back, I don't want to get into numbers,

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Speaker 1: but Danny definitely initiated things between us. Yeah, and if

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Speaker 1: you remember, I was going through my quote big promiscuous

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Speaker 1: streak at that time, is that true?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was calling us a little bit not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish I met girls during these scenes were

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Speaker 1: telling you to college, dude, that's where it's at. Anyway, it

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Speaker 1: doesn't accept it there, Aubrey finishes. She says, so I

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Speaker 1: felt bad, but not bad enough to stop. Oh, she's

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Speaker 1: definitely being honest. We can know that, right.

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Speaker 3: It sucks, But they did have a connection. I mean

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Speaker 3: that may make it feel worse to you, Sophia, like

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Speaker 3: they're engaged now.

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Speaker 4: Like I don't know if they're engaged. Like that's why

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Speaker 4: I've been like trying to come to terms of the

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Speaker 4: they really have that good of a connection that now

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Speaker 4: they're getting married, Like I kind of understand, you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean, Like everyone deserves love. But it's just

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Speaker 4: like I still think she's a friend.

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Speaker 2: For doing that for sure.

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Speaker 1: I mean that that was really what we got into

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Speaker 1: how much you hurt me? I've spent years being all

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Speaker 2: She better come back good?

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Speaker 1: This is really her chance to like fall on her

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Speaker 1: sword here and apologize for what she did.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's like it affects all of Sophia's relationships from

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Speaker 3: then on too.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's not just that relationship.

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Speaker 1: So Aubrey responded, saying, I've already said I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: She deserves this guy.

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Speaker 4: She did not say that she literally ever apologized.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what else you want to hear from me.

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Speaker 1: Do I feel bad? Sure, sure, she says I did,

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Speaker 1: but I got over it, And she says, I hope

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Speaker 1: that you can do the same. Like, what was it

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Speaker 1: a four month college relationship. It's not the end of the.

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Speaker 4: World in front of me right now. I literally would

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Speaker 4: punch her in the face.

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Speaker 3: Friend, So take that.

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Speaker 1: That was well, not for one of the girls, She do. Well.

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Speaker 1: I know we're running a little bit short on time here,

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Speaker 1: so let's get to the last question that we sent,

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Speaker 1: which was I heard you and Danny are engaged. Now

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Speaker 1: do you truly love him? Like feel like you and

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Speaker 1: him were meant to be?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it could be, honestly, it could be that

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Speaker 3: she's just pushing it just because she feels so guilty.

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Speaker 3: At least that's what I thought before that last answer.

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Speaker 1: My gosh, blood is boiling.

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Speaker 3: Answer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's what Aubrey said. What do I truly think?

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Speaker 1: I truly think that I'm pregnant and I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be a single mom. If that answers your question, Oh,

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Speaker 1: she's only doing it because of the pregnancy of my.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what I read, she says.

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Speaker 1: Danny and I definitely have fun together and have history.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's always a great thing to build a relationship.

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Speaker 1: A little bit of history.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not history, Sophia.

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Speaker 1: She says, But I want you to know Danny and

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Speaker 1: I talked about it, and even though we're not really

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Speaker 1: close with you anymore, we would like to name our

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Speaker 1: baby after you.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, no, exactly exactly, Sessa.

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Speaker 2: Keep your name out of my mouth type of situation.

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Speaker 1: The last thing she says was maybe we could meet

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Speaker 1: up and I could show you ultrasound picks. I'd love

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Speaker 1: to be friends.

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Speaker 4: Know what is wrong with her? Seriously, what is wrong

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Speaker 4: with her?

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Speaker 3: She is fake?

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Speaker 1: Like she was so nice to you, and consider it

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Speaker 1: all those years ago and the whole time she behind

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Speaker 1: your bag. I mean, I am mad.

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Speaker 2: I can tell you. I think I think you just

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Speaker 2: let it go.

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Speaker 3: I don't even think you do anger anymore. None of

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Speaker 3: this is worth your energy.

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Speaker 1: Is that a no for meeting up to see the

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Speaker 1: ultra sent books a baby? Sophia?

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Speaker 4: Definitely no, And I actually am so relieved. It's like

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Speaker 4: I feel so much better.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, I hope they don't want you to be

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Speaker 3: the godmother too to find a new one.

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Speaker 1: But hopefully that gave you a little bit of closure there, Sophia,

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Speaker 1: thanks for being on with us and text into seven

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Speaker 1: eighty five nine two. If you have somebody from your

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Speaker 1: past that you want us to reach out to, you

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Speaker 1: may not like what you hear, but we'll try and

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Speaker 1: get you answers when we do your closure call. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.