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Speaker 1: Get ready, because it is time to ask the Chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey the clo.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Wanda and Newark says, my divorce was final five months

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Speaker 1: ago and my ex is already moved on. I found

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Speaker 1: out that he proposed to a new woman and they're

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Speaker 1: having a small wedding on Valentine's Day. If this is

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Speaker 1: why he wanted to divorce me, why didn't you just

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Speaker 1: say that?

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Speaker 3: Well, what diff it do with a You all have

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Speaker 3: the divorce, it's over? What do you mean if this

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Speaker 3: is why?

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Speaker 2: Y'ah? You know what, let's clear something up about divorce.

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Speaker 3: If everybody out there is trying to play like victim

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Speaker 3: and all this, he'll.

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Speaker 2: Listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Quhen the court gives you your divorce date, that's the

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Speaker 3: date that they legally are no longer marriage, no longer marriage.

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Speaker 3: Your marriage has been over long before that. Now, can

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Speaker 3: we all just agree with that Your marriage ain't over

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Speaker 3: when the court say is over. Your marriage has been

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Speaker 3: over long before the date.

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Speaker 1: The problems.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so this he getting married in February. Y'all

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Speaker 3: been messed up for two years now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I guess she's probably saying, you know, it's so quick,

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Speaker 1: it was.

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Speaker 2: It's not quick.

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Speaker 3: Y'all's marriage has been over for a few years now,

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Speaker 3: that's why you got.

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Speaker 1: A divorced all right, So Swanda, you need to move on.

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Speaker 2: It's basically what you're gone. Yeah, why didn't he tell me?

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Speaker 2: Tell you what?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Reina in Baton Rouge, Reina says, my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and I work together, and I'm starting to think

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Speaker 1: he's dating me. So he'll have a ride to work

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Speaker 1: during lunch. He's always with the guys we work with,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't talk to me until it's time to

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Speaker 1: go home. We may have sex after work if he

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Speaker 1: wants to. But never went on. I asked, is he

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Speaker 1: using me for a ride or what.

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Speaker 2: For a right for a ride insects?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for a ride in sick What your hell you

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Speaker 3: worrying about to ride for? He don't talk to you

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Speaker 3: when you get right then after work? Is it has

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Speaker 3: sex if he want to now when you want to.

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Speaker 3: You're being used for the ride and for sex. But

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Speaker 3: what yeah, I said, and the ride is secondary. So

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Speaker 3: I don't know why you wrote this question about the

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Speaker 3: damn ride. He can come on now, right man?

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Speaker 2: If you made him uber, you'll probably be out of sex.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, Raina, it's on you now. Next

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Speaker 1: move all right. Moving on to jury and Roanoke Jury,

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Speaker 1: Jory says, I been married for two years and my

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Speaker 1: husband has changed since we got married. He doesn't look

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Speaker 1: me in the eye or kiss me anymore while we're

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Speaker 1: being intimate. It feels like we are not connected anymore.

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Speaker 1: Is this to be expected after a few years.

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Speaker 3: No, No, it's not your man, and quit looking at

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Speaker 3: you and stop kissing you because he don't want to.

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Speaker 2: That's painful.

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Speaker 1: Ten years, just after two years, there's still newlyweds.

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Speaker 2: No, not junior kissing your wife. Absolutely kissing.

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Speaker 3: God, but it ain't even been six months.

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Speaker 2: Junior is a newly wed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, absolutely he is. Because married two years. You

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Speaker 3: are not a newly wed. You're only wed. Even a

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Speaker 3: baby after two years you quit doing them damn months.

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Speaker 1: But he's still a baby. It's still a baby though.

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Speaker 2: Well he not twenty nine months oldest, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Saying, yeahs a toddler.

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Speaker 2: He's a toddler.

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Speaker 1: You have an issue with the newly wed two years.

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Speaker 2: No, that ain't what the letter is about you.

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Speaker 3: The man, the man ain't kissing her and the man

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Speaker 3: ain't looking her and eye no eye contact is a sign. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're saying, don't worry about that.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying the relationship is still fairly new

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Speaker 1: for him to shut all that down so quickly in

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Speaker 1: the relationship in the matter.

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Speaker 2: So now, can I ask a question if you're basing

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Speaker 2: it on the amount of time? Yeah, man, ask your questions.

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Speaker 2: There is some questions. What year in the marriage?

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Speaker 3: Is it okay not to get kissed in the mouth

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Speaker 3: and not to get looking no year.

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Speaker 2: I just need to know what I get no year?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so so soon when the cutoff happens, it happens.

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Speaker 2: It's still painful, that's right.

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Speaker 3: There's no rule for this, Okay, not kissing you in

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Speaker 3: the mouth and looking you in the eye no more

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Speaker 3: because you don't want to.

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Speaker 2: He's looking upside you here.

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Speaker 1: While they're intimate, but he's still being intimate with her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sein't looking at it though. When they're intimate, he

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Speaker 2: is not making eye contact. Well the silver learning is

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Speaker 2: they still doing it, So that's good.

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Speaker 1: That's for him.

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Speaker 2: They look at you again. Yeah, lady, what kind of man.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to introduce y'all to those two view points.

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Speaker 2: Kept pushing though, kept pushing.

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Speaker 3: I said, all right, now, dogs, okay, okay, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: let you hear from the male species, and they ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna be cute. See when they started talking a minute ago,

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Speaker 3: it wasn't good enough when I said, he don't want

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Speaker 3: you no more. Then you found out just keep doing

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Speaker 3: it till the do start looking at you now to

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Speaker 3: put that on you. Then the other one was, you know,

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Speaker 3: at least he's still doing it. You keep talking gonnas

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Speaker 3: around and they even gonna get done.

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Speaker 2: God. Yeah, what you say, Junior? Stop your complaint? Yeah? Man,

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Speaker 2: what pressure you want?

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Speaker 3: Walk?

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Speaker 2: All right? That's terrible.

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Speaker 3: It's just it's just how I'm sorry. I don't know

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Speaker 3: what to tell y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you don't want Yeah, all right, it's clearing on.

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Speaker 3: It ain't that he don't want her. He don't want

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Speaker 3: to do that no more. You know it didn't hit him.

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Speaker 3: It's the same thing. Listen to me. It's like, for example,

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Speaker 3: not saying this applies to all women, but at one

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Speaker 3: point some people don't care about fixing theyself.

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Speaker 2: Up no more.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, so, at what year in the marriage

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Speaker 3: is that? Okay? But I'm you right now. These people

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Speaker 3: in the marriage else who have cut off you have

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Speaker 3: stopped doing what you did, sitting out of the house

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Speaker 3: wearing on and more clothing.

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Speaker 2: Not Fitch, there's nothing here.

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Speaker 3: I come home and I don't know you with a

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Speaker 3: band danna own that you and and and a and

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Speaker 3: a match, scoffing cold cream and cucumbers on your.

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Speaker 2: Eye, I will see there.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, the ello, mister.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harbin, Marty show Man, all over your friends.

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Speaker 1: Who's the worst.

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Speaker 2: Tommy's blood.

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Speaker 3: He didn't hesitated my apartments and anybody, messed up more

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Speaker 3: cars than anybody, barred more money than anything without getting

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Speaker 3: it back, but got me in more fights than any damn.

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Speaker 2: Body, just all times. The worst damn buddy I've ever hated.

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Speaker 3: That's more than Steve Harby Morning Show, coming up right

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Speaker 3: up to you,