1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: Today's tip is about little ways that you can bring 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: more joy to the world. This episode is first airing 5 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: on Christmas Day, and for those who celebrate the holiday, 6 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: it's supposed to be one of the most joyful days 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: of the year, and hopefully for anyone listening to this podcast, 8 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: that is the case. But happiness in general is a 9 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: funny thing. Well, we certainly appreciate moments of big joy, 10 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: our moods and life satisfaction tend to be more affected 11 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: by small, repeated pleasures and wonders. So what would it 12 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: take to make every day? Mary? We can choose to 13 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: bring little joys to the world, both to ourselves, those 14 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: we love, and to the people we meet in general. 15 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: I've been brainstorming a list of these little joys, and 16 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: I invite you to share one's dream up with me 17 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: as well. One fun one. If you're the first rising 18 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: member of your family, wake the others a minute or 19 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 1: so before their alarms would go off with a kiss 20 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: or a hug. If you're on your own, wait to 21 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: inspirational music rather than a soulless beap. Get a programmable 22 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: coffee maker that can be set the night before so 23 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: everyone wakes to a hot cup, or if you're the 24 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: first riser, make it for everyone else. Don't start your 25 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: day reading depressing headlines or demanding emails. There's time enough 26 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: for that later. Make the first thing you read something beautiful, 27 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: like poetry or a sacred text. If you read something 28 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: that makes you think of a friend or family member, 29 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: find a way to share it with that person. By 30 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: email is fine, but an actual phone call can really 31 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: spark joy. When you get to your office, smile and 32 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: say hello to your coworkers. Ask how they're doing. Listen 33 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: with your full attention as they respond. Be generous with praise. 34 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: Send a note of appreciation. You never know when it 35 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: will make someone's day. Okay, scratch that, you can actually 36 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: be quite confident that it will make someone's day. Most 37 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: of us don't exactly sit around reaping praise notes daily, 38 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: so this is an easy way to spread joy. If 39 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: you have a good experience at a restaurant or hotel 40 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: or store, right the manager and name the person who 41 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 1: helped you. These are the sorts of things that tend 42 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: to go up on the wall in the employee break 43 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: room and can make everyone feel better about life. Put 44 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 1: your change in the tip jar. Those quarters cause more 45 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: joy there than they do in your pocket. And if 46 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: those quarters do, land in your pocket. And put a 47 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: little extra change in your parking meter so someone else 48 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: can park for free after you. People give and get 49 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: lots of gifts on Christmas, and that can be fun. 50 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: But gifts can bring more joy when they're given just because. 51 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: Buy your spouse a five dollar bouquet of flowers at 52 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: the grocery store simply because it's Tuesday. Bring home something 53 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: whimsical from a business trip, or maybe you don't even 54 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: need to bring something home. You can start an inside 55 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: joke with a teenage child. Every time either of you 56 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: sees a snow globe or a pet sweater in a store, 57 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: you text a picture to each other. If you see 58 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: litter somewhere and you can safely pick it up, do so. 59 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: Check in on older neighbors, occasionally, print up some of 60 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: the photos you take and mail copies to the people 61 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: who are in them. Sharing little bits of joy with 62 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: the world doesn't need to take a whole lot of time. 63 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: But if you go through your days consciously looking for 64 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: ways to make the world better. Well, you will make 65 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: it better and that can make every day I feel 66 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: like Christmas. I'd love to hear how you bring joy 67 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: to the world. You can email me at Before Breakfast 68 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: podcast at iHeart media dot com. In the meantime, this 69 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: is Laura. Thanks for listening and here's to making the 70 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear 71 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: from you. You can send me your tips, your questions, 72 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: or anything else. Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook 73 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: and Instagram at Before Breakfast pod that's B the number four, 74 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: then Breakfast p o D. 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