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Speaker 1: What's up, gorgeous. It's la La Kent with Ryan and

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sitting.

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Speaker 2: At Dear Media Studios with the Skinny Confidential. We have

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Speaker 2: Lauren and Michael Vostik subabes.

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Speaker 3: I'm just pumped at you guys invited me on and

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Speaker 3: not just Lauren. I was like, I don't know, sometimes

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Speaker 3: she's the draw, and I was like, you know, he no.

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Speaker 1: No, no, this is all about interrogating you.

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Speaker 3: We just did our podcast and it's a huge home run.

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Speaker 3: Everyone's got to go. Listen. You guys killed it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I will say I'm a little intimidated. I've only been

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Speaker 2: intimidated by one other guest that we've had, and it

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Speaker 2: was Catherine Power. But I'm like equally as intimidated right now.

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Speaker 2: Why because you're just like you guys are like the

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Speaker 2: king and Queen of like podcast ship.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I don't know about you.

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Speaker 1: Know, you're killing it. You guys have you guys have

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Speaker 1: your thing going on. You guys are good.

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Speaker 3: We've just been doing it a little longer. But I

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Speaker 3: don't but you know, we have our moments, just not

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Speaker 3: always a home run.

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Speaker 2: Well, by the way, I love having you on Michael,

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Speaker 2: because it's always great. Like Randall always says like he

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Speaker 2: has like three fans, But I don't think that's true.

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Speaker 1: I think I think it's the same for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a huge people.

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Speaker 2: I think people are fans of yours like you you

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Speaker 2: think like, oh, people are only drawn to Lauren. I know, Hey,

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Speaker 2: you did the same You did the same thing, Lauren,

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Speaker 2: you were.

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Speaker 1: All over Randall. I had no one on my team

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Speaker 1: at the beginning of your podcast.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you know they come to the show just for me.

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Speaker 4: You're right.

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Speaker 2: So my first riveting question is, Lauren, how the fuck

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Speaker 2: do you get those eyebrows?

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Speaker 1: Your eyebrows look amazing. I've been staring at them, but.

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Speaker 5: You feather them perfectly, and you come on, here's the trick.

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Speaker 5: And I've never shared this on any of my platforms.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why got to be glued? Okay, you

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Speaker 5: know men's got to be glued.

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Speaker 1: The yellow bottle, Yeah, the old hair hairy?

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Speaker 5: You fully can you put it in your brows and

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Speaker 5: you brush them straight up? And that is honest going

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Speaker 5: to change everyone's life.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, Michael, we.

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Speaker 3: Just had someone come on the show and for forty

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Speaker 3: minutes about how.

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Speaker 1: They pull your face down. You got to brush them

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Speaker 1: up every day.

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Speaker 3: Wow, my face is falling off. It's going to be

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Speaker 3: gone in a year o week.

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Speaker 1: Got to be glue.

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Speaker 5: That's honestly the best. That's one of my best beauty

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Speaker 5: tips I could give everyone.

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Speaker 1: Got to be glued.

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Speaker 2: I love that you say that because I have spent

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Speaker 2: so much money on like these waxes and just everything

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Speaker 2: to try and get my eyebrows to look like yours.

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Speaker 1: So got to be glued. Love it. Your eyebrows look

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Speaker 1: really good. Just just I'm just telling you they look.

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Speaker 4: Everybody's eyebrows look great. Now I'm like bugging the funk out.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go to the bathroom and check my show.

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Speaker 1: Eyebrows are important.

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Speaker 4: Wow, you guys are like, this is intense, Okay, So

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Speaker 4: I want to I want to hear the history because

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Speaker 4: I I really need to be educated just on how

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Speaker 4: you guys met, how the relationship started, because I love

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Speaker 4: the romance.

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Speaker 1: You want the breakdown, I want the.

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Speaker 4: Whole ship you met. You guys said you met when

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Speaker 4: you were twelve.

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Speaker 1: Well, Michael was four foot one.

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Speaker 3: And was twelve.

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Speaker 1: I was five.

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Speaker 3: It was in sixth grade.

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Speaker 1: I was five to seven.

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Speaker 5: I was the same high I am now, and I

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Speaker 3: You know what I thought. I saw her and she

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Speaker 3: was the only fully developed woman on the playground.

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Speaker 5: Because I was I had like I look like I look.

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Speaker 5: I thought she was the I relate to schuberty early.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then that was like your peak, that was

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Speaker 2: you didn't get bigger boobs.

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Speaker 1: Well I did.

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Speaker 5: I got fake ones, but like I mean both, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But when I was little, they were pretty big. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Michael was looking at you.

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Speaker 3: They were the only ones.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to give her a baby, the real ones

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Speaker 1: of the class, I mean, who knows.

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Speaker 3: I looked over I was like, oh, the new subs here.

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Speaker 3: She's pretty fucking hot.

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Speaker 3: And uh then I realized she was because at the

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Speaker 3: like playing five tether ball handball. And then all a sudden

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Speaker 3: I looked over him. I became a man that day.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I grew up right away.

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Speaker 1: We started dating in sixth grade. What city, San Diego?

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Speaker 5: Okay, got it, and we we progressed very fast. Like

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Speaker 5: my dad found us in the closet without t shirts

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Speaker 5: on at twelve years old. Wow, wow, like crazy, crazy chemistry,

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Speaker 5: and then like gave him a blowjob like at thirteen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's why we were becoming alms. When my daughter

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Speaker 3: turns thirteen, we're moving to amage country.

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Speaker 4: You're just you're locking it up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would pay back well at twelve.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So we had this like very intense connection at

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Speaker 5: a very young age, and then at about fifteen years old.

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Speaker 1: We broke up.

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Speaker 4: Okay, three years together. You're in high.

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Speaker 1: School now, so you break up at fifteen? We break

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Speaker 1: up at fifteen, I go for older guys. He does, Like,

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Speaker 1: that's a typical story, right, kids.

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Speaker 3: I went to the handball court and cried myself. So

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Speaker 3: you're in high school together a week as soon as

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Speaker 3: we started going into high school, right, it's a it's

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Speaker 3: the same story that every guy goes to the girl,

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Speaker 3: the young girl goes off with the older guys, leaves

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Speaker 3: like we were not together for a long time after.

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Speaker 4: Did you stay in touch.

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Speaker 1: All the way we hooked up? Yeah, like you come home,

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Speaker 5: Sometimes we would hook up and then I just leave,

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Speaker 5: like always so it made him, like I feel like

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Speaker 5: he just couldn't get enough because I would like, come

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Speaker 4: Come and go and then leave.

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Speaker 3: Well, I sprinkle, Yeah, this sounds really like corny and

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Speaker 3: I hate it to sound that way. But I had

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Speaker 3: a lot of other relationships after Lauren, but.

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Speaker 4: I I thought, you stayed home the whole time.

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Speaker 3: But I don't. I never feel so proud of those

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, like I'm dating you or you're

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Speaker 4: But it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't have that connection that I had with Laurence.

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Speaker 3: I didn't really take him very seriously, and I don't

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Speaker 3: like tell the people, so yeah, like you know, if

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Speaker 3: it doesn't work out, it's find it. But I think

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Speaker 3: sometimes that made it worse, you know, because he tells

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Speaker 3: that way with other women that I felt with Laurene,

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Speaker 3: and so like I had always chaser in pursuit her

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: That's like people say that, but it really was like

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Speaker 1: I love that we went away to college. He went

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Speaker 2: God knows what how best time, ever is what the

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Speaker 3: It was good that we were on a little break.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, all right. So now so now in college,

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Speaker 4: you're not together, okay, together, stay in touch? So still

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Speaker 1: Stay in touch? He calls me. I don't pick up.

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Speaker 3: Not really, that's what you know, not really in touch in college,

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Speaker 4: Okay. So now four years go by, college is over.

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Speaker 3: High school college over completely. We weren't together.

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Speaker 5: My friend invites me to Vegas, and she makes a

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Speaker 3: She's fast forwarding through something.

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Speaker 4: What happened in Vegas?

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Speaker 1: What didn't happen?

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Speaker 3: A lot happened in Vegas. I convinced her to go

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Speaker 1: That's the similarities between you and Oh.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 3: So I knew that her. We had a mutual friend

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Speaker 3: went into full pursuit mode. Like I was like, I

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Speaker 3: like we've been together ever since.

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Speaker 5: He I remember him, and I don't think I've ever

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Speaker 5: told this story publicly. I remember talking to him at

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Speaker 5: dinner and I was like.

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Speaker 4: What are you reading.

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Speaker 1: He's a huge reader, which is a huge turn on

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: And he said I'm reading.

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Speaker 5: A book on salt, and I was like what when

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Speaker 5: He's like, salt, I'm reading about the history of salt,

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Speaker 5: and he starts telling me all the history of salt,

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Speaker 5: how salt used to be used as a current, see

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Speaker 5: and like it used to be his money.

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Speaker 3: And at one point so it was worth more than gold.

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Speaker 1: Oh, don't don't get him started.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, what's the book called? If you like the term,

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Speaker 3: like if you ever heard the term like worth his

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Speaker 4: I just want to understand what would have hited you

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Speaker 4: to read the book one.

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Speaker 3: I read a lot of I just sometimes I'll be

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Speaker 2: When someone makes you laugh, When you can pick each

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Speaker 1: Every area of your life. Either you wouldn't be single, though,

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Speaker 3: My process had gone up since I started getting by the.

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Speaker 4: Way, You're right.

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Speaker 1: Both of you.

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Speaker 5: So I told I tell this story a lot, but

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Speaker 5: And so and telling the story is like, you can

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Speaker 4: Exactly say, Yeah, who's this guy? Why what is So.

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Speaker 3: She's like, hey, can you start, like if you want

447
00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:54,800
Speaker 3: to go on? And I was like I'm not going

448
00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:56,600
Speaker 3: to be taking pictures and outfits in the streets or

449
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Speaker 3: doing the whole thing on the beach. Listen not to

450
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Speaker 3: but like, that's not my vibe.

451
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Speaker 1: It wasn't your vibe.

452
00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,359
Speaker 3: No, it's so she's like, well, can you write a

453
00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,200
Speaker 3: couple of pieces on the blog? And I was like, oh,

454
00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:07,760
Speaker 3: once in a while, So I like wrote a couple

455
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Speaker 3: small piece you probably go find and like most book wrecks,

456
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Speaker 3: I'm like, that's not my vibe either. And I was

457
00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,880
Speaker 3: focused on operating, but clearly you can't get me to shut.

458
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Speaker 4: The fuck up.

459
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Speaker 3: So I was like, why don't I love that? We do?

460
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Speaker 3: We like, these people have these questions, we want to

461
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Speaker 3: answer them. I don't want to write, I don't have

462
00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,040
Speaker 3: time a social channel. Let's start a podcast started as

463
00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,479
Speaker 3: a Q and A at the time when podcasting had

464
00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,480
Speaker 3: still been around but not nearly what it is now.

465
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Speaker 3: And so we started that self producing in twenty sixteen,

466
00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,879
Speaker 3: and like that's the that's when I got involved with

467
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Speaker 3: the brand. But it and obviously we called it the

468
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Speaker 3: Skinny Confidential Hymn and Her because there was an established

469
00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:41,800
Speaker 3: brand that already exists. I was on like, hey, let's

470
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Speaker 3: go call it like the Michael Show, Like that made

471
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Speaker 3: no sense, right, And that's wheally happened.

472
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Speaker 5: We were at a different network and we just saw

473
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Speaker 5: everything that they were doing wrong. And Michael's like, I'm

474
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Speaker 5: going to blow up this space. I'm going to completely

475
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Speaker 5: shake up this category and I'm gonna I'm going to

476
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Speaker 5: have people make real money and I'm going to pull

477
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Speaker 5: it through their social and I'm going to pull it

478
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,840
Speaker 5: to stories and pull it to Instagram and pull it

479
00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,320
Speaker 5: to the blog because they're missing out on all these

480
00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:11,640
Speaker 5: all these other revenues, right, like, let's sell a huge partnership.

481
00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,159
Speaker 3: Wasn't just that, It was like and I don't want

482
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Speaker 3: to say people are doing it wrong. I just felt

483
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Speaker 3: that the model, the business model, the way you formed

484
00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,920
Speaker 3: the contracts, the way you sell, the way you market, like, oh,

485
00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:24,160
Speaker 3: it just wasn't updated to a twenty twenty digital world, right,

486
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Speaker 3: and like that's the world that form.

487
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

488
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Speaker 3: And along the way, while I was doing that, I

489
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Speaker 3: had an agency. I was helping brands build their products

490
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Speaker 3: and sell on lines. Like I understood the backund she

491
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Speaker 3: obviously like had the front end. So I was like,

492
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Speaker 3: there's just maybe a more updated.

493
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Speaker 4: Way to monetize.

494
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we And the other thing is like we

495
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Speaker 3: understood it because we had and shared the pain con

496
00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,879
Speaker 3: talking on a mic every week, and like we had

497
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Speaker 3: gone through the editing process, We've sold the show ourselves,

498
00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 3: we produced we and I was like, I maybe could

499
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Speaker 3: do this for other creators in a more productive way

500
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Speaker 3: than maybe some of the ways they were doing.

501
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Speaker 1: And he had no Hollywood background, nothing.

502
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Speaker 4: Wow, and you just figured it all out, just as you.

503
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Speaker 3: I'm still trying to.

504
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Speaker 1: Why all the time.

505
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Speaker 2: So if he would build something incredible because he knows

506
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Speaker 2: exactly why, I.

507
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Speaker 3: Think. I just came in and was like someone gave

508
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Speaker 3: me the if someone gave me the blueprint of like

509
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Speaker 3: this is how you create a podcast network. I kind

510
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 3: of just threw the blueprint out the windows and we

511
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 3: started and just restarted. And there's listen, there's some of

512
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Speaker 3: that blueprint that's spot on and absolutely incredible, and like

513
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Speaker 3: I used elements of that, but then there's other things

514
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Speaker 3: like I could maybe do this a different way.

515
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Speaker 4: How many years now has the company been in existence?

516
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Speaker 3: I started it in the end of twenty seventeen, but

517
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Speaker 3: didn't start signing shows until twenty eighteen.

518
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Speaker 4: Okay, so three solid years, but four years been formed.

519
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Speaker 1: And now do your media has like one hundred shows?

520
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Speaker 4: Really?

521
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Speaker 1: Yeah? We have?

522
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Speaker 2: Fuck?

523
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Speaker 4: Yeah, how can we get the call about something?

524
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Speaker 3: Yea, why didn't they get the call?

525
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Speaker 1: I actually have dmd lalla, probably to the point of

526
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Speaker 1: annoying her. Wait, really, you could go back.

527
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Speaker 4: I was like, she doesn't read her DM's Well.

528
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Speaker 1: I don't blame you.

529
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Speaker 5: I don't again, but I was like, I saw you

530
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Speaker 5: on the show, and I'm like, oh my god, there's

531
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Speaker 5: so much to this girl. I want you on the podcast.

532
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 5: And then I read your book and I was like,

533
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Speaker 5: I have to get this girl on the podcast.

534
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Speaker 4: Oh that's so sweet.

535
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,880
Speaker 1: I love that you even go back.

536
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Speaker 4: She's a big fan.

537
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Speaker 1: Think we're a big fan.

538
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I've seen every episode of.

539
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Speaker 4: This season. Yeah. By the way, I like that. That's

540
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Speaker 4: a real boss.

541
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Speaker 1: I can say that he watches Housewives, he watches it all.

542
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Speaker 2: Well. I think I love any woman who I think

543
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Speaker 2: people kind of sleep on.

544
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Speaker 1: They're like, oh, she's the blonde with the big boom.

545
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Speaker 2: Hello daddy, and it's like and here's my brand boom.

546
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Speaker 2: And it's like, holy shit, you just won this dick

547
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Speaker 2: measuring contest. Like beyond like I, I think you're inspiring.

548
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Speaker 2: I think what you've built is incredible. And I love

549
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Speaker 2: two people who who really kind of fuel each other's fire.

550
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Speaker 1: You know, when they're in a.

551
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Speaker 4: Relationship, you can tell truly love each other.

552
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Speaker 1: Well, I think that so much. In marriage.

553
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Speaker 5: There's two hills, and I say this, I say this

554
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 5: on our podcast. It's like they're pushing two different boulders

555
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,479
Speaker 5: up two different hills. So they're both pushing boulders up,

556
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 5: but it's two different hills. I think a true marriage

557
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Speaker 5: is you both pushing the same boulder up the same hill.

558
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Speaker 5: And that requires a lot of long term strategy. What's

559
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Speaker 5: your vision for your life? You have to have these

560
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 5: conversations to make sure you're on the same page because

561
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Speaker 5: some people's vision is a ranch in New Mexico and

562
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Speaker 5: the other person's vision is a bel Air mansion. Like,

563
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Speaker 5: what's the ultimate vision? And how can we work backwards

564
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Speaker 5: to create those systems to get to the goal?

565
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Speaker 4: Correct?

566
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Speaker 1: I think that's important in a marriage. Marriage is not easy, brutal. Yeah,

567
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Speaker 1: I think.

568
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Speaker 2: Relationships are a lot of work, and you're constantly changing

569
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Speaker 2: and sometimes you're not changing together. So how do you

570
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Speaker 2: come back to you know the root of the relationship.

571
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Speaker 2: It is a lot of work and it's a lot

572
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Speaker 2: of people.

573
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Speaker 4: But I think marriage is like people are growing constantly.

574
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Speaker 4: Like we're all, you know, wanting to evolve. You got

575
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Speaker 4: to make sure as you're evolving that your partner's evolving

576
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 4: with you.

577
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Speaker 2: And that's the same, right, No, I agree with you.

578
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Speaker 2: So you have a beautiful baby girl. By the way,

579
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Speaker 2: I was telling Michael Lauren that I watched your guys'

580
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Speaker 2: stories when you were at Hotel de cat I do

581
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Speaker 2: not have fomo ever. Okay, I'm completely content in these

582
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Speaker 2: four walls called my.

583
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Speaker 1: Bedroom watching O G. Housewives all day every day.

584
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Speaker 2: I was having so much fomo and then it like

585
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Speaker 2: pushed me over the edge when you were with Meredith

586
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Speaker 2: and her husband from Real Housewives.

587
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Speaker 5: Why don't we all do a six sum next year?

588
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 5: Bring the kids with nanny Nanny.

589
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Speaker 3: You guys don't be really fun to get.

590
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're in. We're next year, we're in.

591
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Speaker 1: Let's go and next.

592
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Speaker 4: Year, let's do it right dir Like at the end

593
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Speaker 4: of can so I could just pick up the last few.

594
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Speaker 5: Days you have to go with al Pacino, the Mottle,

595
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 5: Tonio and John Travolta.

596
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Speaker 1: Then come and hang out with us there, but you do.

597
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Speaker 4: We'll go to the am Far Charity at the end

598
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Speaker 4: of can together as a group, talk about salt, talk

599
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 4: about salt. We'll question everybody no no, but then everybody's gone.

600
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 4: Then everybody's gone, and then we'll have like a good

601
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Speaker 4: vacation because I like it. I like people aren't there.

602
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 4: I love to cap and I like it after can

603
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Speaker 4: because it's actually really quiet.

604
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Speaker 5: We're fun to go on vacation with two because I

605
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Speaker 5: feel like we're self aware. Like you guys go out

606
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 5: to your thing, we'll go to our feet up like

607
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Speaker 5: it's no pressure.

608
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Speaker 1: We're the same the type of friend that can wake.

609
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Speaker 5: Up and say what you're doing today, give me your

610
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Speaker 5: itinery someone.

611
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Speaker 3: Popping out of the bushes like it's bunch time.

612
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Speaker 4: We take people on vacation and sometimes we take like

613
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Speaker 4: a group and go to cob or whatever. I'm like, listen,

614
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 4: there's only one mandatory thing, and that's dinner want the

615
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Speaker 4: first night, and then I don't need to see any

616
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Speaker 4: of you for four nights. I don't give a fuck.

617
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Speaker 4: That's how you go, you know, Let's just have a

618
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Speaker 4: fun kickoff, get wasted dinner and after that, I'm not interested.

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Speaker 4: And we're the same way. We don't. We don't have

620
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Speaker 4: an Ever.

621
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Speaker 5: Sometimes you go on vacation with people, though, and they

622
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Speaker 5: want to do breakfast, lunch, dinner and snack and I'm like,

623
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Speaker 5: I can't know, you know what I mean, I.

624
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Speaker 4: Never go back. I never go back.

625
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: I got to recharge my batteries.

626
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Speaker 5: I feel like you're like me and where everyone thinks

627
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 5: you're an extrovert, but you're actually an intro I mean,

628
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 5: recharge by yourself.

629
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got it. You got to recharge by yourself, you.

630
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 4: Know what I mean?

631
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Speaker 1: Yes, close the door was listening. Went on vacation with us.

632
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Speaker 3: Before, because we're your partners out honestly, don't worry because

633
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 3: if they did, we're never going on vacation with them again.

634
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 4: Yeah right, no, but I'll tell you. We have a trip.

635
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 4: We have a trip to Miami for her for a

636
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 4: birthday with all of our friends. And I just told them,

637
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 4: I said, guys, just so you know, there's no schedule.

638
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 4: There's just a birthday dinner first night, and then we

639
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 4: don't need to see you for four days. Like it's

640
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 4: it's do who wants to vacation. Who wants to go

641
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 4: on vacation be told what to do?

642
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Speaker 2: I mean, that's like but you so I'm watching these

643
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 2: stories of you guys and can and I'm like, oh

644
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: my god, I have to be there, teleport me now.

645
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 1: But you guys said that it was kind of rough.

646
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: It was rough because we thought we were over zealous.

647
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 5: And thought we didn't need a nanny. And what I've

648
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 5: realized is it's not about having a nanny the whole day.

649
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 5: It's just about wanting to go to lunch for two hours,

650
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 5: or maybe I'd like to get laid, Like can I

651
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 5: have like fifteen minutes to myself without her story to

652
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 5: get me like, you know, big eyes in the dark,

653
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 5: like she's jet lagged that the jet lag partner one

654
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 5: talks about either with a baby, it was a lot.

655
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, to contextualize and maybe make it somewhat more

656
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 3: like related, boys, we we went and we just thought

657
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Speaker 3: we don't need we can just do all that. She's

658
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 3: eighteen months old. We can go on the long flight,

659
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 3: we can go and change. It tells we can have

660
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 3: the same type of vacation we used to have together

661
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 3: before we had a baby. But we'll just add the baby,

662
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 3: and like you just can't.

663
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Speaker 5: Right, just so it becomes me babysitting when he wants

664
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 5: to go to the gym, and him babysitting when I

665
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 5: want to sit and have a glass of road.

666
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you miss the whole point of vacation

667
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 4: because you need to re charged with relationship. You need

668
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 4: to recharge.

669
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's exactly what Michael said. You guys

670
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: are so on the age.

671
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: I was trying to get after it and then she's like,

672
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 3: with the babies there, baby can't see it. I was

673
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 3: like trying to put the little blanket.

674
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 2: These like big beautiful blue eyes, like you can clearly

675
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 2: tell she's looking directly at you.

676
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 5: She looks like an African lemur in the dark, like

677
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 5: you know, like she's like staring. I'm like, can you

678
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:32,959
Speaker 5: close your eyes on it? You get what I'm saying though,

679
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 5: because you said like you're like okay, like and Lama

680
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 5: is more like she can just stare at the baby

681
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 5: all time. No.

682
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 4: No, I'm like, bring the fucking nanny in because we're

683
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 4: going to dinner and we're getting at it and we're

684
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 4: gonna have a fucking great night. And whatever happens is

685
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 4: going to happen, and we want.

686
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 1: To come home better.

687
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 2: I'm getting better, she was, And it was like, I'm

688
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: not handing off the baby to this person. Yeah, I

689
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 2: was like, now I have her on speed dial. She's

690
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: like constantly coming in five months. People told me you'll

691
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 2: be done with the night nurse by three months. No,

692
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 2: fuck that. Last night, you guys, she woke me up

693
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 2: at one. She woke me up at two thirty four,

694
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 2: forty five.

695
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 4: Six forty Moving to the other side of the house,

696
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 4: she goes, you have to be in the office. Go

697
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 4: the fuck to the other side of the house and

698
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 4: go to sleep.

699
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 1: Does it get easier, like eighteen months? Is that easier?

700
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: Like what is it like? No? Oh no, no, it's

701
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: twenty five.

702
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 3: I wish I could say yes, And eighteen months.

703
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 1: Is snarlier because let me let me give.

704
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 3: You a visual.

705
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 4: This is a visual because they can speak.

706
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 5: You wake up, their eyes opened, they cry, they need Okay,

707
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 5: you give them the thing they need. Then they want

708
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 5: to go on the ground and walk around. And then

709
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 5: this is the thing that you don't even wait till

710
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 5: you see this. They open your drawer, they take your

711
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 5: CBD pens, they take your knife, that you have in

712
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 5: the drawer, they take, they take like your matches. She's

713
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 5: lighting a fuck, the house is on fire.

714
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 3: Has weapons in her drawer.

715
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 4: Sick, she's like ready for a day.

716
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 5: She played for forty five minutes with a piece of

717
00:28:56,120 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 5: my vitamin wrapper, like it's it's it's anything that's not

718
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 5: a toy.

719
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: They want a lovely at least.

720
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, by the way, that's the evolution.

721
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 5: But she had a knife in her hand once. She

722
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 5: loves grabbing the knives at the dinner table. It's like

723
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 5: anything sticking your hand in my tequila soda.

724
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 4: I mean it's she's a year, year and a half. Everything.

725
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 3: Here's what happened. We went on this trip and it

726
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: was easy. She would just sit in one place, and

727
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 3: it's like the moment we decided to go on a

728
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 3: nice vacation, she decided, I can move now, I can walk,

729
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 3: I can scream, I can have tantrums, I can grab everything.

730
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 3: It was like literally on the way at the start

731
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 3: of the trip and we looked at each other, like,

732
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:34,239
Speaker 3: what the hell is going on?

733
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 5: I read about tantrums that you're supposed to say. I

734
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 5: understand that this is bothering you, but we can't do

735
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 5: this because of this, and then you're supposed to go quiet,

736
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 5: like you're not supposed to entertain it. Okay, so that's

737
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 5: been my strategy. So at one point she was running

738
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 5: around the hotel do Cap butt naked Mike.

739
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 3: Screaming and I building.

740
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, you can deal with it.

741
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 4: I'm not entertaining main building or eating rock.

742
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: What building. I come home and I'm just from the gym,

743
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 3: Like finally I went to the rex. You just hear

744
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 3: the child screaming, and I was like, what is that.

745
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 3: It's like that sounds familiar. There's not my child. Somebody's

746
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 3: got to get fine, Like one of these asshole parents

747
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 3: got to get their kid under control.

748
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 4: That's where I go to. That's why I go to.

749
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 3: I look over, my kid is butt naked, screaming, having

750
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 3: a tantrum. Lauren is just so lobby.

751
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not doing this. I just not entertaining it.

752
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 3: And at that moment we were just like we like

753
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 3: we give you know.

754
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: At some point you you're going to go insane and

755
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: you just have to let her like calm herself down.

756
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,479
Speaker 4: You I have a hard time with that.

757
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: You entertained the tantrums.

758
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 2: I can't ocean had like a go last night.

759
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 4: She was keeping I just had a hard time when

760
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 4: they're screaming and I want to, like, I want to

761
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 4: talk to them and say you could stop.

762
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 3: There was no.

763
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 2: There was no calming her down. She had to do

764
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,239
Speaker 2: it on her own. It was like I was holding her.

765
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: Then I put her on the lube.

766
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: I walked around.

767
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 2: I'm bouncing her binky after binkie. Maybe she doesn't like

768
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 2: this nipple, maybe my own nipple, and like nothing was working.

769
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: It was tough, and I'm seeing like hours pass and

770
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: finally I was like, Randa, you go sleep somewhere else.

771
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: I put my headphones in.

772
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 2: I laid her back in her little bed, and I

773
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, she cried herself to sleep.

774
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 4: But it's it's like that's the hard part for me

775
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 4: because I'm like, I want to react that. She's like,

776
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 4: you gotta just let her sleep. It's like that's a

777
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 4: hard But let's go back to the nanny. Ny. Just

778
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 4: call her on the other side of the house. She

779
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 4: comes running over and before we kill each other, we

780
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 4: hand the baby off and then we can. But here's

781
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 4: the thing. If we were at home working from home,

782
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 4: you know, people then fine, it's a different thing. Like

783
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 4: you could get a two hour nap in the morning.

784
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 4: At two hours, I have to go to an office

785
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 4: every day. She goes to the office every day. It's hard,

786
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 4: you guys know, running businesses and.

787
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: Not beyond No, there's no nat like when the baby

788
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: goes down for a nap, like I'm at work, bro,

789
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: I it's want to catch it.

790
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 5: Here's the thing that people have to understand too. Back

791
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 5: in the day, kids were raised in communities with tons

792
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 5: of people around us, and now I don't.

793
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: Have family up here.

794
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm working. I'm working and building my business. I

795
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 5: think it's impossible not to have have help agree and like,

796
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 5: I also think I'm really transparent about it.

797
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: I had a night nurse, I had a nanny.

798
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 5: There's a lot of influencers and celebrities that act like

799
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 5: they do it all themselves, right, but do have all

800
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 5: this shit that don't talk about it.

801
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: I know, well, because mom's shaming is real. You have

802
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: these little troll moms.

803
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,239
Speaker 2: That are like, you don't care about your kid, and

804
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: it's like, actually, I care a lot about my kid,

805
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: and I have this luxury that I'm going to be

806
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 2: extremely grateful for But if I don't get a certain

807
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: amount of sleep and I know that I can have

808
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: a night nurse, Like I I am not going to

809
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 2: be a good mom the next day if I'm sleep deprived.

810
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 3: Well, at one point, when we first had our child,

811
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 3: my mom's like, you know what, since we don't need

812
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 3: a family up there, you guys don't any help, Like,

813
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 3: don't worry about a night nursing. I'll come up to

814
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 3: your house and I'll sleep up there with you guys

815
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 3: for three months ago. Oh no, you fucking want I like,

816
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 3: you are not. I love you, mom, but I was like,

817
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 3: you are not coming anywhere inside the house. You come

818
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: visit you you're here for a visit. It's a scheduled business.

819
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 4: It's a visit.

820
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 3: It's a yeah.

821
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: And so you know, the mom shaming is reel.

822
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 5: They started on me when I was postpartum about a

823
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 5: car seat seat.

824
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 4: Belt she had that she had the car seat, that's.

825
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: The the car seat was. We were actually parked. But

826
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: but they don't. They just fucking go.

827
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 5: And then I wrote a post and I was like,

828
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 5: I'm not the blogger to come at I go somewhere else.

829
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 5: I'm not the one. I don't give a fuck about

830
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 5: anyone's opinion when it comes to raising my child.

831
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: And I love that. I'm gonna do you. You do you.

832
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 4: I need you to coach her a little bit.

833
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: You just can't. I love that. I love that. Yeah,

834
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: like I'm not the one go troll someone else. And

835
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: they stopped.

836
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 3: Well, because here's the thing. Even if you do it

837
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 3: the way that those people are telling you to do it,

838
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 3: there's another group that disagrees with that way, and then

839
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 3: I can't win.

840
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 2: There was there was a woman. I took a picture

841
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 2: of ocean and she was in a stroller. And this

842
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,239
Speaker 2: woman was like, for the love of God, learn how

843
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 2: to put your baby in a car seat. And she

844
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: had like her handle was like so and so and

845
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: so and so's mom.

846
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: So I responded, I was like.

847
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 2: Babe, it scares me that you have two children and

848
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 2: you don't know the difference between a car seat and

849
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 2: a stroller. It's not a fucking car seat. Like God,

850
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 2: you were you know.

851
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 5: And sometimes you have to call out there there like

852
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 5: outlandish comments like shut.

853
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:25,280
Speaker 4: Up, it's crazy.

854
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 3: I'll give you. I'll give you a line that you

855
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 3: can tell people to say. The coyotes howl and the

856
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 3: caravan keeps moving. That's like it's it's the best, especially

857
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,280
Speaker 3: for both of you, because like people are just chirping

858
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 3: in at every angle. Right, It's like you can't, you

859
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 3: can you really can't.

860
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 5: How about just not giving advice over the internet to

861
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 5: other people that you don't know.

862
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 2: But it's like, go do something to someone you you

863
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 2: don't know me, You're not like you said your car

864
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 2: was parked, Like it doesn't matter, You're not in the environment.

865
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 2: You have no idea what's going on at all. I

866
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 2: could be mid taking her out because we're gonna go

867
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,439
Speaker 2: on a little stroll, like don't it's just like enough,

868
00:34:59,480 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: shut up.

869
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 1: But also, like my thing again is who has the time?

870
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people have the time. I'm doing

871
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,439
Speaker 1: something productive. A lot of people have the time. Okay, well,

872
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: but I mean you don't. You can't. Really.

873
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 5: I think that if you should take the productive energy

874
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 5: of focusing on other people's lives and put it towards

875
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 5: your own life.

876
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 3: Well, again, what we kind of talked about on our

877
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 3: show is I try to reverse engineer it and kind

878
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 3: of empathize with the type of like why, like why

879
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 3: are you in a place where you feel you need

880
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 3: to say these things right, And it's most likely because

881
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 3: they're in a pain place, or they're insecure, or if

882
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 3: something's not going well and it's or there's like it's

883
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 3: a reflection on how an inadequacy in their own life.

884
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Speaker 3: And so what they're doing is are saying Okay, in

885
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Speaker 3: order for me to feel normal and justify my feelings,

886
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 3: I'm going to lash out at others to bring them

887
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 3: into this world of pain. It's like, I think, when

888
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 3: you think about it that way, it's hard to get

889
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 3: angry at those people because you're like, okay, like this

890
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 3: is like a person that may be in a broken

891
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 3: state of mind.

892
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: It should be a life coach.

893
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: God fuck no.

894
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 2: But you make so much sense and like it's like

895
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 2: you're like the way you put things, it's like, oh, yeah,

896
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: that is how I should do things. So I read

897
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Speaker 2: that you guys came up with the name. You say

898
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Speaker 2: it Zaza, Yes, because you thought that it was Zazagabor.

899
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: I am obsessed with Jasaha Bor. I've always been obsessed

900
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: with her. Okay, tell me why what it?

901
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 5: Well, she's had eight husbands and she she made money

902
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 5: off each husband, so and became a gazillionaire off each husband,

903
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 5: and I.

904
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: Just think it's funny.

905
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 5: I think it's like she like played the game against

906
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 5: the guys back in the day, like she just went in,

907
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 5: no prenup, and just like you gotta read her books.

908
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 5: It's she's really inspired. She's unapologetically herself. She like she

909
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 5: just really was someone who was outspoken in that day

910
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 5: and age, and she didn't.

911
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: Play by the roles.

912
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 5: Okay, So I've read all her books and I would

913
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 5: always tell Michael, I'm obsessed with Zazagabor. I'm obsessed with

914
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 5: Zazaabor over and over and finally one day he's like,

915
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 5: it's Jajah.

916
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: Was this after you named your baby?

917
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 2: No?

918
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 5: And then I'm like, oh my god, I'm naming my

919
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 5: baby's Azza.

920
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 3: So the name is like because I think that I

921
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 3: think the origin of Jasha is like an old Prussian name.

922
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 3: Maybe it's a Hungarian Okay, maybe I'm wrong, but right,

923
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 3: maybe fact check.

924
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: But anyways, he's like, but why.

925
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 3: But I don't like, I don't prefer the name Jaja,

926
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 3: And I was like, if you want to call her Zaza,

927
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 3: you can't spell it Jaja because that's how you that's

928
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: how you spell.

929
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 5: We wants what if she wants to do beauty give

930
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 5: them kind of like your name actually la La and Zaza.

931
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 1: No, that's exactly what it is.

932
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 2: I love it, except she's lucky enough to have it

933
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 2: as her government name and mine's just a nickname. Well,

934
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: you change your name, I should change my name.

935
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like your name's Laala. My name

936
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: is Laala. Do you ever call her Lauren when you're

937
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: in a fight. That's a good one.

938
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 4: Yeah.

939
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: See, But that's the thing, Lauren.

940
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 4: Yours, Laurence's Lauren.

941
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: It is Lauren. That's why I go by Laala because

942
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: people call me.

943
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 4: Lauren and it's doesn't Lauren.

944
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:51,479
Speaker 1: That's not my name.

945
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 4: What's the different way?

946
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: How do you say it? Lauren?

947
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 4: Lawreen?

948
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 2: When I tell people, they're like Laurence, say it Lauren

949
00:37:59,000 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: and Laurence.

950
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:00,439
Speaker 4: And what's other one?

951
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: Lauren? Okay, okay, it's kind of weird Lauren and Lauren.

952
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 4: It's like a little.

953
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: Customer consumer confusion. Like I can see it's smart.

954
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 3: You just some of the terrible reviews we get on

955
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 3: our podcast. Just to call out our terrible reviews, they

956
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 3: get mad at some of this.

957
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 5: Listen, I'm not giving my energy towards anything it's not

958
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 5: important sometimes.

959
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 3: Be more professional. You have a podcast as you speak, right.

960
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: Well, you know what.

961
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 2: The other day someone told me, if you're going to

962
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: name a bronzer.

963
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: Abiza, you need to say it correctly. It's Abiza.

964
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 4: I don't.

965
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: I don't either, I like, I'm American. Z I'm going

966
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: to say it because I sound like, say it's.

967
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: Actually called a besa.

968
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 4: It is.

969
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: You should just say that's what it's called.

970
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 4: It's called what people.

971
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: Bronzer is a beisa? Correct?

972
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 3: There is is a Beza.

973
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 4: By the way, I don't even know where that is.

974
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: You guys are amazing.

975
00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 4: You guys are awesome.

976
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 2: Thing you feel like you're doing. I mean I could

977
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 2: talk to you guys. What's what's the time?

978
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 5: Right?

979
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: We got to wrap it up, all right, we gotta

980
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: wrap it up all right. Thank you guys so much

981
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: for doing the PODCASTP with it. You're welcome. You guys

982
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: go listen to them on our podcast. You guys were

983
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: really really good.

984
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 3: That's no bullshit, opted no, no, we're going to do cap Yeah.

985
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,240
Speaker 1: I kind of forgot. Michael is a big planner.

986
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 4: I love trips. I'm a professional with us. Are going

987
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 4: birthday sept Second to the sixth. You're invited.

988
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Speaker 1: Don't tell us that I'm serious, do it.

989
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of

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Speaker 2: Give Them La La with Randall, and we will catch

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Speaker 2: you next week.