WEBVTT - Single and Might Mingle

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeart

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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<v Speaker 1>new episode and we talked Back because show dedicated to

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<v Speaker 1>your dreamers and chasers. It's not like a girl talk

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<v Speaker 1>What's what? Women at a movie? What was the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the movie? I like the people the women was

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<v Speaker 1>working in like a call center and they do like

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<v Speaker 1>sexophone talk girls six for this is your co host

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<v Speaker 1>a j Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>That was That was the the mom from Bad Bad Boys.

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<v Speaker 2>And they didn't bring her back, like she went through

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<v Speaker 2>like a mental breakdown and she was all over running

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<v Speaker 2>all over la all.

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<v Speaker 1>I see in the videos are yeah, poor thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's in our prayers. Damn it man, what's up, tam

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<v Speaker 1>dam Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? How you doing? I love y'all, I love

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<v Speaker 2>you Ajre.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm well chilling out.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you doing? Listen. I've been having like some

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<v Speaker 2>mental struggles this week, like yesterday when I was because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm back at work, but I have one foot, so y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing hair on one foot and I had to

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<v Speaker 2>bring my laundry basket, my tools in my lunch in

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<v Speaker 2>the salon and it was raining and I'm on one

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<v Speaker 2>foot and they don't want to stop park in front

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<v Speaker 2>of the building.

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<v Speaker 1>So you had a handicap sticker.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, are you driving now?

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<v Speaker 1>Allegitly you have like you've been in a car accident

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<v Speaker 1>and like an insurance agent watching you or something bit you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know on the course.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you ain't getting no money about this. You

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<v Speaker 1>got a lawsuit.

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<v Speaker 2>My right foot is broken out, not supposed to be driving.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you don't. It's not like it's a lawsuit involved.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. That's when you would normally hide

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<v Speaker 1>using your shit, like you know, a lawsuit involved, bit

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<v Speaker 1>you in your yourself? You bet a suit a bride.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm just saying. No, I love a ride. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just talking about me. But you'ven behind the wheel, Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's illegal?

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<v Speaker 1>Why people drive with no foot?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you're not supposed to drive with a broke

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<v Speaker 2>with a boot on on your right foot. Yeah, it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>It's illegal. So I haven't been doing that so so,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just had like a moment of like, God,

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<v Speaker 2>what is all of this for, you know, like it's

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<v Speaker 2>the reason. Like that was so hard yesterday. It was

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<v Speaker 2>really like I just want to drop all of this

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<v Speaker 2>shit on the ground and lay here in the rain.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I felt. Real. So, oh yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 2>my weekend. How was yours?

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<v Speaker 1>Shit? Cool girl? I finally have cleared out the storage

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<v Speaker 1>unit that I had been holding on to memories for

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<v Speaker 1>the last I put this stuff in storage in twenty twenty. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I finally emptied this fucking storage unit completely over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend, and I have so much relief now because

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<v Speaker 1>that's like one thing off my mind. So now the

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred dollars a month I've been spending on that,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to join this fucking high low gym because

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<v Speaker 1>they got hot pilates and yoga. So I'm gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>the two hundred dollars into that now. But I had

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<v Speaker 1>to wait until that really motivated me to get the

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<v Speaker 1>storage out because I'm like, I don't want to spend

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<v Speaker 1>that extra money. Plus I'm already spending this for a

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<v Speaker 1>fucking storage unit where there's a bunch of rat piss

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<v Speaker 1>on a lot of my stuff. So I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>just giving most of that stuff away to the fucking

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<v Speaker 1>Habitat for Humanity. But girl, a lot of emotions came

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<v Speaker 1>up while I was taking that stuff out because when

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<v Speaker 1>I put the stuff, and I was engaged, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was putting the things in the storage because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>trust who I was engaged too. So I'm like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I might need my things like I might, we might

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<v Speaker 1>not make it. And here I've gotten rid of everything,

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<v Speaker 1>but really I should, like I don't suggest anybody to

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<v Speaker 1>store shit. Get rid of that shit when you move,

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<v Speaker 1>don't ever store nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Bruh. That's why you know what I was realizing. That's

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<v Speaker 2>funny you say that. And I might have mentioned this

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<v Speaker 2>before on the show, but I realized how much I

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<v Speaker 2>don't need that shit at all. Like I haven't needed

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<v Speaker 2>like I haven't been back to the storage for one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You see what I'm saying. So we be accumulating all

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff, like I do strive to be a minimalist,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am like I hoard mail, I hoard hair

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<v Speaker 1>products like it'd be certain things that I might hoard,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hoard like trinkets and little things that I

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<v Speaker 1>spent my money on. I really still want hold I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard dick pics from exues like I still haven't

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<v Speaker 2>made my p.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about that shit, but you can't get a

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<v Speaker 1>man with that shit on your phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Why how they gonna know?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I made a mistake of telling the nigga how

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<v Speaker 1>I had a video of another nigga eating my pussy

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<v Speaker 1>on my phone, and he was so irate. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, listen. I he was very mad, but I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think that he would get mad. And my thing

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<v Speaker 1>is like, I know it's in the phone somewhere. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know where it is, but I know I

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<v Speaker 1>never deleted it.

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<v Speaker 2>When I get in a relationship, I'll discard of those

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<v Speaker 2>things in a secret folder.

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<v Speaker 1>Why niggas phones be full of titties?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like your dowary do. I gotta throw away

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<v Speaker 2>my diary because I got a new man girl.

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<v Speaker 1>This nigga was fucking with one time and we really

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<v Speaker 1>good friends. He got with this well, he wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with this girl, but he was fucking

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<v Speaker 1>with a crazy bitch and she put me in about

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<v Speaker 1>ten other bitches in the group chat, and she started

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<v Speaker 1>sending us our pictures out. This nigga phone. I see

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<v Speaker 1>it this meme, these my titties, Like I took this

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<v Speaker 1>picture that I know who I sent it.

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<v Speaker 2>To, right, so you ain't got to send it back.

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<v Speaker 2>Craz let's getting sings.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, anyway, that was my weekend. I'm finished telling

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<v Speaker 1>y'all because I like about my fucking emotions because I

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<v Speaker 1>need therapy a little bit the show. Right, So when

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<v Speaker 1>I put the stuff in the storage unit, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>how my ex was acting the day we moved these things.

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<v Speaker 1>He was acting very short tempered, like he just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to help me. You know what I'm saying. Mind you,

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga has a fucking furniture moving company, so he

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<v Speaker 1>has box trucks all that shit. The way he was

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<v Speaker 1>handling my things, like throwing my ship in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the back of the truck, throwing my shit in the stores, like,

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<v Speaker 1>all that emotion came up because here I am with

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<v Speaker 1>my new old nigga, and you got an attitude helping

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<v Speaker 1>me move this shit out the storage unit.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a lot of trauma associated with that relationship. Shit,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not funny. I like, I hate that for you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I do, I do, and I be working through it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, the reason why it's hard for me

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<v Speaker 1>to let things go sometimes because I still be trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what in me deserve that wouldn't me

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<v Speaker 1>like caused me to even attract this type of shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you need to look at it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling listen, a lot of times we be looking

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<v Speaker 1>for outside reasons about stuff, and if I was in

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<v Speaker 1>a different space, that shit would have never fucking happened. DC.

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<v Speaker 2>So it do start with us. I get that, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you didn't. It didn't start out that way.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you wasn't being like verbally and emotionally abused

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<v Speaker 2>by this person in the very beginning, and you just

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<v Speaker 2>stuck around for more abuse.

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<v Speaker 1>Our first date, it was a bitch knocking on the window. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a bit outside pregnant, so you whoa, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking roller coaster. But no, I was saying this

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<v Speaker 1>new nigga, my new old nigga that I'm with now,

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<v Speaker 1>was having an attitude helping me move this stuff because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to post. I didn't want to just

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<v Speaker 1>get rid of my things like I had nice stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody would be happy to have this for free

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<v Speaker 1>or one hundred dollars, right, So I didn't just want

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<v Speaker 1>to give my shit away to some organization, don't she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have my bed listed right now for five hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>And I posted it on Facebook, but people were not

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<v Speaker 1>responding fast enough, so I just went ahead and dropped

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<v Speaker 1>it off. And he didn't understand, like why I was

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<v Speaker 1>waiting around waiting on people to respond, Because I consider

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<v Speaker 1>other people. I don't just be considering myself, right, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't had dropped the shit off, and then a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of bitches was hit me up like you already

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<v Speaker 1>got rid of the bed, like yeah, it's going now.

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<v Speaker 1>One bitch called Habitat for Humanity. But anyway, I was

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<v Speaker 1>being rushed. It just brought back these emotions about me

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<v Speaker 1>just not being able to ask for help, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>when I ask somebody for help always it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being rushed or it's such an unpleasantry for them to

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<v Speaker 1>help me. Meanwhile, like I help people with a smile, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or if I don't feel like that shit, I say no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't yeah don't exactly, but you can though, But

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<v Speaker 1>then you would have felt bad if I rented a

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<v Speaker 1>U haul and drove up there by myself, because that

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<v Speaker 1>literally the last when I put that stuff in that storage.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really the first time I ever had help moving.

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<v Speaker 1>I have moved across the country by my fucking self before. Ye, well,

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<v Speaker 1>midway halfway across the country, you know what I'm saying. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've always moved myself and God will send me like

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<v Speaker 1>a person or two to assist. But I'm used to

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<v Speaker 1>doing shit by myself. But don't I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>ever be in a relationship and feel like I still

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<v Speaker 1>got to do shit by my fucking self.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because what's the point, because you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna have an attitude when I ask you to help.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not that he didn't want it help. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't moving quick enough for him and how he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do things this is, but this is my thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just need you to be patient really, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to vent about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I tripping?

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're not tripping, motherfuckers.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>Relationships is hard, are y'all? Dealing with everybody in they

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<v Speaker 1>little idiosyncrasies just get to my goddamn nerves, Like everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in their antics and it's just personalities. I'm sick of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's hard. You gotta give grace and ask for

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<v Speaker 2>grace in return.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't ever give get grace.

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<v Speaker 2>You probably just don't feel like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, you know some of those things I said this

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<v Speaker 1>the other day, like off of the Hands, maintailled, I

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<v Speaker 1>never talk about that shit. I can't wait for the

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<v Speaker 1>new season. But that going grace, I love it. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the other Let's go in grace in what you

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<v Speaker 1>got going on? Man?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So I know y'all saw this, but we

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<v Speaker 2>still got to talk about it. Cardi B while she

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<v Speaker 2>was in Paris, she went live and she was spassing

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<v Speaker 2>on off set.

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<v Speaker 1>He's said, it's kind of triggering.

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<v Speaker 2>He said to her, you my baby mama, I won.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean? That shit is so triggering to me?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it almost like and I and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it might be triggering for women other women also, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because we know these niggas be trying to lock us.

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<v Speaker 2>In trap us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, yes, me and while they be trying to

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<v Speaker 1>sit us down intentionally, right, But Cardi B is obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not a bitch that will sit down okay, pregnant okay,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly be very like sit who down, I'm still doing

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<v Speaker 1>all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>He applied, that she got some outside dick while she

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<v Speaker 2>was pregnant with the last baby, and her response and

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<v Speaker 2>we don't know if it was to this, but the

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<v Speaker 2>next thing she tweeted was and did.

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<v Speaker 1>But you gotta do that to a nark. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>ever let them feel like they got you in a

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<v Speaker 1>crazy ass emotional state. You really gotta hurt them into submission.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just like you gotta be. You gotta really use

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<v Speaker 1>dark psychology on a narcissist. And that because that nigga

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<v Speaker 1>man to put a post up and say people, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>know I like you or some ship like that, like what,

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<v Speaker 1>while simultaneously saying how friends and family warned you about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody should have worn cardy about you. I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>the baby mamas were.

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<v Speaker 2>It just makes me sad. Can anybody stay together? Can

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<v Speaker 2>anybody be happy?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you could be. I just you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>said you could be fake happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti, I hope they stay together.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, first of all, I think Angela Simms is

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<v Speaker 2>a theo.

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Cover up for the thug that she really is. I

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<v Speaker 2>had to right street niggas for real, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought something over the weekend. Hold on, let's finish that

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<v Speaker 1>with Cardi be right quick though. Okay, so yeah, Cardi

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<v Speaker 1>b she did say and did. But then now in

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<v Speaker 1>this most recent video, she's talking about how she found

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<v Speaker 1>out she was pregnant, like she was going in for

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<v Speaker 1>some cosmetic shit and found out she was damnar seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen weeks pregnant. She was like, I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no fucking way. I only had sex one time this year.

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<v Speaker 1>So the one time she has sex is when she conceived,

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<v Speaker 1>so obviously she ain't fucked somebody else while pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>She said she was that was that was one time

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<v Speaker 2>this year prior to finding out.

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<v Speaker 1>She was praying, my girl ain't have second we just listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe she did either, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>any woman believes she actually fucked somebody. And this ain't

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<v Speaker 1>the first time he's publicly tried to accuse her of bullshit,

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<v Speaker 1>because last time he did it, he went on the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club and said, I was mad. So you you

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<v Speaker 1>embarrass your girl when you're mad, your wife, the mother

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<v Speaker 1>of your children. That's what you do when you're mad.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't reason with a bitch ass nigga like that. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's scary. But Cardi Party was like, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>too good for you. I was always too good for you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I loved you. Like and niggas in the comments

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<v Speaker 1>like a stripper too good for anybody? Yes, nigga, a

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<v Speaker 1>stripper can be stole. Too good for you, right, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>literally be in the clubs like throwing money on the strippers.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, praising and worshiping them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's too good for you. Yeah, but back to

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Simmons, bitch, so this shit with Yogatti and like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>the young man who was just on trial for the

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<v Speaker 1>murder of Dolph and now fingers is definitely pointing at CMG.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm, bitch, let's talk about Angela Simmons dead baby

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<v Speaker 1>daddy because you was the virgin and then you're in

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<v Speaker 1>a praik.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about her?

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<v Speaker 1>What type of and then now you like where your

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<v Speaker 1>God who been after you since before you got pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted you like, let me look, I'm would get

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga completely out the way, like you, we can't

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<v Speaker 1>put nothing past these. Listen, dog, listen, people really think

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<v Speaker 1>like celebrities or people with influence of some sort, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be a serial killer, and because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>appearing as one, I don't come off as one. But

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<v Speaker 1>at night I'm out here fucking terrorizing the community.

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<v Speaker 2>Most serial killers don't tell people though.

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<v Speaker 1>But why not? Though? That would be the most brilliant

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<v Speaker 1>serial killer. These niggas is definitely telling people their serial killers.

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<v Speaker 1>And these rap lyrics, no, they entertainment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, some like all this Diddy ship like has made

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<v Speaker 2>me realize how people be in our face telling us

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<v Speaker 2>the truth and we believe in something else face eyes,

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<v Speaker 2>Why I should?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so Angela Simmons might seem seem nice, We don't

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<v Speaker 1>what do smoke? Angela?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't c MG. Goonies over here, Them pastries had

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<v Speaker 2>us food. She brought that gun purse to that ship

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<v Speaker 2>to let us know what type of time she really all.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she wasn't playing with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Gun purse, smiling at y'all, pointing it in the camera.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela was like, yeah, come see bout it.

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<v Speaker 1>Boosy and his daughter, okay, boot people be giving Boosy

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<v Speaker 1>a heart Well, I don't know. People really don't give

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<v Speaker 1>him a hard time. People love Boosy Okay for whatever

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<v Speaker 1>reason after listening to his brother interview about him, like

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<v Speaker 1>the things that have transparred between them with business and

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<v Speaker 1>just family, and she's like that over the years. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really, I don't think Boosy is a good person.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway he might mean, well, he just doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to articulate like his feelings. Well or maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>says shit exactly how to fuck you feel and which

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<v Speaker 1>is most black parents, right, they don't give a fuck

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<v Speaker 1>about your feelings. This is what it is. So he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't want her, like she could do

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<v Speaker 1>what she want to do, but you're not about to

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<v Speaker 1>come in my house and contamidate contaminate the other children. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So in a way he's feeling he's feeling like he

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<v Speaker 1>is having to protect as other kids because of her lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's a young girl herself, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she needs her dad and not she needs her mom.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're not gonna always support everything you do, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you children, adults need to realize that, like

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<v Speaker 1>you need to be okay being who you are without

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<v Speaker 1>your parents' approval. You're not gonna always get it, It

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<v Speaker 1>would be nice, but not all parents is for that shit. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It don't even have to be your sexuality. It could be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, any other type of lifestyle you choose, or

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<v Speaker 1>something else that you're doing that they don't agree with.

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<v Speaker 1>They always gonna want what's best for their children. If

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<v Speaker 1>you are you want grandkids, you want your lineage to continue,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, you want your daughters to be with men,

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<v Speaker 1>and your men and your male sons, your sons to

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<v Speaker 1>be with women, of course, right.

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<v Speaker 2>But he did make a public apology to her, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and say that he was sorry and that he loved

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<v Speaker 2>her and maybe he don't know how to say things.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that, so yeah, what can you do? At

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<v Speaker 1>least he apologize. Absolutely, people never get an apology, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, I think this is a private thing. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it sold over to social media.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. I appreciate, you know, these people sharing

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<v Speaker 2>their private lives on social media because it gives us

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<v Speaker 2>content for the show. But I just wonder whatever happened

0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:46.320
<v Speaker 2>to keeping family business in the family. That's how I

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<v Speaker 2>was raised, you know, I grew up like what happens here,

0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:53.040
<v Speaker 2>We discussed here. You know, you don't take it out

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<v Speaker 2>in the street. That's our business to deal with and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe that ain't healthy. But I don't know if taking

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<v Speaker 2>to social media, where there's a lot, there's probably more

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<v Speaker 2>people who don't care or are rooting for bad things

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<v Speaker 2>to happen to you than it is people who are

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<v Speaker 2>on the side of goodness for you, you know, So

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that's weird to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I mean people always say why celebrities got

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<v Speaker 1>us in the group chat, why they got the individual?

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<v Speaker 1>Regular people be having a life on the internet too,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just yes, we are.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess we just talked about our whole shit. We

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<v Speaker 2>talked about our vaginas, our six FLFE over here. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's therapeutic for me. But I mean as far as

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<v Speaker 1>like putting like actual imagery of my whole life online,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm comfortable with I'm not in that

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<v Speaker 1>space to do that yet. But that's really where we're

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<v Speaker 1>heading at. Like, so once AI takes over everybody's fucking job,

0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:50.480
<v Speaker 1>because y'all know, the long shormance is, Shoreman's are picketing

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<v Speaker 1>right now and it's because of a multitude of things,

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<v Speaker 1>not just pay. So even them want to use AI,

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<v Speaker 1>which I don't know how a computer is supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>operate a crane. I don't know. Maybe they can figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out one day. But once AI takes over everybody's job,

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<v Speaker 1>you are going to have to sell yourself with social

0:20:10.760 --> 0:20:13.440
<v Speaker 1>media like that is like how people regular day to

0:20:13.480 --> 0:20:16.600
<v Speaker 1>day people are making hell of money on TikTok just

0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:21.359
<v Speaker 1>being themselves every day. You have to I don't know,

0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:24.199
<v Speaker 1>appeal to a group of people so you can make income.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's going to be the new barter system.

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<v Speaker 2>M M.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we had jokes exactly. So as much as

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<v Speaker 1>we don't want to be a part of this machine,

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<v Speaker 1>like they keep forcing us, forcing us, forcing us there,

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<v Speaker 1>So what you're gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>The red and blue pill, which one gonna take?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a red pill for me all the time. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if they come out with a little, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>a little mutable, little pill, like a little in between,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I would like to take.

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<v Speaker 2>I always like the middle, A little hybrid, always better.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get a little hybrid pill?

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<v Speaker 2>So y'all over the weekend, AJ sent me this video

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a court show. I didn't recognize the judge.

0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:11.600
<v Speaker 2>I've never seen this particular judge before. But there was

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<v Speaker 2>a white husband. Were they married, Well, this couple they

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<v Speaker 2>it was a white man and a black woman and

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<v Speaker 2>they produced a child together. And he was suing this

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<v Speaker 2>black shoes, beautiful black woman because the baby. He said

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<v Speaker 2>that he lived his life with pretty privilege pretty much,

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<v Speaker 2>that he was handsome, and she gave him an ugly baby,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was suing her because the baby was ugly.

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<v Speaker 2>And she had had plastic surgery done to her face.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she had a reconstructive surgery because she imagined

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<v Speaker 1>like it reminds her of what happened to her parents.

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<v Speaker 1>She's happened to her parents, so she's a new person now, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think maybe she got into a car accident

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<v Speaker 1>of some sort, because that's what the pictures look. Her

0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:04.440
<v Speaker 1>face looked kind of distorted. So she had constructive, reconstructive

0:22:04.440 --> 0:22:08.160
<v Speaker 1>surgery done. Beautiful girl, Yeah, beautiful baby.

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<v Speaker 2>And the baby was beautiful to me too, So they.

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<v Speaker 1>Her like, nigga, you don't even have a hairline.

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<v Speaker 2>Who are you talking to? You benefit from white privilege,

0:22:19.920 --> 0:22:23.960
<v Speaker 2>not pretty period twisted, that's what you benefited from. And

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<v Speaker 2>I thought the baby was beautiful, you know so. But

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<v Speaker 2>there was a case similar to this particular one and

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<v Speaker 2>the man won. He won.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because that lady changed her entire face. So the

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<v Speaker 1>children came out this I think it was Korea and

0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:41.879
<v Speaker 1>its South Korea or something. But the woman had like

0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:46.159
<v Speaker 1>real cosmetic surgery done to had a whole new face.

0:22:46.600 --> 0:22:48.480
<v Speaker 1>But guess what, you could change that face, but you

0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:52.880
<v Speaker 1>cannot change that DNA bababic. So the kids came out

0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:55.520
<v Speaker 1>looking like her old face, and he was handsome. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, man, hell no, ain't no wayis my offspring.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all think I'd be tripped, but I am not that

0:23:02.880 --> 0:23:06.760
<v Speaker 1>selfish to do that to my kids intentionally. I don't

0:23:06.800 --> 0:23:09.440
<v Speaker 1>like no nigga enough to let Rick Ross fuck me

0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:15.520
<v Speaker 1>and produce like it's a fifty to fifty chance. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's selfish man. Y'all think I'd be tripped,

0:23:18.040 --> 0:23:20.080
<v Speaker 1>But that shit is selfish as fuck to me, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you love a nigga that much, you're willing to risk

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<v Speaker 1>your kids' features, You're fucking their future up.

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<v Speaker 2>This awful ages.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the truth. Because we know pretty privilege is

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<v Speaker 1>really a thing. We're not gonna act like if two

0:23:36.359 --> 0:23:41.400
<v Speaker 1>people walk into a room, one's I guess general consensus

0:23:41.440 --> 0:23:44.000
<v Speaker 1>would say, like, this person is handsome, right, and then

0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:48.120
<v Speaker 1>this person not so much. Who you think that people

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna gravitate to first before anybody opens their mouth.

0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:53.600
<v Speaker 1>It's just an unfortunate truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well that's kind of it sounds similar to like

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<v Speaker 2>back in the day great grandparents in the South being like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't marry no man darker than you like that, because

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:09.199
<v Speaker 2>you're like gonna be harder if you're dark, merry lighter.

0:24:09.600 --> 0:24:12.480
<v Speaker 2>So they was just trying to eliminate blackness from the skin.

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<v Speaker 1>That's now that as mental health, right, because I think

0:24:17.160 --> 0:24:22.040
<v Speaker 1>we are way more closer to just being in love

0:24:22.119 --> 0:24:25.320
<v Speaker 1>with ourselves today then back then, And it was it

0:24:25.359 --> 0:24:27.679
<v Speaker 1>was just a lot of different things happening at the

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<v Speaker 1>time why people were that way and may have seemed

0:24:30.280 --> 0:24:34.000
<v Speaker 1>easier to them for lighter people, which darker people They

0:24:34.119 --> 0:24:37.080
<v Speaker 1>will say they feel the same way today. M hm,

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<v Speaker 1>you know they might.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't necessarily pick my man, and my partner picks

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<v Speaker 2>upon me it, you know, like or or appearance.

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't want to find man.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I would love a fine man, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>not the top priority on how I picked my partners

0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 2>at this age, it's not look how I don't want

0:24:58.840 --> 0:25:00.960
<v Speaker 2>to know ugly like I don't some how you.

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<v Speaker 1>Picked part not fine.

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<v Speaker 2>For the most important thing that a gotta have is

0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:09.920
<v Speaker 2>you gotta make me laugh. We gotta be able to

0:25:10.000 --> 0:25:12.639
<v Speaker 2>laugh together if you don't. AJ just told me that

0:25:12.760 --> 0:25:14.959
<v Speaker 2>some nigga I don't even know who this nigga is,

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:17.680
<v Speaker 2>she was hanging out with this nigga and he was like, yeah,

0:25:17.800 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 2>ten went out with one of my homeboys. He said

0:25:21.520 --> 0:25:23.159
<v Speaker 2>they had a good time and they went back to

0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 2>the house and he thought he was about to get

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:27.000
<v Speaker 2>some pussy. And she started acting out scenes from TV

0:25:27.040 --> 0:25:31.639
<v Speaker 2>shows the movie Weird. Y'all, if you don't like that

0:25:31.760 --> 0:25:34.680
<v Speaker 2>about me, we not gonna make y'all.

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:38.800
<v Speaker 3>This bitch is such a character like imagine, y'all listen

0:25:38.840 --> 0:25:42.520
<v Speaker 3>any niggas listening to the show, Imagine you don't spend

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 3>about two three hundred dollars on a nice ass.

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Dinn a date with this bitch. Right you get back

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:51.439
<v Speaker 1>to her house, you thinking, oh shit, she inviting me up.

0:25:51.480 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Were about to shit. This bitch starts doing a robot

0:25:56.400 --> 0:25:58.919
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the living room, imagine that, like

0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:04.000
<v Speaker 1>that's who taby yep nigga told me his homeboy said,

0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:06.399
<v Speaker 1>this bitch started acting out love Jones and shit like

0:26:06.440 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 1>she was acting out different scenes from different black movies.

0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:18.040
<v Speaker 2>What pussy, pussy, niggas, you're gonna get these these snips

0:26:18.040 --> 0:26:19.680
<v Speaker 2>from movies and go home.

0:26:20.320 --> 0:26:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I left my pussy at my homegirl house.

0:26:22.840 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 2>This is a theater. You thought you were walking into

0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:26.840
<v Speaker 2>my house. You walked to the into the theater.

0:26:30.040 --> 0:26:33.399
<v Speaker 1>Whome fucking not job. Okay, listen, so that leads us.

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:37.000
<v Speaker 1>That's a great segue into the today's topic. Big bitch,

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 1>is single really a choice? Are you single by choice?

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:43.280
<v Speaker 1>Are you a fucking weirdo bitch? I'm just saying both.

0:26:45.960 --> 0:26:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Listen. What like If you don't think that's funny, it's

0:26:48.600 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 2>something wrong with you. Nigga.

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, we'll be back after this commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, I laughed about that all day yesterday.

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I've been like a month ago. I didn't mean to

0:27:04.800 --> 0:27:05.320
<v Speaker 1>tell you that.

0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:07.560
<v Speaker 2>But what makes it so funny is I don't know

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 2>what nigga you talk about because I do that ship

0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:10.639
<v Speaker 2>so much.

0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 1>You just get off a date like, okay, we're back

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 1>from commercial y'all. But anyway, that's gotta continue. So you

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:25.480
<v Speaker 1>get off the date and this bitch is like chake,

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 1>wake up, cheek, wake up, acting out the Titanic and shit.

0:27:34.480 --> 0:27:40.280
<v Speaker 2>And for a real crime cry for a nigga insne action.

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:47.960
<v Speaker 1>Ship that is fucking hillarious stupid, because I like he's

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 1>not lying, all right, y'all. So it's being single a choice?

0:27:55.040 --> 0:28:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Like do I think that for women being single it's

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>more of a choice than for men, as much as

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:07.200
<v Speaker 1>they think that they have control over relationships. I think

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:10.080
<v Speaker 1>most women can be in a relationship tomorrow, even some

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:14.320
<v Speaker 1>that people may think are not datable, right. I think

0:28:14.400 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 1>most women got somebody in the cut that they can

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:22.520
<v Speaker 1>be with tomorrow while they're chasing the nigga that they want.

0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 2>But the men are so men who some men can't

0:28:28.440 --> 0:28:32.159
<v Speaker 2>get a bit. There's men who have endless possibilities and

0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:36.399
<v Speaker 2>don't want nobody, you know, So there's that option, Like

0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I just I just say, ready, I ain't looking for

0:28:39.640 --> 0:28:41.960
<v Speaker 2>serious face ass nigga. You know what I'm talking about?

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:47.960
<v Speaker 1>Like, uh, oh, what's the nigga? Uh fifty year old virgin?

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:50.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm a fifty year old version.

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'd be calling anybody like over forty, like men

0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 1>who aren't married or kids, I call them fifty year

0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 1>old virgin a forty ye old virgins. So I'm talking

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:04.000
<v Speaker 1>about David Banner and this. Oh yeah, yeah, I'm calling

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:05.320
<v Speaker 1>him the fifty year old virgin.

0:29:05.400 --> 0:29:07.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because he could have been married twice over, you know,

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 2>but he just chose not to because why buy the

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:16.240
<v Speaker 2>cow when the milk has always been free, you know?

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.840
<v Speaker 1>Right? So for women, do we think that we actually

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>control being single more than we actually do?

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel like yes and no, because I'm single. I

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 2>don't like I could like sliding, like pick one of

0:29:31.880 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 2>these niggas that's in my DMS and be like, hey,

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 2>let's be together, and they would want to. I'm sure

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:39.520
<v Speaker 2>it's some in like, there's a lot of them in

0:29:39.560 --> 0:29:42.160
<v Speaker 2>there that just wasn't buzzy, let's be clear, But there's

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 2>some in there that would readily be ready to want

0:29:44.960 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 2>a relationship and be serious.

0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 1>That's until they get you, though, right right, So then

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>now they got to really experience you. So you still

0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:54.479
<v Speaker 1>have to get to the point to where y'all actually

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:58.280
<v Speaker 1>get to the relationship. So sex might happen, dating might happen,

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 1>and the relationship part may not ever happened.

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 2>No, I think it's come in there that's definitely like

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 2>ready to get married right now, and that may not work,

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:12.640
<v Speaker 2>but they're ready, you know. But then it's also I

0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:16.600
<v Speaker 2>don't like I haven't enjoyed the selection, you know, like

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:19.680
<v Speaker 2>I'll go on dates and it'll just be something. And

0:30:19.720 --> 0:30:22.480
<v Speaker 2>maybe we're too picky. Maybe we give up too easy,

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, because I know I'll have I thrown some

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:34.120
<v Speaker 2>good ones back. Yeah, but it just be for reasons

0:30:34.160 --> 0:30:37.160
<v Speaker 2>that I just like, I get an itck, you know,

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:39.560
<v Speaker 2>like I don't like no nigga with no fat ass.

0:30:39.640 --> 0:30:41.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't like niggas.

0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 1>With this, but like I don't like that, like no,

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>it ain't the big butt though, but I don't like

0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 1>that little bookie at the bottom like that.

0:30:53.120 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 2>But clapping when you run like oh boy across the state.

0:31:02.800 --> 0:31:05.680
<v Speaker 1>But that's sometimes he looked like he got a fat ass. Okay,

0:31:05.680 --> 0:31:08.760
<v Speaker 1>he shaped like his mama. Yeah, you can't be clapping

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 1>through the house, you clapper, red boy, you boy, you

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:12.480
<v Speaker 1>clap a read.

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 2>So that's you know that shallow though, you know that shallow.

0:31:17.960 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 2>It's that shallow I mean kind of what us a

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.200
<v Speaker 2>person that is really good to you and really love

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:25.280
<v Speaker 2>you and do everything you want. But they ask clap

0:31:25.320 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 2>when they the barroom.

0:31:30.840 --> 0:31:34.080
<v Speaker 1>That's not shallow. I mean people are allowed to have preference.

0:31:34.360 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 1>So I would prefer a nigga not have a super

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:40.520
<v Speaker 1>flat ass pancake booty. Okay, it don't have to be

0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>no fat ass, but it's not that I even like booty.

0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 1>You look funny with this no booty, like you look

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 1>like sperm my nigga.

0:31:49.960 --> 0:31:53.480
<v Speaker 2>No, you look like me with a ball head with

0:31:53.520 --> 0:31:57.440
<v Speaker 2>that ass. So have I thrown some good ones back

0:31:57.520 --> 0:32:02.200
<v Speaker 2>based on superficial things. Yes, I can't admit that I

0:32:02.240 --> 0:32:05.840
<v Speaker 2>threw a good one back because he I was he can't.

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 2>I let him come to my house. I started acting

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 2>out scenes for the movies like I always do, and

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:14.680
<v Speaker 2>I remember my dog Diamonds. This was years ago. I'm

0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:18.000
<v Speaker 2>talking about a four pound hua wha. She came out

0:32:18.000 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 2>of her cage and he jumped put his sneakers in

0:32:22.080 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 2>my couch, in my cream couch, jumped on the couch

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:28.760
<v Speaker 2>screaming like a bitch, and I was like, oh, no,

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 2>you got to go.

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:34.480
<v Speaker 1>You can never protect me and scene get out.

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:37.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can't protect me if you.

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>Study dog wasn't a little mean, but I'm not afraid

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>of animals in any capacity, So yeah, you're dogs get

0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:46.880
<v Speaker 1>like that when they get old though, they get like

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:47.760
<v Speaker 1>real irritable.

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 2>But she wasn't even doing nothing. She was looking at

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 2>him like.

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Is he well, yeah, stuff like that put your shoes on.

0:32:56.920 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 2>Definitely made me send or be giving me the ick.

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think it do be like little little subtle

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:08.080
<v Speaker 1>bullshit that turned us off about people. Men too. I

0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>don't think men can pinpoint like a man wouldn't be

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:11.840
<v Speaker 1>able to tell you. I just didn't like, go, I

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 1>betch you, like we look at all that shit.

0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:21.600
<v Speaker 2>So in my single by choice yes and no, because

0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:26.280
<v Speaker 2>there was one I can say one guy last year

0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:29.880
<v Speaker 2>that I really could like he checked all the boxes

0:33:30.240 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 2>I think for the most part, and he just was like,

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm just focused on my career and I know you

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 2>want something serious and I'm not ready for something serious.

0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 2>So we just kind of like dissolved it.

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like when men in particular say they

0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:51.480
<v Speaker 1>don't want something serious, a lot of times I feel

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:53.640
<v Speaker 1>like it may not be with me, cause then that

0:33:53.760 --> 0:33:56.680
<v Speaker 1>same person ends up married have a kid. Like that

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 1>has happened to me before.

0:33:58.240 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, that's where I take it as you just don't

0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 2>like me, you know, That's how I saw it, like,

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:04.280
<v Speaker 2>because I think if it was someone that you like,

0:34:04.360 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 2>you might consider it.

0:34:05.200 --> 0:34:07.160
<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna let them go. You're going to do

0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:10.840
<v Speaker 1>everything to make sure they stay right, including committing today.

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:14.080
<v Speaker 2>So then when I hit them with the like, yeah,

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:15.839
<v Speaker 2>I kind of I see you as a friend too,

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:18.080
<v Speaker 2>he was like, well when did you start feeling like that?

0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:25.600
<v Speaker 2>Like what fucking difference do it make? White questioned me, Yeah,

0:34:25.680 --> 0:34:28.560
<v Speaker 2>like why you Why does it matter because you want

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:30.320
<v Speaker 2>to be the only one friend zoned somebody?

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:34.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, so I was dating somebody last year prior

0:34:34.719 --> 0:34:37.680
<v Speaker 1>to this relationship, and I haven't dating him. A couple

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:41.120
<v Speaker 1>of y'all saw him at the UH at the live

0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 1>shows battle Yeah not Stacyattle's what do you call him them? Uh?

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 1>What kind of boots? The Chelsea boots? So you know,

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:56.400
<v Speaker 1>it was just weird, like our thing was weird, Like

0:34:56.719 --> 0:34:58.759
<v Speaker 1>one minute we on, next minute you off like this

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:00.600
<v Speaker 1>nigga be down with on a trip. I took a

0:35:00.600 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 1>bit out of town somewhere, and now you acting weird

0:35:03.560 --> 0:35:05.400
<v Speaker 1>to me when you come back, Like if we just

0:35:05.480 --> 0:35:07.719
<v Speaker 1>friends just be like that then. But it got to

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:09.360
<v Speaker 1>the point to where like we would hang out and

0:35:09.400 --> 0:35:11.239
<v Speaker 1>all that, and I told him like, listen, I don't

0:35:11.280 --> 0:35:14.600
<v Speaker 1>have no expectations from this. I don't have no expectations

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:17.080
<v Speaker 1>from you. Like it was one time when we had

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 1>like this gap and then I finally we went out

0:35:19.120 --> 0:35:20.640
<v Speaker 1>to he hit me up and we went out to

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:23.279
<v Speaker 1>dinner and shit, and that's when I was telling him like, hey,

0:35:23.320 --> 0:35:25.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't have no expectations from you no more, Like

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:28.479
<v Speaker 1>my feelings are completely different now. It's like a fuck

0:35:28.560 --> 0:35:32.240
<v Speaker 1>on you hang out, do all the things. But I'm cool,

0:35:32.480 --> 0:35:34.319
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, and really like you a

0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 1>spaceholder at this point. Girl. He felt some type of

0:35:37.520 --> 0:35:40.360
<v Speaker 1>way about that, like how you so, what do you?

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:43.359
<v Speaker 1>What space do you want me in you? Because there's

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:46.440
<v Speaker 1>really no middle ground on me. Either I'm on or

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm fucking off.

0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:50.480
<v Speaker 2>That's the same shit, Like that's the same shit. When

0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:52.360
<v Speaker 2>I said, oh, I see you as a friend anyway,

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:54.879
<v Speaker 2>he was like, oh, when did you start feeling like that?

0:35:54.920 --> 0:35:57.840
<v Speaker 1>They want you to be madly in love and retarded,

0:35:57.920 --> 0:36:01.760
<v Speaker 1>and then when you do, they call you crazy. I'm

0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:06.680
<v Speaker 1>never crazy. I'm never delusional. I'm on whatever you're on, right,

0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:10.560
<v Speaker 1>So I'm always meet a person where they at. So

0:36:10.960 --> 0:36:14.480
<v Speaker 1>if I'm if if I'm feeling like you don't like

0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:16.040
<v Speaker 1>me like that, why the fuck should I be liking

0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you like that?

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:19.360
<v Speaker 2>Right? That's how that's because when I said that I

0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:21.960
<v Speaker 2>ain't really feel that way, but you ain't gonna FriendZone

0:36:21.960 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 2>me and think I ain't gonna offer that same.

0:36:25.239 --> 0:36:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Right, we find ourselves like, really, what men? We actually like?

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:33.520
<v Speaker 1>We be hiding our feelings because it's always like a game,

0:36:34.040 --> 0:36:36.839
<v Speaker 1>even at this big age and still trying to date,

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:39.480
<v Speaker 1>Like you really have to act like you don't like

0:36:39.520 --> 0:36:42.160
<v Speaker 1>a nigga, You don't have to do that. I feel

0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:44.720
<v Speaker 1>like I'm in a space now where I'm not doing that. Nigga.

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:46.520
<v Speaker 1>If I like you, I'm letting you know today, and

0:36:46.560 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>if this is not what you want, you now have

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:50.799
<v Speaker 1>the opportunity to get the fuck on through. I'm not

0:36:51.040 --> 0:36:55.359
<v Speaker 1>playing those like emotional like tug of war power and

0:36:55.400 --> 0:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>control games with anybody. I need somebody to fuck with

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:01.839
<v Speaker 1>me in the same that I fuck with them.

0:37:02.400 --> 0:37:05.120
<v Speaker 2>But here's the thing. Then it's like, oh, hey, are

0:37:05.160 --> 0:37:07.239
<v Speaker 2>you in La. I'm back in LA. I want to

0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:08.000
<v Speaker 2>take you to dinner.

0:37:09.760 --> 0:37:12.239
<v Speaker 1>Why why do you think I'm on hold for you?

0:37:15.320 --> 0:37:15.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:16.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:37:20.600 --> 0:37:23.680
<v Speaker 2>So we were going to have that conversation about do

0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:26.520
<v Speaker 2>women are women happier single?

0:37:28.680 --> 0:37:34.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean science point science points to, yes, most women are.

0:37:35.160 --> 0:37:37.439
<v Speaker 1>This is actually an article from The Guardian. It says

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:43.600
<v Speaker 1>women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert.

0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:47.799
<v Speaker 1>So it says we may have suspected it already, but

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>now the science backs it up. Unmarried and childless women

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 1>are the happiest subgroup in the population. I mean, I

0:37:56.760 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 1>mean it already just says less stress, right, Yeah, I

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:06.480
<v Speaker 1>think married and married and unmarried and childless women our

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:10.359
<v Speaker 1>stressors could possibly be just having to finance our whole

0:38:10.400 --> 0:38:14.479
<v Speaker 1>lives by ourselves, and then also also stressing about hey,

0:38:14.480 --> 0:38:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I might want to be married, I might want to

0:38:16.360 --> 0:38:20.680
<v Speaker 1>have you. Yeah, so but is it going to kill us? Though?

0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:24.280
<v Speaker 1>That stress isn't going to kill us, like you literally

0:38:24.280 --> 0:38:28.360
<v Speaker 1>get fuck going to die from being married, it says,

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:30.880
<v Speaker 1>and they are more likely to live longer. And we

0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:32.960
<v Speaker 1>talk about that a lot, And it goes on to

0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:35.880
<v Speaker 1>say that and they are more likely to live longer

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 1>than their married and child wearing rearing peers. According to

0:38:41.600 --> 0:38:45.560
<v Speaker 1>a leading expert in happiness, speaking at the Hay Festival

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:49.000
<v Speaker 1>on Saturday, Paul Dolan is his name of Professor of

0:38:49.040 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 1>Behavioral Science at the London School of Economics said the

0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:57.440
<v Speaker 1>latest evidence show that the traditional markers used to measure

0:38:57.440 --> 0:39:01.560
<v Speaker 1>success did not correlate with happy and it's particularly marriage

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 1>and raising children. So for women like that's not necessarily

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 1>like where their happiness lies. M h. And they might

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 1>be getting the data. I wonder if they're getting data.

0:39:14.239 --> 0:39:16.120
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if the data just all came from single

0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:19.720
<v Speaker 1>women or women who have raised their families and maybe

0:39:19.719 --> 0:39:22.600
<v Speaker 1>now divorced. Like I wonder, like who's in the study.

0:39:22.400 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because that's it's gonna make a difference, you know,

0:39:25.880 --> 0:39:28.120
<v Speaker 2>wherever numbers lie, because.

0:39:27.920 --> 0:39:30.719
<v Speaker 1>A lot of single women who already did that, like

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:34.800
<v Speaker 1>maybe sixty divorced, already raised their families. They're like, I

0:39:35.680 --> 0:39:37.719
<v Speaker 1>wish I'd never did that shit and I'll never do

0:39:37.760 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 1>it again.

0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Or some of them are like happy that like because

0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:44.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't know no women that will give back their kids,

0:39:44.320 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 2>you know. Yeah, I haven't met a single woman that

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:51.360
<v Speaker 2>it'd be like I give back my kids if I could,

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, but.

0:39:53.080 --> 0:39:54.440
<v Speaker 1>They might not say it out loud.

0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:00.600
<v Speaker 2>No. So, you know a lot of women like their

0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:02.760
<v Speaker 2>kids are the best thing that ever happened to them,

0:40:02.960 --> 0:40:04.720
<v Speaker 2>or they'd be like, but if I could have waited,

0:40:05.280 --> 0:40:06.840
<v Speaker 2>or if I could have did this, I would have

0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:09.399
<v Speaker 2>did that. You know, I've heard that before, but I've

0:40:09.440 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 2>never heard nobody say if I could go back and

0:40:12.239 --> 0:40:14.880
<v Speaker 2>do it again, fuck them kids. I've never heard a

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:15.279
<v Speaker 2>single one.

0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I know. My mom always says like she always wanted children,

0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:21.359
<v Speaker 1>but she never necessarily wanted a husband. But she knew

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:24.480
<v Speaker 1>she wanted kids. And I don't know if that thought

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:28.399
<v Speaker 1>process came after the failed marriage or is that really

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:31.160
<v Speaker 1>something she actually wanted, because if that's something you actually

0:40:31.160 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 1>want to be manifested, exactly what you got? Yeah, children

0:40:35.000 --> 0:40:37.839
<v Speaker 1>without a husband? Yeah, I mean she was married, but

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:41.160
<v Speaker 1>she I don't know if that's a trauma response to

0:40:41.560 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 1>the bad marriage.

0:40:42.920 --> 0:40:46.640
<v Speaker 2>I want to do an episode here soon. Un Let's

0:40:46.640 --> 0:40:52.080
<v Speaker 2>get three mothers different generations, like older, middle aged mother

0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 2>and then a young mother, because I hear a lot

0:40:55.200 --> 0:40:58.359
<v Speaker 2>of women saying that they felt like single mothers would

0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 2>a partner, Oh and then actual single mother. You know

0:41:01.920 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 2>yea so so women who women who have partners and

0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:08.400
<v Speaker 2>then a single mother because home, Yeah, a lot of

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:11.680
<v Speaker 2>them feel like single mothers with the person right there

0:41:11.719 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 2>in the house with them. So I want to have

0:41:13.840 --> 0:41:18.799
<v Speaker 2>a conversation about what that looks like. Yeah, we see,

0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:21.919
<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like I've seen an influx on present fathers,

0:41:22.320 --> 0:41:25.200
<v Speaker 2>But are they really present? Are they just present.

0:41:25.160 --> 0:41:28.799
<v Speaker 1>Around around They're not really present? Because I think I

0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:32.720
<v Speaker 1>think being a present parent looks different for some people.

0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:35.480
<v Speaker 1>Like I have a homegirl. She got three kids and

0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 1>then she had two with her now husband, and so

0:41:39.640 --> 0:41:42.880
<v Speaker 1>they have a total of five children also home, like

0:41:43.000 --> 0:41:47.400
<v Speaker 1>youngest being two, three years old, four three, she's three.

0:41:47.719 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 1>So she was like it was such a burden on

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:54.560
<v Speaker 1>her because I guess he just sees her as the mother,

0:41:54.960 --> 0:41:57.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But she needs help, right,

0:41:57.920 --> 0:42:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I literally had these last for you. These are

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:06.600
<v Speaker 1>really your kids, my other three big Like, I really

0:42:06.719 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 1>had these kids for you, beautiful, beautiful girls. I love them.

0:42:11.600 --> 0:42:15.239
<v Speaker 1>But she she doesn't. He's not as present but in

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 1>the house as she is with the cable, you know.

0:42:18.880 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 1>So she she wears a lot of hats. They run

0:42:21.160 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 1>a business together, they got the kids.

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:25.359
<v Speaker 2>And then that's the thing, and then it's still gotta work.

0:42:25.760 --> 0:42:29.160
<v Speaker 2>It's not like, yeah, I get to just a.

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Lot of time. Men just think their one job is

0:42:31.600 --> 0:42:34.560
<v Speaker 1>to work. But your woman works for you, she works

0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:36.839
<v Speaker 1>for the children, she works for the house, and she

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 1>might also work a job.

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:39.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:42:40.280 --> 0:42:42.719
<v Speaker 1>So it's just not balancing out, which is why some

0:42:42.760 --> 0:42:45.440
<v Speaker 1>women opt out of that shit completely.

0:42:45.880 --> 0:42:48.719
<v Speaker 2>Or resentful of their pardon you know.

0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:51.880
<v Speaker 1>So the article goes on to say that it says,

0:42:51.880 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 1>we do have some good longitudin longitudinal data following the

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:59.600
<v Speaker 1>same people over time, But I am going to do

0:42:59.640 --> 0:43:03.000
<v Speaker 1>a math massive disservice to the science and just say,

0:43:03.680 --> 0:43:06.799
<v Speaker 1>if you're a man, you should probably get married. If

0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:13.600
<v Speaker 1>you're a woman, don't bother exactly, because we all still

0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 1>fucking okay. Let's be very clear. It says men, okay,

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:20.920
<v Speaker 1>as much as men say they don't benefit from marriage,

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:25.120
<v Speaker 1>it says men benefit benefited from marriage because they calm down.

0:43:26.000 --> 0:43:30.360
<v Speaker 1>He said, you take less risk, you earn more money

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:34.120
<v Speaker 1>at work, and you live a little longer. She, on

0:43:34.160 --> 0:43:37.319
<v Speaker 1>the other hand, has to put up with that and

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:41.560
<v Speaker 1>die sooner than if she ever then died sooner than

0:43:41.560 --> 0:43:45.840
<v Speaker 1>if she never married. The healthiest and happiest population subgroup

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 1>are women who never married or had children. He said.

0:43:53.400 --> 0:43:56.720
<v Speaker 1>Other studies measured some financial and health benefits in being

0:43:56.719 --> 0:44:00.319
<v Speaker 1>married for both men and women on average, which Dolan

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:03.640
<v Speaker 1>said could be attributed to higher incomes and emotional support

0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:09.160
<v Speaker 1>allowing married people to take risk and seek medical help. However,

0:44:09.239 --> 0:44:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Dolan said men showed more health benefits from time and

0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 1>not as they took fewer risks. Women's health are mostly

0:44:15.880 --> 0:44:21.040
<v Speaker 1>unaffected by marriage, with middle aged married women even being

0:44:21.080 --> 0:44:24.719
<v Speaker 1>a higher risk of physical way says, women's health are

0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:27.839
<v Speaker 1>mostly unaffected by marriage. How is that? And then it's

0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:32.960
<v Speaker 1>like kind of contradicting itself, with middle aged married women

0:44:33.080 --> 0:44:37.080
<v Speaker 1>even being at higher risk physical and mental conditions than

0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:40.240
<v Speaker 1>their single counterparts. So I think they kind.

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Of well, this is disheartening a bit.

0:44:48.960 --> 0:44:55.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, so you yearned what you don't have a

0:44:55.320 --> 0:44:57.360
<v Speaker 1>lot of times right until you get the thing, and

0:44:57.400 --> 0:45:03.799
<v Speaker 1>you'd be like, oh shit, right, Like I have a

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:08.120
<v Speaker 1>commitment phobia. I mean that's about everything. It is so

0:45:08.360 --> 0:45:12.520
<v Speaker 1>hard for me to commit. Relationships might be the easier

0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 1>one to commit to, but even then it's like if

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:19.920
<v Speaker 1>you say, like this is what you want and this

0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:23.719
<v Speaker 1>is the person you want, like you really have to

0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:28.239
<v Speaker 1>get rid of self, especially when you get married and

0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:30.600
<v Speaker 1>especially when you have kids. So are we now more

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:34.840
<v Speaker 1>just more selfish? You know, we only consider in ourselves

0:45:34.840 --> 0:45:37.920
<v Speaker 1>because you literally are a fractured person. I think sometimes

0:45:37.920 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 1>some mothers, mothers might feel fractured. A piece of the hair,

0:45:41.120 --> 0:45:43.759
<v Speaker 1>a piece of down air, a piecea down their you know,

0:45:43.960 --> 0:45:46.400
<v Speaker 1>and they just they are dying.

0:45:46.560 --> 0:45:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Can't even shit by themselves if somebody's picking their fingers

0:45:49.680 --> 0:45:51.000
<v Speaker 2>under the door, like god.

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:54.480
<v Speaker 1>Damn well, I gotta escort right now. Animals do the

0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:57.839
<v Speaker 1>same shit. This cat escort me to the bathroom every

0:45:57.880 --> 0:46:02.000
<v Speaker 1>time I don't, and she sits there over my shoulder

0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:06.160
<v Speaker 1>in the back of the toilet, like all right, my.

0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:08.680
<v Speaker 2>Dog does that too. But it's so funny because I

0:46:08.719 --> 0:46:11.839
<v Speaker 2>think she realizes I need privacy, so she'll come in,

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 2>but she'll turn her back a little back and turn around.

0:46:18.120 --> 0:46:21.440
<v Speaker 1>No, and she'd be sitting on the back of the tiller. Child. Okay.

0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:26.560
<v Speaker 1>So now, if you are a single woman, like you

0:46:26.640 --> 0:46:30.399
<v Speaker 1>also spending more money than an average person, and you're

0:46:30.440 --> 0:46:34.279
<v Speaker 1>also still making less money than men and trying to

0:46:34.320 --> 0:46:35.879
<v Speaker 1>do it by yourself, I just.

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:38.799
<v Speaker 2>Feel like, right now, for the first time in a

0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:44.320
<v Speaker 2>long time, every dollar that comes in is going to something.

0:46:45.640 --> 0:46:48.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, it's out of control.

0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:51.600
<v Speaker 1>How much used to do you pay for car insurance?

0:46:51.680 --> 0:46:53.440
<v Speaker 2>I used to. I used to hold on to a

0:46:53.520 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 2>dollar a long time. Now that shit don't even touch

0:46:56.360 --> 0:46:58.960
<v Speaker 2>my hand before somebody snatching it out of my account.

0:46:59.080 --> 0:47:00.120
<v Speaker 2>Some auto paid.

0:47:00.640 --> 0:47:03.759
<v Speaker 1>Gohead, damn you do auto pay.

0:47:04.640 --> 0:47:06.560
<v Speaker 2>I all to pay most of girl.

0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Y'all are very responsible. I don't pay my shit on time,

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:13.600
<v Speaker 1>But I don't ever want nobody to get that comfortable

0:47:13.600 --> 0:47:16.000
<v Speaker 1>to just be able to take the shit out my account.

0:47:16.400 --> 0:47:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not.

0:47:18.280 --> 0:47:21.000
<v Speaker 2>It's just it's convenient because I don't have to worry

0:47:21.040 --> 0:47:24.040
<v Speaker 2>about being responsible for it.

0:47:24.080 --> 0:47:27.160
<v Speaker 1>Like what if they taken an extra ten cents every year,

0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:30.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean every month, your whole life, like you never know.

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't have noticed. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

0:47:33.239 --> 0:47:35.759
<v Speaker 1>Like they could literally steal from millions of people because

0:47:35.800 --> 0:47:36.839
<v Speaker 1>y'all doing auto pay.

0:47:37.320 --> 0:47:39.960
<v Speaker 2>But when I take shit off of auto pay, then

0:47:40.000 --> 0:47:41.759
<v Speaker 2>I'll go to the doctor and they'll be like, oh,

0:47:41.800 --> 0:47:46.280
<v Speaker 2>your insurance is canceled. I'm like what, And then it'll

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:48.439
<v Speaker 2>be like I'll call me like, oh, you haven't paid

0:47:48.520 --> 0:47:51.680
<v Speaker 2>since May, Like oh god, damn, my pay.

0:47:52.040 --> 0:47:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Is That's how ateen t probably be looking at me, yad,

0:47:55.000 --> 0:47:57.080
<v Speaker 1>because I swear to God, I'll be forgetting about that

0:47:57.160 --> 0:47:58.120
<v Speaker 1>damn Internet bill.

0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:00.439
<v Speaker 2>Just take it so I ain't got to worry about

0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:04.840
<v Speaker 2>y'all lass, But that shit hurt. And one thing I

0:48:04.880 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 2>won't do no more Klarna all the motherfuckers ca pay

0:48:09.360 --> 0:48:11.400
<v Speaker 2>after pay. They can stuck my dick because after I

0:48:11.440 --> 0:48:13.200
<v Speaker 2>wear that outfit, I don't feel like I need to

0:48:13.200 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 2>be paying y'all that now.

0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I was so pissed during the summertime when I went

0:48:20.040 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 1>on vacation and I ordered all us throwaway clothes from

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Fashion over and none of it came for vacation and

0:48:26.000 --> 0:48:30.279
<v Speaker 1>I after paid everything, So imagine having to pay and

0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:33.880
<v Speaker 1>you know they only do store credit, So imagine having

0:48:33.920 --> 0:48:37.920
<v Speaker 1>to pay after pay on some shit you done sent back.

0:48:38.480 --> 0:48:40.800
<v Speaker 1>So are you forcing me to have store credit with

0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:41.359
<v Speaker 1>y'all last?

0:48:41.840 --> 0:48:47.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why I do not fuck with those after

0:48:47.400 --> 0:48:49.399
<v Speaker 2>I wear it. I ain't paid. You should have.

0:48:51.040 --> 0:48:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Afterwhear to afterwear service, Like how I can get back

0:48:57.040 --> 0:48:58.400
<v Speaker 1>fifty percent of this outfit?

0:48:59.000 --> 0:49:03.000
<v Speaker 2>Right? That is so ghetto? Yeah, So I don't even

0:49:03.040 --> 0:49:05.160
<v Speaker 2>play with it when that's your first drop, though I

0:49:05.280 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 2>was after paying something twenty dollars, they take it five

0:49:08.239 --> 0:49:10.360
<v Speaker 2>dollars a week for me, Like, why am I doing that?

0:49:10.560 --> 0:49:12.399
<v Speaker 2>Just give them the whole twenty It just was just

0:49:12.440 --> 0:49:15.440
<v Speaker 2>like dumb. It made me feel better for some reason, like.

0:49:15.520 --> 0:49:18.279
<v Speaker 1>It's some psycho Maybe that's another episode of child because

0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:20.680
<v Speaker 1>it's definitely some psychology with after pay.

0:49:21.080 --> 0:49:23.760
<v Speaker 2>Right, it just makes you feel like you're not spending

0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:27.920
<v Speaker 2>the same amount, but you are are. And I'm mad, like,

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:32.640
<v Speaker 2>who took twenty three dollars? Just now pay? I know

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:34.080
<v Speaker 2>the fuck you, lie girl?

0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:36.919
<v Speaker 1>I had a fourteen dollars ninety five cent after pay

0:49:36.960 --> 0:49:41.280
<v Speaker 1>coming stupid. Yeah that's what I'm saying.

0:49:41.360 --> 0:49:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Five dollars a week, it's stupid. Just pay the twenty dollars.

0:49:45.320 --> 0:49:45.880
<v Speaker 1>Just pay now.

0:49:45.920 --> 0:49:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I didn't go by the philosophy. If I can't pay

0:49:48.160 --> 0:49:49.960
<v Speaker 2>for it outright, I don't need it.

0:49:50.080 --> 0:49:52.240
<v Speaker 1>That's usually how I live my life. I really don't

0:49:52.320 --> 0:49:54.799
<v Speaker 1>use after pay a lot. I usually use after pay

0:49:55.040 --> 0:49:57.279
<v Speaker 1>when I want to return stuff, like when I'm not

0:49:57.320 --> 0:49:59.879
<v Speaker 1>sure about the thing because I don't want to time

0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:01.720
<v Speaker 1>my money up and have to wait for a refund

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:04.879
<v Speaker 1>from y'all. So that's usually when I use after paid.

0:50:04.880 --> 0:50:07.120
<v Speaker 1>When I don't like when I'm not sure how shit

0:50:07.160 --> 0:50:09.279
<v Speaker 1>gonna fit wants to come. And Fashion Over is one

0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:11.960
<v Speaker 1>of them places, child, but what they were return policy

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:14.359
<v Speaker 1>and just pisses me off. I won't do after pay

0:50:14.600 --> 0:50:18.799
<v Speaker 1>with Fashion Over ever again in fucking life. But yeah,

0:50:19.760 --> 0:50:21.080
<v Speaker 1>that's usually when I use that ship.

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:25.800
<v Speaker 2>I ain't fucking with them ever again. I'm sorry it

0:50:25.920 --> 0:50:28.120
<v Speaker 2>made me mad, Like I wore that outfit two weeks ago.

0:50:28.400 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 2>It's over, Yeah, it's over.

0:50:31.120 --> 0:50:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't war that shit, So I don't know.

0:50:36.160 --> 0:50:39.440
<v Speaker 1>I guess to go back on topic. Part of me

0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:41.800
<v Speaker 1>feels like it is a choice when a woman is single,

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:46.239
<v Speaker 1>because I remember like wanting a relationship. I don't never

0:50:47.080 --> 0:50:51.200
<v Speaker 1>do ever really want a relationship fall in my lap.

0:50:51.400 --> 0:50:55.000
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Like, I'll just pick one and.

0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:58.200
<v Speaker 2>Just that's the thing. I have rouble. I have huge,

0:50:58.480 --> 0:51:02.480
<v Speaker 2>huge trouble picking I don't you gotta come pick me

0:51:02.800 --> 0:51:04.799
<v Speaker 2>and then I have to pick you back, and it's

0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:06.080
<v Speaker 2>all for me to pick you back.

0:51:07.400 --> 0:51:10.800
<v Speaker 1>It's easy for me really because I'm a relationship person.

0:51:11.320 --> 0:51:14.520
<v Speaker 2>There you are, you'd be like, like, since we've been

0:51:14.520 --> 0:51:15.200
<v Speaker 2>doing this.

0:51:16.080 --> 0:51:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Only I had two relationships. I was engaged when we started.

0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh right, I have had a couple of sub relationships.

0:51:25.239 --> 0:51:27.840
<v Speaker 2>Don't get on here line.

0:51:28.640 --> 0:51:31.160
<v Speaker 1>Those ship don't count though, because like I already knew

0:51:31.600 --> 0:51:34.000
<v Speaker 1>it was looking stupid from the beginning, so I knew

0:51:34.040 --> 0:51:36.879
<v Speaker 1>those situations weren't going to lead to marriage. They were

0:51:36.920 --> 0:51:41.480
<v Speaker 1>just like little SpaceHolders. And they all like me right

0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:43.160
<v Speaker 1>now now, Okay, they still want.

0:51:43.080 --> 0:51:45.080
<v Speaker 2>But it would be very locked in and like you'd

0:51:45.120 --> 0:51:49.000
<v Speaker 2>be like spending like significant amounts of time with these people.

0:51:48.920 --> 0:51:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Because I ain't need one person, Like I don't like

0:51:51.600 --> 0:51:54.840
<v Speaker 1>hopping around because I like fucking raw Okay, like I

0:51:54.840 --> 0:51:57.640
<v Speaker 1>already said that before, right, we're gonna make sure we're

0:51:57.640 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 1>good and we're gonna be having a lot of raw sex.

0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:04.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't I need one person for that. I don't

0:52:04.280 --> 0:52:05.600
<v Speaker 1>need multiple people for that.

0:52:06.440 --> 0:52:09.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but even to just locking to be like around

0:52:09.920 --> 0:52:12.719
<v Speaker 2>them that much, that like.

0:52:12.120 --> 0:52:15.839
<v Speaker 1>Why see, like do you want a fucking relationship? Like

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 1>how the fuck you not want to be around a

0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:22.800
<v Speaker 1>nigga you like that much? It's not even a whole lot.

0:52:23.480 --> 0:52:26.200
<v Speaker 2>Like it'd be fast. It'd be like y'all still together.

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:28.640
<v Speaker 2>You've been over there in two days? Dog, let me

0:52:28.680 --> 0:52:32.120
<v Speaker 2>tell you you're like, yes, I'm here, and I'm like it.

0:52:33.040 --> 0:52:35.239
<v Speaker 1>It feels good the grocery shop with a nigga, Like

0:52:35.280 --> 0:52:38.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't got to carry the bag like it, like

0:52:39.080 --> 0:52:42.439
<v Speaker 1>having a having a partner is nice. Sometimes that ship

0:52:42.640 --> 0:52:48.200
<v Speaker 1>is weird to me. So so, bitch, you about to

0:52:48.200 --> 0:52:50.120
<v Speaker 1>be single form, I'm gonna just go ahead and take you,

0:52:51.960 --> 0:52:54.440
<v Speaker 1>because girl, you got to compromise at some point, not

0:52:54.480 --> 0:52:56.880
<v Speaker 1>even compromise with another person. You need to compromise with

0:52:56.920 --> 0:52:58.719
<v Speaker 1>your fucking self. Bitch, Like what.

0:53:00.160 --> 0:53:03.040
<v Speaker 2>That has to happen? Gradually? If we grocery shopping, we

0:53:03.080 --> 0:53:04.960
<v Speaker 2>skip some steps.

0:53:05.320 --> 0:53:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I hate having the like I remember like feeling sad

0:53:08.760 --> 0:53:10.920
<v Speaker 1>one day and this is when I was at my

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:14.520
<v Speaker 1>singlest This is why while I'm living in Charlotte some

0:53:14.600 --> 0:53:19.839
<v Speaker 1>of the time, like I was single, single and I

0:53:19.960 --> 0:53:22.600
<v Speaker 1>just used to like come out Walmart and it's pouring

0:53:22.640 --> 0:53:24.759
<v Speaker 1>down raining, like why I don't have my nigga to

0:53:24.800 --> 0:53:25.400
<v Speaker 1>pull a car up.

0:53:26.520 --> 0:53:29.000
<v Speaker 2>No, honestly, that's how I felt yesterday when I was

0:53:29.040 --> 0:53:31.640
<v Speaker 2>carrying all that shit down the street on one leg.

0:53:32.160 --> 0:53:34.080
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, this is where I needed something.

0:53:34.200 --> 0:53:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Should not be doing that, okay, so you should not

0:53:38.480 --> 0:53:42.160
<v Speaker 1>be doing that by yourself at this point you should

0:53:42.200 --> 0:53:45.399
<v Speaker 1>have a partner to help you.

0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:52.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're right, And I like choosing to be right

0:53:52.360 --> 0:53:54.719
<v Speaker 2>now that nobody is here to hold this door for me,

0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 2>nobody's here to carry these bags for me, like I'm

0:53:57.160 --> 0:53:58.920
<v Speaker 2>just buying myself in the rain.

0:53:59.480 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>We had a similar episode about this before, do you remember.

0:54:02.440 --> 0:54:05.719
<v Speaker 1>It's coming to my memory now because you had seen

0:54:05.760 --> 0:54:08.560
<v Speaker 1>a video online where this was a white girl. She

0:54:08.640 --> 0:54:11.839
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm having major surgery, and it just made

0:54:11.880 --> 0:54:14.120
<v Speaker 1>me feel like, you know, I don't have I'm forty,

0:54:14.200 --> 0:54:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a partner, And she was having a

0:54:17.600 --> 0:54:19.680
<v Speaker 1>count on her sister and her mom. But what I

0:54:19.719 --> 0:54:21.640
<v Speaker 1>told you then, like you still really can't count on

0:54:21.719 --> 0:54:23.919
<v Speaker 1>men all the time, like when you're not feeling well

0:54:24.120 --> 0:54:27.520
<v Speaker 1>or sick or surgery and stuff. They still don't always

0:54:27.520 --> 0:54:30.280
<v Speaker 1>just know what to do innately like a woman would,

0:54:30.800 --> 0:54:32.600
<v Speaker 1>So you probably still would have to depend on your mop.

0:54:32.640 --> 0:54:34.960
<v Speaker 1>But it just feels good to have somebody that's concerned

0:54:34.960 --> 0:54:38.400
<v Speaker 1>about you, right. I stopped. I stopped talking to that nigga,

0:54:38.719 --> 0:54:41.040
<v Speaker 1>like rob my little single time, Like I stopped talking

0:54:41.080 --> 0:54:43.719
<v Speaker 1>to that nigga because we had planned for me to

0:54:43.920 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 1>come over to this house that evening and I took

0:54:47.120 --> 0:54:48.480
<v Speaker 1>a shower. I'm like, hey, I'm about to be on

0:54:48.520 --> 0:54:52.280
<v Speaker 1>the way once I got the shower. I got the shower,

0:54:52.360 --> 0:54:55.799
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't answering the phone like. I immediately cut him

0:54:55.840 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>off and he called me back. He was like, you

0:54:57.600 --> 0:54:59.200
<v Speaker 1>don't have to drive down. I'll ub were you I

0:54:59.200 --> 0:55:02.160
<v Speaker 1>accidentally fell as When it comes to me, nigga, you

0:55:02.280 --> 0:55:05.640
<v Speaker 1>intentionally fell asleep. Because if you are liking me in

0:55:05.680 --> 0:55:09.279
<v Speaker 1>any capacity and you're not concerned about my whereabouts, you

0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:12.480
<v Speaker 1>don't like me. That's how I feel too, because you

0:55:12.560 --> 0:55:15.000
<v Speaker 1>if you were getting a little tiny sleepy, you'd have

0:55:15.040 --> 0:55:16.680
<v Speaker 1>called me and said, hey, I left the door unlock.

0:55:16.719 --> 0:55:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting kind of tired because that's what I would

0:55:19.080 --> 0:55:22.200
<v Speaker 1>do for somebody I like, so like it'd be shit

0:55:22.320 --> 0:55:26.480
<v Speaker 1>like that. I'm out of there. Yeah, but but but

0:55:26.600 --> 0:55:30.759
<v Speaker 1>your partner, you want somebody in those times of emergencies. Man,

0:55:31.160 --> 0:55:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I can't keep putting my mama name down for emergency contact.

0:55:35.600 --> 0:55:37.719
<v Speaker 1>And I still do, though I do too.

0:55:37.760 --> 0:55:38.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't have no choice.

0:55:38.960 --> 0:55:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I got a choice, but I still do.

0:55:40.719 --> 0:55:43.120
<v Speaker 1>Because my mom would coming quicker even when we beefing,

0:55:43.520 --> 0:55:47.120
<v Speaker 1>like she coming, yeah, guns are blazing if she needs to.

0:55:47.160 --> 0:55:52.759
<v Speaker 2>But I don't got nobody else to right, But.

0:55:54.040 --> 0:55:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Is that because that's what you're choosing? Is that what

0:55:56.719 --> 0:55:57.799
<v Speaker 1>you really want?

0:55:58.000 --> 0:56:03.279
<v Speaker 2>And no, I don't want a grocery shop with you

0:56:03.280 --> 0:56:03.960
<v Speaker 2>in the first.

0:56:03.719 --> 0:56:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Week my one of my first dates with one of

0:56:07.160 --> 0:56:10.160
<v Speaker 1>the guys I was dating. Our first date was Whole Foods.

0:56:10.760 --> 0:56:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Like we met, he came and picked me up from

0:56:13.120 --> 0:56:15.359
<v Speaker 1>the house and we went played for the groceries. Yeah,

0:56:15.400 --> 0:56:17.239
<v Speaker 1>he bought some of my stuff I needed to, but

0:56:17.280 --> 0:56:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I helped him grocery shop.

0:56:19.640 --> 0:56:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I mean, I guess that's cute.

0:56:21.280 --> 0:56:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you know I'm Eric Abadou with this shiit

0:56:23.560 --> 0:56:25.719
<v Speaker 1>like I really be changing a nigga palette, Like you're

0:56:25.719 --> 0:56:28.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna eat what I eat when I start fucking with you.

0:56:28.800 --> 0:56:30.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess that is a cute date.

0:56:31.120 --> 0:56:32.960
<v Speaker 1>We did go after a y'all to eat to a

0:56:33.000 --> 0:56:35.520
<v Speaker 1>restaurant afterwards, but that was the initial thing.

0:56:36.200 --> 0:56:42.760
<v Speaker 2>I think I might have commitment phobia. I've said this before,

0:56:43.360 --> 0:56:44.879
<v Speaker 2>so I don't know why I'm talking about, Mike.

0:56:47.040 --> 0:56:49.000
<v Speaker 1>What do you think that single women be afraid of

0:56:49.040 --> 0:56:53.440
<v Speaker 1>though choosing wrong? But you just choose again. I guess

0:56:53.480 --> 0:56:55.040
<v Speaker 1>that's my thing, right. Well, I don't really have a

0:56:55.080 --> 0:56:57.399
<v Speaker 1>commitment for me when it comes to relationships, because I'll

0:56:57.400 --> 0:56:59.799
<v Speaker 1>get the fuck on through, Like I know how to leave.

0:56:59.840 --> 0:57:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Now that's the thing I don't know how to do.

0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh bitch, I know when I be locked.

0:57:05.560 --> 0:57:08.400
<v Speaker 2>In, I be locked in, Like where are you going?

0:57:09.640 --> 0:57:13.400
<v Speaker 2>This is took forever. This is because it takes so

0:57:13.480 --> 0:57:15.759
<v Speaker 2>much for me to pick. Once I pick, I'd be like,

0:57:15.800 --> 0:57:18.280
<v Speaker 2>this is my forever person. I'm willing to go through

0:57:18.280 --> 0:57:19.120
<v Speaker 2>the turches with you.

0:57:19.520 --> 0:57:22.240
<v Speaker 1>Well, i'd be like that too, which is why I'll leave.

0:57:22.320 --> 0:57:23.520
<v Speaker 1>But it still takes some time.

0:57:24.440 --> 0:57:26.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that's the thing. I don't got time, So

0:57:26.160 --> 0:57:28.960
<v Speaker 2>it's easier for me just not to pick a motherfucker.

0:57:30.840 --> 0:57:32.160
<v Speaker 1>But you do have time.

0:57:33.240 --> 0:57:35.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't feel like I got time to be playing

0:57:35.080 --> 0:57:37.200
<v Speaker 2>with these niggas. I'm gonna end up. I would be

0:57:37.240 --> 0:57:39.919
<v Speaker 2>like Angela Simmons out here, I'm gonna take y'all out.

0:57:41.440 --> 0:57:43.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm joking. I'm joking, y'all.

0:57:43.160 --> 0:57:46.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm joking, like that's the that's gonna be the running joke.

0:57:46.800 --> 0:57:50.080
<v Speaker 1>Watch I watch how Angela Simmons your ass.

0:57:50.800 --> 0:57:52.960
<v Speaker 2>Playing with that purse? You thought that was the purse?

0:57:56.320 --> 0:58:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Y'all? We love you. Probably be in the bedroom talking

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:09.320
<v Speaker 1>real greasy about people like y'all fucking I'm gonna put y'all.

0:58:15.320 --> 0:58:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm calm down because that ship might be real and

0:58:21.920 --> 0:58:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I ain't got time for Angeloce to pull up on

0:58:24.160 --> 0:58:24.520
<v Speaker 2>me with.

0:58:27.120 --> 0:58:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Shame. I'm gonna do ass like Angela for damn power,

0:58:34.280 --> 0:58:36.480
<v Speaker 1>get jazz and low corner somewhere there.

0:58:37.320 --> 0:58:38.720
<v Speaker 2>We love.

0:58:40.920 --> 0:58:42.840
<v Speaker 1>You, look good, girl, but we know you don't know

0:58:43.120 --> 0:58:44.680
<v Speaker 1>zimpic quit playing in our face.

0:58:45.560 --> 0:58:48.520
<v Speaker 2>Everybody who been like thick or fat for a long

0:58:48.600 --> 0:58:52.320
<v Speaker 2>time and now they just like I have together.

0:58:52.640 --> 0:58:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Like so the one thing with Olympic. Okay, let's go

0:58:55.840 --> 0:58:57.360
<v Speaker 1>into that right quick, and then we're gonna wrap this

0:58:57.360 --> 0:59:01.000
<v Speaker 1>sh up. Listen, I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna be honest. Okay.

0:59:01.320 --> 0:59:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I am type jealous of people taking ozimping. I'm not

0:59:05.920 --> 0:59:08.120
<v Speaker 1>jealous about the side effects of that ship because I'm

0:59:08.160 --> 0:59:12.240
<v Speaker 1>not dying to be skinny, right And I know that

0:59:12.280 --> 0:59:17.720
<v Speaker 1>it does help your your metabolic system, you know what

0:59:17.760 --> 0:59:20.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like hormone issues. It helps correct things. That's

0:59:20.520 --> 0:59:24.880
<v Speaker 1>what gets you to start losing the weight. But sometimes

0:59:24.880 --> 0:59:26.919
<v Speaker 1>your doctor stops are swabbing you that ship like now

0:59:26.920 --> 0:59:29.280
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna nobody I know who is taking that ship

0:59:29.320 --> 0:59:33.479
<v Speaker 1>has sustained the weight loss. They all earned it back

0:59:33.600 --> 0:59:36.880
<v Speaker 1>with anything else because it's lifestyle, so it's really just

0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:39.480
<v Speaker 1>changing your mind, right, So I'd rather just keep working

0:59:39.520 --> 0:59:39.840
<v Speaker 1>on that.

0:59:41.080 --> 0:59:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Then A lot of people like when I saw that

0:59:44.160 --> 0:59:48.440
<v Speaker 2>there's an Olympic butt because it's not doing.

0:59:48.160 --> 0:59:50.000
<v Speaker 1>That Olympic face.

0:59:50.760 --> 0:59:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all sunk in mm hm.

0:59:53.240 --> 0:59:56.800
<v Speaker 1>So it's a goovi ozempic semic glue class, semic glue,

0:59:56.840 --> 0:59:59.120
<v Speaker 1>semic glue tide I got. All of them are all

0:59:59.240 --> 1:00:02.920
<v Speaker 1>the same g l g l C one or g

1:00:03.120 --> 1:00:05.000
<v Speaker 1>l M something real sick.

1:00:05.280 --> 1:00:06.720
<v Speaker 2>Some people even have died.

1:00:06.880 --> 1:00:10.360
<v Speaker 1>So I just stummay issues. It's messing with people's digestive

1:00:10.440 --> 1:00:12.520
<v Speaker 1>system and they kids, yeah.

1:00:12.560 --> 1:00:15.160
<v Speaker 2>Growing up, like every time they take it, they throw

1:00:15.240 --> 1:00:18.439
<v Speaker 2>up for two days straight. Y'all pitches look good, y'all

1:00:18.440 --> 1:00:22.640
<v Speaker 2>look great. Y'all look great.

1:00:23.400 --> 1:00:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Y'all look great, but face a little something in but

1:00:27.680 --> 1:00:28.800
<v Speaker 1>you look good.

1:00:29.680 --> 1:00:31.640
<v Speaker 2>Gone completely gone.

1:00:31.680 --> 1:00:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I ain't bitch because when my clavicle be popping and

1:00:34.680 --> 1:00:37.360
<v Speaker 1>like my little hip bone, I know I look good.

1:00:37.680 --> 1:00:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I ain't look like that in a long time. But

1:00:39.320 --> 1:00:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm just telling you, like those are the those are

1:00:41.680 --> 1:00:43.320
<v Speaker 1>the things I like to see to know that the

1:00:43.400 --> 1:00:44.280
<v Speaker 1>bitch is fine.

1:00:44.560 --> 1:00:46.560
<v Speaker 2>I just want a yall line. That's all I want

1:00:46.600 --> 1:00:48.320
<v Speaker 2>in life. Everything else I'm okay with.

1:00:48.560 --> 1:00:52.919
<v Speaker 1>Shouldn't mine disappearing. Look at that fat ass face. I'm

1:00:52.920 --> 1:00:58.160
<v Speaker 1>working on it though. I'm gonna start doing Korean fish exercises.

1:00:57.880 --> 1:00:59.360
<v Speaker 2>So get paid.

1:00:59.760 --> 1:01:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I have gotten. Uh. They do acupuncture in the face

1:01:03.160 --> 1:01:06.480
<v Speaker 1>and stuff, so you could do that instead of doing BOLTOKX,

1:01:06.560 --> 1:01:09.320
<v Speaker 1>that helps. What it does? It helps with the muscles

1:01:09.320 --> 1:01:09.840
<v Speaker 1>in your face.

1:01:10.360 --> 1:01:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm not why both talks me.

1:01:18.000 --> 1:01:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I got a good ass acupunctural lady, acupuncturist, a little

1:01:23.320 --> 1:01:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Asian lady, and she don't play the radio Chad. She

1:01:25.640 --> 1:01:29.120
<v Speaker 1>can put them boo bloop bloop. Okay, close your eye,

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<v Speaker 1>turn the light off to leave your ass, bitch, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your last last peck? A nigger? We said this the

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<v Speaker 1>other day, like listen, it's like, I don't think no

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<v Speaker 1>woman is really single by choice? Y'all say, y'all are

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<v Speaker 1>I really? And I feel like the ones who are

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<v Speaker 1>single by choice are the ones who have already had

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<v Speaker 1>the families or failed marriages and things like that. And

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, I'm not, you know, risking my mental health.

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<v Speaker 1>But that shit no more. I feel like all of

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<v Speaker 1>us want reallylationships, men and women. All of us want

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<v Speaker 1>to be loved. We want to find our person. It

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<v Speaker 1>just might be a little harder. Maybe you need to

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<v Speaker 1>move around to different someplace else, to another city to

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<v Speaker 1>find a person a different race. Yeah, different race, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. No, no, white grass ain't always greener.

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<v Speaker 1>But but maybe maybe you gotta try that to find out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know who, who's your actual person? But you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta try, don't just it's my choice. I'm single.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I don't think that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe most women are single by choice.

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<v Speaker 2>I try, I just don't try very hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Or like the men that you think that you want,

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<v Speaker 1>they might not be attracted to you, or they might

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<v Speaker 1>haven't seen you yet. Right, so we we. But you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that person until you know them. So the

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<v Speaker 1>options that you do have, you need to try one.

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<v Speaker 2>Of those.

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<v Speaker 1>And see what that. No, they might be missing your blessing.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I do. I think the people who I have

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<v Speaker 2>access to you know, but it just don't be.

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<v Speaker 1>My problem is only like men who I know will

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<v Speaker 1>die from me. How do you know because I know

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<v Speaker 1>what niggas gonna kill you over me. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>just you just be knowing. So I be sticking with

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<v Speaker 1>niggas that I know that a crash out for me,

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<v Speaker 1>not really crash out, but like if shit get real,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I'm protected. I'm attracted.

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<v Speaker 2>I know like that. Like there's this one guy in

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<v Speaker 2>Charlotte that I know if I call on him, like

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<v Speaker 2>if something happening to me, if I call on him,

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<v Speaker 2>he gonna he got that whole place.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I that, and that's what I that is

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm attracted to.

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<v Speaker 2>I am attracted to protect the same time, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I could get double back select too if I was

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship with this niggas. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh now, so he's just ready to do whatever. Just

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<v Speaker 1>he just needed reason. I like calculated men. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think when you get married to somebody and or

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<v Speaker 1>you really love somebody, you are taking their life into

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<v Speaker 1>consideration as if it were your own. So I need

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<v Speaker 1>you to care for me like you care for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what I'm attracted to. So if I find

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<v Speaker 1>that in a man, I'm more inclined because even the

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<v Speaker 1>crazy they go I'd be talking about I know he

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<v Speaker 1>would have died for me. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>He is his personality just we was clashing. Otherwise we

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<v Speaker 1>were very good friends. We just wasn't supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship together sometimes that Yeah. Anyway, that's my

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<v Speaker 1>last last. Do you have anything for the single ladies?

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently we better off single ladies, So keep doing you, baby, period.

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<v Speaker 2>And I have one more last thing to say, Angela Summits,

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<v Speaker 2>this was all jope. Please don't hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>Us sitting up CMG goonies over here for fifty bands. Goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, kick it all right, y'all. If y'all enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>this episode, we appreciate you so much, even the shit talkers. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we love y'all even more baby because you're paying attention. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>get your podcast at. This is your co host, AJ Holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Big AJ, not the little one. What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>It's official Tambama on Instagram. Y'all follow me now. Remember

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<v Speaker 2>to speak now and never hold your nigga because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Better hold your nigga. All the good niggas actually married.

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<v Speaker 1>So your your husband might be married to another bitch

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<v Speaker 1>right now. You just gotta wait for that divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>But when they get but when they come back, they

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<v Speaker 2>be jaded.

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<v Speaker 1>No, man, married men are actually good people to be in.

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<v Speaker 1>The men who have been previously married. Married men are

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<v Speaker 1>good people. They're used to marriage, They're used to being

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody. They are relationship prone people.

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<v Speaker 2>So you might need to find a divorce they be jaded.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. All the time.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of divorcees be like, I never do it again,

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<v Speaker 2>and they be.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying that whole time, trying to find a wife. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>get you a retired military nigga. Bye y'all, bye bye.

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