1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships works, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air, 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here, 6 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: right now, and you never know, it could be yours. 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject there's no emotion in his motions. 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm forty seven and my husband is 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: forty nine years old. We have twin daughters that are 12 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: seniors in high school next year and then we'll be 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: empty nesters. Our daughters are professional dancers and one will 14 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: be moving to New York to do ballet and the 15 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: other one will be on tour with a pop star. 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: My daughter's lives are way more interesting than mine, and 17 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: I wish I could go away with them. And the 18 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: last year, all all of the pizzas has seeped out 19 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: of my mind. Marriage, and my husband comes home from 20 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,479 Speaker 1: work and barely speaks some days. I've talked to him 21 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: about depression and he says nothing's wrong with him. I 22 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: asked him if we're having financial problems, and that's not 23 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: it because I did a little research for myself. I 24 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: asked him about our summer travel plans to New York 25 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: so our daughters can visit, and he says he may 26 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: not be able to go. But that's not what has 27 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: me worried the most. It's how cold he treats me 28 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: while we're being intimate. He doesn't put any emotion in 29 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: his motions like he used to. It's like wham bam, 30 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: thank you, ma'am, and he falls asleep. He doesn't kiss me, 31 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: and he stopped me from doing the pregame activities that 32 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: he used to love. The last time we had sex 33 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: was twenty two days ago, and he told me to 34 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: hurry up and finish because he'd had a long day. 35 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: When I worked from home two days a week, he 36 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: used to come home during the day and take me up, 37 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: but he stopped doing that. How can a man go 38 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: from passionate kisses and love making to a few quickies 39 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: here and there after twenty two years of being together, 40 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: he has changed And I can't even imagine him cheating 41 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: on me. I don't want to be a nagger, But 42 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: is it cool to ask him if he's sing another 43 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: woman as his wife. You've got to know that you 44 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: can ask your husband anything, even if he's sing another woman. 45 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: I mean, the problem with that is are you going 46 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: to be ready for his answer? If it's yes or 47 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: whatever it is. It could be the truth, it could 48 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: be a lie, it could be nothing at all. He 49 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: may not answer you at all. You say that, you 50 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 1: know he hardly speaks to you. Sometimes his response could 51 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: be with anger, disrespect, or in his case, just no 52 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: emotion at all. Clearly your marriage is in some serious 53 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: trouble here. I mean, he's barely talking to you, is 54 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: very cold to you during your time in the bedroom. 55 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: He has changed and it is not. 56 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: For the better. 57 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: What information did you leave out of this letter? Because 58 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: these things usually have and gradually and not all of 59 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: a sudden. Now, just like that, he no longer finds 60 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: you attractive. He's rushing you during intimacy. I think something 61 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: has happened and you need to find out what it is. 62 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: It could be another woman, It could be depression, it 63 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: could be any of those things. You can't be afraid 64 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: to ask him, though, what it is and do your 65 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: own research. You've done your own research into your finances, 66 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: so you can do research into that. Don't just give 67 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: up and do nothing. You gotta talk to him. You 68 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: gotta have a conversation with him. It's not nagging. You 69 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: definitely need to know what's going on in your marriage, Steve. 70 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: Uh, this letter here is just it's about change. It's 71 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 3: about lack of communication, it's about See, here's what happens 72 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 3: in marriage, especially when you've been married for some years. 73 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: When you get married after a while, everybody changes. Everybody changes. 74 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 3: Nobody stays the same. You may be a subtle change 75 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 3: that you don't recognize, but everybody change. The problem is 76 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 3: the people that you change in two Those two people 77 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 3: still have to like the person that they've become. So 78 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 3: what has happened is what y'all used to be y'all 79 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: ain't no more. He used to be passionate, He ain't 80 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 3: no more. But I got news for you somewhere in 81 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,239 Speaker 3: this letter. You're leaving out a lot of information because 82 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 3: something you used to do, you ain't doing no more. 83 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 3: Something you used to be you ain't being no more. Now, 84 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,239 Speaker 3: what happens in marriage is this can happen rather quickly 85 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 3: if you're not careful, because it can happen to newlyweds. 86 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 2: When you're not communicating. 87 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 3: I tell people all the time, first thing you could 88 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 3: do when you get married. What I had to learn 89 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 3: the hard way was to form a two handed circle. 90 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 2: I had to learn that the hard way. 91 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 3: When you allow other people in with their opinion's thoughts, 92 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 3: that they don't have all the inside information, all of 93 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 3: their information and advice gonna be bad. It's gonna be 94 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: because it ain't filtered in all the fact. Plus, now 95 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: you all have twin daughters who have all gone off 96 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 3: and graduated high school, and their professional dancers, ones that 97 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 3: go to be in New York to be a ballet dancer, 98 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 3: another background dancer for pop stars. Okay, but now y'all 99 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 3: empty nesters. Okay, Well, y'allut ain't no more distractions. It's 100 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 3: just you and him. That's what happened when COVID hit. 101 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: COVID broke up a lot of relationships because the distraction 102 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: was gone. Going to work was gone, staying at happy 103 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 3: hour was gone, moving around, going to the gym was gone. 104 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 3: Everybody was just at home. And you discovered, Lord have mercy. 105 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 3: I needed all them distractions because now it's just me 106 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 3: and Huck, it's just you and him, and a lot 107 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 3: of people discovered soon they like you, Joe. Do you 108 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 3: know that you could love a person but not likely. 109 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 3: Here's another fact. You can be in love with the 110 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 3: wrong person. Uh oh, anybody hear what I said? I said, 111 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 3: you can be in love with the wrong person. 112 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been there. 113 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: It happens all the time. Seen that movie, so welcome 114 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 3: to the movies. We've all seen it. I know how 115 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 3: this one ends when we come back. Here's my prediction. 116 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: All right, Coming up a twenty three minutes after the hour, 117 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: we'll have more of Steve's response, part two of today's 118 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. There is no emotion in his motions. Right 119 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening hard morning show. All right, come on, Steve, 120 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strubberry and the subject is there's no 121 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: emotion in his motions. 122 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 2: Ain't no emotion in his emotions? 123 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 3: No emotions in his motions, because the ain't no emotions 124 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 3: in the relationship. 125 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:12,679 Speaker 2: Something has happened. 126 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 3: The two people that you all when you all first married, 127 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: how many years have they been married? 128 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: Twenty two? 129 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 3: Twenty two years ago? The two of you are totally 130 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 3: different people now. I don't know anybody just the same 131 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 3: as they were twenty two years ago. I don't know anybody. 132 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 3: Time change is people. Time changes all people. Now the 133 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 3: people that the two of you have become through the 134 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 3: lack of communication, you may be discovering that the two 135 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 3: of you don't even like each other. Now he's made 136 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 3: it obviously clear that he don't like you. According to 137 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: this letter. He don't talk to you when he come 138 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 3: in from work. He barely speaks to you. Someday you've 139 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 3: talked to him about depression. He say, ain't nothing wrong 140 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 3: with him. And then you ask him if y'all having 141 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 3: financial problem, and that ain't it because you did some 142 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 3: research for yourself, Okay. Then you ask him about y'all 143 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 3: summer plans to go see these twin daughters y'all got, 144 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 3: who are both dancers. One of them is a ballet 145 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: and the other one dance for a pop star. So 146 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 3: they can visit their daughters. He said he may not 147 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: be able to go. But the problem you got it's 148 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 3: how cold he treats you when you all are inf 149 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 3: He don't put any emotion in his motions like he 150 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 3: used to It is like wam bam, thank you, ma'am, 151 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 3: and he falls asleep. He don't kiss me, and he 152 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 3: stopped me from doing the pregame activities that he used 153 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 3: to love. 154 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 2: Don't do that. Stop. I don't need that. 155 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 3: Come on, listen, hell, come on, come on, come on, 156 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 3: come on. I don't need all that. I'm ready. Let's go, 157 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: let's do it. Wow man, No, no, this is what 158 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 3: you're doing. Hey, what you finna do? I don't even like. 159 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: That no more. Come on, baby, come on, come. 160 00:08:55,200 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 3: On, get up, get up, Come on? This what in 161 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: I don't ever remember saying that in my life. I've 162 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: never said these words get up, don't do that. I've 163 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 3: never said. 164 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:13,719 Speaker 2: In my whole. 165 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 3: Damn, this is six years. 166 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 2: Get up, don't do that. Never never said that. 167 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 3: I stopped a lot of things in my life, but. 168 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: I've never ever seen get up. Don't do that to me? Ever. 169 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 3: Something is wrong here, Yeah, something's horribly wrong. He don't 170 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 3: kiss you no more. The last time we had sex 171 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 3: was twenty two days ago. He forty seven. Don't worry 172 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 3: about that. Them days gonna stretch out way longer than that. 173 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: It's gonna be some twenty two. You're gonna see some 174 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 3: twenty twos. You're gonna put a tree in a foe 175 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 3: in front of him. Sometimes there gonna be some days. 176 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: And then he told me to hear him finished because 177 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 3: he had. 178 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 2: A long day. Ooh, that's cold. 179 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 3: When I worked from home too, I used to when 180 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 3: I work from home two days a week, he used 181 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 3: to come home during. 182 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 2: The day and tighten me up. But he done stop 183 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 2: doing that. 184 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,719 Speaker 3: How can a man go from passing the kisses of 185 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 3: love make it to a few quickies here and now 186 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 3: after twenty two years of being together? 187 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 2: Twenty two years is the key? 188 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 3: Things have changed? And it's been like this for a while. Lady, 189 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 3: this ain't just started happening. See you telling us the 190 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 3: last time y'all had sex with twenty two days, But 191 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 3: you ain't saying how many times you had it in 192 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 3: the twenty two days prior to that. I'm telling you 193 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 3: this has been happening. He has changed and I can't 194 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 3: even imagine him cheating on me. Oh you can't, Okay, 195 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 3: glad you can't. I don't want to be a naggar. 196 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 3: But is it cool to ask him if he said 197 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 3: another woman? Well, lady, let me ask you a question. 198 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 3: That's a dumb ass question to ask. Come, because what 199 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 3: do you think he gonna say? I have not heard 200 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 3: a woman asked her husband, are you seeing somebody else? 201 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 3: And he said, wow, it's funny, you asked, as a 202 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 3: matter of fact, I am I be damn yeah yeah, 203 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 3: yeah yeah. So so what's for dinner? You think that 204 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 3: he can tell you that? Now, that may not be 205 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 3: the case, but what does your intuition tell you? But 206 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 3: I can tell you right now, if y'all don't hurry 207 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 3: up and have some conversations about the. 208 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 2: Real issue, this is over. 209 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 3: This is over because the distractions in your life are gone. 210 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 3: Them two kids is off, y'all, empty nesses. It's just 211 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 3: you and him. See, you haven't noticed it. But when 212 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 3: the kids was there, he didn't have to talk to 213 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 3: you all the time because the kids was there, and 214 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,199 Speaker 3: the subject y'all talked about a lot of time was 215 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 3: the kids. When you remove the subject of children, daycare, college, tuition, 216 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 3: helping the kids, when you remove that conversation, is she 217 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 3: and you and y'all need them? Distractions back. COVID broke 218 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 3: up a lot of families. Empty nestas break up a 219 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 3: lot of family. But it could be your opportunity to 220 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 3: find what you really need. It could be his opportunity too. 221 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 3: Maybe y'all have grown apart. But if y'all don't hurry 222 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 3: up and talk this out and find out get to 223 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 3: the core of the problem. And I'm gonna tell you 224 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 3: something else too, Lady. You are not what you used 225 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 3: to be twenty two years ago. So as you point 226 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 3: the finger at what he ain't doing no more, and 227 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 3: you're gonna have to go to counseling and take a 228 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 3: look at what's happening here. Because when you point your finger, 229 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 3: remember three of them fingers to point back at you. 230 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 2: And your thumb is too, So that's really fun, all right. 231 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: Leave us for comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram 232 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM, and check out the Strawberry Letter 233 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 1: podcast on the iHeartRadio app. It is free Coming up 234 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: next it is Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, 235 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.