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Speaker 3: Hey, Jess, I've recorded a million voice deleted all of them.
Speaker 3: I just want to try to keep this shorten speek.
Speaker 3: First of all, I love you, so here it is.
Speaker 3: I've been dating this guy for nine months. A little
Speaker 3: bit into our relationship, he told me that this girl
Speaker 3: that he had one night standing with before getting with
Speaker 3: me was pregnant. Then she went back to the island
Speaker 3: that she was from, and she was like, I think
Speaker 3: he said, like six months pregnant already, and that she
Speaker 3: had just called him and told him that he didn't
Speaker 3: want to lose me and stuff, but he wanted to
Speaker 3: tell me because he wanted to be honest.
Speaker 4: Like and I appreciate dnasty.
Speaker 3: I am emotional, So I did cry about it, but
Speaker 3: eventually I did get over it. Keep in mind, this
Speaker 3: man has four kids by four different women. This is
Speaker 3: all well, she's the fourth one now, but when I
Speaker 3: had first met him, it was just three kids by
Speaker 3: three different women that I already know people could see
Speaker 3: as a red flag. I personally just just like, you
Speaker 3: know what, I don't want to judge somebody off their past.
Speaker 3: Like and we're Hispanic, and we're like two different kinds
Speaker 3: of Hispanics, so and in his but I was raised
Speaker 3: here and he was raised and his island and over
Speaker 3: there everything is different. So I could see how with
Speaker 3: no guidance and stuff like that, like with the way
Speaker 3: they raised their kids over there, how he got into
Speaker 3: this mess where three kids by three different women.
Speaker 4: He has told me like he loves his kids. You know,
Speaker 4: he's a great father.
Speaker 3: He obviously lives here and his kids live in the
Speaker 3: island still with their mom, the three of them, but
Speaker 3: he always sends for what they need and stuff like that,
Speaker 3: not to them daily, stuff like that.
Speaker 4: You know, he does what he can.
Speaker 3: It is a poor island, so he kind of doesn't
Speaker 3: want to go back, but he is working on getting
Speaker 3: visas for them to come visit and stuff like that,
Speaker 3: and even want.
Speaker 4: To live with him.
Speaker 3: So fast forward to this new kid he has. She did,
Speaker 3: like like I said, she was in her island. She
Speaker 3: came back from her island like two weeks ago. He's
Speaker 3: seen the baby once and I was just with him
Speaker 3: and he said that the baby is coming tomorrow to
Speaker 3: his apartment and both his sons. He has one son
Speaker 3: that lives here. I'm sorry for clarification because I didn't realize.
Speaker 3: I just messed it up. He has two kids that
Speaker 3: live on the island. One that lives here was his
Speaker 3: mother and then the new baby.
Speaker 4: I don't know what to go, just let's call on
Speaker 4: the baby.
Speaker 2: This new baby, baby damn name.
Speaker 3: So he told me that tomorrow morning because I was
Speaker 3: going to sleep over his place, but my sister wanted
Speaker 3: me to take her somewhere, so I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna leave, and he was like, that's fine because his
Speaker 3: kids are coming in the morning anyway, and I was like, kids,
Speaker 3: so they're both coming and he's like, yeah, he wants
Speaker 3: them to meet. I don't know why that made me
Speaker 3: feel a certain way. I feel like, so it's not
Speaker 3: about the kids, honestly. The kids are brothers.
Speaker 4: They're gonna know to meet. But it just thinks me
Speaker 4: a little bit.
Speaker 3: Honestly, every time he mentions like, I think the problem
Speaker 3: is is because I haven't met the kids. It doesn't
Speaker 3: always feel real that this man has kids, you know,
Speaker 3: And one of my problems like I haven't met the kids.
Speaker 4: I understand that two.
Speaker 3: Of them are in on their island, so obviously I
Speaker 3: can't meet them right now.
Speaker 4: It is here, I feel like I should be to meet.
Speaker 1: So the one that lives here, you feel like you
Speaker 1: should be able to meet that when I understand we've.
Speaker 3: Been together for nine months and I don't know how
Speaker 3: people feel, but I feel like that's enough time for
Speaker 3: me personally to meet someone's child, especially if you're trying.
Speaker 4: If you're taking me serious, you're.
Speaker 3: Talking about we're in love, like we're gonna get married
Speaker 3: one day, like stuff like that. I feel like, okay,
Speaker 3: so let me meet your child. This is a part
Speaker 3: of you, This is a part of your blood.
Speaker 4: This is someone who has a piece, a huge piece
Speaker 4: of your heart.
Speaker 3: I can tell by the way he talks about him,
Speaker 3: So I should be able to meet him.
Speaker 4: Is she our way to class?
Speaker 2: She's zipping up book bags and shit.
Speaker 3: Anyways, back to my current mess that I want advice on.
Speaker 3: The kids are going to meet each other tomorrow. It's
Speaker 3: not about that, it's about the baby. Mom's like, he
Speaker 3: just got a new apartment. We didn't move in together.
Speaker 3: We were going to, but we were like, you know what,
Speaker 3: it's way too soon. I have a crazy home situation.
Speaker 3: So that's the reason we were going to. But we're like,
Speaker 3: it's too soon. We need still getting to know each other.
Speaker 3: We love each other, but you know, we're still getting
Speaker 3: to know each other and we need time to miss
Speaker 3: each other.
Speaker 4: You know. You know stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, especially after only nine months of dating.
Speaker 4: Don't do that. I'm completely fine with that.
Speaker 3: Also, he wanted me to he said, like he wanted
Speaker 3: me to get to know his kid beforehand, like so
Speaker 3: that his kid doesn't come to sleep over his place
Speaker 3: and just see.
Speaker 4: Like this random woman there that he doesn't know.
Speaker 3: He said, he's never introduced another girlfriend besides, like the
Speaker 3: kid's actual mother to his child, so it's new to
Speaker 3: his kid, you know.
Speaker 4: So he wanted to ease that aunt him slowly, which
Speaker 4: I respected and I understood.
Speaker 3: So we don't live together, but we do have occasional sleepovers,
Speaker 3: and it just kind of bothers me that these baby
Speaker 3: moms are going to his new place, Like.
Speaker 4: I don't know why, Like I don't know why it
Speaker 4: bothers me.
Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's something weird, Like I feel
Speaker 3: like that's a weird feeling.
Speaker 4: I shouldn't feel like that, Like it's weird to feel
Speaker 4: like that, Like these are his baby mothers.
Speaker 3: Obviously they're going to be going and they're gonna need
Speaker 3: to know his address, you know, to drop off the.
Speaker 1: Kid, I think, and then I'll let you finish and
Speaker 1: by the way to supre recording.
Speaker 2: I think you.
Speaker 1: Feel that way because what your relationship lacks.
Speaker 2: But let's see, I don't have.
Speaker 3: A problem with the baby mother.
Speaker 4: From the older kid. It's this new kid.
Speaker 3: I feel like, like me and were even talking about
Speaker 3: it that we feel like her plan was that she
Speaker 3: wanted to go to her eyeld and keep that pregnancy
Speaker 3: a secret until she couldn't get rid of that pregnancy
Speaker 3: and hopes that he'll be like, oh yeah, like you're
Speaker 3: having my kid, let's try.
Speaker 2: To be again family stuff like that.
Speaker 4: Because she wanted to be more than a friend.
Speaker 3: He told me, like you told me tonight, that she
Speaker 3: did go to his other house when he lived with
Speaker 3: his mom a few times that she would just pull
Speaker 3: up on him and stuff and just like I guess
Speaker 3: keep them company when he was redoing the floors and
Speaker 3: things like that.
Speaker 4: That was weird to me, And I was like, did
Speaker 4: you have sex with her on this bed that we're on?
Speaker 2: Like no, Like she.
Speaker 4: Never went into my room. I don't. I have trust issues,
Speaker 4: you know, And that's my biggest problem.
Speaker 3: I feel like I have trauma for my past relationship
Speaker 3: and I put it onto this man so much. And
Speaker 3: like I said, the way that like a lot of
Speaker 3: these freaking I'm just gonna say.
Speaker 4: He used Dominicans. I'm trying to hide the race so bad.
Speaker 3: But have these Dominicans they are cheaters out here, Like
Speaker 3: that's what they're known for.
Speaker 2: You half the Dominicans cheaters out here. Every goddamn race
Speaker 2: got cheetad Like.
Speaker 3: He's proven to me that he's different. I mean, at
Speaker 3: least that's what I get from everything.
Speaker 2: Going to Texas and she's doing a lot of shit,
Speaker 2: and these.
Speaker 4: Nights the last nine months have been great.
Speaker 3: With us, Like we've obviously had some little arguments and
Speaker 3: stuff like that. But I used to get mad at
Speaker 3: one point and I was like, yeah, we can break up.
Speaker 4: If you really wanted to. But I stopped doing that
Speaker 4: because that sounds like and I don't want to be
Speaker 4: talking and I don't want to break up. I like
Speaker 4: to communicate and work.
Speaker 2: Don't want to bring up every day.
Speaker 4: I'm getting better and better at that.
Speaker 3: I just really feel weird about like his baby mom's
Speaker 3: going to his apartment and specifically the new baby mom,
Speaker 3: Like I feel like she's gonna be sneaky or try
Speaker 3: to get up to something like And I guess for Repo,
Speaker 3: all that comes down to is him because she could
Speaker 3: try that.
Speaker 4: Stuff, but it's about what he's gonna do.
Speaker 3: So I want to have the trust in him that
Speaker 3: he'll respect me, respect our relationship, and even himself enough
Speaker 3: to not do anything stupid. He did tell me before, like, oh,
Speaker 3: if he stops talking to somebody or like dating somebody,
Speaker 3: he doesn't go back to them, Like that's not the
Speaker 3: type of person.
Speaker 4: He is, and he doesn't prefer that.
Speaker 3: Like if it ended, it ended for a reason, so
Speaker 3: there's no reason to double back. So honestly, I keep
Speaker 3: dying my head a lot.
Speaker 4: So I'm just like.
Speaker 3: You know, like he won't go back, like to help
Speaker 3: myself feel better basically, but I don't know for sure,
Speaker 3: Like it's scary to me my trust issues. Even when
Speaker 3: he opens his phone, I'm like, dang, like he's probably
Speaker 3: texting another bench.
Speaker 4: I don't know why, Like I be feeling like he's
Speaker 4: just being sneaky, but.
Speaker 3: Then he always does things or says things, you know,
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, he's not even being sneaky.
Speaker 4: Like for example, like I could be like, bro, he's.
Speaker 3: Literally texting another Brich right now, and I see his
Speaker 3: phone and it's just his brother, like I said, like,
Speaker 3: or it'll be just a friend and sometimes it will.
Speaker 4: Be a female and he'll see that.
Speaker 2: I feel a certain way because I.
Speaker 3: Like, I wear my emotions on my face, bro, And
Speaker 3: he'll tell me like, oh, yeah, this is my friend,
Speaker 3: like she lives up here, like we known each other
Speaker 3: for this while, Like he'll explain it to me because
Speaker 3: he seees that I'm overthinking. I overthink everything. I stress
Speaker 3: about everything.
Speaker 4: And I just want to like I feel like I
Speaker 4: can trust him, but I want, girl, please fully trust him.
Speaker 4: And so my question is really, just do you think
Speaker 4: that I'm tripping? Like do you think I'm doing too much?
Speaker 3: Like I don't know how to feel like I feel
Speaker 3: like they're the only advice that is to give is
Speaker 3: just pray, prayer that he is loyal, like you know,
Speaker 3: I pray them.
Speaker 1: He says to me.
Speaker 4: It's true that you.
Speaker 1: Know all he wants is me, and like I ain't
Speaker 1: laying and you know because it is about prayer, because
Speaker 1: you know, a sister praise. I'm a godfearing woman and
Speaker 1: I pray every day. But baby, as much as I
Speaker 1: love to pray, let me just let you finish, girl.
Speaker 4: But I don't know.
Speaker 3: My only concern is my only problem that I've had
Speaker 3: in this relationship is coping with the fact that this
Speaker 3: man has kids, like it's not even the fact that
Speaker 3: he has kids, it's just the baby moms. Like, I'm
Speaker 3: not sad about the kids. Honestly, in my head, I've
Speaker 3: always said, like I wanted a big family, but I
Speaker 3: didn't want to push out the kids. So that's why
Speaker 3: I wasn't too concerned.
Speaker 2: About right, So you got what you want. What's your
Speaker 2: problems but not having to have the kids?
Speaker 3: You know, obviously it's step kids, but I feel like
Speaker 3: I would make a great mother.
Speaker 4: I would push out like maybe two.
Speaker 3: But I don't want to push out more than two.
Speaker 3: But I do want more than two, and I feel
Speaker 3: like taking on his kids would make me feel great
Speaker 3: and obviously not right now, we're still.
Speaker 4: Dating, we're still.
Speaker 3: Getting to know each other every single day, but like
Speaker 3: in our future.
Speaker 4: So yeah, do you just in conclusion to end this up?
Speaker 3: Like, do you think that I am taking over this
Speaker 3: whole baby mom situation? Do you think that I need
Speaker 3: to learn to just release and believe in him or
Speaker 3: should I be nervous like you think she's gonna try.
Speaker 4: To be sneaky?
Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold up, I know this shit getting good,
Speaker 1: but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 3: Also to add, another thing that earns in my soul
Speaker 3: like that like gets me overthinking is the fact that
Speaker 3: so we work third shift, right, and sometimes We'll get
Speaker 3: home at six in the morning and I see a
Speaker 3: notification pop up from the new baby mom, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: y'all are texting at this time?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we're talking about the baby or stuff like that,
Speaker 4: or she's sending me pictures.
Speaker 3: Or like He'll tell me like we're just talking, because
Speaker 3: he always tells me like he makes his baby moms his.
Speaker 4: Friends, like he does a reason to have them.
Speaker 3: As like enemies or anything, right right, rightfully, so you know,
Speaker 3: they're just friends and co parents, which is good. So
Speaker 3: that's a the other thing that I just be like, Okay,
Speaker 3: maybe it's like that, but I don't know. It doesn't
Speaker 3: sit right to me, Like why you want to be
Speaker 3: buddy buddy with your baby mother, like.
Speaker 2: Cause you can.
Speaker 1: Why first of all, why is it a stigma put
Speaker 1: on the relationships between baby mother and baby father after
Speaker 1: the intimacy is gone?
Speaker 4: Why is it? Why?
Speaker 1: Why do I have to beef with my baby father?
Speaker 1: Why do I have to beef with my baby mother?
Speaker 1: Just so you can feel secure in a relationship. That's
Speaker 1: that's a general question. But this is one more that
Speaker 1: she one more thinks.
Speaker 2: She had to say. Then I'm gonna get into her mess.
Speaker 3: But he does give me the impression that he doesn't
Speaker 3: have no desire to be with them.
Speaker 4: But I don't know if she's a poker face, like
Speaker 4: I don't know how to feel.
Speaker 1: Okay, So, baby girl, you are everywhere with it. When
Speaker 1: I say everywhere, I mean you hear they're up, down, back,
Speaker 1: with sideways, all of that.
Speaker 2: You up and down the freeway with this, all right.
Speaker 1: A man does not have to beef with the mothers
Speaker 1: of his kids, or the mother of his child or children.
Speaker 1: Speaking more so in general and to your situation. Like
Speaker 1: I said, I think it's just been a stigma. You know,
Speaker 1: I've had a few involvements myself where the guy did
Speaker 1: not like how close I was with my son's dad.
Speaker 1: Me and my son's dad are not attracted to each other,
Speaker 1: not by far, like, in no way, shape or form.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: That's why we're able to do business together.
Speaker 1: That's why we're able to talk to each other about
Speaker 1: any and everything because there's no more feelings there.
Speaker 2: I love him.
Speaker 1: He loves me, but that's all we do is co parent.
Speaker 1: We're more like siblings, if you will. I know that's
Speaker 1: weird and that's just inappropriate to say or to take in,
Speaker 1: but that's what it is. I'm just trying to describe
Speaker 1: how much we don't fuck with each other like that
Speaker 1: on that intimate level, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: that may be the reason why me and my son's dad,
Speaker 1: who also had for other children's moms, are the closest
Speaker 1: of us, all of them all.
Speaker 2: He's the closest with me.
Speaker 1: Now, you said you don't have a problem with the
Speaker 1: first baby mom, Okay, and that seems to be because
Speaker 1: they probably don't deal with each other at all. But
Speaker 1: I don't even think the issue is with him. I
Speaker 1: think the issue is with whoever the fuck did a
Speaker 1: number on you before you got with this man. Because
Speaker 1: the good thing about it is you're aware.
Speaker 2: You know, you know.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say you're fucked up, but you are
Speaker 1: insecure your last relationship or last relationships, or it could
Speaker 1: even be something stemming from your childhood.
Speaker 2: Who knows you.
Speaker 1: Know yourself better than I do, but I know you
Speaker 1: need to know that you are insecure, and you could
Speaker 1: be running this man away, You could be pushing this
Speaker 1: man away.
Speaker 2: Now, this is just one perspective.
Speaker 1: To look at it from all, right, because you said
Speaker 1: you insinuate certain things and then you go do your
Speaker 1: research and you realize that it's nothing. Has he ever
Speaker 1: done anything anything to make you feel like he would
Speaker 1: cheat on you with one of that his children's moms,
Speaker 1: or or cheat on you with another woman period or
Speaker 1: you know, well, I'll just keep it subjected to baby
Speaker 1: moms because you never brought up another woman. So my apologies,
Speaker 1: this is only about his kids moms. Okay, has he
Speaker 1: ever done anything? Have you ever actually caught him doing anything?
Speaker 4: Have you ever?
Speaker 2: Because it honestly just sounds like.
Speaker 1: He gives you his word and you have to take it,
Speaker 1: but because you're so fucked up from your last relationship,
Speaker 1: you still don't take it.
Speaker 2: You don't trust.
Speaker 1: Them, And do you turn around and say you can
Speaker 1: trust them, but then say you just want to be
Speaker 1: able to trust them fully, You don't need to be
Speaker 1: in a relationship. You're not even over what happened to
Speaker 1: you in the past, and I saying you're not over
Speaker 1: the last man. You're not over what happened to you.
Speaker 1: You're not, and you're throwing it off on him. Everything
Speaker 1: that you cause. This is called baggage. You're throwing your
Speaker 1: baggage onto him. And he already got four kids with
Speaker 1: four different baby moms. Two of them live on island,
Speaker 1: one of them live in America, of when live in
Speaker 1: that target.
Speaker 2: Girl, you know, what's a lot going on, all right?
Speaker 1: But you been dating this man for nine months and
Speaker 1: you never met his kids.
Speaker 2: Now that is a red flag for me.
Speaker 1: If I'm dating you for nine months exclusively, yes, I
Speaker 1: expect to have met your children by now.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 1: Even back when I was dating Wayne, we were both
Speaker 1: our schedules were busy, but I was gonna meet his kids.
Speaker 2: I was supposed to meet his kids a few.
Speaker 1: Times, you know, but our schedules were We both tore
Speaker 1: it and everything like that, and we were the own.
Speaker 1: Me and Wayne only made it for four months, but
Speaker 1: I was gonna meet us kids after the second month,
Speaker 1: you know, And whether the mom's liked it or not,
Speaker 1: their dad is still their parent and still had half
Speaker 1: of say so, and you know, when they are in
Speaker 1: his care. So I don't understand why you're not invited
Speaker 1: when his kids are there, or why you're not welcome
Speaker 1: when the kids are there.
Speaker 2: I don't understand why. Why?
Speaker 1: Now, that's just one perspective, your insecurities, all right, you
Speaker 1: tripping and shit? Now we got a commercial and if
Speaker 1: you click off this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat
Speaker 1: your ass.
Speaker 2: Listen now.
Speaker 1: Another perspective is he could be dealing with the baby mother,
Speaker 1: he could be dealing with the last one. You know,
Speaker 1: the baby is fairly new, you know, and regardless of
Speaker 1: what a man says, sometimes their actions don't line up
Speaker 1: all the time.
Speaker 2: Not every man, but a lot of men, not just
Speaker 2: men women ever.
Speaker 1: You know, it's just very humanistic to lie or to
Speaker 1: tell somebody a lie just to get what you want,
Speaker 1: or to keep commotion down, to stay on and even kill.
Speaker 1: People lie for different reasons. To me, for a little bit,
Speaker 1: it sounded like you wasn't his girlfriend. It don't sound
Speaker 1: like you're his girlfriend. All this all my living situation.
Speaker 1: We were gonna move together, but we didn't because we
Speaker 1: realized that we you know, we only even did still
Speaker 1: too early and my situation was bad. But you know,
Speaker 1: that's why we didn't move together, because it's too early.
Speaker 1: And then I haven't met his kids, and you know,
Speaker 1: we don't stay. I don't stay over there all the time,
Speaker 1: but we'll have sleepovers. It it sounds like you just
Speaker 1: dealing with somebody that you talk to. Sound like it
Speaker 1: just sounds like you're involved with someone. You know how
Speaker 1: you got, you know, like y'all just talking. You know,
Speaker 1: you're one of not many. I wouldn't say one of many,
Speaker 1: but it just sounds like you wanted the girls that
Speaker 1: he talks to. You know, I'm not sure how to
Speaker 1: advise you on whether to stay or not, because it
Speaker 1: just doesn't seem like a real relationship, and you even
Speaker 1: said it yourself, it doesn't feel real.
Speaker 2: I haven't met the kids. I don't, you know.
Speaker 1: It's just I shouldn't feel these ways that I feel
Speaker 1: about the big mom because it's the kids.
Speaker 2: But then it's not the kids, it's the big moms
Speaker 2: and it's girl.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't date them because it doesn't sound like you
Speaker 1: trust them, and it doesn't sound like you're going to
Speaker 1: be trusting them any time soon. If y'all do stay together,
Speaker 1: or you know, stay pursuing one another, you got a
Speaker 1: lot of work to do to yourself, with yourself you
Speaker 1: have to start your healing process. Now you'll never be
Speaker 1: fully healed because trauma happens to people every day. Trauma happens,
Speaker 1: you know, not every day to one specific person, but
Speaker 1: things happen. People grow, people grow out of shit, people
Speaker 1: grow into shit, And healing is a lifetime. Healing is
Speaker 1: a lifelong process because once you get heal for something else,
Speaker 1: something else, you gotta heal something else. You got heal.
Speaker 1: If everybody was completely healed, that's a perfect person.
Speaker 2: We don't have those.
Speaker 1: So I think you should start your healing process by
Speaker 1: just being this guy's friend datum cool, still have sex
Speaker 1: whatever you know, but don't get into a relationship. Don't
Speaker 1: call him your boyfriend, don't I think like I said, Yeah,
Speaker 1: let that little baby grow up. Let's see how that
Speaker 1: play out. The new baby, as you call the baby
Speaker 1: the beautiful baby, I'm sure, the new baby.
Speaker 2: Let's see how that plays out.
Speaker 1: Because you know, you can't control how the woman feels
Speaker 1: and what she thinks, and you can't control her getting
Speaker 1: over him. But if he says he's over her and
Speaker 1: never gave you any inclination of anything else, or you know,
Speaker 1: made you insinuate that they were doing things. Then I
Speaker 1: think that you just have to take his word, but
Speaker 1: you still not satisfy with that. So that's just recipe
Speaker 1: for toxicity. You know, you're staying in a relationship ship
Speaker 1: knowing that you're the problem. I'm letting you know you're
Speaker 1: the problem. But I do love you and I want
Speaker 1: you to check back in with me.
Speaker 4: Girl.
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