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Speaker 1: Blogs are audio journals, like for writing in our diaries, Paulina, Yes, take.

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Speaker 2: It away, thank you so much, dear blog. Uh yeah,

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Speaker 2: So you guys know, when you go to the doctor

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Speaker 2: or wherever you go, right, even when you get like

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Speaker 2: boat talks or whatever, they'll be like, oh, who's your

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Speaker 2: emergency contact? And I always hated that question because I

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Speaker 2: don't know what scares me, Like what emergency about to

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Speaker 2: go down?

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Speaker 3: Right, you know, like what do you think is gonna happen?

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Speaker 3: What are we thinking?

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Speaker 2: So then I realized that I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 2: just kind of wired this way at this point because

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Speaker 2: I am thirty two years old, i am married. I've

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Speaker 2: been married for like a year and a half, technically

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Speaker 2: been with the person for about four years. Stille, though,

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Speaker 2: my emergency contact is and probably forever is gonna be

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Speaker 2: my mom and I can't go and change it. And

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Speaker 2: I actually feel silly putting another man's name, like I

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Speaker 2: can't i'm that man name, Like he's not my dad obviously,

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Speaker 2: I mean that's a whole the conversation because my dad

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Speaker 2: never made the cut anyway. But it's like I'm just

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Speaker 2: so used to my mom and like that's in my eyes,

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Speaker 2: that's my emergency contact.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and then I look at.

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Speaker 2: It and I'm just like man like, But technically he's

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Speaker 2: my family now like when you get married, that's your

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Speaker 2: new family.

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Speaker 3: And we have a child.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they made a human with me, so technically he

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Speaker 1: is family. Are you.

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Speaker 3: The eye's the lord? He is my family, you know.

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Speaker 2: And like I love my husband, like I picked, I

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Speaker 2: picked a great man. However, that man is not going

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Speaker 2: to make the car when it comes to my emergency contact.

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Speaker 1: Really, because I would think that your husband, the father

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Speaker 1: of your child with whom you share a residence, correct,

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Speaker 1: would need to be the first person to get the call.

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Speaker 1: I would think not your mom, and March is going

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Speaker 1: to kill me for that. But because my mom is

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Speaker 1: listening out, probably screaming going no, no, no, no no, I

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Speaker 1: don't care if you get married, that that'd be can

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Speaker 1: learn second after me if something happened, that would be

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Speaker 1: my mom's attitude about this. But I think it should

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Speaker 1: probably be your spouse.

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Speaker 3: It should be like keywords should however, you.

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Speaker 2: Know Gigi, my daughter, I think that could.

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Speaker 3: Be her emergency contact. Actually I'm number one, call me.

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Speaker 2: First, girl, like I'm mom, call me, But you know

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Speaker 2: put dad on there too. That's her father, like Hobby

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Speaker 2: is my husband and fighter piece, the best emergency contact

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Speaker 2: ever that you could ever call.

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Speaker 3: He's the best. He is the emergency content for all

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Speaker 3: of them.

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Speaker 2: He has better during birth though, honestly, be honest, who

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Speaker 2: was more helpful during birth?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, they're both good. He just was very quiet.

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Speaker 2: I mean he's always quiet, but he was very quiet,

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Speaker 2: like he wanted to cut out. I was gonna say yeah,

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Speaker 2: but he held it together. My mom was doing breathing.

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Speaker 2: She almost passed out from breathe.

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Speaker 3: It was right. I don't know, some kind of skit

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Speaker 3: she was doing. I'm going with mom.

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Speaker 1: That's an excellent point. The man is a fireman, like,

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Speaker 1: that's an excellent point. Like by definition, he is the

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Speaker 1: he is, he's the person the emergency contact call is

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Speaker 1: that girls.

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Speaker 3: Like fire outfit.

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Speaker 2: Right, No, I understand, but like to be honest too, though,

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 3: Gonna do like the whole double standard thing.

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Speaker 2: He better I better be his, like, I better be

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Speaker 2: his emergency contact.

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Speaker 3: How to do CPR, No, this man knows how to

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Speaker 3: do CPR. You know how to carry you out of

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Speaker 3: a hot building. But you want them to call Martinsarts.

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Speaker 1: Building.

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Speaker 3: She was in her womb. Nobody knows her like her mama,

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Speaker 3: thank you. See, it's like it's a mom thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm very connected to her, like I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: just I want my.

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Speaker 3: Mom to always be that that emergency contact.

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Speaker 1: I just I wonder I wonder this. And I don't

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Speaker 1: know who should call our lawyer friend Morgan or not.

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Speaker 1: But I wonder how often it happens that people put

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Speaker 1: like as a beneficiary, because you normally it would be

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Speaker 1: that if you're married, I would think the beneficiary of

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Speaker 1: like your life insurance or whatever money at work, or

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Speaker 1: you'll four oh one k or whatever it is, that

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Speaker 1: that would go to your significant other. I think is

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Speaker 1: usually the way that works. Probably if you're married, the

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Speaker 1: same person who is your emergency content. I wonder how

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Speaker 1: often it happens so like mine is my for everything

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Speaker 1: is my mom because I'm not married. I wonder if

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Speaker 1: people ever forget to change that, you know what I mean? Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because last time I filled out who

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Speaker 1: the person beneficiary for my four oh one k was

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Speaker 1: was like maybe you do it every year. I'm not sure,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know. I just click through it because

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Speaker 1: it hasn't changed. So what happens if I get married

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Speaker 1: and then God forbids something happens to me, I'm in

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Speaker 1: a hot building and Hobby doesn't come save me, and

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Speaker 1: then my mom gets paid out, and then you know,

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Speaker 1: my wife is like, well, if I had one, we'd

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, where's that dough? You know, like I

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Speaker 1: got to pay bills and stuff. I wonder if that

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Speaker 1: ever happens where the person's like, well, I'm I was

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Speaker 1: the contact, I was the beneficiary goes to me and

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Speaker 1: then they can't.

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Speaker 2: That's a good question, because we do what a selective

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Speaker 2: enrollment whatever elected rollment, we do that.

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Speaker 3: And I actually changed mine to Hobby shocker.

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Speaker 2: I did from my mom to Hobby because I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: you know, I want you to like obviously care for

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Speaker 2: our daughter. God for a bit, something happens, But honestly,

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Speaker 2: don't think I'm changed on his.

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Speaker 3: And I don't like that. I trust it.

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Speaker 2: I trust my in laws with my life, like they

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Speaker 2: are amazing. I want the lottery with my in laws.

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 2: you know, like we got to make sure we are

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Speaker 2: good in that way.

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Speaker 3: We are set.

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Speaker 1: I love my in laws, but let's make sure that

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Speaker 1: comes to me. I know what I'm saying, give me untimely.

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Speaker 1: You know he's amassing of my husband. Let's let's make

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Speaker 1: sure that. But if I die, let's make sure that

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Speaker 1: money goes to Mama Martina. Okay, good, I'm more.

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Speaker 3: Fredshell next