WEBVTT - Leona | Betrayal Weekly

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<v Speaker 2>I just lost my mind. It felt like someone opened

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<v Speaker 2>my brain and it was spilling onto the floor. Everything

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<v Speaker 2>I had known to be true.

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<v Speaker 1>Was just not. I'm Andrea Gunning and this is Betrayal,

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<v Speaker 1>a show about the people we trust the most and

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<v Speaker 1>the deceptions that change everything. For this episode, we've anonymized

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<v Speaker 1>all the names and locations. Leona grew up in the

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<v Speaker 1>Midwest in a town where nobody was a stranger.

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<v Speaker 2>The town is tiny. There's less than five thousand people here,

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<v Speaker 2>so everybody knows everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Her family has lived there for four generations.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to go anywhere and not be running into

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that I know or knows someone in my family.

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<v Speaker 1>Just outside of town, the landscape gives way to huge

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<v Speaker 1>fields of corn and soybeans. It's a big farming community.

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<v Speaker 1>Lots of kids at Leona's school were part of a

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<v Speaker 1>youth organization called FFA Future Farmers of America.

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<v Speaker 2>During FFA week, everyone drove their tractors to school.

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<v Speaker 1>Growing up, Leona spent a lot of time with her

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<v Speaker 1>younger sister. They were close and was protective of her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's an oldest child to her core. I am definitely

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<v Speaker 1>type a personality. I want everything to be perfect. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a black and white person. I do not do well

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<v Speaker 1>with gray, so I have to follow the rules. Her

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<v Speaker 1>family didn't have a lot of money, and if Leona

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go to the movies, grab dinner with friends,

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<v Speaker 1>or go on class field trips, she had to come

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<v Speaker 1>up with the money herself.

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<v Speaker 2>I started working pretty much full time at sixteen, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I would go to school till three, get to

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<v Speaker 2>work at three thirty, be there till ten.

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<v Speaker 1>After high school, Leona stayed in her hometown and lived

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<v Speaker 1>with her parents. She was still a teenager and was

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<v Speaker 1>saving up money to move out. She dreamed of moving

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<v Speaker 1>to a bigger city one day, but she needed more

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<v Speaker 1>financial stability.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody in my family has been to college, so all

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<v Speaker 2>I had known was you start working.

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<v Speaker 1>At eighteen started working at her state's Department of Revenue.

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<v Speaker 2>Shortly after I started that position, I got a friend

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<v Speaker 2>request on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 1>It was from a guy she went to high school with.

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<v Speaker 1>His name was Aiden. They had never been close, and

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<v Speaker 1>she only remembered a couple of vague things about him.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a grade above me. He was in theater,

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember seeing him on stage when I would

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<v Speaker 2>go watch the performances, but I wasn't going to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>She accepted his friend request. Then Eden sent her a

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<v Speaker 1>message asking her how she was doing. The two started

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<v Speaker 1>chatting where.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you living, things like that, catching up about what

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<v Speaker 2>life looked like for the last couple years.

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<v Speaker 1>Eden told her that he had joined the military and

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<v Speaker 1>was living a few states away. She told him about

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<v Speaker 1>her new job and caught him up on what was

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<v Speaker 1>happening back home. She started to look forward to Eden's messages.

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<v Speaker 1>It was exciting because I was getting attention and it

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<v Speaker 1>was from someone who got out of our town, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, maybe I have some chance of

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<v Speaker 1>getting out of this tiny town. They messaged back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth for months, Then the holidays rolled around.

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<v Speaker 2>In December, he said, Hey, I'm back home. Would love

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<v Speaker 2>to get together and have dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona agreed, and a few days later we went on

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<v Speaker 1>our first date. Leona still remembers walking into the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and seeing Aiden.

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<v Speaker 2>He was in the military, so I was clean, shaven,

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<v Speaker 2>all the things. We sat and we talked four hours,

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<v Speaker 2>just laughing and having such a good time. I was

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<v Speaker 2>enthralled with him.

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<v Speaker 1>If you had seen them at the restaurant that night,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't have believed it was their first date.

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<v Speaker 2>We were just making jokes like we had known each

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<v Speaker 2>other forever, just instant connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona and Aiden stayed in their booth, talking and laughing

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<v Speaker 1>long after they finished their meal, even after four hours

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<v Speaker 1>had gone by. Leona didn't want the date to end.

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<v Speaker 2>It was such a significant moment for me. I can

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<v Speaker 2>tell you exactly what booth we were sitting in. That's

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<v Speaker 2>how vivid this memory is.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as she left the restaurant, she told her

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<v Speaker 1>friends about the date.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not good at keeping secrets, so I can't at

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<v Speaker 2>all when something exciting happened in my life, like I

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<v Speaker 2>just have.

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<v Speaker 1>To tell Aiden was equally as excited about her. We

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<v Speaker 1>went on the next date Within the next few days,

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<v Speaker 1>they went to the movies and saw Flight with Denzel Washington.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an action movie about a pilot who was forced

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<v Speaker 1>to crash land an airplane. Leona and Aidan were gripping

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<v Speaker 1>their arm rests the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>After we left, he was like, why in the hell

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<v Speaker 2>did you pick that movie?

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<v Speaker 1>They laughed about it. As Aidan drove Leona home. He

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<v Speaker 1>walked her to her front door.

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<v Speaker 2>It was freezing outside because it was December, and I

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<v Speaker 2>remember him just shivering because he was so cold, And

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<v Speaker 2>I remember having our first kiss on my parents porch

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<v Speaker 2>that night.

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<v Speaker 1>Eden was changing jobs within the military and was transferred

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<v Speaker 1>to the reserves. He moved into a place an hour

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<v Speaker 1>outside of their hometown and made the drive to see

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<v Speaker 1>Leona whenever he had free time.

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<v Speaker 2>He's taking me to his favorite restaurants in this town,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're just hanging out constantly. We're texting all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>calling each other.

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<v Speaker 1>That initial spark of attraction kept growing. Pretty soon they

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<v Speaker 1>were inseparable.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a person I want to spend all my

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<v Speaker 2>time with because I'm having so much fun, Like we're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about whatever, we're laughing, and I had never experienced

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<v Speaker 2>anything like that before. So I'm like, Okay, well, this

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<v Speaker 2>is obvious that this is the person I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be with. Introduced her to his family. His dad's a preacher,

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<v Speaker 2>his mom is a nurse. I loved them.

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden's family loved her too.

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<v Speaker 2>I immediately became a part of their family. I was

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<v Speaker 2>hanging out at their house. We were always doing stuff together.

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<v Speaker 1>In some ways, Aidan and Leona were very different.

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<v Speaker 2>Aiden was a very private person and I'm the complete opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm an open book.

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<v Speaker 1>Aidan planned everything out carefully, while Leona was spontaneous. But

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<v Speaker 1>in many ways they were similar. Growing up in the

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<v Speaker 1>same town meant they understood each other's childhoods.

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<v Speaker 2>We both were raised in a situation where our families

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have a lot of money, so the movies were

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<v Speaker 2>like a gift. You get one piece of candy, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a luxury. She and Aidan were just

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<v Speaker 2>barely adults, not even twenty one, but they both made

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<v Speaker 2>their own money and could indulge in little luxuries. These

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<v Speaker 2>dates fell exciting. We went to the movies. That was

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<v Speaker 2>our thing. We got to do that together and kind

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<v Speaker 2>of heal that smaller version of the both of us

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<v Speaker 2>that like, we didn't get to do that when we

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<v Speaker 2>were kids, but now as adults, we get to choose

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<v Speaker 2>to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was December of twenty twelve. A new movie had

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<v Speaker 1>come out that they both wanted to see, The Hobbit,

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<v Speaker 1>so they grabbed their favorite snacks and settled into their seats.

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<v Speaker 1>Then Aiden turned to Leona and told her he had

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<v Speaker 1>a question to ask her.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, do you want to go steady with me?

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<v Speaker 2>I remember being like, absolutely, there's no question about this.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>But in a few weeks, Aiden was leaving for the

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<v Speaker 1>East Coast, where he'd complete his next round of military training, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So we knew our time together was going to go

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<v Speaker 2>by quick, and so any moment we could, we would

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<v Speaker 2>spend time together. He ended up staying at my parents'

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<v Speaker 2>house with us during a snowstorm. We were just hanging

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<v Speaker 2>out in my room and I decided to tell him

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<v Speaker 2>that I loved him.

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<v Speaker 1>As the snow swirled outside, Aiden told Leona that he

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<v Speaker 1>loved her too. The next week, the day they had

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<v Speaker 1>both been dreading, arrived. It was time for Aiden to

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<v Speaker 1>leave for the East Coast to start his new position

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<v Speaker 1>in the military. He would fly there from a military

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<v Speaker 1>base a few hours away from their hometown. Leona came

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<v Speaker 1>with him to drop him off.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was pouring rain. It was the kind of

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<v Speaker 2>rain where the car FOG's up and you don't know

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<v Speaker 2>which temperature to put it on to figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>But nothing would stop them from savoring those last hours together.

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<v Speaker 2>We are singing at the top of our lungs or

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<v Speaker 2>taking pictures while we're driving, like just being in that

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<v Speaker 2>moment of like, we're not going to see each other

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<v Speaker 2>for a very long time, so we're going to just

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<v Speaker 2>be in it.

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<v Speaker 1>When they said goodbye, they were both crying. The drive

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<v Speaker 1>back home without him felt so empty.

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<v Speaker 2>I drove home on these curby ass roads while it's

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<v Speaker 2>raining and I'm on the phone with my best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just falling because i was just so sad, just

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<v Speaker 2>crying because I'm like, I just dropped the person off

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<v Speaker 2>that I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Aiden was switching jobs within the military, he had

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<v Speaker 1>to go through basic training again.

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<v Speaker 2>And because of that, he was not allowed to have

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<v Speaker 2>a cell phone for the first several weeks. We would

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<v Speaker 2>write handwritten letters back and forth, so very like he

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<v Speaker 2>is in the military, we're writing the letters.

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<v Speaker 1>In those letters They began to dream of what they

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<v Speaker 1>wanted their future together to look like.

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<v Speaker 2>We knew we wanted to have kids, we were going

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<v Speaker 2>to live on the East Coast. We're getting married before

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<v Speaker 2>I'm twenty one. You know. There was this very detailed plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Their letters back and forth became a penciled in hopeful

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<v Speaker 1>blueprint for their life. When Leona missed Aiden, she reread

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<v Speaker 1>his letters and imagine their future together. Finally Aiden got

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<v Speaker 1>a phone.

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<v Speaker 2>And so Aid had called me to like kind of

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<v Speaker 2>fill me in all what was going on, and then

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<v Speaker 2>he says, I think we should get married.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona was overjoyed. She didn't hesitate. This is how it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be. I found my person, So why waste

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<v Speaker 1>any more of my time? She was ready to run

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<v Speaker 1>full speed towards the life they dreamed of. They decided

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<v Speaker 1>to get married that Christmas. That gave them just over

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<v Speaker 1>six months to plan the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>All the things started happening very quickly. When we were

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<v Speaker 2>doing wedding planning, his mom and his sister were involved.

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<v Speaker 2>His sister was one of my bridesmaids. I went that

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<v Speaker 2>next week and bought my wedding dress.

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<v Speaker 1>While they were apart, Aiden and Leona sent photos and

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<v Speaker 1>intimate messages back and forth on Facebook Messenger. That summer,

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden flew Leona out to visit him on the East Coast.

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<v Speaker 1>Seeing each other in person, they were even more giddy

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<v Speaker 1>about their wedding. They talked through every detail together. Because

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden proposed over the Leona didn't have a ring yet.

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<v Speaker 2>And He's like, can you explain to me, like what

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<v Speaker 2>you want your ring to look like? What do you

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<v Speaker 2>want the band to look like? And so I'm explaining

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<v Speaker 2>this and I'm kind of leaned up against him, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, do you want it to look like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Aidan pulled a ring out of his pocket and he slid.

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<v Speaker 2>It onto my finger and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>it was bigger than I expected it to be, as

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<v Speaker 2>like a full carrot. It was better than I had

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<v Speaker 2>dreamed of.

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<v Speaker 1>She called her family right away and they celebrated with her.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest of her visit was just as magical. They

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<v Speaker 1>watched fireworks burst through the dark sky and explored the city.

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<v Speaker 1>We were kind of getting a feel for what our

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<v Speaker 1>life was going to look like. Finally, their wedding week

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<v Speaker 1>arrived and Aiden traveled back home.

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<v Speaker 2>The night of our rehearsal dinner, everyone, all the bridesmaids,

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<v Speaker 2>all the grooms men. We went bowling. After words, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Piled into the bowling alley, ordered food and laughed, watching

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<v Speaker 1>their friends get competitive with each other or just.

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<v Speaker 2>Having like the best time, enjoying each other's company, laughing,

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<v Speaker 2>cutting up, no care in the world because tomorrow we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be married.

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<v Speaker 1>But then in the middle of the celebration, something disturbing happened.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister starts receiving these text messages from an unknown number.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona's little sister went pale.

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<v Speaker 2>She was receiving pictures of someone's penis.

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<v Speaker 1>The photos were accompanied by a slew of graphic questions.

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<v Speaker 2>What is her opinion of the way this is shaped

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<v Speaker 2>or sized?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about this? Do you think this

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<v Speaker 1>would be pleasurable to you? Leona was horrified. Her sister

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<v Speaker 1>was only seventeen.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like the wind got knocked out of me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh my god, like I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she's under age.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, more and more messages flooded her sister's

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<v Speaker 1>phone incessantly.

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<v Speaker 2>We're bowling, and we're immediately not having fun because my

0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:12.680
<v Speaker 2>sister and I are having to deal with this. My

0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.160
<v Speaker 2>sister's like, what the hell's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody in their friend group recognized the number, no idea

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<v Speaker 1>who it is, none whatsoever. Leona pulled Aiden aside to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him what was going on. He looked disturbed.

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<v Speaker 2>Aiden was like, Oh, that's really bizarre.

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<v Speaker 1>They were starting to think it was just spam, but

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<v Speaker 1>then the messages got personal.

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<v Speaker 2>They know who I am, and they know who Aiden is.

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<v Speaker 2>The person had hacked into my Facebook account and got

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<v Speaker 2>all of these photos and these very specific details about

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<v Speaker 2>our sex life.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona thought of all the intimate exchanges she'd had with

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden over the last few months. The thought of someone

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<v Speaker 1>reading the made her sick. Then the text to her

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<v Speaker 1>little sister took a turn. It started to sound like blackmail.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't send us nudes, then we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>send out these pictures and release this information about your

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<v Speaker 2>sister and her husband's sexual relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>On the night before Leona and Aiden's wedding, they went

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<v Speaker 1>to a bowling alley with their friends. Everyone was having

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<v Speaker 1>a great time until Leona's sister started receiving disturbing text

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<v Speaker 1>messages from an unknown number. The text revealed that they

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<v Speaker 1>had hacked into Leona's Facebook account and accessed hundreds of

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<v Speaker 1>sexual images and text messages sent between her and Aiden,

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<v Speaker 1>and now they were threatening to release these photos and

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<v Speaker 1>texts if Leona's sister didn't comply with their demands.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't send us nudes, then we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>send out these pictures and release this information about your

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<v Speaker 2>sister and her husband's sexual relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>She made her way through the Bowling Alley to Aiden

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<v Speaker 1>and told him what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Aiden was like, Oh, that's really bizarre.

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<v Speaker 1>He left his circle of friends and came over to

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<v Speaker 1>see the text himself. When he saw the messages, his

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<v Speaker 1>concern heightened. Aiden was a private person. Hearing that someone

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<v Speaker 1>accessed intimate details about their sex life clearly disturbed him.

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<v Speaker 2>You could immediately feel the air in the room. Just leave.

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden told Leona's sister to ignore the messages for now.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't know who they were dealing with, and they

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<v Speaker 1>needed to treat this with caution.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll just ignore it. Let's just deal with this subtlely.

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<v Speaker 1>Time. They all stayed at the Bowling Alley until late

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<v Speaker 1>that night and tried to have fun. Leona did her

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<v Speaker 1>best to put it out of her mind and take

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<v Speaker 1>in all the joy and excitement around her, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was hard to ignore what happened. The next morning, Leona

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<v Speaker 1>woke up and it was her wedding day.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just so excited to like get down that

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<v Speaker 2>aisle and see him and be with my husband. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready to start our life.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona Aiden. Their families and friends packed into a church

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<v Speaker 1>in their hometown. Leona walked down the aisle and met

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden at the altar. When their eyes locked, she felt

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<v Speaker 1>the same certainty she'd felt on their first date.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember knowing that this was the right decision. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just crying and like I'm wiping a tear off my face,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just so happy because he was my

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<v Speaker 2>best friend. He was someone I could confide in. We

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<v Speaker 2>had these plans where our future, and it was just

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<v Speaker 2>so exciting to get it started. Let's start our life.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are we waiting another second.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest of the day was filled with dancing, speeches,

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<v Speaker 1>and wedding cake.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything was joyful.

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<v Speaker 1>She tried to stay in the moment and not let

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<v Speaker 1>the text from the unknown number ruin the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I put it out of my mind. This is my day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna let whatever it is interfere with that.

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<v Speaker 2>We got so much fun. We're all having a good time,

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<v Speaker 2>but there also is this like lurking chaos in the

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<v Speaker 2>background that you can't quite ignore.

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden only got a few days off for the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't have time for a honeymoon. In fact, two

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<v Speaker 1>days after they got married, he had to return to

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<v Speaker 1>the base. Leona had been so focused on the wedding

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<v Speaker 1>that she didn't account for how hard the goodbye would be.

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<v Speaker 2>The reality hit me at that point. I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, this man that I love so much is

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<v Speaker 2>about to leave, and I just immediately start crying.

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<v Speaker 1>They said a tearful goodbye, and Aiden reported back to

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<v Speaker 1>his base on the East Coast. Leona stayed in their hometown.

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<v Speaker 1>With the wedding over, she focused her energy on helping

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<v Speaker 1>her sister deal with the blackmailer.

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<v Speaker 2>I just remember being so concerned about it because it

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<v Speaker 2>was my responsibility to take care of this. She started

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<v Speaker 2>with the most obvious solution. I had told my sister

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<v Speaker 2>to just block the number, but that didn't stop it.

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<v Speaker 2>We would block the one number, and then almost immediately

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<v Speaker 2>it would be coming from a different phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>Then to her horror. Her little sister started receiving screenshots

0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:47.400
<v Speaker 1>of Leona and Aiden's private conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>The person had all of these photos and these very

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<v Speaker 2>specific details about our sex life.

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<v Speaker 1>Leona felt sick. They really had hacked into her face book.

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<v Speaker 1>They'd seen everything. It was an unthinkable violation. The messages

0:20:06.840 --> 0:20:10.600
<v Speaker 1>to her little sister all had the same disturbing tone.

0:20:10.680 --> 0:20:14.280
<v Speaker 1>They were cruel and emasculating towards her husband.

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<v Speaker 2>They said, I've seen photos of Aiden and he's tiny.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you believe that your sister is with somebody like that?

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<v Speaker 2>How embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>When ignoring the messages didn't work, Leona's sister texted one

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<v Speaker 1>of the numbers back.

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<v Speaker 2>She would say, leave me alone, stop texting me, stopped

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<v Speaker 2>doing this, and they would just still pile in.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing she said made the sender back off. She refused

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<v Speaker 1>to send intimate photos of herself and tried to just

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<v Speaker 1>keep locking the numbers, but it was hard to manage.

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<v Speaker 1>After her sister had been dealing with this for three months,

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<v Speaker 1>Leona got.

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<v Speaker 2>A text herself. They said, your sister isn't doing this now,

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<v Speaker 2>we're escalating it.

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<v Speaker 1>After that, they sent Leona a photo, an intimate image

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<v Speaker 1>of herself one that she'd sent to Aiden. It was

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<v Speaker 1>clear this image was a bargaining chip, a threat.

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<v Speaker 2>The messages kept coming. They were just making fun out

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<v Speaker 2>of our sex life. How embarrassing for you that you

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<v Speaker 2>have to ask your husband to do this so you

0:21:28.080 --> 0:21:32.320
<v Speaker 2>can be completely satisfied. This is embarrassing.

0:21:32.960 --> 0:21:35.960
<v Speaker 1>She wanted to report it, but the idea of showing

0:21:36.000 --> 0:21:40.160
<v Speaker 1>these messages to the police mortified her. The fear kept

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<v Speaker 1>her silent, so she ignored them and blocked the number

0:21:43.920 --> 0:21:47.840
<v Speaker 1>each time they sent her something new. The next month,

0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:51.359
<v Speaker 1>she went to visit Aiden at his military base. It

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<v Speaker 1>would be their last time seeing each other before his

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<v Speaker 1>upcoming deployment. He would be gone for nearly a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Before he left, they had a peaceful week together.

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<v Speaker 2>It was such a great time. I was hanging out

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<v Speaker 2>with the people that were going to be my support

0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:09.359
<v Speaker 2>system while he was deployed. We went to the movies

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. We were hanging out with his friends.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt like nothing could get in our way. But

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<v Speaker 2>in the meantime, we're still receiving these messages, and they're

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<v Speaker 2>getting worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally, Leona snapped. She texted the number back. I told

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<v Speaker 1>the person I'm like You're ruining my life. You're invading

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<v Speaker 1>our privacy. What I do with my husband is none

0:22:30.680 --> 0:22:33.880
<v Speaker 1>of your business. You need to get a different hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>But it became clear humiliating her and Aiden was the

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<v Speaker 1>hacker's full time hobby, and they had no plans of

0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:43.359
<v Speaker 1>dialing it back.

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever they would start message, it would just last for hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if you weren't responding, they would just spam you

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<v Speaker 2>with information or spam you with texts. And so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>having to stand up for my husband to this person

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know, and also trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>out how to get them to stop messaging.

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<v Speaker 1>My sister Leona felt alone in this. A few weeks later,

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<v Speaker 1>Aiden was deployed to Afghanistan and she was back at home,

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:14.320
<v Speaker 1>laying awake at night thinking about who could be behind

0:23:14.359 --> 0:23:18.480
<v Speaker 1>these messages. Was it one of their friends, someone else

0:23:18.560 --> 0:23:22.520
<v Speaker 1>in town, or a random stranger hundreds of miles away.

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<v Speaker 1>Even as the messages escalated, she tried not to burden

0:23:28.680 --> 0:23:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Aiden with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to keep his feelings in check because

0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:36.840
<v Speaker 2>he is literally deployed in the Middle East, so he's

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<v Speaker 2>got his own stuff going on, Like I have to

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<v Speaker 2>control all of this back home and I'm failing as

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<v Speaker 2>a wife.

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<v Speaker 1>This is falling on me in every way. Leona had

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to handle everything on her own, but nothing

0:23:50.560 --> 0:23:54.439
<v Speaker 1>was working. In fact, it was only getting worse. She

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<v Speaker 1>needed help.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go to the police about this.

0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:01.280
<v Speaker 1>Leona and her sister went to the police station together.

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<v Speaker 2>I started explaining what's been going on and they're like, okay,

0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 2>well we need you to write out everything. So we

0:24:09.119 --> 0:24:11.679
<v Speaker 2>sit there and we write everything down, and I'm like,

0:24:11.760 --> 0:24:14.679
<v Speaker 2>what are the next steps on this? What can we

0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:17.600
<v Speaker 2>do to resolve this? And that's when they said, unless

0:24:17.600 --> 0:24:22.760
<v Speaker 2>you've been physically attacked, there's nothing we can do. And

0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:25.119
<v Speaker 2>it's just about like, why did I just waste my

0:24:25.320 --> 0:24:28.520
<v Speaker 2>time writing all of this down and reporting it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>A few weeks later, Leona was scrolling through Facebook when

0:24:33.359 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 1>she saw a post that made her stop in her tracks.

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<v Speaker 1>A girl from her high school posted about receiving strange

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<v Speaker 1>messages from an unknown number.

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<v Speaker 2>She posted a screenshot of the messages that she got

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<v Speaker 2>and the photo.

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<v Speaker 1>Reading through the messages, Leona immediately recognized the jeering tone.

0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Look at this person's penis, what do you think about

0:24:55.600 --> 0:24:57.480
<v Speaker 2>the size or the shape? Do you think this would

0:24:57.520 --> 0:24:58.560
<v Speaker 2>be satisfying to you.

0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:03.359
<v Speaker 1>This was clearly Leona's hacker. Her high school classmate turned

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 1>to Facebook for help. She asked, has anyone.

0:25:06.960 --> 0:25:09.280
<v Speaker 2>Else heard from this person? Like? What is going on?

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:13.119
<v Speaker 1>Leona clicked on the comment section of the post. What

0:25:13.359 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 1>she saw stunned her. Dozens of comments from other people

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:21.080
<v Speaker 1>in her town saying that they too had been getting

0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:23.679
<v Speaker 1>harassing texts from an unknown number.

0:25:24.080 --> 0:25:26.480
<v Speaker 2>There were so many of people commenting on the posts

0:25:26.640 --> 0:25:28.480
<v Speaker 2>that were like, yeah, I'm also receiving these.

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Leona was shocked. She thought she and her sister were

0:25:33.240 --> 0:25:38.959
<v Speaker 1>alone in this. Over the course of that spring, the

0:25:39.000 --> 0:25:43.000
<v Speaker 1>hacker tightened their grasp on Leona's town. She saw more

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:47.679
<v Speaker 1>friends from high school post about the harassment online. No

0:25:47.720 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 1>one knew who it was or how to stop them.

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:55.199
<v Speaker 2>They were using email, Facebook, text messages. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. You never knew where it was going

0:25:58.359 --> 0:25:58.879
<v Speaker 2>to come from.

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<v Speaker 1>When Leona saw her friends or ran into her old

0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:08.320
<v Speaker 1>high school classmates, the unknown number text always came up.

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:10.880
<v Speaker 1>Their entire town was on edge.

0:26:11.880 --> 0:26:16.440
<v Speaker 2>And then my close friends started getting messages and email

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 2>addresses were being spammed with this stuff. It was just

0:26:20.640 --> 0:26:25.159
<v Speaker 2>encompassing every aspect of my life, like it was everywhere.

0:26:25.200 --> 0:26:28.400
<v Speaker 2>All of a sudden, more and more people came forward

0:26:28.680 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 2>saying that they had received disturbing messages. I'd say everyone

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 2>included probably like twenty or so people. We all went

0:26:38.119 --> 0:26:39.000
<v Speaker 2>to the same high school.

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:43.760
<v Speaker 1>Leona's town is a hard place to hide. Remember it's

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:46.040
<v Speaker 1>home to just five thousand people.

0:26:46.800 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 2>This had to be.

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:51.439
<v Speaker 1>Someone they all knew. Everyone was trying desperately to figure

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:54.520
<v Speaker 1>out who was lurking behind the unknown number.

0:26:56.840 --> 0:27:02.480
<v Speaker 2>April, May, June, and July were just very intense with

0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:06.439
<v Speaker 2>the amount of text messages. People in my community are

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:09.199
<v Speaker 2>getting stuff. People are posting about it on Facebook, like

0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:11.200
<v Speaker 2>who else is getting these messages?

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:15.399
<v Speaker 1>For some people in their community, the messages died off

0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:20.880
<v Speaker 1>or only happened once, but for Leona they were constant.

0:27:21.359 --> 0:27:24.199
<v Speaker 2>It felt so personal. What did we do?

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Eden and Leona were exhausted trying to figure it all out.

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Instead of talking about their plans for a family, all

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:36.320
<v Speaker 1>of their energy was taken up by the unknown number.

0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Our connection is definitely strained because he's working, and you know,

0:27:41.080 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 2>the times we are talking were bickering about money or

0:27:44.680 --> 0:27:49.280
<v Speaker 2>this person that's harassing us. He was irritated that every

0:27:49.359 --> 0:27:51.919
<v Speaker 2>time we talked on the phone, we were having to

0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:53.479
<v Speaker 2>deal with this, and so it was like, can I

0:27:53.600 --> 0:27:56.440
<v Speaker 2>just call you and talked to you about literally anything else.

0:27:57.200 --> 0:27:59.680
<v Speaker 2>We were just trying to make it tell November because

0:27:59.680 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 2>that's why, and he would come home.

0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:05.560
<v Speaker 1>They began to argue more. The hacker was ruining everything

0:28:05.640 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 1>in her life, and she worried her relationship with Aiden

0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:10.080
<v Speaker 1>would be next.

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 2>I remember just bawling my eyes out, like I'm going

0:28:13.840 --> 0:28:16.080
<v Speaker 2>to get a divorce in less than six months because

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:18.240
<v Speaker 2>of this shit. What is going on?

0:28:19.680 --> 0:28:23.359
<v Speaker 1>The harassment drove Leona into a state of constant paranoia

0:28:23.440 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and exhaustion.

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:29.119
<v Speaker 2>It was just chaos all the time, everything around me.

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:32.480
<v Speaker 2>I was failing at because I couldn't figure out who

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:35.200
<v Speaker 2>this person was. I couldn't protect my sister, couldn't protect

0:28:35.240 --> 0:28:35.800
<v Speaker 2>my husband.

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:41.880
<v Speaker 1>Then the text took a new turn. The hacker seemed

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>to be watching her and her sister.

0:28:45.120 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 2>They would know details about our comings and goings, comments

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 2>about seeing us out and about we are always looking

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 2>over our shoulder. It felt like a stalker type vibe.

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:02.080
<v Speaker 1>But she couldn't protect herself because she didn't know what

0:29:02.480 --> 0:29:03.640
<v Speaker 1>or who to look for.

0:29:04.280 --> 0:29:07.280
<v Speaker 2>I was panicking because I had no idea who it was.

0:29:08.280 --> 0:29:13.240
<v Speaker 1>This was the last straw. Something had to change. She

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:18.200
<v Speaker 1>already knew the police couldn't help, but they needed protection. Finally,

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Aiden had an idea.

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:24.280
<v Speaker 2>He knows people in the military world that can figure

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:26.600
<v Speaker 2>this out. He was going to reach out to his

0:29:26.640 --> 0:29:29.840
<v Speaker 2>friends in the private investigation world, and they were going

0:29:29.880 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 2>to figure this out because of an IP address, especially

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:33.880
<v Speaker 2>if they're using a Facebook.

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>Aiden contacted one of his friends who worked as a

0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:41.840
<v Speaker 1>private investigator. Leona agreed to give it a try. Finally,

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Aiden called her one day.

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 2>With good news.

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:48.000
<v Speaker 1>The private investigator was able to trace the text messages

0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 1>back to an IP address.

0:29:51.240 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 2>Based on these text messages, his PI people had said

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 2>that they were two hours away, so it's like, okay,

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:00.520
<v Speaker 2>he's not in our community, so that's it seems like

0:30:00.560 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 2>we're fine there.

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>For the first time in six months, Leona felt relief.

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 1>This invisible omnipresent force had finally been pinpointed to one location,

0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 1>one IP address. This felt like a fixable problem.

0:30:18.720 --> 0:30:21.680
<v Speaker 2>His PI then had to step in and take control

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 2>of it and say something to him to just like

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 2>make it stop.

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Sure Enough, after the PI intervened, the messages from the

0:30:30.720 --> 0:30:34.640
<v Speaker 1>unknown number went from a constant stream to a slow trickle,

0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 1>and then one day the messages stopped entirely.

0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 2>This person disappeared. I don't know how this person disappeared,

0:30:44.160 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 2>but they stopped.

0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:49.040
<v Speaker 1>The entire town seemed to breathe a sigh of relief.

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Her Facebook feed turned from screenshots of harassing texts back

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:59.600
<v Speaker 1>to engagement posts and photos from family reunions. Slowly, people

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 1>went back to their own lives. That summer, Leona packed

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:07.240
<v Speaker 1>up and moved to a town on the East Coast

0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:11.680
<v Speaker 1>near Aiden's military base. For the first time in her life,

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:14.680
<v Speaker 1>she was living one thousand miles away from her hometown.

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>She was twenty one now and Aiden was twenty three.

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:22.240
<v Speaker 1>Aiden was coming home from deployment that fall, and they

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>were going to start their life living together for the

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 1>first time. Leona wanted everything to be perfect when he

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:30.240
<v Speaker 1>got there.

0:31:30.840 --> 0:31:33.560
<v Speaker 2>I decorated the house. I hung balloons and hung photos

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 2>of us welcome home banners. I just made this whole

0:31:36.160 --> 0:31:38.760
<v Speaker 2>big deal about it because I was so excited to

0:31:39.040 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 2>really start our life.

0:31:40.880 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 1>Finally, the day arrived, Aiden was coming home.

0:31:45.200 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 2>It was the classic movie of the guy coming home

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 2>from deployment. You're in the hangar and you're waiting for him.

0:31:52.960 --> 0:31:55.480
<v Speaker 2>It's the middle of the night and there's a room

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 2>full of people. Were just waiting for our loved ones

0:31:57.800 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 2>to come home and spotting him from across the room

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:04.000
<v Speaker 2>and just like wanting to run directly to him.

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 1>For Leona and Aiden, this was a fresh start, a

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:12.239
<v Speaker 1>chance to refocus on their marriage and each other. They

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:15.200
<v Speaker 1>had made it out of their hometown and the stress

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>of the unknown number felt far away. Leona hadn't received

0:32:19.200 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 1>any disturbing messages in months.

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:27.400
<v Speaker 2>It was so incredible. There was no deployments on the horizon.

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 2>We have our home together and we do our favorite things.

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 2>We go to the movies, we have date nights.

0:32:33.920 --> 0:32:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Before long, Leona found out that she was pregnant.

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 2>They were both thrilled. I quit my job and just

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:44.800
<v Speaker 2>started preparing for our oldest daughter to be born.

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 1>When their daughter was born, it felt like everything was

0:32:48.600 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 1>clicking into place. This was how she had always envisioned

0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:57.880
<v Speaker 1>their life together. As Leona settled into her new home,

0:32:58.080 --> 0:33:01.320
<v Speaker 1>she made friends with other military worns lives and.

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 2>We're hanging out with each other all the time. I

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:05.840
<v Speaker 2>become really close with one of the other wives and

0:33:05.880 --> 0:33:11.040
<v Speaker 2>we're hanging out almost daily, and then right before my

0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 2>oldest first birthday, I find out I'm pregnant again. When

0:33:16.080 --> 0:33:19.080
<v Speaker 2>our daughter turned one, we had this big party, we

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 2>invited all of our friends over. Everything seemed normal, but

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:30.520
<v Speaker 2>then something bizarre happened. Everyone disappeared. After that party. I

0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:32.760
<v Speaker 2>stopped hearing from everybody after that.

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:36.760
<v Speaker 1>All of her new friends suddenly stopped talking to her,

0:33:37.520 --> 0:33:41.080
<v Speaker 1>even her closest friend, who she saw almost every day.

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:46.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't understand what happened. We just stopped communicating and

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't answer my text messages.

0:33:48.800 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 1>She told Aiden about how all of the women seemed

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:53.560
<v Speaker 1>to be ghosting her, and.

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I think it's probably best you just distance yourself.

0:33:57.280 --> 0:33:58.800
<v Speaker 2>I had a lot of things going on, so I

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 2>was just like, I'm just gonna focus on my family.

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Leona gave birth to their second daughter. She and Aiden

0:34:07.080 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 1>savored all of their time with their two girls, but

0:34:10.239 --> 0:34:12.680
<v Speaker 1>their time together as a family was limited.

0:34:13.239 --> 0:34:17.400
<v Speaker 2>He is gearing up for another deployment. Then he deploys

0:34:18.160 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 2>six weeks after she's born, and he's gone for six months.

0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:25.880
<v Speaker 1>Leona's mom stayed with her during Aiden's deployment to support

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>her and her kids. It was hard being away from Aiden,

0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:33.400
<v Speaker 1>and Leona looked for things to fill her days. She

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:35.239
<v Speaker 1>started filming makeup tutorials.

0:34:35.880 --> 0:34:39.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing these videos of live doing makeup, and this

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 2>friend that I was really close with starts popping up

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:46.000
<v Speaker 2>on my lives making comments and like reaching back out

0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:46.239
<v Speaker 2>to me.

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 1>It was her close friend who hadn't replied to her

0:34:50.160 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 1>in months, and so.

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:55.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm like so excited to hear from her. So I

0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:58.080
<v Speaker 2>called her and I'm like, I'm so excited to hear

0:34:58.120 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 2>from you, But what the hell where have you been

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:02.799
<v Speaker 2>the last year? And she tells me, She's like, well,

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:06.560
<v Speaker 2>you need to talk to your husband, And I'm like,

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.839
<v Speaker 2>what do you mean? And so she proceeds to tell

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:14.160
<v Speaker 2>me that he had been harassing all the women in

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:15.799
<v Speaker 2>the group, and all the wives.

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:20.319
<v Speaker 1>Of the group. Leona was confused. Aiden would never harass women,

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 1>but then her friend said something chilling. Over the past year,

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:28.400
<v Speaker 1>some of the military wives had been getting strained harassing

0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:30.920
<v Speaker 1>messages from an unknown number.

0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:35.840
<v Speaker 2>It was the same stuff that had been happening, and

0:35:35.880 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 2>they have proof that it's Aidan.

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:48.040
<v Speaker 1>That's why everyone ghosted her. Leona was still in disbelief.

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 1>Her friends sent her all the screenshots they'd gathered. It

0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 1>took me three hours to read through all of these screenshots.

0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:59.000
<v Speaker 1>They were emails, they were Facebook messages. As she read

0:35:59.000 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 1>through the messages, her stomach dropped.

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:04.680
<v Speaker 2>What do you think about this? Isn't this embarrassing?

0:36:05.680 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 1>It was the exact same language her hacker used.

0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:13.640
<v Speaker 2>It felt unreal. I felt like I was looking at myself,

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 2>watching myself receive this information. In that moment, everything clicked.

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:25.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it was Aiden the entire time. It

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 2>was right in front of my face, and I didn't

0:36:27.480 --> 0:36:29.800
<v Speaker 2>see it. He did all of this.

0:36:51.600 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 1>For six months, Leona and her husband Aiden dealt with

0:36:55.280 --> 0:36:57.920
<v Speaker 1>sexually threatening texts from an unknown number.

0:36:59.160 --> 0:36:59.959
<v Speaker 2>By the time they.

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:02.759
<v Speaker 1>Moved to the East Coast for Aidan's job in the military,

0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:04.480
<v Speaker 1>the texts had stopped.

0:37:05.200 --> 0:37:06.880
<v Speaker 2>But after a few years.

0:37:06.640 --> 0:37:09.799
<v Speaker 1>One of Leona's friends told her the military wives had

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:13.759
<v Speaker 1>been receiving disturbing messages from an unknown number, and when

0:37:13.760 --> 0:37:17.759
<v Speaker 1>she saw the messages, Leona was horrified. The texts were

0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:21.239
<v Speaker 1>identical to the ones she had received back in her hometown.

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>The pattern had repeated. Even though they were one thousand

0:37:25.760 --> 0:37:31.320
<v Speaker 1>miles away. The only constance were her and Aiden. Suddenly

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:32.880
<v Speaker 1>it was horrifyingly clear.

0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it was Aiden the entire time he

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:39.919
<v Speaker 2>did all of this.

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:44.279
<v Speaker 1>The military community figured out it was him because one

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:46.839
<v Speaker 1>of the men who works with Aiden was able to

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:50.520
<v Speaker 1>recognize him in the photos. In the military, there are

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:54.680
<v Speaker 1>often communal showers. That's how he recognized parts of Aidan's body.

0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:58.839
<v Speaker 1>When Leona saw the photo, she recognized it too.

0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 2>It was Aiden.

0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 1>When this happened the first time, Leona believed her private

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:09.759
<v Speaker 1>messages with Aiden had been hacked. But now there was

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:13.320
<v Speaker 1>no reason why these women would be receiving nude images

0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:17.200
<v Speaker 1>of Aiden unless he was the one sending them.

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 2>This seems like a joke. What the hell is going on?

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:24.800
<v Speaker 2>I was just so pissed, and I had to wait

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:27.400
<v Speaker 2>hours before I could confront him because he was in

0:38:27.400 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 2>the Middle East again, and so I had to wait

0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 2>almost twenty four hours before I could talk to him

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:31.799
<v Speaker 2>about it.

0:38:32.480 --> 0:38:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Those twenty four hours crawled by slowly. Leona's reality was

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:38.799
<v Speaker 1>coming apart at the seams.

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I just lost my mind. It felt like someone opened

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:49.000
<v Speaker 2>my brain and it was spilling onto the floor. Everything

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:54.600
<v Speaker 2>I had known to be true was just not. She thought,

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:57.640
<v Speaker 2>back to the moment this all started. A celebration.

0:38:57.800 --> 0:39:02.480
<v Speaker 1>The night before their wedding, her teenage sister received graphic messages.

0:39:03.160 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 1>Aiden was standing right there pretending to be horrified.

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:10.200
<v Speaker 2>While we're all together, We're all in the same room.

0:39:10.719 --> 0:39:12.399
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was right in front of my face,

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:13.640
<v Speaker 2>and I just didn't even see it.

0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Aiden watched Leona and her sister suffer. He even pretended

0:39:19.120 --> 0:39:22.120
<v Speaker 1>to hire a private investigator to stop the hacker.

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:24.759
<v Speaker 2>All the while he was.

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:28.640
<v Speaker 1>The one orchestrating all of the chaos. He was the

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:29.640
<v Speaker 1>source of their pain.

0:39:31.560 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 2>He knew everything, every step of the way. How have

0:39:34.760 --> 0:39:36.120
<v Speaker 2>I been duped like this?

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:42.279
<v Speaker 1>The Aiden she knew was calm, rational, and private. The

0:39:42.360 --> 0:39:48.000
<v Speaker 1>texts were volatile, humiliating, and violated their privacy on every level.

0:39:48.680 --> 0:39:51.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know who he was. My vision of

0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:55.399
<v Speaker 2>who he was in the moment was just so wildly disconnected.

0:39:56.320 --> 0:40:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Aiden felt like a stranger now, and a dangerous one.

0:40:00.560 --> 0:40:05.279
<v Speaker 1>It's such an evil, black fog feeling. I don't know

0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:08.279
<v Speaker 1>what love feels like, because I thought that was it.

0:40:08.360 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>But someone who loves you doesn't treat you like that.

0:40:11.480 --> 0:40:14.440
<v Speaker 1>The next day, Leona finally got the chance to video

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:17.799
<v Speaker 1>chat with Aiden. She knew she had to be strategic.

0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:20.759
<v Speaker 2>I got on the skypall with him, trying to just

0:40:20.760 --> 0:40:22.919
<v Speaker 2>stay as calm as possible because he can just hang

0:40:23.000 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 2>up and be done, so I wanted to lull him

0:40:25.680 --> 0:40:29.200
<v Speaker 2>in before I said anything to him. So we're just

0:40:29.239 --> 0:40:31.880
<v Speaker 2>talking about our normal day. He's asking about the girls,

0:40:32.440 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 2>and then I told him that I had talked to

0:40:35.800 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 2>my friend and he was like, oh, how'd that go?

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:41.359
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, is there anything that you want

0:40:41.400 --> 0:40:44.799
<v Speaker 2>to tell me that she would be upset about? And

0:40:44.840 --> 0:40:47.359
<v Speaker 2>he was like no, I can't think of anything. And

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:49.640
<v Speaker 2>I was like, you wouldn't know why she's upset and

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:51.560
<v Speaker 2>he was like, no, I have no idea. I said, Okay,

0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to ask you one more time, and this

0:40:54.640 --> 0:40:56.919
<v Speaker 2>time when I ask you, I'm going to make sure

0:40:56.960 --> 0:41:00.200
<v Speaker 2>that you know that I have hundreds of screenshots that

0:41:00.239 --> 0:41:04.839
<v Speaker 2>tell me otherwise. So again, is there anything that you

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:05.799
<v Speaker 2>would like to tell me?

0:41:07.840 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Aiden had been calm before this moment, relaxed, but in

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:16.680
<v Speaker 1>a split second, his face rearranged into an expression. She

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 1>had never seen.

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:22.040
<v Speaker 2>This look on his face that has just seared into

0:41:22.080 --> 0:41:27.839
<v Speaker 2>my brain forever, a dearren headlight's look. He starts panicking.

0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:33.279
<v Speaker 1>She asked him one last time, did he do this?

0:41:33.880 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 2>And he said yes. I'm like, what do you mean,

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:41.960
<v Speaker 2>how could you do this to me? I have no

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:45.400
<v Speaker 2>idea who you are. And he was just so like,

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:48.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry. You mean everything to me. He's begging

0:41:48.800 --> 0:41:51.440
<v Speaker 2>me not to leave him, trying to make it better.

0:41:52.520 --> 0:41:56.720
<v Speaker 1>There was one question Leona wanted an answer to, why

0:41:56.719 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 1>did he do this? She couldn't understand the degrading, humiliating

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 1>messages about his own body.

0:42:04.440 --> 0:42:07.799
<v Speaker 2>He told her he has low self esteem, but he

0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 2>also enjoys being talked down to. This was his outlet.

0:42:12.719 --> 0:42:14.200
<v Speaker 2>He likes to be humiliated.

0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Then, Aiden told her he had an explanation for everything,

0:42:19.600 --> 0:42:20.839
<v Speaker 1>a medical issue.

0:42:21.160 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 2>He's pretty sure he has a brain injury and he

0:42:24.239 --> 0:42:27.960
<v Speaker 2>just can't control himself when it comes to that type

0:42:27.960 --> 0:42:30.279
<v Speaker 2>of stuff because his brain is messed up from this

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 2>deployment that he went on.

0:42:32.600 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Specifically, Aiden said he had a TBI, a traumatic brain injury.

0:42:37.840 --> 0:42:41.520
<v Speaker 1>He got it during combat in Afghanistan when an explosion

0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:45.040
<v Speaker 1>threw him against the side of a mountain. Leoner remembers

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:48.399
<v Speaker 1>the call from his commanding officer when it happened. How

0:42:48.440 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 1>worried she'd been, but this was the first time she

0:42:51.360 --> 0:42:55.560
<v Speaker 1>learned the accident had caused a TBI. Severe TBIs can

0:42:55.600 --> 0:43:00.000
<v Speaker 1>cause changes in personality, out of character, even inappropriate behavior.

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:03.959
<v Speaker 1>Aiden told Leona that his brain injury was the root

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:07.680
<v Speaker 1>of all of his behavioral issues, but this wasn't who

0:43:07.719 --> 0:43:08.520
<v Speaker 1>he really was.

0:43:09.080 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 2>He wanted to get help. I took some time over

0:43:13.280 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 2>the next few days to just leave me alone. I

0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 2>need to process all of this.

0:43:18.360 --> 0:43:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Leona felt pressure to make her marriage with Aiden.

0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:21.320
<v Speaker 2>Work.

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:24.840
<v Speaker 1>She had put all of her eggs into this basket.

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:28.239
<v Speaker 1>They had two young kids together, She didn't have her

0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:32.279
<v Speaker 1>own source of income and was completely dependent on him financially.

0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:36.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm really good at compartmentalizing things, and I was just

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:39.760
<v Speaker 2>grasping at every straw to like be okay.

0:43:40.719 --> 0:43:45.040
<v Speaker 1>While Aiden finished his deployment, she weighed her options. I

0:43:45.080 --> 0:43:48.799
<v Speaker 1>can't leave because this is my entire life. This is

0:43:48.880 --> 0:43:52.520
<v Speaker 1>my one job to make this work, and I can't

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:54.799
<v Speaker 1>even do that. So I'm going to double down and

0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:58.760
<v Speaker 1>do what I can. But when Aiden came home, nothing

0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 1>about their relationship with the same.

0:44:01.160 --> 0:44:03.520
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to be around him. I would sleep

0:44:03.560 --> 0:44:07.239
<v Speaker 2>in a different room. It felt like living with a stranger.

0:44:08.080 --> 0:44:10.839
<v Speaker 1>The only thing she could hold onto was the hope

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:14.960
<v Speaker 1>that Aiden's behavior really was stemming from a brain injury,

0:44:15.880 --> 0:44:19.799
<v Speaker 1>that this was a medical issue beyond his control. So

0:44:19.880 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 1>she asked Aiden to get a professional opinion.

0:44:22.520 --> 0:44:27.720
<v Speaker 2>And so we start down this path of getting these diagnoses.

0:44:28.600 --> 0:44:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Aiden went in for imaging and testing. When the results

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:35.560
<v Speaker 1>came back, they confirmed he had a traumatic brain injury

0:44:35.600 --> 0:44:41.040
<v Speaker 1>and PTSD. Leona began doing research about the diagnosis, and

0:44:41.160 --> 0:44:45.040
<v Speaker 1>some of the information she learned lined up with Aiden's explanation.

0:44:46.120 --> 0:44:51.800
<v Speaker 1>TBIs can lead to impulsivity, disinhibition, even inappropriate sexual behavior.

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:56.600
<v Speaker 2>The day he got his brain injury diagnosis, I was like, okay,

0:44:56.719 --> 0:45:00.160
<v Speaker 2>I can breathe. That's what this was. This It is

0:45:00.239 --> 0:45:02.719
<v Speaker 2>just how the military has shaped him, and this is

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:06.080
<v Speaker 2>not his fault. I put all of my weight on

0:45:06.120 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 2>that Eden.

0:45:07.960 --> 0:45:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Was medically retired from the military. Leoda felt like she

0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:14.200
<v Speaker 1>needed to be there for him. She'd made the vow

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:17.600
<v Speaker 1>in sickness and in health, and she clung to that,

0:45:18.480 --> 0:45:22.200
<v Speaker 1>but deep down she knew their relationship was broken.

0:45:22.840 --> 0:45:25.840
<v Speaker 2>I think in the underlying I was working on my

0:45:25.960 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 2>way out. I was preparing myself.

0:45:29.400 --> 0:45:32.400
<v Speaker 1>But while she was finding a way out, he starts

0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:38.160
<v Speaker 1>acting just super bizarre again. He became incredibly possessive about

0:45:38.160 --> 0:45:40.920
<v Speaker 1>his phone. When she asked him about it.

0:45:41.200 --> 0:45:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, just tell me if you're cheating on me,

0:45:43.920 --> 0:45:45.440
<v Speaker 2>and he looks at me dead in the eyes and

0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:47.279
<v Speaker 2>he goes, yes, I'm cheating on you.

0:45:47.920 --> 0:45:52.720
<v Speaker 1>The next chapter was tumultuous. Getting out of Aiden's grasp

0:45:53.080 --> 0:45:56.839
<v Speaker 1>was not a straightforward path, as is often the case

0:45:56.880 --> 0:45:58.800
<v Speaker 1>with abusive relationships.

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:02.680
<v Speaker 2>While you're going through this, you're just doing anything and

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:06.080
<v Speaker 2>everything to just survive, and you're just outside of your

0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:07.240
<v Speaker 2>body the entire time.

0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:11.120
<v Speaker 1>Leona feared leaving Aiden on his own with no one

0:46:11.160 --> 0:46:14.279
<v Speaker 1>to care for him. With his TBI, he was an

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:17.880
<v Speaker 1>expert at playing the victim of seeming so terrified of

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:21.640
<v Speaker 1>his own behavior that somehow she ended up trying to

0:46:21.719 --> 0:46:28.960
<v Speaker 1>protect him from himself. Leona would often sleep on the couch.

0:46:29.680 --> 0:46:32.240
<v Speaker 1>Then one night, after Leona fell.

0:46:32.000 --> 0:46:36.080
<v Speaker 2>Asleep, I woke up to him choking me, and I

0:46:36.200 --> 0:46:39.959
<v Speaker 2>remember just like getting him off of me, and he

0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:43.319
<v Speaker 2>gets down into the fetal position and starts crying, and

0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:45.920
<v Speaker 2>he was like, oh my god, I was asleep. I'm

0:46:45.960 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 2>so sorry.

0:46:48.160 --> 0:46:52.000
<v Speaker 1>She looked at Aiden sobbing on the ground. In that moment,

0:46:52.600 --> 0:46:55.520
<v Speaker 1>it became clear to her it didn't matter if he

0:46:55.640 --> 0:46:56.720
<v Speaker 1>was sick or hurt.

0:46:57.600 --> 0:46:59.239
<v Speaker 2>Either way, she.

0:46:59.360 --> 0:46:59.960
<v Speaker 1>Was in danger.

0:47:00.800 --> 0:47:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Would I want my children to stay in this situation.

0:47:04.280 --> 0:47:04.480
<v Speaker 3>No.

0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 2>So after that she.

0:47:06.719 --> 0:47:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Faced aident and she told him, I'm done with this.

0:47:11.160 --> 0:47:13.360
<v Speaker 2>You are not going to treat me like this. I

0:47:13.640 --> 0:47:15.680
<v Speaker 2>made the decision to leave, and I packed up all

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:18.520
<v Speaker 2>my stuff and my mom and my sister came to

0:47:18.640 --> 0:47:20.839
<v Speaker 2>get me in the middle of the night and get

0:47:20.880 --> 0:47:21.640
<v Speaker 2>the girls.

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:24.560
<v Speaker 1>When she was out of their house, the full weight

0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:27.880
<v Speaker 1>of the situation caught up with her. She was twenty

0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:30.799
<v Speaker 1>eight years old and had two young kids.

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:33.640
<v Speaker 2>I just went off the deep end, like I was

0:47:33.680 --> 0:47:37.799
<v Speaker 2>just so distraught. I didn't sleep for fifty hours after that.

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:41.400
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know what was up and what was down.

0:47:42.440 --> 0:47:46.880
<v Speaker 2>My life exploded in front of my face. What the

0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:48.000
<v Speaker 2>hell do I do next?

0:47:50.719 --> 0:47:52.600
<v Speaker 1>Leona decided to divorce aident.

0:47:53.200 --> 0:47:57.040
<v Speaker 2>We did an uncontested divorce. I agreed to anything and

0:47:57.120 --> 0:48:01.160
<v Speaker 2>everything to just get it done. Needed to just get

0:48:01.200 --> 0:48:04.080
<v Speaker 2>out of it alive. I was just concerned that it

0:48:04.160 --> 0:48:05.359
<v Speaker 2>was either going to be near him.

0:48:06.200 --> 0:48:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Then she hired an attorney to fight for custody of

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:09.959
<v Speaker 1>her daughters.

0:48:10.360 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 2>When I hired my attorney to hear her tell me

0:48:14.640 --> 0:48:18.520
<v Speaker 2>that I was an abuse victim. This was the first

0:48:18.520 --> 0:48:22.640
<v Speaker 2>time anyone had said that to me. I was just like,

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:28.319
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, this really was abuse. This was very

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.160
<v Speaker 2>serious what I went through, and I'm lucky to be alive.

0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Aiden's abuse severely impacted Leona's mental health. She struggled with

0:48:37.440 --> 0:48:41.239
<v Speaker 1>suicidality and it was a long road to regain stability.

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:44.200
<v Speaker 2>I just like had to pull up my bootstraps and

0:48:44.280 --> 0:48:47.080
<v Speaker 2>be able to afford to take care of my children.

0:48:47.920 --> 0:48:50.040
<v Speaker 1>Aiden's abuse extended beyond Leona.

0:48:50.680 --> 0:48:53.120
<v Speaker 2>Her sister was very much a victim of his two

0:48:53.880 --> 0:48:56.319
<v Speaker 2>I still struggle with that guilt to this day of like,

0:48:56.960 --> 0:49:00.399
<v Speaker 2>I brought this person into our world that my family level.

0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:03.680
<v Speaker 2>I brought this person into our life and he caused

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:06.040
<v Speaker 2>so much turbulence.

0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Leona's sister endured abuse and harassment at the hands of Aiden,

0:49:12.120 --> 0:49:15.560
<v Speaker 1>starting when she was a minor. His abuse has had

0:49:15.719 --> 0:49:21.000
<v Speaker 1>lasting impacts on their relationship as sisters. Growing up, Leona

0:49:21.040 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 1>and her sister were close, but now we.

0:49:25.160 --> 0:49:30.160
<v Speaker 2>Have a very strained relationship. We've had conversations about it

0:49:30.200 --> 0:49:32.920
<v Speaker 2>that have been very tearful. I would love for it

0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 2>to be resolved, and I know she would too. But

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 2>we're just completely different because of this. You know, we

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:40.600
<v Speaker 2>were essentially abused by the same person.

0:49:41.360 --> 0:49:44.840
<v Speaker 1>As far as Leona knows, Aiden really did have a TBI,

0:49:45.520 --> 0:49:48.839
<v Speaker 1>but the incident that caused it happened after he had

0:49:48.880 --> 0:49:52.759
<v Speaker 1>already started his online harassment, and he never mentioned the

0:49:52.800 --> 0:49:56.640
<v Speaker 1>impact the TBI had on his behavior until he was caught.

0:49:58.400 --> 0:49:59.600
<v Speaker 2>This betrayal is recent.

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:03.640
<v Speaker 1>As of today, Aiden has not been charged with any crimes.

0:50:04.400 --> 0:50:08.440
<v Speaker 1>Their daughters live with Leona nearly full time, but Aiden

0:50:08.560 --> 0:50:12.719
<v Speaker 1>still sees them some weekends. Leona is still fighting for

0:50:12.760 --> 0:50:16.239
<v Speaker 1>full custody of her daughters, and she plans to tell

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:19.760
<v Speaker 1>the court the full story of Aidan's harassment and abuse.

0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:24.440
<v Speaker 2>I will make sure my children are raised in a

0:50:24.440 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 2>way that they will not be abused this way, but

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:30.879
<v Speaker 2>it's hard to do when they still have to have

0:50:31.000 --> 0:50:34.719
<v Speaker 2>communication with their dad. I give them the pieces to

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:38.200
<v Speaker 2>be able to recognize when things are not right. I

0:50:38.239 --> 0:50:40.600
<v Speaker 2>can't ever get away from it as much as I

0:50:40.640 --> 0:50:43.239
<v Speaker 2>would like to, but now how I handle him is

0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:49.600
<v Speaker 2>much different. She's slower to trust others. I really have

0:50:49.640 --> 0:50:54.240
<v Speaker 2>trouble giving my full trust to anybody, having to remind

0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:56.600
<v Speaker 2>myself that not every single person is out here to

0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.800
<v Speaker 2>try to take advantage of me learning to trust yourself,

0:51:00.360 --> 0:51:02.960
<v Speaker 2>as well as a completely different piece of this puzzle

0:51:03.000 --> 0:51:05.120
<v Speaker 2>that I still haven't figured out.

0:51:06.960 --> 0:51:11.120
<v Speaker 1>She has fought hard for her independence, instability. She savors

0:51:11.120 --> 0:51:12.040
<v Speaker 1>the life she's built.

0:51:12.719 --> 0:51:17.080
<v Speaker 2>I learned how to be grateful for the little things

0:51:18.160 --> 0:51:21.279
<v Speaker 2>like curling up in bed next to my children while

0:51:21.280 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 2>we're reading, the time that I spend with the people

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:28.359
<v Speaker 2>around me. Those moments hit way harder and I'm not

0:51:28.440 --> 0:51:30.280
<v Speaker 2>just blasting through life trying to survive.

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:37.359
<v Speaker 1>We end every weekly episode with the same question, why

0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:38.720
<v Speaker 1>do you want to share your story?

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<v Speaker 2>Because this podcast changed the view that I had with

0:51:44.840 --> 0:51:47.960
<v Speaker 2>what I was going through, and it finally got me

0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:51.560
<v Speaker 2>to the point where I felt healed enough and came

0:51:51.600 --> 0:51:55.520
<v Speaker 2>out the other end. It feels like a poison when

0:51:55.600 --> 0:51:58.759
<v Speaker 2>you are not talking about it. The more you talk

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:03.239
<v Speaker 2>about it, the better it gets.

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<v Speaker 1>On the next episode of Betrayal Weekly.

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying, wailing, sobbing. I didn't think that he

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<v Speaker 3>could take anything else from me, but I was wrong.

0:52:16.040 --> 0:52:19.880
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<v Speaker 1>from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever

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<v Speaker 1>you get your podcasts