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Speaker 1: This is the Daily Show with your host, Leslie Jones.
Speaker 1: What you what do the Day Show? I'm Lee Jones
Speaker 1: and this is my last night making this that's my batch.
Speaker 1: So let's get let's get to these headlines. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: you guys, who in here is excited about Rihanna at
Speaker 1: the super Bowl? I don't know. Yes, everybody. Everybody's excited.
Speaker 1: Everybody's excited, well almost everybody. Sports canst Stephenie Smith laurens
Speaker 1: the hard way, you better watch what you say about Rihanna. Yah.
Speaker 1: Members of the Rihanna Navy is they've known, have been
Speaker 1: gunning for him all day long. Following his appearance on
Speaker 1: The Sherry Shepherd Show. Take a listen. Are you excited
Speaker 1: for this halftime show? I don't want to say I'm
Speaker 1: not excited. She's fantastic. There's one thing she's not. She
Speaker 1: ain't Beyonce. I know she's not to wait a minute,
Speaker 1: molda molda dude, No, why would you do this to yourself?
Speaker 1: You know what, stephen A Smith, you need to act
Speaker 1: like your hairline and back the hat. Now, the good
Speaker 1: news is that he did apologize. The bad news is
Speaker 1: his apology Orihanna to know you're a superstar, your sensational
Speaker 1: and you are a worthy person to be doing the
Speaker 1: super Bowl halftime show. I apologize for creating whatever bru
Speaker 1: ha ha comes up this. I gotta be more careful
Speaker 1: where people twisted and turn it into something. It ain't
Speaker 1: my bad on that. Now, I gotta go. Good luck's
Speaker 1: when you're looking forward to seeing you perform? Oh, how
Speaker 1: dare you call Rihanna suite? Ain't you're calling her sweetie
Speaker 1: like you know her. She don't know you, but you
Speaker 1: know who she does. Now be I needs on one
Speaker 1: of these ladies. Need your opinion, sweetie? Why are you
Speaker 1: trying to save your life in the back of that
Speaker 1: dark ass bus? All right, let's move on now. Everybody
Speaker 1: this year is the Daily Show. So I know that
Speaker 1: there's some people out there thinking, is she ever gonna
Speaker 1: talk about policy or is she gonna spend all weeks
Speaker 1: saying pussy, pussy, pussy. Well, don't worry. I take my
Speaker 1: job seriously. Um, you want me to talk about the
Speaker 1: debt ceiling, I will talk about the debt ceiling. So
Speaker 1: the debt seiling is kind of like America. It's pussy
Speaker 1: four pussies in a row. I love it, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'll let the news explain it. Breaking news from Washington,
Speaker 1: d C. The US has hit the national dead limit.
Speaker 1: Once the US hits the upper limit of what it
Speaker 1: can legally borrow to run the government, the Treasury Department
Speaker 1: now starts juggling with so called extraordinary measures, deferring investments
Speaker 1: into important retirement funds. For example, for public servants, various
Speaker 1: accounting moves can buy sometimes and keep the bills paid
Speaker 1: until maybe June. Damn, America is broke as hell, Amica.
Speaker 1: It's so broke the government might have to resort to
Speaker 1: extraordinary measures like texting the rich or not going to
Speaker 1: war all the time. Crazy ship like that. Want But
Speaker 1: here's my question, what is the money going? We don't
Speaker 1: have anything to show for it. We got homeless crisis,
Speaker 1: we got medical bills. Where is the money going? You
Speaker 1: know what? Exactly? Please please tell me that Biden has
Speaker 1: spent it on developing a black panther suit. Now I'm
Speaker 1: still a little lost with this debt ceiling crisis. But
Speaker 1: lucky for me, I know someone who can help me
Speaker 1: explain it. Y'all give it up for Dad's a lot
Speaker 1: of all, Right, Leslie, I got you. Okay. Now, the
Speaker 1: debt ceiling might seem complicated, but let's think about it
Speaker 1: like this. Say you've open to change Sapphire card with
Speaker 1: the ten dollar limit and you've maxed it out on
Speaker 1: I don't know, Gucci handbags and laser facials. Then you
Speaker 1: get screwed because you have to pay for your kids
Speaker 1: new glasses because his dumb teacher says he's having trouble
Speaker 1: reading in class. And when you can't get that teacher fired,
Speaker 1: you have to get the bank to raise your credit
Speaker 1: limit or else your husband will find out. And you
Speaker 1: promised him that you were done stealing credit card numbers.
Speaker 1: And that is pretty much the situation America's in. Oh
Speaker 1: did that happen to you? Oh? That These are just examples.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying America is in a bit of financial trouble,
Speaker 1: and you do not want to get into deep. You know.
Speaker 1: It's kind of like how we all have gambling debt.
Speaker 1: I don't have. Oh no, I I don't either. I
Speaker 1: don't neither. But let's just say hypothetically that I owed
Speaker 1: a lot of money to the Russian mob because I
Speaker 1: was convinced that this was the season the Knicks were
Speaker 1: going to turn it around. Dazzy, everybody knows the Knicks
Speaker 1: will never turn it around. Well, yeah, that's obvious now.
Speaker 1: But the point is sometimes you need to find more
Speaker 1: money and fast, just like America does. And until then,
Speaker 1: America will have to find ways to pay the bills,
Speaker 1: like selling one of its kidneys or begging for Venmo donations.
Speaker 1: Good look, look, it's okay. I don't want anyone to stress,
Speaker 1: because if it doesn't work, America can always get out
Speaker 1: of debt by running to Mexico and changing its name.
Speaker 1: The one thing you want to think about is you
Speaker 1: don't want the name to be too similar, Like you
Speaker 1: can't go from Anastasia to Anna Maria. You can only
Speaker 1: go from Anastasia to Dasi. Is that what you did?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. No, of course not. No.
Speaker 1: Anastasia is dead. Yeah, she died in a horrific car
Speaker 1: fire and her remains were too charred to be identified. Daisy,
Speaker 1: If you need money, you're not gonna help you, right, oh, Leslie,
Speaker 1: think that that really? That means a lot. But no, No,
Speaker 1: I would never beg you for money on a show
Speaker 1: that the I r S watches, And if I did
Speaker 1: do that, it certainly wouldn't be for this amount. Damn.
Speaker 1: Then she's got what you all? This was money? What
Speaker 1: you do? No, No, I'm not that wasteful. But maybe
Speaker 1: you can spot me just a little bit so I
Speaker 1: don't get my pinkies broken again. Okay, look, look, look, Daisy,
Speaker 1: I can pay a little bit of this, but you
Speaker 1: gotta promise me that you do not gamble it. I see,
Speaker 1: I promise you I will not gamble it away. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Okay, I'm putting it on the giants this weekend.
Speaker 1: That's not a gamble. That is a lot. That is
Speaker 1: a lot. Oh man, man, I'm hot, man, don't give
Speaker 1: it up from dass. Let's talking about let me go back.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talking to the cover. So don't go away. Girl,
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about you know that. I'll lug bitches
Speaker 1: all the time. We go back turn the day that show,
Speaker 1: let's sen I watched the news for three reasons, weather, traffic,
Speaker 1: and Michael Straighthand's sexy ass mouth. Mum, you gotta blur
Speaker 1: that out, you can't show that sexy hole on TV.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm trying to run a TV show. Man
Speaker 1: set that. But every time I turn on the news,
Speaker 1: there's one thing I see more than anything, men losing
Speaker 1: their ship. Another shocking incident on a plane as two
Speaker 1: passengers duke it out right before takeoff. A man went
Speaker 1: on a bottle breaking impage. Store workers say a customer
Speaker 1: gud I rate when they refused to sell him liquor
Speaker 1: at a discount. It's a shocking road rage incident going viral.
Speaker 1: These two knuckleheads are fighting like medieval knights in battle.
Speaker 1: Why does every guy think if he gets a sword
Speaker 1: in his hand, he's gonna automatically be Steven Seagal, But
Speaker 1: when he actually gets it in his hand, he's like
Speaker 1: Jerry Lewis, I'm gonna a bad night. It's crazy, though,
Speaker 1: this stuff is happening all the time. Every night on
Speaker 1: the news, Let's the hold has to shout wild Star,
Speaker 1: and it's all because of men who can't control their anger. Man,
Speaker 1: why are you so mad? You need the cop y'all
Speaker 1: as down, But since you can't do it yourselves, I
Speaker 1: decide I'm gonna help you calm down into Night's installment
Speaker 1: of Long Story Short. Now we know that women are
Speaker 1: going through it, but we have to acknowledge that men
Speaker 1: are going through it too. You guys are angry, you're depressed,
Speaker 1: and you're lonely. In fact, of men say they have
Speaker 1: zero zero friends, and the other they don't have friends either,
Speaker 1: but they was too sad to fill out the surveyor
Speaker 1: no friends. I mean, women got our problems, but we
Speaker 1: always have some home girls. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You got them, you know, but me and they have nobody.
Speaker 1: So what do they do. They take all of those
Speaker 1: emotions and they bottle that ship up and then they
Speaker 1: throw that bottle at the cashier. Now, luckily there's a
Speaker 1: tool that can help you with all of this Falliby
Speaker 1: therapy is amazing. You pay someone to unload all your
Speaker 1: bullshit on them. They're like prostitutes for the feelings. The
Speaker 1: problem is men don't use it. In fact, they're almost
Speaker 1: half as likely to go to therapy as women. Men
Speaker 1: out here treating therapy like Nick Cannon treats condoms. They're
Speaker 1: here to help you, Nick, Why won't you use them?
Speaker 1: God damn it, God damn that. The question is why
Speaker 1: won't you men go to therapy? And I think the
Speaker 1: same reason you won't eat a popsicle in front of anybody,
Speaker 1: because you're scared they'll think you a little bitch. Therapy
Speaker 1: works for women, but it does not work for men.
Speaker 1: Sitting around talking about your feelings isn't gonna do it
Speaker 1: for you. How you feel, Go to the gym, lift heavyweights.
Speaker 1: Be a man. Therapy is no action. Therapy is sitting
Speaker 1: and crying and complaining. If you feel depressed, you go
Speaker 1: to the gym. You do something, you don't sit and
Speaker 1: cry about it. Andrew Tape, why don't you just arrested
Speaker 1: for selling bitches? If anybody needs therapy, is this neck
Speaker 1: and ass hot dog? And let's this be a man ship?
Speaker 1: What do you think being a man is? Because it's
Speaker 1: not what women think it is. Being a man means
Speaker 1: taking care of your mental health just as much as
Speaker 1: you take care of your physical health. Okay, these dudes
Speaker 1: will use everything else for therapy except actual therapy. They're like,
Speaker 1: running is my therapy. No, running is running. Therapy needs
Speaker 1: to be your therapy. Everyone, I mean, everyone I know
Speaker 1: who does a marathon is stuck. If they were at peace,
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be running until they pissed themselves. And I'm
Speaker 1: saying they'll be at all watch the next looks like
Speaker 1: everybody else. But we know, I mean, is this way
Speaker 1: because starting from a young age, we cheats them that
Speaker 1: they can't have feelings. We were taught at a really
Speaker 1: young age. Don't cry. I have no fear when you cry,
Speaker 1: does it make you feel like a failure? Oh there's that.
Speaker 1: That's a sense of sitting there going why am I crying?
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be crying? Up. There was this one time
Speaker 1: I was with my friend. He just looked at me
Speaker 1: started crying. He just said, I think I just need
Speaker 1: a hug, and I hugged him. And afterwards we both
Speaker 1: looked at each other and we're like, we're you never
Speaker 1: going to say anything to anyone that's sad? Y'all see that?
Speaker 1: Not see what y'all men I teaching these young boys.
Speaker 1: But you know what, you know what I need to
Speaker 1: men the hug right now? Get right? Yeah? Who this
Speaker 1: that makes me feel like I got power, But but
Speaker 1: I hug. That's what men to keep private. But y'all,
Speaker 1: air dropped your dick pics to a stranger on the subway.
Speaker 1: Why but look, if men's issues only affected themselves, I
Speaker 1: stay the hell out their business. But the problem here
Speaker 1: is that men not going to therapy is affecting women. Okay,
Speaker 1: Depressed men are more likely to commit domestic violence, They're
Speaker 1: more likely to commit abuse. Plus, instead of going to
Speaker 1: the therapists, they're using dates like therapy. Yeah, yeah, every
Speaker 1: woman in here knows what I'm talking about. Some dude
Speaker 1: you just met on tender telling you about how his
Speaker 1: dad loves his brother Moore, Well, give me your brother's number,
Speaker 1: then maybe I like him better too, because this is
Speaker 1: not making me horny. You definitely should talk to someone,
Speaker 1: but a professional, not me. And what's messed up is,
Speaker 1: even if the day goes well, guess what, men with
Speaker 1: depression are twice as likely to have problems with they did.
Speaker 1: We shouldn't be a surprised. If you're depressed, your dick
Speaker 1: is gonna be sad too. If you if you're walking
Speaker 1: around miserable, your dick is also gonna be like Swing
Speaker 1: Sweet Chairy on Nobody and knows the trouble I've seen.
Speaker 1: If you like those songs, you can check out my
Speaker 1: playlist Sad Dick on Spotify so long story short man,
Speaker 1: go to please. It's okay, all right, stay tuned because
Speaker 1: and Shay and we don't see what he thinks about
Speaker 1: all of this. We'll be right back. Welcome back to
Speaker 1: the Dame Me Show. My guest today is a radio
Speaker 1: legend and author and leading voice and mental health discussion.
Speaker 1: You know him from the Breakfast Club on the I
Speaker 1: Heart Radio. Please welcome Charlemagne go God said, what's happening?
Speaker 1: What's happening? What's happening? Ye what I'm leveling. Man. We
Speaker 1: have never got to actually meet. We didn't been in
Speaker 1: the same place as when the cross paths we said
Speaker 1: hid to each other. Back Bay's baby. I'm so glad
Speaker 1: to finally get to talk to you. You look very
Speaker 1: at home here. Well, thank you, man, Absolutely absolutely, I'm trying.
Speaker 1: I'm trying, and I must say having a depressed Dick
Speaker 1: playlist is nice. Jesus can play it on your show.
Speaker 1: It's the question, Well, it'd be soft and subtle. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: let's just get into it now. I want you to
Speaker 1: explain to me why do you think men are so
Speaker 1: scared of their me? Oh? Man, I think it's societal
Speaker 1: you know. For me, it came from like my father,
Speaker 1: because my father he went to therapy two and three
Speaker 1: times a week. And my father, you know, he was
Speaker 1: on like ten to twelve different medications for his mental
Speaker 1: health issues, but he never told me that. I didn't
Speaker 1: find that out until November of two thousand and eighteen,
Speaker 1: after I wrote a book about it, and after I
Speaker 1: started discussing my own issues, and I remember asking my mom, like, Mom,
Speaker 1: you know Dad was going through all of that, and
Speaker 1: she said, I thought he was playing crazy to get
Speaker 1: a check, because that's what the that's what they did
Speaker 1: in the state of South Carolina. They just would give
Speaker 1: him a check because they couldn't figure out, you know,
Speaker 1: anything else that he was going through. And I think
Speaker 1: about it, I'm like, damn, I was dealing with anxiety
Speaker 1: my whole life. I was dealing with, you know, about
Speaker 1: the depression. If he would have if he would have
Speaker 1: told me that, you know, back then, then I would
Speaker 1: have had the tools much much earlier. But what I
Speaker 1: do is uh, And I learned this for my therapist.
Speaker 1: You gotta give your parents grace, and you gotta give
Speaker 1: your parents grace. You you got to give them grace
Speaker 1: because they were doing the best they could with what
Speaker 1: they had, Like we take for granted that where the
Speaker 1: first generation that has the luxury of healing, you know,
Speaker 1: that generation, they was really scratching and surviving on some
Speaker 1: good time stuff, you know what I mean. Absolutely. I
Speaker 1: think about it all the time that my parents were
Speaker 1: in their twenties and thirties raising two kids, and I
Speaker 1: think about my twenties and thirties thing. God, if there
Speaker 1: was no children involved. That was the reaction when you
Speaker 1: started talking about this type of stuff. Did you get
Speaker 1: a bad reaction? Did you get a positive reaction? Well,
Speaker 1: like a lot of things that come out of my mouth,
Speaker 1: I wasn't really caring about what people thought. Um So
Speaker 1: I was really just having these conversations because it was
Speaker 1: almost like it was a cry for help, you know,
Speaker 1: because I can't get on the radio and you know,
Speaker 1: discuss what everybody else is going through and not discuss
Speaker 1: what I'm going through. You know. And I've always been
Speaker 1: transparent about my life, but I think, you know, going
Speaker 1: to therapy made me more vulnerable. So I was flirting
Speaker 1: with the idea for a while. So I'd be having
Speaker 1: conversations with a lot of people around me, you know,
Speaker 1: like you know, I gotta give credit to people like
Speaker 1: you know, a man the Seals and Neil Brennan, Pete Davidson, Like,
Speaker 1: even though Pete's younger than me, he was somebody that's
Speaker 1: been going to therapy for a long time. And just
Speaker 1: like having conversations with those Why is that funny, Christ
Speaker 1: We should be applauding, But it's just like, you know,
Speaker 1: having conversations with those individuals about things that I thought
Speaker 1: were normal, you know, because it took a long time
Speaker 1: for me to realize that your anxiety is not normal.
Speaker 1: You know, these these these bouts to depression are normal.
Speaker 1: A lot of times we think we can just you know,
Speaker 1: write anxiety off to being in a better position in life.
Speaker 1: That was my my case because I was dealing with
Speaker 1: panic attacks my whole life. And then the fourth time
Speaker 1: I got fired from radio, when I was back at
Speaker 1: home living with my mom at like thirty one, thirty
Speaker 1: two years old, with like a two year old daughter,
Speaker 1: and my now wife was back at home living with
Speaker 1: her parents in Moss Corner, South Carolina, I remember having
Speaker 1: like one of those panic attacks where you couldn't tell
Speaker 1: me I was not about to die, Like it was
Speaker 1: the French Standford, Oh, I'm coming to join your lizable
Speaker 1: like you. I thought, like I thought it was over.
Speaker 1: And so I went to the doctor like I usually doing.
Speaker 1: The doctor told me I got an athlete's hard. You said,
Speaker 1: your heart is fine. He was the first person to
Speaker 1: ever say to me, yo, do you do you deal
Speaker 1: with anxiety? It sounds like what you're describing was an
Speaker 1: anxiety attack. And so he was like, are you stretched
Speaker 1: out about anything? And I'm like, hell yeah, So in
Speaker 1: my mind, as long as I give me another gig
Speaker 1: and get back in position to get out of my
Speaker 1: mama house, I'll be I right. Next year I got
Speaker 1: with the Breakfast Club. So you know, three or four
Speaker 1: years later, I got more success, more money than I've
Speaker 1: ever experienced. But nothing has changed. Nothing has changed. Anxiety
Speaker 1: might even be worse, the depression might even be worse.
Speaker 1: And I really just was looking in the mirror, not
Speaker 1: liking who I was becoming. And listen, I love I
Speaker 1: love my father, you know, I mean I love him
Speaker 1: to death. But I saw myself turning into him. And
Speaker 1: I saw myself, you know, really indulging in the drugs
Speaker 1: and really indulgent in the alcohol, and really indulgent in
Speaker 1: you know, other women and not treating my my my,
Speaker 1: my woman the way I needed to. And I was
Speaker 1: like yo for somebody that I thought I reason inted
Speaker 1: because of how I saw him and treat my mom.
Speaker 1: Do you think that that's why black men don't talk
Speaker 1: about therapy too, because they feel like they're snitching on themselves?
Speaker 1: You know, I think we just don't be having the tools,
Speaker 1: we don't be having the resources. I think we have
Speaker 1: it now because we're having more conversations about it. You know,
Speaker 1: like I said, I would have never known anything about it.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have known anything. I would have known about
Speaker 1: it if my dad would have told me way way, way,
Speaker 1: way way back when. But I think, you know, man,
Speaker 1: come on, I'm forty four years old. I grew up
Speaker 1: in the era where you had to be hardcore. Like literally,
Speaker 1: there was a term like hardcore. Like we didn't show
Speaker 1: no emotion. You know, we couldn't cry, We couldn't tell
Speaker 1: anybody we were sad. Sad you better go get a job,
Speaker 1: sad you better, you better go play outside? Why are
Speaker 1: you sad? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you live in your breathe
Speaker 1: that's right, Yeah, that's right. So so let me tell you.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you, how do you deal with the
Speaker 1: panic attacks? You wrote a whole book about it, so,
Speaker 1: I mean, because that can help women just as much
Speaker 1: as men. How do you deal with panic attacks? How
Speaker 1: do you? You know, is that breathing exercises and this
Speaker 1: something that you do well. I got a new therapist now,
Speaker 1: and my my new therapist told me something that's really interesting.
Speaker 1: You know. He said, uh, he said, faith and anxiety
Speaker 1: can't coexist. So whenever you have those panic attacks, whenever
Speaker 1: you have those anxiety attacks, you gotta tell yourself your
Speaker 1: own hero story. And I know it may sound arrogant,
Speaker 1: but no, you really got to tell yourself how far
Speaker 1: you've came. You know, you have to tell yourself you
Speaker 1: know what you've overcome. You know, you have to talk
Speaker 1: about the good things that you know you you do
Speaker 1: for yourself, the good things you do for people. And
Speaker 1: I think that's something that we don't do enough. We
Speaker 1: don't tell ourselves our own hero story. So much of
Speaker 1: us to getting on social media, waiting for a bunch
Speaker 1: of strangers that we don't even know to validate us
Speaker 1: through likes and retweets and everything else. You know, So
Speaker 1: it's like yow. How often do you how often do
Speaker 1: you wake up and look in the mirror and really
Speaker 1: just tell yourself your own hero story? You know sometimes
Speaker 1: we laugh at Catlis, but Catlis right when he said, yo,
Speaker 1: sometimes you got to look at it like you're you're smart,
Speaker 1: you know, you're beautiful. You know I do it too much,
Speaker 1: But I get I agree with you. I agree with
Speaker 1: you on that he might do it too much. But
Speaker 1: maybe we have to have a DJ Khalid level of annoyance. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: I get, in order to encourage each other. You know,
Speaker 1: Mary and Black had a song called good Morning Garden,
Speaker 1: Good Morning Guard. Yeah, sometimes you gotta wake up in
Speaker 1: the morning and do that for yourself. I agree. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you really gotta look at yourself and say, hey, I
Speaker 1: live with myself. You gotta like yourself. That's all day,
Speaker 1: all that, when you go to sleep, up, when you ship,
Speaker 1: when you brush your teeth right, that's right yourself. That's
Speaker 1: like tell yourself your own hero story for all your
Speaker 1: brothers out there with the press, dick, you know, look
Speaker 1: in the mirror, look in the mirror and talk to
Speaker 1: your penis about the good time. That's what I was
Speaker 1: gonna do you think, do you think therapy like improves
Speaker 1: you as a sexual partner. I mean, please say yes
Speaker 1: so they can go to therapy. Please, Yes, it does,
Speaker 1: but it really, it really does, because it makes you
Speaker 1: more vulnerable, you know what I'm saying. And I think
Speaker 1: that it makes you more It makes you more intimate,
Speaker 1: you know, And I think that you start approaching you know, sex,
Speaker 1: not just from a physical aspect, from a mental and
Speaker 1: the spiritual aspect, you know what I mean. There's a
Speaker 1: great song by Dead Press. It's an old it's an
Speaker 1: old school song. Damn, I can't believe I said it's
Speaker 1: old school. But but but it's called mind sex. And
Speaker 1: it's true, you know what I mean, Like everything is mental,
Speaker 1: it all starts here. So it is gonna make you
Speaker 1: know what happens in the bedroom better. See, I just
Speaker 1: told my penis my own hero story. I might be
Speaker 1: dealing I might be dealing with the rector just so,
Speaker 1: and I just told my penis my own hero story.
Speaker 1: And right, that's right. So what would you say right now?
Speaker 1: What would be the thing that you say right now
Speaker 1: to tell men to go to therapy? What would be
Speaker 1: your inspirational like, what would you say to all the
Speaker 1: men right now I would say the life you save
Speaker 1: maybe your own, because you know, I saw what you
Speaker 1: were saying about you know, men and being violent, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that we do a lot of projecting, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I think that we haven't dealt
Speaker 1: with our pain, we haven't dealt with our hurt, and
Speaker 1: so we end up projecting that pain and that hurt
Speaker 1: on the other people, you know, and and and therapy
Speaker 1: is really just one part of it. I got a
Speaker 1: good friend, I got to salute her man. Her name
Speaker 1: is Debbie Brown, and um, deVie always told me that
Speaker 1: your therapy will give you the language, and it will
Speaker 1: give you an understanding of what you're going through, but
Speaker 1: you actually have to go out and do things that
Speaker 1: help you heal, you know, because it's one thing to
Speaker 1: be able to talk about it, but what are you
Speaker 1: doing to actually heal what you're dealing with? So if
Speaker 1: we don't actually deal with our issues and actually seek
Speaker 1: some healing, we're just gonna keep projecting that pain and
Speaker 1: hurt on other people a more. I'm so proud of
Speaker 1: you right now. All right, we're gonna take a prayer,
Speaker 1: but we all things like that. After this boy like
Speaker 1: we has well that's got Shan for tonight, and that's
Speaker 1: it for me this week. I had a great time.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys for laughing at my jokes and making
Speaker 1: me feel so welcome. If you miss me, thank you
Speaker 1: so much. If you miss me, you can listen to
Speaker 1: my podcast called with Leslie Jones and Lennie Marcus and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on tour soon, so if you want
Speaker 1: to find dates, they're on my Instagram. Check them out.
Speaker 1: But make sure that you'll stick around because next week
Speaker 1: your host is gonna be Wonder Sukes. Yes, this has
Speaker 1: been a Comedy Central podcast