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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to apologize for

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Speaker 1: history of mental illness? Quo so throwaway, no mayanol, says

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Speaker 1: my sixty female son in law forty three male and

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Speaker 1: daughter forty three female had a very ugly divorce that

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Speaker 1: has resulted in their kids eighteen male, fifteen female, ten

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Speaker 1: male no longer speaking to their dad, and my ex

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Speaker 1: sister in law's side of the family no longer speaking

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Speaker 1: to us, and refusing to attend any holiday or birthday

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Speaker 1: event for the grandkids if we are involved in any way.

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Speaker 1: My son in law spent time in jail for screaming

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Speaker 1: at the judge handling the divorce case, calling him a

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Speaker 1: peat of human trash and enabler of deception, and bragging

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Speaker 1: about writing rants about the judgement.

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Speaker 2: That is, that's one way to get a terrible sentence.

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Speaker 1: My daughter was diagnosed with schizophrenia a few years into

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Speaker 1: her marriage. Now her ex demands that my husband and

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Speaker 1: I apologize and pay him damages because he claims we

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Speaker 1: should have told him before the wedding twenty two and

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Speaker 1: a half years ago that our family has a history

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Speaker 1: of mental illness.

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Speaker 3: Insane, that like you are married for someone so long

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Speaker 3: and then they.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you should that. I do think that

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Speaker 1: partners should disclose medical information, But how is that the

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Speaker 1: parent's fault.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's more on her for not

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Speaker 2: unless she didn't know. Yeah, that's what I wonder too. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe we need more information.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I don't think it's I don't think either

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Speaker 1: she's at faults. I think it is a good idea

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Speaker 1: to share medical relevant medical information and like saying my

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Speaker 1: family has a history of this because you know, checking

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Speaker 1: in that was good.

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Speaker 2: Rater says, what happened to sickness and in health? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: also like like I feel it was schizophrenia. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 2: there are medications and stuff that you can, you know,

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Speaker 2: use to get under I'm under control.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't think she I don't think

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Speaker 1: at false. I think it's just like smart to disclose

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Speaker 1: that information. But I don't think it's like a whole

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Speaker 1: My daughter did not show symptoms. My mom, who was

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Speaker 1: already deceased at the time, had schizophrenia. A few relatives

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Speaker 1: in the generation before her also may have had it,

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Speaker 1: but they were in a time where it was hushed up.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I did not have any mental health issues.

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Speaker 1: My daughter gets married and a few years into it,

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Speaker 1: she shows symptoms and gets diagnosed with schizophrenia. Her ex

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Speaker 1: knew this and continued to be married to her and

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Speaker 1: signing up for fatherhood with her. So why is he complaining?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so he he found out.

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Speaker 1: He found out five years in tune.

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Speaker 3: And stayed continued married for twenty two and a half years.

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Speaker 3: According to what he said earlier, Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: My daughter found it hard to keep employment and was

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Speaker 1: stifled in her marriage. He filed for divorce and only

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Speaker 1: then did her mental health become an issue with prex

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Speaker 1: he posted rance.

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Speaker 5: What is he?

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Speaker 1: Why is he posting all these frants that he wanted

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Speaker 1: an annulment because he was lied to and he wouldn't

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Speaker 1: have married her if he knew she was going to

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Speaker 1: be insane?

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Speaker 2: Are they posting rants?

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Speaker 1: He's posting red? I think, like Facebook, this is a

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Speaker 2: Also, also, yes, lithium is for bipolar. There's anti psychotic

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Speaker 2: meds for uh schizophrenia. I should know that. I literally

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Speaker 2: just listen to a podcast about it.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 2: I know, I asked for I listened to a podcast

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Speaker 1: Podcasts are pretty good sources of information.

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Speaker 2: I think it's I think like if I listened to

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Speaker 2: ten podcasts about a subject, I know more than a PhD.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I if I read a document about

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Speaker 1: I think I remember information when it I retain it

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Speaker 2: If you've listened to every episode of the show, you

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Speaker 4: Facts, And that's.

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Speaker 3: A fact about the therapists that went through school and

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Speaker 2: How about the School of Life Riley.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm just saying, like, you're not taking me mad,

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Speaker 4: What do you think they think?

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Speaker 2: Well, I think they should. They should watch the show

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Speaker 1: Yeah cool, there you have it. But I was going

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Speaker 1: to say that there's no way that this man could ever.

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Speaker 1: You can't get an annulmen after twenty two and a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how it works. That's yeah, it's like after

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Speaker 2: like a year, what off that happened, you quickly break.

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Speaker 4: Down what an omen is for the people.

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Speaker 4: I know what an omen is, do it?

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Speaker 2: Do it.

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Speaker 3: An annoyment is basically like like like an instant instant

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Speaker 3: We're able to kind of like quickly. It's not like

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Speaker 4: For like you.

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Speaker 1: Basically saying that all right, you got it, you got it,

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Speaker 4: I blacked out the screen.

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Speaker 1: It's saying that the marriage isn't valid. So like a

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Speaker 1: this marriage, whereas an annoyment is saying inherent like there

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Speaker 4: Not actually realized immediately this is wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you can get like Vegas and marriage is

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Speaker 2: annulled because I was drunk and it was actually didn't come.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what happens to Vegas days, Max, that's true marriage.

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Speaker 4: We're going to Vegas this weekend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Where was Yeah? Where was our talk to him? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Actually, because we were all like, oh, we're going to Vegas.

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Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, what.

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Speaker 2: When April invited me camping? I invited both of you nerds?

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Speaker 1: Wow, well, no whatever, I don't even want to go.

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Speaker 1: It's not like I've never been to Las Vegas.

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Speaker 1: We have a birthday party to host.

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Speaker 2: The judge implied, zoomzoom on, John, there we go.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, I skipped ed a lawyer friend told him

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Speaker 1: he did know. Oh he did know for years about

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Speaker 1: very rarely grants them, very few lawyers do them. The

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Speaker 1: ruled for alimony that had the potential to be renewed indefinitely.

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Speaker 1: Since this is a long term marriage by California standards,

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Speaker 3: So I think what it was saying, was he was

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Speaker 4: That is what I was understanding. Let me know in

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Speaker 3: Have that right, because I was also that sentence means,

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Speaker 3: but that was my understanding.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if it makes more sense later. My sister

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Speaker 1: that it's insulting he has to be given a legally

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Speaker 1: to get out of child support. Oh that's what it

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Speaker 1: his alimony is zero because the judge hates him now

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Speaker 1: because of my lie and will likeli extend her alimony forever.

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Speaker 1: As their past ten years of marriage in California, so

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Speaker 1: it's a common law marriage too.

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Speaker 3: It's not for him to get paid out. It's so

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Speaker 3: he doesn't pay anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah he was.

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Speaker 2: He should have realized he was going to lose. Go

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Speaker 2: like this man is an idiot. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I told him I'm not apologizing for not revealing privileged

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Speaker 1: It's not that they didn't reveal their medical condition. They

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Speaker 1: Oh P's daughter did not know that they had schienzophrenia,

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Speaker 1: found out, got diagnosed, The husband was informed of this,

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Speaker 2: One Yeah, I can't. I don't know if you can

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who was being like really ex the extreme stink

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Speaker 1: Opie's daughter didn't know that she had it. I think

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Speaker 4: Where she had family members.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I I have family members

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Speaker 1: I mean at risk for diabetes, I am, but not

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Speaker 2: Not don't know if I've been checked for diabetes.

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Speaker 1: It's it's more typical in the women in our family.

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Speaker 3: I think we've talked about like oh, like revealing the

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Speaker 4: Just to conversation, but not like oh, hey, to let you.

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Speaker 4: Time you're I like it and ever like matching shirts?

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Speaker 4: Well, mine's long sleeve. It looks I making any shirt

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Speaker 3: Okay, Daddy over here yesterday?

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Speaker 1: Wear shirts?

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Speaker 4: Read another story?

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Speaker 5: What do you Do?

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

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Speaker 4: Time for okop.

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Speaker 2: Relash Am I the a hole for being disabled and

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Speaker 2: finding humor in my able body days excitement over handicapped

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Speaker 2: Ope is parking spots are more exciting than van goh ooh.

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Speaker 4: And this comes.

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Speaker 2: From our subreddit, our slash okop show. And this comes

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Speaker 2: from a username cat Marvel fourteen.

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Speaker 4: What up, Cat Marvel?

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Speaker 5: All right, let's let's see what you got for us.

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Speaker 2: Dive in disclaimer This happens a few months ago and

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Speaker 2: I still can't get over it. I also just thought

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Speaker 4: Thank you. That's so cool.

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Speaker 2: This is direct to us. This is like theest thing.

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Speaker 2: This is made for us. It's like it feels like

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Speaker 4: We love it.

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Speaker 3: This is like I feel like we're we're now like

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Speaker 2: Is opportun Cat Marvel fourteen. I love you, we love you.

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Speaker 5: I'm proposing right now. I'm getting oh, both my knees.

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Speaker 2: All right, So I twenty seven female went on a

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Speaker 2: I guess I wonder what there is. I've seen that movie.

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Speaker 2: I actually really like that movie. Have you seen it?

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Speaker 3: That's the one where it's uh, spider Man and doctor Strange.

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Speaker 4: No, that's spider Man movie.

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Speaker 5: What's spider Man?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the one with spider Man is the main character.

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Speaker 2: Strange.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, it failed horribly because he ended up inviting his

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Speaker 4: Imagine like fourteen people.

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Speaker 2: we go to the movies, met him, his sister, and

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Speaker 2: It's just one other person, and I couldn't even sit

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Speaker 2: We did talk after the movie, and the next day

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Speaker 2: I saw him at church. I told him I was

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Speaker 2: she confronted, all right, I wanted to tell this part

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Speaker 5: Wait. Wait, so so you guys you went on a date,

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Speaker 2: She received there we go. Well, looking on social media,

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Speaker 2: I see this van Go experience. I'm sure you've seen

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Speaker 2: It was like, Hey, this is me asking you out

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Speaker 2: So he agrees after I explain the thing to him

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Speaker 2: because we both like starry night.

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Speaker 5: Who doesn't.

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Speaker 2: The day comes up and I get this new sun

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Speaker 4: Matching with the vehicles. I know what you're doing over

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Speaker 2: I did my hair and was just looking cute. We

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Speaker 2: Now for the title of this post, which is parking

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Speaker 2: I let the guy drive because I don't like driving

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Speaker 2: in big cities. And well, we drive to this place.

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Speaker 2: The conversation was awesome because hey, we've been friends for years.

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Speaker 2: There was chemistry, there was bondage, fireworks.

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Speaker 5: Wait.

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Speaker 2: Wait, we get to the place and all the handicapped

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know, it's.

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Speaker 3: Just like, oh, what, so what are you the handicap

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Speaker 4: Now me the expert? I am.

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Speaker 2: I see all the park I see every single parking spot,

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Speaker 4: I know what I wouldn't give to get one of those.

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Speaker 4: I would give an arm and Sam just pulls up

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let me let me get this.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm kidding, wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 5: I would do two pro legs. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking, Wow, there's a lot of available parking

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Speaker 2: wide as I as possible, excited about the handicap parking.

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Speaker 2: I go, I go, I get confused. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I got the thing right here. The boy was so

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Speaker 2: I was making up, but nope. We literally sit in

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Speaker 2: The guy said the following, I want to bask in

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Speaker 2: the glory of being able to park in a handicapped spot.

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Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about getting towed or paying

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Speaker 2: a fine or anything. Hey man, it's just excited. Okay, listen, job,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna take one second here. Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: I have been towed twice, over four hundred dollars each time.

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Speaker 3: I've paid over one thousand dollars to LA Department of Transportation.

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Speaker 5: Fuck him.

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Speaker 3: I want At one point considered like going straight like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, bro, gain, that was Molotov cocktail rolling.

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Speaker 3: I if I'm in a place where I am safe

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Speaker 3: I'm celebrating. I don't know if I'm going that far.

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Speaker 3: But like I'm like, and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you can't get me. No, you can't say safe.

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Speaker 2: This is free parking right here. So know, me being disabled,

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Speaker 2: this is normal to me, but him being an able body,

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Speaker 4: I would be hyped too. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I literally thought the starry night would be the

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Speaker 2: high of the night, of the whole date. But nope,

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Speaker 2: you gotta be kidding me. Nope, I wasn't conclusion. Me

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Speaker 2: and the guy are still friends. Everyone we know has

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Speaker 2: heard the story. There hasn't been a second date. Oh,

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Speaker 2: even though when I plan stuff with other people and

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Speaker 2: another time.

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Speaker 5: Sounds a little confused.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, the handicapped parking spots are more interesting than

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Speaker 2: the famous artist Van Go.

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Speaker 3: Damn well, it sounds like he wasn't up. I mean,

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Speaker 3: Ohpi was going all out, like getting the flowers in

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Speaker 2: So oh pie, if you're not feeling it, move move on,

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Speaker 2: move on. There's plenty of fish in this. This is

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Speaker 2: the Van Go see. Yeah there is, yeah, there is. Hey,

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