1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. All right, clo, 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: here we go. This is from Lena and Aiken. Lena writes, 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: my husband hates to be affectionate in public, so when 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: I leaned over and kissed him at dinner, he got upset. 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: Since then he sits across from me instead of next 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: to me. It's so bizarre and makes me think he 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: doesn't love me. What is wrong with him? 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's I always sit across from 9 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 2: my wife at dinner. 10 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 1: But do you mind if she's affectionate with you in public? 11 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 2: No, not at all. 12 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: Well, her husband does, and she just kissed him at 13 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: dinner and he got mad. 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 3: She didne got on here in there, that's all. Yeah, 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 3: you've been just this has been happening for a while. 16 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 3: This is just it's been going on for a minute. 17 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 2: I don't see you, are you? Maybe you ain't see 18 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: this coming. 19 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: She just kiss a hunter. Yeah that's her husband. 20 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: Ya, you're asking me to answer a question. I don't 21 00:00:59,480 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: have to. 22 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 3: Tommy told y'all he done got sick of her. 23 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: Something wrong. 24 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:05,479 Speaker 1: Now. 25 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: I don't know when it happens, but it ain't just 26 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 3: happened at dinner. How are you nobody said it was 27 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: her faults. Anybody's fault, her fault. He said he's sick 28 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 3: of her. 29 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: So what does that mean he tied of her? So 30 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: on whatever the reason. No, no, I'm not putting it 31 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 2: on her. He's sick of her. If you don't want you. 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: Touching him in public, kissing him in public, sitting on 33 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 3: the same side of the table with him, he's sick 34 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 3: of you. 35 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: That ain't your fault. We don't know what is. 36 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 3: It might be his fault, maybe he changed, maybe he 37 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: got somebody else. We don't know what it is. I'm 38 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 3: just telling you he's sick of you. Yes, I'm tired 39 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 3: of you. She done got on his nerves. But she 40 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 3: has said this like this has been going on for 41 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 3: a while. He don't like public public pdaight, he. 42 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: Don't like it. And now I know several people that 43 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: don't like it. 44 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: But I don't know where. 45 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: Okay, to the point where I'm sitting on this other 46 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: side of the tape, touch me. This ain't about touching 47 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: and kissing, just a deeper issue. In the words of 48 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 3: Monica Bonds, y'all need therapy. 49 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: All right. 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: Moving on to Dietrich in Seattle, Dietrich writes, my girlfriend 51 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: and I waited months to have sex. Our first few 52 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: experiences were not that great. I made suggestions on how 53 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: she should improve. She could improve, she went back to 54 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: a no sex policy. How do I convince her that 55 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: sex is important for our relationship? 56 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 2: Yeap, y'all ain't gonna make it? Next question, shure. 57 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: You just straight to the point today. 58 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 2: Well, I mean listen to this. 59 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: You waited for a while to have sex, You had 60 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 3: it two times, it wasn't great. You went to her 61 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: with some suggestions. She said, well, ain't no most sex, 62 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 3: which means at all. I'm not finn to fix it. 63 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 3: I've heard this before. I didn't have a fix for 64 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: it before. I don't have a fix for it now. 65 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 3: You're all finn to break up? 66 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. 67 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 3: If you got to convince a person early that sex 68 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: is important, I don't know what. 69 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: If we don't already agree on that? Now come round? 70 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Shall I move on to Sila In 71 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: Little Rock? Sheila writes, I'm a sixty year old married woman, 72 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: and years ago I slept with my step son twice. 73 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: The Sun is divorced and wants to live with us temporarily. 74 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: I told him it's a bad idea, but he said 75 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: he will be able to control himself. How do I 76 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: stop this from happening? I can't wait to hear. 77 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: This is her steps. 78 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: Her stepson who just got a divorce. 79 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: Some wait a minute, her husband's boy. 80 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: Yes, her husband, Yeah, that's her step son. Yes, m 81 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: he just got a divorce. He wants to move in 82 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: the house with his dad and her his step mother, 83 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: slash boy. But he said it's gonna be all right. 84 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: He's gonna try to control himself. He will be able 85 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: to go. 86 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 2: They're coming forward. 87 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 3: Huh, lady, you ain't gonna Lady, you ain't gonna make 88 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 3: it out. 89 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 2: Maybe you oughto. What do you do? 90 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: You know anybody that could set the house on fire? 91 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 2: Get insurance, y'all got? Lady, you gotta get into this house. 92 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: You can't. 93 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 3: You can't have here in that room over there. And 94 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 3: you did it twice, Yes, terrible. 95 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: What about talk to your wife, try to get back together. 96 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: That didn't cross your mind? House fun fire was the 97 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: first thing that came up. 98 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: No, no, no, they're already divorced. 99 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so they're not getting back together. I don't 100 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 3: I never recommend divorce to somebody marrying them again. I've 101 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 3: never recommended a lot of people do not in my situation. 102 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 3: Moved on, yeh, but that never came up. I didn't 103 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 3: have to weigh it. 104 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 2: Aint never. 105 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 3: I got no experience with going back. Yeah, this ain't 106 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 3: a good move, lady. 107 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she wants to know. How does she 108 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: stop this from happening? 109 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: Because two people are in this that are trifling you yeah. 110 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: And the boy. Yeah. 111 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: And you can't put two trifling people in the same 112 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 3: house and don't expect trifling behavior. 113 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: From Yeah, they're not too much. Yeah. 114 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they y'all ain't y'all ain't y'all ain is 115 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: nothing changed? 116 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: Mm hmmmmm right under her husband's. 117 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 2: Nose, under your husband's nose, under your father. 118 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're gonna do it again, yo, he. 119 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: Gets in there. Yeah yeah, yeah, moving on. This is 120 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: the last one to rich and New Haven. The older 121 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: my wife gets, the more she's into body positivity. It 122 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: was nice at first to see her loving her brother 123 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: her body, but it's getting wild because she loves to 124 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: be naked at home. She's also stop wearing bras. Should 125 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: I let her be free or say something? 126 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: I understand what you complain to you, what is the problem. 127 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she woked like, walking around naked. 128 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: What's the problem, went by me and I went, put 129 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 3: your clothes on. 130 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 2: I will never see. 131 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: I don't think no one ever said that. All right, Cello, 132 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: thank you. Uh you're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show.