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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with I R Radio. Ashley and I are back and

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Speaker 1: we are ecstatic for this podcast. This is a special podcast.

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Speaker 1: We don't plan on putting a podcast out today, but

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation is blowing up. It's all over the news.

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Speaker 1: Everything's crazy. I have people like my grandma, my aunt,

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Speaker 1: my mother, friends on the street knowing what in the

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Speaker 1: world is going on with the Bachelor. There's got to

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Speaker 1: be something in that Bachelor water because everybody's in the news.

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Speaker 1: The one person that is also in the news of

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Speaker 1: my coast actually Ike and Eddie. Ashley. Your parents, Yes,

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Speaker 1: the parents unite for the first time. How was it.

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Speaker 1: I'm certainly not going to call that breaking news, but

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Speaker 1: it was very important news for happening for Jared and myself. Um,

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Speaker 1: and it went so well. It was crazy. When they

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Speaker 1: first met, well, we always knew that they were going

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Speaker 1: to get along splendidly, but from the first dinner I

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Speaker 1: could just see it in my parents eyes and his

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Speaker 1: parents eyes that they just loved each other. My mom

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Speaker 1: like almost cried saying goodbye to his mom today. It

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Speaker 1: was adorable. Um, and we had four five straight family

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Speaker 1: dinners together. Not one awkward silence, so much talking and

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Speaker 1: they connected so well. It was amazing. Were you worried

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Speaker 1: at all going into this about like kind of the

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Speaker 1: dynamic or the awkward silence? And I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: that's a big step, a huge step. I wish for

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Speaker 1: entertainment sake that I could say that we were anxious

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Speaker 1: about it, but we weren't at all. They have very

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Speaker 1: we were raised in very similar families, just like very nurturing,

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Speaker 1: fun loving, warm, funny parents, and they just bonded really well.

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Speaker 1: Can we get one really good story at first? Off,

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Speaker 1: how did Lauren, your sister handle this whole thing? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Which did she handle it? Well? We had her boyfriend

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Speaker 1: came because her sister, my sister's birthday is today. Uh

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Speaker 1: so she wanted to have her boyfriend of course on

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Speaker 1: the cruise, and because she would have been legit the

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Speaker 1: ninth wheel without him, of course he came. Because then

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Speaker 1: we also had Jared's sister, Shannon and her now husband.

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Speaker 1: They got married last week on the cruise and so

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Speaker 1: there were ten ten people, five couples. Lauren had met

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Speaker 1: Jared's parents before and she neither are going to get

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Speaker 1: along well, she um she had a great time. She's

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Speaker 1: very comfortable with his parents too, which is really nice

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Speaker 1: because Lawrence basically my find me swin and always with me.

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Speaker 1: Is is this the boyfriend that Lauren has that wear sunglasses?

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Speaker 1: Yessses up a lot this time. No way, it was great.

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Speaker 1: It was such a good man. Yeah, good for him. Well, Astley,

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Speaker 1: I'm ecstatic for you. I know that even though you

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Speaker 1: say you're not anxious, I I believe you. But that

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Speaker 1: is a big step in a relationship. And uh and

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Speaker 1: I feel like from here on out, I mean, what

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Speaker 1: other large kind of I guess benchmarks do you need

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Speaker 1: when you do officially book the wedding, which I think

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Speaker 1: was probably going to be doing this week. My dad

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, I don't stuff without him. We

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Speaker 1: have to just spend it. The check and that we

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Speaker 1: should have the venue locked down in an official day. Um.

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Speaker 1: The other nice thing about your parents getting along is

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Speaker 1: we could actually do holidays jointly, you know which My

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Speaker 1: they can come down to Virginia for Thanksgiving. That's really

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Speaker 1: nice because a lot of people have to choose which

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Speaker 1: the hay Bends more. Uh, this is just a love

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Speaker 1: story that keeps on giving. I appreciate this is good stuff.

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Speaker 1: Um Hey, Ashley, I'm excited for you and Jared to

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Speaker 1: find a home. I think that's a big deal. Right,

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Speaker 1: travel peacefully. Some of the breaking news this week includes

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Speaker 1: Becca m is pregnant. There was yeah grumbling for a

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Speaker 1: Joe is now on Dancing with the Stars and his

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Speaker 1: lady Kendall. Is he hard to talk about both things?

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Speaker 1: Let's get Kendall on the line. Hello, Hello, Kendall, Hello there,

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Speaker 1: how are you loving? Good? Evens on the line as well,

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Speaker 1: and we just want to on your love story. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much? Story actually, but you say what long story?

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Speaker 1: It is a very crazy one. The crazy ones turn

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Speaker 1: So it's been fun. It seems like you and Joe

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Speaker 1: have definitely done that. Now he's living in l A. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: out there, Joe the Grocer or Joe kindled guy uh

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Speaker 1: Um Kendall, I'm so intrigued by your love story. I

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Speaker 1: what is up with those videos? Seriously? I don't get it.

429
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't necessarily understand it. We've talked

430
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: about this before. I'm like, what's the compliment and what's not?

431
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: But you and your sister both are doing these videos

432
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: where like you're trying to get your shorts off. Are

433
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Speaker 1: you saying like, hey, like my booty is too big,

434
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 1: like this is a good thing? Or is like are

435
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: you joking? What's what's happening here? I just was truly

436
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 1: showing a big butt struggle. Okay, that's a struggle. That's

437
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: the real thing. My waist is small enough for my

438
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: shorts to handle, but my butt is not. Okay with

439
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: the waste situation on my shorts, like if that makes

440
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: any sense. But that's a girl issue. It's like, and

441
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: it's probably a good issue to have the small waist

442
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: and a big booty. I mean, actually, I do a

443
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Speaker 1: lot of squads. What if it's an issue I have.

444
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Speaker 1: I Yeah, I think I've got. I think I've got.

445
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm working on on my my fitness, so I've been

446
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Speaker 1: I've been doing a lot of beach body. I do

447
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: a lot of squats in there. Um. Sometimes when I

448
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: stand in front of the mirror before I get in

449
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: the shower, I flex real hard and I feel like

450
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Speaker 1: I'm doing all right. Do you ever listen to audio

451
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Speaker 1: books while you work out all the time? Actually, and

452
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Speaker 1: that's one of the coolest things, is uh as, These

453
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Speaker 1: audible audio books are something that I treasure and I appreciate. Actually,

454
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Speaker 1: did you listen to Audible on the cruise? Because that's

455
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: where I found Audible for the first time, was on

456
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460
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461
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Speaker 1: liked it, but then like I was like, I don't

462
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Speaker 1: get it as I don't get the hoopla so as

463
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Speaker 1: mine as will read the books. So Jose that book

464
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465
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466
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Speaker 1: Bachelor pod or Bachelor pod to five zero zero five

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Speaker 1: zero zero to get started today. A few weeks ago,

485
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: we had one of our most listened to segments. I mean,

486
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: we had thousands of responses to an actor about Disney. Yeah,

487
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: it's it's wild that Disney movies can spark such an interest.

488
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Speaker 1: And and during that segment, we brought up somebody that

489
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Speaker 1: I met in Iowa at a Zack Johnson. Uh, Zack

490
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Speaker 1: Johnson Foundation golf tournament. Uh, he's a good Ira boy.

491
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: He has a lot of cool stuff going on right now.

492
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: He's coming on the podcast. One of Ashley's favorites, one

493
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: of my favorites, Riley Smith. Riley, are you out there? Ah?

494
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Hi? It's been three years since I

495
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: saw you backstage to the I Heart Festival and I

496
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: was like, oh, that from Motocross and I think he

497
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: may be forming with me. Yeah, I mean that's just

498
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: how I say hello. But you should have told me

499
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: that you that you knew me. Well, I don't know

500
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: what it doesn't say motocross. Yeah, yeah, that doesn't stop

501
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: anybody else. I was gonna say, I mean, Riley, how

502
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 1: does that feel? I mean, you've done a ton uh

503
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: since Motocross. But it's funny because we did this whole

504
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: segment on Disney movies on this podcast from way back

505
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: in the day, and we had probably the best response

506
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: we've ever had on this podcast. I mean we have

507
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, like hundreds of thousands of listens every week,

508
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: and I felt like we've got hundreds of thousands of

509
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: responses on favorite Disney movies. Your name was brought up

510
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: over and over against it. For all the work that

511
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: you've done today, this generation still remembers you for motocross.

512
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: How how is that? It's funny if anybody that knows

513
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: me kind of makes makes fun of it. Uh, tolling

514
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 1: in too, because you're right, like, I think I've been

515
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: doing this twenty years and almost like eighty projects or

516
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: something like that, and uh, I mean literally every single

517
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 1: day someone stops me and says motocross, And uh. I

518
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: would say, if if I had never worked again, I

519
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: would probably be really bitter. But because you know, life

520
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: went on and I kept working. It's it's it's cool.

521
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: I don't mind it at all. I actually embrace it,

522
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: um because when you start, when you start acting, I

523
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: guess you would be, you know, ecstatic if you could

524
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Speaker 1: have a movie that touched the generation and left the

525
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: left the handprint on an entire generation. We didn't expect

526
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: that when we made the movie, but I don't think

527
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: I didn't even though I never I've never watched Disney before.

528
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what it was. I was just

529
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: happy to get a job and then uh, and then

530
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: one day it came out and at that time, like

531
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Speaker 1: I couldn't even go out in public. It was nuts.

532
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: It was like, you know, boy band status and uh

533
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: and so it was crazy. But but now it's like

534
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: it's sweet. Like when people talk about it, like I'll

535
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: talk back about it and uh, embrace it. It's I

536
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: think it's fine. Well, I mean, you're gonna be known

537
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: that your icon that came out of my mouth. But

538
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: like when it comes to heart throbs, you're one of

539
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: the like early two thousand heart throbs, and I mean

540
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: that's not a bad reputation to have. I guess not.

541
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, now my goal is to just

542
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: find something in the coming years that replaces that you

543
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: know that people will talk about for another twenty years. Um.

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00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: So that's that's what drives you. I guess what are

545
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: you working on now that, uh, that you think could

546
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: be have that potential? Or I know, when when we

547
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: were in Highway together it's Zach Johnson Foundation Doc tournament,

548
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: everybody was talking about some of these new projects that

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00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: you had coming up. Is there anything that you want

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00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: to share with our listeners that you're super excited about. Oh? Man, well,

551
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: you never know what it's going to be, that's the thing.

552
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: And so I don't ever go into taking a job

553
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: because it's you know, social status potential or I mean,

554
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: I always try to take a job for the script.

555
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: Then hopefully that translates and then maybe that will connect

556
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: and resonate and maybe that'll be the next motocross. But

557
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: now I don't know. Right now, in Chicago, I'm really

558
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: excited about this new show I just started called Proven Innocent.

559
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: It's uh, it's the new show. It's gonna be on

560
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: Fox coming in January. We um just started shooting it.

561
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: Where I'm on my way to work right now, actually

562
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: in the car. We're going to uh somewhere in the Burbs.

563
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: But UM, but we're filming now. We're on the second

564
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Speaker 1: episode and it's cool. It's Kelsey Grammer. UM, a really

565
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: great actress named Rochelle Lefer plays my sister and uh,

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Speaker 1: it's about a group of people who defend wrongfully convicted people. UM,

567
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: my sister and I on the show. We're wrongfully confused,

568
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: convey to a murder and spent ten years in prison

569
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Speaker 1: and then released and so now we're kind of fighting

570
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: the good fight for other people like us. And I

571
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: think it's a really hot topic right now. Like I

572
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: love all the datelines and the Polizon's and the podcast,

573
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: so I'm like addicted to that kind of stuff, so

574
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: that my biggest fear in life is being literally somebody

575
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: knocked on the door and arresting me for something I

576
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: didn't do. And so when the script came along and

577
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: it was to play that exact guy, like, I passed

578
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: on everything else to take this job. So excited about it.

579
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: Hopefully this will take off, but I just keep doing

580
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: them until until one does, until one becomes the next motocross.

581
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: That sounds like an amazing show, though, I'm definitely going

582
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: to watch in Uman you and UM for all the

583
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: girls who do, and we'll always think of you as

584
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: their hearts drops from the early two thousands. Are you

585
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: still sing off? I am? I am currently still single.

586
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: I guess it's you know, it's always complicated, but I am.

587
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: Uh oh, it's always complicated. So you should probably go

588
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: over to the help I Second Dating podcast and do

589
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: a little segment with them as well. Okay, all right, um,

590
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: and yeah, it's so funny that I've also had met

591
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: both of you guys at different times and then you

592
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: had this podcast. I had a friend from New York

593
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: that I hadn't talked to forever and she hit me

594
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: up on text. I was like, I'm not even sure

595
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: this is still your number, but Ben and Ashley are

596
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: talking about you on their podcast and it's really cute

597
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, no way. So that's why I TechEd,

598
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, I feel like we need to

599
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: talk to Yeah. It's uh dude, I'm so happy you did.

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00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: It's it's hilaric. You've been awesome for anybody out there listening. Um,

601
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: you know, we get to do this event in Iowa

602
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: every year for a buddy of ours who plays on

603
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: the on the tour and uh Zack. Every year when

604
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: I show up. He always mentioned that Riley's there. He goes, hey,

605
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: Riley dropped everything he was doing. He took off work

606
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: and he came out to Iowa, which is where you're from. Uh,

607
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: before Zack in this foundation to support education, um in

608
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: the secret areas. So man, you're you're a great dude.

609
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: And and before we send you off here, I want

610
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: to know your twenty two or twenty three when motocross

611
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: came out? Correct? Yeah? I think? So what is it like?

612
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: I mean, because what we like to do on this

613
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: podcast is kind of, uh, break down the barriers and

614
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: make people feel related or at least relate a little

615
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: bit to the people that they love and the people

616
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: that that they feel. Our celebrities, what was it like

617
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: for you as a twenty two or twenty three year

618
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: old person to be considered America's heart throb? And how

619
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: does that impact your life today? Wow? Good question. Um.

620
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: I guess sometimes when it's happening, you don't even it.

621
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: It doesn't register. It's not it doesn't feel real and

622
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: it it shouldn't feel real for a lot of people

623
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: in that situation and for me, Uh, we didn't expect it.

624
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: And then the movie came out and then literally it

625
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: happens overnight, and I remember being that young. Just me personally,

626
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: the way I deal with it is I kind of

627
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: run and hide. Um. It actually almost makes me sad

628
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: because it's so overwhelming. When you don't under it doesn't register.

629
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: It's not it shouldn't be, it shouldn't feel real. And

630
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 1: I think when it finally does, then things really changed.

631
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: So um, you know, I don't know. I mean, I

632
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: just try to always keep everything in perspective. Being from Iowa,

633
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: having a good family that reminds you of how big

634
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: a dork you are. UM, it kind of keeps everything real. Um.

635
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: But you know, in one way, I'm glad that it happened.

636
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: And then I got through it and came out the

637
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: other side. And and if you can, I think you

638
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: see a lot of difference with the way people handle

639
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Speaker 1: it over the years, and some people that breaks them

640
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Speaker 1: and some people it's just a part of a small

641
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Speaker 1: part of who they were who they are. UM. And

642
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: I think that comes from your friends and your family

643
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Speaker 1: grounding you. And if you've got people in your life

644
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Speaker 1: that tell you how it is and are honest with you, Uh,

645
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Speaker 1: you can use that kind of influence for good. But

646
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Speaker 1: if you have a lot of yes men people in

647
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Speaker 1: your life that just tell what you want to hear,

648
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Speaker 1: it can very easily spiral a lot of control. So

649
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Speaker 1: I mean it's a double edged sword, but it can

650
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Speaker 1: definitely having an influence. Uh can be a positive thing.

651
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Speaker 1: And I love when I see people use it for good. Well,

652
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: we will make that we passed this message along to Colton.

653
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Speaker 1: Yeah right, Yeah, Colton is the next bachelor. He Uh

654
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Speaker 1: he needs this message. Uh. He's he's a good dude.

655
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: He's gonna do great. Uh he is, and he has

656
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657
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,239
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658
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Speaker 1: loves his puppies and he loves his people, So what

659
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Speaker 1: else could you ask for? Well, and Ben, I gotta

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661
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662
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Speaker 1: like when we golf together, everybody was freaking out that

664
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Speaker 1: So if you'll do me a big favor and embarrass

666
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667
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Speaker 1: You're beautiful, you're sophisticated. You you walk and talk with grace. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Happy thirtieth birthday to you from Riley, Ashley and myself,

671
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: but especially me. I look forward to many years spending together.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Ben. That's why you're a good one man.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, I'm so glad we got to catch up. Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: you two keep doing you and congratulations on all the

675
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Speaker 1: make sure you check out Riley's new show coming up

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Speaker 1: Proven Innocent, Perfect, Good, all right, we'll be walking hey,

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Speaker 1: as as we talked about the beginning of the podcast,

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00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 1: the largest stories of the week, if not the largest,

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Speaker 1: is the situation between Jordan and Jenna. One day, I

741
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: was frustrated with like legitimately frustrated, UM because the show

742
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: gets a bad rap oftentimes and a lot of things

743
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: that brings on itself. UM. But then every once in

744
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Speaker 1: a while you kind of have these relationships that defy reality,

745
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: like your relationship with Jared, and you're like, this is

746
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: so real. The show has brought these two people together

747
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: and there in love, and I thought that, really you

748
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: and I talked about it. I thought that happened for

749
00:40:55,160 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: Jordan and Jenna. Week the news came out, I was like,

750
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 1: these people are actually going to make it in the

751
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: long haul. And now we hear that Jenna has basically

752
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: been cheating on Jordan's since he got together, didn't they

753
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: left Paradise and maybe it was all like this weird

754
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 1: plan from the very beginning for her, No, just find

755
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: somebody right, right. So we have to give credit to

756
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: Reality Seves because he really did break this case, and

757
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 1: it was it was quite something because what happened was

758
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: this man who I guess Jenna had been seeing her

759
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: talking to, was sending Reality Steves these messages that he

760
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 1: was getting from Jenna, saying things along the lines of

761
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: I don't even like Jordan as a person, this is

762
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: all for business. I don't love him, I don't like

763
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: I don't even like him, or something along the line

764
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: to that, and she said that I love you. She

765
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 1: referred to the to the other man, she said, I

766
00:41:54,920 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: love you. And then on Reality Steves ended up tweeting

767
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: out the night before he announced all this drama that

768
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: he was going to have a lot of dirt on

769
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: someone to come out the next day. And then when

770
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: Jenna saw those tweets that he had dirt on someone,

771
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: she immediately assumed that it was him or that it

772
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: was hers that he had dirt on. And then she

773
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 1: ends up calling Jordan's in like a panic mode, saying

774
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: that she thinks that reality Steve has dirt on her.

775
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: So that makes everything. See, you know, she was immediately

776
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: expecting that it was a dirt on her. Obviously she

777
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: did it. You know, there's no backpeddling after that, and

778
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: she did. Then I think that she called Jordan's and

779
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,359
Speaker 1: then she called him back and they had two conversations

780
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: about how worried she was about the breaking news that

781
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 1: was going to be announced. And then the next day

782
00:42:55,960 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: when it was released, Jenna didn't come groveling back to

783
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:04,280
Speaker 1: Jordan's and saying and denying anything or even like really apologizing.

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00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: She just was like just she just it was just

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Speaker 1: what it was. She didn't start denying anything for like

786
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 1: twenty four hours afterwards. And this, of course, you know

787
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: the way that she acted, and of course the way

788
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 1: she acted that whole twenty four hours span make shortan

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Speaker 1: believe that all of this is true. It's absolutely still

790
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: crazy me. The stuff that reality Steves can pull off,

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Speaker 1: I don't get it. I don't know how he does it.

792
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to know how he

793
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: does it. Um, but this situation I just angered me

794
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: because it's so it's very manipulative. You're messing with somebody's emotions,

795
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: You're playing with somebody's heart. I mean, Jordan's kind of

796
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: had this, you know character during Beckat season that we

797
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: loved to hate and we love to laugh at. And

798
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: then we also got to see and kind of come

799
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: into one of being one of America's favorite characters on

800
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: Bachelor Paradise because look like and it felt like Jenna

801
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: kind of had not broken him but tame the beast

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00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: and that he was his best self because of her.

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Speaker 1: And then this curt it out and I can't imagine

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00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: where he's feeling. Um, he's obviously devastating and heartbroken. He's

805
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: he's totally blindsided and completely betrayed. I mean, how is

806
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: he ever going to be able to trust anyone again?

807
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: After this? He gets engaged, it's totally head over heels

808
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: and love love at first sight with this woman and

809
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 1: then she's been cheating on him or it's like not

810
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: even just cheating, it's just it's a lie. It's like

811
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Speaker 1: lying to the utmost degree for the past three months.

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00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't like this and it is it's it's insane

813
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: and it's not okay. And that's the thing is, like

814
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: we can gloss over this and anybody out there listening

815
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: can be like, oh, this is just reality television. Oh yeah,

816
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 1: you expect this kind of stuff. No, Like Jordan really

817
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: cared about Jenna, like he loves this woman and so

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Speaker 1: love and love and so put yourself in his shoes,

819
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: say you fall in love with somebody. Take the TV

820
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 1: piece out of this, right. I mean, we've had couple

821
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 1: get married from this show. Like, he's in love with

822
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,399
Speaker 1: this woman. He thinks he's engaged, he's telling his friends

823
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 1: and family, he's excited, he's posting on the social media,

824
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: and then before you know it, he realizes it was

825
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: all in act. It's crushing. It would be brutal. And

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Speaker 1: somebody that can kind of help, I guess, talk him

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00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,800
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Speaker 1: We were just talking about how Jordan's is recovering from

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Speaker 1: not just a breakup, but a really traumatic betrayal. Are

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Speaker 1: you familiar with the story? Oh, I'm opening to elier

834
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Speaker 1: with it. Yes, So you recommend him taking the first

835
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: step to recover from his heartbreak, Well, I think, you know,

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837
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,600
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00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 1: most layers because I think, like you said, the first

839
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840
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: layer is if the texts are true, which um, you

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00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:32,320
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842
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: was saying that the feelings for him aren't real, So

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00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: that's like the second layer of heart break. And then

844
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: the third layer of this is all playing out on TV.

845
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Speaker 1: So I really feel for him, um, because I feel

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00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: like normally are dealing with one or two of those things,

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00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:50,520
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849
00:46:56,000 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 1: he will probably deal with and the struggle with once

850
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: he's sort of over the shock of it all is

851
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 1: the fact that he had made so many future plans

852
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: with her, And I think that's one of the hardest

853
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: parts of this type of heartbreak is that you have

854
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: made a lot of plans together, Like they they were engaged,

855
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: they were planning to have kids, they had asked Chris

856
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: to appreciates a wedding. So so I really do think

857
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: part of the morning process for him is going to

858
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:29,760
Speaker 1: be um really focusing on letting go of those future plans.

859
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: It's almost like morning this future that you're you're no

860
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: longer going to have. And I feel like that's going

861
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,399
Speaker 1: to be a really important step for him to take

862
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: in order to make space for something new and for

863
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: someone new in his life. So, l you have a

864
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: service called mend. I know you've talked about this on

865
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: Jared's podcast Help Us Like a Dating a few times,

866
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: But your service it's supposed to help people step by

867
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: step get over their breakup. And I've always frowned whenever

868
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm going through Maybe I haven't had too many breakups,

869
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 1: but like, but a breakup of whatever means to a

870
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: breakup of sorts, I always find it's the death of

871
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: the day dreams that is the most hurtful. Thing exactly. Yeah,

872
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: and I think you know, they took it even a

873
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: step further right, Like a lot of times, I mean,

874
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: just from personal experience, sometimes you're not even sharing those

875
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: plans that you're making with someone, right, Like you're just

876
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: thinking about all those things that you want to do.

877
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: And even then it's really heartbreaking. But the fact that

878
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 1: they actually made all of these plans, not just the

879
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: two of them together, but the fact that they made

880
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,319
Speaker 1: all of these plans in public, you know, and everybody,

881
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: like the whole world knows about all these plans, and

882
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: and and now they have to uh, well, now he

883
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: has to move forward and try to let go of that.

884
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 1: I do think that that is going to be one

885
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 1: of the hardest parts once he gets over sort of

886
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 1: the shock of it, and just the sort of the

887
00:48:56,520 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: shock that what he thought she was feeling, you know,

888
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: she wasn't feeling if the texts are true. You know,

889
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: I don't know how you recover. I don't know how

890
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: you recover from that. I really don't. And it is

891
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: to tell us as the expert here, can you recover

892
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: from that? And what does it look like? Yeah, you

893
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 1: absolutely can recover from that. And I think that's That's

894
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: one of the really beautiful things that I've witnessed through,

895
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: you know, the thousands and thousands and thousands of breakups

896
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: that we witness with men, is that the human heart

897
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: is so resilient. And I really do think that our

898
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 1: core we are built to be resilient and to deal

899
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: with struggles and challenges. And yes, this is a really

900
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: hard one for all the reasons we talked about. I

901
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: think there are so many layers of it, um, but

902
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,399
Speaker 1: you can recover. And I think the first step UM

903
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: with any breakup, but especially this one, is you really

904
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 1: have to take care of your physical body because when

905
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, there's so many physiological changes

906
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: and neuro local changes. You actually start to feel like

907
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: you're going through withdrawal. And a lot of people actually

908
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: get sick like I don't know if you guys have

909
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: ever experienced that. You get you catch like a cold

910
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 1: or something after he goes through a breakup, and it's

911
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 1: because your body is you know, experiencing UM. Your immune

912
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: system actually gets to dressed. So you really have to

913
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: take care of your body. UM. Focusing on sleep if

914
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 1: you can't sleep, UM, you know, getting exercise so that

915
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: you're getting endorphins being around people, so that you're getting

916
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: feel good hormones. UM. It's really like the basics in

917
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: the beginning. It's like triage UM in the early days.

918
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 1: And I think that that's probably where Jordan is UM

919
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: as soon as he's sort of I imagine right now

920
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 1: he's more in the shock phase because it's passed, but

921
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: pretty soon he will hit that phase where he starts

922
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: to really feel it physically. You know, when I did

923
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:54,240
Speaker 1: go through one of the most traumatic breakup is things

924
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: of my life. I actually lost over ten pounds in

925
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: two months, and it was about six months before I

926
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 1: went on The Bachelor, So I actually try on And

927
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: I mentioned this on my my Instagram this week that

928
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 1: I tried on address that I wore on The Bachelor

929
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 1: when I was thirteen pounds lighter and I was that

930
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: much lighter than I am now because of a breakup. Yeah. Yeah,

931
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: it affects. I mean, it affects everything. Like I think

932
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: that's the really interesting part about breakups that you don't

933
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 1: necessarily know. Um, you experienced it, but you don't necessarily

934
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: know everything that's happening underneath the surface. And I mean

935
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 1: your immune system gets suppressed. Um, your heartbeat can actually change.

936
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 1: So they've actually studied what you know, what people's heartbeats

937
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:43,320
Speaker 1: sound like after a break up. You can actually see it.

938
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: And um, you know when you're looking at a heartbeat

939
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 1: and um, you know your hormone levels are way out

940
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: of whack. Um. I mean really like it's a I

941
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: really think that you should get heartbreak days, just like

942
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 1: you get six days at work, because it is that

943
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 1: that's a difficult thing. And um, and you know that's

944
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: why I think it's so important once someone's going through that,

945
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 1: that you're not just dismissive of it and you know,

946
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: telling them I will just get over it. You know,

947
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 1: who wasn't that great anyway or she was lame anyway. Like,

948
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 1: it really is such a physical thing that you're going through,

949
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: especially in the beginning. So how do people find up

950
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: for your services? So you can download our app in

951
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952
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Speaker 1: the app, you get a free first week trial of

953
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Speaker 1: our training UM. And so every day you check in,

954
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: you get a short training that you can listen to.

955
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: Your trainings are personalized to you. So when you first

956
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 1: joined men, we ask you about yourself, We ask you, Um,

957
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,720
Speaker 1: you know your breakup reason and a little bit about

958
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: your relationship. UM. And that way we can sort of

959
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: personalize your men's programs because every heartbreak is is unique.

960
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: Although I'll say we do not have we have breakup

961
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: reasons that sort of teh Jordan's breakup leason like infidelity. Um,

962
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: but this one is this is like a complicated we

963
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: need like another box for this one. France, Well, thank you,

964
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: l we we hope that he listens to your stuff

965
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,399
Speaker 1: on then I'll let him know about it and he's

966
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: then yes, and until the next time we have a

967
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,439
Speaker 1: heartbroken back to with a dest it on our hands,

968
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: we'll talk to you them. Yeah, thank you so much, guys,

969
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: thank you. By hey. Actually, we have one last person's

970
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: opinion on the Jordan's situation, somebody that I I think

971
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 1: we'll have maybe not a unique opinion on it, but

972
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm interested to hear his thoughts. We have one of

973
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: our most consistent guests. I don't know if he has

974
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: anything to do with his life other than come on

975
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: the almost famous podcast. Um, we have David the Chicken Online. Now, David,

976
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 1: you out there, David David, Are you David David? What

977
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 1: did I do. What's up? Guys? Are you sad? Am?

978
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:15,360
Speaker 1: I sad Jordan's I feel terrible for them? He was

979
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: your Now you have sympathy, absolutely, I'm first with the guy. Yeah,

980
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: but you said them, Who side are you on here?

981
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,320
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like we've just talked to a

982
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: couple of people. We've got a little bit of insight

983
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: into what happened. It sounds like jin had a boyfriend.

984
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: She's sitting this boyfriend's text. This whole Jordan relationship was

985
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 1: for business and profit. Um, are you sad for him?

986
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: Are you bad for them? Or how are you feeling?

987
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: Like Ashley said, David, you must be sad. I'm definitely sad.

988
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm sad for the relationship. I'm sad for Jordan's. Um,

989
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: I feel bad. You know, I feel bad. He put

990
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 1: himself out there like that, and you know it was

991
00:54:56,680 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: obviously certain was in love. And the fact that Jenna

992
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: was just using it for business and had something going

993
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: on on the side. I can't even imagine that. I

994
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: feel so bad for the guy. It crushes you. David.

995
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: Here's uh, We're not gonna keep you long. We know

996
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 1: that you've got a busy life and We've got to

997
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: keep using you for the almost famous, famous podcast and tea.

998
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: If you could describe Jordan's in one word right now,

999
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: what would it be. Would you say, if you're Jordan

1000
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 1: you're sitting interview, would you say a model? David, That's ridiculous.

1001
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: He would not describe himself as a model right now.

1002
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: He's heartbroken, devastated, devastated. I am a devastated guy, he

1003
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: would say, I am a man. Do you guys know

1004
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 1: what the best revenge would be him getting this huge

1005
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: modeling gig. You know, like she should be on the

1006
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: cover of you to now and do you really really

1007
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: show her? I agree? Actually, I think that's awesome. What

1008
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 1: if he had like and what if the cover was uh,

1009
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: what if the cover of the g Q was like, uh,

1010
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: breaking but not broken? Oh? I like the good that's

1011
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: a Zola and our cover right there. I love it. Um, David,

1012
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: you're the best. We're happy to hear you and Jordan

1013
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: your friends again. Um. We're also happy to hear it's

1014
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: life good for you? How school? Everything's good? Everything's great,

1015
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: ut and learning a lot and uh having fun down

1016
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 1: here everything. David, be a good boy, Okay, don't be

1017
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: going to get yourself into some trouble. I can't promise that,

1018
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: but um, you guys are always going whenever you want

1019
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: to come visit. Sounds good, buddy, Hey, thanks for coming on.

1020
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: All right, good to talk to you guys. Okay, all right,

1021
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: you guys, you guys. You know what we We still

1022
00:56:56,320 --> 00:57:01,399
Speaker 1: didn't cover one breaking news story. It's one that our

1023
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 1: whole family talked about on the cruise the day had happened.

1024
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: Our parents were like, did you hear about Amanda? Did

1025
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,800
Speaker 1: you hear about Amanda? Everybody was asking Jared and I

1026
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 1: have we heard about Amanda and Amanda's arrest in Las

1027
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 1: Vegas last weekend. It's a very unfortunate situation, something you

1028
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: definitely want to don't want to hear. Um happened to

1029
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: a friend. But you know why, it seems to be

1030
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: a bigger headline than the real story behind it is.

1031
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:31,919
Speaker 1: It seems like it really wasn't that big of a deal.

1032
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: It may have been a little push. I really want

1033
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 1: to get into, you know, the police details of it,

1034
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: all the security details. But we do have a statement

1035
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 1: from Amanda m So we'll read through that. But first, Ben,

1036
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: do you have any thoughts on Amanda's arrest. Yeah. I mean,

1037
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: anytime there's a mug shot, it becomes a story that's

1038
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: that's just not good for anybody. Nobody wants a mug

1039
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: shot go to bad that. This is not a good look.

1040
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 1: I've never seen name bugshot other than that one dude

1041
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: who like became viral with his mug shot. There is

1042
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: a good beauty but beautyful man. Yeah, the beautiful man. So, UM,

1043
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: here's the one thing I'll take away from this. Amanda

1044
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: is a friend. I don't know the details of this.

1045
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: I can't speak on the details of this. I literally

1046
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 1: have done no research. I know uh that that there

1047
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: is a group of people there. I know some people

1048
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 1: from The Bachelor were also with her. Um. I have

1049
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: literally dug in and I have not dug it at

1050
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 1: all on this, and I feel weird even talking about it.

1051
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: We will read your statement. But here's the one thing

1052
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 1: will take away, and I'm sure a man it would

1053
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: say the same thing. It's just not good to push

1054
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: anybody anyways, especially you know your partner. Um. And so

1055
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: that's one lesson learned here. Um. You know, if all

1056
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: else uh is is still up to investigation. We do

1057
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: know Amanda did push Bobby hard soft whatever? We don't know,

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Speaker 1: but it's just probably not the right decision. It's not

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Speaker 1: a good thing. It's not And as you're you're right. Um,

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Speaker 1: the thing is the story may be small, but the

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Speaker 1: mug shot will last forever. And that's the practic farm

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Speaker 1: about it. It really is. Yeah, So I mean with

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Speaker 1: with that, that's a good lesson learned. Don't shove your partner,

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Speaker 1: don't shove anybody. It's gonna get you into trouble. It's

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Speaker 1: not a good look. And so that's the takeaway I

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Speaker 1: can take from reading the headlines and reading the statement. Um, actually,

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Speaker 1: because you sound more like Amanda than I do you

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Speaker 1: want to read the statement? Sure, yeah, I think it's

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Speaker 1: an Amanda's publicist. But here we go. Amanda is embarrassed

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Speaker 1: and a shame this happened and sincerely apologizes to hotel

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Speaker 1: good job. I mean, I don't know, we'll see how

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