WEBVTT - Episode 49 Ft. Bernard Flowers 0:00:02.080 --> 0:00:05.560 What's that is? Angela year slip service. I'm Stephanie Santiago, 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:08.119 I'm G. G. Maguire and we're breaking in some new 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:14.680 blood today. I'll set your brand new to lip service. 0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:18.560 She feels bad for you. It's Bernard Flowers. Is that's 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:22.360 your real name? My middle of my last night? So okay, 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:28.000 So your real last name is Flowers, Bernard Flowers, Bernard Flowers. Okay, 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:31.920 what's the first one. What's your first names? It's hard? Hard? 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:36.240 What's Litard? Like? Where did your parents get there from? 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:39.479 Ohn't no, I don't know. You just didn't like go 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:43.400 by that your whole life for I never went by Bernard. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.400 But I can tell you a secret, though, gonna SEGM. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.680 But this is how guy tacks your special I'm gonna 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:56.560 tell you a secret. Oh No, every every girl that 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.680 I that I really had feelings for used to call 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:02.279 me by my middle name if they knew it. Why 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:06.280 girls do that? That's that's like they want to feel special, 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:08.960 Like they don't only want to know somebody names. Yeah, 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:11.080 girls do that. I might have did that the time 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:13.000 or two before now, but it made me feel special. 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:17.040 It's like a reverse thing. Yeah, I'll be doing Okay, 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.240 people only calling my middle name when they're trying to 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:26.639 get on my nerves. What's your middle name, Florence? Listen, 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:32.360 mine is worse than that. But what's your middle name? Pus? 0:01:33.319 --> 0:01:39.360 What did you say? My name is Kathie Niam So 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.199 people call you that and I don't know my mother 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:42.920 when she's when when I was younger and I would 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:47.080 get in trouble, my mother was like, you know, because 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.000 that's the only time I ever hear that, Like, nobody 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.320 ever calls me that. Well, my maddle name is May 0:01:52.360 --> 0:02:00.160 Angela May. I love your name. That's dope. So what 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:02.480 do women call you in the bedroom? You befriend, they 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:03.920 call you by your middle name or your real first 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:06.280 time they call me my old rap name? What's that? 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:15.320 T be? Damn drops? Mike? Really see all that in 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:30.400 the bedroom? Definitely just three for three three. That's weird though, 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.320 because I think if you're like, do you call a 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.519 rapper by his rap name or do you would you 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:43.240 rather call him by there? I don't know. I don't know. 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:52.880 I've never slept with a rapper. I'm just saying, you 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:56.360 don't think that's weird? Like t bees and make it 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.320 feel like you don't really know somebody personally. Maybe a 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:02.760 live I mean, what M what a guy or when 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:05.200 a guy is when he's good and bad, that's something 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:08.080 I'll call him and bad. Just you're a beast, baby, 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:12.280 I'm like, oh, by beast, so I could see what 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:16.200 you mean. I don't see the tea coming in. Have 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:19.280 you ever for the girl about the wrong name in bed? No? 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:26.080 Over the phone? Almost almost damn it man. When I 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:29.040 take a deep breath and just think, it's that's what 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:35.360 you call everybody baby? Yeah, baby, everybody baby. It just 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:39.520 says a lot of confusions, na special on top of 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:42.040 it now being at you're from Memphis, right, and how 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:45.960 long ago did you sign your deal? Um a few 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:48.520 months back, like six months ago. You was popping already 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:52.360 before that, definitely, So this is like nothing new for 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:54.720 you when you got your deal with a girl's more 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.560 on you or where they already like t the Bees, 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.200 that was already, that was already there. It's just my 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:04.360 deal is more like confirmation to anybody that you know right. 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:06.880 It's just it's I could put out a rock album 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:09.360 and then you know, they'll just be that I want 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:11.040 to hear you know what I'm saying they're just waiting, 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:13.520 you know, they're just waiting on my big break. Everybody 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:18.080 that support me. So the deal situation and how we 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.760 locked in, it's just more like confirmation of who everybody 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:24.760 already thought. I was. Yeah, because Leah, who works at 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.479 the label, had asked about you. But I keep hearing you. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:30.080 I was hearing your song on Pandora already this feeling right, 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:31.560 And now I say, oh, that's the guy that um 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.120 Lea just asked me about. So I said, yeah, we're 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:36.320 gonna break him in. No it is. I hate it 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.040 a couple of times on there and I was like, 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:39.640 what song is this? And then I looked at it 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.000 and I was like, oh, that's the guy Leah was 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:42.960 telling me about. Let me go look him up and see. 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:44.600 And then I was like, well, I don't know, it's 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:49.280 he old enough to be up here. How old are you? 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:57.200 Three thousand sixteen, three thousand and sixteene? Okay, but three 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:59.520 thousand sixteen isn't a good answer for an age that's 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:09.440 a year a year in the future. Yet, what's the 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:12.720 youngest that you think? Um you would go, Gigi, I mean, 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.040 I know you're in a relationship, but in your head, like, 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:19.159 what's the youngest that you could go? Because you have 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:27.040 a daughter, right because in the next room, man, she's 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:30.960 over there listening. You don't want to hear what we're 0:05:30.960 --> 0:05:33.840 talking about. Um, the youngest I would go at this 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:42.200 point probably maybe like twenty five seven. It all depends 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:45.599 on the maturity level of the person, because I've met 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:49.080 some really mature people who were younger than some people 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:52.560 who were older that weren't as mature. So and I 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:57.000 know myself, Um, i was very mature as a young woman. So, 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:00.720 and I've always got with older men. But I didn't 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:03.440 have my little sugar mama face when you were taking 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:06.520 care when you got some sugar mama's, don't you. Yeah, 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:12.320 look at Dumple came out your day said definitely, Yeah, yeah, 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:15.240 I had my little sugar mama face where I had 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:19.240 me a little young whip a snapper that was you know, 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:22.560 you know when you say whip snapper, little yo when 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:28.080 you know, But yeah, no, what if at Stephanie, what's 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:33.360 the youngest you would go? You just missed when your birthday? 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:38.320 When your birthday? Three guys and seventeen. I'm not gonna lie. Um, 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:44.240 I'm not thirty yet, but you know I've been I've 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:46.919 always said that I always like older guys. I would 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:51.159 never date a guy in his twenties blah blah blah 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.200 blah blah blah blah. Here and now, in my late twenties, 0:06:55.040 --> 0:07:00.080 I find myself dating guys are younger than me. Do 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:02.240 you think, Betty, do you think that one of my 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:07.320 favorite boyfriends, one of my favorite boyfriends? Yeah? Yeah, know 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.640 I'm single. I got a couple of different boyfriends. I 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:16.040 think you know what I mean. Yeah, I'm single. So, yeah, 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:18.880 it's twenty four. I'm gonna say this this this week. 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:27.360 That's what you canna say. She want so Bad was 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:29.960 too young for me. Nine months ago, I felt like 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:31.840 twenty four was too young for me. Nine months ago. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:38.520 Things changed Today, I'm like twenty four. Well, Brenn, when 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:39.720 is the last time you had to go? This is 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:43.920 like such a formal name too. What made you and 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:48.720 what made you choose? After after after I put out 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:52.200 my last mixtape on the internet, I just I wasn't 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:55.200 gonna go by t to be snubre anyway. So when 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:58.280 I when I got into this situation, I was already 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:01.800 in a transition to change my name to something else. 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:03.720 And I was gonna go with my first name, but 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.520 we just decided to go my middle name. I like 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:08.800 your name, thank you. It sounds like here a nice guy, 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:14.720 right yeah, looking at you trying to I'm not saying 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.240 you're not. But it's a nice guy name. It really 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:21.880 like flowers, Binart Flowers like it. It doesn't put a 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:24.680 racial speagmatism on your name. Like if I read Binart Flowers, 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:31.520 I wouldn't picture you. You sound like right, Yeah, your 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:35.360 your name has some um what's the red I'm looking for? 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:40.319 Like m it has like old man swag, but in 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:45.079 a good way, Like it has like like maturity, Like 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:49.600 so like, when's the last time you had a girlfriend? Yesterday? 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:54.280 And you still do? You're currently you broke up yesterday. Yeah, 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:58.880 you're currently because she said the youngest shipgoes got no 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:11.079 girlfriend no more? Wow, Wow, smooth Tooth's your birthday October? Oh, 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:15.520 he's gonna be four this year. I told you, I 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:20.760 knew it. We are four my sense of the year. 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:24.000 But do you feel like now that you're all right, 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:25.719 going from being a rapper to a singer, do you 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.600 feel like you gotta act a little different? No? No, 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:32.000 because I still do both. I still do both, but 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:36.000 I just always been myself. I ain't never acted a 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.680 certain way just because of something, you know. I've always 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:40.520 been a jack of all trade, So I just act 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:46.960 one way and do everything. So Stephanie, October third is date. 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:52.360 Now we just you get why why are you taking this? 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:59.480 I think I'm not coming back to little now. What's 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.439 it like for you traveling and being on the road now, 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.880 because I'm sure you've learned a lot of things, you know, 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.600 just some being out on about earlier, but now being 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.200 signed to a deal, I'm sure you feel like women 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.920 are kind of more out to get you because of 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.960 who you are. Um, I just I just take it 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:14.760 one day at a time, like I really just keep 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:17.520 my mind in a positive state and just you know, 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:21.320 focus on the music, not focus on the music to 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:23.200 the point where I don't know what else is going on. 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:26.040 But I don't really I don't really think about stuff 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:27.720 like that, and I really try not to put myself 0:10:27.720 --> 0:10:29.640 in the type of positions, you know, but I know 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:33.280 they out, you know, to to get what they can get. 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.720 But it's all good. Now. When you put out a 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:38.319 single like you did with your first single, do you 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:40.240 feel like women expect you to be like this super 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:44.120 sweet guy? And are you a super sweet guy? Are 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:49.000 you a dog? They? If I was, I wouldn't tell you, 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:53.320 but be honest. But now, can you answer the question again, 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.560 I said, putting out like your first single. Do you 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:57.400 feel like women expect you to be super sweet when 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:59.840 they meet you in person? You have this expectation of 0:10:59.880 --> 0:11:03.000 the up to you can't be. Of course I feel 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.440 that way, but I don't. I don't dog. I'm not 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:09.480 a bad person like women, like people just like being 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:12.080 around me anyway, So I don't really like go to 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:15.320 those measures like dog and women and all of that. 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:20.440 You mean a lot of girls on Instagram and Twitter? Yeah, 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:23.200 how do you? How do you keep from getting catfished? 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.520 You got to face time me now, I don't care 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:32.880 nothing about your her my. Some gotta give, some gotta give, 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:35.640 you gotta put two thumbs up or so you gotta 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:39.599 do someone, You gotta exactly, you gotta do something. I 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.640 know you ain't catfish. If you're playing you catfish, I 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:43.719 ain't only waste my time. Would you afraid to did 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.720 a girl who knows your music or someone who doesn't 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:52.439 even know who you are? Um? I don't know. I 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:57.719 don't know who I am really, I don't know. Not 0:11:57.800 --> 0:12:00.120 somebody who's like a fan. And no, I don't know. 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:03.360 He must have had a bad air because he answered 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.559 that one way he could beaver could be the collapse 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:11.280 of a damn Oh yeah, I heard that from first. Okay, 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:13.800 Now what about it? Would you dad? A girl who 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:18.640 says she doesn't give head, she's gonna give me but 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.720 he's never done it before, she's gonna do it on me? 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:26.400 What if she's bad at it? At least you gotta teacher? 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:31.679 Would your teacher? How'm gonna teacher? Tell her? What? The dude? 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:36.320 Not show her? Now? Baby gotta use a little let's 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:41.480 let's see use more. They say. Some guys like a 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:47.520 little tooth grazing. Not me. Not big niggas don't mind 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:53.840 helmet because they used to it. They don't want it. 0:12:53.920 --> 0:13:01.520 But it's like if you don't me but not Biden 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.600 slight Then when you can't even tell us a too yeah, 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:13.240 yeah did that to you? But you know that would 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:23.800 have been cool? Well me too far? So now what 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.400 does it take you? What about you? Are you down 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.559 to like go down on a woman the first time 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.240 you have sex? In her and the first time, not 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:35.160 the first time. You gotta get some rank with me here. Yeah, 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:39.440 you can't be just doing did for real? What if 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:41.280 she's like, well, we can't have sex, but we can't 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:42.720 have sex that first. I need you to eat me out. 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:46.040 I had a girl do me like this and I 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:49.440 wasn't going. Come on, she won't me to want it 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:55.320 that bad? Yeah, you don't want it because if time 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:56.920 and then she give me your head and then she 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:58.800 just flip around to the sex and position, you're not 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:02.880 going and you're in your face. Now if she if 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:05.880 she that's savvy, she deserved it. There you go. So 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:12.120 he likes aggressive women. She earthed it two for two. Now, 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:13.959 what about if a girl tries to lick your asshole? 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:17.920 I ain't with none of that, ain't with none of it. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.680 I'm not with none of it that. I ain't with none. 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:23.720 Im with the regular and a little bit of man 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:27.680 because we've we've all seen tank and said, ain't nothing 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.720 wrong with getting your solid tossed as long as as 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:35.920 the women talking your solid, right, that's the tank sid 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:40.440 everybody is, you know everybody. Some guys like it. Something 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.440 guys don't. Some guys like it and won't admit it. 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:44.440 But it's all good, right. Have you ever tried has 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:47.920 somebody ever tried it on you? I'm sure somebody tried 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:54.640 it because you know now when Yeah, that's how she 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:56.840 was just going hard and I thought she tried me, 0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:59.800 but she didn't try. She's been I had to try me. 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:01.640 She was just looking at your bus and got a 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.640 little too close to She was just exciting and that's 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:07.040 why I took it. It's just how to What about 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:08.760 after you get off stage and you haven't showered yet? 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:10.320 You do you feel like you gotta shower before you 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:13.600 have show? Got a shower? She can wait, she wanted, 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.640 she can wait? What if you don't want you to shower? 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:21.120 She tried? She's like what if she's like, you don't 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:23.280 stay your We's no good? What does she wants all 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:28.080 that hot fresh steal a shower? But then I'm makes 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:31.160 me feel like this girl like me dead much. She's 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.600 gonna do it like that for real. I can't call 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.080 her bad though. How long is it take? And tell 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:40.600 you take the kind of off? What makes you want 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.640 to take the kondo? What makes you decide? Like now 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.560 I can start having protect the set feeling with her 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:54.560 three for three on you man. It's crazy though, like 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:59.280 just just somebody that is just loyal, you know what 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.280 I'm saying something at it that you ain't got a question. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:04.000 You know, in my lifetime, I don't really do that, 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:08.320 no head things, so it is only you know, it 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:12.960 takes a special being man, very spicial. Do you have 0:16:13.000 --> 0:16:17.120 any kids? No kids? No maybes? So nobody ever tried 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:23.200 to hit you with that. You can't, you man, When 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.760 I tried to suck me wrong, I look at him 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:31.520 totally different, like, whoa, We're gonna be careful with this one. 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:33.800 But she just happened before. You might got to be 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:37.440 careful with this one. He's a little loosey goosey. Oh wait, 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:38.960 or what if he tries to suck you right in? 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:41.240 And or what if in the middle of sex he 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:45.680 pulls the condom off. No, it has happened to me. Like, guys, 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:50.320 I've tried it, and it's a really uncomfortable suction. Women too, 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:54.240 you know. Yeah, it's a really uncomfortable situation. Like because 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.720 I'm again, I'm single, I don't want to have real sex. 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.560 I don't it's not happening for me. I don't want that? 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:03.800 What do you get blowdoubts of the condom? Come on? 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:08.520 That's I was just only like street wards do that? 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:13.000 Like only processing streetwalkers have set like some condoms. Would 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:14.760 you let a girl suck your dick with a condom 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:19.359 one or she gotta take it off? I would? What 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:22.600 do you request it? Right? I want? I don't request it, 0:17:22.640 --> 0:17:24.560 but I mean that you asked me if I wouldn't 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.159 let her do what she wanted to do, then you 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:28.399 would be fine with that. So you've got in your 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:31.119 dick sunk with a condom, And how did you like it? 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:40.119 It was true because you ain't getting that good tongue. 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.920 You know, the sensation that you get when the woman 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.199 takes her tongue and licks up your penis and you 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:47.800 feel the taste buzz and on her tongue and the 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:49.800 spit and the warmth. You're not gonna feel that through 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:52.560 no condom. So that should be why don't you got? No? 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:55.080 You need to write a book. I need to write 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:56.760 a book for real. You should have had me locked 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:01.040 kind of what's that? What does a guy think of 0:18:01.080 --> 0:18:03.159 a woman when she wants to suck his dick with 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:12.840 a calm? I can't think I can't. She's a prostessing like, oh, 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:15.680 she has experience with us because she sells her mouth. 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:18.160 She said, no, I don't know if that's what that means. 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:20.640 That's exactly what that Either that or she's an extreme 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:24.720 germaphobe and she just feels like you know, and to 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:27.480 avoid getting some type of canker store and her side 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:30.639 of her mouth. She have you ever suck the condom? Never? 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:44.320 She's not a drama podcast at either. Now, what about kissing? 0:18:44.320 --> 0:18:46.520 How do you feel about kissing? We don't do no, 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:56.240 come on just playing. I don't say anybody you never 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:57.880 had one of those knights in the club junk where 0:18:57.920 --> 0:19:01.600 you made out with some random girl. I had one 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:06.919 encounter like that, but she just went at me like 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:09.919 it wasn't a mutual things. She was just like like 0:19:10.280 --> 0:19:12.960 he was okay. I wasn't okay with it. But I 0:19:12.960 --> 0:19:15.760 mean it happened so fast, like I wasn't ready. So 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:18.200 you just made out real fast. I mean I had 0:19:18.240 --> 0:19:22.760 to at that point. You know what, I've heard a 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:25.600 lot of guys say that they feel like they can't 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:30.600 turn women down sometimes. No seriously, I'm not gonna name names, 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:32.359 but I had a couple of artists tell me about 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:35.159 experiences with women where they felt like they had to 0:19:35.200 --> 0:19:37.560 fun because they felt like this girl is like here. 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:40.560 It's just they felt a lot of pressure. You don't 0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:43.200 sometimes felt a lot of pressure, like chicks be pushing 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:46.560 up on you so hard and you feel like I man, 0:19:46.600 --> 0:19:50.879 I had a pression. They know pression. They ain't no press. 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:55.040 You ever regretted, you got you regret like him. I 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:59.760 wish I wouldn't did that. I think everybody has sex 0:19:59.800 --> 0:20:01.840 that they wish they could take that. I wish I 0:20:01.880 --> 0:20:04.800 could take my pussy bag from a couple of neggats. 0:20:04.840 --> 0:20:10.720 But you can't do bad. What will it make? You 0:20:10.800 --> 0:20:12.200 know what I do? I'm mean in black it out 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.000 my mind. You know the minute it never happened, and 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:17.200 it happened, they never happened. Sunshine for the Spotless nine. 0:20:18.359 --> 0:20:20.280 For me, if a guy slept with me before I 0:20:20.320 --> 0:20:22.840 had my child, you know, I don't count with me. 0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:25.040 You don't count. If you slept with me before I 0:20:25.080 --> 0:20:28.240 got brusts and plants, you don't count. If you slep 0:20:28.920 --> 0:20:32.040 it don't count. Before I got my butt done in 0:20:32.080 --> 0:20:35.880 the light bow, it don't count. You was a whole 0:20:35.920 --> 0:20:44.359 different bit bit differ, like they you said you sucking, 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:49.160 you suck Florence, Florence was stuff and knocking sa Thiago, 0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:53.280 we're to who's just stuff? You didn't get to the 0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:58.320 funny or the Florence or the Satiago rule that rule 0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:01.280 right there? I hate it? Hate it? What about? What 0:21:02.040 --> 0:21:06.640 about what a condom? It doesn't count? What I don't 0:21:06.680 --> 0:21:08.560 think for me? I didn't say. She's just saying in 0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:13.920 general that person before I heard it before before, or 0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:15.679 if it's out of the country, it doesn't count. Some 0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:18.720 people say if it's almost if I didn't happen in Vegas, 0:21:20.359 --> 0:21:22.480 she says that she didn't comment, doesn't I said that 0:21:22.520 --> 0:21:26.520 in my past? That's so yeah, I got already rules. 0:21:26.760 --> 0:21:30.280 See as man, we can't worry about this because it's 0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:32.320 friend for y'all. Are there girls that you would deny 0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:34.480 having sucked? Like guessing? I ask you and you know 0:21:34.520 --> 0:21:40.600 you're sucked, and you denied, Yes it is. But what 0:21:40.680 --> 0:21:44.920 would make you deny somebody? She was a hot ass mess? 0:21:45.160 --> 0:21:49.560 It varies like like, what's the reason to deny for 0:21:49.560 --> 0:21:58.880 having a checko? Now that's what I'm saying. You see, 0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:04.280 if a girl for that right back to me. She 0:22:04.320 --> 0:22:08.520 didn't have like stomaking the fat ass exactly like you. 0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:11.680 But I mean, I mean the guys, to the guys 0:22:11.720 --> 0:22:14.280 who listened, who did sun me before all of these 0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:16.600 things that I said, it was still good pussy, So 0:22:16.680 --> 0:22:18.680 you still got to fun black with the same I 0:22:18.720 --> 0:22:20.800 didn't get nothing done to that, No, no, it was. 0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:24.560 It was just a different experience. You never experienced this 0:22:24.680 --> 0:22:27.879 one that's Stephanie. But that Stephanie wasn't doing that, you 0:22:27.960 --> 0:22:30.120 know what I mean, It wasn't. So don't feel bad. 0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:33.320 You just get the four point oh you know, the 0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:37.680 new three point eight, you know version of it. I 0:22:37.720 --> 0:22:40.120 got these last extensions it ain't never had. You didn't 0:22:40.119 --> 0:22:47.960 get the update straight y'all. So what's another reason besides 0:22:47.960 --> 0:22:50.000 when she looks like now, maybe if like one of 0:22:50.000 --> 0:22:52.199 your boys tacked or a few of them did. Is 0:22:52.200 --> 0:22:54.400 that a reason the same time one of the homes match. 0:22:54.440 --> 0:23:00.159 We own up to that, We own up that you 0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:02.800 feel me, bro? Did Did I did that? You feel like? 0:23:03.200 --> 0:23:08.439 Could your wife her? Who did you like? One of 0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:12.760 your friends fucking fucking before you to be having my 0:23:12.880 --> 0:23:16.720 kids coming around and my my punicky mad at me? 0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:18.879 He turned up on me somebody smiled. My wife is 0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:21.520 all with But what if it was like five years ago, 0:23:22.560 --> 0:23:28.400 fifty years ago? I'm not going is so you mean 0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:31.760 to tell me? In Memphis growing up, y'all ain't never 0:23:31.840 --> 0:23:33.639 you never had feelings for a girl that one of 0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:39.320 your friends. Yeah, but I ain't married. You would look 0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:40.879 at one of your friends different if they one of 0:23:40.920 --> 0:23:44.400 your old pieces. No, that's my brother, that's my dog. 0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:46.760 They're gonna do what you want to do. They're gonna compare. 0:23:47.200 --> 0:23:49.160 But I'm saying you wouldn't be like, man, I don't 0:23:49.160 --> 0:23:52.119 think you should do it like you know what. I 0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:55.639 wouldn't do that, but somebody did me like it? Like 0:23:55.720 --> 0:23:57.360 one of the homes was like, bro, I don't think 0:23:57.400 --> 0:24:01.000 you need to do it because I'm like, cuse what 0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:03.919 he hated on you? But you did it anyway? Or 0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:06.360 do you respect it? Because that's when you don't respect 0:24:06.400 --> 0:24:08.679 none of it. You ain't with her no more. She 0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:11.720 don't like you. She like me? But what about guy code? 0:24:12.320 --> 0:24:16.280 What is it those before hose and all of that that? 0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:20.280 What if he wasn't I don't know you after that? 0:24:21.680 --> 0:24:23.600 Who him? Yeah? You need to get out his feeling. 0:24:24.400 --> 0:24:28.800 But damn cool world I said, the beasts right here, 0:24:28.920 --> 0:24:34.000 right right, we're talking to you. I feel like, um, 0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:36.479 I feel like the if you slept one of your 0:24:36.520 --> 0:24:40.640 friends slept with the person, whether man or woman rule, 0:24:40.840 --> 0:24:44.639 it depends on the situation. Because but if he's stars 0:24:44.680 --> 0:24:47.439 the explicitly told him no, you know I used to 0:24:47.440 --> 0:24:51.520 funk with her, and he still fucking did it. That's different. Yeah, 0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:54.320 that's different. That's different. But I just feel like at 0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:57.359