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Speaker 1: Hey, we get it. Breakups are messy, but there is

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Speaker 1: so you can avoid the mess and drama of these

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Speaker 1: terrible ways. They're gonna get increasingly messy. Let's start with

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Speaker 1: number five. I broke it with my boyfriend over TikTok trend?

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Speaker 1: Was I wrong? Was the TikTok trend? Hey, you should

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Speaker 1: go cheat on your girlfriend? Because then yes, but if

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Speaker 1: it was just like shaking some booty, then maybe no. Interesting?

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Speaker 1: So what what are you predicting is going to be

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Speaker 1: a good trend or bad trend? I'm going to be predicted.

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Speaker 1: It was like a silly trend. Me too, I'm going

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Speaker 1: with silly trend. I mean, there's a new TikTok trend

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Speaker 1: every day every day, and can we all be honest.

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Speaker 1: They're all silly. They're all silly, I mean, but some

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Speaker 1: of them are like one of them could be the

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Speaker 1: relationship test one, which let's see a good one. It's

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you fail, it's about what No, let's

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Speaker 1: get it, do it. Let's read what is the orange

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Speaker 1: peel theory. I was scrolling on TikTok when I saw

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Speaker 1: a post about the orange peel theory, which, to sum up,

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Speaker 1: is when you ask another person to do a small

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Speaker 1: task for you, like peeling an orange or asking them

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Speaker 1: to tie your shoes for you. Both of these tasks

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Speaker 1: that you can do by yourself. The real test is

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Speaker 1: how they respond to you. If they respond with you

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Speaker 1: I guess, then they are not willing to do small

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Speaker 1: larger tasks for you in the future. That is fucking bullshit, dude.

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Speaker 1: Oh however, yes, that is such bs. However, if they

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Speaker 1: then they pass. In a way, TikTok is braiding an

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Speaker 1: army of simps. Why are we? What is what is

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Speaker 1: happening here? Like it's the simp army, That's what's happening.

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Speaker 1: It's so like, yes, if you don't bend over and

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Speaker 1: like I won't help a friend in need. Hey babe,

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Speaker 1: I just just just go dump? Could you? Could you

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Speaker 1: just like, help me out a little bit. Like on,

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Speaker 1: these socks are getting a little smelly. Could you just

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Speaker 1: take this off? Please? Just it's a orange peel. It's

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Speaker 1: the orange peel. If you really cared, you would. Hey, Sam,

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Speaker 1: we just hung out today.

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Speaker 2: Can you drive me three twenty three minutes home?

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Speaker 1: Please? Oh? That one cut a little too deep. Produce

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Speaker 1: a rally with the big jokes. She's coming on the

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Speaker 1: show tomorrow, so oh dear, he's driving her Rome. Oh

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Speaker 1: enough jokes at same as expense. Now onto the situation.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend of seven months was sitting on the couch

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Speaker 1: when I saw the TikTok video explaining the theory, and

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Speaker 1: I decided that I should try it out. Oh no, oh,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be the other way around.

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Speaker 1: Up to this point we were happy. But now looking

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Speaker 1: and a TikTok trend is dictating your entire relationship. You

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Speaker 1: didn't touch some grass when you fail. I asked him

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Speaker 1: at me and asked me why I couldn't do it,

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Speaker 1: which is also so hilarious because they just watched this

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Speaker 1: I thought that maybe he was intimidated by my long hair. However, however,

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Speaker 1: man relax. He just got off y'all, he works from home.

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Speaker 1: Anything was the burning gun, the smoking gun, you can

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Speaker 1: What is going on here? And even if he was

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Speaker 1: how dare he not braid my hair? How dare you

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Speaker 1: a relationship away over TikTok. Why are you doing it? Then? No?

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Speaker 1: Stop stop. I feel like I'm watching the train coming

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Speaker 1: I love that hack. We have to kind of like

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Speaker 1: that's true instituting that in our house? Will you get caught?

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Speaker 1: It's up to you now, Just imagining everyone starts flashing

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Speaker 1: each other in the house, you could just get back

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Speaker 1: tell us how you really feel about this on us?

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Speaker 1: And I think that I have fed, held and changed

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Speaker 1: am I the a hole? If I go through with it, Air,

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Speaker 1: but let's pause skirt and park it right here. Do

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Speaker 1: we think that he's the a hole for don't pick

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Speaker 1: I was like, I want to get it out before

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Speaker 1: But like, unless I'm like literally about to like, unless

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Speaker 1: but I guess some Tiktook says and I should do it. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: so here's the big thing. She then mentioned that she, oh,

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Speaker 1: he has, which is a infinitely better reason than not

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Speaker 1: My god, but we haven't had it to read. Hello everyone,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening to the post. I read what

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Speaker 1: should not have taken advice from a TikTok, and it

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Speaker 1: do not know. We don't know. Sounds like Opie is

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Speaker 1: Oh come on now, the method worked and made me

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Speaker 1: You know, put your even just do like a ponytail

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Speaker 1: seven months into the relationship, these problems are foreshadowing what's

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Speaker 1: to read this. We have a juicy update coming up.

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Speaker 1: But the question is should we leave the relationship at

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Speaker 1: have the actual reasons someone should break up with someone, yes,

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Speaker 1: instead of the TikTok reasons. So from what we know now, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: t alerts with this next two sea Hello again read it. HI,

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Speaker 1: fast update for you guys. First, I would like to

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Speaker 1: thank everyone with how brutally honest the comments were. Again

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Speaker 1: I guess, and no I am not twelve, I am

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Speaker 1: Excuse me. The thing is I don't want to be either,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of a good thing, but it is done

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Speaker 1: and shut down. Our mutual friend tried to diffuse the

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00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 1: situation by saying that my boyfriend didn't mean to hurt me,

427
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 1: was only trying to help Wingman. I wasn't buying it.

428
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: I feel like the intentions were to help Wingman, but

429
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,919
Speaker 1: when you wingman, you typically tried to defer to the

430
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: person you're wing manning. He just went up, rister up,

431
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 1: and just walked back. Yeah, it's more just like a demonstration.

432
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: It's a demonstration, right, bro, Let me show you how

433
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 1: to really make out with a lady. I'm sorry, Wingman.

434
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: So my boyfriend soon ordered an uber and we rode home.

435
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 1: Our mutual friend went in a separate way, so it

436
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: was just me and my boyfriend. He got me a

437
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: water out of the fridge, but I didn't say anything.

438
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: After a few minutes, I was laying on the couch

439
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 1: and he says, good night and heads to his bedroom.

440
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 1: I blurt out, are you going to apologize? He gets

441
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: all defensive, and so do I. We argue. He claims

442
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: that because he said he was going to wingman and

443
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: because he said watch this, that that made it okay.

444
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: I told him that if the roles were reversed, it

445
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: would be mad at me. Maybe it's not cheesing. I

446
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 1: said watch this, I said, you a link to the video.

447
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: He's giving a four warnings. Yeah, I give you a

448
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: heads up, babe, Heads up, bro, if I say watch

449
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: this all cheating, negated, Do you want to punish me

450
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: for my honesty and transparency? Baby? Yeah? Yeah? Wow. I

451
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: feel like you're rewarding bad behavior at this point, babe,

452
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: but hey, you do you. Eventually he cuts me off

453
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: and says that we should continue in the morning. I'm

454
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 1: full on crying at this point, but he still goes

455
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 1: to his bedroom, leaving me to cry myself to sleep. Yikes.

456
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: The next morning, he's doing nice things for me, but

457
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: no apology. I texted him earlier today asking for a break,

458
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: and he respected that. But when we talked on the

459
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: phone an hour ago, he claimed that we both overreacted

460
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: and a few other things I didn't agree with where

461
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: do we go from here? I don't trust him anymore.

462
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: The man he was last night is not the one

463
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 1: I fell in love with. And there is a juicy, juicy,

464
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: juicy update. But I have a question to pose for

465
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: you guys listening and watching and for John. Do you

466
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: think a break was the respect that should have happened? No,

467
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: I don't. I think a break is probably too far

468
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,880
Speaker 1: of a response. But also to the boyfriend, like, I

469
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 1: have been in a situation where a woman was flirting

470
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: with me directly in front of my girlfriend and I

471
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: truly did not realize it. I did not realize it,

472
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,239
Speaker 1: and we have a conversation after and as soon as

473
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: she explained it, I was like, oh my god, I'm

474
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: so sorry. I wouldn't have engaged if I truly understood.

475
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: So I'm like, why not if she you know, said

476
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: and like instead and like, hey, I have a girlfriend.

477
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 1: Well she's standing right there, she she did. I think

478
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: you've changed anything, though? Would I have changed how I

479
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: interacted that a little bit? Yeah? I would have. I

480
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: think I just would have been a little bit more

481
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: like detached. Actually I have a I'll do an okay

482
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 1: story time for it at the end, So okay, story

483
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: time at the end. But that's what I'm saying, That's

484
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking. Okay, I would love to know what

485
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: you guys think. Would you break up with their significant

486
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: other if they flirted in this way even though they

487
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 1: said watched this do the update A few more details

488
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: about our argument over the phone the day after this happened.

489
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: One of the first things I asked him was do

490
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 1: you realize how e ft up your actions were? His response,

491
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: I hear you. I just disagree. That felt completely disrespectful

492
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: to my feelings. I then told him that I've lost

493
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: trust in him. He then tried to flip it on

494
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: me and said he's lost some trust in me too.

495
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: We argued for nearly two hours over the phone. He

496
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: claimed that I was using my severe anxiety as a

497
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: free license to go off on him. That doesn't make

498
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: any sense because We've only had three arguments in eight months,

499
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: and every time I've let my anxiety get the better

500
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,919
Speaker 1: of me and I've asked him insecure questions, I end

501
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: up apologizing later on every time. Also, this is one

502
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: time I've gone off on him. Every other time I

503
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: brought up something that hurt my feelings calmly and logically.

504
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: Later that night, I had texted him saying that we

505
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: should stay broken up for several days, then reconvene broken

506
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: up for several days. What do I mean, just like

507
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: not talking to each other, or like shut it down,

508
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: or like just how you can flirt with anyone you

509
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: want at the bar for three days? Yeah? Right? What

510
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,719
Speaker 1: if she's like her, she's like, okay, great, bit, thanks,

511
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: watch this. That is an interesting place to be. Like,

512
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: whenever you're like taking a break, is it free game?

513
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 1: You have to define it? Yeah? I think it depends. Oh,

514
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: we're undefined, he agreed. It's been a week now and

515
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: I haven't heard from him. I feel like he should

516
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,199
Speaker 1: be the one to reach out right at this point.

517
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: I doubt he will. Well, and there is another juicy

518
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: update number two. But do you think, op, he should

519
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: reach out. Yeah, if if Obi really feels like she

520
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: wants to end the relationship, which maybe it's a bit

521
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: of an overreaction, but hey, at the end of the day,

522
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: if she's really like, I don't want to be in

523
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: this relationship anymore, go ahead and end it. If she

524
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: does want to be if she does want to try, yeah,

525
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: I reach out. For sure, I feel that trust actually

526
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: wasn't eroded. And what I mean by that is it

527
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: like he wasn't doing anything behind her back, right, like,

528
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: and I think he legitimately thinks that that was completely okay. Yeah, yeah,

529
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: And it's not like he actually cheated or anything. He was.

530
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: I think he was like trying to literally in front

531
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: of her, Yeah, he is in front of her. Yeah,

532
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: and he did say watch this, And I think like

533
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: he didn't have any mal intent, you know. I think

534
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: he legitimately thought that, oh, this is a completely fine

535
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: thing to do and didn't realize it. I think if,

536
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: like now, maybe he knows that isn't a fine thing

537
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: to do. But I don't know if the trust was

538
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: eroded necessarily. Yeah, I know what you mean. I think

539
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: that I don't think he was intending to do anything wrong.

540
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: But I also think he could have maybe persuaded himself

541
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: that what he did. We don't know the in between

542
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: the lines things he said, but that he definitely did

543
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: not have tact for sure, like, yeah, not a good

544
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: move to flirt as a wingman with a girl in

545
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: front of your girlfriend or not in front of your girlfriend,

546
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: regardless of whether you say, watch this or not, but

547
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: I do think. I do think he wasn't trying to

548
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: be deceitful. Yeah, and to be clear, uh not fans

549
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: of actively trying to flirt in front of your girl partners,

550
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: although I've heard a couples that are like, oh, flirting

551
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: with other people is fine if they like that. Yeah,

552
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: these two clearly don't. So this will likely be the

553
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: last update I post. After two weeks of no contact,

554
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,959
Speaker 1: I ended up messaging him because it was getting ridiculous.

555
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: I asked him if he was home yet, because they

556
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: lived together. Oh, I forgot about that. Oh, I think,

557
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: And he said that he would be the next day.

558
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: I asked that he let me know when he can

559
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: come over to bring my stuff and so we could

560
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: talk about everything. Oh so maybe they don't live together. Okay,

561
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: all right, Okay, maybe they don't live together. I was confused.

562
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: He said he would the next day. He explained he

563
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: had car trouble so he couldn't over, but he could

564
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: the following day. I asked if he at least made

565
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: it home and wasn't stranded on the interstate, and he

566
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: confirmed that he made it home. I was a bit skeptical,

567
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: but I gave him the benefit of the doubt the

568
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: next day, but I see you in the comments if

569
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: you think you know where this is going. I feel

570
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: like I have a suspicion of cheat it, yeah, or

571
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: not cheating, but break but watching this, yeah, watching this.

572
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: The next day, he asked if I was still open

573
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: to talk six thirty seven, once I got off work.

574
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: I said I was. He said that a friend was

575
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: going to be waiting in the car while he was

576
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: at my place, a friend. I was confused by this,

577
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: so I asked if he was borrowing his friend's car.

578
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: He said that they were hanging out, so he brought

579
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: him along. I told him around six thirty that I

580
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: was leaving for work and would be there at seven.

581
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: He stated that his friend couldn't wait that long, so

582
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: he was just going to leave my stuff and drop

583
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: off his friend. I didn't even realize he was at

584
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: my house at six thirty. He sent a picture of

585
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: my stuff out in the open in front of the door.

586
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: This upset me because anyone could have stolen my stuff,

587
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: and I told him that. He said that he was sorry,

588
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: he just had to drop off his friend, but he

589
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: was willing to meet at Starbucks. Halfway between us, this

590
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: seems like it's over. Yeah, this iss. I stated that

591
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: I still had some belongings here and a letter I

592
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: wanted to give him, and I mostly just wanted to

593
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: hear where his head was at. But by his actions

594
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: I could tell he wasn't trying anymore, and I said

595
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: so to him. I said, if he wanted a letter

596
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: to let me know. He just said that he heard

597
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: where I was coming from and that he wished me

598
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: the best. I thought about responding, but deciding against it,

599
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: I ended up burning the letter, per recommendation of a

600
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: few friends. Wow. Thank you to everyone who gave their

601
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: respectful opinions and supports. So what do you think did

602
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: Op make the right decision by taking this break? And

603
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: is the boyfriend and asshole one for flirting in front

604
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: of his girlfriend and two for his reaction post her

605
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: wanting a break. I think the boyfriend is the a hole.

606
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: I also think they both overreacted. I think that and

607
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: and ultimately, like I just I just feel like, what

608
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: do we say all the time on the show? There

609
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,239
Speaker 1: had to have been something before in the relationship that,

610
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: like she said in the story, like oh, this is

611
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: the first time I've had a intense reaction to something

612
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: he's done. But like, but maybe you know, they haven't

613
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: discussed the parameters of this aspect of all their relationship before.

614
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: It's totally possible because I don't think it's a given

615
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: that like, oh, don't like flirt with anyone in this way. Well,

616
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: I think the real thing is what is the definition

617
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: of flirting? Because I think I think generally most people

618
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: are like, oh, I don't want you flirting, But what

619
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: is the definition of flirting? Like where does it just

620
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: have an excited conversation, yeah, exactly, or a conversation conversation? Yeah,

621
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: so yeah, I think I think both of them kind

622
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: of overreacted. I feel like my definition of flirting would

623
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: be like excessive touching. Yeah, pretty much, I would draw

624
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: the line, yeah, pretty much Like obviously hugs and like

625
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: whatever else are fine, but yeah, excessive. Yeah, that's that's

626
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 1: a that's like a clear indicator of learning. Yeah, but

627
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: it is kind of a gray it is, and it's

628
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: it's it's because like some people are super touchy, and

629
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: then you could say, oh, like no sexual conversations, but

630
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: then some people just have sexual conversations with everyone. So

631
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: it's just like the line is very weakly. What about

632
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: like lip biting. I guess yeah, I mean if it's itchy,

633
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: but like you know, like like actually, but I don't

634
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: think I've ever legitimately bit my lip to you. But

635
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: it's I feel like I've never bit my lip. Like

636
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: women kind of like.

637
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes they don't know, like the way they do it

638
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Speaker 2: is way better than guys.

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Speaker 1: Will do it. Guys are so ugly, it's crazy. Bro

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Speaker 1: Damn it's through. Women are so beautiful and men are

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00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: so ugly it's wild. Straight the podcast. But speaking of

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Speaker 1: all that, I do have an okay storytime that is

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00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: very directly related. So I was at a like a

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Speaker 1: house party thing. There was someone that I had never

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Speaker 1: met before that I had interacted with in like a

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00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: very like business setting. Actually I was going to potentially

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Speaker 1: do a podcast like deal with these people with this group,

648
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: and then she was asking I was explaining about okop

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Speaker 1: and like a big group, and I was referring to

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Speaker 1: a sponsor I will not name that helps you with

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Speaker 1: your intimate activities that goes on your feet. Oh, and

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Speaker 1: so then she started asking all these quests and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm Philip, and I like making jokes or whatever,

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00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: and then she was like, oh, well, like do you

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Speaker 1: need those and all this stuff? So I thought I

656
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 1: was like being funny and cracking jokes, but she kept

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Speaker 1: digging into this thing of like, oh well, like do

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00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: you need this or whatever? Maybe we could put one

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00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: on my foot and one on yours and see what happens.

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Speaker 1: And then she was like, oh, let's definitely like find

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00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: a time to like connect again together. I thought like

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00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: everything that I thought was jokes. When she said connect again,

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, like about podcasting stuff because we

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Speaker 1: had talked about it previously. And then my girlfriend was like, yeah,

665
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: she was flirting with you like crazy, and I hated that.

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00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: And then like she I was like, oh, like let

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00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 1: me like take a step back. And you know, initially

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I wasn't flirting. I was like,

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Speaker 1: let me take a step back, walk me through it,

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Speaker 1: like from your POV. Yeah, And then after she ran

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Speaker 1: it down, I'm like, you are on right. I think

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Speaker 1: guys in general are just very oblivious to flirting. I

673
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: just don't think women are interested in me generally, so

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Speaker 1: I'm still surprised when like that is actually the case.

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Speaker 1: So uh uh, put a I'm interested in John, Please, they're.

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Speaker 4: Going to do it more than I feel like John,

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Speaker 4: you think that they're all nice to you, not flirting.

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Speaker 1: I just have a hard time determining women actually crosses

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Speaker 1: over the line.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sometimes I have trouble with like are they especially

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Speaker 4: being in a relationship, because I feel like women are

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Speaker 4: generally way more respectful, way more respectful if they know

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Speaker 4: you're in a relationship than guys are.

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Speaker 1: That's been my experience, Like my guy friends are like,

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Speaker 1: oh they're not married. I don't know, not that not

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Speaker 1: that women don't do it, but that guys are like

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Speaker 1: way more. Actually, I would love to know from our audience,

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00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: but they think who's more respectful about relationship? Guys are girls?

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Speaker 1: Put your answers of the comic let us know. But

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Speaker 1: speaking of story, Sam, I think I got one more

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Speaker 1: forum hit me