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Speaker 1: Welcome, Welcome here, Happy New Year, sled. We made it

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Speaker 1: out of fucking twenty twenty and honest, twenty twenty one

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Speaker 1: is probably gonna not be much different. Welcome guys to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, maybebe a

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Speaker 1: K A debt bitch, a k A full court punks,

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Speaker 1: a k A tripod mommy. Hi guys. If you've never

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Speaker 1: heard my voice, I am so sad for you. My

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Speaker 1: name is Wheezy. Welcome to our show, Horrible Decisions. We

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Speaker 1: are so excited to start this fucking year off with

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Speaker 1: a bang? Did you start with a bang? Um? A bang? Like?

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Speaker 1: Am I pussy? Because I'm gonna be on my period

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Speaker 1: on New Years before? Not me, bitch. Mine is about

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Speaker 1: that mid mid month time frame like the fourth it

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Speaker 1: just ended, which is why I'm about to get a

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Speaker 1: bang tonight. Oh so yeahulate right now. And the only

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Speaker 1: reason I know my period is gonna come on New

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Speaker 1: Years is because Thanksgiving it came like clockwork. I had

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Speaker 1: chicken and just bam. It was like, you know what's crazy,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually scheduling now my yearly. But with scheduling my yearly,

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Speaker 1: a bitch is also about to check fertility because bitch,

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Speaker 1: he has been showing up this club, babe, And yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you doing it when you ovulate? Check?

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Speaker 1: I don't ain't tracking ship if we fuck you go in,

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Speaker 1: you know, we could just rewrite like you'd be like

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Speaker 1: these niggas coming in because it's these niggas. I just

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Speaker 1: feel like you, these niggas were always my man, bitch

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Speaker 1: I didn't like and know that. I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you'd be doing. It's just a

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Speaker 1: little bit. I don't even knowing that Mandy's in ba

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Speaker 1: I'm on the new what she was mass, I don't

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Speaker 1: feel like I was listening in the kitchen in her

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Speaker 1: new green that part. So starting off the new year

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Speaker 1: in a new place, Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So I've been in my apartment for the last going

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Speaker 1: on five years. And just first off, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: that how you deal with moving in the fucking documents

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Speaker 1: they need, I didn't know that. I didn't know that

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Speaker 1: them looking at bank statements meant they wanted to see

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Speaker 1: the deposits going into my bank. I just thought they

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Speaker 1: just gave them. I know, I gave them my one

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Speaker 1: there's really no money going in or out. So they're

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Speaker 1: just like, so where is your Like how are you

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Speaker 1: making money? Then? So I showed them my other account

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Speaker 1: and then I guess that sufficed, but I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't get to see all the transactions. I don't

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Speaker 1: have to show y'all three accounts now because I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go into this telling them that I was

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Speaker 1: an entrepreneur, that I worked for myself. So I only

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Speaker 1: showed them my personal accounts, not my business accounts as

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Speaker 1: you do, which I said I was a media consultant.

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Speaker 1: And also I had all the other documents. That's all

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say. Do not be scared. People be like,

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Speaker 1: what do you do? Talk about second date? Yeah, I said, well,

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Speaker 1: it's not even that I'm scared about what I do.

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Speaker 1: It's just when when you say you're an entrepreneur or

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Speaker 1: to know all that information. I mean, they always know

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Speaker 1: I'm self employed because I've moved what twice since I've

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, not switched up on it too, yes, but

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Speaker 1: I mean with the with with moving. Um, for anyone

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Speaker 1: that's moving something that New York State does, at least,

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Speaker 1: A letter, so they just have to verify what you'll

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Speaker 1: make and what you're trajected to make. But um, I

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Speaker 1: not fun? You know, I'm so bad to be an Elias, Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be back in Elias. Like my

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Speaker 1: I just love that I was able to come back

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Speaker 1: to the lower and what I wanted. And it's funny

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Speaker 1: because I almost moved into this building on Broom Street.

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Speaker 1: I lived in downtown Brooklyn. I know you y'all know

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Speaker 1: I didn't like it, but I think I should have

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Speaker 1: I was talking to my friend who's also moving, and

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Speaker 1: give a funk about the neighborhood. I give a funk

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Speaker 1: about convenience. I give a funk about like it's like conveniences,

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Speaker 1: my Starbucks, my Duncan, donuts, my grocery store of fucking

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Speaker 1: post office convenience. I don't give a funk about my neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: I leave to party. I come to the city to party.

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Speaker 1: When I go home, I just kind of wanted silence.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to walk out of my building and

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Speaker 1: not my thing. But I need all of y'all's help.

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Speaker 1: So this is my first time moving into like a

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, Okay, So what do I give my

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Speaker 1: give him a bag with sex toys. I don't know

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Speaker 1: When I had a balcony. I didn't really feel the

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Speaker 1: don't think that you have to, Like I pay my rent,

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Speaker 1: you pay your rent, and I'm not asking what the

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Speaker 1: you keep sucking when it's like, you know, like if

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Speaker 1: don't know which your balcony looks like mine was a

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Speaker 1: little more private, but if you know, it's a terrorist,

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Speaker 1: other side of the side. Don't, don't, don't do what,

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Speaker 1: not gonna I'm not gonna know. And see that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do. I am not gonna change. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna change my fucking schedule around whether my neighbor

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, because I'll tell you right now, If my

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Speaker 1: for them. But bitch, if I'm outside having my Starbucks,

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Speaker 1: How God damn Wendy Red Hair lady. What happened up?

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Speaker 1: What happened to us both paying our rent? We book

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Speaker 1: pay rent. I could do what I want to do

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Speaker 1: in my apartment, but you want nigga on the which

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Speaker 1: is why I said, Should I bake cookies? Bitch? Should

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Speaker 1: I give him a bottle of wine? A bottle of Tito's?

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Speaker 1: How could I let him know? I see you, You'll

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Speaker 1: see me. I'm gonna be fucking I'm a balcony. You

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Speaker 1: just reminded me of my new neighbor. She just sounded

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Speaker 1: know y'all want to talk about sex, but too bad

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Speaker 1: we're talking about sex. You're telling me I can't have

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Speaker 1: the two bedroom. Who's your roommate? Was like, Oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: using it as a workspace, but nice to meet you.

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Speaker 1: This is a Caucasian woman. I wanted she looks like

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Speaker 1: her name is Sarah, but she was sounding like this,

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Speaker 1: and then she said to me, she was like, yeah, girl,

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Speaker 1: She really wanted to say another black woman. That's what

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Speaker 1: she wants. She's not black, No, she's not. She's a

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Speaker 1: to Tammy. My mama kind of thought like that, Well,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you what she did. Maybe she's from

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Speaker 1: how about yourself. She then says to me, verbatim, girl,

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Speaker 1: me what it was. She grew up around it, you know,

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Speaker 1: funk is it? It just was so like put on dog.

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Speaker 1: I was uncomfortable. So then she was like, well, let

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Speaker 1: me know if you need help by packing or something. Girl,

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Speaker 1: I'm just about to go to the show. And I was.

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Speaker 1: I was so uncomfortable. Many why man? She was leaving,

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Speaker 1: She said to me, have a good day, sis, bitch,

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Speaker 1: who are you talking to? Technically half of you is

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Speaker 1: her sister, bitch, half of you in the Caucasian Middle

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Speaker 1: Eastern ISRAELI No, but I'm just saying half of half

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Speaker 1: I don't take away from I mean, we see a

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Speaker 1: lot of our fans. We know, straight up when white

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Speaker 1: go against her for sounding like that because if she's like, listen,

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Speaker 1: I grew up in Atlanta. I know that my mom

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Speaker 1: at him. And then he was like, no, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I think So that's another thing that we got to

424
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 1: have a whole conversation about that maybe with another guy

425
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,879
Speaker 1: that we come on. But when they record, because of

426
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 1: course po V p o V, what they've record and

427
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,360
Speaker 1: what they want to see is completely different than how

428
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:27,520
Speaker 1: we think we look at what we're doing. Uh no, no,

429
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,119
Speaker 1: because I'd be thinking I look good and I do

430
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 1: a bitch, I'll be looking can you tell you though?

431
00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,439
Speaker 1: It's funny? How like? And this is the same with

432
00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 1: group fitness. When I'm working out like at a Berry's

433
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,120
Speaker 1: Blue Camp or at a spin class, like I always

434
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 1: burn more calories. I'm always doing better when I fuck

435
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 1: on camera. I ride longer because I know this, we

436
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 1: just gonna watch it. And I'm not trying to look

437
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 1: like I'm not a fucking champion because I am. That

438
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 1: would be the last position that I would let a

439
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:59,199
Speaker 1: nigger record me. And you ain't go ahead me with

440
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 1: cracker video. My physical perspective is it enjoyable? No, but

441
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 1: they'll be looking good. And my titties are like you know,

442
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,639
Speaker 1: I mean, they're not new, they're seven years old, but

443
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 1: they just look really good from the bike. My hair too,

444
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 1: from the bike. That's the only way you getting me

445
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,920
Speaker 1: from the bike? Why? Girl? Because then when when it's

446
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 1: like this my waist, this little my ass, little veg

447
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,400
Speaker 1: and it's just that's all you get on this happen

448
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 1: with riding is when I come I'm like useless. I'd

449
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 1: be like see what I mean, Ain't nobody recorded me

450
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 1: being a failure. But I do sound I realized after

451
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 1: watching My Importance that like when I'm coming really hard,

452
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 1: which is funny because like there's a few videos I

453
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,639
Speaker 1: have where like the phone knocked over because we were

454
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 1: working so hard, Right, I sound insane. I don't even know.

455
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: I remember one specific one. I was like, oh my god,

456
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 1: I have to like edit this and try to get

457
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,440
Speaker 1: my voice out of it. I was like, oh my god,

458
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 1: coming me, Oh my god, you'd be sounding like a

459
00:21:56,000 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: whole last white woman. Yes you do. No black girl

460
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: sounds like that when they sucking. When I go out

461
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: to like come the hardest ship, maybe maybe then I

462
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: have the spirit of number twelve come to my body.

463
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 1: I noticed that when when I record, like when I'm

464
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 1: getting fund and I know I'm on camera, I pretty much.

465
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't know why. I just talked so much about

466
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 1: the man, like your dick is so big. You see

467
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 1: how big it is. Oh my god, you're making me wet. Like, yeah,

468
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 1: we're not gonna talk about that because my nigga laughs

469
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 1: at me calling myself a dom. Apparently I've shown no

470
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: type of dom with him, and he's like, hmm, I

471
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: don't think that's you. And so one, yeah, I don't know.

472
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. He is just so adamant that I

473
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 1: am a sub and it's just I think because with him,

474
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 1: he's he's kind of like seven in that sense where

475
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: I do relinquish a lot of power to him. I'm

476
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 1: just watching Malcolm X behind you. He is he is

477
00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 1: the reason fuck you anyway? Is I do want to

478
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: get into now? Our hord derv our hord derv is

479
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: our sex tip. Our sex tip pretty much comes from

480
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 1: either someone who submits it when we have guests ourselves.

481
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: This one actually came from my man and I shared

482
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 1: it with the patrons, but I wanted to bring it

483
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: bike one time and share it to our our all

484
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: of our audience. Uh So, basically, I was in the

485
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 1: middle about to have anal sex with my nigga a

486
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: couple of nights ago. Actually it would have been a

487
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago now, uh, And I was like,

488
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 1: you want to put it in my ass? You want

489
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 1: to put it in my ass? I just know he

490
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: really liked anal sex. So the whole time we in bed,

491
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, you can put it in my ass. This

492
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 1: is me giving him permission for anal sex that I

493
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: normally be like no. So in the middle of us fucking,

494
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 1: he just starts laughing, And mind you, he did not

495
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 1: put it in my ass. So I was like, babe,

496
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: you didn't want my ass tonight, I'm confused, like what

497
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 1: the hell. But apparently he knows how much I don't

498
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 1: really care for it, and a sex is often and

499
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 1: so he thought of a joke, and so, ladies, this

500
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: is for you, For you guys tuning in, he thought

501
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: of this joke because he knew that I didn't really

502
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: want the anal sex. But it was on his comedy

503
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: school while he was sucking me. I mean no, it

504
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: was funny too because I was like, damn, well, it

505
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: was towards the end because clearly he came, but I

506
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 1: was like, you came before you put it in my ass.

507
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 1: I thought you wanted my ass. So anyways, ladies, for

508
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: those of you who don't like anal sex and want

509
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 1: to get your partner away from asking for it, specifically

510
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: in a heterosexual relationship, what you can do is pretty

511
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: much name your booty hole and this is how we

512
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: do it, Okay. So basically, when you know your nigga

513
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: want to have anal sex, what you do is name

514
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: your Buddha hole the name of a man. So be like, baby,

515
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: you want to fun Darius tonight? Is that what you do?

516
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 1: You want to fuck Greg the night? And I'm telling

517
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: you your man is not gonna wanna suck you thinking

518
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 1: about Darius. No. He was thinking this is the joke

519
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: that he had heard, and he just knows that. I'm like, baby,

520
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: you could have my ass and you could have my ass,

521
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: and I all want knowing I really didn't want him

522
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: to get in my ass. So he's like, I don't know,

523
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: way I didn't. I didn't want attitude. I feel like

524
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: you lost the game of cards. You're like, you can

525
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: just have him a budda hole, all right, like, and

526
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: I guess he sends that I really didn't want him

527
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: to open me up because we had just had anal

528
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: sex the week before and I already told him, you're

529
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: having antal sex way too much. It's supposed to be

530
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: once a quarter. We're having it a little bit too much.

531
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like a Fredian thing. But

532
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,959
Speaker 1: every time we talk about anal sex, specifically me and you,

533
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: I have to ship because I just have this and

534
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: maybe no, because you'll be acting like you be taking

535
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: dicky taking dick girl like without as in my ass.

536
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: You've been talking about riding and I just always think

537
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: of my own ass. You. I literally have to ship

538
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: my buddah hole be turned into a hole pussy like

539
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: it'd be opening up. Okay, it does, and then it

540
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: starts to get it does get wet. We do use luke,

541
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: but then it be getting wetter, which is why I

542
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: we care because I'm like, is this I know the

543
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 1: boot hole don't really get wet like that, but my

544
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: bussy talk because I just feel like it's leaking right now. Well,

545
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: my booty ain't leaking. It might be because people say

546
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: that it doesn't go back to normal, You're a liar.

547
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: My booty has gone back to normal. Like girl, I

548
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: tried to put my finger up today because I'm like,

549
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see him tonight. Let me make sure there's

550
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: there's nothing under my acrylic nails, because then I'll be like, okay,

551
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: what when I'm in the shower, that's what you do.

552
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it doesn't go back to normal. What

553
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 1: I am saying, though, it is I have a friend

554
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: of mine who'll be sucking this dude and he'd be like, yo,

555
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: I don't like because ass is too big. Yeah, but

556
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: with guys is different because you're getting your ass fucked

557
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: a lot. Me I'm only getting it once a quarter

558
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: or once a month, so like it goes back twelve times,

559
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 1: and because I have time for it to go back.

560
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: When when that's the only hole you have to offer,

561
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be a little tony tighthole normal. No,

562
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: And imagine you do. You shoot out of it daily

563
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: and you're probably getting funcked in it daily. Your your

564
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: boot hole just not gonna be tight. But you're the

565
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: one who said you're billy. How we'll go back to

566
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: normal women that are scared about anal sex, but men

567
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: that are the same. I refused to believe that women

568
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: have a different type of but we have another hole

569
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: for a man to go into that men men don't

570
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: be fucking in a piss holes, but maybe don't pus

571
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: the holes. Look, you know what what I mean, se

572
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: what I mean Anyway, I have a horrid derve tip.

573
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 1: This is more like an anti don't do it tip.

574
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: If you want to send a nude to somebody and

575
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: you want to change the date, don't save the photo

576
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: from Instagram like I thought it would do. Because I

577
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: actually posted my own nude recently. That was a fun

578
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: time you saved it from Instagram. I thought if I

579
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: saved the photo from Instagram, it would change the date,

580
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,919
Speaker 1: and it did. But accidentally, I'm so used to doing

581
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 1: Instagram stories. I posted it to my story M and

582
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: you are at the second time. You don't did this?

583
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: I no, no, the first time I got acted, I

584
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: remember what you're talking about. I sent that video in

585
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 1: my d M. Okay, but anyway, this was the first time.

586
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: And uh, lucky enough, thirteen people saw it. It was

587
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: about four o'clock in the Morning's bad, It's not too bad.

588
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: What type of newd was it? Full frontal? Just the

589
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: titties because I feel like the titt is they'd be

590
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 1: out anyway. Really yeah, I feel like the nipples like

591
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: a big deal to me, not ariola, but maybe because

592
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 1: they're new, Like if it was my old titties, you

593
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like, I found this nude of myself. Actually,

594
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: wait here was it? I just took a picture of it.

595
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: I was cleaning out my inbox and I found a

596
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 1: nude from two thousand eleven. I was like, well, I

597
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: does a little baby titties, it's your whole ass. I

598
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: was really a home like I was spreading my pussy

599
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: and everything. I don't know who else to do. But

600
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: what I do know is if I had a nude

601
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: like that leak. I'd be like, yo, I was a child,

602
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: but now like I'm developed. You know what I'm saying.

603
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: I could afford tits and in my own apartment, and

604
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: I would really prefer for my nuds not to be spread.

605
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: But that's an I'm spoiled. My nigga don't even want

606
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: nudes or videos. I don't have to do ship no more.

607
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: Would be like, that's just because he lives near you, girl?

608
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: Is that what it is? But I don't know. It's

609
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: always a nice little I mean the afternoon delight. The

610
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 1: cheta got social media, so the nikka just get to

611
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: see the folk social media seeing you know what I do,

612
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: because now you like this lingerie babe, good so to Instagram,

613
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 1: Like you gotta take videos and you opulate in this

614
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:24,479
Speaker 1: is really nasty, but like you don't want videos. So

615
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: basically here's my horrid derv When you're ovulating, you know

616
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because it's a little bit creamy, so

617
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: you gotta track it use like I'm worth mind called

618
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: I think it's called pea tracker. But anyway, when you're

619
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: using your ovulation app and you see the flower day,

620
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: that's when you're like most likely to get pregnant, and

621
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: your pussy is that it's juicy as period trackers and

622
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: what I use. This is what mine looks like for

623
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: everyone on YouTube. So my flower day was yesterday. So basically,

624
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: you make a video and you like push on like

625
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: the whole of your vagina and like squeeze all the

626
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: juices out and it looks like there's come dripping out

627
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: of your pussy, but it's really just you and niggas

628
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: love it and find a way to change the date

629
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: on it because I've easily. I don't know how, so

630
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how to do that either, not for videos,

631
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: for pictures. You just and then crop it. That's what

632
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: I did. It was like a quick videos three seconds.

633
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: It was just like me in the bathroom. It was

634
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Speaker 1: that in the video, this is a boomerang. I just

635
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: wanted to hear like a boomerangs bit. It wasn't a

636
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: boomerang three seconds a boomerang. It couldn't. It was longer,

637
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: but I felt like I look goofy at the four

638
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: process video. How do I change the date on my

639
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: iPhone video? Help me be a whole series? Come on

640
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Speaker 1: iPhone life dot com let's see master your iPhone in

641
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Speaker 1: one day. I don't want to take that's the whole class.

642
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Speaker 1: But you better go to the YouTube. Okay, you have

643
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: to go on a Mac. There you go. Okay, here

644
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: we go. Hold down the shift key while clicking all

645
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: the photos whose dates you want to change. Next, go

646
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: to images images click just date and time. This will

647
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: allow you to change the dates for any photos selected

648
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: at once. You can also use this message method to

649
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: adjust the timestamp individually. Um oh, this is perfect. So

650
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: like if you told your nigga you a Miami, are

651
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: you not my nigg even know you could sign document?

652
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: Like he asked me if I had a printer. I said, babe,

653
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: you know everyone does everything electronically now right, so like

654
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: this this right here, he ain't gonna even know how

655
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: to check the time and shoot on stuff. I had

656
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: to be like, babe, we don't need to print out

657
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: and sign anything. Uh, okay, well, people, are you know

658
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna saying you know what I mean electronically boo,

659
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: you just send it by via email. I got I've

660
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: gotten up not on the date but on the time,

661
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,479
Speaker 1: Like I I was a hout that was four hours ago.

662
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: Niket so what the fuck you at now? CU, But

663
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: we need to phone because it's a little too much

664
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: investigative ship with me to I don't be investigating well. Anyways, guys,

665
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into now a horrid blade decision. Our

666
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: horrible decision today is about the circle back. So let

667
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: me start off with opening up why I wanted to

668
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: talk about this, and also just some self reflections. So

669
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: y'all know, I've been talking about my nigga since fucking

670
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: may have last year. Uh so it's been an ongoing thing.

671
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: But over the last two weeks, a lot of my

672
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: niggas from the past have hit me up. Um, and

673
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: it's not even my past because a lot of them

674
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: were in my present. Green Eye with me, I don't know.

675
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: Green Eyes hit me two other niggas that didn't even

676
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: get a motherfucking uh nickname on the show, and Perpendicular

677
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: Dick been hitting me up. I ain't even gonna hold you,

678
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: but he just he know I got a boyfriend. He

679
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: the only one that know because he'd be hitting me

680
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: up like you still we him? Yes, nigga, I'm still

681
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: we him. Get off my phone, damn. But anyway, other

682
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: dudes text me that have girlfriends. I'd be like, he

683
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: has a girlfriend. So I'm like, I know you tuose

684
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: to cheat, but baby, I'm not there, not yet. I

685
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: don't want to cheat on my nigga yet. You know

686
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,479
Speaker 1: what that you can cheat with like letting him know.

687
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: It's called an open relation. Well no, so that's the

688
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: that's the crazy thing, and that's why I wanted to

689
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: talk about Well no, that's why I wanted to talk

690
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: about this because my partner is okay with me having

691
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: sex with other people. So here's what happened. And I

692
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: want to talk about the circle back. It's a new year,

693
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be new year. Knew me. So I

694
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: want to ask the girls why we continue to bring

695
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: certain people into our present that are serving no purpose.

696
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: So I go to say this, clearly, Green Eyes has

697
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: amazing dick. He hit me up and it's like I'm coming.

698
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: I'll be in New York and I'm like, okay, cool,

699
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 1: Well I have a boyfriend. Now, however, you use the video. However,

700
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: in that very moment, I was like, damn, it's it's December.

701
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: At this point, I said, I'm just telling you I

702
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. That made me reflect on the fact,

703
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: mind you, the other three niggas well, the other two

704
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: niggas that in me up in that same week, also,

705
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: I had to let them know I had a nigga

706
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: photo you posted or something. Maybe niggas was just ready.

707
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: One was ready to put me on a flight. The

708
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 1: other one was just on some hey, how you doing?

709
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: You know? The other one was just like, I'm in

710
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: New York this week. So I say all this to say,

711
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: I realized that between May two December, none of them

712
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 1: had hit me up, because clearly none of them knew

713
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: I had a partner. And a part of me went

714
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: back to reflect on the accessibility that I gave these

715
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: niggas when I was single, and I was like, damn,

716
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: it's a pandemic. I turned thirty, I got these new podcasts,

717
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: I started a new company, and I said, between May

718
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: and December, not now one hit me up for checking

719
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 1: all my health, for wishing me a happy birthday. Mind

720
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: they follow me on social media. You know everything I'm

721
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: I'm going through and what's going on in my life.

722
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: You haven't even checked on me. But as soon as

723
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: you want some pussy, you expect me to just clear

724
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: my schedule up and hop on a flight or meet

725
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: you because you in my city. I only think that

726
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: people give that energy like I've done that to people

727
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:55,479
Speaker 1: that have done it to me. Um, But like I'm saying,

728
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: I don't think it's meant to be rude. Like if

729
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: you know you just had a thing with someone, I

730
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 1: think you're taking it personal now because you have something

731
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: more in depth and well, and that's but that's what

732
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, Like, or when you're in that mind space right,

733
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: like let's say that, like you've just been broken up

734
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 1: with and you're like feeling some pain and then someone

735
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 1: hits you up for dick that you used to fun

736
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,439
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, oh my god, all he wants

737
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: to do is fun. Me it's like, well, all y'all

738
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: used to do. It's fun. But that's where I'm just

739
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: like now experiencing having just anything because I do still

740
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: talk to some of my old homes like I do

741
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: still talk to them, the ones that actually cared about

742
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: my goddamn well being in life. I do still talk

743
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: to them, even if it was an arrangement or just

744
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: a fun thing or whatever. So to me, I was

745
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: just like, h and I want anyone listening who may

746
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: be experiencing this as well, the self reflection of not

747
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: only the relationships that we have with men, but how

748
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: much we really show them how we value ourselves and

749
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: hear me out. I say this to say, when I

750
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: was talking with my home girls about it, a part

751
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: of me did judge myself. I said, Damn, did I

752
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: really not require anything of these men? Damn? Did I

753
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: really make myself accessible to where whenever they wanted my

754
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: pussy it was just for the taking without at least

755
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: have put out into I mean, as a listener, right

756
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: being me being sitting across the table for you, you've

757
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,720
Speaker 1: put out that this was your choice. Yeah, but that's

758
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,959
Speaker 1: where Also I'm also looking back and seeing how much

759
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,439
Speaker 1: I wasn't in control at the end of the day,

760
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: I was getting dick when they hit me up and

761
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 1: was offering me they dick, and I made my pussy

762
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: available like and I think I have said this on

763
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: the show too. There I didn't feel like I could

764
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: be like a nigga fly me out this week. I

765
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: got some free time, a nigga, fly yourself to New

766
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: York because I want to see you like so Also,

767
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: it was a false perception of me being in control

768
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: of my sex life because I essentially did allow my

769
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: availability to happen when a nigga allowed me. I wonder

770
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: if that's why I've always been so like I like

771
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: to have nection with people first, because then I feel like,

772
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: at least there's a mutual interest, Like I've found that

773
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: even when I just want dick, if they just want

774
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: sex for me. Sometimes it's difficult when I'm single because

775
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've had relationships, I've had someone that cares

776
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: for me. I know what that feels like, and it's

777
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: hard for me to be on the opposite side as

778
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: someone who's normally in the relationship being none when this

779
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: nigga break my heart a bit, going straight to the

780
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: church because I don't know I was gonna be able

781
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: to deal with no like hose come from like no bullshit?

782
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 1: I think I was because I was born a heart.

783
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: Don't come from heartbreak. Heartbroken. You could be born at home,

784
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: you could be born a home. But I really do think, like,

785
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: if I do believe heartbreak like brings your home. For example,

786
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: you was the whole Like when we met as teenagers

787
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,400
Speaker 1: and your heartbroke, you wasn't all the way heartbroken as

788
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,919
Speaker 1: a teenager and you was the first of all. Man,

789
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: I was sixteen, sixteen year old home straight out the ball.

790
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: I like to have fun. I'm just saying, why are

791
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: you gonna recording this is not funny, this is this

792
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 1: is why port had to take videos down. Okay, because

793
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: they were talking about a child. Don't talk about me

794
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: at sixteen now, when I was eighteen, that was my

795
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: own choice. I feel like I'm just saying, you're saying

796
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 1: hoween comes from heartbreak, which I ain't experienced, breaking elementary

797
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: and what I'm saying, we ain't gonna bring up the

798
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: fifth grade playground love. Let me explain. I think hose

799
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 1: are birds from heartbreaks, like I think behind every home

800
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,240
Speaker 1: is a nigga that made them do that ship for example,

801
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: just hear me out. Nigga is gonna be so mad

802
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: you're blaming them for us being homes. That's fine because

803
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: here's what happens right now. My nigga calls me is like,

804
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 1: fuck you, I'm done. It's not a pandemic. Gonna tell

805
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: you exactly what I'm gonna do. Finish these fucking episodes out,

806
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: Finish my apartment, getting moved in. I'm going to Miami

807
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to space, I'm going to do drugs. I'm

808
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 1: gonna suck someone out else, I'm gonna get fucked up

809
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: for a week. Had so I was like niggas bit

810
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Then after a week, I'm gonna go home

811
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: and cry after I have chlamydia? What's gonna happen? Where

812
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: did this? Just? Well? We but here we go? You

813
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: know why, that's not the smart thing to say, because

814
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: we can't just assume that hose all have STDs or

815
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: catch I'm not saying that, hos. I'm saying that I

816
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 1: would be wilding that much to where it would happen.

817
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: So you haven't unprotected sex with someone you don't love.

818
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: Weethy like, I didn't just say I'm protected. I'm just

819
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: saying I was. You catch a chlamydia girl? First of all,

820
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: condoms have like an not for chlamydia. It's HPV that

821
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: you could catch on a condom. What I know, idio,

822
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: if I'm quite broken, I'll be begging for it, Okay, nigga.

823
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: When I went what was it last quarterly? Uh? No,

824
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: no, no no, sorry? I go twice a year. The last

825
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: time I went, and again they told me I didn't

826
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 1: have HPV I was like, this is insane to me.

827
00:39:55,960 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: You're telling me of women have it. I ever in

828
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: the house, I talk all the time. I don't have HPV.

829
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: I'm this is h V. HPV is something different, right,

830
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: you're talking about HERP simple exprs. HPV is what human

831
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: papalonia or something. Let me get the word yeah, because

832
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, say it right, but HPV women have right.

833
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: I wish I knew how to I wish I knew

834
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: how to say that P word. And for anyone who's

835
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: listening who's like, damn, bit, you got a sex podcast

836
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: you don't know, Shut the funk up you. I'm listening

837
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,399
Speaker 1: for how many years and you don't know either, bit,

838
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: no fat human paper movie. You still ain't saying let

839
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: me see, let me see paplona papalona virus. I think

840
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: you said it pilloma varias various. The last word is virus.

841
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: Start from the end and then work yourself back to

842
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 1: the begin. HPV pronounced Pomela virus. I feel so stupid

843
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: right now. I think it is pamela virus. But let's

844
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 1: just leave this in here. Here we go HPV. No,

845
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: we don't want to say pom Okay, we was closed.

846
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: I'm mad, he said, HPV, Which we do that then,

847
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: I think. So I say all this to say, please,

848
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,800
Speaker 1: anyone on our patron I would love to hear a

849
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: story from you, but pretty much us going into this

850
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 1: new year, I think that it's important to find purpose

851
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: with our partners, and also as a woman who who,

852
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: like I said, was out here just having all these

853
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: partners and feeling like I was in control. Looking back

854
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 1: on now, I really wasn't. And so I think it's

855
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 1: important for you to know what it exactly is that

856
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 1: you do want from these men and not allowed men

857
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 1: to be around if they're not giving you what you want?

858
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: So do decide? Is it money? Is it time? Is

859
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: it affection? Is an intimacy? Because I ain't gonna hold

860
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: you a bit the way I'll be cut it up

861
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: and loving up now, like I will probably never have

862
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: relationship again with someone that isn't showing me the intimacy

863
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: and affection that I'm getting. Now that's not true. I'll

864
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: tell you why, why talk to me? Because when I

865
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,280
Speaker 1: n again on your nerves and you kind of tired

866
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 1: of that ship, like right now you're feeling, you know,

867
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: you've never felt this in love before right, so like

868
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: it's an amazing feeling and cuddling an intimacy like that's

869
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: all ship. I love too, but as someone who is

870
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,879
Speaker 1: like a ho for love. Oh, I'm telling you dog,

871
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: like sometimes you just want to get fucked. So so

872
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: here's I am someone that you know is a serial

873
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: relationship data Like I don't even know how to not

874
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: lay a table out for someone like it's I've heard

875
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: people you know talk about like pick me on Twitter,

876
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: and it's like I genuinely thinks it comes from my

877
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: mom being a housewife. I don't know if it's just

878
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: something that's like just in me, like I noticed it. Well,

879
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 1: my friends are over like everybody, I'm just like trying

880
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 1: to do things for them, like almost over the top.

881
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: I can't help but like serving that right now for this,

882
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: I literally just what do you want to what do

883
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 1: you want to eat tonight? I'm literally asking this nigger

884
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 1: what do you want to eat? Who the fuck am

885
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: I I always ask like, oh my god, are you

886
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: feeding yourself? Well Jesus, But I will tell you this,

887
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 1: there is sometimes a good feeling. And I know you

888
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: all know what I was talking about when you like

889
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: leave someone's house and you still smell like Dick and

890
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: it's kind of friend. You're like, and I tell you

891
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: I love a good dick smell too, and I ain't

892
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: got your hair. I was about to say, bitch, I

893
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: ain't got no hair no more. But you can't just

894
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: like go out and dick breath. Didn't you come on

895
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: Vice Live with Dick breath? Well it was because I

896
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: had longer locks and I sucked dick in the spit

897
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: and the dick all of that went into my hair

898
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's an is I love a

899
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: good dick smell in my hair and bitch, I ain't

900
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: got no more. Well, that's why we ain't got a

901
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 1: TV show once, bitch, because you had to dick smell.

902
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: And they were like, we can't have this bitch on again.

903
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 1: Whatever they the pheromones was going and that's why we

904
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: got into development because they was like, let's get you

905
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: all into development and let's work on a TV show

906
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: with y'all. But no, So I don't know. I've just

907
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: been thinking a lot about damn how I really was

908
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: moving with my past niggas and the fact that they

909
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: now just trying to hop in my phone, like I'm

910
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: just gonna be ready to give them something and not

911
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 1: even though it's noticing that I'm a new woman, I've changed,

912
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: I've grown. I love it. Fuck you guys. We are

913
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: gonna give y'all to old mails this motherfucker week because

914
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: that's how we're gonna start off the new year. So

915
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: the first one I really like. It's short and simple. Um,

916
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: and because why don't you just try to tell y'all

917
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: how to send an email? It's short and simple. I

918
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,479
Speaker 1: started going through them. One was a five paragraph essay.

919
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: I said, oh no, bitch, this ain't getting ready on

920
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: not on my watch. And I just say something to

921
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: you guys. That's in your emails and your homemail to

922
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: the Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. We like a backstory,

923
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: but it's only when it's really juicy. When that girl

924
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:58,720
Speaker 1: wanted to fuck her sister, her step sister, the pregnant

925
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: step sister, it was a good back story. If you

926
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: want to hear that story, it's on our Patreon. But

927
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 1: when you want to fuck your pregnant stepsister, write it out.

928
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But if your nigga is

929
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 1: like cheating on you and you're not sure, and it's like,

930
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: let me explain, we did it in high school. I'm

931
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: still in love with him, right he you know he's

932
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: been sucking around. Then we got back to I don't gay.

933
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: We don't need all that, but because if you want

934
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: to fund his dad, give us some a little bit

935
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: for that. This is just homemlee criteria. I like short

936
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: and sweet. This is sort let us know if you

937
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: want to be anonymous, because we normally never we normally

938
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 1: never read names anyway, so I actually be annoyed. Don't

939
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: say my name, bitch, Win Dewey. Do you listen to

940
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: the show. We don't be saying name sometimes we do

941
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 1: no maybe like sincerely, Oh that's got coming to pussy

942
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: stil and then that that's not okay. So this one

943
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: is We're gonna start short and sweet, especially being the

944
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: weird side size queens. The title for this one is

945
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: big dick. I know that's right. Hi. So I'm fucking

946
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: this guy who's dick is very big and long. We've

947
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: only had vaginal set the two times we fucked. It

948
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,800
Speaker 1: wasn't enjoyable, as I've experienced before with guys who were smaller.

949
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,919
Speaker 1: I think it's because it's hard for me to fit

950
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: all of him in me? Can I get some tips

951
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:15,439
Speaker 1: on how to handle his dick? You're the better, you said,

952
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 1: not pass them to you, bitch. That ain't That ain't

953
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: a tilt. It was the one I had. So this

954
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: I actually wanted to bring up because I very much

955
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,919
Speaker 1: mean it for the fellas listening. There are women out

956
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: there that like small dicks. There's women out there who

957
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: like sch medium bro. My home. Girls don't like to

958
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: feel pain with sex, so they do prefer smaller days.

959
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: I want to, I want to. The only dick I

960
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: cannot take is a curved dick. I don't like them things.

961
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: I don't know where you hit, but like my home,

962
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: like Venus, she was like a little captain. I need

963
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: a net to hit my walls, not my windows. And

964
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: I think on the side there's windows, and now you're

965
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: gonna break my sheet. I think it's because all pussies

966
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 1: like and I only know this from being in them

967
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: with my hands in my mouth. But but that's not

968
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 1: even close to a dick. Bro. Maybe your hand doesn't

969
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: go as close as a dick, but this is small.

970
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: You're not feeling everything that they feel. It did. I'm

971
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,879
Speaker 1: saying when i'd be in there. I've taken condoms out

972
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: of friends. Okay, I've been in there. And what I

973
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: can say is, pussies do not come the same. So

974
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: when girls like, you know, curve dicks or whatever, I

975
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: really believe like it has to do with where are

976
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: like Some people, you know, they squirt from certain spots

977
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: being hit, some don't, right, So I think it really

978
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: has to do with where your pussy hits the best, right,

979
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 1: Like we all come differently. I just red snapple hand.

980
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: I hate when you call it that. Why is I

981
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: think about fish? But it's a it'd be snapping like

982
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: it'd be close, bitches, a red snapple like that because

983
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm red and my pussy snap red snapple. Ho. This

984
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: is so what is the problem? What is the problem?

985
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: What you don't like it? Busy? I can't call it

986
00:47:56,120 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: a red snapple A fish? I like fish, bitch, Give

987
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 1: me a motherfucker. I don't want anyone to ever compare

988
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: my fucking pussy with a fish, and I compare. Yeah,

989
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: but it's not the smell of a fish. Is just

990
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: that it'd be snapping in When I hear the word

991
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: red snapper, there's a looking at what you call your pussy,

992
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: not that what you call it, the kitty cat. I

993
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: don't call it anything. See that's the problem. That's the

994
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: goddamn problem. You need to name that pussy, or like,

995
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: at least attach some sort of thing to your pussy.

996
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: Let me look up good vagina names. Let me see.

997
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: There's the wallet, there's the kitty cat, the pussy. I

998
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 1: feel like the box y'all know official box owner shout out,

999
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: but bur burgers a fur burger? That sounds worse. Who

1000
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 1: wants to eat a furry burger? The white don't Never

1001
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: have I ever been like, damn, I can't. Oh, I

1002
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 1: like it your house, not your house? When I come home, Daddy,

1003
00:48:55,080 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 1: that was so you know, it's the garage. That's what

1004
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: CARDI BESI your flower. Actually, my ex used to tell

1005
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,919
Speaker 1: me because whenever I was ovulating, like you talk about

1006
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: eating flowers, But who eat flowers? See what I mean?

1007
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: At least at least we eat fish. Bit it was

1008
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: context who eating flowers? Younger fish? Vegans? Vegans out, you're

1009
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: eating flowers? What they annoying? As one of the names,

1010
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: flower pie, lady, flower, penis fly trap? No, bro just no?

1011
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: Why is catfish? Oh? People? Do talk about fish. They

1012
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: called it fish a black hole. I don't like that.

1013
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,240
Speaker 1: I don't like the black hole poem. Poem a Jamaican

1014
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: slang for pussy. Well, that's fun. International names, Oh, this

1015
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: is fun, okay. El salvad Or, they say poo poosa.

1016
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: Do you remember in Sex and the City? Here we go,

1017
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: go ahead, say you're sex. I do like it makes

1018
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 1: me feel Spanish. You could have a peppita and the

1019
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: Spanish what sound Brazilian? Right? I mean in your box?

1020
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:15,879
Speaker 1: And in Serbia a pie or pizza. No, absolutely not.

1021
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: Well you could have, oh, in Japan a taco taca.

1022
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: You want to pu my taco to? Now? Why are

1023
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: you see? Now? Now that's the problem. Now that's racist,

1024
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: It's absolutely not. I'm surprised that they call it a

1025
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:34,760
Speaker 1: taco in Mexicans. Now it's t a k oh taco

1026
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: like the geto's. Apparently it's an octopus. In Japanese you

1027
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: can have a tanema noyori. Okay, Well, I would say

1028
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: cut is on here. Cut's fun too. See. No, I

1029
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: don't like that. I don't like it. So the only

1030
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: thing I would say for you is if his dick

1031
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: is too big to where it's enjoyable, made a not

1032
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: either not be the right sex partner for you, or

1033
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: I would say, do not fear using lube. The thing

1034
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: with big dicks is that they do cause a lot

1035
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: more friction inside and so if you're not wet enough,

1036
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: a big dick can be very painful, especially because whether

1037
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: you got the a c blown on your bed like

1038
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 1: we do here in New York and not like there's

1039
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: a lot of factors that can draw you up there. Well,

1040
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: It's also like, why would say he is lube? We

1041
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 1: don't always like consider but like how porous it is? Right,

1042
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: So for example, like when a dick is porous, meaning

1043
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: that it will like suck up a bunch of juices,

1044
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 1: like not everybody's skin is like this, but like, hey,

1045
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: you might be wet and the dick just keeps soaking

1046
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: it up, so like you and things like that as well,

1047
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 1: which is why lube is super helpful. And um, I

1048
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like when I was younger, I

1049
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: got embarrassed about lub, but now I don't. I got

1050
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Speaker 1: I got two options next to the bed, and I

1051
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: told you all be having to be careful what I

1052
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Speaker 1: put next to the bed, and Nigga tried to goddamn

1053
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: spray my living clause spray. I said, baby, that's not loop,

1054
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: that's not louple. Put that back. Put that back, So

1055
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Speaker 1: I gotta put that on the other side. Now. I

1056
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: use a good clean love and uh something that I

1057
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: got from Adam and Eve. When I bought the anal

1058
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Speaker 1: training kit they sent you used their free in the

1059
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Speaker 1: box gift flube. No no, no no, they sent me

1060
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: the regular side. What was in my my gift box

1061
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: was actually up pH wash. But I went and they

1062
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Speaker 1: have a sensitive organic lube on their side too, and

1063
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,320
Speaker 1: it's so good. I've used one that came with like

1064
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Speaker 1: a lil product that's kind of I just I don't know.

1065
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 1: I have Lilo to lie Lo. I have uh something

1066
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: called Queen V. But when I saw that they sold

1067
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: it at Walmart, I felt like I never wanted to

1068
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: use it again. I'm not gonna likee so for the

1069
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Speaker 1: and that's gonna be a tip that I would get

1070
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Speaker 1: if you're looking to use lube, because I wasn't a

1071
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: chatty house the other night and women were just like,

1072
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 1: they don't use lube, and I was just like, what

1073
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: the hell, why do you not use it because people

1074
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: make us feel embarrassed about our fucking pussies. Oh and

1075
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: there are that It doesn't always like sucking water, niggod.

1076
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: I watched it. I put a loube on it, but

1077
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: be careful because there are lubes that don't work well

1078
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 1: with condoms. Um. Also, you want to look at the products.

1079
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: They do have organic vegan loupes. They have all of

1080
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Speaker 1: these things too. If you're scared of what contents, maybe, bitch,

1081
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Speaker 1: there's fucking milk and condoms, some long words. We don't know.

1082
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Speaker 1: You don't think, so you're gonna look at the next

1083
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 1: all right, so next time out Before we get out

1084
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Speaker 1: of here, this one is actually a fear of sex.

1085
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: Yet again, Hi ladies, I have a fear of sex

1086
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 1: and don't know how to get over it. I've had

1087
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: a couple of bad sexual experiences that have made me

1088
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:43,320
Speaker 1: distrustful of other people. Whenever it's a spontaneous hookup situation,

1089
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: I'm okay. However, if someone likes me and asks me out,

1090
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 1: I panic. I panic Whenever I have a chance to

1091
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: think through the situation and basically talk myself out of

1092
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: dating the person. I know not everyone is a bad person,

1093
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: and I need to try and move past this. I

1094
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: listened to a lot of sex dating and self off

1095
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 1: podcasts to to normalize the conversation in my head, which

1096
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: has actually helped a lot. I also have gone on

1097
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: casual dates to try to get used to being around

1098
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: men without adding extra pressure on myself. This has helped

1099
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: me become more comfortable and around new people, but I

1100
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: usually don't move past a second date. Do you have

1101
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: any advice on what I should do? Thank you? I

1102
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: mean I was going to tell her to go to therapy,

1103
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: because clearly those gonna say stuff listening to self help

1104
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 1: all the time, I don't know, to be honest with you,

1105
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: I think this could be adverse advice for somebody. But

1106
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: I think when we consume ourselves with too much self

1107
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 1: help and like overload dog like I was doing that,

1108
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: like last week when I was super depressed and I

1109
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,879
Speaker 1: was like lighting candles, meditating, doing yoga when I woke

1110
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: up and still cussing things out like it's too much,

1111
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: Like I was just on fucking overload with like me

1112
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: trying too hard. And I think sometimes when we're trying

1113
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: and makes it more difficult to date. Right. I think

1114
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: also we can all agree that I'm not saying that

1115
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 1: I haven't maybe set the intention to date some but

1116
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: you know, like your boyfriend, you met him randomly and

1117
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: didn't expect it to happen, right, But when you're like

1118
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 1: constantly putting it out there, sometimes it's overwhelming. And I'm

1119
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: victims to this all the time because that really bad anxiety.

1120
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:16,240
Speaker 1: But I don't think that like the Horrible Decisions podcast

1121
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: can help you. And I don't mean that to like

1122
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: like make you feel bad. I just mean like, I

1123
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: think you're already getting enough stimulation and like over the

1124
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: top that like it's just another piece And honestly, we

1125
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 1: only take the advice we want to hear anyway, like

1126
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 1: if it aligns with us, Right, I was gonna say, actually,

1127
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: it can be draining as well, um, to go on

1128
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 1: a lot of bad dates or dates that don't lead anywhere.

1129
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: That could be something that deters you from dating and

1130
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,240
Speaker 1: meeting new people. The same way you said that sex

1131
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: you're bad couple, You're the couple of bad sexual experiences

1132
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: you had is keeping you to not want to have sex.

1133
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: Dating can do the same way, uh, to where then

1134
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: you just don't want to be bothered with anyone. But

1135
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: then too much alone time when you want to have

1136
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: someone around can also be bad, either with anxiety or

1137
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: feeling like just depressed because you don't have the interactions

1138
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: of you know, being around someone else. I think a

1139
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: lot of things that you should do too, though, is

1140
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: look back to what made those sexual experiences bad um

1141
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 1: and if and if it was trauma like rape, I

1142
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: do apologize. I don't want you to have to revisit that.

1143
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: But if it was something like our last letter to

1144
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: where it was just not enjoyable because the dick was

1145
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 1: too big, I think that you need to look back

1146
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: at those bad past sexual experiences and know that moving forward,

1147
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 1: maybe you need to be more vocal if it's too

1148
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 1: big or that person is hurting you, you know that

1149
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 1: you need to vocalize that upfront. If you're you're not

1150
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: wet and the person tried to just force his dick

1151
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,320
Speaker 1: in you before you got wet, maybe have lou ready,

1152
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 1: Maybe let someone know that you really enjoy for play.

1153
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: But I was about to say, maybe you need to

1154
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: tell your partner you really need for play before you

1155
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,439
Speaker 1: have sex. I need I think you need to learn

1156
00:56:55,560 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: yourself a little super intimate with right like one just

1157
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: kind of forgot to eat pussy and the other one

1158
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 1: is obsessed with eating pussy. And it was so funny

1159
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 1: because like I remember thinking, like, oh my god, this

1160
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: is like just complete opposite, right when you're used to

1161
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: something and when you're not used to something. I mean,

1162
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:18,479
Speaker 1: and honestly, I don't really be trying to have sex

1163
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: anymore without my pussy. Eight. But also like when you're

1164
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: with someone for a while, like they need to know

1165
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: what gets you off. So at this point, I feel like,

1166
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: you know, it's very obvious where it's like, oh no,

1167
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: like unless we were out all day, eat it. But

1168
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 1: I think that And then even still, whether you're with

1169
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 1: someone for a long time and fucking them or it's

1170
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: a new partner, if there are things that you do

1171
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: not like sexually, or you know that your body operates

1172
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 1: a certain way to where you know you're not gonna

1173
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: get wet without four play, those needs to be things

1174
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 1: you say up front, because what if you're dealing with

1175
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: that don't eat pussy. But we can't guess, Like I

1176
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: think that's a thing like that we can't guess that

1177
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: someone's going to know how to guess. And like the

1178
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: good dick, good pussy thing is kind of antiquated way

1179
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: of thinking. Um, I've had sex with someone that someone

1180
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: else then told me it was bad and bed and

1181
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, he sucked the ship out of me. Right,

1182
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: And I'm sure I've been bad with some niggas and

1183
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,439
Speaker 1: not with others, right because like maybe not just playing,

1184
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, well, I've to me if it's not

1185
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: enjoyable to me, like I like showing out. So if

1186
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm with someone where I realized I ain't even like

1187
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: I think I've talked about it on the podcast. There's

1188
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: some niggas where I lied and said I didn't suck dick.

1189
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: Why did I even have sex if I hadn't lie

1190
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 1: about me not? Second, clearly, I'm just I don't even

1191
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 1: want to take it all the way there with you.

1192
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 1: So I think that's important too, Like like you said,

1193
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: like sometimes someone is just not sexually compatible with us.

1194
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: So if those sexual experiences were bad, you have to

1195
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: also think maybe dates though, like they can lead to

1196
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: good sex and bad dates and then sucking them because

1197
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: they're cute. It's like I sucked so many niggas because

1198
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 1: they look good. It was such a waste don't be

1199
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Speaker 1: Niggas don't all happen. I'm telling you it's once in

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Speaker 1: of here. This has been you had another episode of

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Speaker 1: mother fucking horrible decisions. Hey guys, I've been listening to

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions for a bit now, and I felt you

1241
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Speaker 1: might have some advice or could relate to the current

1242
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Speaker 1: problem that I have. First off, long story short, I recently,

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Speaker 1: in the last two years, came out as By. It's

1244
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Speaker 1: been crazy trying to be true to myself because in

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Speaker 1: my background, my mom was highly against the idea of

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Speaker 1: a woman being with anyone else but a but a man.

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Speaker 1: But when I came out is By, I started experimenting

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Speaker 1: with threesomes, guys, girls, all that. And then one day

1249
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Speaker 1: I started realizing, I keep thinking about a threesome with

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Speaker 1: two men who were either by or gay or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to try it, and I did, and

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Speaker 1: I loved it. So now I'm into that a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I never knew it before. Fast forward to last year,

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Speaker 1: my X and I got back together. We've been on

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Speaker 1: and off for seven years. I had no intention of

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Speaker 1: going back after he was so upset about me coming

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Speaker 1: out to him as By during the last time we

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Speaker 1: broke up, but nevertheless, here we are. I do love him.

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Speaker 1: Our sex has been amazing. I just wish he was

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01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: more open to the idea of a threesome. Maybe I'm

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01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: not even asking for him to try a threesome with

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01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: another man. I know that's a far as stress stretch,

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01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: but damn, can I watch you another girl? Can we

1264
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,439
Speaker 1: buck this girl together? I have needs. I can't deny

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01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 1: my sexuality, and it's sad as hell, but I take

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01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 1: it slow because I know I just should have been

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01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 1: open from a jump, and I've always known I was

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01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: into both. I was afraid because I was so shameful.

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Speaker 1: My question is, do you think there are any ways

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Speaker 1: I can introduce the idea successfully to have a threesome.

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01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: I definitely don't want to just bring it up bluntly

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01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: like I have in the past, because he'll probably think

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01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: he's gonna have to compete with a woman. Um. Sorry,

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01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: it's lengthy with the story needed context. Until I figured

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01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 1: out I'll be watching corn of all the things I

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01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 1: wish I could try. So now see why you brought

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01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 1: that shot on Patreon. I'm so sick of he's goddamn.

1278
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: How do I get a threesome of my partner? Asked

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Speaker 1: questions No, this one's a little bit different because she's

1280
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 1: just she's just announcing that she's bisexual. So I think

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01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,439
Speaker 1: it's in reverse. Right, it's normally men trying to bring

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01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: women in on a threesome. And I had a situation

1283
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: with hospital dick and with the Jesus dude I dated

1284
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 1: where they really felt like and believed that other women

1285
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: were just as at as other men. In my head,

1286
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: fucked up. I have a sex podcast. I was like,

1287
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: but it's just a bit I'm not trying to suck

1288
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: other niggad And I will say this if there is

1289
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: any ladies listening to the podcast. I know we don't

1290
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 1: often talk about men saying no to threesomes, but I

1291
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: do believe, and both men that told me no have

1292
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: big dicks. I don't think it's a confidence issue. I

1293
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: truly believe it has to do with where someone feels

1294
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: like they stand with you. Hear me out. I don't

1295
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 1: think that men feel safe in threesomes unless they know

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01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: who the funk they are to you, Like, I think

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01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 1: there's a reason that people that go to swingers resorts

1298
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: have been together forever and they're oldest fuck Like, I

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01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: don't think that especially you being on and off seven

1300
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 1: years with someone introducing someone else into the bedroom makes

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01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 1: sense when they don't even know what the funk they

1302
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 1: have going on with you. And maybe you could say

1303
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: he knows you well or whatever, but like on and

1304
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 1: off for seven years, on and off a lot, and

1305
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 1: it sounds like you're more off than on for a

1306
01:03:56,640 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 1: niggati not know you've been by the whole time. And

1307
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 1: if you made then that to me, is you coming

1308
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: from a completely emo place, because niggas are okay with

1309
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 1: threesomes before they know where you stand with them, like clearly,

1310
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 1: but a lot of mind. I'm saying that I'm talking

1311
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 1: about in case where men don't your boyfriend a man

1312
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: I've had a threesome with, These aren't the men were

1313
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: talking about. We're talking about the men that aren't comfortable

1314
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 1: and where where it comes from maybe right? So I

1315
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 1: mean that's where I'm putting my input in. And I

1316
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 1: know we can all talk about men we funk that

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01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: I've had a threesome with, But I'm curious to know

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Speaker 1: what y'all think as far as a man who is

1319
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 1: not not a man who is, but a man who's not.

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01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think it should come from a

1321
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 1: lot more deeper rooted things, uh, such as religion, such

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01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 1: as their views on sexuality. Um, because I mean I

1323
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: did have someone early on that I was talking to

1324
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: and well, this wasn't recent at all, you know who

1325
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. But he actually did not like the

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01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 1: fact that I liked other women and didn't feel like

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01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: he would ever really care for me to be with

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01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 1: another woman, and came to me like, if I feel

1329
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 1: like you have to bring in another woman to the

1330
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: bedroom or that you want to play with women, it's

1331
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 1: because you don't feel fully satisfied with me. And so

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01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: I think that outside of religion, outside of what the

1333
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: relationship is, a man could have some insecurities if you

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01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 1: want to bring someone in the room at all, like,

1335
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: and I think that that's really where a lot of

1336
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: that stems from. It's more so him a man feeling

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01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: inadequate to please you fully and that's why you're seeking

1338
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: someone else. Yeah, there's article I read because when you

1339
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: try to like search advice about this, it's all about

1340
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 1: women asking my boyfriend wants to have a threesome, what

1341
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: do I do. There's this article on bold dot com

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01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: and Bold with the athi end and it says, my

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01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I try to have a threesome and it

1344
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: destroyed us. And there's something really interesting about this, She says.

1345
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 1: At first, I was freaked out. It was moving so fast.

1346
01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 1: Maybe I should have told him I was nervous, but

1347
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be spontaneous. And see, I feel

1348
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 1: like if someone is telling you know before it's even happening,

1349
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: like this is a blessing in disguise. Threesomes can end

1350
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: so badly if you all don't know where you stand.

1351
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:16,360
Speaker 1: And I think that, honestly, it's better left undone than

1352
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: trying to fund someone else with someone that doesn't want

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01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: to do it. Like you know, we hear about men

1354
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: kind of coercing women into threesomes so much, and I

1355
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: think that as women, we've got to really respect fucking boundaries.

1356
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 1: And if you've got to fund someone else that bad

1357
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,439
Speaker 1: and you're that your kinks are that important, then girl,

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Speaker 1: do the game. You