1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to Stepan 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: I never told you protection of iHeart Radio. And welcome 3 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: to liberal women making the world the worst. Yes, welcome. 4 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: We're so happy you joined us, are we? Because I 5 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: guess we're so unhappy. So this is part two of episode. 6 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: We were not intending to be a part two, but 7 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: we just had so many thoughts and so much to say, 8 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: too much to say, So go listen to part one 9 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: of Single Women Get Married. This conversation started in part 10 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: because of this rhetoric around like why don't why didn't 11 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: single women go conservative during this midterm elections here that 12 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: I thought was very funny that happened to coincide with 13 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: this email that we received about how liberal women are 14 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: just not happy and they are ruining everything, ruining everything 15 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: that is my life goal. Here we go, Here we go. 16 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: So let's let's jump in. And this is where they 17 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: try to include studies to look more credible, which we're 18 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: going to talk about. But the big red font title reads, 19 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: a new study proves feminism failed women. Liberal women are 20 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: more unhappy without men, babies, and marriage. For decades now, 21 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: the feminist agenda has been in full swing in these 22 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: United States making strides towards women's equality, independence, personal empowerment, 23 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: and government support. But are women happier in the answer 24 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: for liberal women is a very loud no survey the 25 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: American family. Yes the answers, so okay, all right, Um, 26 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: there's a lot to talk about. Year Again, we've talked 27 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: about women in happiness on this show. We had three 28 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: Monday minies on it, so you can see those where 29 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: we we discussed some of these surveys I have so 30 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: the links they included. Some are more concrete, some are 31 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: more credible than others. I would say, I have a 32 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: lot of theories for why this could possibly be, Um, 33 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: and I know you have some, Samantha. Basically one of 34 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: my first thoughts when I heard that, which again we've had, 35 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: We've had studies that have shown the complete opposite on here, 36 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: and we've talked about them on here. I would say, like, 37 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: if that's in any way true, it would be because 38 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: right now it is it feels like an attack on 39 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: women and liberalism and democracy. Like of course, it's hard 40 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: to report high levels of happiness during a pandemic when 41 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: row view aid gets overturned and we have all of 42 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: these like negative things. When it comes to the strides, 43 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: intersectional feminism has made like that makes sense to me. 44 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: I can tell you my happiness has suffered absolutely. Yeah, 45 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: you know, like it's really funny because the links that 46 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: they put on here and I went to look at 47 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: a couple of them, the way they misreporting the information 48 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: in itself, because you have to take in the big factors, 49 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: and that's in fact. I think one of the links 50 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: is the Guardian. We've used the Guardian and they are 51 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: pretty reliable in the way they report. But we know 52 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: why they used the Guardian, and we know what the 53 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: Guardian was trying to say because we talked about it before. 54 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: But the fact is that they are taking numbers and 55 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: saying see see whenn't Actually, like you said, there's circumstances 56 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: right now are most likely making liberal women who believe 57 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: in bodily autonomy, um, equal pay, racial justice are not 58 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: happy with what is happening right now. And we've not 59 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: talked too much about Christian nationalism outside of talking about 60 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: Q and on and then the red Pill and all 61 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: of that. But we don't of our government, even with 62 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: it turning blue ish. We don't love what they are 63 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: doing because they are too moderate for those who would 64 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: truly consider themselves liberal. And when I say to moderate, 65 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: they're playing a game in order to try and take 66 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: the high road. And again, there's so many things to 67 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: talk about that I'm gonna I'm putting myself out of that. 68 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: People are like, oh my god, you're so left leaning. 69 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: Is to the point of like, as a social worker, 70 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: what I've seen in the system that I've worked in 71 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: the government, what I see is nothing is able to 72 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: happen because no one is making any changes outside of 73 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: those to the extreme far right, especially in the State 74 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: of Georgia, not everywhere. Again, the media likes to play 75 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 1: up both ends, but like what I'm saying to that 76 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: what I see as that person sitting here, as the 77 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: fact that I worked at the government for the State 78 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: of Georgia and as our current UH governor, he is 79 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: very far right, and he's still considered moderate by most 80 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: because he's not completely trump um. But what he has 81 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: taken is it really extreme measures to not help children. 82 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: That's what I've seen. So all these things like we 83 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: don't love the government, even if they are the ones 84 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: we voted for, they are not who we truly wanted, 85 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: And so Therefore, yeah, I think for the most part 86 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 1: we are really honest and like they're not doing what 87 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: they promised they were going to do and or they're 88 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: not able to that's a whole different conversation because of 89 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: all the roadblocks. So a liberal woman who truly is 90 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: seeking liberal gains as in true rights to what we 91 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: see as being equal to the rest of the people. 92 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: So no, we've not been happy probably the last hundreds 93 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 1: of years. Where we are more happier when Rovi Wade 94 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: did come in effect absolutely celebrated that. Where we happier 95 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: when queer rights actually happened and gay marriage was actually noticed, 96 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: yes and recognized by the country. Yes, we celebrated the 97 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: hell out of that. But that's all turning back, especially 98 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: since twenty six. So we're a little concerned and unhappy. 99 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: We're also the same ones who are probably like, yes 100 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: we need to be in quarantine, Yes we need a 101 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: mask up. No we're not happy about it. We are 102 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: probably all like have acknowledged and actual diagnosed mental health 103 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: stuff because we go to therapy, and so therefore we 104 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: are unhappy about this situation. But we acknowledge because these 105 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: things are happening and they have not been handled. Like, 106 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: I know that's personal and I'm going on a rant, 107 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: but by God, for the love of Jesus, that you 108 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: are correct when we are honest in our opinions. Yeah, 109 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 1: and I think that's a key point. I think both 110 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: as you said, context is missing from these numbers if 111 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: they're even like accurate, and who did they ask? And yeah, 112 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: it's important. Context missing. I think that liberal women and 113 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: this this could be a generalization that I've experienced, are 114 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: more likely to be honest and to report those kinds 115 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: of things. Um. But also, and this is a much 116 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: bigger topic. It's a very controversial topic. We've been talking 117 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: about doing this episode forever. But I do think that 118 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: not a lot of con servative women who really buy 119 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: in to the conservative rhetoric of you know, women in 120 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: marriage and all that stuff. Um, I think that they're 121 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: less likely to admit that they're you know, being a 122 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: mother is hard and it's not always perfect or easier'or like, 123 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: I think they're less likely to say that, right, And 124 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: let's be honest. And I saw an amazing tech talk 125 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: the other day, because you know, TikTok, apparently the world 126 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: of tech talk, that's my world, that's where I get 127 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: my permision just kidding, just kidding, um, but no, like 128 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: I've seen so much content and we're actually looking up 129 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: and researching about Christian nationalism and what it's doing to women, 130 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: um and why there's concerns and and and and understanding, 131 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: uh what is happening especially to that group of people. 132 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: And and I You and I have two different backgrounds 133 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: because though you did come from a very small town, uh, 134 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: your mother and father did not intrench you to the 135 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: level of Christianity. A lot of other people around you, 136 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: as you talked about even um, have gone through and 137 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: myself and being told as a women, we are always 138 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: being told this anyway, but in general to not show 139 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: when you're unhappy, to put on that happy space, to 140 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: be demure, to be kind, to be grateful, and never 141 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: come outside of that. So there's this whole level when 142 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: it comes to women in families, in conservative families, in churches, uh, 143 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: specific to things that would be uh you know, an 144 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: alignment with Christian nationalism, are told to step back and 145 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: then they will suffer if they're too honest, being that 146 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: you need to show your gratefulness and if you should 147 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: dare to show the truth and take down that mask, 148 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: you are sinning against God and your husband. So there's 149 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: so many things to this level and this rhetoric that 150 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: is so dangerous in itself, because that's also why the 151 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: statistics are higher when it comes to domestic violence for 152 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: those in what would be like Western religion, and we 153 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: see that, and we also see that like in religion 154 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,479 Speaker 1: in general, when it's specifically made up by the patriarch, 155 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: and it is to hold up a patriarch, that it 156 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: is women who suffer for it and told not to 157 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: complain and that it is sin to do so. So 158 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: there's so many levels to this conversation. One of the 159 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: most liberating things that I had when I went turned 160 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 1: away I guess or walked away from religion organized religion 161 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: was understanding that the faults they told me I had 162 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: and all the things that were wrong with me were 163 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: not anything wrong with me. It just was how I 164 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: was created. And if this God that they talked about 165 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: was so loving kind of the creator, then I should 166 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: embrace who I am as long as it is you know, 167 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: not harming other people, as in like this was my 168 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: survival tactics, This was who I was born to be. 169 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: I was like abandoned left and right, abused left and right, 170 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: and my strength, my independence, my uh ability to survive 171 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: and finally come to the point that I can recognize 172 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: myself was what made me who I am and how 173 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: I've survived all those years. And then you're telling me 174 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 1: that can't be you anymore. You have to let that 175 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: go and become a whole different person for you to 176 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: have value in the system. And so many women in 177 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: that culture, that's what they learned, that's what they're told, 178 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: and that's what they find their value. And to turn 179 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: your back to that is just literally spinning in the 180 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: face of who you should be. So you're being ungrateful 181 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: and like you are a traitor to that lifestyle. So 182 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: there's so much to this that I'm like, you are 183 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 1: for kidding. And again, I also wanted to come back 184 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: to this point because I'm getting real serious. I know 185 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: mhm that his whole beef is not about people being single. 186 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: His whole beef is that they're liberal. But they have 187 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: to tie that in together because none of this is 188 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: talking about being single. None of the articles that he 189 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: sent us isn't talking about except for the connected life 190 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: via marriage. It's most most of it is about being liberal. 191 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: So to that point, I'm like, so what singleness has 192 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: to have to do with any addition other than they 193 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 1: are in controlled by family or that traditional lifestyle and 194 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 1: being told if you had these things, you would have 195 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: better understand why we're trying to control you more. Right, right, 196 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: And we do have episodes coming out on a long 197 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: planned on religious trauma. They are coming, we promise, UM 198 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: because like to be clear, you know, religion has helped people. 199 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: Motherhood's not all bad. These are things, These are the 200 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 1: messages he's saying, Like in this email, the implications of 201 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: what he is saying, UM is just so problematic in 202 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: a lot of ways. Okay, I don't I want to continue. 203 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: So this this person runs a pro patriot, pro masculine, 204 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,479 Speaker 1: pro Christian group and dares to ask the question why. 205 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: And then there's some numbers that are given about women 206 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: getting married later than ever unmarried women. And here's a quote. 207 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 1: As it turns out, when you turn against God's plan, 208 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: you become unhappy. On the contrary, when you embrace God's plan, 209 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 1: the plan of traditional family and children, both men and 210 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: women are happier on the whole, you know, which is 211 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: funny to me because once again, if you stick by Paul, 212 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: Paul says, don't get married. His whole stick was if 213 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: you are literally horny, then get married, because how you 214 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 1: don't send But outside of that, they bring you down. 215 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 1: His whole spill is this, which is why he remained unmarried. 216 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: But with sonny young boys, thank that for what it is. 217 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 1: But like he had this whole thing, and we know 218 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: the majority of the New Testament, which is what is 219 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: a big conversation here is literally saying don't get married. 220 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: I love that you just well, actually this guy. But 221 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: like what's so funny is because if you see the 222 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: gospels was telling about Mark, Luke, John uh Matthew, which 223 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: by the only only one of them, I believe, what's 224 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: the disciple John? Who his whole message, John's holding message 225 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: is about love. If you want to go through, His 226 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: entire thing is you cannot love. If you don't love, 227 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: you're not of God. Like that's exactly what his whole 228 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 1: spiel was. But the other gospels are literally saying this 229 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: is the Church, the Father of the Church, and the 230 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: Holy Ghost, which is the bride, the husband and the Father. 231 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: Like that's the analogy that it comes to supposedly. I 232 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: think the translations have been ripped through a lot, and 233 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: there's a lot of conversations about this we know within 234 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: that world, which I'm not gonna get into, and people 235 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: gonna yell at me. Um. But all of that to 236 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: say is sure, that's exactly that level of trust. Like 237 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 1: you the father in the the guide you, and the 238 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: church is the one that follows Jesus. So that's how 239 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: it's supposed to make up the the marriage world, that 240 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: type of level, which, by the way, if we want 241 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: to talk about it, Jesus was very humble and didn't 242 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: do anything to actually hurt the wife or the church. 243 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: So you know, that's on the husband who beats them 244 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: and cheats on them and or you know, does all 245 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: these abusive things. Uh. Jesus did not do that, just 246 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: as the little minor um and also did not command. 247 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: He never once commanded that you have to do this. 248 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: Is that if you love person, then you should do 249 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: this again whatever. That's a whole different level, um. But 250 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: the fact is, when it came down to Paul's teaching, 251 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: which is the rest of the New Testaments outside of 252 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: Revelation and all that, um, it was he was actually 253 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: not he didn't think marriage was great as in fact, 254 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: he kind of made fun of Peter who was Mary 255 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: and thought he was a lesser. What that's a whole 256 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: different conversation. I'm sure people are at Melia. That's not true. 257 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: It's true they had each other. He tried to kill 258 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: them until he converted. Just as a reminder, it's been 259 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: a lot of times since I read the Bible, so 260 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: remember all these But all of this again comes back 261 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: to like this whole level, like this is God's intendent purpose. 262 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: Not no, not really. I mean in the Old Testament 263 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: that happened, and they had multiple wives, and then they 264 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: also killed their wives, and also they trapped it into 265 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: marriage while raping them, So that happened in the Old Testament. Sure, wow, man, 266 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: really really well, actually this guy, I love it. Um. 267 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: Our d religious drama episodes are gonna be intense. Oh 268 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: I have a lot of thoughts. Yes, well, I love 269 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: it um. And then so the email continues and it 270 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: has a quote from this survey they got from a EI, 271 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: which is a conservative survey by the way, it's a yes, 272 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: a conservative yeah, um. And it says, you know, conservatives 273 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: Americans who embrace family first values and virtues that steer 274 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: them towards wedlock marriage have happier, more fulfilling lives. Um. 275 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: And this is especially true for conservative women, this claims 276 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: um And here's a quote from the this survey that 277 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: they cited. The problem facing liberals, then, is that too 278 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: many of them have embraced the false narrative that the 279 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: path to happiness runs counter to marriage and family life, 280 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: not towards it. They think independence, freedom, and work will 281 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: make them happy, which is why significant portions of the 282 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: popular media are filled these days with these stories celebrating 283 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: divorce and single man. You know, the secret to happiness 284 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: for most men and women involves marriage and a life 285 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: based around the family. M part, but like, I love 286 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: that he brings out an article from Bloomberg. Uh, and 287 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: he's like, in reality, made mothers are richer than the 288 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: single women. Like, so there's money talked about it in here. 289 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think you know that means yeah, yeah, 290 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: and I there's so much in here that I like, 291 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: oh boy, we could really pick this apart. Um, I 292 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: really do want to do let's let's talk about this 293 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: because wow, and we are I'm just going in like 294 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 1: in frantic Modeve like, what is wrong with this, dude? 295 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: This is an email we received just to reiterate, Um. 296 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: I love that they think independence, freedom and work will 297 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: make them happy. I'm like, you obviously have not talked 298 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: to one liberal person because they will tell you, no, 299 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: we're trying for a four day work week. We would 300 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 1: rather not work. We would or if we're working, we 301 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: want to do something that we love and that's hard 302 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 1: to find because there's so many little opportunities for women 303 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: and that's why we're unhappy with our job. Yeah, which 304 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 1: we talked about kind of that issue before about women 305 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: going to the office and then you're still facing like 306 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: all of the sexes. So it's not like it went 307 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: away and we could go to work and that Like 308 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: that first wave of finism was really revolving around getting 309 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:04,360 Speaker 1: women white women, specifically equal pay, and we still don't 310 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: have that. So of course, like we're still frustrated, right, 311 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: and we still a little have equity when it comes 312 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: to getting any type of rights in general, and there's 313 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: still be uh discriminated against for wanting children in the 314 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 1: first place, which, by the way, that's the roadblock and 315 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 1: wanting children room. Yes, oh my gosh, yes, so much 316 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: so much stuff. And then it continues. This guy, who 317 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: is a student of history, says, the downfall of our 318 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 1: happiness began when the communist platform of Karl Marx and 319 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: the feminist revolution started attacking traditional family and capitalism. Oh gosh, 320 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 1: here's a quote from from him directly. The specter of 321 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: communism and all of its forms always seeks to disrupt 322 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: the nuclear family. This holds true from the Communist Manifesto 323 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: to the Thirteen Principles of Black Lives Matter, which both 324 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: blatantly seek to disrupt and abolish the Western prescribed nuclear family. 325 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 1: What's the first step? Destroy the head of the nuclear family? 326 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 1: The husband, dan father are mental? Fragile? Does feel pretty man? Oh? 327 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:13,679 Speaker 1: Poor man? And of course the term Western prescribed We 328 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 1: know what that is again, supremacy. We're here, hey, yes, 329 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: And he goes on. Carl Marx hated the traditional family, 330 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 1: writing proudly abolition of the family. On what foundation is 331 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: the present family? The bourgeoisie family based on capital, on 332 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 1: private gain, and it's completely developed form. This family exists 333 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: only among the bourgeoisie. This bourgeoisie family will vanish as 334 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 1: a matter of course, when it's compliment vanishes and both 335 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: will vanish with the vanishing of capital. Oh, it's kind 336 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 1: of like a huh oh and speaking of oh my gosh, 337 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: Like that's just the word private gain. I'm like, is 338 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: that offensive to you that you don't like being told that, yeah, 339 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 1: you're doing this for your own game? Yeah, it doesn't 340 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 1: like it. I love this part um. He quotes the 341 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: forty five goals of communism as written into the Congressional 342 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: Record of ninety include swee bullet points, discredit the family 343 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: as an institution, encourage promiscuity and easy divorce, emphasize the 344 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: need to raise children away from the negative influence of parents. 345 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 1: A tribute prejudices, mental blocks, and a word I'm not 346 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: gonna save children to suppressive influence of parents. So it's 347 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 1: like blaming the parents, I guess. And women, I mean 348 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: it's not said, but implied women be promiscuous and they 349 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 1: can get divorced. So also, this is obviously the last 350 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: the attribute to prejudice and mental blocks. This is about 351 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: a critical race theory, like that's which is not introduced. 352 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,199 Speaker 1: You set up in high school, middle schools, elemented schools, 353 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: so that is not a thing. This is why Texas 354 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: still thinks that they can never mind. Sorry, Texas, we 355 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: love you. But I was told by a person growing 356 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: up there, like we didn't have American history. We only 357 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 1: had Texas history. I've been I've heard that too. She act, yeah, 358 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: she was tamn. She was like, I didn't know, like 359 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: when we were in college talking about any of the things. 360 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 1: I don't think it was anything big, like I'm trying 361 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 1: to think of like Black Wall Street. I learned about 362 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: it in college, but it was like a very blip. 363 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: I don't think that was even the conversation like things 364 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,120 Speaker 1: like that. We didn't even talk about the Skeegee nothing. 365 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 1: It was something like, yeah, this is the United States 366 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: and this is what happened. She was like, Oh, I 367 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: don't know that because we didn't teach us anything out 368 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 1: of Texas history. Y'all those who are in Texas, is 369 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 1: that's still a thing that we also who grew up 370 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: in Texas. Is that the order they are they doing 371 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 1: in American history? But she was very baffled. Yeah, please 372 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: right in, please right in. Um. There's certainly like a 373 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 1: lot of ableism going on here, obviously, obviously, UM and 374 00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: I love it. It It feels very defensive. Again, it feels 375 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 1: very much like they're blaming the parab the poems. And 376 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: then to wrap up at the end, is this like 377 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 1: list of questions we could ask for his credit. It's 378 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 1: kind of nice to see, like, all right, you help 379 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: do the work. This makes it easy, which is what 380 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: he knows. Alright, so here are here's what he knows. 381 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: We could ask how did the modern welfare state marginalized 382 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: men and make single motherhood attractive? How has the feminist 383 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: movement made promises it could never keep. How has vilifying 384 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 1: men and babies impacted our world? Why are conservative women 385 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: in traditional marriages on average happier? What does masculinity have 386 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 1: to do with solving this problem? What fallout has the 387 00:22:56,200 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: absence of fathers created in our society? Why is the 388 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: black community a model that the Democrat Party would like 389 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: to repeat with all people groups. Why are traditional gender 390 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: roles and traditional marriage so outrageous to the left? What 391 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: is a man's role in resolving this societal problem? His 392 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: penis I know, I mean, we're making fun. This is 393 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 1: also offensive, but it's also like, oh, silly, thank you 394 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: for this email, dude, because now I know not only 395 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: are you a misogynist, not only are you says you 396 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: were absolutely racist enable. So everything about you, which, by 397 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 1: the way, this dude got like a really serious injury. 398 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: So bro, you should understand about disabilities just a little bit, 399 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: but you can't stop yourself and that's why you sell 400 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: yourself as an as. Yeah. Oh yeah, I mean again, 401 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 1: I almost thought this was a joke when I got 402 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 1: this email. I was like, surely not the vilifying babies 403 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 1: that is. I'm mean, some babies are evil, that's what 404 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 1: tell me. That's what I see. But no, like, I 405 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: honestly as one of those who actually worked to try 406 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 1: to what he would say, to save a traditional family 407 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: because I worked in suburban areas, small rural Georgia areas, 408 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 1: which is predominantly made up of literally like low income 409 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: white families, and those are the families that I worked with, 410 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: and I'm telling you what, I got some really fun, 411 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,120 Speaker 1: amazing reactions from them. I was trying to save them. 412 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: I was trying to sure to help them, I will 413 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: say that, but you know what, they have no help 414 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: from those who seek to tell them that they need 415 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,640 Speaker 1: to do better, and also who seek to tell them 416 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: that it's not their fault. Is obviously the black community 417 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: who's becoming the role model of the Democratic Party, which man, 418 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: I really wish if you could follow suit to all 419 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: the black women who have created such an amazing route 420 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: and path for us, that would be phenomenal. That's part 421 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: of the problem. We're not actually following that model, right right, Yeah, 422 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's why I'm unhappy. Like I said, 423 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 1: we have a lot of reason to be unhappy. I 424 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 1: think he's missing that point. That's like one of the 425 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 1: key points. I also love that he's talking about all 426 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: these things that have been literal roadblocks that the Republican 427 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 1: Party uses, and or the Conservative Party, the families First 428 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: party um as they would like to think themselves because 429 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: they don't really care about other families, just their family, um. 430 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: But they are the reason why these roadblocks are happening. 431 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 1: The movement made promises it could never keep because you're 432 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: roadblocking everything right exactly exactly, And it's also one of 433 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: those things are clearly like, as a white man, I'm 434 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 1: sure you felt very happy and comfortable like and surely everyone, 435 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: like everyone in my life, this is their best time 436 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: right too. And if it's not, it's because of feminism 437 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 1: um or the black like whatever it is. Um. He's 438 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: just very clearly focused on himself and his own world 439 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 1: views and has not even thought to think beyond that. Yes. Again, also, 440 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: they're so out of touch that they sent us a request. 441 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 1: That's how little they're aware of their surroundings and how 442 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 1: they little they care about who they're talking I thought 443 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: about that too. I was like, this is you're kind 444 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 1: of by sending this to us, you're proving exactly what 445 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: we're talking right. Yeah, it's kind of like, oh yeah, sure, 446 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: these ladies they love to talk about they'd love to 447 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: talk to me about this essentially like oh women, mom, yeah, 448 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,679 Speaker 1: got him there in let's do those the lack of 449 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 1: self awareness, I love it. Yes, um yeah, I mean 450 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 1: we could, like you said, we could pick part every 451 00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: line of this. We won't, but like again, we I 452 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: know we've talked about this before, but just to like 453 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 1: wrap up, this is really funny and it's fun to imagine, 454 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: like you or I have so much power and finism 455 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: has so much power that he's like it's ruining society 456 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: trying we're trying to credit. I know you're giving us 457 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: so much credit to be honest, like we've done a 458 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 1: lot um, but it's always funny to hear these where 459 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:29,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's whatever the conservatives will take, like we're 460 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: trying to ruin society. They don't take this run with it. 461 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: I can't wait. But also, and also coming back to 462 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 1: like part of our conversations, we're not ragging on motherhood 463 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 1: or family a life, because that's beautiful when it's done 464 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: correctly and when you are happy and it is all equal, 465 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 1: it is a gorgeous thing. Say, and that's what you 466 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: love if you love being a stay at home mom 467 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: taking care of your house, and have it this agreement 468 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: that you have fully communicated, wonderful that I am so 469 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 1: excited for that. But that's the whole is that we 470 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: want to be able to have the choice to live 471 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 1: the life that we choose, yes, point blank exactly, and 472 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: having the freedom to do so, and being happy to 473 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 1: do so without harming others exactly exactly. So yeah, I mean, 474 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,399 Speaker 1: this was quite a funny thing to pick through, but 475 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 1: it is still very frightening and toxic that people believe this. 476 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: So I hope you had a good laugh, like I 477 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: said at the top, but it's like infuriating and funny 478 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 1: cringe pause, funny question mark. I had to read it 479 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: like three times before I was like, oh my gosh, 480 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 1: I guess this is real. Um okay, but yeah, listeners. 481 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: If you have any thoughts about this, I'm sure that 482 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: you do, please let us know. You can email us 483 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,239 Speaker 1: A Stepan, you mom, stuff at I hurt me dot com. 484 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 1: You can find us on Twitter at most stuf podcast 485 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: or on Instagram and stuff I Never told you. Thanks 486 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: as always your super producer, Christina. Thank you, you're the best. 487 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: Enjoy this goes on TikTok. 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