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Speaker 1: Welcome back about your happy Hour. It's so good to

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Speaker 1: be back here with you all again this week, and

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to have Michelle to recap this next episode.

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Speaker 1: We finally had some drama. So much drama, Like, there's

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Speaker 1: so much that we have to talk about. It's going

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Speaker 1: to be a great week with you. Um. We probably

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Speaker 1: are not going to have enough time to actually talk

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Speaker 1: about and cover everything, but we're gonna be talking to

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Speaker 1: the man who received Gabby's first one on one date, Nate.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, I understand how you feel because some of

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Speaker 1: my exes have very common names too. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to say any of them, but I have been in

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Speaker 1: your shoes before, so I get it. But luckily, we're

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Speaker 1: so excited to have Nate come on. Like you said,

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Speaker 1: he did get Gabby's first one on one date, and

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Speaker 1: I actually loved his reaction to it, which we'll get into.

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Speaker 1: I love how shocked he was, like he didn't see

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Speaker 1: it coming whatsoever. Before we get him on and get

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Speaker 1: into his date and his experience, let's break down episode

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Speaker 1: two quickly. I know that we both had some standout moments.

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Speaker 1: I have one question though, for you, Michelle. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: I was very shocked, and I just want to get

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Speaker 1: into the one on one dates themselves really quick, because

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Speaker 1: obviously there was a group date with the girls and

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Speaker 1: all their men, but then each woman was given a

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Speaker 1: one on one date this week and Jordan winked with Rachel.

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Speaker 1: Obviously he did not get a rose, But were you

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Speaker 1: surprised that he did not go back to the house

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Speaker 1: because I was thinking, even if he didn't get a

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Speaker 1: rose on a one on one date, should he not

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Speaker 1: stick around to see if he has a potential connection

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Speaker 1: with Gabby? Oh wow, I was surprised that he just

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Speaker 1: up and left totally, like I thought, Okay, I actually

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Speaker 1: so okay, I feel like you're gonna have to I mean,

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Speaker 1: I obviously know that we have two bad Surettes, right,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like I compartmentalize as I'm watching at

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Speaker 1: times as well, And so the first time I watched it,

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Speaker 1: I was like, honestly, I don't know if someone ever

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Speaker 1: of the season. Has anyone been sent home? I mean

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Speaker 1: I would have to ask, like everyone, like all of

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Speaker 1: the die hard fans out there, but I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. Like from right, seasons that I've seen.

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Speaker 1: I don't think the first one on one day person

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Speaker 1: has ever gotten gotten Yeah, And honestly, I think for

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Speaker 1: that I was like, if she can go back and

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Speaker 1: is not for me one like that's you know, she

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Speaker 1: knows what she wants, right. But I actually didn't think

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Speaker 1: be something or someone that Gabby wants to get to know.

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Speaker 1: But I'm also curious if they spoke about this before

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Speaker 1: a conversation about that, you know? So this is because

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Speaker 1: I was watching the episode with Thomas and he raised

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Speaker 1: a good point and he said, well, Jordan specifically said

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Speaker 1: he was there to get to know Rachel like he

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Speaker 1: I understand maybe why he would go home for good.

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Speaker 1: But there's still many guys there who they're like, we

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Speaker 1: have a connection with both women, and we're interested in

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Speaker 1: exploring connections with both these women. And so I was

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Speaker 1: surprised that even if it wasn't going to be him

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Speaker 1: So I was like, this could have been a missed

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Speaker 1: your thing right, but it'll be interested understand that. But

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Speaker 1: I also will say that at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: staying like you can't people do for us to try

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Speaker 1: to keep themselves there. Right. But if I was in

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Speaker 1: and let's say I really, like genuinely had a connection

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Speaker 1: that's hard because it's like it's on almost like on

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Speaker 1: both parties, I guess, right, And I think as the

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Speaker 1: I think it'll be much easier to tell what guys

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Speaker 1: first week that I was like, Okay, this seems a

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Speaker 1: I was just kind of shocked in that moment to

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Speaker 1: all means you have that decision making to say, like

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Speaker 1: But I was just shocked to see that he wasn't

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Speaker 1: went back to the house to see Gabby. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think I think for me what's hard is that they

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Speaker 1: But I really feel like the girls are so respectful

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Speaker 1: adding to that point, because we do see them together

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Speaker 1: I love I just love how dynamic it is so far.

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Speaker 1: dynamic of this. But also too, I just felt so

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Speaker 1: bad for Rachel and points. I'm like, Gabby's living her

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Speaker 1: similar similarities. And kind of how I explain it is,

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Speaker 1: hanging out with one of my good friends and her boyfriend, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sad around them, right, Like, I don't get

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Speaker 1: right because I want something for my like for myself

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Speaker 1: gonna fluctuate. Oh, it's got to. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: the name Chris that's a good Did you have a

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Speaker 1: Chris in your season and he caused drama? Yes? On

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Speaker 1: I mean he already just rubbed me the wrong way

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Speaker 1: from the very beginning. But when anybody just completely says

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Speaker 1: that's not your main point. You can leave that out, right,

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Speaker 1: So like why are you are you convincing them? Are

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Speaker 1: you convincing yourself? Like are you you know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 1: that's just not something that like what do you want

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Speaker 1: to get out of that? Right? Just I don't know

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Speaker 1: But it's like, no, you don't know that, right, You're

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Speaker 1: And I think the way that he said it too

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Speaker 1: know that he like has had some conversations with them,

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Speaker 1: how it's just kind of approached, but I I really

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Speaker 1: you can find some time to talk to them and connect. Well,

429
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 1: speaking of connections and finding time to talk with somebody,

430
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 1: you lucked out this week because, like I said at

431
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,920
Speaker 1: the beginning, you not only were part of the beginning

432
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: of that group date, but you also got Gabby's one

433
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: on one date card. And I have to say your

434
00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 1: reaction to hearing your name was priceless because to set

435
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,879
Speaker 1: the scene for everybody who may have forgotten, Jesse Palmer

436
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 1: comes in that week and he explains there's going to

437
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 1: be one group date and two one on one dates,

438
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 1: and so you kind of knew going into it what

439
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,199
Speaker 1: this week was going to look like. But you looked

440
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,919
Speaker 1: like when your name was called, it looked like you

441
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 1: were still waiting for other names to be called. You

442
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 1: were that shocked. You were like, wait, is somebody else coming,

443
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,880
Speaker 1: even though Jesse was like, Nope, there's just one on

444
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 1: one coming. And so I loved your reaction because you

445
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 1: genuinely seemed shocked to be asked on that one on

446
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 1: one date, but you it also seemed like you had

447
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 1: a great connection with Gabby night one. So what was

448
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 1: going through your mind when you got that date card

449
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,360
Speaker 1: and you were finally like, oh, hell yeah, I get

450
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: this girl's first one on one date of the season.

451
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: There was a lot going on through my mind, Like

452
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,160
Speaker 1: shock is an understatement. Like when they said Nate, part

453
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,360
Speaker 1: of me blacked out. I was like, man, I'm hallucinating

454
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: right now, Like my mind just made them say Nate

455
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 1: and then he stared at me for a little bit

456
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 1: and then I was just an utter shock. My heart

457
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 1: like dropped to my stomach. I was like, I didn't

458
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: even think this woman knew my name. It was a

459
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: joke that we had in the house where you go around.

460
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: I was like, man, like I'm just fighting this week

461
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: so she can like remember my name, you know. And

462
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: after the pageant and I didn't win. When I didn't

463
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 1: not win, but when I didn't get invited to be

464
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: to the after party, I was like, you know, almost desperate.

465
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 1: I was like, there's no way they know who I am,

466
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 1: Like they saw me, I'm pillow boy. Nah nah, stand up, start,

467
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: I walk with confidence. You got this, but yeah, I was.

468
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 1: I was just so I was just so grateful and

469
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: excited that you know, all the little things that I

470
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 1: was doing and stepping out of my comfort zone, just

471
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: everything I was trying to somehow like caught. She was

472
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: intrigued enough to, you know, give me that first one

473
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 1: on one. So yeah, so we talked. We talked a

474
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 1: little bit about like how you got on the show, right,

475
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 1: and then you found out that you're gonna have two bachelorreats. Yeah,

476
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,479
Speaker 1: when you entered or just kind of like your mindset

477
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: coming into it, were you open to meeting two women

478
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: or were you leaning more towards Gabby. You know, I

479
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: think I was open towards meeting two women. I try

480
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 1: not to let like personifications of like TV you served

481
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 1: like actual connections, But I think whenever I did assess like, Okay,

482
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 1: I'm not about to try to joke, I'm gonna focus

483
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,479
Speaker 1: on one. You know, the sooner the better that can

484
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: that you know, I have the opportunity to choose the

485
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: better for me. And I was in a weird position

486
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: that all I had was just my intro. I didn't

487
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 1: even get the chance to talk to them the first

488
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: the first night, so then I was like, Okay, I'm

489
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 1: really gonna have to just step out on women, just

490
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 1: see who kind of resonates more with me, not through

491
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 1: my interactions with him personally, but like how they interact

492
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: with the other men and maybe some of their characteristics.

493
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: And I thought, what was I guess more similar to me?

494
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: Was was Gabby at the time. So whenever she gave

495
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 1: me the one on one I was, I was more

496
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: than ecstatic. You know, She's funny, quirky, and a lot

497
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 1: of a lot of her characteristics really resonate me. So

498
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: and I'm jumping all over the place, so I apologize,

499
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: but I want to ask is to play off of

500
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 1: Michelle's question, we will get into your date with Gabby,

501
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: but because you and Gabby had such a good connection

502
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: on that date, like you really hit it off, And

503
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: in my notes, I wrote like there was one word

504
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: that I wrote after you both left that date and

505
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: I said it was effortless, like you could just feel

506
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: that connection between you leaving that date though that one

507
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: on one with Gabby. Were you all in at that

508
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: point on her or were you still potentially open to

509
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 1: the idea of dating and getting to know Rachel as well?

510
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: You know, I think I was all in on Gabby.

511
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: You know, you said it best, like effortless, and I

512
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: get along with a lot of people, but for something

513
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 1: to be that seamless, I wasn't going to try and

514
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 1: search for it elsewhere, you know. And I thought I

515
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: knew Rachel was an amazing woman. But for the most

516
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: part what kind of happened with me and Gabby, I

517
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 1: didn't want to I kind of take away time from

518
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: fully immersing or exploring that relationship. So I was just

519
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: kind of one way. M m. Yeah. It was such

520
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: a good first date. Everything that you did, every part

521
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,439
Speaker 1: of it. I was like the champagne at the mansion

522
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: in the morning, the helicopter ride, going into the hot

523
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: tub at the top of a hill overlooking La to

524
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: going to Union Station. I was like, you would the

525
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: jackpot with that, and and like, yeah, he's incredible too.

526
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 1: So you just I was walked in and they're both

527
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: standing there, right, Yeah we were. You Like, did you

528
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: think he'd be going on a date with both of them?

529
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: Then no, I didn't, so so Rachel actually came in

530
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 1: a little later. So whenever I walked in, I was

531
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: greeted by Uh. I was greeted by Gabby and so

532
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: me and her got like a little bit of time

533
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: and then whenever we went to uh for the champagne,

534
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: then you know, Rachel is there. And at this moment

535
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 1: I was kind of like like struck, like, oh my gosh,

536
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: she's one for one to sending people home. So I

537
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: was kind of trend trending lightweight. But um, yeah with Rachel,

538
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: I will that's yeah. Were you hesitating like were because

539
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: I feel like it's and Michelle and I touched on

540
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: this at the top of the episode, but this is

541
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: the first time that I can remember on any season

542
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: where somebody went home on the very first one on

543
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: one date, which I'm sure to all of you men

544
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: still back at the mansion and you're probably like, oh shit,

545
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 1: like this is actually real, Like these girls are taking

546
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: this so seriously. So was part of you hesitant coming

547
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 1: into that day, being like a lot is actually on

548
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: the line here? No, absolutely, I knew that they would

549
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 1: be very intentional with like their their choices and how

550
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: they spent their time, and for him to go first

551
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: it definitely put in the air of like fear in

552
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: the house. We were like, what did he do? And

553
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: to not have those answers, those questions answered. We just

554
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: we came up with a million reasons asked what could

555
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 1: have happened? Why, and it just it just wasn't good.

556
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: But at the at the end of it, I said,

557
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: you know, I gotta I gotta kind of put that

558
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: you know to the to the side and focus on

559
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: gabbing in our relationship in the forefront. Because mind you,

560
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: I go straight into one on one like hey, like,

561
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: let's create this connection from scratch and see your friends

562
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: and like any of it. But it went so it

563
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: went so well just because I feel like, um, whenever

564
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: I met her, I was met with such kindness and

565
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: the person that you see on TV is truly who

566
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 1: Gabby is. Like she's just as Swede. She jokes, but

567
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: she also has an air where she can turn on

568
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: like a motive, being serious and very deep. So I

569
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: love that we were able to have like that much

570
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 1: of a dynamic conversation and date just off the bat. Yeah,

571
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: how did you go in? Okay? So you guys are

572
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: so natural together and like for even of all the

573
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: listeners or viewers or whatever, remonder that when it's the

574
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: cameras on YouTube, like there's so many other things happening

575
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: around you. That the fact that you guys could be

576
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: that natural from right off the bat. That's why I'm like, okay,

577
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: like we're gonna I'm gonna keep my eye. I'm gonna

578
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: keep it in my eye on then too. But were

579
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: you you know you do you did talk about your

580
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 1: daughter and you wanted to share that. Did you plan

581
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: to have a conversation about that the first night or

582
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: you like, I'm gonna know when the right time is

583
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: to talk about that. It was kind of like a

584
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: first night the thing that I thought I was gonna

585
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: bring up. So the game plan I went in with

586
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: was like a certain you know, a couple of talking points.

587
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: But at the at the moment where I got the

588
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: one on one, like, I was like, I can't, I'm

589
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: not gonna go in and talk on you know, day

590
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: one whenever we're already you know, at at our one

591
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: on one. So I wanted things to be relevant in present,

592
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: so I didn't talk about night one. I would talk

593
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: about the pageant a little bit, and then also my

594
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: daughter because I didn't know when I would get another

595
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: chance to get that time, Like you you glomb onto

596
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: like these small moments people don't realize that the time

597
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: you get on screen is really all you get. So

598
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: to make things so intentional and just to kind of

599
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: be vulnerable so you don't miss a chance of them

600
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: like seeing the person you are. And so by the

601
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: time that I got on a one on one, I

602
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna be vulnerable. I'm gonna be funny

603
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: but also serious so she can like a good a

604
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: good high level view of who's in front of her,

605
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: because I mean, we don't really know each other, and

606
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: so the better that you can articulate your thoughts and

607
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: emotions and just give her like an inkling of who

608
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: you are to your core that she picked up on

609
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: it quite well. She's so attent up into seeing details

610
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: and reading into people. So I just about how she's

611
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: gonna respond to you, because that's the big thing, because

612
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: there's people who are just like, nope, yeah, I wasn't

613
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: really nervous. I was just being myself. You know. She

614
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: could have said anything and I would have been okay

615
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: with it as long as I was just being genuine

616
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: and honest and just like kind of not hiding anything.

617
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: I knew I need to lay my cards on the

618
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: table just so she can see again who's in front

619
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: of her, and if she accepts it, then you know

620
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: it's cool. I just wanted the opportunity to present myself

621
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: and just just know was it me, was it not,

622
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: and not have to go home and be like, man

623
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: didn't get a shot to you know, show her who

624
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: I was. Well, I think it's so apparent to anyone

625
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: watching the show just how much you love your daughter,

626
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: and you even said I love being a girl dad.

627
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: And Gabby's reaction to your story and your situation was beautiful.

628
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't expect her to cry. And what

629
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: I loved is that her first question was, you know,

630
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: tell me more about your daughter, Like she was genuinely

631
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: invested in not only getting to know you, but such

632
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: a huge part of your life. And I think it

633
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: helped her. You sharing your story helped her share hers

634
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: because she had, you know, a strained relationship with her

635
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: mother growing up, and so were you aware of that

636
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: going in and after that conversation. Did you just feel

637
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: so connected after that, Like you guys have shared so

638
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: many heavy parts to both of you that it probably

639
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: bonded you in such a special way. No, absolutely, going

640
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: into it. Whenever I did that like, you know, that

641
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: conversation could go a number of ways, but she was

642
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: just so she just has like such a calming presence

643
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: around it that I just did feel completely open expressing

644
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: it and then her pinging me and asking me questions

645
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: on it. Following up, I was like, oh, wow, she's

646
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: like really attentive and and it just made me feel

647
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: so comfortable. Even though there were difficult conversations. You want

648
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: to feel like you can have those conversations with someone

649
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: that you're potentially buying for their affection and you know,

650
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: possibly marrying so U. And then whenever she like opened up,

651
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, Like I had no idea of

652
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: like her relationship with her mother possibly being constrained, and

653
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: so I just wanted to be like an opening open

654
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: ear for her and return the way that she did

655
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: for me. And doing that it really felt like it

656
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: did make us a lot closer, just to have like that,

657
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: that that bonding moment and then again like we had

658
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: that serious moment, and then right after we'd be able,

659
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: we were able to you know, start joking in and

660
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: make it light harder and fun. So it just goes

661
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: back to saying like we really did have like a

662
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: really good dynamic and the things that we covered in

663
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: that dat alone. So it is really miss the beat.

664
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: It's kind of you guys could just go do anything

665
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: like it seems like it's a relationship where you can

666
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: run errands, you can go to target, you can whatever

667
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: it is you hard work, and then y'all would just

668
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: be joking the whole time, laughing the whole time. Yeah,

669
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: I oh god, I just had a question. Oh, this

670
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: is what I wanted to ask you. So, you know

671
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: Gabby better than Michelle and I do. I was lucky

672
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: enough to have Gabby on the podcast, you know, back

673
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: when Clayton's season was airing. But that was just one conversation.

674
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: But what I took from that at that moment in

675
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: time was how self aware of a woman she is.

676
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: Is that something that you picked up on right away too,

677
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: because I feel like it would be so hard to

678
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: miss like she is so self aware. Oh my god,

679
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: it's unbelievable to be in the presence of someone that's

680
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: like that. It's kind of they can be daunting, but

681
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: it's in the presence of the right person. It's also

682
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: empowering just to see someone like that. You know, I

683
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: remire people who've gone through things, but people who go

684
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: through them and come out stronger, like you just get

685
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: in an orror around them and you just and you

686
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: just you know, appreciate and loving even more for it.

687
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: So it was it was truly amazing to be able

688
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,719
Speaker 1: to share that space and just see her for who

689
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: she was and not just what they portrayed on TV.

690
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: Because if you get like time with her, you just

691
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: like you are a phenomenal woman and I'm you know

692
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: it just it just justified the reason for me even

693
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 1: even going on the show. So did you start to

694
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: follow a little bit for her that night? Like, I

695
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: feel like, there's no way you couldn't have. I knew that,

696
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: I knew a lot of emotions and things. It did

697
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 1: take me a while at the process. If we definitely

698
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 1: did have a lot of strong, um, you know, emotional moments,

699
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,479
Speaker 1: and I think we did develop I know, I feel

700
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: we definitely developed feelings for each other, but I can't

701
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: say what it was like a fall, like did you

702
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 1: see it? Okay, So you would talk about how Gabby

703
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: and we all talk about how Gabby is so self

704
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: aware after we spoke to her just about your daughter

705
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: and the picture and her response and all these other things.

706
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: Was there a thought that you were like, yeah, like

707
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: this person and really does have like the qualities that

708
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: would make a good mom too daughter, absolutely like being

709
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: around her. I would say, I never put someone in

710
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: the bucket of oh my gosh, I'm talking to you,

711
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: so you're automatically in the bucket of dating life. Like

712
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: at first, I just wanted to see if there was

713
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 1: like a friendship that could be did build up there,

714
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: see if there was something deeper, And then by the

715
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: end of the evening, you know, I saw so many

716
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: qualities that were just indicative of just being like a

717
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: good nurture, a good mother, a good support system even

718
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: for me. So she crossed I mean, that date just

719
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 1: crossed off a lot of boxes for me, and why

720
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: I was really just kind of one way after that

721
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: in my mind, I was like, yeah, I was also

722
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: I feel like all things considering the fact that you

723
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: didn't necessarily going to talk to her that much tonight,

724
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: one like you really are taking the lead, I would say,

725
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: as like one of the standout contestants at this point

726
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: in time, Like, but I would say, at this point,

727
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: probably the strongest connection we've seen with one of these women. Well,

728
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: and it's been so awesome to chat with you. You.

729
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: I know this was a first podcast, but you you

730
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 1: did wonderful you didn't you absolutely wonderful motive. And I'm

731
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: really excited to see like how far he goes Becca,

732
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: because oh I am too, I have lives Nate. But

733
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: before we go, we we love our games here on

734
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour. So we're going to get to know

735
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: you a little bit more from a little rapid fire.

736
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 1: So we're going to ask you a question and your

737
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: job is to respond. It's quick, like a short response. Um,

738
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: and yeah, we're gonna see what you have you wanted

739
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 1: to say the first question. Yeah, it's so easy. So

740
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: first question is simple, are you an early riser or

741
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: a night owl? I'm an early riser. You know a

742
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: lot of times if I don't wake up early, my

743
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: daughter's gonna wake up and put on something crazy on

744
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: the TV. And I'll wake up here and like some

745
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: crazy noises and it's terrifying. So I always have to

746
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: beat her up. And she's an early riser out a

747
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: mind of her own. That's good. We love that. Best

748
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 1: dating advice You've ever received, Best dating advice I've ever received?

749
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: Is um. You know, be yourself and the people who

750
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: are supposed to be there will gravitate towards you. You

751
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: don't want to um. You don't want to guarding the

752
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: affection of a woman by not being yourself because you

753
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 1: can't maintain that. You can always be yourself and you

754
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: can be grounded that way. So that's the best advice

755
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: I've gotten. Solid. How do you like your pizza? I

756
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 1: think this is wording is so weird. Next day cold

757
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 1: you know, it's almost like it's almost Yes, it's better cold,

758
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: it is. I totally one thousand percent agree the flavors

759
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: can marinate a bit better. Yes, shower or bath shower? Yeah, shower.

760
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't fest in it. I can't. I

761
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: feel like every guy we have on is gonna say shower.

762
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: No one is going to say say bad. Lets should

763
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: take this? Might say bad. Oh. I can't wait to

764
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: have Quincy on. I'm excited to pick his brain. Okay, So, Nate,

765
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: this is a question that you have to answer and

766
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: show us. Okay, what is your signature dance move? Oh?

767
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: My signature dance move? Let me see if I do

768
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: It's like do what happen from around me right now.

769
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 1: You know that. I find like a little a little dougie.

770
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: It's probably the easiest one to do because it doesn't

771
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: take up too much. I'm tossed if I have something newer,

772
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: I gotta flail my arms. That doesn't work, So I

773
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: just a little dougie. Okay. What is your favorite curse word? Uh?

774
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: Probably um, shit, shit, shit. I say shit probably a

775
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: thousand times a day. I get an email shit. Oh.

776
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: I loved your face too when you said that, Like,

777
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: did you for a hot second think can I say

778
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 1: this on the podcast? I thought about it, but you

779
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: asked me yoursel. I was like, oh, we must be

780
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: able to curse, so questions you're baiting me? Curses? Shit? Okay, Nate,

781
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: I love this question for anyone. What is your guilty pleasure?

782
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: My guilty pleasure? M this is a good one. I

783
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: don't think I've thought of a guilty pleasure in a while.

784
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: I have to have one. What is my guilty pleasure?

785
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: Everyone has something guilty pleasure. I don't know. I like,

786
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: I like Kate Pop. I listened to it. I mean,

787
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: I mean get flack flack with that. I like. I

788
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,359
Speaker 1: don't know what that was, not what I was expecting. Yes,

789
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: I know it's a say it's a guilty pleasure, but

790
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: really like No, I like it. I like it to upbeat.

791
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: It's happy good so okay. So that leads into the

792
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: next question, speaking of music, what is your go to

793
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: karaoke song? Oh my god, um, it's gonna be me

794
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: by in Sync. I love it. It's gonna be bang. Yeah,

795
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: what do you know this song? It's gonna be man.

796
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: I'm okay, I know the d ran carry I built

797
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 1: that right, sweet fantasy? Oh my god? Yeah, can you

798
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,399
Speaker 1: give us a little clip go? Oh my god, I'll

799
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 1: probably break my speakers. I did. It's just sweet, sweet fan,

800
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: Come on, you can't. Don't maybe hanging in karaoke okay, Yeah,

801
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: so we will never go to karaoke with Nate is

802
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: It's what he's telling us right now. No. If I

803
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 1: get if I get a little buzz, my my voice

804
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: gets a thousand times better, I promise you. Like, yeah,

805
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 1: thinking it's hard. I do it all the time with

806
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: shower singer through and through. But did you get that

807
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: singing that's a that's it's difficult. Oh yeah, that's why

808
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: I do k oh. I love the karaoke session. I

809
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: shower concerts are pretty dope, though, I will say that

810
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: one time. The fun fact, I used to work at

811
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 1: a bar and I got a little too crazy one

812
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: night when I was working and I sang karaoke and

813
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: I absolutely flung the microphone across the entire bar and

814
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: broke it, and so I was banned from karaoke for

815
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 1: a couple of The song were you singing? It was

816
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: Billy Jean by Michael Jackson. Yeah, shut out, Johnny Bees

817
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: is good old Michael Jackson. So ever since then, I

818
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: don't allow myself to sing any emerging, which is probably

819
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: for the best. All right, Nate, what is your current

820
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 1: screensaver on your phone? My current screensaver on my phone?

821
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: It is? It is a background of Cartagena. I traveled

822
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: to Columbia, I think a couple of years ago. Yeah,

823
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 1: I took a black and white photo of the Street's

824
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: super nice, so it's pretty. I'm at work, I put

825
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 1: up my phone and I see a photo of vacation.

826
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: It puts me in a happy place, so I love that. Well,

827
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: that's a step up for Mario last speak, he did

828
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 1: not have a screen saver, So you did it. Oh

829
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 1: my gosh, We're gonna end with one last question for

830
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 1: a rapid fire. What is one word to describe the

831
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: rest of Gabby and Rachel's season? One word I would say,

832
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 1: or a phrase or a phrase I would say a

833
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: phrase is very unpredictable, screen unpredictable. I like it. I

834
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: feel like they've been unpredictable this past couple of seasons.

835
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: We're just gonna keep it rocking and rolling this one.

836
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: This one, I'm not seeing that they say it, but

837
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 1: it is truly unpredictable. We were we were at a

838
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: law so I would be every time that there was

839
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: something coming out, we would guess what we'd be doing.

840
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 1: We would guess would be going on the next one

841
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: on one And I was wrong every single time, and

842
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 1: I was in it. So I can't imagine what emotion

843
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: the viewers out there are gonna go through whenever they

844
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,439
Speaker 1: just keep getting these twists and turns. It's really unbelievable

845
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: even to be in it. So I'm excited. I'm predictable. Okay,

846
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: I'll take it. I love that. Yeah, all right, Nate.

847
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: Every week we asked our guests a rose and thorn,

848
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be for this week, for this specific episode.

849
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: So basically, your rose is it's gonna be like your

850
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,720
Speaker 1: favorite moment, your highlight, and then your thorn is obviously

851
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:33,959
Speaker 1: the opposite. Okay, my my thorn was probably the moment

852
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: they pick those those throngs out of the bag. That

853
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: was probably one of the lowest the lowest points. Um

854
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Speaker 1: and then and then my um and then my rose

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00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: was dancing with Gabby at the end of our our

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Speaker 1: one on one that was probably yeah, I love that, Michelle,

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00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 1: what about you? Um, I would say my thorn would

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00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: probably be just watching Rachel just respond to those conversations,

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00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 1: you know, really like wanting this for herself as well,

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00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: and um, you know, so early on like just people

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00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: deciding that not to open up. This was not towards

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Speaker 1: you by my rose. My rose would be Gabby and

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00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: Rachel throwing Chris, not throwing Chris out, But anyone know,

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00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: because I don't know. I love women, women who can

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00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,320
Speaker 1: make her own their own decisions and they truly do

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00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: just like they know what they want, yeah, and they

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Speaker 1: stick with it. So oh right, good ones. I'm gonna

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00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: say my thorn and Date, I'm sorry this is to you.

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00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: Was watching you spray on so much cologne before your date.

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00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: You gave yourself so many squirts. I was like, I

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00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 1: can smell you through the screen, sir, I'm telling you

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00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: that the last longer. I don't know what it is,

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00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: but like my cologne is not as strong. I mean

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00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: it needs more than one else. I was watching this, No, no,

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00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: it was so funny. I actually wrote that in my

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00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: notes because I was watching this because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I need to call his ass out tomorrow when I

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00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: have him on the podcast. Um, okay, like boys in

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00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: Hollis today. But yeah, it's really got you. Gotta see

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00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: that food you were. You did so many sprays. I

881
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: thought you were in a spray it in your mouth

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00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: before you left. I was like, oh my god, put

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00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: the bottle, dutch Man. Somebody needs to just like get

884
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: that ten second clip instead of two because it was

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00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: I was laughing so hard. I was like, how many

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00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,959
Speaker 1: did you do? But if that's my if that's my thorn,

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00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: you know it's it's a good week. I'm gonna say.

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00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: My rose was. I think just seeing the girls together

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Speaker 1: and like in the little moments, like in the middle

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Speaker 1: of their group date where they can just hop on

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00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: a bed and have a girl chat and drink champagne.

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00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 1: That's something that I would have loved to have on

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00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: my season. You know, like there's you always say the

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00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: breaks with your producer to talk through things, but it

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00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: would be so much more special, I think, and just

896
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: fun in general to have one of your good friends

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00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: to be able to do that with. And so seeing

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Speaker 1: those moments with the two of them together, I absolutely

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Speaker 1: love so that it's going to be in my rose

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Speaker 1: and with that, Nate, you made it through your first podcast.

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00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:27,720
Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us. Amazing, it was so much fun. Okay, Michelle,

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Speaker 1: that was such a fun week, such a fun interview.

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Speaker 1: And to all of our Bachelor Happy Hour listeners, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Once again, thanks to Nate and everyone.

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