Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision. West coast,
Speaker 1: west coast.
Speaker 2: West coast, and when I say it, it might be
Speaker 2: as west as you could get. Seattle's that's real, West Seattle.
Speaker 1: We are finally coming to you.
Speaker 3: Listen, you gotta get tickets because I'm telling you right now.
Speaker 3: If Mandy and I ever thought about doing a loop
Speaker 3: of the show again, that's shit.
Speaker 1: Far as hell. It is going to take a last
Speaker 1: air lodge or so shit. Anyway. The point is I'm
Speaker 1: only doing it for y'all, that's right.
Speaker 3: So y'all, the Climax Tour is coming to Seeattle.
Speaker 1: That's Washington, right, but not DC. It's the so.
Speaker 3: Willa is Portland peeps and whoever is like up there
Speaker 3: to come see you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all know, I got to pull out a map.
Speaker 2: But Seattle, we are coming to you on September seventh
Speaker 2: at the Neptune Theater.
Speaker 3: Must be sucking some things out there, cause he's like, oh,
Speaker 3: go to seat. He cannot wait to go to Seattle.
Speaker 2: Hunt And you know what, I'm going to talk to
Speaker 2: the people who make the weather machines and it's gonna
Speaker 2: be good weather because I do know that seat.
Speaker 1: That'll be rainy. What day of the week is it.
Speaker 3: It is September one, seventh. Okay, so here's the team.
Speaker 3: What's the team?
Speaker 1: The seventh is a Thursday. People like going out on
Speaker 1: Thursday nights.
Speaker 3: They do, So it's Friday. We barely show up for work, y'all.
Speaker 3: Make it a little bit.
Speaker 1: I would say, call off at Let's take that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so make sure you go on over to hoorhive
Speaker 3: dot com and get your tickets. Now.
Speaker 1: Beach is given another solo.
Speaker 3: Welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, I'm weezy, Welcome back for another episode.
Speaker 1: Dance right and I'm your girl.
Speaker 2: Mandy Bakapai the Sallion aka Pegan Marco aka Debt Bitch
Speaker 2: aka full Core Pumps aka outside and you had a
Speaker 2: breast besch bitch? Actually no, because I went to bark
Speaker 2: class this morning, and bitch, how is it? I am
Speaker 2: feeling great. I'm thirteen pounds down and I'm now getting
Speaker 2: into where I want to tone. My hips have also
Speaker 2: been really, really fucking tight. It had been it's been
Speaker 2: like extremely tight. And actually you know what, this actually
Speaker 2: wasn't in the outline, but.
Speaker 1: We have not for.
Speaker 2: But I'm just remembering that we have not updated the audience,
Speaker 2: so real quick, y'all. I've been definitely like working more
Speaker 2: on like my mental health, making sure I take my
Speaker 2: days off and there's a place that I go to
Speaker 2: relax and get massages. We did not tell them about
Speaker 2: the Patreon, no, bitch.
Speaker 1: I'm seeing that negative of see what I mean, And
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I really don't like it. I
Speaker 1: don't like.
Speaker 2: It because hold on, let me tell y'all. So I
Speaker 2: talked about I think one of the massages that I
Speaker 2: told y'all. At the time, I felt like I was
Speaker 2: cheating on my eggs because it.
Speaker 1: Was so good talk about this.
Speaker 2: No, we did not, bitch, I'm telling you, we did
Speaker 2: not talk about this, not even on Patreon.
Speaker 1: Maybe on the town Hall. Not even on town hall. Okay,
Speaker 1: not even on the trying to bring my man up, y'all,
Speaker 1: see what I mean.
Speaker 2: So we're on tour and I'm like, bitch, when I
Speaker 2: get back, I have to go get this massage because
Speaker 2: oh my god, it feels so good. And I'm single now,
Speaker 2: so I don't have to feel guilty about how fucking
Speaker 2: good it is. Because the way my pussy was throbbing,
Speaker 2: deering this massage with no happy ending, but it made
Speaker 2: me happy.
Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, and here go Weezy with her
Speaker 1: pessimistic ass.
Speaker 2: Bitch, it can't be that good, so tell me why
Speaker 2: we are literally on tour. And Weezy goes in books
Speaker 2: to goddamn session right after mine same day.
Speaker 1: Y'all, I didn't know you don't want to told me
Speaker 1: to do it.
Speaker 2: Well, I said it was good, but bitcha, I didn't
Speaker 2: think you was gonna go. I said, yeah, girl, we
Speaker 2: could go together. You can have it right after me. Sure,
Speaker 2: so mind you.
Speaker 3: She comes in like, bitch, I've been to Parie, I've
Speaker 3: had Thailand massages.
Speaker 2: I've had some good fucking massages. I think you're hyping
Speaker 2: this person up.
Speaker 1: So she goes. We end up like you know, being
Speaker 1: at this place together.
Speaker 2: And before I leave out of massage, I let the
Speaker 2: nigga know, don't embarrass me.
Speaker 1: Now out on my sage. My friend is coming.
Speaker 2: Don't embarrass me because I done hyped your ass up.
Speaker 2: So Weezy has her massage and the way she comes
Speaker 2: out it kind of made me feel away because, y'all,
Speaker 2: she comes out We're sitting now in the eating area,
Speaker 2: like the cafe area, and she comes out looking like
Speaker 2: she just got fucked.
Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna hold you. Hair is in a array,
Speaker 1: her mouth is still a jar. Bitch.
Speaker 2: She's walking like she just got fucked, and I did.
Speaker 2: Her walk is different, and she's like literally starts looking
Speaker 2: did he do this to you? Did he do this
Speaker 2: to you? Did he do this to you?
Speaker 1: But did he do this to you? Because I think
Speaker 1: he liked me? So I ain't no way you got this.
Speaker 1: And I said, bitch, I got all of that, And I.
Speaker 2: Mean, if you could explain it, because you didn't get
Speaker 2: a happy ending, right, no oh, because the way you
Speaker 2: like this, nigga, I was like, bitch, he.
Speaker 1: Bro he gave you a little sun.
Speaker 3: I just never had a massage like that, but I did.
Speaker 3: At the end of the massage, I said to him,
Speaker 3: I need you.
Speaker 1: To know do you do that with everybody?
Speaker 3: He was laughing and he was like, I massage this
Speaker 3: way for whoever is willing to receive. But I did
Speaker 3: say to him it reminded me a lot of like
Speaker 3: Thie body, where he's like, that's what I'm thinking about
Speaker 3: when I'm giving the massage. I was like, I've had
Speaker 3: a lot of reiki done. It reminds me of that.
Speaker 3: He was like, some of that's incorporated.
Speaker 2: Bit it remind me of the massages that I used
Speaker 2: to get right before getting buked, and that would have
Speaker 2: my pussy leacoln.
Speaker 1: Mind you, there's a lesbian couple sitting behind us. Thought
Speaker 1: about that.
Speaker 2: Weezy literally like, oh my god, you have to go
Speaker 2: to this band. Have you felt did your massage?
Speaker 1: I was like no, no, no, no, So that was
Speaker 1: a high mandy. But they can hear me going on
Speaker 1: and on. I was like, oh, did you guys just
Speaker 1: get a massage? She's like, yeah, ours is great. I said,
Speaker 1: what was it with him? I know? I said, what
Speaker 1: wasn't this? It wasn't this.
Speaker 3: The first thing that happened when I got on the
Speaker 3: table was, first of all, the music was different from
Speaker 3: a normal massage bod music. Okay, I would describe it
Speaker 3: as burning man shit, not burning. It was no, really,
Speaker 3: it was very drum circle music and shit. So that
Speaker 3: already had me being like, okay, that's different. He got
Speaker 3: on the table, put my hips I was face down,
Speaker 3: pulled my hips into his body and started turning me like,
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh no, like this is I'm
Speaker 3: gonna get fucked.
Speaker 1: But I wasn't mad about it though. Then.
Speaker 3: The only other thing that I can remember is I
Speaker 3: remember him stating on top of me. I remember my
Speaker 3: the she came down off of my chest. I remember
Speaker 3: the towel came off with my face because he was
Speaker 3: like cracking me that much. But the one thing that
Speaker 3: was super memorable that was crazy was when he did
Speaker 3: my face. He massaged my mouth, and that's when I
Speaker 3: knew that was the best massage I ever had. I've
Speaker 3: had a think it's a buckle buckle massage where they
Speaker 3: get in your mouth cheeks and stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had that massage.
Speaker 3: Like during facials they asked if like you know, they'll
Speaker 3: put gloves on and they'll get around.
Speaker 1: They're supposed to shape your face. The shit he did
Speaker 1: was my lips, and I was like, see, how does
Speaker 1: it kissed me? Like? Yo? It was so it wasn't y'all.
Speaker 1: She was just well, we'll.
Speaker 3: Find out Friday at two thirty. Oh you really that's
Speaker 3: why I fucked up the call, oh bitch, not just
Speaker 3: painting our motherfucking tour call. So you could know it
Speaker 3: rubbed off in my in my notes, I had eleven thirty,
Speaker 3: but that's because I booked it in LA. So I
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, well, bitch, I'm sorry, fuck
Speaker 3: the sport base. My man is at two thirty.
Speaker 1: Her Man, her Man, her Man. Y'all, this is a masseuse.
Speaker 1: He's great. I'm not gonna lie. I literally sent him
Speaker 1: this episode.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna like go see him twice a month now,
Speaker 3: like especially if I'm dating and not really in New
Speaker 3: York more.
Speaker 1: Than me, bitch, And I fucking booked that l that's
Speaker 1: how good he is. No, And I know you guys
Speaker 1: want to know who he is. But here's the problem.
Speaker 1: I'm not sharing. I'm gonna be honest with you. I
Speaker 1: booked this matter of fact.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna reach your text. This is how good this
Speaker 3: Nika massage is this high notice?
Speaker 1: Shit? Wait, who did you text?
Speaker 3: There's like a number that they have that you could text.
Speaker 3: Oh god, what did you say to the number?
Speaker 1: Girl? Don't July third?
Speaker 3: July third was a Monday. Hello, could I have Blanks
Speaker 3: availability for a ninety minute massage?
Speaker 1: Because he don't work on Mondays?
Speaker 3: On seven fourteen, he has ten am only I said, oh, okay,
Speaker 3: right back, Sorry it switched. How about the week after
Speaker 3: that was July third? Bro, he be booked out, bitch,
Speaker 3: he be booked out.
Speaker 2: And literally when I go on, I'll normally go under
Speaker 2: his wait list because then they'll let you know when
Speaker 2: he gets times available in case someone cancels.
Speaker 1: That ship is so good to where I think he
Speaker 1: gotta be exhausted. I think maybe do you think he
Speaker 1: gets off on it? Yes?
Speaker 3: Like was his dick card? Did you ever feel his
Speaker 3: dick rub on? But this, Oh there's one there's one
Speaker 3: critique I have and it's not really critique. And I
Speaker 3: was saying it later to that, I was telling the
Speaker 3: flea market, but I was like, I just gonna fuck you.
Speaker 1: But you did it.
Speaker 3: But it felt like so I said, it was so
Speaker 3: good but so different that I couldn't relax.
Speaker 1: All the way.
Speaker 3: Oh bitch, but it was. It made me feel good after,
Speaker 3: it made me feel stought. I felt looser, like he
Speaker 3: got the knots out. I got stretched. But it wasn't
Speaker 3: one of those that puts me to sleep. No.
Speaker 2: So I actually that's why I don't really like going
Speaker 2: to women massups. I think they're too light and then
Speaker 2: the sound how quiet it is, it does make me
Speaker 2: fall asleep.
Speaker 1: I want you to get up.
Speaker 3: In that shit like I need to feel like you
Speaker 3: stretch me. He might be the first white man that's
Speaker 3: ever massaged me.
Speaker 1: I always go Asian. I'm not gonna lie. You know,
Speaker 1: I told you when the little man come, this is
Speaker 1: all over here. I can't stand you they do, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you now when I'm when I'm done
Speaker 2: getting massages from this nigga, I have to have a
Speaker 2: conversation with my puss and be like, now, bitch, why
Speaker 2: are you fucking embarrassed me like that? Y'all all white
Speaker 2: and it's just a string of fucking ooz and pussy juice.
Speaker 2: I was what bitch as fuck? And I'm like, I
Speaker 2: know he sees it, because then you know, he stretches
Speaker 2: your leg and I'm like, I know he sees a guy.
Speaker 2: Damn the spit down there, he do he see it?
Speaker 2: I think he'll be like, I'm glad you enjoyed this
Speaker 2: journey as much as I did. And I'm like, god,
Speaker 2: damn it, he saw it. My god damn.
Speaker 1: Pussy juice telling on me every time? Do you think
Speaker 1: you would.
Speaker 2: The next time I going there, I'm a just be
Speaker 2: dehydrated because I don't want my pussy telling on me.
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm just not going to drink all the work.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to go.
Speaker 3: And my homegirl was like, oh my god, y'all heard
Speaker 3: about that place, like maybe I'll come with you, And
Speaker 3: I was like, just now I know it's I'm okay,
Speaker 3: like real solo.
Speaker 1: I know, like Mandy and I were able to talk
Speaker 1: about working shit that day, but I was like, ooh,
Speaker 1: I could just not talk after though, because we had.
Speaker 3: Ship that we remember we were talking about. Yeah, but
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I don't only want to say
Speaker 3: nothing beach.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, it was great. So I'm glad you got
Speaker 1: to experience my ma soups.
Speaker 2: Okay, now, just agreeing on something and just the man's
Speaker 2: the hands of a white man.
Speaker 1: Who are we good? Bitch twenty twenty three is eching up.
Speaker 3: So anyway, now I'm back in New York, I'm on riyah.
Speaker 3: We'll see what happens with that. But I feel like
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be in the streets. I want to
Speaker 3: do a little brickkly shit. I want to go to
Speaker 3: like Levers Rock and all the places.
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm so shallow right now. I
Speaker 2: went to a block party. I went to the Brooklyn
Speaker 2: Museum on First Saturdays. I was outside. There was thousands
Speaker 2: and thousands of men's and not one made my pussy
Speaker 2: like jump, and I'm just like, there's.
Speaker 1: No way I am this shallow.
Speaker 3: However, right across this fine ass Nigga on Instagram and me,
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you, slip right into them dms
Speaker 3: and was like, you're not real.
Speaker 2: That was my pickup line, y'all cause he'd that fine.
Speaker 2: I was like, you just you can't be real. Who
Speaker 2: find nigga back with you? First off, not me not
Speaker 2: getting the alert that he wrote me back, and bitch,
Speaker 2: we was in Vegas at the same time, and I
Speaker 2: didn't see the message until I got back to New York.
Speaker 1: I don't have my notifications on him, I.
Speaker 2: Mean either, but somehow it didn't show up as a
Speaker 2: new message either. So he ended up liking a story
Speaker 2: and I was like, you, I thought I was curved.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you. I thought he curved me
Speaker 2: because I thought I went too hard.
Speaker 3: Bitch, I saw he liked a story and I was like,
Speaker 3: I him coming back to like a story.
Speaker 1: So went into the DMS again. Bitch, he wrote me.
Speaker 2: He sent me videos of him shooting fireworks and all
Speaker 2: I said, bitch, I missed this. So literally we got
Speaker 2: back talking and I was like, well listen, here got
Speaker 2: my number, Like, I don't want to stay in the
Speaker 2: day's not a Vegas person, girl, Well he was out there,
Speaker 2: bitch summer.
Speaker 1: No, but you loved it. Love it.
Speaker 2: People either love it and then me and people who
Speaker 2: hate it. I didn't think I'm someone who I ain't
Speaker 2: gonna hold you this last time. I was just in Vegas.
Speaker 2: It was different, and I'm gonna blame I'm gonna blame
Speaker 2: the pandemic. So normally in Vegas you get pulled to tables.
Speaker 1: There's so many people in the casino. You're getting pulled
Speaker 1: to gambling tables.
Speaker 2: You're getting pulled just by men that are approaching you
Speaker 2: in male groups. I don't know if it's the pandemic,
Speaker 2: but people just stare like there wasn't as much approaching, which, bitch,
Speaker 2: I'm single now, I would have liked the approach. But
Speaker 2: maybe it's like people are used to sliding and DMS.
Speaker 2: So what I'm realizing is even when I was in Houston,
Speaker 2: when I was in Vegas. Now, yes they're they're fans,
Speaker 2: but bro, people are just dming me.
Speaker 3: That they saw me after the fact. It's like, damn
Speaker 3: you look, so I saw you?
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you staying at the Mandalay Bay? I
Speaker 1: think I just saw you.
Speaker 2: So I'm just like, were you Yeah, that's oh bitch,
Speaker 2: And three people saw me at the airport, so I'm like,
Speaker 2: okay to me. I kind of in terms of like
Speaker 2: what Vegas normally gave, it was like, bitch, if you
Speaker 2: a single girl, you're gonna meet some niggs.
Speaker 1: It was just really it was weird.
Speaker 2: It was like no one had social skills this time,
Speaker 2: so it was kind of strange, like it just wasn't
Speaker 2: giving what Vegas gave.
Speaker 3: But I also only went for thirty six hours. It's
Speaker 3: still when you go with girls like you kind of
Speaker 3: expect that vibe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 2: It was weird because there was a lot of groups
Speaker 2: of men and then there was a lot of athletes.
Speaker 3: You know, like three of my homegirls saw Usher the
Speaker 3: same night as you. Literally really, oh bitch, it was great.
Speaker 3: Oh it was great. I was telling Mandy before we
Speaker 3: I walked in here about how I was supposed to
Speaker 3: see Beyonce in Philly for the first tour stop and
Speaker 3: literally can't make it because was throw it up like
Speaker 3: a motherfucker a water spout. Bitch, I have to gross
Speaker 3: bro just from eggs. Some of you know, I'm allerged
Speaker 3: to egg. But I'll tell you a little bit about
Speaker 3: it because it was just so wild. Questlove throws a
Speaker 3: who know party that he invites all these celebrities to
Speaker 3: all these actors. It was hell of fun and some
Speaker 3: of the few food was infused by this like renowned chef.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, well I don't want.
Speaker 3: To get high on food when I'm like, you know,
Speaker 3: just getting back in the city. I flew in that day,
Speaker 3: so I'm like, well, what can I eat? And they
Speaker 3: tell me only the ramen, which ends up having it
Speaker 3: not egg on top.
Speaker 1: Of the ramen.
Speaker 3: It was just soaked in a broth with egg. That's crazy,
Speaker 3: so overnight to get it to bind or something.
Speaker 1: Bitch. Some literally Taylor fucking Swift comes in, sits down
Speaker 1: at the table, is me my homegirl, Gabby? A guy
Speaker 1: named Jason Sudeki's I think that's how you say his name.
Speaker 1: Who's Ted known as ted Lasso. He was fun as shit, bitch.
Speaker 1: I'm a fan fan now, like you.
Speaker 3: Know when someone just like when he sat down, I
Speaker 3: didn't really think much about who he was or was
Speaker 3: like whatever.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I know that guy.
Speaker 3: I guess WHOA like too good in person, like the
Speaker 3: way in Ted Lasso. You don't watch it, but how
Speaker 3: he is such a sweet person, like funny, just coolest fuck.
Speaker 3: So we're sitting and it's just like this Alex English
Speaker 3: was there. That's why I wanted to have him on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's great. H So we're all playing. Taylor sits down.
Speaker 3: He's like, come on, girl, we're playing, and I'm telling
Speaker 3: her my rule is you gotta say motherfucker god damn
Speaker 3: if you get a draw four, right, is IM about
Speaker 3: to beat everybody? I feel this nicey was about to
Speaker 3: beat everybody. Indeed, felt this a little bubble in my stomach.
Speaker 3: And so Jason's like, ooh that mushroom, that mushroom, yeah,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I don't think that's so. I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I want somebody to turn the lights off.
Speaker 3: And they're like, there's no lights on and I was like, ooh,
Speaker 3: so maybe that is the mushroom, bitch.
Speaker 1: Go to the bathroom. You don't need to throw up,
Speaker 1: and it shoots so far that it's past the toilet.
Speaker 3: Not you be in the exasist, bitch. That's what I
Speaker 3: looked like. That's cross threw up in the toilet. And
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I'm not gonna make it.
Speaker 3: Come back to the table. They're like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: we're waiting now, da da da, bitch. I'm holding two
Speaker 3: cards and I'm like, I can feel about to come up.
Speaker 3: One ran outside to spout throw up all over New
Speaker 3: York City.
Speaker 1: By the way, sorry, if you were currently eating lunch
Speaker 1: at your desk, let me tell you how I was
Speaker 1: throwing up.
Speaker 3: So people are outside smoking or hungering whatever niggas is,
Speaker 3: and I'm like they're like, oh, you're feeling okay because
Speaker 3: the way I look the waters like you know, in
Speaker 3: the like your face is like, yeah, I'm okay. You
Speaker 3: tried to turn to go down an alley. It wasn't
Speaker 3: a turn, it was just like a doorway. So now
Speaker 3: I'm throwing up in someone's doorway, and I felt so bad.
Speaker 3: You should But then I was like, what am I
Speaker 3: gonna do? So then I go down to another part
Speaker 3: of the driveway. I'm like, really, there are like ten
Speaker 3: spots all over the street. So I finally think it's over,
Speaker 3: go back to the loft where it was being held,
Speaker 3: and they're like, yo, you should go lay down for
Speaker 3: a second. I didn't even know we were allowed to
Speaker 3: lay in the bedroom. So now I'm laying in the bedroom,
Speaker 3: which is also where the staff is going back and
Speaker 3: forth with shit. So someone's bringing in like buckets and
Speaker 3: looking at my face. She's like, do you want me
Speaker 3: to get you to throw a bucket? Not o, bitch,
Speaker 3: I'm fine.
Speaker 1: I did that already. God did you clearly weren't fine, though,
Speaker 1: why are you lying to the people?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I wasn't fine.
Speaker 3: So then I was telling Manny the most luxurious part
Speaker 3: of the night is me needing to be sent home
Speaker 3: immediately because I was so sick, and someone was like,
Speaker 3: take my car, and their car was a fucking may bag.
Speaker 3: So now I'm in the middle of this shit.
Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, if I just got an uber,
Speaker 1: I could have thrown up and paid the one fifty.
Speaker 1: Oh now, you can't throw up in nobody's mea bag.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was supposed to be a nine
Speaker 3: minute ride. Now it's thirty minutes. I'm just sitting there
Speaker 3: like this, like the blood is leaving for my may bag.
Speaker 1: It was so bad.
Speaker 3: I took one little picture in there because I was like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm gonna throw up. Damn, the shit
Speaker 3: look nice. Not you'll being a third bitch.
Speaker 1: Now I was taking a picture in the may bag.
Speaker 1: I had to. So you had to be a bird
Speaker 1: while you're literally throwing up your life. No, I know,
Speaker 1: but anyway, so.
Speaker 3: Thank god Tianna was at my place in this moment,
Speaker 3: because literally I thought I was going to die.
Speaker 1: I'm weak, like throwing up that much. She came in.
Speaker 1: I was fully naked. I was like, put ice on
Speaker 1: my head, put ice on my dad.
Speaker 3: Throwing up all over the place is Badnina was like,
Speaker 3: ooh girl. So anyway, that's why I couldn't go see
Speaker 3: Beyonce in Philly. Jesus missed the sprinter ride because I
Speaker 3: was like just out of it, like I literally need
Speaker 3: to sleep, like it was so bad and life sucks.
Speaker 3: But what really fucking kills me about this shit is
Speaker 3: I was saying to Mandy like what was so cool
Speaker 3: about this moment was or getting to like play, you know,
Speaker 3: and all these people. Was like seeing Taylor Swift and
Speaker 3: thinking like she's every white girl's Beyonce. Yeah, And I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, this UNO party has so many niggas
Speaker 3: that like nobody's standing.
Speaker 1: Maybe they were and.
Speaker 3: I didn't notice it, but like it even hit me
Speaker 3: a few times because like we're joking about shit, She's like,
Speaker 3: oh my, I want your name again.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm Geeli. It's like I'm.
Speaker 3: Taylor, and I was just thinking like duh, duh. But
Speaker 3: you know what, I appreciate when celebrities do that.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I wonder if like when we
Speaker 2: do our meet and greet, Like there's been times like
Speaker 2: before even meet and greet where we'll meet fans or
Speaker 2: whatever and.
Speaker 1: They'd be like, yeah, I'm I feel like Mandy. I
Speaker 1: think it's just also, but what are you supposed to do?
Speaker 2: Be like okay, No, she can't just be like oh
Speaker 2: good to meet you, gi up, bitch, what the fuck
Speaker 2: are you? I mean she could say that without having
Speaker 2: to be like and I'm Taylor.
Speaker 1: No, and I'm Taylor. Tell me now, I'm Taylor girl.
Speaker 1: She was, so she said it. She could say it once,
Speaker 1: but I'll tell you want it. She said it multiple times.
Speaker 3: I really she did, because I think she was kind
Speaker 3: of like, what was it, Like she wants to make
Speaker 3: sure everybody she was talking to them she was the
Speaker 3: newest person at the WUDOS. But I will say this, meaning,
Speaker 3: this is the second person I've met this year that
Speaker 3: is a larger than life celebrity.
Speaker 1: And it's so cool to see how normal people are.
Speaker 3: And I was saying to Mandy, like not saying I
Speaker 3: thought she was gonna be like in full hair and makeup, lamb,
Speaker 3: but like, oh my god, super normal, like you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, and I I realize while getting
Speaker 3: into you know, I want to talk about Kink of
Speaker 3: the week the show, the idol with the weekend. I
Speaker 3: don't really know if like we're looking at fandom on
Speaker 3: a scale of like TV and movies or we see
Speaker 3: people like on Instagram act like crazy fans, but like
Speaker 3: I don't know, like maybe maybe we are idolizing these
Speaker 3: people so much to the point where like.
Speaker 1: They're not even gonna meet our expectations. Like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I wish I could like find a way to frame this.
Speaker 3: But like, I've had a few fans tell me that,
Speaker 3: like I'm not as turned up as they thought I
Speaker 3: would be in person, and that shit kind of hurts
Speaker 3: my feelings a little bit because I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, am I born? Like what do you think I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be? But yeah, like the facade that we have
Speaker 1: and it's all this social media shit, you know.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, Like, yeah, you see a clip of
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift online, it's because of Paparassi or a stadium
Speaker 3: full of people, but like this is a country girl
Speaker 3: who's chill as fuck, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 3: she was not at all by any means someone that's
Speaker 3: act like they've had that life. And so I think
Speaker 3: sometimes we put people on a pedestal, like we were
Speaker 3: saying a few weeks ago, to where we're even like.
Speaker 1: Fuck, a part of me like wishes I felt that
Speaker 1: still with people like like what like starstruck or.
Speaker 2: Or like when I'm in a room, you know, like
Speaker 2: a part of me wishes I still felt that. I
Speaker 2: think that because like when I was in high school,
Speaker 2: I was like around and.
Speaker 1: What do you wish? She felt?
Speaker 3: I wish, I wish like I don't know, like the idea. Yeah,
Speaker 3: a part of me sometimes wishes I felt that way.
Speaker 2: Like literally, I like even going to the Usher concert
Speaker 2: and seeing how how Carla responded with when Usher looked.
Speaker 1: At her and shouted her out.
Speaker 2: When he was shouting out, she was like, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I parted with him and his wife the last time
Speaker 2: I was in Vegas.
Speaker 3: Maybe, but like a concert vibe, maybe, like she wouldn't
Speaker 3: have done that backstage.
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe she would have.
Speaker 3: I don't know, No, girl, the way she wanted that
Speaker 3: man to just walk past us on the stairs.
Speaker 2: It's just weird because even like my mom saw who
Speaker 2: was on my walls like growing up, and like literally
Speaker 2: by my senior year of high school, I was hanging
Speaker 2: out with a lot of those people. Like my first
Speaker 2: concert was Bow Wow, like screen tour bitch. By by
Speaker 2: the time I was eighteen, he was inviting me to
Speaker 2: his shows and I was hanging out with him and
Speaker 2: he introduced me to Chris Brown, and I'm hanging with
Speaker 2: all these people that my mom is like, bitch, you
Speaker 2: were hanging with everybody.
Speaker 1: That's like that part is kind of like but at
Speaker 1: a younger know what.
Speaker 3: I want to say this because I don't want to
Speaker 3: sound out of touch, because it hit.
Speaker 1: Me last night, like when I was telling my mom
Speaker 1: about the night.
Speaker 3: I actually the most the little starstruck that I did
Speaker 3: feel last night was when Julius Styles walking in.
Speaker 1: I told Mandy this, and it was mainly because of
Speaker 1: the movies growing up as a kid.
Speaker 3: Right, girls say the Last Dance, y'all know that all
Speaker 3: I could think about this and like, she wasn't at
Speaker 3: our ouno table, but I looked at her a few
Speaker 3: times and I remember thinking about like, you know, she
Speaker 3: brought me back a memory. But I was like, I
Speaker 3: would have went up there, did yo, gee, No, you
Speaker 3: were not, you would not work together.
Speaker 1: I would have been like, girl, let's let's on your hox.
Speaker 1: How was Juliard sist? I love that movie, bitch. I
Speaker 1: would have went up to her and be like, you
Speaker 1: can't help oh you love Derrek.
Speaker 3: But everybody chilling too, like you don't want to hear
Speaker 3: that shit because I don't want to be out. And
Speaker 3: people be like, oh, horrible decisions, and they bring up
Speaker 3: this moment about a cream pie. I'm like this I
Speaker 3: was twenty years ago.
Speaker 1: And and what dang bitch. Julius Thoughts would have got it,
Speaker 1: because girl, she was that girl. It was that Carol,
Speaker 1: and I would have let her know my black ass
Speaker 1: loved ho white ass. Everybody did, but she would have
Speaker 1: been Julia was so much fun in all her movies.
Speaker 3: They made up me almost turning against the other bitch
Speaker 3: and saved the last day at the black girl, not
Speaker 3: the black girl Carrie Washington?
Speaker 1: Are you bitch? You are awful?
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey Carrie Washington. Wasn't the ground way Carrie Washington
Speaker 2: and saved the last dame just dancing with the hair
Speaker 2: like this with who gave Julia styles the hairtie to
Speaker 2: make her look more urban in the club?
Speaker 1: No way, I'm talking about the girl, she battled again.
Speaker 2: Oh you talking about the girl who always played a vampire. Yes,
Speaker 2: because she just still looked young as fun.
Speaker 1: Okay, That's what I'm talking about. Like that was Karry Washington. Anay,
Speaker 1: I say that to Kerry Washington, Derek.
Speaker 3: I believe that people can like be in these scenarios
Speaker 3: living in Miami, New York, Atlanta, like la, this shit.
Speaker 1: Ain't like you'll see this girls, I agree, you'll want
Speaker 1: I mean, I was shocked. I got that coming from Orlando.
Speaker 1: Shout out to my Space. It was only because of
Speaker 1: my Space that I was like.
Speaker 3: The girls today that might listen to this show, that
Speaker 3: might be like, okay, bitch, we all not walking in
Speaker 3: the rooms.
Speaker 1: I don't be real with you. Nigga.
Speaker 3: Every time I go to a club in la is
Speaker 3: a nigga like that in the club. Every time I'm
Speaker 3: like doing some event in Miami, like you can. You
Speaker 3: can wait in line and go to a party where
Speaker 3: they'll be at like you're able to do this ship.
Speaker 3: And that's all to say, these people are normal and shit.
Speaker 3: Matter of fact, shout out to the girl at CBS
Speaker 3: today and uh, well CBS. Anyway, I'm in New York,
Speaker 3: so boom, I'm at the CBS with Nina and I
Speaker 3: tap her and do whatever not Britney spears tap.
Speaker 1: But I was like, excuse me, where can I get that?
Speaker 3: She was like, oh my god, and she was so cute.
Speaker 3: She was like girl and she's talking about horrible. Can't
Speaker 3: wait till we get to know New York and November.
Speaker 3: She was like this better than meet and Greek because
Speaker 3: I missed the meet and greet ticket.
Speaker 1: So anyway, she.
Speaker 3: Has her moment and we're laughing or whatever. And then
Speaker 3: I go to another aisle and I picked up pads
Speaker 3: the CBS brand and she was like, you are so normal.
Speaker 3: I was like this, but it's crazy because like she
Speaker 3: invited me to a bar this week that like her
Speaker 3: friends do this Sex and the City trip via and
Speaker 3: I was like.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, yeah, we know you loved you ain't go?
Speaker 1: You know there's a Sex and the City pop up? Yes,
Speaker 1: so did you go? No? I just got back.
Speaker 3: But my point is saying that is like everybody that
Speaker 3: we think sometimes are out of reach, niggade right there.
Speaker 1: Every day people got the niggas and the bitches.
Speaker 2: By the way, only because shout out to Jay fact
Speaker 2: check the the name is Bianca Lawson.
Speaker 1: That is the actress in say the last dance that
Speaker 1: you were thinking about.
Speaker 2: Interesting and I who allegedly is uh stepsisters to your
Speaker 2: friend Beyonce.
Speaker 1: It's a lunch. That's a bad bitch. What is she
Speaker 1: still in? I feel like I see her all the time.
Speaker 2: You're always playing a teenager because she ain't aged. Not
Speaker 2: a one bit bitch is forty fucking four. It looks amazing.
Speaker 3: Queen Sugaris teen wolves, Yes, put a lot of shit,
Speaker 3: so taking a side turn, not turn on vanilla ship.
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring up the book that kind of
Speaker 1: we're making headlines a year ago, I'm Glad my Mom Died.
Speaker 1: By the way, trigger warning here, Well, did not know?
Speaker 1: Did you see this? Yeah? I watched it. Watched what
Speaker 1: no when you had it in that one oh oh,
Speaker 1: because she has a book. I didn't know that the
Speaker 1: girl was on I Carley.
Speaker 3: But this to me was seriously crazy because we hear
Speaker 3: so much of this when it comes to paternal not maternal,
Speaker 3: like dads or uncles doing weird shit like this. But
Speaker 3: you never heard about the book I'm Glad my Mom Died.
Speaker 3: It came out maybe a year or two ago, and
Speaker 3: it was about a girl telling a story about her mom,
Speaker 3: who passed away from breast cancer. And basically in the book,
Speaker 3: she recalls her time as a child actor, talking about
Speaker 3: how she was sexualized on set and she was, you know,
Speaker 3: drinking alcohol and shit like that. But she believes it
Speaker 3: was because she alleged, her mother never attempted to intervene
Speaker 3: because everybody wanted what she had and basically wanted to like,
Speaker 3: you know, get rich on the back of her as
Speaker 3: a kid, she claims that her mom, which this is
Speaker 3: so crazy, bro crazy. She said that her mom would
Speaker 3: do joint bathing with her until she was seventeen or eighteen.
Speaker 3: She said, while fully clothed in the shower, her mom
Speaker 3: would be shampooing, conditioning her hair, and washing her body,
Speaker 3: and she would have breast and vaginal exams done and
Speaker 3: that she was checking for lumps for cancer. She said
Speaker 3: she felt uncomfortable and violated, but she said she could
Speaker 3: never even try to shower herself again after bringing up
Speaker 3: her mom, with her mom laughing at her thing like, oh, like,
Speaker 3: what are you saying I'm doing as inappropriate?
Speaker 2: Bitch crazy and that's like so sad, like the thoughts
Speaker 2: like even just like I'm sure was probably asked by
Speaker 2: her friends, like she probably asked her friends, does your
Speaker 2: mom do this? Like, because I can't imagine you growing up,
Speaker 2: since you're a child, all the way up to the
Speaker 2: age of seventeen, that your mom is in the tub
Speaker 2: with you and in the shower with you, fondling your breast,
Speaker 2: checking in your vagina, claiming that she's looking for lumps
Speaker 2: for cancer.
Speaker 1: And when you ask all of your friends if their
Speaker 1: moms do this, and they're all like, girl, no.
Speaker 3: Of course when you get older, I wonder what the
Speaker 3: conversations were like from from just her friends about how
Speaker 3: that wasn't normal and how that's that's that's a sault.
Speaker 3: It's crazy too, because like we all don't know what
Speaker 3: extent we have with our relationship without our parents, what
Speaker 3: it is right right, Like I know, some friends tell
Speaker 3: me they've seen their parents have sex on accident or
Speaker 3: seeing their parents naked. My dad I've never seen naked,
Speaker 3: but my mom definitely. She'll get naked in front of
Speaker 3: me when we're changing, which is crazy. I've never seen
Speaker 3: my dad naked either.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's crazy though, you know, but is
Speaker 1: it not normal?
Speaker 2: I definitely see my mom. I definitely see my mom
Speaker 2: and a. But also, you lived with your dad. I didn't,
Speaker 2: so I wagh less chances of seeing him naked.
Speaker 3: I mean, if my dad was in the bathroom, almost
Speaker 3: went and I'd be like ugh. But I think I
Speaker 3: almost walked in all my parents having sex because I
Speaker 3: remember my mom was sitting in a chair, my dad
Speaker 3: was laying down.
Speaker 1: She just came out from partying, and they were like giggling,
Speaker 1: and I was like yep, and they were like, well
Speaker 1: you by that back.
Speaker 3: But yeah, Like even my relationship with my mom, I
Speaker 3: remember when I got my boobs done, my mom went
Speaker 3: to every appointment with me, and UH would like come
Speaker 3: home and like or come to my house to be
Speaker 3: like okay, because you know, you got to check for
Speaker 3: bruising and this and that. And one of my friends
Speaker 3: told me it was strange that my mom was doing
Speaker 3: and I was like, I just had surgery, dude, and
Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, but you should find someone else
Speaker 3: to take.
Speaker 1: Care of you.
Speaker 3: I mean when I had just got done with my
Speaker 3: gastric sleeve, I mean, no one in my family had
Speaker 3: had it, no one that like we knew and our
Speaker 3: family had it.
Speaker 1: So my mom came up to.
Speaker 2: Watch after me and literally she said like, you know,
Speaker 2: if you need help showering or if you can't wipe
Speaker 2: your ass.
Speaker 1: She didn't know to what mobility I would have.
Speaker 2: And I remember just being like, ah, Mom, you ain't
Speaker 2: gonna watch me like bitch if I got a sick fork,
Speaker 2: like I know, like I was so and my mom
Speaker 2: was like, bitch, I wash your like, wipe your ass
Speaker 2: when you came out of me.
Speaker 1: I can wipe you down to me.
Speaker 2: It even felt weird right now as an adult for
Speaker 2: my mom to care for me in that way, Like
Speaker 2: I was like, oh girl, you makeing such this cool.
Speaker 2: I mean't I wouldn't like but you don't even think
Speaker 2: you needed it.
Speaker 3: But I am having a baby, I'm a maybe decl
Speaker 3: help like you bust your stitch. That's why my mom
Speaker 3: got to check my titty. She wouldn't make sure most
Speaker 3: she wouldn't got meat. But you know, now, I feel
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna enter a new territory because maybe Patreon,
Speaker 3: we've talked about it. But for those of you who
Speaker 3: don't know, I moved my parents to LA and I
Speaker 3: moved my mom into a building directly across the street
Speaker 3: from mine where our balconies face each other. It was
Speaker 3: the only apartment left in that building that was in
Speaker 3: my price range and was nice. So it's interesting because
Speaker 3: I got sick in La right before Texas shows, and
Speaker 3: you don't realize how great it is. And for anyone
Speaker 3: that's like lost a parent you know, or maybe doesn't
Speaker 3: have a good relationship with their parents, I'm not trying
Speaker 3: to make you feel bad.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to treasure the moments I have, And
Speaker 1: what I could say is she annoyed me so much.
Speaker 1: And then when I realized she was right there, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, it's nice. Give me Nina,
Speaker 1: I'll take the baby, I'll do this. Okay, what do
Speaker 1: you want me to make? And I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: I need this shit.
Speaker 3: And you know, I say all that about loss and
Speaker 3: grief because we need to make sure that as an adult,
Speaker 3: we're still building our families that we don't that aren't
Speaker 3: our blood families, right, Like you got to make sure
Speaker 3: that you're attentive to your friends when they're sick, and
Speaker 3: that you're caring for friends because they may not have that.
Speaker 1: And it's like that shit is super important. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I also like have empathy for anyone who's experienced like
Speaker 2: this level of sexual assault because in the video she
Speaker 2: talks about how before the passing and just as an adult,
Speaker 2: she does not know how to have relationships or be
Speaker 2: intimate with someone because it triggers her so much, Right, so,
Speaker 2: you know, kind of being lost as someone who maybe
Speaker 2: can't get over a sexual assault trauma and building actually
Speaker 2: those those meaningful relationships with someone in a romantic way,
Speaker 2: Like I just I really, you know, my heart goes
Speaker 2: out to anyone who experiences that and may have that
Speaker 2: difficulty finding that in adulthood and who knows how much
Speaker 2: year is Like, trauma is something that takes a long
Speaker 2: time to get over, to be triggered in that manner
Speaker 2: is also a lot for when you do get into
Speaker 2: a relationship, for your partner to be able to, you know,
Speaker 2: kind of tiptoe around. So yeah, I think that that
Speaker 2: was probably the most hurtful thing reading it, I mean
Speaker 2: listening to her talk about it, because pretty much the
Speaker 2: interviewer was like, wait, you really are glad that your
Speaker 2: mom is dead? She was like, yeah, because bro, I'm
Speaker 2: living with this fucking trauma. And she was abusive in
Speaker 2: multiple ways because I didn't even know that.
Speaker 1: This was and that shit is crazy, because absolutely you
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 3: And that's why it's great to see like a relationship,
Speaker 3: like I know, a child started that we get to
Speaker 3: see their relationship with their mom's Kiki and her mom
Speaker 3: and her relationship is so fun and sweet, and we
Speaker 3: get to see their videos and it's like, we don't
Speaker 3: really know the dark side of that shit, you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So all right, poor dr I want.
Speaker 3: To get into the idol. I told Mandy this Shuar
Speaker 3: was fucking fire. She hasn't seen it, but we.
Speaker 2: All probably won't see it because it got canceled and
Speaker 2: it's only five episodes.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't need to be.
Speaker 3: It's finished. It's like it's it's a limited series. No,
Speaker 3: it was supposed to go into season two. No, I
Speaker 3: mean they finished it. I'm saying they finished. They've completed it,
Speaker 3: like it doesn't feel like you're missing anything, okay, like
Speaker 3: much like I don't know how to describe it.
Speaker 1: But but it wasn't supposed to be.
Speaker 2: They had a season two it was green Lip for
Speaker 2: season two. They canceled season two. Then there was eight episodes.
Speaker 2: They canceled it mid season, so now it's literally just
Speaker 2: five episode.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like, sometimes we can feel
Speaker 3: left out. Like one of my favorite was Naomi Watts.
Speaker 3: I wonder if it was called I Don't Want to
Speaker 3: g where she was a lesbian. It was only one season.
Speaker 3: You don't feel like you're waiting or never going to
Speaker 3: get to see something. They found a way to close it.
Speaker 3: But so everyone knows about the sex scenes in there, right,
Speaker 3: and if you haven't heard this movie. It is from
Speaker 3: the creator of Euphoria, Sam Levin, and a lot of
Speaker 3: people have gave it critiques because they believe it to
Speaker 3: be torture porn.
Speaker 1: So I want to tell you about some of the
Speaker 1: scenes that exists.
Speaker 3: And the backlash he's having is because people believe he's
Speaker 3: depicting women in his projects in a bad way and
Speaker 3: there's excessive sex, nudity and portraying teenagers specifically. They're also
Speaker 3: saying that this series is very porn brained. For example,
Speaker 3: it is porn brain to have an erect nipples through
Speaker 3: your shirt in the show.
Speaker 1: It is poor and brain to.
Speaker 3: Say stretch that tiny fucking pussy like we saw on
Speaker 3: that clip of the Weekend. But to me, it fell
Speaker 3: in with it what they were trying to do. I
Speaker 3: don't want to tell you about some of the shit
Speaker 3: that was in there. One of the scenes, and the
Speaker 3: scene that really fucking got me was in the first
Speaker 3: episode where she's wearing a robe.
Speaker 1: He puts the robe over her face, uses.
Speaker 3: The tie to tie around her neck where you see
Speaker 3: her mouth like having to use a little bit of
Speaker 3: air to breathe, and then he takes a knife to
Speaker 3: give her a hole to breathe, the puncture through the
Speaker 3: road that y'all know. Keeping them knives away from me, now,
Speaker 3: bit you got your pussy electrocuty.
Speaker 1: That wasn't a knife.
Speaker 3: It's still death, bitch, No, it's not Me'll died from electricity.
Speaker 2: Okay, but it wasn't. It wasn't gonna pierce me to
Speaker 2: where there was gonna be blood. And you know I
Speaker 2: don't like blood. I don't like sharp objects. Keep them
Speaker 2: away from me. It was fucking hot. So you're gonna
Speaker 2: say I say I don't like knives, You say I
Speaker 2: was electrocuted. I'm just saying, but you could have died,
Speaker 2: and she could have died.
Speaker 1: But it was low voltage.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well he didn't die. He only put it right
Speaker 3: at the at the beginning to just open the thing.
Speaker 3: So there's a scene of that, and that's when I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I'm about to watch the rest of
Speaker 3: these episodes, like this shit is sexy. And when he
Speaker 3: was saying to her like stretch up plussy or whatever,
Speaker 3: like it was funny, but he was basically watching her,
Speaker 3: and I love being watched and sometimes just gonna be honest, Yes,
Speaker 3: women don't necessarily want to be what's the word when
Speaker 3: you're gawkeed at? Uh? No, Like when you're they use
Speaker 3: the word a lot when a construction worker you're passing by,
Speaker 3: and you're passing by and they're like, howling is holl
Speaker 3: Look girl, it's.
Speaker 1: A word harassed.
Speaker 3: No, you said gaunt and howling, and I like both
Speaker 3: an misogianistic thing.
Speaker 1: Girl, I know you do not ask me for words.
Speaker 1: Can you reputing the words? She'd have said? Yeap?
Speaker 3: Y'all are listening to this ship like, bitch, is this okay?
Speaker 3: Whatever the word is that I can't get called?
Speaker 1: Not cat called? Is closed?
Speaker 3: When a when a man is doing all these things
Speaker 3: to where he's treating you like you're just a thing?
Speaker 1: Objectifying? Yes, bitch, Oh, not be having a word objectifiant.
Speaker 1: I know that some people don't want to have that
Speaker 1: thirty five seconds whoa I want to if the niggas
Speaker 1: in the comments do not worry objectifying bitch? Yes, I
Speaker 1: got it, okay.
Speaker 3: So it could be very objectifying to watch someone say
Speaker 3: do this, do that, do that, And women may not
Speaker 3: like that because they feel like a piece of meat,
Speaker 3: But there are some people that might like that shit.
Speaker 3: And honestly, as a woman that's sexual and enjoys kinky things.
Speaker 3: Watching that scene, like, yeah, I laughed when he said
Speaker 3: stretch the pussy thing, but the.
Speaker 1: Way that he was looking at it like that because
Speaker 1: it was funny. Wait, is that funny? Stretch out little pussy?
Speaker 1: I actually I say that he was funny, So I'm
Speaker 1: not funny. No the way that he's no, I'm not funny.
Speaker 1: And he also said cock. That's what made it funny.
Speaker 1: So I don't say cock, but I literally.
Speaker 3: Be like, oh, stretch my pussy, I please wait, shot
Speaker 3: out sexy red I'm trying to give my up sexy.
Speaker 3: I literally I yelled to stretch my pussy, let me
Speaker 3: try it open. But the way he said it was
Speaker 3: fucking funny. But on stretch pussy weekend, let me see
Speaker 3: like a five bitch because that niggas said that shit.
Speaker 3: You know, I was like, it didn't sound hot. Though
Speaker 3: he said it was funny, I say it sexy. He
Speaker 3: just was funny. I like I think because we maybe
Speaker 3: because we know the weekend is the weekend. Maybe if
Speaker 3: he wasn't the weekend, we wouldn't care. But like the
Speaker 3: shit was so weird. So anyway, basically there's another sex
Speaker 3: scene where she talks about a trauma and this is
Speaker 3: what maybe you want to talk about the idol about
Speaker 3: where her mom used to hit her with a hair brush, okay,
Speaker 3: make her do certain things, and he was like, oh,
Speaker 3: you're about to like take back this power and basically
Speaker 3: use the hair bush for spanking. And I think she
Speaker 3: spanked her own ass if I can remember. Oh, and
Speaker 3: it was hot but also weird, and some people said
Speaker 3: it was sadistic, but I was like, maybe he wanted
Speaker 3: her to have a new memory with it, bitch, I
Speaker 3: don't know, but not gonna hold you like. It was
Speaker 3: another thing I thought was attractive in that fucking show.
Speaker 3: And I'm curious about how far we think that sex
Speaker 3: scenes can go on TV because they were super vulgar.
Speaker 3: They were like really dirty, and I understand that the
Speaker 3: public is like scared to see things to that level.
Speaker 3: But I bring up fifty shades grat when talking about
Speaker 3: that show, because like, that was supposed to be it
Speaker 3: for us, right, this was it.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you.
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe because we have this show and we
Speaker 2: talk in you know, non traditional ways regarding sex and
Speaker 2: taboo and kinks, I enjoy it. I think that it
Speaker 2: is the parents' responsibility to make sure if they don't
Speaker 2: want their children to see it, they don't. I loved
Speaker 2: the sex scene with the two men in Pea Valley. Specifically,
Speaker 2: it showed two masculine men using protection having great sex.
Speaker 1: I loved. I loved what that looked like for gay sex.
Speaker 2: I will say a part of me is a little
Speaker 2: disturbed by all of the sex in Euphoria only because
Speaker 2: they're teenagers. So to me, even though yes, I was
Speaker 2: in high school having sex, to me, the over sexuality
Speaker 2: of teenagers kind of bothers me.
Speaker 1: But I'm all here for adults having kinky, con sexual
Speaker 1: sex on TV first, And I mean that's really what
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 3: Bitch, Have you watched something strange about the Johnson's No,
Speaker 3: no way you have, because you would have brought it up.
Speaker 3: In the first minute, we find out that there's a
Speaker 3: strange relationship with a son and his father. Oh it's
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, y'all. It's on YouTube. Apparently it has been
Speaker 3: out for six years, and like cinephiles and people in
Speaker 3: TV and film.
Speaker 1: Have seen this.
Speaker 3: However, Twitter got hold of it, and that's how I
Speaker 3: found out about this fucking shit, but maybe we could
Speaker 3: do Deepdappo major twenty nine minutes.
Speaker 1: Bitch, you gotta watch it. It's wild but like yeah.
Speaker 2: Wild and nasty, like inappropriate wild inappropriate while okay but
Speaker 2: not like you're not really seeing sex, but like just
Speaker 2: the thing of it, like it makes sure it's a
Speaker 2: brain fucking I mean, it's funny because me and my
Speaker 2: really good friend and girl, I know you listening, but
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna say your name. We actually constantly have
Speaker 2: the conversations her relationship with her her dad was estranged,
Speaker 2: but a lot of times she'll send me videos and
Speaker 2: be like, is this appropriate behavior? And it'll be like
Speaker 2: a dad kissing their daughter or a daughter sitting on
Speaker 2: her dad's lap, and just things that are perceived as
Speaker 2: inappropriate in her mind or maybe other people who see
Speaker 2: adults with young children, even though it's a father child relationship.
Speaker 2: But she constantly sends me videos and we constantly have
Speaker 2: those conversations about what appropriate behavior looks like with adult
Speaker 2: men and young children, even when it's a parental relationship.
Speaker 2: And I've been grateful to have just like those breakthrough
Speaker 2: conversations with why something is appropriate, but also as adults
Speaker 2: we sexualize things that we shouldn't and a child.
Speaker 1: Sees it is very innocent.
Speaker 3: I think those conversations happen a lot when we see
Speaker 3: the game with his dog sexualize things.
Speaker 1: Like way way too much, way too much, like way
Speaker 1: too much.
Speaker 2: I'm just eating the hot dog, bro, I deep thought
Speaker 2: when the Glizzie you are also thought culturally, like.
Speaker 3: I remember like the Tom Brady son kissing thing yep,
Speaker 3: And at the time I remember thinking like that's weird,
Speaker 3: but it's only weird because I don't do it right.
Speaker 3: But when I think about it, I think my dad,
Speaker 3: when I was maybe three or four, we used to
Speaker 3: kiss on the mouth, and like that's to me cultural, Yeah,
Speaker 3: my dad's is really And I don't know where Tom
Speaker 3: Brady's from, but I know Gizelle is German. I think's
Speaker 3: it's like maybe a euro shit is like different, and uh,
Speaker 3: I don't have a relationship like that my father was
Speaker 3: bad or whatever, so like I understand these kisses weren't.
Speaker 1: Bad, but like that my mom used to do it
Speaker 1: to me too. Yeah, did your mom ever kiss you
Speaker 1: on the mouth.
Speaker 3: We weren't very intimate them either, sometimes really yeah, like
Speaker 3: neither of my my mom and dad, Like growing up,
Speaker 3: there wasn't much affection shown, which is probably why I was,
Speaker 3: you know, okay, not receiving it in my twenties with
Speaker 3: my partners.
Speaker 1: And now I realize how much I love it, Like
Speaker 1: my friends, Oh my god, Like who was I just with?
Speaker 1: I don't know one of them. And I was on
Speaker 1: the phone with another friend and she was like, does
Speaker 1: she be trying to cuddle with you too? I cuddle
Speaker 1: and sleep with all of my friends. I like to
Speaker 1: spoon my friends.
Speaker 2: And I didn't realize, like, maybe I did that so
Speaker 2: much with my friends because I wasn't getting it from partners.
Speaker 2: But also I never really got it growing up.
Speaker 3: Did you see that now of Jada making her son
Speaker 3: rub her feet and people were like, this is so nasty, And.
Speaker 1: That's one thing my mom did. My mom made us.
Speaker 2: My mom made us rub her feet. That bitch was
Speaker 2: worth two jobs and was on her feet all day. Bro,
Speaker 2: she would come home, the chicken would not be taken out,
Speaker 2: and the house would be a mess. Bish, I'm a
Speaker 2: robio feet, So you don't beat my ass because everything.
Speaker 1: Else she has for it.
Speaker 3: And it's because it was a little bo way. It
Speaker 3: was sexual like it was so strange, Like this is shit.
Speaker 3: I don't remember if it was my mom, but like
Speaker 3: I remember my dad. We watched TV and it'll be
Speaker 3: all three of us and they'd keep me in the
Speaker 3: chair and I'd rub his shoulders like he works seven
Speaker 3: days a week.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we weird, y'all sensitive, y'all need to grow a Okay.
Speaker 1: So I know that we have not a lot of
Speaker 1: time but a long story to get into.
Speaker 3: And I don't know how much you want to divulge into,
Speaker 3: but okay, it's a conversation about non monogamy that you
Speaker 3: wanted to have. Yeah, And I know when we were
Speaker 3: on stage in Dallas, I made a comment about how
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'd ever do it again, And
Speaker 3: so I feel like you should take me lead on
Speaker 3: our horrible decision.
Speaker 2: I mean, we've I feel like when we talk about advocacy,
Speaker 2: we've been advocates on ethical non monogamy since since almost
Speaker 2: the beginning of this pod really and where I know
Speaker 2: we've introduced this idea of a non traditional relationship to
Speaker 2: the audience. I just wanted because we've had conversations on
Speaker 2: tour about it and where we stand being single, the
Speaker 2: idea of whether we would do a non monogamous relationship again,
Speaker 2: and I mean, of course, we've emphasized the word ethical
Speaker 2: all the time. However, both of us ended with similar
Speaker 2: results in our relationship. Although we urged constant communication, although
Speaker 2: for me I over shared and felt like I over communicated,
Speaker 2: we both ended up feeling betrayed and cheated on.
Speaker 1: I will say this though both scenarios while different, like yeah,
Speaker 1: they were definitely different with similar results.
Speaker 3: Scenarios were different like these men showed us who they
Speaker 3: were and we stayed and.
Speaker 1: We said yes, yes and no.
Speaker 2: There to my knowledge, there hadn't been other sex partners,
Speaker 2: like while we were committed into together, like clearly, we
Speaker 2: broke up multiple times, so when we would come back together,
Speaker 2: there was conversations about what we did when we weren't together.
Speaker 1: But also in hindsight, it's it's like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I recently had a conversation.
Speaker 2: With a few people, a few men, one married, one
Speaker 2: just a really good friend of mine and he's in
Speaker 2: the industry and he met he met my partner in Atlanta,
Speaker 2: and when he saw me tweeting about him, we hopped
Speaker 2: in text classage and he was like, so what happened.
Speaker 1: But also he said, you can't give.
Speaker 2: A man that much freedom, and you know he was
Speaker 2: Another friend of mine was like, listen, as a woman,
Speaker 2: you have to act like you care if I cheat
Speaker 2: on you or not.
Speaker 1: Otherwise I'm not going to feel like you care about me.
Speaker 2: And so a part of me was like, wait, so
Speaker 2: as a woman, I can't sit here and accept the
Speaker 2: fact that you are a man who may want other
Speaker 2: partners and I'm going to sit here and aligne with
Speaker 2: accepting you for who you are. Instead, I have to
Speaker 2: sit here and say I care so much, you can't
Speaker 2: cheat on me or I'm gonna leave. You can't do
Speaker 2: this with another person. You can't do this with another
Speaker 2: person just so that you could do it, because there's also.
Speaker 1: This this thing. That's the thing though, Like you're saying
Speaker 1: they're gonna do it anyway, Like.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's like a part of okay, but like
Speaker 3: if you have a boundary that you don't want to
Speaker 3: be cross, like lying and doing something, No, it's not
Speaker 3: they're gonna do it anyway.
Speaker 1: We should have just put up with something because we
Speaker 1: expect them to be a piece of shit.
Speaker 3: Well no, but that's what I'm saying so as someone
Speaker 3: who wants to be honest in a relationship, if I'm
Speaker 3: telling you it doesn't bother me that you are going
Speaker 3: to have sex with another woman, I don't know if
Speaker 3: my next relationship I'm gonna go in and lie to
Speaker 3: stroke the ego of a man to believe I care
Speaker 3: so that I can put down these boundaries.
Speaker 1: They don't care about being cheated on. No, it's not.
Speaker 1: I don't care about a man having sex with another woman.
Speaker 1: Cheating is different. Cheating is different, hear me out.
Speaker 2: So I'm being told that in my next relationship, I
Speaker 2: shouldn't go in and express that I am okay with
Speaker 2: them having sex with other women, because a man wants
Speaker 2: to feel some sort of confinement, wants to feel that
Speaker 2: that is probably the worst thing that he could do,
Speaker 2: so that he believes.
Speaker 1: That you care so much.
Speaker 3: I think there's parameters around it, Like you and I
Speaker 3: have had conversations where like you've said that to me,
Speaker 3: and I've also said the same, And to be honest,
Speaker 3: meant it when I say I mean it when I
Speaker 3: know people don't believe that because I'm actually more EMO
Speaker 3: than you.
Speaker 1: But when I said I really meant it, I just
Speaker 1: don't like lying. Well, that's my thing.
Speaker 3: But when I'm saying it in your case, is like,
Speaker 3: I do think when that girl called you and you
Speaker 3: guys spoke, I do think you need to figure out
Speaker 3: and I don't maybe think you're even clear in that
Speaker 3: moment with him about like what sex other women looks like?
Speaker 1: Well, No, I made that very clear. I made it
Speaker 1: very did it when you were explaining it?
Speaker 2: I made it very clear that when we were when
Speaker 2: we were going to the sex club, that we would
Speaker 2: engage in that space with other people because again we
Speaker 2: had different types.
Speaker 1: I would be with a woman, so of course if
Speaker 1: you want to be with another woman, cool outside of
Speaker 1: the sex club. We outside of the sex club.
Speaker 2: Towards the end of our relationship, which was literally the
Speaker 2: last three months, I let it be known because he
Speaker 2: made me feel so awful about traveling and being on
Speaker 2: tour and working so much that eventually I'm like, fine,
Speaker 2: if you want to make me feel so bad that
Speaker 2: I have to work and that I have to travel
Speaker 2: and be gone, if.
Speaker 1: There's someone that you want to see while I'm going on.
Speaker 3: Wait, see, now we're saying two different things. No, that's
Speaker 3: not you being comfortable in the last two months.
Speaker 2: No, let me finish. I literally gave him permission. But
Speaker 2: I said, I would like to know who this person is,
Speaker 2: and this person cannot cut into our relationship.
Speaker 1: What about before then? Before then?
Speaker 2: No, before then, I did not want him going on
Speaker 2: dates with anyone else. I did not want him to
Speaker 2: know how then you did care.
Speaker 1: I'm confused. So, okay, what are you confused about?
Speaker 3: Because you said I don't care if he goes out
Speaker 3: and focks other women. But you're saying you only let
Speaker 3: him do that the last three months.
Speaker 2: No, No, when we So, we were together for three years.
Speaker 2: During our relationship, we had a lot of sex in
Speaker 2: the sex club.
Speaker 1: No sex club, no together. Shit, tell me about outside
Speaker 1: of altogether? Shit? Oh so nothing outside. No, I didn't
Speaker 1: want him seeing anyone.
Speaker 3: I did of the last three months when I was okay,
Speaker 3: So to me, then you do have a problem if
Speaker 3: someone someone else?
Speaker 1: Of course you know that.
Speaker 2: No, I don't because I literally gave him permission to
Speaker 2: I wanted to be told that you were doing this.
Speaker 2: I did not want anybody being able to tell me
Speaker 2: that you were out doing something that I did not
Speaker 2: know about.
Speaker 1: If I'm sitting here.
Speaker 2: Saying I'm coming back into town and I'm asking you, Hey,
Speaker 2: so what were you doing while I was gone? If
Speaker 2: you tell me that you were with someone final, let's
Speaker 2: have that conversation. I in no way allowed him or
Speaker 2: said that I was okay with him having intimate, unprotected
Speaker 2: sex and relationships with four other women where he was
Speaker 2: telling that he also loved him by the way, I
Speaker 2: want to speak to the camera real quick, because the
Speaker 2: four of you women that he met in the sex
Speaker 2: club are fans of this show, you know how I know.
Speaker 2: He's also let me know that y'all continue to send
Speaker 2: him goddamn minute marks about when I speak about him,
Speaker 2: and he doesn't want me to speak about him anymore.
Speaker 2: But he could suck my dick from the back because
Speaker 2: he chose to not only engage with you guys, he
Speaker 2: blamed me. And I don't want to cry because I've
Speaker 2: been doing this in therapy. He chose to blame me
Speaker 2: as the reason why he cheated on me. He chose
Speaker 2: to say that because I spoke so highly of him
Speaker 2: on the podcast and bringing him to the sex club,
Speaker 2: that I made you so intrigued by him that y'all
Speaker 2: approached him because of what I said on this podcast,
Speaker 2: so zero accountability.
Speaker 3: Although this was very much spoken about. He blamed me
Speaker 3: as to why he cheated.
Speaker 2: He also, for whatever reason, and when I called y'all fans,
Speaker 2: he decided to let me know, Oh, well, they're not
Speaker 2: your fans. They don't even like you. They ask me
Speaker 2: all the time why I'm even with you, Dub, because
Speaker 2: y'all are stucking his dick. So of course y'all are
Speaker 2: wondering why he's with me when y'all are out here
Speaker 2: fucking him. Secondly, he also, in a manipulative, disgusting assuay,
Speaker 2: let me know that the reason he started going to
Speaker 2: the sex club without me, without me knowing, is because
Speaker 2: he felt boxed in. Make it make sense, he felt
Speaker 2: boxed in that I put the boundary that I would
Speaker 2: like this place to be just ours, So he said,
Speaker 2: a part of me just wanted to rebel against that.
Speaker 2: So this is what I'm saying, when you when you
Speaker 2: draw these like and to me it was a boundary
Speaker 2: because they didn't. No, I just think that he's a narcissist.
Speaker 1: He really is. I don't want him back.
Speaker 2: So if y'all are still sucking his dick, y'all could
Speaker 2: send him this minute mark too, because I literally he
Speaker 2: decided to write need three emails while we were on tour,
Speaker 2: and this is where this information is coming from.
Speaker 1: And wait, we have to lighten it up.
Speaker 3: Wait no, no, no, no no, because when you talked
Speaker 3: about that first email, this is how Mandy's business brain works.
Speaker 3: Mandy said the first email came in a two am
Speaker 3: as she replied, said.
Speaker 2: Okay, and she said, I wrote that nigga back in
Speaker 2: the morning as soon as I woke up, to me
Speaker 2: to me being gas lit, as to me being the
Speaker 2: reason why I was cheated on and lied to and
Speaker 2: betrayed to.
Speaker 1: He also decided to write a list of reasons as to.
Speaker 3: The things that I could never get from another man,
Speaker 3: like someone liking my cat or taking out my trash.
Speaker 3: Those are the bare minimum things he thought was so amazing.
Speaker 2: It was also brought to me. I think he listened
Speaker 2: to the episode where I spoke about the Hey Barbara,
Speaker 2: this is Shirley call and chose to share with me
Speaker 2: that I got details wrong. So it was wasn't the
Speaker 2: other two lovers that had a non consensual.
Speaker 1: Night together.
Speaker 3: The non consensual thing was with me. So one of
Speaker 3: these women that he was talking to he partakes in
Speaker 3: action with me. So her partner gave me a massage
Speaker 3: while they had sex, and she sat there and acted
Speaker 3: like they were introducing each other for the first time
Speaker 3: in front of me.
Speaker 1: Hey, well, what's your name? And so he was like,
Speaker 1: just so you know, you got it wrong. It was
Speaker 1: actually you. I didn't ask for consent for what my boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Oh she need her ass? What bitch? What sex club
Speaker 1: is that?
Speaker 3: Because this was an w oh, bitch, I'm gonna tell
Speaker 3: you right now, you had to be a fucking actress
Speaker 3: and put on a role for me.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't belong in a sex club, bro.
Speaker 2: And I think that I think that's where I'm at
Speaker 2: with with this idea that you can be as open,
Speaker 2: you can be as giving, you could be as forgiving
Speaker 2: with with somebody, and they could still turn around and
Speaker 2: play in your motherfucking face a.
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm gonna hold you. I'm still stuck on this
Speaker 1: bitch doing it too. I don't know. I was like,
Speaker 1: and what's your name? As if they weren't already engaged.
Speaker 3: Oh girl, I'm bored. I'll beat her ass. You can
Speaker 3: send me on Instagram. That bitch got some nerves. Yeah, see,
Speaker 3: let me tell you a few things. To me, really
Speaker 3: make the line for where the other woman is accountable.
Speaker 1: One, you fuck my inn again. You know he's with
Speaker 1: me like, okay, whatever, right, what can I what can
Speaker 1: I do? But now you're playing me in my motherfucking face.
Speaker 1: The only time I've ever wanted.
Speaker 3: To slap a bitch when I was around Old Bay
Speaker 3: was like a girl that I knew he fucked.
Speaker 1: I can't remember how I knew, right. What I remember
Speaker 1: was she.
Speaker 3: Acted like or tried to imply that they were super
Speaker 3: super friendly and like do this whole Like oh my god, yeah,
Speaker 3: really he's like my brother, like doing a lot. And
Speaker 3: that really pissed me off, Like, bitch, chill the fuck out,
Speaker 3: I mean to me, but sex to me, and I
Speaker 3: know that the names of the women.
Speaker 2: I don't know the faces because I don't really remember
Speaker 2: people in the sex clubs like that. But but to me,
Speaker 2: he literally just emailed me requesting that he not be content.
Speaker 2: I was like, well, while I'm healing and trying to
Speaker 2: figure out how I exist in my dating world, and
Speaker 2: this really affected me psychologically because I felt really dumb.
Speaker 2: To me, I literally was like, you do not have
Speaker 2: to worry about hearing my name knowing anything about my life.
Speaker 2: If you stop fucking people that listen to my fucking
Speaker 2: podcast right literally, then they won't be sending you the
Speaker 2: min and mark.
Speaker 3: Then to even say, oh, like I'm only wait wait wait,
Speaker 3: wait wait, they wanted to fuck me because.
Speaker 1: Because you talked me about me on the pod. Bitch.
Speaker 2: They only know who you are because I'm walking with you,
Speaker 2: because you're in this space with me, and they are
Speaker 2: fans of my show, and clearly we've been together.
Speaker 1: For three years. What Eric, But I do need to
Speaker 1: tell the universe to do something with him too.
Speaker 2: When I tell you, I think nothing kindly of that
Speaker 2: man and for any woman dealing with him.
Speaker 1: I know the ceilings that he has with you.
Speaker 2: Oh you go ahead and deal with that narcissistic, nasty
Speaker 2: spirit of a man. When I tell you, it sucks
Speaker 2: because I know I've sat on this podcast and was like, ooh,
Speaker 2: I can't get over him until I hate him.
Speaker 1: I'm actually now disgusted by him.
Speaker 3: I don't even hate him, but this is like making
Speaker 3: me think, okay, moving forward, is the sex.
Speaker 2: Club up place I want to take my partner? Do
Speaker 2: I want to have threesomes. How long do I wait
Speaker 2: to introduce the fact that I like women? Clearly it's
Speaker 2: visible as soon as you meet me. I'm going to
Speaker 2: tell you these two fingers is for buddhaho and fakuci.
Speaker 2: So how long do I even just express my own
Speaker 2: sexuality to a man and hope that he doesn't take
Speaker 2: it as a way for him to just go out
Speaker 2: and do whatever the fuck and that he doesn't have
Speaker 2: to respect me and my boundary.
Speaker 3: Do you think, because for me, that stuff that I've
Speaker 3: been thinking about is just I've told Mandy, like, you know,
Speaker 3: he is in a non monogamous relationship and it started
Speaker 3: that way. He's in a poly relationship, and you know
Speaker 3: you were in an me too, I was saying to Mandy,
Speaker 3: and I was staying on stage typically in Dallas, because
Speaker 3: that's when the email came through. Like, I don't really
Speaker 3: think I want to open my relationship up until a
Speaker 3: few years in, because I think that I need to
Speaker 3: start kind of getting to know someone and building that
Speaker 3: love and trust. Not that like threesomes and all this
Speaker 3: shit isn't a part of the things I like, but
Speaker 3: it's more than likely not kind of ending in confusion
Speaker 3: and pain. And so if I'm introducing threesomes in non
Speaker 3: monogamy to a man that's been in monogamous relationships or
Speaker 3: even if he was cheating been with women that aren't
Speaker 3: down with that, they kind of don't know what to
Speaker 3: do with that, right. So it's like, unless you really
Speaker 3: date someone who's like minded, immediately out the gate is
Speaker 3: tough because now I have to teach you how to
Speaker 3: treat me. So for me, yeah, I think that monogamy
Speaker 3: is something that may just make me feel safer. And
Speaker 3: if I have to sacrifice crazy kinky sex with there people,
Speaker 3: then I feel like it's worth it because the annoying
Speaker 3: shit that comes after the heartbreak, like it's just too
Speaker 3: much to me to me monogamy and this is probably
Speaker 3: a toxic take to have to me the people that
Speaker 3: I know that are in monogamous relationships and create that
Speaker 3: boundary out the gates. Specifically, women spend most of their
Speaker 3: time trying to find their partners being.
Speaker 1: Cheaters.
Speaker 3: But Sandy though, is like, it's not just women that
Speaker 3: are monogamous, right, Like that is people that have been hurt, right,
Speaker 3: that's not really like bro even in an open relationship.
Speaker 3: I was confused as managad cheat or not even like
Speaker 3: even other people I know, they're like they're lost and
Speaker 3: they're not sure what's gonna happen, Like it's just someone
Speaker 3: that's been hurt. But I don't think that monogamy necessarily
Speaker 3: means that. I mean, I think the healthiest couple I
Speaker 3: know are my friends Eddie and Nia. They have been
Speaker 3: together since high school. She's my makeup artistan in La.
Speaker 3: Her husband used to manage the whole house or just
Speaker 3: how I know them. They've been together for her their
Speaker 3: kids fucking eleven or twelve. And I remember thinking just
Speaker 3: hanging out with them the other day watching TV with them,
Speaker 3: like damn, their relationship is so old that I would
Speaker 3: wonder if what non a monogamy would look like, right,
Speaker 3: just thinking about it, Like they're both in big positions
Speaker 3: and they travel a lot. I'm like, if they did it,
Speaker 3: I wonder if it could be healthy, right, because this
Speaker 3: is such a new concept, Like that's the strongest relationship
Speaker 3: of a.
Speaker 1: Couple I know most couples that I know.
Speaker 3: I don't really want to be like anyone right, right,
Speaker 3: I don't really see something that i'd want. I see
Speaker 3: the parts of it, but I say that to say,
Speaker 3: I thought like, oh, you can be just happy because
Speaker 3: that's how well they know each other. They've learned to
Speaker 3: become best friends, they've learned to be comfortable together. And
Speaker 3: I think the stronger thing in that is seeing that
Speaker 3: you kind of do you have to be happy with
Speaker 3: what you have at first, because if you start out
Speaker 3: the gate with the threesomes and shit, then maybe you'll
Speaker 3: always feel like something is missing when you're alone. And
Speaker 3: I don't necessarily know if like it's been advantageous for me,
Speaker 3: and you know, there might be a world where someone's
Speaker 3: watching this and laughing because I introduced it or you
Speaker 3: introduced it. But these are genuinely things that I wanted
Speaker 3: to do sexually same I genuinely enjoyed it, and I
Speaker 3: think I mean clearly, I had gone to the sex
Speaker 3: club with two previous like partners situationships, and I felt
Speaker 3: great to have someone that I thought I could share
Speaker 3: this space with.
Speaker 1: And so that's where I'm like, I don't know what.
Speaker 2: Realistically my next relationship looks like, because then when you
Speaker 2: say you have to take time and get to know
Speaker 2: the person, you're saying a couple of years, I don't
Speaker 2: know physically, if I could go a couple of years
Speaker 2: without being with a woman, I really have desires to
Speaker 2: be with women. And I know that you even said, well,
Speaker 2: I like being with women too, and he's just has to.
Speaker 3: I think that there's a few different things, right if
Speaker 3: I couldn't meet someone that was cool with that, I
Speaker 3: think maybe even me finding a way to incorporate women
Speaker 3: like as a part of like whether it be a
Speaker 3: once and a blue thing or something that like maybe
Speaker 3: he gets videos like I don't know what it looks like,
Speaker 3: but I really believe like I'm having more issues with
Speaker 3: the open shit than I am with the monogamous shit,
Speaker 3: because it puts men in his brain of almost like
Speaker 3: you're in fun time sometimes yep, like it's not real.
Speaker 3: And because I think the type of women and the
Speaker 3: sex that we have in our experiences isn't something that
Speaker 3: we see from the everyday girl. And if the everyday
Speaker 3: girl is listening to this and has these thoughts and desires,
Speaker 3: I'm sure you've been faced with a nigga being like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, that's a wild shitcau, Oh shit, that's
Speaker 3: not my wife, and shit like it's just like shit
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: So I don't really know.
Speaker 3: I don't know what this looks like for me. But
Speaker 3: what I do know is I've always been like a
Speaker 3: one man type of girl. Like I've always kind of
Speaker 3: then in me. Towards the end of my relationship with
Speaker 3: Old Bay, I think I wasn't because I kind of
Speaker 3: let go because of what he was doing.
Speaker 1: I think that's why I said though I want a
Speaker 1: relationship because I loved just one man like i'm, I
Speaker 1: feel like i'm that as well. I just know I
Speaker 1: also like.
Speaker 2: Women from time to time. I was completely sexually fulfilled
Speaker 2: by him. I didn't need other partners. Now when we
Speaker 2: broke up, Yes, I went because I enjoy sex, but
Speaker 2: I loved just having one person that pleased me.
Speaker 1: I only need a one dick, didn't need too, didn't
Speaker 1: need to, didn't.
Speaker 3: Have the great sex from Old Bay at all, which
Speaker 3: is crazy because he fucked so many bitches, But I
Speaker 3: think it's just because like his vibe and his.
Speaker 1: Man fucking a whole much of holes don't mean as good. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm saying like I used to be, like damn, how
Speaker 1: do you keeping these bitches?
Speaker 3: But as much as I can't stand the nigga like
Speaker 3: he's attractive, well dressed, smart, and to be honest, no,
Speaker 3: those men aren't easy to come by. You don't meet
Speaker 3: a man that has all of these things. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: I understand that. However, the sex wasn't really all. There
Speaker 3: a point where I realize now, like, oh, my life
Speaker 3: with him was so much better and the older I got,
Speaker 3: and even from like having a fucking other nigga, I
Speaker 3: was like, whoa, I couldn't have did this whatever, And
Speaker 3: maybe that's why the threesomes were so good because I
Speaker 3: was like, now we get to have this fucking shit together, right,
Speaker 3: we don't get we'd have great sex and moments.
Speaker 1: But like when I think about.
Speaker 3: In longevity, like the way that I'm having sex with
Speaker 3: other people or niggas I've had before him, like he's
Speaker 3: never been my best. Oh, I didn't have that experience,
Speaker 3: and like I think that that's why I was so
Speaker 3: sexually content and got all the affection and intimacy that
Speaker 3: I needed.
Speaker 1: That I was willing to niggas your best.
Speaker 2: I was willing to ignore all of the the red
Speaker 2: flags and all the things that I knew I didn't like, because,
Speaker 2: like I said, this good thing.
Speaker 1: I was in prison y'all, but I broke free.
Speaker 3: One more little home mail I want to read, and
Speaker 3: just because it's funny, because when I read it, I
Speaker 3: was yop.
Speaker 1: I don't know what this nigga looks like, but I
Speaker 1: have an idea. My right.
Speaker 3: Weezy need to take a break from them city niggas
Speaker 3: and make a youth turn down to the dirty South.
Speaker 3: There's no period, so I'm just gonna read this as
Speaker 3: the punctuation stands and get some of this country loving
Speaker 3: down in Alabama. Every time I hear that voice, have
Speaker 3: to listen out for that sexy game she'd be spitting.
Speaker 1: One day.
Speaker 3: We'sy gonna get some of this country style CPR on
Speaker 3: that pussy because I'm a massage them enter thighs and
Speaker 3: blow softly while kissing all around that pussy and make
Speaker 3: that hood lift up automatically, and that pussy gonna start
Speaker 3: spitting at me at an alarming rate, laughing my ass up.
Speaker 3: I love you too, Mandy, fucking and playing with them
Speaker 3: titties the real country nigga way, We'll have your soul
Speaker 3: jumping in and out to your body.
Speaker 1: Y'all, keep doing y'all's thing. Top five podcasts y'all. That
Speaker 1: definitely was a wholemail you picked out because I would
Speaker 1: have never read that shit was so funny. This shit
Speaker 1: is not dog.
Speaker 3: I read that shit and I was like, what, Well,
Speaker 3: also send us your face, sir, because that country talking
Speaker 3: with them many anyway, look your podcast.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
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