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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision. West coast,

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Speaker 2: West coast, and when I say it, it might be

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Speaker 2: as west as you could get. Seattle's that's real, West Seattle.

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Speaker 1: We are finally coming to you.

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Speaker 3: Listen, you gotta get tickets because I'm telling you right now.

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Speaker 3: If Mandy and I ever thought about doing a loop

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Speaker 1: Far as hell. It is going to take a last

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Speaker 1: air lodge or so shit. Anyway. The point is I'm

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Speaker 1: only doing it for y'all, that's right.

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Speaker 3: So y'all, the Climax Tour is coming to Seeattle.

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Speaker 1: That's Washington, right, but not DC. It's the so.

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Speaker 3: Willa is Portland peeps and whoever is like up there

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Speaker 3: to come see you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all know, I got to pull out a map.

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Speaker 2: But Seattle, we are coming to you on September seventh

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Speaker 2: at the Neptune Theater.

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Speaker 3: Must be sucking some things out there, cause he's like, oh,

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Speaker 3: go to seat. He cannot wait to go to Seattle.

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Speaker 2: Hunt And you know what, I'm going to talk to

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Speaker 2: the people who make the weather machines and it's gonna

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Speaker 2: be good weather because I do know that seat.

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Speaker 1: That'll be rainy. What day of the week is it.

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Speaker 3: It is September one, seventh. Okay, so here's the team.

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Speaker 3: What's the team?

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Speaker 1: The seventh is a Thursday. People like going out on

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Speaker 1: Thursday nights.

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Speaker 3: They do, So it's Friday. We barely show up for work, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Make it a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I would say, call off at Let's take that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so make sure you go on over to hoorhive

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Speaker 3: dot com and get your tickets. Now.

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Speaker 1: Beach is given another solo.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, I'm weezy, Welcome back for another episode.

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Speaker 1: Dance right and I'm your girl.

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Speaker 2: Mandy Bakapai the Sallion aka Pegan Marco aka Debt Bitch

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Speaker 2: aka full Core Pumps aka outside and you had a

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Speaker 2: breast besch bitch? Actually no, because I went to bark

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Speaker 2: class this morning, and bitch, how is it? I am

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Speaker 2: feeling great. I'm thirteen pounds down and I'm now getting

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Speaker 2: into where I want to tone. My hips have also

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Speaker 1: We have not for.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just remembering that we have not updated the audience,

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Speaker 2: so real quick, y'all. I've been definitely like working more

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Speaker 2: relax and get massages. We did not tell them about

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Speaker 2: the Patreon, no, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I'm seeing that negative of see what I mean, And

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. I really don't like it. I

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Speaker 2: It because hold on, let me tell y'all. So I

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Speaker 2: talked about I think one of the massages that I

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Speaker 1: Was so good talk about this.

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Speaker 2: No, we did not, bitch, I'm telling you, we did

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Speaker 2: not talk about this, not even on Patreon.

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Speaker 1: Maybe on the town Hall. Not even on town hall. Okay,

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Speaker 1: not even on the trying to bring my man up, y'all,

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Speaker 2: So we're on tour and I'm like, bitch, when I

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Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, and here go Weezy with her

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Speaker 2: Well, I said it was good, but bitcha, I didn't

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Speaker 3: She comes in like, bitch, I've been to Parie, I've

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Speaker 2: I've had some good fucking massages. I think you're hyping

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Speaker 1: So she goes. We end up like you know, being

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Speaker 2: And before I leave out of massage, I let the

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Speaker 2: nigga know, don't embarrass me.

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Speaker 1: Now out on my sage. My friend is coming.

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Speaker 2: Don't embarrass me because I done hyped your ass up.

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Speaker 2: So Weezy has her massage and the way she comes

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Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna hold you. Hair is in a array,

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Speaker 2: She's walking like she just got fucked, and I did.

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Speaker 2: Her walk is different, and she's like literally starts looking

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Speaker 1: But did he do this to you? Because I think

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Speaker 1: And I said, bitch, I got all of that, And I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, if you could explain it, because you didn't get

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Speaker 1: Bro he gave you a little sun.

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Speaker 3: I just never had a massage like that, but I did.

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Speaker 3: At the end of the massage, I said to him,

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Speaker 1: To know do you do that with everybody?

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Speaker 3: He was laughing and he was like, I massage this

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Speaker 2: Bit it remind me of the massages that I used

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Speaker 2: to get right before getting buked, and that would have

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Speaker 1: Mind you, there's a lesbian couple sitting behind us. Thought

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Speaker 2: Weezy literally like, oh my god, you have to go

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Speaker 1: I was like no, no, no, no, So that was

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Speaker 1: what was it with him? I know? I said, what

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Speaker 3: The first thing that happened when I got on the

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Speaker 3: as burning man shit, not burning. It was no, really,

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Speaker 1: But I wasn't mad about it though. Then.

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Speaker 3: The only other thing that I can remember is I

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Speaker 3: Like during facials they asked if like you know, they'll

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Speaker 1: They're supposed to shape your face. The shit he did

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Speaker 1: She was just well, we'll.

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Speaker 3: Find out Friday at two thirty. Oh you really that's

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Speaker 3: why I fucked up the call, oh bitch, not just

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Speaker 1: Her Man, her Man, her Man. Y'all, this is a masseuse.

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Speaker 1: He's great. I'm not gonna lie. I literally sent him

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna like go see him twice a month now,

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Speaker 1: Than me, bitch, And I fucking booked that l that's

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Speaker 1: how good he is. No, And I know you guys

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Speaker 1: I'm not sharing. I'm gonna be honest with you. I

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Speaker 1: Shit? Wait, who did you text?

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Speaker 3: There's like a number that they have that you could text.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, what did you say to the number?

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Speaker 1: Girl? Don't July third?

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Speaker 3: July third was a Monday. Hello, could I have Blanks

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Speaker 3: availability for a ninety minute massage?

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Speaker 1: Because he don't work on Mondays?

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Speaker 3: On seven fourteen, he has ten am only I said, oh, okay,

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Speaker 3: he be booked out.

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Speaker 2: And literally when I go on, I'll normally go under

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Speaker 1: That ship is so good to where I think he

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Speaker 1: gets off on it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Like was his dick card? Did you ever feel his

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Speaker 3: dick rub on? But this, Oh there's one there's one

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Speaker 3: critique I have and it's not really critique. And I

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Speaker 3: flea market, but I was like, I just gonna fuck you.

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Speaker 1: But you did it.

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Speaker 3: But it felt like so I said, it was so

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Speaker 3: good but so different that I couldn't relax.

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Speaker 1: All the way.

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Speaker 3: Oh bitch, but it was. It made me feel good after,

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Speaker 3: it made me feel stought. I felt looser, like he

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Speaker 3: got the knots out. I got stretched. But it wasn't

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Speaker 3: one of those that puts me to sleep. No.

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Speaker 2: So I actually that's why I don't really like going

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Speaker 1: I want you to get up.

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Speaker 3: In that shit like I need to feel like you

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Speaker 1: I always go Asian. I'm not gonna lie. You know,

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you now when I'm when I'm done

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Speaker 2: I was what bitch as fuck? And I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: Damn the spit down there, he do he see it?

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Speaker 2: I think he'll be like, I'm glad you enjoyed this

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Speaker 1: Pussy juice telling on me every time? Do you think

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Speaker 2: The next time I going there, I'm a just be

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Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm just not going to drink all the work.

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Speaker 3: And my homegirl was like, oh my god, y'all heard

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Speaker 3: Ship that we remember we were talking about. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, it was great. So I'm glad you got

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Speaker 2: Okay, now, just agreeing on something and just the man's

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Speaker 1: Who are we good? Bitch twenty twenty three is eching up.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, now I'm back in New York, I'm on riyah.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm so shallow right now. I

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Speaker 2: Museum on First Saturdays. I was outside. There was thousands

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Speaker 2: like jump, and I'm just like, there's.

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Speaker 1: No way I am this shallow.

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Speaker 3: However, right across this fine ass Nigga on Instagram and me,

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Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you, slip right into them dms

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Speaker 3: and was like, you're not real.

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Speaker 2: That was my pickup line, y'all cause he'd that fine.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you just you can't be real. Who

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Speaker 2: getting the alert that he wrote me back, and bitch,

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Speaker 2: we was in Vegas at the same time, and I

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Speaker 1: I don't have my notifications on him, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean either, but somehow it didn't show up as a

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Speaker 2: and I was like, you, I thought I was curved.

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Speaker 3: Bitch, I saw he liked a story and I was like,

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Speaker 1: So went into the DMS again. Bitch, he wrote me.

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Speaker 2: He sent me videos of him shooting fireworks and all

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Speaker 2: I said, bitch, I missed this. So literally we got

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Speaker 2: day's not a Vegas person, girl, Well he was out there,

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Speaker 1: No, but you loved it. Love it.

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Speaker 2: People either love it and then me and people who

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Speaker 2: hate it. I didn't think I'm someone who I ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna hold you this last time. I was just in Vegas.

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Speaker 2: It was different, and I'm gonna blame I'm gonna blame

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Speaker 2: the pandemic. So normally in Vegas you get pulled to tables.

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Speaker 1: There's so many people in the casino. You're getting pulled

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Speaker 2: You're getting pulled just by men that are approaching you

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Speaker 2: but people just stare like there wasn't as much approaching, which, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I'm single now, I would have liked the approach. But

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Speaker 2: maybe it's like people are used to sliding and DMS.

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Speaker 2: So what I'm realizing is even when I was in Houston,

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Speaker 2: but bro, people are just dming me.

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Speaker 3: That they saw me after the fact. It's like, damn

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Speaker 3: you look, so I saw you?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Are you staying at the Mandalay Bay? I

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Speaker 2: So I'm just like, were you Yeah, that's oh bitch,

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Speaker 2: And three people saw me at the airport, so I'm like,

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Speaker 2: okay to me. I kind of in terms of like

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Speaker 2: what Vegas normally gave, it was like, bitch, if you

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Speaker 1: It was just really it was weird.

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Speaker 2: It was like no one had social skills this time,

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Speaker 2: so it was kind of strange, like it just wasn't

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Speaker 3: But I also only went for thirty six hours. It's

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Speaker 3: still when you go with girls like you kind of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was weird because there was a lot of groups

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Speaker 3: You know, like three of my homegirls saw Usher the

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Speaker 3: Oh it was great. I was telling Mandy before we

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Speaker 3: I walked in here about how I was supposed to

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Speaker 3: see Beyonce in Philly for the first tour stop and

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Speaker 3: literally can't make it because was throw it up like

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Speaker 3: a motherfucker a water spout. Bitch, I have to gross

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Speaker 3: bro just from eggs. Some of you know, I'm allerged

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Speaker 3: to egg. But I'll tell you a little bit about

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Speaker 3: it because it was just so wild. Questlove throws a

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Speaker 3: who know party that he invites all these celebrities to

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Speaker 3: of the few food was infused by this like renowned chef.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, well I don't want.

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Speaker 3: To get high on food when I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 3: so I'm like, well, what can I eat? And they

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Speaker 3: tell me only the ramen, which ends up having it

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Speaker 3: It was just soaked in a broth with egg. That's crazy,

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Speaker 1: Bitch. Some literally Taylor fucking Swift comes in, sits down

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Speaker 1: at the table, is me my homegirl, Gabby? A guy

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Speaker 1: named Jason Sudeki's I think that's how you say his name.

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Speaker 1: Who's Ted known as ted Lasso. He was fun as shit, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I'm a fan fan now, like you.

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Speaker 3: Know when someone just like when he sat down, I

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I know that guy.

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Speaker 3: I guess WHOA like too good in person, like the

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Speaker 3: So we're sitting and it's just like this Alex English

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's great. H So we're all playing. Taylor sits down.

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Speaker 3: He's like, come on, girl, we're playing, and I'm telling

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Speaker 3: her my rule is you gotta say motherfucker god damn

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Speaker 3: if you get a draw four, right, is IM about

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Speaker 3: to beat everybody? I feel this nicey was about to

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Speaker 3: And so Jason's like, ooh that mushroom, that mushroom, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And they're like, there's no lights on and I was like, ooh,

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Speaker 1: Go to the bathroom. You don't need to throw up,

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Speaker 1: and it shoots so far that it's past the toilet.

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Speaker 3: Not you be in the exasist, bitch. That's what I

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Speaker 3: Come back to the table. They're like, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: we're waiting now, da da da, bitch. I'm holding two

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Speaker 1: By the way, sorry, if you were currently eating lunch

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Speaker 3: So people are outside smoking or hungering whatever niggas is,

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Speaker 3: tried to turn to go down an alley. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: and they're like, yo, you should go lay down for

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Speaker 3: which is also where the staff is going back and

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Speaker 3: looking at my face. She's like, do you want me

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Speaker 3: to get you to throw a bucket? Not o, bitch,

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Speaker 3: I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: I did that already. God did you clearly weren't fine, though,

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Speaker 1: why are you lying to the people?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I wasn't fine.

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Speaker 3: So then I was telling Manny the most luxurious part

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Speaker 3: So now I'm in the middle of this shit.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, if I just got an uber,

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Speaker 1: I could have thrown up and paid the one fifty.

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Speaker 1: Oh now, you can't throw up in nobody's mea bag.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was supposed to be a nine

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Speaker 3: like this, like the blood is leaving for my may bag.

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Speaker 1: It was so bad.

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Speaker 3: I took one little picture in there because I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm gonna throw up. Damn, the shit

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Speaker 3: look nice. Not you'll being a third bitch.

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Speaker 1: Now I was taking a picture in the may bag.

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Speaker 1: I had to. So you had to be a bird

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Speaker 1: while you're literally throwing up your life. No, I know,

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Speaker 1: but anyway, so.

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Speaker 3: Thank god Tianna was at my place in this moment,

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Speaker 1: I'm weak, like throwing up that much. She came in.

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Speaker 1: my head, put ice on my dad.

438
00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,080
Speaker 3: Throwing up all over the place is Badnina was like,

439
00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:06,280
Speaker 3: ooh girl. So anyway, that's why I couldn't go see

440
00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,800
Speaker 3: Beyonce in Philly. Jesus missed the sprinter ride because I

441
00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,040
Speaker 3: was like just out of it, like I literally need

442
00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,960
Speaker 3: to sleep, like it was so bad and life sucks.

443
00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,920
Speaker 3: But what really fucking kills me about this shit is

444
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,840
Speaker 3: I was saying to Mandy like what was so cool

445
00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,399
Speaker 3: about this moment was or getting to like play, you know,

446
00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:30,440
Speaker 3: and all these people. Was like seeing Taylor Swift and

447
00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,800
Speaker 3: thinking like she's every white girl's Beyonce. Yeah, And I

448
00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,240
Speaker 3: was like, oh, this UNO party has so many niggas

449
00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:39,040
Speaker 3: that like nobody's standing.

450
00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:39,919
Speaker 1: Maybe they were and.

451
00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:42,000
Speaker 3: I didn't notice it, but like it even hit me

452
00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,080
Speaker 3: a few times because like we're joking about shit, She's like,

453
00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:45,080
Speaker 3: oh my, I want your name again.

454
00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:46,160
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm Geeli. It's like I'm.

455
00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,440
Speaker 3: Taylor, and I was just thinking like duh, duh. But

456
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,639
Speaker 3: you know what, I appreciate when celebrities do that.

457
00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:53,440
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I wonder if like when we

458
00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,320
Speaker 2: do our meet and greet, Like there's been times like

459
00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:58,760
Speaker 2: before even meet and greet where we'll meet fans or

460
00:18:58,800 --> 00:18:59,159
Speaker 2: whatever and.

461
00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,399
Speaker 1: They'd be like, yeah, I'm I feel like Mandy. I

462
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,440
Speaker 1: think it's just also, but what are you supposed to do?

463
00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,760
Speaker 2: Be like okay, No, she can't just be like oh

464
00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:08,400
Speaker 2: good to meet you, gi up, bitch, what the fuck

465
00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,320
Speaker 2: are you? I mean she could say that without having

466
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 2: to be like and I'm Taylor.

467
00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,720
Speaker 1: No, and I'm Taylor. Tell me now, I'm Taylor girl.

468
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,120
Speaker 1: She was, so she said it. She could say it once,

469
00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:18,800
Speaker 1: but I'll tell you want it. She said it multiple times.

470
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,959
Speaker 3: I really she did, because I think she was kind

471
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,320
Speaker 3: of like, what was it, Like she wants to make

472
00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,200
Speaker 3: sure everybody she was talking to them she was the

473
00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:28,240
Speaker 3: newest person at the WUDOS. But I will say this, meaning,

474
00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,800
Speaker 3: this is the second person I've met this year that

475
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,280
Speaker 3: is a larger than life celebrity.

476
00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,600
Speaker 1: And it's so cool to see how normal people are.

477
00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 3: And I was saying to Mandy, like not saying I

478
00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,320
Speaker 3: thought she was gonna be like in full hair and makeup, lamb,

479
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,600
Speaker 3: but like, oh my god, super normal, like you know

480
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:51,000
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, and I I realize while getting

481
00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 3: into you know, I want to talk about Kink of

482
00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:56,840
Speaker 3: the week the show, the idol with the weekend. I

483
00:19:56,960 --> 00:20:00,200
Speaker 3: don't really know if like we're looking at fandom on

484
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,440
Speaker 3: a scale of like TV and movies or we see

485
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,760
Speaker 3: people like on Instagram act like crazy fans, but like

486
00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:09,959
Speaker 3: I don't know, like maybe maybe we are idolizing these

487
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 3: people so much to the point where like.

488
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 1: They're not even gonna meet our expectations. Like I don't know.

489
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,159
Speaker 1: I wish I could like find a way to frame this.

490
00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,840
Speaker 3: But like, I've had a few fans tell me that,

491
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,639
Speaker 3: like I'm not as turned up as they thought I

492
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 3: would be in person, and that shit kind of hurts

493
00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,160
Speaker 3: my feelings a little bit because I'm.

494
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 1: Like, am I born? Like what do you think I'm

495
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,399
Speaker 1: gonna be? But yeah, like the facade that we have

496
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 1: and it's all this social media shit, you know.

497
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,440
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, Like, yeah, you see a clip of

498
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift online, it's because of Paparassi or a stadium

499
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,360
Speaker 3: full of people, but like this is a country girl

500
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 3: who's chill as fuck, you know what I'm saying, Like

501
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 3: she was not at all by any means someone that's

502
00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,240
Speaker 3: act like they've had that life. And so I think

503
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,760
Speaker 3: sometimes we put people on a pedestal, like we were

504
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 3: saying a few weeks ago, to where we're even like.

505
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: Fuck, a part of me like wishes I felt that

506
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 1: still with people like like what like starstruck or.

507
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 2: Or like when I'm in a room, you know, like

508
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 2: a part of me wishes I still felt that. I

509
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: think that because like when I was in high school,

510
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 2: I was like around and.

511
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 1: What do you wish? She felt?

512
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 3: I wish, I wish like I don't know, like the idea. Yeah,

513
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: a part of me sometimes wishes I felt that way.

514
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 2: Like literally, I like even going to the Usher concert

515
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 2: and seeing how how Carla responded with when Usher looked.

516
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,400
Speaker 1: At her and shouted her out.

517
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 2: When he was shouting out, she was like, and I'm like,

518
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 2: I parted with him and his wife the last time

519
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:42,439
Speaker 2: I was in Vegas.

520
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:47,360
Speaker 3: Maybe, but like a concert vibe, maybe, like she wouldn't

521
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 3: have done that backstage.

522
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe she would have.

523
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 3: I don't know, No, girl, the way she wanted that

524
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,360
Speaker 3: man to just walk past us on the stairs.

525
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:59,360
Speaker 2: It's just weird because even like my mom saw who

526
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 2: was on my walls like growing up, and like literally

527
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: by my senior year of high school, I was hanging

528
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 2: out with a lot of those people. Like my first

529
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:13,119
Speaker 2: concert was Bow Wow, like screen tour bitch. By by

530
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 2: the time I was eighteen, he was inviting me to

531
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 2: his shows and I was hanging out with him and

532
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 2: he introduced me to Chris Brown, and I'm hanging with

533
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 2: all these people that my mom is like, bitch, you

534
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 2: were hanging with everybody.

535
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,479
Speaker 1: That's like that part is kind of like but at

536
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: a younger know what.

537
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 3: I want to say this because I don't want to

538
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 3: sound out of touch, because it hit.

539
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,439
Speaker 1: Me last night, like when I was telling my mom

540
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: about the night.

541
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Speaker 3: I actually the most the little starstruck that I did

542
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 3: feel last night was when Julius Styles walking in.

543
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 1: I told Mandy this, and it was mainly because of

544
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 1: the movies growing up as a kid.

545
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 3: Right, girls say the Last Dance, y'all know that all

546
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,479
Speaker 3: I could think about this and like, she wasn't at

547
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 3: our ouno table, but I looked at her a few

548
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 3: times and I remember thinking about like, you know, she

549
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 3: brought me back a memory. But I was like, I

550
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 3: would have went up there, did yo, gee, No, you

551
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 3: were not, you would not work together.

552
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 1: I would have been like, girl, let's let's on your hox.

553
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 1: How was Juliard sist? I love that movie, bitch. I

554
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: would have went up to her and be like, you

555
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: can't help oh you love Derrek.

556
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 3: But everybody chilling too, like you don't want to hear

557
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 3: that shit because I don't want to be out. And

558
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 3: people be like, oh, horrible decisions, and they bring up

559
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 3: this moment about a cream pie. I'm like this I

560
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 3: was twenty years ago.

561
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: And and what dang bitch. Julius Thoughts would have got it,

562
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 1: because girl, she was that girl. It was that Carol,

563
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 1: and I would have let her know my black ass

564
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 1: loved ho white ass. Everybody did, but she would have

565
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: been Julia was so much fun in all her movies.

566
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 3: They made up me almost turning against the other bitch

567
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 3: and saved the last day at the black girl, not

568
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 3: the black girl Carrie Washington?

569
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: Are you bitch? You are awful?

570
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey Carrie Washington. Wasn't the ground way Carrie Washington

571
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 2: and saved the last dame just dancing with the hair

572
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 2: like this with who gave Julia styles the hairtie to

573
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 2: make her look more urban in the club?

574
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 1: No way, I'm talking about the girl, she battled again.

575
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: Oh you talking about the girl who always played a vampire. Yes,

576
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:09,719
Speaker 2: because she just still looked young as fun.

577
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: Okay, That's what I'm talking about. Like that was Karry Washington. Anay,

578
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 1: I say that to Kerry Washington, Derek.

579
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 3: I believe that people can like be in these scenarios

580
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 3: living in Miami, New York, Atlanta, like la, this shit.

581
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 1: Ain't like you'll see this girls, I agree, you'll want

582
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I was shocked. I got that coming from Orlando.

583
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 1: Shout out to my Space. It was only because of

584
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 1: my Space that I was like.

585
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 3: The girls today that might listen to this show, that

586
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 3: might be like, okay, bitch, we all not walking in

587
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 3: the rooms.

588
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 1: I don't be real with you. Nigga.

589
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 3: Every time I go to a club in la is

590
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 3: a nigga like that in the club. Every time I'm

591
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 3: like doing some event in Miami, like you can. You

592
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 3: can wait in line and go to a party where

593
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 3: they'll be at like you're able to do this ship.

594
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 3: And that's all to say, these people are normal and shit.

595
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 3: Matter of fact, shout out to the girl at CBS

596
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 3: today and uh, well CBS. Anyway, I'm in New York,

597
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 3: so boom, I'm at the CBS with Nina and I

598
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 3: tap her and do whatever not Britney spears tap.

599
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: But I was like, excuse me, where can I get that?

600
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 3: She was like, oh my god, and she was so cute.

601
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 3: She was like girl and she's talking about horrible. Can't

602
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 3: wait till we get to know New York and November.

603
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 3: She was like this better than meet and Greek because

604
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 3: I missed the meet and greet ticket.

605
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: So anyway, she.

606
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 3: Has her moment and we're laughing or whatever. And then

607
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 3: I go to another aisle and I picked up pads

608
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 3: the CBS brand and she was like, you are so normal.

609
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 3: I was like this, but it's crazy because like she

610
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 3: invited me to a bar this week that like her

611
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 3: friends do this Sex and the City trip via and

612
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 3: I was like.

613
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, yeah, we know you loved you ain't go?

614
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: You know there's a Sex and the City pop up? Yes,

615
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: so did you go? No? I just got back.

616
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 3: But my point is saying that is like everybody that

617
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 3: we think sometimes are out of reach, niggade right there.

618
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: Every day people got the niggas and the bitches.

619
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: By the way, only because shout out to Jay fact

620
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: check the the name is Bianca Lawson.

621
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: That is the actress in say the last dance that

622
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: you were thinking about.

623
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 2: Interesting and I who allegedly is uh stepsisters to your

624
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 2: friend Beyonce.

625
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: It's a lunch. That's a bad bitch. What is she

626
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: still in? I feel like I see her all the time.

627
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: You're always playing a teenager because she ain't aged. Not

628
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 2: a one bit bitch is forty fucking four. It looks amazing.

629
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 3: Queen Sugaris teen wolves, Yes, put a lot of shit,

630
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 3: so taking a side turn, not turn on vanilla ship.

631
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring up the book that kind of

632
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: we're making headlines a year ago, I'm Glad my Mom Died.

633
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: By the way, trigger warning here, Well, did not know?

634
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: Did you see this? Yeah? I watched it. Watched what

635
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: no when you had it in that one oh oh,

636
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: because she has a book. I didn't know that the

637
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: girl was on I Carley.

638
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:16,239
Speaker 3: But this to me was seriously crazy because we hear

639
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 3: so much of this when it comes to paternal not maternal,

640
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 3: like dads or uncles doing weird shit like this. But

641
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: you never heard about the book I'm Glad my Mom Died.

642
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 3: It came out maybe a year or two ago, and

643
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 3: it was about a girl telling a story about her mom,

644
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 3: who passed away from breast cancer. And basically in the book,

645
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 3: she recalls her time as a child actor, talking about

646
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 3: how she was sexualized on set and she was, you know,

647
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 3: drinking alcohol and shit like that. But she believes it

648
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 3: was because she alleged, her mother never attempted to intervene

649
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 3: because everybody wanted what she had and basically wanted to like,

650
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 3: you know, get rich on the back of her as

651
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 3: a kid, she claims that her mom, which this is

652
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 3: so crazy, bro crazy. She said that her mom would

653
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: do joint bathing with her until she was seventeen or eighteen.

654
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 3: She said, while fully clothed in the shower, her mom

655
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 3: would be shampooing, conditioning her hair, and washing her body,

656
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 3: and she would have breast and vaginal exams done and

657
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 3: that she was checking for lumps for cancer. She said

658
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 3: she felt uncomfortable and violated, but she said she could

659
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 3: never even try to shower herself again after bringing up

660
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 3: her mom, with her mom laughing at her thing like, oh, like,

661
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 3: what are you saying I'm doing as inappropriate?

662
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:37,479
Speaker 2: Bitch crazy and that's like so sad, like the thoughts

663
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 2: like even just like I'm sure was probably asked by

664
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 2: her friends, like she probably asked her friends, does your

665
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: mom do this? Like, because I can't imagine you growing up,

666
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: since you're a child, all the way up to the

667
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 2: age of seventeen, that your mom is in the tub

668
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: with you and in the shower with you, fondling your breast,

669
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: checking in your vagina, claiming that she's looking for lumps

670
00:28:59,480 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: for cancer.

671
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: And when you ask all of your friends if their

672
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: moms do this, and they're all like, girl, no.

673
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 3: Of course when you get older, I wonder what the

674
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 3: conversations were like from from just her friends about how

675
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: that wasn't normal and how that's that's that's a sault.

676
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 3: It's crazy too, because like we all don't know what

677
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 3: extent we have with our relationship without our parents, what

678
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 3: it is right right, Like I know, some friends tell

679
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 3: me they've seen their parents have sex on accident or

680
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 3: seeing their parents naked. My dad I've never seen naked,

681
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 3: but my mom definitely. She'll get naked in front of

682
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: me when we're changing, which is crazy. I've never seen

683
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 3: my dad naked either.

684
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: I don't think that's crazy though, you know, but is

685
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: it not normal?

686
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 2: I definitely see my mom. I definitely see my mom

687
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: and a. But also, you lived with your dad. I didn't,

688
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 2: so I wagh less chances of seeing him naked.

689
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 3: I mean, if my dad was in the bathroom, almost

690
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 3: went and I'd be like ugh. But I think I

691
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 3: almost walked in all my parents having sex because I

692
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 3: remember my mom was sitting in a chair, my dad

693
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 3: was laying down.

694
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: She just came out from partying, and they were like giggling,

695
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: and I was like yep, and they were like, well

696
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: you by that back.

697
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, Like even my relationship with my mom, I

698
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,239
Speaker 3: remember when I got my boobs done, my mom went

699
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 3: to every appointment with me, and UH would like come

700
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: home and like or come to my house to be

701
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 3: like okay, because you know, you got to check for

702
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 3: bruising and this and that. And one of my friends

703
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 3: told me it was strange that my mom was doing

704
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 3: and I was like, I just had surgery, dude, and

705
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, but you should find someone else

706
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 3: to take.

707
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: Care of you.

708
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 3: I mean when I had just got done with my

709
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 3: gastric sleeve, I mean, no one in my family had

710
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 3: had it, no one that like we knew and our

711
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 3: family had it.

712
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: So my mom came up to.

713
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: Watch after me and literally she said like, you know,

714
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 2: if you need help showering or if you can't wipe

715
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 2: your ass.

716
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: She didn't know to what mobility I would have.

717
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 2: And I remember just being like, ah, Mom, you ain't

718
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: gonna watch me like bitch if I got a sick fork,

719
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 2: like I know, like I was so and my mom

720
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 2: was like, bitch, I wash your like, wipe your ass

721
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: when you came out of me.

722
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: I can wipe you down to me.

723
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 2: It even felt weird right now as an adult for

724
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 2: my mom to care for me in that way, Like

725
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 2: I was like, oh girl, you makeing such this cool.

726
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: I mean't I wouldn't like but you don't even think

727
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 2: you needed it.

728
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 3: But I am having a baby, I'm a maybe decl

729
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 3: help like you bust your stitch. That's why my mom

730
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 3: got to check my titty. She wouldn't make sure most

731
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 3: she wouldn't got meat. But you know, now, I feel

732
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna enter a new territory because maybe Patreon,

733
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: we've talked about it. But for those of you who

734
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 3: don't know, I moved my parents to LA and I

735
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: moved my mom into a building directly across the street

736
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 3: from mine where our balconies face each other. It was

737
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 3: the only apartment left in that building that was in

738
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 3: my price range and was nice. So it's interesting because

739
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 3: I got sick in La right before Texas shows, and

740
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 3: you don't realize how great it is. And for anyone

741
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 3: that's like lost a parent you know, or maybe doesn't

742
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 3: have a good relationship with their parents, I'm not trying

743
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 3: to make you feel bad.

744
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to treasure the moments I have, And

745
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: what I could say is she annoyed me so much.

746
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: And then when I realized she was right there, I

747
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, it's nice. Give me Nina,

748
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: I'll take the baby, I'll do this. Okay, what do

749
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: you want me to make? And I was like, damn,

750
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: I need this shit.

751
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 3: And you know, I say all that about loss and

752
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: grief because we need to make sure that as an adult,

753
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 3: we're still building our families that we don't that aren't

754
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 3: our blood families, right, Like you got to make sure

755
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 3: that you're attentive to your friends when they're sick, and

756
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 3: that you're caring for friends because they may not have that.

757
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: And it's like that shit is super important. Yeah.

758
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 2: I also like have empathy for anyone who's experienced like

759
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 2: this level of sexual assault because in the video she

760
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: talks about how before the passing and just as an adult,

761
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 2: she does not know how to have relationships or be

762
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 2: intimate with someone because it triggers her so much, Right, so,

763
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: you know, kind of being lost as someone who maybe

764
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 2: can't get over a sexual assault trauma and building actually

765
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 2: those those meaningful relationships with someone in a romantic way,

766
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 2: Like I just I really, you know, my heart goes

767
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: out to anyone who experiences that and may have that

768
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: difficulty finding that in adulthood and who knows how much

769
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 2: year is Like, trauma is something that takes a long

770
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 2: time to get over, to be triggered in that manner

771
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: is also a lot for when you do get into

772
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 2: a relationship, for your partner to be able to, you know,

773
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 2: kind of tiptoe around. So yeah, I think that that

774
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: was probably the most hurtful thing reading it, I mean

775
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 2: listening to her talk about it, because pretty much the

776
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: interviewer was like, wait, you really are glad that your

777
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: mom is dead? She was like, yeah, because bro, I'm

778
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: living with this fucking trauma. And she was abusive in

779
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 2: multiple ways because I didn't even know that.

780
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: This was and that shit is crazy, because absolutely you

781
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: don't know.

782
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 3: And that's why it's great to see like a relationship,

783
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 3: like I know, a child started that we get to

784
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 3: see their relationship with their mom's Kiki and her mom

785
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 3: and her relationship is so fun and sweet, and we

786
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: get to see their videos and it's like, we don't

787
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 3: really know the dark side of that shit, you know

788
00:33:58,920 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

789
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: So all right, poor dr I want.

790
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 3: To get into the idol. I told Mandy this Shuar

791
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 3: was fucking fire. She hasn't seen it, but we.

792
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 2: All probably won't see it because it got canceled and

793
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 2: it's only five episodes.

794
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: But it doesn't need to be.

795
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 3: It's finished. It's like it's it's a limited series. No,

796
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 3: it was supposed to go into season two. No, I

797
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 3: mean they finished it. I'm saying they finished. They've completed it,

798
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 3: like it doesn't feel like you're missing anything, okay, like

799
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 3: much like I don't know how to describe it.

800
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: But but it wasn't supposed to be.

801
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 2: They had a season two it was green Lip for

802
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 2: season two. They canceled season two. Then there was eight episodes.

803
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: They canceled it mid season, so now it's literally just

804
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 2: five episode.

805
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like, sometimes we can feel

806
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 3: left out. Like one of my favorite was Naomi Watts.

807
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 3: I wonder if it was called I Don't Want to

808
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 3: g where she was a lesbian. It was only one season.

809
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 3: You don't feel like you're waiting or never going to

810
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: get to see something. They found a way to close it.

811
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 3: But so everyone knows about the sex scenes in there, right,

812
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 3: and if you haven't heard this movie. It is from

813
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 3: the creator of Euphoria, Sam Levin, and a lot of

814
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 3: people have gave it critiques because they believe it to

815
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 3: be torture porn.

816
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: So I want to tell you about some of the

817
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: scenes that exists.

818
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 3: And the backlash he's having is because people believe he's

819
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 3: depicting women in his projects in a bad way and

820
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 3: there's excessive sex, nudity and portraying teenagers specifically. They're also

821
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 3: saying that this series is very porn brained. For example,

822
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 3: it is porn brain to have an erect nipples through

823
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 3: your shirt in the show.

824
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: It is poor and brain to.

825
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: Say stretch that tiny fucking pussy like we saw on

826
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 3: that clip of the Weekend. But to me, it fell

827
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 3: in with it what they were trying to do. I

828
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 3: don't want to tell you about some of the shit

829
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 3: that was in there. One of the scenes, and the

830
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,399
Speaker 3: scene that really fucking got me was in the first

831
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:57,280
Speaker 3: episode where she's wearing a robe.

832
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: He puts the robe over her face, uses.

833
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 3: The tie to tie around her neck where you see

834
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 3: her mouth like having to use a little bit of

835
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 3: air to breathe, and then he takes a knife to

836
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 3: give her a hole to breathe, the puncture through the

837
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 3: road that y'all know. Keeping them knives away from me, now,

838
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 3: bit you got your pussy electrocuty.

839
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: That wasn't a knife.

840
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 3: It's still death, bitch, No, it's not Me'll died from electricity.

841
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 2: Okay, but it wasn't. It wasn't gonna pierce me to

842
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: where there was gonna be blood. And you know I

843
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 2: don't like blood. I don't like sharp objects. Keep them

844
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 2: away from me. It was fucking hot. So you're gonna

845
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 2: say I say I don't like knives, You say I

846
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 2: was electrocuted. I'm just saying, but you could have died,

847
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 2: and she could have died.

848
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: But it was low voltage.

849
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 3: Okay, Well he didn't die. He only put it right

850
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 3: at the at the beginning to just open the thing.

851
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 3: So there's a scene of that, and that's when I

852
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I'm about to watch the rest of

853
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 3: these episodes, like this shit is sexy. And when he

854
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 3: was saying to her like stretch up plussy or whatever,

855
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 3: like it was funny, but he was basically watching her,

856
00:36:55,440 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 3: and I love being watched and sometimes just gonna be honest, Yes,

857
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 3: women don't necessarily want to be what's the word when

858
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 3: you're gawkeed at? Uh? No, Like when you're they use

859
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: the word a lot when a construction worker you're passing by,

860
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 3: and you're passing by and they're like, howling is holl

861
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 3: Look girl, it's.

862
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: A word harassed.

863
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 3: No, you said gaunt and howling, and I like both

864
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: an misogianistic thing.

865
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: Girl, I know you do not ask me for words.

866
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: Can you reputing the words? She'd have said? Yeap?

867
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 3: Y'all are listening to this ship like, bitch, is this okay?

868
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 3: Whatever the word is that I can't get called?

869
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 1: Not cat called? Is closed?

870
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 3: When a when a man is doing all these things

871
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,399
Speaker 3: to where he's treating you like you're just a thing?

872
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: Objectifying? Yes, bitch, Oh, not be having a word objectifiant.

873
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: I know that some people don't want to have that

874
00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: thirty five seconds whoa I want to if the niggas

875
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: in the comments do not worry objectifying bitch? Yes, I

876
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: got it, okay.

877
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,479
Speaker 3: So it could be very objectifying to watch someone say

878
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 3: do this, do that, do that, And women may not

879
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 3: like that because they feel like a piece of meat,

880
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 3: But there are some people that might like that shit.

881
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: And honestly, as a woman that's sexual and enjoys kinky things.

882
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 3: Watching that scene, like, yeah, I laughed when he said

883
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 3: stretch the pussy thing, but the.

884
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,439
Speaker 1: Way that he was looking at it like that because

885
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: it was funny. Wait, is that funny? Stretch out little pussy?

886
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: I actually I say that he was funny, So I'm

887
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: not funny. No the way that he's no, I'm not funny.

888
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: And he also said cock. That's what made it funny.

889
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: So I don't say cock, but I literally.

890
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 3: Be like, oh, stretch my pussy, I please wait, shot

891
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 3: out sexy red I'm trying to give my up sexy.

892
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 3: I literally I yelled to stretch my pussy, let me

893
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 3: try it open. But the way he said it was

894
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 3: fucking funny. But on stretch pussy weekend, let me see

895
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,919
Speaker 3: like a five bitch because that niggas said that shit.

896
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 3: You know, I was like, it didn't sound hot. Though

897
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,800
Speaker 3: he said it was funny, I say it sexy. He

898
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 3: just was funny. I like I think because we maybe

899
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 3: because we know the weekend is the weekend. Maybe if

900
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: he wasn't the weekend, we wouldn't care. But like the

901
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 3: shit was so weird. So anyway, basically there's another sex

902
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 3: scene where she talks about a trauma and this is

903
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 3: what maybe you want to talk about the idol about

904
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 3: where her mom used to hit her with a hair brush, okay,

905
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 3: make her do certain things, and he was like, oh,

906
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 3: you're about to like take back this power and basically

907
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 3: use the hair bush for spanking. And I think she

908
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 3: spanked her own ass if I can remember. Oh, and

909
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 3: it was hot but also weird, and some people said

910
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 3: it was sadistic, but I was like, maybe he wanted

911
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 3: her to have a new memory with it, bitch, I

912
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 3: don't know, but not gonna hold you like. It was

913
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 3: another thing I thought was attractive in that fucking show.

914
00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 3: And I'm curious about how far we think that sex

915
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,760
Speaker 3: scenes can go on TV because they were super vulgar.

916
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 3: They were like really dirty, and I understand that the

917
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 3: public is like scared to see things to that level.

918
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 3: But I bring up fifty shades grat when talking about

919
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 3: that show, because like, that was supposed to be it

920
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 3: for us, right, this was it.

921
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you.

922
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe because we have this show and we

923
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 2: talk in you know, non traditional ways regarding sex and

924
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 2: taboo and kinks, I enjoy it. I think that it

925
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 2: is the parents' responsibility to make sure if they don't

926
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 2: want their children to see it, they don't. I loved

927
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 2: the sex scene with the two men in Pea Valley. Specifically,

928
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: it showed two masculine men using protection having great sex.

929
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 1: I loved. I loved what that looked like for gay sex.

930
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: I will say a part of me is a little

931
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 2: disturbed by all of the sex in Euphoria only because

932
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,320
Speaker 2: they're teenagers. So to me, even though yes, I was

933
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: in high school having sex, to me, the over sexuality

934
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 2: of teenagers kind of bothers me.

935
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: But I'm all here for adults having kinky, con sexual

936
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: sex on TV first, And I mean that's really what

937
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: I was.

938
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 3: Bitch, Have you watched something strange about the Johnson's No,

939
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 3: no way you have, because you would have brought it up.

940
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 3: In the first minute, we find out that there's a

941
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,879
Speaker 3: strange relationship with a son and his father. Oh it's

942
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, y'all. It's on YouTube. Apparently it has been

943
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 3: out for six years, and like cinephiles and people in

944
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 3: TV and film.

945
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: Have seen this.

946
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 3: However, Twitter got hold of it, and that's how I

947
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 3: found out about this fucking shit, but maybe we could

948
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 3: do Deepdappo major twenty nine minutes.

949
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:51,720
Speaker 1: Bitch, you gotta watch it. It's wild but like yeah.

950
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 2: Wild and nasty, like inappropriate wild inappropriate while okay but

951
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 2: not like you're not really seeing sex, but like just

952
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 2: the thing of it, like it makes sure it's a

953
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 2: brain fucking I mean, it's funny because me and my

954
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 2: really good friend and girl, I know you listening, but

955
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna say your name. We actually constantly have

956
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 2: the conversations her relationship with her her dad was estranged,

957
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: but a lot of times she'll send me videos and

958
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 2: be like, is this appropriate behavior? And it'll be like

959
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 2: a dad kissing their daughter or a daughter sitting on

960
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 2: her dad's lap, and just things that are perceived as

961
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 2: inappropriate in her mind or maybe other people who see

962
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: adults with young children, even though it's a father child relationship.

963
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 2: But she constantly sends me videos and we constantly have

964
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 2: those conversations about what appropriate behavior looks like with adult

965
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: men and young children, even when it's a parental relationship.

966
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:54,240
Speaker 2: And I've been grateful to have just like those breakthrough

967
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 2: conversations with why something is appropriate, but also as adults

968
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: we sexualize things that we shouldn't and a child.

969
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:03,720
Speaker 1: Sees it is very innocent.

970
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: I think those conversations happen a lot when we see

971
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 3: the game with his dog sexualize things.

972
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: Like way way too much, way too much, like way

973
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: too much.

974
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 2: I'm just eating the hot dog, bro, I deep thought

975
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 2: when the Glizzie you are also thought culturally, like.

976
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 3: I remember like the Tom Brady son kissing thing yep,

977
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,959
Speaker 3: And at the time I remember thinking like that's weird,

978
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 3: but it's only weird because I don't do it right.

979
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 3: But when I think about it, I think my dad,

980
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 3: when I was maybe three or four, we used to

981
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,879
Speaker 3: kiss on the mouth, and like that's to me cultural, Yeah,

982
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 3: my dad's is really And I don't know where Tom

983
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 3: Brady's from, but I know Gizelle is German. I think's

984
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 3: it's like maybe a euro shit is like different, and uh,

985
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 3: I don't have a relationship like that my father was

986
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 3: bad or whatever, so like I understand these kisses weren't.

987
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: Bad, but like that my mom used to do it

988
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: to me too. Yeah, did your mom ever kiss you

989
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: on the mouth.

990
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 3: We weren't very intimate them either, sometimes really yeah, like

991
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 3: neither of my my mom and dad, Like growing up,

992
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 3: there wasn't much affection shown, which is probably why I was,

993
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 3: you know, okay, not receiving it in my twenties with

994
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: my partners.

995
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: And now I realize how much I love it, Like

996
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: my friends, Oh my god, Like who was I just with?

997
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 1: I don't know one of them. And I was on

998
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: the phone with another friend and she was like, does

999
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: she be trying to cuddle with you too? I cuddle

1000
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 1: and sleep with all of my friends. I like to

1001
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 1: spoon my friends.

1002
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 2: And I didn't realize, like, maybe I did that so

1003
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,280
Speaker 2: much with my friends because I wasn't getting it from partners.

1004
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 2: But also I never really got it growing up.

1005
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 3: Did you see that now of Jada making her son

1006
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 3: rub her feet and people were like, this is so nasty, And.

1007
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: That's one thing my mom did. My mom made us.

1008
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 2: My mom made us rub her feet. That bitch was

1009
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 2: worth two jobs and was on her feet all day. Bro,

1010
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 2: she would come home, the chicken would not be taken out,

1011
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: and the house would be a mess. Bish, I'm a

1012
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 2: robio feet, So you don't beat my ass because everything.

1013
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: Else she has for it.

1014
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 3: And it's because it was a little bo way. It

1015
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,479
Speaker 3: was sexual like it was so strange, Like this is shit.

1016
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 3: I don't remember if it was my mom, but like

1017
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,800
Speaker 3: I remember my dad. We watched TV and it'll be

1018
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 3: all three of us and they'd keep me in the

1019
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,879
Speaker 3: chair and I'd rub his shoulders like he works seven

1020
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 3: days a week.

1021
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, we weird, y'all sensitive, y'all need to grow a Okay.

1022
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 1: So I know that we have not a lot of

1023
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:29,839
Speaker 1: time but a long story to get into.

1024
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 3: And I don't know how much you want to divulge into,

1025
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 3: but okay, it's a conversation about non monogamy that you

1026
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 3: wanted to have. Yeah, And I know when we were

1027
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 3: on stage in Dallas, I made a comment about how

1028
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'd ever do it again, And

1029
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 3: so I feel like you should take me lead on

1030
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:44,720
Speaker 3: our horrible decision.

1031
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 2: I mean, we've I feel like when we talk about advocacy,

1032
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 2: we've been advocates on ethical non monogamy since since almost

1033
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 2: the beginning of this pod really and where I know

1034
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 2: we've introduced this idea of a non traditional relationship to

1035
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 2: the audience. I just wanted because we've had conversations on

1036
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 2: tour about it and where we stand being single, the

1037
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 2: idea of whether we would do a non monogamous relationship again,

1038
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 2: and I mean, of course, we've emphasized the word ethical

1039
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 2: all the time. However, both of us ended with similar

1040
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 2: results in our relationship. Although we urged constant communication, although

1041
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 2: for me I over shared and felt like I over communicated,

1042
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 2: we both ended up feeling betrayed and cheated on.

1043
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: I will say this though both scenarios while different, like yeah,

1044
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: they were definitely different with similar results.

1045
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 3: Scenarios were different like these men showed us who they

1046
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 3: were and we stayed and.

1047
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: We said yes, yes and no.

1048
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 2: There to my knowledge, there hadn't been other sex partners,

1049
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 2: like while we were committed into together, like clearly, we

1050
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: broke up multiple times, so when we would come back together,

1051
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: there was conversations about what we did when we weren't together.

1052
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: But also in hindsight, it's it's like, I don't know.

1053
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: I recently had a conversation.

1054
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 2: With a few people, a few men, one married, one

1055
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 2: just a really good friend of mine and he's in

1056
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 2: the industry and he met he met my partner in Atlanta,

1057
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 2: and when he saw me tweeting about him, we hopped

1058
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 2: in text classage and he was like, so what happened.

1059
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: But also he said, you can't give.

1060
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 2: A man that much freedom, and you know he was

1061
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 2: Another friend of mine was like, listen, as a woman,

1062
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 2: you have to act like you care if I cheat

1063
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 2: on you or not.

1064
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: Otherwise I'm not going to feel like you care about me.

1065
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 2: And so a part of me was like, wait, so

1066
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 2: as a woman, I can't sit here and accept the

1067
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 2: fact that you are a man who may want other

1068
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 2: partners and I'm going to sit here and aligne with

1069
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 2: accepting you for who you are. Instead, I have to

1070
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: sit here and say I care so much, you can't

1071
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: cheat on me or I'm gonna leave. You can't do

1072
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:10,760
Speaker 2: this with another person. You can't do this with another

1073
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 2: person just so that you could do it, because there's also.

1074
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 1: This this thing. That's the thing though, Like you're saying

1075
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: they're gonna do it anyway, Like.

1076
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 3: I mean, that's like a part of okay, but like

1077
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 3: if you have a boundary that you don't want to

1078
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 3: be cross, like lying and doing something, No, it's not

1079
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 3: they're gonna do it anyway.

1080
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: We should have just put up with something because we

1081
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: expect them to be a piece of shit.

1082
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 3: Well no, but that's what I'm saying so as someone

1083
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 3: who wants to be honest in a relationship, if I'm

1084
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 3: telling you it doesn't bother me that you are going

1085
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 3: to have sex with another woman, I don't know if

1086
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 3: my next relationship I'm gonna go in and lie to

1087
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 3: stroke the ego of a man to believe I care

1088
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,240
Speaker 3: so that I can put down these boundaries.

1089
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: They don't care about being cheated on. No, it's not.

1090
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: I don't care about a man having sex with another woman.

1091
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: Cheating is different. Cheating is different, hear me out.

1092
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 2: So I'm being told that in my next relationship, I

1093
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 2: shouldn't go in and express that I am okay with

1094
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: them having sex with other women, because a man wants

1095
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 2: to feel some sort of confinement, wants to feel that

1096
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 2: that is probably the worst thing that he could do,

1097
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 2: so that he believes.

1098
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: That you care so much.

1099
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 3: I think there's parameters around it, Like you and I

1100
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 3: have had conversations where like you've said that to me,

1101
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 3: and I've also said the same, And to be honest,

1102
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 3: meant it when I say I mean it when I

1103
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 3: know people don't believe that because I'm actually more EMO

1104
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 3: than you.

1105
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: But when I said I really meant it, I just

1106
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: don't like lying. Well, that's my thing.

1107
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 3: But when I'm saying it in your case, is like,

1108
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 3: I do think when that girl called you and you

1109
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 3: guys spoke, I do think you need to figure out

1110
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 3: and I don't maybe think you're even clear in that

1111
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 3: moment with him about like what sex other women looks like?

1112
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: Well, No, I made that very clear. I made it

1113
00:49:58,640 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: very did it when you were explaining it?

1114
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 2: I made it very clear that when we were when

1115
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 2: we were going to the sex club, that we would

1116
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 2: engage in that space with other people because again we

1117
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 2: had different types.

1118
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: I would be with a woman, so of course if

1119
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: you want to be with another woman, cool outside of

1120
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: the sex club. We outside of the sex club.

1121
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 2: Towards the end of our relationship, which was literally the

1122
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 2: last three months, I let it be known because he

1123
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 2: made me feel so awful about traveling and being on

1124
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 2: tour and working so much that eventually I'm like, fine,

1125
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:33,800
Speaker 2: if you want to make me feel so bad that

1126
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,280
Speaker 2: I have to work and that I have to travel

1127
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 2: and be gone, if.

1128
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: There's someone that you want to see while I'm going on.

1129
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 3: Wait, see, now we're saying two different things. No, that's

1130
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: not you being comfortable in the last two months.

1131
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 2: No, let me finish. I literally gave him permission. But

1132
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 2: I said, I would like to know who this person is,

1133
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 2: and this person cannot cut into our relationship.

1134
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 1: What about before then? Before then?

1135
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 2: No, before then, I did not want him going on

1136
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 2: dates with anyone else. I did not want him to

1137
00:50:58,440 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 2: know how then you did care.

1138
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: I'm confused. So, okay, what are you confused about?

1139
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 3: Because you said I don't care if he goes out

1140
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 3: and focks other women. But you're saying you only let

1141
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 3: him do that the last three months.

1142
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 2: No, No, when we So, we were together for three years.

1143
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 2: During our relationship, we had a lot of sex in

1144
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 2: the sex club.

1145
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: No sex club, no together. Shit, tell me about outside

1146
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,359
Speaker 1: of altogether? Shit? Oh so nothing outside. No, I didn't

1147
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 1: want him seeing anyone.

1148
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 3: I did of the last three months when I was okay,

1149
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 3: So to me, then you do have a problem if

1150
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 3: someone someone else?

1151
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: Of course you know that.

1152
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 2: No, I don't because I literally gave him permission to

1153
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: I wanted to be told that you were doing this.

1154
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 2: I did not want anybody being able to tell me

1155
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 2: that you were out doing something that I did not

1156
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 2: know about.

1157
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: If I'm sitting here.

1158
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:44,879
Speaker 2: Saying I'm coming back into town and I'm asking you, Hey,

1159
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: so what were you doing while I was gone? If

1160
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 2: you tell me that you were with someone final, let's

1161
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 2: have that conversation. I in no way allowed him or

1162
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 2: said that I was okay with him having intimate, unprotected

1163
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 2: sex and relationships with four other women where he was

1164
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 2: telling that he also loved him by the way, I

1165
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 2: want to speak to the camera real quick, because the

1166
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 2: four of you women that he met in the sex

1167
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 2: club are fans of this show, you know how I know.

1168
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 2: He's also let me know that y'all continue to send

1169
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 2: him goddamn minute marks about when I speak about him,

1170
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 2: and he doesn't want me to speak about him anymore.

1171
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 2: But he could suck my dick from the back because

1172
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 2: he chose to not only engage with you guys, he

1173
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 2: blamed me. And I don't want to cry because I've

1174
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 2: been doing this in therapy. He chose to blame me

1175
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 2: as the reason why he cheated on me. He chose

1176
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 2: to say that because I spoke so highly of him

1177
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 2: on the podcast and bringing him to the sex club,

1178
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,279
Speaker 2: that I made you so intrigued by him that y'all

1179
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:49,240
Speaker 2: approached him because of what I said on this podcast,

1180
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 2: so zero accountability.

1181
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 3: Although this was very much spoken about. He blamed me

1182
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 3: as to why he cheated.

1183
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 2: He also, for whatever reason, and when I called y'all fans,

1184
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 2: he decided to let me know, Oh, well, they're not

1185
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 2: your fans. They don't even like you. They ask me

1186
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 2: all the time why I'm even with you, Dub, because

1187
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 2: y'all are stucking his dick. So of course y'all are

1188
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 2: wondering why he's with me when y'all are out here

1189
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 2: fucking him. Secondly, he also, in a manipulative, disgusting assuay,

1190
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 2: let me know that the reason he started going to

1191
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 2: the sex club without me, without me knowing, is because

1192
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 2: he felt boxed in. Make it make sense, he felt

1193
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 2: boxed in that I put the boundary that I would

1194
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 2: like this place to be just ours, So he said,

1195
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 2: a part of me just wanted to rebel against that.

1196
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 2: So this is what I'm saying, when you when you

1197
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 2: draw these like and to me it was a boundary

1198
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 2: because they didn't. No, I just think that he's a narcissist.

1199
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: He really is. I don't want him back.

1200
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 2: So if y'all are still sucking his dick, y'all could

1201
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 2: send him this minute mark too, because I literally he

1202
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 2: decided to write need three emails while we were on tour,

1203
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 2: and this is where this information is coming from.

1204
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: And wait, we have to lighten it up.

1205
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 3: Wait no, no, no, no no, because when you talked

1206
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,720
Speaker 3: about that first email, this is how Mandy's business brain works.

1207
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 3: Mandy said the first email came in a two am

1208
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 3: as she replied, said.

1209
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 2: Okay, and she said, I wrote that nigga back in

1210
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 2: the morning as soon as I woke up, to me

1211
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 2: to me being gas lit, as to me being the

1212
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 2: reason why I was cheated on and lied to and

1213
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 2: betrayed to.

1214
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 1: He also decided to write a list of reasons as to.

1215
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 3: The things that I could never get from another man,

1216
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,240
Speaker 3: like someone liking my cat or taking out my trash.

1217
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 3: Those are the bare minimum things he thought was so amazing.

1218
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 2: It was also brought to me. I think he listened

1219
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 2: to the episode where I spoke about the Hey Barbara,

1220
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: this is Shirley call and chose to share with me

1221
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 2: that I got details wrong. So it was wasn't the

1222
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 2: other two lovers that had a non consensual.

1223
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 1: Night together.

1224
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 3: The non consensual thing was with me. So one of

1225
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 3: these women that he was talking to he partakes in

1226
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 3: action with me. So her partner gave me a massage

1227
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 3: while they had sex, and she sat there and acted

1228
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 3: like they were introducing each other for the first time

1229
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 3: in front of me.

1230
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 1: Hey, well, what's your name? And so he was like,

1231
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 1: just so you know, you got it wrong. It was

1232
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: actually you. I didn't ask for consent for what my boyfriend?

1233
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: Oh she need her ass? What bitch? What sex club

1234
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 1: is that?

1235
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 3: Because this was an w oh, bitch, I'm gonna tell

1236
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 3: you right now, you had to be a fucking actress

1237
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 3: and put on a role for me.

1238
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: You shouldn't belong in a sex club, bro.

1239
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 2: And I think that I think that's where I'm at

1240
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 2: with with this idea that you can be as open,

1241
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 2: you can be as giving, you could be as forgiving

1242
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 2: with with somebody, and they could still turn around and

1243
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 2: play in your motherfucking face a.

1244
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm gonna hold you. I'm still stuck on this

1245
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: bitch doing it too. I don't know. I was like,

1246
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:17,240
Speaker 1: and what's your name? As if they weren't already engaged.

1247
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 3: Oh girl, I'm bored. I'll beat her ass. You can

1248
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 3: send me on Instagram. That bitch got some nerves. Yeah, see,

1249
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,840
Speaker 3: let me tell you a few things. To me, really

1250
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 3: make the line for where the other woman is accountable.

1251
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: One, you fuck my inn again. You know he's with

1252
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: me like, okay, whatever, right, what can I what can

1253
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: I do? But now you're playing me in my motherfucking face.

1254
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: The only time I've ever wanted.

1255
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 3: To slap a bitch when I was around Old Bay

1256
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 3: was like a girl that I knew he fucked.

1257
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: I can't remember how I knew, right. What I remember

1258
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: was she.

1259
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 3: Acted like or tried to imply that they were super

1260
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 3: super friendly and like do this whole Like oh my god, yeah,

1261
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 3: really he's like my brother, like doing a lot. And

1262
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 3: that really pissed me off, Like, bitch, chill the fuck out,

1263
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 3: I mean to me, but sex to me, and I

1264
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 3: know that the names of the women.

1265
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,760
Speaker 2: I don't know the faces because I don't really remember

1266
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: people in the sex clubs like that. But but to me,

1267
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 2: he literally just emailed me requesting that he not be content.

1268
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 2: I was like, well, while I'm healing and trying to

1269
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 2: figure out how I exist in my dating world, and

1270
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 2: this really affected me psychologically because I felt really dumb.

1271
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 2: To me, I literally was like, you do not have

1272
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 2: to worry about hearing my name knowing anything about my life.

1273
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 2: If you stop fucking people that listen to my fucking

1274
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 2: podcast right literally, then they won't be sending you the

1275
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: min and mark.

1276
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 3: Then to even say, oh, like I'm only wait wait wait,

1277
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 3: wait wait, they wanted to fuck me because.

1278
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 1: Because you talked me about me on the pod. Bitch.

1279
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 2: They only know who you are because I'm walking with you,

1280
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 2: because you're in this space with me, and they are

1281
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 2: fans of my show, and clearly we've been together.

1282
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: For three years. What Eric, But I do need to

1283
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: tell the universe to do something with him too.

1284
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 2: When I tell you, I think nothing kindly of that

1285
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 2: man and for any woman dealing with him.

1286
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: I know the ceilings that he has with you.

1287
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 2: Oh you go ahead and deal with that narcissistic, nasty

1288
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 2: spirit of a man. When I tell you, it sucks

1289
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 2: because I know I've sat on this podcast and was like, ooh,

1290
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 2: I can't get over him until I hate him.

1291
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: I'm actually now disgusted by him.

1292
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 3: I don't even hate him, but this is like making

1293
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 3: me think, okay, moving forward, is the sex.

1294
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 2: Club up place I want to take my partner? Do

1295
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 2: I want to have threesomes. How long do I wait

1296
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 2: to introduce the fact that I like women? Clearly it's

1297
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 2: visible as soon as you meet me. I'm going to

1298
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 2: tell you these two fingers is for buddhaho and fakuci.

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00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 2: So how long do I even just express my own

1300
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 2: sexuality to a man and hope that he doesn't take

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00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 2: it as a way for him to just go out

1302
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 2: and do whatever the fuck and that he doesn't have

1303
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Speaker 2: to respect me and my boundary.

1304
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 3: Do you think, because for me, that stuff that I've

1305
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 3: been thinking about is just I've told Mandy, like, you know,

1306
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 3: he is in a non monogamous relationship and it started

1307
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 3: that way. He's in a poly relationship, and you know

1308
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 3: you were in an me too, I was saying to Mandy,

1309
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 3: and I was staying on stage typically in Dallas, because

1310
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:11,439
Speaker 3: that's when the email came through. Like, I don't really

1311
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 3: think I want to open my relationship up until a

1312
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 3: few years in, because I think that I need to

1313
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 3: start kind of getting to know someone and building that

1314
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 3: love and trust. Not that like threesomes and all this

1315
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 3: shit isn't a part of the things I like, but

1316
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 3: it's more than likely not kind of ending in confusion

1317
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 3: and pain. And so if I'm introducing threesomes in non

1318
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 3: monogamy to a man that's been in monogamous relationships or

1319
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,439
Speaker 3: even if he was cheating been with women that aren't

1320
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 3: down with that, they kind of don't know what to

1321
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 3: do with that, right. So it's like, unless you really

1322
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 3: date someone who's like minded, immediately out the gate is

1323
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 3: tough because now I have to teach you how to

1324
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 3: treat me. So for me, yeah, I think that monogamy

1325
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 3: is something that may just make me feel safer. And

1326
00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 3: if I have to sacrifice crazy kinky sex with there people,

1327
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 3: then I feel like it's worth it because the annoying

1328
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 3: shit that comes after the heartbreak, like it's just too

1329
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 3: much to me to me monogamy and this is probably

1330
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 3: a toxic take to have to me the people that

1331
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 3: I know that are in monogamous relationships and create that

1332
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 3: boundary out the gates. Specifically, women spend most of their

1333
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 3: time trying to find their partners being.

1334
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 1: Cheaters.

1335
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 3: But Sandy though, is like, it's not just women that

1336
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 3: are monogamous, right, Like that is people that have been hurt, right,

1337
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 3: that's not really like bro even in an open relationship.

1338
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 3: I was confused as managad cheat or not even like

1339
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: even other people I know, they're like they're lost and

1340
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 3: they're not sure what's gonna happen, Like it's just someone

1341
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 3: that's been hurt. But I don't think that monogamy necessarily

1342
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 3: means that. I mean, I think the healthiest couple I

1343
01:00:55,560 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 3: know are my friends Eddie and Nia. They have been

1344
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 3: together since high school. She's my makeup artistan in La.

1345
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 3: Her husband used to manage the whole house or just

1346
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 3: how I know them. They've been together for her their

1347
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 3: kids fucking eleven or twelve. And I remember thinking just

1348
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 3: hanging out with them the other day watching TV with them,

1349
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 3: like damn, their relationship is so old that I would

1350
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 3: wonder if what non a monogamy would look like, right,

1351
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 3: just thinking about it, Like they're both in big positions

1352
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 3: and they travel a lot. I'm like, if they did it,

1353
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 3: I wonder if it could be healthy, right, because this

1354
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 3: is such a new concept, Like that's the strongest relationship

1355
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 3: of a.

1356
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: Couple I know most couples that I know.

1357
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 3: I don't really want to be like anyone right, right,

1358
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 3: I don't really see something that i'd want. I see

1359
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 3: the parts of it, but I say that to say,

1360
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 3: I thought like, oh, you can be just happy because

1361
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 3: that's how well they know each other. They've learned to

1362
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 3: become best friends, they've learned to be comfortable together. And

1363
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 3: I think the stronger thing in that is seeing that

1364
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 3: you kind of do you have to be happy with

1365
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 3: what you have at first, because if you start out

1366
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 3: the gate with the threesomes and shit, then maybe you'll

1367
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 3: always feel like something is missing when you're alone. And

1368
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 3: I don't necessarily know if like it's been advantageous for me,

1369
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 3: and you know, there might be a world where someone's

1370
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 3: watching this and laughing because I introduced it or you

1371
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 3: introduced it. But these are genuinely things that I wanted

1372
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 3: to do sexually same I genuinely enjoyed it, and I

1373
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 3: think I mean clearly, I had gone to the sex

1374
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:34,959
Speaker 3: club with two previous like partners situationships, and I felt

1375
01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:36,919
Speaker 3: great to have someone that I thought I could share

1376
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 3: this space with.

1377
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 1: And so that's where I'm like, I don't know what.

1378
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 2: Realistically my next relationship looks like, because then when you

1379
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 2: say you have to take time and get to know

1380
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 2: the person, you're saying a couple of years, I don't

1381
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 2: know physically, if I could go a couple of years

1382
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 2: without being with a woman, I really have desires to

1383
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 2: be with women. And I know that you even said, well,

1384
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 2: I like being with women too, and he's just has to.

1385
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 3: I think that there's a few different things, right if

1386
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 3: I couldn't meet someone that was cool with that, I

1387
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 3: think maybe even me finding a way to incorporate women

1388
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 3: like as a part of like whether it be a

1389
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 3: once and a blue thing or something that like maybe

1390
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 3: he gets videos like I don't know what it looks like,

1391
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 3: but I really believe like I'm having more issues with

1392
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,479
Speaker 3: the open shit than I am with the monogamous shit,

1393
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 3: because it puts men in his brain of almost like

1394
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 3: you're in fun time sometimes yep, like it's not real.

1395
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 3: And because I think the type of women and the

1396
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 3: sex that we have in our experiences isn't something that

1397
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 3: we see from the everyday girl. And if the everyday

1398
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 3: girl is listening to this and has these thoughts and desires,

1399
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 3: I'm sure you've been faced with a nigga being like,

1400
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 3: oh my god, that's a wild shitcau, Oh shit, that's

1401
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 3: not my wife, and shit like it's just like shit

1402
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 3: like that.

1403
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: So I don't really know.

1404
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 3: I don't know what this looks like for me. But

1405
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 3: what I do know is I've always been like a

1406
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 3: one man type of girl. Like I've always kind of

1407
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 3: then in me. Towards the end of my relationship with

1408
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 3: Old Bay, I think I wasn't because I kind of

1409
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 3: let go because of what he was doing.

1410
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 1: I think that's why I said though I want a

1411
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: relationship because I loved just one man like i'm, I

1412
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: feel like i'm that as well. I just know I

1413
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: also like.

1414
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 2: Women from time to time. I was completely sexually fulfilled

1415
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 2: by him. I didn't need other partners. Now when we

1416
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 2: broke up, Yes, I went because I enjoy sex, but

1417
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 2: I loved just having one person that pleased me.

1418
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: I only need a one dick, didn't need too, didn't

1419
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 1: need to, didn't.

1420
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:32,640
Speaker 3: Have the great sex from Old Bay at all, which

1421
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 3: is crazy because he fucked so many bitches, But I

1422
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 3: think it's just because like his vibe and his.

1423
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 1: Man fucking a whole much of holes don't mean as good. No, no, no,

1424
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying like I used to be, like damn, how

1425
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: do you keeping these bitches?

1426
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 3: But as much as I can't stand the nigga like

1427
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 3: he's attractive, well dressed, smart, and to be honest, no,

1428
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 3: those men aren't easy to come by. You don't meet

1429
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 3: a man that has all of these things. Yeah, and

1430
01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 3: I understand that. However, the sex wasn't really all. There

1431
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 3: a point where I realize now, like, oh, my life

1432
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 3: with him was so much better and the older I got,

1433
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 3: and even from like having a fucking other nigga, I

1434
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 3: was like, whoa, I couldn't have did this whatever, And

1435
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 3: maybe that's why the threesomes were so good because I

1436
01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 3: was like, now we get to have this fucking shit together, right,

1437
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 3: we don't get we'd have great sex and moments.

1438
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: But like when I think about.

1439
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 3: In longevity, like the way that I'm having sex with

1440
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 3: other people or niggas I've had before him, like he's

1441
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 3: never been my best. Oh, I didn't have that experience,

1442
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 3: and like I think that that's why I was so

1443
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 3: sexually content and got all the affection and intimacy that

1444
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 3: I needed.

1445
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: That I was willing to niggas your best.

1446
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 2: I was willing to ignore all of the the red

1447
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 2: flags and all the things that I knew I didn't like, because,

1448
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 2: like I said, this good thing.

1449
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: I was in prison y'all, but I broke free.

1450
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 3: One more little home mail I want to read, and

1451
01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 3: just because it's funny, because when I read it, I

1452
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 3: was yop.

1453
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 1: I don't know what this nigga looks like, but I

1454
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 1: have an idea. My right.

1455
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 3: Weezy need to take a break from them city niggas

1456
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 3: and make a youth turn down to the dirty South.

1457
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 3: There's no period, so I'm just gonna read this as

1458
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,959
Speaker 3: the punctuation stands and get some of this country loving

1459
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 3: down in Alabama. Every time I hear that voice, have

1460
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 3: to listen out for that sexy game she'd be spitting.

1461
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: One day.

1462
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,800
Speaker 3: We'sy gonna get some of this country style CPR on

1463
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 3: that pussy because I'm a massage them enter thighs and

1464
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 3: blow softly while kissing all around that pussy and make

1465
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:32,919
Speaker 3: that hood lift up automatically, and that pussy gonna start

1466
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 3: spitting at me at an alarming rate, laughing my ass up.

1467
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 3: I love you too, Mandy, fucking and playing with them

1468
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:40,919
Speaker 3: titties the real country nigga way, We'll have your soul

1469
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 3: jumping in and out to your body.

1470
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: Y'all, keep doing y'all's thing. Top five podcasts y'all. That

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01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: definitely was a wholemail you picked out because I would

1472
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: have never read that shit was so funny. This shit

1473
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: is not dog.

1474
01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:57,080
Speaker 3: I read that shit and I was like, what, Well,

1475
01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 3: also send us your face, sir, because that country talking

1476
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:04,080
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1477
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1478
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