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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew, Welcome back again. Subject I don't like

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Speaker 1: to share. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine year

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Speaker 1: old female and I'm an only child and a daddy's girl.

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Speaker 1: I met a man that is also an only child,

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Speaker 1: and we hit it off instantly. He was raised by

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Speaker 1: a single mom and they are the best of friends.

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Speaker 1: The way he treats her let me know that he

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Speaker 1: is a good man. He has a lot of characteristics

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Speaker 1: of my father, and even though he is five years younger,

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Speaker 1: he's got a great career and his own own home.

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Speaker 1: I love everything about him, but I do have one pet, Peeve,

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Speaker 1: he's way too comfortable too soon with me. We started

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Speaker 1: being intimate. Two months after we met. He assumed it

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Speaker 1: was fine to stay overnight with me. The first time

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Speaker 1: we had sex. I let him stay because I wanted seconds.

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Speaker 1: He slept in a pair of my joggers that were

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Speaker 1: lying on a chair in my room. He's tall and thin,

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Speaker 1: so they fit, but he didn't even ask first. He

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Speaker 1: did not have on underwear with my pants, and that

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Speaker 1: grossed me out. When he left, I threw them away.

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Speaker 1: From then on, he has made himself at home at

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Speaker 1: my house, and he's even left a pair of pajama

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Speaker 1: bottoms so he can be comfortable when he is visiting.

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Speaker 1: When we're eating, he loves to sample my food without asking,

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Speaker 1: and he digs into my plate with his nasty fork.

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Speaker 1: He says he is a sharer, and I have told

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Speaker 1: him that I am not. I explained to him that

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Speaker 1: it's own only child thing, and he is dead set

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Speaker 1: on changing me. I drink wine and he usually drinks

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Speaker 1: hard liquor. Now, if he buys me a bottle of wine,

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Speaker 1: he drinks half of it because he thinks it's cute

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Speaker 1: if we drink the same thing. He's overstepping all of

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Speaker 1: my boundaries when it comes to my personal things and

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Speaker 1: my personal space. The final straw was when he used

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Speaker 1: my bath towel right after I drive it off with it.

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Speaker 1: Should I learn to accept this or tell him nicely

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Speaker 1: to knock it off? I mean, you know you don't

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Speaker 1: have to learn to accept anything if you don't want

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Speaker 1: to accept it. But you were accepting it. I mean

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Speaker 1: initially you didn't say anything. You talk about it. He's

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Speaker 1: comfortable too soon. I mean, you guys were intimate two

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Speaker 1: months after you met. He wanted to stay over. You

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Speaker 1: didn't say anything. Then you said that was fine because

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Speaker 1: you wanted seconds. Now you're complaining, saying he's way too comfortable.

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Speaker 1: You guys haven't known each other that long. That one

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Speaker 1: pet peeve you have, that's a big one. But you

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Speaker 1: got to tell him not us. You've told him that

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Speaker 1: you're not a sharer after he said he was, but

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Speaker 1: he ignored you. He's trying to change you. So you

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Speaker 1: got to make him understand. It doesn't have to be

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Speaker 1: a fight or anything like that. You can do it nicely.

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Speaker 1: You just got to let him know that you are

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Speaker 1: serious about your boundaries if you truly are, or are

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Speaker 1: you making up these rules as you go along. The

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Speaker 1: things that he does now after you've slept with him

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Speaker 1: are starting to gross you out. I mean, I agree

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with sitting him down and telling him, you know,

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Speaker 1: like he's going to listen again. He said he's you

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Speaker 1: said he's going to try to change you. But he

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Speaker 1: needs to know that you're serious. Now, you know, if

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Speaker 1: you're taking this relationship any further. These are simple things,

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Speaker 1: I mean things that he really should have been learned

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Speaker 1: at home about boundaries, and since he didn't, just let

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Speaker 1: him know, I mean, you could be nice. This is

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Speaker 1: even crazier because he said he has his own own house,

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Speaker 1: So why isn't he at his own house? Have you

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Speaker 1: been to his own house? Have you seen his own house?

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's the reason he's staying with you. Maybe his

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Speaker 1: house is a mess. I mean, boundaries are important.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't think this is anything to fight about or

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Speaker 1: anything like that. I just think you need to get

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Speaker 2: Steve, I think this relationship needs to end.

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Speaker 3: I don't think this woman needs to be in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: I see a totally different letter here. I don't like

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Speaker 3: to share. Well, that's interesting, because ain't that all the

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Speaker 3: relationship is built around sharing? It's a you can't have

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Speaker 3: relationship if you don't like to share, because the most

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Speaker 3: important thing you're going to be shying sharing two most

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Speaker 3: important things you're gonna be sharing is time and space.

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Speaker 3: And that means somebody else is in your time and

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Speaker 3: somebody else is in your space.

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Speaker 2: And if you don't like to share, you got a problem.

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Speaker 2: But I knew that this.

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Speaker 3: Letter was gonna be a problem by the way it started.

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Speaker 3: I'm a twenty nine year old female. I'm an only

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Speaker 3: child and a daddy's girl. I met a man that

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Speaker 3: is also an only child, and we hit.

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Speaker 2: It off instantly. Well, ain't this about peaches and cream?

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Speaker 2: Right here?

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Speaker 3: If this ain't about the lot, he do, if this

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Speaker 3: ain't about the chick and meet the rooster right here?

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Speaker 3: Lord have mercy. What a perfect match. Two only children

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Speaker 3: have joined forces. Well, the problem is one of these

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Speaker 3: children don't get it. And the one that don't get

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Speaker 3: it is the lady that wrote the letter. He was

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Speaker 3: raised by a single mom and they are the best

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Speaker 3: of friends.

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Speaker 2: Oh and alam, oh, I know what that is right there.

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Speaker 2: I know you're thinking Mama's boy.

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Speaker 3: It could be, but that don't show up in the letter,

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Speaker 3: but it chows up on some other stuff.

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Speaker 2: The way he treats her lets me know that he's

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Speaker 2: a good man. Okay.

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Speaker 3: He's got a lot of characteristics of my father, and

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Speaker 3: even though he's five years younger, he's got a great career.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: You twenty nine, he twenty four. Lady, this dude ain't

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Speaker 3: all there right now. But then I got news for you.

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Speaker 3: You ain't either. I love everything about him, but I

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Speaker 3: do have one pet, Peeve, He's way too comfortable too

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Speaker 3: soon with me. We started being intimate two months after

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Speaker 3: we met. He assumed it was fine to stay overnight

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Speaker 3: with me. The first time we had sex. I let

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Speaker 3: him stay because I wanted second Okay, Well, well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's problem? He stayed over? You wanted to? Okay? Cool.

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Speaker 2: When I come back, I'm gonna tell you what's wrong

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Speaker 2: with her?

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour today.

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters, subject is I don't like to share.

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Speaker 2: I don't. We'll be back part two.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is I don't like to share well.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be a little bit more direct this half

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Speaker 3: of the letter. So let me start the letter by

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Speaker 3: saying I don't like to share well and understand why.

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Speaker 3: So let's begin this letter like this. This is a

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Speaker 3: twenty nine year old female who is an only child

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Speaker 3: and a daddy's girl. Right there, you're dealing with the

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Speaker 3: person where it's about me. It's about me. I'm an

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Speaker 3: only child, It's about me. Watch how spoiled and selfish.

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Speaker 3: This letter really turns out to be the man you

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Speaker 3: met is five years younger. He's twenty four. He was

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Speaker 3: raised by a single mom. They the best of friends.

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Speaker 3: You could tell he's a good man by the way

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Speaker 3: he treats his mother. Blah blah blah blah blah. He

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Speaker 3: got a great career in his own home, twenty four

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Speaker 3: with his own home. That's a good hustle right there.

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Speaker 3: I love everything about him, but I do have one pet, peeve,

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Speaker 3: he's too comfortable, too soon with me. Now you all

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Speaker 3: started being into it. Two months after we met. He

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Speaker 3: assumed it was fine to stay overnight with me the

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Speaker 3: first time we had set Okay, I let him stay

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Speaker 3: because I wanted seconds. I let him stay because I

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Speaker 3: wanted seconds, not the fact that he was caught up

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Speaker 3: sprung and he wanted to stay. You wanted seconds, and

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Speaker 3: you let him stay. He slept in a pair of

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Speaker 3: my joggers that were lying on.

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Speaker 2: A chair my room. This way the letter get a

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Speaker 2: little shaky for me.

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Speaker 3: He slept in a pair of my joggers that was

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Speaker 3: laying on a chair in my room. He's tall in things,

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Speaker 3: so they fit. I'm glad you cleared that up right there,

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Speaker 3: cause I don't know. I ain't they didn't. I can

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Speaker 3: wear her sweatpants now, Either you dating the love be

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Speaker 3: there man, or you a grave big girl. Now there's

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Speaker 3: one of the two. But here, y'all in here wear

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Speaker 3: in each other pants now. I don't know how that works.

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Speaker 3: I ain't saying what you are, but you know you

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Speaker 3: need to pull up a little bit. But he didn't

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Speaker 3: even ask first. He just put him on. He did

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Speaker 3: not have on underwear with my pants, so that grossed

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Speaker 3: me out. Wait a minute, didn't you just sleep with him?

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, didn't y'all just have sex? Then y'all

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Speaker 3: climb on each other? Now you mad because he got

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Speaker 3: some pants on with no draws on. I don't understand you.

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Speaker 3: How selfish and self centered are you? He didn't have

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Speaker 3: on the underwear, and that gross me out. When he left,

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Speaker 3: I threw him away. Okay, from then on, he has

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Speaker 3: made himself at home in my house and he's even

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Speaker 3: left a pair of pajama bottoms there so he can

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Speaker 3: be comfortable when he's.

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Speaker 2: Visiting where you threw weight the jogs.

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Speaker 3: Man needs something. At least he bought his own pajamas.

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Speaker 3: You threw the joggers. He thought he'd wear them last time.

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Speaker 3: He'd have been through all the draws and can't find

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Speaker 3: them nowhere. You threw them away. When we're eating, he

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Speaker 3: loves to sample my food without asking, and he digs

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Speaker 3: into my plate with his nasty forth, his nasty face done.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't y'all kissing?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: See that nasty fort that because it's been in his mouth.

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Speaker 3: You ain't been in his mouth. How did y'all get

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Speaker 3: to the sex part? Wasn't no kissing, you ain't getting it.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't no warm up?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: He says he's a sharer, and I have told them

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Speaker 3: I am not. That's because you're only child and you

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Speaker 3: a daddy's girl. You're just a selfish, self centered girl.

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't think you understand how relationship work. I've explained

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Speaker 3: to him that it's an only child thing, and he's

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Speaker 3: dead set on changing it. I drink wine and he

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Speaker 3: usually drinks hard liquor. Now, if he buys me a

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Speaker 3: bottle of wine, he drinks half of it because he

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Speaker 3: thinks it's cute that we drink the same thing. Wait

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Speaker 3: a minute, the man buy a bottle of wine. You

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Speaker 3: want that add all to yourself too, So he can't

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Speaker 3: buy a wall of wine and see with his girl

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Speaker 3: have a glass of wine. You don't share that either,

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Speaker 3: because he thinks it's cute if we drink the same thing.

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Speaker 3: He's overstepping all of my boundaries. Lady, you really don't

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Speaker 3: need to be in a relationship because it's your way

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Speaker 3: of the highway when it comes to my personal things

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Speaker 3: at my personal space. I just told you at the

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Speaker 3: top of the letter. The two things in the relationship

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Speaker 3: that you share the most of is time and space. Now,

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Speaker 3: if you don't want the man over that, then you

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Speaker 3: don't want to be in a relationship. Just use him

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Speaker 3: for your little sex toy. He five years younger. He's

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Speaker 3: your little boy toy and send him home. But don't

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Speaker 3: have a man thinking he in a relationship with you

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Speaker 3: that y'all should drink wine together and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Clearly, you want all a wine to yourself.

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Speaker 3: The final straw was when he used my bath tiel

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Speaker 3: after I dried off with it.

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Speaker 1: Now that was nasty.

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Speaker 2: How many times they got that? You got enough? Time?

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Speaker 3: Should I learn to acceptance or tell them nicely to

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Speaker 3: knock it off? Here's my answer to this letter, y'all

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Speaker 3: need to break up. You don't like sharing, yes, hopeless.

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Speaker 3: She don't like sharing nothing. She don't want to share nothing.

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Speaker 1: She shared her body, and these.

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Speaker 3: Are the examples that she's told about. These are the

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Speaker 3: extreme examples. It's a lot of she don't like sharing.

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Speaker 3: She told the man she's not a sharing person. How

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Speaker 3: do you have a relationship and you're not a share

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Speaker 3: of You got to get past this, and now she's

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Speaker 3: comfortable to a degree. I'm comfortable to sleep with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm comfortable to share my body with you. But I

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Speaker 3: don't want you wearing my jobs in pants. I don't

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Speaker 3: want you eating off with your nasty fork.

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Speaker 2: Get in my pants, but you can't get in my paints.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: You can't you get in my pants, but you can't

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Speaker 3: wear my paints. That don't make no sense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can.

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Speaker 3: Stick my tongue in your mouth. You can stick your

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Speaker 3: tongue in my mouth, but you can't stick your fork

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Speaker 3: in my plate.

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Speaker 2: That don't make no sense.

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, she's selfish. I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: You know, the dude is twenty four, your kid.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a boundary issue.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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