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Speaker 1: It's the Best Bits of the Week with Morgan number two.

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Speaker 1: What's Up? Y'all, welcome to the Best Bits. This is

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Speaker 1: part one where I bring on a show member and

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Speaker 1: we talk a little behind the scenes about life and

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Speaker 1: sometimes the things that happen on the show. This weekend,

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Speaker 1: I'm bringing on Abby because we need some girl talk.

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Speaker 1: What's up? App? Does we do? What's up? Yeah? I'm

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Speaker 1: in desperate need of some girl talk and girl time

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Speaker 1: just period in general. Lately. If you listen to the show,

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Speaker 1: you already know what I'm talking about. So we had

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Speaker 1: to come on and talk about a few things. So

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Speaker 1: we're just gonna dive in. You ready for this? I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Have you had a good week? I have? Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: a long one, right cmafest all the things. Everything's very busy,

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Speaker 1: a crazy week. Yeah, yes, And your parents are in town.

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Speaker 1: They are, so they've been having fun and going out

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Speaker 1: and doing all the things. Yep. I've been getting emails

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Speaker 1: super late from Abby this week and I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: is she doing a weak right now? But that's because

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Speaker 1: mom and dad are in town. I know. That's like

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Speaker 1: midnight work, like they go to bed. Then I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I gotta work, right. Isn't it weird when you have

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Speaker 1: company and you're like, ah, I gotta still work and yes,

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Speaker 1: still go on your computer and do all the things. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna go to bed, right, They're on vacation, and

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Speaker 1: they think I am too. I'm like, no, I'm actually

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Speaker 1: have to live my life right. Yeah, well then we're

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Speaker 1: going to dive into that way. You can go home

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Speaker 1: and keep hanging out with your family and keep doing

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Speaker 1: all the CMA first activities who Yes At number seven

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Speaker 1: this week, Eddie shared that his son is dealing with

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Speaker 1: a bullying incident, which just broke my heart. I hate

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Speaker 1: hearing this and I hate that this even still exists

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Speaker 1: at this point. But I don't even want to talk

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Speaker 1: about that because I want to liven up the mood

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Soy, what have you been up to lately?

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Speaker 1: What have you been spending your time doing? Are you singing?

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Speaker 1: Have you pursued any new songwriting moments anything like that?

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Speaker 1: I wish No, No, I have not been. I mean

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Speaker 1: I've been singing in my house, That's what my therapy.

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Speaker 1: I've been singing in the shower. Yes I do. But

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Speaker 1: the only thing that makes say nervous is I live

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Speaker 1: next door, and I feel like she can hear me

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Speaker 1: through the wall like anything. No, because I don't sing

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Speaker 1: like to my full potential, like super loud, because I'm nervous.

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Speaker 1: She can. You don't pull like a Whitney Houston moment. No,

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Speaker 1: I do that in the car, belt it out like

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Speaker 1: all the cars aside can hear me, but not my neighbor. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I don't have her number. We're not like that

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Speaker 1: closer I see her, you know. But if I had

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Speaker 1: her number, I could just be like, hey, do you

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Speaker 1: hear me? Am I bothering you? You should totally walk

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Speaker 1: over one day and just knock on the door and

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Speaker 1: be like, can you hear me singing? I really want

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Speaker 1: to know? Yeah, I think you should. I should just

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Speaker 1: go over and ask, Yeah, what's been your song lately

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Speaker 1: that you've been singing a lot? Oh? Dang? What is

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Speaker 1: my song? Is? Old school? New school? It's usually Caitlin Smith.

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Speaker 1: Any of her songs like so many good ones. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's a vibe, Yes, like the like older ones. And

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Speaker 1: then she wrote Wasting all these tears on you? Ye?

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Speaker 1: What's her name? You know what I'm wasting all these

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Speaker 1: tears on you, Cassidy Pope. Yes, yeah, and so I

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Speaker 1: hear that I don't. I always go like Alexa play

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Speaker 1: Kaitlin Smith. She's just everything. So that's what I do.

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Speaker 1: Has it been a comfort for you? Is that what

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Speaker 1: you're trying to tell me? Yeah? I can relate to

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Speaker 1: a lot of her songs because it has a way.

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Speaker 1: I'm just finding you when you need it most, no

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Speaker 1: matter the song, it really does. So do you think

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Speaker 1: singing is a therapy for you? Oh? No doubt? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like the gym and singing, Yeah, the gym in singing, yes,

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Speaker 1: I love that, and I think those are both things

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Speaker 1: we all do. It's just I don't do it as

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Speaker 1: beautifully as I heard myself singing. I'm like, oh, that's

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Speaker 1: right now, this would be really bad. That doesn't matter

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Speaker 1: as long as you are feeling it inside and that's

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Speaker 1: you know all right? I mean, yes, it is if

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Speaker 1: you're feeling it, drive down felt it? Yeah? Um. No

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Speaker 1: other updates on anything else in your life. Are you

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Speaker 1: working out every day? Hanging out every day? Do you

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Speaker 1: go to concerts? I feel like you're out often. I

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Speaker 1: bet on the weekends. It's hard to on weeknights because

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Speaker 1: then I'm sending me a midnight what I call them

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Speaker 1: all night. Yes, it feels like I'm back in school

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Speaker 1: as much as I want to, obviously, because there's so

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Speaker 1: many during the week, but I'm like, I can't do it,

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Speaker 1: or I'll stay like an hour. Yeah, and if I

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Speaker 1: don't get like good sleep, if I don't go to

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Speaker 1: bed at least by eleven eleven is pushing it. But

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Speaker 1: up and it's gonna be rough tomorrow, I know. Yes,

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Speaker 1: even like and I don't know if anybody like who

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Speaker 1: like if people ask me to do something on weeknight

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Speaker 1: and like, listen, it's a school night and I cannot

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Speaker 1: go out and do anything. But I appreciate that you

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Speaker 1: asked me. I know, I think they forget. They just

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Speaker 1: you know, forget. We have to prepare for the next day, right,

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Speaker 1: So we have to work the night before. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's not just like we show up and everything's ready, Yes,

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Speaker 1: so you know, something super weird that's been happening to

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Speaker 1: me lately that I realized. Okay, are you ready for this?

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Speaker 1: I think so. I have indentions on both of my

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Speaker 1: pinky fingers that are new within the last few years,

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Speaker 1: and you know what they're from? What holding my phone?

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Speaker 1: Are you serious? I have indentions? So, because I have

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Speaker 1: constantly hold my phone with my pinky underneath the bottom

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Speaker 1: of it to give it a thing, yes, or give

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Speaker 1: it support. I guess, so I literally have permanent indentions

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Speaker 1: or callous. I guess you could call it on this

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Speaker 1: like part of the top part of my pinky. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that that right there is a sign that I need

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Speaker 1: to be off my phone more? Probably yes. But also

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Speaker 1: have you seen your screen time when it tells you

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Speaker 1: like your average Oh, let me see that. I'm almost ashamed.

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Speaker 1: What is your screen time? Let's let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: I'm really nervous. Where do I go and find as

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Speaker 1: I know, it's so much okay here settings? Oh? Shoot,

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Speaker 1: or is it screen time? Mine noise just comes up

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Speaker 1: and oh hey, mine's you know what? Mine's not bad?

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Speaker 1: One hour forty nine minutes. No, I don't believe that.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean to join it to you? That's today? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it says my daily average. Your daily average is

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Speaker 1: not one hour, it can't be. Mine's like ten hours.

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Speaker 1: It's not right. I don't know how to tell you

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Speaker 1: my daily average today. I don't know. Wait, why are

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Speaker 1: your phone. It's only two hours. Why's mine ten? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: my daily screen time for this week, like I think yesterday,

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Speaker 1: yesterday was six hours and nine minutes. Okay, yes, mines

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Speaker 1: that make you feel better. Six and a half hours, yes,

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Speaker 1: here's the problem with mine is it's not being realistic

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Speaker 1: makes sense. So your computer screen time is a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I'm looking at this right now, and I

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Speaker 1: you know, you guys know that we record this, but

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Speaker 1: my my activity for today is an hour and forty

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Speaker 1: nine minutes already, So I am on my phone more.

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Speaker 1: It's just you know, I might have been reading that

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Speaker 1: like I am hellow I always look. You need to

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Speaker 1: been trying really hard to put it down more. That's good.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's more beneficial for me when I

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Speaker 1: because I doom scroll a lot have Do you know

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Speaker 1: it's been an hour and I'm still on technok. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And when you're like going through things, you doom scroll.

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Speaker 1: Doom scrolls like a very common coping mechanism for people,

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Speaker 1: and I am absolutely people one of the things. Maybe

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Speaker 1: not very exciting, abby, there was nothing exciting there. I

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Speaker 1: guess I just work a lot. I'm very very dedicated

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Speaker 1: still doing um gymnastics that's still happening. Weeks off. UM

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Speaker 1: still boxing. You know what I really want to do though,

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Speaker 1: I want to pull up Princess Diaries, and I can't

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Speaker 1: But you mark my words. There are two things that

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Speaker 1: I'm going to do coming up. One of them is rollerblading.

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Speaker 1: I've already already had my rollerblades added to a car

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Speaker 1: and I just need to pull the trigger and purchase them.

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Speaker 1: No way, I'm gonna start rollerblading. And the other one

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Speaker 1: is I'm going to pull up Princess dies and put

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Speaker 1: paint and balloons and throw darts at them. Please. Yes,

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Speaker 1: It's been on my bucket list for years, ever since

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Speaker 1: I've seen that movie, and I'm like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: frick it, I'm just gonna do it. Just do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds fun, right, Yeah, maybe you need to

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Speaker 1: come join and then we can go break things. We

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Speaker 1: can go to a break room. I want to do

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Speaker 1: that so get some rage out. Yes, yes, I think

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Speaker 1: it's always good for emotions. But I feel like the

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Speaker 1: Princess Diaries moment is also just like, um, I feel

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Speaker 1: like that will fill my cup in a very fun way,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah. Also, I do want

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Speaker 1: to play softball game. We are going to talk about

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Speaker 1: the softball game in a little bit, but I do

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Speaker 1: want to start for the top ball game. So any

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Speaker 1: Nashville co ed teams call me out. I want to play.

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Speaker 1: I need to keep working on my skills. Are you

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Speaker 1: gonna pick up any hobbies? Hopefully? Maybe I got tired

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Speaker 1: Abby right now, and I can see it in her eyes.

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I am a little tired. It's the end

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Speaker 1: of the week, you know. I know it's okay, though,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get through this. Oh. Actually, I just got

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Speaker 1: my bike. Um, I got new tires on my bikes.

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Speaker 1: That's gonna be a new hobby. You can pull a lunchbox.

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna start biking? No, I'm too far away.

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Speaker 1: I have to go on a highway. I would not survive.

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Speaker 1: That's true. You do not need to do that. So

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Speaker 1: when I say all these and you're like, oh, I

421
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 1: definitely ate that a lot, grown up, hurt by the foot,

422
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,240
Speaker 1: all of those, but remember hurt by the foot. I do.

423
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 1: I love fruit by by the foot. And then the

424
00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:03,679
Speaker 1: other one that has don't ask me why, but tongue twister,

425
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 1: the one that had like tattoos. Yeah. Yeah, and you

426
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,919
Speaker 1: can tattoo on your tongue, yes, and then you'd have

427
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 1: like competitions is who could eat it the fastest? Or

428
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 1: was that just my friend? I think we do okay, No,

429
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 1: But lunchables I had like every day, and it was

430
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 1: so fun to make because you could like place everything

431
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 1: how you wanted it like that's it was like build

432
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 1: your own little It was like pizzas and bake oven

433
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: but real life, yes, like at school, you know what

434
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 1: I mean? I seriously think I had it every day.

435
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 1: What's your favorite lunchable? I still eat him. I still

436
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 1: eat him to this day, I don't care. Oh yes, Oh,

437
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: I only had the pizza one, that's all I had.

438
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 1: The extra cheesye are the pepperoni pepperoni, which I don't

439
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,880
Speaker 1: have pepperoni now, but I loved it. I just thought

440
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: it was so Never had the nachos one so good?

441
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:54,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you never had nachos? Really there's natchos yet?

442
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: What there's a nachos lunch I think the three lunchables

443
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,199
Speaker 1: are the pizza, the cheese and ham and crackers, and

444
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 1: then nachos. Okay, And I always had nachos in the

445
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 1: extra cheesy pizza lunchable because I was still vegetarian. That's true. Yeah,

446
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 1: I cannot believe you've had never had nacho lunchable. And

447
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 1: I also can't believe you don't eat them now still

448
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 1: because I do. If I'm like going on a trip

449
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 1: or something, or if I'm going hiking or whatever and

450
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: I need like a lunch, I literally go after the lunchables.

451
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 1: It's such. Yeah, you never outgrow them. I just I

452
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: don't know why I don't have them. Nope, But now

453
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 1: I put it back in your brain, so you might

454
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 1: have one. And you also need to try the nachos

455
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: because chef's kiss uh huh. Also, this isn't a snack,

456
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,919
Speaker 1: but kraftmac and cheese. I lived off of them, just

457
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: like a cheese. I've been craving like old foods lately,

458
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,120
Speaker 1: and that was. That's one that I've started eating again.

459
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 1: Have you eaten that recently at all? Yes? Uh huh? Yeah?

460
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 1: Do you still buy it? Uh huh. I like the

461
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: shapes better than the original, okay, like cheesier. Yes, but

462
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 1: also there's like, um, I think it's like pasta. I

463
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 1: don't think it's past any I don't know the brand.

464
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: But now I've at least gone to the adult version

465
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: of like mac and cheese. It comes in like a

466
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 1: blue box and it's literally next to the Kraft mac

467
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: and cheese. But they have like white cheddar shells and

468
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: they have like um uh, parmesan and garlic or something

469
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: like that, garlic and herbs. But they're all noodles and

470
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: I feel better because they're not in the iconic craft

471
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,120
Speaker 1: A ball when I eat them, and I justify that.

472
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: But then sometimes I'll still grab the Kraft mac and cheese. Yes,

473
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: the velvita is good too, oh my gosh. Yes, though

474
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 1: when I've tried to eat Velvita recently. Guy has not

475
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: worked out for me. Why, I don't know. My sister

476
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think you should be eating that. Oh, yeah,

477
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: I've not tried to eat velvita. That's not good, I know,

478
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 1: but it's so good. A raman ramen, Yes, that is

479
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: a good one. Oh. Also, handy snacks. Do you know

480
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about? They had They were either crackers

481
00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: or a little breadstick, and then they had the cheese

482
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: they you dipped in or spread on the cracker. Yes,

483
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: Oh it was so good. Yes. Did you also? Did

484
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: you ever have kudos? The granola bar kudos? I think

485
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: they came from like Sam's Club. No, I don't think so.

486
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,679
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Kudos Alley. They are amazing and I

487
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 1: think they still exist somewhere today, but they have. They

488
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: have like Eminem kudos. They were the og granola bars

489
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: and they're so good because they come in like Snickers

490
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: or Eminem or twigs. They'd be in like candy. I'm

491
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: telling you, Kudos the kudos we're where it's at because

492
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: they still have that. I don't know if they do,

493
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: but I think they came from like Sam's club or something.

494
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. We're big like Sam's Club back in

495
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 1: the day. Okay, I think a lot of people used

496
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: to be really big and still are. I'm now a

497
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 1: Costco girl, but this is the first time in my

498
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: life I've been too Costco. Costco. But yeah, it was

499
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: Sam's at home, yeah for us to which tak Kansas.

500
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: I don't think we ever had a Costco until more recently,

501
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 1: so I know it was always Sam's Club. Um, but yeah,

502
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: those are some what are your mouth rushmore of snacks

503
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: of all time, of all time? Dang um? Okay, So

504
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: I love will popcorn now, yes, all the all the

505
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: kinds or the original og movie theater butter popcorn? Well, no, okay,

506
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 1: I like to go to Cheddar dress right now. And

507
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: it's actually like this cheese puff like these largest cheese

508
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: puff is what they call it. Okay, it's so good.

509
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: It's white cheddar nice. That's what I love. That sounds amazing. Yes,

510
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: and that's of all time, one of them. All right,

511
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: you got three more? I know that's hard. I feel

512
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: like I don't snack that much any cheese, anything cheese

513
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: really goldfish? You like anything cheese goldfish? Yeah, goldfish, the

514
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: extra cheddar, extra cheddar. I do love a good goldfish,

515
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: can't lie. I get why all the kids really enjoy

516
00:25:56,160 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: them when they're eating them as babies. Yeah, chocolate covered almonds, Okay,

517
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,160
Speaker 1: is that snack? Yeah, that's a snack. Whatever you want

518
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: to be as a snack. So weird. No, these are

519
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 1: all great, Like I would eat all of these and

520
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: checks Mix, Checks Mix. The cheese, the cheese. The ogee, though,

521
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: is so good. It is good. That's like one of

522
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 1: my go to airport snacks. If I can't find like

523
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: food to eat, I'll always get Checks Mix. It satisfies

524
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: like every craving. It does, it really does, because I

525
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: guess there's some there's different things in it. Yeah, a

526
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: little breadsticks where you gonna have like the mm hmmm,

527
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. Okay, those are all good. Yeah, yeah,

528
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 1: you're not weird. Those are all good good. Um let

529
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: me see okay, cheese, it's m M. I love a

530
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: cheese it really yes? Do you not like cheese? It's

531
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 1: they are so so good. You can dive them a

532
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: peanut butter or a nutella, or you can eat them

533
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 1: by themselves. Someone wait, I used to not anymore chocolate

534
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: I did. Don't do not knock it until you try it.

535
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: It was so good. Okay, it was a perfect like

536
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 1: mix of salty and sweet thing. Okay, So cheese it's

537
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: are on my list? Um? I would say cheese and crackers. Yeah,

538
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: you cannot go right. I like adult lunchables. What can

539
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: I say? Like? I sometimes will literally eat a meal

540
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,679
Speaker 1: and it is cheese and crackers. Sometimes I'll adding grapes

541
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: and get really creative. But that's the time. So either

542
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: like grapes and cheese or cheese and crackers one of

543
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: the two. Um, what else is it? Are on my list?

544
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: I think I'm going check smix, but I'm gonna go ogee, Okay,

545
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: check Smix are really good. It's so good. Oh what's

546
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: my what's my last one? Though? What? I eat so

547
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: many snacks? Like if I actually looked at my diet,

548
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: I probably snack more than I actually eat normal foods. Um,

549
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to think. I'm looking in

550
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: my pantry right now is kind of m D. I

551
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: need to go grocery shopping. Um, I feel like and

552
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: it's the morning. I don't know, Like it's hard for

553
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: me to think of like salty things. I don't know.

554
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 1: I know I know good things too. Gosh, I really am.

555
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm literally like trying to picture in my pantry right now.

556
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 1: I do love some flower seeds that used to be

557
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,360
Speaker 1: a big thing, but that's not I don't know if

558
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: that's a snack. Honey roasted peanuts though, I've learned in

559
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: my older age and I can't eat peanuts anymore. Why

560
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: I can eat peanut butter and stuff, I don't know.

561
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: Peanuts like they totally just go straight through me and

562
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: they totally destroy my stomach. Same with me. No, like

563
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm not well when I eat them. And I used

564
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: to eat them all the time growing up, no problem.

565
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: Did you ever eat them growing up or yeah? And

566
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 1: I never had an issue until recently. Yep. It's like

567
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: as I hit like twenty seven, twenty eight, my sister

568
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:37,919
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, no, you can't have that anymore,

569
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: like I throw up and have heartburn. It's really I'll

570
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: get like these. When I noticed it, because there was

571
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: one day I think like some peanut companies sent us

572
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: a bunch of peanuts stuff I don't remember, but there

573
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: was a huge can of honey roasted peanuts. I'm like,

574
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: oh my god, those are my favorite. Took them at

575
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: a long day that was all I ate. Okay, it

576
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: was this can and I eat a lot of them

577
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: because I was so hungry, and I went home. Have

578
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: you always in pain? For literally a week? It was

579
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: like it was like I was trying to pass kidney stones?

580
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: What it felt like? What? And I'm sure that's actually

581
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 1: even more painful than when I went through like my

582
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: sister had at one point, and I know that it

583
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: was very painful first. So she's like, do not compare um,

584
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: but that's what it felt like like. And if I

585
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: could connect it to anything that's horrible, well, no wonder.

586
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: You're not going to eat them anymore because they are.

587
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:28,239
Speaker 1: They're one of my favorite snacks, almonds nuts. I do

588
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: love cash shows. Costco has a big thing of cash

589
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: shows that are like assaulted halves and full pieces and

590
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: they are so so good. A god gift nuthouse, Oh

591
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: my gosh, I love that. It's so fun. If you're

592
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: ever in Wichita, Kansas, you need to go to Nifty Nuthouse.

593
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: It has been a staple for decades and it is

594
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: so amazing. They have everything, candy, nuts, all the things. Uh, huh.

595
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: And it's so fun. You just get to pick out

596
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: what you want and they're so good, like I don't

597
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: know what they do to them, but they're so good.

598
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: What do they do? I know it would be so

599
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: fun to work there on there, I know. Um yeah,

600
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: that's our mount rushmore of snacks. I will share with

601
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: you a few food world you're ready for these? I

602
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: want to see what you think Velvita. Speaking of Velvita,

603
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: let's go. They launched a new cheese scented nail polish. Wait. Yeah,

604
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: so if you want your nails to always smell like cheese,

605
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 1: you just gotta pay like fifteen bucks for it. They

606
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: have a red and yellow polished duo called finger Food

607
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: and ladlche Velvita. Does it taste like it? I'm sure

608
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 1: if you gave it a little lake, it's gonna taste

609
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: like nail polish. But it's smell like Jedder cheese. Why though,

610
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: that makes me hungry just all the time. I don't

611
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: know red and yellow nails that smell like cheese, which

612
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: is also really ironic because if I if I bought those,

613
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 1: not knowing any different, I would not know that my

614
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: nails smell like cheese because I can't smell oh you still?

615
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Still not so like I would put that

616
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: on and I'd be like, oh yeah, everything's great. People

617
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: are like I smell cheese, and I would have no idea.

618
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try that. I'm gonna wear it and see

619
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: if I can spell it. Where do you buy this?

620
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: You can buy it on Amazon if you want to

621
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: try at kids. You know, if you want to put

622
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: some on your kids, they may love it. Um Sonic

623
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: they dropped a new snacking menu and I listen, I'm

624
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: all about snacks, so I love this idea. UM and

625
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: they're exclusively available on the mobile app. They have tachos,

626
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: pickle fries, the signature Sonic corn dog, and ice cream floats.

627
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: So like, perfect stuff for summer. What are tachos? Um like? Um,

628
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: tater tots made us nachos? Oh you've never had tachos.

629
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are missing out on so many things.

630
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: I know. I don't have a very what is it.

631
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm not very cultured in the food. You need to

632
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: world to explore a little bit more. I just keep

633
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: with my my same things. Fair you need to explore tachos.

634
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: Not a foodie I'm telling you Tachos are where it's

635
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: at Tachos, Yes, um. And then you know times are tough,

636
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 1: Inflation sucks right now and everything costs so much money.

637
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: So this is a PSA to all the people. Krispy

638
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: Kreme is giving away free donuts all summer long. So

639
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: if you ever drive by Krispy Kreme store or you're

640
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: looking for like a nice warm donut, if they have

641
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: their hot light on, you can go in and grab

642
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: a free donut. Hey, So shout out to krispykreame for

643
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: that because we could all use a free donut in

644
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: our lives, I know, especially right now. Yes, yes, the

645
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: free donuts for everyone. Love it all summer, Yes all summer.

646
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: Let's go coming in hot A. Number four. The charity

647
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: softball game happened this week. Myself, Lunchbox, Raimundo, we all

648
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: played in it and it was a great time and

649
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: you'll hear all the drama that came with it. But Abby,

650
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: you were there, you're watching from the standard. Was there?

651
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: That was your take on everything? That was so fun

652
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: and you looked like a pro. I didn't feel like

653
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: a pro when I missed a flyball. Well, I would

654
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: not even be even close. I don't think. No, but listen,

655
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: this is what happened. And you know on Instagram you

656
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 1: highlight rolls reels. But Chris Lane hit a pop fly

657
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: straight into the air and I mean freaking so high.

658
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: Okay it was, and I'm like getting under it. I'm like, yeah, yeah,

659
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: I got it, no big deal. It comes down. It

660
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: totally missus and I'm like, I have no idea where

661
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: the ball went. I have literally no idea. And I'm

662
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: like looking around me and it's behind me somewhere. And yeah,

663
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: that was the first ending. So I did not start

664
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: off strong, but it was very high and it was

665
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: coming down. I was like, oh my gosh. I know

666
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: I thought, I like always felt so confident. I was like, oh, yeah,

667
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: it's coming right and I'm right under it. And then

668
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: I like took a curve and I'm like, I don't

669
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: got it. I do not have it. Yeah, not a

670
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: good start off point for your confidence. Like, okay, I

671
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: yelled at myself hard in the head. I was like

672
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: I need to leave now. No. Yes, but besides that,

673
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: it didn't feel pretty good about it. But did you

674
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: as a fan did you have fun watching? Yes? It

675
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: was a lot of fun. Who is your favorite to watch?

676
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: I'm well, other than you, I'm you don't have to

677
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: say me. There's so many celebrities there. Hardy was really good.

678
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: He was I did not realize he was such a

679
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: good athlete. Bozo. Okay, they did, they did, but I

680
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 1: didn't feel like it, Like I didn't feel like I

681
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, this game is where you know,

682
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: like they're killing them. I was like, it really didn't

683
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: feel like they know. They were just him bomb that

684
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: for bomb and every single hole that we had, and

685
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is some kind of crap. I also

686
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: like watching Eric Decker because it's Eric Decker. Oh, speaking

687
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: of Eric Decker, beautiful Okay, yes, he's attractive. Um So

688
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: I hit a ball and I got on first base,

689
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: right and I'm just sitting there chilling. Eric Decker is

690
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: behind me and he comes up to bat and he

691
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: hits it and he's gonna get a home run. And

692
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: I'm running as fast as my little legs can go.

693
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: And I thought I was professed. Okay, I also didn't

694
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: have cleats on, mind you, and so I'm moving as

695
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: fast as I possibly can, which did used to be

696
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: very fast and I'm like going, They're like everybody's yelling

697
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: from the dug out like you're good, stay out up. Whatever.

698
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 1: They didn't want to mention to me that Eric's Decker

699
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: was like two steps behind me. Oh like, he literally

700
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: nearly lapped me by the time I made it to

701
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: home plate. I'm like that I jogging behind me and

702
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: I was going as fast as my little legs could go.

703
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: M Yeah, there's a there's a picture of it, and

704
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: he's literally behind me, and I'm like, you almost get trampled.

705
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: It also wasn't fair because I was on first base,

706
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: so literally by the time he made it to first place,

707
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: I don't even think I made it to a second Yeah,

708
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: a little legs. I'm sure that's a little intimidating you

709
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: were on. There was some major athletes like Sean Johnson. Yeah, Decker,

710
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's a lot. There was, sure, there

711
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 1: there was so many. But I'm telling you, I turned

712
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: around and I was like, I literally almost just got trampled.

713
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: And I thought I was running very fast, So I

714
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: guess I need to hit the treadmill a little bit more. Yeah, okay,

715
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: and I did. I got some heat too for not

716
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: running all the way through first base in the in

717
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: a video I posted. But it's because I didn't have cleats.

718
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: I didn't want to eat crap. On the other end, no,

719
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: I didn't have the It's not like I have wheels

720
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 1: on me to like stop rolling, and I was running fast,

721
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: so I had to like stop my speed at the

722
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 1: base to get some traction. Huh oh my jeez. Okay,

723
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: just see it a little context. Next time, if I

724
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: get to play, I am bringing cleats and repetillary to

725
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: buy a pair or some people wearing cleats. Yeah, oh

726
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: so they were several of them were wearing cleats. Then

727
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: there's me and my like normal workout shoes, and I'm like,

728
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: this is not good for me. No, well, they should

729
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 1: have been like, hey, you might want to bring cleats, yeah, something.

730
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:35,959
Speaker 1: I probably should have looked into that one a little

731
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: bit more. I mean, I was fine without him, but

732
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,919
Speaker 1: I definitely should have worn cleats. It would have helped

733
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: significantly in my game. I give myself like a fifty

734
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: five percent of how good I did. Okay, I could

735
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 1: have done like fifty percent better. So I'm just gonna

736
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: you know, if I get to come back next year,

737
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come back with a vengeance. Yes, Ray was

738
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: so entertaining to watch. I got to say. He was

739
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: out there doing push ups on the field and I'm like,

740
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: what are you doing? He was in his own world,

741
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: I swear well, as you'll hear in this um whole

742
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: segment coming up too, it's because he wasn't making any

743
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: friends in the tungeout, so I kept coming over to

744
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: hang out with us. So apparently instead of what he

745
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: was doing, instead of making friends, was trying to Instagram

746
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 1: live getting nailed at and doing push ups. Yes, anything

747
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: but talking to people. And he was like, they didn't

748
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: like me. I'm like, right, you got to go talk

749
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: to people in order for them to even like you

750
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 1: in the first place. Yea, they like they would like you,

751
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: come on. Yeah, But like Chuck Wicks, Jimmy Allen, Sean Booth,

752
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: they were all super nice to me. Even when I

753
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: made a few mishaps on the field, they were very kind.

754
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: So I'm shouting them all out. Chuck helped me warm

755
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: up a lot, We did batting practice and everything, So yeah,

756
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 1: Chuck's the right dude is very awesome. And he also

757
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: played college baseball, so I felt like he had an

758
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 1: advantage there. He did. He's very good, and then Sewan

759
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: Booth was really good. Jimmy Allen was super competitive. He's hilarious.

760
00:37:58,080 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think if there was any other stories

761
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 1: that was about it, but yeah, I am. I am

762
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: the one to think for getting Lunchbox on the field.

763
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: I didn't make it happen. I made him play because

764
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,439
Speaker 1: he deserved it. I love that. I know. I saw

765
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: him playing. I was like, good, I'm glad because I

766
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: know he wanted to. Really. Yeah, he fought me a

767
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: bit on and I was like, Lunchbox just freaking go

768
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: bad like he did. He wasn't going to. He was

769
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: like no more. I literally okay. So there's a whiteboard

770
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: and our dugout and it has our lineup of who's

771
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: gonna hit, and somebody was on there twice. So I'm like, oh,

772
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: I'll just do race it and I'll put Lunchbox up

773
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: and they'll tell him to call out Lunchbox. And so

774
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: I did that and Lunchbox like no, no, no, don't

775
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: do that. And I'm like, Lunchbox, it's literally fine, just

776
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: leave it. And so he made me erase it. And

777
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: then I'm like, dude, nobody cares, like what if you

778
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: go bad or if you don't what it's up to you? Like,

779
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 1: literally nobody here can tell a difference. I'm also surprised

780
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 1: because Lunchbox like never cares what anyone thinks. I know,

781
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: but like ever in this moment, for whatever reason, he

782
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,240
Speaker 1: did and then you know so, but he finally allowed

783
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:57,439
Speaker 1: me to put it back up on the white board,

784
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: and I made it happen for him. I'm like, just

785
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: go hit Gohea, I know so fun. You'll hear a

786
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: little bit more of the softball drama and everything that

787
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: actually happened if you go listen to the best bits,

788
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: just the bits. And I told you all we had

789
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 1: such a star studded week on the show. Adam Sandler

790
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: came on for the first time. And in case you've

791
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: been living in a hole and don't know who that is,

792
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 1: he's a massive movie star, comedian and basically one of

793
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: the funniest guys on the planet. I mean, Abby doesn't

794
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 1: even watch that many movies or TV shows, but Abby,

795
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: you know who Adam Sandler is, right, Yeah, because my

796
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: favorite movie is Happy Gilmar. Yeah. See, like so many

797
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: iconic movies. But he came on the show for the

798
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: first time, and it was such a fun interview to

799
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: hear him talk about his love of basketball and all

800
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: the viral videos of himself. He kind of reacted to those,

801
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: which was pretty cool. But I have to tell you something, Abby,

802
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: So for the very first time ever in my life,

803
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: because I've been dying to see Top Gun Maverick, and

804
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,919
Speaker 1: everybody's been busy with CMA Fest and all these things

805
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,240
Speaker 1: going on. People have everyone in town, and everybody was busy.

806
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: I went and saw it by myself. You did, I

807
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: went to a movie by myself? Oh wow? How was that?

808
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 1: It was an interesting but very liberating experience. First of all,

809
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: honestly one of the best movies I've seen, at least

810
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,800
Speaker 1: in the last five years. Like so good, top to bottom,

811
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: so good. I want to see it so bad. Oh

812
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: I would go again. Okay, I would have watched this

813
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: movie multiple times, like it is a repeat movie, one

814
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: hundred percent really, And it definitely competes with the original, okay,

815
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: which is awesome for like a sequel for that to happen.

816
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: So that's that on itself. And Miles Teller and a

817
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: Hubb them in in it that are Yeah, they're lovely.

818
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: Um Okay, I sing it on TikTok. Yes, it's amazing.

819
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna say anymore because I do not

820
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 1: want to spoil anything because I want everyone to experience

821
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 1: every moment for themselves. Um. But I went and um.

822
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: I walked in and I was like, oh, this feels weird.

823
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 1: I felt like everyone was looking a having it and

824
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, the girls by herself. And I felt

825
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 1: really weird at first, but then when I like sat down,

826
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: then I was just sitting there and enjoying the movie,

827
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: and I was just like chilling by myself. It felt

828
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: very liberating. And I don't know how else other to

829
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 1: explain it. Besides that, it just felt very freeing. It

830
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: felt very important for me to do, and it felt

831
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: very just like I was taking another step told me something. Yeah,

832
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: have you ever gone to the movies by yourself? One time?

833
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: One time? It was very it was awkward when you're

834
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: walking in, but now you're just like who care? Like

835
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 1: who cares? I'm here for myself? Like why doesn't matter

836
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: what anyone else? Exactly like it, there's a switch in

837
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: your head that goes off when you kind of turn

838
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: it on, and you're like, why do I care, but

839
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: anyone else thinks like, I'm just gonna enjoy this movie.

840
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: I paid for it. I'm here. What was the movie

841
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: you went and saw by yourself? What is the one?

842
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: It's with the Shooter, the show, Oh my Abby, the Shooter. No,

843
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: what is it called? The name? It's about the Oh,

844
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: the Sniper, American Snipers, American Sniper. That was it. I

845
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: went by myself. You went to that movie. I don't

846
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: know why. I went by myself, And you probably really

847
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: liked it, because it's if I really write movie. I

848
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 1: loved it, Yes, but did when you left? Did you

849
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: feel similar in that you were like, Okay, this was

850
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 1: a very interesting but liberating experience. Yeah, and I feel

851
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: like you're you're in your own head and you're not

852
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: like distracted by someone else or feel like you have

853
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: to be a certain way. You're just like it's you. Yeah,

854
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: and I love it. Yeah. I mean I do it

855
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: a lot by myself. Then it doesn't bother me, Like

856
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: I just don't care. What other kind of things do

857
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: you do by yourself? Oh, I mean I'll go out

858
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: to eat, not dinner, but like I'll go to lunch.

859
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I go hiking all the time running, I'm

860
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: basically every hobby I guess that I do in my

861
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: spare time. Was it weird to do all of those

862
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: alone for the first time or you can remember, like

863
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: looking back on it, do you ever even remember doing

864
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 1: it for the first time by yourself. I think most

865
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: of it is because I moved to Nashville, like not

866
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: knowing anybody, you know, and I'm just very independent, so

867
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: I think it's just who I am, so it doesn't

868
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: bother me. So when you talk to other people that

869
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 1: like cannot do anything by themselves or they always have

870
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 1: like they're married or something like, you're not usually used

871
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: to doing things by yourself. But it's really it's fun,

872
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 1: Like I love it. I go shopping by myself. It's

873
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: just like therapeutic things, you know that you just I agree,

874
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: And I think more people if they aren't good at

875
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: being alone, especially like in single times or before getting

876
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: married and having kids. Obviously that's a lot different of

877
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: a story, but I do feel like having that alone

878
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: time by yourself is really important. I think you learn

879
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 1: a lot about yourself and you learn to stand up

880
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: for yourself, and you really like just understand what you need,

881
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 1: what makes you happy. What doesn't make you happy, And

882
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: you know, it makes me feel bad for people who

883
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: are unable to do that, because I think it is

884
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: such an important and incredible experience. Like there are people

885
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: I know that do not. They're like, I don't ever

886
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,280
Speaker 1: want to live by myself. I always need people around.

887
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: I always need this or I always need that. And

888
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: I think, while that's awesome, and I think that's a

889
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: cool way to live in one circumstance, I think there's

890
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,879
Speaker 1: something to be said for someone who can do things

891
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,320
Speaker 1: on their own and show up for themselves when nobody

892
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 1: else will. And it kind of like forces you to

893
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: be a different kind of person, It really does. Do

894
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,919
Speaker 1: you ever feel that, Like like I'm just I feel

895
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: like I'm different in that sense because of that ability.

896
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: And I feel like a lot of people think that

897
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 1: you're like a nerd or you're looked at it's embarrassing.

898
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's really not like I think more people

899
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: should do it. Why not we decide being alone was

900
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: a bad thing exactly? I don't know, like we're seeing

901
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: people alone. When do we decide that was a bad thing?

902
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: And why do we treat it like it's like the

903
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: bad of all things. Why do we Yeah, Like I

904
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: heard someone they were like, yeah, I went out to

905
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: eat by myself and they were like, you went alone?

906
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: What did you do? Who'd you talk to? Like what?

907
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: That's so awkward? And I'm like, it's a I mean

908
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: maybe dinner. No, I still don't even think dinner is

909
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 1: like if you want to go sit at the bar

910
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: and have a drink or eat some food, who cares

911
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:58,439
Speaker 1: if you felt good do it? Like, I just don't

912
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: think we do it enough. And I wish we I

913
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: wish we were raised to understand that it was okay,

914
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: Like I wish society told us that was okay, because

915
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: it didn't. Being alone was not a good thing for

916
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: many years. It's starting to become this idea of like, O, hey,

917
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: this is you need this to actually become the human

918
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be. Yeah, but it is scary, like

919
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: being alone is scary at the same time. I mean,

920
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: I've even gone to concerts by myself. What concert did

921
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: you go to? My I mean I've gone to a few.

922
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: It's usually like in an amphitheater. Like outside, Yeah, it's

923
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 1: not as weird because you could just kind of be

924
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: like out in the in the crowd and you're just vibing. Yeah,

925
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: Like if I can't find someone to come with me,

926
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm still gonna go because I love it.

927
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: I love music and love music and that's also my therapy.

928
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: So you know what was the most liberating thing you

929
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 1: did by yourself? By myself that you're like, you look

930
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: back on it and you're like, that was like a

931
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: turning point for me. Well, I went to Chicago by myself.

932
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 1: You traveled Yeah, okay, so like for a full weekend

933
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: or what happened. It was for a weekend. It was

934
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: actually for a show. So where I used to work,

935
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 1: we had Florida Georgia Line's screens and they had a

936
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 1: show there, um, and so I just decided to go

937
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 1: because I could get a ticket. So I just went

938
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,720
Speaker 1: by myself. I walked all around Chicago. I explored everything,

939
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: I did what I wanted to do. Like that was

940
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: I still look at that and I was like, that

941
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: was one of the coolest things. That's amazing, stay in

942
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 1: a hotel everything by yourself. Hmm. I love that. I

943
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: didn't know anyone there when that happened. Oh that was

944
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 1: only that was probably five years ago. Okay, So I

945
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:29,320
Speaker 1: was like twenty five twenties, Yeah, and it was amazing.

946
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: I love And I went to Boston by myself too.

947
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 1: That was that year. It was like a whole thing,

948
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: Like I just like embraced my you're a loneness, yes,

949
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 1: an independence, illness alone as yes, all everything. I love that. Well, Hey,

950
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: you know what, hopefully you're inspired today to go do

951
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: something you know, a loneness Ye had no word. Yeah,

952
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: but in two like I do recommend going to a

953
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: movie or taking drives or just putting yourself out of

954
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: your comfort zone. In general, I'm learning, even though I

955
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: learned it so much before in the years leading up

956
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: to now, I'm continuing to constantly learn that. It's like

957
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: a lesson that never goes away. It's one of those

958
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: that is a repeat offender. I know, it's it's hard,

959
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: like if you're used to it, you know, it's kind

960
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: of like a safety blinker security blanket when someone's with

961
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: you because you're just like, oh, I can talk to them.

962
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: But like when you're by yourself, there's so much you

963
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: can meet new people. You just see things completely different

964
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: because it's just you. And leading into that, I mean,

965
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 1: we're we're already going in that direction. At number two,

966
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: I have course shared some very unfortunate personal news that

967
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 1: I still don't know if I'm capable of getting back

968
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: into without crying. So but I do want to know

969
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: like from you, Abby, because you and I are in

970
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 1: this season of life at the same time. You know,

971
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: you it wasn't too long ago that you had to

972
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 1: share similar news, which was not fun for you either. Yeah,

973
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: what have you done? And I like because and I

974
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 1: want to say this, like they're so how many listeners

975
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: and so many friends and people in my life who

976
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: reached out to me. My phone was blowing up the

977
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,359
Speaker 1: day of and continues to blow up, and I got

978
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: sent a lot of cookies because I think everybody saw

979
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: how emotional it was for me and just how taxing.

980
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 1: But it was also an important step for me. I

981
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: had this realization that I was still holding on to

982
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: hope that it would work out, and the only way

983
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: that it would become final and that I had to

984
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: let go is if I shared it. Because once you

985
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 1: share something on the radio, you can't take it back. Yep,

986
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: there's no going back, Like it's out there. Yeah, and

987
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: I and so when I said, like, you know, I

988
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 1: just want to move forward and I'm ready to start

989
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: heading in that direction. That was like an important step

990
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 1: for me because the show is such a big part

991
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: of my life. I can't just ignore that fact. If

992
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm living my whole life like I'm single and then

993
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: I've yet to share on the show, It's it's like

994
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: a piece of me was holding onto some kind of

995
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: hope without wanting to let go. And so I did

996
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: that and nine nine positive of all the support and

997
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: love that I received, and I can't, um, you know,

998
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: thank all the listeners and all my friends and everyone

999
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: enough for for reaching out and the show for just

1000
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: loving me and letting me emotionally go through that. Even

1001
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 1: though that was not the intention, it just kind of happened.

1002
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: It was a very human moment for me that, um,

1003
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: I don't think we get to see often from a

1004
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: lot of people because it's really hard to be that vulnerable,

1005
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: Like it was hard for me. Like I look at

1006
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: that video and I'm like, oh my god, I am

1007
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 1: crying on a video that has now several thousand views

1008
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: and several hundred listens, and all these things are going

1009
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: through my head, you know, but it's real life. I

1010
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: cry all the time. I heard that. I mean, you

1011
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 1: know what, like, you know, it wasn't. It wouldn't have

1012
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: been real for me in that moment to share it

1013
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 1: without crying as much as I wanted to, you know,

1014
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: be strong and be this person that was Okay, it wasn't.

1015
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm still not. I'm still not going to be for

1016
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: a while, just based on the course of events that

1017
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 1: my life has taken me to hear. But you can

1018
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: also it strives starting to come up. It's in there.

1019
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 1: I want to know, like, because there were on top

1020
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: of all the support and love that I received, there

1021
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 1: were people who were reached out and saying I went

1022
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: through something similar recently, or like I feel your pain

1023
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: in every way. All these things, and you and I

1024
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 1: have also had a lot of conversations off the air

1025
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: where we're like you're sending me memes and we're talking

1026
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: about things and we're going through it together. So and

1027
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: you are a little bit further out from me. So

1028
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: what were some things that you started to do that

1029
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: helped you kind of take that next step forward and

1030
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 1: keep moving forward and start to think about the idea

1031
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: of moving on. Yeah, so for me, you just have

1032
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: to realize and like I love this quote and this

1033
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: is what I thought about. This was the end of

1034
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: last year I was single, and I was like, look,

1035
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop. Once you stop chasing the wrong things,

1036
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: you give the chance for the right things to catch you.

1037
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: And so I always think of that, and I'm like,

1038
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: I just I gotta stop chasing um. You know, like

1039
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 1: it didn't work out for a reason, and you just

1040
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: kind of got to like move on with your life

1041
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: and really focus on what makes you happy and what

1042
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: you want to do and like become a better person,

1043
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,959
Speaker 1: because when I was dating him, there was so much

1044
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: I needed to work on too, you know, like it

1045
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,720
Speaker 1: was a two way thing and we always learn things

1046
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: and we can always get better. And so I think

1047
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: that's what I focus on now, is like myself and

1048
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: how I can be a better person and happier and

1049
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: do what I love and where I need to be

1050
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: in life, because I feel like when you're like fully

1051
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: happy and know where you're going, like everything naturally it

1052
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: just like gravitates towards you. But I just like I

1053
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: try to keep busy, you know, I go for runs, um,

1054
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: work out, listen to music. Listen. That's I think we're

1055
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: on the same page here. We have o yes, that

1056
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: we can relate to and they can. We can get

1057
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: angry like you can be in our Taylor Swift era. Yes, yes,

1058
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: that comes out like you can be mad, you can

1059
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,479
Speaker 1: question why. But I mean at the end of the day,

1060
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: like you just know you have to move on and

1061
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 1: that you're stronger in the end. And I don't think

1062
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: there's anything as hard as your mind and your heart

1063
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: being in two separate places. That internal battle is, without

1064
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: a doubt, like just one of the hardest feelings to

1065
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: have a part of your life when you feel like

1066
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: you are split in two pieces and you're trying to

1067
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 1: figure out which one's right and what area you're supposed

1068
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: to navigate, and how you're supposed to do it, and

1069
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 1: what to believe, what questions to ask, what not to ask?

1070
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: Like And I love that you mentioned to quote, because

1071
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: oh my god, my instagram is full of them because

1072
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: I love them so much. I've always loved the idea

1073
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: of connecting with other people. Something that will always make

1074
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 1: me feel less alone is when I know other people

1075
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: have either felt it or are feeling it. Always Yeah,

1076
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: and so quotes help with that, because somebody rough that,

1077
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: somebody was going through that and then you also see

1078
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: all the likes and you're like, everybody else is feeling

1079
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 1: that or has felt this, you know, and it makes

1080
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: you feel less alone. So quotes do that. But then

1081
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm also like sitting there in my head and there's

1082
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: sometimes where quotes will justify things for me or they

1083
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: will make me question things, and you get all in

1084
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 1: your head about everything. So it's like this constant back

1085
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: and forth of trying to navigate the muddiness that's in

1086
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:31,399
Speaker 1: your heart. And it sucks so much. There's no other

1087
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: way to say it than like, it just fricking sucks.

1088
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah it does, I mean yeah, And so like too,

1089
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,399
Speaker 1: like people saw in the video, as I'm crying, I'm

1090
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: trying to smile and laugh because I don't like when

1091
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: my body reacts to things. I don't know what else

1092
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: to do, awkward situations, uncomfortable situations, sad situations. I start

1093
00:53:55,840 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 1: smiling laughing. I've always had a nervous laughter because it's

1094
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: my body's way of trying to counterbalance what's happening. It's

1095
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: like one of my natural defense systems. And so I

1096
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: was watching the video and I just see myself like

1097
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, that's proof that there's

1098
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,479
Speaker 1: a smile still in there somewhere, and it's gonna feel

1099
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 1: good again one day. I just gotta get through the

1100
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 1: other side of that. Yes, there is a smile and

1101
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: that we can't forget that, you know, But it's like

1102
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: we want to be smiling right now. I don't want

1103
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 1: to wach out, Like I just want to be happy

1104
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 1: right now, you know. I don't want to be sad

1105
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 1: and have questions and not get answers and be confused.

1106
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: And I feel like all those emotions go through your

1107
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: head when something like that happens, because you're just like no,

1108
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 1: like it can be worked on, it can be worked out,

1109
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,720
Speaker 1: or like what went wrong? And then you're overthinking everything

1110
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 1: and oh yeah, it's exhausting. And like I also found

1111
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: myself too, like I have so many distractions and people

1112
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,720
Speaker 1: are constantly trying to keep me busy and do things,

1113
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: and I have so much work and so much going

1114
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,240
Speaker 1: on that I do have enough to keep my mind preoccupied.

1115
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: But I also realized that when I ignore everything I'm

1116
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:07,879
Speaker 1: feeling with all of that, it all comes crashing down.

1117
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: It's oh yes, like if I the more I put

1118
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: it off, the more it's going to come crashing down.

1119
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 1: So it's almost like I have to allow myself to

1120
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: cry every time it comes out, and then I can

1121
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: pick it back up again and like maybe get a

1122
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 1: little bit further than next time, and then keep going.

1123
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 1: And I know that's super healthy to like live with

1124
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: those emotions and be okay, But there are sometimes where

1125
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, not right now. I don't want to

1126
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: do this right now. I don't want to feel this

1127
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:31,839
Speaker 1: way right now. I just want to push through. But

1128
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: so hard. Yeah, it's just like it sucks and it's

1129
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 1: so hard, and and it's also like on this other

1130
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: end of it, you're constantly saying, there's so many worse

1131
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 1: things in the world, so many worse things in the world.

1132
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 1: Why am I hurting this bad over this? Right? Yeah?

1133
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: And you try and justify and come up with all

1134
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 1: the reasons and all the things, but you're still sitting

1135
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: there with that idea that like, why are you so

1136
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 1: upset over this? And that's another thing, but that all

1137
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: comes like and I know you can relate to that,

1138
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: and I'm sure some others can who are impaths or

1139
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 1: people that just naturally have very big hearts. For people

1140
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 1: that are full of a lot of love that tends

1141
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: to be the same reaction, right, have all these emotions

1142
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,839
Speaker 1: of love and misunderstanding and don't you have so many

1143
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: questions while also like getting mad at yourself for feeling emotional,

1144
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: I know, and you shouldn't, you know. And that's what's

1145
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: like so frustrating. And it's like we know how much

1146
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: love we have to give, and I when we can't

1147
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: give it all the way, that's when it hurts the most,

1148
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm like, oh my gosh, I've so

1149
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 1: much love to give to the right person. It's a

1150
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: different kind of rejection of love, it really is, like

1151
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 1: and it's never said that way, and it's never portrayed

1152
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 1: as that to us, but it is that at the

1153
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: end of the day, and that hurts. It's like fricking

1154
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: Cupid hit you with the wrong arrow, I know. And

1155
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: it's like one of those things. Even in our job

1156
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: or like going to a concert, like you have to

1157
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 1: be on it, you know, Like we are happy at

1158
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: our jobs, but you have to really be put your

1159
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 1: best foot forward and be in a good moon, happy

1160
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: and animated, and sometimes you just don't want to, you know,

1161
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 1: like in the back of your mind you're like, well,

1162
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 1: I'm not things aren't right in my life. Yeah, and

1163
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 1: that's how I feel a lot with other things. I'm

1164
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 1: not relating it to my dating, just just other things

1165
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 1: in my life that I've gone through. Yeah. And then

1166
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: when you get home alone at night, that's when it

1167
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 1: is the worst, and you're alone and there's nothing to

1168
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 1: distract your mind and you're just like, oh my gosh,

1169
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 1: and you just then you start crying. Then you start

1170
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: crying about something else, and it's just kind of like

1171
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: a never ending deal. Well that's with me, no, no, my.

1172
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: You know, my therapist calls it complicated grief when you

1173
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: have multiple things going on that are grief. Invited by grief,

1174
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: I guess to say, it's the word, you know. For me,

1175
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: it's the loss of my family dog. Now, this the

1176
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 1: grief that's happened in the world. And because I'm an EmPATH,

1177
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: I feel that, So I have complicated grief going on.

1178
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: And she's like, it's the worst kind of thing to feel.

1179
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: And she's like, and as many people as going that

1180
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 1: are going through complicated grief, everyone's will always be their

1181
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: own grief, Like it will never be the same for

1182
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: any person. And so all you can do is find

1183
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 1: people that can sympathize, and you just sit there and

1184
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: you listen to each other and you try your best

1185
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 1: to love one another. But like, at the end of

1186
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: the day, you are the only one that can get

1187
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: through your own grief. Yes, which is awful in itself.

1188
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: Like I wish a million times over I could be

1189
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: angry over being sad. Yes, I get take that every

1190
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 1: time I get so mad and I'm crying. Yeah, And

1191
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: it's like because I'm tired of crying. I'm tired of

1192
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: having puffy eyes. Well, like you were mentioning too, how

1193
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: you come to work and you have this this face

1194
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: on from everything right from you walk into a situation,

1195
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: whether it's out at a concert or out with friends

1196
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 1: or at work, and you come in it doesn't matter

1197
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: what's going on in your life, and you put on

1198
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: a face and you're like, Okay, I'm going to get

1199
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: through this, and then you're gonna go home, and it's

1200
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 1: like you collapse. It's like this exhaustion that your body

1201
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 1: is like, Okay, I can finally feel everything that I

1202
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: was feeling that I was putting off from feeling, and

1203
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: it is so exhausting. It feels so taxing on your body,

1204
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: and so like I realized too that in so much

1205
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: of this, I just constantly feel tired. But the one

1206
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: thing I need to be doing is working out, because

1207
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: it's the only thing that's going to give me like

1208
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: the serotonine that I need to bounce back, and I

1209
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 1: don't have the energy to do that, you know what

1210
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: I mean. It's very easy to want to stay in bed.

1211
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 1: It's very oh my gosh. Yeah, And like even further

1212
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: than that, it hurts me. You know, the people that

1213
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 1: deal with depression and things similar, that go through these

1214
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 1: things and then have that on top of that, like

1215
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 1: I cannot fathom understand, and like that breaks my heart

1216
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 1: even further. Yeah, back to the impath side, thinking of

1217
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: all the other things that could be worse, I know. So,

1218
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I know I'm not talking much about like

1219
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:16,400
Speaker 1: the actual relationship itself and whatever happened, And I don't

1220
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 1: ever anticipate that I will. And I assume sating goes

1221
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 1: for you because it's just kind of try to let

1222
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 1: go and you try and move forward, and it's all

1223
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: you can do because just staying in it isn't going

1224
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 1: to help anything. Yeah, and keep talking about it isn't

1225
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: gonna help anything. But I think Abby and I both

1226
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: talking about it helps us. It can help somebody else

1227
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: if they're going through it, or even not going through it,

1228
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: or know somebody that's going through it, that can help

1229
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 1: them relate. But yeah, it's also harder to be on

1230
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: the you know. I always knew it because I was

1231
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 1: perpetually single. So when I got into relationship, I really

1232
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 1: tried my best to never tell someone you're gonna find

1233
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: it someday and it all work out. Yeah, because that's

1234
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 1: the last thing anybody wants to hear, literally hate it.

1235
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 1: Why I should never say that, And I'm glad I

1236
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: didn't when I was in a relationship, but I think

1237
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: I may have said that to you though, Like yesterday

1238
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, it's meant to be. Well, like

1239
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: that's in the back of your mind, right, this this

1240
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 1: idea that like, you know, what's supposed to be for

1241
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: you will always find you all these things. But like

1242
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: when you're in the thick of it, ain't nothing helping it.

1243
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: But people can say as much as they want and

1244
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: it's more comforting than it is bad. Right, I would

1245
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 1: prefer that. I'd prefer people be there and support and love,

1246
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 1: even if it's not necessarily the best thing I want

1247
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 1: to hear. I'd rather hear it a million times over

1248
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: because you know what, maybe by one hundred and fiftieth time,

1249
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: it's gonna stick and I'm gonna be like, Okay, yeah,

1250
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: I finally get it. So as much as I say, like,

1251
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Speaker 1: don't say that, I'm like, you know what, it's still helping.

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01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: You're still reaching out, you're still supporting people, and that's

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01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 1: what anybody wants at the end of the day, right exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know there is there isn't. Like I

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01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: also learned that there's just not the right thing to

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01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 1: say to people when they are grieving in any form.

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01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: And besides, I'm here for you, and I will be

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01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 1: here to listen, Like besides being an open heart to listen.

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Speaker 1: There isn't much you can do and say that it's

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01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 1: going to help anyone grieving through anything. Yeah, Like mine

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01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: wasn't as we didn't date that long, you know, so

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Speaker 1: I don't think it hit me as much as yours does.

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01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 1: But like I have grief in other wise that was

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Speaker 1: actually more than that, you know, like my brother, I

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01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: don't know if I ever said that, But yeah, my brother,

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Speaker 1: and so that's what I constantly go back to, like

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Speaker 1: is my grief? So yeah, like grief is everywhere, and

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Speaker 1: like the whole getting out of bed, I wasn't referring

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01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: to my last relationship because no, and I knew personally

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01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: what you were talking about, and you never had to

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01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: say that. But also even if you can't get out

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Speaker 1: of a bed after without short of a relationship, it

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01:02:56,160 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: doesn't matter, Like their love is so complicated and grief

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01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: is so complicated and life is so complicated that there

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01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 1: is not a timeline for one specific thing. Ever, I

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01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: do not care who says that there's a rule book

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01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 1: for certain things and that you cannot be sad. I

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01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: don't care if you had a whirlwind romance with somebody

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01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 1: for a weekend and you're emotionally sad about it, Like

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01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 1: you deserve that, if that's what you felt, like you

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01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: knew it in your heart and your heart felt something,

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01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 1: and so regardless that you weren't, if you were, I

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01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: still think you deserve that, Like you deserve to go

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01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 1: through all those emotions and feel what you feel. Always.

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01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 1: It does not matter the timeline of anything. It can

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01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: be ten years and someone can be done and not

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01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 1: feel anything, and it can be one week and everybody

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01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 1: can feel everything. That's very is so true, that is

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01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: so true. So and you can't compare to anybody else,

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01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 1: you know. That's why my therapist was like, as much

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01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: as I would love to say, we are, you know,

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01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: everybody's grieving in a sense, but no one person is

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01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 1: going to relate to you. Right. You can connect through grief,

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01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 1: but you can't connect through the exact grief ever, even

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01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: if it could be the same person, even if it

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01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 1: could be the same situation, you are all going to

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01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 1: feel that differently. And that's what grief is. And it's

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01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: even more complicated when there's multiple aspects of it happening

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01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: in your life. So and there's no right or wrong

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01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: way to grief or cope with things. So like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's all complicated and it's all but I just you know,

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01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 1: I just but I do you know there and there

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01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 1: isn't there isn't a writer on But I do think

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01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you should always have

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01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: respect for other people however things end. And if you

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01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:42,439
Speaker 1: can't have that, then I hope you start doing serious work,

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Speaker 1: whatever that looks like. You know, because it's so hard

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01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: on everyone that the best thing you can do for

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01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 1: yourself and for others is be kind and you know,

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Speaker 1: not make it harder. Yes, so however that has to

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01:04:57,160 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: happen in your life if at all possible. Not on

1312
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: the grieving side of losing someone in your life, you

1313
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 1: don't have much control over that. But you know, in

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01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: relationships and losing friendships or partners or whatever it, maybe

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01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:13,920
Speaker 1: try and be the kind one I am guilty of

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01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 1: sometimes not I react over responding or thinking and then responding.

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01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 1: But that's also the hard part of complicated grief. You

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01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: go through different emotions at different moments, but I always

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01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: try to at least, you know, like, if I can

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01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 1: hold my head up high at the end of the

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01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 1: day and I did everything possible that I could to

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Speaker 1: make it work or be the person that I wanted

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01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: them to be for me, then I'm doing exactly what

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01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 1: I can do in this situation. Yeah, And that's really

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01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: all you can do, because you can't force someone else

1326
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 1: to give you the answers if they're not going to

1327
01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: or But the hope is we're all good, dcent human beings,

1328
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: and yes, we've realized we're all in a complicated life

1329
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:56,040
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, and we're just trying

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01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: to figure it out. Can't we all just get along? Well?

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01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: Can he chose song? Can't y'all just get along? I

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01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: think it is. Yeah, let's listen to that. Yes, but

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Speaker 1: I mean you know that's that for all of that,

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01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 1: and that you know, gonna start moving forward from here.

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01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 1: If I ever bring it up, probably won't, but you

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01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 1: never know, I will not bring it up, you know.

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Speaker 1: In a number one though, I was talking about the

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Speaker 1: star studded week we had, and boy was it because

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Speaker 1: in at number one is Hank Williams Junior. What a

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01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: freaking guest that came in on the show. Wow? Yes,

1341
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: Like if I could say one word, it's wow because

1342
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: of how interesting this interview was, the turn of events

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01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 1: that happened during it, like amazing, And you interacted with him.

1344
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: You had mentioned on the show like the your top

1345
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 1: five things that happened, how you're interacting. He's a colorful character.

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01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: He is what did you think? I mean I said

1347
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:56,560
Speaker 1: on the show, like he knows what he wants and

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01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: he just he's been doing this for so long and

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01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: I mean his dad, he grew up around this I

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01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: mean his dad is Hank Williams. Yeah, and so yeah,

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01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: it kind of shocked me, but it was I think legendary.

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01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 1: Everything about what he did was well and I feel

1353
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: like only he could pull that off. He is literally

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01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 1: probably the only one. Yes, you are right, and it

1355
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:21,960
Speaker 1: was it was funny to watch him because he just

1356
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: went through so many different courses of his life in

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01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 1: such a quick spand when he was talking, he was

1358
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 1: talking about his accident off the mountain, he was talking

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01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:33,919
Speaker 1: about a really dark period of his life. And then

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01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 1: quickly after that he was like, Okay, can I leave

1361
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:39,200
Speaker 1: so I can smoke my cigar? And you're like he was.

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01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 1: Of course of five minutes, so many different things happened.

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01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: It was like he got into place each time, you know,

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01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 1: he was in a very like he remembered it like

1365
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 1: it was yesterday, and then he's like, okay, wait, I

1366
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: need my cigar. Yeah, And it was just so like

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01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 1: it was refreshing though, because he was just being himself, right,

1368
01:07:57,560 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 1: he was literally walked in. He's like, I am who

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01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: I am, Take it or leave it. I'm also gonna

1370
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 1: leave and you're gonna be okay with it. If I

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01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: could take that energy and channel it and every day

1372
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: of my life. That would be amazing. Seriously, So you know,

1373
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 1: we should all take after Hank Williams Junior. We should

1374
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 1: how he takes control of his own life. He does

1375
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:18,640
Speaker 1: not care, He's just living life. And how much he

1376
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 1: loves his cigars because he does. I know that. That

1377
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 1: was a fun fact that I didn't know before he

1378
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 1: came in. Yes, he's amazing and this interview is just

1379
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:29,639
Speaker 1: so so great. To make sure you check that out

1380
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:35,200
Speaker 1: at Bobbybones dot com. Well, Abby, we got emotional and

1381
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:37,879
Speaker 1: I almost cried again, but we talked about our favorite

1382
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 1: snacks and some collaborations. It was a good time. It

1383
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 1: was good time, had my hall. I know, even though

1384
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,320
Speaker 1: you and I are like sitting here and we're like, oh,

1385
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:48,600
Speaker 1: we got a long weekend ahead of us, and we

1386
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: got it all happening, a lot to do. Both of

1387
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 1: our parents are in town. We got the whole Kansas

1388
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:56,640
Speaker 1: crew here. CMA Fest is like lively and happening. I

1389
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: keep mentioning it. So make sure you're watching like basically

1390
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: every art story you can watch, all of ours will

1391
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:05,000
Speaker 1: be interacting with a bunch of different things. But we'll

1392
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 1: be out and about I'm sure. I am so pumped.

1393
01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:09,560
Speaker 1: I mean it's the first time in what too, was

1394
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:12,719
Speaker 1: it two years, two three years? Something like that. Yeah,

1395
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,600
Speaker 1: we are ready. Let's I know. We'll tell all the

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01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,599
Speaker 1: people where they can find you. Okay. On Instagram, I'm

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Speaker 1: Abby dot Anderson one underscore Love It or Not Make

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Speaker 1: Me Last? And then Twitter, I'm singing, Abby, Singing Abby,

1399
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 1: and she is singing. I'm telling you she's singing in

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Speaker 1: my living room, on the couch, ye shower, in all

1401
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 1: the places and hopefully not scaring off her neighbor. I'm

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Speaker 1: a girl Morgan on all the Things TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook,

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01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 1: all things you name it. Um make sure you check

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Speaker 1: out the Bobby Bones Show at Bobby Bones Show for

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01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: all the content and videos are at at Bobby bones

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Speaker 1: dot com. I also listen. I simplify things on Instagram.

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01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:56,759
Speaker 1: You guys wanted the Lincoln BYO to be easier because

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01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: we can no longer post full clips of all the games,

1409
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 1: and you as we're raising some crap about it. Um,

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01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,600
Speaker 1: so I simplify things. It's easy to access if you

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01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: just hit the link and bio on Instagram to go

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01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 1: to the full game videos on our YouTube page. Promise

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01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 1: it's right there. It's not hard, it's one click away,

1414
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 1: and we're all going to get through it, all of it,

1415
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: everything in our lives. We're all going to get through everything. Yes,

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01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,519
Speaker 1: we are just kind to be positive. Yeah, we do

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01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,679
Speaker 1: all right, Abby, Thanks for hanging out with me, Thanks

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01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 1: for emotionally hanging out with me too. Of course, by everyone,

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Speaker 1: have a great weekend. Bye.