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Speaker 1: Becca ready, I'm ready as good as she's gonna get.

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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, it is the day after Memorial Day and

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Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in. That's right, Tony. You didn't we

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Speaker 1: Mark did the are you ready? And it was very unenthused. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm very distracted right now, but you know what,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put my phone away and zero in on

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Speaker 1: are you distracted by a boy? What's going on? I

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Speaker 1: wish I was distracted by a boy. And this boy

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Speaker 1: is called Manny and we have us work to do,

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Speaker 1: so I'm just trying to figure out my timing of

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Speaker 1: my day, but not romantic unfortunately. Yes, do we have

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Speaker 1: any updates on any romances in your life? Um, there

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Speaker 1: is one. There's really only one potential romance, but I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's not even romance because he's not yet

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Speaker 1: asked me out. But do you have a name for

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Speaker 1: this guy? No, we don't. We should call him something

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Speaker 1: because he's a doctor. He's a doctor. We should call

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Speaker 1: him a doctor, like like he's like a mixed teem me,

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Speaker 1: like he's part of the plastics posse. So maybe like

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Speaker 1: Mick posse. Yeah, like Mr Crickets kind of happened. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so maybe this will come to you. Yeah, okay, I'll

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Speaker 1: be thinking while we're discussing him. Okay, So let me

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Speaker 1: tell you guys how I stumbled upon this guy. So

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Speaker 1: it is at my doctor's office and this really cute

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Speaker 1: ring on and I compliment in her ring. We start

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Speaker 1: chit chatting. We started chatting for a long time, and

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Speaker 1: I told her how much I love Gray's Anatomy and

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Speaker 1: she's like, oh, I scrub into surgeries like you would

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Speaker 1: they post their surgeries on their Instagram. So I was like, oh, great,

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Speaker 1: let's see. So she pulls one up. She's like, this

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Speaker 1: this guy is hot and she's like, yeah, he's really cute.

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Speaker 1: So I went in and did a little digital stalking.

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Speaker 1: so yeah, so followed him. Then, Uh, he liked a

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Speaker 1: he started following me. Then he messed it responded to

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Speaker 1: still chit chatting back and forth a little bit. But

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Speaker 1: you got help from our entire morning staff basically know

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Speaker 1: really helped her craft really well, put together nuggets back

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Speaker 1: to him. Yeah, back and forth. Yeah, she read me

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Speaker 1: Oh but he like referred to our first fight. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So now I'm like, does he just not want to

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Speaker 1: me out? Keep commenting on her stories. We got some

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Speaker 1: opinions from some guys we were with this weekend, Jordan Rodgers,

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Speaker 1: just Jordan's that's pretty much Jordan. He says that he

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Speaker 1: there anything she can do to do you woosify him?

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Speaker 1: And do we call him. Dr Woosey, Is that his name?

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Speaker 1: So the night before Memorial Day, we're all face timing.

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Speaker 1: Like it was hard. There's not really a total difference

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Speaker 1: called Hey, Tony, here's the perfect guy for you and

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Speaker 1: High Claudia. Hey, Hey, Hi Claudia, Hi, Hi guys, how

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Speaker 1: and you know, we're speaking Polish and you know, talking

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00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 1: about we had things in common. There was no like

421
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: awkward moment. Why are you not still dating this guy?

422
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: You know? Well, this first date, it really felt like

423
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: I was on a date with his parents. I didn't

424
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: really get to know him that well. And I mean,

425
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was all there at first. So,

426
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: you know, it was nice to meet him, and we

427
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: had made some plans actually with his parents to go

428
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: hiking or something something. Yeah, but I don't know, the

429
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 1: connection wasn't really there. But we remained friends. And when

430
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: I was trolling on Instagram that one day and I

431
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: saw the ABC headshot, I was like, he's got to

432
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: be kidding me. I instantly TechEd it. I'm like, it's

433
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: just real, and he was like, yeah, you bet you

434
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: got me while I was hot? Huh? Can you can

435
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 1: you tell everybody what his actual occupation is? Yeah, well

436
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: he does he does real estate, and he's also like

437
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: a fitness model and like a trainer and stuff. He

438
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: does a couple of things. So I don't know if

439
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 1: that was like the producers, he's really he's really a

440
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,719
Speaker 1: pioneer because it's like a member of society, like it's

441
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: such a non specific thing. They probably I think they

442
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: like to make people giggle on some of those like

443
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: the chicken enthusiasts or whatever, you know what I mean,

444
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 1: Like that was like throwing one or two random yeah,

445
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: and you felt these like giant like booklets of quizzes

446
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: and fun they want. Probably I love social media and

447
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we're going to make him a social

448
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: media participant. And like he had a very big following

449
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: prior to the show. I think he had like a

450
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 1: hundred fifty followers. So maybe they saw that and they

451
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: saw the numbers and they're like, all right, we can

452
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: get away with it. That's exactly what happened. Almost. I

453
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: like when the bastard throws us some fun Easter eggs

454
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 1: like that, you know what? I mean, like just some

455
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: fun little things that they know we're going to like

456
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: have a little chuckle here and there telling you if

457
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: you I'm sorry, Claudia, if you went out with a guy,

458
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: let's say Dr Woosey. You went out with Dr and

459
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: he brought his parents with him on the day, what

460
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: would your reaction be? Um, I feel like telling you

461
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,479
Speaker 1: would thrive in that time. Yeah, I wouldn't hate it.

462
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I'd like to maybe get to know Dr

463
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 1: Woosey first before the parents, But I wouldn't hate it

464
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: because look at this nice picture of Claudia in the

465
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,719
Speaker 1: mind and then like if you keep dating, it's kind

466
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 1: of like, well I already got like the hardest part

467
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: out of the way. And how did the photo with

468
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: the mom end up happening? Like how did that come about?

469
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: It was? It was literally she asked me for a

470
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: picture before we left. So do they like want you

471
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:54,199
Speaker 1: guys to be together? I don't know what I like,

472
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make sense of the situation as well.

473
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: Like I came home and told my mom about it,

474
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: and she was like, uh, all right, well that's different.

475
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: But hey, um, I don't really know where were they

476
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,719
Speaker 1: visiting from. They weren't visiting. They were act They actually

477
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: all lived in upstate New York, but they moved here

478
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 1: from Poland. I guess, uh, I don't know. I think

479
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: when he was ten or something. I don't really remember,

480
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: but this is fascinating. Yeah. So if he doesn't when

481
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: Becca's heart on the Bachelorette, would you take him back?

482
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I would definitely give him a shot. I guess.

483
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: I don't think that first date was, you know, enough

484
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: to really make a decision, so sure i'd give him

485
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: another shot. Yeah, I think you should go out with

486
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 1: him again if he doesn't end up with engage engagement, well,

487
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: engagement fiance, right, exactly. This is hilarious and it's so good.

488
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: It was. It was really funny. Yeah, well, thank you

489
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 1: for calling in and explaining this to us. I can't

490
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 1: wait to watch it today and kind of see who

491
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: he is. I'm really excited. I watched the last hour

492
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: of it and I'm failing to even remember him. So

493
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's gonna in the first cut.

494
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: As far as we know, I really don't know. I'll

495
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: find out. Well, they didn't show me hard. They should

496
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: barely showed me. On Chris the season the first episode

497
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: until like the finale, so you probably would have known.

498
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it makes it far. Who did Chris give

499
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: his first impression? Oh, Britt? Right, all right, Claudia, Well,

500
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: thank you again for calling in. Thank you so much.

501
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: I love this show. Keep it up. I like the

502
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: best entertainment. Thank you. We look forward to hearing about

503
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: your love story with Camille. Yeah, keep us posted and

504
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: his parents by. I believe Camille is out. Bye Bye Camille.

505
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: Spoiler alert, it says here. Oh well, Tanya, I can't

506
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: wait to hear any longer about your sleep last night?

507
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: Could you just give it to us? Well, So, I've

508
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: been sleeping like Jennifer Lopes lately, and can you explain that? So?

509
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez allegedly does not sleep on her face. She

510
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 1: sleeps with her head on the pillow. It's apparently so

511
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: you don't get wrinkles. I've been trying to sleep by

512
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez for a couple of months now, and I

513
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: haven't been able to do it until I got my

514
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: Helix pillow. And I don't know what it is about

515
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: the Helix pillow that helps me sleep like that. I

516
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: don't know if it's like better proportioned for my head,

517
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: not to like roll or just being more comfortable. I

518
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: don't know, but it's been working and I wake up

519
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: without weird things on my face, even like you wake

520
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: up and you have all those pillow marks. I don't

521
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: have that anymore. Yeah, I mean I actually believe. I

522
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: think j Lo obviously has other things, but I truly

523
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: believe that she probably sleeps their face up and something

524
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: she's doing something I heard she doesn't believe in air

525
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: conditioning either. We can't start one thing at a time. Yeah,

526
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: I feel like everything Helix puts out is customized for

527
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: how you sleep. So they have created did a mattress

528
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: that's customized to your height, your weight, your sleep preferences,

529
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: so you can have the best night of sleep. And remember,

530
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: I mean neither one of us is married, but if

531
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: you are listening and you're married, Mark, you're married, Um,

532
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: you can customize the like different sides of the mattress

533
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 1: to what you like. Yours really cool? Yeah, and maybe

534
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: Becca you could do that with your dog. You know,

535
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: Phoebe takes up a lot of the bed, so it's

536
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: something I really could do. I'll have to ask her

537
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: what she does. Are you not scary gonna rollover in

538
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: her No, she hawks the whole bed. I barely even

539
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 1: move because of her. But I need a customized side

540
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: for her so she'll stay over there. This is sad

541
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: that we're talking about getting a specific mattress for Phoebe.

542
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: But um, one of my favorite things with any product

543
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: is going to the website filling out a little quiz

544
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: about your preferences. Um. We have a few different sponsors

545
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: where you get to do that, and I love that.

546
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: I love when things are personalized, that's custom for you. Yeah,

547
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: and so that's why you can go to helix dot

548
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: com fill out there two minutes sleep quiz kind of

549
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: talk about if you like firm or soft, do you

550
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: sleep on your side you're back, which I think we're

551
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: al supposed to be sleeping on our back. That's true.

552
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: And the all new pillars are fully adjustable so that

553
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: you can achieve perfect comfort regardless of sleep position or

554
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Speaker 1: body type. And they have thousands of five star reviews.

555
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: Plus you get a hundred nights to try them out. Yeah,

556
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: that's really nice because I feel like a hundred nights

557
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: that's a that's a hundred third of a year. Uh huh.

558
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: Thank you for that. Thank you then, Matt And so

559
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: I just go to sleep Helix Sleep dot com slash

560
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: Becca right now, and you'll get up to a hundred

561
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: and twenty five dollars towards your mattress order. That's Helix

562
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Speaker 1: Sleep dot Com slash Becca. For up to one hundred

563
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Speaker 1: and twenty five dollars off of your mattress order. That's

564
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: Helix Sleep dot Com slash Becca. That had a little

565
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: more pet that was better. I like that. Uh, ADDIE's

566
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: on the phone. Shall we talk to Maddie? Hi? Yes,

567
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you hi? Maddie, Maddie Hi? Becca,

568
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: Tanya Mark? What's going on? Oh? I'm just at my

569
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,479
Speaker 1: in laws actually, So I just ran upstairs and like, oh,

570
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: I have to take it's a very important business call.

571
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: Do you like Yes, I love them. That's good. Good,

572
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 1: I would hope. So they're staying at the in laws.

573
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: Hope you like them? And what would you like, Becca?

574
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: And tied to do for you today? Okay, So my

575
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: sister is getting married and so I um and we

576
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: both just love your Guys podcast and talked about all

577
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: the time, and so I was like, oh, this would

578
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: be so fun if we can call her and congratulate her.

579
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: They're so cute. We're looking at their photos right now. Yeah.

580
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: Do you love her fiance? Yeah, he's great. We're we're

581
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: happy about these We are happy. And what other background

582
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: you we need? You live far away from each other.

583
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: She lives in Chicago when you live in Wichita. Yeah. Yeah,

584
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: And so we try to talk on the phone a lot,

585
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: but it always seems like we talked about your guys.

586
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: This podcast something that really bonds us. That is really sweet.

587
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: So is she excited for the wedding? Is she nervous? Like? What? What? What?

588
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: Where's her mental state right now? Oh, she's probably really excited.

589
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: She's planning like the whole thing herself. Honestly, I always

590
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: tell her she needs to be a wedding her fish,

591
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: she's so good at it. And so yeah, she's she's

592
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: probably really excited. But okay, okay, so we'll call her.

593
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: We'll call her and we'll pretend like where, um are

594
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: you gonna do like the wedding planet thing again or

595
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: a flower delivery, or we should be the FBI and

596
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: ask her to unplug her router. So that's a big

597
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: story today. The FBI is asking everybody to what right,

598
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: make sure that you unplug your router because there's Russian hackers.

599
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding. Okay, that's good. Okay, Wait, is it's

600
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: kimberlyin right? Yeah? Okay, perfect? All right? What's her last name?

601
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: Steven Stevens? Hi is miss Stevens? There? This is Tiffany

602
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: from the FBI. I don't know what it's a little

603
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: scary to be the FBI, isn't it? Or what if

604
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: it's just a courtesy courtesy call saying have you heard

605
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: the news? I don't think it's scary. Does she let

606
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: me watch the news? I did tell her that she

607
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: needs to have her phone close to her because somebody

608
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: might be calling for a reference for me for well, no,

609
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: my husband were becoming foster parents and are you an angel? No? Wait,

610
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah, okay, so we could be from the

611
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: foster program. Yeah, yeah, you're from the foster program. You

612
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 1: want to ask some questions about her? Is that what

613
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: is it called a foster program? I'm sure there's an ame,

614
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: but she probably isn't know. Yeah, okay, yeah, okay, great, okay,

615
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: all right, so that's what we'll do. Erica D Let's

616
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: see how we do. I always get so nervous before

617
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: these things. Well, you're gonna be my system to say

618
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: I'm your assistant. No, no, I think tiny. Just take it.

619
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: You don't need assistant. It'll be obvious that it's the

620
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: two of you. Here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Kimberlin?

621
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: Hi Kimberlin. My name is U Tiffany, and I'm calling

622
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: from the foster program. Um. I believe your sister Maddie

623
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: put you on as a reference and we just want

624
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: to call and ask you some questions. Is that okay? Yeah,

625
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: it's thank you. Let me just step in another room

626
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 1: real quick. That's perfect. Okay, Yeah, what can I do? Okay?

627
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,439
Speaker 1: So Maddie is she's just your sister? Is this hurt?

628
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: Does she have any other children at home? No? She doesn't.

629
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Speaker 1: Was she like a mothering figure to you or just

630
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Speaker 1: more like a sister? Um? Well, I'm actually older than

631
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Speaker 1: her she. Do you think she's too young to have

632
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: a child? No, not at all. Is she nurturing? Yeah?

633
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: She has nanny? The baby sat at done too. What

634
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: is her zodiac sign? I have no idea. She's your

635
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: sister and you don't know her zodiac sign. I don't

636
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: know zodiac signs at all. When's her birthday? April twenty seven? Okay,

637
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: um gosh, I shouldn't know that. Yeah, Kimberlyn, can you

638
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: hold on real quick? Yeah? Can I tell her the

639
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: thing where you ask if she listened to any podcast Okay, Kimberlyn,

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00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: I just have one last question. Do you guys listen

641
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: to any podcasts? Oh my gosh, this this Donya Zia.

642
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: I thought it sound like you. I thought I disguised

643
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: my voice really was kind of creepy a little bit.

644
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Beck is here too, Kimberly, I was

645
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: like dying laughing at just like, back away from the microphone.

646
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: My sister's actually going she's treated to a postermone the

647
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: phone right now, Madison. I freaked out that I didn't

648
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: know her first day. First kind I was like, I

649
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: was probably sor I was in the middle of working,

650
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: so I was like, I already even thinking about it.

651
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: But it makes it better. All of our worst days

652
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 1: are so it's confusing. I get that. I feel like

653
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: Tanya was going to try and act like she was

654
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: the FBI, and we were like, we don't know if

655
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 1: that's the best. Oh my God, I was nervous that

656
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: you were going to answer a weird phone number. So

657
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: I had told you to for rapports and I was like, well,

658
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: don't believe that excuse I almost didn't because that's a

659
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: credit card. How do you even do this before? Oh,

660
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: we just wanted to concert congratulations on your wedding. Yeah, yeah,

661
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: we're Maddie. Maddie called and said that, Yeah, I like

662
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: that to call her Madison. That's very yeah, and we

663
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: love love here on the podcast. So we just like

664
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Speaker 1: to call celebrate the fact that you're in love and

665
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: you're marrying an amazing guy. And how did you do it? Um?

666
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: Where did you find out? So? We were just friends

667
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: for a couple of years and then we ran into

668
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: each other in a bar one night, so and the

669
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:56,879
Speaker 1: rest is history, the history. How did you propose? Um? Wow, okay, guy,

670
00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: I like this pretty perfect. Tanya always acts like I

671
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: don't want to be friends with a guy, like I

672
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: want to date a guy, and I'm like, sometimes the

673
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: best relationships come from being friends with someone, and you will.

674
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: Now I've already jump to that shark too, because I

675
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: don't have guy friends like you always have pictures of

676
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: a guy friends you do. You have a lot of

677
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: guy friends, but you put them in a box, you

678
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: will consider them as anything more than that name one

679
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: guy friend. The thing is that even best friends, like

680
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: we were kind of just acquaintance. Okay, I have acquaintances.

681
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: I have a quaint Oh that's true. Yeah, there aren't

682
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: there John Hale before he got committed to do a

683
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: relationship that was a perfect one. But this is Kimberly

684
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: and this is a story. This is a story. This

685
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: is a story of hope and a story of persistence

686
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: and I like it. And y'all are very cute. We

687
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: have your Maddie sent your photos and y'all are just

688
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: really adorable. Thanks Becca of course. Um, thanks for answering

689
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: and being a good sport with our creepy foster sister

690
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: and don't know my sister birthday. Okay, this is actually

691
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: really like I don't know if you guys plan to

692
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: like wear matching like outfits? Did you plan for these? Are?

693
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 1: These are engaging photos? Um? I don't know what yet.

694
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: I took their engagement photos so too in the least

695
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 1: creepy way. You guys kind of look related all the time. Wait, no,

696
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that means your children are going to

697
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: be so key ginger babies, very esth love ginger babies. Um, well,

698
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: thank you, y'all are the best. I hope you both

699
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: learn each other's birthdays and don't forget them. Get each

700
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: other a nice gift in congratulations. We love you. Congrats,

701
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: thanks for listening, girls, Bye bye. Do you know what

702
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: Kimberlyn needs to get for her honeymoon? What do you

703
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Speaker 1: tell us about that? Collaborate please? Oh? Yeah, she needs

704
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Speaker 1: there was another one start with white men suck. Let's

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Speaker 1: start with that one from Live Okay. So I need

746
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 1: y'all's help. I met the smoking out guy at the

747
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: bar last night. I made the first move and I

748
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: never do that, but he was so good looking it

749
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: was impossible not to say anything. My friend asked him

750
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: to come over to us for a minute. They were

751
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: watching the basketball game at the bar, and when he did,

752
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: I said, look, I'm sorry to pull you away, especially

753
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: if those people you're with your parents, but you're very

754
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: attractive and I just wanted to say hi. First of all,

755
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 1: bravo on you live for going for It. Turns out

756
00:42:57,920 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 1: there was his Aunton uncle, and we spent the majority

757
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: of the him talking. He's thirty two and twenty four.

758
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: Normally that's too big of a difference, but there's something

759
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: about him that maybe not care. He asked for my

760
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: number and I said to him, if you have to

761
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: add the bar in the contact you remember me, I

762
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 1: won't be offended. And he said, trust me, I'll remember you. Swoon.

763
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 1: I almost passed out. He walked out. He said he

764
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: would text me. I haven't heard from him since What

765
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: gives the guy's wait? Three days? I was expecting a

766
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: text right away. I can't stop thinking about him and

767
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: wondering if my number didn't say which is classic time

768
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: or just making excuses? I even tried to find him

769
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: on Facebook classic stalker and got no luck. Why do

770
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 1: guys do this? Should to keep waiting? Or is a creepy?

771
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: If I find him some other way and message him

772
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: loved the podcast Help you Know What Live? I think

773
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 1: that he may have not accidentally saved your phone number

774
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: and he's been searching for it and on you what.

775
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: These are the things I tell myself to make me

776
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: not feel that she knows that keep saying that girl

777
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: keep living in your Maybe maybe he has a girlfriend.

778
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: I mean, anything's possible. It's too bad, but Mark as

779
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: a guy like what, Like, I've been off the market

780
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: for a very long time, so it's hard for me

781
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: to weigh in on situation. Dated once like hello, you

782
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: didn't like come out of the birth canal and Mary understood.

783
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: But I also was the kind of person that if

784
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: I got a number, I would call it right. I

785
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,720
Speaker 1: don't remember getting a lot of numbers that I didn't

786
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: do something with. You know, I don't think that that

787
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: wasn't the goal. Like I wasn't a number collector or something.

788
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: If I want, if I wanted, if I got one,

789
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: it's because I wanted it or I asked for it.

790
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,720
Speaker 1: That's like, yeah, I don't get that too, like making

791
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: the effort to ask for the number and then not

792
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: doing anything with it, Like it happened to me with

793
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: hat Man. I met this hat Man before Christmas when

794
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: I was out with Pauline and Sophia. Remember so cute.

795
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: He lived down the street for me and Brentwood Like,

796
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: I was like, this is so great. He's my age.

797
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: Was his niece and nephew got my number. Never heard

798
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 1: from him, Never heard from him. I just this is

799
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 1: how I think of it, and this is just very practical.

800
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: If he's interested, he'll call. If he's not interested, you

801
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: won't hear from it. And if it's meant to be,

802
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 1: it'll be, it'll be, it'll be, it'll be. This is

803
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: my thing that it's possibly lost the number, but I

804
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: think that's unlikely exception. I mean, of course there's things

805
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: that could happen. I just you know, I'm I feel

806
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: like it benefits everybody more if you just say what

807
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: it is, that if it's not meant to be, or

808
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: if he's not interested, then Beca is like the guy

809
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: from He's just not that Indio. She's the justin long

810
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: of our podcast. And I feel like we should all listen.

811
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean I do, really, yeah, I

812
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: just don't. I mean, I just remember when I was

813
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: hooked on Deaz, I just needed someone to be like,

814
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: he's just not like, he's not interested. And I feel

815
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 1: like that would have saved me a lot of time

816
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 1: in mental capacity. That so you're telling Liz he's just

817
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 1: not that interested, they don't wait around for him. Stripes.

818
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 1: Tommy just said she's the sheep with no stripes with

819
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: all her stripes. What does that mean? Maybe it's a zebra.

820
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: I personally have never come in contact with this striped sheep,

821
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: so I'm thrown a little bit on this lines. Right,

822
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: she's and she said it like she like stacked her

823
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: papers and was like, she's the sheep with all her

824
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: stripes zebra? Still explain what what is that? She is?

825
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: Like the she is like the goal, like she is

826
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: the beautiful animal in the kingdom that ever. But he

827
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 1: wants to be live, so it's not a reflection of her.

828
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 1: It's just more this dude just being dumb. I love

829
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but this saying makes no sense. It

830
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: wasn't cheap, it was no either way, doesn't really live.

831
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Speaker 1: I think I love that you were bold and went

832
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: up to him and made the move, And I think

833
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: you don't let this deter you from being confident in

834
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,879
Speaker 1: approaching someone that you're interested in. But I say, don't

835
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: wait around for him, and if he texts amazing, go

836
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 1: out with him. And I don't say maybe find him

837
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Slide to the d m. Okay, you have

838
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,240
Speaker 1: two opposing ap points of view. You can choose your favorite.

839
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 1: There you go. I want to get the ann because

840
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,399
Speaker 1: we actually have somebody on the phone that's gonna help

841
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: us with this one. This is Jamie Geff and she

842
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: is a wedding and event planner. Hi Jamie, Hi, how

843
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: are you Hi Jamie? It's Beccaca. Hi Kanya. Hi, guys,

844
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: we have a situation. We need your your input on

845
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: okay happy to help. Her name is that She says,

846
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: I've been engaged for a couple of years, but we're

847
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: finally getting married in September. Here's the thing. Both of

848
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: my parents are also now engaged. My mom got engaged

849
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: to her fiance in December, and my dad recently proposed

850
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: to his fiance last week. I love both my parents dearly,

851
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 1: but I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around

852
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 1: the fact that all of us are engaged in planning

853
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: weddings at the same time. Thankfully, they've respected my wishes

854
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: and a rush to the altar before me. Do you

855
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: have any advice on how to navigate this new stage

856
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: of my life and experience planning a wedding with parents

857
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: also planning weddings. So we got a wedding planner on

858
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: the phone. Helps out with this one. Yeah, have you

859
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:40,439
Speaker 1: ever had a situation like this. Yeah, I mean, yes,

860
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: I have actually heard of this happening. Um, it sounds

861
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 1: like her wedding is first though, right, Yes, So that's

862
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: that's good news obviously because, um, you know, she'll get

863
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: her time to shine first in September, and she'll get

864
00:48:56,080 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: to be in the spotlight, which is fantastic. Um. Obviously,

865
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: with both of her parents getting engaged, there's going to

866
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: be a lot of planning to do for everyone. Uh

867
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: So one of the things that could be fun is

868
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:12,760
Speaker 1: they could, you know, share some research and information. Um,

869
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: if they're in the same cities, they could, um you know,

870
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 1: kind of split up the duties of interviewing vendors and

871
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 1: those types of things so that they could, um you know,

872
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: get some great feedback from different vendors, and they could

873
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: talk to different flouts and they could kind of even

874
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,720
Speaker 1: even if their weddings are all going to be different,

875
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 1: they could still all gather information and try to help

876
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: each other out a little bit. Well here's what so

877
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: Tony and I we read this email and we had

878
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: different views on it. So I I understand her point

879
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: of view of being like this is why I've been

880
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: like dreaming about this day it's my wedding, like I want.

881
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily like attention on me, but I think

882
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 1: in this situation, I would be like, Okay, this is

883
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: my day. I want, this is my exciting moment. And

884
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: they've already been married to each other, they had that day,

885
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 1: So I don't want to have to focus or share

886
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: my plan. And maybe that's selfish, but I don't want

887
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: to have to share this with my parents. Yeah, I

888
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: mean you do look forward to your wedding like your

889
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: whole life essentially, But when we talked about it, like yeah,

890
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm also just like I can't with people and like

891
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: everybody just wants something to be dramatic about, Like who

892
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: freaking cares? Like, you will have your day. It's your day.

893
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: It's fine if your parents are even getting married the

894
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: weekend after. Let them do their thing, Let your friends

895
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: and your family help you do your thing, and like

896
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: bike over it. There's so much more to be losing

897
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 1: cortisol or like whatever that stress well, and honestly, like

898
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: on core, brides and grooms, which is what her parents are,

899
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: are not always going to do such an elaborate wedding

900
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: as she may be doing. Because she's the first time, right,

901
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: So it's really her being first. It's kind of her

902
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 1: time to shine, still be in the spotlight. It'll probably

903
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 1: be bigger, I assume, in a little more over the

904
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 1: top that her parents would be and in my opinion,

905
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: like embrace it, have your day, um, you know, and

906
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: then be able to celebrate their day. But I do

907
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: understand Secca your point of view because it kind of

908
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 1: feels like maybe her mom would be, you know, usually

909
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,240
Speaker 1: helping her if she wasn't distracted by her own planning.

910
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: So I think in my head I would I would

911
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 1: hope that her mom and like they're really focusing on her,

912
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 1: and then once once her days over, then it can

913
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 1: be focused on them. Yeah, I mean I agree with that.

914
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: Great and you just saying you're getting married, that's awesome

915
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 1: focus on Yeah. Sorry, I don't want to get married

916
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: married totally. Everybody can get married around me. They can

917
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 1: get married the day after me. I don't care. I

918
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: feel like it'd be different if it was blaque with

919
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 1: my wedding date on it. Just put it up in

920
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: the studio and look at it every day. I'm married.

921
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Jamie, Thank you alrighty bye bye

922
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: Carol wants to talk to about the whole liking pictures

923
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: on Instagram thing we talked about last week. You know,

924
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 1: we we are. We don't like the fact that, or

925
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: at least I was very expressive that I think it's

926
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: not cool if your man is liking certain pictures on Instagram.

927
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 1: She's saying. First of all, she says, you guys are

928
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: my favorite podcast back Antonio seem like such genuine people.

929
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: Mark is the best, amious, hilarious and eastern. Even listening

930
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: to the ads feels natural. Well, that's nice. I want

931
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: to talk about Instagram. There was a topic of whether

932
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: it's appropriate for a boyfriend to like pictures on Instagram.

933
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't get it. What's the big deal. I follow

934
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: some celebrities because I find them good looking. So if

935
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 1: I were to get into a relationship, we needed to

936
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: unfollow or not like the photos. Guys and girls constantly

937
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: check out people they see. We don't become blind when

938
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: we're in a relationship. What mattters is having trust between

939
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: the couple. When did Instagram become reality? That's Carol. I

940
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: have a I have I want to clarify something, so

941
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: I follow male celebrities. Chris Hemsworth is my everything, and

942
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: if he became single, I would aggressively try to find him. However,

943
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: when I like a photo of him, it's not like

944
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: a photo of him in any sexual way. Like I

945
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: like his photos because I find him attractive. I like

946
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: him as an actor. So it's not that you're following

947
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: or liking opposite sex photos when you're in a relationship.

948
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: It's the type of photos that you're liking. So if

949
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: a guy's liking a photo of a like if a

950
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 1: guy's liking a photo of a supermodel and she's just

951
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: in normal clothes doing whatever, but I probably wouldn't have

952
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,959
Speaker 1: an issue with it. If it's a photo where it's

953
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: a very it's meant to be super sexual and and

954
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 1: like draw male attention on purpose, then that's where I

955
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: had a problem with it. Yeah, I also feel like

956
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: this is a very interesting topic because of what am

957
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: I allowed to talk about. What we found out about

958
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: that one guy, the guy on the Bachelor. There's a

959
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: guy just was liking and liking stuff on social media

960
00:53:55,320 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: in his past. Just not great, like just anti, just

961
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 1: not one of the contestants on the Bachelorette. Right now,

962
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 1: because some old tweets E scent that some are are

963
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: perceiving as possibly racist, and it's coming out now, and

964
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like we all just need to

965
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: be a little bit more aware of things that we're

966
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: doing on social media, you know what I mean, Like

967
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: even just like liking, you know, I mean, like who like,

968
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: like people are watching, yeah, and you never know what's

969
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: going to come back to haunt you. And I think,

970
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: like you, everyone just needs to really be a little

971
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: bit more aware of things we're doing. You know, private

972
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: d ms that you think are private may not be

973
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 1: private one day, you know, like photos that you're sending

974
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 1: through d M, snapchat, like you just never know. And

975
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 1: I just feel like we all just need to be

976
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 1: a little more yeah, careful. Well it's taking away from

977
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: the topic that she was talking about, but I feel

978
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 1: like it was I need to like interject that. But

979
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 1: I also think that there's like I think a lot

980
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: of people have said things in their past that I

981
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: don't know how far back these tweets were where he

982
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: said this, but people probably said things that they that

983
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: were dumb, and they were aware of what was politically

984
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: correct or what was sensitive to people. And now I

985
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: wonder if he would even say those things if he's

986
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 1: more aware, educated, more on what is right and and

987
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: respectable to other people. And so I think that people

988
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: drag up these tweets from like ten years ago, I

989
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: would be interested in how far back. I don't know

990
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 1: how far back there, but it's true everybody has their

991
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: own personal evolution on Yeah. I mean there's things that

992
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: I would probably say that I'm way more aware of

993
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 1: now that I would never say because I'm I've learned

994
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 1: of like different cultures and different races and how we

995
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: treat each other, and it's like genuine just being kind

996
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: to each other that I wasn't even there was no

997
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: ill intention man like I wasn't, but it was ignorant,

998
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: you know. And so I don't know how far back

999
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: that goes. Yeah, I don't know either, but it is

1000
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: very interesting and back to the topic at hand. I

1001
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: think the issue is it's just I feel like it's

1002
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 1: respectful to your partner, like even I will consider this

1003
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: married for as long as I've been married. If a

1004
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: friend of mine who is seeing post on Facebook, I

1005
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: like like like like, but if she posts one in

1006
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: a bikini, yeah, I'm probably not gonna like that because

1007
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: that's weird. You know, it's disrespectful to my wife. It's

1008
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: weird as a married man to be doing that. So

1009
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 1: I feel like there is a line. Yeah, and it

1010
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: might give her the person whose photo you're liking, she's like,

1011
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 1: why is Mark liking this photo? It sends a message

1012
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: and sends a message, and your boyfriend is sending a

1013
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: message to that person. Now, if he's liking some celebrities thing, well,

1014
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's not as big a deal.

1015
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: That's not really a threat. But it's somebody in his life,

1016
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: or maybe somebody who's not but he only knows them

1017
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: through Instagram. It gets into a weird area, that's all

1018
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: we're saying. Yeah, I don't think you have to unfollow people.

1019
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: I just think it's being aware of what you're double

1020
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: t happening. We've all seen the thirst traps on Instagram.

1021
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: We know where they are, posts them And I was

1022
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: gonna say, we've all posted them. They're out there and

1023
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: you know why you're posting them. Yeah, and guys fall

1024
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: right into the trap. Yeah we all. Did any of

1025
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 1: these other emails attract any interest you guys? Well, I

1026
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 1: was thinking would have a little fun before another email.

1027
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: Let's have a little fun. Okay, well, you know it's

1028
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: getting warmer here. Memorial Day was this weekend. School is

1029
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: almost out. You know what that means. Tell me hap

1030
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: it fun summer box, Baby, I'll tell you my wife

1031
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: loved it. Oh, do share right now? In our bathroom

1032
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: there is a dish which is meant which you were

1033
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: about to mention. I believe the dish. You have the

1034
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: dish and on the dish is the phofo, oh the

1035
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: poe on the ring dish, the ring dish right now

1036
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 1: in our bathroom, the master bath, thank you very much,

1037
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: the for you lunafofo on the piro and in forts

1038
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: marble ring dish. She loved everything in the box, every

1039
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 1: single thing. Yes, sorry, Tany, did we wait? Are you okay?

1040
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm not well. This is what happens. Becca always is

1041
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: like Tanya, I come party with us, and then I

1042
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: do and the next day I'm like, you were home

1043
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 1: by like eight. I was home by eight thirty, but

1044
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: then I have to do a little work shower. By

1045
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: the time I get to bed, it's like eleven. Okay,

1046
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I kept you out in lane. Um back

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Speaker 1: We'll rapid fire a couple of these Priston is attracted

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Speaker 1: to older men, not super old, like ten to fifteen

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Speaker 1: years older. She always that crushes on teachers in high

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Speaker 1: school and college. Doesn't know why she's nineteen. She says

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Speaker 1: she doesn't think she'll end up with someone older, but

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Speaker 1: how old is too old? Is one question? Second of all,

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Speaker 1: how do I find a man I'm attracted to closer

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01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 1: to my age? And three? Why do I attracted older men? Attracted?

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01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: I'm attracted older man? And here's my rule of thumb.

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Speaker 1: If they're closer to you and age than they are

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Speaker 1: to your father, you're golden. Okay, so you're thirty. How

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Speaker 1: old your dad about to be? Seventy? So you've got

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Speaker 1: a nice little range, have a nice range. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: if they're under fifty, you can date them totally. It's

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Speaker 1: totally fine. Plus not so much. That's my rule of thumb,

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Speaker 1: So she should take that as her rule. And I

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01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: think that UM being attracted older men. I think it's

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Speaker 1: it's more of like, UM, I think just men are

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Speaker 1: immature younger like, they're just immature, So I think you're

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Speaker 1: just mature. I also think you can people just connect

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Speaker 1: with people. It doesn't I think a lot of times

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Speaker 1: we have a type that we're genuine like generally into.

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Speaker 1: But I think that sometimes people can come into your

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Speaker 1: life and you might meet a guy who's a year

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Speaker 1: younger than you and is everything that you thought you

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Speaker 1: liked totally, And I think the thing is too, Like

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Speaker 1: what I was so attracted to with older men was

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Speaker 1: that they like kind of was never really I kind

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Speaker 1: of been out of the party phase for a while,

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01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,439
Speaker 1: and like guys in their twenties were always like wanting

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01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: to like party on the weekends. It just wasn't what

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Speaker 1: I wanted. And so older men are a little bit

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Speaker 1: more They like to do the same of the same

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Speaker 1: similar things that I like to do. But I think

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Speaker 1: it gets weird when like I was dating a guy

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Speaker 1: and he had been like he lived in I think

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Speaker 1: he lived in Asia for eight years and I hadn't

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Speaker 1: even been out of college for eight years, and so

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Speaker 1: like that kind of life stuff doesn't really add up,

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Speaker 1: and then it then it gets to get weird. Does

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Speaker 1: that make sense? Yeah, Yeah, sometimes it's hard if you

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01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: can't connect on life, life experience and stuff like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was like, I hadn't done anything for eight years

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01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 1: in my life at that point, so I was like, wow,

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01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: you had gone to like elementary school, going to Barcelona

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01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: for two months over the summer. And there's also like

1134
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: pop culture references that always cause problems about my favorite

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01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: movie and you're like favors Like Camilla, Emily is eighteen.

1136
01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 1: She wants to know how she can get her boyfriend

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01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: to go farther. She says, I've been hooking up with

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01:02:58,560 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 1: this guy a few times, but it doesn't mean that

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01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: thing sex. When she says hook up, she clarifies, but

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Speaker 1: he kind of doesn't make any moves to go further

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01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: than just kissing. I would like to go further with him.

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01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: Do you guys have any advices that give him the

1143
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: signals or anything? Because I'm scared to make the first move.

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01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 1: We're both eighteen. Loving the podcast. Love you both so much,

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01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for brightening up my week. A guy not making

1146
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: the first move is either he's respectful or terrified. Such

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01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: a good way of putting it back. That's true, especially

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01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: so I think that her making those moves takes away

1149
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: both of those, right, He lets him know, you don't

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01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 1: have to be so respectful. I'm into it, and don't

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01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: be so terrified. I'm into it. Right, Yeah, maybe she

1152
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 1: could give him like can I lets on this podcast.

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01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a little Comma Sutra book and but

1154
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 1: too much. But it makes him more comfortable. I don't know.

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01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 1: Kissing is a massively I don't know. I actually don't

1156
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Speaker 1: know how you give someone. I mean, I've been trying

1157
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 1: to give signals left and right the last a year

1158
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: and a half my life. Out with a guy and

1159
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: you let him know, look, you've got a green light.

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Speaker 1: Do you have to do that? It seems like with

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01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 1: women you either have to put up the stop sign

1162
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: or or they're just gonna keep going. I was going

1163
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: to say, I feel like most of the time you

1164
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 1: have to be like, okay, well yeah, no, no, no,

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01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 1: no things. So if he's being respectful, do not pasco,

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01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: do not collective? He's assuming he stops signed? Is there?

1167
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: How do you let him know the stop signs not there?

1168
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: She would need to make the move on him, right,

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01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 1: you don't like that? I don't. I just don't know.

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01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: What does she do? Jump on him? It's weird can

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01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 1: jump on him? Why wouldn't you jump on him? If

1172
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 1: you want to jump on him, why wouldn't you, okay,

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01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 1: jump on him. I think he'd be receptive to that,

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01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: and if he's not, he'll tell you why, right, let

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01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: us know how it goes. Yeah, if he still well,

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01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 1: if he stops you, then it can be a conversation

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01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: of like what's going on? What's the block here? Yeah,

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01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: that's very interesting because it's like we always we always

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01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: talked about dropping the handkerchief in terms of like getting

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01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: somebody to ask you out. But now she's like trying

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01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 1: to drop the handkerchief in the bedroom. It's very interesting

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01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: little transition. It seems like innocent, though it doesn't seem

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01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: like she's like trying to know take it to the bedroom. No,

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01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 1: I think she's the first base. She doesn't necessarily want

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01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 1: to go home. Plate just keep going around the infield. Right,

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01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: Maybe she can take his hand and gently place it

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Speaker 1: on her breast. I was like, please don't say breast,

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01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 1: But I was like, please don't say breast or bush.

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01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: You from like grandma to like, whoa, that's right, shout

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Speaker 1: outs before we go. Caddie Katie Chinsky just moved to Nashville.

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01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 1: She listening right now. She's listening while driving around exploring

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Speaker 1: the city. She says it makes it feel less alone

1193
01:05:57,160 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 1: driving around with her girlfriends in her new city. Nice

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01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: Nicole Baruke in San Dimas, California, not far from us.

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01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: It's not Baruke, don't fix it. That's a great wedding.

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01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: Is running with her dog right now. She's trying to

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Speaker 1: be more active, so that's why she's listening to us

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Speaker 1: and running handily. And Fort Myers, Florida. She's at Florida

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Speaker 1: Gulf Coast University. She's laying out in the sun right now,

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Speaker 1: hopefully not getting her buns as burned as tiny. Andrea, Andrea. Sorry,

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01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 1: Andrea Elmer tried to do her beach body workouts while

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Speaker 1: listening to us, but she would laugh too hard. Hannah

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Speaker 1: Elizabeth lives in Cleveland. Her boyfriend lives in Columbus, so

1204
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: right now she's driving the two hours to see him.

1205
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: But she saves up the episode, so she's probably in

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Speaker 1: the future right now. She saves them up, so as

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01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: she's listening to it right now, it's probably like mid June.

1208
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Speaker 1: What the world is like for Hannah Elizabeth in the future.

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01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 1: And Savannah Yount is bathing dogs in Spring, Texas. She

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Speaker 1: owns a grooming salon and she listens to this show.

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Speaker 1: She scrubs in while she plays with the scrub the pup. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you know what I was actually thinking. I had a

1213
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:04,160
Speaker 1: little idea, and tell me what you guys think. So

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01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 1: we take these emails and um, we do the whole

1215
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: what I was saying about, like kind of shortening them up. Yeah,

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01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 1: Mark's not favorite thrilled with that, but we can call

1217
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Speaker 1: it visiting the clinic. Get it, like they have sick

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01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:21,920
Speaker 1: like they have like you know, like they have an

1219
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Speaker 1: ailment and we're trying to fix it in the clinic,

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Speaker 1: you know, like the Denny Duette clinic. No, I didn't

1221
01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: seem to go over very well. Yeah, it was kind

1222
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:33,760
Speaker 1: of underwhelming, Like you like the way you got it.

1223
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: You're like, I have an idea. I was expecting something

1224
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Speaker 1: groundbreaking and it was it was like, okay, oh you

1225
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 1: don't like that. THO was so cute, Like, okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: it's time for the Denny Duquette to visit the Danny

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Speaker 1: Duquette clinic. No. I don't love Danny as much as you,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know that we need to like incorporate Denny.

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01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 1: In fact, my sister Banks watching like started Grace from

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01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 1: the beginning. She's like really into it and the Danny

1231
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: episodes are all the other day, and she was like, oh, yeah,

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01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: she's not into me either. Oh my god. Hey, the

1233
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: storyline gets me angry more and more each time I

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01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 1: see those episodes. Well, then I guess there work on

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01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 1: your idea. Yeah, the name of it was underwhelming. The idea,

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Speaker 1: Yeah that I was thinking quick care and something like

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Speaker 1: that might work fine. Eyes fully around, They go like

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01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: fully around, because it would be nice to throw me

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01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 1: a bone here, just asking for the Denny dukeet clinic.

1240
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 1: He donated nine million dollars and he wants his name

1241
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:44,560
Speaker 1: part of he's donating nine million dollars to the podcast.

1242
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:49,479
Speaker 1: He does not get that right. Fair enough, okay, glad

1243
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 1: we agree. Sheep with all her stripes. Um, thank you

1244
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 1: so much for your emails. We love them, keep them coming.

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Speaker 1: anything to add? Do we have any fun teasers for

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Speaker 1: next week? Um? Hopefully we have an update on Mr

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Speaker 1: Dr Whossey. We can't call him Dr. No, we have

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Speaker 1: to think of a different name. I can't marry Dr.

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Speaker 1: Ask you out. He sheda he gets a new name.

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Speaker 1: Here's to sing if Dr Whissey it's a new name.

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Speaker 1: It's a new name. We have Lengo Tango this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's right. So excited to tell you about

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Speaker 1: somebody that I ran into this week that I love.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell about it next week. It's very short, it's

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01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 1: actually can do it. If it's not exciting, don't Big Sean.

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Speaker 1: And every time, every single time, I always come back

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Speaker 1: and just say, what an amazing experience it is. Kelsey

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Speaker 1: Grammar and Big Sean are like way up here in

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Speaker 1: my life. I couldn't think of two similar people, but

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Speaker 1: I was. I was with my girlfriend Rickel who had

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Speaker 1: met him for the first time, and she was like,

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Speaker 1: that guy is one of the most genuine people I've

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Speaker 1: ever met. And I was like, thank you, validation. Can

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Speaker 1: you end the podcast with a little bit of beast

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Speaker 1: mode for us, sure, okay, stand up, get into it.

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Speaker 1: I wanted this to be real, and then I gotta

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Speaker 1: I gotta record this and then give us and hoodie.

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Speaker 1: Oh I thought that was a Christian hoodie. Like it's okay,

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Speaker 1: it's a scrubin here, Okay, ready and go. I woke

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Speaker 1: up in beast mode with that girl that's beauty and

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Speaker 1: the beast though I fly these sleep though only thing

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Speaker 1: that sold out as the seats though, how dare you

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Speaker 1: stand before me and not respect my authority? If you

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Speaker 1: my glory, I'm gonna rop down and get gory. I

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Speaker 1: did another thing it's said for it, telling my life

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Speaker 1: story faith of the must see that kept growing. I

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Speaker 1: knew that this life was meant for me. People changed up.

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01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: When the wishing Wells come a calm around now wish

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Speaker 1: one and I come on a limit, let's pill. I

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Speaker 1: kill the scene like I'm Danzel crazy, like my jackets

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01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: trapped up and I don't act, but I act up,

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Speaker 1: wrapping back in the backup, back back, back back up,

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Speaker 1: and I mean like temp beat, you cannot content me.

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01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,400
Speaker 1: I always lose my temper. You cannot catch tend me.

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01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,679
Speaker 1: If I lose one. I bounced back like two three

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01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 1: to a full or five scene court rooms in quote

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01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 1: side scene, both tunes and two sides, and what you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm taking back control of the pharmacy and something I'm

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01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 1: a hoping and wishing. I'm gonna TECHNICKI done. I lost

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Speaker 1: it at the end. That's okay. Everyone's faces in the

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Speaker 1: studio right now, v I amazed or I don't know

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Speaker 1: what the reaction, thank you? Oh she gave it thumbs out. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's good, big sean out, little tea, little tea, I

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Speaker 1: could be little tea. Well on that note, because like

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Speaker 1: I died, ag