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Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject less is more and he loves it.

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Speaker 1: Here Stephen Shirley. I'm twenty nine years old and my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend of two years broke up with me. And when

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Speaker 1: I asked for closure, he finally agreed to tell me

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Speaker 1: why he broke up with me. He said he got

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Speaker 1: bored because I'm shallow. He said it was fun at first,

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Speaker 1: but when he got to really know me, there was

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Speaker 1: nothing there but a pretty face and a lot of

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Speaker 1: unbelievable sex. He told me all about his new girlfriend

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Speaker 1: and he said things are going great because she is

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Speaker 1: who she says she is inside and out. I know

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Speaker 1: that I'm the total package and his new girl is

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Speaker 1: around a six on a scale of one to ten.

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Speaker 1: When we would argue, he said I was too much,

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Speaker 1: so I told him to go find less and he did.

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Speaker 1: He said I was more of a dependent than a partner,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't bring anything to the table. I hate

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Speaker 1: that he feels like that dating meat was a privilege.

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Speaker 1: I know his new girlfriend's cousin, so I asked her

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Speaker 1: about the girl and what she has that I didn't have.

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Speaker 1: Her cousin said that she is a real woman that cooks,

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Speaker 1: cleans and caters to him and is not just for

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Speaker 1: social media. That's who she is in real life. There's

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Speaker 1: no way that I would cater to that man when

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Speaker 1: we are dating. He should pay when we go out

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Speaker 1: and pay for all of my maintenance when he puts

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Speaker 1: a ring on it, then I would step up and contribute.

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Speaker 1: The new girl washes his clothes, cooks for him, works

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Speaker 1: out with him, and even runs errands for his mama.

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Speaker 1: She pays to get her own hair done. Is this

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Speaker 1: why men are so trifling now? The women are doing

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Speaker 1: more and settling for less. Am I supposed to lower

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Speaker 1: my standards for dating? No, you don't have to lower

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Speaker 1: your standards. You don't have to settle. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to do anything like that. But let me tell you this.

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Speaker 1: He's not the man for you and you're not the

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Speaker 1: woman for him. You guys are not compatible. You want

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Speaker 1: different things. This man wants these things. You're not ready

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Speaker 1: to give it without a ring. But I got to

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Speaker 1: ask you. Did you even tell him you wanted a ring?

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Speaker 1: Have you all even discussed that in the two years

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Speaker 1: you were together? You feel like dating you is a privilege,

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Speaker 1: and that's fine to feel that way about yourself. But

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Speaker 1: guess what the man has to feel that way about

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Speaker 1: you too. Okay, this one doesn't. He's saying you don't

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Speaker 1: bring anything to the table. You're more of a dependent

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Speaker 1: than a partner. You're a liability to him, not an asset.

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Speaker 1: And clearly he's tired. He's just tired of you. He's

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Speaker 1: tired of paying, he's tired of posting on social media.

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Speaker 1: He wants more substance from you. He has more in

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Speaker 1: common with the new girl. He's got someone doing wifely

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Speaker 1: stuff like cooking, cleaning, running errands with his mom, catering

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Speaker 1: to him, and she's only his girlfriend. That's not you.

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Speaker 1: You need a man to appreciate your looks and wants

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Speaker 1: to pay for your maintenance and to put a ring

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Speaker 1: on it, and good luck with that. That's all I

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Speaker 1: can tell you. Good luck with that. I hope you definitely,

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Speaker 1: I hope you find him Steve.

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Speaker 3: Okay, ladies, I don't know how you all are going

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Speaker 3: to feel about my response, but I have one to

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Speaker 3: this letter, and I just want to I don't want

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Speaker 3: to call this a teaching moment. I just want to

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Speaker 3: call this a sharing moment. I'm going to teach you

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Speaker 3: something about men that obviously this woman in this letter does.

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Speaker 2: Not know or does not understand.

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Speaker 3: So you all heard Shirley's response and you heard the letter.

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Speaker 3: Let me opened the letter by saying this, most women

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Speaker 3: that are wives today were wifey material before they became wives.

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Speaker 3: Let me say this to you again, most wives today

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Speaker 3: were wifey material before they became wives. Ain't nobody finished

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Speaker 3: sign up with you without knowing what they signing up for.

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Speaker 3: So now let me go on and do the letter. Now,

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Speaker 3: you're twenty nine years old, your boyfriend of two years

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Speaker 3: broke up with me. When I ask him for closure,

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Speaker 3: he finally agreed to tell me why he broke up. Now, congratulations,

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Speaker 3: because most men don't do that most men don't do closure.

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Speaker 2: We just bounced, he.

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Speaker 3: Said, he got bored because I'm shallowering. Okay, that means

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Speaker 3: ain't nothing to you. You're all surface nothing behind the window,

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Speaker 3: pretty window, But when you go in the store, we

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Speaker 3: don't have no more. You ever seen a store that

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Speaker 3: had a real good window in it, window dressing everybody

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Speaker 3: that Then you go in the store, you can't find nothing.

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Speaker 3: You won't because everything in the window was good, but

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Speaker 3: ain't the what's in the window ain't in your size.

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Speaker 3: All the window got you in, but you went into

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Speaker 3: store and nothing in that was worth to day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he said.

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Speaker 3: It was fun at first, but when we got to really

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Speaker 3: know me, that was nothing there but a pretty face

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Speaker 3: and a whole lot of unbelievable sex. Okay, it was nothing. Now,

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Speaker 3: maybe the conversation was missing. Maybe your dreams and values

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Speaker 3: and goals were not aligned with his. Just maybe you

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Speaker 3: can't just be pretty no mold ladies. Somebody won't something.

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Speaker 3: And I'm telling you, man, when y'all thinking y'all passing

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Speaker 3: out this unbelievable sex, you ain't the only one got

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Speaker 3: some sexo. And I can skip the unbelievable part if

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Speaker 3: I can get the rest of what I want.

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Speaker 2: Oh uh oh, I'm just sharing.

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Speaker 3: He told me all about got his new girlfriend, and

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Speaker 3: he said things are going great because she is who

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Speaker 3: she says she is inside and out. Oh so you

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Speaker 3: was faking in front. See how that works. He told

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Speaker 3: you you was shallow, wasn't nothing to you. But that

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Speaker 3: didn't stop you. You said, you know what you said

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Speaker 3: after he said that, I know I'm a total package.

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Speaker 3: And his new girlfriend is around a six on the

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Speaker 3: scale of one to t it to you.

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Speaker 2: To you, she is six to him.

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Speaker 3: She probably did total package. He was a pretty face

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Speaker 3: of umbing. That's what you was. I'll be back all right,

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Speaker 3: old y'all. Y'all didn't know how y'all was gonna feel

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Speaker 1: Well that part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject

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Speaker 1: is less is more and he loves it. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is less and less is more and he

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Speaker 1: loves I.

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Speaker 2: Just want to start this letter like I started before.

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Speaker 3: Remember this, ladies, I'm gonna teach you something about men.

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Speaker 3: Most women that are wives today were wifey material.

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Speaker 2: Before they became a wife. I'm just gonna tell you that.

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Speaker 3: So if you act like wifey material, you got a

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Speaker 3: chance of becoming a wife. If you don't ever demonstrate

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Speaker 3: any wifely wifely qualities and duties, and it's probably not

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Speaker 3: wifey material, It's okay.

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Speaker 2: The same thing about a man.

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Speaker 3: You want a man, that's all of that, right, Well,

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Speaker 3: don't you want your man to do show you manly

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Speaker 3: a chance of marrying without him showing you the type

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Speaker 3: of man he is. If this brother and this letter

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Speaker 3: ain't asking for much. He broke up with you, you

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Speaker 3: ask him for closure. He said he got bored because

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Speaker 3: you shallow. He said it was fun at first until

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Speaker 3: he got to know you, but you aren't nothing but

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Speaker 3: a pretty face and a whole lot of i'n believable sex.

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Speaker 2: Then he told you about his new girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: He said things, that is going great because she was

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Speaker 3: who she said she is inside and out. Oh she

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Speaker 3: had some depth. Oh she was who she said she was.

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Speaker 3: See what you presented ain't what you work. Now you

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Speaker 3: ain't got the like what Uncle Steve's saying. But and

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Speaker 3: then after he told you that, you know what you're saying, Oh,

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Speaker 3: I know, I'm a total package. And his new girl

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Speaker 3: is around the sixth on the scale of one to ten.

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Speaker 2: Well six to you, she.

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Speaker 3: Might be off the chart to him when we would argue,

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Speaker 3: he said I was too much. I told him to

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Speaker 3: go find less and he did. The argument was telling

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Speaker 3: you too much? You just you keep talking about all

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Speaker 2: You ain't.

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Speaker 3: He said, I was more of a dependent than a partner,

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Speaker 3: and I ain't bring anything to the table. Oh, so

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Speaker 3: it seemed to me like he was saying, you just

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Speaker 3: came to take, and you don't want to give nothing.

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Speaker 3: You know, relationships is give and take. It can't be

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Speaker 3: all get, ladies, it can't be all get.

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Speaker 2: I got.

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Speaker 3: You might be special and all that, and you should be,

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Speaker 3: but it can't be all get, no give. Relationships is

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Speaker 3: give and take. Then you guess what you said to that,

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Speaker 3: I hate that he feels that way. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 3: but why do he feel that way? See you taking

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Speaker 3: no ownership in none of this. I know I'm a

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Speaker 3: total package. And on a scale of one to ten,

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Speaker 3: she is six. I hate that he feels that way

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Speaker 3: dating me was a privilege. Okay, all right, well some

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Speaker 3: people Okay. I know his new girlfriends cousin, so I

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Speaker 2: Her cousin said, she's a real woman. Uhh uh huh.

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Speaker 3: You asked her cousin, what did her cousin have that

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Speaker 3: you don't. She said, she's a real woman, meaning somebody else,

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Speaker 3: thank you fake too, somebody else, thank you shallow. And

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Speaker 3: you ain't what you present on your ig pay that cooks,

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Speaker 3: social media. Ah you the IG girl, that's who she

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Speaker 3: is in real life. And there's no way that I

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Speaker 3: will cater to that man when we are dating. Let's

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Speaker 3: pump the breaks. There's no way that I will cater

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Speaker 2: While we're dating.

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Speaker 3: I told you at the top of the letter, most

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Speaker 3: women that are wives today are wifey before they became

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Speaker 3: a wife. I don't understand your theory here. You ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna show a man no qualities about sharing, giving and

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Speaker 3: carry just because y'all dating. I don't know what you

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Speaker 3: think the dating process is for the dating process is

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Speaker 3: so y'all can get to know each other. And he

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Speaker 3: told you after he got to know you, he found

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Speaker 3: out you were shallowing he should pay when we go

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Speaker 3: out and pay for all my maintenance. I got he

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Speaker 3: should pay when you go out, but all your maintenance.

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Speaker 3: Hold up, Okay, I don't mind that that that he

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Speaker 3: helped you out with your maintenance. But in the meantime,

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Speaker 3: what do he get? See, you can't. You can't want

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Speaker 3: from a man and don't give to a man. I

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Speaker 3: keep this is a give and take system. When he

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Speaker 3: up and contribute. You're not gonna get a ring. You're

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Speaker 3: When he puts a ring on it, I will step

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Speaker 3: But now if you all love it, you got to

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Speaker 3: mean by that is a dude got to go Wow,

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Speaker 3: she giving me this man. If I marry this girl, man,

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Speaker 3: she could probably help me out make my dreams come true.

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Speaker 3: Man with that girl would be me a great mother

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Speaker 3: step up and contribute. The new girl washes his clothes,

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Speaker 3: hair done. Is this why men are so trifling?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: The women are doing more and settling for less. Am

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Speaker 3: I supposed to lower my standards for dating? Absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: You should not lower your standards for date. But he

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Speaker 2: Going with standards. What you're looking for a man, that

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