WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pre-Engagement Ring

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update?

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<v Speaker 2>What's the percentage of guys reaching out to us versus

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<v Speaker 2>girls on these second dates?

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<v Speaker 1>We never good questions, We never really talk about that.

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<v Speaker 3>I would assume it's more dudes.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, hey, I feel like it's a pretty fifty to fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked our producer, And out of the hundreds of

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<v Speaker 2>emails we get from all across North America every month,

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<v Speaker 2>he thinks it's around eighty five percent dudes, fourteen percent ladies,

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<v Speaker 2>and one percent UFO. Why aren't you answering the homing

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<v Speaker 2>beacon if you add one more to the ladies column,

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<v Speaker 2>because today we're going to be talking to Alexandra Alexandra

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<v Speaker 2>cann of call you Ali short for a L I

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<v Speaker 2>E N Alien.

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<v Speaker 1>They're out there, I believe.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, did I call a conspiracy where we're.

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<v Speaker 5>Doing a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>I was, let's start with the guy whose name who

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<v Speaker 1>had abducted you? Who is it?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 7>He didn't object me.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, okay, his name is Scott and I met him online.

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<v Speaker 5>Normal name, Jeff, normal Scotty. I meant that one was

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<v Speaker 5>a lame Okay, So wait, you met him online?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry I got distracted.

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<v Speaker 8>To Yeah, So we met him line, and I thought

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<v Speaker 8>his like profile was really funny because then he said,

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<v Speaker 8>do you like bad boys?

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<v Speaker 9>Because I'm bad at everything.

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<v Speaker 6>I never heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't heard that one before. There's a first for everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's okay, it's still funny.

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<v Speaker 4>It just means like, even if it's not an original joke,

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<v Speaker 4>it still means that he is self deprecating and wants.

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<v Speaker 5>To be Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought it was cute.

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<v Speaker 8>So we decided to meet at a seafood restaurant and

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<v Speaker 8>it's attached to the mall, and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 8>is perfect.

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<v Speaker 7>Like I love.

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<v Speaker 8>Chopping and I love seafood, so like, okay, and a

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<v Speaker 8>new person.

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<v Speaker 5>In the other Okay, well that's good that that was

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<v Speaker 5>right up your alley. Was shopping part of it? Or

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<v Speaker 5>you were just going to do that before you met him.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just going to do that before I met him.

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<v Speaker 5>Got it?

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, what a fun day for you. How did

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<v Speaker 2>the actual dinner go?

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<v Speaker 8>It was great, Like he ordered a Pooh poop lacker.

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<v Speaker 8>It's like I thought it was a joke, but I

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<v Speaker 8>learned something new.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I didn't know that either.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, it's like a mixture of food and seafood.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's fun. You're trying new things. You're meeting a

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<v Speaker 5>new person.

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<v Speaker 8>Like the food was awesome, so yummy, and I thought

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<v Speaker 8>we were having a great time, like we have the

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<v Speaker 8>more lights bul cool.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>I was like, I think this could be something real,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that's a deep connection on a first date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when they are checking off all those boxes and

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, wow, you really are likeable.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you had a lot to drink. So

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<v Speaker 2>what happened after dinner?

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<v Speaker 8>After dinner, we were walking streets mall to get to

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<v Speaker 8>our cars, and I was like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 8>think he's going to kiss me. But then I started

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<v Speaker 8>freaking out because I didn't have a gum or mint

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<v Speaker 8>in my purse and we just.

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<v Speaker 9>Had fish so I had like fish breas.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but you both had fish breast.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like if you combine two fish breasts together,

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<v Speaker 2>it's some sort of explosive thing.

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<v Speaker 8>Happened.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I think it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like cyber dessert.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby get over.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexandra doesn't sound.

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<v Speaker 5>Like she's into it, though, what'd you do?

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<v Speaker 8>I was worried, so I was just like, Okay, hold

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<v Speaker 8>on a second, and then I ran into a department

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<v Speaker 8>stork and I just like sprayed some perfume in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 7>I just was like panicking, so I sprayed the perview

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<v Speaker 7>in my mouth and then we walked to my car

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<v Speaker 7>and he did kiss me.

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<v Speaker 4>You were acting so nonchalant about the perfume spray, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>didn't it make you like really strong too?

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly?

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<v Speaker 3>Also, he kissed you, you said he noticed.

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<v Speaker 1>I would assume yes. What was his.

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<v Speaker 7>Reaction, I mean he didn't seem to care.

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<v Speaker 8>Like then he was like, you want to come over

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<v Speaker 8>and watch a movie?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, really, okay, let's go home.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, Like he didn't mention anything, and then I went over.

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<v Speaker 8>We spent the night. It was super fulk much. I

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<v Speaker 8>thought it was a great day.

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<v Speaker 9>But now it's like been a week and I haven't

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<v Speaker 9>heard from him, so I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>What was it like in the morning, it was fine.

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<v Speaker 8>It was a weekday, so we both had to like

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<v Speaker 8>get up early and go So was there.

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<v Speaker 2>A morning kiss when you left, except to use like

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<v Speaker 2>oven cleaner or something?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh no, I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, there wasn't a morning kiss. There wasn't a good

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<v Speaker 5>bye kiss or anything.

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<v Speaker 9>No, it was just like a hug.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh cooled off from the previous. That's a little bit odd.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that is weird because I hate to say

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<v Speaker 3>it this way, but if you can deal with seafood breath,

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<v Speaker 3>you can deal with perfume breath, morning breathe.

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<v Speaker 5>Just brush your face.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we're gonna play a song. We'll come back.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll call Scott and try and see if we can

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<v Speaker 2>get you a second date update.

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<v Speaker 9>All right, Okay, I think okay, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing about relationships is you never forget that first kiss,

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<v Speaker 2>eyes closed, soft lips, hint of mahi mahi on the tone,

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<v Speaker 2>This slight aftertaste of oh, the toilette. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 2>have to give Alexandra props for thinking on her feet

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<v Speaker 2>when she felt like she had bad breath, because right

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<v Speaker 2>before her kiss was Scott in the mall parking lot.

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<v Speaker 2>She ducked into a department store and splas some sample

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<v Speaker 2>perfume into her mouth to mask the fish breath from dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>How would that taste better?

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<v Speaker 7>Though?

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<v Speaker 5>You should have gone like a candy shop or something exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you can judge all you want, ladies, But she

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<v Speaker 2>ended up spending the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Over at Scott's toys afterwards. Now he has been ghosting.

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<v Speaker 2>But Alexandra, if this all goes to plan, you could

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<v Speaker 2>become the next big perfume model.

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<v Speaker 9>That would be amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think that's the endorsement most perfume.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like, I think there may be even a

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<v Speaker 4>warning like do not ingest on the bottles.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's, you know, some thrift store that would

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<v Speaker 2>love to have you as their mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, how are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 9>I'm feeling good. I just want to know, like, what's

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<v Speaker 9>up with him?

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<v Speaker 5>What's your theory?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, I really honestly don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>He's got cold, Like the connection was too strong, it

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<v Speaker 4>overwhelmed him.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, like we got freaked out.

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<v Speaker 2>That happens a lot on these too strong of a connection,

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<v Speaker 2>too much.

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<v Speaker 5>Love, sarcasm in your voice.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just playing off what you said. Everything was perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>So never mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, let's stop speculating. We're just going to give Scott

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<v Speaker 2>a call and see what he has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>You ready, Yeah, all right, here we go. Oho, Hey

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<v Speaker 1>is a Scott. Who's hey? My name is Jeff from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing something on our show called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're looking to help out one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>who you took out to seafood recently named Alexandra.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but how how are you guys involved in that?

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly great question?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Alexandra chose to get us involved because after what

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<v Speaker 2>she described as a really good date, you have been

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<v Speaker 2>kind of m ia.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh hu. So she called you guys about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's just a little confused.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, that's a little weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, but I mean think of it from her perspective, right,

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<v Speaker 4>like you were giving her all the signals that you

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<v Speaker 4>liked her. You seemed like you guys had a good time,

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<v Speaker 4>she stayed the night, and then nothing from you.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 6>That's so what you guys want me to tell you? Why,

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<v Speaker 6>like on the radio for like everybody get here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean really, we're not that interested in your

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<v Speaker 2>dating life, but Alexandra has a pretty big stake in it.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to know. She's worried maybe she did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe there's a misunderstanding that you guys could work out.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, I don't know if she wants me to say

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<v Speaker 6>it on air. I can. I mean, she could have

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<v Speaker 6>called me. I guess I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>We heard that she has been calling you and how

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<v Speaker 2>has been texting you and you're not answering.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, fine, if she wants to know, I can tell

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<v Speaker 6>her and everybody can hear it.

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<v Speaker 5>And she you sound really angry.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean she was fine. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 6>chill night, we had a good time, dinner was fine.

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<v Speaker 6>The kiss is good. But look, I you know, sometimes

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<v Speaker 6>you get those red flags, and I got a really

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<v Speaker 6>probably one of the biggest red flags I've ever gotten.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, bro, oh what happened?

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<v Speaker 6>So she told me that she went shopping and she's like,

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<v Speaker 6>do you want to see.

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<v Speaker 3>What I bought?

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<v Speaker 6>And I was like, okay, yeah, sure. I mean I

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<v Speaker 6>guess you brought it with JR. Days and that maybe

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<v Speaker 6>be kind of like kinky or something, you know, think fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and sorry, where where is this happening?

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<v Speaker 6>It's bet my place, it'scept my place. She takes that

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<v Speaker 6>like a little box, like a little velvet box. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 6>is bad to like proposed to me? Or she gets

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<v Speaker 6>on her knee, But no, she didn't propose. But you

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<v Speaker 6>show it is a ring and it's a nice ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, wow, wait so this was like an engage and ring.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah it was. It was a nice engagement ring. And

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<v Speaker 6>I thought that was weird just off the bat. But

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<v Speaker 6>then I was like, okay, so, like are you trying

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<v Speaker 6>to marry somebody or is this just for you to

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<v Speaker 6>like have a nice ring? And she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 6>I bought it for myself. But she said that we're

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<v Speaker 6>dating and it's going well and getting serious enow, which

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not even really sure how serious. Like I had

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<v Speaker 6>a feeling like two dates might be serious enough for

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<v Speaker 6>her that I would take over the payments for the

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<v Speaker 6>ring because she didn't pay for it all out right.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's what she said.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait.

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<v Speaker 4>In my head I was going through like, good for you,

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<v Speaker 4>a girl by yourself a ring, like you weren't charge

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<v Speaker 4>of your money, but she didn't actually buy it, she

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<v Speaker 4>didn't pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I have to like pay her the rent

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<v Speaker 6>on her rank.

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<v Speaker 5>That had to be a joke. I mean, honestly, I

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<v Speaker 5>had to be. She was joking with you, so.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I thought so too. I was like, that's a

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<v Speaker 6>pretty weird joke, and She's like, no, I'm serious, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>this is how I know someone's curious about me. I

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<v Speaker 6>want them to pay for the ring that I bought.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know, like if I'm going to make that

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<v Speaker 6>kind of decision where I'm gonna I'm gonna marry somebody,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna buy my own ring and I'll pay for

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<v Speaker 6>it whatever. But oh wow, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Might get too engagement of this. It sounds like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care.

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't you just tell her that you have a

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<v Speaker 4>car payment and so if you guys get serious, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>she could take that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's what couples do. They work together in

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<v Speaker 1>these things.

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<v Speaker 2>And another thing that couples do is they secretly wait

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<v Speaker 2>on the other line while the other person is telling

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<v Speaker 2>their dating story. Yeah, because I need to let you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Scott that Alexandra's on the other line listening and she

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<v Speaker 2>wants to talk to you. Okay, that's not a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>She's really there.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Hello, No, nice, how are you?

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<v Speaker 8>I haven't heard from you?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, yeah, I explained why.

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<v Speaker 5>Alexandra. Did he get that right?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you really tell him that he would take over

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<v Speaker 4>the payments of this engagement ring or like, were you kidding?

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<v Speaker 8>Let me explain like eventually. I was like, I just

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<v Speaker 8>don't want to play any games, Like I'm putting all

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<v Speaker 8>my cards on the table. I want a serious relationship

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<v Speaker 8>and like eventually I want to get married. And I

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<v Speaker 8>picked out the ring because I've been engaged with before

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<v Speaker 8>and he I didn't like the ring at all, So

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<v Speaker 8>I was like, let me just pick one out for myself.

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<v Speaker 8>And like I'm not thinking immediately he'll start paying for it,

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<v Speaker 8>but like, yeah, eventually we're dating.

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<v Speaker 7>For a while, he can take over the payments.

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<v Speaker 1>So what is your visa numbers? We could take that

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<v Speaker 1>down real quick.

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<v Speaker 6>You know that doesn't sit right with me?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh your MasterCard? That's okay, we accept.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I said, to me, kind of sounds like a

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<v Speaker 6>scam a little bit. It sounds like to me, she

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<v Speaker 6>wants a sugar daddy that's going to give her like

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<v Speaker 6>some kind of monthly payment.

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<v Speaker 1>Marriage does sound like a answer a lot of guys.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a natural feeling. But that's okay, that's just love.

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<v Speaker 6>And okay if we break up, are you going to refund

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<v Speaker 6>me the money for the ring? Now?

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good question, though, I mean she's not asking,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think right Alexander for you to like take

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<v Speaker 4>over the payment next week.

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<v Speaker 5>She's talking like a year or two down the line.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, like not that far down the line, but maybe

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<v Speaker 8>like a few months.

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<v Speaker 5>Already wearing it. That's so fast, so much like.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it's extensive.

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<v Speaker 9>It's like a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so intimidating for anybody, a guy or a girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if I told a girl, hey, I want to

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<v Speaker 3>propose to you someday, I already picked out the ring.

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<v Speaker 3>If you really want to get married, you got to

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<v Speaker 3>start paying in on it or something, she'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>what the heck, you don't buy it.

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<v Speaker 8>Make the man do it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just like all so much on a first date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's just absurd, Like the first couple, that is

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<v Speaker 6>a game. You're playing a game right here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's not a game.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm saying, this is what I want. If Scott, if

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<v Speaker 7>you don't want to lock.

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<v Speaker 8>This down, then I'm not going to be around.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to lock it down. Well, that's why

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not taking up your phone calls.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like, I think you're concentrated too much on

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<v Speaker 4>the engagement in the wedding and not so much on

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<v Speaker 4>the partnership with another person.

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<v Speaker 3>On the finish line. You haven't even started the race yet.

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<v Speaker 1>No one cares about the race. The finish line is

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<v Speaker 1>the only thing that's fun.

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<v Speaker 7>It's fine.

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<v Speaker 9>It's fine because I was more attracted to your brother anyway.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you even know about my brother?

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<v Speaker 9>I saw a picture of him on your desk, get

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<v Speaker 9>your place, and you know you're like a seven, but

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<v Speaker 9>he's definitely.

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<v Speaker 7>Like a nine.

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<v Speaker 2>I think has a higher higher credit score than Scott.

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<v Speaker 2>We could probably afford that ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, third, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean, what are you talking like? I'm telling you know

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<v Speaker 6>that they're gonna go after my brother and gonna try

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<v Speaker 6>to get him to marry you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're she's created and she thinks on her feet,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's a good planner, a head and.

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<v Speaker 6>We would live at hammer.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you become a gammer planner.

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<v Speaker 2>It's you know, one letter basically the same, and we

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<v Speaker 2>would like to send you guys out on another date

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<v Speaker 2>on our credit.

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<v Speaker 5>Card, which does not have a very high limit.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got about thirty bucks less. So either one

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<v Speaker 1>of you, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't call my brother either. I'll tell him about you.

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<v Speaker 9>I'll tell him I've already contacted him on Facebook and

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<v Speaker 9>said that you lie about it, so look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're already starting family drama. Jeez, that is

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<v Speaker 5>Some word flies Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.