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Speaker 1: Second date update?

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Speaker 2: What's the percentage of guys reaching out to us versus

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Speaker 2: girls on these second dates?

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Speaker 1: We never good questions, We never really talk about that.

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Speaker 3: I would assume it's more dudes.

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Speaker 4: Well, hey, I feel like it's a pretty fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 2: I asked our producer, And out of the hundreds of

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Speaker 2: emails we get from all across North America every month,

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Speaker 2: he thinks it's around eighty five percent dudes, fourteen percent ladies,

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Speaker 2: and one percent UFO. Why aren't you answering the homing

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Speaker 2: beacon if you add one more to the ladies column,

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Speaker 2: because today we're going to be talking to Alexandra Alexandra

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Speaker 2: cann of call you Ali short for a L I

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Speaker 2: E N Alien.

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Speaker 1: They're out there, I believe.

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Speaker 2: Hey.

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Speaker 4: I was like, did I call a conspiracy where we're.

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Speaker 5: Doing a second date?

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Speaker 1: I was, let's start with the guy whose name who

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Speaker 1: had abducted you? Who is it?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 7: He didn't object me.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, his name is Scott and I met him online.

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Speaker 5: Normal name, Jeff, normal Scotty. I meant that one was

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Speaker 5: a lame Okay, So wait, you met him online?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry I got distracted.

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Speaker 8: To Yeah, So we met him line, and I thought

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Speaker 8: his like profile was really funny because then he said,

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Speaker 8: do you like bad boys?

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Speaker 9: Because I'm bad at everything.

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Speaker 6: I never heard that.

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Speaker 1: You haven't heard that one before. There's a first for everybody,

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 5: I think that's okay, it's still funny.

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Speaker 4: It just means like, even if it's not an original joke,

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Speaker 4: it still means that he is self deprecating and wants.

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Speaker 5: To be Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I thought it was cute.

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Speaker 8: So we decided to meet at a seafood restaurant and

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Speaker 8: it's attached to the mall, and I was like, this

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Speaker 8: is perfect.

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Speaker 7: Like I love.

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Speaker 8: Chopping and I love seafood, so like, okay, and a

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Speaker 8: new person.

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Speaker 5: In the other Okay, well that's good that that was

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Speaker 5: right up your alley. Was shopping part of it? Or

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Speaker 5: you were just going to do that before you met him.

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Speaker 7: I was just going to do that before I met him.

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Speaker 5: Got it?

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Speaker 2: But okay, what a fun day for you. How did

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Speaker 2: the actual dinner go?

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Speaker 8: It was great, Like he ordered a Pooh poop lacker.

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Speaker 8: It's like I thought it was a joke, but I

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Speaker 8: learned something new.

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Speaker 5: You know, I didn't know that either.

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Speaker 1: Basically, it's like a mixture of food and seafood.

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Speaker 5: So that's fun. You're trying new things. You're meeting a

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Speaker 5: new person.

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Speaker 8: Like the food was awesome, so yummy, and I thought

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Speaker 8: we were having a great time, like we have the

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Speaker 8: more lights bul cool.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I was like, I think this could be something real,

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Speaker 8: you know, Okay.

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Speaker 5: I mean that's a deep connection on a first date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when they are checking off all those boxes and

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Speaker 3: you're like, wow, you really are likeable.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you had a lot to drink. So

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Speaker 2: what happened after dinner?

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Speaker 8: After dinner, we were walking streets mall to get to

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Speaker 8: our cars, and I was like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 8: think he's going to kiss me. But then I started

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Speaker 8: freaking out because I didn't have a gum or mint

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Speaker 8: in my purse and we just.

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Speaker 9: Had fish so I had like fish breas.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you both had fish breast.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if you combine two fish breasts together,

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Speaker 2: it's some sort of explosive thing.

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Speaker 8: Happened.

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Speaker 5: No, I think it's fine.

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Speaker 1: It's like cyber dessert.

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Speaker 3: Baby get over.

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Speaker 1: Alexandra doesn't sound.

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Speaker 5: Like she's into it, though, what'd you do?

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Speaker 8: I was worried, so I was just like, Okay, hold

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Speaker 8: on a second, and then I ran into a department

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Speaker 8: stork and I just like sprayed some perfume in my mouth.

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Speaker 7: I just was like panicking, so I sprayed the perview

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Speaker 7: in my mouth and then we walked to my car

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Speaker 7: and he did kiss me.

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Speaker 4: You were acting so nonchalant about the perfume spray, Like,

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Speaker 4: didn't it make you like really strong too?

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Speaker 5: Exactly?

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Speaker 3: Also, he kissed you, you said he noticed.

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Speaker 1: I would assume yes. What was his.

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Speaker 7: Reaction, I mean he didn't seem to care.

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Speaker 8: Like then he was like, you want to come over

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Speaker 8: and watch a movie?

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Speaker 1: He's like, really, okay, let's go home.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Like he didn't mention anything, and then I went over.

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Speaker 8: We spent the night. It was super fulk much. I

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Speaker 8: thought it was a great day.

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Speaker 9: But now it's like been a week and I haven't

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Speaker 9: heard from him, so I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 5: What was it like in the morning, it was fine.

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Speaker 8: It was a weekday, so we both had to like

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Speaker 8: get up early and go So was there.

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Speaker 2: A morning kiss when you left, except to use like

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Speaker 2: oven cleaner or something?

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Speaker 8: Oh no, I mean.

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Speaker 5: Wait, there wasn't a morning kiss. There wasn't a good

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Speaker 5: bye kiss or anything.

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Speaker 9: No, it was just like a hug.

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Speaker 2: Oh cooled off from the previous. That's a little bit odd.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that is weird because I hate to say

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Speaker 3: it this way, but if you can deal with seafood breath,

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Speaker 3: you can deal with perfume breath, morning breathe.

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Speaker 5: Just brush your face.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we're gonna play a song. We'll come back.

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Speaker 2: We'll call Scott and try and see if we can

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Speaker 2: get you a second date update.

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Speaker 9: All right, Okay, I think okay, hold on.

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Speaker 1: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: The thing about relationships is you never forget that first kiss,

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Speaker 2: eyes closed, soft lips, hint of mahi mahi on the tone,

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Speaker 2: This slight aftertaste of oh, the toilette. I mean, you

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Speaker 2: have to give Alexandra props for thinking on her feet

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Speaker 2: when she felt like she had bad breath, because right

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Speaker 2: before her kiss was Scott in the mall parking lot.

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Speaker 2: She ducked into a department store and splas some sample

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Speaker 2: perfume into her mouth to mask the fish breath from dinner.

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Speaker 5: How would that taste better?

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Speaker 7: Though?

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Speaker 5: You should have gone like a candy shop or something exactly.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can judge all you want, ladies, But she

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Speaker 2: ended up spending the night.

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Speaker 1: Over at Scott's toys afterwards. Now he has been ghosting.

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Speaker 2: But Alexandra, if this all goes to plan, you could

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Speaker 2: become the next big perfume model.

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Speaker 9: That would be amazing.

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Speaker 5: I don't think that's the endorsement most perfume.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like, I think there may be even a

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Speaker 4: warning like do not ingest on the bottles.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure there's, you know, some thrift store that would

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Speaker 2: love to have you as their mom.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how are you feeling?

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Speaker 9: I'm feeling good. I just want to know, like, what's

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Speaker 9: up with him?

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Speaker 5: What's your theory?

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Speaker 7: You know, I really honestly don't know.

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Speaker 4: He's got cold, Like the connection was too strong, it

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Speaker 4: overwhelmed him.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like we got freaked out.

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Speaker 2: That happens a lot on these too strong of a connection,

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Speaker 2: too much.

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Speaker 5: Love, sarcasm in your voice.

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Speaker 1: I'm just playing off what you said. Everything was perfect,

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Speaker 1: So never mind.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, let's stop speculating. We're just going to give Scott

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Speaker 2: a call and see what he has to say.

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Speaker 1: You ready, Yeah, all right, here we go. Oho, Hey

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Speaker 1: is a Scott. Who's hey? My name is Jeff from

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Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Uh, okay, cool.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 2: We're doing something on our show called a second Date Update,

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Speaker 2: and we're looking to help out one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: who you took out to seafood recently named Alexandra.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but how how are you guys involved in that?

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Speaker 5: Exactly great question?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Alexandra chose to get us involved because after what

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Speaker 2: she described as a really good date, you have been

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Speaker 2: kind of m ia.

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Speaker 6: Uh hu. So she called you guys about that.

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Speaker 1: Well, she's just a little confused.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's a little weird.

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Speaker 4: Well, but I mean think of it from her perspective, right,

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Speaker 4: like you were giving her all the signals that you

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Speaker 4: liked her. You seemed like you guys had a good time,

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Speaker 4: she stayed the night, and then nothing from you.

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Speaker 7: Uh huh.

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Speaker 6: That's so what you guys want me to tell you? Why,

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Speaker 6: like on the radio for like everybody get here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean really, we're not that interested in your

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Speaker 2: dating life, but Alexandra has a pretty big stake in it.

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Speaker 1: She wants to know. She's worried maybe she did something wrong.

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Speaker 8: Uh huh.

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Speaker 5: Maybe there's a misunderstanding that you guys could work out.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Uh, I don't know if she wants me to say

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Speaker 6: it on air. I can. I mean, she could have

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Speaker 6: called me. I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We heard that she has been calling you and how

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Speaker 2: has been texting you and you're not answering.

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Speaker 6: Okay, fine, if she wants to know, I can tell

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Speaker 6: her and everybody can hear it.

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Speaker 5: And she you sound really angry.

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Speaker 6: No, I mean she was fine. I mean it was

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Speaker 6: chill night, we had a good time, dinner was fine.

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Speaker 6: The kiss is good. But look, I you know, sometimes

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Speaker 6: you get those red flags, and I got a really

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Speaker 6: probably one of the biggest red flags I've ever gotten.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, bro, oh what happened?

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Speaker 6: So she told me that she went shopping and she's like,

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Speaker 6: do you want to see.

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Speaker 3: What I bought?

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Speaker 6: And I was like, okay, yeah, sure. I mean I

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Speaker 6: guess you brought it with JR. Days and that maybe

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Speaker 6: be kind of like kinky or something, you know, think fun.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and sorry, where where is this happening?

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Speaker 6: It's bet my place, it'scept my place. She takes that

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Speaker 6: like a little box, like a little velvet box. I'm like,

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Speaker 6: is bad to like proposed to me? Or she gets

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Speaker 6: on her knee, But no, she didn't propose. But you

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Speaker 6: show it is a ring and it's a nice ring.

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Speaker 1: Like, wow, wait so this was like an engage and ring.

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Speaker 6: Yeah it was. It was a nice engagement ring. And

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Speaker 6: I thought that was weird just off the bat. But

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Speaker 6: then I was like, okay, so, like are you trying

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Speaker 6: to marry somebody or is this just for you to

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Speaker 6: like have a nice ring? And she was like, well,

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Speaker 6: I bought it for myself. But she said that we're

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Speaker 6: dating and it's going well and getting serious enow, which

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Speaker 6: I'm not even really sure how serious. Like I had

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Speaker 6: a feeling like two dates might be serious enough for

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Speaker 6: her that I would take over the payments for the

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Speaker 6: ring because she didn't pay for it all out right.

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Speaker 1: That's that's what she said.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wait.

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Speaker 4: In my head I was going through like, good for you,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I have to like pay her the rent

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Speaker 5: That had to be a joke. I mean, honestly, I

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Speaker 6: No, I thought so too. I was like, that's a

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Speaker 6: But you know, like if I'm going to make that

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna buy my own ring and I'll pay for

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Speaker 1: Might get too engagement of this. It sounds like, I

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Speaker 4: Why didn't you just tell her that you have a

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's what couples do. They work together in

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Speaker 2: And another thing that couples do is they secretly wait

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Speaker 2: Scott that Alexandra's on the other line listening and she

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you. Okay, that's not a joke.

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Speaker 1: She's really there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Hello, No, nice, how are you?

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Speaker 8: I haven't heard from you?

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I explained why.

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Speaker 5: Alexandra. Did he get that right?

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Speaker 4: Did you really tell him that he would take over

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Speaker 8: Let me explain like eventually. I was like, I just

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Speaker 8: don't want to play any games, Like I'm putting all

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Speaker 8: I was like, let me just pick one out for myself.

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Speaker 8: And like I'm not thinking immediately he'll start paying for it,

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Speaker 7: For a while, he can take over the payments.

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Speaker 1: So what is your visa numbers? We could take that

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Speaker 6: You know that doesn't sit right with me?

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Speaker 1: Oh your MasterCard? That's okay, we accept.

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Speaker 6: Like I said, to me, kind of sounds like a

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Speaker 1: Marriage does sound like a answer a lot of guys.

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Speaker 1: That's a natural feeling. But that's okay, that's just love.

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Speaker 6: And okay if we break up, are you going to refund

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Speaker 4: That's a good question, though, I mean she's not asking,

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Speaker 4: I don't think right Alexander for you to like take

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Speaker 5: She's talking like a year or two down the line.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like not that far down the line, but maybe

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Speaker 5: Already wearing it. That's so fast, so much like.

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Speaker 7: No, it's extensive.

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Speaker 9: It's like a lot of money.

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Speaker 3: That's so intimidating for anybody, a guy or a girl.

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Speaker 3: Like if I told a girl, hey, I want to

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Speaker 3: If you really want to get married, you got to

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Speaker 3: what the heck, you don't buy it.

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Speaker 8: Make the man do it.

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Speaker 5: It's just like all so much on a first date.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's just absurd, Like the first couple, that is

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Speaker 6: a game. You're playing a game right here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not a game.

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Speaker 7: I'm saying, this is what I want. If Scott, if

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Speaker 7: you don't want to lock.

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Speaker 8: This down, then I'm not going to be around.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to lock it down. Well, that's why

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Speaker 6: I'm not taking up your phone calls.

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Speaker 4: It's just like, I think you're concentrated too much on

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Speaker 3: On the finish line. You haven't even started the race yet.

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Speaker 1: No one cares about the race. The finish line is

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Speaker 1: the only thing that's fun.

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Speaker 7: It's fine.

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Speaker 9: It's fine because I was more attracted to your brother anyway.

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Speaker 6: What do you even know about my brother?

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Speaker 9: I saw a picture of him on your desk, get

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Speaker 9: your place, and you know you're like a seven, but

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Speaker 9: he's definitely.

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Speaker 7: Like a nine.

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Speaker 2: I think has a higher higher credit score than Scott.

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Speaker 2: We could probably afford that ring.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, third, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean, what are you talking like? I'm telling you know

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Speaker 6: that they're gonna go after my brother and gonna try

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Speaker 6: to get him to marry you.

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Speaker 2: Like you're she's created and she thinks on her feet,

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Speaker 2: and she's a good planner, a head and.

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Speaker 6: We would live at hammer.

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Speaker 1: Before you become a gammer planner.

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Speaker 2: It's you know, one letter basically the same, and we

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Speaker 2: would like to send you guys out on another date

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Speaker 2: on our credit.

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Speaker 5: Card, which does not have a very high limit.

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Speaker 1: So we got about thirty bucks less. So either one

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Speaker 1: of you, I'm good.

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Speaker 9: I'm good.

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Speaker 6: I don't call my brother either. I'll tell him about you.

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Speaker 9: I'll tell him I've already contacted him on Facebook and

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Speaker 9: said that you lie about it, so look at that.

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Speaker 1: We're already starting family drama. Jeez, that is

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Speaker 5: Some word flies Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.