WEBVTT - A ‘Golden’/‘Happy Hour’ Crossover: Part 2

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<v Speaker 1>And today we're so excited because we have two very

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<v Speaker 1>special guests. Oh yes, happy our family.

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<v Speaker 2>We do our Bachelor Happy Hour family. Joe A Mobley

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<v Speaker 2>and Serena Pitt are here. Joe Jackey, thanks for joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>How you been perfect pronunciation of Joe's last name. Incredible job.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm going to Italy soon, so I've been

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<v Speaker 2>studying and I understand that a mobley has something to

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<v Speaker 2>do with love, so I've memorized.

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<v Speaker 4>It love or sweet one of them. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just a lovely sweet boy.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a lovely sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>But thank you guys, Thank you guys so much for

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<v Speaker 5>having us. We're excited to be on your podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to know what's going on with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, go ahead, would you guys ever do another TV

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<v Speaker 1>reality show?

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<v Speaker 2>They're married?

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<v Speaker 5>I got one, I got one coming out, I got

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<v Speaker 5>one coming out May ninth, So birthday?

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Yeah, Well you can celebrate your birthday by watching

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<v Speaker 3>Joe's new show The on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa, Well, congrats to Joe.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you. It's a competition show, so yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the greatest reality star of all time is the concept.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like all reality stars. Tasha's on it as

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<v Speaker 3>well from Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, how fun? Did you guys have an anniversary coming up?

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<v Speaker 1>So congratulations?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what's crazy is this June will be three

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<v Speaker 3>years since we did Paradise. So we met on June seventh,

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<v Speaker 3>which was the first day of filming, and then we

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<v Speaker 3>got engaged on Oh shoot, I always forget this day.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was June twenty sixth Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know right away? How'd you know that he

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<v Speaker 2>was the one? Yeah? I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know right away, but I was like definitely

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<v Speaker 3>like only eyes for him pretty early on, like very

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<v Speaker 3>drawn to him, Like, so, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>What about Joe right away?

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<v Speaker 1>Joe, you're being silent?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, how did I know? That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if there's like a we haven't been

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<v Speaker 2>not supposed to be a hard question that was supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to be just a real, real throw it to easy

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<v Speaker 2>one there.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I think I think it was about.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I knew I was attracted to her and

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<v Speaker 5>really liked her, like immediately, and then I think it

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<v Speaker 5>was probably it was probably about two weeks into where

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, we also vibe really well together, like

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<v Speaker 5>we we mesh well, we're.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, we're very compatible.

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<v Speaker 5>And then everything just kept getting better and better, like

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<v Speaker 5>the relationship, Yeah, the relationship and just how I felt

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<v Speaker 5>about her just kept growing and growing. And that's when

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, well, at this rate, yeah, this is

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<v Speaker 5>gonna work to be married.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it was like love at first sight,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but like it was definitely connection at

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<v Speaker 3>first like I can still remember like seeing him for

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<v Speaker 3>the first time, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Like chemistry first conversation, like.

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<v Speaker 6>Feeling like electric. Yeah, I do.

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<v Speaker 5>I do think in an atmosphere like Bachelor and Paradise,

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<v Speaker 5>love at first sight. I don't even know if that

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<v Speaker 5>like exists there because everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of knows everyone, even if it's just through like

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<v Speaker 3>word of mouth, like heard of this person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, like totally it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. But I have a question. So you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>are you know, relatively newly married compared to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>how long suits and I were married. So I want

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<v Speaker 2>to know, what do you think we'll keep your spark

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<v Speaker 2>alive as as your relationship with chorts long term relationships?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you going to do it?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a very spontaneous person and I plan on always

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<v Speaker 5>being that way, and I feel like that is one

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<v Speaker 5>one way for sure.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I do love that about Joe is like he'll be like,

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<v Speaker 3>let's let's do this, let's go here all of a sudden.

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<v Speaker 3>I do think that's not as much my personality, but

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<v Speaker 3>I do like I'm an activity person, so it does

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<v Speaker 3>keep things exciting interesting. I also just think like keep

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<v Speaker 3>dating each other, like we like to do new things together,

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<v Speaker 3>make new memories, like push ourselves to you know, even

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<v Speaker 3>if it's just like let's go try this new restaurant tonight,

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah, it keeps it fun and developing and exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Just stay spontaneous because it adds a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and well, you knows, as you're together longer, it

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<v Speaker 2>gets a little more difficult to do that. So I

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<v Speaker 2>love that you say spontaneous because if you do that,

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<v Speaker 2>your relationship will keep growing and evolving.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw this thing on Instagram that was like you

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<v Speaker 3>have to hug for eight seconds a day for like

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<v Speaker 3>a serotonin release or like a some sort of like

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<v Speaker 3>dopamine hit or something, and then kiss for six seconds

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<v Speaker 3>a day and that, like, Susan, you and I are

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<v Speaker 3>screw there's a chemical release from that.

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<v Speaker 1>The universe hugs me every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what are you kissing for eight seconds? I want

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<v Speaker 2>to hear about that too.

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<v Speaker 1>So we have some fan advice questions. Can we play

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<v Speaker 1>with you guys? Yeah, let's do it, okay, Sophia wrote, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Golden Hour family, My fiance Brett and I are getting

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<v Speaker 1>married in July and we are so excited. Something has

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<v Speaker 1>come up that I need your advice on because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>truly not sure what to do. My parents got divorced

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<v Speaker 1>six years ago and my dad has a partner he's

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<v Speaker 1>been dating for two years now. My mom wants to

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<v Speaker 1>bring her new boyfriend of the month of one month

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<v Speaker 1>to the wedding. We have strict long term partners only

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<v Speaker 1>for plus ones at our wedding. My fiance and I

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<v Speaker 1>still haven't met this guy she's dating. Wow, but my

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<v Speaker 1>mom is saying how hard it would be for her

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<v Speaker 1>to have to be at our wedding without a date,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with my dad and his girlfriend there. I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel weird inviting someone and we've never met, And even

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<v Speaker 1>if we meet him in the next month, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want this man in our photos. Who knows how long

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be around. It sort of feels like my mom

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<v Speaker 1>just found a guy because she wanted a date to

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding. Do you think we should invite him to

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<v Speaker 1>appease my mom or do you think we should stick

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<v Speaker 1>to our long term partner's only policy even for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you, Love you guys

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<v Speaker 1>and your podcast.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Joe, you fucking let him.

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<v Speaker 4>It's your mom, you let it. You let her bring whoever. Really,

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<v Speaker 4>it's yeah, it's your.

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<v Speaker 5>Mother, it's your it's not your friend, it's not your

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<v Speaker 5>it's not your aunt, it's not your uncle.

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<v Speaker 4>It is your it's the person that birthed you.

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<v Speaker 2>You let her bring.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoever she wants.

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<v Speaker 5>If she wants to feel comfortable, because that's going to

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<v Speaker 5>make her feel comfortable, You let her and you'll have.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have to be in the picture.

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<v Speaker 4>He doesn't have to be in the photos.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, stay every day to be in one, get out

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<v Speaker 1>of you.

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<v Speaker 5>And also, for a wedding, you take fifteen hundred to

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<v Speaker 5>two thousand photos.

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<v Speaker 4>If he's in twenty of them, would.

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<v Speaker 5>So be it?

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<v Speaker 4>Really? Who cares like that? To me? I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>where I stand.

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote this question. I wrote this question. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 2>this actually Susan. This happened to me. You guys, My

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<v Speaker 2>daughter got married two and a half years ago, and

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to bring a date because I just always

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<v Speaker 2>feel like a third wheel. And she absolutely said no,

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<v Speaker 2>and I had to go by myself and my husband

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<v Speaker 2>passed away, and it was it was really hard for me.

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<v Speaker 2>But at the end of the day. It was her wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>and I felt like I had to, you know, respect

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<v Speaker 2>her wishes for her wedding, and it was hard. I

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<v Speaker 2>will say it was hard, but I just kept telling myself,

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<v Speaker 2>this is her special day. She gets to do what

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<v Speaker 2>she wants. Then my son got married three months ago

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<v Speaker 2>and Susan officiated that buddy. Yeah, Susan was, but my

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<v Speaker 2>son was exactly the opposite. Mom, bring whoever you want,

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<v Speaker 2>bring a date. So I've lived at both sides.

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<v Speaker 3>How about you, Serena, You know what, I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>your answer threw me off just because I wasn't expecting

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<v Speaker 3>that from you, But I guess it does make sense.

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<v Speaker 6>That is kind of your personality, and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are very like like like you have a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>respect for your parents and you always want them to

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<v Speaker 3>be comfortable and taken care of, which is an amazing quality.

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<v Speaker 3>I think an alternative is like, does she have a

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<v Speaker 3>best friend that you know that maybe you grew up

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<v Speaker 3>with that It's like, hey, Mom, I don't know this guy,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not super comfortable with you bring him, but like

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<v Speaker 3>you could totally bring so and so as like your

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<v Speaker 3>plus one, and like we know them and we maybe

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<v Speaker 3>feel a little more comfortable having them there. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you're kind of right, you know what, Like there's so

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<v Speaker 3>many people at a wedding unless this is like a

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<v Speaker 3>really intimate, like twenty person wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>Like even if it is your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're right, Like I would never want my mom

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<v Speaker 3>to feel I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Weddings get so tricky though.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like everyone has like different views of what

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<v Speaker 3>like who she get invited with, and like I also

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<v Speaker 3>like I have family members who had very very strict

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<v Speaker 3>number limits at their venue of like, hey, if you

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<v Speaker 3>bring that person, we have to essentially like kick someone

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<v Speaker 3>else out. So if it's a situation like that where

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<v Speaker 3>it's like we we just can't make it work. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you're right, Like it's your mom just.

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<v Speaker 1>Man of the month, so.

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<v Speaker 5>Seems well, no, no, I thought I thought, I thought

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<v Speaker 5>you read that wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>You read that wrong, And she's only known the guy

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<v Speaker 2>a month.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not she did say.

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<v Speaker 3>She did say it feels like she's just dating this

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<v Speaker 3>guy so that she can have someone to bring them

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<v Speaker 3>to the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>What's wrong with having to date for the wedding issue?

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<v Speaker 5>Their issue is that everybody else is a long term partner. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>so that's why that's their rule. So it's like it's

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<v Speaker 5>going against a rule. But I say, you break it

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<v Speaker 5>because it's your mother, And I say, who's paying for

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<v Speaker 5>the wedding, Well, that's a whole.

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<v Speaker 3>That's if it's If if it's her, then she definitely

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<v Speaker 3>she could bring six guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I get feeling weird when your ex husband

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<v Speaker 1>has a girlfriend there, like, yeah, I have somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>dance with, something that there's a few moments a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of weddings alone. Trust Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like if her, if the mom has like

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<v Speaker 3>a bunch of family going and a bunch of friends going,

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<v Speaker 3>and her daughter's like, you have a ton of people,

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna feel supported.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe they're like, we don't think we're gonna like this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe there's like a history of like we don't like

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<v Speaker 3>the boyfriends, we don't want to bring in this random guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I can understand the daughter maybe being like, look

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<v Speaker 3>like you got people there, but I think going to

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<v Speaker 3>side with you, Joe, Like it's your mom like letter

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<v Speaker 3>bring the.

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<v Speaker 1>Date, except letter bring the day, break the rule.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeahs for your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I hope the wedding has these very obedient her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter said, no.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, yes, man, Kathy is not obedient, but I

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<v Speaker 2>did not bring a date to my daughter's wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, Kathy, can I can I ask you real quick?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 5>So since you you actually ended up doing both? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>which did you prefer being able to bring someone to

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<v Speaker 5>your to your sons or having you go solo to

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<v Speaker 5>your daughter?

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<v Speaker 1>Get her face, Jose And those are daughters going to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this? And she's scared you?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, here's what I actually was thinking. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to tell the whole story. But there is

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<v Speaker 2>a guy I dated for ten minutes and we're friends,

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<v Speaker 2>and I invited him to the wedding as friends and

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<v Speaker 2>he's a great dancer. Just have someone to be with.

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<v Speaker 2>And then after the wedding, you know, the meals were

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<v Speaker 2>paid for, he decided not to come, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>irritated beyond belief. But in the meantime, my son Kyle

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<v Speaker 2>and his wife Candy asked Susan to officiate the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>So Susan and I were the first up on the

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<v Speaker 2>dance floor. I didn't you know what the bottom line is,

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<v Speaker 2>didn't need the guy had Susan, but there oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but Honestly, it was a little uncomfortable with my daughter's wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>It really was. I just I was missing my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my only daughter, you know, wishing he had been

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<v Speaker 2>there the whole thing that was much harder at my

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<v Speaker 2>daughter's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Got so my little bride, and let your mother bring

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<v Speaker 1>a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Or invite Susan to me to go with him. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, here we go Number two. This is from Henry.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello Kathy and Susan. Hello Henry. My name is Henry,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm a sixty eight year old man who just

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<v Speaker 2>lost my wife of forty years to cancer. Sorry to

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<v Speaker 2>hear that.

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<v Speaker 4>That' sad.

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<v Speaker 2>My kids are all grown and spread out over the

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<v Speaker 2>country with their families and my grandkids. I'm still living

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<v Speaker 2>in the house we raised our family in and living

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<v Speaker 2>in the town my wife and I lived in without

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<v Speaker 2>our kids here. It feels like everything and everyone in

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<v Speaker 2>this city was mine and hers, and feel extra lonely

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<v Speaker 2>being here without her. Since my kids are all spread

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<v Speaker 2>out and most of our friends were couple friends, I

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<v Speaker 2>am thinking about picking up and moving to New York City,

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<v Speaker 2>which is somewhere I've always wanted to live and never

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<v Speaker 2>got to. Do when I was younger. I'm curious your

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<v Speaker 2>thoughts about starting completely over at our age and of

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<v Speaker 2>all feel even more lost in a big city like

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<v Speaker 2>that coming from a smaller town upstate. Do you think

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<v Speaker 2>I should just pick up and move or give myself

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<v Speaker 2>more time to heal and see if that's what I

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<v Speaker 2>really want? Thank you both, you feel like friends listening

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<v Speaker 2>to your podcast. Oh, Henry, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>We are your friend, Honey, we are. I couldn't agree

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<v Speaker 1>more that it's time to make a change. However, New

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<v Speaker 1>York cities, you can be lonely in that city. I

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<v Speaker 1>would suggest taking a month try it out. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>just do right, I mean, there might be other cities

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<v Speaker 1>that you might or up in New York, but maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not downtown. It's lonely.

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<v Speaker 2>Serena and Joe, you guys can go travel and sub

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<v Speaker 2>let your place to him for three months.

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<v Speaker 4>Please.

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<v Speaker 5>I think go to Naples, Florida and spread your wings

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<v Speaker 5>out there. Or what I what I really think you

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<v Speaker 5>should do is send them that application for the Golden Bachelorette,

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<v Speaker 5>because it sounds like that might be the.

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<v Speaker 2>Move for if we're really going there. Or Henry, send

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<v Speaker 2>me your resume and maybe you want to move to Austin, Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>There we go, let us check it out.

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<v Speaker 5>But I personally don't say I feel like, yeah, like

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<v Speaker 5>everyone everyone's gone. Now you know he's in this big house.

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<v Speaker 5>He's probably feeling lonely, like at this point in your life, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>change is good, take a risk. You know, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>life short, So I say, live it up. If if

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<v Speaker 5>you feel like moving to New York, you fucking moved

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<v Speaker 5>to New York's have.

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<v Speaker 1>A ton of money too.

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<v Speaker 3>And also yeah, yeah, Susan, I think your suggestion of

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<v Speaker 3>like maybe if you have never lived in New York

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<v Speaker 3>before or a big city, I mean, New York is

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<v Speaker 3>so different than any big city, truly test it out.

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<v Speaker 3>Do like a one month Airbnb rental, see how you

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<v Speaker 3>like it. New York is a big city. It can

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<v Speaker 3>be hard to find like a community. So yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>or maybe like you look into I don't know where

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<v Speaker 3>his kids live, but maybe he wants to livest somewhere

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<v Speaker 3>that's close to his kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to Yeah, but you know what, what the unwritten

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<v Speaker 2>thing here for me is this guy is sixty eight.

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<v Speaker 2>He's the kind of guy I'm looking for. This guy

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<v Speaker 2>has a no seriously, he has a sense of adventure.

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<v Speaker 1>Henry call us.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Henry call me. This is Kathy, not Susan. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>saying the guy sounds like it's a sensitive adventure, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I agree with you, Susan, go and spend you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a month or two. But this guy sounds like a

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<v Speaker 2>guy that would get to New York and maybe you know,

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<v Speaker 2>join a group, a museum group, a walking group, a

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<v Speaker 2>bar crawl. He would do things to get to know people.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I think it depends on his personality and

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<v Speaker 3>who he is. Like if he thinks that he's gonna

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<v Speaker 3>like get here, he loves New York, he wants to change,

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<v Speaker 3>he wants to put himself out there, like go for it.

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<v Speaker 6>But like that, he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll feel even more lost in a big city like that,

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<v Speaker 1>coming from a smaller town.

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<v Speaker 6>Which he might see.

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<v Speaker 2>And I can tell you he's from Upstate New York.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where my my daughter's husband's from. That's where my

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<v Speaker 2>husband was from. Upstate New York is a whole different

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<v Speaker 2>kettle of fish and Henry, I'll be there this summer.

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<v Speaker 1>So Henry, just send me your resume. I'll check it

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<v Speaker 1>out for Kathy. Kat I'm all about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm all about you, says and we're gonna find

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<v Speaker 2>each other. We're gonna have a dual wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>I could totally see this works out.

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<v Speaker 6>But Henry, I think travel a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I think the intention of maybe moving starting fresh

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<v Speaker 3>somewhere is a great idea, but maybe travel to New York,

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<v Speaker 3>travel to a few different places, see what feels like

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<v Speaker 3>it might be your new home.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Henry. We wish you the best, we really do.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we have time for one more?

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<v Speaker 2>You think, go for it?

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<v Speaker 4>I think so? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank hi guys. I love your podcast. Thank you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to remain anonymous because my boyfriend and I sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>listen to your episodes together. Anyway, we've been dating for

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<v Speaker 1>three years and have a pretty great relationship. We just

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<v Speaker 1>moved in together a few months ago, and ever since

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<v Speaker 1>we moved in dot dot dot, I feel like his mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I cook, clean, grocery, shop, do laundry, and he often

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<v Speaker 1>just leaves his stuff around our apartment and acts like

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<v Speaker 1>a teenager when it comes to evenly dividing housework. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like continuously nagging him to put a stuff away

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<v Speaker 1>or help out and this is really hurting our relationship dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>Any advice to get him to pull his weight or

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<v Speaker 1>is this just holl he is thank you for your help.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's not going to change.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that's an issue.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, listen, if I would say, my first piece

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<v Speaker 5>of advice would be have the conversation, but it seems

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<v Speaker 5>like she already did and nothing's changed from there. So

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<v Speaker 5>then that's like, for me, that would be a major issue.

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's one thing. I get it, Like people people

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<v Speaker 5>are very different and people were raised differently.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, everyone goes into a relationship of living together with

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<v Speaker 3>different home habits.

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<v Speaker 6>That's always going to be the case.

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<v Speaker 3>Like maybe this guy is like, I'm not picking up

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<v Speaker 3>my stuff because I've never picked up my stuff, so

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna you know, it's not that he's trying

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<v Speaker 3>to disrespect you, but he's like, that's just not something

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever done. Like maybe he's been living in fealth

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<v Speaker 3>this whole life.

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<v Speaker 6>Who knows.

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<v Speaker 1>I've spoiled my kids, but they had to do things.

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<v Speaker 1>But recently I was over my son and daughter in

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<v Speaker 1>Lawe's place, and I was babysitting and I was want

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<v Speaker 1>to help out and do some of the piles of

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<v Speaker 1>laundry that we're there, And I said Christopher, he goes,

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<v Speaker 1>I do my own laundry. And I looked at my

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<v Speaker 1>daughter in law like my first reactions like what, and

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<v Speaker 1>I go, oh, good for you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Joe and I do separate laundry exactly. He does

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<v Speaker 6>his own. I do my own laundry.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's like whatever works in your relationship. Like some people,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like I do the laundry. He does this like

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<v Speaker 3>you divide and conquer. But it can't be her doing

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<v Speaker 3>one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>That's you old school Serena. You just hit on it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. She is saying, I do the cleaning, the

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<v Speaker 2>grocery shopping, the laundry. That's work. I'm literally reading the same. Honey,

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<v Speaker 2>you're the problem, not him. If you don't go grocery shopping.

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<v Speaker 2>When he comes in and looks for dinner, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what you fix. When he goes in looking first

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<v Speaker 2>clean clothes, I don't know, did you do your laundry.

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<v Speaker 2>When he goes in and there's toothpaste over the sink

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<v Speaker 2>and he's out of whatever, he's out of toothpaste, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. You didn't, that's that's your sink, Like so

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<v Speaker 2>that my kids, she is enabling him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but also she doesn't want to live like that.

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<v Speaker 5>I think about it like that that's it. She has

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<v Speaker 5>to Then if she goes that route, then she also

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<v Speaker 5>someone has to suffer herself because she has to deal

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<v Speaker 5>with the mess and it has to be okay with it.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm I'm very typing when it comes to like

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<v Speaker 5>like I hate having like a mess around the house.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's like, yeah, that's that to me. That's like

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<v Speaker 5>like almost like I hate to say it, but it's

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<v Speaker 5>like if you're not if you're not willing to cooperate

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<v Speaker 5>or change it all, then but.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I agree with you. But she said it,

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<v Speaker 2>she said I do it all. She hasn't given him

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<v Speaker 2>the chance to pull his own way.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I think that she needs to.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I feel like household chores can get thrown into

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<v Speaker 3>like hey I wish you did this, or hey can

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<v Speaker 3>you pick this up? And it ends up becoming like

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<v Speaker 3>what in your mind is like it's just a small thing,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just the dishes, but it's a big thing when

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<v Speaker 3>you live with.

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<v Speaker 6>This person every single day.

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<v Speaker 3>So like she needs to sit down with him and

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<v Speaker 3>be like, look, these are the household chores that I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing, hanging on the refrigerator.

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<v Speaker 6>Doing none of them.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you willing to take off my plate? Let's

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<v Speaker 3>let's divide this up. I can you do the laundry?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you do groceries? And if you know he's like yes,

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<v Speaker 3>which he should be, it's not a big ass, it's

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<v Speaker 3>basic living requirements, then like give him the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 3>take on those tasks. And if he's not willing to

0:22:24.320 --> 0:22:26.040
<v Speaker 3>do or he's not doing it every single week you

0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:28.879
<v Speaker 3>have no groceries like that, I would honestly be so

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<v Speaker 3>turned off I would break up with that person.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's clearly chance. Give him the chance say hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we need to we need to conquer and

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<v Speaker 2>divide on this relationship. And she hasn't It doesn't sound

0:22:40.240 --> 0:22:41.080
<v Speaker 2>like she's done that yet.

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<v Speaker 1>So and be honest and say, babe, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>working for me. Yeah, I'm building anxiety.

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<v Speaker 3>And if she sits him down and says like, look,

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<v Speaker 3>this is really not okay and for me and he

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<v Speaker 3>still doesn't do it, then.

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<v Speaker 6>That is disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that is blatantly like I don't care about your

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<v Speaker 3>needs or you're feeling comfortable in our home. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>care about helping maintain the home.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you know where we are with him, Then you

0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 2>know where we are. Serena Pitt and Joe A. Mobley,

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<v Speaker 2>we are back to a Rivederci.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and you can't fit to his mother because she

0:23:14.440 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't train him right, because it's not going to change.

0:23:17.040 --> 0:23:18.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he can go home and live with his mom

0:23:18.680 --> 0:23:20.080
<v Speaker 3>and she'll do all those things for him.

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<v Speaker 6>But you should not have to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. We love to play games. Will you guys

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<v Speaker 2>play a game with us? Let's do it all right?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're going to ask you. It's called Who's

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<v Speaker 2>who a Bachelor Nation. We're going to ask you for

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<v Speaker 2>your answers, and we're going to see where this goes. So,

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<v Speaker 2>Serena and Joe, who is your favorite couple to double

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<v Speaker 2>date with?

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<v Speaker 6>Couple high?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really hard because you have a few of them.

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<v Speaker 6>We have a few.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a few.

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<v Speaker 6>I love going out with Anna and Chris.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Are we asking about Bachelor Nation couples or just couples

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<v Speaker 5>in general?

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<v Speaker 6>Vaccination and well, no one's going to know like Eddie

0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 6>and Amanda.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Hi, Eddie High, Amanda, I love you.

0:24:19.520 --> 0:24:21.199
<v Speaker 3>Christ and Anna, we have a lot of fun with

0:24:21.280 --> 0:24:23.399
<v Speaker 3>We love Albigil and Noah obviously.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Don and Charity.

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:29.000
<v Speaker 3>We hung out with them a few times recently. They're

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<v Speaker 3>new to New York and we have a lot of

0:24:30.119 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 3>fun with them. Yeah, there's so many.

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<v Speaker 5>Walls and Sarah, I feel like on a Nick and

0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:38.520
<v Speaker 5>Natalie like honestly, like it's hard to pick a favorite.

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:45.280
<v Speaker 2>We like them all now. Joe and Joe's Joey and

0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:46.199
<v Speaker 2>Joe and Kelsey.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I haven't met them in person yet, but we'll

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<v Speaker 3>definitely go in a double date with them.

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<v Speaker 1>How about your favorite Happy Hour interview so far? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a favorite? What comes first to the top

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<v Speaker 1>of your head.

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:04.359
<v Speaker 6>We did one recently that oh you know what, well, okay.

0:25:04.359 --> 0:25:06.320
<v Speaker 3>We interviewed abigil Know recently, which was so fun for

0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 3>us because it was almost just like a big catch

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:10.840
<v Speaker 3>up on like their life and what's going on, and

0:25:11.200 --> 0:25:13.639
<v Speaker 3>just felt like a like a FaceTime call because we

0:25:13.640 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 3>do have such a good friendship with them. We also

0:25:15.800 --> 0:25:18.280
<v Speaker 3>did an interview, a two part interview with Maria that

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:20.640
<v Speaker 3>just came out a little while ago, which was also

0:25:20.640 --> 0:25:22.399
<v Speaker 3>really fun. I feel like it was very anticipated. It

0:25:22.440 --> 0:25:25.199
<v Speaker 3>was long overdue. We got to talk to her for

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<v Speaker 3>like an hour, which was great.

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<v Speaker 1>We were a little jealous over that, by the way, Yeah.

0:25:30.200 --> 0:25:31.399
<v Speaker 2>A little a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>We actually recently we just did My answer would be

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<v Speaker 5>Joey and his dad, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, interview. We felt very lucky to be able to

0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 3>get that interview.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think he would make a good bachelor?

0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:45.480
<v Speaker 4>I do.

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 6>I do think his dad would make a great bachelor.

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:50.919
<v Speaker 3>He's lovely and he was the first parent that we

0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:54.439
<v Speaker 3>ever had on the podcast of a contestant, So it

0:25:54.520 --> 0:25:57.160
<v Speaker 3>was a lot of like new conversation that we'd never

0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 3>had before.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, who is your dream Happy Hour guest?

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<v Speaker 3>People always ask us this, and it's it's so hard

0:26:06.000 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 3>because I actually kind of feel like we've had like most.

0:26:09.840 --> 0:26:13.679
<v Speaker 5>People on Yeah for at least for Yeah, because like

0:26:13.760 --> 0:26:17.560
<v Speaker 5>just like a random sellab just wouldn't it wouldn't really

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 5>make sense with.

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:19.960
<v Speaker 4>The way our podcast is formated.

0:26:20.160 --> 0:26:23.040
<v Speaker 5>So I feel like, yeah, we're pretty lucky with the

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 5>guests we get like it's always right.

0:26:24.960 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 3>Actually, you know what I would love to have is

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:32.480
<v Speaker 3>a couple that broke up come on together. Are I

0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:35.000
<v Speaker 3>would love to have like Gary and Teresa, come on

0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:36.400
<v Speaker 3>and talk about.

0:26:36.280 --> 0:26:39.520
<v Speaker 2>Get in line, Serena. They're coming to us first, Susan.

0:26:39.560 --> 0:26:42.280
<v Speaker 4>Maybe Bradley Cooper, especially if he watches the show.

0:26:43.000 --> 0:26:45.080
<v Speaker 1>He never missed an episode I love.

0:26:45.200 --> 0:26:48.280
<v Speaker 3>I feel like he'll be on Susan and Kathy's podcasts though,

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:49.719
<v Speaker 3>because he's such a fan of theirs.

0:26:49.760 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 2>Come on, Susan.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's a good one. Besides your own wedding, what

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 1>was your favorite Bachelor Nation wedding that you attended?

0:26:58.600 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:00.439
<v Speaker 4>This is this is raw for me.

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:02.360
<v Speaker 6>I know your answer?

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:05.800
<v Speaker 5>Which one that was just such a great wedding.

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:08.000
<v Speaker 3>I got sick and I didn't get to go, which

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:12.400
<v Speaker 3>was such a bummer. I think, Okay, well, we didn't

0:27:12.400 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 3>make it to Tea's wedding. We only made it to

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 3>her welcome party. I think the only Bachelor Nation wedding

0:27:17.800 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 3>I've been to then is Nick and Natalie's.

0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:22.240
<v Speaker 4>We just went to that. That was so much fun, beautiful.

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:24.359
<v Speaker 3>And we had so much fun, truly like a great

0:27:24.359 --> 0:27:25.119
<v Speaker 3>group of people.

0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:26.800
<v Speaker 6>We Yeah, we had a blast.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I got I have one for you. What

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<v Speaker 2>is the most heartbreaking Bachelor Nation goodbye on screen breakup?

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 2>For you guys? What's the most heartbreaking one. Oh, that's

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 2>a good question.

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:49.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to think back to the past seasons. You

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:52.040
<v Speaker 3>know what, Charity and Joey's breakup was really sad. Yeah,

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:53.440
<v Speaker 3>that was really really sad.

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:54.439
<v Speaker 1>I cried.

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm trying to think like back back, like I know,

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:02.639
<v Speaker 3>Hannah Brown and Tyler Cameron's was very iconic and very sad.

0:28:03.280 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 4>There there's someone.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, it's driving me crazy because it's like a recent

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 5>season where I was like, this was actually really sad.

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 6>Do you want me to like list some seasons?

0:28:12.080 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 4>For that was the last one, Joey.

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:15.680
<v Speaker 6>It was the last one before that was Charity.

0:28:15.440 --> 0:28:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Charity, and for that was Zach and Katie.

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:20.919
<v Speaker 5>It was a guy breaking up with it was it

0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:23.080
<v Speaker 5>was a bachelor breaking up with a girl.

0:28:23.119 --> 0:28:24.280
<v Speaker 4>So I don't think it was.

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 3>That Clayton Clayton, No, I mean actually Clayton's break up

0:28:28.920 --> 0:28:32.720
<v Speaker 3>with Gabby and Rachel Rekia was the double.

0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:35.200
<v Speaker 4>Oh, I think the break up with Rachel.

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:36.480
<v Speaker 6>Rachel sitting there crying.

0:28:36.720 --> 0:28:37.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh, that was rough.

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 6>Really that might that might be the winner. That might

0:28:40.800 --> 0:28:41.280
<v Speaker 6>be the winner.

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 2>That's so funny. I would have thought one of you

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 2>would have said, Joey, Daisy coming to the realization and

0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:50.120
<v Speaker 2>going home. That to me was so poignant.

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:51.560
<v Speaker 4>That was that was sad.

0:28:51.720 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 6>That was sad.

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:55.080
<v Speaker 3>But I feel like it was that was sad because

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:59.280
<v Speaker 3>she had like accepted it. Yeah, I feel like for me,

0:28:59.320 --> 0:29:01.920
<v Speaker 3>it's harder when it's like almost a blind side.

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:05.200
<v Speaker 2>You guys were going to say when Gary sent me home,

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 2>but I guess not.

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:10.600
<v Speaker 6>I was this opportunity totally.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your favorite Bachelor Nation style dream date? Out

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 1>of all the dates you saw, what would be your favorite?

0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 5>Oh?

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 3>I know, okay, I know, and I think this is

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:25.840
<v Speaker 3>your answer to Joey and Kelsey in Jasper, Canada, which

0:29:25.880 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 3>is like so beautiful.

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:29.240
<v Speaker 6>Literally got to like go to a bar.

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 3>They walk around the city, they go to a bar,

0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 3>they're playing pool, they're having beers a cold place.

0:29:35.400 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 6>Joe and I were like, this.

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:42.480
<v Speaker 3>Is our dream date, like so fun, so like easy, relaxed.

0:29:43.040 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 1>How about you?

0:29:45.440 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 2>I was just going back thinking about Canada. How is

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 2>the Santamonic compater for you? Susan good?

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 1>So I like the helicopter and the yacht with faith.

0:29:55.480 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean I would have liked to have gone on

0:29:57.600 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 1>that one.

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:00.800
<v Speaker 2>You know what I want to do? I I really

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 2>want to skydive. I want to jump out of the air. Yeah,

0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:06.280
<v Speaker 2>I really want to do that. I want to find

0:30:06.280 --> 0:30:08.479
<v Speaker 2>the go I want to do it in tandem, you know,

0:30:08.520 --> 0:30:10.480
<v Speaker 2>not jump out by myself. It's kind of give my

0:30:10.480 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 2>mic It's like, give me a microphone. You don't know

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:13.200
<v Speaker 2>what's going to happen.

0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 4>I've done it.

0:30:15.040 --> 0:30:18.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I hated it, scary. I was nauseous the whole time.

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 5>When I got done, I was like, why did I

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:23.600
<v Speaker 5>just risk my life like that? And then did you

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:25.880
<v Speaker 5>do it solo or tandem?

0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 4>And I would never do it again. I would never

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:31.600
<v Speaker 4>do it again. I wouldn't even consider it.

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:34.400
<v Speaker 1>Landing really hard? Did you feel like you were going

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 1>to break your legs or something? Or did you land?

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:38.120
<v Speaker 5>I was just so happy to get down because I

0:30:38.160 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 5>was going to throw off, so I didn't care.

0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:43.680
<v Speaker 2>The best date, we're back to getting the ball gowns

0:30:43.680 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 2>and the diamond earrings is the best date. I'm an

0:30:49.640 --> 0:30:52.320
<v Speaker 2>adventure girl, you know. But wait, I have to go

0:30:52.400 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 2>back just for one second. Did you guys not think

0:30:55.560 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 2>that Gary and Leslie's breakup was tough? After we started talking?

0:30:59.560 --> 0:31:01.600
<v Speaker 2>I thought that one was tough?

0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:04.120
<v Speaker 6>Actually was?

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 5>I feel like, like like it's heartbreaking?

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Hard yes, it's hard to it's but you know,

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:14.040
<v Speaker 2>when you see how happy Joey is now, like you

0:31:14.160 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 2>focus on that now not I don't.

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:20.240
<v Speaker 1>Had the opportunity of having the lead and finding his girl.

0:31:20.520 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and you, honestly you usually the truth is that,

0:31:23.600 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 5>the sad truth is you usually forget about the breakup

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:30.520
<v Speaker 5>because then the you know, the couple at the end.

0:31:30.400 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 4>So happy that that's where your focus goes.

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Until they get a divorce and moving right along. They

0:31:38.680 --> 0:31:39.400
<v Speaker 1>ruined my record.

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying that's true. Yes, Susan has never had

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 2>a couple break up that she has married until.

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 6>Okay, well we could just sweep this one under the

0:31:50.320 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 6>rugge a.

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:55.960
<v Speaker 2>TV wedding and you know what I think. I think

0:31:55.960 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 2>there's something written Susan in the Marital Almanac webs that

0:32:00.480 --> 0:32:04.040
<v Speaker 2>says if you're not married more than four months, it

0:32:04.080 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 2>doesn't count.

0:32:05.040 --> 0:32:07.720
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you could totally get like they could annull the marriage.

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:12.160
<v Speaker 2>I think, No, you cannot. You cannot. Everyone thinks you can.

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:15.440
<v Speaker 2>For the Catholic Church, Well, no, you can get a

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 2>marriageinal but it has there has to you have to

0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 2>meet certain requirements, undue, duress forced, you know, there's all

0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 2>kinds of requirements that you have to meet to get

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:26.160
<v Speaker 2>a marriage, and they don't meet them.

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 6>Okay, I thought there might be like, no, it's not

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:29.360
<v Speaker 6>as easy.

0:32:29.840 --> 0:32:31.680
<v Speaker 4>People just assume that it's like just an.

0:32:32.120 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 3>I think Kim Kardashing got her marriage like her seventy

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 3>two day marriage.

0:32:36.640 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 2>It's Kim Kardash.

0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 1>Chris, if you're listening, when are we doing lunch?

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Kim? If you're listening, when are we doing a podcast?

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Joe and Serena, thank you so much for sharing with

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.760
<v Speaker 1>us and giving us your point of view on your advice.

0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:54.840
<v Speaker 1>And I think we were all on the same page

0:32:54.880 --> 0:32:56.440
<v Speaker 1>on most of them, don't you, Kathy.

0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 2>I do. I think that you guys. I envy you

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<v Speaker 2>having all these great friends and this great exciting life

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<v Speaker 2>in New York. And I think for those of us

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<v Speaker 2>who are part of Bachelor Nation, I think these great

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<v Speaker 2>relationships and these friendships.

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<v Speaker 1>Are just that's the most important.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know about you, Susan, but I can

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<v Speaker 2>hardly wait to get to Paradise. We're going to meet

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<v Speaker 2>our Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see. And that does it. For today's episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you both for coming

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<v Speaker 1>and sharing with us today.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, thanks for having us.

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<v Speaker 2>We love getting to collaborate with you, guys, and we

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<v Speaker 2>thank you so much for joining us. You'all be sure

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<v Speaker 2>to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new episodes

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<v Speaker 2>coming out every week, and if you enjoyed today, you're

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you all have a great week. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>joining us, Joe and Serena.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks for having us. Bye, guys, have a great week.