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Speaker 1: And today we're so excited because we have two very
Speaker 1: special guests. Oh yes, happy our family.
Speaker 2: We do our Bachelor Happy Hour family. Joe A Mobley
Speaker 2: and Serena Pitt are here. Joe Jackey, thanks for joining us.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 3: How you been perfect pronunciation of Joe's last name. Incredible job.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm going to Italy soon, so I've been
Speaker 2: studying and I understand that a mobley has something to
Speaker 2: do with love, so I've memorized.
Speaker 4: It love or sweet one of them. I think I'm
Speaker 4: just a lovely sweet boy.
Speaker 2: You're a lovely sweet.
Speaker 5: But thank you guys, Thank you guys so much for
Speaker 5: having us. We're excited to be on your podcast.
Speaker 2: We want to know what's going on with us.
Speaker 1: Oh, go ahead, would you guys ever do another TV
Speaker 1: reality show?
Speaker 2: They're married?
Speaker 5: I got one, I got one coming out, I got
Speaker 5: one coming out May ninth, So birthday?
Speaker 3: Hello, Yeah, Well you can celebrate your birthday by watching
Speaker 3: Joe's new show The on Amazon.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Whoa, Well, congrats to Joe.
Speaker 4: Thank you. It's a competition show, so yeah.
Speaker 3: It's the greatest reality star of all time is the concept.
Speaker 3: So it's like all reality stars. Tasha's on it as
Speaker 3: well from Bachelor.
Speaker 1: Wow, how fun? Did you guys have an anniversary coming up?
Speaker 1: So congratulations?
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: You know what's crazy is this June will be three
Speaker 3: years since we did Paradise. So we met on June seventh,
Speaker 3: which was the first day of filming, and then we
Speaker 3: got engaged on Oh shoot, I always forget this day.
Speaker 3: I think it was June twenty sixth Yeah.
Speaker 4: Did you know?
Speaker 2: Did you know right away? How'd you know that he
Speaker 2: was the one? Yeah? I don't.
Speaker 3: I didn't know right away, but I was like definitely
Speaker 3: like only eyes for him pretty early on, like very
Speaker 3: drawn to him, Like, so, yeah.
Speaker 2: What about Joe right away?
Speaker 1: Joe, you're being silent?
Speaker 4: Uh, how did I know? That's a good question.
Speaker 2: I don't know if there's like a we haven't been
Speaker 2: not supposed to be a hard question that was supposed
Speaker 2: to be just a real, real throw it to easy
Speaker 2: one there.
Speaker 4: You know what I think I think it was about.
Speaker 5: I mean, I knew I was attracted to her and
Speaker 5: really liked her, like immediately, and then I think it
Speaker 5: was probably it was probably about two weeks into where
Speaker 5: I was like, we also vibe really well together, like
Speaker 5: we we mesh well, we're.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we're very compatible.
Speaker 5: And then everything just kept getting better and better, like
Speaker 5: the relationship, Yeah, the relationship and just how I felt
Speaker 5: about her just kept growing and growing. And that's when
Speaker 5: I was like, well, at this rate, yeah, this is
Speaker 5: gonna work to be married.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it was like love at first sight,
Speaker 3: I don't know, but like it was definitely connection at
Speaker 3: first like I can still remember like seeing him for
Speaker 3: the first time, and.
Speaker 1: Like chemistry first conversation, like.
Speaker 6: Feeling like electric. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 5: I do think in an atmosphere like Bachelor and Paradise,
Speaker 5: love at first sight. I don't even know if that
Speaker 5: like exists there because everyone.
Speaker 3: Kind of knows everyone, even if it's just through like
Speaker 3: word of mouth, like heard of this person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, like totally it is.
Speaker 2: It is. But I have a question. So you guys,
Speaker 2: are you know, relatively newly married compared to you know,
Speaker 2: how long suits and I were married. So I want
Speaker 2: to know, what do you think we'll keep your spark
Speaker 2: alive as as your relationship with chorts long term relationships?
Speaker 2: How are you going to do it?
Speaker 6: Oh, that's a good question.
Speaker 5: I'm a very spontaneous person and I plan on always
Speaker 5: being that way, and I feel like that is one
Speaker 5: one way for sure.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I do love that about Joe is like he'll be like,
Speaker 3: let's let's do this, let's go here all of a sudden.
Speaker 3: I do think that's not as much my personality, but
Speaker 3: I do like I'm an activity person, so it does
Speaker 3: keep things exciting interesting. I also just think like keep
Speaker 3: dating each other, like we like to do new things together,
Speaker 3: make new memories, like push ourselves to you know, even
Speaker 3: if it's just like let's go try this new restaurant tonight,
Speaker 3: and yeah, it keeps it fun and developing and exciting.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Just stay spontaneous because it adds a
Speaker 1: lot of life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and well, you knows, as you're together longer, it
Speaker 2: gets a little more difficult to do that. So I
Speaker 2: love that you say spontaneous because if you do that,
Speaker 2: your relationship will keep growing and evolving.
Speaker 3: I saw this thing on Instagram that was like you
Speaker 3: have to hug for eight seconds a day for like
Speaker 3: a serotonin release or like a some sort of like
Speaker 3: dopamine hit or something, and then kiss for six seconds
Speaker 3: a day and that, like, Susan, you and I are
Speaker 3: screw there's a chemical release from that.
Speaker 1: The universe hugs me every day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you kissing for eight seconds? I want
Speaker 2: to hear about that too.
Speaker 1: So we have some fan advice questions. Can we play
Speaker 1: with you guys? Yeah, let's do it, okay, Sophia wrote, Hi,
Speaker 1: Golden Hour family, My fiance Brett and I are getting
Speaker 1: married in July and we are so excited. Something has
Speaker 1: come up that I need your advice on because I'm
Speaker 1: truly not sure what to do. My parents got divorced
Speaker 1: six years ago and my dad has a partner he's
Speaker 1: been dating for two years now. My mom wants to
Speaker 1: bring her new boyfriend of the month of one month
Speaker 1: to the wedding. We have strict long term partners only
Speaker 1: for plus ones at our wedding. My fiance and I
Speaker 1: still haven't met this guy she's dating. Wow, but my
Speaker 1: mom is saying how hard it would be for her
Speaker 1: to have to be at our wedding without a date,
Speaker 1: especially with my dad and his girlfriend there. I just
Speaker 1: feel weird inviting someone and we've never met, And even
Speaker 1: if we meet him in the next month, I don't
Speaker 1: want this man in our photos. Who knows how long
Speaker 1: he'll be around. It sort of feels like my mom
Speaker 1: just found a guy because she wanted a date to
Speaker 1: the wedding. Do you think we should invite him to
Speaker 1: appease my mom or do you think we should stick
Speaker 1: to our long term partner's only policy even for her.
Speaker 1: Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you, Love you guys
Speaker 1: and your podcast.
Speaker 5: Okay, Joe, you fucking let him.
Speaker 4: It's your mom, you let it. You let her bring whoever. Really,
Speaker 4: it's yeah, it's your.
Speaker 5: Mother, it's your it's not your friend, it's not your
Speaker 5: it's not your aunt, it's not your uncle.
Speaker 4: It is your it's the person that birthed you.
Speaker 2: You let her bring.
Speaker 4: Whoever she wants.
Speaker 5: If she wants to feel comfortable, because that's going to
Speaker 5: make her feel comfortable, You let her and you'll have.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be in the picture.
Speaker 4: He doesn't have to be in the photos.
Speaker 1: Dude, stay every day to be in one, get out
Speaker 1: of you.
Speaker 5: And also, for a wedding, you take fifteen hundred to
Speaker 5: two thousand photos.
Speaker 4: If he's in twenty of them, would.
Speaker 5: So be it?
Speaker 4: Really? Who cares like that? To me? I think that's
Speaker 4: where I stand.
Speaker 2: I wrote this question. I wrote this question. Well, no,
Speaker 2: this actually Susan. This happened to me. You guys, My
Speaker 2: daughter got married two and a half years ago, and
Speaker 2: I wanted to bring a date because I just always
Speaker 2: feel like a third wheel. And she absolutely said no,
Speaker 2: and I had to go by myself and my husband
Speaker 2: passed away, and it was it was really hard for me.
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day. It was her wedding,
Speaker 2: and I felt like I had to, you know, respect
Speaker 2: her wishes for her wedding, and it was hard. I
Speaker 2: will say it was hard, but I just kept telling myself,
Speaker 2: this is her special day. She gets to do what
Speaker 2: she wants. Then my son got married three months ago
Speaker 2: and Susan officiated that buddy. Yeah, Susan was, but my
Speaker 2: son was exactly the opposite. Mom, bring whoever you want,
Speaker 2: bring a date. So I've lived at both sides.
Speaker 3: How about you, Serena, You know what, I kind of
Speaker 3: your answer threw me off just because I wasn't expecting
Speaker 3: that from you, But I guess it does make sense.
Speaker 6: That is kind of your personality, and you.
Speaker 3: Are very like like like you have a lot of
Speaker 3: respect for your parents and you always want them to
Speaker 3: be comfortable and taken care of, which is an amazing quality.
Speaker 3: I think an alternative is like, does she have a
Speaker 3: best friend that you know that maybe you grew up
Speaker 3: with that It's like, hey, Mom, I don't know this guy,
Speaker 3: I'm not super comfortable with you bring him, but like
Speaker 3: you could totally bring so and so as like your
Speaker 3: plus one, and like we know them and we maybe
Speaker 3: feel a little more comfortable having them there. But yeah,
Speaker 3: you're kind of right, you know what, Like there's so
Speaker 3: many people at a wedding unless this is like a
Speaker 3: really intimate, like twenty person wedding.
Speaker 4: Like even if it is your mom.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, Like I would never want my mom
Speaker 3: to feel I don't know.
Speaker 6: Weddings get so tricky though.
Speaker 3: I feel like everyone has like different views of what
Speaker 3: like who she get invited with, and like I also
Speaker 3: like I have family members who had very very strict
Speaker 3: number limits at their venue of like, hey, if you
Speaker 3: bring that person, we have to essentially like kick someone
Speaker 3: else out. So if it's a situation like that where
Speaker 3: it's like we we just can't make it work. But yeah,
Speaker 3: you're right, Like it's your mom just.
Speaker 1: Man of the month, so.
Speaker 5: Seems well, no, no, I thought I thought, I thought
Speaker 5: you read that wrong.
Speaker 2: You read that wrong, And she's only known the guy
Speaker 2: a month.
Speaker 6: It's not she did say.
Speaker 3: She did say it feels like she's just dating this
Speaker 3: guy so that she can have someone to bring them
Speaker 3: to the wedding.
Speaker 2: What's wrong with having to date for the wedding issue?
Speaker 5: Their issue is that everybody else is a long term partner. Yeah,
Speaker 5: so that's why that's their rule. So it's like it's
Speaker 5: going against a rule. But I say, you break it
Speaker 5: because it's your mother, And I say, who's paying for
Speaker 5: the wedding, Well, that's a whole.
Speaker 3: That's if it's If if it's her, then she definitely
Speaker 3: she could bring six guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I get feeling weird when your ex husband
Speaker 1: has a girlfriend there, like, yeah, I have somebody to
Speaker 1: dance with, something that there's a few moments a lot
Speaker 1: of weddings alone. Trust Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean like if her, if the mom has like
Speaker 3: a bunch of family going and a bunch of friends going,
Speaker 3: and her daughter's like, you have a ton of people,
Speaker 3: you're gonna feel supported.
Speaker 6: Maybe they're like, we don't think we're gonna like this guy.
Speaker 3: Maybe there's like a history of like we don't like
Speaker 3: the boyfriends, we don't want to bring in this random guy.
Speaker 3: Then I can understand the daughter maybe being like, look
Speaker 3: like you got people there, but I think going to
Speaker 3: side with you, Joe, Like it's your mom like letter
Speaker 3: bring the.
Speaker 1: Date, except letter bring the day, break the rule.
Speaker 6: Yeahs for your mom.
Speaker 1: Well, I hope the wedding has these very obedient her
Speaker 1: daughter said, no.
Speaker 2: She said, yes, man, Kathy is not obedient, but I
Speaker 2: did not bring a date to my daughter's wedding.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, Kathy, can I can I ask you real quick?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 5: So since you you actually ended up doing both? Yeah,
Speaker 5: which did you prefer being able to bring someone to
Speaker 5: your to your sons or having you go solo to
Speaker 5: your daughter?
Speaker 1: Get her face, Jose And those are daughters going to
Speaker 1: listen to this? And she's scared you?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, here's what I actually was thinking. I
Speaker 2: didn't want to tell the whole story. But there is
Speaker 2: a guy I dated for ten minutes and we're friends,
Speaker 2: and I invited him to the wedding as friends and
Speaker 2: he's a great dancer. Just have someone to be with.
Speaker 2: And then after the wedding, you know, the meals were
Speaker 2: paid for, he decided not to come, and I was
Speaker 2: irritated beyond belief. But in the meantime, my son Kyle
Speaker 2: and his wife Candy asked Susan to officiate the wedding.
Speaker 2: So Susan and I were the first up on the
Speaker 2: dance floor. I didn't you know what the bottom line is,
Speaker 2: didn't need the guy had Susan, but there oh yeah,
Speaker 2: but Honestly, it was a little uncomfortable with my daughter's wedding.
Speaker 2: It really was. I just I was missing my husband.
Speaker 2: It's my only daughter, you know, wishing he had been
Speaker 2: there the whole thing that was much harder at my
Speaker 2: daughter's wedding.
Speaker 1: Got so my little bride, and let your mother bring
Speaker 1: a date.
Speaker 2: Or invite Susan to me to go with him. Well,
Speaker 2: all right, here we go Number two. This is from Henry.
Speaker 2: Hello Kathy and Susan. Hello Henry. My name is Henry,
Speaker 2: and I'm a sixty eight year old man who just
Speaker 2: lost my wife of forty years to cancer. Sorry to
Speaker 2: hear that.
Speaker 4: That' sad.
Speaker 2: My kids are all grown and spread out over the
Speaker 2: country with their families and my grandkids. I'm still living
Speaker 2: in the house we raised our family in and living
Speaker 2: in the town my wife and I lived in without
Speaker 2: our kids here. It feels like everything and everyone in
Speaker 2: this city was mine and hers, and feel extra lonely
Speaker 2: being here without her. Since my kids are all spread
Speaker 2: out and most of our friends were couple friends, I
Speaker 2: am thinking about picking up and moving to New York City,
Speaker 2: which is somewhere I've always wanted to live and never
Speaker 2: got to. Do when I was younger. I'm curious your
Speaker 2: thoughts about starting completely over at our age and of
Speaker 2: all feel even more lost in a big city like
Speaker 2: that coming from a smaller town upstate. Do you think
Speaker 2: I should just pick up and move or give myself
Speaker 2: more time to heal and see if that's what I
Speaker 2: really want? Thank you both, you feel like friends listening
Speaker 2: to your podcast. Oh, Henry, thank you.
Speaker 1: We are your friend, Honey, we are. I couldn't agree
Speaker 1: more that it's time to make a change. However, New
Speaker 1: York cities, you can be lonely in that city. I
Speaker 1: would suggest taking a month try it out. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: just do right, I mean, there might be other cities
Speaker 1: that you might or up in New York, but maybe
Speaker 1: not downtown. It's lonely.
Speaker 2: Serena and Joe, you guys can go travel and sub
Speaker 2: let your place to him for three months.
Speaker 4: Please.
Speaker 5: I think go to Naples, Florida and spread your wings
Speaker 5: out there. Or what I what I really think you
Speaker 5: should do is send them that application for the Golden Bachelorette,
Speaker 5: because it sounds like that might be the.
Speaker 2: Move for if we're really going there. Or Henry, send
Speaker 2: me your resume and maybe you want to move to Austin, Texas.
Speaker 1: There we go, let us check it out.
Speaker 5: But I personally don't say I feel like, yeah, like
Speaker 5: everyone everyone's gone. Now you know he's in this big house.
Speaker 5: He's probably feeling lonely, like at this point in your life, Like, yeah,
Speaker 5: change is good, take a risk. You know, you know,
Speaker 5: life short, So I say, live it up. If if
Speaker 5: you feel like moving to New York, you fucking moved
Speaker 5: to New York's have.
Speaker 1: A ton of money too.
Speaker 3: And also yeah, yeah, Susan, I think your suggestion of
Speaker 3: like maybe if you have never lived in New York
Speaker 3: before or a big city, I mean, New York is
Speaker 3: so different than any big city, truly test it out.
Speaker 3: Do like a one month Airbnb rental, see how you
Speaker 3: like it. New York is a big city. It can
Speaker 3: be hard to find like a community. So yeah, maybe
Speaker 3: or maybe like you look into I don't know where
Speaker 3: his kids live, but maybe he wants to livest somewhere
Speaker 3: that's close to his kids.
Speaker 2: Trying to Yeah, but you know what, what the unwritten
Speaker 2: thing here for me is this guy is sixty eight.
Speaker 2: He's the kind of guy I'm looking for. This guy
Speaker 2: has a no seriously, he has a sense of adventure.
Speaker 1: Henry call us.
Speaker 2: No, Henry call me. This is Kathy, not Susan. I'm
Speaker 2: saying the guy sounds like it's a sensitive adventure, right,
Speaker 2: So I agree with you, Susan, go and spend you know,
Speaker 2: a month or two. But this guy sounds like a
Speaker 2: guy that would get to New York and maybe you know,
Speaker 2: join a group, a museum group, a walking group, a
Speaker 2: bar crawl. He would do things to get to know people.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I think it depends on his personality and
Speaker 3: who he is. Like if he thinks that he's gonna
Speaker 3: like get here, he loves New York, he wants to change,
Speaker 3: he wants to put himself out there, like go for it.
Speaker 6: But like that, he's not.
Speaker 1: I'll feel even more lost in a big city like that,
Speaker 1: coming from a smaller town.
Speaker 6: Which he might see.
Speaker 2: And I can tell you he's from Upstate New York.
Speaker 2: That's where my my daughter's husband's from. That's where my
Speaker 2: husband was from. Upstate New York is a whole different
Speaker 2: kettle of fish and Henry, I'll be there this summer.
Speaker 1: So Henry, just send me your resume. I'll check it
Speaker 1: out for Kathy. Kat I'm all about you.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm all about you, says and we're gonna find
Speaker 2: each other. We're gonna have a dual wedding.
Speaker 6: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: I could totally see this works out.
Speaker 6: But Henry, I think travel a little bit.
Speaker 3: Like I think the intention of maybe moving starting fresh
Speaker 3: somewhere is a great idea, but maybe travel to New York,
Speaker 3: travel to a few different places, see what feels like
Speaker 3: it might be your new home.
Speaker 1: I agree, Henry. We wish you the best, we really do.
Speaker 1: Do we have time for one more?
Speaker 2: You think, go for it?
Speaker 4: I think so? Okay.
Speaker 1: Thank hi guys. I love your podcast. Thank you. I'm
Speaker 1: going to remain anonymous because my boyfriend and I sometimes
Speaker 1: listen to your episodes together. Anyway, we've been dating for
Speaker 1: three years and have a pretty great relationship. We just
Speaker 1: moved in together a few months ago, and ever since
Speaker 1: we moved in dot dot dot, I feel like his mom.
Speaker 1: I cook, clean, grocery, shop, do laundry, and he often
Speaker 1: just leaves his stuff around our apartment and acts like
Speaker 1: a teenager when it comes to evenly dividing housework. I
Speaker 1: don't like continuously nagging him to put a stuff away
Speaker 1: or help out and this is really hurting our relationship dynamic.
Speaker 1: Any advice to get him to pull his weight or
Speaker 1: is this just holl he is thank you for your help.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: Oh he's not going to change.
Speaker 4: I mean that's an issue.
Speaker 5: I mean, listen, if I would say, my first piece
Speaker 5: of advice would be have the conversation, but it seems
Speaker 5: like she already did and nothing's changed from there. So
Speaker 5: then that's like, for me, that would be a major issue.
Speaker 5: Like it's one thing. I get it, Like people people
Speaker 5: are very different and people were raised differently.
Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone goes into a relationship of living together with
Speaker 3: different home habits.
Speaker 6: That's always going to be the case.
Speaker 3: Like maybe this guy is like, I'm not picking up
Speaker 3: my stuff because I've never picked up my stuff, so
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna you know, it's not that he's trying
Speaker 3: to disrespect you, but he's like, that's just not something
Speaker 3: I've ever done. Like maybe he's been living in fealth
Speaker 3: this whole life.
Speaker 6: Who knows.
Speaker 1: I've spoiled my kids, but they had to do things.
Speaker 1: But recently I was over my son and daughter in
Speaker 1: Lawe's place, and I was babysitting and I was want
Speaker 1: to help out and do some of the piles of
Speaker 1: laundry that we're there, And I said Christopher, he goes,
Speaker 1: I do my own laundry. And I looked at my
Speaker 1: daughter in law like my first reactions like what, and
Speaker 1: I go, oh, good for you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Joe and I do separate laundry exactly. He does
Speaker 6: his own. I do my own laundry.
Speaker 3: But it's like whatever works in your relationship. Like some people,
Speaker 3: it's like I do the laundry. He does this like
Speaker 3: you divide and conquer. But it can't be her doing
Speaker 3: one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: That's you old school Serena. You just hit on it.
Speaker 2: You know. She is saying, I do the cleaning, the
Speaker 2: grocery shopping, the laundry. That's work. I'm literally reading the same. Honey,
Speaker 2: you're the problem, not him. If you don't go grocery shopping.
Speaker 2: When he comes in and looks for dinner, I don't
Speaker 2: know what you fix. When he goes in looking first
Speaker 2: clean clothes, I don't know, did you do your laundry.
Speaker 2: When he goes in and there's toothpaste over the sink
Speaker 2: and he's out of whatever, he's out of toothpaste, I
Speaker 2: don't know. You didn't, that's that's your sink, Like so
Speaker 2: that my kids, she is enabling him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but also she doesn't want to live like that.
Speaker 5: I think about it like that that's it. She has
Speaker 5: to Then if she goes that route, then she also
Speaker 5: someone has to suffer herself because she has to deal
Speaker 5: with the mess and it has to be okay with it.
Speaker 5: Like I'm I'm very typing when it comes to like
Speaker 5: like I hate having like a mess around the house.
Speaker 5: But it's like, yeah, that's that to me. That's like
Speaker 5: like almost like I hate to say it, but it's
Speaker 5: like if you're not if you're not willing to cooperate
Speaker 5: or change it all, then but.
Speaker 2: That's what I agree with you. But she said it,
Speaker 2: she said I do it all. She hasn't given him
Speaker 2: the chance to pull his own way.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that she needs to.
Speaker 3: Like I feel like household chores can get thrown into
Speaker 3: like hey I wish you did this, or hey can
Speaker 3: you pick this up? And it ends up becoming like
Speaker 3: what in your mind is like it's just a small thing,
Speaker 3: it's just the dishes, but it's a big thing when
Speaker 3: you live with.
Speaker 6: This person every single day.
Speaker 3: So like she needs to sit down with him and
Speaker 3: be like, look, these are the household chores that I'm.
Speaker 1: Doing, hanging on the refrigerator.
Speaker 6: Doing none of them.
Speaker 3: What are you willing to take off my plate? Let's
Speaker 3: let's divide this up. I can you do the laundry?
Speaker 3: Can you do groceries? And if you know he's like yes,
Speaker 3: which he should be, it's not a big ass, it's
Speaker 3: basic living requirements, then like give him the opportunity to
Speaker 3: take on those tasks. And if he's not willing to
Speaker 3: do or he's not doing it every single week you
Speaker 3: have no groceries like that, I would honestly be so
Speaker 3: turned off I would break up with that person.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's clearly chance. Give him the chance say hey,
Speaker 2: you know, we need to we need to conquer and
Speaker 2: divide on this relationship. And she hasn't It doesn't sound
Speaker 2: like she's done that yet.
Speaker 1: So and be honest and say, babe, this is not
Speaker 1: working for me. Yeah, I'm building anxiety.
Speaker 3: And if she sits him down and says like, look,
Speaker 3: this is really not okay and for me and he
Speaker 3: still doesn't do it, then.
Speaker 6: That is disrespectful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is blatantly like I don't care about your
Speaker 3: needs or you're feeling comfortable in our home. I don't
Speaker 3: care about helping maintain the home.
Speaker 2: Then you know where we are with him, Then you
Speaker 2: know where we are. Serena Pitt and Joe A. Mobley,
Speaker 2: we are back to a Rivederci.
Speaker 1: Yes, and you can't fit to his mother because she
Speaker 1: didn't train him right, because it's not going to change.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he can go home and live with his mom
Speaker 3: and she'll do all those things for him.
Speaker 6: But you should not have to.
Speaker 2: That's right. We love to play games. Will you guys
Speaker 2: play a game with us? Let's do it all right?
Speaker 2: All right, we're going to ask you. It's called Who's
Speaker 2: who a Bachelor Nation. We're going to ask you for
Speaker 2: your answers, and we're going to see where this goes. So,
Speaker 2: Serena and Joe, who is your favorite couple to double
Speaker 2: date with?
Speaker 6: Couple high?
Speaker 1: That's really hard because you have a few of them.
Speaker 6: We have a few.
Speaker 4: We have a few.
Speaker 6: I love going out with Anna and Chris.
Speaker 2: Is this?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Are we asking about Bachelor Nation couples or just couples
Speaker 5: in general?
Speaker 6: Vaccination and well, no one's going to know like Eddie
Speaker 6: and Amanda.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, Eddie High, Amanda, I love you.
Speaker 3: Christ and Anna, we have a lot of fun with
Speaker 3: We love Albigil and Noah obviously.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Don and Charity.
Speaker 3: We hung out with them a few times recently. They're
Speaker 3: new to New York and we have a lot of
Speaker 3: fun with them. Yeah, there's so many.
Speaker 5: Walls and Sarah, I feel like on a Nick and
Speaker 5: Natalie like honestly, like it's hard to pick a favorite.
Speaker 2: We like them all now. Joe and Joe's Joey and
Speaker 2: Joe and Kelsey.
Speaker 3: Yes, I haven't met them in person yet, but we'll
Speaker 3: definitely go in a double date with them.
Speaker 1: How about your favorite Happy Hour interview so far? Do
Speaker 1: you have a favorite? What comes first to the top
Speaker 1: of your head.
Speaker 6: We did one recently that oh you know what, well, okay.
Speaker 3: We interviewed abigil Know recently, which was so fun for
Speaker 3: us because it was almost just like a big catch
Speaker 3: up on like their life and what's going on, and
Speaker 3: just felt like a like a FaceTime call because we
Speaker 3: do have such a good friendship with them. We also
Speaker 3: did an interview, a two part interview with Maria that
Speaker 3: just came out a little while ago, which was also
Speaker 3: really fun. I feel like it was very anticipated. It
Speaker 3: was long overdue. We got to talk to her for
Speaker 3: like an hour, which was great.
Speaker 1: We were a little jealous over that, by the way, Yeah.
Speaker 2: A little a lot.
Speaker 5: We actually recently we just did My answer would be
Speaker 5: Joey and his dad, Oh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, interview. We felt very lucky to be able to
Speaker 3: get that interview.
Speaker 2: Do you think he would make a good bachelor?
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 6: I do think his dad would make a great bachelor.
Speaker 3: He's lovely and he was the first parent that we
Speaker 3: ever had on the podcast of a contestant, So it
Speaker 3: was a lot of like new conversation that we'd never
Speaker 3: had before.
Speaker 2: Okay, who is your dream Happy Hour guest?
Speaker 3: People always ask us this, and it's it's so hard
Speaker 3: because I actually kind of feel like we've had like most.
Speaker 5: People on Yeah for at least for Yeah, because like
Speaker 5: just like a random sellab just wouldn't it wouldn't really
Speaker 5: make sense with.
Speaker 4: The way our podcast is formated.
Speaker 5: So I feel like, yeah, we're pretty lucky with the
Speaker 5: guests we get like it's always right.
Speaker 3: Actually, you know what I would love to have is
Speaker 3: a couple that broke up come on together. Are I
Speaker 3: would love to have like Gary and Teresa, come on
Speaker 3: and talk about.
Speaker 2: Get in line, Serena. They're coming to us first, Susan.
Speaker 4: Maybe Bradley Cooper, especially if he watches the show.
Speaker 1: He never missed an episode I love.
Speaker 3: I feel like he'll be on Susan and Kathy's podcasts though,
Speaker 3: because he's such a fan of theirs.
Speaker 2: Come on, Susan.
Speaker 1: Okay, here's a good one. Besides your own wedding, what
Speaker 1: was your favorite Bachelor Nation wedding that you attended?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: This is this is raw for me.
Speaker 6: I know your answer?
Speaker 5: Which one that was just such a great wedding.
Speaker 3: I got sick and I didn't get to go, which
Speaker 3: was such a bummer. I think, Okay, well, we didn't
Speaker 3: make it to Tea's wedding. We only made it to
Speaker 3: her welcome party. I think the only Bachelor Nation wedding
Speaker 3: I've been to then is Nick and Natalie's.
Speaker 4: We just went to that. That was so much fun, beautiful.
Speaker 3: And we had so much fun, truly like a great
Speaker 3: group of people.
Speaker 6: We Yeah, we had a blast.
Speaker 2: All right, I got I have one for you. What
Speaker 2: is the most heartbreaking Bachelor Nation goodbye on screen breakup?
Speaker 2: For you guys? What's the most heartbreaking one. Oh, that's
Speaker 2: a good question.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think back to the past seasons. You
Speaker 3: know what, Charity and Joey's breakup was really sad. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that was really really sad.
Speaker 1: I cried.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to think like back back, like I know,
Speaker 3: Hannah Brown and Tyler Cameron's was very iconic and very sad.
Speaker 4: There there's someone.
Speaker 5: Oh, it's driving me crazy because it's like a recent
Speaker 5: season where I was like, this was actually really sad.
Speaker 6: Do you want me to like list some seasons?
Speaker 4: For that was the last one, Joey.
Speaker 6: It was the last one before that was Charity.
Speaker 2: Charity, and for that was Zach and Katie.
Speaker 5: It was a guy breaking up with it was it
Speaker 5: was a bachelor breaking up with a girl.
Speaker 4: So I don't think it was.
Speaker 3: That Clayton Clayton, No, I mean actually Clayton's break up
Speaker 3: with Gabby and Rachel Rekia was the double.
Speaker 4: Oh, I think the break up with Rachel.
Speaker 6: Rachel sitting there crying.
Speaker 4: Oh, that was rough.
Speaker 6: Really that might that might be the winner. That might
Speaker 6: be the winner.
Speaker 2: That's so funny. I would have thought one of you
Speaker 2: would have said, Joey, Daisy coming to the realization and
Speaker 2: going home. That to me was so poignant.
Speaker 4: That was that was sad.
Speaker 6: That was sad.
Speaker 3: But I feel like it was that was sad because
Speaker 3: she had like accepted it. Yeah, I feel like for me,
Speaker 3: it's harder when it's like almost a blind side.
Speaker 2: You guys were going to say when Gary sent me home,
Speaker 2: but I guess not.
Speaker 6: I was this opportunity totally.
Speaker 1: What was your favorite Bachelor Nation style dream date? Out
Speaker 1: of all the dates you saw, what would be your favorite?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: I know, okay, I know, and I think this is
Speaker 3: your answer to Joey and Kelsey in Jasper, Canada, which
Speaker 3: is like so beautiful.
Speaker 6: Literally got to like go to a bar.
Speaker 3: They walk around the city, they go to a bar,
Speaker 3: they're playing pool, they're having beers a cold place.
Speaker 6: Joe and I were like, this.
Speaker 3: Is our dream date, like so fun, so like easy, relaxed.
Speaker 1: How about you?
Speaker 2: I was just going back thinking about Canada. How is
Speaker 2: the Santamonic compater for you? Susan good?
Speaker 1: So I like the helicopter and the yacht with faith.
Speaker 1: I mean I would have liked to have gone on
Speaker 1: that one.
Speaker 2: You know what I want to do? I I really
Speaker 2: want to skydive. I want to jump out of the air. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I really want to do that. I want to find
Speaker 2: the go I want to do it in tandem, you know,
Speaker 2: not jump out by myself. It's kind of give my
Speaker 2: mic It's like, give me a microphone. You don't know
Speaker 2: what's going to happen.
Speaker 4: I've done it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I hated it, scary. I was nauseous the whole time.
Speaker 5: When I got done, I was like, why did I
Speaker 5: just risk my life like that? And then did you
Speaker 5: do it solo or tandem?
Speaker 4: And I would never do it again. I would never
Speaker 4: do it again. I wouldn't even consider it.
Speaker 1: Landing really hard? Did you feel like you were going
Speaker 1: to break your legs or something? Or did you land?
Speaker 5: I was just so happy to get down because I
Speaker 5: was going to throw off, so I didn't care.
Speaker 2: The best date, we're back to getting the ball gowns
Speaker 2: and the diamond earrings is the best date. I'm an
Speaker 2: adventure girl, you know. But wait, I have to go
Speaker 2: back just for one second. Did you guys not think
Speaker 2: that Gary and Leslie's breakup was tough? After we started talking?
Speaker 2: I thought that one was tough?
Speaker 6: Actually was?
Speaker 5: I feel like, like like it's heartbreaking?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Hard yes, it's hard to it's but you know,
Speaker 2: when you see how happy Joey is now, like you
Speaker 2: focus on that now not I don't.
Speaker 1: Had the opportunity of having the lead and finding his girl.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you, honestly you usually the truth is that,
Speaker 5: the sad truth is you usually forget about the breakup
Speaker 5: because then the you know, the couple at the end.
Speaker 4: So happy that that's where your focus goes.
Speaker 1: Until they get a divorce and moving right along. They
Speaker 1: ruined my record.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying that's true. Yes, Susan has never had
Speaker 2: a couple break up that she has married until.
Speaker 6: Okay, well we could just sweep this one under the
Speaker 6: rugge a.
Speaker 2: TV wedding and you know what I think. I think
Speaker 2: there's something written Susan in the Marital Almanac webs that
Speaker 2: says if you're not married more than four months, it
Speaker 2: doesn't count.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you could totally get like they could annull the marriage.
Speaker 2: I think, No, you cannot. You cannot. Everyone thinks you can.
Speaker 2: For the Catholic Church, Well, no, you can get a
Speaker 2: marriageinal but it has there has to you have to
Speaker 2: meet certain requirements, undue, duress forced, you know, there's all
Speaker 2: kinds of requirements that you have to meet to get
Speaker 2: a marriage, and they don't meet them.
Speaker 6: Okay, I thought there might be like, no, it's not
Speaker 6: as easy.
Speaker 4: People just assume that it's like just an.
Speaker 3: I think Kim Kardashing got her marriage like her seventy
Speaker 3: two day marriage.
Speaker 2: It's Kim Kardash.
Speaker 1: Chris, if you're listening, when are we doing lunch?
Speaker 2: Kim? If you're listening, when are we doing a podcast?
Speaker 1: Joe and Serena, thank you so much for sharing with
Speaker 1: us and giving us your point of view on your advice.
Speaker 1: And I think we were all on the same page
Speaker 1: on most of them, don't you, Kathy.
Speaker 2: I do. I think that you guys. I envy you
Speaker 2: having all these great friends and this great exciting life
Speaker 2: in New York. And I think for those of us
Speaker 2: who are part of Bachelor Nation, I think these great
Speaker 2: relationships and these friendships.
Speaker 1: Are just that's the most important.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just incredible.
Speaker 1: It's amazing.
Speaker 2: And I don't know about you, Susan, but I can
Speaker 2: hardly wait to get to Paradise. We're going to meet
Speaker 2: our Joe.
Speaker 1: We'll see. And that does it. For today's episode of
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you both for coming
Speaker 1: and sharing with us today.
Speaker 4: Of course, thanks for having us.
Speaker 2: We love getting to collaborate with you, guys, and we
Speaker 2: thank you so much for joining us. You'all be sure
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Speaker 2: I hope you all have a great week. Thanks for
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Speaker 4: Thanks for having us. Bye, guys, have a great week.