1 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank 2 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. We're so excited to 3 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: be back. 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 2: And if you haven't done it yet again, I don't 5 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: know what you're doing with your time, but it is 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 2: time to follow our podcast so you don't miss even 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: one episode. All you have to do is search for 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: Bachelor Happy Hour in the podcast app and hit the 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: follow button. 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 1: Exactly super important to hit that follow button because you'll 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: get notified every time there's a new episode. 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Joe Jackey, thanks for joining us. 22 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. 23 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: How you been perfect pronunciation of Joe's last name. Incredible job. 24 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm going to Italy soon, so I've been 25 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 2: studying and I understand that a mobley has something to 26 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: do with love, so I've memorized. 27 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 4: It love or sweet one of them. I think I'm 28 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 4: just a lovely sweet boy. 29 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 2: You're a lovely sweet. 30 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 5: But thank you guys, Thank you guys so much for 31 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 5: having us. We're excited to be on your podcast. 32 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: We want to know what's going on with us. 33 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: Oh, go ahead, would you guys ever do another TV 34 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: reality show? 35 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: They're married? 36 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 5: I got one, I got one coming out, I got 37 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 5: one coming out May ninth, So birthday? 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: Hello, Yeah, Well you can celebrate your birthday by watching 39 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 3: Joe's new show The on Amazon. 40 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 41 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: Whoa, Well, congrats to Joe. 42 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 4: Thank you. It's a competition show, so yeah. 43 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 3: It's the greatest reality star of all time is the concept. 44 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 3: So it's like all reality stars. Tasha's on it as 45 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: well from Bachelor. 46 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: Wow, how fun? Did you guys have an anniversary coming up? 47 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: So congratulations? 48 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 4: Thank you. 49 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 6: Yeah. 50 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: You know what's crazy is this June will be three 51 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: years since we did Paradise. So we met on June seventh, 52 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 3: which was the first day of filming, and then we 53 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 3: got engaged on Oh shoot, I always forget this day. 54 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 3: I think it was June twenty sixth Yeah. 55 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 4: Did you know? 56 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 2: Did you know right away? How'd you know that he 57 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: was the one? Yeah? I don't. 58 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 3: I didn't know right away, but I was like definitely 59 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 3: like only eyes for him pretty early on, like very 60 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 3: drawn to him, Like, so, yeah. 61 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: What about Joe right away? 62 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 1: Joe, you're being silent? 63 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 4: Uh, how did I know? That's a good question. 64 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 2: I don't know if there's like a we haven't been 65 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: not supposed to be a hard question that was supposed 66 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: to be just a real, real throw it to easy 67 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: one there. 68 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 4: You know what I think I think it was about. 69 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 5: I mean, I knew I was attracted to her and 70 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 5: really liked her, like immediately, and then I think it 71 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 5: was probably it was probably about two weeks into where 72 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 5: I was like, we also vibe really well together, like 73 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 5: we we mesh well, we're. 74 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we're very compatible. 75 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 5: And then everything just kept getting better and better, like 76 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 5: the relationship, Yeah, the relationship and just how I felt 77 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 5: about her just kept growing and growing. And that's when 78 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 5: I was like, well, at this rate, yeah, this is 79 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 5: gonna work to be married. 80 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 81 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 3: I don't know if it was like love at first sight, 82 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 3: I don't know, but like it was definitely connection at 83 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 3: first like I can still remember like seeing him for 84 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 3: the first time, and. 85 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: Like chemistry first conversation, like. 86 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 6: Feeling like electric. Yeah, I do. 87 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 5: I do think in an atmosphere like Bachelor and Paradise, 88 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 5: love at first sight. I don't even know if that 89 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 5: like exists there because everyone. 90 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 3: Kind of knows everyone, even if it's just through like 91 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: word of mouth, like heard of this person. 92 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, like totally it is. 93 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 2: It is. But I have a question. So you guys, 94 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: are you know, relatively newly married compared to you know, 95 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 2: how long suits and I were married. So I want 96 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 2: to know, what do you think we'll keep your spark 97 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 2: alive as as your relationship with chorts long term relationships? 98 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: How are you going to do it? 99 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 6: Oh, that's a good question. 100 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 5: I'm a very spontaneous person and I plan on always 101 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 5: being that way, and I feel like that is one 102 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 5: one way for sure. 103 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 6: Yeah. 104 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: I do love that about Joe is like he'll be like, 105 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 3: let's let's do this, let's go here all of a sudden. 106 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 3: I do think that's not as much my personality, but 107 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 3: I do like I'm an activity person, so it does 108 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 3: keep things exciting interesting. I also just think like keep 109 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 3: dating each other, like we like to do new things together, 110 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 3: make new memories, like push ourselves to you know, even 111 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 3: if it's just like let's go try this new restaurant tonight, 112 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 3: and yeah, it keeps it fun and developing and exciting. 113 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, Just stay spontaneous because it adds a 114 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: lot of life. 115 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and well, you knows, as you're together longer, it 116 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 2: gets a little more difficult to do that. So I 117 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 2: love that you say spontaneous because if you do that, 118 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 2: your relationship will keep growing and evolving. 119 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 3: I saw this thing on Instagram that was like you 120 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 3: have to hug for eight seconds a day for like 121 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 3: a serotonin release or like a some sort of like 122 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: dopamine hit or something, and then kiss for six seconds 123 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 3: a day and that, like, Susan, you and I are 124 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 3: screw there's a chemical release from that. 125 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: The universe hugs me every day. 126 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you kissing for eight seconds? I want 127 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 2: to hear about that too. 128 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: So we have some fan advice questions. Can we play 129 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: with you guys? Yeah, let's do it, okay, Sophia wrote, Hi, 130 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: Golden Hour family, My fiance Brett and I are getting 131 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 1: married in July and we are so excited. Something has 132 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: come up that I need your advice on because I'm 133 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: truly not sure what to do. My parents got divorced 134 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: six years ago and my dad has a partner he's 135 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: been dating for two years now. My mom wants to 136 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: bring her new boyfriend of the month of one month 137 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: to the wedding. We have strict long term partners only 138 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: for plus ones at our wedding. My fiance and I 139 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: still haven't met this guy she's dating. Wow, but my 140 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: mom is saying how hard it would be for her 141 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: to have to be at our wedding without a date, 142 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: especially with my dad and his girlfriend there. I just 143 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: feel weird inviting someone and we've never met, And even 144 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: if we meet him in the next month, I don't 145 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: want this man in our photos. Who knows how long 146 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: he'll be around. It sort of feels like my mom 147 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: just found a guy because she wanted a date to 148 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: the wedding. Do you think we should invite him to 149 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: appease my mom or do you think we should stick 150 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: to our long term partner's only policy even for her. 151 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you, Love you guys 152 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: and your podcast. 153 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 5: Okay, Joe, you fucking let him. 154 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 4: It's your mom, you let it. You let her bring whoever. Really, 155 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 4: it's yeah, it's your. 156 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 5: Mother, it's your it's not your friend, it's not your 157 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 5: it's not your aunt, it's not your uncle. 158 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 4: It is your it's the person that birthed you. 159 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 2: You let her bring. 160 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 4: Whoever she wants. 161 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 5: If she wants to feel comfortable, because that's going to 162 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 5: make her feel comfortable, You let her and you'll have. 163 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be in the picture. 164 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 4: He doesn't have to be in the photos. 165 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: Dude, stay every day to be in one, get out 166 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: of you. 167 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 5: And also, for a wedding, you take fifteen hundred to 168 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 5: two thousand photos. 169 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 4: If he's in twenty of them, would. 170 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 5: So be it? 171 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 4: Really? Who cares like that? To me? I think that's 172 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 4: where I stand. 173 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 2: I wrote this question. I wrote this question. Well, no, 174 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: this actually Susan. This happened to me. You guys, My 175 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: daughter got married two and a half years ago, and 176 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 2: I wanted to bring a date because I just always 177 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: feel like a third wheel. And she absolutely said no, 178 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: and I had to go by myself and my husband 179 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 2: passed away, and it was it was really hard for me. 180 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 2: But at the end of the day. It was her wedding, 181 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 2: and I felt like I had to, you know, respect 182 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: her wishes for her wedding, and it was hard. I 183 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 2: will say it was hard, but I just kept telling myself, 184 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 2: this is her special day. She gets to do what 185 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 2: she wants. Then my son got married three months ago 186 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 2: and Susan officiated that buddy. Yeah, Susan was, but my 187 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: son was exactly the opposite. Mom, bring whoever you want, 188 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 2: bring a date. So I've lived at both sides. 189 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 3: How about you, Serena, You know what, I kind of 190 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 3: your answer threw me off just because I wasn't expecting 191 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 3: that from you, But I guess it does make sense. 192 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 6: That is kind of your personality, and you. 193 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 3: Are very like like like you have a lot of 194 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 3: respect for your parents and you always want them to 195 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 3: be comfortable and taken care of, which is an amazing quality. 196 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: I think an alternative is like, does she have a 197 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 3: best friend that you know that maybe you grew up 198 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: with that It's like, hey, Mom, I don't know this guy, 199 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 3: I'm not super comfortable with you bring him, but like 200 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 3: you could totally bring so and so as like your 201 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 3: plus one, and like we know them and we maybe 202 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 3: feel a little more comfortable having them there. But yeah, 203 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 3: you're kind of right, you know what, Like there's so 204 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: many people at a wedding unless this is like a 205 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 3: really intimate, like twenty person wedding. 206 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 4: Like even if it is your mom. 207 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, Like I would never want my mom 208 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 3: to feel I don't know. 209 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 6: Weddings get so tricky though. 210 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 3: I feel like everyone has like different views of what 211 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 3: like who she get invited with, and like I also 212 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: like I have family members who had very very strict 213 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: number limits at their venue of like, hey, if you 214 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 3: bring that person, we have to essentially like kick someone 215 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 3: else out. So if it's a situation like that where 216 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 3: it's like we we just can't make it work. But yeah, 217 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 3: you're right, Like it's your mom just. 218 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: Man of the month, so. 219 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 5: Seems well, no, no, I thought I thought, I thought 220 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 5: you read that wrong. 221 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 2: You read that wrong, And she's only known the guy 222 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 2: a month. 223 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 6: It's not she did say. 224 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 3: She did say it feels like she's just dating this 225 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 3: guy so that she can have someone to bring them 226 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 3: to the wedding. 227 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 2: What's wrong with having to date for the wedding issue? 228 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 5: Their issue is that everybody else is a long term partner. Yeah, 229 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 5: so that's why that's their rule. So it's like it's 230 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 5: going against a rule. But I say, you break it 231 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 5: because it's your mother, And I say, who's paying for 232 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 5: the wedding, Well, that's a whole. 233 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 3: That's if it's If if it's her, then she definitely 234 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 3: she could bring six guys. 235 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I get feeling weird when your ex husband 236 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: has a girlfriend there, like, yeah, I have somebody to 237 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: dance with, something that there's a few moments a lot 238 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: of weddings alone. Trust Yeah. 239 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 3: I mean like if her, if the mom has like 240 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 3: a bunch of family going and a bunch of friends going, 241 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: and her daughter's like, you have a ton of people, 242 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 3: you're gonna feel supported. 243 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 6: Maybe they're like, we don't think we're gonna like this guy. 244 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 3: Maybe there's like a history of like we don't like 245 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 3: the boyfriends, we don't want to bring in this random guy. 246 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 3: Then I can understand the daughter maybe being like, look 247 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 3: like you got people there, but I think going to 248 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 3: side with you, Joe, Like it's your mom like letter 249 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 3: bring the. 250 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,839 Speaker 1: Date, except letter bring the day, break the rule. 251 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 6: Yeahs for your mom. 252 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: Well, I hope the wedding has these very obedient her 253 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: daughter said, no. 254 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 2: She said, yes, man, Kathy is not obedient, but I 255 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:06,839 Speaker 2: did not bring a date to my daughter's wedding. 256 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, Kathy, can I can I ask you real quick? 257 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: Sure? 258 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 5: So since you you actually ended up doing both? Yeah, 259 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 5: which did you prefer being able to bring someone to 260 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 5: your to your sons or having you go solo to 261 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 5: your daughter? 262 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 1: Get her face, Jose And those are daughters going to 263 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: listen to this? And she's scared you? 264 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, here's what I actually was thinking. I 265 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 2: didn't want to tell the whole story. But there is 266 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,479 Speaker 2: a guy I dated for ten minutes and we're friends, 267 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 2: and I invited him to the wedding as friends and 268 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 2: he's a great dancer. Just have someone to be with. 269 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 2: And then after the wedding, you know, the meals were 270 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: paid for, he decided not to come, and I was 271 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 2: irritated beyond belief. But in the meantime, my son Kyle 272 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: and his wife Candy asked Susan to officiate the wedding. 273 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 2: So Susan and I were the first up on the 274 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: dance floor. I didn't you know what the bottom line is, 275 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 2: didn't need the guy had Susan, but there oh yeah, 276 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 2: but Honestly, it was a little uncomfortable with my daughter's wedding. 277 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 2: It really was. I just I was missing my husband. 278 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: It's my only daughter, you know, wishing he had been 279 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 2: there the whole thing that was much harder at my 280 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 2: daughter's wedding. 281 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: Got so my little bride, and let your mother bring 282 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: a date. 283 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: Or invite Susan to me to go with him. Well, 284 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 2: all right, here we go Number two. This is from Henry. 285 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 2: Hello Kathy and Susan. Hello Henry. My name is Henry, 286 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 2: and I'm a sixty eight year old man who just 287 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: lost my wife of forty years to cancer. Sorry to 288 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 2: hear that. 289 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 4: That' sad. 290 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 2: My kids are all grown and spread out over the 291 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 2: country with their families and my grandkids. I'm still living 292 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: in the house we raised our family in and living 293 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 2: in the town my wife and I lived in without 294 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: our kids here. It feels like everything and everyone in 295 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 2: this city was mine and hers, and feel extra lonely 296 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 2: being here without her. Since my kids are all spread 297 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 2: out and most of our friends were couple friends, I 298 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 2: am thinking about picking up and moving to New York City, 299 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: which is somewhere I've always wanted to live and never 300 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: got to. Do when I was younger. I'm curious your 301 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 2: thoughts about starting completely over at our age and of 302 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 2: all feel even more lost in a big city like 303 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 2: that coming from a smaller town upstate. Do you think 304 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 2: I should just pick up and move or give myself 305 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 2: more time to heal and see if that's what I 306 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: really want? Thank you both, you feel like friends listening 307 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 2: to your podcast. Oh, Henry, thank you. 308 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: We are your friend, Honey, we are. I couldn't agree 309 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: more that it's time to make a change. However, New 310 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: York cities, you can be lonely in that city. I 311 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 1: would suggest taking a month try it out. I wouldn't 312 00:14:56,000 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: just do right, I mean, there might be other cities 313 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: that you might or up in New York, but maybe 314 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 1: not downtown. It's lonely. 315 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 2: Serena and Joe, you guys can go travel and sub 316 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: let your place to him for three months. 317 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 4: Please. 318 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 5: I think go to Naples, Florida and spread your wings 319 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 5: out there. Or what I what I really think you 320 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 5: should do is send them that application for the Golden Bachelorette, 321 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 5: because it sounds like that might be the. 322 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 2: Move for if we're really going there. Or Henry, send 323 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 2: me your resume and maybe you want to move to Austin, Texas. 324 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 1: There we go, let us check it out. 325 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 5: But I personally don't say I feel like, yeah, like 326 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 5: everyone everyone's gone. Now you know he's in this big house. 327 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 5: He's probably feeling lonely, like at this point in your life, Like, yeah, 328 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 5: change is good, take a risk. You know, you know, 329 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 5: life short, So I say, live it up. If if 330 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 5: you feel like moving to New York, you fucking moved 331 00:15:58,320 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 5: to New York's have. 332 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: A ton of money too. 333 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 3: And also yeah, yeah, Susan, I think your suggestion of 334 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 3: like maybe if you have never lived in New York 335 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 3: before or a big city, I mean, New York is 336 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 3: so different than any big city, truly test it out. 337 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 3: Do like a one month Airbnb rental, see how you 338 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 3: like it. New York is a big city. It can 339 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 3: be hard to find like a community. So yeah, maybe 340 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 3: or maybe like you look into I don't know where 341 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 3: his kids live, but maybe he wants to livest somewhere 342 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 3: that's close to his kids. 343 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 2: Trying to Yeah, but you know what, what the unwritten 344 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 2: thing here for me is this guy is sixty eight. 345 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 2: He's the kind of guy I'm looking for. This guy 346 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 2: has a no seriously, he has a sense of adventure. 347 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: Henry call us. 348 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 2: No, Henry call me. This is Kathy, not Susan. I'm 349 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 2: saying the guy sounds like it's a sensitive adventure, right, 350 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: So I agree with you, Susan, go and spend you know, 351 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 2: a month or two. But this guy sounds like a 352 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: guy that would get to New York and maybe you know, 353 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: join a group, a museum group, a walking group, a 354 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 2: bar crawl. He would do things to get to know people. 355 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: So yeah, I think it depends on his personality and 356 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 3: who he is. Like if he thinks that he's gonna 357 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 3: like get here, he loves New York, he wants to change, 358 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,160 Speaker 3: he wants to put himself out there, like go for it. 359 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 6: But like that, he's not. 360 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: I'll feel even more lost in a big city like that, 361 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: coming from a smaller town. 362 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 6: Which he might see. 363 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 2: And I can tell you he's from Upstate New York. 364 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,199 Speaker 2: That's where my my daughter's husband's from. That's where my 365 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 2: husband was from. Upstate New York is a whole different 366 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 2: kettle of fish and Henry, I'll be there this summer. 367 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: So Henry, just send me your resume. I'll check it 368 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: out for Kathy. Kat I'm all about you. 369 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm all about you, says and we're gonna find 370 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 2: each other. We're gonna have a dual wedding. 371 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 372 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 4: I could totally see this works out. 373 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 6: But Henry, I think travel a little bit. 374 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 3: Like I think the intention of maybe moving starting fresh 375 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 3: somewhere is a great idea, but maybe travel to New York, 376 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 3: travel to a few different places, see what feels like 377 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 3: it might be your new home. 378 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 1: I agree, Henry. We wish you the best, we really do. 379 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: Do we have time for one more? 380 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 2: You think, go for it? 381 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 4: I think so? Okay. 382 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: Thank hi guys. I love your podcast. Thank you. I'm 383 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: going to remain anonymous because my boyfriend and I sometimes 384 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: listen to your episodes together. Anyway, we've been dating for 385 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: three years and have a pretty great relationship. We just 386 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: moved in together a few months ago, and ever since 387 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 1: we moved in dot dot dot, I feel like his mom. 388 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: I cook, clean, grocery, shop, do laundry, and he often 389 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,439 Speaker 1: just leaves his stuff around our apartment and acts like 390 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 1: a teenager when it comes to evenly dividing housework. I 391 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: don't like continuously nagging him to put a stuff away 392 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 1: or help out and this is really hurting our relationship dynamic. 393 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 1: Any advice to get him to pull his weight or 394 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: is this just holl he is thank you for your help. 395 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh. 396 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 1: Oh he's not going to change. 397 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:12,639 Speaker 4: I mean that's an issue. 398 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 5: I mean, listen, if I would say, my first piece 399 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 5: of advice would be have the conversation, but it seems 400 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 5: like she already did and nothing's changed from there. So 401 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 5: then that's like, for me, that would be a major issue. 402 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 5: Like it's one thing. I get it, Like people people 403 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 5: are very different and people were raised differently. 404 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone goes into a relationship of living together with 405 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 3: different home habits. 406 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:38,640 Speaker 6: That's always going to be the case. 407 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 3: Like maybe this guy is like, I'm not picking up 408 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 3: my stuff because I've never picked up my stuff, so 409 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna you know, it's not that he's trying 410 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 3: to disrespect you, but he's like, that's just not something 411 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 3: I've ever done. Like maybe he's been living in fealth 412 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:51,399 Speaker 3: this whole life. 413 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 6: Who knows. 414 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 1: I've spoiled my kids, but they had to do things. 415 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: But recently I was over my son and daughter in 416 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 1: Lawe's place, and I was babysitting and I was want 417 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: to help out and do some of the piles of 418 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 1: laundry that we're there, And I said Christopher, he goes, 419 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,919 Speaker 1: I do my own laundry. And I looked at my 420 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 1: daughter in law like my first reactions like what, and 421 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 1: I go, oh, good for you. 422 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, Joe and I do separate laundry exactly. He does 423 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 6: his own. I do my own laundry. 424 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 3: But it's like whatever works in your relationship. Like some people, 425 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 3: it's like I do the laundry. He does this like 426 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 3: you divide and conquer. But it can't be her doing 427 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 3: one hundred percent. 428 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 2: That's you old school Serena. You just hit on it. 429 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 2: You know. She is saying, I do the cleaning, the 430 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 2: grocery shopping, the laundry. That's work. I'm literally reading the same. Honey, 431 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 2: you're the problem, not him. If you don't go grocery shopping. 432 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 2: When he comes in and looks for dinner, I don't 433 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 2: know what you fix. When he goes in looking first 434 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 2: clean clothes, I don't know, did you do your laundry. 435 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 2: When he goes in and there's toothpaste over the sink 436 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 2: and he's out of whatever, he's out of toothpaste, I 437 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: don't know. You didn't, that's that's your sink, Like so 438 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 2: that my kids, she is enabling him. 439 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, but also she doesn't want to live like that. 440 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,160 Speaker 5: I think about it like that that's it. She has 441 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 5: to Then if she goes that route, then she also 442 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 5: someone has to suffer herself because she has to deal 443 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,719 Speaker 5: with the mess and it has to be okay with it. 444 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,199 Speaker 5: Like I'm I'm very typing when it comes to like 445 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 5: like I hate having like a mess around the house. 446 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 5: But it's like, yeah, that's that to me. That's like 447 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 5: like almost like I hate to say it, but it's 448 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 5: like if you're not if you're not willing to cooperate 449 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 5: or change it all, then but. 450 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 2: That's what I agree with you. But she said it, 451 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 2: she said I do it all. She hasn't given him 452 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 2: the chance to pull his own way. 453 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that she needs to. 454 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 3: Like I feel like household chores can get thrown into 455 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 3: like hey I wish you did this, or hey can 456 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 3: you pick this up? And it ends up becoming like 457 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 3: what in your mind is like it's just a small thing, 458 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 3: it's just the dishes, but it's a big thing when 459 00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 3: you live with. 460 00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 6: This person every single day. 461 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 3: So like she needs to sit down with him and 462 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: be like, look, these are the household chores that I'm. 463 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 1: Doing, hanging on the refrigerator. 464 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 6: Doing none of them. 465 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 3: What are you willing to take off my plate? Let's 466 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,920 Speaker 3: let's divide this up. I can you do the laundry? 467 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 3: Can you do groceries? And if you know he's like yes, 468 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 3: which he should be, it's not a big ass, it's 469 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 3: basic living requirements, then like give him the opportunity to 470 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 3: take on those tasks. And if he's not willing to 471 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 3: do or he's not doing it every single week you 472 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 3: have no groceries like that, I would honestly be so 473 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,399 Speaker 3: turned off I would break up with that person. 474 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: I mean, that's clearly chance. Give him the chance say hey, 475 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 2: you know, we need to we need to conquer and 476 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 2: divide on this relationship. And she hasn't It doesn't sound 477 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 2: like she's done that yet. 478 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: So and be honest and say, babe, this is not 479 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: working for me. Yeah, I'm building anxiety. 480 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 3: And if she sits him down and says like, look, 481 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 3: this is really not okay and for me and he 482 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 3: still doesn't do it, then. 483 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 6: That is disrespectful. 484 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is blatantly like I don't care about your 485 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 3: needs or you're feeling comfortable in our home. I don't 486 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 3: care about helping maintain the home. 487 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 2: Then you know where we are with him, Then you 488 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 2: know where we are. Serena Pitt and Joe A. Mobley, 489 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,120 Speaker 2: we are back to a Rivederci. 490 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 1: Yes, and you can't fit to his mother because she 491 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: didn't train him right, because it's not going to change. 492 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, he can go home and live with his mom 493 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 3: and she'll do all those things for him. 494 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 6: But you should not have to. 495 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 2: That's right. We love to play games. Will you guys 496 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 2: play a game with us? Let's do it all right? 497 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 2: All right, we're going to ask you. It's called Who's 498 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 2: who a Bachelor Nation. We're going to ask you for 499 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 2: your answers, and we're going to see where this goes. So, 500 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 2: Serena and Joe, who is your favorite couple to double 501 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 2: date with? 502 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 6: Couple high? 503 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,360 Speaker 1: That's really hard because you have a few of them. 504 00:23:58,640 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 6: We have a few. 505 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 4: We have a few. 506 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 6: I love going out with Anna and Chris. 507 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 2: Is this? 508 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: Oh? 509 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 5: Are we asking about Bachelor Nation couples or just couples 510 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 5: in general? 511 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 6: Vaccination and well, no one's going to know like Eddie 512 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 6: and Amanda. 513 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, Eddie High, Amanda, I love you. 514 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,199 Speaker 3: Christ and Anna, we have a lot of fun with 515 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 3: We love Albigil and Noah obviously. 516 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, Don and Charity. 517 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 3: We hung out with them a few times recently. They're 518 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,119 Speaker 3: new to New York and we have a lot of 519 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 3: fun with them. Yeah, there's so many. 520 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 5: Walls and Sarah, I feel like on a Nick and 521 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 5: Natalie like honestly, like it's hard to pick a favorite. 522 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 2: We like them all now. Joe and Joe's Joey and 523 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,199 Speaker 2: Joe and Kelsey. 524 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 3: Yes, I haven't met them in person yet, but we'll 525 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 3: definitely go in a double date with them. 526 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: How about your favorite Happy Hour interview so far? Do 527 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 1: you have a favorite? What comes first to the top 528 00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: of your head. 529 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 6: We did one recently that oh you know what, well, okay. 530 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 3: We interviewed abigil Know recently, which was so fun for 531 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 3: us because it was almost just like a big catch 532 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 3: up on like their life and what's going on, and 533 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,639 Speaker 3: just felt like a like a FaceTime call because we 534 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 3: do have such a good friendship with them. We also 535 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 3: did an interview, a two part interview with Maria that 536 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 3: just came out a little while ago, which was also 537 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 3: really fun. I feel like it was very anticipated. It 538 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,199 Speaker 3: was long overdue. We got to talk to her for 539 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 3: like an hour, which was great. 540 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:31,360 Speaker 1: We were a little jealous over that, by the way, Yeah. 541 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 2: A little a lot. 542 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 5: We actually recently we just did My answer would be 543 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 5: Joey and his dad, Oh. 544 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, interview. We felt very lucky to be able to 545 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 3: get that interview. 546 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,920 Speaker 2: Do you think he would make a good bachelor? 547 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 4: I do. 548 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 6: I do think his dad would make a great bachelor. 549 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 3: He's lovely and he was the first parent that we 550 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,439 Speaker 3: ever had on the podcast of a contestant, So it 551 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 3: was a lot of like new conversation that we'd never 552 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 3: had before. 553 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 2: Okay, who is your dream Happy Hour guest? 554 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 3: People always ask us this, and it's it's so hard 555 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 3: because I actually kind of feel like we've had like most. 556 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 5: People on Yeah for at least for Yeah, because like 557 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 5: just like a random sellab just wouldn't it wouldn't really 558 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 5: make sense with. 559 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 4: The way our podcast is formated. 560 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 5: So I feel like, yeah, we're pretty lucky with the 561 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 5: guests we get like it's always right. 562 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 3: Actually, you know what I would love to have is 563 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 3: a couple that broke up come on together. Are I 564 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 3: would love to have like Gary and Teresa, come on 565 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 3: and talk about. 566 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: Get in line, Serena. They're coming to us first, Susan. 567 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 4: Maybe Bradley Cooper, especially if he watches the show. 568 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: He never missed an episode I love. 569 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 3: I feel like he'll be on Susan and Kathy's podcasts though, 570 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:49,719 Speaker 3: because he's such a fan of theirs. 571 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 2: Come on, Susan. 572 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,959 Speaker 1: Okay, here's a good one. Besides your own wedding, what 573 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: was your favorite Bachelor Nation wedding that you attended? 574 00:26:58,600 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 2: Oh? 575 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 4: This is this is raw for me. 576 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 6: I know your answer? 577 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 5: Which one that was just such a great wedding. 578 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 3: I got sick and I didn't get to go, which 579 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 3: was such a bummer. I think, Okay, well, we didn't 580 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 3: make it to Tea's wedding. We only made it to 581 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 3: her welcome party. I think the only Bachelor Nation wedding 582 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 3: I've been to then is Nick and Natalie's. 583 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 4: We just went to that. That was so much fun, beautiful. 584 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 3: And we had so much fun, truly like a great 585 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 3: group of people. 586 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 6: We Yeah, we had a blast. 587 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 2: All right, I got I have one for you. What 588 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 2: is the most heartbreaking Bachelor Nation goodbye on screen breakup? 589 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: For you guys? What's the most heartbreaking one. Oh, that's 590 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 2: a good question. 591 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 3: I'm trying to think back to the past seasons. You 592 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 3: know what, Charity and Joey's breakup was really sad. Yeah, 593 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 3: that was really really sad. 594 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:54,439 Speaker 1: I cried. 595 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to think like back back, like I know, 596 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 3: Hannah Brown and Tyler Cameron's was very iconic and very sad. 597 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 4: There there's someone. 598 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 5: Oh, it's driving me crazy because it's like a recent 599 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 5: season where I was like, this was actually really sad. 600 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 6: Do you want me to like list some seasons? 601 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 4: For that was the last one, Joey. 602 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 6: It was the last one before that was Charity. 603 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 2: Charity, and for that was Zach and Katie. 604 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 5: It was a guy breaking up with it was it 605 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 5: was a bachelor breaking up with a girl. 606 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 4: So I don't think it was. 607 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 3: That Clayton Clayton, No, I mean actually Clayton's break up 608 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 3: with Gabby and Rachel Rekia was the double. 609 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 4: Oh, I think the break up with Rachel. 610 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 6: Rachel sitting there crying. 611 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 4: Oh, that was rough. 612 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 6: Really that might that might be the winner. That might 613 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 6: be the winner. 614 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: That's so funny. I would have thought one of you 615 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 2: would have said, Joey, Daisy coming to the realization and 616 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 2: going home. That to me was so poignant. 617 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 4: That was that was sad. 618 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 6: That was sad. 619 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 3: But I feel like it was that was sad because 620 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 3: she had like accepted it. Yeah, I feel like for me, 621 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 3: it's harder when it's like almost a blind side. 622 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 2: You guys were going to say when Gary sent me home, 623 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 2: but I guess not. 624 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 6: I was this opportunity totally. 625 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 1: What was your favorite Bachelor Nation style dream date? Out 626 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 1: of all the dates you saw, what would be your favorite? 627 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 5: Oh? 628 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 3: I know, okay, I know, and I think this is 629 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 3: your answer to Joey and Kelsey in Jasper, Canada, which 630 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 3: is like so beautiful. 631 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 6: Literally got to like go to a bar. 632 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 3: They walk around the city, they go to a bar, 633 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 3: they're playing pool, they're having beers a cold place. 634 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 6: Joe and I were like, this. 635 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 3: Is our dream date, like so fun, so like easy, relaxed. 636 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 1: How about you? 637 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 2: I was just going back thinking about Canada. How is 638 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: the Santamonic compater for you? Susan good? 639 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 1: So I like the helicopter and the yacht with faith. 640 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: I mean I would have liked to have gone on 641 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: that one. 642 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 2: You know what I want to do? I I really 643 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: want to skydive. I want to jump out of the air. Yeah, 644 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 2: I really want to do that. I want to find 645 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:08,479 Speaker 2: the go I want to do it in tandem, you know, 646 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 2: not jump out by myself. It's kind of give my 647 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 2: mic It's like, give me a microphone. You don't know 648 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 2: what's going to happen. 649 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 4: I've done it. 650 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, I hated it, scary. I was nauseous the whole time. 651 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 5: When I got done, I was like, why did I 652 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 5: just risk my life like that? And then did you 653 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 5: do it solo or tandem? 654 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 4: And I would never do it again. I would never 655 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 4: do it again. I wouldn't even consider it. 656 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 1: Landing really hard? Did you feel like you were going 657 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: to break your legs or something? Or did you land? 658 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 5: I was just so happy to get down because I 659 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 5: was going to throw off, so I didn't care. 660 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 2: The best date, we're back to getting the ball gowns 661 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 2: and the diamond earrings is the best date. I'm an 662 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 2: adventure girl, you know. But wait, I have to go 663 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: back just for one second. Did you guys not think 664 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 2: that Gary and Leslie's breakup was tough? After we started talking? 665 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 2: I thought that one was tough? 666 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 6: Actually was? 667 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 5: I feel like, like like it's heartbreaking? 668 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? Hard yes, it's hard to it's but you know, 669 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 2: when you see how happy Joey is now, like you 670 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: focus on that now not I don't. 671 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: Had the opportunity of having the lead and finding his girl. 672 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, and you, honestly you usually the truth is that, 673 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 5: the sad truth is you usually forget about the breakup 674 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 5: because then the you know, the couple at the end. 675 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 4: So happy that that's where your focus goes. 676 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: Until they get a divorce and moving right along. They 677 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: ruined my record. 678 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 2: I'm just saying that's true. Yes, Susan has never had 679 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 2: a couple break up that she has married until. 680 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 6: Okay, well we could just sweep this one under the 681 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 6: rugge a. 682 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 2: TV wedding and you know what I think. I think 683 00:31:55,960 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 2: there's something written Susan in the Marital Almanac webs that 684 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 2: says if you're not married more than four months, it 685 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 2: doesn't count. 686 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, you could totally get like they could annull the marriage. 687 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 2: I think, No, you cannot. You cannot. Everyone thinks you can. 688 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 2: For the Catholic Church, Well, no, you can get a 689 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 2: marriageinal but it has there has to you have to 690 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 2: meet certain requirements, undue, duress forced, you know, there's all 691 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: kinds of requirements that you have to meet to get 692 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: a marriage, and they don't meet them. 693 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 6: Okay, I thought there might be like, no, it's not 694 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 6: as easy. 695 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 4: People just assume that it's like just an. 696 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 3: I think Kim Kardashing got her marriage like her seventy 697 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 3: two day marriage. 698 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 2: It's Kim Kardash. 699 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: Chris, if you're listening, when are we doing lunch? 700 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 2: Kim? If you're listening, when are we doing a podcast? 701 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 1: Joe and Serena, thank you so much for sharing with 702 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: us and giving us your point of view on your advice. 703 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: And I think we were all on the same page 704 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: on most of them, don't you, Kathy. 705 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 2: I do. I think that you guys. I envy you 706 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 2: having all these great friends and this great exciting life 707 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 2: in New York. And I think for those of us 708 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 2: who are part of Bachelor Nation, I think these great 709 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 2: relationships and these friendships. 710 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: Are just that's the most important. 711 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just incredible. 712 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: It's amazing. 713 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 2: And I don't know about you, Susan, but I can 714 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 2: hardly wait to get to Paradise. We're going to meet 715 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 2: our Joe. 716 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: We'll see. And that does it. For today's episode of 717 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you both for coming 718 00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: and sharing with us today. 719 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,239 Speaker 4: Of course, thanks for having us. 720 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,719 Speaker 2: We love getting to collaborate with you, guys, and we 721 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 2: thank you so much for joining us. You'all be sure 722 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 2: to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new episodes 723 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 2: coming out every week, and if you enjoyed today, you're 724 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 2: not gonna want to miss this one or any of 725 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 2: the other ones coming. 726 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 1: And don't forget to submit your questions. You can go 727 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:56,240 Speaker 1: to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour, or hit us 728 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: up on social at Bachelor Happy Hour. 729 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 2: Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio 730 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 2: app or wherever you listen to podcasts. Thanks so much. 731 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 2: I hope you all have a great week. Thanks for 732 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 2: joining us, Joe and Serena. 733 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 4: Thanks for having us. Bye, guys, have a great week.