WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Eddie

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<v Speaker 1>The best bits of the week with Morgan. It's Listener

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<v Speaker 1>Q and DA time.

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<v Speaker 2>We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Listener Q and A Time. Eddie is

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<v Speaker 1>here with me. Eddie, have you been on since I've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing like shout outs at the beginning?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I remember some shout outs. Okay, the shoutouts

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<v Speaker 3>are cool. I like those.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they make you feel good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, because a lot of things are rough lately,

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<v Speaker 4>so shout out. Start out with some good things. Christine

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<v Speaker 4>from Virginia said, no question. Just wanted to say Eddie

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<v Speaker 4>has the best attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's so sweet. I try my best, Christine, you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Try your best.

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<v Speaker 3>I try my best.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently he's a little weird too. Eddie is my favorite.

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<v Speaker 4>Go listen to part one if you want to know

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<v Speaker 4>that reference. Eddie is my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>On the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Stephanie from Ohio, Thanks Stephanie, you're my favorite listener.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even know her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>What colors are heir?

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<v Speaker 3>I do tell a lot of listeners that too. She's

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<v Speaker 3>got darker hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she probably does. I mean you had a shot

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<v Speaker 1>there actually.

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<v Speaker 4>Like like, dang it all or opposite. All right, let's

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<v Speaker 4>get into some listener questions. We're gonna talk kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, are there.

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<v Speaker 1>Any sports you hope your kids never show interest in?

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<v Speaker 1>Kaylee and Kentucky?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Never. I mean I wouldn't hate it. I wouldn't hate

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<v Speaker 3>it if they didn't like football.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, yeah, why because it just the most injuries just.

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<v Speaker 3>Because of the dangers of playing football.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the head injury, d bad injury.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean really kind of just any injuries. Like

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<v Speaker 3>there's there's a lot of older football players that you

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<v Speaker 3>see now that can't even walk just because their hips

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<v Speaker 3>are bad, their knees are bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you just think that's like pro NFL players though, No,

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<v Speaker 5>but even like just you know, collegiate players and not

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<v Speaker 5>like you know, people that played for Alabama, people that

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<v Speaker 5>played for like ball State, any college.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and even like high school if you play like

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<v Speaker 3>high level high school football, bad injury because like ainger

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<v Speaker 3>for the rest of your life. So I would say,

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<v Speaker 3>just because of injuries, I wouldn't hate it if they

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<v Speaker 3>if any of them were just like I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to play football, Okay, but I have two that really

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<v Speaker 3>want to play football and that are playing football. I

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<v Speaker 3>have one that's already playing football and he's not huge.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not big. He's really good, but he's not big,

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<v Speaker 3>and I worry every single time, like he's going to

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<v Speaker 3>break something.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like he's gonna want to play in college.

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<v Speaker 3>If he's able to. Yeah, if he's like, if he

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<v Speaker 3>makes it to college, one hundred percent, he will play

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<v Speaker 3>all the way through college. I don't play in the NFL,

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<v Speaker 3>like if he's ever ever that good. He loves it

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<v Speaker 3>that much. And I thought that as soon as he

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<v Speaker 3>would play it, start playing it and get one big

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<v Speaker 3>hit or like get hit somewhere or some hit that

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<v Speaker 3>knocks him out, like he would quit. Nope, he loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>He got it, he got nailed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he got like an adrenaline rush.

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<v Speaker 3>He got nailed, and he was like that was awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Then he loves hitting like he just loves it all

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<v Speaker 3>it's it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's funny, you got like adrenaline.

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<v Speaker 3>I have two of those, and I have one that's

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<v Speaker 3>like he doesn't like he wants to play football and

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<v Speaker 3>he's not scared of getting hit, but he doesn't really

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<v Speaker 3>love the game that much. So I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>he'll ever play and it's not because he's scared of

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<v Speaker 3>being hit. I just don't think he'll ever play football

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<v Speaker 3>because he's much better at basketball. He loves basketball a

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<v Speaker 3>lot more.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 3>At least you like basketball, then I do love basketball.

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<v Speaker 4>In your basketball coach for a while, yeah, same when

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<v Speaker 4>you basketball coached.

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<v Speaker 3>No another one. However, I might be going I haven't

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<v Speaker 3>told no one this. I might be going back in

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<v Speaker 3>an exclusive. Yeah, I might be going back in Because

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<v Speaker 3>what happens in parent world is if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>if you want to create a team where like we've

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<v Speaker 3>played so much, we're at the point now where we've

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<v Speaker 3>played so much basketball that we can go anywhere in

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<v Speaker 3>the city and we recognize five or six players that

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<v Speaker 3>we know that either we've played with they've been on

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<v Speaker 3>our team, or they've we played against them, or they

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<v Speaker 3>know my kids just because they played against them. And

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<v Speaker 3>so it's the community of we know a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>people that play basketball in town, and we live in

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<v Speaker 3>a big city. And so if we want to create

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<v Speaker 3>a team, like you have to be the coach. And

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<v Speaker 3>so I have seen about six players that I would

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<v Speaker 3>love to have on one team that are just all

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<v Speaker 3>really good at different things a big kid, a shooter,

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<v Speaker 3>a defensive player, and I've seen these and like, we're

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<v Speaker 3>thinking it's best for our kid too to be on

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<v Speaker 3>a winning team. Yeah, so if we want that to happen,

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<v Speaker 3>I might need to step out and be a coach again.

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<v Speaker 1>You know this is so true.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking back and I've never asked my mom why,

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<v Speaker 4>but I would imagine it's something of the similar.

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<v Speaker 1>Reason. She started a competitive cheer.

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<v Speaker 4>Team when we were young, young, young, young, and we

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<v Speaker 4>had competed on extreme athletics, which was pretty well known

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<v Speaker 4>in like the Witchhaw area as a competitive cheer squad.

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<v Speaker 4>And because we were going to compete, this wasn't the

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<v Speaker 4>cheersquad at high school. Like basketball, the game a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit different, the competitive you're going to competitions and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a dull routine. Is that the one that goes

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<v Speaker 3>to Disney World?

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<v Speaker 4>That one can there's different ones. I don't think we

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<v Speaker 4>did on that on that level.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember. I was so young, like I, but

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<v Speaker 1>there are.

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<v Speaker 3>How young were you, Eddie?

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't have been more than five years old. I

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<v Speaker 4>was a baby doing stunts in the air. There are

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<v Speaker 4>photos of the Wichita State University cheer team. The guys

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<v Speaker 4>putting me up in the air and they'd throw me

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<v Speaker 4>in baskets, you know where they tossed you in the

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<v Speaker 4>air and I was just little, And there's videos and

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<v Speaker 4>photos of all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool, But something I don't know what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>If my mom was just like, I want like this

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<v Speaker 4>to be something, because we really wanted to pursue it.

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<v Speaker 4>We loved competitive cheerleading and tumbling gymnastics, and so my

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<v Speaker 4>mom started her own thing. We had a competitive called

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<v Speaker 4>Ice Competitive cheer squad for years and my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Even like passed it down to somebody at some point.

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<v Speaker 4>It was wild and it started with some of the

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<v Speaker 4>Witchitawk State University people.

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<v Speaker 3>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>So your mom she was a cheerleader, No, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think so.

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<v Speaker 1>She just loved to choose a great coach, great leader.

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<v Speaker 3>And probably and it really is a thing too. If

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<v Speaker 3>you want what's best for your kid, you've got to

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<v Speaker 3>you've got to be the leader, Like you've got to

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<v Speaker 3>start the team. You've got to do all the work.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got to recruit, you've got to get different people

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<v Speaker 3>that are gonna make your kids look better, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and Whenever my kids have good players on their team,

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<v Speaker 3>they look better.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, and it sets them up for success

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<v Speaker 4>in different ways.

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<v Speaker 3>Because for years we were always just like, hey, you

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<v Speaker 3>got room in your team, You got room in your team.

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<v Speaker 3>And then they're like, yeah, sure, bring them in, and

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<v Speaker 3>they never really played even though they're so good. Whoever

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<v Speaker 3>if they're because usually each team has about three coaches

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<v Speaker 3>and they're all dads, and so those three kids, no

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<v Speaker 3>matter how good they are, are going to play most

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<v Speaker 3>most of the game because the dads and you kind

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<v Speaker 3>of respect that because they're the ones taking all the

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<v Speaker 3>personal time into the team. They're doing the practices, they're

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<v Speaker 3>they're doing the rosters, they're communicating with the parents, all

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<v Speaker 3>that stuff, and it takes a lot of time. So

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<v Speaker 3>you understand, I get it. You're doing all the work,

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<v Speaker 3>So why not your kid get all the playing time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's not good for the team because if they suck,

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<v Speaker 3>they suck.

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<v Speaker 1>It just is what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we're dealing with that. Now. We have a

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<v Speaker 3>coach where like he and this this is a good

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<v Speaker 3>basketball team, but his son, like is not the best

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<v Speaker 3>player on the team, and he starts and he probably

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<v Speaker 3>turns the ball over twenty times and they can't win games,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like every parent is like, bro, like can

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<v Speaker 3>you not see this? And he may not. He may

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<v Speaker 3>not see it because as a parent you don't see that.

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<v Speaker 1>Or he just wants him to keep getting better, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, you have to play more.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, but dude, there's also all these other kids

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<v Speaker 3>that are trying to get better too, Like let's teach

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<v Speaker 3>all these kids. So yeah, it's frustrating, but it's so.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny how that works. That's the thing that continues sports, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>forever and ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, on the flip side of that, what is a

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<v Speaker 4>favorite skill of yours that you hope you pass on

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<v Speaker 4>to your kids. We kind of touched on this a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit. We're talking part one of weird traits you passed.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, yeah, but we're not talking about that now.

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<v Speaker 4>The things you would like to pass on to them

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<v Speaker 4>From Chris in Massachusetts.

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<v Speaker 3>Chris, this is funny because my wife and I were

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<v Speaker 3>just talking about this. We were at the dinner table

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<v Speaker 3>and like anytime I'm like, hey, we're gonna have steaks

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<v Speaker 3>steaks tonight. The boys like, yes, We're having Dad's steak

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<v Speaker 3>and my wife is like, hey, boys, you should acknowledge this,

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<v Speaker 3>like this is cool. Like your dad like is a

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<v Speaker 3>good cook and you should learn from him how to

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<v Speaker 3>cook these things so that you can be a good cook.

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<v Speaker 3>And then my wife loves because I mean we have

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<v Speaker 3>four boys. Yeah, and my wife's her angle in conversation

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<v Speaker 3>all the time is like your girlfriends or your wives.

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<v Speaker 3>It's always like, don't do that, Like, don't do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you really want your girlfriend or wives to see

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<v Speaker 3>you do? Shout out? And one of the big ones

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<v Speaker 3>like learn to cook. Learn to cook. Your wife will

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<v Speaker 3>appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Have any of them started learning to cook you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Our sixteen year old is really weirdly involved in cooking,

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<v Speaker 3>where like he's he got a cookbook for Christmas. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess it's like a viral TikTok oh there's so many

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<v Speaker 3>kids or something or a YouTube guy his name is

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<v Speaker 3>like Nick Joe Giovanni, I don't know anyway, and so

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<v Speaker 3>he watches him all the time. He got a cookbook.

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<v Speaker 3>He bought it, and so once a week he goes

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<v Speaker 3>to the grocery store and make something off the cookbook.

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<v Speaker 1>Like for the whole family or just for himself.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he tries to do the whole family, but that's

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<v Speaker 3>too much. So sometimes he'll just do like everyone can

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<v Speaker 3>try it.

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<v Speaker 1>Got it, you know, it's like a happetizer.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like noki, right, and like everyone can have like

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<v Speaker 3>five pieces of noki or something like that. And so

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<v Speaker 3>he loves it. He loves doing it, and I'll help

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<v Speaker 3>him with it, and mostly I'm just kind of there, like, bro,

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<v Speaker 3>speed it up, like we'll be here for two hours

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<v Speaker 3>if you don't hurry up, because he like he starts

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<v Speaker 3>cutting the potatoes nice and slow and evenly I'm like, nah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's go fast.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got to watch some of those cooking competitions, just like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is fast.

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<v Speaker 3>You got five minutes because he's very slow and just

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<v Speaker 3>delicate and precise. Yeah, and it's like, man, you gotta

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<v Speaker 3>and even like just flipping like a burger. He like

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to get the oil on me or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like they're just get in there, like get the

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<v Speaker 3>spatula in there and whip it. Let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I would say cooking and because my dad

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<v Speaker 3>passed that on to me. Yeah, he was an awesome person.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a great trait to have.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not one that is easily come by either. It's

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<v Speaker 4>you kind of have to really teach yourself that skill.

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<v Speaker 4>So great one to pass down.

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<v Speaker 3>And like my wife said, your girlfriend's gonna love it.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, they're all going to be a catch because

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<v Speaker 4>they know how to cook. You know how many times

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<v Speaker 4>I meet it, God and I'll be like, you don't

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<v Speaker 4>know how to cook. I'm like, I'm not making new

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<v Speaker 4>sandwiches for the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, your boyfriend not to cook?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, in uh, vegetables and heat grills and stuff too.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, he does have that side. He's learning a

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<v Speaker 4>lot from my vegetarianism.

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<v Speaker 3>It's an adjustment, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Which I'm super lucky is his mom, I guess is

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<v Speaker 4>actually vegan, so that helps.

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<v Speaker 1>He's kind of used to eating vegetarian. So when I

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<v Speaker 1>do weird things, it's like, no, this tastes great. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>eat anything that's awesome. Yeah. But and then yeah, good

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<v Speaker 1>at dishes too.

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<v Speaker 3>That's another time my kids. I do the dishes.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time I see him do the dish on Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he does it often. Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Wendy from Richmond wants to know who helps your wife

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<v Speaker 4>when you're at home when you are gone and GE's

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<v Speaker 4>at home.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, Wendy, that's a good question. No one, no one.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's hard. It's hard. Like you know, other parents

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<v Speaker 3>will help with pick up, like will you pick so

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<v Speaker 3>and so up and drop them off? And they'll do

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<v Speaker 3>that kind of thing usually, like when there's games to

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<v Speaker 3>go to, which I hate missing their games. But if

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<v Speaker 3>there are games and we're on the road, somebody just

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<v Speaker 3>has to miss a game. The kids, one of the

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<v Speaker 3>kids has to miss a game.

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<v Speaker 1>Do they get mad about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Do the kids know?

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<v Speaker 3>Usually it's the little one, the five year old. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>he plays baseball. Usually his is the one that has

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<v Speaker 3>to get canceled. Yeah, but he doesn't know, like literally,

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<v Speaker 3>if you tell him there's no game this weekend, he'd

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<v Speaker 3>be like cool, Okay, no game.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not at the point where he's remembering yet. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you're lucky.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe two more years of.

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<v Speaker 3>That, yeah maybe, and then there's gonna be a fight.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Okay, all right, gonna take a quick break. And

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<v Speaker 4>I got more questions for you. Kelly and Patty both

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<v Speaker 4>asked how your wife's art selling is going.

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<v Speaker 3>She sold a piece? Did she sold a piece. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's kind of So she's been working on

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<v Speaker 3>this for about year and a half, close to year

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<v Speaker 3>and a half.

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<v Speaker 4>When you say working on it meaning putting together her

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<v Speaker 4>business or painting the different eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>Just painting. What she wanted to do was just paint

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<v Speaker 3>first and she'd finish a painting, put it aside, do

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<v Speaker 3>another painting, put it aside, and then once she had

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<v Speaker 3>ten which I guess an artist world, you have a collection. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I don't know. That's what she says. I

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<v Speaker 3>know nothing about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I trust you both because I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Rather than that looks cool. That's my expertise in art.

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<v Speaker 3>That looks cool. Other than that, I don't know anything.

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<v Speaker 3>And so apparently she wanted to have a collection, and

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<v Speaker 3>so once that collection was done, then you can put

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<v Speaker 3>it up for sale and then go from there. But

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<v Speaker 3>what she didn't realize is that there's kind of a

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<v Speaker 3>price that goes along with it, and it's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you set it like a dollar a square foot or whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>like seventy cents of square foot whatever. But all of

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<v Speaker 3>the pieces that she made were humongous. They're huge, they're

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<v Speaker 3>they're on the size of the kitchen table, like they're

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<v Speaker 3>so big, and so everything immediately is like three thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Two thousand dollars is maybe the cheapest, and so like

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<v Speaker 3>that's not easy to sell, and so I so what

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't realize was like, oh, man, like once I

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<v Speaker 3>start selling these, like I should have made smaller ones

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<v Speaker 3>so people can buy or prints. And I guess in

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<v Speaker 3>the art world again, like you can make prints of

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<v Speaker 3>your art and sell those for much much cheaper because

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<v Speaker 3>it's not the original art.

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<v Speaker 1>Got it.

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<v Speaker 3>However, See this is all the stuff that I never knew.

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<v Speaker 3>And she tried, she tried to explain this to me.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you do that, you have to let the

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<v Speaker 3>owner of the original art and know that you were

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<v Speaker 3>going to do prints before you sell it. Because people

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<v Speaker 3>like original art. It's almost like collecting, almost like in

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<v Speaker 3>Bobby's world of memorabilia.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to be the only one that has it.

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<v Speaker 3>If you have the Tom Brady signed helmet, the one

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<v Speaker 3>of one that's worth so much, and like you love

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<v Speaker 3>having that because it's one of one. But if there

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<v Speaker 3>was two hundred fake ones just like that that they sold,

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<v Speaker 3>that now makes your one of one kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>not that special. Because it's been printed out a lot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so there's kind of that that she's kind of struggling with.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, I don't know, should I do prints of

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<v Speaker 3>mine or I don't know? So she finally sold one.

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<v Speaker 3>She was so excited that she sold one. But now

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<v Speaker 3>she's like, I've got to make smaller ones so that

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<v Speaker 3>more people can afford these.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, maybe that's the trade off instead of doing prints,

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<v Speaker 4>she just makes some smaller ones are more affordable for

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<v Speaker 4>other people.

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<v Speaker 1>But also she's put.

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<v Speaker 4>In a lot of time and effort on those pieces,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's also a reason why art is so expensive, right,

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<v Speaker 4>And the ones that I don't understand where they wrote

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<v Speaker 4>like stop in black paint and it goes for fifty

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<v Speaker 4>million dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>No I'm missing I know, but there are some people

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<v Speaker 3>in the world that are like, oh, I need that.

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<v Speaker 3>I need that in my living room. Like how many

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<v Speaker 3>times do I say stop? It means so much? It

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<v Speaker 3>means and this, it means so much to me. I

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<v Speaker 3>need it so cool. And she's also doing requests like

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it's called oh, there's a word for it,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, commission commission work. So like you can

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<v Speaker 3>message her and say I have a room that's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like greenish and I want something with like green shades.

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<v Speaker 3>Then she can personally make something for for you. And

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<v Speaker 3>she's doing that right now for somebody, for somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>So she sold a piece of her work and she's

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<v Speaker 4>working on a commission work.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct amazing, And she's also working on smaller ones that'll

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<v Speaker 3>probably be up for sale, I would say in the

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<v Speaker 3>next few weeks. Yeah, and two of them like are awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been on any of them? Like, Hey, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're keeping that. Let's staying here.

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<v Speaker 3>There's one that she wants to keep, and she like,

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<v Speaker 3>I really really want to keep it because there's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like there's kind of a hidden thing in it

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<v Speaker 3>where like she did it and she's like, this is cool,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I hid.

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<v Speaker 1>This a little Easter egg in there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there are like Easter eggs in the painting. And

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<v Speaker 3>she's like, I kind of want to keep it for

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<v Speaker 3>that reason because it means this to me. But I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, I don't know if she's gonna end up

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<v Speaker 3>keeping it out at.

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<v Speaker 1>The right price. You know, she's part with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I'm so proud of her. She's she's doing

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<v Speaker 3>great and like it's it's a huge deal for me too,

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<v Speaker 3>because she's really been working on art for so long

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<v Speaker 3>since I met her. She's always done art, but she

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<v Speaker 3>never has been able to do art in this way

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<v Speaker 3>because if we have four kids, like but she also

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<v Speaker 3>is like, if I'm going to do this, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to make the time I have that those hours while

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<v Speaker 3>they're in school to do this, I'm going to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm proud of her for doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy for her. She deserves that. Your wife's amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you and your wife still working with the foster

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<v Speaker 4>care system from Susan in North Dakota.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're not doing anything in particular. We do some

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like we have like some friends that that

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<v Speaker 3>are foster parents that have gone into fostering and so

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<v Speaker 3>we kind of help them a little bit. But no,

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<v Speaker 3>we're not doing anything big. I still want to speak

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<v Speaker 3>on fostering. It's kind of been something that I've been

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to do for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>You had that one event, did you not do any other?

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<v Speaker 3>I had like three, I've had like three events.

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<v Speaker 4>I just knew about the one because there was a

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<v Speaker 4>picture in the outfit that was the one that I.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember maybe four events. I mean, I'm racking up the events,

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<v Speaker 3>which is cool because my stories, my story is unique

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<v Speaker 3>in the way of like I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>a foster parent, Like I this is the last thing

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<v Speaker 3>in the world that I thought I would ever ever be,

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<v Speaker 3>but I got into it, and the story of how

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<v Speaker 3>I got into it and why I decided to give

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<v Speaker 3>it a shot is really cool. And then just the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the story is cool because like, my life

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<v Speaker 3>has changed completely for the for the for the better. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>And whenever we're at church and I think may I

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<v Speaker 3>think now is is Foster Awareness Month? And so every

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<v Speaker 3>time they mentioned that kind of it's kind of like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I did that, That's what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>You got your boy Scout bats.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like a badge of just like, yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 3>been part of that community. I know what that's like.

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<v Speaker 3>So when you hear people talking about fostering or opening

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<v Speaker 3>up their home to being a foster home, a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people like, I don't know what that is. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what you're talking about. So I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>zone out, but not me anymore, Like, yeah, that was us, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and those were my boys. Those were my boys, which

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<v Speaker 3>is crazy to even think that that's the situation they

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<v Speaker 3>were in because their life is so perfect right now

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<v Speaker 3>that it's hard to imagine that they were in that

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<v Speaker 3>situation at one point in their life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so true.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I love that. I hope you can speak some more,

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<v Speaker 1>but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Do want to speak more. And yeah, yeah, we should

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<v Speaker 3>get involved with some organizations a little more.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you guys also have done a lot and now

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<v Speaker 4>you're on a different side of it, so it comes

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<v Speaker 4>in ebbs and flows what it looks like. All right,

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to take a quick break in just a

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<v Speaker 4>few more. Already, this is kind of an advice situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Hailey from Maine is getting married in eighteen days and

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<v Speaker 4>wants to know if you have any advice for her

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<v Speaker 4>going into this stage of.

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<v Speaker 1>Life a marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>Woo, that's a big one, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>And don't you can't do the cheesy one where it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>what's going to be angry because like we all know

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<v Speaker 4>those at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you'll get a bit angry. It'll happen. Everything that

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<v Speaker 3>they say like don't do, it's gonna happen. Yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I remember, I remember them telling us like don't say

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<v Speaker 3>words like always you always do this, I guarantee you,

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<v Speaker 3>Like last week I probably said that you always do this,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I just it just happens, you know. Marriage, Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>marriage is probably the hardest thing that you'll ever do

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<v Speaker 3>in your life. And I mean that in a good way,

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<v Speaker 3>because when you do last or get over some really

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<v Speaker 3>hard hard times in your marriage, it feels like you

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<v Speaker 3>just won the biggest fight of your life. Like you

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<v Speaker 3>just you're the champion of the world, the heavyweight champion

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<v Speaker 3>of the world. Because it's Morgan. Imagine it. You're sharing

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<v Speaker 3>everything that you have in your life with one person. Everything. Yeah, everything.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a huge feet in my eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>Where you're used to just doing whatever you want. Like

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<v Speaker 3>my brother he's single. I think he'll be single for

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<v Speaker 3>the rest of his life because in his mind, he

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<v Speaker 3>wants to do whatever he wants. He's like, if I'm hungry,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to go eat. If I'm tired, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to sleep. If I want to go to a bar,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to go to a bar. Like that's how

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<v Speaker 3>he lives his life. When you get married, you can't

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<v Speaker 3>do that. It's just not like that I'm hungry, are

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<v Speaker 3>you hungry. Where do you want to go eat? Should

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<v Speaker 3>we go eat? Now? No, let's wait, Like it's just

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<v Speaker 3>it's just hard money. Money is such a weird thing.

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<v Speaker 3>The question of or how you were raised like I

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<v Speaker 3>always did this, I was raised this way. You were

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<v Speaker 3>raised differently? How do we make that? How do we

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<v Speaker 3>do that together? You know, just there's so many you

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<v Speaker 3>don't realize how different you are than someone until you

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<v Speaker 3>get married, Like you just even though we're the same,

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<v Speaker 3>like you can like you're dating your boyfriend now and

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, oh my gosh, we have so much in common.

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<v Speaker 3>We have this in common. We love movies, we love

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<v Speaker 3>these sports, we love blah blah whatever. But there is

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<v Speaker 3>something that you have not talked about yet that when

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<v Speaker 3>you get married, you're like, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Crap, this this is what we did talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't talk about this, and this is where we

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<v Speaker 3>think completely different about this. How are we going to

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<v Speaker 3>get through this? Or even how you deal with problems,

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<v Speaker 3>like there are so many things that you're gonna like

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<v Speaker 3>just go through, but when you get through them, it's

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<v Speaker 3>the coolest thing in the world. And to know that

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<v Speaker 3>you have someone on your side at all times, it's

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<v Speaker 3>pretty badass.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's great advice.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really cool to feel like you've got someone on

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<v Speaker 3>your side.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's such great advice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thank you at.

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<v Speaker 1>Least for her to look forward to this.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna love it. You're gonna love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, congratulations by the way, Hayley, I don't know who

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<v Speaker 4>what your husband's name is, but congratch relations to you

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<v Speaker 4>too or partner, whoever they may be.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations.

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<v Speaker 4>And last one advice from for someone going into college

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<v Speaker 4>s B from Mississippi.

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<v Speaker 5>S B.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know, it just says SB.

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<v Speaker 3>Man. This is a tough one because of like do

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<v Speaker 3>a parent, do I talk as a parent? Do I

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<v Speaker 3>talk as a and I'll.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk as somebody who went into college? Okay, does that work?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? As a parent? Take it seriously, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if you're supporting your way through college or if

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<v Speaker 3>your parents are paying through college, paying for college, or

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<v Speaker 3>if you got a scholarship. I don't know what that

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<v Speaker 3>situation is. But if your parents are paying for college,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a sacrifice. It is such a sacrifice for them

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<v Speaker 3>to get you to college, to get you to go

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<v Speaker 3>to college, for you to have this college experience. So

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<v Speaker 3>don't waste their money, like, take it seriously, go to class, learn,

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<v Speaker 3>stay busy, don't drink too much, don't party too much.

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<v Speaker 3>You can still have fun, but be responsible and enjoy

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<v Speaker 3>it because college is going to be the best time

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<v Speaker 3>of your life. College is going to be awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>See I was, I was on the other end. I

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<v Speaker 1>agree with Eddie that you should work really hard.

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<v Speaker 4>But you should work hard and you should play harder,

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<v Speaker 4>play harder.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you know, because.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't get that time back in your life where

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<v Speaker 4>you are an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>You are able to kind of make your own money

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<v Speaker 1>and spend your time how you want. You're learning what.

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<v Speaker 4>Being an adult looks like. You don't really have massive responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 4>You have the responsibility of attending class, passing your classes,

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<v Speaker 4>and yeah, please stay uves. But like you don't when

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<v Speaker 4>you get out of college, you have so many responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to pay for things that you never even

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<v Speaker 4>realized maybe depending on what your.

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<v Speaker 3>Life, depending on what that's circumstances.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but this is the one time in your life

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<v Speaker 4>where you get to let lose and live life and

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<v Speaker 4>really enjoy what life has to offer. You get to

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<v Speaker 4>meet new people You're never going to meet people in

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<v Speaker 4>the way you're going to meet people in college.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like that anywhere else.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone's in the same boat, like they're wanting to meet people.

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<v Speaker 3>You're wanting to meet people exactly in the real world.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people have people, some people want to meet people.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people don't want to meet people.

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, there's no time in your life that is like

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<v Speaker 4>the time period of college. Not just college itself, but

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<v Speaker 4>time period of college. So experience everything. Say yes to

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<v Speaker 4>nearly everything. Nearly whoa nearly?

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<v Speaker 3>WHOA easy on the drugs?

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<v Speaker 1>I said nearly nearly for reason. Nearly everything.

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<v Speaker 4>If somebody wants to you're going to take a weekend

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<v Speaker 4>trip somewhere close by, go do it.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody wants to go to dinner and try somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>or go do it.

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<v Speaker 3>What about football games?

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<v Speaker 4>Go to the games, go to every game, Go experience sports.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't like sports, you know what, I was at

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<v Speaker 4>all the basketball games. I went to football games.

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<v Speaker 1>I did a sorority. I never would have thought I'd

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<v Speaker 1>been in a sorority. I did it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm so glad that I just said yes to

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<v Speaker 4>so many things, because now in my adult life, when

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<v Speaker 4>I ended that and I even ended college early in

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<v Speaker 4>three years. In doing that, I still am like I

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<v Speaker 4>had the best time. I lived it up and I

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<v Speaker 4>really got to enjoy that time period of my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Versus coming out of it, I'm like, dang, I regret

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't do that. I didn't only get two hours

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<v Speaker 4>of sleep that night, you know what I mean. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>you're not gonna look back and be like I slept

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<v Speaker 4>really good.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really not.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna look back and be like, dang, I was

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<v Speaker 4>hungover in that class and that was rough, but I

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<v Speaker 4>made it to class.

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<v Speaker 1>But going to that party, yeah, you did both. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I say you work hard and you party harder

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<v Speaker 1>or play harder.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah your version. That was hard for me because like

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<v Speaker 3>I played hard, really hard and didn't work that hard,

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<v Speaker 3>And it was because it was hard for me to

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<v Speaker 3>balance the two. Yeah, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a delicate balance.

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<v Speaker 3>When you play hard, you want to play harder, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you play harder, you're like, you want to play

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<v Speaker 3>harder than that, and then after a while you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh crap, I haven't worked at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so true. You have to balance and made a

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<v Speaker 1>little schedule.

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<v Speaker 3>If you don't work hard, you will not be able

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<v Speaker 3>to do that next year. That's why I tell my

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<v Speaker 3>kids too, like, hey, you're gonna come home. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna just you're gonna be sent home next year,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's all gonna be over. Like, so make sure

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<v Speaker 3>you continue to work hard.

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<v Speaker 4>Your priority should always be passing your classes.

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<v Speaker 1>But right under that passing your classes.

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<v Speaker 4>A freaking adult and living your best life in college

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<v Speaker 4>it is one.

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<v Speaker 1>Time in your life this is ever gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 3>It is cool too to learn things in college, like

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<v Speaker 3>like even just like learning how to cook, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>learning how to do your own laundry, learning how to

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<v Speaker 3>like decorate your apartment or your you know, your dorm whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>just like all the cool things that adults did, like

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<v Speaker 3>you're wonder Like, oh my mom she always had this

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<v Speaker 3>like little ornament on the coffee table, Like ah, now

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<v Speaker 3>you can dress up your room however you want and

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<v Speaker 3>go Like.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in a co ed dorm. Never would have

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<v Speaker 4>thought I'd live with in a co ed dorm. I

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<v Speaker 4>did it because I was like, this is a cool experience.

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<v Speaker 4>Who knows what's going to happen? Ye do things that

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<v Speaker 4>are outside of your comfort zone in a way that

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<v Speaker 4>is going to benefit you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I say, don't do drugs.

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<v Speaker 3>I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>Do things that are beneficial, like go eat in the

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<v Speaker 4>in the thing. If you think the food's gross, go

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<v Speaker 4>eat it. Who cares? Go experience life, So one time

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<v Speaker 4>in your life where you are not going to have

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<v Speaker 4>major responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 3>College was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I would go back right now, we too.

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<v Speaker 4>I am kind of sad. All right, that's it, brou

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<v Speaker 4>S Eddie, thanks for b hanging out with me.

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<v Speaker 3>It was awesome. It was so much fun. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you have for ship. Tell the people where they

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<v Speaker 1>can find you. Hear you all that good stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh man, you can find me on the Bobby Bone Show,

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<v Speaker 3>Money through Friday. Right, you can find me on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Producer Eddie on Everything, all the Socials, twenty five Whistles,

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<v Speaker 3>a podcast, Too Much Access. We're going to be doing

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<v Speaker 3>the Saint Louis Cardinals pretty soon.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited about.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's our first MLB two so fun. I'm been

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<v Speaker 3>hitting bombs. Sure you are, yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna try to get it out of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Awesome And you can follow the show at Bobby Bone

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<v Speaker 4>Show and I Am at web Girl Morgan on everything

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<v Speaker 4>all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Eddie, Thanks Morgan, we gotta go Okay, bye bye.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>for listening. Be sure to check out the other two

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<v Speaker 2>parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social

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<v Speaker 2>platforms Bobb.

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<v Speaker 3>Show and follow at Webgirl

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<v Speaker 2>Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.