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Speaker 1: The best bits of the week with Morgan. It's Listener

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Speaker 1: Q and DA time.

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Speaker 2: We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Listener Q and A Time. Eddie is

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Speaker 1: here with me. Eddie, have you been on since I've

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Speaker 1: been doing like shout outs at the beginning?

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Speaker 3: I think I remember some shout outs. Okay, the shoutouts

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Speaker 3: are cool. I like those.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they make you feel good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, because a lot of things are rough lately,

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Speaker 4: so shout out. Start out with some good things. Christine

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Speaker 4: from Virginia said, no question. Just wanted to say Eddie

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Speaker 4: has the best attitude.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's so sweet. I try my best, Christine, you do.

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Speaker 1: Try your best.

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Speaker 3: I try my best.

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Speaker 1: Apparently he's a little weird too. Eddie is my favorite.

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Speaker 4: Go listen to part one if you want to know

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Speaker 4: that reference. Eddie is my favorite.

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Speaker 1: On the show.

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Speaker 3: Stephanie from Ohio, Thanks Stephanie, you're my favorite listener.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know her?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do.

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Speaker 1: What colors are heir?

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Speaker 3: I do tell a lot of listeners that too. She's

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Speaker 3: got darker hair.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she probably does. I mean you had a shot

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Speaker 1: there actually.

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Speaker 4: Like like, dang it all or opposite. All right, let's

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Speaker 4: get into some listener questions. We're gonna talk kids.

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Speaker 3: Yes, are there.

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Speaker 1: Any sports you hope your kids never show interest in?

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Speaker 1: Kaylee and Kentucky?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Never. I mean I wouldn't hate it. I wouldn't hate

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Speaker 3: it if they didn't like football.

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, why because it just the most injuries just.

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Speaker 3: Because of the dangers of playing football.

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Speaker 1: Like the head injury, d bad injury.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean really kind of just any injuries. Like

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Speaker 3: there's there's a lot of older football players that you

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Speaker 3: are bad, their knees are bad.

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Speaker 5: Like you just think that's like pro NFL players though, No,

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Speaker 5: but even like just you know, collegiate players and not

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Speaker 5: like you know, people that played for Alabama, people that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and even like high school if you play like

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Speaker 3: high level high school football, bad injury because like ainger

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Speaker 3: for the rest of your life. So I would say,

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Speaker 3: just because of injuries, I wouldn't hate it if they

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Speaker 3: if any of them were just like I don't want

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Speaker 3: to play football, Okay, but I have two that really

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Speaker 3: He's not big. He's really good, but he's not big,

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like he's gonna want to play in college.

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Speaker 3: If he's able to. Yeah, if he's like, if he

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Speaker 3: like if he's ever ever that good. He loves it

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Speaker 3: knocks him out, like he would quit. Nope, he loved it.

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Speaker 3: He got it, he got nailed.

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Speaker 3: He got nailed, and he was like that was awesome.

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Speaker 3: Then he loves hitting like he just loves it all

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Speaker 3: I have two of those, and I have one that's

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Speaker 1: Well, that's fair.

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Speaker 3: At least you like basketball, then I do love basketball.

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Speaker 4: In your basketball coach for a while, yeah, same when

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Speaker 3: No another one. However, I might be going I haven't

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Speaker 1: You know this is so true.

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Speaker 4: I'm looking back and I've never asked my mom why,

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Speaker 1: Reason. She started a competitive cheer.

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Speaker 4: Team when we were young, young, young, young, and we

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Speaker 4: And because we were going to compete, this wasn't the

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Speaker 4: cheersquad at high school. Like basketball, the game a little

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Speaker 3: Have a dull routine. Is that the one that goes

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Speaker 4: That one can there's different ones. I don't think we

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Speaker 1: I can't remember. I was so young, like I, but

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Speaker 3: How young were you, Eddie?

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Speaker 4: I couldn't have been more than five years old. I

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Speaker 4: photos of the Wichita State University cheer team. The guys

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Speaker 1: That's cool, But something I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 4: If my mom was just like, I want like this

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Speaker 4: We loved competitive cheerleading and tumbling gymnastics, and so my

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Speaker 1: Even like passed it down to somebody at some point.

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Speaker 4: It was wild and it started with some of the

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Speaker 3: That's cool.

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Speaker 3: So your mom she was a cheerleader, No, I don't

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Speaker 1: She just loved to choose a great coach, great leader.

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Speaker 3: And probably and it really is a thing too. If

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Speaker 3: you've got to be the leader, Like you've got to

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Speaker 3: You've got to recruit, you've got to get different people

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Speaker 3: and Whenever my kids have good players on their team,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, and it sets them up for success

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Speaker 3: Because for years we were always just like, hey, you

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Speaker 3: And then they're like, yeah, sure, bring them in, and

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Speaker 3: So why not your kid get all the playing time. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but it's not good for the team because if they suck,

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Speaker 1: It just is what it is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we're dealing with that. Now. We have a

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Speaker 3: and it's like every parent is like, bro, like can

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, but dude, there's also all these other kids

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Speaker 1: Funny how that works. That's the thing that continues sports, yep,

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Speaker 4: Okay, on the flip side of that, what is a

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Speaker 4: favorite skill of yours that you hope you pass on

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Speaker 4: little bit. We're talking part one of weird traits you passed.

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Speaker 3: Say, yeah, but we're not talking about that now.

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Speaker 4: The things you would like to pass on to them

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Speaker 4: From Chris in Massachusetts.

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Speaker 3: Chris, this is funny because my wife and I were

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Speaker 3: It's always like, don't do that, Like, don't do that?

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Speaker 3: Do you really want your girlfriend or wives to see

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Speaker 3: like learn to cook. Learn to cook. Your wife will

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Speaker 1: Have any of them started learning to cook you?

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Speaker 3: Our sixteen year old is really weirdly involved in cooking,

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Speaker 3: Oh, Wendy, that's a good question. No one, no one.

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Speaker 1: Maybe two more years of.

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Speaker 3: She sold a piece? Did she sold a piece. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: When you say working on it meaning putting together her

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Speaker 3: Just painting. What she wanted to do was just paint

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Speaker 1: I trust you both because I have no idea.

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Speaker 3: Rather than that looks cool. That's my expertise in art.

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Speaker 3: That looks cool. Other than that, I don't know anything.

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Speaker 3: And so apparently she wanted to have a collection, and

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Speaker 1: Got it.

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Speaker 3: However, See this is all the stuff that I never knew.

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Speaker 3: going to do prints before you sell it. Because people

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Speaker 3: If you have the Tom Brady signed helmet, the one

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Speaker 4: Well, maybe that's the trade off instead of doing prints,

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Speaker 4: and that's also a reason why art is so expensive, right,

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Speaker 3: No I'm missing I know, but there are some people

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Speaker 4: So she sold a piece of her work and she's

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Speaker 3: Correct amazing, And she's also working on smaller ones that'll

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there are like Easter eggs in the painting. And

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Speaker 1: The right price. You know, she's part with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm so proud of her. She's she's doing

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy for her. She deserves that. Your wife's amazing.

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Speaker 4: Are you and your wife still working with the foster

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Speaker 3: So we're not doing anything in particular. We do some

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Speaker 3: we kind of help them a little bit. But no,

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Speaker 3: we're not doing anything big. I still want to speak

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Speaker 1: You had that one event, did you not do any other?

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Speaker 3: I had like three, I've had like three events.

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Speaker 4: I just knew about the one because there was a

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Speaker 3: Remember maybe four events. I mean, I'm racking up the events,

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Speaker 3: end of the story is cool because like, my life

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Speaker 3: And whenever we're at church and I think may I

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Speaker 1: You got your boy Scout bats.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a badge of just like, yeah, I've

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Speaker 3: So when you hear people talking about fostering or opening

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Speaker 3: of people like, I don't know what that is. I

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Speaker 3: that it's hard to imagine that they were in that

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Speaker 3: situation at one point in their life.

444
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Speaker 1: It's so true.

445
00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:37,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy.

446
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Speaker 1: Well I love that. I hope you can speak some more,

447
00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:39,280
Speaker 1: but I.

448
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Speaker 3: Do want to speak more. And yeah, yeah, we should

449
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Speaker 3: get involved with some organizations a little more.

450
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Speaker 4: Well, you guys also have done a lot and now

451
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Speaker 4: you're on a different side of it, so it comes

452
00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,040
Speaker 4: in ebbs and flows what it looks like. All right,

453
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Speaker 4: we're going to take a quick break in just a

454
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Speaker 4: few more. Already, this is kind of an advice situation.

455
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Speaker 4: Hailey from Maine is getting married in eighteen days and

456
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Speaker 4: wants to know if you have any advice for her

457
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,080
Speaker 4: going into this stage of.

458
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Speaker 1: Life a marriage.

459
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Speaker 3: Woo, that's a big one, I know.

460
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Speaker 4: And don't you can't do the cheesy one where it's like,

461
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Speaker 4: what's going to be angry because like we all know

462
00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:16,679
Speaker 4: those at this point.

463
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you'll get a bit angry. It'll happen. Everything that

464
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Speaker 3: they say like don't do, it's gonna happen. Yeah, Like

465
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Speaker 3: I remember, I remember them telling us like don't say

466
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Speaker 3: words like always you always do this, I guarantee you,

467
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Speaker 3: Like last week I probably said that you always do this,

468
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Speaker 3: Like I just it just happens, you know. Marriage, Oh,

469
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Speaker 3: marriage is probably the hardest thing that you'll ever do

470
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Speaker 3: in your life. And I mean that in a good way,

471
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,960
Speaker 3: because when you do last or get over some really

472
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 3: hard hard times in your marriage, it feels like you

473
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Speaker 3: just won the biggest fight of your life. Like you

474
00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,640
Speaker 3: just you're the champion of the world, the heavyweight champion

475
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Speaker 3: of the world. Because it's Morgan. Imagine it. You're sharing

476
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Speaker 3: everything that you have in your life with one person. Everything. Yeah, everything.

477
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Speaker 1: That's a huge feet in my eyes.

478
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Speaker 3: Where you're used to just doing whatever you want. Like

479
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Speaker 3: my brother he's single. I think he'll be single for

480
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Speaker 3: the rest of his life because in his mind, he

481
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Speaker 3: wants to do whatever he wants. He's like, if I'm hungry,

482
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Speaker 3: I'm going to go eat. If I'm tired, I'm going

483
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Speaker 3: to sleep. If I want to go to a bar,

484
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Speaker 3: I'm going to go to a bar. Like that's how

485
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Speaker 3: he lives his life. When you get married, you can't

486
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Speaker 3: do that. It's just not like that I'm hungry, are

487
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Speaker 3: you hungry. Where do you want to go eat? Should

488
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:42,159
Speaker 3: we go eat? Now? No, let's wait, Like it's just

489
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 3: it's just hard money. Money is such a weird thing.

490
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Speaker 3: The question of or how you were raised like I

491
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Speaker 3: always did this, I was raised this way. You were

492
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Speaker 3: raised differently? How do we make that? How do we

493
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Speaker 3: do that together? You know, just there's so many you

494
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:03,199
Speaker 3: don't realize how different you are than someone until you

495
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Speaker 3: get married, Like you just even though we're the same,

496
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 3: like you can like you're dating your boyfriend now and

497
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 3: you're like, oh my gosh, we have so much in common.

498
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 3: We have this in common. We love movies, we love

499
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Speaker 3: these sports, we love blah blah whatever. But there is

500
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Speaker 3: something that you have not talked about yet that when

501
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 3: you get married, you're like, oh.

502
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Speaker 1: Crap, this this is what we did talk about.

503
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 3: We didn't talk about this, and this is where we

504
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,399
Speaker 3: think completely different about this. How are we going to

505
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Speaker 3: get through this? Or even how you deal with problems,

506
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,919
Speaker 3: like there are so many things that you're gonna like

507
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Speaker 3: just go through, but when you get through them, it's

508
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Speaker 3: the coolest thing in the world. And to know that

509
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Speaker 3: you have someone on your side at all times, it's

510
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Speaker 3: pretty badass.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's great advice.

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Speaker 3: It's really cool to feel like you've got someone on

513
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Speaker 3: your side.

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Speaker 1: I think that's such great advice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you at.

516
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Speaker 1: Least for her to look forward to this.

517
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Speaker 3: You're gonna love it. You're gonna love it.

518
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Speaker 4: Oh, congratulations by the way, Hayley, I don't know who

519
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Speaker 4: what your husband's name is, but congratch relations to you

520
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,399
Speaker 4: too or partner, whoever they may be.

521
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Speaker 1: Congratulations.

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Speaker 4: And last one advice from for someone going into college

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Speaker 4: s B from Mississippi.

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Speaker 5: S B.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, it just says SB.

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Speaker 3: Man. This is a tough one because of like do

527
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Speaker 3: a parent, do I talk as a parent? Do I

528
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Speaker 3: talk as a and I'll.

529
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Speaker 4: Talk as somebody who went into college? Okay, does that work?

530
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Speaker 3: Yes? As a parent? Take it seriously, Like I don't

531
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Speaker 3: know if you're supporting your way through college or if

532
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Speaker 3: your parents are paying through college, paying for college, or

533
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Speaker 3: if you got a scholarship. I don't know what that

534
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Speaker 3: situation is. But if your parents are paying for college,

535
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Speaker 3: it's a sacrifice. It is such a sacrifice for them

536
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Speaker 3: to get you to college, to get you to go

537
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Speaker 3: to college, for you to have this college experience. So

538
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 3: don't waste their money, like, take it seriously, go to class, learn,

539
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 3: stay busy, don't drink too much, don't party too much.

540
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Speaker 3: You can still have fun, but be responsible and enjoy

541
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Speaker 3: it because college is going to be the best time

542
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Speaker 3: of your life. College is going to be awesome.

543
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Speaker 1: See I was, I was on the other end. I

544
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Speaker 1: agree with Eddie that you should work really hard.

545
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Speaker 4: But you should work hard and you should play harder,

546
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Speaker 4: play harder.

547
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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, because.

548
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Speaker 4: You don't get that time back in your life where

549
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Speaker 4: you are an adult.

550
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Speaker 1: You are able to kind of make your own money

551
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Speaker 1: and spend your time how you want. You're learning what.

552
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 4: Being an adult looks like. You don't really have massive responsibilities.

553
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 4: You have the responsibility of attending class, passing your classes,

554
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Speaker 4: and yeah, please stay uves. But like you don't when

555
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 4: you get out of college, you have so many responsibilities.

556
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 4: You have to pay for things that you never even

557
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 4: realized maybe depending on what your.

558
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Speaker 3: Life, depending on what that's circumstances.

559
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but this is the one time in your life

560
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 4: where you get to let lose and live life and

561
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,479
Speaker 4: really enjoy what life has to offer. You get to

562
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 4: meet new people You're never going to meet people in

563
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Speaker 4: the way you're going to meet people in college.

564
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Speaker 1: It's not like that anywhere else.

565
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Speaker 3: Everyone's in the same boat, like they're wanting to meet people.

566
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Speaker 3: You're wanting to meet people exactly in the real world.

567
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Speaker 3: Some people have people, some people want to meet people.

568
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Speaker 3: Some people don't want to meet people.

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Speaker 4: No, No, there's no time in your life that is like

570
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Speaker 4: the time period of college. Not just college itself, but

571
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Speaker 4: time period of college. So experience everything. Say yes to

572
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Speaker 4: nearly everything. Nearly whoa nearly?

573
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Speaker 3: WHOA easy on the drugs?

574
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Speaker 1: I said nearly nearly for reason. Nearly everything.

575
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Speaker 4: If somebody wants to you're going to take a weekend

576
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Speaker 4: trip somewhere close by, go do it.

577
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Speaker 1: If somebody wants to go to dinner and try somewhere

578
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Speaker 1: or go do it.

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Speaker 3: What about football games?

580
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Speaker 4: Go to the games, go to every game, Go experience sports.

581
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Speaker 4: I didn't like sports, you know what, I was at

582
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Speaker 4: all the basketball games. I went to football games.

583
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Speaker 1: I did a sorority. I never would have thought I'd

584
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Speaker 1: been in a sorority. I did it.

585
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Speaker 4: And I'm so glad that I just said yes to

586
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Speaker 4: so many things, because now in my adult life, when

587
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 4: I ended that and I even ended college early in

588
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Speaker 4: three years. In doing that, I still am like I

589
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 4: had the best time. I lived it up and I

590
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 4: really got to enjoy that time period of my life.

591
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,399
Speaker 4: Versus coming out of it, I'm like, dang, I regret

592
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Speaker 4: I didn't do that. I didn't only get two hours

593
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Speaker 4: of sleep that night, you know what I mean. Like,

594
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Speaker 4: you're not gonna look back and be like I slept

595
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Speaker 4: really good.

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Speaker 1: You're really not.

597
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Speaker 4: You're gonna look back and be like, dang, I was

598
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Speaker 4: hungover in that class and that was rough, but I

599
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 4: made it to class.

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Speaker 1: But going to that party, yeah, you did both. That's

601
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Speaker 1: why I say you work hard and you party harder

602
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Speaker 1: or play harder.

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Speaker 3: Yeah your version. That was hard for me because like

604
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Speaker 3: I played hard, really hard and didn't work that hard,

605
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Speaker 3: And it was because it was hard for me to

606
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Speaker 3: balance the two. Yeah, you know what I mean.

607
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Speaker 1: It's a delicate balance.

608
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Speaker 3: When you play hard, you want to play harder, and

609
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 3: then you play harder, you're like, you want to play

610
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 3: harder than that, and then after a while you're like,

611
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Speaker 3: oh crap, I haven't worked at all.

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Speaker 1: It's so true. You have to balance and made a

613
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Speaker 1: little schedule.

614
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Speaker 3: If you don't work hard, you will not be able

615
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Speaker 3: to do that next year. That's why I tell my

616
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Speaker 3: kids too, like, hey, you're gonna come home. You're gonna

617
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 3: you're gonna just you're gonna be sent home next year,

618
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 3: and it's all gonna be over. Like, so make sure

619
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Speaker 3: you continue to work hard.

620
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Speaker 4: Your priority should always be passing your classes.

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Speaker 1: But right under that passing your classes.

622
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Speaker 4: A freaking adult and living your best life in college

623
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Speaker 4: it is one.

624
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Speaker 1: Time in your life this is ever gonna happen.

625
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 3: It is cool too to learn things in college, like

626
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 3: like even just like learning how to cook, you know,

627
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 3: learning how to do your own laundry, learning how to

628
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: like decorate your apartment or your you know, your dorm whatever,

629
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Speaker 3: just like all the cool things that adults did, like

630
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 3: you're wonder Like, oh my mom she always had this

631
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 3: like little ornament on the coffee table, Like ah, now

632
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 3: you can dress up your room however you want and

633
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Speaker 3: go Like.

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Speaker 4: I was in a co ed dorm. Never would have

635
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 4: thought I'd live with in a co ed dorm. I

636
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 4: did it because I was like, this is a cool experience.

637
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 4: Who knows what's going to happen? Ye do things that

638
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,239
Speaker 4: are outside of your comfort zone in a way that

639
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 4: is going to benefit you.

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Speaker 1: That's how I say, don't do drugs.

641
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 3: I like it.

642
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 4: Do things that are beneficial, like go eat in the

643
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 4: in the thing. If you think the food's gross, go

644
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: eat it. Who cares? Go experience life, So one time

645
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 4: in your life where you are not going to have

646
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 4: major responsibilities.

647
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: College was awesome.

648
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: It was so awesome.

649
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 3: I would go back right now, we too.

650
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 4: I am kind of sad. All right, that's it, brou

651
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Speaker 4: S Eddie, thanks for b hanging out with me.

652
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 3: It was awesome. It was so much fun. I love it.

653
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: Thank you have for ship. Tell the people where they

654
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: can find you. Hear you all that good stuff.

655
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 3: Oh man, you can find me on the Bobby Bone Show,

656
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 3: Money through Friday. Right, you can find me on Instagram.

657
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 3: Producer Eddie on Everything, all the Socials, twenty five Whistles,

658
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 3: a podcast, Too Much Access. We're going to be doing

659
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 3: the Saint Louis Cardinals pretty soon.

660
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm excited about.

661
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's our first MLB two so fun. I'm been

662
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 3: hitting bombs. Sure you are, yeah, right.

663
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: Now you're not.

664
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna try to get it out of you.

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Speaker 1: Yourself.

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Speaker 4: Awesome And you can follow the show at Bobby Bone

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Speaker 4: Show and I Am at web Girl Morgan on everything

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Speaker 4: all right.

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Speaker 3: Eddie, Thanks Morgan, we gotta go Okay, bye bye.

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Speaker 2: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two

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Speaker 2: parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social

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Speaker 2: platforms Bobb.

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Speaker 3: Show and follow at Webgirl

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Speaker 2: Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.