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Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew.

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Speaker 1: Subject what does I need space mean?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: If you have to ask? Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been

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Speaker 1: with my boyfriend for seven going on eight years, off

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Speaker 1: and on. He's broken up with me three times because

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Speaker 1: he says I'm not domestic enough, or I say the

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Speaker 1: wrong things when he asked me to do things. Then

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Speaker 1: he'll call so we can get back together. Just recently,

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Speaker 1: I moved back in with him and he got upsets

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Speaker 1: that men were speaking to me at a motorcycle event

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Speaker 1: when he left me alone for hours at a time.

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Speaker 1: Mind you, these men were not hitting on me at all,

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Speaker 1: and he knew one of the guys and a guy

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Speaker 1: told him we were all just hanging around and talking,

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Speaker 1: but the whole time he was over with a group

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Speaker 1: of women showing off his bike. He said that biking

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Speaker 1: is a different world and he is allowed to do

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Speaker 1: anything he wants while he's out riding. He said, because

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Speaker 1: it's his thing and I'm new to it, I have

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Speaker 1: to respect him and stop talking to other men when

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Speaker 1: we're out. He decided to pay me back by staying

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Speaker 1: out the next night until four am. He wouldn't tell

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Speaker 1: me where he went or who he was with. After

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Speaker 1: two weeks of not speaking, I decided to approach him.

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Speaker 1: I told him we have a lot of unresolved issues

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't value me as his woman. He didn't

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Speaker 1: say a word. He just stared at me. So I

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Speaker 1: left the house for a few hours. When I got back,

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Speaker 1: he told me that he needs space. What does that mean.

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Speaker 1: He is fifty five years old. I am forty five.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what space is for a fifty

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Speaker 1: five year old man. To make it worse, he tried

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Speaker 1: to be all lovey dovey with me. That night. I

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Speaker 1: went to sleep in the other room. I have been

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Speaker 1: rather cold since then, and he hasn't said much to

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Speaker 1: me either. Do I need to move out for good?

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Speaker 1: Or should I wait to see if this blows over

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Speaker 1: like it always does? Please advise? Okay, you don't have

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Speaker 1: to wait to do anything. Okay, Please please, while you're

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Speaker 1: listening to our response to this letter, please get your

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Speaker 1: suitcases out. This is what I need you to do,

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Speaker 1: and start packing right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming you do have some place to go because

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Speaker 1: you asked us should you move? You can pack whatever

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Speaker 1: you need now. You can come back with a friend

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Speaker 1: or relative, not by yourself, to get the rest of

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Speaker 1: your stuff later, or you can pack everything now and

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Speaker 1: just be out. Okay, this man means you no good.

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Speaker 1: How dare he say he doesn't have to tell you

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Speaker 1: where he's been or who he was out with? How

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Speaker 1: dare he come in at four in the morning? How

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Speaker 1: dare he say you know? Whatever he says, you know,

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Speaker 1: just staring at you when you try to approach him. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't respect you. He treats you horribly. It's time

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Speaker 1: for you to stand up for yourself. Stop taking this mess.

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Speaker 1: So go now, get away from him. Don't think about it,

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Speaker 1: Just get away from him. Then maybe you can see

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Speaker 1: from the outside looking in who this man really is Okay,

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Speaker 1: he's too controlling Tommy?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 3: What does our need space mean? That means he is

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Speaker 3: tired of you? Again and again? All right?

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Speaker 4: So forty five years old versus fifty five years old?

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Speaker 4: All right, y'all been doing this for how long? Seven

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Speaker 4: eight years?

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Speaker 3: All right? Been doing the seven eight years?

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Speaker 4: And then we got we done, broke up three times

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Speaker 4: because what I'm not domestic enough?

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Speaker 3: What does that mean? You ain't cooking and cleaning? All right?

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Speaker 4: This house probably just nasty as all get out. You

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Speaker 4: but a man being able to say, you know what,

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Speaker 4: we're gonna take a break. I'm gonna go do what

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Speaker 3: Be Here's what I don't understand.

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Speaker 4: When he tell you he wants a break, then later

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Speaker 4: on that night we gonna be love it, dubby. These

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Speaker 4: are mixed signals. He ready for you to go, but

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Speaker 4: he want to be loved dubb it. Before you leave?

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Speaker 4: Does this make sense to you? Have you done the ma'am?

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Speaker 4: When I look at this, When you say y'all been

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Speaker 4: together seven eight years. Y'all been doing this forever. Ever

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Speaker 4: since y'all been together, y'all been breaking up, getting back together,

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Speaker 4: breaking up, getting back together. That's it. That's y'all system.

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Speaker 4: That's what y'all got. Y'all have absolutely nothing. This is

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Speaker 4: not a This is not a relationship. He ain't here

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Speaker 4: seven eight years. Evidently we ain't talking about getting married.

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Speaker 4: All he care about is that bike. That bike clean.

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Speaker 4: That bike is clean, it's outstanding, the bike pulling the

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Speaker 4: ladies and what he told you you can't get in

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Speaker 4: my motorcycle world. This ain't got nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 4: That's how I roll when I roll. You know you don't.

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Speaker 4: You know you can't. Don't, don't, don't, don't mess this up.

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Speaker 4: I get to talk to the ladies when you rolling

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Speaker 4: with me. You stand over there by yourself. You don't

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Speaker 4: get to talk to nobody else. You don't. You're gonna,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna, You're gonna do what I tear you to do.

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Speaker 4: Get out of this. Come on, lady, why are you

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Speaker 4: sitting around with this?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 4: You you you should want more for yourself. Y'all forty

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Speaker 4: five fifty five years old.

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Speaker 1: So you.

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Speaker 4: You're way too grown for this. But this makes no

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Speaker 4: sense to me. Then let me just go and see

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Speaker 4: it like this. Y'all are not ready to love?

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Speaker 2: Y'all not you better say that.

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Speaker 3: Y'all are just not You are not ready to love. Baby.

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Speaker 3: That's not what show me.

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Speaker 4: Show me where anywhere in this letter where it looked

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Speaker 4: like you love this man, I don't see it. I

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Speaker 4: don't see no love nowhere. All I see is argument.

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Speaker 4: Love it, dubby, break up for about three four months,

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Speaker 4: get back together. Argument because you don't do domestic work,

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Speaker 4: all right, love it of it?

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Speaker 3: We split up again. That's all this is. It's a cycle.

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Speaker 4: So until you start wanting more for yourself, you are

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Speaker 4: going to continue to get this. You're going to continue

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Speaker 4: forty five to fifty five, and you're gonna look up

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Speaker 4: and you're gonna put eighteen years in this mess.

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Speaker 3: Stop.

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Speaker 4: Matter of fact, when you pack up this time, make

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Speaker 4: up your mind and say, you know what, I ain't

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Speaker 4: coming back.

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Speaker 3: This is it.

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Speaker 4: Let me find me a man that is compatible to me.

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Speaker 4: Let me find me a man and when I ride

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Speaker 4: on his bike, when we rolled in together, we roll

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Speaker 4: in hall, we together, matter of fact, find you and

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Speaker 4: biker over there with a minute, and that's that's what

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Speaker 4: we really make. Yeah, I don't get you on the bike.

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Speaker 3: It due. I like it. That's out there right, all right.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of our responses to this letter

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. We'll

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Speaker 1: hear from Junior today's strawberry letter, subject what does I

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Speaker 1: need space mean? We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 3: You're listening Hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: It's time now to recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 1: is what does I needs mean? A forty five year

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Speaker 1: old woman who's dating a fifty five year old man

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Speaker 1: wrote in they've been together for seven going on eight years.

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Speaker 1: But here's the deal, they've been off and on for

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Speaker 1: seven or eight years. So you know what that means.

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Speaker 1: When he's off, he's with someone else. He's just not

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Speaker 1: on with her, right, And then he'll yeah, huh, that's

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Speaker 1: what is Yeah, that's what off is. Off is off

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Speaker 1: with you, not with someone else. Then he'll call to

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Speaker 1: get back together, and she does what take him back?

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Speaker 1: She take him back? She takes him back. She just

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Speaker 1: recently moved back in the house. He took her to

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Speaker 1: She confronted him in a nice way. She says she

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Speaker 1: decided to approach him because they stopped speaking for two weeks.

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Speaker 1: She told him he didn't value her as a woman.

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Speaker 1: He stopped speaking to her, so she left the house

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Speaker 1: for a few hours. When he got back, he told her.

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Speaker 1: When she got back, he told her that he needed space.

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Speaker 1: So she wants to know what that means. We all

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Speaker 1: know what I need space means. It means you're off again.

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Speaker 1: That's what that means.

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Speaker 2: That's what that means.

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Speaker 1: And then he wanted to be lovey dovey that night

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Speaker 1: She's been rather cold since then. She's asking the question,

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Speaker 1: she wait to see if this blows over like it

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Speaker 1: always does. Tommy and I both said she needs to leave,

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Speaker 1: and she's absolutely right. He does not value her junior.

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Speaker 2: What you got?

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Speaker 5: You know, Shirley, Once again, I'm diving in my brain

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Speaker 5: because I have experienced.

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Speaker 2: In this area too. My mom and my stepdad they

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Speaker 2: blown to a motorcyclub. I've seen these people. I know

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Speaker 5: Lisa Carroll got a Harley, my stepdad have a Harley.

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Speaker 5: They got a motorcycle club. I know where they pull

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Speaker 5: up the Gallaxy Motorcycle Week. I seen it, been there,

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Speaker 5: seen all this. Now, I hear what you said, Tommy

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Speaker 5: and Shirley, y'all is right, but that's nothing my take

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Speaker 5: on it. Now, y'all are right. Here's the thing. You're

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Speaker 5: in a motorcycle club. Do your part. You know what

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Speaker 5: you're supposed to do. What exactly what the man said.

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Speaker 5: You know you're in the mocycle club. We ain't talking

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Speaker 5: about a country club. Were talking about a motorcycle club.

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Speaker 5: You know exactly what's supposed to happen over here. That

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Speaker 5: man can talk to all the women. See his motorcycle,

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Speaker 5: Like Thomas said.

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Speaker 2: His bike is nice.

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Speaker 5: That's why all the women come around, but you're gonna

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Speaker 2: He got a vest on with no shirt, got a

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Speaker 2: belly too.

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Speaker 1: And you're speaking of it from experience.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I seen it. I seen all of this. You've

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Speaker 2: seen it now.

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Speaker 5: So if you don't want to be the motcycle club,

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Speaker 5: since you like these type of men, this type of environment,

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Speaker 5: your next thing, trail rides your asses out there. You're

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Speaker 5: going for mostycle clubs to trail rides your ass for

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Speaker 5: to be out there. You just both y'all read horses

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Speaker 5: or motorcycles. Everybody got some chaps. You should be out there.

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Speaker 5: Either you want to build the back of a motorcycle

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Speaker 2: Pick yours? He doesn't, he keeps. That's what I just

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Speaker 2: take you. That's how they do it. That's still now.

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Speaker 5: If you like not being respected, stay stay stay over there. Okay,

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Speaker 5: motorcycle club trail ride? Which one you want? Either you

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Speaker 5: want to either you want to stay out on a

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Speaker 2: Which one?

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Speaker 4: Pick one? This your crowd either way, it is a

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Speaker 4: rough ride.

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Speaker 2: Your ride.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Wow, she does better for herself.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like Tom said, you need to go find another group,

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Speaker 2: Have you tried a tennis club, golf club? Okay, have

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Speaker 2: you found something else? But no pickle ball, pickle pickle.

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Speaker 5: Ball club, anything, because these are the men that are

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Speaker 5: out there, all of us.

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Speaker 1: How they treat you in a motorcycle club though?

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Speaker 2: What sure worse than that?

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Speaker 5: What? But is you want to be out there and

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Speaker 5: you don't even know that that you you already know

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Speaker 5: that you you deserve more.

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Speaker 2: But this has been going on for seven going on

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Speaker 2: eight years.

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Speaker 3: Eight years.

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Speaker 2: That's you've been in a motorcycle club when you was

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Speaker 2: in your thirties.

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Speaker 3: Wow, now yeah.

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Speaker 4: You've still you allow you have allowed this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she definitely like allowed it. But yeah, she

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Speaker 1: think she would do better. She's starting to now, she's

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Speaker 1: starting getting She told him he didn't value her. She

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Speaker 1: did say that, but I hope she values it.

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Speaker 2: Get your hair. I went off that back seat. Put

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Speaker 2: it on and get back and ride off. That's what

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Speaker 2: you're doing his bike. Steal his bike? Yeah, stick.

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Speaker 5: Right up under his pectorials and hold on because we

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Speaker 5: feel to make a left turn. It's ride, that's you ride.

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Speaker 5: Please get to our destination. Get off the bike because

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Speaker 5: you can't go but one hundred and fifty miles. That

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Speaker 5: and get him something to drink and let him fill

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Speaker 5: up the motorcycle, because that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: One hundred and fifty miles. That's all you. You you chose

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Speaker 2: this life. You know what this was.

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Speaker 5: Now you don't like motorcycles, but then go ahead the

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Speaker 2: At least they got a band for you out there.

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Speaker 3: Maybe somebody jo us in the Corvett Club. You know,

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Speaker 3: they got a bunch of car back.

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Speaker 1: God, you ain't gonna take it out now, please, yes,

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Speaker 1: you don't want to spend another seven or eight years

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Speaker 2: Uh uh? All right, guys, thank you. Well.

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