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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl lex Peak and it's

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Speaker 1: your girl Dre and the call and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk

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Speaker 1: mind speaks sober thoughts. What's up, girl, girl? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Do you feel me? It's been a crazy week. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it hasn't been a crazy week until like yesterday. Well,

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Speaker 1: it was crazy the day of my birthday party. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about your birthday before we get into

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Speaker 1: all the bullshit. How was your birthday? I had such

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Speaker 1: an amazing time. It was so fun. All of my

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Speaker 1: friends really showed out, showed up, and you had some

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Speaker 1: bad bottle girls. I did. They was thick.

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Speaker 2: They came out with the sparklers. One of them had

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Speaker 2: the wire sills on.

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Speaker 1: Oh I wonder who that was. I'll give you a hand.

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Speaker 1: She got three dollars. But yes, it was just so

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Speaker 1: fun and it was so fun. I had a Barbie.

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Speaker 1: Oh you did?

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Speaker 2: You did?

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Speaker 1: He didn't have no shirt on. He was real fun.

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Speaker 1: I think so. For her birthday, if y'all don't know,

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Speaker 1: we went on Instagram live. I called it Lingerie Live

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Speaker 1: because we had a lingerie party at Kiki's house, and

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Speaker 1: it was so much fun. Well, I was really nervous

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Speaker 1: because Dre is a girl who makes a big deal

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Speaker 1: about her birthday, So being that it was quarantine, I

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Speaker 1: to be able to give her a good birthday experience.

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Speaker 1: Luckily it wasn't like a monumental birthday. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: know every year, you still want to celebrate your birthday, right,

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Speaker 1: And we had a great time. We were on Live.

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Speaker 1: We was all in our lingerie, were so drunk. We

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Speaker 1: had so much food, so many n many many drinks,

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Speaker 1: many many food. We had edibles. We had edibles. I

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Speaker 1: didn't do it edible, Yeah, you didn't do it. But

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Speaker 1: I was, well, I had some of that little oil stuff.

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Speaker 1: I was the CBD oil.

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Speaker 2: I heard you was giving everybody a scribed. I said,

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Speaker 2: that's my girls did.

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Speaker 1: I was getting everything in one. That's when I heard

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Speaker 2: I needed this that you had told him to tell

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Speaker 2: me it was gonna be some bed be's here. So

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Speaker 2: I was excited because I thought y'all had a special guess.

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Speaker 2: Then when I came out, I was like, oh, but

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Speaker 1: And we had these little burger slaughters that kikim You

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Speaker 1: was eating them all night. I literally, I'm not even

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Speaker 1: being dramatic. I think I had about twelve. You got

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Speaker 1: one in every picture. I do alter I was. And

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Speaker 1: then and then Kiki made these like jerk wings. And

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Speaker 1: if you know me, I'm not even a person. I

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Speaker 1: But I'm really picky about the type of meat on

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Speaker 1: a bone that I eat. But baby, I was tearing

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Speaker 1: the wings up to Adina Maine mac and cheese. The

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Speaker 1: drinks were really really good. We had a great time.

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Speaker 1: We just had a great time. It was.

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Speaker 2: It was a very eventful night, y'all. They had a

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Speaker 1: I was, you was. I had my whole booty on

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Speaker 1: the line. You had a whole booty, my whole booty.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it was a good time. So happy birthday

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Speaker 1: again to little Dre. Did you get a danger you stuff? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I have? I know you did you know how? You

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Speaker 2: But I'm still waiting on some more. Oh and Madina

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Speaker 1: Oh or to Bentley's. I said, okay, I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully I get one. I know that's right, Queen. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna speaking into existence because it's coming, okay, so we're

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Speaker 1: gonna get into the more serious topics. Boo. I know,

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Speaker 1: but I do have something to address. I feel like

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Speaker 1: He's a very well known host. He hosts a lot

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Speaker 1: of events and things like that. But it came out

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Speaker 1: my business. But when it kind of hit close to

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Speaker 1: me and saying, no, lex this it is true. This

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Speaker 1: to me. That's when I felt the need to say something, right,

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Speaker 1: So I had initially tweeted, I was like, you know, basically,

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Speaker 1: saying something, especially against someone who's so popular, because it's

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Speaker 1: already hard to admit when a man has sexually assaulted you,

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Speaker 1: My initial tweet was just you know, in support of

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Speaker 1: So then, you know, being that I do have a

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Speaker 1: was made I don't want to say that it is

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Speaker 1: and they basically tweeted a picture of me, Chris and

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Speaker 1: two of my other very close friends. Now, the reason

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Speaker 1: were like, oh, Lex, you want to you wanna talk shit,

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Speaker 2: It's always weird to me when people say stuff like that,

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Speaker 2: because it's like, how would you have known? Unless he

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Speaker 1: You know when someone sexually assaults someone that they're gonna

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Speaker 1: I've been a victim of sexual assault myself. Are you

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Speaker 1: I felt the reason I got mad because not only

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Speaker 1: what a three year old picture? Yeah, old picture? It

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Speaker 1: back on his social media? So fine, because it wasn't

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Speaker 1: they're not even here to defend themselves because they don't

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Speaker 1: It had nothing to do with that. I had no

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Speaker 1: But y'all want to focus on me because y'all thought

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Speaker 2: you're not wrong for hanging around somebody if you're not

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Speaker 1: But he's like, what the fuck like? And I don't

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Speaker 1: Do I have? Do I take back anything I said?

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Speaker 1: The only reason I deleted my tweets yesterday is because

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Speaker 1: that that bitch? Lex p I know that ain't lex

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Speaker 1: p Oh, Lex p Oh. You always want to speak

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you something. If you're waiting for

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Speaker 1: I'm loyal to everybody who's around me, and I don't

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Speaker 2: And obviously I wasn't there faced I was gonna get

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Speaker 1: Girls, but it was coming out that he was actually raped, they.

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Speaker 1: Harassing people and raping people, right like, like what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: It's so many beaches out here who will literally just

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Speaker 1: Go fuck a beach that want to fuck you. And

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Speaker 2: Kicky had tweeted something yesterday, and I feel like that's

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Speaker 1: What what what was it? What did you say? Right

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Speaker 1: mm hmmm. So it's like, hold on, let me, can

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Speaker 3: So, look, quid pro quote sexual harassment is you give

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Speaker 3: If it's at work. For example, well, if you suck

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Speaker 3: The whole exchange of things for whatever reason. Men sometimes

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Speaker 3: So if they don't let you do that, why do

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Speaker 1: You cannot do that. You cannot trade things for sex, right,

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Speaker 3: And I guess the simplest way that I have been

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Speaker 1: We all know that that's illegal.

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Speaker 3: You cannot tell me because I'm fucking you that I

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Speaker 3: Some people will do it and they'll say it's okay,

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't do it.

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Speaker 1: Like what ship? Is that right? And I feel like

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Speaker 1: That's harassment because you're forcing somebody to do something but

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Speaker 1: I got three dollars, so guess what I would.

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Speaker 2: You would have had the fun, but you wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: But a lot of women do get.

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Speaker 2: And then we ended up finding out later that he

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Speaker 1: He just wasn't successful with me, right, And I think

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Speaker 2: But then also stuff when people say stuff like that,

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Speaker 1: And I hate when people say that your body.

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Speaker 2: Telling me yeah, well damn yeah, because you rubbing on

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Speaker 2: my pussy and I.

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00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 1: Know, but may not want to fuck you. And I

434
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,960
Speaker 1: hate to get so vulgar, but like, I've actually seen

435
00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 1: somebody sweet that before, like, how can they rape you

436
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 1: if it's wet? Do ya don't have Vagina's words? Seriously,

437
00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,200
Speaker 1: And it was so disturbing. I've seen men sweet that before.

438
00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 1: They can't rape you if it's wet, Like that's not

439
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,640
Speaker 1: how it fucking works, That is not how it's wild.

440
00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,639
Speaker 1: So I think many people who say that type of

441
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:34,119
Speaker 1: stuff are rap and I don't think me okay, And

442
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that, because I think people need

443
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:41,199
Speaker 1: to understand the difference between like saying somebody's rapie and

444
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,880
Speaker 1: actually being a rapist and like sexual assault, because I'm

445
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 1: with this situation from what I've seen, he's never actually

446
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,919
Speaker 1: what we were talking about earlier. He's actually never raped anybody,

447
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 1: but he has rapy behavior, which means that in that situation,

448
00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 1: he's just never in his mind looked up. And I'll

449
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 1: say this, I feel like he never tried me because

450
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 1: he you know who to try me, try me either, though,

451
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm saying, you know who to try

452
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 1: to be flirting with me a lot. I mean, obviously

453
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: he used to be flirting with everybody. I mean, he

454
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 1: used to be flirting with everybody, super heavy. But I'll say, like,

455
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit up here and be like, oh yes,

456
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 1: this it did not happen to me. It didn't happen

457
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 1: to me either. He definitely never showed me any signs,

458
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,439
Speaker 1: you know, on my end. But like I said, niggas

459
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 1: knows who to try. I don't feel that way. I

460
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 1: feel like these niggas gonna would try Jesus no, no,

461
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 1: when I say what you mean, But when I say

462
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 1: they know who to try, somebody like him knows, like

463
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: I wasn't just cool with him, like I'm cool with

464
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: your friends. I know we have a platform. At this point,

465
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,199
Speaker 1: it takes one tweet for somebody like you know what

466
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, so somebody like me says something, it's different

467
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: than a girl that has three hundred followers that wants

468
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 1: to get in the parties. I never got any parties

469
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 1: because of you.

470
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 2: So you feel like status makes the difference with things

471
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 2: like these, like.

472
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: With niggas, with lame niggas like that. Yeah, well that's

473
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: how his mind was working. That's how I feel.

474
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you feel like because you knew a lot of

475
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 2: other people, absolutely, because nobody platform.

476
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: And then I feel like all the girls that said something,

477
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 1: a lot of these girls were getting attacked and a

478
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: lot of these were just you know, the regular, you know,

479
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 1: working class girls, And there's nothing wrong with it. I'm

480
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 1: not saying anything about it. I got a nine to five.

481
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,439
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is these were just people with like

482
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: no platform, nobody to if like it's a difference between

483
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: you know, like Susie from you know, the Bank saying

484
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 1: something and like Drey and the Coles saying something. It

485
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: really is, because if you say something, it's going viral

486
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: like this, and you got an army of people coming

487
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: out and supporting you, somebody that you know that's like

488
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,719
Speaker 1: a kind of a you know, a regular person say something.

489
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: You got people that's gonna be like nah na, they line,

490
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: they line, they she just she just want to be,

491
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,239
Speaker 1: She just want the cloud. So I feel like in

492
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: his situation, because he's so lame and so stupid, you know,

493
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 1: that's I feel like that's what he knew how to

494
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: try shit, He knew who to try shit with. You

495
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's just my personal I mean

496
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: I could be totally wrong, but you know, nobody ever

497
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: knows how people pick their victims, you know what I'm saying.

498
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: But like I said, yeah, I feel like a lot

499
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: of people are saying he's rapey, but you know, he's

500
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: never raped anybody. Not that that makes it better, but

501
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 1: I think people need to understand the difference between saying

502
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: someone is rapey saying someone is rapey. It's like saying

503
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: that they're a predator. Right, you have you have Yeah,

504
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 1: you have those tendencies, and when you get that opportunity,

505
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: you absolutely will you might be, no, you will be,

506
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 1: you absolutely will be. You know what I'm saying. I

507
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: feel like, I mean, the guys, what five five hundred

508
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 1: and fifty pounds, So I don't really think he would

509
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 1: have the power to rape somebody.

510
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 2: I guess, but I don't agree with that because I

511
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 2: think and I think that's a lot of the times.

512
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 2: That issue sometimes with women is that you know, you'll

513
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: look at a guy and because of his stature, you'll

514
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 2: be like, oh, he little, like he ain't do nothing.

515
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: No, no, no, niggas be strong. Let me no, no, Let

516
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: let me correct my statement. What I'm saying is, I

517
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: guess a lot of people feel like, oh, he's so little,

518
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: he can't rape is not always violent. I guess that's

519
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 1: what I was trying to say. Okay, So when he

520
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: is like, if he would have actually raped somebody, it

521
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't have been him beat nobody ass because he's very small.

522
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: It would have been him getting somebody really really drunk,

523
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: you know, convincing them, oh you got to get into

524
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 1: this party, you gotta do this, and do that. I

525
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: guess that's what I'm trying to say. Okay, So let

526
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: me clear up that statement. Not that he wouldn't get violent,

527
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: but I think his method of sexually assaulting and if

528
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 1: he ever did rape somebody, it would have been not

529
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: violent rape. And I think a lot of people need

530
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: to know that rape and sexual assault is not always violent, right,

531
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: it's not you. We watch these movies and we think, oh,

532
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: a girl beat her ass and he ties her up

533
00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: and he rapes. So that's not always what rape is. Really,

534
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: it's so much, it's so deeper than that. It's not

535
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 1: just that, you know what I'm saying. So I think

536
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: that's what I was trying to say. So let me

537
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: clear that up for y'all. Want to offend anybody that

538
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: has been raped and it wasn't a violent activity. So

539
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: I definitely just wanted to touch on that subject. So yeah,

540
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: let's move on, Let's get off of this deep yes, okay,

541
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 1: So my next topic is I wanted to talk about

542
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 1: advice because you know, we have a whole segment where

543
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 1: we give advice to people, and you know, we just

544
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: kind of say our shit can't go. We tell y'all

545
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: what we think, and then we move on. But I

546
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 1: know there's been situations where, shit, bitch, we almost fill

547
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: out over trying to give each other advice that the

548
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: other person really didn't want. So I wanted to talk

549
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 1: about giving your advice to friends or family and when

550
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 1: is it When does it cross over from not being

551
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,959
Speaker 1: advice to you trying to push your narrative of what

552
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 1: you want for your life onto somebody else. So let

553
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: me give an example, because this is what happened between us. Yeah, well,

554
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to get well, I don't want to

555
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: get too specific. Right, it was just like you wanted

556
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,719
Speaker 1: to do something and I didn't want you to do it,

557
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: and the thing that you want to do is something

558
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 1: that I don't want to do at all. So from

559
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: one point, it seemed like I was telling you this

560
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: because I was giving you advice, But then it started

561
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: to seem like I was telling you this just because

562
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: that's not what I want for myself. So I hope

563
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: that made sense to y'all. So basically, I just want

564
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: to know, like, how do you feel when you're giving

565
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: somebody advice? Like when do you realize Like, for example,

566
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: like if you're telling me Lex this, nigga ain't got

567
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 1: no money, why are you fucking with him? But when

568
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: does it stop being advice and it start being like Okay, Drea,

569
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: I understand he doesn't have money, But just because you

570
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: fuck with niggas with money doesn't mean I want to

571
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: fuck with niggas with money, you know what I'm saying.

572
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: So when is that line crossed.

573
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 2: I feel like shit like that is just always touchy,

574
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I feel like I'm

575
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 2: a very opinionated person, so I always try sometimes when

576
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 2: it comes to my friend, especially when it comes to

577
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: they niggas, to just kind of like let them do them, yeah,

578
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna have a lot of opinions about sorry shit,

579
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: And I feel like a lot of the time, if

580
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 2: you're not.

581
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,719
Speaker 1: Being asked, you don't really need to say And I

582
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 1: strongly agree with that. Yeah, Like if you not, I

583
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: just think that that's really just what it is.

584
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: You just be having to realize sometimes like if no,

585
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 2: if somebody not, if you're not really asking me, maybe

586
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: I shouldn't be telling you what you should do with

587
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 2: this situation. And I think that's that's how most people

588
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 2: should go about trying to give their friends our family

589
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 2: members advice about situations that they being more. I guess

590
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 2: I'm speaking because that's what we was mainly talking about.

591
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 1: More specifically, like when you when.

592
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 2: They dating somebody or some shit and you don't like

593
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: that person, it's not like it's cold and I like

594
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 2: them because I feel like, if you care about your people,

595
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, you want to see them happy.

596
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 2: You want them to be in the best situations. You

597
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 2: don't want them to be with nobody who you feel

598
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: like is bad for them. But you also got to

599
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: understand you gotta let people do them something that my

600
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 2: mama told me a really long time ago there, I

601
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: always try to keep in the back of my mind

602
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: before I say things to my friends about people that

603
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 2: they be fucking with and stuff. It's just like, you

604
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 2: can't do for your friend with that nigga doing And

605
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: it's just the bottom line.

606
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: So I was talking about your nigga, I damn sune of.

607
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: That shit, right right right, But that's what I'm saying,

608
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 2: I mean. But same thing with me, you know what

609
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 2: I mean, because you've you've dated guys that I just

610
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 2: kind of was like, I don't even I don't see

611
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: why you dat them, you know what I mean. But

612
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 2: I just kind of try to keep it to myself

613
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 2: because I can't give you that feeling, you know what

614
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: I mean, that that person is giving you, and I

615
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: can't do the shit whatever they they doing for you

616
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: that's making you feel that way about them. It's I

617
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: can't I could probably possibly do the same thing, but

618
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 2: you still not gonna feel about me the way that

619
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 2: you feel about that person. And it's just the bottom line,

620
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: because my mama told me because when I was growing

621
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 2: up or whatever, one of my aunts her husband's to

622
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: cheat on her all the time, and he ended up

623
00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 2: getting somebody pregnant and his my my aunt's kids got

624
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 2: really really mad and started disrespecting him and going off

625
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: on him and stuff, but he basically raised him even

626
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: though he wasn't their dad. And my mom had basically

627
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 2: told one of my cousins she was just like, you

628
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 2: gotta stop disrespecting this man in his house, Like, yeah,

629
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: he's fucked up what he did to ya, mama, But

630
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 2: if you can't do for your mama what he doing

631
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 2: for her, you need to stay in your place because

632
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 2: you're not about to pay the bills. You're not about to,

633
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 2: you know, take care of her. You're not about to

634
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: have sex with her and do all this other stuff.

635
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: So it's like you just need to either respect him

636
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: or move out, right, And so she moved out.

637
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: See, I definitely agree on that. I do. I feel

638
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: like you're you only need to give advice honestly when

639
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: you're asked, because I know in our friendship I have.

640
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: You know, I've overstepped my boundaries more than a few times. Yeah,

641
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: it definitely started showing in our friendship a lot, like

642
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 1: we were a bitch hanging on by fucking thread because

643
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: I just kept crossing the line and pay because we're

644
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: both but I would say that about both of us.

645
00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: We're both very opinionated and but we all we are

646
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: good at holding ourselves accountable as well. Right, So it's

647
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: like when I step back and I realized, Okay, lets

648
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: you know what, you just need to shut the fuck

649
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: up because because I wasn't asking you one, not only one,

650
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: because not only that, not only were you not asking me,

651
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: but two. It's like we don't want the same things

652
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: when we're dating men for completely opposite things in niggas

653
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: when we date them honestly, And I feel.

654
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: Like just in life sometimes too, you know, more more specifically,

655
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 2: like people just be wanting different shit out of life.

656
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 2: People have different desires, different goals and all that type

657
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 2: of stuff. So it's kind of like if you're trying

658
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: to push your narrative on somebody else and that's not

659
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 2: what they want in life.

660
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: And that's when it stops becoming that's when it's not

661
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: advice any hume. And that's what I wanted to get at.

662
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: When you're trying to push things that you want for

663
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: your life on to somebody else, it's not advice anymore.

664
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: And I think me and my mom also had to

665
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: come to this point because you know, she wanted me

666
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: to go back to school and do this and get

667
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: in the medical feel like my sister, because my sister,

668
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: she got way more than three dollars. My sister makes

669
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,239
Speaker 1: six figures a year, you know what I'm saying. So

670
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: she wanted me to kind of do the same thing

671
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: my sister was doing. Right, She's like, you can't want

672
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: from my life what you did and what my sister

673
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: did for me. I'm the you know, I'm the black sheep.

674
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I've been that way since I was younger. So once

675
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: my mom realized that, it was like, okay, Mom, you're

676
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: not getting me giving me advice anymore. I'm doing life. Okay,

677
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm alive, I pay my own bills, and I'm making

678
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: shit happen for myself. It may not be the life

679
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: that you want it for me, but I'm making shit happen.

680
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: I'm not under a tree. I'm not under sixteen living.

681
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I don't have to suck

682
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: and fuck to live. I'm sucking fuck because I want to.

683
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: It's a difference now, Annie, Okay. But what I'm saying

684
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: is it's like when you start to try to push

685
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: your narrative on somebody, like I said, it's not advice anymore,

686
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: and I think that's what I was doing to you.

687
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: At one point, I just kept being like, oh, d

688
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: d D, don't do this, don't do that, don't do that.

689
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Okay, I'm not telling her this because

690
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,239
Speaker 1: of you know that I don't like this, nigga. I'm

691
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: telling her this because myself is reasoning and this is

692
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: how I want my life. So I feel like she's

693
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: supposed to be living her life like I want her to.

694
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 2: Well, that's what I was gonna say too, That's what

695
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask because I feel like sometimes two

696
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: people give people advice for their own selfish reasons. Cause like,

697
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 2: for example, in our situation, I felt like, yeah, you

698
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 2: definitely wanted what was best for me, but then you

699
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: also didn't want me to do certain things because it

700
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 2: was going to affect things that we had going on,

701
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 2: and I still stand by that now because now that

702
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: came from me knowing you, because you're just like my

703
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: sister and you're just like my mom. Y'all will start

704
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: something and don't even give it a chance to fucking

705
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: breathe and you're like, okay, I'm done. And I was like,

706
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: I'll be damn if we start this fucking podcast, this

707
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 2: fucking show and you don't even let us fucking try.

708
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 2: And he was like, oh no, bitch, it's ain't working.

709
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm about to go do this and do that. I'm like, no,

710
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: You're not gonna do that, is me, and I'm on

711
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: to the next thing.

712
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, more with you do. You definitely don't give things

713
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: a time to breathe and grow. And I was just like,

714
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm not letting you do this, cause, bitch, I'm involved

715
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 1: in this now, like this is something I know that

716
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: we could do, so just to let you poor girls

717
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: and poor boys know, it wouldn't be here if I

718
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: didn't pushed for y'all because Row was done with it.

719
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: She was like done with it. No, I wasn't done

720
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 2: with it. I'm just the person who I be feeling like.

721
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 2: And I guess maybe that's part of my problem. I

722
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: just be feeling like I could do everything, like I

723
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 2: could do the ease, I could do Poor Minds, and

724
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: then I could still do all this other sheet too.

725
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 2: That's in my mind what I really thought. I'm like,

726
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: I could, we can still do Poor Minds, but I'm

727
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: gonna still do this too. But it wasn't gonna happen though,

728
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 2: because I know it probably wasn't.

729
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,959
Speaker 1: I know that's what I'm saying. It probably wasn't. So

730
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, that was for my now that situation.

731
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: It was a little bit for myself and reasons, but

732
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: it was also because I don't know. I just I

733
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: felt like you wasn't ready and we both agreed. Now

734
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: you did say you wasn't ready, but yeah, I wasn't.

735
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: But that was me pushing my advice on you and

736
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: I did cross the line. But I'm happy that I did.

737
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: And that's now that situation.

738
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 2: Now, because we was like not fucking with each other

739
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 2: for a long time, Like I was like, this, bitch,

740
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 2: get on my fucking.

741
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: And that's what I was, and that's what I want

742
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: to talk about too, because I felt like I in

743
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 1: my position, I was not jealous, I was not hating.

744
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 1: I just wanted more for Drea at the time that

745
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 1: I felt was more at the time she was getting

746
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: a lot and still but I'm just saying like, that's

747
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: not what I wanted for you, but I didn't vocalize

748
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: that correctly, so it was coming off to you like

749
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: I was jealous, like I was hating, like I wasn't

750
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:36,760
Speaker 1: happy for you. So that's when the miscommunication started because

751
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: I just started telling you shit what you should be

752
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: doing and what you need to be doing, and you

753
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: wasn't even asking me. It's like, why was I opening

754
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: my mouth to say this shit when you didn't even

755
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: ask me? And I just kept being like, well, and

756
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: then it was all the time. I was like, bro,

757
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: it was I know, so you know, and I do

758
00:34:56,320 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: apologize because, like I said, I was over seven no,

759
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,959
Speaker 1: but you know, bit, And it got to a point

760
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 1: to where when we decided to forgive each other, it

761
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: was like a three month span where I had to

762
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: apologize to you every day because he was always getting

763
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: drunk and be like, next you hurt me, I'm like,

764
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: brou how many times do I have to tell you

765
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Well I can't, but that's how I be.

766
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: I don't know why I be like that.

767
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: It's so crazy because me and one of me and

768
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: Key Key friends had a conversation last night and I

769
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 2: was just telling him because I was drunk and I'm

770
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 2: just telling him. I'm like, what the fuck?

771
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 1: I was like, you just really be doing how ish?

772
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: And he was like, dang dre. At this point, what

773
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: do I gotta do? He was like, what I gotta do?

774
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: I told you I'm not perfect, like I make mistakes

775
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. He was like, what do I

776
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: gotta do? I told you I'm sorry, and you one thing,

777
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, you lied to me. You could have told

778
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: me the truth. You lied to me, and that's one

779
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: thing about you. Was like, I feel like it was

780
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 1: at one point where I spends like, damn, bitch, if

781
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: you're gonna forgive me, fucking forgive you. But if you not,

782
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: then tell me that so I can stay from away

783
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: from you because I've done what I needed to do

784
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 1: on my end. But if every time we hanging out

785
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: and were getting drunk and you being like lex I

786
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: can't believe you, I'm like, come on, for real, it

787
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: was bad.

788
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 2: It was bad, and I will say but I will

789
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 2: say too. The last is more so honestly, and I

790
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: think I told you this too. I don't think it

791
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: was so much. It was partially that I did feel

792
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 2: that way about you, But then I think I was

793
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 2: just all around with the whole situation, just like hurt

794
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 2: and I got for you. It was easy for you

795
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: to be the person that I blamed for a lot

796
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 2: of things.

797
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: And I think we know. I think the last time

798
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: we got into it was after we recorded that podcast

799
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: and we were coming to Kiki's house and we sat

800
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: in the car for like an hour. But I think

801
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 1: when we actually broke it down and we realized, we realized, Okay,

802
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: this is why this is happening, and I think our

803
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: communication just got so good. We came down to the

804
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: reason why you kept bring it up, and it honest

805
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: it had nothing to do with me at that point.

806
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: It was just easy for you to let out your

807
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: emotions on me.

808
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you were part of like a lot of

809
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 2: the r I felt like things didn't turn out the

810
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 2: way that it should have or that I thought it

811
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 2: should have or whatever. And I feel like because you

812
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 2: were always around, you were just the easy target because

813
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: it's like, well, partially and you didn't do Yeah, you

814
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 2: know that, but you know what it was, every time

815
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 2: something went wrong in that situation, I would happen to

816
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 2: be there because we were around each other so much,

817
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 2: so it was easy for you to be like you

818
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 2: wasn't gonna do that with him, with that person.

819
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: So it's like, well, I'm about to cush you out

820
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 1: because this is the reason why this is happening. And

821
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: that was a lot where it came from, yo, But

822
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: that's true. I think in our growth of our friendship

823
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,240
Speaker 1: and our business relationship, we have learned there's a difference between,

824
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: like I said, giving it you feel like I do

825
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 1: that to you?

826
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 2: What like give you my opinion about your niggas. I

827
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: think you used to, but I'm not no more. No,

828
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 2: I think we both stopped doing that.

829
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: Unless I ask you something, I don't really be But

830
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: I don't talk about my niggas that much. Yeah, I'm

831
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: not a person. I'm not the person that be like,

832
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 1: girl my nigga. I do not talk about. The most

833
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: time y'all hear me talk about my niggas, it's on

834
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: the fucking podcast. I might bring up something if I'm

835
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 1: like texting him or if I'm going to his house

836
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: and he sent me some gifts or something like. I

837
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: might say something like that, but I'm not. I do,

838
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: I don't. I love these niggas, but I don't fuck

839
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: with these niggas. Okay, there's a big difference. My life doesn't.

840
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm not saying yours does. But for me, I'm not

841
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: the I'm not that type of girl that my life

842
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: revolves around my niggas. So I feel like the only

843
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: time you give me advice is when I'll be like, bitch,

844
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 1: what you think? Like that time?

845
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 2: The only thing I think that I always will give

846
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: you my yo, my opinion about stuff when you didn't

847
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 2: ask was like because I used to get frustrated because

848
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 2: I felt like the show wasn't growing at the pace

849
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 2: that he needed to grow, and I wanted you to

850
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: quit your job so bad.

851
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 1: And be like yes. And that was when I was

852
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: like bitch, and she just was like, I'm not like you.

853
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: I can't do that.

854
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 2: I was yes, and I just used to be on

855
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: your ass. It's a quick you just want a show

856
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 2: not growing.

857
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: Oh that's why me and Cash used to be talking

858
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: because you know, screamed. I don't like when we have

859
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: jobs either. All Cash is like yeah, scream don't like that,

860
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 1: and I'm going to work. That's just who I am,

861
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: and I'm a person. I like my job. I knew,

862
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: and I don't mind going to work. Now. Once my

863
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: work starts interfering with my creativeness that I have going on,

864
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: that's when I'm like, Okay, I need to make a decision.

865
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 1: But by day, I'm working my job and I'm doing this.

866
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: I got enough time for it. All. This quarantine has

867
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: been so hard for me because I like being busy,

868
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: so to me, like if I was, I mean, I

869
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: can do it. I do a lot for poor minds,

870
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: and we both do. But it's a balance. Now. Once

871
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: poor minds get to the point to where I can't

872
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: be at work, that's when I'm gonna be like, Okay, bitch,

873
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,959
Speaker 1: maybe I should have to quit my job. But bitch,

874
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: we ain't horrible decisions yet. Nah, God damn, but I

875
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: got time to work. I was. Yeah.

876
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 2: I was talking to my friend Land last night because

877
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 2: you know, Land is like that too, and she because

878
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 2: I never really understood why she still would be working

879
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: at Sweet. I'd be like, you got a good job,

880
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: Like why do you still work at Sweet? And she

881
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: was like, I don't never want to not be comfortable.

882
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 2: I gotta work there and it's like extra time, why not?

883
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 1: Yeah?

884
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 2: And she was just like, I think you're just so

885
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: so much of a risk taker, Like you just the

886
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 2: type of person who you're gonna quit your job and

887
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 2: you literally will not know where you're about to get

888
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 2: money from, but you just be like, fuck it, I'm

889
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: over these she and so you just expect everybody else

890
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 2: to be like that because you always end up being okay, right,

891
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: And I just look at it, I wouldn't say that

892
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 2: is a risky way to live your life. Like, now

893
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: that I've gotten older, I really have realized, like that's

894
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: not the best advice to give. People just ended up

895
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 2: being okay in life luckily. But really and truly that shit.

896
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: Is done the jobs and not knowing what you're gonna

897
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: do be cause you gotta look at it like this.

898
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: The only reason I'm ever quitting a job and not

899
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: doing it, not it is because of my other business

900
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: endeavors popping off. You know what I'm saying, Like you

901
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 1: were lucky enough to be in a situation with a

902
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: person who was always gonna make sure you straight. That

903
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,919
Speaker 1: is very fucking rare. But no, rare.

904
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 2: But even before that, Lex, Let's keep it one honey,

905
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 2: because I don't never want peop to think that just

906
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 2: because I got in a certain situation that made me

907
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: that way. I literally been this way my whole life.

908
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 2: I just beta be tired of she and I be like, looking,

909
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this.

910
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: No, that's what I'm saying. No, I'm not saying that

911
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: that was the whole reason, because I mean, when you

912
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: first moved Atlanta, he was making a lot of money.

913
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: You was barsad like You've always been that person, like

914
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: if you if you're tired of this job, you're gonna

915
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 1: go to this job or this job that That's not

916
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What I'm saying is from a business

917
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: point of view. I look at how successful, like horrible

918
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 1: decision is Mandy just quit her fucking job, right okay,

919
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: and Mandy was able to build that empire and still working.

920
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: I look at how successful Cocktails is and Kiki still works. Well,

921
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: she'd be on Live but barely, but she'd be there.

922
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: But I would say, like, Kiki, you're still working, and

923
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: so I feel like, bitch, I still got motherfucking times work.

924
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But I get what you're saying,

925
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: like that was an example for you, Like.

926
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the I feel like I was very overbearing

927
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:00,959
Speaker 2: over the away.

928
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: Quit your job. But that's why I'm happy because you

929
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 1: know what, I will say, I'm so glad that we

930
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: have a third person in our friendship now with Kiki,

931
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 1: because I feel like Kiki is definitely a little bit

932
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: of both of us. You think so, yes, I feel

933
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: like Keiki has the balance that we needed in our

934
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: friendships sometimes. And I feel like sometimes I'll say, she

935
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 1: feels like you're a little bit of both of us,

936
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: like you you balance us, because sometimes I'll tell you something,

937
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: but then Kiki will tell you be like, yeah, well

938
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: Kiki said. I'm like, well, I said the same thing. Okay,

939
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: all right, all right, you know what I'm saying. But

940
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,760
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, k has a calmer approach.

941
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: She does, and I think that's what it is. But

942
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: I will say, like getting back, getting back to the topic,

943
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 1: I feel like that's where our friendship has grown. We

944
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: don't give each other the other person advice unless unless

945
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: we add but I feel like that's important in all

946
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: your friendships. Don't be pushing your opinion and pushing your

947
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: advice on somebody unless they fucking as yeah, do not

948
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: just be like, well, girl, I think you need to

949
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 1: do this. Shut up sometimes.

950
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 2: Because it will it's gonna cause freaks sheet all the time.

951
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: It is going to because it's like eventually that person

952
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 2: just gonna be like, damn like, chuck with you.

953
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: But I did not ask you that. I did not

954
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: ask you like just leave me alone by this sheet.

955
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,479
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, So let us know how y'all feel about,

956
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: you know, crossing the line. I'm gonna get this one

957
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: and go to the six, so let me know how

958
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: y'all feel about giving somebody advice or across the line.

959
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 2: Wants a funny one, We don't do that one.

960
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: Next week we're gonna set that because because we're feel

961
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: like it's been a serious episode, we're gonna get into

962
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 1: the bay a baby. So we wanted to use this

963
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,720
Speaker 1: topic today to give y'all a health lesson.

964
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: Part of the reason why I think it's funny to

965
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 2: talk about this is because you know, we be doing

966
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: our little well y'all. I don't know if y'all seeing

967
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 2: the little clips that we been posting on Instagram and stuff,

968
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 2: but you know, we're doing our little show or whatever,

969
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,879
Speaker 2: I little reality show. And for the for the one

970
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 2: that we're gonna do today, one of the questions is

971
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 2: did you smell anybody pussy at my party?

972
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: That's one of the questions. You know who came up

973
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: with that question? I did not see it. You know

974
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: who came up with it?

975
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 2: Though, I'm fucking dead, So that's one of the questions.

976
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: No, I didn't, but I was just so bad than

977
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: god because Garfield was sweating. I was just so.

978
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: Baffled because I'm like, what type of question is Then?

979
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, did you smell somebody? No, not you, that

980
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 2: person that came up with the question, I'm like, did

981
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 2: you smell somebody pussy?

982
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,240
Speaker 1: Like why would you ask? Did we smell anybody pussy?

983
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 2: So I think that this is a good topic because

984
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,720
Speaker 2: some girls, you know, you can't smell that pussy. Luckily

985
00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 2: it ain't none of us I'll be here, but some girls,

986
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 2: even getting a little wild down there, do so, so

987
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 2: we wanted to take this time to you know, educate, educate.

988
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: I think I think my pussy hygiene is on. I

989
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 1: would say I've never smelled your pussy really, even when

990
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm on my period. No, I've never smelled, thank you.

991
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: But I have a wide and heavy set vagina, So

992
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 1: I think you know my little pussy sometimes.

993
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really big on that. Like I'm really big

994
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 2: on that. I feel like niggas can say a lot

995
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 2: of things about it. That things think let me.

996
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: Stop being funny. And my pussy has never stung before

997
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: from what I know, I never Oh, but anyways, I

998
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: feel like first time I got a friend though who

999
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 1: pussy out on it definitely used to have dripping not

1000
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: in a good way. Well that's not my friend no more,

1001
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: but she she used to have a pipe leaking in there.

1002
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that was very strange to me. She used

1003
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 2: to walk around the house with a towel and with

1004
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 2: pat her pussy all the time. And me and my

1005
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 2: other friend we used to be like that, ain't right.

1006
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 2: That thing shouldn't be leaking like that.

1007
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: It's not kiky.

1008
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 2: It's if it was kiky, I probably wouldn't be talking

1009
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 2: about it right now.

1010
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, so I want you to give us

1011
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: some tips, like, okay, so I'll ask the questions that

1012
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: I do. I'll ask some questions and say I'm a

1013
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: person who's pussy thing. I got a problem, I pussy sink.

1014
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 1: So okay, I'll ask you a question, Like, every time

1015
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: I have sex, my pussy starts thinking like a day

1016
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: or two later, what can I do to prevent that? Well,

1017
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Sometimes all of them? Well maybe? Hell,

1018
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: well that's why. Okay, Well let me ask you this.

1019
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 1: What do you do after sex to make sure your

1020
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 1: pH level isn't thrown off? Okay?

1021
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: One thing I always do after sex is I always

1022
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 2: go pee.

1023
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: Okay, like always, always, like.

1024
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 2: Literally always, I've forced myself to peech. I'm gonna have

1025
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 2: to pee, so I always go pee. That's the number one.

1026
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: Then I also like to use a tea tree or

1027
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 2: suppository every.

1028
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: Time after I have sex. Okay, So you use it

1029
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: every time after you have sexy much and you just

1030
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: put it up there and it dissolves, right.

1031
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's oil. Okay, so you know it's gonna

1032
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 2: dissolve because of the heat. So yeah, you just stick

1033
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 2: it up there, and then if I'm not gonna go

1034
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 2: to sleep, Like, if I'm gonna go to sleep, I'll

1035
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 2: just put it in there and then go to sleep.

1036
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 2: If I'm not going to go to sleep and I

1037
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 2: need to go rent earrings or do whatever. I'll put

1038
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 2: it up there and then put a tampon up there

1039
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 2: because you don't want the oil to start leaking to

1040
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 2: your clothes. Why you out in public, okay, because that

1041
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 2: ain't because yeah.

1042
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: It's gonna come. It gotta come out. What goes in

1043
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: must come out. I don't get lost in golf field

1044
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: if missing forty eight hours.

1045
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 2: So so that's something that I do too, like and

1046
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 2: I feel like that kind of keeps my pH on

1047
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: balance too, because I feel like I have well, my

1048
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 2: doctor actually told me this. My gano told me this

1049
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: a long time ago. I have a very sensitive vagina,

1050
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 2: like almost to the point that I probably shouldn't really

1051
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 2: use condoms.

1052
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: But anywhere, oh my bad, dang, you just want to

1053
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: put out visits.

1054
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 2: I feel like, no, I want to be ocd about

1055
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 2: condoms though, if it's a nigga that I don't fuck with,

1056
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 2: like because I don't be trying to get pregnant by

1057
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: these niggas. Because another thing, my gun on tell me

1058
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm very fertile, So I'm like, I can't be getting

1059
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 2: pregnant by you niggas that I don't want to get

1060
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 2: pregnant by not about one. That's why I said, somebody,

1061
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 2: I don't we gotta use the condom because I be damn.

1062
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: Okay, So you have a sensit of okay, So.

1063
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: I always do that and that keeps my pH on

1064
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 2: balance too. And then I also don't use soaps and stuff.

1065
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: That's all I'm about to ask. So what do you

1066
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: use to clean your put you when you're in the shower,

1067
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: a regular everyday shower, how do you clean your vagina?

1068
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: I use vaginal wash? Was there is there a specific

1069
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: brain I use? It's the simply something by Vedgiceel.

1070
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 2: Okay, but it's just really a simple wise you don't

1071
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 2: have no type of sin or nothing. That's what I

1072
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 2: use down there, since i've been on your booty hole,

1073
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 2: No for your booty, for what my body, I just

1074
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 2: use regular soap and stuff because on your booty is

1075
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 2: your booty well well not because your body crack will

1076
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 2: get a little tard man, so you gotta use the

1077
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 2: real soap back there.

1078
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 1: Oh see, well my booty sometimes my booty crack be

1079
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: chasing mim be sweating. How would be chased? Well, because okay,

1080
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: this always happens. This is about to get real nasty, y'all.

1081
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: But you know, my diet ain't been the best. So

1082
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: I've been I've been having the ships and stuff. So

1083
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: when I when I sometimes I'll be shipping like four

1084
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 1: or five times in a day because I be having

1085
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: the run. So when you wap your body a lot,

1086
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: it be hurting. So sometimes my booty be getting changed.

1087
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: I never had that shoe before. Yeah, my boody begetting

1088
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: that crack, be getting real draw something. Yeah, I never

1089
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: had that issue before.

1090
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 2: But I do use regular salt back there, like dub

1091
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 2: body wash all that stuff, just regular salt, because I mean,

1092
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 2: I feel like your booty is not as sensitive as

1093
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 2: your pussy.

1094
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 1: But but I use that serum. What's serum the ingrown

1095
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 1: hair serum that I'll put on my bikini line, I'll

1096
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: put that on my booty. Can't help. I got some

1097
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: eggs cream next I got I think you might. I

1098
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: got some cream. Never get that ship. It'll clear that

1099
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: ship right up. Because the same day, maybe I swear

1100
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: my boody be more chapped than my list. And y'all

1101
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,280
Speaker 1: know my lips be chopped. But yeah, so that's another

1102
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: thing I do. I don't you use the veget on

1103
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: your pussy, it's.

1104
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's a non seiny natural wash and house

1105
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,760
Speaker 2: a lot she'd be having this honey pot wish.

1106
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: I use the honey which is it's like a foam

1107
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: wash and it's unseeny too and really really good and

1108
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: mind you, I'm I'm sorry, honey pot is it's a

1109
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: black black yeah.

1110
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 2: And then another thing too, like if I cause you know,

1111
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: sometimes you go on trips and stuff, or you go

1112
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 2: somewhere and I don't take my pussy wash everywhere we

1113
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 2: because I mean, tea's gonna confiscated. So if I'm not

1114
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 2: at home or whatever, I just don't use enhing, just

1115
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 2: water and a towel and.

1116
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: Just well, I actually like those wipes when I travel,

1117
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: the pussy wipes. I'm not gonna lie. I do use

1118
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,240
Speaker 1: those when I travel, like when I went to Dubai.

1119
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: Whenever you travel on the flight pussy wipes too. Them

1120
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 1: flights be long as fuck and when you be sitting down,

1121
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: this should be baking like an ove and it'd be

1122
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: four hundred and fifty degrees down there. So I absolutely

1123
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: every time I travel, I get the little vagicel wipes.

1124
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: I want to try the honeypot wipes because I haven't

1125
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: tried those yet. But every time I have a long flight,

1126
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 1: if it's a flight that's over six seven hours, I'm

1127
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,280
Speaker 1: bringing my pussy wipes and I'm going to the bathroom

1128
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: and I'm wiping that thing off.

1129
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 2: I like pussy wipe. It's not a sprays. Ladies, please

1130
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 2: stop using the sprays. And that's probably why y'all be

1131
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: getting east and fictions and she stopped using them. Damn right,

1132
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 2: he's down there. Pussy posts the smell like pussy. You

1133
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 2: just ain't post to smell like the Neils.

1134
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 1: Because Garfield be smelling like Garfield. That's why.

1135
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,479
Speaker 2: Just now for real, And I think that's what women

1136
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 2: have to understand, Like, your pussy is not supposed to

1137
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 2: smell like flowers and all of that type of shit.

1138
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,839
Speaker 2: And I don't think that niggas expected to smell like that. Yeah,

1139
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 2: it's just not post to smell like nothing other than pussy. Like,

1140
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: pussy have a smell, but it ain't sposed to smell

1141
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 2: like nothing else.

1142
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, yeah, I think everybody. I think, yeah,

1143
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: we do need to realize that as women, it's not

1144
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: supposed to smell like nothing. It obviously has a sense right,

1145
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: you know.

1146
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 2: And I don't like to wear panties. That's another thing

1147
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:41,759
Speaker 2: too that I feel like kind of.

1148
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: But I feel like what helps too is if you

1149
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 1: do wear panties, you need to wear cotton panties. I

1150
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: feel like if you do, yeah, I feel like all

1151
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: the silk and the lace and stuff that shit can

1152
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: fuck your shit up too, And especially if they're too tight,

1153
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna give yourself a yeast infection.

1154
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 2: Oh and another thing too, So yesterday I actually just

1155
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 2: ordered these discs that I'm gonna try for my knicks.

1156
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: I actually just started my period today. Huh. Yes, I

1157
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 1: just ordered the.

1158
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: Rings, the Flicks rings, and I want to try those

1159
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:12,760
Speaker 2: for my next cycle.

1160
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: What is that? Is that the cup like the Deva ring. No,

1161
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 1: it's not a cup, it's the disc. I'm gonna sho.

1162
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you the website after we get a disc. Yes,

1163
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: so can you explain how that works?

1164
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1165
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 1: Oh you have one. Well we'll just explain the disc

1166
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: for the people who are listening and not watching. Well,

1167
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: can you keep about to bring us I know.

1168
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 2: But so it's basically like a round disc and it

1169
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 2: has plastic in the middle and you insert it into

1170
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 2: your vagina and basically all the blood comes in there.

1171
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 2: You can order them in different okay, you can order

1172
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 2: them in different sizes, like they have one for light flows,

1173
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: heavy flows.

1174
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: Oh okay. So for the listeners, it kind of looks

1175
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 1: like and you can have sex with it. That's another

1176
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: dope thing about it. So it kind of looks like

1177
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:04,600
Speaker 1: a very very short and the end of it has

1178
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 1: like a rubber ring around rubber dis the rubber disk

1179
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: around it.

1180
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 2: So if the YouTube, it's like a diaphragm, So you

1181
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 2: inserted sideways.

1182
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,880
Speaker 1: This is gonna girlfield, gonna eat this bitch, right. It's squeezy, oh.

1183
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 2: Squeeze, and then you insert it and then it basically

1184
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 2: is going to hold all of the blood and you

1185
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 2: can have sick none none, missy sex on your period.

1186
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 2: So it goes in the pussy like this, Yes, and

1187
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 2: he's gonna hold all the blood. But wasn't the dick,

1188
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 2: I mean the dick but it's off, So I'm not

1189
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 2: having sex?

1190
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,959
Speaker 1: What that is? That's too much? You think?

1191
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: So?

1192
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, I don't think so.

1193
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 2: I think that it's because it's gonna be up there, no,

1194
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 2: thank you, So you're not gonna he's not gonna feel it.

1195
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 2: I feel like he probably won't even know that you

1196
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 2: on your period.

1197
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,439
Speaker 1: Ship. My nigga, a big dick nigga. Hes gonna knock

1198
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: that ship right of mind. I lied. You can feel it,

1199
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: oh with your fingers though, Yeah, I'm not. I mean,

1200
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: I think this is a good idea. I think this

1201
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: looks more comfortable than the Diva cup does. Yeah, but

1202
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't have sex with this.

1203
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 2: So I just ordered some of these because I've been

1204
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 2: wanting to try it.

1205
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 1: Because you know, tampons, I'm a Tampa. I'm a pet girl.

1206
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 1: Let that shit out. Yeah, I'm a young girl. I

1207
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 1: hate pass.

1208
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 2: It makes me feel like I go nowhere on my piers,

1209
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,879
Speaker 2: lay in my band, I put my pads, I'll put

1210
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 2: my diaper on and all lay that until it's all done.

1211
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people like that, and I

1212
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 2: actually used to wear pads a lot, but ever since

1213
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 2: I started wearing tampons, I hate pass. It just makes

1214
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 2: me feel like I have a diaper. It does, but

1215
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 2: I'll say I don't like it the reason I don't,

1216
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 2: but then it gives. But then I've realized, like it

1217
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 2: doesn't lit your period really.

1218
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: Flaw exactly the way. That's why I feel in my past,

1219
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: and then I have a very short period. Yeah, my

1220
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 1: periods last three days, three days maybe four, So bit

1221
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:52,919
Speaker 1: chy'all lay in the bend, I put on my little pad.

1222
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:55,399
Speaker 2: But you know, that's probably why your periods is short,

1223
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 2: because I had been reading up on it.

1224
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: That's why I decided to order these.

1225
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 2: Like obviously, when you wear tampons all the time, your

1226
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 2: period is not flowing the way that he needs to,

1227
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 2: so it actually.

1228
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 1: Actually makes your period longer. Well, I've been wearing past since.

1229
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,879
Speaker 1: I've never been a tampon person. I've been wearing PAST

1230
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: since I really honestly started my period, and I've never

1231
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: had a period longer than a week. So you only

1232
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: wear tampons like when you're going out only time, and

1233
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,439
Speaker 1: then as soon as I get out, take that bitch

1234
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: out and put my pet on.

1235
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't like past, so I decided to

1236
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,439
Speaker 2: try these. And then also I heard that he helped

1237
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 2: with like cramps and stuff like that too, So yeah, girl,

1238
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 2: but that's what I do to keep my pussy fresh.

1239
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: What's shout out to all the pussy wars out there,

1240
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: We're praying for y'all fresh, So we're gonna get into

1241
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 1: the boxy love, okay, So I'll go first, good because

1242
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: I don't think I got one. So y'all know I

1243
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: love the little the soothing tunes. So Aleena Baraz dropped

1244
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,800
Speaker 1: her album this week and it's so fucking good. Mind

1245
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: you Alena Bras mm, So yeah, her album is amazing.

1246
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 1: If you know who she is, if you know you know,

1247
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 1: so she has a song on there called Endlessly and

1248
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: it's just so soft and so amazing. Like I was

1249
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: just sitting in my bed like, Wow, this is a

1250
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: fucking good ass album, man, it really is. It's very

1251
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:24,479
Speaker 1: like like the hooks, get your one, you know, set

1252
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: the mood and just get the music flowing. So yeah,

1253
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: shout out to Alena Bras. That's my bop of the week,

1254
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: Alena Bro's Endlessly. Well, I'm not.

1255
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 2: Gonna lie to y'all, I don't really have a bip

1256
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 2: of the week, so one of my don't do that

1257
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 2: because I'm having a bob every week. Do not do

1258
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 2: me like this anyways. So I'm gonna put my bop

1259
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 2: of the week as Little Baby. Oh fucking brother, y'all

1260
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 2: know I love Little Baby. He my favorite rapper out

1261
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 2: right now, sou and low Wayne. Did you see Lowayne

1262
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 2: said it the other day, so I'm on the slum.

1263
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: He said that's his favorite repper to that's everybody's favorite

1264
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 2: rappers because he's the best rapper out right now. Well, anyways,

1265
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 2: next to what I'm saying, so Little Baby my turn

1266
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 2: the album. He got a deluxe version. I think this

1267
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 2: is coming out on Friday, So yeah, this is gonna

1268
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 2: be my pop of the week.

1269
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So shout out to a Little Baby and also, honestly,

1270
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: I want to give a shout out to k camp

1271
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 1: too because this album just dropped. To show friend, Yeah,

1272
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 1: the album dropped and I actually listened to a few

1273
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 1: songs last night and from what I heard, it was

1274
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: jam and I haven't done the whole you know, listen through,

1275
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: so I'll review the whole thing for y'all next week.

1276
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, shout to k Camp. Kiss five is out,

1277
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 1: so make sure y'all go jam net. Yes, make sure y'all. Okay,

1278
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 1: So now we're getting to the segment where we answer

1279
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 1: advice and make sure if you want your question answered

1280
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Speaker 1: on the show, you email us at ask Poor Minds

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00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: at gmail. Dot com. That's a skp oh, you are

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00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: in my n d s at gmail dot com. Okay,

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00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: so I'll read the first one. Okay, so it says

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00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: please don't say my last name, but my first name

1285
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 1: is fine. So this is from Aaron and it says, hey, ladies,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to start off by saying that I

1287
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: love your show and y'all are the best part of

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00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 1: my Wednesday. I don't know if either of y'all have

1289
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: had a sugar daddy, so sorry in advance if I've

1290
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: assumed incorrectly. It's okay, girl. This man recently reached out

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00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 1: to me through Instagram and we have began chatting. Sometime

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00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: during the conversation he brought up the fact that he

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00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: would like to provide for me and essentially be my

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00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: sugar daddy. We've been talking for two weeks now, but

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00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: I ain't seeing a lick of money yet. Am I

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00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: being scammed into free conversation? How do I bring up

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00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: the money thing without singing greedy? I appreciate the advice, Honestly,

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00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: he brought it up first, so just ask him honestly

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00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 1: without seeing I mean, I feel like he's getting this

1300
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 1: is the problem. Men get everything they want out of

1301
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: when they ask, and they asked straight up, so it's

1302
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: like he's getting conversation out of you already. Just ask

1303
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: for what you want. Just ask for what you want.

1304
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 1: I would just be like, okay, so are we gonna

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00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: like work out some kind of arrangement? Like what are

1306
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: you looking to do? So I think that's how you

1307
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:57,959
Speaker 1: should approach it, be like, so what are you looking

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00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: to do? Are you gonna like do some of arrangement

1309
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: like every time we talk you send me this amount?

1310
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: Do you want to do it weekly? Do you want

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01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 1: to do it monthly? And make sure you ask for

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01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: what you want because you know what time is money

1313
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: And obviously it'd be different if you like relief, it'd

1314
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 1: be different if you really just enjoy talking to this person.

1315
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,439
Speaker 1: But obviously he approached you on some sugar daddy shit.

1316
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 1: So I think you need to just ask him, like, Okay,

1317
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: what kind of arrangement are you looking for? Are you

1318
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 1: trying to do? Like every time we talk you give

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01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: me money? Or like I said, do you want to

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01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: do it weekly or monthly? So I feel like you

1321
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 1: don't see him greedy. He's slid in your DMS, not

1322
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 1: the other way around.

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01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 2: And I just feel like I always say this, and

1324
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 2: I love to just say this all the time.

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01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: When you first meet a nigga, nigga's gonna be scared

1326
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: to ask you for no pussy. They they do not

1327
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: be scared. They gonna ask.

1328
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 2: Hell, sometimes they don't even ask, they just try to

1329
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 2: gid it. So why the fuck you need to be

1330
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 2: scared to ask for some money?

1331
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 1: Period?

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01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 2: So good luck and if he say no, worse than

1333
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 2: it happen if he say no, And if he say no.

1334
01:00:57,960 --> 01:00:59,959
Speaker 1: This and he shouldn't say that, you know, to move around,

1335
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: because I feel like he asked you in the beginning.

1336
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 2: I mean he did, but some niggas be caps. Niggas

1337
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:08,560
Speaker 2: just be be saying that they bought that life and

1338
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 2: they gonna give you some money and do all that

1339
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 2: type of shit just because they're trying to get you.

1340
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: So I feel like, since just asking, please keep us

1341
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: updated if you want, if you need some numbers on

1342
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 1: what you deserve, queens, we got you some numbers. We

1343
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: got a number as far as like how much to

1344
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: ask for. Yeah, yeah, we're trying to get our sens

1345
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 1: to get her bag up. And that's on period. And

1346
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: that's on period.

1347
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so next question, quick question, Heydrea Hayles.

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01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: I have a very I have a very short, to

1349
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 1: the point question.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's acceptable for a man to go

1351
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 2: one of three days with zero communication with you during

1352
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:45,439
Speaker 2: the dating stage? Mind you, he lives a normal life

1353
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 2: and we live in the same state. Whenever we are together,

1354
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 2: it's great, but then when I leave, the communication is

1355
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 2: little to none.

1356
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: I also have zero suspicion of him having a girlfriend.

1357
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 1: I will go first.

1358
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,520
Speaker 2: I personally think that they's cool because I I don't

1359
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 2: care to communicate with a nigga every day.

1360
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: But that's just me. That's just how I am.

1361
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 2: I don't really care to talk to you every day,

1362
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 2: especially if you're in the dating stage.

1363
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel like that's how relationships do get boring.

1364
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:14,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like it's cool to check in

1365
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: and not have a whole conversation. Like if it's been

1366
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: a day that I haven't talked to my nigga, he

1367
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: hasn't talked to me. We always just shoot a text, Hey,

1368
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: good morning, babe. I hope you have a great day.

1369
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 1: It's not meant for you to respond, it's just letting

1370
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 1: you know. Hey, I'm thinking about you. I mean, I

1371
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 1: do that to my other little niggas too. I'll be like, hey,

1372
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 1: just thinking about it. Many niggas you text them one day. See,

1373
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: now you're asking too many goddamn questions. God damn it,

1374
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 1: But I feel like you don't have to talk to

1375
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: somebody your dating every day. I feel like that's when

1376
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: she gets boring, Like that's when you start having to

1377
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 1: force conversations and sit just gets boring. I don't feel

1378
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: like I don't think it's a big deal, But if

1379
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: it is to you, I don't see the problem with

1380
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: you letting him know that it bothers you because some

1381
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: people like to be checked up on every day and

1382
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: just oh yeah, different people like different.

1383
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 2: If that's what you like, then you know, say something,

1384
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 2: because he just might not be the type of nigga

1385
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 2: didn't want to talk to somebody every day. And if

1386
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 2: that's the case and that's something that you like, then

1387
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 2: maybe y'all just not that you know, as compatible as

1388
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 2: you thought y'all was. But personally, you know, since you

1389
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 2: were asking us, I don't really care to talk to

1390
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 2: a nigga every day.

1391
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: So okay, I'm cool with it this, Yeah, I read it. Okay, Beach,

1392
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm mad Loki.

1393
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 2: That's the name, that's the title. Don't say my name please.

1394
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 2: So I had this very close friends ince February twenty nineteen.

1395
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 2: August twenty nineteen is when we started missing around and

1396
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 2: we began to get real close, if you know what

1397
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 2: I mean. I caught a couple feelings for the nigga

1398
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 2: and then boom, I had to leave him in October

1399
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 2: twenty nineteen for six months because of work. While I

1400
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 2: was gone, he began talking to other women. Now he

1401
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 2: has a special girl that he's talking to and he

1402
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 2: goes to see almost every day. He asked me, am

1403
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 2: I okay with it? And I tried to sound like

1404
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 2: I was fine, But I can't even lie. I feel

1405
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 2: kind of hurt and betrayed. The nigga really be taking

1406
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 2: her out on that go and pick her up, buying

1407
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 2: her sheet. All I got was a free meal and

1408
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 2: some terrible dick. But I have to do better. But

1409
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 2: why not me? He literally insists that I'm beautiful, funny

1410
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 2: as hell. He loves my energy and he loves hanging

1411
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 2: out with me. I'm the coolest girl he ever made.

1412
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 2: All that cute shit, But why hert and not me.

1413
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to go back home next month, and of

1414
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 2: course he's gonna be there, and he's probably gonna try

1415
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 2: to introduce me to the special girl. Since I said

1416
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 2: it's no problem, how do I act when I see

1417
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 2: him for the first time again. I like to kill

1418
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 2: niggas inside by looking fine and playing it cool. I

1419
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 2: was told to never let them see you sweat. I

1420
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 2: really just want to mind my business, focus on my bag,

1421
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 2: and look fine as fuck, doing as shit. That's still

1422
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 2: my homeboy, though, so I don't want to cut ties, bitch.

1423
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 2: I'm confused. I really gave my homeboys some pussy and

1424
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 2: caught feelings.

1425
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: Help. Okays, First of all, you said he didn't buy

1426
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: you shit and he had terrible dick. Why the fuck

1427
01:04:56,880 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: do you care? What do you care about? Let me

1428
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: ask you this. Do you care just because you see

1429
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: him happy with somebody else and it's a jealousy thing.

1430
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 1: I feel like you do not have feelings for this nigga.

1431
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: You just mad that he's moved on and he's happy.

1432
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 2: Girl, and you mad that he doing more for the

1433
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 2: other girl than he was for you.

1434
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: Sis. I love you, You're a poor girl, but get

1435
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 1: it together. He had terrible dick, that's and he wasn't.

1436
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: That wasn't the main thing. The main thing is that

1437
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,760
Speaker 1: he got you no money. But well, you know, like

1438
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: I said, people look for different things, and sometimes, you know,

1439
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: you can get feelings for somebody if the sex is good.

1440
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: There's no way you can keep having sex with somebody

1441
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: and not develop feelings.

1442
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 2: And you can get feelings for a nigga if he

1443
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 2: got some money. But what I'm.

1444
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: Saying is the sex was bad and he wasn't getting

1445
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 1: no money. Said, what are you mad about? Situation? Honestly,

1446
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 1: thank god that he moved on. That's her problem to

1447
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 1: deal with. Now, Yes, that's your friend, but I don't

1448
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,919
Speaker 1: see the purpose of you meeting this girl. If y'all

1449
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 1: don't fuck before, I think that's unnecessary and I think

1450
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 1: that's weird. Y'all can remain friends, but there's no need

1451
01:05:58,120 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: for you to meet his girlfriend. Because let me tell

1452
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 1: you something. If I was the new girl, why the

1453
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: fuck would I want to meet your homegirl that you

1454
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: fucked before? What I don't I don't care if I

1455
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 1: was her, I wouldn't care to be around you, and

1456
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: you shouldn't care to be around her. You shouldn't want

1457
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: to care to show him that you find bitch. He

1458
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: already know you. Fine, Yeah, he already knows. And the

1459
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,479
Speaker 1: don't care. I said this early in the episode. Why

1460
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 1: the fuck do people?

1461
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying that you think these but I

1462
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 2: don't know why women be thinking all because I'm fine

1463
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 2: and I got good pussy and niece and east and.

1464
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 1: The niggas ain't gonna play with me.

1465
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 2: These niggas play gonna play with Jesus, they will, So

1466
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 2: why you think that they won't.

1467
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: Play with you? You're a girl. I don't think none

1468
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 1: of that shit mat And obviously, like I said, because

1469
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: all of the poor girls are bad's you a girl?

1470
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 1: You are baddy, go get you a BDB and fucked

1471
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: that nigga. I don't think you need to care about

1472
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 1: that situation. We don't think you need to eat the

1473
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 1: sea truth. I think we gonna read one more because

1474
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: we're getting kind of behind, because y'all have been real

1475
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 1: bored during the quarantine. Child, and this is from a

1476
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: guy I'm excited, Okay, So it says, hey, what's good, y'all?

1477
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 1: I recently been dating this chick who is toxic as fucked.

1478
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 1: She's twenty nine and I'm thirty. Like, she has three

1479
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 1: kids and only has custody of one, who she pops kills,

1480
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 1: and it's somewhat gang affiliated. I'm not a square by

1481
01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 1: any means, but I'm also now thirty now and I

1482
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: have responsibilities. My real problem with this is I can

1483
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 1: see the obvious red flags, but fuck when I tell you,

1484
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 1: she gives the best head ever and always has extra

1485
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 1: money to give me. Oh she a treat She a

1486
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 1: BDV A wait a big wait. No a BVB A

1487
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: big vagina baller. You should have said BPB A BPB

1488
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:43,919
Speaker 1: a big pussy baller. Yeah, she a BPB. Okay. She

1489
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 1: treats me pretty well, and I treat her good as well,

1490
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 1: But her constantly getting into fights and going to jail

1491
01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 1: feels very silly at our am Sorry, this is funny.

1492
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 1: Plus my mama and all my close friends hate her.

1493
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: What should I do? Because I don't see her changing?

1494
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 1: But she's also really kind to me. I think you

1495
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 1: need to let that beach go a shooting. No, honestly,

1496
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 1: I cut him. I think that you need to have

1497
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 1: a conversation with her because it sounds like that you

1498
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 1: definitely care about her, So I say, before you just

1499
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 1: cut her off, have a conversation like, okay, like where

1500
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:20,839
Speaker 1: do you see your life? Like what we're going older?

1501
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,599
Speaker 1: Like why are you still in and out of jail?

1502
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 1: Why are you still fighting now? Obviously, if you're a gang,

1503
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 1: you can't just leave a gang gang gang, but she

1504
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: gonna do That's what I was thinking too.

1505
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,519
Speaker 2: It's kind of like once you in a gang, you

1506
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 2: that's what That's what I tell you before you get down,

1507
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 2: Like are.

1508
01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 1: You sure that this is what you want to do?

1509
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: Because you inediate for life. I think that you need

1510
01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 1: to have a conversation with her and let her know

1511
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: she's obviously on the wrong road and if she doesn't

1512
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:48,680
Speaker 1: straighten up her ship that she's gonna lose you. I

1513
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 1: know she's gonna die, right or you really seriously, because

1514
01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 1: she's going and out of jail, she's having fights, somebody

1515
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 1: gonna show up with a gun and shoots, and then

1516
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,759
Speaker 1: obviously you're putting yourself in danger being around this girl.

1517
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 1: So I feel like you need to look out for

1518
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 1: your safety as well. I understand that the head is

1519
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,840
Speaker 1: good and the pussy probably good, and she giving you money,

1520
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 1: but the extra money is nice, but you can come

1521
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 1: on now, you're grown man. You don't be needing a

1522
01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 1: middle extra little dollars if you need, that's all.

1523
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 2: And I'm not trying because I know you a poor boy.

1524
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 2: But at the same time, my nigga, do you really

1525
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 2: be needing the money from sound.

1526
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: Like he needs it. He just said he likes it,

1527
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 1: because I just like, No, he doesn't need it, he

1528
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: just likes it.

1529
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:27,680
Speaker 2: It sounds like she the type of beach will be

1530
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:29,719
Speaker 2: y'all be fucking and she be holding the good.

1531
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: That's why I love it. She my good beach. That's

1532
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:36,519
Speaker 1: my good beach. That's my good beach. Oh sorry, I

1533
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 1: got it in the moment. That is why he loved her.

1534
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 2: But no, for real, doll on some real streets out

1535
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 2: you said, y'all, mama don't like her. I feel like

1536
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:48,280
Speaker 2: mama always knows, never gave me no wrong advice about

1537
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 2: a person for real, you know, listen to your mama.

1538
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 2: But I also think that, yeah, Lex is right to

1539
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 2: a certainty. C you definitely need to have a conversation with.

1540
01:09:58,960 --> 01:10:01,719
Speaker 1: Her, and if she doesn't change, you need to definitely

1541
01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:03,599
Speaker 1: remove yourself from the city. Well, I think you need

1542
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: to leave her alone period.

1543
01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 2: I just think that you owe it to her to

1544
01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 2: have a conversation with her, to let her know that she.

1545
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: Don't ghost her. She's popping up riding on your ass

1546
01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 1: for show. Yes, So that's our advice this week.

1547
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:21,559
Speaker 2: You know, if you have any questions, y'all, make sure

1548
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 2: that y'all seend the questions to ask Poor Minds at

1549
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. And we're gonna make sure that we

1550
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 2: answer y'all question.

1551
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 1: Yes. And there are a few topics that I have

1552
01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: in my d ms, and trust me, we're gonna get

1553
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: to all of those. What you're singing this week, but

1554
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:41,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna close the show out with nope. Mm hmmm mmmm.

1555
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 2: I don't know what's in your How do you say it?

1556
01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 2: I can't never say this word right? Your QUI queath

1557
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 2: your cue q?

1558
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: What is a queen? It's not like a quief. You

1559
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: know what a queef is? Let me let me get

1560
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:10,760
Speaker 1: some lyrics. Do y'all know what a quef? I got

1561
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: one someone I know all about it. I got one

1562
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:19,400
Speaker 1: for y'all, y'all ready. I would love it anyway. Yea,

1563
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 1: even if you can not stay, I think you are

1564
01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 1: the one for me here is where you are be.

1565
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 1: I just want to satisfy you though it was. I

1566
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 1: can't deny it. Don't you have me talking to you?

1567
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:44,439
Speaker 1: Love me now I'll go crazy. Whoa whole who sweet thing?

1568
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:54,879
Speaker 1: Wall to know? Get my everyreath things? Whoa sweet thing? Amen?

1569
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:57,799
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you opportunity. That's what I was thinking.

1570
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 2: And I thought you was gonna singing bitch.

1571
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 1: Is gonna complain? Then I'm not singing ship for three

1572
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:08,839
Speaker 1: weeks now. Thank you for appreciating the ki ki bitch.

1573
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 2: I'm just speaking for the girls. I don't feel like

1574
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,760
Speaker 2: they're gonna be impressed when they hear it either. But anyways,

1575
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 2: you know.

1576
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 1: It's I'll stop singing in. I will never sell for

1577
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 1: coding in. We'll see y'all next week. Bye, motherfucker. And

1578
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 1: you're telling me that you can't help but sing. You

1579
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: sing all the time. Ain't about to hear you sing.

1580
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:36,560
Speaker 1: Let me sing what I want to sing. You was

1581
01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:40,719
Speaker 1: a little off today. I ain't never off a little offy.

1582
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:42,679
Speaker 1: I just lost my I lost my play