WEBVTT - Call It Short & Sweet: Academy Awards Edition 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:04.800 Call It what It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington, 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:09.120 an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:20.040 Hello Hello, Hello, Hello, Call It Crew. This shortened sweet 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:22.560 episode is brought to you by BMW. 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:27.440 The whole month of March, we are celebrating International Women's 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:28.800 Day and. 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:33.400 Women's History Month, and speaking of women, the Oscars just 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:37.080 happened twenty twenty five, and there were a lot of 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:39.840 powerful women up there, and we are here to talk 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:41.360 about all the things. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:45.320 Today speaking of women, very very powerful women, and some 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:47.960 women that you felt like you've known your whole life, 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:49.280 and some women that were new. 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:52.919 Yeah, I do feel like I know half of them, 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:54.120 and I've never met any of them. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.360 I liked that I didn't feel like I knew all 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:02.000 of them. Well, here's spoiler alert and really a major 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:06.840 downfall for me in this year's Oscar watching experience. That's 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:10.160 all my fault. I take total responsibility for it. I 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:17.240 had not seen a little movie called Honor, which wasn't 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:21.680 a great idea given how things went, because well, or 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.600 maybe this is why. This is why it's so advantageous 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:28.200 when movies that were made in forty days and for 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:32.280 not as much money as a giant blockbuster go on 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:35.280 to win multiple Academy Awards. Is that people like me 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:38.040 who haven't seen them are going to go see them. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:42.160 So there's this whole nother second wave of a viewership 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:46.679 money to be made off of a wonderful movie. I 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:48.280 was very taken by the fact that it was made 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:50.120 in forty days, and I was very taken by the 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:54.240 fact that it was made. I truly believed the filmmakers 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:57.320 when they came up Sean Baker and then the many 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:00.280 other categories that they wanted. But obviously he spent you know, 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:02.400 he took a couple of trips up there for acceptances 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:06.960 and to hold a golden statue. You know, really didn't 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.679 make that movie thinking it was gonna win a bunch 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:12.160 of Academy Awards. And I love that about the Oscars 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:14.720 when I was a little girl, and Whippy Goldberg and 0:02:14.760 --> 0:02:18.240 Billy Crystal and all these incredible comedians would host it. 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.560 I remember the sign off at the end of it 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.320 was really kind of like to the. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.239 Kids watching, Yeah, if. 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:25.760 You believe in yourself, if you've a dream, if you 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:28.760 believe yourself in yourself, if you're a storyteller, one day 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:30.680 you're going to be up here and it was and 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:32.400 I really believed it because I was a little girl, 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.720 and I was like, I will be one day, one day, 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:35.960 one day. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:38.680 Well you've okay, let's just talk about this because you 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:41.840 have been in that room and you laughed at me 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:44.400 because I haven't, And I was like, I just love 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:45.600 the table same way. 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:48.440 Wait, wait, I laughed at you because you hadn't been 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:50.640 at the Academy Awards. Is that really what happened? 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:52.960 You did get a giggle because I talked about how 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.519 great the tables were there, and you're like, Kimilla's never 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.440 been there were no, Well. 0:02:58.240 --> 0:02:59.480 That's just you being wrong. 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.800 That was me laughing at you not having been at 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:02.800 the Academy Awards. 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:05.040 Well you don't look at that, because you know, when 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:08.200 she says things with such great authority, maybe you might 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:08.960 want to question them. 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:13.519 Well, you have been in the room, is what I'm saying. 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:15.120 I've been in the room where it happens. 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:19.160 Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't feel is it a little stuffy? 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.080 I mean, this is supposed to be a shortened suitet. 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:25.799 I could talk about this ship for days. I've been 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:31.480 to the Academy Awards twice. Okay, audience member, and the 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:35.720 first time that I went, I was eighteen. Oh wow, 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:40.920 I know, And I remember feeling like it was a 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:45.720 complete out of body experience, like I was in a 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:49.640 land I'd never been to before. Because when you're sitting 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:52.680 there in those seats, you know, you see it on TV. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:56.040 You've just never seen such a dense population of people 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.240 that you recognize and feel some sort of relationship to 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:02.160 from their work, but you actually have zero relationship to 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.840 them at all. And if you said hi, they would. 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:08.560 Like, who are you? Right? Because yeah, who are you? Yeah? 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.440 Because and I remember, by the way, I will tell you, 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.000 I remember the people that smiled at me versus the 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:17.159 people who looked through. 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:20.160 Me or over me, or all that who smiled. 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:23.320 Sharon Stone, Oh, I love that. I later went on 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.280 to work with her and I told her how much 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:28.480 it meant to be, you know, someone of not much 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:31.040 importance in the grand scheme of things in that kind 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:34.560 of room and to have someone smile at you. Yeah 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:34.920 I did. 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:37.200 She was yeah anyways, But it was just, you know, 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.400 it was one celebrity after another. 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:41.240 And uh, it's a it's a high. 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:42.040 It's a high. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:46.120 It's a high concentration of power. And and also I. 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:50.159 Mean we already know. I'm a big old nerd, but talent, You're. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:54.000 Just like, these people are so good at their job, Like, 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.000 no one gets to go to the Academy Awards and 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:57.440 be nominated unless you're. 0:04:57.360 --> 0:05:01.440 Really really got at your job. Well, let me ask you, 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.360 because you were talking about okay, if you were eighteen, 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:07.560 this is a hot minute ago when they were probably 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:13.000 like movie stars, yeah, like real like and I my 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:15.680 question to you is is do you think that we 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:19.479 still have the movie star? And if not, what has 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:21.680 technically ruined that? Like? 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:22.400 Wow? 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.240 Because the tom Cruisers of the world, they're few and 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.640 far between, and back in the day they were like 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:32.039 so many, right, yeah, and so those rooms are packed 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:34.960 with like oh aw, and it doesn't quite to me, 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:37.160 doesn't quite feel like that anymore. 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:40.400 No, it doesn't. And I feel like there's two sides 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:44.719 to that coin, because one side is, oh, there's a 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:48.520 really special place reserved for a movie star just because 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:51.679 they've got that I don't know, million dollar smile, because 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.720 they have a far reach, because they make you feel 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:56.760 some kind of way, because their body of work is 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:59.120 so extensive that you actually feel like you know them 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:01.200 from a million different world where they've proved themselves and 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:02.960 they've done comedies and action movies. 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:03.960 And you know, a movie star. 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:06.480 And I guess when I'm talking about movie star, I'm 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.440 talking about like a Tom Cruise and Nicole. 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:15.080 Rabbits, Denzel Washington, like a movie star. Yeah. 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:18.800 On the other side of the coin is how cool 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:22.120 is it the diversification that's happened in Hollywood where it's 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.960 been like, there's so many different ways to entertain There's 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:28.120 so many different platforms. It's not all in one movie theater. 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:32.239 There's more chances for people to show you what they got, 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:35.840 and so you've got more people, and by virtue of that, 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.279 you don't it's not the same people over and over again. 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:41.240 It's a lot of different people. So I don't know, Like, 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:46.040 for instance, going back to Anorra Mikey Madison, I didn't. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.680 I didn't know her when she did the spoof during 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:52.520 the SAG Awards about how she played the Manson follower 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:56.600 they got yeah, dog food cancer in her face by 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:59.000 Brad Pitt and then lit on fire and thrown into 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.880 a pool. I vaguely remember her from that. 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:07.719 She wasn't I remember those I remember some of those scenes. 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:10.120 She was also in Better Things, which was a great show. 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:14.840 She played like the teenage daughter of the lead. But 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:19.440 she I there's something about her that's so incredible. I did. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:22.920 I have to say, I did want Cynthia to win. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.600 I mean, I'm a little biased. So some Wick kids 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:28.240 onto my house like twelve hours seventh all day long, 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:32.480 every day. And when you watch them behind the scenes 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:36.120 of them, yes, singing live, the beautiful acting. She's incredible. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.120 I've been a fan of her for so long. I 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:42.200 loved her in The Outsider and then she's the stunts 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:45.600 that she's doing while she's singing. It's hard to it's 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.920 hard to like. I thought they had it in the bag, 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:51.520 both her and Ariana. Yeah, it really did. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:53.800 Also, just how about the way they look at each other. 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:55.440 It's like the way you and I look at each other. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.760 I would hold your nails. I would hold your nails too. 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:00.600 That's the other thing that God, all these movies are 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:03.400 gonna get a lot more. They'll definitely get a reinvigoration 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:04.840 in the movie theater. So I actually really want to 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:07.400 go see them. But I'm definitely Honora is happening this weekend. 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.840 That's gonna happen for sure. I'm seeing that. I listen, 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.840 I watched it with my kids. We nothing lights up 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:17.480 their eyes the way that Cynthia and Ariana do right now. 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:20.880 So I was very grateful for that first moment, and 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:24.360 in terms of musical numbers and everything else, I really 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.480 felt like they delivered. I mean like I could have 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:28.200 turned it off right after that and been. 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:31.520 Like I could have too. I got a show, honestly. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:35.280 That and last year's Ryan Gosling singing Ken. 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:38.360 Well, and you know, Eve was there for that. So 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.120 not only have I been, but my daughter, one of 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:43.400 my daughters, has been, oh, she's oh and she said 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:44.520 that that was a moment. 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:47.120 Yeah, that was a moment, Yeah, she was. How about 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:52.760 Adam Sandler? You know, I'm jealous of Adam Sandler. I 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:56.400 truly I want to show up to every event just 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:56.920 like that. 0:08:57.800 --> 0:08:58.960 It's slot status. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:03.959 It's slow exactly, and you know my slothy feels, I know. 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:06.800 And Conan, you know, listen, I love Conan. Conan makes 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:08.600 me laugh harder than any other late night host. 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:26.440 What did you think of Adrian Brody's speech? First off, 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.280 speech going on and then they cut you know, the 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.360 music cut out. Do you think that actors should be 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.760 allowed to just have free range of however long that 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:37.559 speech or do we need a little limit because we 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:39.120 can bang on about stuff forever? 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:43.960 We can bang on and also like talk about ourselves 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.800 for sure, How. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.360 Long do we have what's a better way to what's 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:53.880 a better way to get us off the stage? Yeah? 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:56.240 Because starting the music doesn't seem to be worthy? 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.720 No, No, In fact, I think it pumps some people up, 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:01.520 do you know what I mean? Like they get encouraged 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:02.240 by it a little bit. 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:04.559 I wonder if the ones that go on the longest 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:06.840 or the youngest in their family orders, because I feel 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:10.079 like it's a little bit like I got the stage. Motherfuckers, 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:12.640 you know what, you usually talk over me or you 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.400 don't let me finish me, but I've got the mic. 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:19.360 I think that's middle children. You get babied when you're 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:21.760 the baby, and the oldest child always gets So I 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.000 think that's like I wonder we have to google is 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:29.200 Adrian Brody middle Childuse? I get it. 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:32.720 Because it would explain things. 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:34.839 I do think that there should sort of be like, 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.800 you know how the joke of Ben still Er, you 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:41.000 know how he came up and it like broke that 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:43.520 was hilarious. That was really funny, but I feel like 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.880 if you're doing a speech, you should slowly just sing. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.000 It just should be a thing that like lowers you 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.079 yeah yeah into a tunnel that you then go through 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.120 so that you really can't you do get cut off. 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.720 Well, I feel like at some point, weren't weren't they 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:59.360 trying out just like muting their mic doesn't matter. 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:03.120 We'll bring doctors just pulling out of your back pocket. 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:06.040 You don't think there's a mic in someone's purse whipping 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:10.839 that out undeterred And the problem the problem is is 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:14.120 like then the next person's speech, someone wins for something 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:17.280 you know else and then their speech is cut shorter. 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:22.839 Yeah, okay, you know his speech tickled me, pink. Okay, 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:25.160 I worked with him a million years ago, so I 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:26.920 have a soft spot for him, and I. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:34.200 Need to say, Karen, yes, that was the perfect speech. Okay. 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:35.640 So you know that a lot of people have given 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:36.160 him flack. 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.760 Why if I was like sexist or something? 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:42.640 Yeah, like I meanwhile, I to those people, I would say, 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:47.480 just a suggestion, what was into girl? Into understanding with? Well? 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:49.400 I mean again, a I know his personality, so I 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:52.840 know his humor. But they did a really great job 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:56.800 of panning to his wife, Jazz, and she was so 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:58.400 in on the joke, you know what I mean, Like 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:00.719 there was no he was saying stuff and she was going, 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:03.320 Oh my gosh, I wonder how this is gonna play. 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:07.160 She was like laughing along with it and talking back. 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:08.160 It was very funny. 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.760 I don't think the joke was about having kids. The 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:14.599 joke was really about her underestimating him enough to be like, 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:16.679 I'll get you in for the oscar and then he 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.520 won the oscar. Yeah, I felt like that was the 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:19.120 funny part. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:26.000 Yes, yes, yes, yes, exactly. Well and honestly that's how 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:29.640 I feel, That's how I heard it. I he got 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:32.480 a little bit of black and maybe they thought it 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:35.880 was the anvicey I don't know, for evidently perpetuating misogyny, 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.280 and I was. 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.440 Like, I don't I didn't see that, So. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.000 I don't know. I And again I adore him. He is. 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:48.120 He is as as funny and as ridiculous and kind 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:52.360 of crass and crude as he seems when he goes 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.440 up there, and at the same time, he's also as winning, 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.680 like he's just a winning human being, like he's he's 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:02.040 got a real of vulnerability and a kindness and honestly 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.319 very When I worked with him, he was very like 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:08.080 he's cheeky and all that, but he's protective and loyal 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:10.600 and I loved that. I mean, my gosh, how many relationships. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.120 How many people in this business have had their manager 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:14.559 for thirty plus years. 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:15.800 That's a really long time. 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:17.440 But by the way, the other thing that the thing 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:20.439 that I thought actually was funnier than anything in his 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:21.080 speech was. 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:22.959 When he thanked his parents. 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:25.839 And it wasn't like thank you for doing such a 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.079 great job. It was like, you're good people, and you 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:28.800 tried your best. 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:36.600 Genius genius. I don't even know. I mean I would, 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.880 I would think Mark Lunnington, but I have to really 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:43.800 I don't know. I don't know what part how OHI 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:47.319 I would do that? Wait can you just can you 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:49.320 take it first? Stab it and I just take it first. Stop. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:51.880 You just want best, you asked, you want best actress? 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:54.199 You did your best? Is true? 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:56.080 Wait no, no, but like, okay, you're up there ready, 0:13:56.120 --> 0:14:01.680 you've WoT up and the award goes to Milla Luddington. Okay, 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:04.559 so for up there on the stage. Yeah, yeah, I'm 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:06.280 on the stage, and I would say you're kind of 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:07.400 crying a little bit. 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:10.360 I'm not really though, I don't think I'm not smiling. No, no, 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.200 I think that. I So the first thing I would 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:15.199 say was like, I saw this coming. It's been in 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:18.960 the works for years, so this is no surprise to anybody. 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:23.080 That's how I'd ease into it. 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:25.000 I'm laughing so hard it's silent. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:31.960 And then I'd say, Mark, thank you the good times. 0:14:34.520 --> 0:14:36.720 I don't know, this is actually you know what. This 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.560 was a conversation online. They were saying that everyone needs 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:44.160 a professional speech writer because as actors, we think that 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:46.480 we know what we're gonna say. It's gonna be so 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:47.840 insightful and amazing. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.120 Yeah, and we're actually really not. 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:53.040 It's because our brains go blank when it comes tops. 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:55.240 Yeah, you knew. His brain did not go blank. And 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.200 I very appreciated it. And I cried so hard. My 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:58.760 kids and never like when I cry because it makes 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:00.000 them feel sad, and I'm like, no, no of these 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:04.680 her happy tears. Zoe Saldana, Oh, I loved her speech. 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:09.280 I mean, she just sweeped the whole thing she did. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:12.080 But when she was talking about her partner and just 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:13.920 her I don't know all of it. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.400 She got me, She got me, Okay, if you want 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:20.360 to talk about controversial. The other thing, the other moment 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:24.880 that got a lot of flack was Adrian Brodie. He 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:26.920 gets up on stage, he takes out his gum and 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:30.520 he threw tossed it to his girlfriend. 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:32.760 Yeah before he even got on stage. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:33.600 Oh wait, yeah, yeah. 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:35.400 I want to say he maybe forgot he was chewing 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:37.400 gum and then thought maybe I shouldn't be chewing gum. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:39.920 He was up the steps and he threw it to 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:44.000 his girlfriend, and people are not happy about that. I 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:45.880 would like to give him the benefit of the doubt 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:48.160 that like in the moment he was like, crap, I'm 0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:49.760 chewing gum. I don't know what to do with it. 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:50.960 I can't put it in my pocket. 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.200 Yeah, you want to think that for some reason he 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:55.960 lost his mind for a second, he lost it. Yeah, 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:58.680 because because you do. You want to think that there's 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:02.400 some other choice, like there's I don't know. Yeah, I 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:05.920 mean I think i'm I think I'm swallowing it. I 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.680 think maybe you swallow it putting it in my hand 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:10.000 and then putting it in my pocket. 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:11.400 I think you put it in your pocket. 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:15.600 I think that maybe in the little lapel pocket or 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.280 in my side pocket, if in my right. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:21.520 Before I do my incredible speech, I'm walking up and 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:24.320 I'm like shit, and I turn around, I see you 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:26.360 when we make eyes, and I take out my gum 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:30.080 and I launch it at your head. What are you doing? 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:36.760 Are you doing like a baseball mic catch? You're not 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:38.400 catching it, Jessica, You're not. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:44.320 I again, I do think in these moments, if we 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:48.120 want to go brain chemistry, our prefrontal cortex thinking brain 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:52.200 does actually completely shut down, like in the moments of 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:55.760 extreme situation that I can't even imagine. And so I'm 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:59.360 gonna say that, oh, you're catching the brain wasn't working, 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:04.600 because if the brain was working and there was mused 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:11.040 gum tossing at anyone, really, yeah, you would probably not 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:12.960 I don't know, you probably wouldn't look back on that moment. 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:14.960 You know what. Here's the thing, though, We talk about 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:16.520 this shit all the time. So here's what I'm gonna 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:19.080 say about that, because I actually know both of those 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:20.920 people and they're both very good people. So I'm gonna 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.000 say this. We talk about on the show all the time. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:24.800 You can have a you can have you can hit 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:27.760 the reset button by apologizing or just taking a little accountability, 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.320 or just like calling it out and being like, hey, 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:32.680 I know I wanted to Oscar yesterday and there was 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:37.000 this moment and uh, you know, brain wasn't working and 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:37.760 I tossed that. 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:40.720 I think it's an easy yes, But I think this 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:44.560 is where like sometimes as actors, I don't know who's 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.640 advising people, because I feel like if you got into 0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:51.880 an interview and someone asked you about that, the most charming, 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:55.120 like it's all done with thing to say in the moment, 0:17:55.160 --> 0:17:57.600 it's exactly that, be like, you know what, I look 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:01.160 so stupid. I if I could take it back, I would. 0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:02.320 I literally had a brain fart. 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:03.200 I was so lost. 0:18:03.440 --> 0:18:05.200 I didn't know I lost my mind. And then I 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:07.560 threw my gum hard and I was horrified, so oh 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:10.119 my gosh, yeah why everyone else was horrified, and it 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:10.840 would be done. 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:13.480 Yeah, it's and so easy. 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:16.640 It's so easy, and it's done with, and you're and honestly, 0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:19.120 I love you a little bit more. I actually really 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:21.960 like you a little bit more. Absolutely, you just called 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:23.879 yourself out and you're just like, you know, and then 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:26.639 it's done with. Then. But I feel like people I 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:27.200 don't know if. 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:29.880 They're being it's hard. You said something and it kind 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:33.240 of maybe it's a new service that you might want 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:37.720 to offer up to people. What if we get we 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.280 don't we not professional speech is written for actors, but 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:43.520 we just on the people we think might win. We 0:18:43.680 --> 0:18:46.320 just put little earwigs in little ear wigs where we 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:47.960 could just you know, feed them this speech. 0:18:48.560 --> 0:18:51.960 Yeah, exactly, because you know what, we know what. I 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:56.280 am a person that would absolutely blink. Yes, I would 0:18:56.359 --> 0:18:59.320 like on every every single person in my life, I 0:18:59.359 --> 0:19:02.159 would forget that's name. And then I find it cringe 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:04.040 if you take out the paper, because then it looks 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:06.600 like a prepared to see and that's embarrassing. 0:19:06.280 --> 0:19:08.440 I will say from I have heard from people who 0:19:08.520 --> 0:19:10.640 have been on been on that ride. 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:12.320 Yeah, by the time you. 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:14.280 Get to the end of the Awards season. 0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:15.960 You are exhaust happed out. 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:19.280 You are truly exhausted. Yeah, like in a real way, 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:20.840 which sounds like bullshit, but I'm telling you, I think 0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:37.240 it's a real way. Okay, So I mean, let's be honest. 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:39.359 What do you actually really watch the Academy Awards for? 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:42.159 I do watch it for the fashion, of course, the glam. 0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:45.480 Yes, what are you wearing all that. Who do you 0:19:45.520 --> 0:19:50.840 think look fantastic? I mean Arianna in that ugh Schopparelli 0:19:51.000 --> 0:19:55.119 ch yep. I loved it. 0:19:55.560 --> 0:19:59.240 Obsessed with that dress when she on the carpet, and 0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:01.880 then the the red one with the heel, the red 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:03.680 one with the heel in the back was insane. And 0:20:03.760 --> 0:20:07.520 then Cynthia in that deep deep and then lord white. 0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:10.040