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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jay is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Dove.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him. But first

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Speaker 2: let's find out about the date.

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Speaker 3: Jay. How long has it been since you heard from Dove?

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Speaker 3: Almost two weeks now?

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Speaker 4: Have you been reaching out to her in that time?

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Speaker 5: I did like once or twice, like you know, I'm

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Speaker 5: not trying to be too invasive, you know, and then

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Speaker 5: the chicks like their space.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, okay, which may be happening right now, we

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Speaker 4: don't know. So let's talk about your date, Jay. How

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Speaker 4: did that go?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I thought it went pretty well.

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Speaker 5: We went to a game, had a couple of beers afterwards,

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Speaker 5: like somebody was going well. So she I asked she

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Speaker 5: wants to go to a bar sports boring or by

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Speaker 5: and she was down and kicked it for a while,

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Speaker 5: and uh, seems kind of crazy, but like she kept

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Speaker 5: asking me like if I'm going to order anything.

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Speaker 7: Else to eat?

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Speaker 8: And uh, honestly, I'm a big eater.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if I made her feel uncomfortable because

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Speaker 5: she was like just chowing down and I wasn't. But like,

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Speaker 5: you know, one of my my good buddies always tells

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Speaker 5: me that I should eat before the day because I'm

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Speaker 5: a little bit of a slob.

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Speaker 7: I don't know if she was bothered by that.

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Speaker 3: What, Like, I don't know, well, sloppy do you eat?

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Speaker 3: Were you like throwing food all over the restaurant?

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Speaker 5: And I only have I only have another person's opinion

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Speaker 5: on it, you know who I trust, So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I do kind of.

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Speaker 5: Score barbecue sauce on shirt, but you know, a couple

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Speaker 5: of drinks then.

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Speaker 4: Like on purpose.

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Speaker 5: Okay, No, No, I'm trying to help her out, like

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Speaker 5: trying to pass it over and over.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So good conversations outside of the condiment showers or.

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Speaker 2: Uh my, I thought, So okay, did it seem like

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Speaker 2: the barbecue sauce on the shirt bothered her?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean not that I was aware of.

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Speaker 2: We'll see, we can help you out and try to

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Speaker 2: figure it out. We'll play a song, come back and

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Speaker 2: then call her and see if Shell tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you. Maybe get you another date?

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Speaker 5: Okay, a sick, I'm gonna put my phone probably on mute.

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Speaker 5: Why she comes on, So it's gonna be a lot

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Speaker 5: of ext the windows down, you know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it's probably a good idea. All right, we'll

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Speaker 2: play a song, come back, give your first Day follow up?

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Speaker 2: Next it's the Jewel Show.

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Speaker 7: Then what'll your.

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Speaker 3: First Day follow up?

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Speaker 2: And Jay is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a girl named Doves. On a second, we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she why she's ghosting him and

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Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But first, Jay, why don't

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Speaker 2: you refresh our memory on your date before we call her?

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Speaker 9: Show?

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Speaker 5: Dov and I went to a game kicked it, went

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Speaker 5: to sports far after.

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Speaker 7: Barbecue sauce on her which apparently is.

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Speaker 3: The thing, and uh then she just dick and kind

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Speaker 3: of ghosted.

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Speaker 7: Now I'm trying to.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 2: And you think maybe the barbecue sauce on her shirt

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Speaker 2: might have been the thing that turned her off?

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Speaker 8: Well, I didn't before, but you guys kind of made

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Speaker 8: a big deal about it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so maybe all right, man, we're gonna call her ready,

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Speaker 2: all right, Okay, here we go, Hello, Hi, I speak

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Speaker 2: to Dove. Please, Hey Dove, how are you? My name

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Speaker 2: is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 2: The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Dove, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 7: Hi? I'm okay.

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Speaker 3: Hey, do you ever listen to the show.

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Speaker 7: I have been passing. I'll be honest. I'm more of

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Speaker 7: a Spotify kind of goal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's hey, that's fine. So we do a segment

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Speaker 2: that it's called the First Date follow Up. It's where

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Speaker 2: you go out with someone and you end up ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: That person can email us to get you on the

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Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody. Okay, well, can you

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Speaker 2: think of anybody that you're currently ghosting?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm gone on a couple of dates. I

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Speaker 6: you know, we're all out here trying to make it happen.

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Speaker 6: I had gone on a date a couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 7: I did have a good time. Okay, Well what's his name?

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Speaker 7: I think, uh, Jay? And we like went to a

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Speaker 7: game and I liked him.

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Speaker 6: And there's another guy, Michael, I don't know, maybe Michael.

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Speaker 2: Or Jay maybe Michael or Jay, you're right the first time? Yes,

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Speaker 2: it's j Yeah. Jay wants to know why you're not

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Speaker 2: calling him back.

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Speaker 7: Ye, dude, what what that?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 7: Did my bad, dude? I forgotten mute.

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Speaker 2: Oh Jay is on the phone actually listening and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting in.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, this is a wild experience and when I

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Speaker 7: can truly say I've never had before in my life.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, I what what.

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Speaker 7: Did she say something that I totally is? Yeah? All right,

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Speaker 7: So yeah, I like thought he was really attractive.

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Speaker 1: I'm really into like, you know, the sorry per saying

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Speaker 1: this way J but like the dad bad look like

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Speaker 1: it's kind of a vibe that I like, And you know,

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Speaker 1: we were really vibing.

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Speaker 7: And and then.

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Speaker 10: He like started eating and he wanted a side of

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Speaker 10: mayo for like a dip. But I actually have like

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Speaker 10: a mayo phobia, and I just didn't.

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Speaker 6: Want him to feel bad, which which is like why

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Speaker 6: I never said anything.

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Speaker 7: But then I kept trying to be cute about it,

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Speaker 7: and twin like twisted that it wasn't a thing anymore,

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Speaker 7: and I kept trying to like feed him so that

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Speaker 7: he would just skip the Mayo dip.

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Speaker 6: And then you know, even at the end of the night,

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Speaker 6: I like I wanted to kiss him, but like I

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Speaker 6: could an idea, like I deal with like the Mayo

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Speaker 6: in my mind, and so honestly it was like the

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Speaker 6: Mao thing, and I maybe probably should have said something,

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Speaker 6: but like now I don't.

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Speaker 7: I mean, that's just it hasn't. I don't know, well, clearly,

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Speaker 7: like this is a strange moment.

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Speaker 3: You have a like a male phobia, like a legit

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Speaker 3: fear of it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like it's like everything about it makes me afraid,

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Speaker 6: but more anything like deeply, deeply viscerally disgusting.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's like it's a textual thing. It's a

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Speaker 7: visual thing. I look at it and like the way

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Speaker 7: that it like looks.

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Speaker 9: Like in a mound is like it's just like only

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Speaker 9: like I'm talking about it right now if you want

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Speaker 9: to vomit, like I just like it's just like I

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Speaker 9: think about it and my entire body tenses and then

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Speaker 9: I look the smell, the smell of it, the idea

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Speaker 9: of what's even in it, Like everything about.

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Speaker 7: Mayo makes me nauxious.

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Speaker 6: And I also, yeah, I guess at this point, it's

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Speaker 6: become like a fear to even be around it because

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Speaker 3: Damn, did not I hear that? I read some Mayo

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Speaker 3: like it. Actually they said it doesn't have dairy, but

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Speaker 3: I think it does.

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Speaker 5: Per what this is like kind of good news.

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Speaker 8: I thought it was the fact that I saw stuff

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Speaker 8: your shirt.

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Speaker 7: You No, that wasn't it though.

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Speaker 6: I it was actually one of my favorite shirts and

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Speaker 6: now it can't come out.

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Speaker 7: But no, that wasn't the reason.

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Speaker 8: Damn, Like you would have broke it down for me.

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Speaker 8: I would have straight up passed that out the window. Dude, Like, yeah, that.

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Speaker 7: Would have been nice. I guess. Yeah, never again to

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Speaker 7: the Mayo.

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Speaker 8: Well, Dove, even though you just dissed me, looks I'm

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Speaker 8: going to be real, there should only be one turtle, Dove,

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Speaker 8: because you're a hell unique.

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Are you sure the male is the reason why you

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Speaker 4: were ghosting it?

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Speaker 7: There's like a little vibe here, like like I was laughing,

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Speaker 7: I had a really good time and just like then, yeah,

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Speaker 7: the Mayo really put the ick in all of this.

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Speaker 7: I couldn't take it. But like you're you're you're a

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Speaker 7: unique little dude.

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Speaker 8: Buddy, No, I respect that it's better that we learned

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Speaker 8: about the Mayo thing now than, like, you know, down.

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Speaker 3: The road, since I put the ick in it.

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Speaker 7: If you go out with me again, we could put

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Speaker 7: to young back in.

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Speaker 2: It again on another date.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, I would be willing these pickup lines. I

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Speaker 7: don't know if I like them or I hate them.

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Speaker 7: I haven't decided yet that they are making me smile,

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Speaker 7: So I would.

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Speaker 6: Be willing to on the condition that for the moment,

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Speaker 6: we just don't include food at all, and we can

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Speaker 6: do some like activity or something that's like really cute,

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Speaker 6: and we can we can re establish the food stuff

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Speaker 6: at a different points on ALIGNE.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations, Jay, you got another date?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so, Doug, Like for real, I got hell activities

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Speaker 5: that we could bust through that don't involve Mayo Sweet.

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Speaker 7: Sounds like a great time. Jule's first date follow up