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Speaker 1: second date of day. It's tough as a guy when
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with a single mom
Speaker 1: and the woman happens to be raising a little hater,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like the kid hates you
Speaker 1: because the kid has smarts and the mom isn't quite
Speaker 1: figured it out yet. Doug emailed us about a girl
Speaker 1: he went out with named Gwynn, and apparently Doug had
Speaker 1: a problem with her kid, right Doug, Oh, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: Hey you guys. First of all, explain to us how
Speaker 1: you met Gwynn. We met on a dating website. I
Speaker 1: had just saw her profile and thought she was cute
Speaker 1: and messaged her and uh went pretty well. Could I
Speaker 1: ask you why were you meeting the kid on the
Speaker 1: first date. I wasn't meeting the kid on the first date,
Speaker 1: but the date went well, so you ended up back Okay?
Speaker 1: You know she she had to get back early to
Speaker 1: put the kid to bed and stuff. So what do
Speaker 1: you guys, do when you went out. We just went
Speaker 1: out and grabbed a bite to eat and we went
Speaker 1: to go see a play. So okay, that's a nice day. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And so then things progressed and you went back to
Speaker 1: her place. Yes, you know, she let the babysit her
Speaker 1: go and she put the kid to bed, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I mean things things were going really well.
Speaker 1: We were talking and you know, hanging out on the
Speaker 1: couch and uh. And then I love how you're just
Speaker 1: like sidestepping what you were really doing. You know, you know,
Speaker 1: we talk a lot, a lot of a lot of talking,
Speaker 1: a lot of talking. Okay, but yeah, And I mean
Speaker 1: the kid gets up and like comes. I don't mean,
Speaker 1: you know whatever. It's the kid's house too, I get it,
Speaker 1: you know, wherever he wants. I like that you just
Speaker 1: call him the kid, dud. Did he walk in on
Speaker 1: you guys making out? I mean, not like, what's what's
Speaker 1: making out? What's your definition kissing? Fooling around a little bit?
Speaker 1: I mean she heard him coming, she heard him coming
Speaker 1: out of his bedroom, and then she she stopped and
Speaker 1: threw to the other side of the couch and tried
Speaker 1: to act like everything was normal, right, Yeah, j Mommy
Speaker 1: was just working out. Mommy was just working out a
Speaker 1: little out of breath. So how old is her child?
Speaker 1: I don't six. I think I'm not good with kids ages.
Speaker 1: He could literally be anywhere between like four and twelve.
Speaker 1: I don't know five year old. So what did it
Speaker 1: do though? When it? When it saw you or you know?
Speaker 1: The kid? So the kid comes around the corner and
Speaker 1: he's tired. It's he's like, you, I want to watch cars.
Speaker 1: I want to watch cars, and you know, I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting watching this all go down. And she's like,
Speaker 1: you know, sweetie, it's time to go to bed, It's
Speaker 1: time to go to bed. And I swear to God,
Speaker 1: I sweat. The kid points at me and says, Mommy,
Speaker 1: I don't like him. Little kid was trying to block you.
Speaker 1: Oh man, I love this kid. What did you say? Kids? Funny?
Speaker 1: Little like? I said, yeah, did you try to defend
Speaker 1: yourself against the six year old? I tried to kind
Speaker 1: of stay out of it because this is her house.
Speaker 1: She was like, well, sweetie, you don't. This is mommy's friend.
Speaker 1: His name's Doug. And you know, she tried. I was.
Speaker 1: I tried to introduce myself, but he wasn't having it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's not interested. So so she ended up like going
Speaker 1: and taking him and like putting him into bed, and
Speaker 1: I'm just hanging out in the living room for fifteen minutes, um,
Speaker 1: And I mean, honestly, that was kind of it. She
Speaker 1: she came back and said, you know, maybe we should
Speaker 1: pick this up another night, right, Okay, So that's how
Speaker 1: it ended then, with the six year old hating on you,
Speaker 1: and then you six year old kicks you out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the six year old kicks you out of his house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's how it ended. Did you, guys kiss goodbye
Speaker 1: or anything and say like set up another time for
Speaker 1: a date or anything like that. Yes, I kissed her,
Speaker 1: and I thought even with that, I thought that it
Speaker 1: went well. I absolutely thought that I was going to
Speaker 1: see her again. But we didn't set up another date then.
Speaker 1: But it sounded like you handled the whole thing really well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, and then, yeah, stop trying to so salt
Speaker 1: in my game hating on me. I'm tired. Are you
Speaker 1: hating on me? You hate on me because you hate me? Kid?
Speaker 1: Go to bed? Yeah? Have you have you tried to
Speaker 1: reach Gwenn? Have you called her I have UM. I
Speaker 1: called her a couple of times, left a couple of voicemails,
Speaker 1: and I sent her an email. UM and I don't know,
Speaker 1: like it's been a week. I just haven't heard back
Speaker 1: from her. All Right, we'll play a song, come back
Speaker 1: and call her and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, hang on me looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. All Right, we're about to call Gwyn on
Speaker 1: behalf a dog because Doug was punked by her six
Speaker 1: year old son, right, Doug, Ye, Doug met this girl,
Speaker 1: Gwyn on a dating website. She is a single mother.
Speaker 1: They went out at a good time, ended up going
Speaker 1: back to her place, started messing around a little bit
Speaker 1: watching a movie. After she put her son to bed.
Speaker 1: Son woke up at some point walked in the hallway
Speaker 1: and was crying that they wanted to watch a movie
Speaker 1: or whatever like kids do. And then at that point
Speaker 1: pointed at him and said, I don't like that. Man, defense,
Speaker 1: you can't really do anything back, Yeah, you can't. A
Speaker 1: little kid you want to see it, but you know
Speaker 1: that's gonna be really bad if you do. So, she
Speaker 1: put the kid in to bed, came back and then
Speaker 1: told Doug to leave, not in a mean way. She
Speaker 1: said that you would make plans. But Doug hasn't heard
Speaker 1: from her since, so I want to give her a call. Doug.
Speaker 1: Did you ever address to her like, hey, I hope
Speaker 1: your kid starts to like me at some point or
Speaker 1: not really just because like I don't want to like
Speaker 1: move too fast. I was just like, I was just like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, let's go out again. I really liked you.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't speak that way to his father, all right,
Speaker 1: you refer to me as new dad. Rounded. Okay, we're
Speaker 1: gonna get her on the phone right now and see
Speaker 1: if we can find out why she won't call you back. Okay, Okay, Hello,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Gwen. Yeah, that's me. Hey Gwen,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Do you even know who I am?
Speaker 1: Do you know who I am? Okay? That's enough? Do
Speaker 1: you though? You don't? Do you? We host a radio
Speaker 1: show and we do a segment on our show where
Speaker 1: if someone goes out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: they get blown off, they email us to call that
Speaker 1: person and ask why you went on a date recently
Speaker 1: with a guy named Doug. Doug told us that he
Speaker 1: enjoyed your dating. You had kind of made verbal plans
Speaker 1: to go out another time, but you haven't been answering
Speaker 1: his emails or phone calls or anything. Is there a
Speaker 1: particular reason why it's not going to work out with Doug? Well?
Speaker 1: Why the laughter? Why do you know? So definitely? WHOA,
Speaker 1: We're not gonna gel. It's just not going to work out.
Speaker 1: Is it because your kid doesn't like him? He told
Speaker 1: us that your kid came out in the middle of
Speaker 1: your dating and said, I don't like him. Uh. The
Speaker 1: next morning, I was talking to my son and I said,
Speaker 1: you know, why didn't you like mommy's friend? And he said, well, Mommy,
Speaker 1: that man litters. I said, I said he litters and
Speaker 1: he said yeah. And he took me in the bathroom
Speaker 1: and he pointed at the floor to a rapper and
Speaker 1: I picked it up and it was a little individual
Speaker 1: rapper for viagra. Are you sure that's where I thought
Speaker 1: it was going to? So he was on your date
Speaker 1: and he popped a viagra yea. Not only did he
Speaker 1: uh come prepared, but Doug can't get it up. All right,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on, I need to address something, um, Gwen, Gwen,
Speaker 1: that's Doug. Doug is on the phone with us. He's
Speaker 1: on the phone. Yeah, Why would you say something like
Speaker 1: that on the radio? Why would you do something like that.
Speaker 1: I can't even believe a human being would treat another
Speaker 1: human being in that way. You can't believe that a
Speaker 1: human being would want to prepare themselves to bring pleasure
Speaker 1: to another humans. Think a soldier doesn't load his gun
Speaker 1: before he goes into battle. I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: was trying. I was trying to be considerate. It seemed
Speaker 1: I was getting a lot of signals from you. It
Speaker 1: seemed like it was going to be going in a
Speaker 1: certain direction. We couldn't discussed the situation. You didn't just
Speaker 1: jump the gun, so to speak. Sorry, but that aside,
Speaker 1: that aside, aside from the fact that I really don't
Speaker 1: want to go out with a guy who's got a
Speaker 1: limp noodle. Okay, Look, it's it's it's it's it's a
Speaker 1: thing that a lot of people deal with every single day,
Speaker 1: like this is a problem that millions of men suffer from.
Speaker 1: Jubil backing up on this, I don't know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. This is the only time you men will
Speaker 1: never have each other's back. Bro, you came to a
Speaker 1: first date in my house with my child thinking you
Speaker 1: were gonna get lucky enough to need viagra to be prepared,
Speaker 1: and if the child had not come out, I dare
Speaker 1: say I would have used Come on, you gotta be
Speaker 1: honest for him. Making out is a far cry from
Speaker 1: getting in the pants like a dug just jumps the gun.
Speaker 1: He's like she made eye contact taking an pop the pill. Oh,
Speaker 1: come on, Gwen, But you like Doug. I mean you
Speaker 1: brought him back to your house. I liked him, but
Speaker 1: you should have seen his face when my son came out.
Speaker 1: It looked like a dread disease had entered the room.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to me around a kid when you're in
Speaker 1: the state he was in. After takings, we get the
Speaker 1: kid out. At this point, I would like to ask
Speaker 1: you guys, if you'd be willing to go out on
Speaker 1: a second date. We will pay for it. Gwen, would
Speaker 1: you like to go? I'm gonna say a resounding no. Okay,
Speaker 1: And Doug, you don't want to go out again? Right? No? No,
Speaker 1: I'm good I'm good. Thank you well, Gwen, thank you
Speaker 1: for your time. Appreciate it. Yeah, you're welcome, and I'm sorry, Doug. Listen,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I have anything to defend. I
Speaker 1: am so glad that you guys did this for me.
Speaker 1: You think you're dodging the bullet, huh yeah, thank you
Speaker 1: so much. Hell yes, well you're very very welcome. I've
Speaker 1: clearly dodged something, but it's not as a bullet broken
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. I used to bite my tongue
Speaker 1: and hold my breath. Les get to rock the bullet
Speaker 1: and make a mess, so I said quietly,