WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Kid Blocked

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<v Speaker 1>second date of day. It's tough as a guy when

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with a single mom

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<v Speaker 1>and the woman happens to be raising a little hater,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like the kid hates you

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<v Speaker 1>because the kid has smarts and the mom isn't quite

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<v Speaker 1>figured it out yet. Doug emailed us about a girl

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<v Speaker 1>he went out with named Gwynn, and apparently Doug had

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with her kid, right Doug, Oh, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey you guys. First of all, explain to us how

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<v Speaker 1>you met Gwynn. We met on a dating website. I

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<v Speaker 1>had just saw her profile and thought she was cute

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<v Speaker 1>and messaged her and uh went pretty well. Could I

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<v Speaker 1>ask you why were you meeting the kid on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. I wasn't meeting the kid on the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>but the date went well, so you ended up back Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>You know she she had to get back early to

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<v Speaker 1>put the kid to bed and stuff. So what do

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, do when you went out. We just went

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<v Speaker 1>out and grabbed a bite to eat and we went

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<v Speaker 1>to go see a play. So okay, that's a nice day. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then things progressed and you went back to

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<v Speaker 1>her place. Yes, you know, she let the babysit her

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<v Speaker 1>go and she put the kid to bed, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I mean things things were going really well.

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking and you know, hanging out on the

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<v Speaker 1>couch and uh. And then I love how you're just

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<v Speaker 1>like sidestepping what you were really doing. You know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we talk a lot, a lot of a lot of talking,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of talking. Okay, but yeah, And I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the kid gets up and like comes. I don't mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know whatever. It's the kid's house too, I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wherever he wants. I like that you just

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<v Speaker 1>call him the kid, dud. Did he walk in on

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<v Speaker 1>you guys making out? I mean, not like, what's what's

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<v Speaker 1>making out? What's your definition kissing? Fooling around a little bit?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she heard him coming, she heard him coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of his bedroom, and then she she stopped and

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<v Speaker 1>threw to the other side of the couch and tried

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<v Speaker 1>to act like everything was normal, right, Yeah, j Mommy

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<v Speaker 1>was just working out. Mommy was just working out a

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<v Speaker 1>little out of breath. So how old is her child?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't six. I think I'm not good with kids ages.

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<v Speaker 1>He could literally be anywhere between like four and twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know five year old. So what did it

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<v Speaker 1>do though? When it? When it saw you or you know?

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<v Speaker 1>The kid? So the kid comes around the corner and

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<v Speaker 1>he's tired. It's he's like, you, I want to watch cars.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to watch cars, and you know, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just sitting watching this all go down. And she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sweetie, it's time to go to bed, It's

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<v Speaker 1>time to go to bed. And I swear to God,

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<v Speaker 1>I sweat. The kid points at me and says, Mommy,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like him. Little kid was trying to block you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, I love this kid. What did you say? Kids? Funny?

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<v Speaker 1>Little like? I said, yeah, did you try to defend

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<v Speaker 1>yourself against the six year old? I tried to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stay out of it because this is her house.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, well, sweetie, you don't. This is mommy's friend.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Doug. And you know, she tried. I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to introduce myself, but he wasn't having it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not interested. So so she ended up like going

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<v Speaker 1>and taking him and like putting him into bed, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just hanging out in the living room for fifteen minutes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, honestly, that was kind of it. She

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<v Speaker 1>she came back and said, you know, maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>pick this up another night, right, Okay, So that's how

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<v Speaker 1>it ended then, with the six year old hating on you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you six year old kicks you out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the six year old kicks you out of his house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's how it ended. Did you, guys kiss goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>or anything and say like set up another time for

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<v Speaker 1>a date or anything like that. Yes, I kissed her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought even with that, I thought that it

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<v Speaker 1>went well. I absolutely thought that I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>see her again. But we didn't set up another date then.

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<v Speaker 1>But it sounded like you handled the whole thing really well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and then, yeah, stop trying to so salt

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<v Speaker 1>in my game hating on me. I'm tired. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>hating on me? You hate on me because you hate me? Kid?

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<v Speaker 1>Go to bed? Yeah? Have you have you tried to

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<v Speaker 1>reach Gwenn? Have you called her I have UM. I

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<v Speaker 1>called her a couple of times, left a couple of voicemails,

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<v Speaker 1>and I sent her an email. UM and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's been a week. I just haven't heard back

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<v Speaker 1>from her. All Right, we'll play a song, come back

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<v Speaker 1>and call her and get your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, all right, hang on me looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. All Right, we're about to call Gwyn on

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<v Speaker 1>behalf a dog because Doug was punked by her six

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<v Speaker 1>year old son, right, Doug, Ye, Doug met this girl,

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<v Speaker 1>Gwyn on a dating website. She is a single mother.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out at a good time, ended up going

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<v Speaker 1>back to her place, started messing around a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>watching a movie. After she put her son to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Son woke up at some point walked in the hallway

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<v Speaker 1>and was crying that they wanted to watch a movie

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever like kids do. And then at that point

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<v Speaker 1>pointed at him and said, I don't like that. Man, defense,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't really do anything back, Yeah, you can't. A

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<v Speaker 1>little kid you want to see it, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be really bad if you do. So, she

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<v Speaker 1>put the kid in to bed, came back and then

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<v Speaker 1>told Doug to leave, not in a mean way. She

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<v Speaker 1>said that you would make plans. But Doug hasn't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from her since, so I want to give her a call. Doug.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever address to her like, hey, I hope

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<v Speaker 1>your kid starts to like me at some point or

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<v Speaker 1>not really just because like I don't want to like

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<v Speaker 1>move too fast. I was just like, I was just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let's go out again. I really liked you.

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<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't speak that way to his father, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you refer to me as new dad. Rounded. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get her on the phone right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can find out why she won't call you back. Okay, Okay, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Gwen. Yeah, that's me. Hey Gwen,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Do you even know who I am?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know who I am? Okay? That's enough? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you though? You don't? Do you? We host a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show and we do a segment on our show where

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<v Speaker 1>if someone goes out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>they get blown off, they email us to call that

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<v Speaker 1>person and ask why you went on a date recently

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy named Doug. Doug told us that he

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed your dating. You had kind of made verbal plans

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<v Speaker 1>to go out another time, but you haven't been answering

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<v Speaker 1>his emails or phone calls or anything. Is there a

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<v Speaker 1>particular reason why it's not going to work out with Doug? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Why the laughter? Why do you know? So definitely? WHOA,

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<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna gel. It's just not going to work out.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it because your kid doesn't like him? He told

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<v Speaker 1>us that your kid came out in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>your dating and said, I don't like him. Uh. The

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<v Speaker 1>next morning, I was talking to my son and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, why didn't you like mommy's friend? And he said, well, Mommy,

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<v Speaker 1>that man litters. I said, I said he litters and

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<v Speaker 1>he said yeah. And he took me in the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and he pointed at the floor to a rapper and

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<v Speaker 1>I picked it up and it was a little individual

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<v Speaker 1>rapper for viagra. Are you sure that's where I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was going to? So he was on your date

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<v Speaker 1>and he popped a viagra yea. Not only did he

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<v Speaker 1>uh come prepared, but Doug can't get it up. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold on, hold on, I need to address something, um, Gwen, Gwen,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Doug. Doug is on the phone with us. He's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Yeah, Why would you say something like

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<v Speaker 1>that on the radio? Why would you do something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even believe a human being would treat another

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<v Speaker 1>human being in that way. You can't believe that a

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<v Speaker 1>human being would want to prepare themselves to bring pleasure

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<v Speaker 1>to another humans. Think a soldier doesn't load his gun

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<v Speaker 1>before he goes into battle. I don't think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying. I was trying to be considerate. It seemed

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting a lot of signals from you. It

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like it was going to be going in a

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<v Speaker 1>certain direction. We couldn't discussed the situation. You didn't just

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<v Speaker 1>jump the gun, so to speak. Sorry, but that aside,

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<v Speaker 1>that aside, aside from the fact that I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with a guy who's got a

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<v Speaker 1>limp noodle. Okay, Look, it's it's it's it's it's a

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<v Speaker 1>thing that a lot of people deal with every single day,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is a problem that millions of men suffer from.

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil backing up on this, I don't know what you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. This is the only time you men will

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<v Speaker 1>never have each other's back. Bro, you came to a

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<v Speaker 1>first date in my house with my child thinking you

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<v Speaker 1>were gonna get lucky enough to need viagra to be prepared,

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<v Speaker 1>and if the child had not come out, I dare

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<v Speaker 1>say I would have used Come on, you gotta be

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<v Speaker 1>honest for him. Making out is a far cry from

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<v Speaker 1>getting in the pants like a dug just jumps the gun.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like she made eye contact taking an pop the pill. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, Gwen, But you like Doug. I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>brought him back to your house. I liked him, but

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<v Speaker 1>you should have seen his face when my son came out.

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<v Speaker 1>It looked like a dread disease had entered the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants to me around a kid when you're in

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<v Speaker 1>the state he was in. After takings, we get the

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<v Speaker 1>kid out. At this point, I would like to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, if you'd be willing to go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. We will pay for it. Gwen, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go? I'm gonna say a resounding no. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And Doug, you don't want to go out again? Right? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good I'm good. Thank you well, Gwen, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your time. Appreciate it. Yeah, you're welcome, and I'm sorry, Doug. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I have anything to defend. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so glad that you guys did this for me.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you're dodging the bullet, huh yeah, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. Hell yes, well you're very very welcome. I've

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<v Speaker 1>clearly dodged something, but it's not as a bullet broken

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. I used to bite my tongue

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<v Speaker 1>and hold my breath. Les get to rock the bullet

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<v Speaker 1>and make a mess, so I said quietly,