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Speaker 1: second date of day. It's tough as a guy when

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Speaker 1: you go out on a date with a single mom

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Speaker 1: and the woman happens to be raising a little hater,

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Speaker 1: he went out with named Gwynn, and apparently Doug had

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Speaker 1: Hey you guys. First of all, explain to us how

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Speaker 1: but the date went well, so you ended up back Okay?

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Speaker 1: And so then things progressed and you went back to

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Speaker 1: Little like? I said, yeah, did you try to defend

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Speaker 1: She was like, well, sweetie, you don't. This is mommy's friend.

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Speaker 1: Why the laughter? Why do you know? So definitely? WHOA,

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna gel. It's just not going to work out.

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Speaker 1: that man litters. I said, I said he litters and

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Speaker 1: and he popped a viagra yea. Not only did he

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Speaker 1: uh come prepared, but Doug can't get it up. All right,

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Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on, I need to address something, um, Gwen, Gwen,

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Speaker 1: Jubil backing up on this, I don't know what you're

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Speaker 1: He's like she made eye contact taking an pop the pill. Oh,

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Speaker 1: come on, Gwen, But you like Doug. I mean you

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Speaker 1: It looked like a dread disease had entered the room.

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Speaker 1: you like to go? I'm gonna say a resounding no. Okay,

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Speaker 1: And Doug, you don't want to go out again? Right? No? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm good I'm good. Thank you well, Gwen, thank you

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Speaker 1: for your time. Appreciate it. Yeah, you're welcome, and I'm sorry, Doug. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like I have anything to defend. I

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Speaker 1: am so glad that you guys did this for me.

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Speaker 1: clearly dodged something, but it's not as a bullet broken

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. I used to bite my tongue

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