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Speaker 1: I refuse to share my college fund with my step siblings.

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Speaker 1: I don't owe them anything. Am I the A hole?

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Speaker 1: This is okayop, Home of the Craziest True Stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm Sophia and Riley is OPI the a whole.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not sharing is caring? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, not in this case.

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Speaker 2: No one needs to go to college these days.

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Speaker 3: No, because did you see the new article that was like, no,

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Speaker 3: x amount of companies are not going to require a

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Speaker 3: bachelor's degree.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Actually, if you really want to do your step

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Speaker 3: siblings good, figure out a way to start a business

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Speaker 3: with them and get your experience up, because apparently that's

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Speaker 3: more important than education these days.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, except sometimes they want like a graduates degree.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, ah, why not anymore?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess not that's good, that's good to do.

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Speaker 2: Give them the college money.

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Speaker 1: College just too expensive. Yeah, on this subject, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you have to share your college fund

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Speaker 1: with anyone. That's your college fund.

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Speaker 3: College is expensive, yeah, I mean, and if you do,

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Speaker 3: you'll probably end up with like a communication degree or

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Speaker 3: like a theater Like, how useful is that in the

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Speaker 3: real world?

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Speaker 1: Um, I would say it's helpful for some people. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't know anything well, so Puzzle Medicine sixty four to

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Speaker 1: one says, throwaway so they don't find this post. I

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Speaker 1: think the family. Oh, I nineteen female, recently found out

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Speaker 1: that my stepmom forty female, wants me to split my

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Speaker 1: college fun with my step siblings seventeen male and fifteen female.

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Speaker 1: That's a horrible thing. My bio mom set up the

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Speaker 1: fun for me before she passed away, and it was

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Speaker 1: meant for my education. I love my family and they

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Speaker 1: are important to me, but I've been saving every penny

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Speaker 1: and working part time to contribute. My step siblings have

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Speaker 1: their own funds set up by their bio dad, and

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Speaker 1: I never expected to share mine. Why would you? That's

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Speaker 1: like not a thing that you share with anyone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Wait, she an orphan right now?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. I think her stepmom just

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Speaker 1: married her dad. Anyway. My stepmom insists it's about being

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Speaker 1: a blended family and treating everyone equally. That's not the case,

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Speaker 1: that's not true. I'm torn because I want to be

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Speaker 1: fair and don't want to start drama in my family.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like this fund is my lifeline for college.

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Speaker 1: Am I the agle if I stand my ground and

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Speaker 1: keep the money for myself. So first first thoughts, what

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Speaker 1: are your first thoughts? N No, I don't absolutely not,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like college fund, you put it aside,

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Speaker 1: that's for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is for you, and they should have a

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Speaker 3: college fund. Yeah, I mean it perhaps does suck for

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Speaker 3: the other kids. You know, they probably won't have the

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Speaker 3: same opportunity as you because you were set up fundamentally

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Speaker 3: a little better beforehand.

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Speaker 1: But I just also want, like that's like if honestly

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Speaker 1: they shouldn't be going to her about it, they should

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Speaker 1: be going to the stepdad.

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Speaker 3: Well, look at it from the parents' perspective. I'm playing

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Speaker 3: a little bit of devil out here. Let's say you

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Speaker 3: get into yell, but Sam gets to go to a

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Speaker 3: community college.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: Like how as your mother? How would do your mother?

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's different because that was a different

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Speaker 1: like I mean, I guess it depends on how recently

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Speaker 1: this like the blended family thing happened, like because if

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Speaker 1: it was like.

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Speaker 2: They were kids, happened when they were twelve.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it just depends on like

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Speaker 1: whether or not the father Opie's dad, Like when he

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Speaker 1: was setting up this college fund and stuff and putting

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Speaker 1: in money. Was he also doing the same for the

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Speaker 1: step children, Because in that case, that's on the dad.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think in any case it's on ope

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Speaker 1: to share the college fund.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but if they're treating this as a blended family.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that. I just don't think that you

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but this is from the parents' perspective.

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Speaker 3: Answer my question, Yes, you go to Yo, Sam goes

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Speaker 3: to community college. As the mother, how would you feel

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Speaker 3: would you feel that that is fair that you got

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Speaker 3: the opportunity to go to YO and he's at.

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Speaker 1: Well, do we both get into Yale and only one of.

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Speaker 2: Us you get to Yeo because you got the money

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Speaker 2: for it. He doesn't.

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Speaker 1: But did he get into y Yeah, but he can't

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Speaker 1: afford it? Okay, See, in that case that would be unfair.

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Speaker 3: But so would they say, you know what, We're gonna

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Speaker 3: split the difference. Take half your money, give it to him,

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Speaker 3: and you guys get to go to like some other

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Speaker 3: college like Georgia Tech.

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Speaker 1: If we both climb into Yale but they can't afford

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Speaker 1: to let us go to Yale, I feel like that

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Speaker 1: and then you get like scholarships or something. But no Fastpa.

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Speaker 3: You either you get to go to Yelle, he goes

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Speaker 3: to community college, or you split the difference, you both

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Speaker 3: go to Georgia Tech.

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Speaker 1: Where are we going to Georgia Tech? What's Georgia Tech?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just that's the only other Oh I could think

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Speaker 1: How much is I would go in state? That's why

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Speaker 1: I went in state? All right, So you would go

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Speaker 1: in state in state tuition?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, because okay, all right, yeah, so that's how

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Speaker 3: the parents are looking at it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I mean for me, like Yale wasn't

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Speaker 1: even a lot of THEO schools weren't even options for

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Speaker 1: us because they were so expensive. This is hypothetically Okay, sorry,

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Speaker 1: go find out what's happening with ob Edit. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for your kind responses. Although I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: people are assuming things about my stepmother and dad. She

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Speaker 1: has been in my family for about four years now

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Speaker 1: and has been almost like a second mom to me

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Speaker 1: the whole time, although obviously she won ever replaced my

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's some context for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think four years is not enough to demand

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Speaker 1: Madam that years. I don't think, well, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: don't think any years is enough to demand money from

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Speaker 1: like your stepchild five years. No, I don't think. I

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Speaker 1: don't think ever. But like I think that, I think

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Speaker 1: don't think she should be talking to Dopie personally about.

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Speaker 3: I hope you shouldn't even know about this, Like she

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Speaker 3: should just be talking to the dad and they decide.

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Speaker 2: They just don't even mention it well usually.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like a lot of people have college

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Speaker 1: funds like set aside that you can't touch.

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Speaker 2: That is true, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I genuinely don't think she has any malicious intent. I

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Speaker 1: tomorrow to tell them I definitely don't want to share

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Speaker 1: the fund. I will put the update on my profile

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Speaker 1: as to not flood this sub relevant comments. Okay, Bookkeeper

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Speaker 1: three four eight one says your college fund is yours alone,

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Speaker 1: but just out of curiosity, where's your father in this?

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Speaker 1: He should have warned your stepmother that her request was

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Speaker 1: highly inappropriate, not leave to fend off her guilt tripping

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Speaker 1: on your own. I agree, I agree, but pure Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's such a good point. Op says. I think he's

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Speaker 1: open to the idea, but only if I'm okay with it.

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Speaker 1: He was the one who told me about this. I

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Speaker 1: think it's because my college fund is a lot bigger

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Speaker 1: than my step siblings who have to share the money,

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Speaker 1: and they aren't saving up money to put in theirs. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well that yeah, that's that's on them.

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Speaker 2: Is it on the children or the parents?

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Speaker 1: The parents? Yeah, Like, I mean, like, fifteen year old's

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Speaker 1: not saving money. Well, I mean some people are. I guess,

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Speaker 1: like it depends on like some people are saving money

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Speaker 1: by going to like you know, working and stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and in that case maybe, But also this should definitely

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Speaker 1: be a thing the parents are discussing that it should

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Speaker 1: not include it at all as a nineteen year old.

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Speaker 2: That's a good point.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the parent, the step mom is just

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Speaker 1: Also, is OPI already in college? Because I mean nineteen.

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Speaker 2: Probably might be.

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Speaker 3: She might be like applying, she might have a gap year.

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Speaker 3: She might have like went to Europe for a year

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Speaker 1: Yeah, three months maybe three months. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: if OP is nineteen and already in college. That's also

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Speaker 1: even crazier because they already know, like she, she would

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Speaker 1: already know how much it costs and probably needs all

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Speaker 1: that money. I don't know, but there is an update

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Speaker 1: what's my mouth. I talked to my stepmother and father

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Speaker 1: this morning. Both my dad and my stepmother understood my

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Speaker 1: point of view and said that if I don't want to,

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Speaker 1: I don't have to share. It turns out that my

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Speaker 1: and father into sharing the college fund, as he is

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Speaker 1: not as well off as my mom was or as

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Speaker 1: my dad currently is, and so it doesn't have the

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Speaker 1: compromise with him. After all, I do have a lot

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Speaker 1: partial scholarship. However, I am interested in pursuing a master's

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Speaker 1: degree and possibly even a doctorate. But if I can

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Speaker 1: get on scholarship from my master's I am willing to

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Speaker 1: share the leftover funds with my step siblings. I hope

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Speaker 1: he will accept this.

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Speaker 3: So it's not even the step mom, really, it's the

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Speaker 3: step No, not even just step siblings.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, wow, that is so even know, Like, why

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Speaker 4: are they talking to the bio data about like is

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Speaker 4: someone he's not even like remotely Yeah, like his stepwife, stepchild.

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Speaker 1: Like that's too Why are they talking to him about this?

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Speaker 2: I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, this is not I don't think this is

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Speaker 1: at all Ope's responsibility. And I think it's weird that

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Speaker 2: It's pretty inappropriate, especially.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they want to pursue a master's degree. You need

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Speaker 1: that money, Like it's very nice of OP to be like,

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Speaker 1: I'll give them the leftover money, but that is not

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Speaker 1: at all Op's responsibility. Oh it's weird. There are some

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Speaker 1: relevant comments. One Chipmunk three three eight six says, no,

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Speaker 1: keep it for yourself. You don't owe them. You could

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Speaker 1: use the excess for an apartment or car. Their lack

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Speaker 1: of funds is not your fault. How did it even

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Speaker 1: know exactly? Who told him you were an option? Absolutely

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Speaker 1: not keep the money to yourself.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah, I was so true kind of like on

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Speaker 3: the step siblings. Sorry, I was on the step siblings

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Speaker 3: parents side for a second. Like, man, maybe like they

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Speaker 3: had rough times and they couldn't save up, but maybe

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Speaker 3: they were irresponsible.

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Speaker 2: With their money. Yeah, and that's what this just turned

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Speaker 1: Well, even if the response children, even if they were irresponsible,

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Speaker 1: like a lot of people you know, just don't have

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Speaker 3: It's been really nice. If Joe did his part. Well,

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Speaker 1: Opie, do not. I don't think you should give away

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Speaker 3: Okay, here here is a hypothetical, hypothetical not real today. Okay,

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Speaker 2: What I'm gonna say. I think I'll put everything over there.

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Speaker 2: My bad. Christian's parents died when you were ten, when

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Speaker 2: But Sam can go to not going to, say, yo.

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Speaker 1: Harvard, it's kind of Harvard Geese.

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Speaker 3: Would you guys be like, you know what, Sam, maybe

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Speaker 1: I think if you get into Harvard and you have

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Speaker 2: Was, it's Christian, this is we old Christian. Christian.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it just depends on how much

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's either here's the deal here in the option.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm you're the parent and Christian are my sons? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I would do it equally. That's because Christian is my

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Speaker 2: I just want to see if you're gonna take care

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Speaker 1: Yes, I would take care of Christian.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, see, I'll tell him. I'll send him the length

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take care of you. I'll make you tea

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a deep cut.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, none of you get to know what that means.

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Speaker 1: Just kidding. It's a reference to shows and I've been

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Speaker 2: This person was making tea at two o'clock in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I are very scared, very easily scared of things. And

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Speaker 1: Everybody I've seen Blive Manner knows that. Like it's one

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but we can't handle it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're like over They're cuddled up next to each

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very funny. And if you love us, make

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Speaker 2: And we love you and see you tomorrow. This is

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Speaker 2: an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time for okop Relash. Karen.

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Speaker 2: Mom forces me into a relationship. But I already have

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean because there's the kind of typical like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Someone to get married. Daughter looks so great, doesn't she sad?

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Speaker 6: But but this Karen is taking it to the next

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Speaker 6: All was like, no, no, no, I'm gonna I'm just

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Speaker 6: gonna delete your current relationship and then make a new one.

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Speaker 5: I liked him anyway. He's out in the street boom

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Speaker 5: next level, kicked at the curb. So my female fourteen

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Speaker 5: been trying to force me to date her friend's son. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I feel bad for the friend's son. Oh yeah, it's

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Speaker 5: like man doesn't have a strong enough tender profile for

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Speaker 5: like incorporate like mercenary moms to go do his bidding

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Speaker 5: and try to get women for him.

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Speaker 6: Now you feel bad for him now, but just just wait,

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Speaker 6: just wait till the end of the story.

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Speaker 5: This way, I also feel bad for Op. Just to

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Speaker 5: be clear, Oh yeah, he's bad for everyone.

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Speaker 6: Yes, for context, Him and I used to be pretty

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Speaker 6: you know, singles ready to mingle. He's hurting despite me

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Speaker 5: I'm also imagining that like the dinner table with the

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Speaker 2: And like, you know who you should date?

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Speaker 5: You know who's the perfect man, Sally's little kid, little

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Speaker 6: Dude, I would not put it past this. Karen this this, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: she's she's a bit wild. Yeah, yeah, I want, I want.

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Speaker 6: I want a statement though from the boy, the current boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I want to know what.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, honestly, we do we do need that one day,

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Speaker 6: the guy my mom is trying to hook me up with,

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Speaker 6: not my boyfriend, tried to kiss me during her relationship Nice.

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Speaker 6: So I told my mom that I do not want

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Speaker 5: I'm just imagining this karen mom with this this little

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Speaker 5: what's the other kid's name?

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Speaker 2: We do not know.

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Speaker 5: I'm just madding this Karen's mom with this this like

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Speaker 5: she's like, why did I kiss your new potential boyfriend

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Speaker 5: all those times if you're not going to get with him?

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Speaker 2: Have you seen have you seen romy the show?

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Speaker 6: No, there's a bit of a it's a really good

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 6: She told me that I'm making him more sad by

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Speaker 5: Ashamed, Yeah, be ashamed for having a boyfriend brow.

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Speaker 6: And not not leaving him for the person your mom

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Speaker 5: Mom, if you like him so much, why don't you

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Speaker 5: So why don't you just take the helm and go

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Speaker 6: That's that's what needs to happen. She later phoned him

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Speaker 2: Should not give up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, bros, this is like, good God, not on the

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Speaker 5: and then she threw up. But then I got on

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00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:20,880
Speaker 5: the phone with her mom and she's like, oh no, No,

440
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,240
Speaker 5: that just means she really really likes you to go

441
00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 5: for it again.

442
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 2: So I'm going to trust her mom so bad.

443
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 5: Because like, if I can't get with Stacy, then maybe

444
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 5: I can get with her mom. See that's what should

445
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:36,159
Speaker 5: be happening, But tragically it does not. I feel like

446
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 5: the best ending, I don't. I don't know the ending,

447
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,439
Speaker 5: but I hope the ending is this kid gets with

448
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 5: Op's mom and now it's like I'm your stepdad.

449
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,800
Speaker 6: We'll see, we will see. Sadly, he listened to her

450
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,159
Speaker 6: and kept trying to hit on me.

451
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 2: Where where they are they meeting up somewhere?

452
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 6: I think I in this part it doesn't specify, but

453
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 6: there's a there's some more juice because there's an update.

454
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:02,919
Speaker 2: Give me that juice.

455
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 6: BA, So for the update. My mom took my phone

456
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 6: away from me. I usually use it in the morning

457
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 6: when she's sleeping, and she did not allow me to

458
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 6: leave my room at all.

459
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 5: She's like, you are not leaving this room until you

460
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 5: make out with my friend's kid.

461
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 6: Okay, I literally forgot this part, but this just ups

462
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,959
Speaker 6: the anti by a million. Her mom literally called the

463
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 6: school and told them that she was sick and couldn't

464
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 6: go and barely gave her food even.

465
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 2: Yo, the only thing he should be sick with is

466
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: sick of the shit, dude, this is insane, Bikes.

467
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 6: I decided that on Monday, I'm going to be moving

468
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 6: to a friend's house. Honestly, you definitely should because this

469
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 6: was seventeen. Yeah, this is absolutely like. This is like

470
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 6: Elon Musk rocket blasting past the.

471
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 5: Line on Musk having his six children from eighteen different marrids.

472
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 2: I think she's at like literally nine or something, nine

473
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 2: or ten or something.

474
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 5: He has like a baby with crimes. Right, at least

475
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 5: one two or one maybe two? I don't know honestly,

476
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 5: but at least he isn't forcing his kids to date

477
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 5: his best friend's kids. Just hey, which who is Elon

478
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 5: Musk's best friend?

479
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 2: Me?

480
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 5: Samuel Donner childhood best friend. That's right, John, I really

481
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 5: think you should. I know you have a girlfriend and everything,

482
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,679
Speaker 5: but I really think you should date my best friend's kid,

483
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 5: Elon Musk. Yes, let's do it. You know, we add

484
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 5: one to the party, you know what I mean?

485
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Yeah, that's what I like to hear.

486
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 6: Yesterday, my mom told me that my boyfriend texted me

487
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,479
Speaker 6: that he really wanted to meet me at the park.

488
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: Oh no, you.

489
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 6: See, you're you're sensing, you're sensing some uh some tomfoolery

490
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 6: about dingling. And if I really wanted to go, she

491
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 6: would allow it. But I just couldn't leave the park.

492
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 6: And she gave my phone back but shared my GPS

493
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 6: coordinates with her so she would know where I was.

494
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 5: So this is so controlling, This is so out of line. Yeah, okay,

495
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 5: but at least she's going to meet up with her boyfriend, right, right, right.

496
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 6: So my mom is the one driving me there and

497
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 6: driving me home, and I was surprised at how generous

498
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 6: this was in comparison to the.

499
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 2: Past few days slash weeks.

500
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 6: Oh God, I of course agreed, even in the limited space,

501
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 6: this is good. So I quickly prepared because she only

502
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 6: told me an hour before she was ready to leave,

503
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 6: and she wanted me to put on clothes that a

504
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 6: few weeks ago she called Saluti.

505
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So now she's like, okay.

506
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 6: Now she's sty changing her tune on everything for seemingly

507
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 6: no reason.

508
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Well, maybe she's finally come around to this boyfriend.

509
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 6: Maybe she's literally just had a complete overnight transformation and

510
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 6: all of her toxic traits are gone.

511
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 5: You know what, Maybe that's it does happen, It's happened before.

512
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 2: I'm sure.

513
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 5: I'm sure someone realizes their wrongs and then they.

514
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 6: Become a key different person. They just wake up a

515
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 6: different person. I thought my mom had just done a

516
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 6: complete one eighty degree turn. When we arrived, I didn't

517
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 6: see my boyfriend anywhere, but my mom assured me that

518
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 6: he would be there. I got out of the car

519
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 6: and just walked over to a bench and I started

520
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 6: looking through the messages that my boyfriend had sent me,

521
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 6: but there was zero mention of this meetup.

522
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 2: Suspicious.

523
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 6: I thought maybe my mom would want me to believe

524
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 6: my boyfriend had forgotten and I would be mad at him.

525
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 2: I saw someone coming in the distance. Oh no, it

526
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: was the guy my mom wanted me to get set

527
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 2: up with. YO.

528
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 5: And if she like waiting in the car with binoculars

529
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 5: like and off to this shit, I can't.

530
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 2: No, I think she left. I think she left and

531
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 2: she's gonna come.

532
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 6: Back, so we think, so we know. I started to

533
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 6: realize what was happening. I quickly read his messages and

534
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 6: noticed my mother in my name had invited him to

535
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 6: meet there, So it wasn't just hard.

536
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,880
Speaker 5: I feel so bad for this dude, Like I think,

537
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 5: I think this mom is trying, like all right in

538
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 5: this in a perverted way. This mom is trying to

539
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 5: help this kid who just went through a bad breakup.

540
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 5: But can you imagine going up to this girl that

541
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 5: you think, like, oh, this girl so into me, like

542
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 5: her mom has been saying how into me she is.

543
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

544
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 5: I'm gonna wear my best colone, I'm gonna wear my

545
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 5: collared shirt. I'm gonna, you know, like wear my dragon

546
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 5: ball Z underpants. He's like feeling really good, like going

547
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 5: to a kami hama ha in this park, and then

548
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 5: he shows up and like this girl is like mortified

549
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 5: and like I know, just just like just imagine and

550
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 5: being like, oh, this guy gives me the eck.

551
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 6: It would be it would be terrible if it were

552
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 6: you or me. But he's he's a bit of a

553
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 6: different breed. It's a bit of a different breed. He

554
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 6: came up to me hugging me, and I told him

555
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 6: immediately that I had not sent the messages. At first,

556
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 6: he looks like he understood, Oh f.

557
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 2: In the chat for my boy. Yeah, just drop drop.

558
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 6: Here's a question, what would you guys do, like if

559
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 6: if you were actually in both scenarios.

560
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 5: I'm sure, dude, I'm getting emancipated as as the ope

561
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 5: as this kid as this kid, you know, I actually

562
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 5: have been. I'll leave my story for the but I

563
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 5: have a related story.

564
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 6: We got juicy Juicy Juicy Sam the same daughter Love

565
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 6: chronicles will continue coming back.

566
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 5: We should have a we should have a a band.

567
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 2: We absolutely chronicle. We're going to make that a segment. Guys,

568
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 2: just you wait.

569
00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 6: I told him I was leaving my mom's house for good,

570
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 6: but didn't tell him when or where. He suggested that

571
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 6: the simplest solution to my problem would be for me

572
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 6: to just simply kiss him when she sees us.

573
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, my man's playing forty chess. It's like, yo, just

574
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 5: to make your mom happy when she's watching us. Let's

575
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 5: she's kiss bro, and then my eyes will lock with

576
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 5: her eyes, and I'll be like, we're having a little threesome.

577
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 6: The inceel energy, only it only goes up from here.

578
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 6: It only goes up from here.

579
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 5: In Cel energy is the most concentrated and pure form

580
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 5: of energy that you can get.

581
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: It's basically like diamond. It's like the same.

582
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 6: It's like the opposite of vibranium, the same power, but

583
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 6: with nefarious for evil, dark energy, evil exactly. I decided

584
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 6: that it was time to go, and I called my

585
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 6: mom to pick me up when he when he heard

586
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 6: the car arrive, he pulled me close and said, just

587
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 6: a quick kiss, okay, I replied dikes. I didn't say anything,

588
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 6: which he took as a yest, and he just straight

589
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 6: up kissed me. After that, he started confessing his love

590
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 6: for me and kissed me again. Yo, I just said

591
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 6: by and left. When I got to my mom's car,

592
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 6: my mom just smiled and said we look very cute together.

593
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 6: Hopefully after Monday, I will never see my mom again.

594
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 2: Yo.

595
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, man is not smooth first of all, Like

596
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 5: this is a weird situation. But what does what does

597
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 5: Opie's mom seeing this guy like.

598
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 6: It's it's it's just like super weirds, Like it's like

599
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 6: a Karen fixation when they like fixate on these like

600
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 6: stupid nonsensical like there's no reason, no reason.

601
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 5: I mean, all right, the real reason Karen has a

602
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 5: crush on this job, yeah's real.

603
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 2: I think that's I think that's a good theory.

604
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 5: So maybe they're maybe like they're trying to do like

605
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 5: a Game of Throne style thing where it's like my

606
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 5: family must be married to your fa so we could

607
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 5: have a great empire.

608
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 2: And maybe maybe op maybe that dude's family is rich.

609
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 5: Oh see see this is what you're forgetting o p

610
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 5: he might he statement, he might be. He might be

611
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 5: a total in cell, a bad kisser, a weirdo, a freak.

612
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 5: But but but if you got that elon musk.

613
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 6: Money, this this is a double down, I will leave

614
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 6: leave to you. But that is that is, that is

615
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,479
Speaker 6: all yours. Give him a chance, that is all yours.

616
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 6: What love can't buy jet skis that is that is

617
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 6: technically true. That is technically a true statement.

618
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm kidding.

619
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 5: I'm kidding, you know, do it for love?

620
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 6: Speaking of love, we have a Sam Donna love chronicle.

621
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 5: Okay, So my first girlfriend that I ever have had

622
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 5: a family friend and was over and I was like

623
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 5: sixteen or seventeen or something like that. And this family

624
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 5: friend she I was like a swimmer back then, and

625
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 5: I had just gotten out of the pool.

626
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: Just ripped and wet. Yeah I was. I was.

627
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 5: I was ripped, and I was like thin. It was

628
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 5: like a linky swimmer, like a body. You were, I

629
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 5: would rip. You were glistening. And this lady literally felt

630
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 5: me up.

631
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: She was this mom.

632
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 5: She was like she was like she was like touching

633
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 5: my abs in my arms and she's like, Matt or

634
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 5: uh uh.

635
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 2: My daughter would love you. Uh. And I'm like okay.

636
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 5: And she gave me her daughter's numbers. Yeah, raise, And

637
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 5: so I got her daughter's number. She was two years

638
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 5: older than me. I was in high school, she was

639
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 5: in college and I'm like college girl.

640
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 2: That's like the dream. Yeah, and we dated for two years?

641
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: Oh really? Yeah? Oh my god.

642
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 6: Okay that that you you actually got. Like, We've seen

643
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 6: a lot of plot twist endings, but I I genuinely

644
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 6: was not seeing that one.

645
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, okay everyone.

646
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 6: Everyone comment below that we we are gonna make Sam

647
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 6: Samuel Donner love chronicles love nothing We're gonna make. If

648
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 6: you want another great Karen story, check out this one

649
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 6: where Karen calls a police on someone with cancer.

650
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 2: Why you gotta do that?

651
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 5: Why called make a wish not be a bish