WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: The Happy Maker

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels. Second d d Hey, what's up? What's your name?

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Dunk. But would you say let me take

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<v Speaker 1>this compression sleeve off my ears? You know it helps

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<v Speaker 1>you work out, right, helps the blood stain your ears. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go out sometime? Hold on, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>right back. I'm gonna go lift my body weight like

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<v Speaker 1>two times my body weight, and then I'll be back

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<v Speaker 1>around at this corner of the gym to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, cool? Remember my name is Dunk. Nice seeing you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming that's what happened for the guy on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone today who wants to do a second eight update.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he met the girl that he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call at the gym. His name is not Donk.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good man? How are you? I'm doing? Wow? Doing well?

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<v Speaker 1>Hoping you get out? Man? So email in said that

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<v Speaker 1>you met a breezy while you're at the gym? Right, Dad?

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<v Speaker 1>I did? How'd that go down? Bro? Wow? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>at the gym? And you know I've noticed this girl

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, you know, she was over there rafting.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's a while I'll go over and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll try to flex my muscles next to her. You're joking,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're kidding at that point when you're telling

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<v Speaker 1>us this. Right, I wish, but the male ego is

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<v Speaker 1>a scary thing I think sometimes, and I realized this

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<v Speaker 1>in hindsight, But that's what I did. Did you really

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<v Speaker 1>actually go flex or you like we're working out next

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<v Speaker 1>or just trying working out? I was working out next, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I pictured you standing next or just flexing your muscles

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<v Speaker 1>in the mirror extra loud like. I didn't do that, thankfully, thankfully,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thankfully to not do that. So what was

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<v Speaker 1>your opening line? I'm always interested in that. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her over the drinking fountain and I just

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<v Speaker 1>went up to her and I was just just said,

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<v Speaker 1>you have some really nice glutes. You did not say that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did. Yeah, you could tell what she works

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<v Speaker 1>really hard. She works really hard on those glutes. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was she kind of like a meathead like you are?

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<v Speaker 1>No offense? Whoa, I don't just see it like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what do you want, Jim right, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it was. The term is no meat

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<v Speaker 1>had to compliment? No doubt about it. That's what that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I am, That's what I do. Absolutely and yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the same deal, you know. I mean, she was rocking

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<v Speaker 1>some very expensive athletic wear, um had to tell so

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I was definitely feeling her okay. And what

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<v Speaker 1>did she say after you complimented her glutes? Thanks? She said?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, thanks? I work hard. Oh my god, you

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<v Speaker 1>live in a world that I will never enter in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, and not for lack of wanting to. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't have the effort that you guys have.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you ask her out right there? I waited

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<v Speaker 1>to go go after the workout, trying not to be complete

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<v Speaker 1>creep oh, and waited till she was leaving the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went up to her and parking lot, which

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<v Speaker 1>sounds creepier, but it really was. You followed her out

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<v Speaker 1>to her car. I did. I did do the following

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<v Speaker 1>of the car. Women love when big muscle bound men

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<v Speaker 1>follow them into dark parking lots. What did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, how are you going to drive a car

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<v Speaker 1>with those big glutes like ken fitting the seat? That's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good? I wish I had said that. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, hey, what are you doing? Tomorrow night, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go get dinner. It's pretty simple, pretty straightforward, and

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<v Speaker 1>she obviously said yes to that. Otherwise you wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>doing a second day out date right now. How did

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<v Speaker 1>dinner go? I was good. You know, I rocked my

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<v Speaker 1>good luck button down shirt, which always makes me feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, sometimes the shirt makes the man I feel okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner went great. You know, she's great glutes, but

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<v Speaker 1>she was learning this little outfit where her calves were

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<v Speaker 1>really accentuated. I was super feeling her. What about her personality?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like? Personality wise? She was cool. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>good conversation. Conversation. What did you guys talk about? I

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<v Speaker 1>told her that I've run a couple of different businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of went on a bit of a rant.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm afraid that maybe it was too much, which

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<v Speaker 1>was like one time, but it was kind of went

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<v Speaker 1>on a little bit of a rant about my businesses.

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<v Speaker 1>When you mean rant, I automatically think like angry rant

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<v Speaker 1>about your business is what do you mean by rant? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I did talk about a guy that screwed me over

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<v Speaker 1>in business once. That's why I think it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>a rant. Yeah, are you an angry guy, not particularly,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am when I'm crossed, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think I'm pretty happy guy day to day,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know somebody, somebody screws me over, then yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get pretty fired up. I messed with the bull

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<v Speaker 1>get the horns. Yes, exactly. What was her reaction to

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<v Speaker 1>you going off about this, dude? It would seemed fine

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. I didn't think anything up because it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like I said, it was like one time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a freef little moment in the date.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I'm thinking that maybe that's what what

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I don't know what was she awkward after that,

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<v Speaker 1>not particularly, but she didn't say a lot. She was

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of looking down, kind of. She crossed her

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<v Speaker 1>legs a couple of times, which I like the calves,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was just birth fidgity. Okay, yeah, yeah. Women

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<v Speaker 1>don't tend to like it when guys rage at the

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<v Speaker 1>dinner table. Well, it wasn't a rage. It was it

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<v Speaker 1>was a rant, you know, the grant. She's like a

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<v Speaker 1>degree less than a than a rage. Yeah. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't going totally crazy. That makes it better. How'd

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<v Speaker 1>you guys end everything well. I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go get a drink somewhere else, because though

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<v Speaker 1>I was going pretty well. Um, she said no, she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go home. So I walked her to her car

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<v Speaker 1>and gave her a hug hug goodbye. I thought it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, keep white. And that was that. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her since? I texted her once and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm headed to the gym. Are you gonna be there today?

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<v Speaker 1>And then she just said, I worked out yesterday. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all she said. That's all she said. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I was at the gym yesterday and I

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<v Speaker 1>was there for a good period of time when you

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<v Speaker 1>would have been there, and I didn't see her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you think she's lying to you about that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I do. And you haven't seen her at all in

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<v Speaker 1>person at the gym, I have not. No, All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update. All right, awesome, thank you? Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on looking jubil in the morning if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us for today's second date update. Robert is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and today he wants to call a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Chandra. What do we know about Chandra. She's got

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<v Speaker 1>an okay personality and some great gluts. Oh and some calves,

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<v Speaker 1>some wonderful calves as well. That's what Robert liked about her.

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<v Speaker 1>They met at the gym, he complimented her gluts, they

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<v Speaker 1>went out for dinner, and now she's not calling him back. Robert.

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to call her and see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and find out what went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything else that you'd like to add before we call

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<v Speaker 1>her other than the gluts and the calves. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to say thank you, thank you. I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>curious to see what she says. This is awesome. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's going to be something pretty extreme because

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like she switched Jims just to avoid you.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, I'm just saying, you haven't seen her there?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa U Yikes. That's bad. We're gonna hope that's not

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<v Speaker 1>the case the case. All right, we'll find out right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna doll the phone'm er get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up date? Okay, thank you? All here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Chandra? Please? This is she? Hey Chandra,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? My name is Jubil and I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Hi, Dared calling

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<v Speaker 1>from what Brooke and Jebil in the Morning the radio show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you today? Fine? That? Why are you calling me? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually calling you because one of our listeners emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us and asked if we could get a hold of you. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. Well, there's a guy that listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show. His name is Robert, and you went out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner with him. Oh okay, yeah, so you know Robert. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Robert listen to our show and emailed asking if I

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<v Speaker 1>could call you to find out why you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back after you guys went out on your date. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a segment that we do on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the second Date Update. So Robert's wondering if he did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong. I mean I did text him back the

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<v Speaker 1>other today and he like texted me and I texted

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<v Speaker 1>him back. He actually told us that, Yeah, but it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't sound like a text from somebody who wants to

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<v Speaker 1>see him again. It sounded like you were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him off. Yeah, I'm glad he picked up on that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you are blowing him off. Yeah, I mean, actually

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<v Speaker 1>I would really be fine to never see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, do you mind telling us why so that

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<v Speaker 1>we can share it with him. Well, he's uh, he's

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<v Speaker 1>just really forward. He's forward, meaning yeah, a little too forward.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at first, at first, like I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was attractive, Like I've dated a bunch of guys who

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<v Speaker 1>are like really shy, and I was like, I always

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<v Speaker 1>have to make the move and like start the conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it was nice. He wasn't shy or timid,

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<v Speaker 1>and he seemed really confident. He told us how you

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<v Speaker 1>guys first met, and when he saw you at the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>he walked up and complimented you on your glutes. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of what you mean by too forward? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at that point, I thought it was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny, you know, um, and I appreciated that honesty,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like he didn't seem that weird. But once

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<v Speaker 1>he went out, he just he just crossed the line.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he too much? It was too much? Did he

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<v Speaker 1>say something or was he acting aggressive towards you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said something something really bad. What did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I really rather not say what he said. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say that it makes it makes you that

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable to repeat what he said. Yeah, definitely. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>give us a hint? Well, we were talking about her shifts,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, we're talking about sports that we like, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he likes basketball and football, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mentioned that I like swimming, and then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really good at swimming. I was swimming in college, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about how I'd probably like it because

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<v Speaker 1>I was really good at it. Okay, and then he goes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm good at and he leans into

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<v Speaker 1>the table. I don't know. Oh, I can already see

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<v Speaker 1>what's coming, and I can't say that I shouldn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't know like I mean, he literally thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>he did nothing wrong on this date. He thinks he

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<v Speaker 1>did nothing wrong. Yeah, we're talking. He said. He thinks

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<v Speaker 1>he said nothing inappropriate. Yep. Yeah. When we talked to

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<v Speaker 1>him about your date, he was like, oh, it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We just had a fun conversation. I may have got

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<v Speaker 1>a little ranty at some point about my business, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's all I could think of. That's amazing. I just said,

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<v Speaker 1>totally clueless, all right. The anticipation is killing me. What

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<v Speaker 1>did he say, oh god, well, I can't say this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll try to give you bandia. Okay. He he

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<v Speaker 1>leans into me and he says, I'm good at um

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<v Speaker 1>doing things for others that make them happy. I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>you don't mean charity work. No, he was like vulgar

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Really? Wow? Yeah, like how vulgar. He used

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<v Speaker 1>some pretty disgusting words. Can you just do like a

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<v Speaker 1>rhymes with here? No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do that. Use your imagination. And he was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how he is good at servicing women. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I understand what he was saying. And he really thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to impress you with this, Yes, can you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've been on a lot of dates. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>has ever said anything like that to me. And you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't interested in putting his skills to the test. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this was a first date, okay, Like we

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't even kissed or anything. We're talking about sports. Then

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<v Speaker 1>that comes out of no and there is no I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like there was no sexual talk at all before

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<v Speaker 1>this statement. I was talking about being on the swim team. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for telling us your story. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Well, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to be able to forget it just yet,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's on the other line listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Wait, what, yeah, do you serious, Robert, Hey, Schandra,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing? Oh? God, yeah, I'm I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little confused. I'll be honest with all of you. We

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about things, and we were good at She

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<v Speaker 1>said she was good swimming. I'm really good. That that's

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<v Speaker 1>not a sport, Robert, inappropriate if it is for some people,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe. I mean, I think it was the

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<v Speaker 1>first seat. You don't say that kind of thing out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner. At the dinner table, we're eating. I hear

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, But you can't tell me you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was a little part of you somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>deep down in the research. Okay, okay, Robert, hold on, Robert, Robert, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it seem like I was a little intrigued, Well

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<v Speaker 1>you should have been, because I'm really good. I'm really good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to meet the women who told

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<v Speaker 1>you that. Well, I mean, you got to give him

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<v Speaker 1>some credit. He likes to put a lot of effort

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<v Speaker 1>into police. Thank you, thank you up there. Yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not about me. I didn't talk about me talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you. I'm here for you know. That's the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of team player that I am. I think you need

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<v Speaker 1>to take a little bit of that effort and move

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<v Speaker 1>it towards how to be appropriate. Eye. Yeah, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's mad at exactly you wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, But maybe the time and the place was bad,

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<v Speaker 1>and the way you said it, it sounds like she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't tell us the exact way you described it, But

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<v Speaker 1>I can imagine it was probably not the language like

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<v Speaker 1>come on, like, we're not fourteen year old like one. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll concede the location. I'll concede the location, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do not apologize for my ability apologize. Oh wow. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>everything I do, I try to do the best of

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<v Speaker 1>my God given abilities. I give one hundred and ten

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<v Speaker 1>percent and I am the best at that. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I can promise you in that department. I can

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<v Speaker 1>promise you that in a lot of other departments too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Shandrew. Was there anything charming about Robert

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<v Speaker 1>on the date outside of this moment? Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you listen to him, he's funny, but he's just

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<v Speaker 1>like wildly inappropriate. Also, wait, hey, Robert, let me ask

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<v Speaker 1>you a question next time. If you went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with Shandre, if she actually said yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>you said something inappropriate, would you have a problem with

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<v Speaker 1>her telling you to stop. Absolutely not. I would have

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<v Speaker 1>loved her to say no, that's inappropriate. Then I know

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<v Speaker 1>now I know what the boundary. So there you go, Chandra.

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<v Speaker 1>He just doesn't know if you went out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>You have the freedom now to tell him, hey, don't

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<v Speaker 1>say stuff like that and he'll stop. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>feel like he has learned nothing from this conversation. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to have to be telling him every time

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<v Speaker 1>he says something inappropriate, like do you have to monitor yourself? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think this was a good match. That sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>I was really hoping to get a second date and

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<v Speaker 1>see what happened after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to avoid. So sorry, Robert, but there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women interested in your particular skill set, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're gonna be okay, all right, Thanks guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. Sandra, good luck, good luck out there,

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<v Speaker 1>you too, buddy. Remember who's number one in your heart,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Oh God, broken jewel in the morning.