Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second d d Hey, what's up? What's your name?
Speaker 1: My name's Dunk. But would you say let me take
Speaker 1: this compression sleeve off my ears? You know it helps
Speaker 1: you work out, right, helps the blood stain your ears. Anyway,
Speaker 1: you want to go out sometime? Hold on, I'll be
Speaker 1: right back. I'm gonna go lift my body weight like
Speaker 1: two times my body weight, and then I'll be back
Speaker 1: around at this corner of the gym to talk to you.
Speaker 1: All right, cool? Remember my name is Dunk. Nice seeing you.
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that's what happened for the guy on the
Speaker 1: phone today who wants to do a second eight update.
Speaker 1: He said that he met the girl that he wants
Speaker 1: to call at the gym. His name is not Donk.
Speaker 1: His name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good man? How are you? I'm doing? Wow? Doing well?
Speaker 1: Hoping you get out? Man? So email in said that
Speaker 1: you met a breezy while you're at the gym? Right, Dad?
Speaker 1: I did? How'd that go down? Bro? Wow? Is it
Speaker 1: at the gym? And you know I've noticed this girl
Speaker 1: and I thought, you know, she was over there rafting.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's a while I'll go over and
Speaker 1: I'll try to flex my muscles next to her. You're joking,
Speaker 1: I mean, you're kidding at that point when you're telling
Speaker 1: us this. Right, I wish, but the male ego is
Speaker 1: a scary thing I think sometimes, and I realized this
Speaker 1: in hindsight, But that's what I did. Did you really
Speaker 1: actually go flex or you like we're working out next
Speaker 1: or just trying working out? I was working out next, Okay,
Speaker 1: I pictured you standing next or just flexing your muscles
Speaker 1: in the mirror extra loud like. I didn't do that, thankfully, thankfully,
Speaker 1: all right, thankfully to not do that. So what was
Speaker 1: your opening line? I'm always interested in that. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: I saw her over the drinking fountain and I just
Speaker 1: went up to her and I was just just said,
Speaker 1: you have some really nice glutes. You did not say that?
Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Yeah, you could tell what she works
Speaker 1: really hard. She works really hard on those glutes. I mean,
Speaker 1: was she kind of like a meathead like you are?
Speaker 1: No offense? Whoa, I don't just see it like that.
Speaker 1: I don't know what do you want, Jim right, I
Speaker 1: don't know what it was. The term is no meat
Speaker 1: had to compliment? No doubt about it. That's what that's
Speaker 1: what I am, That's what I do. Absolutely and yes,
Speaker 1: the same deal, you know. I mean, she was rocking
Speaker 1: some very expensive athletic wear, um had to tell so
Speaker 1: I was. I was definitely feeling her okay. And what
Speaker 1: did she say after you complimented her glutes? Thanks? She said?
Speaker 1: She said, thanks? I work hard. Oh my god, you
Speaker 1: live in a world that I will never enter in
Speaker 1: my life, and not for lack of wanting to. It's
Speaker 1: just I don't have the effort that you guys have.
Speaker 1: So did you ask her out right there? I waited
Speaker 1: to go go after the workout, trying not to be complete
Speaker 1: creep oh, and waited till she was leaving the gym,
Speaker 1: and I went up to her and parking lot, which
Speaker 1: sounds creepier, but it really was. You followed her out
Speaker 1: to her car. I did. I did do the following
Speaker 1: of the car. Women love when big muscle bound men
Speaker 1: follow them into dark parking lots. What did you say?
Speaker 1: They're like, how are you going to drive a car
Speaker 1: with those big glutes like ken fitting the seat? That's
Speaker 1: pretty good? I wish I had said that. No, I
Speaker 1: just said, hey, what are you doing? Tomorrow night, you're
Speaker 1: gonna go get dinner. It's pretty simple, pretty straightforward, and
Speaker 1: she obviously said yes to that. Otherwise you wouldn't be
Speaker 1: doing a second day out date right now. How did
Speaker 1: dinner go? I was good. You know, I rocked my
Speaker 1: good luck button down shirt, which always makes me feel good.
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes the shirt makes the man I feel okay,
Speaker 1: and dinner went great. You know, she's great glutes, but
Speaker 1: she was learning this little outfit where her calves were
Speaker 1: really accentuated. I was super feeling her. What about her personality?
Speaker 1: Did you like? Personality wise? She was cool. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: good conversation. Conversation. What did you guys talk about? I
Speaker 1: told her that I've run a couple of different businesses
Speaker 1: and I kind of went on a bit of a rant.
Speaker 1: And I'm afraid that maybe it was too much, which
Speaker 1: was like one time, but it was kind of went
Speaker 1: on a little bit of a rant about my businesses.
Speaker 1: When you mean rant, I automatically think like angry rant
Speaker 1: about your business is what do you mean by rant? Well,
Speaker 1: I did talk about a guy that screwed me over
Speaker 1: in business once. That's why I think it feels like
Speaker 1: a rant. Yeah, are you an angry guy, not particularly,
Speaker 1: but I am when I'm crossed, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like I think I'm pretty happy guy day to day,
Speaker 1: but you know somebody, somebody screws me over, then yeah,
Speaker 1: I get pretty fired up. I messed with the bull
Speaker 1: get the horns. Yes, exactly. What was her reaction to
Speaker 1: you going off about this, dude? It would seemed fine
Speaker 1: at the time. I didn't think anything up because it
Speaker 1: was just like I said, it was like one time.
Speaker 1: It was like a freef little moment in the date.
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm thinking that maybe that's what what
Speaker 1: it was. I don't know what was she awkward after that,
Speaker 1: not particularly, but she didn't say a lot. She was
Speaker 1: just kind of looking down, kind of. She crossed her
Speaker 1: legs a couple of times, which I like the calves,
Speaker 1: but it was just birth fidgity. Okay, yeah, yeah. Women
Speaker 1: don't tend to like it when guys rage at the
Speaker 1: dinner table. Well, it wasn't a rage. It was it
Speaker 1: was a rant, you know, the grant. She's like a
Speaker 1: degree less than a than a rage. Yeah. Okay, so
Speaker 1: you weren't going totally crazy. That makes it better. How'd
Speaker 1: you guys end everything well. I asked her if she
Speaker 1: wanted to go get a drink somewhere else, because though
Speaker 1: I was going pretty well. Um, she said no, she's
Speaker 1: gonna go home. So I walked her to her car
Speaker 1: and gave her a hug hug goodbye. I thought it,
Speaker 1: you know, keep white. And that was that. Have you
Speaker 1: talked to her since? I texted her once and I said,
Speaker 1: I'm headed to the gym. Are you gonna be there today?
Speaker 1: And then she just said, I worked out yesterday. That's it.
Speaker 1: That's all she said. That's all she said. And then
Speaker 1: I'm like, I was at the gym yesterday and I
Speaker 1: was there for a good period of time when you
Speaker 1: would have been there, and I didn't see her. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you think she's lying to you about that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I do. And you haven't seen her at all in
Speaker 1: person at the gym, I have not. No, All right, well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second day update. All right, awesome, thank you? Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: hold on looking jubil in the morning if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date update. Robert is on
Speaker 1: the phone and today he wants to call a girl
Speaker 1: named Chandra. What do we know about Chandra. She's got
Speaker 1: an okay personality and some great gluts. Oh and some calves,
Speaker 1: some wonderful calves as well. That's what Robert liked about her.
Speaker 1: They met at the gym, he complimented her gluts, they
Speaker 1: went out for dinner, and now she's not calling him back. Robert.
Speaker 1: We're about to call her and see if we can
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and find out what went wrong.
Speaker 1: Anything else that you'd like to add before we call
Speaker 1: her other than the gluts and the calves. No, I
Speaker 1: just want to say thank you, thank you. I'm very
Speaker 1: curious to see what she says. This is awesome. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's going to be something pretty extreme because
Speaker 1: it sounds like she switched Jims just to avoid you.
Speaker 1: To me, I'm just saying, you haven't seen her there?
Speaker 1: Whoa U Yikes. That's bad. We're gonna hope that's not
Speaker 1: the case the case. All right, we'll find out right.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna doll the phone'm er get your second date
Speaker 1: up date? Okay, thank you? All here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Chandra? Please? This is she? Hey Chandra,
Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jubil and I'm calling
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Hi, Dared calling
Speaker 1: from what Brooke and Jebil in the Morning the radio show. Okay,
Speaker 1: how are you today? Fine? That? Why are you calling me? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling you because one of our listeners emailed
Speaker 1: us and asked if we could get a hold of you. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Well, there's a guy that listens to
Speaker 1: our show. His name is Robert, and you went out
Speaker 1: to dinner with him. Oh okay, yeah, so you know Robert. Well,
Speaker 1: Robert listen to our show and emailed asking if I
Speaker 1: could call you to find out why you're not calling
Speaker 1: him back after you guys went out on your date. Huh.
Speaker 1: It's a segment that we do on our show called
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. So Robert's wondering if he did
Speaker 1: something wrong. I mean I did text him back the
Speaker 1: other today and he like texted me and I texted
Speaker 1: him back. He actually told us that, Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: didn't sound like a text from somebody who wants to
Speaker 1: see him again. It sounded like you were kind of
Speaker 1: blowing him off. Yeah, I'm glad he picked up on that. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you are blowing him off. Yeah, I mean, actually
Speaker 1: I would really be fine to never see him again.
Speaker 1: Oh man, do you mind telling us why so that
Speaker 1: we can share it with him. Well, he's uh, he's
Speaker 1: just really forward. He's forward, meaning yeah, a little too forward.
Speaker 1: I mean at first, at first, like I thought it
Speaker 1: was attractive, Like I've dated a bunch of guys who
Speaker 1: are like really shy, and I was like, I always
Speaker 1: have to make the move and like start the conversation,
Speaker 1: and so it was nice. He wasn't shy or timid,
Speaker 1: and he seemed really confident. He told us how you
Speaker 1: guys first met, and when he saw you at the gym,
Speaker 1: he walked up and complimented you on your glutes. Is
Speaker 1: that kind of what you mean by too forward? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean at that point, I thought it was just
Speaker 1: kind of funny, you know, um, and I appreciated that honesty,
Speaker 1: you know, like he didn't seem that weird. But once
Speaker 1: he went out, he just he just crossed the line.
Speaker 1: Was he too much? It was too much? Did he
Speaker 1: say something or was he acting aggressive towards you? Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said something something really bad. What did you say?
Speaker 1: I really rather not say what he said. I don't
Speaker 1: want to say that it makes it makes you that
Speaker 1: uncomfortable to repeat what he said. Yeah, definitely. Can you
Speaker 1: give us a hint? Well, we were talking about her shifts,
Speaker 1: and uh, we're talking about sports that we like, and
Speaker 1: you know, he likes basketball and football, like you know,
Speaker 1: and I mentioned that I like swimming, and then I'm
Speaker 1: really good at swimming. I was swimming in college, and
Speaker 1: I was talking about how I'd probably like it because
Speaker 1: I was really good at it. Okay, and then he goes,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm good at and he leans into
Speaker 1: the table. I don't know. Oh, I can already see
Speaker 1: what's coming, and I can't say that I shouldn't say that.
Speaker 1: He doesn't know like I mean, he literally thinks that
Speaker 1: he did nothing wrong on this date. He thinks he
Speaker 1: did nothing wrong. Yeah, we're talking. He said. He thinks
Speaker 1: he said nothing inappropriate. Yep. Yeah. When we talked to
Speaker 1: him about your date, he was like, oh, it's cool.
Speaker 1: We just had a fun conversation. I may have got
Speaker 1: a little ranty at some point about my business, but
Speaker 1: that's all I could think of. That's amazing. I just said,
Speaker 1: totally clueless, all right. The anticipation is killing me. What
Speaker 1: did he say, oh god, well, I can't say this,
Speaker 1: but I'll try to give you bandia. Okay. He he
Speaker 1: leans into me and he says, I'm good at um
Speaker 1: doing things for others that make them happy. I'm assuming
Speaker 1: you don't mean charity work. No, he was like vulgar
Speaker 1: about it. Really? Wow? Yeah, like how vulgar. He used
Speaker 1: some pretty disgusting words. Can you just do like a
Speaker 1: rhymes with here? No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna do that. Use your imagination. And he was talking
Speaker 1: about how he is good at servicing women. I think
Speaker 1: I understand what he was saying. And he really thought
Speaker 1: he was going to impress you with this, Yes, can you?
Speaker 1: I mean I've been on a lot of dates. Nobody
Speaker 1: has ever said anything like that to me. And you
Speaker 1: weren't interested in putting his skills to the test. Hi,
Speaker 1: I mean this was a first date, okay, Like we
Speaker 1: hadn't even kissed or anything. We're talking about sports. Then
Speaker 1: that comes out of no and there is no I
Speaker 1: mean like there was no sexual talk at all before
Speaker 1: this statement. I was talking about being on the swim team. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for telling us your story. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Well, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: you're not going to be able to forget it just yet,
Speaker 1: because he's on the other line listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Wait, what, yeah, do you serious, Robert, Hey, Schandra,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Oh? God, yeah, I'm I'm a
Speaker 1: little confused. I'll be honest with all of you. We
Speaker 1: were talking about things, and we were good at She
Speaker 1: said she was good swimming. I'm really good. That that's
Speaker 1: not a sport, Robert, inappropriate if it is for some people,
Speaker 1: I can't believe. I mean, I think it was the
Speaker 1: first seat. You don't say that kind of thing out
Speaker 1: to dinner. At the dinner table, we're eating. I hear
Speaker 1: what you're saying, But you can't tell me you weren't
Speaker 1: at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, there was a little part of you somewhere
Speaker 1: deep down in the research. Okay, okay, Robert, hold on, Robert, Robert, listen.
Speaker 1: Does it seem like I was a little intrigued, Well
Speaker 1: you should have been, because I'm really good. I'm really good.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to meet the women who told
Speaker 1: you that. Well, I mean, you got to give him
Speaker 1: some credit. He likes to put a lot of effort
Speaker 1: into police. Thank you, thank you up there. Yeah, look,
Speaker 1: it's not about me. I didn't talk about me talking
Speaker 1: about you. I'm here for you know. That's the kind
Speaker 1: of team player that I am. I think you need
Speaker 1: to take a little bit of that effort and move
Speaker 1: it towards how to be appropriate. Eye. Yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think she's mad at exactly you wanting to
Speaker 1: do that, But maybe the time and the place was bad,
Speaker 1: and the way you said it, it sounds like she
Speaker 1: wouldn't tell us the exact way you described it, But
Speaker 1: I can imagine it was probably not the language like
Speaker 1: come on, like, we're not fourteen year old like one. Well,
Speaker 1: I'll concede the location. I'll concede the location, but I
Speaker 1: do not apologize for my ability apologize. Oh wow. Look,
Speaker 1: everything I do, I try to do the best of
Speaker 1: my God given abilities. I give one hundred and ten
Speaker 1: percent and I am the best at that. And that's
Speaker 1: what I can promise you in that department. I can
Speaker 1: promise you that in a lot of other departments too.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Shandrew. Was there anything charming about Robert
Speaker 1: on the date outside of this moment? Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: if you listen to him, he's funny, but he's just
Speaker 1: like wildly inappropriate. Also, wait, hey, Robert, let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question next time. If you went out on
Speaker 1: a date with Shandre, if she actually said yes, and
Speaker 1: you said something inappropriate, would you have a problem with
Speaker 1: her telling you to stop. Absolutely not. I would have
Speaker 1: loved her to say no, that's inappropriate. Then I know
Speaker 1: now I know what the boundary. So there you go, Chandra.
Speaker 1: He just doesn't know if you went out with him again.
Speaker 1: You have the freedom now to tell him, hey, don't
Speaker 1: say stuff like that and he'll stop. I kind of
Speaker 1: feel like he has learned nothing from this conversation. I
Speaker 1: don't want to have to be telling him every time
Speaker 1: he says something inappropriate, like do you have to monitor yourself? No,
Speaker 1: I don't think this was a good match. That sucks.
Speaker 1: I was really hoping to get a second date and
Speaker 1: see what happened after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm
Speaker 1: trying to avoid. So sorry, Robert, but there are a
Speaker 1: lot of women interested in your particular skill set, and
Speaker 1: I think you're gonna be okay, all right, Thanks guys,
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Sandra, good luck, good luck out there,
Speaker 1: you too, buddy. Remember who's number one in your heart,
Speaker 1: all right? Oh God, broken jewel in the morning.