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Speaker 1: He said that he met the girl that he wants

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Speaker 1: His name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good man? How are you? I'm doing? Wow? Doing well?

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Speaker 1: Hoping you get out? Man? So email in said that

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Speaker 1: you met a breezy while you're at the gym? Right, Dad?

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Speaker 1: from what Brooke and Jebil in the Morning the radio show. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean I've been on a lot of dates. Nobody

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Well, unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: little confused. I'll be honest with all of you. We

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Speaker 1: at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right,

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Speaker 1: Does it seem like I was a little intrigued, Well

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Speaker 1: it's not about me. I didn't talk about me talking

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Speaker 1: I'll concede the location. I'll concede the location, but I

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Speaker 1: do not apologize for my ability apologize. Oh wow. Look,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Shandrew. Was there anything charming about Robert

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Speaker 1: He just doesn't know if you went out with him again.

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Speaker 1: You have the freedom now to tell him, hey, don't

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Speaker 1: I don't think this was a good match. That sucks.

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Speaker 1: I was really hoping to get a second date and

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Speaker 1: see what happened after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to avoid. So sorry, Robert, but there are a

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Speaker 1: I think you're gonna be okay, all right, Thanks guys,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Sandra, good luck, good luck out there,

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Speaker 1: you too, buddy. Remember who's number one in your heart,

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Speaker 1: all right? Oh God, broken jewel in the morning.