Speaker 1: Second. Have you ever been just casually hanging out with
Speaker 1: someone when suddenly they start to give you a vibe
Speaker 1: and you think, wait a second, do they think that
Speaker 1: this is a date? Oh? Oh, you're not excited about it?
Speaker 1: I was excited, just like unexpected. Yeah, okay, because it
Speaker 1: was a date. Because it happens to me all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm just doing my thing in studio and then Brook
Speaker 1: will slide her scarf blanket to the side and show
Speaker 1: me a little extra shoulder blower her glasses down here,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hold up, does Brook think that this
Speaker 1: is a date? I definitely do not excuse me because
Speaker 1: you're married. First of all, I'm young enough to be
Speaker 1: your son, So that's not gonna happen if I slide
Speaker 1: my glasses down just because my face got a little sweaty,
Speaker 1: that's all. And they're really I understand I make you
Speaker 1: in all sorts of ways, but to get over it.
Speaker 1: Because one of our listeners found himself in an unexpected
Speaker 1: romantic situation, he's asking us for help today. His name
Speaker 1: is Julian. Julian, welcome to the show man. Hey, how's
Speaker 1: it going. We're lucky to have the expert in Jeffrey
Speaker 1: on with you. Julian, you don't think this is a
Speaker 1: date now, because I tend to have that effect on people.
Speaker 1: Brook is showing a lot of Julian, I'm sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's focus not on each other, and let's focus on
Speaker 1: the lady you want us to call today. Who's she? So,
Speaker 1: her name's Abbie. And the date that you're talking about
Speaker 1: was unexpected, you know, it was that actually happened like
Speaker 1: in real life. It wasn't off of an app like
Speaker 1: every other date. Oh whoa you are, like, you're a
Speaker 1: rare man on this segment. Yeah, yeah, where'd you meet? Throwback? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I was on a work break and I went
Speaker 1: to grab some coffee, you know, downstairs, and there's a
Speaker 1: coffee shops right across the street, and barista is like
Speaker 1: making my drink and she offers to give it to
Speaker 1: me for free. Oh oh really, yeah, the best day ever? Like,
Speaker 1: how good you look that day? I mean, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: I guess I remembered to shave or something. Yeah, Oh,
Speaker 1: so is Abby the barista? No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: she's no so yeah, so so I was a little surprised.
Speaker 1: But then I look behind me and there's this really
Speaker 1: cute girl, which is abby behind me, and so I
Speaker 1: tell the barista, okay, well I'd like to buy her drink. Wow,
Speaker 1: just shatter the barista's dreams. And she was probably hitting
Speaker 1: on you. But that's right, that's right, that's a good move.
Speaker 1: What a thing. Well she was like, well that's really nice,
Speaker 1: and so you know, that opened the door for us
Speaker 1: to talk. And you know, I didn't have that much
Speaker 1: time on my break, was only like ten minutes or so,
Speaker 1: but you know, I asked her like, hey, do you
Speaker 1: want to go sit outside and drink our coffees? And
Speaker 1: she said yes, so we did and it was great.
Speaker 1: I mean it was short, but it was great. Is
Speaker 1: this your date? Though? Yeah? Why are you asking like that?
Speaker 1: Like this was the date? This is the date. It
Speaker 1: was ten minutes long. You don't need drinking in casual
Speaker 1: sex for it. But this is just a meeting. Like
Speaker 1: I feel like we have forgotten what happens in the room.
Speaker 1: We're just calm down. Maybe we should ask what did
Speaker 1: you talk about? Was there some flirtation happening? Date vibes there?
Speaker 1: We had a great conversation. So I'm a big hockey
Speaker 1: fan and she's not. But she was like interested in that,
Speaker 1: and she was like, Oh, isn't it just guys like
Speaker 1: punching each other all the time. And I was like, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's like there's a lot more finesse to it. It's
Speaker 1: and then punch each other and hit each other with sticks. Yeah. Sometimes,
Speaker 1: did you like parlay that into we should watch a
Speaker 1: game together or sometime or anything like that? So I
Speaker 1: did not, but I did parlay it into Hey, I'd
Speaker 1: like to take you on a real date time. I'm
Speaker 1: glad it wasn't he I'd like to punch you in
Speaker 1: the face, face off right now, although that would be
Speaker 1: more a brook Sally for a style. Oh, I'll punch
Speaker 1: a man whenever he wants. It doesn't mean it's I
Speaker 1: mean it sounds like a good connection, even if it
Speaker 1: was a short amount of time. Yeah, exactly. And that's
Speaker 1: what's so bizarre, because I have texted her a few
Speaker 1: times since then. When I called her, like, I heard
Speaker 1: her voice on the voice announce, so I know it's
Speaker 1: like her actual number. Yeah, But I don't know if
Speaker 1: I just totally misread the situation or maybe she has
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. I don't know, but I'm very confused. Did
Speaker 1: she give you her number after you said I'd like
Speaker 1: to take you on a date sometime. Yes? So yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the intense number giving. I mean, aside from hockey,
Speaker 1: did you guys talk about anything else? Hopefully? We talked
Speaker 1: about breaking Bad and Better Call Saul, one of the
Speaker 1: most erotic shows on TV, for sure, that bald spot.
Speaker 1: Was there a hug or was there a kiss or
Speaker 1: a physical ye? Yeah? Like was she playing with her hair?
Speaker 1: Was she smiling? Was her a lot of eye contact?
Speaker 1: Was there no eye contact? Oh? No, there was a
Speaker 1: lot of eye contact. She was playing with her hair.
Speaker 1: She was smiling. Good. Sorry, So wait, I forget. You've
Speaker 1: reached out and she hasn't called you back at all.
Speaker 1: How long is that? Um, it's been about a week.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, too long? That long? But she just forgot.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a very good ten minutes forget. I mean,
Speaker 1: I left her a message, so I don't know how
Speaker 1: she could forget. Oh, it takes me more than a
Speaker 1: week to check my voicemails. Him sit there for at
Speaker 1: least three weeks before I actually listened. But I texted, okay,
Speaker 1: well and you text, let us try giving her a call.
Speaker 1: Maybe she'll answer from a number that's completely unrecognizable. We
Speaker 1: might have better luck there. We're gonna play a song.
Speaker 1: Who knows we're going to play a song? Come back,
Speaker 1: try and get your second date update after this, some
Speaker 1: of us are clearly flustered in studio today after hearing
Speaker 1: about Julian's first date with Abbey, which, to Brook's shock
Speaker 1: and horror, involved no drinking, no cooking, drugs in any
Speaker 1: back alley sheds, and no fluids exchanged except for the
Speaker 1: coffee that he bought her after they met. Sure, I
Speaker 1: always bring fertilizer to my dates, and some coughs are up,
Speaker 1: but I'm not saying that everybody has to do that.
Speaker 1: It's just strange, like it's ten minutes and they it's
Speaker 1: a chance meeting in a coffee show. I know, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: People can have a romantic connection just talking to each other.
Speaker 1: How is that It's just crazy that we're considering it
Speaker 1: a date. Anyway, it did give me a good idea
Speaker 1: for the coffee shop fluid exchange. I feel like you're
Speaker 1: going to be a quad guy. Yeah, definitely, let's crowd
Speaker 1: on this thing. But before that, we got to talk
Speaker 1: to Julian because it's been a week since that date happened.
Speaker 1: He's having trouble locking down date number two. I have
Speaker 1: to say, I mean, I just felt such a strong
Speaker 1: connection with Abby, you know, I mean, it's like, how
Speaker 1: often do you have to something like this happened? It
Speaker 1: just felt like a really great connection. So I'd love
Speaker 1: to see her again. Yeah, and I think it's a
Speaker 1: good sign that she gave you her phone number, like
Speaker 1: I said, after you had mentioned that you want to
Speaker 1: take her out, take her out, yeah said, yeah, a
Speaker 1: real number. Yeah, yeah, exactly, because if she was in
Speaker 1: a relationship and she just didn't realize that she needed
Speaker 1: to tell you that, then a fake number would have sufficed. Right, Okay, well,
Speaker 1: now's the time to get all those answers. We're going
Speaker 1: to dial her number in double check if it's real,
Speaker 1: and then ask why she's not calling you back to
Speaker 1: get another date. All right, all right, thanks, Jeff. Are
Speaker 1: you gonna ask her if she wants to invest in
Speaker 1: the fluid Exchange? Well, let's program. I'll get to that obviously,
Speaker 1: but we're gonna focus on Julian here. Hello, Hey is
Speaker 1: this happy? And it is? Yeah? Hey happy. My name
Speaker 1: is Jeff from a morning radio show you may or
Speaker 1: may not have heard of, called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Um okay, that's that's okay. We are look
Speaker 1: at you with terminology. Do you have a background in broadcasting? Um,
Speaker 1: I did an internship in high school to run the board.
Speaker 1: More experienced, that's true. So I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you did this at the place where you
Speaker 1: intern But we have a segment on our show called
Speaker 1: second Date Update. Um no, I'm I'm not familiar with that. Okay,
Speaker 1: well it's pretty bull. Basically, one of our listeners reaches
Speaker 1: out to us after they can't get a hold of
Speaker 1: somebody they went on a date with, and they want
Speaker 1: to know why. And you are the person we're reaching
Speaker 1: out too because you met up with a guy named
Speaker 1: Julian the other day. Okay, I mean there was a
Speaker 1: quick meeting. Yeah, yeah, I remember, I remember Julian. Okay, Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Julian told us that he thought you're really cute, thought
Speaker 1: that things were going well when you were chatting with
Speaker 1: each other, and he was hoping to see you again.
Speaker 1: He doesn't really understand why that isn't coming to fruition. Wait,
Speaker 1: so he's he's asking you to find out why I
Speaker 1: didn't call him right, because you're not really responding to him.
Speaker 1: Is there a reason or is it just you know,
Speaker 1: it's only been a week. Maybe you haven't had time. Um.
Speaker 1: I mean I saw that he called, and I've been
Speaker 1: just kind of thinking about it. But I mean, oh,
Speaker 1: you're like on the fence. Yeah, yeah, kind of on
Speaker 1: the fence about it. Okay, can we ask why? Like
Speaker 1: what are you on the fence about? Um? Well, I
Speaker 1: don't know, like what he told you about. Again, it
Speaker 1: wasn't at date. I mean like we we met in
Speaker 1: the line at a coffee shop and the verse she
Speaker 1: gave him his coffee for free, and she said thank
Speaker 1: you for your work, thank you for for the work
Speaker 1: that you do, and he was he was wearing scrubs.
Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, he's like a doctors. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I forge to the doctor. There's you know, does does
Speaker 1: that mean in healthcare? Okay, we didn't know that. So
Speaker 1: that's cool, Like you wouldn't want to date somebody like that? No, No,
Speaker 1: I mean I did think that was cool. I thought
Speaker 1: that was definitely worth taking a couple of minutes and
Speaker 1: getting to know him better. You know when he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: lets you want to go sit up siding have our coffee.
Speaker 1: I'm in between brain surgeries. If I only have ten
Speaker 1: minutes between bed pants both very I mean for most
Speaker 1: women hearing that would be the absolute green light to
Speaker 1: definitely see them again. Totally. Yeah. I mean, it either
Speaker 1: means he was really successful or he's really good at heart.
Speaker 1: It's like one of those two is happening. Um. Well,
Speaker 1: he talked about his work a little bit, but he
Speaker 1: was talking about like how much he loved his work,
Speaker 1: and he was saying that sometimes he can get really
Speaker 1: close to his patience and he just loves being able
Speaker 1: to help his patience and make them happy. And I
Speaker 1: was and I was thinking, that's really really cool. I
Speaker 1: got a great vibe from that. Good dude, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking, right, And then he asked me from
Speaker 1: number my number and said he'd like picking me out.
Speaker 1: I gave him that and and we parted ways and
Speaker 1: I was getting in my car and this that look back.
Speaker 1: I was kind of watching him and he was walking
Speaker 1: across the street going back into his work, and he
Speaker 1: he went into one of those waxing salons, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: like where they do like Brazilian wax. No, like a
Speaker 1: Brazilian wax. I didn't even know those guys worse crubs.
Speaker 1: I've never even had a male do that for I mean,
Speaker 1: I've never watched on who Waxing Place and seen a dude.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that was a career option or immediately
Speaker 1: I thought of him saying yeah, I get really close
Speaker 1: to my patients and oh I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: That just made me go, oh um, if he just
Speaker 1: met physically close, I'll be thank you for sharing that
Speaker 1: with us. But there is kind of an awkward part
Speaker 1: that I need to get to here, and it's best
Speaker 1: to probably just rip it off real quick and lets
Speaker 1: you know that Julian has actually been on the other
Speaker 1: line listening this entire time, and he wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah. I mean I just think, oh, this
Speaker 1: whole hibby, Yeah, this whole conversation. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: so it's so pathetic because you know, wax whole legitimate profession. Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't think any want to say, yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to being a doctor. Frankly speaking, I mean I
Speaker 1: had fourteen hours of online webinars to get my start
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, did you just say that being
Speaker 1: a wax technician is as legitimate as being a doctor. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm very proud of my work. I make
Speaker 1: people's lives better. And also the whole women thing. I mean,
Speaker 1: there are men who come to our practice as well.
Speaker 1: You know, I've seen it on I see naked men
Speaker 1: as well. You know, I'm a professional. Good for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we didn't mean. I mean, honestly though, we didn't mean
Speaker 1: to insult your profession. I think what she's saying is
Speaker 1: that she just had one impression and then it was
Speaker 1: just totally different, so she just needed a minute to
Speaker 1: kind of reconcile that for a week. Well, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be making assumptions. I mean, it's not like
Speaker 1: I said that I just got off operating on someone's heart,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, you you can assume based on things.
Speaker 1: But you know what they say about assumptions. Yeah, true,
Speaker 1: he wasn't operating on hearts. He was shaving a triangle, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: which takes a lot of skills of studying to get
Speaker 1: to it. You guys are joking about it, but it's
Speaker 1: super hard to do. I mean, it's very sensitive that
Speaker 1: skin that area. You know, we're not trying to insult
Speaker 1: to anybody's profession here. We just wanted to get the
Speaker 1: two of you talking. So Abby, well, why don't you
Speaker 1: talk directly to Julian here? Okay, So I know what
Speaker 1: you're saying, Like, it wasn't I wasn't intending to insult
Speaker 1: your profession. I just I think I felt a little
Speaker 1: bit mislet and I don't know, I think maybe if
Speaker 1: you're in that like, that's the kind of thing that
Speaker 1: and I know we didn't have a ton of time,
Speaker 1: but it's a kind of thing that would be good
Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, I mean, honestly grow up, like seriously
Speaker 1: kind of agree with him on that one. What are
Speaker 1: you talking about? I mean, it's just like if you
Speaker 1: see it every day, it's not like he's looking at
Speaker 1: it in a sexual way like the body part exactly.
Speaker 1: I agree with him on that, just on that piece.
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I look it up every day
Speaker 1: and it is never getting older. It is the purpose
Speaker 1: if the intent is different. I heard that Abby was
Speaker 1: impressed with what he can do. Isn't that right? Actually
Speaker 1: didn't say impressed, It's what I felt a little misled. Well,
Speaker 1: those are mostly the same letters in those times, the
Speaker 1: same Well, you know, I guess I should start putting
Speaker 1: it on my forehead and I wax the barista like you.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's because she's my customer. That's why she
Speaker 1: gave me the free drink. So much. Satisfied customer, clearly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all my customers five stars, wax stars. I maybe get
Speaker 1: your number after this. Yeah, we can all. Let's all
Speaker 1: get waxed together. Ye, we'll do a morning show wax
Speaker 1: and put it up on the broken I think is
Speaker 1: going to take a lot longer than your brooking Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning