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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcast. Wow, it

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Speaker 1: feels like we were just here because we were, but

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Speaker 1: we weren't. We weren't here here, but we were just

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Speaker 1: here podcasting. But Mark wasn't there. That's true. It was not.

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Speaker 1: But I heard it and I enjoyed it. You did,

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Speaker 1: is a weird thing in my opinion. Well we're doing

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Speaker 1: special infomercial. Well we no one told us really we

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Speaker 1: so there was this like we are still songs Jonas,

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Speaker 1: we say that For Monday's episode, like what do we

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Speaker 1: do here? There's a lot of confusion. Sans Mark tell

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Speaker 1: us about Wango Tango and your evening in Carson. You

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Speaker 1: met a lot of fans. I saw that on the

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Speaker 1: Facebook group. Yeah, we met a while. There's a lot

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Speaker 1: of scrubbing in listeners there. It's really fun because, um,

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Speaker 1: that is great because not every Bachelor contestant gets that

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Speaker 1: dining area, that wipes in living room, the wipes in

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Speaker 1: the bathrooms, this wipes the cars, all wipes. A love

425
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Speaker 1: the house and I love that you can customize the subscription.

426
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Speaker 1: We don't have too many, don't have if you, we

427
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Speaker 1: always have just the right amount of wipes ready to

428
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Speaker 1: go monthly. I need to get the wipes. I'm I'm

429
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 1: a white fan too. I'm actually upset that I'm now

430
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 1: just finding out about this, but I will definitely use

431
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Speaker 1: them and report back. And it's the same thing biotegrea,

432
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Speaker 1: all natural, all good things from Lola. Well for off

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Speaker 1: all subscriptions, visit my lola dot com and in Rebecca

434
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Speaker 1: when you subscribe. Again fort off all subscriptions, visit my

435
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Speaker 1: Lola dot com and inter code Becca when you subscribe. So,

436
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: as you all know, the Jonas brothers were not on

437
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: our podcast Swinging just a rehash, and they're not here today,

438
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: although they were in the building to go. I got

439
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 1: your text and you saw them. Oh yeah. First of all,

440
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: so that's the only reason why I want to go

441
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: tonight because Nick Jonas himself invited me to the premiere

442
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, first of all, I had no

443
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 1: idea that there was a premiere and it's an Amazon documentary.

444
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: I had no idea that they actually do premieres for that. Um,

445
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: so it's to night. And he was like, are you

446
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: coming to the premiere? And I was like, ah, what premiere?

447
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: And then he said our documentary. I'll shoot Joe the

448
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: info and you know, I like trying to play it

449
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 1: cool because I'm like, Nick's like the one that likes

450
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 1: me the least. I was like, if Nick invites me,

451
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: like I have to go, you know, like walking back

452
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: to the studio. And sure enough they sent me the

453
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 1: Texas the info and I was like, I gotta go.

454
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm super tired. But like when a Jona's brother invites

455
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 1: you to something, well, you know, last time you're super tired,

456
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 1: you missed the wedding. Yeah, like that's going to happen

457
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 1: to night. Yeah. The best part is those So I

458
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: saw it, saw Nick, and then I went to the

459
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: bathroom and I saw Kevin and Joe and Kevin comes

460
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 1: up and he gives me a hug and he goes.

461
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 1: You know. Danielle, his wife, was like, she they saw

462
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: my Instagram stories from me watching there, said I want

463
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: to go to tango. And Danielle was like, is Tanya

464
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: really big? But there's fanners that like a radio bit.

465
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 1: Kevin's was like, I'm pretty sure she's just loved just

466
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: a big Jonas Brothers fan, and I was like, that

467
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 1: is very accurate. There is no such thing as a

468
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: Tanya radio bit. No, there's no on air off air.

469
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: Tanya and everybody else I've known, there's been an on

470
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,239
Speaker 1: air and off air, not Tanya. No, there's no off air.

471
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: I thought it was all a bit when I first

472
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: met her, and I was now, I am, I know.

473
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 1: It's just she when she likes you and wants to

474
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: support you, goes hard. She goes real hard in the paint.

475
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: So that leads me to Becca joining me this evening. So, um,

476
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: I have a doctor's appointment in Beverly Hills, but you

477
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: said it's in Westwood, which is close. What time is

478
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 1: it we need to be there? No later than sixty.

479
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: This is the resistance I met with. It's not instance,

480
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 1: it's just like realistic timing. I would love to go.

481
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: I just I can't can't. Like things are there and

482
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 1: in place. How long is you talking to play with?

483
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: Thirty minutes? I mean that's what I would hope. Yeah

484
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: for botox. Oh then that's like fifteen minutes. Yeah, but

485
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like I don't know I'm

486
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 1: going with Ali, Like I don't know if it's going

487
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 1: to be a duo. You know, I would love to go,

488
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: I just don't want to. I don't want to say

489
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: yes and then not be able to make it. And

490
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: you can invite someone else a martyr basically, it's what

491
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: you are. I'm selfless, sacrificing her. I can bring another

492
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: So okay, so do you have a plus one? Yes? Yeah,

493
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: might makes sense to find somebody else because I was

494
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: gonna say back, maybe you can go, maybe you can't.

495
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: You can't play it by year. But that's not cool.

496
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,199
Speaker 1: It doesn't work. I mean, like I also don't. I

497
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: mean I go everywhere solo. So it's like I'm run sol.

498
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: You know. It's like the Jones Brothers, Like I'm gonna

499
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: a ton of people there. So yeah, it's like our

500
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 1: friends the brothers just being so so yeah, but like

501
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: so I'm just trying to get it. What are you

502
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 1: gonna wear? Like, what's the vibe? Oh that's a really

503
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 1: good question. I have not gone like a premiere is

504
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: normally like a thing. Yeah, well, like when I'm not

505
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 1: like going to the premiere, I'm just like going to

506
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: the premiere. What I'm not like going to the premiere,

507
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm not working the premiere. I'm just like going

508
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 1: in attendance. It's like like jeans and a T shirt, right,

509
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: I don't know I would ask on that. I don't.

510
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 1: I literally don't know. I think you need to dress

511
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: up pretty good for this. I do. I think so,

512
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: not just because whether you're going to the premiere or

513
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: going to the premiere, you're also tying you're at Like

514
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: if people see you there, they're going to recognize you.

515
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: They're probably gonna be in a T shirt. But I

516
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: don't think you can. Oh you could if you want

517
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: to be, you know, if there's a press there that

518
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: you're down to be in your Joe Bro's T shirt.

519
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: Oh shoot, I didn't think about this. Whatever I have

520
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: to go, like, you don't just it's like like Nick,

521
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 1: you know, we'll try to figure out timing. After we'll

522
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: figure we'll try and figure it out and see if

523
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: it's possible. From I also, who are like trying to

524
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: get them on the podcast. I feel like I've just

525
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: seen to show my face everywhere that they do. You

526
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: think they would notice if you didn't show up? Yes? Really? Yeah? Okay,

527
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: oh yeah, because they're like expecting that energy around them

528
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: from that one time I didn't go to Nick Jonas's

529
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: album release or something. I didn't go to Nick jonas

530
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: Is like listening party, and I saw Joe Jonas later

531
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 1: that night and I posted a picture with Joe and

532
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: then remember Nick was like, you didn't come to my

533
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: music party, but you were with Joe later, And I

534
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: was like, how did he know that? So, yeah, I

535
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 1: have to show up, show up if I show up

536
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: for the joke, what do you mean when you say

537
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: Nick likes you the least? Whatever? That no evidence. I

538
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: just I feel a lot of more like I feel

539
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 1: just more connected to Joe and Kevin, like just like

540
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: the bond is there is Nick more shy? Yeah? Nick,

541
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: she was like a little more like timid, scared of

542
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: your energy a little bit, being like yeah, mouth open,

543
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: eyes wide, notanking. He's like, do I run, where's my security? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Lightly.

544
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: By the way, we should mention your parents are in

545
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: Serbia and while they they're your orchids sitting. And I

546
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 1: was worried about this because they gave it to you,

547
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 1: because it means a watch them and it takes some care.

548
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 1: It takes some care in terms of sunlight and water.

549
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: And guess what that orchid is thriving? Baby. I was

550
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: stressed too. I was like, how often do I water this?

551
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: Like where do I put her? Like this so funny

552
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: to me, so stressed sitting? Yeah, what is entailed in

553
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: that orchid sitting? I had to literally my mom showed

554
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: me that, like the amount of water that needs to

555
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: go in it once a week, and she literally was like,

556
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: use this, put it next to like a dropper or something.

557
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: It's like a little shot glass almost, and just put

558
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: that in once a week and leave it by the sun,

559
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: like leave it by the window. And it's been doing great.

560
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: It's been doing great. She looks good. I can't aren't

561
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: say the same for my plants, but I'm really trying

562
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: to keep them. I'm putting in the effort. I just

563
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 1: don't know if they're reciprocating that for do you have

564
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: them buy light. You know, I didn't put it's like

565
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: a big house plant, and so I assumed because um My,

566
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: the interior decorators I worked with shut up to realm design.

567
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: Um they put it in there. So I don't know

568
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: anything about plants, but I'm assuming if they put it

569
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: in there, it doesn't dar light yet. But I guess

570
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: it needs water occasionally. So I've really been I put

571
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: some sugar water in there and that's really brought brought

572
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: it back to life. So you know what I do

573
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:42,479
Speaker 1: with our plants us not much, but ice cubes in

574
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: the in the plant or in the vase well on

575
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: the dirt. Oh so like planted plants. Yeah. So like

576
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: if the kids, you know, give then they make them

577
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: their lunch or whatever, and they drink their water and

578
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of ice left in the glass when

579
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: the cup when they're done, and then they go off.

580
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 1: I take that ice and I drop it in the plant.

581
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: It it's a little slow release of water for that

582
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: plant for a while, and it's not wasting the water

583
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: if throwing the ice in the sink. Because a woman

584
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: that sells flowers of the Farmer's Market told me that

585
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: once that actually putting ice cubes in a specific flower

586
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: camember which one it was, Um, helps keep them alive longer,

587
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: like in the like vase. How about Ego get her

588
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: gift and we'll take another break. Can you turn? Can

589
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: you face the other way? I would just like to

590
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,959
Speaker 1: say we are both wearing the gifts we that Tanya

591
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: got us on Saturday that we talked about, which is

592
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: a sweater zip upslatter that says you're my person in

593
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: a large graze anatomy on the back. So cute, and um,

594
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: I wore it all night open Dangocas is actually cold.

595
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: We're both wearing them today. And then Becca sent me

596
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: a really sweet text on Sunday. I would like to

597
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: hear more about that coming up next. Okay, we're back

598
00:30:55,480 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: and Tanya has Okay, I've seen it now Becca's not

599
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: seen it. Becca staring at the window. It's a gloomy

600
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: June gloom day here in southern California. Uh, do you

601
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: want to take it out of the plastic? No? Do

602
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: you want to prop it up? Okay? When you put

603
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: it up somewhere where the reveal is stronger. Okay, yeah,

604
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: I think you do. Here. I'll get it from this

605
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: side to march reaction hasn't been nervous. Okay, all right?

606
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: Is it the same on both sides? Okay, alright? Becca

607
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: turn your head in three two one. No, this is

608
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: good for me. I can describe what you're seeing if

609
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: you could, please. Um, I'm seeing a a very large

610
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: life's almost life size, I think bigger, bigger than life

611
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: sized pillow of Donya's upper body happened? Where does it?

612
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: Is it? Waste? Up? Is it chest in her? I

613
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: felt like Fanya got lost in the move. The cardboard

614
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: cut out that the scrubbing in listeners purchased for Becca.

615
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: Do you lose Becca? I did not lose her. I

616
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: haven't seen her in a while. Maybe she's misplaced, but

617
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: I did not lose her. So I haven't seen her

618
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: in a while. And I was just thinking like that

619
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: Becca needs a friend, and that is her new friend. Wow.

620
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: It's uh, it's honestly, I think a little disturbing. It

621
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: is so scared like the head is probably triple the

622
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: size of Tanya's head. Not really. The face is the

623
00:32:54,320 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: typical yes for some mouth open, I mean, are very

624
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: glam and gorgeous. It's life like. In this says that

625
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: it blinks the same amount as actual Tanya does. Suh.

626
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: But it's it's like it's a it's a Is it

627
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: a body pillow? Is that the idea because it's big? Yeah?

628
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like you can just have her around,

629
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: like when you're on the couch chilling, Like, where am

630
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 1: I going to put this in my beautifully decorated home?

631
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: On your couch? I know I'm going to get notifications

632
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: on my camera. That's like a person is in your

633
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: living room. She fits right in, don't you think? Wow,

634
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: thank you, this is an incredible gift. You're so welcome.

635
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,959
Speaker 1: Did you purchase this or is it given to you

636
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: and you're passing it on to me with all my

637
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: hard earned money? No? Um? Actually they the guy that

638
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: I think it was, I don't know if he actually

639
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: Um it was when we did the Grays Anatomy and

640
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: we had Joe. Um remember the pillow So that pillow guy,

641
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,959
Speaker 1: that's the same guy. Yeah, I don't know if it's

642
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: the same guy. But that pillow guy message me and

643
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: was like, would you want one of your face? And

644
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: I was like, this is amazing. So you thought of

645
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: even one of those like the size of football? Yeah,

646
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 1: this is actually the size of my body. It's large,

647
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 1: you guys like it's a very large pillar. Will you

648
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: hold it up so I can see so the size comparison. Oh,

649
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: teya got me a gift? What more could I ask for?

650
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: What more? What more could you ask for? Every best

651
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: friend needs a life size pillow of their other friend.

652
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: Don't you feel like sometimes you miss? Yeah? Becca is

653
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: Tanya your person? You're wearing a sweatshirt and they both

654
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: of your sweatshirts that you're my person, and I think

655
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: that you're Tanya's person, but it's tiny your person. Yeah,

656
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: I feel like ty um, don't I mean, do you

657
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: really set me up? I could never say, like, no,

658
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: you're like, we think you're a Tamis person. Well, I

659
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: don't know, but I think she's somebody you would call

660
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: if you got into trouble. Oh she's my mergency contact.

661
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: She is okay, which is a big deal, right, It

662
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 1: is a big deal. All right? Would you like to

663
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,439
Speaker 1: share the text that you sent me? Because sometimes Becca

664
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: will throw me a loop, and throw me a loop,

665
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: throw me a bone every now and then because my

666
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: nice Yes, I woke up to this on Sunday and

667
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 1: I was like that it's just an unsolicited Wow, she's

668
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 1: falling and I can hear her. Um, it was an

669
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 1: unsolicited like text, which I always really appreciate. What did

670
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: it say? I said, thank you for my in and

671
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: l and thank you for driving me to Hayley Set.

672
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: You're my best friend. I love you good now for

673
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: a year? Yeah, like truly it was unfelicited. I wasn't like,

674
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: do you miss me? Do you love me? It was

675
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: just like came out of the blue. It's nice. Well,

676
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 1: it's like really nice. You know. It was a very

677
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: thought to me. It was a very thoughtful thing that

678
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: you did, so I like to you know. I woke

679
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: up the next morning and I was like, oh, I

680
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 1: don't feel like I really like let her know how

681
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: much that meant to me. So I appreciate it. I

682
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: have a Grays game we could play, but we need

683
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: to establish the sticks. Any ideas on what we're playing

684
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: for today in our Grays game? It is they rapid

685
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: fire Grays game. Um, what are you laughing? Because I

686
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: have a funny one of like for if I win,

687
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: then you have to bring This isn't even like a

688
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: thing to you. But I was gonna say if I win.

689
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: Then you have to bring Fecca to like everywhere you

690
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: go for like happy week or something, argument and documented,

691
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: and you have to bring the pillow every where you go.

692
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah it's heavy though, maybe like for a day or something.

693
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm totally using this for the car bowler,

694
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: so uh so good. I mean that's kind of funny.

695
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: But not a week. You don't want to do a week? Yeah,

696
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: maybe like yeah, maybe four hours. You have to ring

697
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: the fake version of your best anywhere you go, but

698
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: you have to go someplace like yesterday you went nowhere, right, Yes,

699
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: very easy for me. Yes, um, okay, deal, Orange Theory,

700
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:15,959
Speaker 1: grocery store, farmers market, wherever it is. Oh my gosh,

701
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: can you imagine that? In Oh, somebody else has to

702
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,959
Speaker 1: come along and record this. N that's a good idea, Becca. Okay,

703
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: here we go. Okay, it's gonna be rapid fire, back

704
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: and forth. I'm going to give you the first name

705
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: of the Grace character. You give me the last name.

706
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,320
Speaker 1: But you've got to be fast because I'm going to

707
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,800
Speaker 1: give you about three seconds before I buzz you out. Okay,

708
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna go back and forth, and whoever gets the

709
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: most right is our winners trouble you to keep scoring

710
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: for us. Thank you. Just make a little tally when

711
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: they get each one right. We start well, you can

712
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: do rock paper scissors. If you like rock paper sciss

713
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: is on shoots, please display on shoot. Here we go

714
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: at rock paper scissors, shoot and scissors cuts paper. Becca

715
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: can go first, or you can differ. I'm going to

716
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: go last. She's going to differ. Here we go. They

717
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: start easy and get more difficult. Here we go, Meredith,

718
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: Derek Shepherd, Christina Alex No no, I didn't. I was

719
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: just barely in there. But okay, fine, that's as long

720
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 1: as it's gonna go. George, Miranda Bailey, Richard, Kelly Torres,

721
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 1: Mark Sloan, Preston Burke, Addison Montgomery, Lexi, Arizona Hunt, Denny, Erica,

722
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: all right, that's a miss Britannia, Olivia, get harder. I

723
00:38:53,280 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: told you it was Erica Han, Olivia Harper, Tanya Finn, Writer, Becca,

724
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: Sadie Hawkins, Harris, We end strong, the last four Forgettable, Jackson,

725
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: April Amelia. I think we have a tie. A tie.

726
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't know what she got her dead,

727
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: She corrected herself. Alright, reaction though like also like you

728
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: went for a Finn writer from Tangles, you know, Zach Spirits. Alright,

729
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: I have some specializations here, so this will be how

730
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: we break the tie. What they're known for? Doctor? Oh

731
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: all right, well it the same way. I'll give you

732
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 1: a few more seconds, but same way. Tanya Miranda Bailey

733
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: um general correct, Becca Mark Sloan Plastics, Tanya Preston Burke Cardio,

734
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: Becca Arizona Robbins, Tanya Erica Hahn Cardio right, Becca Richard

735
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: Weber General, Tanya Cali Torres um uh like she was

736
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: a bone girl osteo osteo though it isn't the name.

737
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: Let's finish the category, how Becca, what was Ellis Gray's specialty? Um?

738
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: Ellis Gray was general. She was Tania Derek Shepard brain.

739
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: It's not called brain, nor was it called okay, Becca

740
00:40:55,400 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: Owen Hunt trauma, Tania Addison memory uh O B G

741
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: like O G y N. That's correct, Beca. I'll give

742
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: you a chance to steal if Natal that's really what

743
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: it's called. All right. I think Becca wins. That was

744
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: really nice. Natal. Plus you got Ortho plus you got

745
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: I think as I think Becca is the winner. I

746
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 1: think there's no question that Becca is going on tour,

747
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: and it would have been way funnier me because she

748
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: she's like happy to take. I think it is gonna

749
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: be because you you would be shy or about the

750
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: whole thing, and you'd be a little more embarrassed about it,

751
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: so you would take it to Ralphs and then you'd

752
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: be getting put it in the cart and just deal

753
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: with it. Tany is gonna probably walk that up and

754
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 1: down the farmer's market, farmer's market. She's gonna taste the raspberry.

755
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:49,240
Speaker 1: She's gonna get the royal treatment. She is gonna find

756
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: places to take. So I think we're good. Think we're

757
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: good here. We gotta get somebody to record it. I

758
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: don't know how we're gonna do that. We've gotta figure

759
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: that out. She's gonna taste my almond milk at the

760
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: farmer's market. She's going all the places so creepy. All right,

761
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: we have to take one more break and then we'll

762
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: do some emails. Shall We got some good ones this week?

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Speaker 1: take Becca. What are you responding to Mr Dho other

789
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: friend of mine that wants to go to the Jones Brothers. Oh?

790
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: Do you confirmed with that? Fast? No? She just asked

791
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Speaker 1: me if I was going. So I'm assuming she's going to.

792
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Speaker 1: Oh well that makes me feel That makes me feel

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795
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that me and she's going. Okay, great. Melody

796
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:07,600
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797
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,760
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798
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,080
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799
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,080
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800
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: thoughts and ideas about your life? I asked because I

801
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 1: found myself reading forums and threads and trying to make

802
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: my own connections, but I felt conflicted. My thought was,

803
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Speaker 1: if Becca and Tanya saw me participating in this thread,

804
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: would they be sad? What are your thoughts on that?

805
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: Because that is interesting? Woman? Do you want to go first?

806
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: Go ahead? I um, Melody, I actually don't mind, because

807
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Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I have chosen to

808
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Speaker 1: live my life on the air, so that is that's

809
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Speaker 1: what I've chosen to do. So what you know what

810
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,720
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, I am also that person that tries

811
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Speaker 1: to do this stuff for other people, do you know

812
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: what I mean? I'm like reading into every celebrity's tweets

813
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Speaker 1: and trying to like, you know what I mean? So

814
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: it's like, I totally do this to other people, so

815
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: would I not expect people to do that to me? However,

816
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: when people figured out the identity of Dr W that

817
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: was an awkward situation for sure, but also he wasn't

818
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Speaker 1: the one for me. So it's like, I think, like

819
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: the one when I'm with the one that I'm supposed

820
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Speaker 1: to be with, Like it's gonna play out and it's

821
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Speaker 1: all gonna play out the way that it should be,

822
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Unless and learned now Mr

823
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: D there's no clue in there that could give anybody

824
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 1: any idea who this might be? Correct? Okay, Becca Um.

825
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 1: I think when it first started happening recently where I

826
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: was actually reading stuff, it really affected me, Like I

827
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,280
Speaker 1: would almost cry every time I read something or talked

828
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 1: about it just because I felt like overwhelmed. But as

829
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: time has gone on, I've realized that it is kind

830
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: of part of this like public lifestyle, and it's um

831
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: to be expected. I think it's kind of you keep

832
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: the rules of life in general, like if it's not

833
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 1: if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it.

834
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: But it just talking about it, like oh, who she

835
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: dating or who is it or whatever, that's fine. But

836
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Speaker 1: I think if people get nasty or start like, I

837
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Speaker 1: don't know, I've read some things where people were kind

838
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,760
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Speaker 1: I think that hurt my feelings more than the fact

840
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: that they were speculating about me, if that makes sense.

841
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: Just like anything, like when you read something that's like

842
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 1: not um like nice about you, or especially from people

843
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: who don't know you, it's like hard to digest. So

844
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: I was a lot more sensitive about it, but it

845
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: did give me a tougher skin, and I feel like

846
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: I'm a lot more like, you know, it's fine. It's

847
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: kind of what I've asked for being in the public

848
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 1: eye and sharing a lot of my life. That's almost

849
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 1: two separate things. People speculating who you're dating. That sort

850
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: of thing is different than people saying you suck you. Yeah,

851
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: I think it came in like it was kind of

852
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 1: like some of the things that they were saying in

853
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 1: the speculations of who I'm dating were like kind of

854
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 1: bashing me in a way, And I was kind of like, okay,

855
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: It's it's one thing to be like, oh this is

856
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 1: what I think she's eating or I think this or whatever,

857
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: but to like bash my character of my reasons for

858
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: not sharing it was kind of I think that's what

859
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: was hurtful. So I don't think a lot of people

860
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: think like melody though I don't think a lot of

861
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: people feel conflicted about it. I think they just do

862
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: it because it's what they want to do. So it's

863
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: nice that you thank you for thinking of It's like

864
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: a lot of I mean, like I've read things like

865
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: people will like like say things like oh, like Tony

866
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: so desperate, or this guy is gonna end like the

867
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: other guy, and like she's just in a perpetual pattern

868
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: of like she's just can't hold a guy. Like I mean,

869
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:38,479
Speaker 1: all these things. It's like people are just so effing rude.

870
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: But like also that's their prerogative, you know what I mean,

871
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: and like if they want to say those things, like

872
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: if that makes them feel good about themselves, and like

873
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: it is what it is, you know. I mean, like

874
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm dating, I'm trying, I'm doing the best that I

875
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: can and that's all that I can do, you know,

876
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 1: Like it's fascinating that mentality. Like for example, Alex on

877
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 1: the Mic posted a picture from Wineo Tango. She retweeted,

878
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: so I'm not just reading a random comment. She posted

879
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: a picture herself on the right carpet and some guy

880
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: just commented fat one word that was a comment, So

881
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: she wrote back, oh, thank you so much. It was like,

882
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: what is the mentality of that person sitting wherever they're

883
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: sitting just like food, Like, it's so bizarre to know

884
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: that's where we are in It's so weird. Anyway, we're

885
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: getting off track because there's this there's the Facebook speculation,

886
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: which that's kind of in the family, but then there's

887
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: like Reddit threads and like weird corners of the Internet

888
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 1: where they're talking about you. Do you ever go down

889
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,439
Speaker 1: those holes where you're just like googling yourself and seeing

890
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: what people are saying about you on these more obscure sites.

891
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 1: I've done it. I did it when I was on

892
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,399
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, because of course that was like a whole

893
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: new world that anyone was anyone was even talking about me,

894
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: and my dad actually was falling following these like sleothing

895
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 1: Reddit threads trying to figure out like if I won

896
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: the Bachelor or whatever, and so I ended up reading

897
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: them and I was like shocked at some of the things,

898
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: like people said about me without having knowing me at

899
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: all yet, Like I hadn't even been on TV yet

900
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: and they were already just like having like these assumptions

901
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:09,720
Speaker 1: about me. And after that, I didn't do it until,

902
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: you know, more recently. I think I looked at something.

903
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: I think I looked at something that someone posted on

904
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: the Facebook group or something, and I was like, hey,

905
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 1: this is a dark like it's it's I have yet

906
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: to go on there and feel good about myself, so

907
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: it's kind of something I stay off of. I just

908
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: read the stuff that's like in our Facebook group or

909
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: like on the on air or like kiss if m

910
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: if they tagged me and stuff, because I try to

911
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: go through and respond to people like you know what

912
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: I mean, Like that's like what I try to do,

913
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: so I will read the net in the mean ones,

914
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 1: and I'll respond to them. For sure. I'm a cop backer.

915
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: I would hope that would give them pause, like oh

916
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: my gosh, you actually heard that. Like I hope they

917
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: would feel bad or feel guilty. Sometimes they'll respond to

918
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I didn't mean it in a bad way.

919
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: It's like Becca sucks. And then they're like, oh, that's

920
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 1: not nice, and I didn't mean it in a bad way.

921
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: It's how awesome. I can't be friends with her. Here's

922
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: one that's not anonymous, but I'm gonna make it anonymous

923
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: because I feel like she shouldn't want her name out there.

924
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 1: My best friend and her husband had been married for

925
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: a year and together for ten years. Not long before

926
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 1: he proposed, she confided in me that she hooked up

927
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: with one of his best friends. He ended up proposing

928
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: shortly after, and of course she said yes, I was

929
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 1: a bridesmaid and the friend that she cheated with was

930
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: a groomsman in the wedding. With me, so far, it

931
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like you guys are with me. I'm here,

932
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: I'm I'm reading it. I'm lost. Okay, let me start over.

933
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 1: My best friend and her husband have been married for

934
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 1: a year and together for ten Not long before we proposed,

935
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 1: she could fide it to me that she hooked up

936
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: with one of his best friends. He ended up proposing

937
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 1: shortly thereafter, and of course she said, yes, I was

938
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: a bridesmaid in their wedding and the friend she cheated

939
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,319
Speaker 1: on was a grooms cheated with was a groomsman with me,

940
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: not with me to this girl's best friend got married

941
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 1: to this guy. They've been together for ten years. She

942
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: right before he proposed when we well, doesn't that doesn't matter.

943
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 1: She told her that she cheated with his best friend. Okay,

944
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: so she her best friend cheated on her boyfriend at

945
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 1: the time with his best friend, and then shortly after

946
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: that so they're married now. So in the wedding, she

947
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 1: was this friend, this anonymous emailer, she was the bridesmaid,

948
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: and then the guy that the bride hooked up with

949
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: a grooms So she's marrying this guy. Also hooked up

950
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: with that guy. Three guys out Okay, I don't know,

951
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. Should give them names? With that help? Maybe? Anyway,

952
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 1: fast forward to this past weekend, she confided in me

953
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: that she recently cheated on her now husband with that

954
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 1: same friend, but this time they had sex. Adultery is

955
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: against my beliefs. But this is my best friend telling

956
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: me something no one else knows. So again I decided

957
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: to keep my mouth shut. I know he deserves to

958
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 1: know the truth, but it made a promise that my

959
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: best friend that I won't say anything. If I do

960
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: say something, I risk losing one of my best friends.

961
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: And if I don't say something, I have to live

962
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: with the fact that I'm withholding the whole truth. What

963
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: would you ladies do if you were in my position?

964
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: Tania would be too confused to do much of anything.

965
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: Tanya would not understand the problem. What's happening? Just live?

966
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: She'd stare at you, and then she'd say something like

967
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: just live. Um, I would stay out of it. I

968
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: agree so much. If it was reversed, if you found

969
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: out that your best friend was being cheated on, you

970
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 1: tell your best friend, like if her husband was cheating

971
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: on her. Of course, but this is not I mean,

972
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: this is her battle, and it's clearly like it's not

973
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: a good situation at all, and you are already more

974
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 1: involved than you even wanted to be, So don't involve

975
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: yourself more agreed, Tanya. Okay, so what if, like it

976
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: doesn't challenge you, doesn't drop the mic. Your best friend, Wanda,

977
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: she's married to Willie. Wanda is cheating on Willie. Get

978
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: it now, Wanda's confided in you. It said, don't tell anyone,

979
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: but I am hooking up like crazy with Willie's best friend.

980
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: But I would try to do I wouldn't tell anybody

981
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,479
Speaker 1: about the cheating, or I wouldn't go around. I would

982
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 1: obviously respect my friends trust. But what I would do

983
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: is I would try and maybe talk to my friend

984
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: and get to the root of maybe it's time for divorce.

985
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: Did you not want to be married? You're doing exactly like,

986
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: maybe get to the root of like why are you cheating?

987
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: This isn't good? Yeah, And I would voice my concern

988
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah. I mean I would definitely talk to her,

989
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 1: and I think I would let her know that you know,

990
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 1: you um are obviously there for her, but you don't

991
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,839
Speaker 1: want to have the burden of carrying this around and

992
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 1: that she can trust you. You're not going to say

993
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: anything and then release it because it's not your thing

994
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: to deal with anymore. Correct. Okay, good advice. Unless the

995
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: grooms and was like my brother or something and was

996
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: really hot. Oh my god. I was like, Wow, this

997
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: take a turn, all right? One more. Macy just graduated college.

998
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: She's excited to start her dream internship in grad school

999
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: program in a fun new city. However, I've been single

1000
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: for two whole years, and when I say single, I

1001
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: mean very single. I haven't really gone on any date

1002
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: to talk to any guys. I'm not a fan of

1003
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 1: dating apps or meeting guys at bars, but I'm a

1004
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: hopeless romantic like Tania and dream of meeting a wonderful guy.

1005
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: Any advice on how to go about this? I say

1006
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,359
Speaker 1: I'm doing it right because I've been single for more

1007
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: than two years. Uh, Macy, But um, I don't know.

1008
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: I think just kind of I think a lot of times.

1009
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: And what hinders people is they get so caught up.

1010
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: I have a friend who like literally is petrified of dating,

1011
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: like just does not want to go on a date,

1012
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: but like wants to meet somebody. And I'm like, you

1013
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: gotta it's a it's a means to an end, you

1014
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, you gotta go on dates

1015
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 1: to meet somebody. So I think you just have to

1016
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: just do whatever, you can just get yourself out there.

1017
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: Because I also think too when I think action creates action.

1018
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: So if you're just like staying home every night and

1019
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: like not meeting anybody, you're just gonna keep doing that.

1020
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 1: I think once you meet people, even if it's not

1021
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: your dude, it's going to kind of give you this

1022
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: like mojo and then you're going to bring in like

1023
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 1: more people. I also think I used to have the

1024
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 1: mentality of, like, I don't want to meet my guy

1025
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 1: at a bar, like that was for some reason I

1026
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 1: was like so against that. I mean, it's funny thinking

1027
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: how many of my friends, like years ago I have

1028
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 1: heard heard that and mean being like I just I

1029
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: don't think that's where I'm going to meet the guy

1030
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: of my dreams, which it might not be, but like,

1031
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,359
Speaker 1: also you have to be open that if you're going

1032
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: to bars, the guy that you're like, you have the

1033
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 1: same interest, he might be at the same bar. So

1034
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 1: I think if if that's somewhere you go, like, you

1035
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: should be open to meeting someone into places that you

1036
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:57,839
Speaker 1: go to. And I also think I know it's like

1037
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,879
Speaker 1: it's a disc urging when you see how people are

1038
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 1: on dating apps, but it is kind of something that

1039
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 1: you should at least give a shot. And like Tanya was,

1040
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 1: Tanya deletes hers and re uploads hers, like pretty much

1041
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:12,840
Speaker 1: against dating apps for a while, and then look, I

1042
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: met Mr Diana dating app and he's like a really

1043
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 1: good guy. Actually, yeah, and you've had a good time.

1044
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that every guy you meet on

1045
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: a dating app is going to be a success story,

1046
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 1: but I do think you should be open to the

1047
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: possibility that there's a good guy. There could be a

1048
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: good guy anywhere. I mean, and it encourage you to

1049
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: talk to people at like your local Starbucks or just

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Speaker 1: like start meeting more people and opening your eyes because

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00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: it's like sometimes I think people like, oh, it's really

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00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: hard to meet people, but we meet people every single

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00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: day in our lives. We just need to be more open. Well, yeah,

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00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: and I would counter your thing about it you have

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Speaker 1: to go on dates to meet people, You don't really

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00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,720
Speaker 1: because you are in an internship and a grad school

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00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: program and you're gonna meet so many people doing those things.

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00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: It's just about getting to know people, vibing with somebody,

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00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 1: and spending some time together outside of the internship of

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00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:00,720
Speaker 1: the grad school program. Get together instead, you get together

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Speaker 1: in whatever, grab a coffee. Okay, I gotta look, But

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Speaker 1: I said get together and study. Study well Netflix and

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Speaker 1: show whatever study Tanya they do. I did not do

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Speaker 1: that in college. I'd be like, let's get isn't that shocking?

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00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 1: I would imagine Tanya being at home eight with their

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00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: books open influence. How did you get through college without studying?

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Speaker 1: I did study, But I would never ever ask a

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00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: guy that I like to get together and study what

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00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: it means to an end? No, I'd be like, let's

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00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: get together and get a drink, or like, let's that's

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00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 1: a harder ask than you're comparing notes with somebody and saying, hey,

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Speaker 1: you want to go over the library right now. It's

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Speaker 1: just it's it's establishing the library, establishing time together. That's

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Speaker 1: all it is. Yeah, And it puts them in a

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00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 1: position to to make the decision if they want it

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00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: to be romantic or not. It doesn't. It's not intimidating.

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Speaker 1: Let's go get a coffee. You're asking someone out in

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00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 1: a date. It's another level. But I kind of like

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Speaker 1: Elane's email. Can truly be friends with your ex's for?

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00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: That's pretty much you truly be friends with your rex.

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00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: Do you think you can be friends? You weren't friends

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00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: before you met through an app, so the only way

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00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 1: you've known each other is in a romantic capacity. I

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00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: have a strong opinion on this, but you guys go first. Well,

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Speaker 1: I think I think being friends with an X is difficult,

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00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 1: no matter what. But I really think it's hard when

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00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: you've only had a romantic relationship. I think if you

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00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: had a friendship before, that's if that's like a maybe

1089
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: it can happen. But I think once you start dating

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00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 1: other people, like if one of one party starts dating someone,

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00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 1: it's you're not gonna be like they're they're not gonna

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00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: want you to be friends with the exactly. That's a

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00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: hard note for me. No, but I do think I

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00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: think you can be friendly. Great, that's a great advice. No, yeah,

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00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: I could not be friends. I could not be friends.

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00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: Why would you want to be friends with your exes?

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00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Why? What's the big deal? You don't have

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00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: enough friends? Nothing irks me more pickle alert then somebody

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00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: ending you're dating time saying but we should still be friends.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be your friends. In my mouth,

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Speaker 1: in and around my mouth, I don't I did not

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Speaker 1: know what you're gonna say. I do not need you

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Speaker 1: to be my friend. I have a lot of friends.

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00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: My friend circle is full up. You are not a friend,

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00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 1: and I'm fine that you didn't work out to be

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00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: my lover. I feel like the only reason you want

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00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 1: to be friends with your axes if you still have

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00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: feelings for your ex so you can see them. Yes,

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Speaker 1: if you don't move on, well no, I mean to

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00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 1: be honest, I wanted to be friends with Robert, but

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00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: I was the one who I was the one who

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Speaker 1: ended the relationship. So of course it was because I like,

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Speaker 1: I'm always the one that ends it. Well yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean because yeah, there's no When you're hurt by someone,

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00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: the last thing you want to do is see them

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Speaker 1: and not be able to be romantic, like romantically involved

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00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: with them. It's painful. That would be painful for Robert

1118
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: in that situation should just go hang out with you platonically.

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01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: And all he's thinking is why does she want to

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Speaker 1: hang out with you? Maybe she don't want to go together.

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01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: Maybe And I'm not saying Robert felt that way. If

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Speaker 1: you think anybody in that situation, the dumpy is being

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Speaker 1: misled by this So the answer Lane is no, you cannot.

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Speaker 1: We do not give you permission to be friends with

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Speaker 1: your accent. Find some other friend day away from your act. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: next week, the Jonas Brothers will be here. They will

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Speaker 1: work my magic tonight t v D mr D on

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Speaker 1: the Jonas Brothers. I do think they're having some sort

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01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: of after party. So like it's just like, what can

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Speaker 1: I do? I don't know what you're gonna bring fector

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01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: to day after pretor tonight, wait after party for what?

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01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: The premiere you're going to? The premiere and the after party.

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01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 1: My new motto in life is you don't say no

1134
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: to the Jonas Brothers. So it's not just living. You

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01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: don't say no to the That's a good one too,

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01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 1: she pronged. They go hand in hand really essentially. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, it's that oh well, what kind of it's

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Speaker 1: that time? Um time of death twelve o four mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Inspired But you know what, I'm gonna stuck it up