Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm figuring it out for some reason that
Speaker 1: the solid holding down the base rage. Let me agitate
Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Everyone just kept telling the prep worry
Speaker 1: about you describe the breakfast club? Would the flow impacting
Speaker 1: the coach? And people watch the breakfast Club for like
Speaker 1: news and really be tuned in. Man, I don't even
Speaker 1: know what I call it the the breakfast Club. It's like
Speaker 1: brunch n Ye and Charlomagne. Wake that ass up, get
Speaker 1: out of bed and listen to the Breakfast Club. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm telling, I'm telling what hall of you. This is
Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest, whether you're
Speaker 1: mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one oh
Speaker 1: five one. We want to hear from you on the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Hey? Good morning, Lisa? How hey?
Speaker 1: What hey? Good morning? How are you? I'm fine? Thank you.
Speaker 1: Last time I called Charlomagne, you wasn't there. But I'm
Speaker 1: glad to hear your voice. I had a question for you, Charlemagne. Um, yes, man,
Speaker 1: why are you always why are you always yawning in
Speaker 1: the microphone like that? Like why do you do that?
Speaker 1: Why did you do that? Y'all? Yeah? So don't tell
Speaker 1: me because I'm high, because I wake up early in
Speaker 1: the morning. Don't tell me that, uh duh, it's six
Speaker 1: something in the morning. No, you're not. You're not still
Speaker 1: yawning white. You're not still yawning wiping coal out your
Speaker 1: eye and six something in the morning. Tell you don't know?
Speaker 1: Abody want to hear all that. That's just to me.
Speaker 1: That's like somebody yawning right next to me in my ear.
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, sorry, what are you doing right now?
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, yes, if you're I don't really know. Well,
Speaker 1: you're gonna hate to know that I passed gas too sometime.
Speaker 1: Not in my clothes though, oh not. Yeah, yeah, you
Speaker 1: both to the bathroom. You pull your hands down right
Speaker 1: well anyway, thank you. Oh one more thing, one more thing.
Speaker 1: Elijah McClean, Sandra Bland, Brianna Sailor. Let's do it right
Speaker 1: out like that. Hello, just about the yard before she
Speaker 1: said that, By the way, Hello, who's this? Hello? Hey?
Speaker 1: What's your name? Bro? Hello? Money making? Minus? How you're
Speaker 1: doing money? Money right now? You ain't making no money
Speaker 1: in a recession. You're crazy? Cut it out, charlotagny guard
Speaker 1: are you making money? Tell me how you're making money
Speaker 1: by giving proper advice on how people should post should
Speaker 1: be really cleaning that house. That's enough money for me
Speaker 1: to educate these people. Of course, um, if you really
Speaker 1: really really want to um kill its coronavirus or the
Speaker 1: all hospitals and everybody's home, just start from sterilization room.
Speaker 1: Start from the bathrooms. Then work your way out. Everything
Speaker 1: you use in the bathroom you could use around the
Speaker 1: whole apartment. Every hospital that's scared, they have training we
Speaker 1: sterility is important. So if you just experience your sterilization
Speaker 1: apartment and make the whole hospital sterile, then everything, every item,
Speaker 1: every equipment, every instrument can ask should we be I'm
Speaker 1: used properly? All these money making mine. Let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question. People actually paying for this advice of
Speaker 1: cleaning the bathroom, clean your bathroom. Actually I agree that
Speaker 1: I agree that you have to do sterilization. But you
Speaker 1: do know that it's transmitted from person to person right exactly,
Speaker 1: But it depends on how many people are in your house,
Speaker 1: and do you have a team that's doing sterilization. This
Speaker 1: is a family, this isn't people from next door on
Speaker 1: his mouth? How are you making many of this make money. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're talking about financial money. I don't need financial money.
Speaker 1: I don't need no financers. I'm fine financial the money
Speaker 1: is then, but yeah, my money there, but financially I'm fine.
Speaker 1: But the other money is the other important money. That's
Speaker 1: is information. Knowledge is pot knowledge is currency. You mean
Speaker 1: what you're saying, you know? So that so that right
Speaker 1: there alone, I'm saving lives by telling people I saw
Speaker 1: it in the military. Seventeen years as a medical office,
Speaker 1: I've done I've done the all forms of surgery. I've
Speaker 1: been in so many different situations. And we treat every patient.
Speaker 1: Now this is the coronavirus. We treat every patient as
Speaker 1: I think we HIV. Now we have to treat every
Speaker 1: patient as if they have HIV, corona um and all
Speaker 1: the other symptoms. That's that's that's that's pretty dope because
Speaker 1: now you have to stay on top of sterility for
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. You understand, this is no
Speaker 1: waiting all what thank you brother for calling man. We
Speaker 1: really don't understand. But you know, to each of own
Speaker 1: you're talking about that type of money. You're talking about
Speaker 1: financial money. What other money is there? I'm he he
Speaker 1: made he made currency. That's all. Was this, Mike, Mike
Speaker 1: Man what I'm getting about? Mike Man? I was stuff? Man?
Speaker 1: Uh you know, really, man, five years? Man, you waited
Speaker 1: five years to tell us that. No. I waited five years, y'all. Man,
Speaker 1: I've been calling for five years, great man, So what
Speaker 1: are you going to say? No? Man to shout out
Speaker 1: the boys of our Busts Incorporated. Man, we on our
Speaker 1: weird word every better state. Man, ain't he matter? I'm
Speaker 1: happy your live. There you go, King, I'm happy to
Speaker 1: be here. I appreciate it. Man, get it off your chests.
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
Speaker 1: you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the
Speaker 1: breakfast club of the morning, the breakfast club. This is
Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're
Speaker 1: man than from you on the breakfast club. You got
Speaker 1: something on your mind? Hello? Who's this? Jay? What up?
Speaker 1: Getting off your chests? Bro? Man? I got jail dirty,
Speaker 1: I got played, you know, I feel like crap, but
Speaker 1: uh here I had a business partner, I mean him
Speaker 1: winning the business together. You know, I gave. I gave everything. Um,
Speaker 1: I even went and got that ass. We ain't long
Speaker 1: he did too, and we went and went the business
Speaker 1: get to go on truck and everything, and he went
Speaker 1: behind my back got another truck. Yea, all this funny
Speaker 1: stuff went to an account without me everything, and I
Speaker 1: am I'm left with nothing. I had to I had
Speaker 1: to even fail where I was living at. I'm back
Speaker 1: with my parents, like I'm starting. I am so sorry.
Speaker 1: So y'all, y'all didn't have a contract with each other. No,
Speaker 1: he was my own boy. And then went through like
Speaker 1: three jobs together. You know, we introduced. We met at
Speaker 1: the same job. You found another one, got me on,
Speaker 1: and then I found a prod of one so we
Speaker 1: could get our class ACDLS and I brought him with.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to do your own boys. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to say, man, I had started a business with
Speaker 1: somebody I was I've known since I was like in
Speaker 1: fifth grade. But you know, in the future, because I
Speaker 1: do feel bad that this happened to you, make sure
Speaker 1: you do an operating agreement when you start a business
Speaker 1: with somebody, because you have to have your paperwork right.
Speaker 1: You never know what might happen that way. Legally, you'll
Speaker 1: be able to say. But even though you could be
Speaker 1: best friends, family members, married, but if you do have
Speaker 1: a business together. Do make sure you have an operating
Speaker 1: agreement and have a real lawyer. Invest in that because
Speaker 1: when things go left, you need to make sure. And
Speaker 1: a lot of times things do go left in business.
Speaker 1: You don't even want to have to have that conversation.
Speaker 1: It's just all in the paperwork. Yeah, see now how
Speaker 1: I feel Now, it's like, you know, I want to
Speaker 1: get back to this state. Like I said, I'm talking
Speaker 1: around here. You know, I ain't never, I ain't giving up.
Speaker 1: But right now you've got something to prove. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to get back to that stage. But I
Speaker 1: want to do it. Mean, I'm gonna do it myself,
Speaker 1: you know. And you got this. You learned a lot,
Speaker 1: You learned a lot. Yeah, already taking an out right
Speaker 1: Yeah no, yeah, you took it out, But that al
Speaker 1: also means learning from it. Yeah, it's a learning experience.
Speaker 1: Good luck brother. Hello, who's this? What's up? Man? This
Speaker 1: big rouping man Sat Louis Assouri. But I roaming get
Speaker 1: it off at man. I just want to say, first off, man,
Speaker 1: appreciate everything y'all do. Love all the y'all, especially my
Speaker 1: girl has really eat. But he heard the announcement for
Speaker 1: the super Bowl performances, man, And I was like you,
Speaker 1: I was hype man, and then get on the radio.
Speaker 1: We've got this negative Nancy Charlotte Maine that kids are. Man,
Speaker 1: it's kind of you know, ain't the wrong that performances? Man,
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a good shoe. Let me,
Speaker 1: let me, let me. Let me ask you a question, sir,
Speaker 1: Why do you think it's negative to ask why our
Speaker 1: legends in hip hop have to share a stage collectively
Speaker 1: when you got people like the Katie Perry's of the
Speaker 1: world and whoever else who don't even have the resume
Speaker 1: they do. They get their own solo show. And I
Speaker 1: asked the question. I said, I wonder if that was
Speaker 1: a prerequisite that in performing, because they don't let acts
Speaker 1: like that performance to super Bowl, Let's be clear. So
Speaker 1: I was wondering, was that a prerequisite? Are you know?
Speaker 1: I just was asking a question, that's all besides besides
Speaker 1: maybe like a Michael Jackson or Whitney us. And it's
Speaker 1: always been shows where artists are coming home with rock
Speaker 1: groups with rappers out there with him. So this ain't
Speaker 1: the first time that happened. Man. Everybody except Marry is
Speaker 1: from Cali Man, So Eminem is not from there. Eminem's
Speaker 1: from Detroit shouts not from there, but then he's been
Speaker 1: on all West Coast music. That's straight boy. That's not
Speaker 1: true either. But my point is if you're not wondering that,
Speaker 1: then you're just not thinking. I was just wondering why
Speaker 1: they had to do it as a collective. I love
Speaker 1: this show. I think it's a great lineup, but I'm
Speaker 1: just wondering why you had too, dog, I appreciate it. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for calling in. I said this morning. When
Speaker 1: I heard that, man, I was hype, and bro, you
Speaker 1: from Saint Louis, correct, from Saint Louis, right, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: start look look at look at property in Saint Louis.
Speaker 1: Real estate in Saint Louis is at a good price
Speaker 1: right now, and it's starting to increase a lot. So
Speaker 1: look at real estate in Saint Louis. That's my next stop.
Speaker 1: All right, right, O, man, make an announcing when you're
Speaker 1: coming at y'all do a seminar. So I definitely want
Speaker 1: to be a part of it. Now, I ain't doing
Speaker 1: no seminar. I'm just telling you to start looking at
Speaker 1: property in Saint Louis. Start googling, go to the website
Speaker 1: because I'm hearing there's a lot of great deals and
Speaker 1: they're starting to build up the city a lot more. Well,
Speaker 1: maybe you should do a seminar there then, baby, but
Speaker 1: thank you, brother, get it off your chest. Eight hundred
Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If you need
Speaker 1: to vent, phone lines a wide open, call us up. Now.
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Nick cast your Love Club,
Speaker 1: Angela Ye and Charlemagne the Guy. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee,
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
Speaker 1: a special guest in the building and she looked rich
Speaker 1: like Frequens on the boot. Charlene, listen, you know I'm
Speaker 1: out here doing something fine season xbo checks. It's not
Speaker 1: a bad welcome back. I appreciate y'all. I was looking
Speaker 1: around for my balloons and ace spade. Oh see, y'all
Speaker 1: did that for somebody else that came on here from
Speaker 1: the show. I was, it's cool. Damn, it's cool. That's cool.
Speaker 1: I love y'all too. Now listen, when you get this,
Speaker 1: I thought, what we're gonna do? Are you? That was
Speaker 1: your pandemic? Then I worked east and I we called
Speaker 1: each other actually like round June of twenty twenty, and
Speaker 1: we're like, yo, yo, who who all these people who
Speaker 1: are bored? And I don't have anything to do because
Speaker 1: now people know where we are, you know, like you
Speaker 1: can have like that cloak of like invisibility. Oh I'm busy,
Speaker 1: I'm traveling. Everybody was homes. I was like, no, no,
Speaker 1: we know your home, So can you do this other
Speaker 1: thing to me? So like we got like eight other
Speaker 1: things that were doing like I don't like that people
Speaker 1: can fight this no boo. I think by the time
Speaker 1: December of twenty twenty came around is when it was
Speaker 1: just like I think, like my plan of mine got
Speaker 1: canceled and it was the first time that I was like, man,
Speaker 1: this pandemic sucks. And uh my friend was like, so
Speaker 1: you mean you're just now feeling what everybody else is, Like,
Speaker 1: don't don't say that in public, and I was just like, yo,
Speaker 1: you're right, and I had to. I'm just like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm mad grateful that like I wasn't able to feel
Speaker 1: the brunt of it in terms of like how everyone
Speaker 1: else is because we were just on autopilots. I was
Speaker 1: writing a book, I was premiering the special, we were like,
Speaker 1: we were doing uh insecurities and four promos. Look, it
Speaker 1: was it was a lot just rolling. Yeah, yeadn't have
Speaker 1: a lot and I didn't have time to stop. And
Speaker 1: then I realized I was like, no, I need to
Speaker 1: sit down because the world's gonna open back up again.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real upset that I'd even sit down, right.
Speaker 1: So that's what I remember you saying last time I
Speaker 1: spoke to you. You wrote the book yourself, and you
Speaker 1: were like, damn it, why did I do that to myself?
Speaker 1: But I'm actually glad that I wrote it because as
Speaker 1: in the process of writing it, like I became myself right,
Speaker 1: you know, and I had to go through the journey
Speaker 1: of like not trying to be perfect or say the
Speaker 1: right thing. It was like, no, no no, no, You're gonna
Speaker 1: be vulnerable and you're gonna really tap into like who
Speaker 1: you are and what your voice is. It's relatable because
Speaker 1: you talk about your first hour long headliner set that
Speaker 1: you did, which I thought was a great story because
Speaker 1: a lot of times we do doubt ourselves, you know,
Speaker 1: when you agree to do something and you're like, don't
Speaker 1: feel like you're ready for it, and then you're hoping
Speaker 1: that it's gonna get canceled, y know. I think the
Speaker 1: biggest lesson I learned from that was that my agent
Speaker 1: gave me the freedom to fail, and as an immigrant,
Speaker 1: that's not a thing that we give ourselves. It's like
Speaker 1: like literally she was just like, well, let's just see.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, we're not about to let's just see,
Speaker 1: because it's it's an Atlanta. If it don't work out,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the one on stage getting booed. But
Speaker 1: she was just like, well, it'll let us know where
Speaker 1: you are, Like we can figure out like if you
Speaker 1: need another thirty minutes, or like if you just need
Speaker 1: a flower, like let's just see. And I that is
Speaker 1: that's so hard when you're a perfectionist. I'm a recovering perfectionist,
Speaker 1: but when you're a perfectionist, or when you're a Nigerian,
Speaker 1: we literally are say like Nacre lost, like we can't
Speaker 1: finish second. So the idea of let's just see it.
Speaker 1: If it fails, it's fine, we can regroup. No failure
Speaker 1: is like literally never an option. And in that moment,
Speaker 1: she was giving me the luxury of feeling that was
Speaker 1: that was a pivotal moment that changed and then I
Speaker 1: got my hour. What is something that Yvonne Orgy is
Speaker 1: hard on herself about because you always seem like so
Speaker 1: positive and go with the flow type? Well, you know,
Speaker 1: eas and flow is my new word for like I
Speaker 1: pick a word and being of the air. Those are
Speaker 1: my words for twenty twenty one. Okay, because I was
Speaker 1: really said, I said, this year, I'm becoming less Nigerian,
Speaker 1: don't don't. I love y'all, But I had to. I
Speaker 1: had to undo the gangster nest that comes from hustling
Speaker 1: grind because I know that, like that's been my security
Speaker 1: blanket and it's worked, Like I've got successful hustling grinding.
Speaker 1: And guy was like, can I show you another way? Um,
Speaker 1: just can you like sit back and receive? And I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, how I want it? It sounded good
Speaker 1: and I never forget. After we wrapped a season five
Speaker 1: of Insecure, like I found myself just like like not
Speaker 1: allowed to do for the first time in a long time.
Speaker 1: And I remember my therapy session and I was like, yo, fam,
Speaker 1: I feel mad lazy right now, like I don't know
Speaker 1: what to do, Like I feel lazy. I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm like, what what? What? Who am I? She was like,
Speaker 1: are you lazy? Or is your body just at rest
Speaker 1: from a decade of working. I was like, well read me.
Speaker 1: That is your name, doctor Mironda. Dude, Like what's going on?
Speaker 1: And that also free to me to be like, yo,
Speaker 1: we we put it on ourselves, like I've really done
Speaker 1: a great job of separating my work from my worth.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm so at peace with it. That's
Speaker 1: I'll be traveling. I'm just like, oh, I don't in
Speaker 1: this season. I don't feel compelled to like keep up.
Speaker 1: I've just I've done what I've done and things are
Speaker 1: in the oven and when they come out, they come out.
Speaker 1: So I'm we're just relaxing and chilling out. Yes, I gottama,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I ever got to that
Speaker 1: point like I feel like if I'm not doing something,
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not doing nothing. I gotta work.
Speaker 1: I'm lazy. I can't stop that. Yes, And in therapy,
Speaker 1: they'll tell you that being busy is a trauma response
Speaker 1: a lot of times, like you staying busy because you're
Speaker 1: running from something. You're afraid what may happen if you
Speaker 1: sit down and just be with yourself your thoughts. So
Speaker 1: you said you have to make space for a boo.
Speaker 1: I do so when it comes to you looking for
Speaker 1: a guy and standards, But what would you say you're
Speaker 1: looking for. I'm looking like you have to be currently
Speaker 1: walking in your purpose. I can't do those science fair projects.
Speaker 1: I appreciate everybody that's that's on the come up and
Speaker 1: do that. I'm just not there right now in my
Speaker 1: life to support that. And you know what, and there's
Speaker 1: going to be some people that like you missed out
Speaker 1: on I did. I did At this point in my life.
Speaker 1: I need a fully full armed human being who is
Speaker 1: currently working on themselves, knows who they are, confident in
Speaker 1: who they are, and like fulfilling purpose. You need a partner,
Speaker 1: not a project. Every single homegirl like God says that
Speaker 1: I need a partner not a project. Everybody's work is
Speaker 1: different and so for me, I'm like, I want to
Speaker 1: start here and work here. We have more with a
Speaker 1: von Orgy when we come back, don't move. It's to
Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Every Envy Angela
Speaker 1: Yee Charlomagne, the guy we all the breakfast club was
Speaker 1: still kicking it. With von org Yee. Now you're also
Speaker 1: hosting Yearly Departed, right, so talk to me about that
Speaker 1: because that's all women, phenomenal comedians. I feel like there's
Speaker 1: like a great time right now for women in comedy.
Speaker 1: What do you think? I think so too, that that
Speaker 1: project was really special because I literally had just come
Speaker 1: from Insecure that's like black and black, black and black.
Speaker 1: You know, it's just like lots of brown and brown stories,
Speaker 1: brown characters to jump down into, like, oh, all women.
Speaker 1: It's like, I love when representation is really represented. So
Speaker 1: it was like female producers, a female director, and the
Speaker 1: female comedic actor. So everybody wasn't a comedian, but they
Speaker 1: were like comedy in the comedy Zygei's space. And it
Speaker 1: was beautiful because everybody just brought their specialty. It's gonna
Speaker 1: be good. I hosted I have two like minologues and
Speaker 1: I think they weren't happen and then nice spend you
Speaker 1: the host. I like it though. Now, was there any
Speaker 1: part of you that really related to Molly last season?
Speaker 1: And was that tough on you psychologically because you've been
Speaker 1: the fan favorite for so long? Yeah, you know, pressure
Speaker 1: breakings were rough, and I was saying like season one,
Speaker 1: I felt like I didn't understand Molly. I was like
Speaker 1: this check like I didn't have a lot of Mollies
Speaker 1: in my life, and so I was like learning her.
Speaker 1: And then season two was kind of like, oh, she
Speaker 1: was teaching me some stuff, and then you know, at
Speaker 1: some point I was teaching her. We are kind of
Speaker 1: like either ahead of each other until now we're kind
Speaker 1: of parallel a little bit. And it's interesting because going
Speaker 1: through uh, you know, not being on set with East,
Speaker 1: I was shook. I was like, yo, East who wrote
Speaker 1: this season? Like we now we're on set together? Like
Speaker 1: when I see you were fighting, like this on't sit
Speaker 1: right with my spirit, But I understood I am acting.
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, this is rash um. But I
Speaker 1: learned in that season because it's like, Yo, you go
Speaker 1: as an adult going through a friendship breakup. That's it's wild,
Speaker 1: it's rough, and there's so many nuances. Did you think
Speaker 1: that this would have an impact on y'all real relationship though?
Speaker 1: I mean the fact because of the storyline and y'all
Speaker 1: wasn't spending that much time on set. It was like, man,
Speaker 1: this might impact our real fringe. No, because it was
Speaker 1: all love. I feel like the season finale is when
Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta let you go, Like it's
Speaker 1: like you're my friend, but like I'm really like you're
Speaker 1: releasing to the world now, like you're like you're a
Speaker 1: different EASA than when we started, and like we're not
Speaker 1: gonna be spending four to six months together every year,
Speaker 1: and it was it was kind of like it wasn't
Speaker 1: it wasn't a good buy because I know who you are,
Speaker 1: Like we still text everybody you know every day and
Speaker 1: she's stop. But it was like, like you're not mine,
Speaker 1: you know, like I really took ownership of what we had,
Speaker 1: not I found myself like emotional last Sunday when we premier,
Speaker 1: Like she was just like because we spent Thursday together,
Speaker 1: Friday together, Saturday together, and Sunday, I was just like
Speaker 1: in the bathtub listening to give so sad. But but
Speaker 1: it was also like y'all cigarettes journalist and so she
Speaker 1: was like, girl, you gonna come watch the premiere. But
Speaker 1: I was like, one, I'm tired too, Like I'm just
Speaker 1: being my feelings. She was like not. She was sitting
Speaker 1: in the bathtub crying. I was like, not you not
Speaker 1: respecting my Morgan dab, but it was it was It
Speaker 1: was funny because when she cracked me up, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is why I love you, because like she instantly
Speaker 1: got me out of my thing because for me, it
Speaker 1: was it. This is the thing that like ushered me
Speaker 1: into the platform that I had. And I know I'm
Speaker 1: doing other things, so not even like I'm going to
Speaker 1: do other things. I'm doing other things, but it is
Speaker 1: this feeling of like when you graduate college, you still cry,
Speaker 1: no point attended. It's like a sorority. So like y'all
Speaker 1: this was college for y'all and y'all going out into
Speaker 1: the world. Y'all got each other forever. Now. Molly also
Speaker 1: was in an interracial relationship. And now that you're single,
Speaker 1: could you see that for you? I could? I could,
Speaker 1: like I want to be happy. And I think when
Speaker 1: people see into racial they think like black or WII.
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's so many races out there. You know, Hey,
Speaker 1: if you'll be able to trust the guy though, because
Speaker 1: you're a different person, you're rich now, you got all
Speaker 1: these things, he's gonna have more money than me. How
Speaker 1: you gonna know that he's going to have more money
Speaker 1: than he's going to have before now but doesn't have
Speaker 1: as much going to have. Let me speak in look
Speaker 1: about social media. It appears that he has a lot
Speaker 1: of money, but I'm not with social project. But he
Speaker 1: doesn't have as much money as you do. You got money,
Speaker 1: you treat you well. Again, you well, and it would
Speaker 1: not be an option be disappointed if you're not with
Speaker 1: the Nigerian man. Um. I'm I want to be happy
Speaker 1: just because I know for you know, I think that
Speaker 1: will be. I mean, like, I'm I'm my dad's only daughter,
Speaker 1: and so my dad wants to have the whole traditional wedding,
Speaker 1: got the dowry, and I'm like, I got home to
Speaker 1: your dad. There are so many different types of men
Speaker 1: in this world, so many that's just there's a gamut
Speaker 1: of them. But I think, I think, I think after
Speaker 1: they understand, because I already did that. You know, I
Speaker 1: tried to give them the thing that they wanted and
Speaker 1: it didn't work out, and I was like, we are
Speaker 1: we good now, wonderful? Uh, And so I'm I'm I'm happy.
Speaker 1: How much looks matter? They matter a lot like looks physique. Earlier,
Speaker 1: you said it was nothing, you just wanted a man
Speaker 1: that wasn't a project all I'm learning from this conversation, Yvonne,
Speaker 1: is your dreams and your dreams, and you shouldn't share
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Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred five five one five.
Speaker 1: Want to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Talk about it the morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: the Guy we are the Breakfast Club. Now if you
Speaker 1: just joined us, we're talking about Amanda Sales, her character
Speaker 1: in Insecure. No, we're talking about Tiffany du Bois, the
Speaker 1: characters character in the character from Insecure. Correct, she wore
Speaker 1: a KA colors because her characters AKA and she did
Speaker 1: the sound well sound. I'm playing with them people, So
Speaker 1: we're asking what is your feelings on it? My whole
Speaker 1: take on it is like, if we know that they
Speaker 1: have to get clearance from the AKA organization, if people
Speaker 1: in these fraternities and these sororities are upset, shouldn't they
Speaker 1: take it up with the heads of their organizations. Shouldn't
Speaker 1: they have a conversation with them and say, look, we
Speaker 1: don't want our stuff used period, fictional or otherwise. We
Speaker 1: don't want nobody wearing all colors. We don't want nobody
Speaker 1: wearing all letters. We don't want nobody holding up our
Speaker 1: shield if they're not part of the organization. But should
Speaker 1: they be taking that up with the heads of said
Speaker 1: organization who give this clearance. Let me ask you something else.
Speaker 1: Do you feel it like people just don't like a
Speaker 1: man the seals And then you feel like if it
Speaker 1: was another actress they wouldn't win so hard. Um probably,
Speaker 1: but you know, um, you know I'm biased with with
Speaker 1: my good sister, you know, on it and everything too.
Speaker 1: Got a lot of people actually defending Amanda. I saw
Speaker 1: that too, which I thought that was hilarious. It was
Speaker 1: people saying, I don't like a man the seals, but
Speaker 1: those are the kind of critical thing because I like
Speaker 1: I like people that deal with nuance like that. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this umning everyone? Current? How old are you? First
Speaker 1: of all, I am thirty one year old? Okay? So
Speaker 1: yes um, I am a member of Gamma say the
Speaker 1: old Mega that passes in South Florida, shout out to
Speaker 1: all my swordboars um. So to answer the question first
Speaker 1: two foremost, I love Insecure. I love all of the
Speaker 1: actors and actresses in and and Secure. But I can kind
Speaker 1: of see why some members of my organization through some
Speaker 1: type of way. I do understand it's acting. But normally
Speaker 1: in movies with Greeks, you normally see them alter the
Speaker 1: Greek so they won't actually use the exact Greek letters
Speaker 1: like in drum lines, they use similar colors. So you
Speaker 1: was able to determine, like, Okay, he's probably a Kaffla
Speaker 1: He's probably a cute, but you didn't see the Omega
Speaker 1: patch on You didn't see Alpha Katha Alpha patch on
Speaker 1: the girl's uniform. So the fact that she actually has
Speaker 1: the patch, it could have been you know, like you said, um,
Speaker 1: Alpha Kath Alpha could have gave her her the right
Speaker 1: to use it, which I'm sure they probably did. But um,
Speaker 1: I know. One thing that I was kind of upset
Speaker 1: about is her using the word flour war. She's not
Speaker 1: a floor war. That's the word we use amongst each other.
Speaker 1: What's the word. That's the word, But she's saying they
Speaker 1: use it's a term of that's what they use in
Speaker 1: their own use. I've said, so, how do I refer
Speaker 1: to y'all? Then you don't refer to us a s wars?
Speaker 1: You refer to us members of Alpha ka Alpha. Hey,
Speaker 1: I got time. We're not said that word a thousand times.
Speaker 1: So I can't say sorority. You can't say sorority. It's
Speaker 1: just the word like if asually was to say to me, oh, hey, storrible,
Speaker 1: Oh no, I wouldn't do that, right, So that's the
Speaker 1: terminology we use amongst each other. So the fact that
Speaker 1: you guys are staying on already. Oh hey, it's not
Speaker 1: a big still, but some people really take it to
Speaker 1: heart because you know, if they die hard for things,
Speaker 1: I could a got you. So you're saying it was
Speaker 1: a shell that was really the issue, not necessarily the colors.
Speaker 1: They could have represented it without actually having that. Shouldn't
Speaker 1: y'all take this up with the organization. Shouldn't y'all take
Speaker 1: this up with the people who are giving clearance. Absolutely
Speaker 1: so absolutely, But it's just to clear the ear because
Speaker 1: people saying always petty. Yeah it's petty because you're not
Speaker 1: a part of that organization. But if you worked hard
Speaker 1: and for for your letters, it's not more so petty
Speaker 1: to you. You know, Alphas, Alpha open up doors that Hey,
Speaker 1: look at the vice president right listen. I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: honest with you. I can't tell you what to be
Speaker 1: mad at, can't tell you what to be offended by
Speaker 1: what It is petty to me. So you're right, but
Speaker 1: I'm not a member of the organization. My doctors in
Speaker 1: the sorority, she said, it's the dumbest argument. She said.
Speaker 1: It has to be cleared by the a k A.
Speaker 1: She says, we have to clear even the small indie
Speaker 1: productions of shows, if they're ever gonna if they ever
Speaker 1: use us or use our colors or our badges, it said,
Speaker 1: it has to be cleared. Sara, Sara, whatever will be
Speaker 1: will be? So what is it? It's k Sarah Ka Sarah. Look,
Speaker 1: you say he's trying to say whatever will be will be?
Speaker 1: What is that? What is the saying? Sarah? Okay, whatever
Speaker 1: it will be will be? South Carolina State University Baby
Speaker 1: honorary doctorate. All right, Hello, who's this? Hey, good morning?
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts? Um? I am a proud member
Speaker 1: of authority. Okay, talking about it anthetically, I wasn't mad
Speaker 1: at it, you know. I thought that it was an
Speaker 1: honor for them to try to, you know, showcases and
Speaker 1: a positive light. I mean, they could have didn't done
Speaker 1: you know, they could have did y'all dirty. I mean,
Speaker 1: what if what if they'd had y'all on the show
Speaker 1: and they was playing into all the BS stereotypes and
Speaker 1: all of that stupid stuff. That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: can understand if you know y'all portrayed in a negative light.
Speaker 1: I could see the uproar. But you know, hello, who's this?
Speaker 1: Hello the morning. My name is Tanisia, Hey, come on, Tnisia,
Speaker 1: what the rority are you? I am an Aka. I
Speaker 1: am part of the first African American sisterhood in America,
Speaker 1: and I am not bothered by Amanda Steals portraying an
Speaker 1: Aka as a character on Insecure. But my question is
Speaker 1: did they get permission for the character to be portrayed
Speaker 1: on the show? That is what this all comes down to.
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody should be personally attacking Amanda Steals.
Speaker 1: You have to get permission to use the license, and
Speaker 1: I haven't seen the show. I didn't see anything. I'm
Speaker 1: just responding to Twitter and listening to you this morning.
Speaker 1: But we don't know if that was allowed yet. So
Speaker 1: if they didn't get permission from the sorority to use
Speaker 1: the shield, then they are in violation. True indeed, but
Speaker 1: from what I was told, it was in a sorority
Speaker 1: house that they actually got permission to use. Right, she said,
Speaker 1: Aka's house. I don't know who the Aka is that
Speaker 1: allowed that to be shot in her home. Even she
Speaker 1: would have to give permission to give permission. She she
Speaker 1: that Aka can't give permission to use the license. That
Speaker 1: would have had to have come down from corporate yes,
Speaker 1: it has about that, then, I'm sure corporate would have
Speaker 1: told us that in advance to it being used in
Speaker 1: the show. I can't believe HBO it didn't get that pass.
Speaker 1: I'm almost positive, I mean, HBO, I'm sure I feel
Speaker 1: so too, Charlottage, and I do feel they got permission
Speaker 1: before actually going ahead and doing that, And they probably
Speaker 1: on permission in season one. And from what I just
Speaker 1: read that this is the final season of the show.
Speaker 1: So where's all this blacklashes coming from? So late in
Speaker 1: the game. I think they just noticed, to be honest
Speaker 1: with you, because I remember they even had I think
Speaker 1: it was last year it said future Aka on a
Speaker 1: hat on an Tiffany's baby's hat. I think, okay, right, well,
Speaker 1: the future Aka is different from just totally wearing the
Speaker 1: shield got you. But what's the moral of the stories?
Speaker 1: I think the moral of the stories. I just want
Speaker 1: us to understand the difference between real life and entertainment,
Speaker 1: because I'm telling you my biggest fear with social media
Speaker 1: is that we're all becoming the these who cried Wolf,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And if everything causes outrage,
Speaker 1: then nothing is truly outrageous. Like if you're constantly mad
Speaker 1: about nothing. Then when something really pops up, why should
Speaker 1: we take any of y'all serious? That's all because every
Speaker 1: single day folks are really mad about nothing, like enraged
Speaker 1: about nothing. Yeah, absolutely too. Shall pass exactly by to
Speaker 1: day by to day, literally today, give it, give it
Speaker 1: to a ten eleven o'clock. It to be something else.
Speaker 1: We got more coming up next to don't move, Happy Holidays,
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the
Speaker 1: breakfast Club, The breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be
Speaker 1: the same morning. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the
Speaker 1: guy we are the Breakfast Club. We got a special
Speaker 1: guest in the building, our guy, Nick Cannon. We're here
Speaker 1: all right. The street say Nick, no condom, Cannon, fertilizer.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do you, man, Honestly, somewhere at ten to twelve,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't you got so many too? And the one
Speaker 1: on the way if I'm gonna have a sick I'm
Speaker 1: stopping it. Really, I'm are you sure? Is it the
Speaker 1: beauty of fatherhood? Man? When you really talk about like
Speaker 1: the essence of living in as a father to man,
Speaker 1: I've learned so much just from my children, man like,
Speaker 1: and it's so amazing, and I really just love being
Speaker 1: around my kids and just that youthful energy. It feels
Speaker 1: like you get to relive every time. And I think
Speaker 1: because you know, I've been through so much in my life,
Speaker 1: you know, physically, mentally, and spiritually, Like the best place
Speaker 1: that I find is the time that I spend with
Speaker 1: my kids and the energy and to get as much
Speaker 1: of that as possible to pass on, you know, all
Speaker 1: that I've lived into something else. That's why I do it. Man,
Speaker 1: It's not the number of kids. So I guess people
Speaker 1: question the different baby mothers. That's why do people question that.
Speaker 1: That's a Eurocentric concept when you think about the ideas
Speaker 1: of like you're supposed to have this one person for
Speaker 1: the rest of your life, and really that's just to
Speaker 1: classify property when you think about it, I mean, like
Speaker 1: when you go into that mindset, if we're really talking
Speaker 1: that talk, like just the idea that a man should
Speaker 1: have one woman, we shouldn't have anything. I have no
Speaker 1: ownership over this person. Like if we're really talking about
Speaker 1: how we coexist and how we populate, it's about what
Speaker 1: exchange can we create together? So I've never really subscribed
Speaker 1: to that mentality, you know. I mean, I understand the
Speaker 1: institution of marriage and stuff, but if we go back
Speaker 1: to what that was about, that was the classify property.
Speaker 1: That was because one father gave another man his daughter
Speaker 1: for land. So when you really get to that concept,
Speaker 1: it's like we gotta change all of it stuff because
Speaker 1: I don't want ownership over anybody. I don't have ownership
Speaker 1: of any of the mothers, or like we create families
Speaker 1: in that sense that we created a beautiful entity. So
Speaker 1: I like, I mean, I get into it because I
Speaker 1: don't you know, those are the concepts that a lot
Speaker 1: of people because we're so indoctrinated into it, like we
Speaker 1: have to have it this way. I don't subscribe it.
Speaker 1: I actually think women are blessing us. That those women,
Speaker 1: those women and all women are the ones that open
Speaker 1: themselves up to say I would like to allow this
Speaker 1: man in my world, and I will birth this shot.
Speaker 1: So it ain't my decision. I'm following suit. So I
Speaker 1: respect that game. You running on them, that's what you're spitting,
Speaker 1: that they're the ones are making the choice. Twomen you
Speaker 1: have to in a relationship with. They don't mind that you.
Speaker 1: Every woman that I deal with or deal with, they
Speaker 1: know how I feel, and it's usually is a concert
Speaker 1: like I don't. I'm not going around like I'm who
Speaker 1: I'm impregnate nicks Like nah, it's usually scenarios and like
Speaker 1: that's the thing. People say certain things in the public,
Speaker 1: But when you really look at how a family infrastructure
Speaker 1: is designed, the woman is the one that always leads
Speaker 1: and makes the decision. I agree whole hard. I said
Speaker 1: that all the time. I say that we had to
Speaker 1: do some real societal brainwashing to make people believe that
Speaker 1: men were the actual leaders. But just by nature, you
Speaker 1: can look and see women run everything. You know, only
Speaker 1: think we have brute force, that's about it. And even
Speaker 1: now that's changing drastically. And when we've used our brute
Speaker 1: force to brainwash society to think that we're the overpowering
Speaker 1: or the one that controls just because maybe we can physically,
Speaker 1: women lead in every scenario that I've had, I stepped
Speaker 1: back and say, how do you want to do this? Well?
Speaker 1: I've heard people say that they think you having all
Speaker 1: these kids with different women is selfish because you can't
Speaker 1: possibly give the time to all of the different kids.
Speaker 1: Time is a man main construct when you like, if
Speaker 1: we're talking quantity over quality, every single one of my kids,
Speaker 1: I'm at every basketball game, every martial, large practice on them,
Speaker 1: and people don't understand how I do it. But that's
Speaker 1: literally my children on my priority. It's all about being president.
Speaker 1: And I always say for all of those people that
Speaker 1: that say, man, there's no way he can do it,
Speaker 1: I sit back and watch interesting conversation. I respect you're
Speaker 1: right to move that way. I'm a married man. I
Speaker 1: love being married. I love the idea of being with
Speaker 1: one woman in building a family building, and I feel
Speaker 1: like I wanted to figure like I remember being in
Speaker 1: that space and I was with the one woman I've
Speaker 1: always wanted to be with for mind time, I lived
Speaker 1: the dream and I saw it was so much to that.
Speaker 1: But for me, based on for my trajectory in life,
Speaker 1: I was like, there's a little bit more, and even
Speaker 1: like I can even admit like as sometimes there was
Speaker 1: selfish concepts of like I feel like my purpose is
Speaker 1: greater outside of just being in this institution. And I personally,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, salute to anybody else who does it.
Speaker 1: But I can't get out here and talk about how
Speaker 1: much I live my truth, walking truth only to the truth,
Speaker 1: and I'm creeping like so every woman that deals with
Speaker 1: me knows that, Yeah, well we know what it is.
Speaker 1: Does it make you crazy when people when they when
Speaker 1: they judge your relationship online, like, I remember you just
Speaker 1: had your recent baby and you're in this strip club
Speaker 1: with me, and people are like, how is it in
Speaker 1: this strip club when you just had a baby an
Speaker 1: hour ago? It's a lot of noise? Watch how I move? Like,
Speaker 1: is anybody complaining? Do my children look like they're not
Speaker 1: well behaved or in a in a space, whether they're
Speaker 1: suffering or any lack emotionally, physically, whatever it is, you
Speaker 1: think it's a coincidence that um Nick cannon is and
Speaker 1: see and no condoms? Then you think that as a
Speaker 1: coincidence or that the mind? Now let's let's that's I
Speaker 1: like that contre the popular belief I do wear a condom? Please,
Speaker 1: what reason do we have to believe that a condo?
Speaker 1: Because nobody's gonna use ye a matter of fact, what
Speaker 1: is the brand? They can be discontinued. I keep the
Speaker 1: gold packs with me, but the little baggage somebody slipping
Speaker 1: up a little be breaking though they do. Okay, So
Speaker 1: let's go through this product talk. Let's talk. Every relationship
Speaker 1: starts off with the condom, yes, correct, Then once you
Speaker 1: feel like you get there's trust, it's comfortable. And then
Speaker 1: once however, that first slippage of either you didn't have it,
Speaker 1: the condom breaks, something you was in the shower and
Speaker 1: they slipped it or whatever, and like, all right, well
Speaker 1: we don't cross this threshold. Now, we don't need no more.
Speaker 1: You know how it feels now? And then because and
Speaker 1: that's why I say no children or ever accidents, because
Speaker 1: if we make the conscious effort of stepping up and
Speaker 1: having h you know you're you're gonna have you're preparing
Speaker 1: to have a child. Correct. So anybody that you anybody
Speaker 1: I've ever had unprotected sex with, I knew, okay, this
Speaker 1: is someone I wouldn't mind creating life with. So if
Speaker 1: I meet somebody, and usually I don't like meeting new people,
Speaker 1: but I'm ninety nine point nine percent gonna be strapped
Speaker 1: up in that sense. I don't drink, I don't mind.
Speaker 1: I'm always I don't I'm under the right sober state
Speaker 1: of mind every time I go into any sexual activities.
Speaker 1: Your kids are close to the same age, So that
Speaker 1: means you're slinging with no curls to a couple of girls.
Speaker 1: Now as someone who has to see the doctor because
Speaker 1: of my other ailments, Yeah, and I probably got a
Speaker 1: little careless with that because I'm STD checking every week
Speaker 1: because I get my blood taken every week because of lupus,
Speaker 1: So I usually know where I'm at and I also
Speaker 1: usually know so and in that scenario, she knows what
Speaker 1: it is. If someone suggests using the column, of course
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing. Do you think you might come
Speaker 1: back and be like, no, I do want to be
Speaker 1: with one person. When you talk about marriage, you're talking
Speaker 1: about the business of marriage, because that's marriage is a business.
Speaker 1: It's a contract, right, I mean I think it's a
Speaker 1: soul tie too. I mean, when you find the right person,
Speaker 1: that's a covenant. But I much rather have someone as
Speaker 1: a companion for life. I'm not moved by sex. I
Speaker 1: don't make decisions off of sex. I probably have some
Speaker 1: of the closest people in my life when it comes
Speaker 1: to women that I'm not sexually active, and I tell
Speaker 1: off top if it's about your vagina, we can take
Speaker 1: that off the table from the gate because now I
Speaker 1: can really get to know you, because now I'm not
Speaker 1: I don't know. Clearly the world knows. I have enough
Speaker 1: access to vaginas, so let me really break down where
Speaker 1: we at with it. So I feel like some of
Speaker 1: my strongest relationships with women going we in our forties now,
Speaker 1: like like later on in life, and she ain't even
Speaker 1: work in the way it is that hold, yeah, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be like, who can I go to the movies with?
Speaker 1: I'd rather focus on in that direction and figure out
Speaker 1: who can I solely have sex with? One that I'm
Speaker 1: not moved by that So like again, those constructs don't
Speaker 1: believe I'm I don't think about that. But I'll tell
Speaker 1: you one thing, boy, it's men out here who can't
Speaker 1: commit to one woman that's listening to saying that spitting
Speaker 1: this morning that the next I don't just I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't disagree with what you're saying because
Speaker 1: you have the right to live that way. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: don't work for me. I gotta be I love, I
Speaker 1: respect and salute anyone who can be an honorable relationship
Speaker 1: because it's not easy to do. If it's exostly, I'm like, dang,
Speaker 1: I could never do that. That's not for the ad
Speaker 1: just like everybody can't be a priest every like. And
Speaker 1: so when I see I believe to come together and
Speaker 1: become one that's powerful. That's that's blessed by God. You
Speaker 1: can't do it by yourself. Now because of my scenario,
Speaker 1: every time somebody meets me and see me, they already
Speaker 1: have a like Dann who was in the fourth grade
Speaker 1: that I can't what like I've never I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't have a woman in my life that's half
Speaker 1: my back from day one who rocked with me through
Speaker 1: the ball. And you feel that way because like like
Speaker 1: Charlomagne and I've been with my wife since she was fifteen.
Speaker 1: I was sixteen, right, so she's been there before DJ envy,
Speaker 1: before the money going to the boat, that getting dow
Speaker 1: ladies and drinking cord of waters. That's like like, that's
Speaker 1: that's that's a blessing from God. And everybody can't have,
Speaker 1: you know, the small percentage of that power of like
Speaker 1: that's something that's other kind of love. I'm you you me.
Speaker 1: I don't have the I'm you you me. Everybody is
Speaker 1: like I think I could beat what you want I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm cool by myself. All we got more with Nick
Speaker 1: Kenny when we come back, dope move it's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, maybe done? What the murder? If you let me?
Speaker 1: All going done? Five? Uncle, y'all my morning. Everybody is
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Nick Cannon. Do
Speaker 1: you regret giving Kevin Hart that lama? No, I wasn't wonder.
Speaker 1: You don't even stop. You didn't change the number. No,
Speaker 1: I mean I need it's still my phone number. And
Speaker 1: then they yeah, what's on the Breakfast Club? Man? You
Speaker 1: calling it hello? And that's the other thing is so
Speaker 1: it constantly called I wonder because it kept ringing the
Speaker 1: whole time, the whole this and it's just and it's
Speaker 1: on silent. That's the other. You got to protect your piece. No.
Speaker 1: So the thing is, obviously we got the prank wars
Speaker 1: going on now. I was trying to first like me
Speaker 1: and keV do this all like it's just so happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like he because we always prank each other, especially around
Speaker 1: birthdays and stuff like that. I'll be sending just stupid
Speaker 1: stuff to his house, and I sent the lama and
Speaker 1: then Smoker gonna put my phone number on a billboard
Speaker 1: and it will not stop ringing something like I'll be answering, like,
Speaker 1: all right, so what should I do to get this back? Like,
Speaker 1: because the brilliance of this prank is the world got
Speaker 1: to be a part of it. Usually our pranks is
Speaker 1: like private and silly, over the top. Now everyone has
Speaker 1: my phone number, so that's another I'll keep it on
Speaker 1: because it's like, until I get this back, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be constantly reminded that I gotta deal with pick it
Speaker 1: up this far sep and just relax. Well, obviously I'll
Speaker 1: put it in the other room when I'm trying to sleep,
Speaker 1: but it's like, this is my phone, it's and that's
Speaker 1: the thing, because I'm not a slave to these devices
Speaker 1: like that. So as much as that is an inconvenience,
Speaker 1: it'll probably be more of an inconvenienced if I if
Speaker 1: I was one of them dudes that just keep it
Speaker 1: by the you know, all the time. So that's that's
Speaker 1: over there. But Kevin har y'all shooting real husbands now
Speaker 1: is just part of the show. Now it should have been.
Speaker 1: I think we already had, you know, our storylines and
Speaker 1: stuff already put together before that jumped off. But we're
Speaker 1: doing some big things with that, like me and Kevin's pranks,
Speaker 1: you guys, Donna, and I really need y'all help to
Speaker 1: figure out what I should do next, because all of
Speaker 1: it that I had playing are not as good as this.
Speaker 1: Like I was doing dumb, I was putting bubble bath
Speaker 1: in his pool, like I was doing I was doing
Speaker 1: rich inconvenient one of his cars. But like this was
Speaker 1: good because this inconvenience, my life in the world got
Speaker 1: to be a I was like, oh, I gotta rethink
Speaker 1: all of it that I was going to do. So
Speaker 1: I don't know Kevin's coming, It's definitely coming. I'm cooking
Speaker 1: up in the world goes see now listen, I know
Speaker 1: I saw your Howard Stern interview, and you know, I
Speaker 1: know we all have to embrace the fact that we're
Speaker 1: not gonna be here forever, right, you know what? And
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about that too, because that was
Speaker 1: an interview from over five years ago, and I was
Speaker 1: when I say, I was fresh out the hospital, like
Speaker 1: seven blood transfusions they you know, over people whispering in
Speaker 1: the corner talking to my mama, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like it was one of them times. And that was
Speaker 1: probably the third or fourth time I've been in a
Speaker 1: scenario like that. So when you're in that space, you
Speaker 1: get to you have to come to those moments you're
Speaker 1: sitting up looking at the selling in the hospital, having
Speaker 1: weird dreams and all that stuff, like, Okay, this is
Speaker 1: this is what it's like, it's about to go. I
Speaker 1: appreciate the time that I've had on this planet, and
Speaker 1: then when you come out of it, because of your resilience,
Speaker 1: you're in a different mindset as well. And then you
Speaker 1: get back to this space. I feel like there's I
Speaker 1: call it spiritual portals, you know what I'm And when
Speaker 1: you're close to that portal, you're you're in a different,
Speaker 1: thin mold of acceptance. And I was probably on that conversation.
Speaker 1: You know, we'd be talking and joking a lot of
Speaker 1: it because the mike's cracked open. But I was definitely
Speaker 1: probably in that space of like, it is what it is.
Speaker 1: You know, I had a good ride. How do you
Speaker 1: feel now? I'm probably because I'm that was so far removed.
Speaker 1: I definitely appreciate each and every day. But I want
Speaker 1: to get the most out of life. But I don't know,
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I feel like that was a little dark.
Speaker 1: I was in a darker space because I was truly
Speaker 1: fresh out of the hospital. And it's funny how because people,
Speaker 1: it's just the media, how people started seeing all of
Speaker 1: these stories about me and all of these kids, and
Speaker 1: then that interview popped up from five years ago, and
Speaker 1: they're like, Oh, that's what it is. He's that's irresponsible
Speaker 1: in itself too. That's what somebody said to me. Somebody
Speaker 1: said that Nick is having all these kids, but he
Speaker 1: thinks he's not gonna be here long. That's selfish. Nah,
Speaker 1: that's not it is that if that was if I
Speaker 1: set out on some fanos, like if I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be here a loss, so let me
Speaker 1: get impregnate as many people as possible, that is that's
Speaker 1: a very selfish mentality. They took two different concepts and
Speaker 1: kind of put them together. And again, I'm in therapy
Speaker 1: twice a week, so when I literally I went to
Speaker 1: my therapists and you know, I'm like, do I think,
Speaker 1: like am I'm moving? Like this is this? Why? And
Speaker 1: to have nothing to do with each other, like the
Speaker 1: my my concept on the time that we have in
Speaker 1: this realm and then experiences that we get to seventy
Speaker 1: five eighty five hopefully plus years that we get to see.
Speaker 1: I want to make the most out of them. But
Speaker 1: I'm not out here at all. I want to go
Speaker 1: get have as many kids and cover as much ground
Speaker 1: as possible. Now that's not that was a wild room
Speaker 1: in the room of that that you got young and
Speaker 1: may pregnant, but all of me. I mean again, this
Speaker 1: is what we do jokes like I'm I can't wait
Speaker 1: for it. Like I'm one of the probably people you've
Speaker 1: seen wild, and I got the toughest skin in the game.
Speaker 1: There's no I don't think there's anyone who's ever up
Speaker 1: set me or I mean, even our relationship over here,
Speaker 1: we grew to be so close. I'm like, I'm hilarious
Speaker 1: to me, I'm not. I'm not moved by that. So
Speaker 1: I actually appreciate every joke. And that's why I created
Speaker 1: Wild out right. I've been getting rich off of y'all
Speaker 1: talking about me for decades. And how did you feel
Speaker 1: when your crew held you down? Wid Yea, they definitely did.
Speaker 1: And I salute to them. And that's when you build
Speaker 1: a strong unit, a strong family. That's what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to do. Uh, staying solid. I don't even think I
Speaker 1: had anything to do with me. They just solid people.
Speaker 1: Because there's a lot of people who did you know,
Speaker 1: start tap dancing and got real flimsy out there. You know,
Speaker 1: I'll always say they want to be solid, but they
Speaker 1: ain't solid, you know what I mean. I salute that.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm surrounded by a team of solid individuals.
Speaker 1: But I don't knock anybody who make whatever decision they
Speaker 1: have to make because of their family. Get it. Everybody
Speaker 1: has different motivations. So even you know the people who
Speaker 1: who were willing and you know, jumped out there. Those
Speaker 1: people are you just see. I always say, all the
Speaker 1: situations I go through, I think Doctor King talked about it,
Speaker 1: it's like, uh kaleidoscope of character revelation. You can see
Speaker 1: people's true colors. When you see you can step back
Speaker 1: in and I don't hate you for you being who
Speaker 1: you are. I just now, I'm so glad I know
Speaker 1: who you are now because as the leader in the situation,
Speaker 1: I'm like, do what's best for you. I got this.
Speaker 1: Let me, let me handle this. I'm strong enough to
Speaker 1: stand firm on my beliefs in my walk in this
Speaker 1: journey that I got to go through, and I know
Speaker 1: the support is there because the support came from the
Speaker 1: real ones who called me. So I was one of
Speaker 1: the first people like, man, we gotta figure this out.
Speaker 1: We got it, you know what I mean. Like and
Speaker 1: even those times where I wasn't even accessible because I
Speaker 1: had to step out of the bubble for a minute
Speaker 1: to be like, all right, let me see what this is.
Speaker 1: Because it was a point where I was public enemy
Speaker 1: number one to everyone. Yeah, for me, it was It
Speaker 1: wasn't the professional stuff, you know, you get through that.
Speaker 1: It was like the personal I'm like, yeo, let's make
Speaker 1: sure Nick is good. Yeah. It was heavy too, man,
Speaker 1: because I got to this space, man, and then I'm
Speaker 1: never like I value life, but I've been into I've
Speaker 1: I've mentally, physically and spiritually been in places where I've
Speaker 1: been in some very dark plays to where I'm stuck.
Speaker 1: I'm in the mud and i can't move. So when
Speaker 1: you get to that space where you feel like it returns,
Speaker 1: all of those thoughts start coming and you start thinking like, well,
Speaker 1: if I can't move? Is this it? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, you start thinking, it's life better without
Speaker 1: without because it's so painful not being able to move
Speaker 1: if I just get out the way, and then those
Speaker 1: dark thoughts. And it's unfortunate because I had an artist
Speaker 1: that was signed to me and I watched him struggle
Speaker 1: so much with those those demons and that mental anguish.
Speaker 1: And this man had been dealing with the pain of
Speaker 1: life for so long, and it got to a point
Speaker 1: where he did end up taking his own life. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I'm sitting here playing with it and
Speaker 1: the fact that I'm stuck in this moment right here.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even able to communicate and connect with him
Speaker 1: during that time, and he took his life and that
Speaker 1: that happened literally like the second day all of this
Speaker 1: was going on, and that brought me out of the
Speaker 1: minute because I was like, Okay, the bulls I'm going through.
Speaker 1: This man was experiencing so much pain. I've never experienced that.
Speaker 1: And so that's where you know, even and I commend
Speaker 1: you in all the amazing work that you do in
Speaker 1: the space of mental health, because we don't talk about
Speaker 1: it enough. We don't deal with it, but because we
Speaker 1: all experience it and people are like, oh, you got
Speaker 1: a mental illness, It's like, yeah, I do, but you don't.
Speaker 1: Let's bring all of our pain to the table and
Speaker 1: discuss it opposed to pointing fingers at pain. And I've
Speaker 1: learned through that process, like, yo, what I'm going through
Speaker 1: is gonna help somebody else. All right, we got more
Speaker 1: with Nick Kenny when we come back, don't move. It's
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is tj Envy,
Speaker 1: Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club
Speaker 1: was still kicking it with Nick Cannon. Charlemagne, what advice
Speaker 1: with Nick Cannon? Give it the baby right now? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: the course correction is fine, right, I think that's what
Speaker 1: you that's what we learned from your situation and didn't
Speaker 1: wrong a course correction. First of all, I think not
Speaker 1: only in the black community, and I've experienced it's not only,
Speaker 1: but definitely just men. A lot of times we have
Speaker 1: that ego we believe apologizing is weakness when it actually
Speaker 1: takes great strength to step up to anyone and say
Speaker 1: I was wrong. A lot of times we think apologize
Speaker 1: like I'm sorry you feel bad. Sorry, someone's feeling no,
Speaker 1: you have to step up and say, oh, I didn't
Speaker 1: handle that in a way that I'm not perfect, and
Speaker 1: that shows strength. I'm no baby, and that's a strong brother.
Speaker 1: And I've been with a lot of traumas. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: just the fact that man not only just lost his pops,
Speaker 1: his brother, all the things that he and and still
Speaker 1: to be had that big smile that he has every
Speaker 1: day knowing everything they come like, you know, I grew
Speaker 1: up in Charlotte. Part of my life. I know that life.
Speaker 1: I think it's the attacked though, and that could be
Speaker 1: part of ego, Like you know, you do something wrong right,
Speaker 1: and instead of having a conversation like we're having now,
Speaker 1: it's the attack. Now you want to cancel me now
Speaker 1: As a man, I just want to be like y'all
Speaker 1: and now you can't say what I mean. But and
Speaker 1: that and that's he a fighter, right, We've seen we
Speaker 1: seen his back against the wall. He's swinging right, He
Speaker 1: swingings just so he could get out of it. So
Speaker 1: we all have to accept emotion. And there's people that
Speaker 1: I had some very harsh conversations with initially that I'm
Speaker 1: we're close now because we got to the after you
Speaker 1: chunk him up then like, Okay, this was a misunderstanding,
Speaker 1: I said, And I've I've had to have many of
Speaker 1: those conversations and I'm gonna continue to have conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because that's growth to say I'm sorry, that's a self proclamation,
Speaker 1: you just m that's not to apologize as an action,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And to actually repent or
Speaker 1: a home is actually the next level because now you're
Speaker 1: trying to understand this education involved with that. There's actually
Speaker 1: community involved that. And that's the other thing too, where
Speaker 1: I challenge all these people who want to cancel somebody
Speaker 1: and even specifically in the baby's situation, let's use this
Speaker 1: as an opportunity for education, because that's what happened in
Speaker 1: my scenario to where I still stuck true to the truths.
Speaker 1: The minister told me this where he was like, I
Speaker 1: don't ever want falsehood to come out of my mouth.
Speaker 1: So if I'm saying something that is not correct about
Speaker 1: your community, show me where I'm incorrect. Help me understand,
Speaker 1: because not only is that gonna help me, but you're
Speaker 1: gonna help so many other people who think like me.
Speaker 1: How do you feel about all those festivals pull it
Speaker 1: them off. I feel like that's the wrong thing to do.
Speaker 1: One hundred. I don't agree with it, just because it's like,
Speaker 1: what statement is that making other than you're just following.
Speaker 1: It's group think. It's mob rule. Mob rule has never
Speaker 1: worked in any society to where it's like, oh, well
Speaker 1: they did it, we gotta do it. It's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can't lose this sponsorship. If Pepsi Poor Coke gotta
Speaker 1: pull out, you know what I mean? So then who
Speaker 1: are you really because you you can be knocked off.
Speaker 1: There's a group that can force you to do what
Speaker 1: you want to do with your brand. And it's unfortunate
Speaker 1: because when I don't I think if we had sat
Speaker 1: down and had individual conversations and this is a moment
Speaker 1: where we should all gather around the baby and embrace him,
Speaker 1: because if we can do that, watch how many mentalities
Speaker 1: would change in the hip hop community. First of all,
Speaker 1: and then it's gonna be consequences and that person has
Speaker 1: to be held accountable. But then you got to get
Speaker 1: that person the opportunity to learn and you use it
Speaker 1: as a teachable moment. Fat and he is such a
Speaker 1: He's a great example of that because of all that
Speaker 1: he's been through. He's an intelligent person. There's other people
Speaker 1: out there they save while yeah they ain't no help,
Speaker 1: don't save them. But someone like that, you can utilize him.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you he'd sit down and talk with Madonna.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you he'd sit down and talk with jo
Speaker 1: I get and it wouldn't be for the bag. He good.
Speaker 1: But if this is the opportunity to take his fan
Speaker 1: as on a journey, and a lot of people don't
Speaker 1: even see it. We see the polarizing conversation, We see
Speaker 1: what some people being, what do you wrong? Though? Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah he was, but but but there's certain things about
Speaker 1: it that we've been trained to think that let's unpack that,
Speaker 1: because let's let's break it down. We know what the
Speaker 1: baby was doing. Like as entertainers, as DJ, you call yo,
Speaker 1: if I'm all all the ugly people be quiet, I
Speaker 1: need all the bad bitches in the building to get
Speaker 1: to make some noise. He just took it to a
Speaker 1: whole nother. But again, it was some call in response.
Speaker 1: Because if you feeling like you the healthiest and the
Speaker 1: happiest you could be in the moment, you're gonna make
Speaker 1: some noise, But what about the people who are not
Speaker 1: feeling healthy? What about the people who do feel ugly?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, damn, you just called
Speaker 1: me out that I was a trigger. Now I came out,
Speaker 1: paid my good money, and now people looking at me funny.
Speaker 1: And we got to understand the power that we had
Speaker 1: as the people with the micro phones. But one of
Speaker 1: my my biggest problem, I think was and I hate
Speaker 1: to single anybody out right, but I look at Eminem right,
Speaker 1: Eminem's has said wow, still saying wow. Shoot shut out
Speaker 1: the marshal. But then he did the thing with Elton
Speaker 1: John and everything was good, right right. Then a couple
Speaker 1: of years later he went back to it my whole
Speaker 1: three years ago. Yeah, so my whole. I didn't see
Speaker 1: him pull anything from him. I never seen TV. We
Speaker 1: know the current fear of caucasianness. It seems like they
Speaker 1: gave him a chance to redeem himself and they did
Speaker 1: it the right way. With my baby just seems like
Speaker 1: and I think, and I think it's too early, because
Speaker 1: I think they will do it with the baby. Will
Speaker 1: they will? He's gonna the baby's not canceled, the baby's
Speaker 1: not over. I pray he utilizes this moment and sees
Speaker 1: where this can actually turn around and be a good moment.
Speaker 1: I always say, you know, doctor I quote Doctor King
Speaker 1: every freaking day. But it's like where Evil Man plot
Speaker 1: good Man playing, because these are conversations that need to occur, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's crazy that we have to and I don't know why,
Speaker 1: but it's always like this. It has to be something
Speaker 1: extreme that gets us to these conversations. Yeah, well it's
Speaker 1: about racism, whether it's about sexuality, whether it's about gender,
Speaker 1: it's always a symptimic whatever, it's always something that happens
Speaker 1: that get us to have these conversations. Something extreme has
Speaker 1: to happen. And that I think all that you've been through,
Speaker 1: all that I've been through, envy, even the stuff that
Speaker 1: you go through as well, I think we have to
Speaker 1: be you know, I'm not the martyrs will say, but
Speaker 1: we're in a position because we can ignite those conversations
Speaker 1: and put them in the right direction. I know I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get canceled again because I talked my real and
Speaker 1: sometimes in a moment I might say something where I
Speaker 1: didn't I wasn't thinking about I was just trying to
Speaker 1: be funny. Off, I was, I was talking about this,
Speaker 1: but it was that like I can cancel one year,
Speaker 1: gets can about three times? Yea, yeah, it's I say something, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I say something every week. And at this point it's
Speaker 1: like I caught. All right, the interrogators are out there
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna sit back. I ain't gonna let you
Speaker 1: shake me, like, but let's talk about it. You know
Speaker 1: what I've learned to do though, Um, I think I
Speaker 1: used to make a lot of definitive statements. Now I
Speaker 1: just I asked the questions because I really do want
Speaker 1: to know. Like I'm asking questions now, I said, of
Speaker 1: saying this is what I think, it's like, well, what
Speaker 1: if such as I like to ask questions then, because
Speaker 1: then I'm opening up the conversation. I said, have none
Speaker 1: of the answers and all the questions. All right, we
Speaker 1: got more with Nick Cannon when we come back, don't move.
Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, holding everybody in stj
Speaker 1: Envy Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast
Speaker 1: Club was still kicking it with Nick Cannon versus uh,
Speaker 1: Ryan Carrey, who would you love to see Maria carry golds?
Speaker 1: You about to ask Nick if he's gonna do a version. Stop.
Speaker 1: Come on. Many always be an interrogator about you, and
Speaker 1: I will get into that too. You know the thing
Speaker 1: about my music is like, it's funny to me because
Speaker 1: I rhyming words ain't hard. We we love Biggie because
Speaker 1: of the person he was. We love pop because of
Speaker 1: the person he was. We love rock Kim because of
Speaker 1: the person he was. The word rhyme scheme that's we
Speaker 1: see anybody getting. It's been kind of hard for you.
Speaker 1: It's not Charlemagne. You stop seeing you try to rap
Speaker 1: like it's it's not hard to rhyme words. I never
Speaker 1: wanted to be the greatest rapper ever because I do
Speaker 1: so much. I could play seven instruments. I'm a musician,
Speaker 1: so hip hop, I salute everybody you can do it.
Speaker 1: I'm a poet now to be a great artist, and
Speaker 1: we want to talk about that. I'm here to be
Speaker 1: the best artist I can be. And I think when
Speaker 1: it's all setting down, when I'm going to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: that you could get down a little bit that actually
Speaker 1: was talented not for music, everything else. I mean everything.
Speaker 1: When I say everything else, everything, No, hold up, let's
Speaker 1: talk this all day real quick. Are we saying because
Speaker 1: I'll give you one of the other? Are we saying
Speaker 1: rap or music? When we heard you rap? Okay? Say less?
Speaker 1: You never you never seen me play guitar? Oh no, no,
Speaker 1: you talked about I saw the piece you did with him.
Speaker 1: What was the sister name? Kara? Kiara shared that was dope.
Speaker 1: I've been I grew up in a child, pick up
Speaker 1: any instrument in a church and play. He's judging you
Speaker 1: off for giggolo, jiggolo one fire giggolo Okay? I like jiggolo? Okay?
Speaker 1: How hard you say the words? That song? Fun? You
Speaker 1: didn't like? Can't I live at any Hamilton? Me and
Speaker 1: Kanye produced it. I don't even remember that record. I
Speaker 1: remember jay Z. Can I live back to Marian Carrot
Speaker 1: versus versus? He gonna hate on me father, and I
Speaker 1: love it because it's my friend. I need. I need
Speaker 1: this shut into music. I support Nick and everything else
Speaker 1: he does so wild and out ain't music. I produced
Speaker 1: every beat on that show. Every song you've heard. I
Speaker 1: wrote it, even when they'd be doing like the songs
Speaker 1: like the church. Who makes Where do you think the
Speaker 1: beat came from? Every song? Every music? Everything you hear
Speaker 1: I make on the spot sometimes. Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel thing you ever see, every anything sonically that's
Speaker 1: ever come out of wid I've made myself. Wow, Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what he say. Now what are you saying? Now?
Speaker 1: I support him and everything he does. Career. I loved
Speaker 1: wilding out of the classic staple in our coaches and
Speaker 1: every time you came out, embodied you in the free style.
Speaker 1: Let's go to ver. I had one good, good ball
Speaker 1: one kids didn't look like me and it was, Oh,
Speaker 1: you're the bird man of TV and you need to
Speaker 1: pay all your little wish. Yeah, me go back to
Speaker 1: who could go against the Mariah? I don't think any
Speaker 1: They were saying, man, it's unfortunate and we've only opened
Speaker 1: up this can. But the only person who has the
Speaker 1: level of talent this it will never happened, the level
Speaker 1: of talent and hits no. Because Mariah writes that's why
Speaker 1: people got on to stand Marizon musician. I'm not impressed
Speaker 1: by people who could perform songs that it took thirty
Speaker 1: people to make with you. That's a lot of people though,
Speaker 1: that that's Michael Jackson. They can't stabbing at somebody, but no,
Speaker 1: that's Michael Jackson, that's Beyonce exactly. That the greatest, I'm telling,
Speaker 1: the greatest are the ones who can you could put
Speaker 1: somebody in the room by the damned health. They come
Speaker 1: out with a head. That's like Steven shouts out to Stevie,
Speaker 1: one of the greatest, Like no one can ever do
Speaker 1: a verses with him, And that's like, that's literally he
Speaker 1: was one. He was one of the real ones that
Speaker 1: called me. That's like close friends. And he and I
Speaker 1: have this conversation. There's a different level. I see what's
Speaker 1: going on with you all the time You're looking at
Speaker 1: the He's like, yo, I'm driving, I gotta go. I
Speaker 1: can't mean driving. No, but I'm impressed by artists like that.
Speaker 1: So only person in this day and age that could
Speaker 1: go that could have gone against Mariah Carey because she
Speaker 1: writes all of her songs. She actually produces all of
Speaker 1: her so she puts the songs together and performs them
Speaker 1: at a high level. R Kelly, that ain't gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I told you it's not gonna happen anymore because of
Speaker 1: his personal endeavors and all the things for this for
Speaker 1: this era, like what do you mean? Because because Prince,
Speaker 1: but that like even because even people talk about like
Speaker 1: Mariah and Janet, which on that level of diva, I
Speaker 1: would love to see it like the songs that we
Speaker 1: Maria and Janet would be fired. But if we're just
Speaker 1: talking about skill level, like when we saw you know, whenever,
Speaker 1: how we got excited for dip set in the locks,
Speaker 1: Like if we're talking about matching talents, because Mariah is
Speaker 1: a writer as and has written more hits than anybody.
Speaker 1: Only other person I could think of that has that
Speaker 1: ability that could sit down and make music out on
Speaker 1: the spot was R Kelly. I don't know did all
Speaker 1: that that's he's a producer. But again I've actually watched
Speaker 1: Mariah write out lyrics and said I'm going to go
Speaker 1: put this to something and then when you can perform
Speaker 1: it at a six octave level, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: And that's what I watched R Kelly do. The same thing.
Speaker 1: His was on some like savant type though, like where
Speaker 1: he would literally be no, no, no, and then five
Speaker 1: minutes later it's a cold ass hit song. Obviously, he
Speaker 1: had so many other problems and issues and you know,
Speaker 1: pain in his life that we will no longer get
Speaker 1: to see him do that anymore. But we still gotta
Speaker 1: acknowledge the fact that the man was gifted and so
Speaker 1: but at that level like he when you think about
Speaker 1: the level of hits that he penned and put together
Speaker 1: other than Jakelogan, don't think it was a hit, but
Speaker 1: a hit. Just let's play. Let's play right now, jig bars,
Speaker 1: let's call me the scarecrow. I'm looking for some brain.
Speaker 1: That's a barn. We appreciate you for joining us. Let's go.
Speaker 1: Let's I did not don't even want to hear. No,
Speaker 1: it was twenty years ago. But Nick, no for real
Speaker 1: saluting Nick. You gotta give Nick his flowers, man, So
Speaker 1: we don't celebrate nicka enough in our culture. For everything
Speaker 1: that Nick does for black people, he keeps black people employed,
Speaker 1: just put out a lot of black talent out hit
Speaker 1: in this culture over the years. This isn't nothing new.
Speaker 1: So he's just getting started, and I know you're just
Speaker 1: getting started. So we got a salute Nick Cannon. We
Speaker 1: do not giving Nick Cannon his flowers enough, man, We
Speaker 1: really don't. Let's do it, Nick Cannon, don't get me
Speaker 1: no flowers, plant some seeds. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Your Morning's will never be the same.
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Speaker 1: Max December twenty second. Time for Donkey of the Day.
Speaker 1: I'm a Democrat, so being Dunkey of the Day a
Speaker 1: little bit of a so like a day now. I've
Speaker 1: been called a lot in my twenty three years. But
Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day is a new wife. Yeah. Donkey
Speaker 1: of the Day goes to a home inspecting Michigan named
Speaker 1: Kevin Wayne van Loving. What a name, Van Loving. If
Speaker 1: this guy doesn't own in nineteen ninety two for the
Speaker 1: Econo line, I would be disappointed. Okay, at least in
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety seven Plumoth voyage and maybe a voicewagen ear
Speaker 1: old Van. Maybe moral of the story is he should
Speaker 1: drive nothing but Vans. When your last name is van Loving,
Speaker 1: you only have one vehicle of choice, and the license
Speaker 1: plate of that vehicle has to say Van Loving Sneakers too. Okay,
Speaker 1: when your last name is van Loving, can only wear vans,
Speaker 1: the old school black and white ones with the jash scrape.
Speaker 1: Now some would say that if you drive a van
Speaker 1: and wear vans, that's the child sex offenders start a kid.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if you profile pedophiles, this kind of
Speaker 1: fits the description. But maybe I'm making all this up.
Speaker 1: This is probably a personal biased and unprojecting so never
Speaker 1: mind me. But back to mister van Lovin. Now, mister
Speaker 1: van Lovin is a home inspector and he was inspecting
Speaker 1: the home of a twenty two year old woman in
Speaker 1: Oxford Township. He was inspecting the property before a sale. Well,
Speaker 1: something in that house turned Kevin van loving on. I
Speaker 1: don't know what type of afro dgak he used before
Speaker 1: he inspected that house. Maybe he ate some chocolate, maybe
Speaker 1: some figs, some oysters, asparagus. Maybe something increased his lobido,
Speaker 1: his sexual function. Something got him so hot and bothered
Speaker 1: in that house that he had the pleasure himself right
Speaker 1: then and there. Let's go to w JBK Fox to
Speaker 1: Detroit for the report. Police an Oxford Township couple with
Speaker 1: this man into their home on Gill Street for a
Speaker 1: routine inspection. They left, never suspecting the fifty nine year
Speaker 1: old man would allegedly fulfill his sexual urges with their
Speaker 1: child's Almo doll. The deserving sexual act revealed when movement
Speaker 1: in the child's room triggered the nursery camera. The image
Speaker 1: shows when Kevin van Leuven picked up the tickle Me
Speaker 1: Elmo doll. The homeowner shocked when she was alerted on
Speaker 1: her cell phone after hitting record. She immediately contacted the
Speaker 1: Oakland County Sheriff's office. Our deputies confronted him, and initially
Speaker 1: he denied it, and then they told him it was
Speaker 1: on video, and then he apologized. He's been charged with
Speaker 1: aggravated indecent exposure and a misdemeanor charge of malicious destruction
Speaker 1: of property. But perhaps what's even more disgusting. After abusing
Speaker 1: the doll, van Leuven put it back. I never thought
Speaker 1: I would find someone who loves Almo morning Rashawn Casey
Speaker 1: aka dj Envy. I have so many questions. I know
Speaker 1: people say we shouldn't can't shame, we shouldn't shame people
Speaker 1: for what they are into sexually, But that's ps Okay,
Speaker 1: that's from twenty twenty one. I've been walked too long,
Speaker 1: and I need some sleep because I'm not thinking straight
Speaker 1: when I'm sleepy. Rhetoric okay, if I can't shame Kevin
Speaker 1: van Loving for this in the word shame needs to
Speaker 1: be abolished all together. Now, can I try to understand
Speaker 1: Kevin van Lovin? Sure, let's unpack this. How many times
Speaker 1: has Kevin Wayne van Lovin sat his ass in front
Speaker 1: of the TV and masturbated this? Sessrom me screet? I
Speaker 1: wonder I also wonder if he sat down with a
Speaker 1: therapist of psychiatrist, could he or she bring this back
Speaker 1: to something that happens in his childhood. I mean it's
Speaker 1: Almo as then tickle me Elmo? Right, and tickling equals flirting.
Speaker 1: I read somewhere, and by somewhere, I mean google that
Speaker 1: from adolescent saw and you're roughly seven times more likely
Speaker 1: to be tickled by somebody at the opposite sex. And
Speaker 1: the most common reason to tickle is to show affection.
Speaker 1: So maybe when he was a baby, as a young lad,
Speaker 1: he got tickled a lot and the thought of tickling
Speaker 1: turns him on. I don't know. Okay, So when you're
Speaker 1: a creature that is the symbol of tickling, maybe when
Speaker 1: you see that, you get turned on. When you see
Speaker 1: that symbol of tickling that is now Elmo. A lot
Speaker 1: of people don't like tickling, But tickling is a physical
Speaker 1: expression to love. So maybe, just maybe he saw Elmo
Speaker 1: and he wanted to show his love. Some people do.
Speaker 1: Tickle fights is for play people's stage, tickle fights in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. Nothing I'm saying makes sense, does it? Of
Speaker 1: course not? Okay? God may not make mistakes, put the
Speaker 1: humans do. But I hear stories like Kevin van Loven
Speaker 1: and I know they say, don't question God, but sometimes
Speaker 1: you have to recognize that God didn't give you the
Speaker 1: same brains he gave everybody else. Okay, there was certain
Speaker 1: periods in time that God was just creating anybody in anything,
Speaker 1: all right. Genesis one twenty six says God created man
Speaker 1: in his imagey callding his likeness. Right. Well, Humans, sometimes
Speaker 1: we just like to try things, or it gets the
Speaker 1: wall to see what sticks. I think God did that
Speaker 1: when he was creating some humans. Some humans he just
Speaker 1: created with his eyes closed. Even Van Loving might have
Speaker 1: been one of them. Okay, God made them and forgot
Speaker 1: about him, So didn't mister Van Loving all these years
Speaker 1: has been left to his own devices, wandering around life
Speaker 1: aimlessly by himself, without God's guidance, only to end up
Speaker 1: on sesame street masturbating next to Oscar grounds trash can
Speaker 1: while Elmo just minding his business performing Elmo song hit
Speaker 1: that tune for me dramas. Come on now, m Kevin
Speaker 1: van Loving is somewhere hot and parted right now. That's
Speaker 1: what does it for Kevin van Loving. Okay, enough for
Speaker 1: enough enough, Okay, Kevin van Loving is reinforcing all the
Speaker 1: pedophile stereotypes. I told you driving a van and wearing
Speaker 1: vans is the sex offender. Start a kid. You know
Speaker 1: how many people Chris Hansen caught who fit that profile.
Speaker 1: And this guy, Kevin van Loving. Okay, you got caught
Speaker 1: sexually assaulting at elm old dog in a nursery. That
Speaker 1: sounds pretty peet old fouled to me. Okay, Elmo is
Speaker 1: three and a half years old. Do you know that
Speaker 1: three and a half years old? You sick bathter. This
Speaker 1: is what Kevin van Loving heres when drunkn Love plays
Speaker 1: swerving on it, swerving swerving on a big s. Let
Speaker 1: really give Kevin van Loving the biggest he huh he ha,
Speaker 1: he ha, you stupid mother? Are you dumb? Do it? Envy?
Speaker 1: Oh you don't want to do the voice today? Huh?
Speaker 1: You wanna play Elmore to day? Do you? I was
Speaker 1: gonna say, well, I'm just curious you won't play a game.
Speaker 1: You want to play a game only if you do
Speaker 1: the voice. Ask me in the voice you are a play? Yes?
Speaker 1: I kiss what Kevin van Loving, Michigan home inspector, walked
Speaker 1: into a nursery and a home saw tickle me Elmo
Speaker 1: doll and had his way sexually with it. Jess what
Speaker 1: race he is? Angela start with you Sasian? Okay, what
Speaker 1: makes you say this with such confidence? Um? I don't know.
Speaker 1: This is what I wanted to be. Okay, Rashaan, I
Speaker 1: want you to do I need you to answer in
Speaker 1: the voice the whole time. Okay, Kevin van Lovin, Yes
Speaker 1: from Michigan home inspector. You're very familiar with home inspectress. Right,
Speaker 1: he was in a home inspecting. He was in a nursery,
Speaker 1: saw Elmo doll, had his way with the Elmo doll sexually.
Speaker 1: Jess what race he is? Let me check the hell?
Speaker 1: Did you Ben Dover like that? For the hell? Will
Speaker 1: you check him? Look like you wanted somebody to check you.
Speaker 1: Hell's wrong with you? I don't know? You both are right?
Speaker 1: This is absolutely a colonizer. Okay, this is the highest
Speaker 1: levels of caucasianary. Okay, the man he was very heavy
Speaker 1: in this story. All right, all right, all right, thank
Speaker 1: you for that. You gotta register the sex offender when
Speaker 1: you do stuff like this. If you're Kevin van Love,
Speaker 1: I'm sure that. I'm sure that guy asked well, so
Speaker 1: I don't think so. All right anyway, all we got
Speaker 1: more coming up next to don't move, Happy Holidays, don't
Speaker 1: go anywhere. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club,
Speaker 1: the relationship advice, the personal advice, just the real advice.
Speaker 1: Haul up now for asking morning. Everybody is dj Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomne,
Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club. It's time for
Speaker 1: ask ye Hello. Who's this Tessie? Yeah? Okay, I was
Speaker 1: trying to see if my boyfriend seeing his ex girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Is it okay to give her a hug in front
Speaker 1: of me and not acknowledge me or acknowledge the situation
Speaker 1: that made me mad? So what happened with his ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend that you in particular don't like her? It's not
Speaker 1: that I don't like her because I don't know her.
Speaker 1: It's just a simple fact. That she didn't acknowledge me.
Speaker 1: She just ran up straight to him and seeing us together,
Speaker 1: and gave him a hug, and he gave her a
Speaker 1: hug back and still didn't acknowledge me. So I just
Speaker 1: wanted the way, and he thought that it was okay. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: seeing a boy then it will be okay to hug him.
Speaker 1: I think that it's not the hug. I think it's
Speaker 1: also the fact that there was no acknowledgement. She didn't
Speaker 1: acknowledge you, and then he didn't say this is my girlfriend, Tessey. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's how you have to let him know. That's
Speaker 1: what's not okay. I think you can't control somebody giving
Speaker 1: your boyfriend a hug obviously like this, What are you
Speaker 1: supposed to do by that? You can't get mad at
Speaker 1: him for that, But what you can hold him responsible
Speaker 1: for is Okay, you hugged her back and then you
Speaker 1: didn't even say this is my girlfriend, and you gotta
Speaker 1: be started a conversation. I'm sorry. Yeah, did you insert
Speaker 1: yourself in, like, hey, how you doing I'm his girlfriend? No.
Speaker 1: I just looked at it like she was crazy and
Speaker 1: they just kept talking. So I walked away. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think I well but that is on him. And the
Speaker 1: truth is you can't even be mad at her for that.
Speaker 1: That's on him. She did that. He should have never
Speaker 1: allowed that to happen. And it's the sad part is
Speaker 1: he don't understand nothing that hurts me. I'm his real,
Speaker 1: real relationship. So everything I tell him that don't that
Speaker 1: I don't like. He think it's okay. It didn't. It
Speaker 1: was meant to be. And the best way for you
Speaker 1: to explain it to him is not that he's doing
Speaker 1: these things purposefully to her too, but they do, and
Speaker 1: so you have to tell him, this is how this
Speaker 1: makes me feel when you do things like this. When
Speaker 1: that happened, I felt like I wasn't respected and I
Speaker 1: just want to feel respected. And you have to be
Speaker 1: able to explain that to him in terms of it's
Speaker 1: not factual, it's just an emotional thing how you feel.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure that in his head he's thinking it's
Speaker 1: no big deal. And you also know you would never
Speaker 1: do that to him, whether or not he said he's
Speaker 1: okay with it, that's not how you move That is
Speaker 1: exactly it. And I told him that and I cry
Speaker 1: to him and pleasing him. He just look at me
Speaker 1: like I'm crazy. Yeah, no, that's not cool at all,
Speaker 1: and you should play this for him. But it's really
Speaker 1: just about him, you know, being proud of you. Also
Speaker 1: not letting her feel like she could get away with
Speaker 1: things like that, because that's the type of thing she
Speaker 1: go home and tell her friends, Oh, you know I
Speaker 1: did this, I did that. I get him a hug.
Speaker 1: Female taught like that, and he don't see it, think
Speaker 1: it's okay. He think it's okay to have female friends
Speaker 1: that he didn't in a path on his Facebook page
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And you know how females is, Matthew,
Speaker 1: so they put anything on Facebook for the people to
Speaker 1: look at, and he just thinks all that is okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: respective relationship. Don't act like you out here single. That's crazy.
Speaker 1: You can hear I can't hear this. You know what.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him. I'm sorry if I'm on the radio.
Speaker 1: This is terrible. You know what, we can't go Kirsten
Speaker 1: calling right now? Call them on three bag ahead, Okay,
Speaker 1: give me one minute. Hello, we're not available now, Please
Speaker 1: leave your name and phone number. After the big leaveth
Speaker 1: will return your call. You know we're on the phone
Speaker 1: right now with your women, who I would hope that
Speaker 1: you love and she loves you too, and we want
Speaker 1: you to be more respectful of how she feels in
Speaker 1: certain situations and understand and represent for your women. We
Speaker 1: don't need you talking to these girls that could come
Speaker 1: out between your relationship. You gave your ex to hug
Speaker 1: Y'll didn't acknowledge your girlfriend was standing right there. You
Speaker 1: knew she was uncomfortable, she walked away, You stayed and
Speaker 1: had a conversation. And you cannot do things like that
Speaker 1: because she don't felt like she had too much power.
Speaker 1: So you cannot let the X or any of these
Speaker 1: other women feel like they're more important to you than
Speaker 1: your woman or her feelings and add anything to leave
Speaker 1: something on Facebook that I'm not comfortable with. He should
Speaker 1: understand that. Yeah, and look, this is all about her
Speaker 1: wanting to be in this relationship and caring about you
Speaker 1: and money to make things work. You should never let
Speaker 1: outside people interfere with what you guys have going on.
Speaker 1: If something makes her uncomfortable and it's reasonable and it's
Speaker 1: not that bigger deal, I would assume Delia comment of
Speaker 1: Facebook is not a big deal. I would assume that
Speaker 1: you would be able to let these women know I
Speaker 1: have a relationship. I'm happy and she's not comfortable. But
Speaker 1: that that's a grown and mature man thing to do. Yeah, bro,
Speaker 1: just take it off. Make your wife happy. Man, take
Speaker 1: it off. What's the problem man? You acting like a
Speaker 1: little girl. Take it off. That's right. And you can't
Speaker 1: cheat on your woman during the pandemic. Bro, you fool
Speaker 1: around and get COVID and clamydia from a woman during
Speaker 1: this time, and we call that. He's not a cheater.
Speaker 1: He's not a cheater. He's an awso man. He's not
Speaker 1: a cheater. It's just a simple fact that he don't
Speaker 1: acknowledge what's wrong. So if I'm telling him that something
Speaker 1: is wrong, he takes it and he wrong with it,
Speaker 1: and he say, well, it's not like it is, and
Speaker 1: it's not how you say and make it seen, and
Speaker 1: it is. If you're looking at if somebody, mama and
Speaker 1: somebody reach out to me and try to tell me
Speaker 1: about my man that he used to have text with
Speaker 1: or used to too, why you want to delete them
Speaker 1: off your Facebook page? To me, d your man is
Speaker 1: sleeping with people, Mama, here, real mother, he sleeping with
Speaker 1: the mama he's sleeping with the mama's daughter. But they
Speaker 1: both reached out to me. Protect your woman's doing it now.
Speaker 1: And the last thing I want to say is don't
Speaker 1: act stupid too. Hang up. Yeah, yeah, y'all said all that.
Speaker 1: That's pretty dope. Yes, that's it, And I hope he
Speaker 1: checks his voicemail. Got the voicemail going yes to hey man,
Speaker 1: you gotta stop cheating. You're gonna get clamydia and COVID. Broka,
Speaker 1: that's the voicemail again, and we call that hovid. You
Speaker 1: have to get two backs in my goodness. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you so much on clap and one for the
Speaker 1: COVID A don't do at him to hear all of that.
Speaker 1: Don't delete nothing, emergency thing before send it with importance.
Speaker 1: Press the button that makes this important. Sing you gotta
Speaker 1: liten to it, all right? Ask ye the eight hundred
Speaker 1: and five eight five one on five one. If you
Speaker 1: need relationship advice club, imp some real advice with Angela's
Speaker 1: ask ye morning. Everybody is t d j envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club were in the
Speaker 1: middle of asking ye, Hello, who's this? This is uh
Speaker 1: absent man, what's your question for you? That you sounds sad?
Speaker 1: All right, So I just found out that my bitch
Speaker 1: just chipped my bad. I just found out to my
Speaker 1: girls cheating on me with my older brother. Wow, so
Speaker 1: that's still your girl? No? Hell no, hell no, you
Speaker 1: just said my girl. You know what I mean? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You gotta get used to saying
Speaker 1: my ex. Yeah, you're right, you're right, But this this
Speaker 1: is my question though, I'm not sure whether if I
Speaker 1: should like try to shit my brother down and talk
Speaker 1: to him, or if I should just beat his ass.
Speaker 1: You know, I mean, who do you think it would win? Oh? Good,
Speaker 1: because it'll be a problem if you go to beat
Speaker 1: him and then not only did he do that, but
Speaker 1: he also beat you up. No him, I'll be out
Speaker 1: that boy. All right. Well, I would not recommend beating
Speaker 1: your brother up, but I would definitely have a sit down.
Speaker 1: How do you think this conversation would either go like
Speaker 1: exactly how do you how do you even know this
Speaker 1: is true? Oh? I saw it on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you knew she was cheating on you? And what
Speaker 1: did the messages say? I don't even want to we
Speaker 1: want to listen what did he say, I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure we can verify this. It was just
Speaker 1: basically her like, you know, trying to be sneaking, you know,
Speaker 1: trying to make sure I didn't stop cursing Jesus Christ. Oh, mother,
Speaker 1: you can't say all those words on the radio. And
Speaker 1: my fault, Charlotte Man, my fault. But you know, I
Speaker 1: pretty much caught a red you know. But what was
Speaker 1: she saying? What was being said in these messages? We
Speaker 1: want to see if this is really red handed, if
Speaker 1: you're overreacting. Oh no, it was being nasty through the phone. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: it was being nash Okay, So what did you say
Speaker 1: to her? I pretty much told her like, you know, how,
Speaker 1: how are you gonna do this to me? Like, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? Like my brother out of all people,
Speaker 1: my brothers, you know. And what did she say? Your brother?
Speaker 1: Probably so your brother knows, you know already, he has
Speaker 1: to know. There's no way he doesn't know, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I just haven't told him yet, right,
Speaker 1: so this whole time, because she definitely told him that
Speaker 1: you saw the messages and gave him a heads up.
Speaker 1: So you broke up with her, hopefully because you still
Speaker 1: keep calling her your girlfriend, and you still haven't had
Speaker 1: a sit to I talk with your older brother. You
Speaker 1: gotta talk to him. Maybe don't do it in person. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I'm hot to. There's no way you can't tell about
Speaker 1: stuff like this through a text message. I didn't say text.
Speaker 1: You could call him. I don't know. I'm probably gonna
Speaker 1: have to see him place to face sound to it.
Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, I mean I think the fight. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, no matter what, that's always going to
Speaker 1: be your brother. Is he known for doing stuff like this? No,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. That's that's what really like blows my mind,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Just so you know, this
Speaker 1: happened in the Jackson family. Who was it Randy Jackson
Speaker 1: and Jamaine Jackson. I don't know. We gotta look at
Speaker 1: this one, oh man. Yes, Jamaine Jackson stole Randy Jackson's
Speaker 1: um girlfriend and then married her or something like that.
Speaker 1: What if they get married, I don't know. I mean
Speaker 1: at this point, I don't really care about it no more.
Speaker 1: I'm want turned out. It's my brother. Yeah, your relationship
Speaker 1: with your brother, it seems like he's old. Yes, I
Speaker 1: was gonna say it's kind of his fault. You keep
Speaker 1: referring to a man as your big brother and you
Speaker 1: the little brother. She want the bigger brother step Penis.
Speaker 1: Game up, sir, Oh, Charlomagne. I know he's not trying
Speaker 1: to come at you right now. Whatever, a little brother, anyway,
Speaker 1: I think you need to bring your old brother goddamn
Speaker 1: already mad? All right, Well, wish you good, We wish
Speaker 1: you luck, but I would recommend that you just kind
Speaker 1: of maybe not really mess with your brother right now
Speaker 1: and until you can get in a better space yourself. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, you're gonna beat his ass, so good luck.
Speaker 1: Tell big brother to Screech said, hello, do you push ups? Oh, Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: all right, little brother? All right, well lot threatened Charlemagne.
Speaker 1: Was a good time. All right? We got more coming
Speaker 1: up next to don't move, Happy holidays, don't go anywhere.
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Speaker 1: that time. Ask Charlomagne and dj Envy anything. It's time
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Speaker 1: Whose this? Hi? Askeley? What's your question? How are you doing?
Speaker 1: To ask you? I'm good, I'm good, all right, So
Speaker 1: I'm tunny. Line. Um, I've been separated for three years,
Speaker 1: married for five and I recently found out that my
Speaker 1: ex or whatever, my husband, that he is bisexual. Okay,
Speaker 1: he likes men and women, right, So with that being said,
Speaker 1: his behavior has changed and like we kind of don't
Speaker 1: know how to go with each other. It's more and
Speaker 1: that's like he's acting like a real d like now
Speaker 1: I gotta deal with a female one. Before it was
Speaker 1: a whole different person. Well, listen, I don't like your
Speaker 1: attitude about this, and I'm gonna tell you why. You
Speaker 1: know how that makes people lack? Right? You don't, you don't.
Speaker 1: You don't have started acting funny because you was getting
Speaker 1: some good D Okay, so you should be able to
Speaker 1: relate to that man even more. Now that shouldn't drive
Speaker 1: y'all apart. Oh God, listen. So my question is how
Speaker 1: do I get him to be a little bit more?
Speaker 1: How I deal with him in terms like how am
Speaker 1: I be patient? Because I don't know, I don't I
Speaker 1: don't call a woman like I don't know how. He's
Speaker 1: not a woman, he's a man. You gotta deal with
Speaker 1: him the same way. He's just a smatized person. Stop
Speaker 1: looking at it from a gender perspective and just think
Speaker 1: from the perspective of being tumatized. You've been there, you
Speaker 1: can relate. You need to look at that man in
Speaker 1: his eyes and say, look, man, I understand how that
Speaker 1: good D can get you. But you're acting funny with me.
Speaker 1: Soun good luck though good luck. I don't understand. Why
Speaker 1: is it such a complicated conversation? Now y'all got more
Speaker 1: in common. You like penis, he like penis. It's different.
Speaker 1: It's different when you were really dealing with someone. Now
Speaker 1: that changed, like or maybe or maybe you have changed.
Speaker 1: Maybe you feel a way now because you understand that
Speaker 1: he's just not giving a D to you. Have you
Speaker 1: ever been bisexual? You've been with a woman. I am
Speaker 1: actually from the beginning. Oh so, y'all both share the
Speaker 1: best of both worlds like you like Peters and poomp
Speaker 1: poom in the same way you're hating Yo. You hain't
Speaker 1: because getting more than you Nowaday you sound like I
Speaker 1: hate hate y'all you hate them, you hate them, hate them?
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Speaker 1: Calls to hello, who's that? Hi? I said? My name
Speaker 1: is anonymous? Hey, Anonymous? What's your question for seeing it?
Speaker 1: I don't get it. We're on the radio, nobody can
Speaker 1: see you. But whatever. You can give a fake name. No,
Speaker 1: but my name is just so unique, you know, I
Speaker 1: just can't do it. So you think Beyonce's a unique name?
Speaker 1: Go ahead? What's your question, mamma, I'm glad I got
Speaker 1: y'all to today. It's a good question. What's okay? So
Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for we're in our tenth year, right, yes, congratulations?
Speaker 1: Oh you know thanks? We had three kids together, okay.
Speaker 1: And when we first started dating, we both established that
Speaker 1: we didn't want to get married. It was just like
Speaker 1: I think we were both young and it was, hey,
Speaker 1: we just dating, let's have fun. We didn't you see
Speaker 1: that we'd be to get up to ten years. So
Speaker 1: now my values have changed and I want to get
Speaker 1: married and he's in that. Why I fixed something that
Speaker 1: broke out? Yeah, and but I'm looking at it more
Speaker 1: on a you know, showing your kids that you value
Speaker 1: your relationship. And legal standpoints too is if anything ever
Speaker 1: happens to me or him, we can't go on the room.
Speaker 1: We're not allowed there, we have no say so, but
Speaker 1: we know what's best for each other. I agree. But
Speaker 1: the thing is, but he came in this relationship not
Speaker 1: thinking that he didn't want to get married, and you
Speaker 1: knew that, and you didn't want to get married. You
Speaker 1: changed up. He didn't change up. You sound just like
Speaker 1: my best friend. He had do too. But the thing is,
Speaker 1: your values changed and when your kids start to ask
Speaker 1: you last name exactly exactly. So we wentn't looking for
Speaker 1: houses and my daughter said, mommy, and the next house
Speaker 1: we go and you can't come in because you're not
Speaker 1: a blank She said their last name. Wow, hurt my heart. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she was only like three or four. Did you
Speaker 1: have that conversation with him? Does he does he still
Speaker 1: doesn't want to get married. Yes, But the thing is,
Speaker 1: I don't want to continue to push because I don't
Speaker 1: want him to feel obligated. I don't want a man
Speaker 1: to marry me out of obligation. I want him to
Speaker 1: marry me because he feels like we have the same values, right,
Speaker 1: But you know you already went into this relationship in
Speaker 1: his union thinking that you didn't want to get married.
Speaker 1: He didn't want to get married. He was cool, Dad,
Speaker 1: what's the reason he doesn't want to get married. He's
Speaker 1: just saying, like, what does a piece of paper do
Speaker 1: for us? We know that we're both for each other
Speaker 1: and we're gonna be together forever. Where he's on a
Speaker 1: black man don't cheat. He does not cheat. I know this.
Speaker 1: But the thing is, it's just like for him, it's like,
Speaker 1: why I'm gonna tell you something I think you know.
Speaker 1: I'm sure he loves you. I'm sure he wants to
Speaker 1: be with you for the rest of his life. With Jad.
Speaker 1: That's the thing when your kids come to you and
Speaker 1: your kids say, why y'all don't have the same last name?
Speaker 1: Like you know, I do believe that marriage is just
Speaker 1: a piece of paper, and y'all already married because y'all
Speaker 1: are tired it the soul correct. But I do like
Speaker 1: the fact. I do like the I like making it official.
Speaker 1: I think he should make an official but you know
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't tell him to marry you. I
Speaker 1: can only tell him to find somebody to share his
Speaker 1: life experiences with. But he already got that, So it's
Speaker 1: really nice if he tells me that all the time.
Speaker 1: He's like, Hey, I want to be with you. You're
Speaker 1: the person I want. I don't want to do with
Speaker 1: anybody else. But he just doesn't see the reason why. Hey,
Speaker 1: we've been together this long, it's been working. You should
Speaker 1: tell him. You should tell him the reason is because
Speaker 1: you want to. That's it. You want to and your kids,
Speaker 1: your kids eat that as well. I'm all about making
Speaker 1: my woman happy, happy wife, happy life. So the fact
Speaker 1: that tell him you want to, don't, don't. Don't. Don't
Speaker 1: even make it like negotiab will be like, y'all really
Speaker 1: want to get married. When you ask you what you
Speaker 1: want from Christmas? I won't get married. What you want
Speaker 1: for your birthday? I want to get married. What you
Speaker 1: want from Valentine? I want to get married. Trying too much?
Speaker 1: Won't you just ask him one good time? Why don't
Speaker 1: you ask him? Why don't you get a ring it?
Speaker 1: But like, I want you to be my husband, don't
Speaker 1: do that. Don't do that. I don't do that. You
Speaker 1: just got curse. Never I would never do that about
Speaker 1: to be a Christie and Jim John situation. I don't
Speaker 1: think it's anything wrong with letting him know that's what
Speaker 1: you want, though, and if he loves and if he
Speaker 1: really really loves you, and he really because it's gonna
Speaker 1: come a point in time where he can't give you.
Speaker 1: He can buy you a house, he can buy you purses,
Speaker 1: all that stuff. He's done all that. He bought me
Speaker 1: a house. He's supports. We both own our own businesses.
Speaker 1: He supports my business so much. And it's just like,
Speaker 1: you want that ring. That's the only thing that I want.
Speaker 1: I don't even need. The thing is I don't I
Speaker 1: can get one of those rings. You go work out
Speaker 1: with us like silicone. I don't need the big jewel.
Speaker 1: I just want to be able to share the last
Speaker 1: name and we be. You need to go on title
Speaker 1: and make you a marriage playlist. When y'all in the car,
Speaker 1: just songs be playing like let's get married, Beyonce. It
Speaker 1: if you like it and you put a ring on it,
Speaker 1: just all these songs they got to do in marriage.
Speaker 1: Just keep beating it in his egg. Eventually he'll come
Speaker 1: around see y'all all day. So y'all tell him, tell
Speaker 1: him to marry me. What's his name? What's his name?
Speaker 1: His name is Dwhite? White? Get married, get married to
Speaker 1: west k. What you do is you wait right right
Speaker 1: when y'all having sex, right when he's about to, and
Speaker 1: you stop right there, and you'd be like, this is
Speaker 1: only for a married man, and just walk out. What
Speaker 1: the white? For real? Get married? I promise you, when
Speaker 1: you get married, your life will change, man, And not
Speaker 1: only when you get married. When you get married and
Speaker 1: you're a faithful black man, I promise you your life
Speaker 1: will transform in ways that you can't even explain. I
Speaker 1: can't even explain to you to joy that I feel
Speaker 1: in my life. The penis gets bigger when you get married.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, get married. The white married me to white
Speaker 1: to white? All right? The white do what's right? Dwighte
Speaker 1: right to white white? All right? I'm with that, all right, Well,
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