1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm figuring it out for some reason that 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: the solid holding down the base rage. Let me agitate 3 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Everyone just kept telling the prep worry 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: about you describe the breakfast club? Would the flow impacting 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: the coach? And people watch the breakfast Club for like 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: news and really be tuned in. Man, I don't even 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: know what I call it the the breakfast Club. It's like 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: brunch n Ye and Charlomagne. Wake that ass up, get 9 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: out of bed and listen to the Breakfast Club. I'm 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: I'm telling, I'm telling what hall of you. This is 11 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest, whether you're 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,639 Speaker 1: mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one oh 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: five one. We want to hear from you on the 14 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Hey? Good morning, Lisa? How hey? 15 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: What hey? Good morning? How are you? I'm fine? Thank you. 16 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,319 Speaker 1: Last time I called Charlomagne, you wasn't there. But I'm 17 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: glad to hear your voice. I had a question for you, Charlemagne. Um, yes, man, 18 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: why are you always why are you always yawning in 19 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: the microphone like that? Like why do you do that? 20 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: Why did you do that? Y'all? Yeah? So don't tell 21 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: me because I'm high, because I wake up early in 22 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: the morning. Don't tell me that, uh duh, it's six 23 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: something in the morning. No, you're not. You're not still 24 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: yawning white. You're not still yawning wiping coal out your 25 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 1: eye and six something in the morning. Tell you don't know? 26 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: Abody want to hear all that. That's just to me. 27 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: That's like somebody yawning right next to me in my ear. 28 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, sorry, what are you doing right now? 29 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, yes, if you're I don't really know. Well, 30 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 1: you're gonna hate to know that I passed gas too sometime. 31 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: Not in my clothes though, oh not. Yeah, yeah, you 32 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: both to the bathroom. You pull your hands down right 33 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: well anyway, thank you. Oh one more thing, one more thing. 34 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: Elijah McClean, Sandra Bland, Brianna Sailor. Let's do it right 35 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: out like that. Hello, just about the yard before she 36 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: said that, By the way, Hello, who's this? Hello? Hey? 37 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,839 Speaker 1: What's your name? Bro? Hello? Money making? Minus? How you're 38 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: doing money? Money right now? You ain't making no money 39 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: in a recession. You're crazy? Cut it out, charlotagny guard 40 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: are you making money? Tell me how you're making money 41 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: by giving proper advice on how people should post should 42 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: be really cleaning that house. That's enough money for me 43 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: to educate these people. Of course, um, if you really 44 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: really really want to um kill its coronavirus or the 45 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: all hospitals and everybody's home, just start from sterilization room. 46 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: Start from the bathrooms. Then work your way out. Everything 47 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: you use in the bathroom you could use around the 48 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: whole apartment. Every hospital that's scared, they have training we 49 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: sterility is important. So if you just experience your sterilization 50 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: apartment and make the whole hospital sterile, then everything, every item, 51 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: every equipment, every instrument can ask should we be I'm 52 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: used properly? All these money making mine. Let me ask 53 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: you a question. People actually paying for this advice of 54 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 1: cleaning the bathroom, clean your bathroom. Actually I agree that 55 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: I agree that you have to do sterilization. But you 56 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: do know that it's transmitted from person to person right exactly, 57 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: But it depends on how many people are in your house, 58 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: and do you have a team that's doing sterilization. This 59 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: is a family, this isn't people from next door on 60 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: his mouth? How are you making many of this make money. Oh, 61 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: you're talking about financial money. I don't need financial money. 62 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: I don't need no financers. I'm fine financial the money 63 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: is then, but yeah, my money there, but financially I'm fine. 64 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: But the other money is the other important money. That's 65 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: is information. Knowledge is pot knowledge is currency. You mean 66 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: what you're saying, you know? So that so that right 67 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: there alone, I'm saving lives by telling people I saw 68 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: it in the military. Seventeen years as a medical office, 69 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: I've done I've done the all forms of surgery. I've 70 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: been in so many different situations. And we treat every patient. 71 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: Now this is the coronavirus. We treat every patient as 72 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: I think we HIV. Now we have to treat every 73 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: patient as if they have HIV, corona um and all 74 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: the other symptoms. That's that's that's that's pretty dope because 75 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: now you have to stay on top of sterility for 76 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: the rest of your life. You understand, this is no 77 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: waiting all what thank you brother for calling man. We 78 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: really don't understand. But you know, to each of own 79 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: you're talking about that type of money. You're talking about 80 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: financial money. What other money is there? I'm he he 81 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: made he made currency. That's all. Was this, Mike, Mike 82 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: Man what I'm getting about? Mike Man? I was stuff? Man? 83 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:45,559 Speaker 1: Uh you know, really, man, five years? Man, you waited 84 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: five years to tell us that. No. I waited five years, y'all. Man, 85 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: I've been calling for five years, great man, So what 86 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: are you going to say? No? Man to shout out 87 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: the boys of our Busts Incorporated. Man, we on our 88 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: weird word every better state. Man, ain't he matter? I'm 89 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: happy your live. There you go, King, I'm happy to 90 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: be here. I appreciate it. Man, get it off your chests. 91 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If 92 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the 93 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: breakfast club of the morning, the breakfast club. This is 94 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're 95 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: man than from you on the breakfast club. You got 96 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: something on your mind? Hello? Who's this? Jay? What up? 97 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: Getting off your chests? Bro? Man? I got jail dirty, 98 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: I got played, you know, I feel like crap, but 99 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: uh here I had a business partner, I mean him 100 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: winning the business together. You know, I gave. I gave everything. Um, 101 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: I even went and got that ass. We ain't long 102 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 1: he did too, and we went and went the business 103 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: get to go on truck and everything, and he went 104 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: behind my back got another truck. Yea, all this funny 105 00:05:55,360 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: stuff went to an account without me everything, and I 106 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: am I'm left with nothing. I had to I had 107 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 1: to even fail where I was living at. I'm back 108 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: with my parents, like I'm starting. I am so sorry. 109 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: So y'all, y'all didn't have a contract with each other. No, 110 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: he was my own boy. And then went through like 111 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: three jobs together. You know, we introduced. We met at 112 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: the same job. You found another one, got me on, 113 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 1: and then I found a prod of one so we 114 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: could get our class ACDLS and I brought him with. 115 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: I just wanted to do your own boys. I just 116 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 1: wanted to say, man, I had started a business with 117 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: somebody I was I've known since I was like in 118 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: fifth grade. But you know, in the future, because I 119 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: do feel bad that this happened to you, make sure 120 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: you do an operating agreement when you start a business 121 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: with somebody, because you have to have your paperwork right. 122 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 1: You never know what might happen that way. Legally, you'll 123 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: be able to say. But even though you could be 124 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: best friends, family members, married, but if you do have 125 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: a business together. Do make sure you have an operating 126 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 1: agreement and have a real lawyer. Invest in that because 127 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: when things go left, you need to make sure. And 128 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: a lot of times things do go left in business. 129 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: You don't even want to have to have that conversation. 130 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: It's just all in the paperwork. Yeah, see now how 131 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: I feel Now, it's like, you know, I want to 132 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: get back to this state. Like I said, I'm talking 133 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: around here. You know, I ain't never, I ain't giving up. 134 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: But right now you've got something to prove. Yeah, yeah, 135 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: I want to get back to that stage. But I 136 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: want to do it. Mean, I'm gonna do it myself, 137 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: you know. And you got this. You learned a lot, 138 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: You learned a lot. Yeah, already taking an out right 139 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: Yeah no, yeah, you took it out, But that al 140 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: also means learning from it. Yeah, it's a learning experience. 141 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: Good luck brother. Hello, who's this? What's up? Man? This 142 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: big rouping man Sat Louis Assouri. But I roaming get 143 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: it off at man. I just want to say, first off, man, 144 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: appreciate everything y'all do. Love all the y'all, especially my 145 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: girl has really eat. But he heard the announcement for 146 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: the super Bowl performances, man, And I was like you, 147 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: I was hype man, and then get on the radio. 148 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: We've got this negative Nancy Charlotte Maine that kids are. Man, 149 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: it's kind of you know, ain't the wrong that performances? Man, 150 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a good shoe. Let me, 151 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: let me, let me. Let me ask you a question, sir, 152 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: Why do you think it's negative to ask why our 153 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: legends in hip hop have to share a stage collectively 154 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: when you got people like the Katie Perry's of the 155 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: world and whoever else who don't even have the resume 156 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: they do. They get their own solo show. And I 157 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: asked the question. I said, I wonder if that was 158 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: a prerequisite that in performing, because they don't let acts 159 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: like that performance to super Bowl, Let's be clear. So 160 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: I was wondering, was that a prerequisite? Are you know? 161 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: I just was asking a question, that's all besides besides 162 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: maybe like a Michael Jackson or Whitney us. And it's 163 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: always been shows where artists are coming home with rock 164 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: groups with rappers out there with him. So this ain't 165 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: the first time that happened. Man. Everybody except Marry is 166 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: from Cali Man, So Eminem is not from there. Eminem's 167 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 1: from Detroit shouts not from there, but then he's been 168 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: on all West Coast music. That's straight boy. That's not 169 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: true either. But my point is if you're not wondering that, 170 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: then you're just not thinking. I was just wondering why 171 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: they had to do it as a collective. I love 172 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: this show. I think it's a great lineup, but I'm 173 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: just wondering why you had too, dog, I appreciate it. Well, 174 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: thank you for calling in. I said this morning. When 175 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: I heard that, man, I was hype, and bro, you 176 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: from Saint Louis, correct, from Saint Louis, right, yeah, yeah, 177 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: start look look at look at property in Saint Louis. 178 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: Real estate in Saint Louis is at a good price 179 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: right now, and it's starting to increase a lot. So 180 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: look at real estate in Saint Louis. That's my next stop. 181 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: All right, right, O, man, make an announcing when you're 182 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 1: coming at y'all do a seminar. So I definitely want 183 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: to be a part of it. Now, I ain't doing 184 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: no seminar. I'm just telling you to start looking at 185 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 1: property in Saint Louis. Start googling, go to the website 186 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: because I'm hearing there's a lot of great deals and 187 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: they're starting to build up the city a lot more. Well, 188 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: maybe you should do a seminar there then, baby, but 189 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: thank you, brother, get it off your chest. Eight hundred 190 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If you need 191 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: to vent, phone lines a wide open, call us up. Now. 192 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Nick cast your Love Club, 193 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: Angela Ye and Charlemagne the Guy. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, 194 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: Charlomagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got 195 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: a special guest in the building and she looked rich 196 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: like Frequens on the boot. Charlene, listen, you know I'm 197 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: out here doing something fine season xbo checks. It's not 198 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: a bad welcome back. I appreciate y'all. I was looking 199 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: around for my balloons and ace spade. Oh see, y'all 200 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: did that for somebody else that came on here from 201 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: the show. I was, it's cool. Damn, it's cool. That's cool. 202 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: I love y'all too. Now listen, when you get this, 203 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: I thought, what we're gonna do? Are you? That was 204 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: your pandemic? Then I worked east and I we called 205 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: each other actually like round June of twenty twenty, and 206 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: we're like, yo, yo, who who all these people who 207 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 1: are bored? And I don't have anything to do because 208 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: now people know where we are, you know, like you 209 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: can have like that cloak of like invisibility. Oh I'm busy, 210 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: I'm traveling. Everybody was homes. I was like, no, no, 211 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: we know your home, So can you do this other 212 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: thing to me? So like we got like eight other 213 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: things that were doing like I don't like that people 214 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: can fight this no boo. I think by the time 215 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: December of twenty twenty came around is when it was 216 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: just like I think, like my plan of mine got 217 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: canceled and it was the first time that I was like, man, 218 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: this pandemic sucks. And uh my friend was like, so 219 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: you mean you're just now feeling what everybody else is, Like, 220 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: don't don't say that in public, and I was just like, yo, 221 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: you're right, and I had to. I'm just like, yo, 222 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: I'm mad grateful that like I wasn't able to feel 223 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: the brunt of it in terms of like how everyone 224 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: else is because we were just on autopilots. I was 225 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: writing a book, I was premiering the special, we were like, 226 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 1: we were doing uh insecurities and four promos. Look, it 227 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,719 Speaker 1: was it was a lot just rolling. Yeah, yeadn't have 228 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: a lot and I didn't have time to stop. And 229 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: then I realized I was like, no, I need to 230 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: sit down because the world's gonna open back up again. 231 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real upset that I'd even sit down, right. 232 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 1: So that's what I remember you saying last time I 233 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 1: spoke to you. You wrote the book yourself, and you 234 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: were like, damn it, why did I do that to myself? 235 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: But I'm actually glad that I wrote it because as 236 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 1: in the process of writing it, like I became myself right, 237 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: you know, and I had to go through the journey 238 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: of like not trying to be perfect or say the 239 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: right thing. It was like, no, no no, no, You're gonna 240 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 1: be vulnerable and you're gonna really tap into like who 241 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: you are and what your voice is. It's relatable because 242 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: you talk about your first hour long headliner set that 243 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: you did, which I thought was a great story because 244 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: a lot of times we do doubt ourselves, you know, 245 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: when you agree to do something and you're like, don't 246 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: feel like you're ready for it, and then you're hoping 247 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 1: that it's gonna get canceled, y know. I think the 248 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: biggest lesson I learned from that was that my agent 249 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: gave me the freedom to fail, and as an immigrant, 250 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 1: that's not a thing that we give ourselves. It's like 251 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: like literally she was just like, well, let's just see. 252 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: I was like, no, we're not about to let's just see, 253 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: because it's it's an Atlanta. If it don't work out, 254 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the one on stage getting booed. But 255 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: she was just like, well, it'll let us know where 256 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: you are, Like we can figure out like if you 257 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,559 Speaker 1: need another thirty minutes, or like if you just need 258 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: a flower, like let's just see. And I that is 259 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: that's so hard when you're a perfectionist. I'm a recovering perfectionist, 260 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: but when you're a perfectionist, or when you're a Nigerian, 261 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: we literally are say like Nacre lost, like we can't 262 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: finish second. So the idea of let's just see it. 263 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: If it fails, it's fine, we can regroup. No failure 264 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: is like literally never an option. And in that moment, 265 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: she was giving me the luxury of feeling that was 266 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: that was a pivotal moment that changed and then I 267 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: got my hour. What is something that Yvonne Orgy is 268 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: hard on herself about because you always seem like so 269 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: positive and go with the flow type? Well, you know, 270 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: eas and flow is my new word for like I 271 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: pick a word and being of the air. Those are 272 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: my words for twenty twenty one. Okay, because I was 273 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: really said, I said, this year, I'm becoming less Nigerian, 274 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: don't don't. I love y'all, But I had to. I 275 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: had to undo the gangster nest that comes from hustling 276 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: grind because I know that, like that's been my security 277 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 1: blanket and it's worked, Like I've got successful hustling grinding. 278 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: And guy was like, can I show you another way? Um, 279 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: just can you like sit back and receive? And I 280 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, how I want it? It sounded good 281 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: and I never forget. After we wrapped a season five 282 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 1: of Insecure, like I found myself just like like not 283 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: allowed to do for the first time in a long time. 284 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:28,239 Speaker 1: And I remember my therapy session and I was like, yo, fam, 285 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: I feel mad lazy right now, like I don't know 286 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: what to do, Like I feel lazy. I feel like 287 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, what what? What? Who am I? She was like, 288 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: are you lazy? Or is your body just at rest 289 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: from a decade of working. I was like, well read me. 290 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: That is your name, doctor Mironda. Dude, Like what's going on? 291 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: And that also free to me to be like, yo, 292 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: we we put it on ourselves, like I've really done 293 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: a great job of separating my work from my worth. 294 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm so at peace with it. That's 295 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: I'll be traveling. I'm just like, oh, I don't in 296 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: this season. I don't feel compelled to like keep up. 297 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: I've just I've done what I've done and things are 298 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: in the oven and when they come out, they come out. 299 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: So I'm we're just relaxing and chilling out. Yes, I gottama, 300 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I ever got to that 301 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: point like I feel like if I'm not doing something, 302 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not doing nothing. I gotta work. 303 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm lazy. I can't stop that. Yes, And in therapy, 304 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: they'll tell you that being busy is a trauma response 305 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: a lot of times, like you staying busy because you're 306 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: running from something. You're afraid what may happen if you 307 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: sit down and just be with yourself your thoughts. So 308 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: you said you have to make space for a boo. 309 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: I do so when it comes to you looking for 310 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: a guy and standards, But what would you say you're 311 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: looking for. I'm looking like you have to be currently 312 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: walking in your purpose. I can't do those science fair projects. 313 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: I appreciate everybody that's that's on the come up and 314 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: do that. I'm just not there right now in my 315 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: life to support that. And you know what, and there's 316 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: going to be some people that like you missed out 317 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: on I did. I did At this point in my life. 318 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: I need a fully full armed human being who is 319 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: currently working on themselves, knows who they are, confident in 320 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 1: who they are, and like fulfilling purpose. You need a partner, 321 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: not a project. Every single homegirl like God says that 322 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: I need a partner not a project. Everybody's work is 323 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: different and so for me, I'm like, I want to 324 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: start here and work here. We have more with a 325 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: von Orgy when we come back, don't move. It's to 326 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Every Envy Angela 327 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: Yee Charlomagne, the guy we all the breakfast club was 328 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: still kicking it. With von org Yee. Now you're also 329 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 1: hosting Yearly Departed, right, so talk to me about that 330 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: because that's all women, phenomenal comedians. I feel like there's 331 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: like a great time right now for women in comedy. 332 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: What do you think? I think so too, that that 333 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: project was really special because I literally had just come 334 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: from Insecure that's like black and black, black and black. 335 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: You know, it's just like lots of brown and brown stories, 336 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: brown characters to jump down into, like, oh, all women. 337 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: It's like, I love when representation is really represented. So 338 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: it was like female producers, a female director, and the 339 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: female comedic actor. So everybody wasn't a comedian, but they 340 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:12,120 Speaker 1: were like comedy in the comedy Zygei's space. And it 341 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: was beautiful because everybody just brought their specialty. It's gonna 342 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: be good. I hosted I have two like minologues and 343 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: I think they weren't happen and then nice spend you 344 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 1: the host. I like it though. Now, was there any 345 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: part of you that really related to Molly last season? 346 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: And was that tough on you psychologically because you've been 347 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 1: the fan favorite for so long? Yeah, you know, pressure 348 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: breakings were rough, and I was saying like season one, 349 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: I felt like I didn't understand Molly. I was like 350 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: this check like I didn't have a lot of Mollies 351 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 1: in my life, and so I was like learning her. 352 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: And then season two was kind of like, oh, she 353 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: was teaching me some stuff, and then you know, at 354 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: some point I was teaching her. We are kind of 355 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: like either ahead of each other until now we're kind 356 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: of parallel a little bit. And it's interesting because going 357 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: through uh, you know, not being on set with East, 358 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: I was shook. I was like, yo, East who wrote 359 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: this season? Like we now we're on set together? Like 360 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 1: when I see you were fighting, like this on't sit 361 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: right with my spirit, But I understood I am acting. 362 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, this is rash um. But I 363 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 1: learned in that season because it's like, Yo, you go 364 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: as an adult going through a friendship breakup. That's it's wild, 365 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: it's rough, and there's so many nuances. Did you think 366 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: that this would have an impact on y'all real relationship though? 367 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: I mean the fact because of the storyline and y'all 368 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: wasn't spending that much time on set. It was like, man, 369 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: this might impact our real fringe. No, because it was 370 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: all love. I feel like the season finale is when 371 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta let you go, Like it's 372 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: like you're my friend, but like I'm really like you're 373 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 1: releasing to the world now, like you're like you're a 374 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: different EASA than when we started, and like we're not 375 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: gonna be spending four to six months together every year, 376 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: and it was it was kind of like it wasn't 377 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: it wasn't a good buy because I know who you are, 378 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: Like we still text everybody you know every day and 379 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: she's stop. But it was like, like you're not mine, 380 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: you know, like I really took ownership of what we had, 381 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: not I found myself like emotional last Sunday when we premier, 382 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 1: Like she was just like because we spent Thursday together, 383 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: Friday together, Saturday together, and Sunday, I was just like 384 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: in the bathtub listening to give so sad. But but 385 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: it was also like y'all cigarettes journalist and so she 386 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 1: was like, girl, you gonna come watch the premiere. But 387 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 1: I was like, one, I'm tired too, Like I'm just 388 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 1: being my feelings. She was like not. She was sitting 389 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: in the bathtub crying. I was like, not you not 390 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: respecting my Morgan dab, but it was it was It 391 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: was funny because when she cracked me up, I was like, 392 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: this is why I love you, because like she instantly 393 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: got me out of my thing because for me, it 394 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 1: was it. This is the thing that like ushered me 395 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 1: into the platform that I had. And I know I'm 396 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: doing other things, so not even like I'm going to 397 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: do other things. I'm doing other things, but it is 398 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: this feeling of like when you graduate college, you still cry, 399 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: no point attended. It's like a sorority. So like y'all 400 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: this was college for y'all and y'all going out into 401 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: the world. Y'all got each other forever. Now. Molly also 402 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: was in an interracial relationship. And now that you're single, 403 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: could you see that for you? I could? I could, 404 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: like I want to be happy. And I think when 405 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 1: people see into racial they think like black or WII. 406 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, there's so many races out there. You know, Hey, 407 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 1: if you'll be able to trust the guy though, because 408 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: you're a different person, you're rich now, you got all 409 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 1: these things, he's gonna have more money than me. How 410 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: you gonna know that he's going to have more money 411 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:54,919 Speaker 1: than he's going to have before now but doesn't have 412 00:20:55,000 --> 00:21:00,160 Speaker 1: as much going to have. Let me speak in look 413 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: about social media. It appears that he has a lot 414 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: of money, but I'm not with social project. But he 415 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: doesn't have as much money as you do. You got money, 416 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: you treat you well. Again, you well, and it would 417 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: not be an option be disappointed if you're not with 418 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: the Nigerian man. Um. I'm I want to be happy 419 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 1: just because I know for you know, I think that 420 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 1: will be. I mean, like, I'm I'm my dad's only daughter, 421 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: and so my dad wants to have the whole traditional wedding, 422 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 1: got the dowry, and I'm like, I got home to 423 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 1: your dad. There are so many different types of men 424 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 1: in this world, so many that's just there's a gamut 425 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 1: of them. But I think, I think, I think after 426 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: they understand, because I already did that. You know, I 427 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: tried to give them the thing that they wanted and 428 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: it didn't work out, and I was like, we are 429 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 1: we good now, wonderful? Uh, And so I'm I'm I'm happy. 430 00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: How much looks matter? They matter a lot like looks physique. Earlier, 431 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: you said it was nothing, you just wanted a man 432 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 1: that wasn't a project all I'm learning from this conversation, Yvonne, 433 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 1: is your dreams and your dreams, and you shouldn't share 434 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,439 Speaker 1: with other people because you got dream killers on you 435 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 1: know what I mean. No, I'm I'm a sure because 436 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: no matter what the attacks, when the dream manifest. But 437 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 1: remember when you told me your husband, I hope you 438 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: like my man boozed by Jesus out right now, Yes 439 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: and insecure every Sunday to the day after Christmas, ten 440 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: o'clock on HBO HBO Max. All right, well, we appreciate 441 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 1: you for joining us. It's the Breakfast Club, Yvonne Orgy 442 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: so Breakfast Club, your mornings will never be the same. 443 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 1: Put an end to junk sleep. Shot Mattress Firms Black 444 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: Friday Sale and unjunk your sleep today. 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No, we're talking about Tiffany du Bois, the 454 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: characters character in the character from Insecure. Correct, she wore 455 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: a KA colors because her characters AKA and she did 456 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: the sound well sound. I'm playing with them people, So 457 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 1: we're asking what is your feelings on it? My whole 458 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: take on it is like, if we know that they 459 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: have to get clearance from the AKA organization, if people 460 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: in these fraternities and these sororities are upset, shouldn't they 461 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 1: take it up with the heads of their organizations. Shouldn't 462 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: they have a conversation with them and say, look, we 463 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 1: don't want our stuff used period, fictional or otherwise. We 464 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: don't want nobody wearing all colors. We don't want nobody 465 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: wearing all letters. We don't want nobody holding up our 466 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 1: shield if they're not part of the organization. But should 467 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 1: they be taking that up with the heads of said 468 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 1: organization who give this clearance. Let me ask you something else. 469 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: Do you feel it like people just don't like a 470 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: man the seals And then you feel like if it 471 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 1: was another actress they wouldn't win so hard. Um probably, 472 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 1: but you know, um, you know I'm biased with with 473 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,880 Speaker 1: my good sister, you know, on it and everything too. 474 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: Got a lot of people actually defending Amanda. I saw 475 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: that too, which I thought that was hilarious. It was 476 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 1: people saying, I don't like a man the seals, but 477 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: those are the kind of critical thing because I like 478 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 1: I like people that deal with nuance like that. Hello, 479 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: who's this umning everyone? Current? How old are you? First 480 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 1: of all, I am thirty one year old? Okay? So 481 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: yes um, I am a member of Gamma say the 482 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 1: old Mega that passes in South Florida, shout out to 483 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 1: all my swordboars um. So to answer the question first 484 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 1: two foremost, I love Insecure. I love all of the 485 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: actors and actresses in and and Secure. But I can kind 486 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: of see why some members of my organization through some 487 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 1: type of way. I do understand it's acting. But normally 488 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 1: in movies with Greeks, you normally see them alter the 489 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 1: Greek so they won't actually use the exact Greek letters 490 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: like in drum lines, they use similar colors. So you 491 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 1: was able to determine, like, Okay, he's probably a Kaffla 492 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: He's probably a cute, but you didn't see the Omega 493 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,879 Speaker 1: patch on You didn't see Alpha Katha Alpha patch on 494 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 1: the girl's uniform. So the fact that she actually has 495 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: the patch, it could have been you know, like you said, um, 496 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 1: Alpha Kath Alpha could have gave her her the right 497 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: to use it, which I'm sure they probably did. But um, 498 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: I know. One thing that I was kind of upset 499 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 1: about is her using the word flour war. She's not 500 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 1: a floor war. That's the word we use amongst each other. 501 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: What's the word. That's the word, But she's saying they 502 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: use it's a term of that's what they use in 503 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: their own use. I've said, so, how do I refer 504 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: to y'all? Then you don't refer to us a s wars? 505 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,959 Speaker 1: You refer to us members of Alpha ka Alpha. Hey, 506 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: I got time. We're not said that word a thousand times. 507 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: So I can't say sorority. You can't say sorority. It's 508 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: just the word like if asually was to say to me, oh, hey, storrible, 509 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 1: Oh no, I wouldn't do that, right, So that's the 510 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,960 Speaker 1: terminology we use amongst each other. So the fact that 511 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: you guys are staying on already. Oh hey, it's not 512 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: a big still, but some people really take it to 513 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: heart because you know, if they die hard for things, 514 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: I could a got you. So you're saying it was 515 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: a shell that was really the issue, not necessarily the colors. 516 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: They could have represented it without actually having that. Shouldn't 517 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,879 Speaker 1: y'all take this up with the organization. Shouldn't y'all take 518 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: this up with the people who are giving clearance. Absolutely 519 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,400 Speaker 1: so absolutely, But it's just to clear the ear because 520 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,479 Speaker 1: people saying always petty. Yeah it's petty because you're not 521 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 1: a part of that organization. But if you worked hard 522 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 1: and for for your letters, it's not more so petty 523 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 1: to you. You know, Alphas, Alpha open up doors that Hey, 524 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: look at the vice president right listen. I'm gonna be 525 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 1: honest with you. I can't tell you what to be 526 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,479 Speaker 1: mad at, can't tell you what to be offended by 527 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: what It is petty to me. So you're right, but 528 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm not a member of the organization. My doctors in 529 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: the sorority, she said, it's the dumbest argument. She said. 530 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 1: It has to be cleared by the a k A. 531 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: She says, we have to clear even the small indie 532 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 1: productions of shows, if they're ever gonna if they ever 533 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,160 Speaker 1: use us or use our colors or our badges, it said, 534 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: it has to be cleared. Sara, Sara, whatever will be 535 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: will be? So what is it? It's k Sarah Ka Sarah. Look, 536 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,199 Speaker 1: you say he's trying to say whatever will be will be? 537 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 1: What is that? What is the saying? Sarah? Okay, whatever 538 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 1: it will be will be? South Carolina State University Baby 539 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 1: honorary doctorate. All right, Hello, who's this? Hey, good morning? 540 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts? Um? I am a proud member 541 00:27:55,280 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 1: of authority. Okay, talking about it anthetically, I wasn't mad 542 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 1: at it, you know. I thought that it was an 543 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: honor for them to try to, you know, showcases and 544 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: a positive light. I mean, they could have didn't done 545 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: you know, they could have did y'all dirty. I mean, 546 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 1: what if what if they'd had y'all on the show 547 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: and they was playing into all the BS stereotypes and 548 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: all of that stupid stuff. That's what I'm saying. I 549 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,719 Speaker 1: can understand if you know y'all portrayed in a negative light. 550 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,439 Speaker 1: I could see the uproar. But you know, hello, who's this? 551 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: Hello the morning. My name is Tanisia, Hey, come on, Tnisia, 552 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: what the rority are you? I am an Aka. I 553 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 1: am part of the first African American sisterhood in America, 554 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: and I am not bothered by Amanda Steals portraying an 555 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,719 Speaker 1: Aka as a character on Insecure. But my question is 556 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 1: did they get permission for the character to be portrayed 557 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 1: on the show? That is what this all comes down to. 558 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody should be personally attacking Amanda Steals. 559 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: You have to get permission to use the license, and 560 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 1: I haven't seen the show. I didn't see anything. I'm 561 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: just responding to Twitter and listening to you this morning. 562 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: But we don't know if that was allowed yet. So 563 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: if they didn't get permission from the sorority to use 564 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 1: the shield, then they are in violation. True indeed, but 565 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: from what I was told, it was in a sorority 566 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 1: house that they actually got permission to use. Right, she said, 567 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: Aka's house. I don't know who the Aka is that 568 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: allowed that to be shot in her home. Even she 569 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: would have to give permission to give permission. She she 570 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 1: that Aka can't give permission to use the license. That 571 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: would have had to have come down from corporate yes, 572 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 1: it has about that, then, I'm sure corporate would have 573 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 1: told us that in advance to it being used in 574 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: the show. I can't believe HBO it didn't get that pass. 575 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: I'm almost positive, I mean, HBO, I'm sure I feel 576 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 1: so too, Charlottage, and I do feel they got permission 577 00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: before actually going ahead and doing that, And they probably 578 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: on permission in season one. And from what I just 579 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 1: read that this is the final season of the show. 580 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: So where's all this blacklashes coming from? So late in 581 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: the game. I think they just noticed, to be honest 582 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: with you, because I remember they even had I think 583 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 1: it was last year it said future Aka on a 584 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: hat on an Tiffany's baby's hat. I think, okay, right, well, 585 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: the future Aka is different from just totally wearing the 586 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,959 Speaker 1: shield got you. But what's the moral of the stories? 587 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: I think the moral of the stories. I just want 588 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 1: us to understand the difference between real life and entertainment, 589 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: because I'm telling you my biggest fear with social media 590 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: is that we're all becoming the these who cried Wolf, 591 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And if everything causes outrage, 592 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: then nothing is truly outrageous. Like if you're constantly mad 593 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: about nothing. Then when something really pops up, why should 594 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 1: we take any of y'all serious? That's all because every 595 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 1: single day folks are really mad about nothing, like enraged 596 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 1: about nothing. Yeah, absolutely too. Shall pass exactly by to 597 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 1: day by to day, literally today, give it, give it 598 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: to a ten eleven o'clock. It to be something else. 599 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: We got more coming up next to don't move, Happy Holidays, 600 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 1: don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the 601 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:21,720 Speaker 1: breakfast Club, The breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be 602 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: the same morning. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the 603 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: guy we are the Breakfast Club. We got a special 604 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: guest in the building, our guy, Nick Cannon. We're here 605 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 1: all right. The street say Nick, no condom, Cannon, fertilizer. 606 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do you, man, Honestly, somewhere at ten to twelve, 607 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 1: I wouldn't you got so many too? And the one 608 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 1: on the way if I'm gonna have a sick I'm 609 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: stopping it. Really, I'm are you sure? Is it the 610 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 1: beauty of fatherhood? Man? When you really talk about like 611 00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 1: the essence of living in as a father to man, 612 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: I've learned so much just from my children, man like, 613 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: and it's so amazing, and I really just love being 614 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: around my kids and just that youthful energy. It feels 615 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: like you get to relive every time. And I think 616 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: because you know, I've been through so much in my life, 617 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: you know, physically, mentally, and spiritually, Like the best place 618 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: that I find is the time that I spend with 619 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: my kids and the energy and to get as much 620 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: of that as possible to pass on, you know, all 621 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: that I've lived into something else. That's why I do it. Man, 622 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: It's not the number of kids. So I guess people 623 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: question the different baby mothers. That's why do people question that. 624 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,640 Speaker 1: That's a Eurocentric concept when you think about the ideas 625 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 1: of like you're supposed to have this one person for 626 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 1: the rest of your life, and really that's just to 627 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: classify property when you think about it, I mean, like 628 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 1: when you go into that mindset, if we're really talking 629 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: that talk, like just the idea that a man should 630 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 1: have one woman, we shouldn't have anything. I have no 631 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: ownership over this person. Like if we're really talking about 632 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: how we coexist and how we populate, it's about what 633 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:03,959 Speaker 1: exchange can we create together? So I've never really subscribed 634 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 1: to that mentality, you know. I mean, I understand the 635 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: institution of marriage and stuff, but if we go back 636 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: to what that was about, that was the classify property. 637 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: That was because one father gave another man his daughter 638 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: for land. So when you really get to that concept, 639 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 1: it's like we gotta change all of it stuff because 640 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 1: I don't want ownership over anybody. I don't have ownership 641 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: of any of the mothers, or like we create families 642 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,959 Speaker 1: in that sense that we created a beautiful entity. So 643 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: I like, I mean, I get into it because I 644 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: don't you know, those are the concepts that a lot 645 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: of people because we're so indoctrinated into it, like we 646 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: have to have it this way. I don't subscribe it. 647 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: I actually think women are blessing us. That those women, 648 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: those women and all women are the ones that open 649 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: themselves up to say I would like to allow this 650 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: man in my world, and I will birth this shot. 651 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:58,239 Speaker 1: So it ain't my decision. I'm following suit. So I 652 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: respect that game. You running on them, that's what you're spitting, 653 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: that they're the ones are making the choice. Twomen you 654 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: have to in a relationship with. They don't mind that you. 655 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: Every woman that I deal with or deal with, they 656 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: know how I feel, and it's usually is a concert 657 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: like I don't. I'm not going around like I'm who 658 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 1: I'm impregnate nicks Like nah, it's usually scenarios and like 659 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 1: that's the thing. People say certain things in the public, 660 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,720 Speaker 1: But when you really look at how a family infrastructure 661 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 1: is designed, the woman is the one that always leads 662 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,359 Speaker 1: and makes the decision. I agree whole hard. I said 663 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 1: that all the time. I say that we had to 664 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 1: do some real societal brainwashing to make people believe that 665 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 1: men were the actual leaders. But just by nature, you 666 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: can look and see women run everything. You know, only 667 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: think we have brute force, that's about it. And even 668 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 1: now that's changing drastically. And when we've used our brute 669 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 1: force to brainwash society to think that we're the overpowering 670 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 1: or the one that controls just because maybe we can physically, 671 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 1: women lead in every scenario that I've had, I stepped 672 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 1: back and say, how do you want to do this? Well? 673 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 1: I've heard people say that they think you having all 674 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 1: these kids with different women is selfish because you can't 675 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 1: possibly give the time to all of the different kids. 676 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 1: Time is a man main construct when you like, if 677 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: we're talking quantity over quality, every single one of my kids, 678 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: I'm at every basketball game, every martial, large practice on them, 679 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: and people don't understand how I do it. But that's 680 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 1: literally my children on my priority. It's all about being president. 681 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 1: And I always say for all of those people that 682 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: that say, man, there's no way he can do it, 683 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,399 Speaker 1: I sit back and watch interesting conversation. I respect you're 684 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: right to move that way. I'm a married man. I 685 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,279 Speaker 1: love being married. I love the idea of being with 686 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 1: one woman in building a family building, and I feel 687 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 1: like I wanted to figure like I remember being in 688 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,600 Speaker 1: that space and I was with the one woman I've 689 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: always wanted to be with for mind time, I lived 690 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 1: the dream and I saw it was so much to that. 691 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: But for me, based on for my trajectory in life, 692 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: I was like, there's a little bit more, and even 693 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 1: like I can even admit like as sometimes there was 694 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: selfish concepts of like I feel like my purpose is 695 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: greater outside of just being in this institution. And I personally, 696 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, salute to anybody else who does it. 697 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: But I can't get out here and talk about how 698 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,320 Speaker 1: much I live my truth, walking truth only to the truth, 699 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 1: and I'm creeping like so every woman that deals with 700 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: me knows that, Yeah, well we know what it is. 701 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,400 Speaker 1: Does it make you crazy when people when they when 702 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,719 Speaker 1: they judge your relationship online, like, I remember you just 703 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,479 Speaker 1: had your recent baby and you're in this strip club 704 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:36,840 Speaker 1: with me, and people are like, how is it in 705 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 1: this strip club when you just had a baby an 706 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 1: hour ago? It's a lot of noise? Watch how I move? Like, 707 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 1: is anybody complaining? Do my children look like they're not 708 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,919 Speaker 1: well behaved or in a in a space, whether they're 709 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 1: suffering or any lack emotionally, physically, whatever it is, you 710 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: think it's a coincidence that um Nick cannon is and 711 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 1: see and no condoms? Then you think that as a 712 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: coincidence or that the mind? Now let's let's that's I 713 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: like that contre the popular belief I do wear a condom? Please, 714 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,359 Speaker 1: what reason do we have to believe that a condo? 715 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: Because nobody's gonna use ye a matter of fact, what 716 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,799 Speaker 1: is the brand? They can be discontinued. I keep the 717 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:29,800 Speaker 1: gold packs with me, but the little baggage somebody slipping 718 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 1: up a little be breaking though they do. Okay, So 719 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: let's go through this product talk. Let's talk. Every relationship 720 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 1: starts off with the condom, yes, correct, Then once you 721 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: feel like you get there's trust, it's comfortable. And then 722 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: once however, that first slippage of either you didn't have it, 723 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 1: the condom breaks, something you was in the shower and 724 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 1: they slipped it or whatever, and like, all right, well 725 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 1: we don't cross this threshold. Now, we don't need no more. 726 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:04,080 Speaker 1: You know how it feels now? And then because and 727 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 1: that's why I say no children or ever accidents, because 728 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 1: if we make the conscious effort of stepping up and 729 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:16,760 Speaker 1: having h you know you're you're gonna have you're preparing 730 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,280 Speaker 1: to have a child. Correct. So anybody that you anybody 731 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 1: I've ever had unprotected sex with, I knew, okay, this 732 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 1: is someone I wouldn't mind creating life with. So if 733 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,360 Speaker 1: I meet somebody, and usually I don't like meeting new people, 734 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,280 Speaker 1: but I'm ninety nine point nine percent gonna be strapped 735 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 1: up in that sense. I don't drink, I don't mind. 736 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,799 Speaker 1: I'm always I don't I'm under the right sober state 737 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 1: of mind every time I go into any sexual activities. 738 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,800 Speaker 1: Your kids are close to the same age, So that 739 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,760 Speaker 1: means you're slinging with no curls to a couple of girls. 740 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 1: Now as someone who has to see the doctor because 741 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: of my other ailments, Yeah, and I probably got a 742 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: little careless with that because I'm STD checking every week 743 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,880 Speaker 1: because I get my blood taken every week because of lupus, 744 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: So I usually know where I'm at and I also 745 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 1: usually know so and in that scenario, she knows what 746 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 1: it is. If someone suggests using the column, of course 747 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 1: that's what we're doing. Do you think you might come 748 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 1: back and be like, no, I do want to be 749 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,879 Speaker 1: with one person. When you talk about marriage, you're talking 750 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: about the business of marriage, because that's marriage is a business. 751 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 1: It's a contract, right, I mean I think it's a 752 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: soul tie too. I mean, when you find the right person, 753 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 1: that's a covenant. But I much rather have someone as 754 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,759 Speaker 1: a companion for life. I'm not moved by sex. I 755 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,319 Speaker 1: don't make decisions off of sex. I probably have some 756 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 1: of the closest people in my life when it comes 757 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,319 Speaker 1: to women that I'm not sexually active, and I tell 758 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 1: off top if it's about your vagina, we can take 759 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: that off the table from the gate because now I 760 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: can really get to know you, because now I'm not 761 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. Clearly the world knows. I have enough 762 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: access to vaginas, so let me really break down where 763 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,319 Speaker 1: we at with it. So I feel like some of 764 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 1: my strongest relationships with women going we in our forties now, 765 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: like like later on in life, and she ain't even 766 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: work in the way it is that hold, yeah, you're 767 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 1: gonna be like, who can I go to the movies with? 768 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:17,359 Speaker 1: I'd rather focus on in that direction and figure out 769 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 1: who can I solely have sex with? One that I'm 770 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: not moved by that So like again, those constructs don't 771 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: believe I'm I don't think about that. But I'll tell 772 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: you one thing, boy, it's men out here who can't 773 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,840 Speaker 1: commit to one woman that's listening to saying that spitting 774 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 1: this morning that the next I don't just I don't. 775 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't disagree with what you're saying because 776 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 1: you have the right to live that way. Yeah, it 777 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 1: don't work for me. I gotta be I love, I 778 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:49,360 Speaker 1: respect and salute anyone who can be an honorable relationship 779 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 1: because it's not easy to do. If it's exostly, I'm like, dang, 780 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 1: I could never do that. That's not for the ad 781 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 1: just like everybody can't be a priest every like. And 782 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 1: so when I see I believe to come together and 783 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,319 Speaker 1: become one that's powerful. That's that's blessed by God. You 784 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 1: can't do it by yourself. Now because of my scenario, 785 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 1: every time somebody meets me and see me, they already 786 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:16,240 Speaker 1: have a like Dann who was in the fourth grade 787 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: that I can't what like I've never I don't know. 788 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,799 Speaker 1: I don't have a woman in my life that's half 789 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 1: my back from day one who rocked with me through 790 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 1: the ball. And you feel that way because like like 791 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,960 Speaker 1: Charlomagne and I've been with my wife since she was fifteen. 792 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,359 Speaker 1: I was sixteen, right, so she's been there before DJ envy, 793 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: before the money going to the boat, that getting dow 794 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,959 Speaker 1: ladies and drinking cord of waters. That's like like, that's 795 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 1: that's that's a blessing from God. And everybody can't have, 796 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: you know, the small percentage of that power of like 797 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,640 Speaker 1: that's something that's other kind of love. I'm you you me. 798 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 1: I don't have the I'm you you me. Everybody is 799 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 1: like I think I could beat what you want I'm like, 800 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm cool by myself. All we got more with Nick 801 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 1: Kenny when we come back, dope move it's the Breakfast Club. 802 00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 1: Good morning, maybe done? What the murder? If you let me? 803 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: All going done? Five? Uncle, y'all my morning. Everybody is 804 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the 805 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Nick Cannon. Do 806 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:53,000 Speaker 1: you regret giving Kevin Hart that lama? No, I wasn't wonder. 807 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: You don't even stop. You didn't change the number. No, 808 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: I mean I need it's still my phone number. And 809 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,279 Speaker 1: then they yeah, what's on the Breakfast Club? Man? You 810 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 1: calling it hello? And that's the other thing is so 811 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 1: it constantly called I wonder because it kept ringing the 812 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 1: whole time, the whole this and it's just and it's 813 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:17,880 Speaker 1: on silent. That's the other. You got to protect your piece. No. 814 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,200 Speaker 1: So the thing is, obviously we got the prank wars 815 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,400 Speaker 1: going on now. I was trying to first like me 816 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,760 Speaker 1: and keV do this all like it's just so happened. Yeah, 817 00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,840 Speaker 1: like he because we always prank each other, especially around 818 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 1: birthdays and stuff like that. I'll be sending just stupid 819 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 1: stuff to his house, and I sent the lama and 820 00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 1: then Smoker gonna put my phone number on a billboard 821 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,239 Speaker 1: and it will not stop ringing something like I'll be answering, like, 822 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: all right, so what should I do to get this back? Like, 823 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 1: because the brilliance of this prank is the world got 824 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:48,800 Speaker 1: to be a part of it. Usually our pranks is 825 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 1: like private and silly, over the top. Now everyone has 826 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:53,840 Speaker 1: my phone number, so that's another I'll keep it on 827 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,839 Speaker 1: because it's like, until I get this back, I'm gonna 828 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 1: be constantly reminded that I gotta deal with pick it 829 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:04,399 Speaker 1: up this far sep and just relax. Well, obviously I'll 830 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 1: put it in the other room when I'm trying to sleep, 831 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,879 Speaker 1: but it's like, this is my phone, it's and that's 832 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,680 Speaker 1: the thing, because I'm not a slave to these devices 833 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,440 Speaker 1: like that. So as much as that is an inconvenience, 834 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 1: it'll probably be more of an inconvenienced if I if 835 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 1: I was one of them dudes that just keep it 836 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,440 Speaker 1: by the you know, all the time. So that's that's 837 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:25,160 Speaker 1: over there. But Kevin har y'all shooting real husbands now 838 00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 1: is just part of the show. Now it should have been. 839 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 1: I think we already had, you know, our storylines and 840 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:32,319 Speaker 1: stuff already put together before that jumped off. But we're 841 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,240 Speaker 1: doing some big things with that, like me and Kevin's pranks, 842 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 1: you guys, Donna, and I really need y'all help to 843 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: figure out what I should do next, because all of 844 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 1: it that I had playing are not as good as this. 845 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: Like I was doing dumb, I was putting bubble bath 846 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,879 Speaker 1: in his pool, like I was doing I was doing 847 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 1: rich inconvenient one of his cars. But like this was 848 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 1: good because this inconvenience, my life in the world got 849 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,240 Speaker 1: to be a I was like, oh, I gotta rethink 850 00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 1: all of it that I was going to do. So 851 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,320 Speaker 1: I don't know Kevin's coming, It's definitely coming. I'm cooking 852 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,239 Speaker 1: up in the world goes see now listen, I know 853 00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: I saw your Howard Stern interview, and you know, I 854 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 1: know we all have to embrace the fact that we're 855 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,359 Speaker 1: not gonna be here forever, right, you know what? And 856 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about that too, because that was 857 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: an interview from over five years ago, and I was 858 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,399 Speaker 1: when I say, I was fresh out the hospital, like 859 00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: seven blood transfusions they you know, over people whispering in 860 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: the corner talking to my mama, you know what I mean, 861 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: Like it was one of them times. And that was 862 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 1: probably the third or fourth time I've been in a 863 00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,440 Speaker 1: scenario like that. So when you're in that space, you 864 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 1: get to you have to come to those moments you're 865 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 1: sitting up looking at the selling in the hospital, having 866 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 1: weird dreams and all that stuff, like, Okay, this is 867 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 1: this is what it's like, it's about to go. I 868 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 1: appreciate the time that I've had on this planet, and 869 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: then when you come out of it, because of your resilience, 870 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: you're in a different mindset as well. And then you 871 00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,319 Speaker 1: get back to this space. I feel like there's I 872 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 1: call it spiritual portals, you know what I'm And when 873 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,920 Speaker 1: you're close to that portal, you're you're in a different, 874 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 1: thin mold of acceptance. And I was probably on that conversation. 875 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:10,800 Speaker 1: You know, we'd be talking and joking a lot of 876 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 1: it because the mike's cracked open. But I was definitely 877 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 1: probably in that space of like, it is what it is. 878 00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 1: You know, I had a good ride. How do you 879 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 1: feel now? I'm probably because I'm that was so far removed. 880 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 1: I definitely appreciate each and every day. But I want 881 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 1: to get the most out of life. But I don't know, 882 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 1: I wasn't. I feel like that was a little dark. 883 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 1: I was in a darker space because I was truly 884 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 1: fresh out of the hospital. And it's funny how because people, 885 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 1: it's just the media, how people started seeing all of 886 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:39,719 Speaker 1: these stories about me and all of these kids, and 887 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 1: then that interview popped up from five years ago, and 888 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 1: they're like, Oh, that's what it is. He's that's irresponsible 889 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,720 Speaker 1: in itself too. That's what somebody said to me. Somebody 890 00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,799 Speaker 1: said that Nick is having all these kids, but he 891 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 1: thinks he's not gonna be here long. That's selfish. Nah, 892 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,719 Speaker 1: that's not it is that if that was if I 893 00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 1: set out on some fanos, like if I'm like, oh, 894 00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be here a loss, so let me 895 00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 1: get impregnate as many people as possible, that is that's 896 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 1: a very selfish mentality. They took two different concepts and 897 00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,960 Speaker 1: kind of put them together. And again, I'm in therapy 898 00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:13,360 Speaker 1: twice a week, so when I literally I went to 899 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: my therapists and you know, I'm like, do I think, 900 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: like am I'm moving? Like this is this? Why? And 901 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,839 Speaker 1: to have nothing to do with each other, like the 902 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,840 Speaker 1: my my concept on the time that we have in 903 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 1: this realm and then experiences that we get to seventy 904 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:32,320 Speaker 1: five eighty five hopefully plus years that we get to see. 905 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 1: I want to make the most out of them. But 906 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm not out here at all. I want to go 907 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 1: get have as many kids and cover as much ground 908 00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,000 Speaker 1: as possible. Now that's not that was a wild room 909 00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,960 Speaker 1: in the room of that that you got young and 910 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 1: may pregnant, but all of me. I mean again, this 911 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,919 Speaker 1: is what we do jokes like I'm I can't wait 912 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,640 Speaker 1: for it. Like I'm one of the probably people you've 913 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,439 Speaker 1: seen wild, and I got the toughest skin in the game. 914 00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,839 Speaker 1: There's no I don't think there's anyone who's ever up 915 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,799 Speaker 1: set me or I mean, even our relationship over here, 916 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,799 Speaker 1: we grew to be so close. I'm like, I'm hilarious 917 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 1: to me, I'm not. I'm not moved by that. So 918 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 1: I actually appreciate every joke. And that's why I created 919 00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,239 Speaker 1: Wild out right. I've been getting rich off of y'all 920 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,759 Speaker 1: talking about me for decades. And how did you feel 921 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:24,600 Speaker 1: when your crew held you down? Wid Yea, they definitely did. 922 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 1: And I salute to them. And that's when you build 923 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,720 Speaker 1: a strong unit, a strong family. That's what you're supposed 924 00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,320 Speaker 1: to do. Uh, staying solid. I don't even think I 925 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,319 Speaker 1: had anything to do with me. They just solid people. 926 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: Because there's a lot of people who did you know, 927 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 1: start tap dancing and got real flimsy out there. You know, 928 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 1: I'll always say they want to be solid, but they 929 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 1: ain't solid, you know what I mean. I salute that. 930 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:48,960 Speaker 1: You know, I'm surrounded by a team of solid individuals. 931 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: But I don't knock anybody who make whatever decision they 932 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 1: have to make because of their family. Get it. Everybody 933 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 1: has different motivations. So even you know the people who 934 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 1: who were willing and you know, jumped out there. Those 935 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,239 Speaker 1: people are you just see. I always say, all the 936 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 1: situations I go through, I think Doctor King talked about it, 937 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:14,879 Speaker 1: it's like, uh kaleidoscope of character revelation. You can see 938 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,359 Speaker 1: people's true colors. When you see you can step back 939 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 1: in and I don't hate you for you being who 940 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,080 Speaker 1: you are. I just now, I'm so glad I know 941 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,600 Speaker 1: who you are now because as the leader in the situation, 942 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,239 Speaker 1: I'm like, do what's best for you. I got this. 943 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,839 Speaker 1: Let me, let me handle this. I'm strong enough to 944 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 1: stand firm on my beliefs in my walk in this 945 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 1: journey that I got to go through, and I know 946 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 1: the support is there because the support came from the 947 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 1: real ones who called me. So I was one of 948 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:43,920 Speaker 1: the first people like, man, we gotta figure this out. 949 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,680 Speaker 1: We got it, you know what I mean. Like and 950 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,360 Speaker 1: even those times where I wasn't even accessible because I 951 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,240 Speaker 1: had to step out of the bubble for a minute 952 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 1: to be like, all right, let me see what this is. 953 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 1: Because it was a point where I was public enemy 954 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,319 Speaker 1: number one to everyone. Yeah, for me, it was It 955 00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 1: wasn't the professional stuff, you know, you get through that. 956 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,520 Speaker 1: It was like the personal I'm like, yeo, let's make 957 00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: sure Nick is good. Yeah. It was heavy too, man, 958 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,920 Speaker 1: because I got to this space, man, and then I'm 959 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 1: never like I value life, but I've been into I've 960 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 1: I've mentally, physically and spiritually been in places where I've 961 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 1: been in some very dark plays to where I'm stuck. 962 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: I'm in the mud and i can't move. So when 963 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 1: you get to that space where you feel like it returns, 964 00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 1: all of those thoughts start coming and you start thinking like, well, 965 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 1: if I can't move? Is this it? You know what 966 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, you start thinking, it's life better without 967 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 1: without because it's so painful not being able to move 968 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 1: if I just get out the way, and then those 969 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 1: dark thoughts. And it's unfortunate because I had an artist 970 00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 1: that was signed to me and I watched him struggle 971 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 1: so much with those those demons and that mental anguish. 972 00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: And this man had been dealing with the pain of 973 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 1: life for so long, and it got to a point 974 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,319 Speaker 1: where he did end up taking his own life. And 975 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I'm sitting here playing with it and 976 00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,839 Speaker 1: the fact that I'm stuck in this moment right here. 977 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:07,400 Speaker 1: I wasn't even able to communicate and connect with him 978 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 1: during that time, and he took his life and that 979 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,960 Speaker 1: that happened literally like the second day all of this 980 00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: was going on, and that brought me out of the 981 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:18,399 Speaker 1: minute because I was like, Okay, the bulls I'm going through. 982 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:23,080 Speaker 1: This man was experiencing so much pain. I've never experienced that. 983 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,160 Speaker 1: And so that's where you know, even and I commend 984 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,799 Speaker 1: you in all the amazing work that you do in 985 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:32,160 Speaker 1: the space of mental health, because we don't talk about 986 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 1: it enough. We don't deal with it, but because we 987 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,880 Speaker 1: all experience it and people are like, oh, you got 988 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,520 Speaker 1: a mental illness, It's like, yeah, I do, but you don't. 989 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 1: Let's bring all of our pain to the table and 990 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,839 Speaker 1: discuss it opposed to pointing fingers at pain. And I've 991 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: learned through that process, like, yo, what I'm going through 992 00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,239 Speaker 1: is gonna help somebody else. All right, we got more 993 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,359 Speaker 1: with Nick Kenny when we come back, don't move. It's 994 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is tj Envy, 995 00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,719 Speaker 1: Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club 996 00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,239 Speaker 1: was still kicking it with Nick Cannon. Charlemagne, what advice 997 00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,680 Speaker 1: with Nick Cannon? Give it the baby right now? Oh yeah, 998 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,719 Speaker 1: the course correction is fine, right, I think that's what 999 00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 1: you that's what we learned from your situation and didn't 1000 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 1: wrong a course correction. First of all, I think not 1001 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 1: only in the black community, and I've experienced it's not only, 1002 00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 1: but definitely just men. A lot of times we have 1003 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:26,320 Speaker 1: that ego we believe apologizing is weakness when it actually 1004 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 1: takes great strength to step up to anyone and say 1005 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,799 Speaker 1: I was wrong. A lot of times we think apologize 1006 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:38,320 Speaker 1: like I'm sorry you feel bad. Sorry, someone's feeling no, 1007 00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,120 Speaker 1: you have to step up and say, oh, I didn't 1008 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:44,320 Speaker 1: handle that in a way that I'm not perfect, and 1009 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:49,240 Speaker 1: that shows strength. I'm no baby, and that's a strong brother. 1010 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 1: And I've been with a lot of traumas. Yeah, Like 1011 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,920 Speaker 1: just the fact that man not only just lost his pops, 1012 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,920 Speaker 1: his brother, all the things that he and and still 1013 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,239 Speaker 1: to be had that big smile that he has every 1014 00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 1: day knowing everything they come like, you know, I grew 1015 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,279 Speaker 1: up in Charlotte. Part of my life. I know that life. 1016 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 1: I think it's the attacked though, and that could be 1017 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,000 Speaker 1: part of ego, Like you know, you do something wrong right, 1018 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 1: and instead of having a conversation like we're having now, 1019 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 1: it's the attack. Now you want to cancel me now 1020 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,320 Speaker 1: As a man, I just want to be like y'all 1021 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: and now you can't say what I mean. But and 1022 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,799 Speaker 1: that and that's he a fighter, right, We've seen we 1023 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,560 Speaker 1: seen his back against the wall. He's swinging right, He 1024 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 1: swingings just so he could get out of it. So 1025 00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:32,040 Speaker 1: we all have to accept emotion. And there's people that 1026 00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 1: I had some very harsh conversations with initially that I'm 1027 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,279 Speaker 1: we're close now because we got to the after you 1028 00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 1: chunk him up then like, Okay, this was a misunderstanding, 1029 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,480 Speaker 1: I said, And I've I've had to have many of 1030 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,839 Speaker 1: those conversations and I'm gonna continue to have conversation. Yeah, 1031 00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 1: because that's growth to say I'm sorry, that's a self proclamation, 1032 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,680 Speaker 1: you just m that's not to apologize as an action, 1033 00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:59,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And to actually repent or 1034 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 1: a home is actually the next level because now you're 1035 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,880 Speaker 1: trying to understand this education involved with that. There's actually 1036 00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,279 Speaker 1: community involved that. And that's the other thing too, where 1037 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,040 Speaker 1: I challenge all these people who want to cancel somebody 1038 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:16,040 Speaker 1: and even specifically in the baby's situation, let's use this 1039 00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 1: as an opportunity for education, because that's what happened in 1040 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:22,560 Speaker 1: my scenario to where I still stuck true to the truths. 1041 00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 1: The minister told me this where he was like, I 1042 00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,000 Speaker 1: don't ever want falsehood to come out of my mouth. 1043 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,800 Speaker 1: So if I'm saying something that is not correct about 1044 00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:34,880 Speaker 1: your community, show me where I'm incorrect. Help me understand, 1045 00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,600 Speaker 1: because not only is that gonna help me, but you're 1046 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,480 Speaker 1: gonna help so many other people who think like me. 1047 00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,200 Speaker 1: How do you feel about all those festivals pull it 1048 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,359 Speaker 1: them off. I feel like that's the wrong thing to do. 1049 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,239 Speaker 1: One hundred. I don't agree with it, just because it's like, 1050 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 1: what statement is that making other than you're just following. 1051 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 1: It's group think. It's mob rule. Mob rule has never 1052 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,440 Speaker 1: worked in any society to where it's like, oh, well 1053 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 1: they did it, we gotta do it. It's like, oh, 1054 00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:00,719 Speaker 1: I can't lose this sponsorship. If Pepsi Poor Coke gotta 1055 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,960 Speaker 1: pull out, you know what I mean? So then who 1056 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 1: are you really because you you can be knocked off. 1057 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 1: There's a group that can force you to do what 1058 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,439 Speaker 1: you want to do with your brand. And it's unfortunate 1059 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 1: because when I don't I think if we had sat 1060 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,880 Speaker 1: down and had individual conversations and this is a moment 1061 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,839 Speaker 1: where we should all gather around the baby and embrace him, 1062 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 1: because if we can do that, watch how many mentalities 1063 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:25,879 Speaker 1: would change in the hip hop community. First of all, 1064 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 1: and then it's gonna be consequences and that person has 1065 00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 1: to be held accountable. But then you got to get 1066 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,239 Speaker 1: that person the opportunity to learn and you use it 1067 00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: as a teachable moment. Fat and he is such a 1068 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,600 Speaker 1: He's a great example of that because of all that 1069 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 1: he's been through. He's an intelligent person. There's other people 1070 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,719 Speaker 1: out there they save while yeah they ain't no help, 1071 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:49,200 Speaker 1: don't save them. But someone like that, you can utilize him. 1072 00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 1: I guarantee you he'd sit down and talk with Madonna. 1073 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: I guarantee you he'd sit down and talk with jo 1074 00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,440 Speaker 1: I get and it wouldn't be for the bag. He good. 1075 00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 1: But if this is the opportunity to take his fan 1076 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,640 Speaker 1: as on a journey, and a lot of people don't 1077 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,319 Speaker 1: even see it. We see the polarizing conversation, We see 1078 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 1: what some people being, what do you wrong? Though? Yeah, 1079 00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 1: yeah he was, but but but there's certain things about 1080 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 1: it that we've been trained to think that let's unpack that, 1081 00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,520 Speaker 1: because let's let's break it down. We know what the 1082 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,960 Speaker 1: baby was doing. Like as entertainers, as DJ, you call yo, 1083 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,600 Speaker 1: if I'm all all the ugly people be quiet, I 1084 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 1: need all the bad bitches in the building to get 1085 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,719 Speaker 1: to make some noise. He just took it to a 1086 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 1: whole nother. But again, it was some call in response. 1087 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:39,759 Speaker 1: Because if you feeling like you the healthiest and the 1088 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 1: happiest you could be in the moment, you're gonna make 1089 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,799 Speaker 1: some noise, But what about the people who are not 1090 00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:47,600 Speaker 1: feeling healthy? What about the people who do feel ugly? 1091 00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, damn, you just called 1092 00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,399 Speaker 1: me out that I was a trigger. Now I came out, 1093 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:55,600 Speaker 1: paid my good money, and now people looking at me funny. 1094 00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:58,400 Speaker 1: And we got to understand the power that we had 1095 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: as the people with the micro phones. But one of 1096 00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,399 Speaker 1: my my biggest problem, I think was and I hate 1097 00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 1: to single anybody out right, but I look at Eminem right, 1098 00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:14,040 Speaker 1: Eminem's has said wow, still saying wow. Shoot shut out 1099 00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,480 Speaker 1: the marshal. But then he did the thing with Elton 1100 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,560 Speaker 1: John and everything was good, right right. Then a couple 1101 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:22,800 Speaker 1: of years later he went back to it my whole 1102 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 1: three years ago. Yeah, so my whole. I didn't see 1103 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,720 Speaker 1: him pull anything from him. I never seen TV. We 1104 00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:31,920 Speaker 1: know the current fear of caucasianness. It seems like they 1105 00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,880 Speaker 1: gave him a chance to redeem himself and they did 1106 00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 1: it the right way. With my baby just seems like 1107 00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 1: and I think, and I think it's too early, because 1108 00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,280 Speaker 1: I think they will do it with the baby. Will 1109 00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,880 Speaker 1: they will? He's gonna the baby's not canceled, the baby's 1110 00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 1: not over. I pray he utilizes this moment and sees 1111 00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:53,000 Speaker 1: where this can actually turn around and be a good moment. 1112 00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 1: I always say, you know, doctor I quote Doctor King 1113 00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:59,240 Speaker 1: every freaking day. But it's like where Evil Man plot 1114 00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 1: good Man playing, because these are conversations that need to occur, right, Yeah, 1115 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:04,800 Speaker 1: it's crazy that we have to and I don't know why, 1116 00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,520 Speaker 1: but it's always like this. It has to be something 1117 00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,920 Speaker 1: extreme that gets us to these conversations. Yeah, well it's 1118 00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:12,520 Speaker 1: about racism, whether it's about sexuality, whether it's about gender, 1119 00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:16,320 Speaker 1: it's always a symptimic whatever, it's always something that happens 1120 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,920 Speaker 1: that get us to have these conversations. Something extreme has 1121 00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:21,040 Speaker 1: to happen. And that I think all that you've been through, 1122 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,720 Speaker 1: all that I've been through, envy, even the stuff that 1123 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,560 Speaker 1: you go through as well, I think we have to 1124 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,560 Speaker 1: be you know, I'm not the martyrs will say, but 1125 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:33,040 Speaker 1: we're in a position because we can ignite those conversations 1126 00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,400 Speaker 1: and put them in the right direction. I know I'm 1127 00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:38,960 Speaker 1: gonna get canceled again because I talked my real and 1128 00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:40,880 Speaker 1: sometimes in a moment I might say something where I 1129 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,720 Speaker 1: didn't I wasn't thinking about I was just trying to 1130 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,280 Speaker 1: be funny. Off, I was, I was talking about this, 1131 00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 1: but it was that like I can cancel one year, 1132 00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 1: gets can about three times? Yea, yeah, it's I say something, Yeah, 1133 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,360 Speaker 1: I say something every week. And at this point it's 1134 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:56,480 Speaker 1: like I caught. All right, the interrogators are out there 1135 00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna sit back. I ain't gonna let you 1136 00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,360 Speaker 1: shake me, like, but let's talk about it. You know 1137 00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 1: what I've learned to do though, Um, I think I 1138 00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,240 Speaker 1: used to make a lot of definitive statements. Now I 1139 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,640 Speaker 1: just I asked the questions because I really do want 1140 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:09,440 Speaker 1: to know. Like I'm asking questions now, I said, of 1141 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,200 Speaker 1: saying this is what I think, it's like, well, what 1142 00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 1: if such as I like to ask questions then, because 1143 00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:15,800 Speaker 1: then I'm opening up the conversation. I said, have none 1144 00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 1: of the answers and all the questions. All right, we 1145 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 1: got more with Nick Cannon when we come back, don't move. 1146 00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:23,280 Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, holding everybody in stj 1147 00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,960 Speaker 1: Envy Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast 1148 00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 1: Club was still kicking it with Nick Cannon versus uh, 1149 00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,440 Speaker 1: Ryan Carrey, who would you love to see Maria carry golds? 1150 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,320 Speaker 1: You about to ask Nick if he's gonna do a version. Stop. 1151 00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 1: Come on. Many always be an interrogator about you, and 1152 00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 1: I will get into that too. You know the thing 1153 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,880 Speaker 1: about my music is like, it's funny to me because 1154 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:54,680 Speaker 1: I rhyming words ain't hard. We we love Biggie because 1155 00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,320 Speaker 1: of the person he was. We love pop because of 1156 00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,080 Speaker 1: the person he was. We love rock Kim because of 1157 00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 1: the person he was. The word rhyme scheme that's we 1158 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 1: see anybody getting. It's been kind of hard for you. 1159 01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:12,959 Speaker 1: It's not Charlemagne. You stop seeing you try to rap 1160 01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:16,040 Speaker 1: like it's it's not hard to rhyme words. I never 1161 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,200 Speaker 1: wanted to be the greatest rapper ever because I do 1162 01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:24,440 Speaker 1: so much. I could play seven instruments. I'm a musician, 1163 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,680 Speaker 1: so hip hop, I salute everybody you can do it. 1164 01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm a poet now to be a great artist, and 1165 01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,920 Speaker 1: we want to talk about that. I'm here to be 1166 01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,160 Speaker 1: the best artist I can be. And I think when 1167 01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,000 Speaker 1: it's all setting down, when I'm going to be like, oh, 1168 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 1: that you could get down a little bit that actually 1169 01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:44,320 Speaker 1: was talented not for music, everything else. I mean everything. 1170 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 1: When I say everything else, everything, No, hold up, let's 1171 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:52,040 Speaker 1: talk this all day real quick. Are we saying because 1172 01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:53,640 Speaker 1: I'll give you one of the other? Are we saying 1173 01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 1: rap or music? When we heard you rap? Okay? Say less? 1174 01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 1: You never you never seen me play guitar? Oh no, no, 1175 01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:03,960 Speaker 1: you talked about I saw the piece you did with him. 1176 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 1: What was the sister name? Kara? Kiara shared that was dope. 1177 01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:10,280 Speaker 1: I've been I grew up in a child, pick up 1178 01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,280 Speaker 1: any instrument in a church and play. He's judging you 1179 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:17,920 Speaker 1: off for giggolo, jiggolo one fire giggolo Okay? I like jiggolo? Okay? 1180 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 1: How hard you say the words? That song? Fun? You 1181 01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:23,920 Speaker 1: didn't like? Can't I live at any Hamilton? Me and 1182 01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,400 Speaker 1: Kanye produced it. I don't even remember that record. I 1183 01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 1: remember jay Z. Can I live back to Marian Carrot 1184 01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,240 Speaker 1: versus versus? He gonna hate on me father, and I 1185 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 1: love it because it's my friend. I need. I need 1186 01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:37,959 Speaker 1: this shut into music. I support Nick and everything else 1187 01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:41,320 Speaker 1: he does so wild and out ain't music. I produced 1188 01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:43,920 Speaker 1: every beat on that show. Every song you've heard. I 1189 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:46,240 Speaker 1: wrote it, even when they'd be doing like the songs 1190 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,320 Speaker 1: like the church. Who makes Where do you think the 1191 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:53,040 Speaker 1: beat came from? Every song? Every music? Everything you hear 1192 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: I make on the spot sometimes. Okay, I don't know. 1193 01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:03,000 Speaker 1: I feel thing you ever see, every anything sonically that's 1194 01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:07,200 Speaker 1: ever come out of wid I've made myself. Wow, Okay, 1195 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: I didn't know what he say. Now what are you saying? Now? 1196 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:16,080 Speaker 1: I support him and everything he does. Career. I loved 1197 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:20,280 Speaker 1: wilding out of the classic staple in our coaches and 1198 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,280 Speaker 1: every time you came out, embodied you in the free style. 1199 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,480 Speaker 1: Let's go to ver. I had one good, good ball 1200 01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 1: one kids didn't look like me and it was, Oh, 1201 01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:32,320 Speaker 1: you're the bird man of TV and you need to 1202 01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:38,520 Speaker 1: pay all your little wish. Yeah, me go back to 1203 01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:42,880 Speaker 1: who could go against the Mariah? I don't think any 1204 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:47,080 Speaker 1: They were saying, man, it's unfortunate and we've only opened 1205 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 1: up this can. But the only person who has the 1206 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:54,400 Speaker 1: level of talent this it will never happened, the level 1207 01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 1: of talent and hits no. Because Mariah writes that's why 1208 01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 1: people got on to stand Marizon musician. I'm not impressed 1209 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:04,919 Speaker 1: by people who could perform songs that it took thirty 1210 01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:08,720 Speaker 1: people to make with you. That's a lot of people though, 1211 01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:11,480 Speaker 1: that that's Michael Jackson. They can't stabbing at somebody, but no, 1212 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:16,640 Speaker 1: that's Michael Jackson, that's Beyonce exactly. That the greatest, I'm telling, 1213 01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:18,680 Speaker 1: the greatest are the ones who can you could put 1214 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,680 Speaker 1: somebody in the room by the damned health. They come 1215 01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,120 Speaker 1: out with a head. That's like Steven shouts out to Stevie, 1216 01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:24,640 Speaker 1: one of the greatest, Like no one can ever do 1217 01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 1: a verses with him, And that's like, that's literally he 1218 01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 1: was one. He was one of the real ones that 1219 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,760 Speaker 1: called me. That's like close friends. And he and I 1220 01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: have this conversation. There's a different level. I see what's 1221 01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:44,960 Speaker 1: going on with you all the time You're looking at 1222 01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:52,040 Speaker 1: the He's like, yo, I'm driving, I gotta go. I 1223 01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 1: can't mean driving. No, but I'm impressed by artists like that. 1224 01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,360 Speaker 1: So only person in this day and age that could 1225 01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:06,640 Speaker 1: go that could have gone against Mariah Carey because she 1226 01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 1: writes all of her songs. She actually produces all of 1227 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:11,680 Speaker 1: her so she puts the songs together and performs them 1228 01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,760 Speaker 1: at a high level. R Kelly, that ain't gonna happen. 1229 01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,600 Speaker 1: I told you it's not gonna happen anymore because of 1230 01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:20,680 Speaker 1: his personal endeavors and all the things for this for 1231 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:28,080 Speaker 1: this era, like what do you mean? Because because Prince, 1232 01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,280 Speaker 1: but that like even because even people talk about like 1233 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,240 Speaker 1: Mariah and Janet, which on that level of diva, I 1234 01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:34,960 Speaker 1: would love to see it like the songs that we 1235 01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,600 Speaker 1: Maria and Janet would be fired. But if we're just 1236 01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:41,320 Speaker 1: talking about skill level, like when we saw you know, whenever, 1237 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:44,440 Speaker 1: how we got excited for dip set in the locks, 1238 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:48,440 Speaker 1: Like if we're talking about matching talents, because Mariah is 1239 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:52,080 Speaker 1: a writer as and has written more hits than anybody. 1240 01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:54,240 Speaker 1: Only other person I could think of that has that 1241 01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,880 Speaker 1: ability that could sit down and make music out on 1242 01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:00,360 Speaker 1: the spot was R Kelly. I don't know did all 1243 01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:07,800 Speaker 1: that that's he's a producer. But again I've actually watched 1244 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 1: Mariah write out lyrics and said I'm going to go 1245 01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:14,080 Speaker 1: put this to something and then when you can perform 1246 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,720 Speaker 1: it at a six octave level, you know what I mean? 1247 01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:19,440 Speaker 1: And that's what I watched R Kelly do. The same thing. 1248 01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:22,560 Speaker 1: His was on some like savant type though, like where 1249 01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:26,640 Speaker 1: he would literally be no, no, no, and then five 1250 01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:29,840 Speaker 1: minutes later it's a cold ass hit song. Obviously, he 1251 01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:32,480 Speaker 1: had so many other problems and issues and you know, 1252 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 1: pain in his life that we will no longer get 1253 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:38,880 Speaker 1: to see him do that anymore. But we still gotta 1254 01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:45,520 Speaker 1: acknowledge the fact that the man was gifted and so 1255 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:48,680 Speaker 1: but at that level like he when you think about 1256 01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:52,760 Speaker 1: the level of hits that he penned and put together 1257 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,880 Speaker 1: other than Jakelogan, don't think it was a hit, but 1258 01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:01,640 Speaker 1: a hit. Just let's play. Let's play right now, jig bars, 1259 01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:04,600 Speaker 1: let's call me the scarecrow. I'm looking for some brain. 1260 01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:08,240 Speaker 1: That's a barn. We appreciate you for joining us. Let's go. 1261 01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:14,560 Speaker 1: Let's I did not don't even want to hear. No, 1262 01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 1: it was twenty years ago. But Nick, no for real 1263 01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:20,480 Speaker 1: saluting Nick. You gotta give Nick his flowers, man, So 1264 01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,200 Speaker 1: we don't celebrate nicka enough in our culture. For everything 1265 01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:26,200 Speaker 1: that Nick does for black people, he keeps black people employed, 1266 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:27,800 Speaker 1: just put out a lot of black talent out hit 1267 01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:30,560 Speaker 1: in this culture over the years. This isn't nothing new. 1268 01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:32,160 Speaker 1: So he's just getting started, and I know you're just 1269 01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:34,720 Speaker 1: getting started. So we got a salute Nick Cannon. We 1270 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:36,880 Speaker 1: do not giving Nick Cannon his flowers enough, man, We 1271 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:39,320 Speaker 1: really don't. Let's do it, Nick Cannon, don't get me 1272 01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:46,440 Speaker 1: no flowers, plant some seeds. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, 1273 01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:50,160 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Your Morning's will never be the same. 1274 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:55,400 Speaker 1: Nightmare Alley now playing only in THEATIS on December twenty second. 1275 01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 1: Return to the source, see it in THEATIS and HBO 1276 01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:08,760 Speaker 1: Max December twenty second. Time for Donkey of the Day. 1277 01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:11,640 Speaker 1: I'm a Democrat, so being Dunkey of the Day a 1278 01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:19,960 Speaker 1: little bit of a so like a day now. I've 1279 01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:21,880 Speaker 1: been called a lot in my twenty three years. But 1280 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:24,520 Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day is a new wife. Yeah. Donkey 1281 01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,320 Speaker 1: of the Day goes to a home inspecting Michigan named 1282 01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 1: Kevin Wayne van Loving. What a name, Van Loving. If 1283 01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,920 Speaker 1: this guy doesn't own in nineteen ninety two for the 1284 01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:40,280 Speaker 1: Econo line, I would be disappointed. Okay, at least in 1285 01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,040 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety seven Plumoth voyage and maybe a voicewagen ear 1286 01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 1: old Van. Maybe moral of the story is he should 1287 01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:49,080 Speaker 1: drive nothing but Vans. When your last name is van Loving, 1288 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,320 Speaker 1: you only have one vehicle of choice, and the license 1289 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:58,480 Speaker 1: plate of that vehicle has to say Van Loving Sneakers too. Okay, 1290 01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:00,880 Speaker 1: when your last name is van Loving, can only wear vans, 1291 01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: the old school black and white ones with the jash scrape. 1292 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 1: Now some would say that if you drive a van 1293 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:08,040 Speaker 1: and wear vans, that's the child sex offenders start a kid. 1294 01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if you profile pedophiles, this kind of 1295 01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:13,600 Speaker 1: fits the description. But maybe I'm making all this up. 1296 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,479 Speaker 1: This is probably a personal biased and unprojecting so never 1297 01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,760 Speaker 1: mind me. But back to mister van Lovin. Now, mister 1298 01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:22,880 Speaker 1: van Lovin is a home inspector and he was inspecting 1299 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:25,240 Speaker 1: the home of a twenty two year old woman in 1300 01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 1: Oxford Township. He was inspecting the property before a sale. Well, 1301 01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:34,240 Speaker 1: something in that house turned Kevin van loving on. I 1302 01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 1: don't know what type of afro dgak he used before 1303 01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:39,880 Speaker 1: he inspected that house. Maybe he ate some chocolate, maybe 1304 01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:46,040 Speaker 1: some figs, some oysters, asparagus. Maybe something increased his lobido, 1305 01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 1: his sexual function. Something got him so hot and bothered 1306 01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,040 Speaker 1: in that house that he had the pleasure himself right 1307 01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:55,600 Speaker 1: then and there. Let's go to w JBK Fox to 1308 01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 1: Detroit for the report. Police an Oxford Township couple with 1309 01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,840 Speaker 1: this man into their home on Gill Street for a 1310 01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:06,080 Speaker 1: routine inspection. They left, never suspecting the fifty nine year 1311 01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:10,040 Speaker 1: old man would allegedly fulfill his sexual urges with their 1312 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:14,759 Speaker 1: child's Almo doll. The deserving sexual act revealed when movement 1313 01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,960 Speaker 1: in the child's room triggered the nursery camera. The image 1314 01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,600 Speaker 1: shows when Kevin van Leuven picked up the tickle Me 1315 01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,800 Speaker 1: Elmo doll. The homeowner shocked when she was alerted on 1316 01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:27,519 Speaker 1: her cell phone after hitting record. She immediately contacted the 1317 01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:31,640 Speaker 1: Oakland County Sheriff's office. Our deputies confronted him, and initially 1318 01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:34,640 Speaker 1: he denied it, and then they told him it was 1319 01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:38,000 Speaker 1: on video, and then he apologized. He's been charged with 1320 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:42,639 Speaker 1: aggravated indecent exposure and a misdemeanor charge of malicious destruction 1321 01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:47,840 Speaker 1: of property. But perhaps what's even more disgusting. After abusing 1322 01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:52,360 Speaker 1: the doll, van Leuven put it back. I never thought 1323 01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:55,920 Speaker 1: I would find someone who loves Almo morning Rashawn Casey 1324 01:09:56,000 --> 01:10:00,519 Speaker 1: aka dj Envy. I have so many questions. I know 1325 01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,759 Speaker 1: people say we shouldn't can't shame, we shouldn't shame people 1326 01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,679 Speaker 1: for what they are into sexually, But that's ps Okay, 1327 01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,680 Speaker 1: that's from twenty twenty one. I've been walked too long, 1328 01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:10,519 Speaker 1: and I need some sleep because I'm not thinking straight 1329 01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:13,960 Speaker 1: when I'm sleepy. Rhetoric okay, if I can't shame Kevin 1330 01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:15,960 Speaker 1: van Loving for this in the word shame needs to 1331 01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:18,479 Speaker 1: be abolished all together. Now, can I try to understand 1332 01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:23,120 Speaker 1: Kevin van Lovin? Sure, let's unpack this. How many times 1333 01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,519 Speaker 1: has Kevin Wayne van Lovin sat his ass in front 1334 01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,720 Speaker 1: of the TV and masturbated this? Sessrom me screet? I 1335 01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,120 Speaker 1: wonder I also wonder if he sat down with a 1336 01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:33,479 Speaker 1: therapist of psychiatrist, could he or she bring this back 1337 01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:36,000 Speaker 1: to something that happens in his childhood. I mean it's 1338 01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:41,960 Speaker 1: Almo as then tickle me Elmo? Right, and tickling equals flirting. 1339 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:45,920 Speaker 1: I read somewhere, and by somewhere, I mean google that 1340 01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:48,759 Speaker 1: from adolescent saw and you're roughly seven times more likely 1341 01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:50,920 Speaker 1: to be tickled by somebody at the opposite sex. And 1342 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,120 Speaker 1: the most common reason to tickle is to show affection. 1343 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:55,439 Speaker 1: So maybe when he was a baby, as a young lad, 1344 01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,160 Speaker 1: he got tickled a lot and the thought of tickling 1345 01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:01,559 Speaker 1: turns him on. I don't know. Okay, So when you're 1346 01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:04,320 Speaker 1: a creature that is the symbol of tickling, maybe when 1347 01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:06,360 Speaker 1: you see that, you get turned on. When you see 1348 01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:10,439 Speaker 1: that symbol of tickling that is now Elmo. A lot 1349 01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,439 Speaker 1: of people don't like tickling, But tickling is a physical 1350 01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:14,920 Speaker 1: expression to love. So maybe, just maybe he saw Elmo 1351 01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:19,479 Speaker 1: and he wanted to show his love. Some people do. 1352 01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:22,120 Speaker 1: Tickle fights is for play people's stage, tickle fights in 1353 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,680 Speaker 1: the bedroom. Nothing I'm saying makes sense, does it? Of 1354 01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:28,640 Speaker 1: course not? Okay? God may not make mistakes, put the 1355 01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:31,080 Speaker 1: humans do. But I hear stories like Kevin van Loven 1356 01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:33,760 Speaker 1: and I know they say, don't question God, but sometimes 1357 01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:39,120 Speaker 1: you have to recognize that God didn't give you the 1358 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:41,960 Speaker 1: same brains he gave everybody else. Okay, there was certain 1359 01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:45,639 Speaker 1: periods in time that God was just creating anybody in anything, 1360 01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:48,400 Speaker 1: all right. Genesis one twenty six says God created man 1361 01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:51,960 Speaker 1: in his imagey callding his likeness. Right. Well, Humans, sometimes 1362 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:53,840 Speaker 1: we just like to try things, or it gets the 1363 01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,120 Speaker 1: wall to see what sticks. I think God did that 1364 01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,400 Speaker 1: when he was creating some humans. Some humans he just 1365 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:01,000 Speaker 1: created with his eyes closed. Even Van Loving might have 1366 01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,400 Speaker 1: been one of them. Okay, God made them and forgot 1367 01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:05,759 Speaker 1: about him, So didn't mister Van Loving all these years 1368 01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 1: has been left to his own devices, wandering around life 1369 01:12:09,640 --> 01:12:13,760 Speaker 1: aimlessly by himself, without God's guidance, only to end up 1370 01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:17,400 Speaker 1: on sesame street masturbating next to Oscar grounds trash can 1371 01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:21,320 Speaker 1: while Elmo just minding his business performing Elmo song hit 1372 01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:30,559 Speaker 1: that tune for me dramas. Come on now, m Kevin 1373 01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:37,880 Speaker 1: van Loving is somewhere hot and parted right now. That's 1374 01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:42,080 Speaker 1: what does it for Kevin van Loving. Okay, enough for 1375 01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:47,840 Speaker 1: enough enough, Okay, Kevin van Loving is reinforcing all the 1376 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:50,559 Speaker 1: pedophile stereotypes. I told you driving a van and wearing 1377 01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:52,920 Speaker 1: vans is the sex offender. Start a kid. You know 1378 01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:55,439 Speaker 1: how many people Chris Hansen caught who fit that profile. 1379 01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:58,519 Speaker 1: And this guy, Kevin van Loving. Okay, you got caught 1380 01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:02,840 Speaker 1: sexually assaulting at elm old dog in a nursery. That 1381 01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 1: sounds pretty peet old fouled to me. Okay, Elmo is 1382 01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,280 Speaker 1: three and a half years old. Do you know that 1383 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:14,920 Speaker 1: three and a half years old? You sick bathter. This 1384 01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:17,160 Speaker 1: is what Kevin van Loving heres when drunkn Love plays 1385 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:28,240 Speaker 1: swerving on it, swerving swerving on a big s. Let 1386 01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 1: really give Kevin van Loving the biggest he huh he ha, 1387 01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:36,719 Speaker 1: he ha, you stupid mother? Are you dumb? Do it? Envy? 1388 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:38,400 Speaker 1: Oh you don't want to do the voice today? Huh? 1389 01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,600 Speaker 1: You wanna play Elmore to day? Do you? I was 1390 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:42,800 Speaker 1: gonna say, well, I'm just curious you won't play a game. 1391 01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,840 Speaker 1: You want to play a game only if you do 1392 01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 1: the voice. Ask me in the voice you are a play? Yes? 1393 01:13:48,320 --> 01:14:00,360 Speaker 1: I kiss what Kevin van Loving, Michigan home inspector, walked 1394 01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,200 Speaker 1: into a nursery and a home saw tickle me Elmo 1395 01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:07,160 Speaker 1: doll and had his way sexually with it. Jess what 1396 01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:14,040 Speaker 1: race he is? Angela start with you Sasian? Okay, what 1397 01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:19,280 Speaker 1: makes you say this with such confidence? Um? I don't know. 1398 01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:22,400 Speaker 1: This is what I wanted to be. Okay, Rashaan, I 1399 01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:23,680 Speaker 1: want you to do I need you to answer in 1400 01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:27,840 Speaker 1: the voice the whole time. Okay, Kevin van Lovin, Yes 1401 01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:31,960 Speaker 1: from Michigan home inspector. You're very familiar with home inspectress. Right, 1402 01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:36,120 Speaker 1: he was in a home inspecting. He was in a nursery, 1403 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:40,400 Speaker 1: saw Elmo doll, had his way with the Elmo doll sexually. 1404 01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:52,280 Speaker 1: Jess what race he is? Let me check the hell? 1405 01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:54,519 Speaker 1: Did you Ben Dover like that? For the hell? Will 1406 01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:57,240 Speaker 1: you check him? Look like you wanted somebody to check you. 1407 01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:03,000 Speaker 1: Hell's wrong with you? I don't know? You both are right? 1408 01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:07,479 Speaker 1: This is absolutely a colonizer. Okay, this is the highest 1409 01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:10,920 Speaker 1: levels of caucasianary. Okay, the man he was very heavy 1410 01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:14,720 Speaker 1: in this story. All right, all right, all right, thank 1411 01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:17,439 Speaker 1: you for that. You gotta register the sex offender when 1412 01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:19,680 Speaker 1: you do stuff like this. If you're Kevin van Love, 1413 01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:29,360 Speaker 1: I'm sure that. I'm sure that guy asked well, so 1414 01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:32,840 Speaker 1: I don't think so. All right anyway, all we got 1415 01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,960 Speaker 1: more coming up next to don't move, Happy Holidays, don't 1416 01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:39,799 Speaker 1: go anywhere. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club, 1417 01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:49,639 Speaker 1: the relationship advice, the personal advice, just the real advice. 1418 01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:56,840 Speaker 1: Haul up now for asking morning. Everybody is dj Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomne, 1419 01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:59,040 Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club. It's time for 1420 01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:04,120 Speaker 1: ask ye Hello. Who's this Tessie? Yeah? Okay, I was 1421 01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 1: trying to see if my boyfriend seeing his ex girlfriend. 1422 01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:11,280 Speaker 1: Is it okay to give her a hug in front 1423 01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:13,880 Speaker 1: of me and not acknowledge me or acknowledge the situation 1424 01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:16,519 Speaker 1: that made me mad? So what happened with his ex 1425 01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:18,800 Speaker 1: girlfriend that you in particular don't like her? It's not 1426 01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:20,599 Speaker 1: that I don't like her because I don't know her. 1427 01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:22,800 Speaker 1: It's just a simple fact. That she didn't acknowledge me. 1428 01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:25,400 Speaker 1: She just ran up straight to him and seeing us together, 1429 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:27,640 Speaker 1: and gave him a hug, and he gave her a 1430 01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:30,120 Speaker 1: hug back and still didn't acknowledge me. So I just 1431 01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:33,800 Speaker 1: wanted the way, and he thought that it was okay. Well, yeah, 1432 01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:36,400 Speaker 1: seeing a boy then it will be okay to hug him. 1433 01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:39,000 Speaker 1: I think that it's not the hug. I think it's 1434 01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:41,320 Speaker 1: also the fact that there was no acknowledgement. She didn't 1435 01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:44,840 Speaker 1: acknowledge you, and then he didn't say this is my girlfriend, Tessey. Yeah, 1436 01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:46,840 Speaker 1: and that's how you have to let him know. That's 1437 01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:49,760 Speaker 1: what's not okay. I think you can't control somebody giving 1438 01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:52,240 Speaker 1: your boyfriend a hug obviously like this, What are you 1439 01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:53,760 Speaker 1: supposed to do by that? You can't get mad at 1440 01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,440 Speaker 1: him for that, But what you can hold him responsible 1441 01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,360 Speaker 1: for is Okay, you hugged her back and then you 1442 01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:01,719 Speaker 1: didn't even say this is my girlfriend, and you gotta 1443 01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:05,439 Speaker 1: be started a conversation. I'm sorry. Yeah, did you insert 1444 01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:08,240 Speaker 1: yourself in, like, hey, how you doing I'm his girlfriend? No. 1445 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:10,080 Speaker 1: I just looked at it like she was crazy and 1446 01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:12,519 Speaker 1: they just kept talking. So I walked away. Yeah, I 1447 01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,439 Speaker 1: think I well but that is on him. And the 1448 01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:18,000 Speaker 1: truth is you can't even be mad at her for that. 1449 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,840 Speaker 1: That's on him. She did that. He should have never 1450 01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:22,479 Speaker 1: allowed that to happen. And it's the sad part is 1451 01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:26,599 Speaker 1: he don't understand nothing that hurts me. I'm his real, 1452 01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:30,200 Speaker 1: real relationship. So everything I tell him that don't that 1453 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:32,760 Speaker 1: I don't like. He think it's okay. It didn't. It 1454 01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:36,559 Speaker 1: was meant to be. And the best way for you 1455 01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:39,000 Speaker 1: to explain it to him is not that he's doing 1456 01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:42,439 Speaker 1: these things purposefully to her too, but they do, and 1457 01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:44,559 Speaker 1: so you have to tell him, this is how this 1458 01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 1: makes me feel when you do things like this. When 1459 01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:51,519 Speaker 1: that happened, I felt like I wasn't respected and I 1460 01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:53,160 Speaker 1: just want to feel respected. And you have to be 1461 01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:55,920 Speaker 1: able to explain that to him in terms of it's 1462 01:17:55,920 --> 01:17:58,200 Speaker 1: not factual, it's just an emotional thing how you feel. 1463 01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:00,599 Speaker 1: And I'm sure that in his head he's thinking it's 1464 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:02,639 Speaker 1: no big deal. And you also know you would never 1465 01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:04,559 Speaker 1: do that to him, whether or not he said he's 1466 01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:06,960 Speaker 1: okay with it, that's not how you move That is 1467 01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,679 Speaker 1: exactly it. And I told him that and I cry 1468 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:11,360 Speaker 1: to him and pleasing him. He just look at me 1469 01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:14,240 Speaker 1: like I'm crazy. Yeah, no, that's not cool at all, 1470 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,800 Speaker 1: and you should play this for him. But it's really 1471 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:19,840 Speaker 1: just about him, you know, being proud of you. Also 1472 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:21,720 Speaker 1: not letting her feel like she could get away with 1473 01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:23,680 Speaker 1: things like that, because that's the type of thing she 1474 01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 1: go home and tell her friends, Oh, you know I 1475 01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,160 Speaker 1: did this, I did that. I get him a hug. 1476 01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:31,680 Speaker 1: Female taught like that, and he don't see it, think 1477 01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:34,639 Speaker 1: it's okay. He think it's okay to have female friends 1478 01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,240 Speaker 1: that he didn't in a path on his Facebook page 1479 01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:40,080 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And you know how females is, Matthew, 1480 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:42,200 Speaker 1: so they put anything on Facebook for the people to 1481 01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:45,439 Speaker 1: look at, and he just thinks all that is okay. Yeah, 1482 01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:49,120 Speaker 1: respective relationship. Don't act like you out here single. That's crazy. 1483 01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:53,479 Speaker 1: You can hear I can't hear this. You know what. 1484 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:57,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna call him. I'm sorry if I'm on the radio. 1485 01:18:57,560 --> 01:19:00,439 Speaker 1: This is terrible. You know what, we can't go Kirsten 1486 01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:03,639 Speaker 1: calling right now? Call them on three bag ahead, Okay, 1487 01:19:03,680 --> 01:19:14,920 Speaker 1: give me one minute. Hello, we're not available now, Please 1488 01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:17,719 Speaker 1: leave your name and phone number. After the big leaveth 1489 01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:20,920 Speaker 1: will return your call. You know we're on the phone 1490 01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:23,120 Speaker 1: right now with your women, who I would hope that 1491 01:19:23,240 --> 01:19:25,519 Speaker 1: you love and she loves you too, and we want 1492 01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:27,680 Speaker 1: you to be more respectful of how she feels in 1493 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:31,000 Speaker 1: certain situations and understand and represent for your women. We 1494 01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:32,960 Speaker 1: don't need you talking to these girls that could come 1495 01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:35,479 Speaker 1: out between your relationship. You gave your ex to hug 1496 01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:37,800 Speaker 1: Y'll didn't acknowledge your girlfriend was standing right there. You 1497 01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:39,960 Speaker 1: knew she was uncomfortable, she walked away, You stayed and 1498 01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:42,200 Speaker 1: had a conversation. And you cannot do things like that 1499 01:19:42,320 --> 01:19:44,479 Speaker 1: because she don't felt like she had too much power. 1500 01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:47,240 Speaker 1: So you cannot let the X or any of these 1501 01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:49,479 Speaker 1: other women feel like they're more important to you than 1502 01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:52,760 Speaker 1: your woman or her feelings and add anything to leave 1503 01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:55,880 Speaker 1: something on Facebook that I'm not comfortable with. He should 1504 01:19:56,000 --> 01:19:59,040 Speaker 1: understand that. Yeah, and look, this is all about her 1505 01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:01,160 Speaker 1: wanting to be in this relationship and caring about you 1506 01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:03,280 Speaker 1: and money to make things work. You should never let 1507 01:20:03,400 --> 01:20:06,320 Speaker 1: outside people interfere with what you guys have going on. 1508 01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:09,479 Speaker 1: If something makes her uncomfortable and it's reasonable and it's 1509 01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:12,240 Speaker 1: not that bigger deal, I would assume Delia comment of 1510 01:20:12,320 --> 01:20:15,160 Speaker 1: Facebook is not a big deal. I would assume that 1511 01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:16,960 Speaker 1: you would be able to let these women know I 1512 01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,600 Speaker 1: have a relationship. I'm happy and she's not comfortable. But 1513 01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:23,040 Speaker 1: that that's a grown and mature man thing to do. Yeah, bro, 1514 01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:25,320 Speaker 1: just take it off. Make your wife happy. Man, take 1515 01:20:25,360 --> 01:20:26,920 Speaker 1: it off. What's the problem man? You acting like a 1516 01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:28,760 Speaker 1: little girl. Take it off. That's right. And you can't 1517 01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:30,800 Speaker 1: cheat on your woman during the pandemic. Bro, you fool 1518 01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:33,439 Speaker 1: around and get COVID and clamydia from a woman during 1519 01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:35,960 Speaker 1: this time, and we call that. He's not a cheater. 1520 01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:38,000 Speaker 1: He's not a cheater. He's an awso man. He's not 1521 01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:40,760 Speaker 1: a cheater. It's just a simple fact that he don't 1522 01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:44,000 Speaker 1: acknowledge what's wrong. So if I'm telling him that something 1523 01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:46,600 Speaker 1: is wrong, he takes it and he wrong with it, 1524 01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,200 Speaker 1: and he say, well, it's not like it is, and 1525 01:20:48,200 --> 01:20:50,240 Speaker 1: it's not how you say and make it seen, and 1526 01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:53,600 Speaker 1: it is. If you're looking at if somebody, mama and 1527 01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:55,760 Speaker 1: somebody reach out to me and try to tell me 1528 01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:57,960 Speaker 1: about my man that he used to have text with 1529 01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:00,720 Speaker 1: or used to too, why you want to delete them 1530 01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 1: off your Facebook page? To me, d your man is 1531 01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:11,040 Speaker 1: sleeping with people, Mama, here, real mother, he sleeping with 1532 01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:14,559 Speaker 1: the mama he's sleeping with the mama's daughter. But they 1533 01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:21,519 Speaker 1: both reached out to me. Protect your woman's doing it now. 1534 01:21:21,880 --> 01:21:24,360 Speaker 1: And the last thing I want to say is don't 1535 01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 1: act stupid too. Hang up. Yeah, yeah, y'all said all that. 1536 01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:31,040 Speaker 1: That's pretty dope. Yes, that's it, And I hope he 1537 01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:35,200 Speaker 1: checks his voicemail. Got the voicemail going yes to hey man, 1538 01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:39,479 Speaker 1: you gotta stop cheating. You're gonna get clamydia and COVID. Broka, 1539 01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:42,960 Speaker 1: that's the voicemail again, and we call that hovid. You 1540 01:21:43,080 --> 01:21:46,760 Speaker 1: have to get two backs in my goodness. All right, 1541 01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:51,080 Speaker 1: thank you so much on clap and one for the 1542 01:21:51,160 --> 01:22:01,600 Speaker 1: COVID A don't do at him to hear all of that. 1543 01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:11,520 Speaker 1: Don't delete nothing, emergency thing before send it with importance. 1544 01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:14,280 Speaker 1: Press the button that makes this important. Sing you gotta 1545 01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:16,599 Speaker 1: liten to it, all right? Ask ye the eight hundred 1546 01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:18,120 Speaker 1: and five eight five one on five one. If you 1547 01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:26,559 Speaker 1: need relationship advice club, imp some real advice with Angela's 1548 01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:32,040 Speaker 1: ask ye morning. Everybody is t d j envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, 1549 01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:33,880 Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club were in the 1550 01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:37,439 Speaker 1: middle of asking ye, Hello, who's this? This is uh 1551 01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,679 Speaker 1: absent man, what's your question for you? That you sounds sad? 1552 01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:44,840 Speaker 1: All right, So I just found out that my bitch 1553 01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:46,720 Speaker 1: just chipped my bad. I just found out to my 1554 01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:50,200 Speaker 1: girls cheating on me with my older brother. Wow, so 1555 01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:53,640 Speaker 1: that's still your girl? No? Hell no, hell no, you 1556 01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:56,320 Speaker 1: just said my girl. You know what I mean? You 1557 01:22:56,360 --> 01:22:58,519 Speaker 1: know what I mean. You gotta get used to saying 1558 01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:01,560 Speaker 1: my ex. Yeah, you're right, you're right, But this this 1559 01:23:01,640 --> 01:23:03,320 Speaker 1: is my question though, I'm not sure whether if I 1560 01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:05,519 Speaker 1: should like try to shit my brother down and talk 1561 01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:07,240 Speaker 1: to him, or if I should just beat his ass. 1562 01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:12,920 Speaker 1: You know, I mean, who do you think it would win? Oh? Good, 1563 01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 1: because it'll be a problem if you go to beat 1564 01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:16,600 Speaker 1: him and then not only did he do that, but 1565 01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:20,080 Speaker 1: he also beat you up. No him, I'll be out 1566 01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:23,080 Speaker 1: that boy. All right. Well, I would not recommend beating 1567 01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:25,639 Speaker 1: your brother up, but I would definitely have a sit down. 1568 01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:28,160 Speaker 1: How do you think this conversation would either go like 1569 01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:30,760 Speaker 1: exactly how do you how do you even know this 1570 01:23:30,920 --> 01:23:34,200 Speaker 1: is true? Oh? I saw it on the phone. Okay, 1571 01:23:34,280 --> 01:23:36,200 Speaker 1: so you knew she was cheating on you? And what 1572 01:23:36,520 --> 01:23:40,840 Speaker 1: did the messages say? I don't even want to we 1573 01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,439 Speaker 1: want to listen what did he say, I just want 1574 01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 1: to make sure we can verify this. It was just 1575 01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:49,400 Speaker 1: basically her like, you know, trying to be sneaking, you know, 1576 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:53,120 Speaker 1: trying to make sure I didn't stop cursing Jesus Christ. Oh, mother, 1577 01:23:53,240 --> 01:23:55,360 Speaker 1: you can't say all those words on the radio. And 1578 01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:58,880 Speaker 1: my fault, Charlotte Man, my fault. But you know, I 1579 01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:01,560 Speaker 1: pretty much caught a red you know. But what was 1580 01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:03,680 Speaker 1: she saying? What was being said in these messages? We 1581 01:24:03,680 --> 01:24:05,280 Speaker 1: want to see if this is really red handed, if 1582 01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:09,200 Speaker 1: you're overreacting. Oh no, it was being nasty through the phone. Absolutely, 1583 01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:11,639 Speaker 1: it was being nash Okay, So what did you say 1584 01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:14,000 Speaker 1: to her? I pretty much told her like, you know, how, 1585 01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:15,760 Speaker 1: how are you gonna do this to me? Like, you 1586 01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:17,679 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? Like my brother out of all people, 1587 01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:20,040 Speaker 1: my brothers, you know. And what did she say? Your brother? 1588 01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:22,880 Speaker 1: Probably so your brother knows, you know already, he has 1589 01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:24,360 Speaker 1: to know. There's no way he doesn't know, you know 1590 01:24:24,400 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I just haven't told him yet, right, 1591 01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:29,120 Speaker 1: so this whole time, because she definitely told him that 1592 01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:31,240 Speaker 1: you saw the messages and gave him a heads up. 1593 01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:33,840 Speaker 1: So you broke up with her, hopefully because you still 1594 01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:36,760 Speaker 1: keep calling her your girlfriend, and you still haven't had 1595 01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:38,800 Speaker 1: a sit to I talk with your older brother. You 1596 01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:42,000 Speaker 1: gotta talk to him. Maybe don't do it in person. Yeah, no, 1597 01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,599 Speaker 1: I'm hot to. There's no way you can't tell about 1598 01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 1: stuff like this through a text message. I didn't say text. 1599 01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:50,000 Speaker 1: You could call him. I don't know. I'm probably gonna 1600 01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:51,640 Speaker 1: have to see him place to face sound to it. 1601 01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:55,240 Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, I mean I think the fight. Yeah, 1602 01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:56,960 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, no matter what, that's always going to 1603 01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:59,640 Speaker 1: be your brother. Is he known for doing stuff like this? No, 1604 01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:03,000 Speaker 1: that's the thing. That's that's what really like blows my mind, 1605 01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:04,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Just so you know, this 1606 01:25:04,960 --> 01:25:09,240 Speaker 1: happened in the Jackson family. Who was it Randy Jackson 1607 01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:12,200 Speaker 1: and Jamaine Jackson. I don't know. We gotta look at 1608 01:25:12,240 --> 01:25:17,480 Speaker 1: this one, oh man. Yes, Jamaine Jackson stole Randy Jackson's 1609 01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:20,439 Speaker 1: um girlfriend and then married her or something like that. 1610 01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:24,680 Speaker 1: What if they get married, I don't know. I mean 1611 01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:27,519 Speaker 1: at this point, I don't really care about it no more. 1612 01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm want turned out. It's my brother. Yeah, your relationship 1613 01:25:31,760 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 1: with your brother, it seems like he's old. Yes, I 1614 01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:38,680 Speaker 1: was gonna say it's kind of his fault. You keep 1615 01:25:38,720 --> 01:25:41,200 Speaker 1: referring to a man as your big brother and you 1616 01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:44,759 Speaker 1: the little brother. She want the bigger brother step Penis. 1617 01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:47,840 Speaker 1: Game up, sir, Oh, Charlomagne. I know he's not trying 1618 01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:53,400 Speaker 1: to come at you right now. Whatever, a little brother, anyway, 1619 01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:58,120 Speaker 1: I think you need to bring your old brother goddamn 1620 01:25:58,240 --> 01:26:03,960 Speaker 1: already mad? All right, Well, wish you good, We wish 1621 01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:06,040 Speaker 1: you luck, but I would recommend that you just kind 1622 01:26:06,080 --> 01:26:08,519 Speaker 1: of maybe not really mess with your brother right now 1623 01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:13,559 Speaker 1: and until you can get in a better space yourself. Yeah, yeah, 1624 01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:16,960 Speaker 1: all right, you're gonna beat his ass, so good luck. 1625 01:26:17,200 --> 01:26:26,240 Speaker 1: Tell big brother to Screech said, hello, do you push ups? Oh, Charlomagne, 1626 01:26:26,800 --> 01:26:29,599 Speaker 1: all right, little brother? All right, well lot threatened Charlemagne. 1627 01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:31,639 Speaker 1: Was a good time. All right? We got more coming 1628 01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:35,040 Speaker 1: up next to don't move, Happy holidays, don't go anywhere. 1629 01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:41,120 Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. It's 1630 01:26:41,160 --> 01:26:48,320 Speaker 1: that time. Ask Charlomagne and dj Envy anything. It's time 1631 01:26:48,360 --> 01:26:55,080 Speaker 1: to morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne the guy. 1632 01:26:55,160 --> 01:26:57,600 Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. It's time for ass c 1633 01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:00,720 Speaker 1: and e A. You can ask us anything. You want 1634 01:27:00,760 --> 01:27:02,760 Speaker 1: eight hundred five A five one to five one? Hello? 1635 01:27:02,840 --> 01:27:07,960 Speaker 1: Whose this? Hi? Askeley? What's your question? How are you doing? 1636 01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:10,600 Speaker 1: To ask you? I'm good, I'm good, all right, So 1637 01:27:11,200 --> 01:27:14,599 Speaker 1: I'm tunny. Line. Um, I've been separated for three years, 1638 01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:20,439 Speaker 1: married for five and I recently found out that my 1639 01:27:21,479 --> 01:27:28,240 Speaker 1: ex or whatever, my husband, that he is bisexual. Okay, 1640 01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:32,080 Speaker 1: he likes men and women, right, So with that being said, 1641 01:27:32,200 --> 01:27:35,360 Speaker 1: his behavior has changed and like we kind of don't 1642 01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:36,760 Speaker 1: know how to go with each other. It's more and 1643 01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:39,160 Speaker 1: that's like he's acting like a real d like now 1644 01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:41,200 Speaker 1: I gotta deal with a female one. Before it was 1645 01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:44,080 Speaker 1: a whole different person. Well, listen, I don't like your 1646 01:27:44,120 --> 01:27:46,439 Speaker 1: attitude about this, and I'm gonna tell you why. You 1647 01:27:46,600 --> 01:27:50,960 Speaker 1: know how that makes people lack? Right? You don't, you don't. 1648 01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:53,280 Speaker 1: You don't have started acting funny because you was getting 1649 01:27:53,320 --> 01:27:56,400 Speaker 1: some good D Okay, so you should be able to 1650 01:27:56,479 --> 01:27:58,639 Speaker 1: relate to that man even more. Now that shouldn't drive 1651 01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:03,639 Speaker 1: y'all apart. Oh God, listen. So my question is how 1652 01:28:03,760 --> 01:28:07,280 Speaker 1: do I get him to be a little bit more? 1653 01:28:09,200 --> 01:28:10,800 Speaker 1: How I deal with him in terms like how am 1654 01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:12,600 Speaker 1: I be patient? Because I don't know, I don't I 1655 01:28:12,640 --> 01:28:14,599 Speaker 1: don't call a woman like I don't know how. He's 1656 01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:16,280 Speaker 1: not a woman, he's a man. You gotta deal with 1657 01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:19,280 Speaker 1: him the same way. He's just a smatized person. Stop 1658 01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:21,800 Speaker 1: looking at it from a gender perspective and just think 1659 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:25,519 Speaker 1: from the perspective of being tumatized. You've been there, you 1660 01:28:25,640 --> 01:28:27,680 Speaker 1: can relate. You need to look at that man in 1661 01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:29,519 Speaker 1: his eyes and say, look, man, I understand how that 1662 01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:32,160 Speaker 1: good D can get you. But you're acting funny with me. 1663 01:28:32,280 --> 01:28:37,680 Speaker 1: Soun good luck though good luck. I don't understand. Why 1664 01:28:37,800 --> 01:28:40,840 Speaker 1: is it such a complicated conversation? Now y'all got more 1665 01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:44,280 Speaker 1: in common. You like penis, he like penis. It's different. 1666 01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:46,559 Speaker 1: It's different when you were really dealing with someone. Now 1667 01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:50,439 Speaker 1: that changed, like or maybe or maybe you have changed. 1668 01:28:50,720 --> 01:28:53,200 Speaker 1: Maybe you feel a way now because you understand that 1669 01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:55,080 Speaker 1: he's just not giving a D to you. Have you 1670 01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:58,360 Speaker 1: ever been bisexual? You've been with a woman. I am 1671 01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:02,600 Speaker 1: actually from the beginning. Oh so, y'all both share the 1672 01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:06,920 Speaker 1: best of both worlds like you like Peters and poomp 1673 01:29:06,920 --> 01:29:10,040 Speaker 1: poom in the same way you're hating Yo. You hain't 1674 01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:12,600 Speaker 1: because getting more than you Nowaday you sound like I 1675 01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:15,040 Speaker 1: hate hate y'all you hate them, you hate them, hate them? 1676 01:29:15,800 --> 01:29:19,400 Speaker 1: Goodness creations as CNE eight hundred five eight five one 1677 01:29:19,439 --> 01:29:20,920 Speaker 1: on five one. If you hate it, will take it. 1678 01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:23,960 Speaker 1: Calls to hello, who's that? Hi? I said? My name 1679 01:29:24,080 --> 01:29:26,439 Speaker 1: is anonymous? Hey, Anonymous? What's your question for seeing it? 1680 01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:28,400 Speaker 1: I don't get it. We're on the radio, nobody can 1681 01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:30,360 Speaker 1: see you. But whatever. You can give a fake name. No, 1682 01:29:30,479 --> 01:29:32,800 Speaker 1: but my name is just so unique, you know, I 1683 01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:35,680 Speaker 1: just can't do it. So you think Beyonce's a unique name? 1684 01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:38,920 Speaker 1: Go ahead? What's your question, mamma, I'm glad I got 1685 01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:41,280 Speaker 1: y'all to today. It's a good question. What's okay? So 1686 01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:46,080 Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for we're in our tenth year, right, yes, congratulations? 1687 01:29:46,520 --> 01:29:50,439 Speaker 1: Oh you know thanks? We had three kids together, okay. 1688 01:29:50,560 --> 01:29:53,680 Speaker 1: And when we first started dating, we both established that 1689 01:29:53,720 --> 01:29:55,840 Speaker 1: we didn't want to get married. It was just like 1690 01:29:56,200 --> 01:29:58,240 Speaker 1: I think we were both young and it was, hey, 1691 01:29:58,320 --> 01:30:00,320 Speaker 1: we just dating, let's have fun. We didn't you see 1692 01:30:00,360 --> 01:30:02,519 Speaker 1: that we'd be to get up to ten years. So 1693 01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:05,760 Speaker 1: now my values have changed and I want to get 1694 01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:09,200 Speaker 1: married and he's in that. Why I fixed something that 1695 01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:13,599 Speaker 1: broke out? Yeah, and but I'm looking at it more 1696 01:30:13,760 --> 01:30:16,920 Speaker 1: on a you know, showing your kids that you value 1697 01:30:16,960 --> 01:30:21,519 Speaker 1: your relationship. And legal standpoints too is if anything ever 1698 01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:24,360 Speaker 1: happens to me or him, we can't go on the room. 1699 01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:27,040 Speaker 1: We're not allowed there, we have no say so, but 1700 01:30:27,160 --> 01:30:30,640 Speaker 1: we know what's best for each other. I agree. But 1701 01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:33,439 Speaker 1: the thing is, but he came in this relationship not 1702 01:30:33,520 --> 01:30:35,120 Speaker 1: thinking that he didn't want to get married, and you 1703 01:30:35,200 --> 01:30:37,080 Speaker 1: knew that, and you didn't want to get married. You 1704 01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:39,720 Speaker 1: changed up. He didn't change up. You sound just like 1705 01:30:39,840 --> 01:30:41,840 Speaker 1: my best friend. He had do too. But the thing is, 1706 01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:44,639 Speaker 1: your values changed and when your kids start to ask 1707 01:30:44,760 --> 01:30:51,960 Speaker 1: you last name exactly exactly. So we wentn't looking for 1708 01:30:52,080 --> 01:30:54,760 Speaker 1: houses and my daughter said, mommy, and the next house 1709 01:30:54,840 --> 01:30:56,640 Speaker 1: we go and you can't come in because you're not 1710 01:30:56,800 --> 01:31:01,200 Speaker 1: a blank She said their last name. Wow, hurt my heart. Yeah, 1711 01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:03,280 Speaker 1: but she was only like three or four. Did you 1712 01:31:03,360 --> 01:31:05,200 Speaker 1: have that conversation with him? Does he does he still 1713 01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:07,280 Speaker 1: doesn't want to get married. Yes, But the thing is, 1714 01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:09,479 Speaker 1: I don't want to continue to push because I don't 1715 01:31:09,479 --> 01:31:11,280 Speaker 1: want him to feel obligated. I don't want a man 1716 01:31:11,360 --> 01:31:13,840 Speaker 1: to marry me out of obligation. I want him to 1717 01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:17,680 Speaker 1: marry me because he feels like we have the same values, right, 1718 01:31:17,800 --> 01:31:19,920 Speaker 1: But you know you already went into this relationship in 1719 01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:22,040 Speaker 1: his union thinking that you didn't want to get married. 1720 01:31:22,040 --> 01:31:23,559 Speaker 1: He didn't want to get married. He was cool, Dad, 1721 01:31:23,600 --> 01:31:26,000 Speaker 1: what's the reason he doesn't want to get married. He's 1722 01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:28,320 Speaker 1: just saying, like, what does a piece of paper do 1723 01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 1: for us? We know that we're both for each other 1724 01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:34,760 Speaker 1: and we're gonna be together forever. Where he's on a 1725 01:31:34,960 --> 01:31:37,720 Speaker 1: black man don't cheat. He does not cheat. I know this. 1726 01:31:38,800 --> 01:31:40,920 Speaker 1: But the thing is, it's just like for him, it's like, 1727 01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:43,439 Speaker 1: why I'm gonna tell you something I think you know. 1728 01:31:43,840 --> 01:31:45,479 Speaker 1: I'm sure he loves you. I'm sure he wants to 1729 01:31:45,479 --> 01:31:47,000 Speaker 1: be with you for the rest of his life. With Jad. 1730 01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:48,680 Speaker 1: That's the thing when your kids come to you and 1731 01:31:48,760 --> 01:31:51,160 Speaker 1: your kids say, why y'all don't have the same last name? 1732 01:31:51,280 --> 01:31:53,439 Speaker 1: Like you know, I do believe that marriage is just 1733 01:31:53,560 --> 01:31:56,120 Speaker 1: a piece of paper, and y'all already married because y'all 1734 01:31:56,120 --> 01:31:57,960 Speaker 1: are tired it the soul correct. But I do like 1735 01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:01,479 Speaker 1: the fact. I do like the I like making it official. 1736 01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:03,320 Speaker 1: I think he should make an official but you know 1737 01:32:03,400 --> 01:32:05,080 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't tell him to marry you. I 1738 01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:07,360 Speaker 1: can only tell him to find somebody to share his 1739 01:32:07,439 --> 01:32:10,000 Speaker 1: life experiences with. But he already got that, So it's 1740 01:32:10,040 --> 01:32:12,120 Speaker 1: really nice if he tells me that all the time. 1741 01:32:12,200 --> 01:32:13,920 Speaker 1: He's like, Hey, I want to be with you. You're 1742 01:32:13,960 --> 01:32:15,840 Speaker 1: the person I want. I don't want to do with 1743 01:32:15,920 --> 01:32:20,040 Speaker 1: anybody else. But he just doesn't see the reason why. Hey, 1744 01:32:20,120 --> 01:32:22,240 Speaker 1: we've been together this long, it's been working. You should 1745 01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:24,080 Speaker 1: tell him. You should tell him the reason is because 1746 01:32:24,120 --> 01:32:27,280 Speaker 1: you want to. That's it. You want to and your kids, 1747 01:32:27,360 --> 01:32:29,439 Speaker 1: your kids eat that as well. I'm all about making 1748 01:32:29,479 --> 01:32:32,280 Speaker 1: my woman happy, happy wife, happy life. So the fact 1749 01:32:32,320 --> 01:32:35,160 Speaker 1: that tell him you want to, don't, don't. Don't. Don't 1750 01:32:35,160 --> 01:32:37,080 Speaker 1: even make it like negotiab will be like, y'all really 1751 01:32:37,080 --> 01:32:38,240 Speaker 1: want to get married. When you ask you what you 1752 01:32:38,280 --> 01:32:40,000 Speaker 1: want from Christmas? I won't get married. What you want 1753 01:32:40,000 --> 01:32:41,800 Speaker 1: for your birthday? I want to get married. What you 1754 01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:44,400 Speaker 1: want from Valentine? I want to get married. Trying too much? 1755 01:32:44,680 --> 01:32:46,559 Speaker 1: Won't you just ask him one good time? Why don't 1756 01:32:46,560 --> 01:32:47,920 Speaker 1: you ask him? Why don't you get a ring it? 1757 01:32:47,960 --> 01:32:49,599 Speaker 1: But like, I want you to be my husband, don't 1758 01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:52,960 Speaker 1: do that. Don't do that. I don't do that. You 1759 01:32:53,040 --> 01:32:57,519 Speaker 1: just got curse. Never I would never do that about 1760 01:32:57,520 --> 01:33:00,760 Speaker 1: to be a Christie and Jim John situation. I don't 1761 01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:02,720 Speaker 1: think it's anything wrong with letting him know that's what 1762 01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:04,720 Speaker 1: you want, though, and if he loves and if he 1763 01:33:04,800 --> 01:33:06,679 Speaker 1: really really loves you, and he really because it's gonna 1764 01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:07,880 Speaker 1: come a point in time where he can't give you. 1765 01:33:08,040 --> 01:33:09,719 Speaker 1: He can buy you a house, he can buy you purses, 1766 01:33:09,720 --> 01:33:11,880 Speaker 1: all that stuff. He's done all that. He bought me 1767 01:33:11,960 --> 01:33:14,320 Speaker 1: a house. He's supports. We both own our own businesses. 1768 01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:17,400 Speaker 1: He supports my business so much. And it's just like, 1769 01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,479 Speaker 1: you want that ring. That's the only thing that I want. 1770 01:33:20,680 --> 01:33:22,600 Speaker 1: I don't even need. The thing is I don't I 1771 01:33:22,680 --> 01:33:24,439 Speaker 1: can get one of those rings. You go work out 1772 01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:26,880 Speaker 1: with us like silicone. I don't need the big jewel. 1773 01:33:27,200 --> 01:33:28,920 Speaker 1: I just want to be able to share the last 1774 01:33:29,040 --> 01:33:31,920 Speaker 1: name and we be. You need to go on title 1775 01:33:31,960 --> 01:33:34,000 Speaker 1: and make you a marriage playlist. When y'all in the car, 1776 01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:36,640 Speaker 1: just songs be playing like let's get married, Beyonce. It 1777 01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:38,000 Speaker 1: if you like it and you put a ring on it, 1778 01:33:38,080 --> 01:33:39,879 Speaker 1: just all these songs they got to do in marriage. 1779 01:33:39,920 --> 01:33:42,120 Speaker 1: Just keep beating it in his egg. Eventually he'll come 1780 01:33:42,160 --> 01:33:45,200 Speaker 1: around see y'all all day. So y'all tell him, tell 1781 01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:47,160 Speaker 1: him to marry me. What's his name? What's his name? 1782 01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:53,200 Speaker 1: His name is Dwhite? White? Get married, get married to 1783 01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:55,320 Speaker 1: west k. What you do is you wait right right 1784 01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:57,800 Speaker 1: when y'all having sex, right when he's about to, and 1785 01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:00,200 Speaker 1: you stop right there, and you'd be like, this is 1786 01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:03,600 Speaker 1: only for a married man, and just walk out. What 1787 01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:07,720 Speaker 1: the white? For real? Get married? I promise you, when 1788 01:34:07,720 --> 01:34:09,880 Speaker 1: you get married, your life will change, man, And not 1789 01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:11,640 Speaker 1: only when you get married. When you get married and 1790 01:34:11,720 --> 01:34:15,120 Speaker 1: you're a faithful black man, I promise you your life 1791 01:34:15,160 --> 01:34:17,479 Speaker 1: will transform in ways that you can't even explain. I 1792 01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:19,240 Speaker 1: can't even explain to you to joy that I feel 1793 01:34:19,240 --> 01:34:21,240 Speaker 1: in my life. The penis gets bigger when you get married. 1794 01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:26,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, get married. The white married me to white 1795 01:34:27,840 --> 01:34:30,519 Speaker 1: to white? All right? The white do what's right? Dwighte 1796 01:34:31,520 --> 01:34:35,559 Speaker 1: right to white white? All right? I'm with that, all right, Well, 1797 01:34:35,600 --> 01:34:38,400 Speaker 1: don't move. Happy holidays. It's the breakfast Club. Good morning, 1798 01:34:39,120 --> 01:34:43,160 Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. What up, y'allas? 1799 01:34:43,280 --> 01:34:46,800 Speaker 1: Dj envy for nearly sixty years of quality coverage, make 1800 01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:48,800 Speaker 1: the right call and go with the general called eight 1801 01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:50,720 Speaker 1: under General, or go to the general dot com to 1802 01:34:50,760 --> 01:34:54,400 Speaker 1: get a hassle free quote today the General Order Insurance Services, Inc. 1803 01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:59,599 Speaker 1: An insurance agency, Nashville, Tennessee. Some restrictions apply. Morning. Everybody 1804 01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:03,040 Speaker 1: is d j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the gad. We 1805 01:35:03,080 --> 01:35:05,439 Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. You got a positive note for 1806 01:35:05,439 --> 01:35:07,840 Speaker 1: the people now. The positive note is simply this. You 1807 01:35:08,040 --> 01:35:10,479 Speaker 1: are where you're supposed to be at this very moment. 1808 01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:15,080 Speaker 1: Every experience is part of God's plan. Breakfast Club, y'all 1809 01:35:15,120 --> 01:35:16,080 Speaker 1: finish it, y'all dumb,